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Unexpected - Season 7 - Episode 02: What Tests Will I Have?

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00:00Previously on Unexpected
00:02Every time I go to the bathroom
00:04It's like dribble, dribble, dribble
00:05It's annoying
00:06Well I done told you you couldn't handle pregnancy
00:08I'm Isabella
00:09Me and Bryce have been dating for a year
00:11We're fixing to have a baby
00:12We're not fixing to do nothing
00:14It's fixing to be me pushing out a baby
00:16So how has the job search been going?
00:19Not too successful
00:21Buddy, Bryce assured me
00:23That he was going to take care of the baby
00:25And like he's not even trying
00:27Are we together or not?
00:28I don't know
00:29I'm asking for the bare minimum
00:31I'm not asking for the freaking moon
00:33Leave, I don't care
00:34All right, that's fine
00:35Text me whenever your little attitude is over with
00:40No, I'm scared
00:42I'm scared
00:43I'm Amaya, I'm 16 years old
00:45And I'm having a baby, literally
00:48You're just going to look at me and focus, okay?
00:50She just doesn't know what she's about to go through
00:53There is going to be a moment
00:55Where you steal everything that that girl won't cover
00:58We call that the ring of fire
00:59You know, there goes that worrying about your kid part
01:02It's time to push
01:04I can't, I'm scared, mom
01:23It's time to push
01:24You gotta push, you're making me more redder than you want to stay in the bush, mom
01:27H cardboard.
01:30¡Vamos!
01:31Es lo siento.
01:38No, no, no, no.
01:39No hay no tener esta atención.
01:41No, no, no.
01:42¡Cleyad, no!
01:43¡No, no, no, no!
01:43No, you have to do it.
01:45You have to do it.
01:46My butt hole.
01:48It's okay.
01:48It hurts.
01:50What the is going on?
01:52It's the vapor going to vapor.
01:55We've been in the hospital
01:57about 23 hours at this point
01:59and here goes Amaya.
02:02I got a
02:04no, I don't know if that's what she said.
02:06There's pressure in her butthole
02:08and I'm like, that's the baby.
02:09That means it's time to push.
02:10No, it doesn't. I have to go to the bathroom.
02:13No, es hora de ir a push.
02:16Estamos a la búsqueda de un bebé.
02:18I am already ready.
02:22No, no, no.
02:25Justo, I realized, oh, this is not a joke.
02:28And she had to push throughout the pain.
02:30Even though she did get the epidural,
02:32she's still feeling pain.
02:34Just freeze my hand.
02:36Just freeze my hand.
02:37No, it hurts.
02:38Okay.
02:39No, it's not.
02:42I just felt bad.
02:43I couldn't do anything to help her.
02:46I was thinking, like, a hundred things all at once.
02:49A hundred things?
02:50What are those hundred things you were thinking?
02:52If something happened to the baby,
02:54if something happened to her,
02:55something happened to both of them.
03:01You need help?
03:08Is that normal?
03:11So they come in to reposition Amaya,
03:15and the baby's heart rate just drops.
03:18And there wasn't a little drop.
03:20And my heart dropped with it.
03:22Go home and come back to you, I think.
03:24Okay.
03:25I knew at that point, like, it was serious.
03:28So baby's heart rate didn't look down,
03:31but baby's heart rate went up again, okay?
03:33If the baby's heart rate was down again,
03:36that means we have to go over an emergency C-section.
03:39Okay?
03:39I'm gonna go call the doctor, okay?
03:42I'll be right down.
03:43Nurse said, if that happens again,
03:45there's no other conversation being had.
03:47We're going straight to the emergency room,
03:49and, you know, for an emergency C-section,
03:52and that's it.
03:54You can do this.
03:55You're made to do this.
03:58You're Sammy's mama.
03:59You got this.
04:00Oh, this is not okay.
04:05My worst fear is she'll have to have a C-section,
04:07and the baby won't make it.
04:15And I just don't want her to go through that.
04:22Or have to experience that,
04:24because it's not easy at all.
04:56So last night, me and Bryce was talking about
04:58how he should get a job,
05:00and he had the audacity to tell me
05:02that I should be working.
05:05It's common sense.
05:06You got to get a job.
05:06Why don't you get a job, too?
05:07I cannot believe you just said this.
05:10Be real.
05:10Who's going to keep our kid?
05:12You.
05:13I don't really know where me and Bryce are at right now,
05:18because he's not trying for anything.
05:20I don't know if it's a maturity level.
05:22I don't know.
05:23But I'm worried that he'll never understand
05:25what he needs to do in order to fix
05:28the problems in our relationship.
05:34I guess we'll talk more about
05:36about how our conversation went
05:40after we do this.
05:43That's fine.
05:45Because I don't want to get mad again
05:48and be in a bad mood.
05:49You seem to get mad no matter what.
05:51Now you're going to make me mad.
05:54What?
05:55I don't get mad for no reason.
