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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure, pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:06You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:09I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on
00:03:19with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 PM, I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this,
00:04:42when I've already made plans to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because I watched her sweat.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:18So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way,
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um...
00:07:14You have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:03He's out right now.
00:10:07As long as you...
00:10:22I love mountains.
00:10:24I do, too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Montana Tillens.
00:10:30I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounced.
00:10:53I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything, history, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip, it's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:19Play, revisit, emphasis.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Texas Central DC.
00:12:41Great.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is, like, carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49You know?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:01Ah.
00:14:04I hope you know...
00:14:07That I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah.
00:14:14That makes two of us.
00:14:15But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:24So...
00:14:26The other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:31Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns
00:14:37and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:50I have concerns, because you are still communicating with Michael.
00:14:57And talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well...
00:15:09He wants to come here.
00:15:20He already bought a flight.
00:15:29What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:39Without asking.
00:15:41Without telling anything.
00:15:43Nothing.
00:15:45This is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming?
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, um, you know, I'm glad you came,
00:15:57because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was dug out, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world,
00:16:09but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:16:20to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:27Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me
00:16:50so I can get in the car,
00:16:51because I'm really full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the best.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you, two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Oh, Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me your heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me a horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing,
00:17:24so I'm not, not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names,
00:17:32and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose,
00:17:38Presage Nocturne,
00:17:39Middle Earth,
00:17:40Maidan,
00:17:42Al Riffa,
00:17:43No.
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:43I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal
00:17:51having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know,
00:17:57kiss and hug
00:17:57the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited
00:18:02about being here with me,
00:18:03so we're taking her out on the town,
00:18:05see the biggest event of the year,
00:18:07the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:09But unfortunately,
00:18:09we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait,
00:18:19you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were
00:18:27on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31At least 200 metres to our ride
00:18:32is the place
00:18:33that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:37Oh, you guys working feet.
00:18:39F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52Ah.
00:18:53But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down a thousand.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year
00:19:03because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:11I have a lease with me,
00:19:12so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17It's about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for now.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:22Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:33I can do it.
00:19:34Like the game, they're very bullshit.
00:19:36Yeah.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:03Yum.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05Oh, this is much needed.
00:20:08Thanks, man.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheesies, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much
00:20:14I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah, yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came
00:20:20because you're one of my best friends
00:20:23and, you know, as soon as you come,
00:20:27I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:32Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world,
00:20:51but you're toasting to your buddy over me.
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57OK, let's start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've travelled, what you've given up,
00:21:01and, you know, what it's taken to get here.
00:21:04So I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:07So this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:13Well, thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realise it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know,
00:21:33seven, eight months, I've slowed down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night,
00:21:37but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, we party a bit, yeah.
00:21:50Like, I socialise a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats,
00:21:58and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out
00:22:14and having a good time,
00:22:15but I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down,
00:22:17like, having nights in with me and my cat and snuggling,
00:22:21and I want Josh to be ready to change for himself,
00:22:24not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like,
00:22:28it seems very weird to me
00:22:29that Josh was struggling financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives,
00:22:39but I worry about that, yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:43Cheers.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:46To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not used to that.
00:22:49No, no, no, no, no.
00:23:13How is she?
00:23:14He's OK.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing.
00:23:18I'm standing my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better today.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
00:23:29Don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom,
00:23:40but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we had to run him to the vet.
00:23:45I look at you in your cone.
00:23:48You don't like the cone.
00:23:50Nobody likes the cone.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream cone.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is OK.
00:24:01And so today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:24:05and finally get to know Jovon more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:12Jovon!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:23What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:36I don't want to see it.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45OK.
00:24:46My bad, then.
00:24:47Aw.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:48The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh.
00:24:55That's why I put this here.
00:24:57I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper
00:25:00that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this,
00:25:12and then I just...
00:25:14Yes!
00:25:15That's the point of the water.
00:25:17Water is created to clean your butt.
00:25:22I'm going to go wash off Mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26OK.
00:25:38Oh, Mama, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47That's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51OK.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:57Tilapia.
00:25:58OK.
00:25:59And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:06Oh, OK.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09OK.
00:26:10Dig in.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great,
00:26:19and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time
00:26:22with my mother-in-law.
00:26:25Jigon.
00:26:26Hmm.
00:26:27Mosta naman yung tulag mo pag gabi.
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:33My sleep was OK.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:40The karaoke.
00:26:42Yeah.
00:26:43The karaoke.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45But I'm happy that you're here.
00:26:48She says she's happy that you're here.
00:26:50OK.
00:26:52When, until when you're here?
00:26:55Till when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know,
00:27:00probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02It's very fast, right?
00:27:03She said it's too fast.
00:27:05I don't know.
00:27:05It's not one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12I still need to go home.
00:27:14I don't want to.
00:27:15Oh, my son was about my daughter.
00:27:19You're still here.
00:27:25I'm happy that you're here.
00:27:26I'm happy that Jibon came here from the Philippines,
00:27:30in our village.
00:27:31But what I always felt,
00:27:34when it was when he came here,
00:27:38in the Philippines,
00:27:41I was thinking about how my son was.
