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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breathe, yo, what's up, would?
00:00:12She really like my girl, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:30Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sick.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged,
00:00:54and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything,
00:00:58and he doesn't want me,
00:00:59and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me.
00:01:05He's trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position to be sport hunter like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval
00:01:33to marry her,
00:01:34so now I have to go and get their approval
00:01:37while I have to tell them
00:01:38that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:43First, it's your career.
00:01:47I'm going to have to tell my parents
00:01:49the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard,
00:01:56so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation and my debts,
00:02:07I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:22I'm worried if she finds out
00:02:24how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:02:54That's so beautiful.
00:03:06You have
00:03:07the
00:03:10nicest ass
00:03:11I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blushing.
00:03:19And you know,
00:03:20I always thought your dimples
00:03:21were my favorite thing,
00:03:22but you know what my favorite thing is now?
00:03:26You're not going to...
00:03:27Your belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an Audi.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:37I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel,
00:03:42and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:52He's everything I could have dreamed about,
00:03:55except he doesn't have booze.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:02It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:10Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:16Last night was uncomfortable,
00:04:20and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full-on.
00:04:31And I had so much anticipation.
00:04:33I was very.
00:04:35So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex,
00:04:39it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know,
00:04:48not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night because of all, you know?
00:04:58But it was really awkward for me
00:04:59because it's been so long
00:05:01since I've been intimate like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish.
00:05:07And then it went.
00:05:11I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:13I'm in favor.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed,
00:05:19he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night,
00:05:27preparing, getting ready to go and wake up with you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:34We have a test.
00:05:36It was a test run.
00:05:38Tested it.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:43But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:04At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:08And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable.
00:06:12And I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so happy.
00:06:26I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:30I love you more.
00:06:32And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him,
00:06:42I'm even more concerned how he's going to handle what I have to tell him
00:06:45about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle
00:07:00if he can't accept my past.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that.
00:07:07We're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:09Hmm.
00:07:37Let's go ride on a trike.
00:07:40Oh, my goodness.
00:07:41Oh, my God.
00:07:42Oh, Lord, give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bus.
00:07:49Sheen and I getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like being inside of a can.
00:07:56I would never do this with anybody else but you, Sheen.
00:08:01That's pretty great.
00:08:02I get to, you know, get up nice and close.
00:08:04But she's also crushing me to death.
00:08:06I love those.
00:08:07Woo-hoo!
00:08:08Oh, yeah!
00:08:11I wish they'd give us a nice, you know, extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:23I'm afraid I'm going to fall off and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:27Today, I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time in a province called Kavide.
00:08:33So we're almost there, though.
00:08:34We'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous, baby.
00:08:38Oh, man.
00:08:40Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago, her family has been, like, these ominous figures.
00:08:46She's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially.
00:08:56I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that Sheena is going to
00:09:02completely cut them off financially.
00:09:03But now it's turned into something completely and totally different than what I envisioned.
00:09:10You didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain, treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14No.
00:09:15Oh, man.
00:09:17First, she told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26But the truth is, I don't have a job.
00:09:28I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:30I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:34Baby, we can do this.
00:09:36Just be careful, babe.
00:09:38So at this point, I'm concerned that I won't be able to get the blessing for Sheena's family that I
00:09:43apparently need.
00:09:47Oh, my gosh.
00:09:48Is that them?
00:09:49Yes, my love.
00:09:51Oh, my goodness.
00:10:00You must be Forrest.
00:10:01Forrest?
00:10:02Yeah.
00:10:02Oh, my God, my God.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:08Hello, sir.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you after so long.
00:10:12Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:13Hello.
00:10:14Hello.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:17This is my dad.
00:10:17He said it's Katrina, so.
00:10:21Yep.
00:10:22She's just a little bit shy.
00:10:23This is my dad's version, though.
00:10:26It's okay.
00:10:27I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:29Yes, of course.
00:10:30I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:32No, I'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:45Sheena told me that her mom is sick, so I won't be meeting her, but her dad and sister seem
00:10:49nice enough.
00:10:50A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal, but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:57You want to take a break from traveling?
00:11:00Yeah.
00:11:00To do that, can you show them?
00:11:02Yeah.
00:11:03Follow me.
00:11:03You want to check the gardens?
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:08So this is a place.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:15There's small improvements over the years.
00:11:18Wow.
00:11:20Yeah.
00:11:22Yeah, this is for the place where we have our group meals for guests.
00:11:27Boy.
00:11:28Okay, cool.
00:11:31Sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof.
00:11:39Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:41Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:42That's why they're stealing all this money from me.
00:11:44But it turns out that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:47Okay, welcome to our house.
00:11:50Oh, wow.
00:11:52I think you're going to be on the second master's bedroom.
00:11:55This place is huge.
00:11:57Wow.
00:12:00So Gary was under the impression that her family might be desolute or they are going to starve without her.
00:12:08It doesn't add up.
00:12:12Okay, come on, come on.
00:12:13Thank you very much.
00:12:15We're going to have dinner.
00:12:16Yeah, all right.
00:12:17And don't relax.