05:56I get mad because I have logical things
05:58to get mad about.
05:59You're mad about a lot of things
06:00that aren't logical.
06:01My feelings are valid,
06:02and you're trying to discourage my feelings.
06:06Like, they don't matter.
06:08I never said that.
06:10It's how you act.
06:12Thank you.
06:13Can you pull over for a second?
06:16Yeah.
06:17So I agreed to go to Bryce's
06:18nan and papa's house,
06:19but I don't know how it's going to go,
06:20because me and him
06:22still haven't figured anything out.
06:25You think the world revolves around you?
06:26If it's not on your timing
06:28and what you want to do?
06:28It's not on your way.
06:29It's not right.
06:30It's an argument.
06:32You're not doing s***.
06:33What are you doing?
06:34I do my school.
06:36I clean my mom's house for her,
06:38because that's my job, you know?
06:40Because my mom pays for everything for me.
06:42Yeah.
06:42So that's what she expects from me,
06:44so that's what I do.
06:45I watch Truly.
06:46What are you talking about?
06:47You don't even watch her have to touch.
06:49She just comes in your room
06:49and you make her food when she asks.
06:55Like, I do stuff with her.
06:56We color.
06:57My neck's hurting.
06:58We paint.
06:59I'm over with this conversation.
07:00My neck's hurting.
07:01Okay.
07:02Because you're a f***ing crybaby.
07:04Yeah.
07:05You are?
07:06Yeah.
07:06Glad you finally admitted it.
07:07Yeah.
07:08Keep saying yeah.
07:09What about it?
07:10I know I'm a f***ing brat,
07:12but don't make me a brat.
07:13Like, there's a reason I act like a brat.
07:15I'm not just a brat for no reason.
07:17Bryce expects me to just sit there
07:18and take, like, whatever.
07:21Probably because that's how his Nansu is
07:24and she just takes everybody's bull
07:26and she don't stick up for herself.
07:29It's learned behavior.
07:31Whatever, Bryce.
07:33You've changed ever since I got pregnant.
07:38Okay.
07:39I'm sick.
07:40You have?
07:41No, I'm not.
07:41Yes, you have.
07:42How?
07:43Yes, you have.
07:43How?
07:44What do you mean, how?
07:45How?
07:46Because we never fought this much.
07:49At this point, I'm like,
07:51all right, what are we arguing over?
07:52It's, like, just stupid things.
07:54And I'm not saying anything that she has to do is easy.
07:57Like, taking care of a kid and doing schoolwork
08:00is definitely hard.
08:00I will give it to her.
08:01And I'll make sure, no matter what,
08:04that I'll find a way to make money.
08:05But I want her to understand
08:07that I need to do things my own way
08:11without her harping on me.
08:13But it's like talking to a brick wall.
08:15When have you ever said it was your fault?
08:16Ever.
08:17Ever.
08:18What is my fault?
08:19Like, what do I do that's my fault?
08:21That's my fault.
08:22I get mad over...
08:22What have you changed for me?
08:23I get...
08:24What have you changed for me?
08:25I don't know.
08:25How do you expect us to sit here and talk
08:27if you can't even...
08:28Because you can't let me talk ever.
08:29You never see my side.
08:32And ever see your side of what?
08:33No, never.
08:34Of what?
08:35Of anything.
08:36It's always my fault.
08:37My fault.
08:37My fault.
08:37My fault.
08:38My fault.
08:38I don't do nothing but sit in my bed.
08:40How is it ever my fault?
08:42Okay, that's the problem.
08:44Bryce doesn't seem like he even listens to when I talk.
08:47It's going through one ear and right out the other.
08:50Like, I just can't get through to him.
08:52You know, I feel like Bryce is this way
08:54because there's nobody telling him what he's doing is wrong
08:57except Isabella.
08:59Because his dad died and his mom, she's worthless.
09:02So his grandparents are the only people he has
09:05to hold him accountable and to tell him you're wrong.
09:08And if they can't understand and get it through his head,
09:09then I'm done.
09:10Whatever, Bryce.
09:15I see your belly.
09:17I'm Mia.
09:18I'm 16.
09:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
09:20They're headbands.
09:21Oh, my goodness.
09:23Today, me and my friends are going to pop for the baby shower.
09:26Oh, Lord.
09:27And hopefully my dad doesn't flip out.
09:30How much you spent on all this?
09:32800.
09:34800?
09:34What?
09:36Hard, hard.
09:37Four.
09:38Six.
09:39Seven.
09:40With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did,
09:43I mean, the heart, it can stop at any moment, you know?
09:46And go.
09:46To the count of 10.
09:47Go.
09:47Come on.
09:48I killed my breath for that long.
09:50I killed.
09:51I was very scared.
09:52She may have to have a C-section.
09:56Come on.
09:56Push.
09:57Go.
09:57Push.
09:58Hard.
10:00Hard.
10:01Give me a reason to be with you.
