00:00So very often we focus on someone's facial expression or their smile to determine what they might be feeling.
00:05When you're dating with your voice, you have to listen in a different way.
00:09So it's really important that you are positive and happy in your tone of voice
00:13so that you can make a sensational first impression.
00:17A genuine smile means that a person is receptive and connected with you when you're talking with them.
00:24What I like is someone who has confidence, good teeth and obviously a nice smile.
00:32Hello, my name is Kyla.
00:35My name is Maria.
00:36You have a lovely voice.
00:38Oh, thank you. So do you.
00:39I'm very curious what you look like, actually.
00:42Yeah, same here.
00:43What's your best feature?
00:45I get told many different things, but I would say my lips, perhaps.
00:50Wow! Totally different.
00:54Hi. Nice to meet you.
00:56I thought that you were like six feet tall.
00:59I had no idea what you look like, but you're very handsome.
01:02Oh, thank you.
01:03I could just like feel her smile and laugh.
01:08It's really interesting not being able to see the person, not having the eye contact,
01:11where usually you sort of connect with someone through the eyes.
01:14If I saw his face while we were talking, it would have been a completely different experience
01:20because he said some things I thought were like really silly and slightly offensive.
01:25And if you saw my expression, maybe he wouldn't have carried on.
01:28So when someone smiles or laughs with you, those are really powerful non-verbal cues
01:33that they feel comfortable in your presence and that they feel confident.
01:37A great smile and laughter goes a long way.
01:40Some even say it's infectious.
01:42Remember that people feel comfortable when they see you smile, and it makes them smile too.
01:47Who knows, you can even add a little laughter.
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