00:12:18Yeah, all right.
00:12:20Thank you, guys.
00:12:27My mind's just confused.
00:12:29I don't understand.
00:12:31So you like the place?
00:12:33Yeah.
00:12:33It was way worth the getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:37Yeah.
00:12:38Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yeah.
00:12:44They're great people.
00:12:46No one can.
00:12:48Well, I think I want to clean up my face real quick.
00:12:50Yeah, sure.
00:12:50Okay.
00:12:51I'll take a time.
00:12:51I'm going to head in the bathroom real quick.
00:12:52Yeah, go quick.
00:12:53Go real quick.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest was expecting something different from what he's seeing at your family's house?
00:13:02Mm-hmm, yes.
00:13:05Which is probably my fault.
00:13:07Test for the water if it's good.
00:13:09Wash your face around, wash your hands.
00:13:12Yeah.
00:13:36Do you think I'm going to marry you for your money?
00:13:42That's what everybody else thought.
00:13:45I thought he was that man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:13:52the beginning.
00:13:53And now I don't know.
00:13:54Well, the debt is a big deal.
00:13:58You excited about my show tonight?
00:14:01Yeah, I am.
00:14:02What songs are you singing at your show?
00:14:04Mariah, Don, Vicky.
00:14:09So who is, who is Vicky?
00:14:26Look at that.
00:14:28You can't tell me that's not beautiful.
00:14:30You have like the second most active by the reason I was.
00:14:32Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:14:33I'm so grateful that I live here.
00:14:34It's so pretty.
00:14:36Do you want to jump in?
00:14:37Okay.
00:14:38Come on.
00:14:38You know I can't, so don't play with me.
00:14:51You know what you need?
00:14:52Hmm.
00:14:53Right?
00:14:53Coconut water.
00:14:55We're good for your brains.
00:14:57We're good for your soul.
00:14:59That sounds good.
00:15:00Wash your hands.
00:15:01What energy?
00:15:04This is Aviva's second full day
00:15:06in Belize
00:15:07and we're here in beautiful San Pedro
00:15:09because I'm going to perform tonight.
00:15:12Yesterday, Aviva was accusing me
00:15:14of not being over my ex from Texas.
00:15:16But in the hotel last night,
00:15:19I do believe that I was able to calm her down.
00:15:22Amod.
00:15:23How are you going to be so fine and want to trip?
00:15:26Huh?
00:15:26Stop stressing.
00:15:28That's right.
00:15:36We had sex three times.
00:15:38No protection again.
00:15:40We're risking it all.
00:15:41We're just going with the flow.
00:15:44How is it?
00:15:46Good?
00:15:46Mm-hmm.
00:15:47Refreshing.
00:15:47This in the States?
00:15:48In Arizona?
00:15:49No, not like this.
00:15:56You excited about my show tonight?
00:15:59Yeah, I am.
00:16:01What songs are you singing at your show?
00:16:03Marry a dog.
00:16:13I am trying to have this romantic beach moment with Stig,
00:16:17but he mentions the song, Vicky.
00:16:20And I can't help but think of when my Aunt Spring
00:16:24brought up that rumor to me.
00:16:26They actually just did a big concert,
00:16:28like, for Valentine's Day.
00:16:30The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:16:33and she was at the concert,
00:16:36and they left together.
00:16:40So who is Vicky?
00:16:46The concept of Vicky is a girl I was messing with
00:16:51who had a man,
00:16:52and the man wasn't treating her good.
00:16:54She was married,
00:16:55and I was the little bartender showing her love.
00:16:58You know what I mean?
00:16:59On the side.
00:17:02So is it someone you still talk to?
00:17:05Is it someone that you have a past with?
00:17:08I had a past with you last year or so ago.
00:17:12So my Aunt Spring,
00:17:14she knows a lot of people here.
00:17:16I've heard a lot of rumors
00:17:17that Vicky went to your last show with you,
00:17:21and you left the show with her,
00:17:24and I'm confused,
00:17:26and I'm just hoping that you can
00:17:27clear some things up with me.
00:17:36Aviva's Aunt Spring.
00:17:37I never met her.
00:17:38I only heard about Aunt Spring,
00:17:40but apparently she knows me better than I know myself.
00:17:43She the Secret Service?
00:17:46I don't...
00:17:47nothing to hide.
00:17:48At the concert,
00:17:49I was there with the bros,
00:17:51trying to make a good set,
00:17:53you know,
00:17:54trying to make sure that she had members.
00:17:56But did you go home with her?
00:17:57No, I did not.
00:17:59I didn't go home with any girl.
00:18:02You don't believe me?
00:18:04Apparently there was some article,
00:18:06or you were tagged in something,
00:18:07or she was tagged in something,
00:18:10of you guys going home together,
00:18:11so I'm not really sure
00:18:12how I'm supposed to believe you.
00:18:14Belize isn't the fake news.
00:18:16Don't let get to your bed.
00:18:22I'm definitely going to do my best
00:18:24to not be in my head about it,
00:18:26but you're apparently going to sing it tonight.
00:18:29How do I know she's not going to be there?
00:18:31That's one of my biggest songs in Belize.