10:03I'll be there.
10:03But I'm hurrying.
10:10What'd you make?
10:11You got OK.
10:12I think we need more butter.
10:13I mean, more milk.
10:14OK.
10:15Let's see.
10:16I'm Mia.
10:17I'm 16.
10:18I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
10:19It's still so crazy to me.
10:21Like, even I think, like, oh, this baby's
10:23about to call me mom.
10:24And I'm 16 years old.
10:25Like, I'm, like, I still call my mom mom, you know?
10:28It's just so crazy.
10:29Like, this little baby, like, it's depending on me.
10:34Let me move.
10:35OK.
10:36Because your belly's going to hit the cupcake.
10:40I work at a bakery in Baton Rouge.
10:42I make $13 an hour.
10:44I start it at $9.50.
10:46So I'm earning a little over $500 per week before taxes.
10:50I think I counted you made 70 pretzel sticks,
10:54which they are so beautiful.
10:56They are so cute.
10:57Every time I get paid, I put half of my savings,
10:58and then I put the other half in my account
11:01just for me to be able to spend.
11:03Because I'm not going to work all this
11:05and just put it all in my savings
11:07and get nothing from it.
11:08Because that's stupid.
11:14Hi, Mrs. Cheryl.
11:17Hello, my beautiful ladies.
11:19Hello, Mia.
11:20Hello, hello.
11:22I see your belly.
11:24Oh, my gosh.
11:26My pregnancy has been going very well.
11:29I don't think a lot has changed since I got pregnant,
11:32besides, like, my belly got a lot bigger.
11:35Yeah.
11:36And then my face has gotten better,
11:37and my fingers have gotten better,
11:39because if you see and you look where my ring's at,
11:42you see that?
11:43That wasn't...
11:44That didn't happen before I got pregnant.
11:46Like, there wasn't a big old mark there
11:48and, like, an indention in my finger.
11:51Now it's hard to push my ring back on.
11:53Who's that ring from?
11:54Jessie?
11:58Wait, what?
11:59Where's that ring from?
12:01Oh, because I promised to marry her one day.
12:06I'm Jessie.
12:08I'm her boyfriend,
12:08and I'm also the dad.
12:10Me and Jessie have been dating for a year and four months,
12:14but we've known each other
12:16for, like, two and a half years.
12:21I was the first person to say, I love you.
12:24Like, I kissed her, and it was just, like,
12:26our whole future played in my mind.
12:28I see, like, us being together
12:30probably till death do us part.
12:36So what do you plan on getting?
12:38I want to do, like,
12:40the pink and brown count print.
12:41Do you have, like, an inspo pic?
12:43No.
12:44No? Okay.
12:44It's just in my brain.
12:46Today, me and my friends
12:47are going to go and shop for the baby shower,
12:50which is in a few days.
12:51We are having around 50 people at my house,
12:56and I'm going to try to stick to a budget
12:59of around $300.
13:03So, where do you want to start?
13:04We've got to find the western.
13:07Western.
13:07Western.
13:08Okay.
13:09Oh, I see cow prints.
13:11Oh.
13:11Perfect.
13:12I may have found it.
13:14Three, four...
13:15There are headbands.
13:16Oh, my goodness.
13:17That's cute.
13:18So cute.
13:18One, two, three, four, five, six.
13:21Yeah, and then get these.
13:23I'd say five.
13:24And then get, like, the pink,
13:25like we were saying, like,
13:26get the pink and go in the middle.
13:27Okay.
13:28When I first found out I was pregnant,
13:30I freaked out,
13:31and I cried and cried
13:33for, like, weeks and weeks.
13:36And then I found out I'm having a girl,
13:38and I'm super excited I'm having a girl
13:40because me and my mom,
13:42we never had a very good relationship,
13:43and I want a relationship,
13:45like, I want it with my mom,
13:47I want it with her.
13:48You can't be a 100% perfect mother, you know?
13:51But I think I'm going to be a pretty good mom.
13:54Okay.
13:55We can put Jesse in some chaps.
13:57Look, something like this.
13:58Did you see him in that?
14:00That is terrible.
14:01I think it'll go with the thing.
14:02After I found out she was pregnant,
14:04I was sad and worried and frustrated.
14:06But after the first few days,
14:08it was like, okay,
14:08I can actually do this
14:09because I've always wanted to be a father
14:11because I never really had one,
14:12but I've always wanted to be one.
14:14Well, yeah,
14:14but he wants to play good cop, bad cop,
14:16and he wants me to be the bad cop,
14:17and he wants to be the good cop
14:19all the time.
14:21He's a sucker.
14:25What are you texting on your phone?
14:27I'm texting Jesse.
14:29Well, we're having a fun time.
14:31What's he doing?
14:32He's supposed to come to the house
14:33when we're done,
14:33and he's stressed out
14:35because he don't have a ride to the house
14:36and all that,
14:38and he keeps texting me.
