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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04We put it there?
00:00:06Oh, what?
00:00:09I may not be able to give you everything you want,
00:00:12but everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:00:15Do you think that I'm enough for you?
00:00:18Sure.
00:00:19That's what I need to feel, that I'm enough for her.
00:00:22I really do want this to work.
00:00:25You love me.
00:00:26Of course, baby.
00:00:29I just want the world for your daughter,
00:00:30and I was hoping I could get your blessing to marry her.
00:00:36Well, Forrest, you have my blessing.
00:00:39I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
00:00:44I feel like Chena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
00:00:48Even though her family needs her help with money,
00:00:51what I've seen, the way they live,
00:00:54it's not the same as what I've been hearing
00:00:56for the last seven years.
00:00:58So I'm really worried that tomorrow,
00:01:00my mother is going to basically flip out.
00:01:05We had that argument, and you called my sister,
00:01:09and you were a little bit unhinged.
00:01:12I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:01:17I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful.
00:01:20Here we go again.
00:01:22Huh.
00:01:22Yeah.
00:01:23I thought the reason we were fighting so much
00:01:26was because we were in a long-distance relationship,
00:01:29but we're still fighting.
00:01:31What does it say about our marriage?
00:01:37I don't trust Michael.
00:01:39I want you to cut him out of your life.
00:01:42He's just my friend, and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
00:01:47I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
00:01:54I am shocked that Birkon decides to walk out on me.
00:01:58It absolutely feels like a sight of him that I haven't seen yet,
00:02:02and I really don't like.
00:02:04F*** Michael.
00:02:06The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:02:10If your uncle does not give you the blessing,
00:02:12does that mean that we are not getting married?
00:02:15How's this?
00:02:17I have to try to impress his uncle,
00:02:19but what kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:02:22I'm worried I may have to reveal things
00:02:23that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:02:25I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:03:01Yesterday, I arrived at Sheena's family home in the province,
00:03:04and even though the family accepted me,
00:03:08what I've learned is just leaving me confused and bothered.
00:03:17First off, I believed that the entire time I was coming here
00:03:21to save Sheena from horrific, evil monsters,
00:03:24and it turns out her family has this nice, beautiful home
00:03:27and are just normal, caring people.
00:03:30So last night, I tried to talk to Sheena.
00:03:33You have to be honest with me.
00:03:35You described your family as almost like terrible monsters
00:03:39that were stealing from you.
00:03:40Are they just, is this an act for me?
00:03:45No, they're not an act.
00:03:47They're great people.
00:03:48But they're not really great people
00:03:50if they're mistreating their daughter.
00:03:53You don't have to think anything about worry.
00:03:55They gave their blessings to you, even though it's the first meeting.
00:03:59So it's a good thing.
00:04:04I wish her answers were more, you know, answers and not more like dodging around.
00:04:11You know, now I'm left with more questions than what I started with.
00:04:17I feel like I know bits and pieces of the most important parts of the story,
00:04:22but there's still many other things that need to be uncovered.
00:04:26I do believe my mom is going to show up and she's going to see the nice place.
00:04:30She's going to see this, this, and she's going to say,
00:04:33why did you need a bunny in the first place?
00:04:35And she's going to express herself and say exactly what's on her mind.
00:04:40I'm kind of relieved that my mom is coming
00:04:43because she can get the third perspective and see what's really going on.
00:04:47Coffee time, gotta get my coffee time.
00:04:51Sheena's family seems to be under the impression
00:04:53that she's going to financially support them going forward.
00:04:56So I still want to tell Sheena's family that we are cutting them off.
00:05:00And hopefully my mom and Dev can back me up
00:05:03and kind of just get past the big hurdle that is impending.
00:05:10That's a strong cup of joe right there.
00:05:18Okay, Sheen, they should be here any second.
00:05:20Okay.
00:05:22Come on, babe.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Yeah.
00:05:31Are you nervous, baby?
00:05:32Yeah, so nervous.
00:05:35I don't know what's going to happen today.
00:05:38I know Molly will bring up the finances.
00:05:41And it's a conversation that we need to have.
00:05:44But Forrest wanted to impress my family.
00:05:47So he is kinder.
00:05:49I'm quite worried Molly would act not as nice.
00:05:54Oh, yes.
00:05:56Moment of truth.
00:06:01Oh.
00:06:02Oh, boy.
00:06:04Wow.
00:06:06Hey, guys.
00:06:07Wow.
00:06:07Hi, Mom.
00:06:08Hi, Deb.
00:06:09Mm-hmm.
00:06:10This is so beautiful here.
00:06:12Well, thank you.
00:06:13Wow.
00:06:15Wow.
00:06:17Right off the bat, alarm bells are going off in my head.
00:06:24My family is out right now.
00:06:26So come here, guys.
00:06:27I'll give you a tour.
00:06:29Here's the garden and stuff.
00:06:30Man.
00:06:33Sheena's told me that her family runs this struggling bed
00:06:37and breakfast.
00:06:38So I'm expecting something kind of quaint and rough
00:06:41around the edges.
00:06:43We had different kinds of plants here.
00:06:45We have fruit-bearing trees, red palm, orchids.
00:06:48Huh.
00:06:49I don't know this plant, but this is very rare to have flowers.
00:06:53Oh.
00:06:54My first reaction, holy .
00:06:59Sheena, who did your grass?
00:07:01Actually, before when it got this place,
00:07:04it doesn't have anything.
00:07:06So you guys did all of this?
00:07:07Yes, from no scratch.
00:07:12Sheena's expecting me to believe that if they don't take her money,
00:07:16that they're going to starve.
00:07:18I mean, they're living better than Forrest and I
00:07:22back in the United States.
00:07:24This is not adding up at all.
00:07:29And this is the pool area.
00:07:31Oh.
00:07:32Then if it's around the night time,
00:07:34it would have different color, light color.
00:07:36Well, would you look at that.
00:07:40So when do I get to meet your family, Sheena?
00:07:42At dinner?
00:07:43Yes, Mom.
00:07:45OK.
00:07:47I'm definitely going to tell Sheena's family every single thing
00:07:51that Sheena has told me this whole story of the past seven years.
00:07:56And then I want to see how they react.
00:07:58I want to see if they're going to be shocked or if they're part of it or whatever.
00:08:05Yeah, thank you for giving me the grand tour.
00:08:07It's just beautiful.
00:08:08Yeah.
00:08:09Tonight, I will get the truth for Sheena.
00:08:12I think I'm just going to go put my legs up for a bit until dinner.
00:08:15OK, Mom.
00:08:30Is there upper?
00:08:32I wish I can tie it to my waist.
00:08:34You can.
00:08:34Show me.
00:08:36You have to spread your leg.
00:08:38You know, I don't have much waist, so...
00:08:40I don't.
00:08:41You're tight.
00:08:42OK.
00:08:43On the side?
00:08:43Yeah, on the side.
00:08:45I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:46You look beautiful.
00:08:48Oh, la, la.
00:08:59You have to flourish a little bit.
00:09:01The first one, the inner one is shorter than the...
00:09:04The inner one is shorter?
00:09:06The outer one, yeah?
00:09:08The outer one is shorter.
00:09:12OK.
00:09:12It's OK.
00:09:14So...
00:09:14Beautiful.
00:09:16Look at me with these other kids.
00:09:19Mwah.
00:09:21Daniel and I are going today to meet his uncle and get a blessing so we can get married.
00:09:25and I'm nervous.
00:09:28I don't know the traditions.
00:09:30I don't know the culture.
00:09:31And I don't know what his uncle is going to ask me.
00:09:33I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing
00:09:35and Daniel will blame me.
00:09:38You will be the one to hold the wine, okay?
00:09:40When you kneel down there, you give me the wine.
00:09:43I will be the one to present it to my uncle, okay?