00:27:53she said for six years as my that my daughter has been waiting for you i was so worried about
00:28:00because she was sometimes i could see she was losing hope and also me i'm sorry it took so
00:28:10long though but i'm gonna make it up we're gonna i'm gonna come back very soon i promise okay all
00:28:16right
00:28:16i understand why my mom is being skeptical
00:28:36i mean it took him six years to see me and we've been married for three years and we still
00:28:45don't
00:28:45have a definite plan for the future he didn't even apply for a spousal visa what does that mean
00:28:57we can't be going on with this long distance relationship for the rest of our lives i don't
00:29:02want to right now i don't feel secure about the future
00:29:13can we just be done with the country of marco don't be mad but don't be mad
00:29:26who is it muhammad oh my god
00:29:33so
00:29:34so
00:29:45so
00:29:47so
00:30:06it's been a couple days since i got dumped and left in the desert
00:30:13i didn't want to go back to the same riyadh i didn't want to go back to the same riyadh
00:30:15that i was staying at with siad it just felt too sad to go all the way back there by
00:30:20myself
00:30:23luckily i was able to make some calls
00:30:25um i'm looking for a riyadh and i was wondering if your place is available for tonight
00:30:35um just one person i just got dumped
00:30:42thankfully the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to marrakesh
00:30:54and somehow i made it back to the new riyadh in one piece
00:31:03but now i'm just not totally sure what i'm doing
00:31:24you don't know how happy i am to see your face right now
00:31:30what's up what's wrong what can you tell i'm sad today yeah i can tell in your eyes
00:31:36no i'm like really sad i like don't want to wait i don't want to cry already hold up
00:31:43sorry
00:31:43what happened um
00:31:48so yesterday
00:31:50basically i like told siad everything about like muhammad
00:31:55and it literally maddie went to like we got into a huge fight and it ended up with him
00:32:02like fully breaking up with me and leaving me alone in the desert by myself
00:32:09this is odd
00:32:10yeah
00:32:13like i knew he was there is crazy behavior to leave you alone in the desert in a country where
00:32:21you don't speak the language
00:32:22yeah
00:32:23like he obviously doesn't care about you
00:32:26and he hasn't spoken to you since
00:32:29he's been sending me like
00:32:31like rage texts
00:32:34like saying that i'm like a demon and like a liar
00:32:39and like this horrible monster
00:32:44and it's just like really annoying like i'm really upset about it
00:32:48you know it's like i did i did all this like again and like just to get like treated like
00:32:54a piece of
00:32:56like what like no i'm sorry you're a catch and for him to like act like you're a gremlin is
00:33:03crazy
00:33:04why is he i'm being like he's just like ryan gosling as like morocco
00:33:12can we just be done with the country of morocco
00:33:18don't be mad
00:33:19but don't be mad
00:33:24what
00:33:25so i may have been texting
00:33:30mohammed
00:33:31emma
00:33:33emma
00:33:34maybe
00:33:44why are we doing this to yourself
00:33:49i mean i don't know i think
00:33:51just because things got so bad with yet it's just making me like go back to mohammed
00:33:56because
00:33:56terrible
00:33:57because he was just as bad
00:34:00yeah
00:34:01but like the last time i was here
00:34:04like this was like a happy moment
00:34:05for us like when i was in marrakesh
00:34:07so it's kind of made me miss him a little bit
00:34:10are you going to go see him
00:34:13if he wants me to
00:34:16oh my god
00:34:17okay what are your intentions i've seen him
00:34:20i mean is your are you going there to get closure or are you going there with the intent of
00:34:26rekindling your relationship engagement
00:34:31i don't know my mind is like everywhere right now
00:34:34i mean i don't know i'm like getting emotional for you
00:34:39stop maddie
00:34:40i just want you to get hurt again
00:34:43like this happens to you all the time
00:34:45stop
00:34:46i just don't get it
00:34:47like it makes me so sad
00:34:50like i just want you to feel so loved
00:34:52you deserve that
00:34:54mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you
00:34:56it's like i just
00:34:57i just want you to come home
00:34:59please don't cry
00:35:00i just don't know what you're going to gain out of this
00:35:04yeah i don't know
00:35:07i guess we'll see
00:35:20uh emma interview i'll take 20
00:35:24who is it mohammed
00:35:26oh my god
00:35:29i'm gonna answer it just one second
00:35:33hello
00:35:35hey
00:35:39no
00:35:40i don't have a boyfriend
00:35:44i swear i don't
00:35:46why you want to see me
00:35:49so do you want to talk we can get like lunch or something
00:35:55all right well i'll call you when i'm there
00:36:01two bye
00:36:09what did he say
00:36:12so mohammed just asked me
00:36:14oh my god hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety
00:36:17really
00:36:18i don't know because i haven't talked to him in a while so it's like
00:36:22um
00:36:24he sounded cute
00:36:27he asked me if i was with a guy
00:36:30i told him no
00:36:31he asked if i have a boyfriend
00:36:34i said no
00:36:36he wants to see me
00:36:38he told me to text him a place that we could meet
00:36:42i don't know it's just like a lot of old feelings are coming back
00:36:48me and mohammed have been through a lot and we were madly in love for a lot of years
00:36:54so that's something that doesn't just go away and i think if i don't see him i'm always going to
00:37:02regret it
00:37:07i mean you keep talking about you keep talking about you keep bringing him up after i thought that was
00:37:15you know the past
00:37:17i feel like trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what i did
00:37:22so it seems to me that you want to be with him
00:37:44so you're ready to meet my family