14:39Well, he's putting that stress on me.
14:41Whatever.
14:43I'm practically planning this baby shower
14:45and doing this baby shower by myself
14:47because my mom hasn't really helped
14:49during my pregnancy.
14:50And even though me and my dad
14:52are a lot closer to me and my mom,
14:54he just don't understand
14:55because he's a guy.
14:56And then Jesse's mom
14:57has bought a few things
14:59to help me decorate and everything,
15:00but my mom can get kind of jealous.
15:03It would just aggravate her a little bit
15:05if Jesse's mom helped out.
15:09Yep.
15:10It was a lot.
15:12Good morning.
15:13Or afternoon.
15:14How are y'all?
15:15How are you?
15:29Is this in budget mail?
15:31As I'm checking out,
15:32the numbers are steadily going up,
15:33and we do exceed $300 by a bit.
15:41$871.91.
15:44That's over your budget.
15:47Oh, Lord.
15:49I might have went a little overboard
15:51with spending for the baby shower,
15:53but it's my money.
15:54I do what I want with it.
15:55I just hope I didn't spend all that money
15:56for it to be a day filled with drama.
15:59Thank you.
16:00Only because our moms haven't met yet,
16:02and the first time they're supposed to meet
16:04is at the baby shower.
16:05I don't know how I feel about that.
16:07Me either.
16:08Because when you put my family
16:09and Jesse's family together,
16:10who knows what's going to happen.
16:18Oh, my God!
16:20Come on.
16:21Come on, baby!
16:22Come on, push.
16:22Go!
16:23Push hard, hard!
16:24So it has been 24 hours since me,
16:28Maya, and Mama G have been in that labor room.
16:32Amaya's just in that constant pain,
16:34just trying to push.
16:35That's it.
16:35Hard, hard.
16:36Four, six, seven.
16:39With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did,
16:42I mean, it can, the heart,
16:44it can stop at any moment, you know?
16:46And so she may have to have a C-section,
16:51and that's my biggest worry.
16:54And go to the count of 10.
16:55Go!
16:56Come on.
16:56Thank you.
16:57I've worked for that long.
16:59Thank you.
17:01No, no, no.
17:02Just like that.
17:03All right.
17:03Congrats.
17:04OK, Maya.
17:05So here's what we're going to do.
17:06OK.
17:07OK, no more shouting.
17:09Don't get to talking, it's going to be you and me.
17:11OK.
17:11OK?
17:12Listen to me.
17:14Nice, quiet delivery.
17:15It's better for you and better for baby.
17:17OK?
17:18OK.
17:18All you have to focus on is holding that breath
17:21and bearing down and pushing as hard as you can
17:24for that 10 seconds.
17:25OK.
17:26Oh, OK.
17:26Very good.
17:28Oh, man.
17:29The doctor had to tell everyone to shut up.
17:33I mean, I get it.
17:35We are a very loud family.
17:37You know, he puts his foot down, to be honest,
17:39and just tells us we need to all be quiet
17:41and let him do his job.
17:43But Lord knows I'm praying and just hoping
17:46Amaya's going to be able to push
17:48and can deliver this baby vaginally.
17:51Oh, my God.
17:53Feel that pressure?
17:54Yes.
17:55Yes.
17:56Take a deep breath.
17:57Come on.
17:58I am.
17:59Yes, you can.
18:00Deep breath.
18:00You're doing it.
18:01One, two, three, four, five, six,
18:06seven, eight, nine, three.
18:09Good job.
18:11I was scared.
18:13I was scared, too.
18:14I was very scared because it's been a long 24 hours
18:18for all of us.
18:20And Amaya was like, you got to do this.
18:24It's go time.
18:25And you got to put your all into it.
18:28The nurse told her it could be three hours of push
18:30and she was like, oh, hell no.
18:33At that point, it kind of put a little fire under her
18:35and, you know.
18:36Yeah.
18:37One, two, three, four, five, six.
18:41Ah!
18:43Ah!
18:43Ah!
18:44Ah!
18:45Ah!
18:46Oh, please!
18:46Oh, please!
18:47Yeah!
18:49Okay.
18:50Four.
18:54He's got his hair, mama.
18:56Oh, my God!
18:57Oh, my God!
19:11Ah!
19:12Oh, .
19:13Ok, por...
19:16¡Ah!
19:17¡Es así que voy a dar la boca!
19:18¡He's got his hair, momma!
19:20¡Oh, Dios!
19:24¡Oh, Dios!
19:26¡Oh, Dios!
19:27¡Apagada!
19:34¡Que te dides!
19:37¡Claro, Dios mío, ¿verdad?
19:39I'm on the way of you.
19:45I'm on the way.
19:47Do you want to cut the cord again?
19:49Yes, please.
19:50Just put your scissors like that.
19:51There you go.
19:52Cutting it up?
19:55Cutting the umbellic cord was weird.