00:09:45But I kneel with it first.
00:09:46Yes.
00:09:48I will be kneeling down with you, okay?
00:09:52Good, you give it to me.
00:09:53Then I will hand it to my uncle, okay?
00:09:58Lisa is from another country.
00:10:00She don't understand our culture.
00:10:02I have to instruct her on what to do
00:10:04so she doesn't prefer my uncle.
00:10:08Let's try.
00:10:12Sorry.
00:10:19Daniel wants me to have traditional attire
00:10:22to meet his uncle.
00:10:23And I'm expected to learn how to put it on myself.
00:10:26I think I'm going to look like a clown.
00:10:28I can't hear anything
00:10:30because the hair tie is like plastic
00:10:32and it's rattling in my ears.
00:10:34But he's telling me this is Igbo traditional attire
00:10:37and this is what I must wear.
00:10:38So this is going to be pretty interesting.
00:10:41Maybe my bangs should be back.
00:10:47I don't mean to laugh, honey.
00:10:49I just got cute.
00:10:53All right, let me try again.
00:10:54Oh my gosh.
00:10:59What are you doing, baby?
00:11:01It doesn't look too bad.
00:11:03Oh my God.
00:11:05All right.
00:11:05Can you help me?
00:11:07But you were there when the woman was teaching you yesterday.
00:11:10I didn't have a mirror.
00:11:11Where was my mirror to watch her?
00:11:13I had my head and I was holding it.
00:11:15You must help me.
00:11:17Hmm.
00:11:22Oh my God.
00:11:22Lisa doesn't know how to put on the hair tie.
00:11:25Thank God.
00:11:26All these things, I know them from when I was growing up.
00:11:29When my mom was alive,
00:11:31I used to see her when she started.
00:11:33And I remember.
00:11:34But I never knew that someday
00:11:36I would be the one to help my girlfriend to tie her up on.
00:11:41You have to make it taut
00:11:43or it's going to fall off.
00:11:49You got this.
00:11:52Okay.
00:11:53Okay, how do I look?
00:11:54You look good.
00:12:07I'm nervous.
00:12:09Why are you nervous?
00:12:11Because I am.
00:12:13This is a big deal.
00:12:15I want to impress him.
00:12:16I want to impress my uncle.
00:12:17Yes, I want to give a good...
00:12:19I want to put my best foot forward.
00:12:24I'm scared this.
00:12:26And you're not telling me anything
00:12:27except to kneel in front of him.
00:12:29I don't know what he's going to ask me.
00:12:31I will do my best.
00:12:32My uncle will not ask you what you don't know.
00:12:33So don't lie to him.
00:12:35I know, but what you're considering a lie
00:12:37and what I consider a lie
00:12:38might be two different things.
00:12:39I'm from America.
00:12:40My culture is different than yours.
00:12:41Baby, lie is lie.
00:12:47I want to show him
00:12:48that I am willing to go above and beyond
00:12:50to be a good...
00:12:53Igbo wife.
00:12:59Igbo wife.
00:13:00Igbo wife.
00:13:06I'm trying to be positive about Lisa
00:13:09meeting my uncle.
00:13:10But I'm nervous.
00:13:12I told my uncle a little bit about Lisa
00:13:15but not only her vaping.
00:13:18There are some other things she told me.
00:13:21It is a big, big sin.
00:13:23She told me that she has changed for good
00:13:25but I want to make sure she's being honest
00:13:28and I am worried
00:13:31that my uncle will not give us the blessing
00:13:33if she cannot explain herself
00:13:35and I will have to walk her way.
00:13:45Remember what you promised me
00:13:47that you're not going to talk to her again.
00:13:50Yeah.
00:13:50I need you to show me
00:13:52that you keep your promise.
00:13:55I've been very concerned
00:13:57ever since it's been watching
00:13:58all this masculinity podcast.
00:14:01They really encourage cheating.
00:14:03Can I see your phones now?
00:14:09So we're going to go meet your friends.
00:14:12I do not think this is an ideal time
00:14:15to meet Memo and Tuba
00:14:17but part of me really wants to ask them questions
00:14:20because there's a lot more I need to learn about BeerCon.
00:14:24Tell me something interesting about BeerCon.
00:14:27I'm sorry.
00:14:29I'm sorry.
00:14:46I'm sorry.
00:15:11I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now
00:15:14and me and Natalyn are on our way overdue honeymoon.
00:15:20It's a strange feeling
00:15:22to have all these firsts with me and my wife
00:15:25after three years of being married.
00:15:27First time sleeping together.
00:15:29First time eating together.
00:15:30First time waking up beside each other together.
00:15:34And then we had our first in-person fight.
00:15:39So right now it seems like I'm in the doghouse.
00:15:47Okay, she made her side of the bed.
00:15:51Anna.
00:15:54Last night things got a little bit tense
00:15:56because I told Anna not to call my sister
00:16:00and vent about our issues in our marriage.
00:16:03Last night during our couple's massage.
00:16:07I am trying so hard to show him a good time
00:16:11trying to be romantic
00:16:12but he's always trying to find ways to criticize me.
00:16:18I would rather Anna come to me
00:16:21about our issues in our marriage.
00:16:23Why can't I reach out to his sister?
00:16:25She's my family too.
00:16:27So why can't I confide to her
00:16:30when he can confide to any bitch?
00:16:39What?
00:16:40Are you going to brush her teeth
00:16:41or are you just going to look at me?
00:16:44I mean, Anna, are we going to talk?
00:16:46Talk about what?
00:16:47I mean, about last night.
00:16:49I mean, I apologize for, you know,
00:16:52bringing that up at the wrong time.
00:16:57I want to enjoy the trip.
00:16:59Can we do that?
00:17:05Okay.
00:17:08All right, we're good.
00:17:09Okay.
00:17:10I hope.
00:17:11It's all right.
00:17:12I'm happy that he apologized
00:17:15but that doesn't mean all is good.
00:17:20Last night, it wasn't just really about him criticizing me.
00:17:26It's way deeper than that.
00:17:29It's about him doing things
00:17:32that's giving me trust issues.
00:17:36Now that I'm in person with my husband,
00:17:39there are things that I question about him.
00:17:42I noticed that it's beautiful out today.
00:17:46Yeah.
00:17:47You want to head to the beach?
00:17:48Yes.
00:17:49Okay.
00:17:55But I don't want to waste this moment,
00:17:59especially this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:18:05What's going on over there?
00:18:07Uh, kayaking?
00:18:09Yeah.
00:18:09And this one is like a bicycle.
00:18:11Yeah.
00:18:12This one is so cool.
00:18:14We definitely gonna do these.
00:18:16Are we interested in renting this?
00:18:18Yeah, you can do it, sir.
00:18:20Okay.
00:18:21Have you been on one of this before?
00:18:23No.
00:18:24Are you excited?
00:18:25I'm excited.
00:18:26All right.
00:18:28Woo-hoo!
00:18:29Bye-bye.
00:18:31Going out this way.
00:18:34Oh, boy.
00:18:35It's so fun.
00:18:36Yeah.
00:18:39I just love this.
00:18:41Just remember this moment.
00:18:50It's so long.
00:18:52You're like a stork.
00:18:54It's pedaling right here.
00:18:57The aqua bike is a little bit uncomfortable
00:18:59because I'm so tall.
00:19:01I couldn't...
00:19:01You have long legs.
00:19:03Yeah.
00:19:05This is difficult.
00:19:07Yeah.
00:19:09They're not built for people over six foot.
00:19:14Maybe jet skis next time.
00:19:20Oh, my God.
00:19:21That was so fun.
00:19:24Cheers.
00:19:32It's pretty good.
00:19:39So, you know,
00:19:41this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:19:43Mm-hmm.
00:19:44So we're about to go back home really soon.