00:37:45i think i think i'm ready i'm nervous but i'm excited
00:37:51just relax
00:37:53just relax
00:37:53you have to show them that you are a good guy
00:37:56it seems like you are not happy
00:38:00are you sure you want to go
00:38:03are you sure you want me to go
00:38:05yeah
00:38:06i just want to make sure that i'm the man that you want
00:38:09to be
00:38:11introduced to your family
00:38:12i told you yes
00:38:14so what else do you want
00:38:17so what else do you want
00:38:25it's like you were hesitating just tell me
00:38:27make things clear rick
00:38:29please
00:38:32i mean you you you keep talking about you keep talking about your ex you keep bringing him up
00:38:38after i thought that was you know the past
00:38:45tonight we're packing up to leave nosy bay to go to trish's hometown to meet her family
00:38:51but after the merengue fight we were walking around and she gets to talking about this great
00:38:58place that her ex took her to when they were here that upset me i feel like trish is bringing
00:39:04up her ex just to get back at me you know because of what i did
00:39:11all you're trying to do is is just make me jealous and it's and it's a game for you
00:39:18shut up
00:39:19no see that's exactly what you told me when when when i responded to you
00:39:24yeah because you said like oh this is place that's your ex took you and this is cheap
00:39:30i like it i like it i like the place why do you keep bringing it up because i like
00:39:35it i love it i
00:39:38enjoy but do you think i want to hear that where's the problem with that that means you
00:39:43appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what i've done that's what it is
00:39:50so it seems to me that you want to be with him
00:39:56i'd rather stay single than back to my ex
00:40:00i don't believe that's what would happen i don't know that's what would happen because that's what
00:40:05you did i'm not like you i'm not i will never be back to that ex i'd rather leave him
00:40:13alone then
00:40:14stop talking about it i don't want to hear it because you hide your ex no i don't want to
00:40:19talk
00:40:20about my ex and i don't want to hear about your ex because you're hiding your ex no it's not
00:40:25what you
00:40:25did you went to columbia for your ex i just don't feel like it should be brought up i'm trying
00:40:30to work
00:40:30on us i want a relationship with you that's the goal
00:40:40you're getting far away from the from the finish line you're running backwards when we should be
00:40:46running forwards this is so ridiculous i'm telling him i had a good experience to that place to this
00:40:58place and it was nice that's it it's not like something oh i'm i'm talking with him or i'm still
00:41:07with my ex i didn't cheat on him that's his action not me
00:41:16so if you want to go just let's go if you want to stay stay here
00:41:23i want to go if if you're going to be committed to the to this relationship
00:41:30if i know that you're committed
00:41:33i'm 100 on board with going to meet them
00:41:41okay
00:41:46i love trish so much and i i want this relationship to work more than anything
00:41:53but i think all of this is just hitting me all at once
00:41:59maybe i'm you know in my head but i'm afraid that trish won't be able to fully trust me after
00:42:07what i did
00:42:09and the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me it's just all too much
00:42:16i'm feeling pressure massive pressure this meeting with her family is like make or break
00:42:31i'm miserable
00:42:33okay do you want to talk about this
00:42:36i just feel frustrated right now she didn't care what i think or what i say
00:42:43you don't respect me that's not true at all and now i have doubts this us could be mistake
00:42:51you
00:42:58michael he's coming yeah without asking without telling anything nothing
00:43:17he cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision
00:43:26i told him you know that i would think about him coming but i woke up this morning to a
00:43:33bunch of texts
00:43:34from him saying that he already booked a flight
00:43:41the other night in chesme michael offered to come to turkey so he could give me his perspective
00:43:47on my relationship with beer con
00:43:50i had planned to talk to beer con about it but before i even had a chance to michael texted
00:43:57me and
00:43:57said he booked his flight given beer con's very strong feelings about my friendship with michael
00:44:05i am concerned that this will complicate the progress that beer con and i have made
00:44:11but on the other hand michael is always the person that i'm going to turn to when i need advice
00:44:18if beer con and i are really going to move forward i need my best friend's opinion
00:44:25this is not normal
00:44:28something is wrong with him is he out of his mind is he out of his mind yeah no he
00:44:34wants to give me his
00:44:35opinion on this whole situation or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have it am i right
00:44:47that michael and i have only ever been friends he's very logical he's very insightful and i value his
00:44:57opinion your your friends have scoped me out so why don't i get to have that same opportunity to
00:45:04have my friends meet you and have you get along with them my friends doesn't want to me
00:45:13he made that move it's over he has no chance
00:45:19before she came here laura told me that she had an argument with michael and he said that i am
00:45:28the
00:45:28obstacle those two having a relationship i took it as a move she said that it was meaning just friends
00:45:37but i don't trust michael this is his opportunity to break us up while she is confused about our
00:45:46relationship this is a strategy
00:45:51look i want this relationship to work with you
00:45:59i would never let a third party come between me and you
00:46:07maybe you should try to like calm down and just meet him