19:58It was, like, full of, like, blood.
20:00It's the thing where you don't cut it just one and done.
20:03You have to keep going, and it was like, uh.
20:12¡Oh, Dios!
20:17¡Oh, Dios!
20:18¡Oh, Dios!
20:20¡Oh, Dios!
20:20¡Oh, Dios!
20:20¡Oh, Dios!
20:21¡Oh, Dios!
20:23Maya pushes Sammy
20:25out, and 40 minutos
20:27doctor gave him a pat on his back
20:29he started crying and I was happy.
20:31At 8 a.m.
20:33Sammy comes into the world
20:35he was born.
20:38Finally.
20:39Oh, my God.
20:41It takes me 24
20:42hours and 10 minutes of
20:44labor to have Sam Sam.
20:46He was seven pounds
20:49and...
20:5114 ounces.
20:52Oh, my God. Seven pounds. I know how big
20:54my baby was. I can't believe I just forgot that.
20:56It's okay. I got it. He was seven pounds
20:58and 14 ounces. I thought he was 13.
21:01Almost eight pounds.
21:02This is why I'm the mom because
21:04clearly they don't even...
21:06You wanna bet? He's a big boy.
21:08Oh, you're not a betting man?
21:09You got pictures, but you don't know how big he was.
21:12I'm not trying to lose that money.
21:14He was seven pounds and 14 ounces, okay?
21:16Thank you, guys.
21:20Oh, look at him.
21:23Beautiful.
21:25We're meeting a very special person.
21:28We're meeting Samuel.
21:30Sammy.
21:32The little king of our...
21:34The little pride of our joy.
21:37His name is Samuel
21:40Maximino
21:41Georgiev Socares.
21:44He's so tiny.
21:46Oh.
21:48Oh.
21:49Oh, look.
21:49He's saying hi himself.
21:51Oh, no.
21:52He's going back to sleep.
21:54All he does is sleep.
21:55Can I hold him up?
21:56Yeah, I'll hold him.
21:57Let me see.
22:02Sammy is named after both me
22:05and Jose's grandfathers,
22:07and he has both of our last names.
22:11And this is our little creation.
22:15Our little creation.
22:20Little Sammy.
22:28That feeling of holding him for the first time
22:31was, like, the most rewarding part.
22:33Like, he's really there,
22:35and I really did that, like, by myself.
22:38It was, like...
22:40I don't know.
22:41There's no better feeling than that.
22:45You did it, baby.
22:47I'm so proud of you.
22:49You're gonna be an amazing mother.
22:51Hopefully a better mother than I am.
22:53Oh, my gosh.
22:54Don't say that.
22:56She's already an amazing mom.
22:59Thank you.
23:00I'm the best mom I could have, literally.
23:02I'm your only mom.
23:03That's all you did.
23:04Exactly.
23:04I'm sorry.
23:05The best one, too.
23:06I got lucky.
23:08You did so good.
23:11So good.
23:12You, mama.
23:15I'm so proud of you.
23:17Look at my grandbaby.
23:19I feel like a big weight has been lifted off,
23:22and my prayers have been answered.
23:25Because that's all I hoped for,
23:27was that her and the baby make it through,
23:29and everyone be healthy.
23:33Mm-hmm.
23:34But now that the baby's here,
23:36the real work starts.
23:39We're...
23:40It's not a game anymore.
23:41Anyway, let's see if you guys can handle it.
23:48What do you think your nan and papa are gonna wanna talk about?
23:52Hello?
23:59Okay, now you're not gonna talk.
24:08Let's go.
24:10Let's go.
24:11Put your seatbelt on.
24:20Does it look good?
24:22Yeah, it looks good.
24:23You know, I'm making their favorite,
24:24so hopefully...
24:25...choose them with the crab legs.
24:27There you go.
24:28She's gonna love that.
24:29Okay, yeah.
24:30You'll be like, what's going on?
24:31Okay, crab legs?
24:32Crab coma.
24:34I'm Kevin.
24:36This is Sue.
24:37We're Bryce's grandparents,
24:38and we're fixing to be great-grandparents.
24:40My nan and papa are pretty much parents and grandparents.
24:43Like, I don't know.
24:44They play both the rules, so...
24:46We started raising Bryce
24:48when he turned about three years old, I guess.
24:51His mother was just partying a lot
24:54and, you know, not real responsible,
24:57and Bryce's dad, he went to jail.
25:00And then a few years later, sadly,
25:02his father passed away.
25:04It's a sad situation,
25:05and I just thought it would be better
25:08if Bryce permanently stayed with us.
25:12We've tried to give him the best life we could give him.
25:15I've always felt like we had to overcompensate,
25:18you know, to make up for hard times in his life
25:21when he was little.
25:22Did we spoil him some?
25:24Yeah, of course we did,
25:25but he's been a joy for us.
25:29He's so special.
25:31All righty.
25:36Bryce is just so closed off these days.