00:19:47You're going to meet my mom.
00:19:49But there's something I want to talk about.
00:19:53Okay.
00:19:55You know what we argued about last night?
00:19:59That was about my sister.
00:20:01Yeah, also because you remind me
00:20:03why I did what I did.
00:20:06Because you talked to this person,
00:20:08I don't want you to.
00:20:12I need to make sure that
00:20:14you keep your promise.
00:20:18Remember what you promised me
00:20:20when you were on the phone
00:20:21before you came down here.
00:20:24That you're not going to talk to her again.
00:20:27Yeah.
00:20:28But I need you to show me
00:20:30that you keep your promise.
00:20:33Okay.
00:20:33So, can I see your phone?
00:20:38Now?
00:20:43Okay.
00:20:47I know that checking Yvonne's phone is bad.
00:20:50I wish I don't have to do that.
00:20:52But having an online marriage,
00:20:54we are not together physically.
00:20:56For me to know what she's really doing,
00:21:01I have been very concerned
00:21:04ever since she's been watching
00:21:06all this masculinity podcast.
00:21:08Because they really encourage cheating.
00:21:20They really say that if he cheats,
00:21:23it's okay as long as he provides.
00:21:26It really scares me a little bit.
00:21:28So, for my peace of mind,
00:21:31I need to be totally sure
00:21:33that there's nothing going on.
00:21:59And I need to know what she's doing.
00:22:05person I hate I don't care about Michael you don't care about a lot do you
00:22:23beer con's plan for us today was to make evil eye beads and then go meet his
00:22:29friends memo and tuba but I'm just really unsure of everything right now
00:22:38after keeping some pretty big secrets from me beer con has a lot of balls to try to tell me
00:22:46who I can and can't be friends with I knew that beer con had a lot of issues with my
00:22:53relationship
00:22:53with Michael but to tell me he wants me to cut my best friend out of my life this is
00:22:59a whole new
00:23:00controlling side of him and it's really concerning to me you left me sitting in a hut alone because
00:23:10I don't like him actually I have nothing in common with him okay you both care about me
00:23:17you have that in common I think he's more than caring about you but you always said you trust
00:23:24me yeah you have to trust me on this because man knows man okay step back and see your relationship
00:23:36with him and so you think he has some sort of
00:23:44intention that's other than just being my friend yeah exactly I don't agree okay
00:23:54so we're gonna go meet your friends and I want to do that I would like for you to give
00:24:00me that same
00:24:01respect so could you at least at some point be open to meeting him or calling him
00:24:11you are pushing my will I'm not trying to push your will I'm trying to make you see the like
00:24:19the
00:24:20hypocrisy in it because otherwise it feels like you just get to determine who's important in our lives
00:24:36okay I do not think this is an ideal time to meet memo and tuba but part of me really
00:24:44wants to take
00:24:44the opportunity to meet them to ask them questions especially since the last few days have proven that
00:24:53there's a lot more I need to learn about beer con
00:25:10so this is my usual table maybe we should sit here okay you know everyone yeah I know
00:25:21so good to meet you uh I'm Laura I'm tuba nice to meet you nice to meet you
00:25:33even though I am feeling bad about the argument I think this is the best time for memo and tuba
00:25:39meet
00:25:40Laura because they're the best two people can teach her that I'm not a bad guy I'm just trying to
00:25:49protect
00:25:49the one I love I will translate you guys are gonna mix up and and I'm gonna ask lots of
00:25:58questions about
00:25:58you okay yeah this sounds like a threat it's not a threat it's not a threat okay
00:26:16how long have you known their con kaç yıllar beni tanıyorsunuz three years
00:26:23do you know thank you sir thank you sir thank you
00:26:48she said life of the can he said now this is my life actually
00:26:52oh this is actually what I do every day this is something for relaxing it's like medication
00:26:58I have my tea I have my shisha I will be fine
00:27:03while it's fun to see this side of beer con hanging out with his friends it's also kind of eye
00:27:09-opening
00:27:10he knew everyone when we walked in he has a regular table and now I'm hearing that he comes here
00:27:17literally to smoke shisha every day I mean he just told me about this massive amount of debt that
00:27:24he has I feel like he should be doing something more productive with his time
00:27:31tell me something interesting about beer con
00:27:36that's a new translator here
00:27:38nice
00:27:39yeah
00:27:45people can't reach the inside inner me
00:27:48you know that's why people think I'm tough and I am angry 24 7
00:27:54in the inside I have a little cheese
00:28:02but I also like the dark parts and the protective
00:28:07nature
00:28:12it's a good combination
00:28:14it's a good combination
00:28:20it's a good combination
00:28:29it's a good combination
00:28:42you know that I want my own kids so this is the time to talk about it
00:28:48I can't put a time frame on that I'm 52 years old getting up there in age so I don't
00:28:55think I'm
00:28:55ready to have another child what do you want oh my mouth is watering
00:29:07I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get am I going to get the nice sweet
00:29:11mom or am I
00:29:12going to get hard nose rock hard battle battle battle battle I want to talk about sheena there's been
00:29:18quite a bit of confusion
00:29:29so
00:29:50baby I love to see that smile on your face
00:29:55the lemurs here are kind you just bring banana and you just give them and you're playing with you
00:30:02sound like fun do lemurs make good pets you know like a like a cat or a dog oh no
00:30:10no that's illegal
00:30:12oh it's illegal okay today we're taking a boat to nosy coma to see some lemurs this is something that
00:30:22i've been looking forward to because i think that madagascar is the only place that you can find lemurs
00:30:30here huh
00:30:33also for a long time that's the only thing i knew about
00:30:37madagascar from the movie so i'm really excited to see them in person
00:30:42oh
00:30:50so cute
00:30:53Look at the black one.
00:30:55There's three of them.
00:30:56So do they ever come down?
00:30:58Yeah, they run like this everywhere.
00:31:01And what do they eat?
00:31:02Whenever they see the fruits like that, they eat all of it.
00:31:07Oh, really?
00:31:07Huh.
00:31:08These lemurs, they're cute and they're
00:31:10strange at the same time.
00:31:13To me, they act similar to monkeys,
00:31:17but they're not as human as monkeys are.
00:31:20They look like squirrel monkeys.
00:31:25Oh, look.
00:31:26There's one right next to us.
00:31:29Hey, man.
00:31:31What's that noise you're making, baby?
00:31:33That's their, yeah.
00:31:33Is that their language?
00:31:36I can't do that.
00:31:39I sound more like a big.
00:31:41You close your mouth and do it like that.
00:31:44Monkey, monkey, monkey.
00:31:46Is it monkey or what do you say?
00:31:48Maki.
00:31:48Maki.
00:31:49Maki, Maki.
00:31:49Maki.
00:31:50Maki, Maki.
00:31:51Yes.
00:31:52You see?
00:31:53Oh, he's looking around.
00:31:54Let's get a picture.
00:31:56Come on.
00:31:57Let's get one together.
00:32:02Man, the kids will love this.
00:32:04Yeah.
00:32:06My boys, I miss them.
00:32:08I miss them.
00:32:09But it'll be worth it if I can bring a step mommy home.
00:32:13Yeah.
00:32:14I'll be there.
00:32:15I envision that we can have this family unit.
00:32:18Just the four of us.
00:32:24You know that I love your kids, Rick, but I cannot just, you know, being a step mom, like, forever.
00:32:35I want to have my own.
00:32:39I mean, I love kids, but, like, right now, I'm not in a position to have another child.
00:32:47It's an issue.
00:32:52It's an issue.
00:33:17Well, it's...
00:33:17When you're coming here, so this is the time to talk about it.
00:33:22You should decide you want what you don't want.
00:33:30Oh, Trish, I'm not ready to make that decision right now.