00:18:32I can't not sing that.
00:18:34Yeah.
00:18:35You don't want me to sing the song?
00:18:37My biggest song?
00:18:38One of my biggest songs?
00:18:39Yeah.
00:18:41Come on, don't do that.
00:18:46All of my exes,
00:18:47they start off saying,
00:18:48I'm not going to be jealous.
00:18:50I got you.
00:18:52But I thought Aviva was going to be different.
00:18:55And now I am worried
00:18:57how she's going to react
00:18:58when I perform, Vicky,
00:18:59when I do perform it.
00:19:02Tonight could
00:19:05the whole thing up.
00:19:06I don't want that.
00:19:08If tonight is a problem,
00:19:10that's going to throw me off.
00:19:11I don't know if I can deal with that.
00:19:14That's not what I signed up for.
00:19:18I mean, I'll do my best,
00:19:19but I just would feel more comfortable
00:19:21if you didn't perform, Vicky.
00:19:23That's all I can say.
00:19:36I had a lot of people
00:19:38before I came here
00:19:40say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you would want a green card and money.
00:19:48And hearing that
00:19:51kind of makes it seem like that's true.
00:20:02Do you think like
00:20:05I'm going to marry you
00:20:06for your money?
00:20:09That's what
00:20:10everybody else thought.
00:20:12Did you think that?
00:20:14Well, I don't know right now.
00:20:15I'm literally just hearing about
00:20:16most of this for the first time.
00:20:20Birkhan just told me
00:20:21that he's 50K in debt
00:20:23and that he'd flee the country
00:20:25and flee his debt
00:20:26and just ignore it.
00:20:27I'm frustrated
00:20:28and incredibly concerned
00:20:30because it's making me feel like
00:20:33he's just straight up using me
00:20:35to get out of his debt.
00:20:39You know, that's not who I am, actually.
00:20:44If I was someone like that,
00:20:47I would have lied.
00:20:49I would have never told you
00:20:50about my debt.
00:20:52You know?
00:20:56I know that.
00:20:57But I want to make sure
00:20:59that I'm making a smart decision
00:21:01when it comes to future plans,
00:21:03like getting engaged.
00:21:06I just got to hustle
00:21:08because money is money, you know?
00:21:13You know what?
00:21:14I'm ready to go.
00:21:15Okay, let's go.
00:21:16Let's go.
00:21:34What's going through your head right now?
00:21:38I'm pretty frustrated.
00:21:40He told me a lot of things at dinner
00:21:42that were concerning.
00:21:44The debt is a big deal to me
00:21:46because he's talked about nothing
00:21:48but like honesty and pride and respect
00:21:50and it's really hard to respect someone
00:21:52that's not outright
00:21:53and straightforward with the truth.
00:21:56I thought he was the man
00:21:58who's going to honor
00:22:00the provide and protect
00:22:02that he sold me on in the beginning
00:22:05and now I don't know.
00:22:10What are you doing?
00:22:13Washing the dishes.
00:22:19Why are you upset?
00:22:21I told you why.
00:22:22I'm frustrated that you let things go
00:22:24the way they did.
00:22:26Why are you mad?
00:22:28Don't be cute.
00:22:29That doesn't fix this.
00:22:31You think I'm cute?
00:22:33I'm not going to answer that right now.
00:22:35You've got to ask.
00:22:36No.
00:22:36You've got to ask.
00:22:37I do not have to answer.
00:22:39You think that you're going to stop.
00:22:53Why are you mad?
00:22:57I'm still feeling nervous
00:22:59about what his intentions are
00:23:00but this is probably
00:23:02all of the fantasies I had had
00:23:05kind of rolled into one
00:23:06in that moment.
00:23:08Having a hot Turkish guy
00:23:09push you up against the wall
00:23:10and make out with you
00:23:12I don't know what it is.
00:23:13I just can't resist him.
00:23:16You're adorable.
00:23:17I know.
00:23:18That's why you love me.
00:23:22You are here.
00:23:24Oh, that is hot out here.
00:23:27Look, look.
00:23:28Limo.
00:23:30Maybe you should buy me
00:23:31some stuff in here.
00:23:32Give me this bougie chick.
00:23:35There ain't nobody sugared at him.
00:23:37I don't know why he act this way.
00:23:40It's like he assumes the worst.
00:23:43I'm already doing things for you.
00:23:45So why are you asking for more?
00:23:47Is that what you want me for?
00:24:05Get out of here.
00:24:09David, they didn't give me
00:24:10any questions this morning.
00:24:12Give me a kiss.
00:24:16Watch out.
00:24:19Okay.
00:24:22You ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:24Okay, let's go.
00:24:32I'm so tired.
00:24:34Why?
00:24:36Because we were packing all night.
00:24:38That's why.
00:24:43Yesterday was tough,
00:24:45but after we had argument about my ex,
00:24:49we went back to the hotel
00:24:50and we did makeup, sex.
00:24:54It was really good.
00:24:57I love sex after argument.
00:25:00I love sex after argument.
00:25:00Oh, yeah.
00:25:04Woo-hoo!