25:39It doesn't really talk about anything, so...
25:41I know he looks like he's in shock, doesn't he?
25:44Yeah.
25:45Yeah.
25:45That's it.
25:47Deer in the headlight look?
25:48Yeah.
25:50We're very excited that a new baby's coming.
25:53It's a little surreal
25:55that we're going to be great-grandparents.
25:58You want to be a great-grandmother dead or alive?
26:01What does that mean?
26:03Do you want to be dead before you have one or no?
26:05Oh, of course not.
26:06That's one good thing about it.
26:07At least we'll get to see the baby, huh?
26:09And, uh...
26:10Get to see it grow up.
26:11And see the baby grow up, you know,
26:13before we're too old to even enjoy it.
26:24I mean, it's just going to be a real change.
26:28And...
26:31I don't know.
26:32It's a very emotional thing.
26:35Yesterday he was a little boy,
26:36and now he's like this man who's going to have a baby.
26:40When Isabella found out she was pregnant,
26:42me and Nan welcomed her, and, you know,
26:45we did everything we could.
26:46But it is a shock.
26:48It was just a little bit too soon for me.
26:55See what you did?
26:57I didn't do nothing.
26:58The old woman did it to herself.
27:02All good? You good?
27:03Yeah. Just nervous.
27:05You are? Why?
27:07Well, I know we need to talk about stuff.
27:09All we know is there might be some tension
27:11between Isabella and Bryce tonight.
27:15This pump up.
27:16Ah, he hears him coming.
27:17With Bryce, we always say, you know,
27:19how's everything going?
27:20Everything's fine.
27:21Everything's fine.
27:22Everything's fine.
27:23There he is, yeah.
27:24So we have our concerns and a lot of questions.
27:28He's not real open about, like, his relationships and stuff.
27:32He doesn't talk to us about it.
27:33You know, he likes to keep that private.
27:35It can be easier communicating with Isabella.
27:39So we're hoping to get some answers tonight.
27:43Here we go.
27:44Gonna find out now, huh?
27:49Hopefully, this is not gonna happen anytime soon again.
27:53I'm Mia's dad.
27:54And yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
27:58How would you prevent that, Mia?
28:01To have protection and to purposely take it off.
28:06Y'all are stupid.
28:16You know what I said?
28:19We'll find the time so I can change it.
28:23Oh.
28:26Hey, babe.
28:27What you got going on right there?
28:29All the stuff I got for the baby shower.
28:32It's not a lot.
28:33Looks like a lot to me.
28:34Okay, well, just a little bit.
28:41I'm gonna show you everything I got, but I gotta pee.
28:43Be right back.
28:45I'm Keith.
28:46I'm 47.
28:47I'm Mia's dad.
28:48And I'm about to be a grandfather.
28:50When I first found out I was pregnant,
28:52I was afraid to tell my dad because I was scared.
28:54I don't know.
28:55Because I knew he was gonna be disappointed in me.
28:57Yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
29:01Going through my head when I found out was everything.
29:06It's like, kind of like, I guess,
29:10her life passing in front of my eyes in a blink, you know?
29:14Seeing her little bitty growing up, and then all of a sudden,
29:17out of left field, 100% this.
29:21But I do feel some type of way responsible.
29:25Because I dropped the ball, I feel like,
29:27and I should have went and got her on birth control.
29:29And I mean, that's on me.
29:31I mean, you know.
29:32But she wasn't knocking down my door, either, saying,
29:36hey, Dad, hey, did you forget?
29:37Because I forget stuff, you know?
29:38And I mean, unfortunately, this was one of them things.
29:41I forgot.
29:44I forgot.
29:45Hi.
29:47So, these are the centerpieces of the table.
29:50They're little hats.
29:51No, that's kind of cute.
29:52So, what else you got?
29:54These are gonna be hanging from, like, above the tables.
29:57Jesus Christ, $4 for some frickin' balloons.
30:01How much you spend on all this?
30:05Eight hundred and...
30:07Eight hundred? What?
30:08Seventy-five dollars.
30:10Nine hundred dollars.
30:12It's like the nine hundred dollars she spent on the baby shower
30:15is a prime example of how she's not ready to have a baby
30:18and she's clueless about life.
30:20That's just money down the drain.
30:24I do everything I'm supposed to do.
30:26I have good grades in school.
30:27I'm about to finish school.
30:28I work.
30:30It's...
30:31It's gonna be hard, man.
30:33Sucks.
30:34Struggling is hard.
30:36And I didn't want that.
30:37I don't want that on anybody.
30:39Definitely don't want that for my kid.
30:42Who's all supposed to be coming over here to help?
30:44Caitlin and Jessie and all of them are gonna be here.
30:46And then...
30:48Mom...
30:48She said she was gonna be here, but...
30:51I don't know.
30:54Well, that's just how it is, babe.
30:57I just don't talk to my mom a lot.
30:59She just...