00:33:37At this point in my life, I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:33:43I'm 52 years old, and I'm getting up there in age, so having another child is going to
00:33:50be, like, starting all over again.
00:33:54And it's hard enough, as it is, dealing with my two little ones.
00:34:00And I haven't even told her about what I did in Columbia.
00:34:07She might not even want a child with me after she finds that out.
00:34:13What do you want?
00:34:16I mean, I'm not totally closing the door on the idea of having a child.
00:34:24How long have you decided, like, okay, now I want to have kids?
00:34:30I can't put a time frame on that.
00:34:35I wish he would stop making excuses and tell me what he really wants.
00:34:41I need to know, and it's very important, and not only for me, but for my family.
00:34:47In my culture, it's very important to have kids, and it's not a question.
00:34:57I'm going to take Rick to my hometown in a few days, and I'm worried.
00:35:04If he decided he does not want to have kids anymore, I'm not sure if I will be able to
00:35:11stay with him.
00:35:19I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:35:28She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would threaten her and mistreat her.
00:35:37You forced her.
00:35:40Do you say that?
00:35:41Do you say that?
00:36:01Do you say that?
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:11Okay.
00:36:14It's not very ripe.
00:36:16Hello.
00:36:17Hello.
00:36:18Um, mom, Dev.
00:36:21And she's my sister, Katrina, and my dad, Steve.
00:36:23Uh, hello.
00:36:24Hello.
00:36:25Hello.
00:36:25This is my mom, Molly, and my dad, Dev.
00:36:27So very nice to meet you, sir.
00:36:29This, Dev.
00:36:30Hello.
00:36:31Good to meet you.
00:36:32Steve, Dev.
00:36:33Steve.
00:36:34Dev.
00:36:34Dev.
00:36:36Hi, I'm Molly.
00:36:37So very nice to meet you.
00:36:39It's a pleasure.
00:36:39I'm Katrina.
00:36:41Nice to meet you.
00:36:41Good to meet you, Katrina.
00:36:43Hi, Forrest.
00:36:43Hey, Pops.
00:36:44How's it going?
00:36:45Yeah.
00:36:47So, Mom, we're just trying to show you
00:36:48on how we make jackboots.
00:36:50That is a knife.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:53Tonight, I'm worried about, you know,
00:36:56everything that's going to happen.
00:36:58Anyone want to try?
00:36:58Oh, I sure do.
00:37:00Oh, thank you.
00:37:02I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:37:04Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom
00:37:06who loves and cares everybody?
00:37:08Or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard,
00:37:10battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:37:12Wanna go sit down for a while?
00:37:15Oh, yeah, that'd be great.
00:37:16That'd be great, yeah.
00:37:18But at the same time,
00:37:20I'm starting to get kind of tired and overwhelmed
00:37:22with learning new things every single time about Sheena.
00:37:25So I'm hoping that we can get the truth
00:37:29all out on the table.
00:37:31Oh, look at that.
00:37:33So these are banana leaves.
00:37:35We use this as a buddle fight.
00:37:37Very traditional.
00:37:39This usually was practiced in the military
00:37:42when they went up to the mountains.
00:37:44Yeah.
00:37:45So no plates, just the banana leaves and all the food.
00:37:50Yes, it's wonderful.
00:37:52A buddle fight is like a traditional Filipino culture
00:37:56of everyone to eat in one whole giant leaf.
00:38:00So it's like this.
00:38:01They have to do like this in a line.
00:38:04Oh.
00:38:05I just thought Molly would really enjoy this
00:38:08because she's interested in learning about my culture,
00:38:11especially when it comes to food.
00:38:14Oh, my mouth is watering.
00:38:16Ooh.
00:38:17I hope that the buddle fight is the only fight
00:38:20that would happen tonight.
00:38:23Next batch.
00:38:24Next batch, the whole thing.
00:38:26Seafood.
00:38:27Ooh.
00:38:27Shrimp.
00:38:28Oh, my gosh.
00:38:29Those look delicious.
00:38:31Mussels.
00:38:32The big fish goes in the middle.
00:38:34Yes.
00:38:35My first impression of Sheena's family was they're hospitable.
00:38:39They're very welcoming.
00:38:42I mean, I've never quite seen a spread as nice as this.
00:38:46Usually, uh, make a rice ball.
00:38:48Just pick around then.
00:38:50Scoop it in your mouth.
00:38:51Shove it in your mouth.
00:38:52Shove it up.
00:38:53Shove it up.
00:38:54Shove it up.
00:38:55Shove it on up.
00:39:00That be told, that does not line up at all
00:39:03from what I heard about them from Sheena.
00:39:06God, the flavors that just come through.
00:39:09Mmm.
00:39:10Mmm.
00:39:13I was under the impression that they were these
00:39:17money-grubbing, cruel people that pretty much locked
00:39:21Sheena away and wouldn't let her out only to go to work
00:39:25and then to hand over her check.
00:39:27That's what I was led to believe.
00:39:32I just want to say this meal that you prepared is just incredible.
00:39:37I'm just so grateful.
00:39:39And you have created such a beautiful home, I must say.
00:39:44Thank you, thank you.
00:39:45It must have been so expensive.
00:39:51But I was actually quite surprised to see how it really is.
00:39:56I expected something very different.
00:39:59But you guys made us feel very, very welcome,
00:40:02and I appreciate that so much.
00:40:07So, I wanted to ask, are you guys okay with Sheena
00:40:11moving to the United States?
00:40:16Actually, that is already her dream years ago,
00:40:19to work there in the U.S.
00:40:22Oh.
00:40:24Okay.
00:40:25That's interesting.
00:40:29Yes.
00:40:30But yesterday, Forrest made it clear that he's a little low on budget also.
00:40:39And so, I don't know what the situation is, you know?
00:40:42So...
00:40:43Actually, let's put Forrest's finances to the side,
00:40:46and I want to talk about Sheena.
00:40:52There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:40:56And I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:41:11And she told us that if she didn't give the money to you guys,
00:41:22that you would threaten her and be cruel to her and mistreat her.
00:41:31That you forced her.
00:41:37No?
00:41:38Did you say that?
00:41:49If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:41:54Dear Dan, don't you know that culture?
00:41:57I'm here to make sure that Lisa is a good woman.
00:42:02It is our tradition.
00:42:03You are not an Igbo woman.
00:42:06Tell me, do you drink?
00:42:08Do you smoke?
00:42:09Are you a practicing Christian?
00:42:11I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:42:26I have no new things.
00:42:34I think that's still a great people.
00:42:38Well, I'm so proud of and not grateful.
00:42:44I'm so proud of
00:42:50And I'm so proud of that,
00:42:56I lovementation of couch that would help.
00:42:59I was ready to find something to prove that I can't trust him.
00:43:05Instead, I found a bunch of cute photos of his dog.
00:43:12And photos of me that I sent him.
00:43:15Actually, lots of photos of me.
00:43:18I'm realizing that maybe I should cut him some slack.
00:43:23But I guess I'm still learning how to trust him.
00:43:30Well, for now, I don't see any red flag, honestly.
00:43:37You know, I told you I was going to stop talking to that person.
00:43:42And I did.
00:43:45I mean, did you think I wasn't telling the truth?
00:43:48I think I never know.
00:43:53So...
00:43:53Well, now you know.
00:43:58It's a little bit offensive that she feel like she needs to look through my phone in order to feel
00:44:03comfortable.
00:44:05Anna's supposed to trust me regardless.
00:44:08She's actually supposed to trust me before, you know, we got married, you know.
00:44:14But at the same time, I watch a lot of relationship podcasts.
00:44:18And one of the hosts, he sometimes makes good points about a little paranoia is healthy.
00:44:27I mean, most women only act right when they feel like they could be replaced.