00:25:06Excited.
00:25:07And it's in the plane.
00:25:09I know that we still have trust issue
00:25:12to work through,
00:25:13but today we are going to a romantic trip
00:25:17that Rick booked for us
00:25:19in Noosey Bay.
00:25:21First flight together, baby.
00:25:23Noosey Bay is
00:25:25a really beautiful island.
00:25:27They do have
00:25:28loomers
00:25:29and
00:25:30a beautiful beach.
00:25:33If you have someone
00:25:34to spend time together,
00:25:37romantic,
00:25:39go there.
00:25:45Look how beautiful
00:25:47I'm riding.
00:25:48Look how beautiful.
00:26:10You are here.
00:26:12Oh, man.
00:26:13It's hot out.
00:26:14Really hot.
00:26:15Woo!
00:26:18Woo!
00:26:20It's nice and cool.
00:26:22Woo!
00:26:23Really?
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God.
00:26:30Baby, are you serious?
00:26:33Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:37It's okay.
00:26:40It's delicious.
00:26:41Woo!
00:26:43Hey, look, look.
00:26:44Le Mans.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me
00:26:47some stuff in here.
00:26:52Pantsuits?
00:26:53Here we go.
00:26:54Look, look, look,
00:26:55look, look, see.
00:26:57I know you got
00:26:58expensive taste.
00:27:01You're so cheap.
00:27:04Tastes good.
00:27:06It's cheap.
00:27:07Huh?
00:27:08This bougie chick.
00:27:11Is she serious?
00:27:14Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:19There ain't nobody sugar daddy.
00:27:28Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:32I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are a boozy girl, Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.
00:27:40And I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he act this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:58I will never ask him for anything.
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:11Come.
00:28:11Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:17I don't care.
00:28:19Oh, you don't care?
00:28:20Of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:30So what are we here to do, huh?
00:28:34I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37Yeah, but your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:50You just say, oh, you act like a bougie.
00:28:52Oh, you act like I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:05I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08And I pay your rent.
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:11So why are you asking for more?
00:29:14Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:21It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need,
00:29:27but I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:39See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45So why did you come?
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:48Hmm.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:06Because I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love.
00:30:12But I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy.
00:30:19I don't even.
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31So what were you expecting?
00:30:33What were you expecting?
00:30:34Like a rich rake.
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:49I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:56What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:06I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25Sheena's family.
00:31:26They seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh, this is going to be mind shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for you, aren't you?
00:32:00OK.
00:32:05Oh.
00:32:07I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So, that is a taxi.
00:32:26Yeah, Moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:34Moilue.
00:32:34Moilue.
00:32:35Moilue.
00:32:35Moilue.
00:32:36Moilue.
00:32:36Moilue.
00:32:40Moilue.
00:32:40Moilue.
00:32:43Moilue.
00:32:45Moilue.
00:32:46Moilue.
00:32:47Moilue.
00:32:47Moilue.
00:32:47Moilue.
00:32:48Moilue.
00:32:49Moilue.
00:32:51Moilue.
00:32:52Moilue.
00:32:53Moilue.
00:32:53Moilue.
00:32:53Moilue.
00:32:54Moilue.
00:32:56Moilue.
00:32:59Moilue.
00:33:09been to it kind of reminds me of a flea market but a flea market with food and
00:33:15it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other you can buy anything and
00:33:20everything there are live poultry there is dried fish smoked fish hello there
00:33:28are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market it looks so beautiful
00:33:35oh i don't know if i'm buying i just want to look at them oh my goodness
00:33:45hello hi hi chick chick chick chick chick she handed me the chicken as if i was going to eat
00:33:51the chicken no no i'm not going to kill a chicken you don't kill a chicken i had chickens they
00:33:57were
00:33:57my pets my chickens were spoiled they had a little vcr and a tv to watch your chicken watch tv
00:34:04yes
00:34:05really oh my god
00:34:12thank you okay let's go
00:34:16i have to take you to the stars i love fabric
00:34:24hello good afternoon good afternoon they're beautiful thank you you're welcome i would like
00:34:29you to check the one that will fit you because you know my uncle came yesterday to welcome you
00:34:34my uncle he was there you saw him
00:34:37my uncle i saw you
00:34:43we have to pay him a visit
00:34:46why yeah because you know my uncle have to approve you know he doesn't know you that much
00:34:52so he'll ask you some questions
00:34:56i i'm confused what has he not given us approval for
00:35:00he was very happy at the engagement yes but he have not given us the blessing to marry
00:35:08the blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important
00:35:12in my culture you get blessing from your parents but my dad is not well
00:35:17my uncle i have to call my father and report back
00:35:20but i thought everything was said and done i thought we were ready to start planning a wedding
00:35:24i didn't realize there was going to be more to it
00:35:26that's just a proposal in america you have to get blessings before you give the ring
00:35:31um this is nigeria i know we have different cultures we have different way of life
00:35:36you didn't warn me about that
00:35:40he have to see you dress in um a traditional attire maybe um one of the rapper here
00:35:50you know my uncle lover he likes good things and this is colorful
00:35:57yes this is the head tie you have to tie this one on your head
00:36:02okay okay so it gets wrapped around