00:46:17i think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that i'm not making a bad choice
00:46:26okay okay i just feel frustrated right now
00:46:37i feel like i have no choice he's already coming she didn't care what i think or what i say
00:46:44i just hope that michael doesn't up my entire future and my relationship
00:46:54let's go we have a reservation
00:47:04okay
00:47:09you can't speak turkish
00:47:11maybe i can speak english okay thank you you know the turkis say cheers
00:47:18cheers cheers cheers oh did you take the whole thing yeah after today i can drink everything inside
00:47:41we had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins
00:47:49but beer con's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward
00:47:57you don't seem like you want to taste wine you're like pounding it like a shot yeah that's not a
00:48:02wine tasting
00:48:05yeah i am miserable you're miserable i'm waiting for my best friend michael
00:48:15this is 13.5 person alcohol this one is that three different to turkish grape
00:48:24okay let's try cheers thank you you're welcome okay do you want to talk about this
00:48:32okay okay there was no heads up you declined my existence in this relationship
00:48:43you just decide whatever you want you are not respecting the person in your life
00:48:52you don't respect that's not true at all and now i have doubts
00:48:59when we get married it will only get worse
00:49:03that could be my worst mistake i don't know what could be your worst mistake this us
00:49:17here we are it's a nice place i hope i have booked a resort the pictures online looked really nice
00:49:26so i'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect
00:49:31what is it it's moving kill it step on and get rid of it take it outside no
00:49:53guys where are we going left here and we're just up here on the left
00:49:59here we are well it looks super cute
00:50:11i'm so excited to see you guys's place yeah we'll tell you the code in about a week once once
00:50:16we trust
00:50:16you cute wow
00:50:23at this point it's been 40 hours that i've been up and i am completely delirious completely foggy
00:50:29i put a game face on i went to the mother bar and now i am beyond thankful we're at
00:50:34the rental and
00:50:35i'm going to be getting some rest soon guys i really have to pee where's the bathroom and then you
00:50:40can
00:50:40show me around i'm really excited someone didn't make their bed joshua someone else oh her oh my god
00:50:48this is a bathroom we're sharing oh no this is too small i'm gonna die here you will not die
00:50:58i'm trying to put my best foot forward and like be positive and and show him that like i'm not
00:51:03a
00:51:03complainer it's small it sounds positive i'm super appreciative of like josh getting the apartment
00:51:11in a nice location maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial and like i would have settled
00:51:17for a smaller place without a roommate like no offense love you chris this is your room
00:51:25what wait wait wait what it's the moaning lisa we call it you wanted this picture
00:51:30chris thought it was hilarious right i put it up you know yeah why would you let him do that
00:51:38i didn't let him do that but i thought it was quite hilarious so like what when we're having
00:51:43sex we have to look at chris that's weird when we have sex it's pretty assumptuous of you
00:51:51yeah yeah
00:51:56so i'm really confused like you could have put a picture of me
00:51:59didn't have one in such high def my social media it feels very surreal having elise here with me in
00:52:08person she's just been a voice on the other end of the phone so it'll be interesting to see how
00:52:14you know we both react to living together where do i put everything i'll find space
00:52:22i asked you to get a steamer did you get a steamer steamer yeah do you think we should
00:52:27get like a closet organizer here do you not do you just have a dryer
00:52:36um it looks like it could be an adjustment there's like literally only one towel in here
00:52:44i'm gonna need more pillows
00:52:48uh we can organize that pillows steamer in the morning we should maybe make a list so you don't
00:52:54forget i'll write it down set yourself up for success i'll write it down promise okay let's go to bed
00:52:59okay come on all right guys good night all right this is your bed okay i just want to get
00:53:08comfy clothes
00:53:09on yep and go to bed okay perfect and i'm on the couch okay before i got here i told
00:53:16joshua i
00:53:17wanted to take things slow so he's gonna sleep on the couch that way we're both avoiding temptation
00:53:22okay joshua gives me butterflies like he's hot like sending him away it's it's hard but like i came
00:53:31here wanting to do things differently like not leading with sex but at the same time i wanted to
00:53:37make him you know see a little glimpse of what he might be getting josh
00:53:53so are you gonna come say good night absolutely why such a serious look because it's uh
00:54:02you know why you look like someone killed you yeah i'm getting killed inside painful all right
00:54:09well come take a night to me
00:54:23good night good night it's gonna be hard sleep on the couch but yeah it's good to try and connect
00:54:30more on that emotional level than the sexual level off the bat i think that probably you know that helps
00:54:34us but would you want to have sex in an ideal world of course i would as soon as i
00:54:41saw i would
00:54:41roll on the airport floor but um you know
00:54:46i'm really happy that we have a really strong connection straight away from the moment we met
00:54:52but um i haven't shared my whole life with um alice yet i'm a bit worried that she might find
00:54:57out some
00:54:58things you know parts of my life that she's not exactly happy with i just hope i can show her
00:55:02that
00:55:03i'm a good person you know with flaws but a good person and hopefully she falls in love with me