00:44:34So, I'm not saying go out and cheat, but a little bit of paranoia, a little bit of fear is
00:44:39healthy.
00:44:39Yeah.
00:44:41Are we good?
00:44:43I do want to trust you, but I'm not going to lie.
00:44:47I'm not still like 100%.
00:44:55Mm-hmm.
00:44:58And if you talk to her again, I'm going to break this phone. I don't care.
00:45:06I mean, Anna, just look at it this way. I mean, I passed all your tests.
00:45:10Yes.
00:45:11For now.
00:45:12Okay, for now.
00:45:13For now.
00:45:13For now.
00:45:14Do you want to go through my luggage up in the room?
00:45:16Yes, I will.
00:45:17All right.
00:45:20Do you have extra phone?
00:45:22I'm just kidding.
00:45:23No, no, no.
00:45:23I'm with you.
00:45:25I'm with you.
00:45:49As soon as I go in, do I kneel down before him?
00:45:53Yes.
00:45:55Okay, that's-
00:45:56Stop being nervous, okay?
00:45:57Okay.
00:46:00I am in a very uncomfortable situation.
00:46:03I'm sitting next to the man I love and he doesn't know about me.
00:46:10He doesn't know that I'm still married.
00:46:12He has no idea I've only been with women for 21 years.
00:46:16And right now, I'm feeling scared because I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I don't
00:46:21want to tell him any of my secrets.
00:46:23I want us to have this blessing more than anything in the world.
00:46:27I want to be with Daniel.
00:46:35We're going to do this.
00:46:37If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:47:05If he doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:47:07For me, Daniel.
00:47:11Yeah, Daniel, don't you know that culture?
00:47:23I'm here to make sure that Lisa is a good woman.
00:47:27before I gave them the approval to go ahead and fire it.
00:47:35It is our tradition.
00:47:38Stand up. Come and have your seat.
00:47:43Come on.
00:47:44Come on.
00:48:01This is the wine.
00:48:07This is the wine.
00:48:13My good lady, how are you?
00:48:16Nervous, uncle. I'm very nervous today.
00:48:21Yes.
00:48:24You are not an Igbo woman.
00:48:27I want to know you more.
00:48:30I will ask you some pertinent questions.
00:48:37Tell me who are you.
00:48:40I am a Native American.
00:48:43I am part Irish also.
00:48:46I come from a mother who gave me up for adoption at a very young age.
00:48:51I have a family that adopted me and they took very good care of me.
00:48:56I am a hard worker.
00:48:58I make sure I take care of my household.
00:49:01I make sure when Daniel needs money that I take care of his household.
00:49:07Are you a practicing Christian or Christian by name?
00:49:12I am a practicing Christian.
00:49:15I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:49:19But Daniel makes me into a better woman.
00:49:22He makes me into a stronger Christian.
00:49:27Do you drink?
00:49:30Do you drink?
00:49:30I do drink very, not a lot, but I do drink some, yes.
00:49:35Do you smoke?
00:49:37I do not smoke.
00:49:39I have smoked in the past.
00:49:41I have given it up.
00:49:49I do not smoke.
00:49:49Are you or were you a lesbian?
00:49:53Do you practice lesbianism?
00:49:54Do you practice lesbianism?
00:50:01Do you know a lot of people do not smoke?
00:50:02Don't smoke too, but…
00:50:04Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:50:09I don't want to make things bigger.
00:50:12I don't want to make things bigger.
00:50:14I do not smoke too much.
00:50:15I do not smoke too much when you run into the past.
00:50:17I think she will grow up.
00:50:19Wait, what did she say?
00:50:34Actually...
00:50:35There is a side of Birka's.
00:50:43I'll tell you.
00:50:47I'll tell you.
00:50:53What?
00:50:55I'm good.
00:51:03Because I'm still in debt,
00:51:05we always have to try to find a new way to find money.
00:51:09And when I'm not working and I can't find a job,
00:51:13the gambling comes in here.
00:51:17I gamble every day.
00:51:19Every opportunity I have.
00:51:21It's what I do for a living.
00:51:23Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:51:29I don't want to make things bigger.
00:51:32I know.
00:51:34I know.
00:51:34I know.
00:51:35I know.
00:51:37But what?
00:51:40I know.
00:51:56I know.
00:52:08What did she say?
00:52:19I don't like pressure.
00:52:23I hate it.
00:52:26I don't like pressure.
00:52:36I hate it.
00:52:39I know.
00:52:49I know.
00:52:50I know.
00:52:51I know.
00:52:55I know.
00:53:00I know.
00:53:06I know.
00:53:16I know.
00:53:21I know.
00:53:23I know.
00:53:24I know.
00:53:25I love you.
00:53:26I love you.
00:53:27I know.
00:53:29I love you.
00:53:30I love you, I love you.
00:53:31We are having a picnic.
00:53:33Is that the blanket we're lying on?
00:53:36Yeah.
00:53:36Your splash pad.
00:53:40That would've been better.
00:53:43The splash pad would have definitely been better.
00:53:52Is this where we're going to eat?
00:53:53Yeah.
00:53:55Wow.
00:53:56Fried fish.
00:53:57They put some garlic and ginger and little salt.
00:54:03And that's what they're stirring in now?
00:54:05Yeah.
00:54:06Is the ginger and the salt?
00:54:07Yeah, they mix it up like this.
00:54:09It makes me miss home because we are doing the same thing like this when we are home.
00:54:15Got some nice big ones in here, babe.
00:54:17Mm-hmm.
00:54:18So whatever you catch is on the menu.
00:54:21Yeah.
00:54:30This type of food stands on the beach are very common in here.
00:54:35I love them since they have fresh seafood.
00:54:39This is how my family prepare food also.
00:54:43Lighting a fire and making a barbecue or frying something.
00:54:49So it's nice to have a reminder of home.
00:54:55You want to try?
00:54:56Try what?
00:54:57How to cook it.
00:54:59I don't know anything about it.
00:55:00You've never do that?
00:55:01Nah.
00:55:02I've never been fishing either.
00:55:03So I've never dealt with, you know, live fish.
00:55:06I'm going to teach you.
00:55:07And when you are in my hometown, you can do the same thing to impress my family like you know
00:55:12how to do it.
00:55:13I mean, that sounds like kind of a good idea, you know?
00:55:18I'm nervous that Rick is going to meet my family.
00:55:22I hope they will love him.
00:55:24But the conversation we had earlier about kids is making me doubt that it's possible.
00:55:32And also, there are other things working against us that Rick doesn't know about.
00:55:39Well, he's always doing it.
00:55:44Yeah.
00:55:46Are you used to squatting like this for long periods of time?
00:55:50Yeah.
00:55:52What's your problem Rick?
00:55:53You don't even help.
00:55:55I mean, I'm old.
00:55:56I'm not used to being in this type of position for long periods of time.
00:56:00In my home, you will sit on the ground.
00:56:03Like this.
00:56:04I'm a city boy, baby.
00:56:06You a village girl.
00:56:07Do you want to sit on a chair?
00:56:10If there's a chair available, yeah.
00:56:12That'd be nice.
00:56:13What?
00:56:14You complain a lot.
00:56:18So what can I expect when I meet the family?
00:56:21I will ask you some questions.
00:56:23Who are you?
00:56:24What do you want from my daughter?
00:56:28What's your plan for her?
00:56:30OK.
00:56:31I know that this is a big step, and I feel honored
00:56:36that you want to introduce me to, to your family.
00:56:42And when I'm about the same age as your dad, right?
00:56:45You're older than my dad.
00:56:48How old is your dad?
00:56:50Fifty.
00:56:53But your father does know how old I am, right?
00:56:57Yeah.
00:56:58You haven't told your dad my age?
00:57:01No.
00:57:01You haven't told me that you're older than you.
00:57:04Good.
00:57:05I didn't say that you already married twice.