00:36:15yeah and then it gets tied
00:36:19yeah just giving you the the clue on how to tie it
00:36:24i can't hear you it's very loud
00:36:30oh my gosh how am i gonna do this
00:36:32i have no clue how this wrapping thing works
00:36:36i have to do this myself when i meet his uncle
00:36:38and there's no way i'm gonna remember how to do everything
00:36:42i don't want to look like a fool i don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle
00:36:56what should i expect like how how would this be wrapped
00:37:01we have to cut it
00:37:03okay yeah we have to give it to a teller
00:37:05oh yes i can cut but i don't know because we are a bit fat
00:37:12the wrapper if i cut it it may not go round
00:37:18because i'm too fat
00:37:19yeah it's time let me let me tell you i'm coming
00:37:21all right thank you i'm too fat
00:37:26baby you're not fat you're serious fat
00:37:28yeah yeah yeah
00:37:32i'm feeling awful and i'm kind of taken aback
00:37:35i have to meet his uncle and i have to wrap myself up in two layers of this
00:37:40wrap this big headdress and i'm gonna look fat
00:37:45okay measure up please
00:37:51i have to try to impress his uncle but what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing
00:37:57what kind of questions are going to be asked
00:38:01i'm worried that i may have to reveal things that i'm not ready to reveal
00:38:07this whole thing could be a disaster for me
00:38:10so i'm i'm scared
00:38:12thank you
00:38:14yeah welcome
00:38:18what is that
00:38:26i'm trying to be supportive but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage
00:38:32right in front of me
00:38:37what the is aviva doing
00:38:52see i'm outside in san pedro on the main street walking holding hands
00:38:57i have to let the whole world know about my baby
00:39:00you can't question my love for you or anything at this point
00:39:12how you feeling are we good
00:39:13i'm nervous
00:39:15don't be overthinking enjoy the show enjoy the entertainment
00:39:20okay i'm an entertainer all right
00:39:22all right
00:39:23we're good
00:39:23yes all right
00:39:27i'm a little frustrated with aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song but listen
00:39:31i'm still gonna go and peace stick the artist and hype this place up i don't want anything
00:39:37to throw me off my game
00:39:39ready
00:39:40semi-ready
00:39:41ready
00:39:42i have to say it like me no you can't say ready you can't say ready
00:39:44ready
00:39:50come on
00:39:56that's good
00:39:58trouble
00:40:16i'm super super excited to see sting performing for the first time
00:40:22but i feel super nervous
00:40:27i still have my suspicions to what stig's manager and aunt spring had to say about stig and other
00:40:34women i know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him at his shows i don't know
00:40:41what to expect
00:40:47anybody from belize
00:40:53this is what i'm gonna say i'm gonna marry your daughter
00:41:11can i have your blessings that would be amazing i know you think that i'm a bad guy and i'm
00:41:18gonna break her heart
00:41:22what is that
00:41:26yeah we're smoking we're smoking we're smoking we're smoking we're smoking we're
00:41:31i got some rum in my throat got some wounds in my droop in my
00:41:34yes and me
00:41:36yes and me
00:41:48i'm trying to enjoy myself and i'm trying to be supportive but he started playing vicky after i
00:41:54asked him not to
00:42:02not only that but he's dancing with some other random girl and flirting with her on stage right in front
00:42:10of me
00:42:15it's just really hard to watch and it's making me feel pretty insecure
00:42:39you know that you're pretty
00:42:44you're brown skin but you're here no pP
00:42:49What the is Aviva doing?
00:42:53I'm seeing a sea of people partying, having the time of their lives.
00:43:00And Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife, much less my girlfriend right now.
00:43:10Like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on the release, yeah.
00:43:21You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.
00:43:26They want to give you love to the call, baby, just you alone, yeah.
00:43:31Ooh, it feels so right.
00:43:34Do the things you're...
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:40Yo, six for us. Yeah, yeah.
00:43:43One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:46I forgot.
00:43:48All of me, because I forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:53I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:04Ah.
00:44:05Make it round.
00:44:06Make the fufu to be round.
00:44:08How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:15No.
00:44:16My uncle.
00:44:16No.
00:44:17Stop raising your voice on me.
00:44:19Oh, yes, huh.
00:44:20Call it again.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard, and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk? Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes. Are you walking, my man?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back. Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58You angry?
00:45:00I'm still frustrated and angry, because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove.
00:45:10Ah, ah, ah.
00:45:13No, no.
00:45:14You're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:26Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:29I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit, and I couldn't.
00:45:33And I, ah, I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:54And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing.
00:46:03And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:08So I'm stressing out, and I want my vape.
00:46:16He surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:24I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25So I'm from Igbo land, so we have to learn.
00:46:29Igbo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32And if Lisa wants to marry me, she have to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:41Yeah, I look good.
00:46:42I look good.
00:46:43Come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture, to impress my uncle.
00:46:53That may be the one.
00:46:54There's a traditional way of blessing by wife, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58You have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:03The ground must test it first.
00:47:06Then pick it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09Woman's blessing by wife is a taboo.