00:55:24okay we have to pack
00:55:37daniel are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me um yeah yeah sure
00:55:45things are not settled with lisa i'm still really hot with all the offense she have committed
00:55:51by telling lies but i decided to go on this trip with her i hope we didn't forget anything i
00:55:59don't
00:55:59know i don't think so i think we're good it's going to be difficult but i will try my best
00:56:07to have a good
00:56:17time long rod we'll get there pretty late so what is the place like it's a lake yeah there'll be
00:56:25a lot
00:56:26of nature in the area to look at and lots of activities to do so i thought it would be
00:56:32enjoyable
00:56:33for us thank you you're thinking where the hell is she taking me you know we call these in america
00:56:53the
00:56:53boonies the boondocks where there's no real civilization it's just just woods here we are
00:57:06it's a nice place i hope
00:57:10i have booked a resort in baggery nigeria it's the western part of lagos
00:57:18the pictures online looked really nice and it's in my price range so i'm hoping this place is fun
00:57:25and romantic and can help us reconnect oh wow i like it what do you think
00:57:35nice little space right it's nice it's fine it's nice huh oh my god
00:57:42what is it yes it's a spider no that could be poisonous i've not seen someone um bitten by a
00:57:51spider before i have i'm not gonna sleep in here with a spider i'm terrified of this spider because i
00:58:00don't know what kind of spider it is this thing is in africa this could be dangerous don't you dare
00:58:06sling it towards me
00:58:11is it dead just much it's moving kill it step on it get rid of it take it outside no
00:58:24all right stop leave it i will kill it myself
00:58:29no don't kick it again stop stop kicking it
00:58:36where'd it go daniel get it on my shoe
00:58:41okay don't kick it at me i have a phobia of spiders it's just spider no it's not just a
00:58:49spider it was
00:58:50huge it was a tarantula sized spider you are so rude i am terrified of spiders i told you to
00:58:59kill
00:59:00the spider why didn't you kill the spider i have just spider ordinary spider it's not an ordinary
00:59:05spider it's it's a vicious spider this is room you paid for you you know where the spider's coming from
00:59:10kill the spider kill it kill it no you kill it we're here now right
00:59:18so what are we here for it's a romantic getaway romantic yourself yes
00:59:25yes
00:59:30she wants us to have um a romantic trip but it's very hard for me i i i am feeling
00:59:38tense
00:59:40because i don't know what my uncle is going to do whether he will cancel this marriage
00:59:46i don't like waiting you know to talk to him
00:59:50you should enjoy it you came why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it honest you know why
00:59:56i'm here right no i have no idea why you don't have idea no i'm here because um i don't
01:00:03want the money
01:00:04you paid to be um to be a west
01:00:08that's the only reason why you came
01:00:13so no um no sex no kissing until i call my uncle and i want him to consult you know
01:00:23the oracle the
01:00:23ancestors why don't you just wait a couple days just a couple days we can we can make this work
01:00:30for a couple days daniel i need a couple days to do what just to get my head together and
01:00:37then we call
01:00:38your uncle i need a couple days because i have to come clean to daniel about the rest of everything
01:00:46before he goes to his uncle but he's already so angry with me how am i gonna get through it
01:00:54i am
01:00:55terrified that daniel's gonna leave me forever once he finds out i need a day or two that's all i'm
01:01:03asking for i want to have a day or two with you fine
01:01:13this this one never ends why do you do this is your mom always is bossy you want traditional roles
01:01:21when it applies to you just done with this conversation you know you used to be a lot
01:01:28softer and sweeter and sweeter and you don't want a bitchy wife don't be a a**hole
01:01:41you
01:01:42so
01:01:52so
01:02:16What's wrong?
01:02:18Really?
01:02:19Yeah, really.
01:02:21You don't help me with anything.
01:02:23Like this, laundry, and this.
01:02:26This one never ends.
01:02:28Why do you do this?
01:02:31What the f***?
01:02:34It's been nice having Jovonne in my house,
01:02:37but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern
01:02:41about our long-distance relationship.
01:02:44On top of that,
01:02:46now that Jovonne and I are living together in one house...
01:02:50Slowly, a baby!
01:02:53I'm sorry.
01:02:55I get to see how he is.
01:02:58He's very messy,
01:03:00and he just puts the clothes and the towels everywhere.
01:03:04I feel like I have a toddler,
01:03:07and I always have to pick up stuff.
01:03:10From male to male,
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy?
01:03:15What?
01:03:15I heard that.
01:03:17We just haven't got time.
01:03:19I heard that.
01:03:21No, me too loves me.
01:03:24Yeah, well, I love you too, Nana.
01:03:25I mean, it doesn't mean that you're not bossy.
01:03:28What's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks?
01:03:31There's nothing wrong with that, Anna.
01:03:33It's how you're delivering, Anna.
01:03:35What do you want from me?
01:03:37Instead of coming in the room and saying,
01:03:39Jovonne, pick up your stuff!
01:03:40You know, you can just say,
01:03:42boo,
01:03:43if you don't mind,
01:03:44could you just pick up your stuff?
01:03:48Jovonne,
01:03:48No matter how much I put it,
01:03:50if you really would like to pick up that socks,
01:03:53you would have.
01:03:54See?
01:03:55You don't see that.
01:03:56I do, actually.
01:03:58You do, but you don't do it.
01:03:59No.
01:04:03And, like, every time I talk to you,
01:04:05you leave the room.
01:04:18We, all we do is talk.
01:04:21That's all we do.
01:04:22All right.