00:57:10I didn't say that you have kids.
00:57:12Aw, strange.
00:57:15My dad, he doesn't want a man older than me, and a man who
00:57:21have a lot of kids, and a man who already been married, divorced.
00:57:28So that's why I didn't tell my dad much about Rick.
00:57:33Otherwise, I think my father would just refuse to meet him.
00:57:38But blessing for my dad, it means a lot for me.
00:57:42So what's going to happen to us if your dad doesn't accept me?
00:57:49My dad would say, oh, you have to choose then
00:57:54between you and my dad.
00:57:57And if you don't have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:58:03It's really important to my family.
00:58:08I'm being put in such a disadvantage.
00:58:12She hasn't given her family any information about me.
00:58:16They don't know my age.
00:58:18They don't know that I've been married, have kids,
00:58:21nothing at all.
00:58:22I'm just getting thrown into the lion's den.
00:58:26They really want Trish to have a baby.
00:58:29And that's the part that I'm most worried about.
00:58:33Because at this point, I don't know if I'm ready to make that decision.
00:58:41I just want to go in there and be as open and honest as I can.
00:58:49And show them that I'm a good person, that I'm a loving father,
00:58:54and that I'm here for their daughter, and I'm going to treat her well,
00:59:00and do the best that I can to make you happy.
00:59:06I mean, hopefully that's enough for him to accept me.
00:59:12I know that this trip is very important.
00:59:16I know that I need to meet her family, get to know them,
00:59:19and get to know more about Trish through her family.
00:59:23But I feel even worse about not telling Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:59:33I have to tell Trish before we meet her family,
00:59:36and I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:59:52I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
00:59:55Most Americans will find that very weird.
00:59:59This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:00:02It's not like an execution.
01:00:06There's Vianism.
01:00:08It's an aberration.
01:00:10And it is not in our blood.
01:00:12Uncle.
01:00:13She told me it was one time chain.
01:00:17Do you lie?
01:00:20Is she saying the truth?
01:00:32It's a nice night.
01:00:34Yeah.
01:00:40Do you hear those waves?
01:00:42Yeah, I do.
01:00:43It seemed like they're louder at night.
01:00:45Oh!
01:00:46My shoes.
01:00:49Did they break?
01:00:50They break.
01:00:51Oh, .
01:00:59Well, you can be my Trish Charming and carry me.
01:01:03In your dress?
01:01:05Like, oh, if you don't want to, that's fine.
01:01:07I mean, I want to, but it's like you're in a dress, though.
01:01:13Just so, you're the most unromantic guy I've ever met.
01:01:17OK.
01:01:18It's like you've never been with a woman before.
01:01:21Tonight is the last night of our honeymoon.
01:01:24And I'm glad that we were able to work through some trust issues.
01:01:28Because after this, we're going to Cavite, where Anna Lynn lives.
01:01:34And while I'm there, we're going to have our vow renewal with our family and friends.
01:01:38And hopefully, that'll be good.
01:01:40Well, I can still walk with one straw, but it's just...
01:01:43You sure?
01:01:44Yeah.
01:01:45Yeah.
01:01:45I'm not really unhappy that our honeymoon is ending, because I think the real test for
01:01:51us is day-to-day life.
01:01:54Are we able to live in the same space for long periods of time without trying to kill one
01:02:00another?
01:02:00Yeah.
01:02:01Yeah.
01:02:01We'll see.
01:02:03Hey.
01:02:04Say halo-halo.
01:02:06They have a halo-halo set up.
01:02:08OK.
01:02:10Welcome to the halo-halo bar.
01:02:11We have the sweet potato and gulaman.
01:02:15We have purple yam and some cheese and corn.
01:02:19OK.
01:02:21Halo-halo is a popular Filipino dessert.
01:02:25Halo-halo in English means mix-mix.
01:02:27So you have to mix all the ingredients together with the milk and ice.
01:02:35It doesn't count unless I put the cheese in it.
01:02:38No.
01:02:38Cheese and corn, OK?
01:02:40OK.
01:02:45This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:02:48It's not like an execution.
01:02:53I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
01:02:56But most Americans will find that very weird.
01:03:00I'm not forcing you to do something you don't like.
01:03:03However, I wish you will be more open-minded that when I suggest something, you will try
01:03:08it at least once.
01:03:10Just once.
01:03:12I mean, I try almost anything just once.
01:03:15But cheese and corn and ice cream and jelly?
01:03:18Really?
01:03:20Yeah.
01:03:21But I'm willing to accept the challenge.
01:03:23Mm-hmm.
01:03:24Yeah.
01:03:24Mm-hmm.
01:03:25Mm-hmm.
01:03:26So cold.
01:03:28Is it?
01:03:28Mm-hmm.
01:03:29But you enjoying it, though.
01:03:31Enjoy it.
01:03:32Mm-hmm.
01:03:36So we just mix it, right?
01:03:38Mm-hmm.
01:03:39All right.
01:03:41Mm.
01:03:41Mm-hmm.
01:03:43Mm-hmm.
01:03:43Oh, my God.
01:03:44Do you realize this is our first Halo Halo together?
01:03:48Yes.
01:03:49Really nice.
01:03:54I mean, Anna, there's a lot going on in here.
01:03:57Mm-hmm.
01:03:59But it is good, though.
01:04:01Excuse me, ma'am.
01:04:02I'm sorry.
01:04:02Do you need anything else?
01:04:04Hi.
01:04:05Can we just take a photo of us?
01:04:06Sure, ma'am.
01:04:08Okay.
01:04:08We're on a honeymoon.
01:04:10It's okay.
01:04:10Is that okay?
01:04:11Yes, ma'am.
01:04:13And one, two, three.
01:04:17There you go, ma'am.
01:04:20I hope you enjoy your Halo Halo, ma'am, sir.
01:04:22Look at that.
01:04:23Yeah.
01:04:24Aw, yeah.
01:04:25That's a good photo.
01:04:28I don't think so, but okay.
01:04:32What's wrong?
01:04:34You know, the face that you're giving me.
01:04:38You look miserable.
01:04:42You know I don't mean to, though.
01:04:44But I don't believe.
01:04:45You don't believe?
01:04:46This is your thing.
01:04:48Whining and being unromantic.
01:04:51Uh-huh.
01:04:52I mean, how am I unromantic, though?
01:04:56Like, the faces that I make?
01:04:58Yeah, and then, you know, how you say things.
01:05:04Okay.
01:05:05For example, on our second anniversary, I said, hey, boo, you know what it is?
01:05:12You're like, oh, yeah.
01:05:15And then you just move on.
01:05:17Oh.
01:05:18Like, wow.
01:05:19You forgot.
01:05:22I mean, I work 15 hours a day, so it's kind of a luxury that you can, you know, keep
01:05:29up with days like that because you're just sitting at home.
01:05:32I don't have that luxury, and I'm just so drained all the time.
01:05:39Some other people are working, too.
01:05:42But they don't do that.
01:05:43They still have time to be sweet to their wives.
01:05:47Well, I'm sorry.
01:05:50Maybe I'm just not a good husband.
01:06:01It's frustrating because, for me, this is love.
01:06:04I'm showing up.
01:06:05I'm providing.
01:06:06I mean, I thought that meant something.
01:06:09But Anna, seeing it through the female lens, she has this perception built up in her head that I have
01:06:16to be just over-the-top romance for her living in a fantasy.
01:06:20I don't know.
01:06:21My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation.
01:06:26I always make sure that my partner knows that I find him attractive.
01:06:31But just because you are supposed to provide and protect doesn't mean you always have to have this machismo energy.
01:06:40Like, you can't show vulnerability.
01:06:41You're still a human being.
01:06:44I am afraid that Jubon is never going to understand me and my needs.
01:06:49He hears me, but he doesn't really listen.