00:47:12It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:16Yes, you can test it, but it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:35Did you pound it?
00:47:35Oh, okay.
00:47:36Pounded one, okay.
00:47:37Mm-hmm.
00:47:39Oh.
00:47:41You eat.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:43You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:50It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Try it.
00:48:02Try it.
00:48:03Try it.
00:48:03Uh-huh.
00:48:06It's...
00:48:06Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19B boil it again.
00:48:23All right.
00:48:24Dip your hand.
00:48:26Ah.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:36Ah.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:42This is oha soup.
00:48:44I could just eat that.
00:48:45I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat soup.
00:48:48I'm not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50Use your hand.
00:48:51Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me.
00:49:03But I didn't think he'd be so forceful about it.
00:49:07I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:15It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:18It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers, and lick them dry.
00:49:25That's no.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:31Um, have you taken your pawine?
00:49:33No.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:36Can you taste it?
00:49:40Test.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:42Test.
00:49:43Test.
00:49:46You have to respect this to me.
00:49:49I did.
00:49:49I tasted it.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialect?
00:49:58No.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:03My uncle.
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08No.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:12No.
00:50:13No.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice at me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:30What is that?
00:50:32I thought you were drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:35Just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:50:39You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:41Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:46I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking normal?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:04You're walking normal.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09Come back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:11Oh.
00:51:12Oh.
00:51:22For the last 70 years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:26But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31I don't recall that.
00:51:32What's your job?
00:51:35The importance you have pants, you know, to help her.
00:51:41Well, for us.
00:52:04Are you ready to go?
00:52:06Yeah.
00:52:07It's already late.
00:52:08I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:52:20I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:22We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:27We got in this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:52:36to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually, we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:49Oh, my God.
00:52:52But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today, we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:18This place looks like paradise.
00:53:21I see crystal blue waters.
00:53:23A sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:29It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time.
00:53:34And we sat, you know, take some strolls along the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:45Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52Oh, I know.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56I wouldn't have learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Like this.
00:54:02Oh, man.
00:54:03That's cool.
00:54:03Then we can walk.
00:54:03Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:10You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:14All right.
00:54:14Here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife.
00:54:22And I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She just has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:35Let me see.
00:54:38But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:51Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53This is beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:03I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:12I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, then that, you know, kind of triggered some
00:55:35of the things that I've gone through in the past.
00:55:38What's your name?
00:55:40Just past relationships.
00:55:43And I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want to be with
00:55:50me anymore, but I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Cheney, for seven years.
00:56:09Cheney is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think Cheney had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide.
00:56:20And it caused a lot of issues between us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You run with that money.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:56:38But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs, that's it.
00:56:44That's what I'm asking.
00:56:47You know, when you bring me to your country, I have to let everything in here.
00:56:54My life, my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58So I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:04Yes, but that's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:57:07A promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15But everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you give me a picture, I love that.
00:57:38Do you think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:41Yeah, yes you are.
00:57:42You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you.
00:57:49That's why I want our relationship worth.
00:57:53This is what I want, too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get you the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:13That's what I need to feel.
00:58:15Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:40But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually, it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:55Of course, baby.
00:59:12The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Ah, just in time.
00:59:18Just in time for dinner.
00:59:19Just in time.
00:59:19Perfect.
00:59:20Yeah, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22I hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:25Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:33Oh.
00:59:35Dinner is served.
00:59:45See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52We do it first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I am the biggest.
00:59:57We go by size here.
00:59:58Yeah, we go.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family.
01:00:03And so far, they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:07For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her awfully.
01:00:13And now, I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:18I feel confused.
01:00:21But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then go from there.
01:00:31So, how's your travel here from America?
01:00:34It was long and it was hard.
01:00:37But I got to see my Sheena for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42Finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious, though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you go here?
01:00:49Oh.
01:00:51I was expecting, um...
01:01:01It's kind of hard to say, you know, my mom's under the impression that, um, I might be walking into
01:01:11a scam.
01:01:17Every, I know, there's, in every place, there are scammers, no, no, no, not...
01:01:22A lot of scammers.
01:01:23She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:27That's the rest thing.
01:01:29That's it.
01:01:32How'd you guys feel when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:40Yeah, I thought, finally, because it's so long, um, we're not really, we're not really sure if we're gonna meet
01:01:49you in person.
01:01:50Yeah.
01:01:51I have to say, a lot of it had to do with, uh, finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:01Just eat, babe.
01:02:03Enjoy your meal.
01:02:03Mm-hmm.
01:02:07Um...
01:02:07But, uh, question is, uh, I, I, I don't recall it.
01:02:11What's your job?
01:02:15Yeah.
01:02:18So, this is kind of going to be mind-shattering here.
01:02:23I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I, I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for, for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with, with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that, that's enough for you for your daily life?
01:02:51It cover, it covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But, uh, I, I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:02But, I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:09And, uh, I was hoping, you know, I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, without any funding, how, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:36The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:40Proper job.
01:03:40I have, I have the energy.
01:03:42I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:46I'm going to be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be support for her.