31:00She's more absent.
31:03Um...
31:04We don't have a good relationship and she, um...
31:07We don't live together.
31:08Yeah.
31:10Well, at least you got people to help you.
31:12Yeah.
31:12But, I mean, it's...
31:14That she's not.
31:17Yeah.
31:19My mom and dad, they officially, like, split up, split up, like, two and a half years ago.
31:23And that's when I started living with my dad.
31:25Yeah.
31:26My mom isn't stable.
31:29She, uh...
31:30She doesn't have a stable work environment.
31:34She doesn't have a stable place to live.
31:35She, um...
31:37She has a lot to figure out.
31:39And I just knew, like, with my dad, I'd be in a stable...
31:43Stable house.
31:44That's my daughter.
31:45That's my baby girl.
31:46I mean...
31:46You know?
31:47I love them.
31:48I'm a dad's girl.
31:50I just...
31:51I don't know.
31:52I just wish things would be better.
31:54You know?
31:55That's a sore subject.
31:59Well, what else you got?
32:01So, we're gonna put the banner up.
32:04Let's look at it.
32:05And then...
32:06We're gonna put, like, the balloon arch around the banner.
32:08Hopefully, this is, uh...
32:11Not gonna happen anytime soon again.
32:16How are you gonna prevent that from happening again?
32:19Don't look at me!
32:20She's talking to you!
32:22She's talking to you!
32:23So, how would you prevent that, Mia?
32:27My plan for after having the baby, to have another baby, preventing it, is to be put on birth control.
32:33I wanna get an IED or some type of birth control in my arm so I know it's reliable.
32:37Because, like, we did use protection in the beginning, but Jesse took off the condom.
32:45Wow.
32:50What?
32:50Why?
32:51I don't know!
32:53Hmm.
32:55Yeah, well, I don't feel so guilty now.
33:04Y'all are stupid.
33:07To have protection and to purposely take it off in chances of creating a freaking other human being that you're
33:19responsible for for the rest of your life, baby.
33:23It dumbfounds of me. It really does. I mean, it really, it's ridiculous.
33:29You think I wanted to get pregnant, huh?
33:31No, I hope not.
33:33Okay, then.
33:33But you need to be, hey, bruh.
33:35I mean, do what you gotta do.
33:37I don't wanna get into all that , but I mean, golly.
33:40Kinda obvious.
33:42I'm just saying.
33:44I was still children.
33:45Whether you having a baby tomorrow or in a year.
33:52And then, eh, whatever.
33:55I'm sorry. I'm sorry it made you upset, but that's just how I feel.
34:10Hello.
34:11Hello.
34:12Hello.
34:13Is your dad still saying no to me coming over, or am I coming over?
34:16Come over.
34:17All right.
34:17I love you.
34:18Love you, too. Bye.
34:21How long is he staying?
34:23Until tonight.
34:27He's not staying here, that's all I can say.
34:30No.
34:32I'm just telling you how I feel.
34:35It's awkward having Jesse around, because I don't really care for him.
34:39I don't want him in my house.
34:41I'm just trying to get over the, that I just heard earlier.
34:50Anyway.
34:56Bryce is gonna get a job.
34:58Yeah, but I ain't settling for $10 an hour.
35:00$10 won't do nothing.
35:02You would just make an effort.
35:03That is all my mom is asking.
35:04It's a waste of my time.
35:05Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
35:08I think her mother's sticking her nose in it.
35:10You know, that's not right.
35:11That's not the life he dreamed of.
35:13They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything,
35:15and he does because he helped make this kid.
35:31What's up, boy?
35:34I don't really think Bryce understands that if he doesn't get his together, I'm done.
35:38Like, I've explained over and over again why he needs a job.
35:41I mean, I've tried.
35:42My mom's tried.
35:44There's fixing to be a baby here.
35:46So hopefully, Bryce's grandparents can get through to him.
35:54Mmm.
35:55That's good, man.
35:57Thank you.
35:57I'm really surprised.
36:00Kevin.
36:02What?
36:03You're blocking the sunlight.
36:04Mmm.
36:07How's your mom doing?
36:08Oh, she's doing fine.
36:10Working.
36:13Your little sister?
36:15You've been looking after her or what?
36:16Yeah.
36:18You got a lot on your plate, don't you?
36:21Maybe more than most.
36:23At your age.
36:28Isabella seems a little standoffish previously.
36:32She was always nice and smiling, and tonight she just doesn't seem very inviting or...
36:41There's a wall there, I feel like, between us.
36:46She looked the same to me, like she's on the defensive or something's wrong.
36:52But I just shook it off as...
36:54We haven't seen her.
36:55I haven't seen her in a while, and she's nervous, and, you know, we'll see what happens.
37:01Well, what's y'all's plans? What do you want to do?
37:04I got no clue.
37:05What do you mean?
37:07Plans for what?
37:07As far as where y'all are gonna live, are y'all gonna try to live together?