01:06:54I just want you to have just more understanding, because what I do is not easy.
01:07:00I mean, is that not romantic?
01:07:02Like, making sure your lights is on because, you know, you're at home and then I'm working.
01:07:08I'm getting tired of this.
01:07:09Yeah.
01:07:12Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
01:07:16Because you have to remind me that you're the man.
01:07:19That's what man does.
01:07:21I'm not trying to, Anna.
01:07:23I'm just trying to get you to understand, like, what I do is just not easy.
01:07:27And I can't remember everything.
01:07:29You know?
01:07:36Anna, why are you so emotional?
01:07:39Something you will never understand, because you don't have that.
01:07:46Well, I mean, I'm sorry, Anna.
01:07:49It seems like I can't do anything right around you, so...
01:07:53From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
01:08:02I will never miss any of my children.
01:08:06Why did you say that, Sheena?
01:08:08Sorry.
01:08:11You're lying.
01:08:12Your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just, like, throwing it in the trash can.
01:08:30She told us
01:08:32if she didn't give
01:08:34the money to you guys
01:08:36that you would mistreat her
01:08:41No, did you say that?
01:08:48She said that you guys
01:08:50mistreated her
01:08:51if you didn't give her the money
01:08:53I don't know how to mistreat her
01:08:55That you called her names
01:08:59and you threatened to throw her out
01:09:01and make her homeless
01:09:04What?
01:09:05No
01:09:08You sure?
01:09:09You didn't say anything
01:09:10that would have been
01:09:12I will never mistreat any of my children
01:09:15Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:09:19Sorry
01:09:24Why do you feel like
01:09:26you have to lie all the time?
01:09:33I want to admit that I lied
01:09:39Just to cover things up
01:09:41so I don't want to lose more
01:09:42because it is hard for me to save money
01:09:48I try to help you guys
01:09:49because you need all the help
01:09:51but every time that I want to save
01:09:53it's not even enough for me to get the visa
01:09:55I cannot save it
01:09:57Yours is so hard for me
01:10:02It is absolutely insane
01:10:04that Sheena would lie about her family
01:10:06in the first place
01:10:07It makes no sense
01:10:09And the hysterical theatrics
01:10:11aren't helping at all
01:10:13to clear any of this up
01:10:17I'm just disappointed
01:10:18that we got told
01:10:19that we were kind of abusing you
01:10:21I'm sorry, Bill
01:10:23I do
01:10:25And I do
01:10:26I do apologize
01:10:34I just don't understand
01:10:37why she would tell us stories
01:10:41that she's given every penny to you guys
01:11:09Sheena, I'm really kind of surprised
01:11:13Here I thought they were mistreating you
01:11:16and taking all your money
01:11:17and finding out that they were just borrowing it
01:11:19is a way different story
01:11:21than everything you told me
01:11:24No, I'm sorry
01:11:28My family need all my help
01:11:30Thinking being breadwinner is hard for me
01:11:35And I don't want to lose you
01:11:37Because of course you told me
01:11:40that they have to save money
01:11:41that you shouldn't give money to your family
01:11:44But now I'm feeling even worse
01:11:48because your lies are just
01:11:50taking our perfect, happy relationship
01:11:53and just like throwing it in the trash can
01:11:55I haven't told you the right things
01:11:57because I'm worried that
01:11:59you might give up on me
01:12:08Sheena, breathe
01:12:09I know that you've been trying hard
01:12:12I don't approve of the stories
01:12:15and keeping everything hidden from everybody
01:12:16Yes
01:12:17That's not something that was cool
01:12:19But for years
01:12:20you've been fighting for yourself
01:12:21and sort of
01:12:25unfortunately got all mixed up
01:12:26We knew that she was trying to save up for a visa
01:12:30but we didn't know how would she even acquire that
01:12:33She doesn't tell us
01:12:35what's the process
01:12:36We're not gonna guess it
01:12:39She wasn't really telling us the real truth
01:12:41you know
01:12:43what's really happening
01:12:46Sheen
01:12:49You need to make sure
01:12:51to say
01:12:52I'm never gonna lie to anybody again
01:12:54and I will be open with everybody
01:12:57To everyone
01:12:59I promise
01:13:02I would never lie again
01:13:03for whatever I said to you guys
01:13:07I regret for doing everything
01:13:09I'll do my best
01:13:10to be much more open up to you guys
01:13:14It hurts to find out that
01:13:16for the last seven years
01:13:17Sheena had
01:13:18you know
01:13:19lied about everything
01:13:21with her family
01:13:21and the money situation
01:13:23I thought she had more
01:13:24more faith in me
01:13:26but I'm glad that everything
01:13:27is out of the open now
01:13:29and
01:13:30I hope that
01:13:31we can finally work towards our future
01:13:36I think
01:13:36I'm gonna jump in here
01:13:39Pops
01:13:40Let me understand here
01:13:41So you mentioned
01:13:42that
01:13:43you're borrowing the money
01:13:44right?
01:13:46Yes
01:13:46So
01:13:47How long would it
01:13:49take
01:13:50to provide
01:13:51you know
01:13:51if she asked
01:13:52for her money back?
01:13:55You haven't given us
01:13:57asked us for a certain amount
01:13:59So we don't
01:14:00we don't know
01:14:02I'd say about
01:14:02maybe $4,000
01:14:09We'll have to check
01:14:11our finances
01:14:12I was surprised
01:14:17because if they plan
01:14:19to get married
01:14:19it's a guy
01:14:21who should
01:14:21provide
01:14:22for her
01:14:23We didn't expect
01:14:25she'll be asking us
01:14:26for that amount
01:14:27Yeah
01:14:28I was surprised
01:14:29when she said
01:14:31that she said
01:14:31that she mentioned
01:14:32that
01:14:32But
01:14:35it's painful for us
01:14:38First impressions
01:14:40Molly and the
01:14:41stepfather
01:14:42first impression
01:14:44of us
01:14:46is
01:14:49if she came
01:14:51and said
01:14:51hey
01:14:51I can't keep
01:14:52you know
01:14:53giving you guys
01:14:54loan
01:14:54would you guys
01:14:56not be taking
01:14:57the loan?