01:03:53I prefer that, uh, Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable because it's the guy's, uh, obligation to support a
01:04:03wife.
01:04:05And, Sheena also is, ano, she's very helpful, ano.
01:04:11There, ano, so talagang hindi mawawala sa akin yan.
01:04:21Okay, you have my blessing.
01:04:26But, you, you're going to help her.
01:04:30She's been helping us also.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been, uh, doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes, if we lack funds for her, you know, she would help us, you know, pay, like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yeah.
01:04:49Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad, yeah, they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:04It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing, but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with
01:05:13me.
01:05:14What I've seen, it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family, the way they live, the whole money situation, the stories are not adding up.
01:05:28And I'm really worried that tomorrow, my mother is going to come in and going to think everything has been
01:05:37a lie this entire time.
01:05:39She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:58So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:06:03Yes, you heard me right.
01:06:06This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a...
01:06:10About him?
01:06:11No.
01:06:32Yeah, I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:42I knew I killed it, but I forgot my lyrics.
01:06:45Middle show.
01:06:47my mind.
01:06:48Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself.
01:06:51It's okay.
01:06:54I'm so tired.
01:06:56It's been such a long night.
01:06:57Yeah.
01:06:59We're just getting back to the hotel from Stig's performance, and I felt a little uncomfortable, but I think I
01:07:08did well.
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together and just push my feelings to the side.
01:07:16My feet are killing me.
01:07:18You want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:21Maybe.
01:07:24Maybe.
01:07:25Mm-hmm.
01:07:28I had a good time.
01:07:30I thought you did really well.
01:07:35So, did I handle it okay?
01:07:39Like...
01:07:41I guess.
01:07:43You guys?
01:07:44Yeah.
01:07:45What'd I do?
01:07:48How does this girl think that she handled this well?
01:07:52Like, how?
01:07:54You're mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:08:01She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.
01:08:05I'm boiling inside.
01:08:08And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:08:14Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:08:16When you were on your phone.
01:08:19Texting.
01:08:21Mm.
01:08:23Mm.
01:08:27No.
01:08:28It wasn't like that.
01:08:30Like...
01:08:31It actually hurt my feelings.
01:08:32Being on my phone?
01:08:33Yes, not the right time for that.
01:08:36You weren't even watching.
01:08:37You were...
01:08:37Yes, I brought...
01:08:39I'm literally performing.
01:08:41Singing to you.
01:08:45I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:08:48It wasn't intentional.
01:08:51But...
01:08:51He was dancing with another woman in front of me.
01:08:54And he played Vicky, even though I asked him not to.
01:08:57So...
01:08:58It's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song.
01:09:01It wasn't even a big event.
01:09:03I just feel like it's not fair.
01:09:13I don't have anybody out here.
01:09:15Like, you have to understand that there is all these girls on stage with you.
01:09:18So I'm going to talk to my people.
01:09:20I'm going to text my friends.
01:09:22I can do that.
01:09:23Well, I can do what you want.
01:09:26To me, that's...
01:09:30You're supposed to be on my team.
01:09:32A part of my team.
01:09:33That dude did not hype me up.
01:09:36Kind of killed my vibe, actually.
01:09:38That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.
01:09:40I was just distracted.
01:09:43You keep talking about these other girls.
01:09:44These other girls having fun, hyping me up.
01:09:47And my girl is there just on her phone.
01:09:52It's my first time in a situation like this.
01:09:54There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:09:56I just...
01:09:57I felt awkward.
01:09:58I didn't feel confident.
01:09:59And I just wanted...
01:10:01You really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:10:07Anyways, I'm disappointed.
01:10:08Maybe I need to cut her clothes or her boat down.
01:10:13I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but okay.
01:10:19BRB.
01:10:20BRB.
01:10:22BRB.
01:10:23BRB.
01:10:26I'm kind of at a loss because I am trying my best to not get super jealous, not overreact.
01:10:35But apparently, I didn't do a very good job.
01:10:42I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy, he might just break up with me.
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off, but part of me is terrified that I already have.
01:10:59BRB.
01:11:00BRB.
01:11:07We are in the middle of nowhere.
01:11:09There is a dog.
01:11:12I don't like dogs.
01:11:14Why?
01:11:15Because you got bit...
01:11:16I think they beat me or bark me.
01:11:19Bark at you.
01:11:21Bark at me.
01:11:22Okay.
01:11:23No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is perfect.
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Shush.
01:11:27Reboot, reboot.
01:11:38Last night, I found out that Birkan has an immense amount of debt.
01:11:45And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:11:50But I have put a lot into this relationship, so maybe I just need to give it a little bit
01:11:56more time to see how red the red flags actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:11There's lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yeah.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:16But today, my plan is taking Laura to the Nazar Koe.
01:12:21I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:12:25And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:32Sizi isterseniz böyle alabı.
01:12:34Okay.
01:12:34You there?
01:12:36Hampan dedi böyle alabı.
01:12:37Yeah.
01:12:39Evil eye beads, when you hear it, it's like something bad.
01:12:43But it is not.
01:12:44But it is for good luck.
01:12:45Can işçiliği gibi.