01:04:22Well, I'm going to try a little action today.
01:04:26Would you like to go get, like, a manicure,
01:04:29like, our feet done?
01:04:32Well, you definitely need a pedicure.
01:04:38Okay.
01:04:46I feel sorry for whoever's going to clean your feet.
01:04:51Dang, how bad do you think my feet is?
01:04:55Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough.
01:04:59But it's hard to be romantic
01:05:01when you're being nagged a lot.
01:05:05Still, you thought it would be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for Anna,
01:05:08to show her, you know what?
01:05:10I appreciate what you do.
01:05:11Hi.
01:05:12Good afternoon.
01:05:13Hello.
01:05:14Hello, Paul.
01:05:15I just hope that she sees
01:05:16that I'm making a real effort here.
01:05:19Mmm.
01:05:19So?
01:05:20It's like Barbie threw up in here.
01:05:24Suits you so well.
01:05:26Look at you.
01:05:27Yeah.
01:05:28Sitting like a queen.
01:05:29It's all pink.
01:05:31I like it.
01:05:32I know you do.
01:05:36There you go.
01:05:37Yeah.
01:05:40Yeah.
01:05:42See, I told you.
01:05:44It just feels weird.
01:05:47Oh, that's nice.
01:05:49Oh, my God, boo.
01:05:51That's a lot.
01:05:53You doing okay over there?
01:05:56I'm so tired.
01:05:58I'm so tired.
01:06:02Is this being romantic?
01:06:05Yeah.
01:06:05Did I pass the test today?
01:06:07Kind of.
01:06:08Okay.
01:06:08Yeah.
01:06:09Some cool points.
01:06:10Mm-hmm.
01:06:11I like that.
01:06:12Mm-hmm.
01:06:14You still have to be nicer to me, though.
01:06:16And I'll do more nice things.
01:06:19Like, if I leave, like, underwear or socks on the floor, you know, will you be nice?
01:06:28No.
01:06:29No?
01:06:29I mean, you can be nice to me by not dropping them on the floor.
01:06:38I know, but Anna, you know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and, you know, more
01:06:44patient with me.
01:06:46You know what I think it is?
01:06:47It's just, I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere and you got comfortable.
01:06:53Being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like, okay, well, I got this person.
01:06:59I don't have to try anymore, you know.
01:07:02He's always going to be there no matter what.
01:07:06Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
01:07:13I don't understand where did this come from.
01:07:16Do you get it from those videos that you've been watching about masculinity and other things?
01:07:24No, that's my, that's, that's, that's all my idea.
01:07:28I take full credit for that.
01:07:32It's just odd because I feel like over the couple of years watching all these,
01:07:38videos, you've changed and I love who you are.
01:07:43But Anna, this is who I was when you first met me.
01:07:46No, you're not.
01:07:48You were not that prideful before.
01:07:50I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
01:07:55You see, it's like a power.
01:07:57I don't have any.
01:07:59That's the problem.
01:08:00Like, I feel like.
01:08:00That's the problem.
01:08:01You need to feel powerful.
01:08:02No.
01:08:02And you're not.
01:08:03I feel like I have all the responsibility with no authority.
01:08:06Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
01:08:09So what are you talking about?
01:08:13You want traditional roles when it, when it applies to you.
01:08:18I always have to take care of everything financially.
01:08:21So as your husband, I feel like having to say is nice.
01:08:25You know, it just means you're just respectful.
01:08:30Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:08:37Why did you bring me here?
01:08:40Well, I wanted you to have a good time.
01:08:43Yes!
01:08:43But if you were going to...
01:08:44Do I look like I'm having a good time?
01:08:45But you set me up.
01:08:47You were asking me questions and I just answered them honestly.
01:08:51You ever heard the term, you know, you don't want to hear the answers.
01:08:53So cease from asking dumbass questions.
01:08:57You ever think about that?
01:08:58And you don't want to bitch your wife.
01:09:01Don't be a asshole.
01:09:04I can just sit here and get my feet done.
01:09:06Like, I don't have to...
01:09:09Then just stay here, okay?
01:09:11Don't come home.
01:09:12You need to calm down.
01:09:17I don't want to see you ever again.
01:09:22Don't come home.
01:09:24Ever.
01:09:26Jerk.
01:09:29You're disgusting.
01:09:33Hey, I will see you soon.
01:09:36All right.
01:09:36I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:09:41He said to tell you hi.
01:09:43I'm not saying hi.
01:09:47You want to open it?
01:09:49Hey!
01:09:51Hi, friend.
01:09:51Oh, my God.
01:10:07Oh, my God.
01:10:13I have a phone call.
01:10:20Hello?
01:10:23Hey, good morning.
01:10:24Good morning.
01:10:25How are you?
01:10:28Are you doing well?
01:10:30Oh.
01:10:30My hotel won't be ready until, like, 2 o'clock.
01:10:34Uh, is there any chance I can fly to my?
01:10:37Say hello.
01:10:40It's totally fine with me.
01:10:42I mean...
01:10:43I was just going to say I pin-drop you my location.
01:10:47Okay, I will, uh, I will see you soon.
01:10:50I'm going to start walking in your direction.
01:10:52All right.
01:10:53Be careful.
01:10:55Thanks.
01:10:56Bye-bye.