01:15:04I think
01:15:05if it's
01:15:08feasible
01:15:09that
01:15:10for us
01:15:11not getting
01:15:12any help
01:15:14we would do
01:15:15that
01:15:15you know
01:15:18But
01:15:18I just wish
01:15:20that she
01:15:20talked to us
01:15:21and explained
01:15:21it to us
01:15:22more
01:15:25See
01:15:25after all
01:15:26these years
01:15:27Shane
01:15:27we could have
01:15:28just came
01:15:28and did this
01:15:29instead of
01:15:29going and
01:15:30you know
01:15:30making stories
01:15:31putting things
01:15:32frowned about
01:15:33I lie
01:15:34because I
01:15:35fear of
01:15:36losing him
01:15:37Shane
01:15:38you're
01:15:39going to
01:15:39lose me
01:15:40if you
01:15:40don't
01:15:40stop lying
01:15:41you gotta
01:15:42be honest
01:15:42with us
01:15:43Yes
01:15:46I'm very
01:15:47very sorry
01:15:48and I'm
01:15:49trying to
01:15:49strive my
01:15:50best to
01:15:50work hard
01:15:51for me to
01:15:52save
01:15:52that's all
01:15:52I wish
01:15:57I'm relieved
01:15:57that the
01:15:58truth is out
01:15:59but
01:16:00I'm afraid
01:16:01that Forrest
01:16:01is taking
01:16:02everything he
01:16:02heard tonight
01:16:03at face value
01:16:04now
01:16:05it's just
01:16:06to the point
01:16:06where I gotta
01:16:07just say
01:16:08you need
01:16:09to think
01:16:09about
01:16:10what's
01:16:11happening
01:16:11in this
01:16:12relationship
01:16:12that all
01:16:13she's doing
01:16:13is lying
01:16:15maybe someday
01:16:15she'll come
01:16:16down the road
01:16:17and tell us
01:16:17some other
01:16:18secret that
01:16:18we don't know
01:16:19that will tear
01:16:20the relationship
01:16:20apart
01:16:21I don't trust
01:16:22her as far
01:16:23as I could
01:16:23throw her
01:16:24but
01:16:25time will
01:16:25tell
01:16:35you
01:16:36if she wants
01:16:39to live
01:16:39with my
01:16:40nephew
01:16:40she must
01:16:41abide
01:16:41by
01:16:42our
01:16:42culture
01:16:43there are
01:16:44things
01:16:45we don't
01:16:45practice
01:16:46in our
01:16:46place
01:16:47please
01:16:48tell me
01:16:49the truth
01:16:50I am so
01:16:52guilt ridded
01:16:52I just want
01:16:53to be open
01:16:54and honest
01:16:54and see
01:16:55if he'll
01:16:55take me
01:16:55for who
01:16:56I am
01:16:56are you
01:16:57okay
01:17:27do you
01:17:27practice
01:17:27it's rampant
01:17:28in America
01:17:29here
01:17:31we don't
01:17:31do it
01:17:31at all
01:17:33if
01:17:34she wants
01:17:34to live
01:17:35with my
01:17:35nephew
01:17:36she must
01:17:37abide
01:17:38by our
01:17:39culture
01:17:39and
01:17:40tradition
01:17:42please
01:17:42my young
01:17:43lady
01:17:44don't be
01:17:45offended
01:17:46dead
01:17:47I am not
01:17:48insulting
01:17:48you
01:17:49but
01:17:50lesbianism
01:17:51it's an
01:17:52aberration
01:17:53and it
01:17:54is not
01:17:54in our
01:17:55blood
01:17:56there are
01:17:57things
01:17:58we don't
01:17:59practice
01:17:59in our
01:18:01place
01:18:03please
01:18:03tell me
01:18:04the truth
01:18:07what the
01:18:08is happening
01:18:10I am
01:18:13shocked
01:18:14by the
01:18:14question
01:18:15I don't
01:18:16know what
01:18:16to say
01:18:17about it
01:18:18my
01:18:19sexuality
01:18:19being called
01:18:20an aberration
01:18:21hurts me
01:18:22a lot
01:18:24I am
01:18:24who I am
01:18:26and I'm
01:18:26not ashamed
01:18:27of it
01:18:27at all
01:18:28and I just
01:18:29want to be
01:18:29honest
01:18:29and tell
01:18:30the truth
01:18:30but I'm
01:18:31struggling
01:18:31inside
01:18:32with what's
01:18:33right
01:18:33and what's
01:18:34not right
01:18:34and what
01:18:34I want
01:18:35to do
01:18:35and what
01:18:35I don't
01:18:35want to
01:18:36do
01:18:36it's
01:18:36an inner
01:18:37battle
01:18:41I have
01:18:42been with
01:18:42a woman
01:18:43before
01:18:43yes
01:18:43sir
01:18:54you don't
01:18:55practice it
01:18:55anymore
01:18:57no sir
01:19:01it was a
01:19:01fling
01:19:02it was
01:19:02one time
01:19:07do you
01:19:08lie
01:19:12I think
01:19:13everybody
01:19:13says a fib
01:19:14once in a while
01:19:15that doesn't
01:19:15make it right
01:19:18I have lied
01:19:19in the past
01:19:19but I am
01:19:20not a liar
01:19:27is she saying
01:19:28the truth
01:19:31tell me
01:19:32yes uncle
01:19:33she's telling
01:19:34the truth
01:19:38okay
01:19:38I am not
01:19:39a liar
01:19:39uncle
01:19:52why
01:19:53why would he
01:19:57ask me that
01:20:03I asked
01:20:04I asked
01:20:04told him
01:20:04everything
01:20:06that wasn't
01:20:06for you
01:20:07to tell
01:20:07anybody
01:20:07that was
01:20:08between us
01:20:08no no no
01:20:09no no
01:20:09I have to
01:20:10You're wrong.
01:20:11This is my uncle.
01:20:12I don't care if it's the pope of the Catholic Church.
01:20:14You don't tell anybody.
01:20:15Are you trying to insult him?
01:20:16I'm not insulting anybody.
01:20:17I'm telling you, you don't tell people certain things.
01:20:19My uncle is like father to me.
01:20:21So I have to discuss everything with him.
01:20:23You don't even tell me what you've
01:20:24already spoken to your uncle about.
01:20:26I ask you what kind of questions he's going to ask me,
01:20:29and you're like, I don't know.
01:20:30I don't know.
01:20:31I don't know if I can tell you.
01:20:32You don't want me to know, but you want him to know everything.
01:20:36Oh, my God.
01:20:37Yes.
01:20:37Oh, my God.
01:20:40Are you OK?
01:20:43Yes, uncle.
01:21:27I've been hearing from you.
01:21:38I've been hearing from you.
01:21:45And I will give you guys my blessing.
01:21:51Thank you, son.
01:21:54Thank you, uncle.
01:22:09I am thrilled.
01:22:11I have the blessing.
01:22:14I feel guilty as all hell.
01:22:16Because he kept bringing up the fact, are you a liar?
01:22:20We do not lie.
01:22:22We do not.
01:22:23And that's making me feel guilty because I am lying.
01:22:37Amen.
01:22:38Amen.
01:22:38So I be with you.
01:22:42I want Daniel, but I have the secret that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
01:22:48I have the secret that I'm married still to a woman.
01:22:52But it's 21 years.
01:22:54It's not a mistake.
01:22:55It's who I am.
01:22:56And I'm so scared.
01:22:57He's not going to understand that.
01:22:59Stop crying.
01:23:01Daniel is yours.
01:23:02You are his goal.
01:23:06I am so guilt ridded because I love this man.
01:23:10And I just want to be open and honest and get this over with and see if he'll take me
01:23:14for
01:23:14who I am.
01:23:15But it's getting harder and harder as the time goes on.
01:23:19I don't know how I'm going to tell him.
01:23:32Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:35I get to be the princess now in the castle.
01:23:38Now I'll always be a princess.
01:23:39We're on this surprise romantic getaway, but I'm honestly having mixed feelings about it.
01:23:45I'm worried he's hiding more secrets.
01:23:48Can you tell me where your debt came from?
01:23:51Do you want the truth?
01:23:52Yeah.
01:23:54When the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
01:23:57I find another way to pay that debt.
01:24:03Do you realize everything you said about me since I got here has been negative?
01:24:07It makes me feel like we're never going to get married.
01:24:10We're never going to get engaged.
01:24:11This whole trip was a waste of my time.
01:24:15I'm just at my breaking point.
01:24:17I deserve some answers.
01:24:19Am I the girl that you want to be with?
01:24:23It's glued on to the point where my wig is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.
01:24:28I have to take it off.
01:24:30Oh my God.
01:24:32I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
01:24:37I have no idea what he's going to think.
01:24:39But if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
01:24:43Hey.
01:24:45Oh my God.
01:24:48Oh my God.
01:24:51All I hear is like you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
01:24:57I mean, you tell me I'm a downer.
01:25:00You tell me I'm not romantic.
01:25:02Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines and I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
01:25:09I mean, Anna, do you regret like marrying me?
01:25:16Baby, there's something I've been keeping from you.
01:25:20Explain yourself.
01:25:22In those five days when you weren't talking to me, I decided to book a trip to Columbia to be
01:25:30with my ex.
01:25:32Shut up.
01:25:33It was a mistake.
01:25:34Shut up.
01:25:37Ah, Jesus.
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