01:12:47Yeah.
01:12:47Tabii, tabii.
01:12:47Bu antik dönemde, yani 3 bin yıllık bir geçmişi var bunun.
01:12:51Çevir.
01:12:52Çevir.
01:12:53Ah, evet, evet.
01:12:54When people see you, if they get jealous about you, thoughts about you, the evil eye
01:13:00consumes bad thoughts and protects you.
01:13:09Oh, you did it.
01:13:11I got one.
01:13:12Aynen öyle bir şey.
01:13:14Ben çıkartayım bunu.
01:13:15Yes.
01:13:16Olsun.
01:13:17In Turkey, everybody believes that superstition because, you know, people needs to believe
01:13:22something.
01:13:23Not me.
01:13:24I'm into reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting, so she will enjoy.
01:13:33Suzy Uptins.
01:13:37Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:41And I suck at every talent thing.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:46Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:48No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It has a tail.
01:13:55And it just broke.
01:13:58Apparently, I suck at evil eyebeats.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:09Sometimes I can suck.
01:14:12Okay.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:23Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30Yeah, they taught me.
01:14:31Okay.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of dance around that topic.
01:14:39And I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:43We never had a good relationship.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:50No, actually.
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birhan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:11So, hearing that Birhan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this.
01:15:22And it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:37But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:15:47person.
01:15:47My family is a good way to get to know more about a person.
01:15:48My family is my friend.
01:15:51My family is my friend.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:54For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:07I don't want you to be too close with him because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:17Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:35So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:16:41What is it then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:51We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:54When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend, and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:11He can't.
01:17:12This is relationship.
01:17:15This is the one who you get married, not some activity buddies.
01:17:23I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:17:33it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet,
01:17:38and I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a moment.
01:17:44About him?
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:17:52Hmm.
01:17:52So, why don't you think a little, you know, I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me, especially when I've tried to be very understanding
01:18:24with the massive amount of debt that he revealed to me.
01:18:30This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and s***.
01:18:43No.
01:18:44No, he's not going to do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:18:51Oh, s***.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better come and apologize, and if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in
01:19:14the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and s***.
01:19:19No.
01:19:20No, he's not going to do that.
01:19:22He's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:26Let me.
01:19:28Where is my woman?
01:19:46Oh, s***.
01:19:52Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:01No, I gave you a wine.
01:20:02I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I did like this.
01:20:07It makes someone...
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't want to...
01:20:09I'm not even going to drink it anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop can make someone go...
01:20:13Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:19Okay.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:30You know what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:33Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:36You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come on, eat.
01:20:41Are you going to be nice?
01:20:44I'll be nice always.
01:20:46Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat your food.
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:52Actually, look.
01:20:53No.
01:20:53Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:21:02I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together,
01:21:07and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving is giving off warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:16I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:19My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:25We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:21:29You are not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't, babe?
01:21:35No, you don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family, we don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing,
01:21:54does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:22:00How's this?
01:22:08You told me you were a man who could make his own decisions.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason,
01:22:14and now you're telling me without a blessing
01:22:15that you can't marry me.
01:22:32And the vaping is the only thing
01:22:34that you're very concerned about?
01:22:36That's your biggest concern?
01:22:37Yeah.
01:22:42Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:46Thinking about?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape,
01:22:51but that seems really small
01:22:53compared to all the other things
01:22:55that Daniel doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me,
01:23:03and even if he accepted my past.
01:23:06Once I reveal my secrets to him,
01:23:08is he going to have to tell all of his family
01:23:09that I've only been with women for the past 21 years
01:23:12and that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle about that,
01:23:17I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:26We're here, huh?
01:23:28Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:31So cute.
01:23:33So cute.
01:23:33Maki-maki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it if I can bring a step-mommy home.
01:23:40But I want to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided he does not want to have kids,
01:23:46I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:54Now that I'm in person with my husband,
01:23:57he's giving me trust issues.
01:23:59Remember what you promised me
01:24:01before you came down here.
01:24:03I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:06So can I see your phone now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:24Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:28I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:30Sen süreyi uzattıkça olunsan,
01:24:32olan tepkisini büyüyecek bence.
01:24:34Wait, what did she say?
01:24:38Oh yes, moment of truth.
01:24:43Man, this is so beautiful here.
01:24:46Holy s***.
01:24:48Well, would you look at that?
01:24:50Sheena's expecting me to believe
01:24:52that if her parents don't take her money,
01:24:55that they're going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight, we'll get the truth from Sheena.
01:24:59She told us
01:25:01if she didn't give the money
01:25:04that you would mistreat her.
01:25:06Did you say that?
01:25:12Uncle, you are not an Igbo woman.
01:25:17I want to know you more.
01:25:20I'm sitting next to the man I love
01:25:21and he doesn't know s*** about me.
01:25:24I don't want to lie to his uncle,
01:25:25but I want us to have this blessing
01:25:27more than anything in the world.
01:25:29Are you a practicing person?
01:25:31I have not always been,
01:25:32but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:36Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:38I am a lesbian.
01:25:40I am a lesbian.
01:25:42I am a lesbian.
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