37:10No.
37:11You don't want to live with Bryce?
37:13No.
37:15Not at anybody's house.
37:16Well, no, I mean, like, when it's time for y'all to live together.
37:21Yeah, but...
37:22Or get married or whatever.
37:25My nanopopo had felt like that we should get married because we're really religious.
37:31Well, my family's Christian too, but my mom didn't think that we should get married just because we was having
37:36a kid.
37:36If we can't financially support a baby, why would we get married?
37:39Yeah, but...
37:40It's not like, I'm gonna go to hell because I had a baby out of wedlock.
37:47So your plan isn't for y'all to get married anytime soon?
37:53Or ever?
37:55Not anytime soon.
37:57Gotta get a job first.
37:59Right now we have two months until she comes and nothing's bought.
38:03I mean, she has a couple outfits that my mom's bought.
38:06You know, you're talking about y'all don't have anything. What about having a baby shower? Are you interested in
38:13that at all?
38:14No. I don't want a baby shower.
38:16People bring you and give you gifts.
38:18It's not about the gifts. It's just more about, like, support.
38:21It's crunch time. Like, this isn't gonna happen and there's just like...
38:25Hey, that baby's not gonna hurt for nothing. I can promise you.
38:29I'm very frustrated because it has nothing to do with them not buying anything.
38:34It has everything to do with...
38:37They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything and he does because he helped make this
38:42kid.
38:43We're willing to do whatever we can and Bryce is gonna get a job.
38:47Yeah, but I ain't selling one for $10 an hour.
38:50No, you have to have a decent job.
38:52You have to crawl before you walk. Like my mom said, you don't have work...
38:55$10 an hour won't do nothing.
38:57It won't.
38:58You would just make an effort. That is all my mom is asking.
39:01It's a waste of my time.
39:01Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
39:06I'm still her daughter and I'm not going to be in a relationship, me and him dating, but me feel
39:13like a single mom and my mom taking care of me and Haisley.
39:16That's just not, like, it don't make any logical sense.
39:19I think her mother sticking her nose in and telling Bryce what to do, you know, that's not right.
39:24He needs to do what he thinks he needs to do to be able to raise a family, okay, not
39:30just anything.
39:34Bryce has a future, a bright future, okay? He's smart. He's very smart.
39:39But it takes a little time. You can't just get that overnight.
39:42And if you go settle for a, you know, minimum wage job, that's what you're doing is just settle it
39:48for that.
39:48That's not the life he dreamed of. He wants to have a life, too, you know, and a good life.
39:54What I'm asking is they'd help Bryce get his head out of his ass and get a job.
40:00But oh well, who cares? Not them, because bringing a baby in this world doesn't fall on them. It falls
40:07on my family.
40:09It'll be all right. Relax a little bit.
40:11Well, I'm sorry I sit here and worry, because...
40:14I understand. I understand. But it's Bryce's baby, too. Let's not forget that.
40:19Okay, well, let's make an effort.
40:23We had this crab dinner, you know, to reconnect with Isabella, and I feel like I have been under attack
40:35the whole time.
40:36It's getting dark out here. We need to get all this stuff and get it inside.
40:41So, I'm hopeful that if we just had some time to reflect, we can all come together and try to
40:50form a plan that works for everyone.
40:53Well, I hope so, but I'm not holding my breath.
41:03Close the door, bud.
41:04Next time on Unexpected.
41:06When I first met Jessie, I kind of didn't like him.
41:10Then this happened. I definitely don't like the kid now.
41:13Can Jessie stay the night?
41:14No.
41:15He's making it hard. He is making it harder than it has to be.
41:18I don't know why he don't let you sleep over.
41:20It ain't like she's gonna get pregnant again.
41:24Let's go. He's ready. You want some clothes on?
41:26Okay.
41:28Jose, you gonna help her over here?
41:30Taking Sammy home is really scary, because it's like really setting in that this is my whole life now, you
41:36know?
41:36Um, can you get a band-aid?
41:39We don't have band-aids.
41:40Okay, can you call them and ask for a band-aid, please?
41:43And I have to go back to work. And so you need to be able to do this.
41:48Have fun, Hunter.
41:49Thank you of you.
41:50We'll see you all later.
41:51Today, Hunter's going to see his dad, but I am worried that he might not show up.
41:55When I was away there, it's gonna be like 30 minutes.
42:02He's a piece of .
42:03When does the disappointment stop?
42:05I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad in his lap.
42:08He's a 13-year-old boy, about to have a child of his own.
42:11But his dad needs to be consistent.
42:13I don't want to hurt.
42:15I'm done with this stupid ass.
42:17What the ?
42:17Phil, stop. Wait.
42:18Dinner?
42:19It was miserable.
42:21I'm not gonna sit in the room with a little crybaby, because y'all unable his behavior.
42:28She's gonna regret this.
42:31It's all now, okay?
42:32We can do it like that.
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