01:10:56Bye.
01:10:58Bye.
01:10:58Bye.
01:10:59Bye.
01:11:00Bye.
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here.
01:11:09Now that this is real and he actually showed up in Turkey,
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself.
01:11:18I'm incredibly nervous and I feel like I'm about to die.
01:11:27Hey.
01:11:29Hey.
01:11:30That was Michael.
01:11:32What is he saying?
01:11:35He said to tell you hi.
01:11:38What?
01:11:40Why?
01:11:41Because he...
01:11:42I'm not saying hi.
01:11:45Well...
01:11:46He's going to be here at this apartment.
01:11:50This apartment?
01:11:52And about...
01:11:53Turkey is okay, but this apartment...
01:11:55Ten minutes.
01:12:01I cannot believe that Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:12:07He dropped everything to get on a plane for me.
01:12:10I mean, it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that.
01:12:15But it is definitely wild.
01:12:19And complicated.
01:12:22So you think this is normal?
01:12:27Well...
01:12:28I think he's just concerned about me.
01:12:33Yeah.
01:12:34Sure.
01:12:36That's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other.
01:12:40Yeah, I believe him.
01:12:40Yeah, I believe him.
01:12:42He's such a good heart.
01:12:50I'm not five years old.
01:12:51I don't eat that...
01:12:55Your friend is trying to f*** this connection, and you're like, yay!
01:13:01Okay.
01:13:03It's like, I don't get it.
01:13:06I never wanted him to come, and I still don't want him to come.
01:13:11I think he's coming in Turkey to mix up Laura's mind.
01:13:17Maybe talk some f*** about me.
01:13:19Give Laura more doubts.
01:13:22But if our relationship is going to end because of Michael,
01:13:28I don't blame Michael.
01:13:30I will blame Laura.
01:13:37You want to open it?
01:13:39Yeah, I do, actually.
01:13:47Hey!
01:13:49Hi, friend.
01:13:50Oh, my God.
01:13:50I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:13:54Is it safe to come in?
01:13:55Yes!
01:13:56Oh, my God.
01:13:57Wild.
01:13:58Oh, my God.
01:13:59I'm making a palace here.
01:14:07I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:14:09Oh, no.
01:14:09This is amazing.
01:14:11It's the most spontaneous thing I've ever done in my life.
01:14:13I have no idea.
01:14:14And I do it for you.
01:14:15I do it for you.
01:14:19So...
01:14:19Oh, my God.
01:14:21Absolutely.
01:14:22Oh, wow.
01:14:23Yeah, this is fantastic, right?
01:14:26I hope my hotel room looks like this.
01:14:27Holy cow.
01:14:29Hi, Michael.
01:14:31Nice to meet you, finally.
01:14:33Heard so much about you.
01:14:35Yeah, you probably heard.
01:14:37I...
01:14:38Okay.
01:14:45Make yourself at home.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:47You want something to drink?
01:14:49Tea?
01:14:50Yeah, anything like that?
01:14:51Okay.
01:14:52Just have a seat right here.
01:14:53I don't know how it works.
01:14:54Yeah, that's fine.
01:14:55Do the women make tea here, or do the boys do it?
01:14:58Boys?
01:14:58The boys make the tea?
01:15:01They call men if they are grown up.
01:15:03Oh, okay.
01:15:07Um, would you like anything?
01:15:11Nope.
01:15:12I am perfect.
01:15:27So, Bunny, what you watching?
01:15:30Scarface.
01:15:36Do you like American classic movies?
01:15:39No.
01:15:43I like mob stuff.
01:15:45I enjoy pretty much violence.
01:15:53Do you like?
01:15:55Do I like this movie, or...?
01:15:58Violence.
01:16:05Golly, I...
01:16:07I'll be honest with you.
01:16:08I don't know what to make of beer con.
01:16:09Um, I know I just kind of dropped it on him,
01:16:11but he's talking about violence to me on the couch.
01:16:14If that's truly who he is,
01:16:16then I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura.
01:16:20My first impression of beer con
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:16:23than I think, uh, than beer con and she are.
01:16:25So, I want to make sure that she makes the right choice.
01:16:35I love you so much.
01:16:37But stop telling me that.
01:16:39Stop.
01:16:40We're hurting some secrets.
01:16:41All I can think about is how there is more to tell him,
01:16:45and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
01:16:48It has to be tonight.
01:16:50So, I have more to tell you, then.
01:16:52More to tell me?
01:17:01Is this really how it ends?
01:17:05Can we go back to where it all began?
01:17:11All I really want for this
01:17:14is to go back to where you love me again.
01:17:19Good morning.
01:17:21Good morning.
01:17:25You're going to sleep.
01:17:26You're going to sleep or I...
01:17:28You kept me awake all the time.
01:17:30I know.
01:17:31I didn't mean to keep you awake.
01:17:32I couldn't help it.
01:17:33I was sad.
01:17:34You almost went to bed with tears.
01:17:42Why are you crying?
01:17:44I feel bad about everything that transpired.
01:17:48But I feel better this morning.
01:17:50Yeah, because I cuddled you, right?
01:17:54And you were crying so loud,
01:17:55so I have to...
01:17:56I have to cuddled you, you know?
01:18:01Last night, I cried myself to sleep.
01:18:04All I could think about is how I have to tell Daniel my secret.
01:18:08And I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever.
01:18:10But Daniel held me all night.
01:18:12So I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful.
01:18:16Today is a new day.
01:18:18And I'm hoping that we can explore and have some fun together.
01:18:21Yes, hello.
01:18:22All right, what are you doing?
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake,
01:18:25and I'd like to walk around and see what else there is.
01:18:28That's fine.
01:18:29All right, let's get dressed.
01:18:41Come on.
01:18:42Let's go down towards the water.
01:18:46Oh, my gosh.
01:18:49This is a whole resort, and there's nobody here.
01:18:59It's not like it's pictures.
01:19:03It's pretty desolate, actually.
01:19:06And it's a bit run down.
01:19:10You want to smile a little bit?
01:19:12Yeah.
01:19:13But maybe that it's desolate is going to help me with Daniel.
01:19:20Maybe it's a little bit more intimate for the two of us.
01:19:26Water is so big.
01:19:28It's so big, the water?
01:19:33Oh, look at this.
01:19:35This is neat.
01:19:36Let's have one.
01:19:38Two, please.
01:19:41I feel that things are going back to normal.
01:19:44Like, Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship.
01:19:48Oh, wow.
01:19:51Delicious.
01:19:52Let's go for a bike ride.
01:19:54Can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know.
01:19:57I will try.
01:19:59To me, I welcomed it.
01:20:01I want us to be together because I love her.
01:20:07You know, it takes muscle to pull this.
01:20:09Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling,
01:20:11and I'm doing the steering.
01:20:13Look at the pace.
01:20:15No, not that fast.
01:20:16I think you're maybe not that fast.
01:20:20Don't go so fast.
01:20:24I feel so light and so good in this moment with Daniel.
01:20:28He is having fun, and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:31as he's doing it, I really feel like we're reconnecting.
01:20:36Are you having fun?
01:20:38Yes, I am.
01:20:39See, this is exactly what we needed.
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself, but I can't,
01:20:45because all I can think about is how there's more to tell him,
01:20:49and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
01:20:53It has to be tonight.
01:21:16It's a bonfire, honey.
01:21:17We're dancers.
01:21:20I'm enjoying the sun.
01:21:24This is beautiful.
01:21:26Have a seat.
01:21:27Let's watch him.
01:21:29Let's enjoy it.
01:21:32It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:21:40Woo!
01:21:42This is nice.
01:21:45Are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:21:50I'm enjoying spending time with you.
01:21:52This is what this few days is about.
01:21:55Do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit?
01:21:58I really want us to reconnect.
01:22:01You know, I miss the way we used to be.
01:22:05But I'm trying to respect our tradition.
01:22:09We have to call my uncle.
01:22:11When I call him, I will beg on our behalf.
01:22:14I love you.
01:22:16I love you, too.
01:22:16I want to make you...
01:22:19I want to, you know, love you forever.
01:22:22But stop telling me that I stopped with hurting some secrets.
01:22:27Okay?
01:22:29I understand.
01:22:31Okay.
01:22:33So I have more to tell you, then.
01:22:36More to tell me?
01:22:40What do you mean?
01:22:43So, like, in Nigeria, it's not legal for men to marry men or women to marry women, right?
01:22:52It's not legal?
01:22:53It's not, sir.
01:22:54In America, it is.
01:22:56Yes, I've heard of that.
01:23:02So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
01:23:12And I've been with more than one woman.
01:23:16You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
01:23:25Because, um...
01:23:30It's not...
01:23:31Don't...
01:23:32It's not as bad as...
01:23:33Don't come close to me!
01:23:39Next time on Before the 90 Days...
01:23:42Hey!
01:23:43Hey!
01:23:44Hey!
01:23:45Hey!
01:23:46Having female friends can be hard to juggle, but I want to prove to her that she has nothing
01:23:51to worry about.
01:23:52Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:23:54Yeah.
01:23:54Yeah.
01:23:54I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:23:59Financial holds?
01:24:00No, I don't know.
01:24:00No, I don't know.
01:24:01Are you jealous of me?
01:24:03And our relationship?
01:24:08You're officially on the GP.
01:24:11I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
01:24:14And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
01:24:17So, I have to be very clear here.
01:24:21If you file today for the K-1 vision, it will be denied.
01:24:30I just feel really hopeless because I'm putting in massive effort.
01:24:36And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
01:24:39I don't know how to move forward.
01:24:47I'm excited to see my family.
01:24:49Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:24:51Yeah, to see me.
01:24:53What about me?
01:24:54I don't know.
01:24:56I feel scared.
01:24:58My family won't accept Rick when they don't like something.
01:25:03They are really aggressive.
01:25:06Rick doesn't know what he's in for.
01:25:15They want babies.
01:25:20You have a lot of secrets.
01:25:22I have no more secrets.
01:25:24Shut your mouth.
01:25:25You don't have to.
01:25:25You have been touched by a woman.
01:25:27Not even women.
01:25:28Women.
01:25:30What a range.
01:25:34Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
01:25:36You know what?
01:25:37F*** him.
01:25:39F*** him.
01:25:42F*** him.
01:25:43Jesus.
01:25:43Oh my gosh.
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