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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You guys remember B, right?
00:04Wait, wait.
00:05I'm going to him.
00:06Ah!
00:07People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:10Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:12But I'm like, hello, come to Kim.
00:15Oh my gosh, it's got massage on it.
00:17Torture me, baby.
00:19All right, you asked for it.
00:20I thought Natalie and I were going
00:21to have this romantic, sexy weekend together.
00:25What the hell?
00:25But you just showed me how the bed works.
00:27That's my bed.
00:28Yeah.
00:29This is your bed.
00:29So I'm really disappointed.
00:32Good night, Gino.
00:33Sweet dreams.
00:34I feel like we're having such an awesome time.
00:38But I just, I'm a little confused.
00:41We had a kiss.
00:42Does that mean that we're more than friends?
00:44There's a lot at stake here because once we have
00:47this conversation, there is no going back.
00:49Our friendship will be changed forever.
00:51I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being
00:56exclusive and can't say yes to us right now.
01:00What have you been talking about a minute?
01:02You're thinking that she really want this?
01:05She's in the beginning stages of trying to like discover
01:07where she's at.
01:08She's still killing.
01:11This made me think that Sophie's not ready for a legend shit.
01:14That made me feel like a freaking idiot.
01:16I was talking to Liz.
01:17She told me like, maybe I do have another guy in your mind.
01:21How to say, like, be careful.
01:24I invited Liz to the Dominican Republic.
01:26I thought we was friends.
01:27And then to go behind my back, she knows it's up.
01:31That's breaking girl code.
01:33Like, you don't do that.
01:35I'm really pissed.
01:51What do you think of my toes?
01:53I mean, they're toes.
01:54They're feet.
01:55So if I asked you, I mean, would you ever suck my toes one by one?
02:05No.
02:05Nope.
02:16Did you sleep well?
02:18Oh my god, I slept like a baby.
02:19You got some big balls coming into this bed last night.
02:23I will give you that.
02:24Last night, you know, Natalie put me to sleep in the living room.
02:30But I felt a little lonely.
02:32So I thought it would be a kind of romantic gesture to sneak into Natalie's bedroom.
02:38We did cuddle and we enjoyed each other.
02:41It was actually intimate without even having sex.
02:45So, if you don't mind, my skin overall is a little dry sometimes.
02:49Okay.
02:50And I was wondering if you could put some lotion on my back.
02:54I have some dry skin lotion.
02:56Absolutely.
02:57I'll do it.
02:58You'll do it for me?
02:59Yeah, of course.
02:59Oh, good.
03:00That's great.
03:02So, I'm going to have to take my hat off and shirt off quick.
03:08And all right, Eve, turn your back towards me.
03:12Wow.
03:13Is this okay?
03:14Yep.
03:15It's going to be cold.
03:16I tried to warm him.
03:16Oh my gosh, warm your hands up.
03:18I do.
03:18Stop.
03:19Warm your hands.
03:20Stop.
03:22Waking up next to Gino is a little awkward.
03:23And, honestly, I really don't know how I'm feeling about it.
03:27If he wants to have a relationship with me, it's not going to happen overnight.
03:31He has to earn back my trust, you know, earn back his place in my heart, in my bed.
03:40Oh my God, that feels good.
03:41But he's got this kind of swag to him that, I don't know, for some reason I can't resist it.
03:47So, what would you like to do today?
03:50Well, I actually already have plans today.
03:51I have a potluck set up with the girls at work and some of their husbands.
03:55We do that about once a month.
03:57So, I mean, if you want to come, you can.
04:00All you got to do is bring a dish.
04:02I came here to see you.
04:04Of course I want to go.
04:05Okay.
04:06The fact that Natalie is introducing me to her friends so quickly could be either good or bad.
04:14Either we're jumping back into it and didn't miss a beat,
04:19or it could be a bad thing where she wants to introduce me to her friends to kind of get
04:24like a second opinion.
04:26So, tonight is really important and it can decide a lot for us.
04:29I got to get ready, so.
04:31You're kicking me out of the room.
04:34Bye.
04:38How long have we been going round the same old ups and downs and downs?
04:46Going to the big party.
04:47Are you nervous?
04:49Yeah, a little bit.
04:50I mean, like, I don't know what your friends are going to be asking me.
04:53Is it going to be positive, negative?
04:55After everything that happened in Michigan, which kind of was out of my control, but.
05:00Well, I mean, not all of it.
05:03I'm worried Natalie's friends are going to have this preconceived notion about me.
05:10And they might not even give me a chance.
05:13I'm not wasting myself thinking out what I am to you.
05:19Hi.
05:20Hello.
05:21How are you guys?
05:22How are you?
05:23So beautiful.
05:24Oh, thank you.
05:25Good to see you.
05:25You're so good.
05:26How are you?
05:27Hello.
05:28Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:29What's your name?
05:30Carla.
05:31Nice to meet you, Carla.
05:32Nice to meet you.
05:32Hi, Gino.
05:33Hi.
05:33Honey, nice to meet you.
05:34Nice to meet you.
05:34They're twins.
05:35I'm hoping my friends can see what I see in Gino.
05:39I think we should take these over to Melanie.
05:41And I'm hoping that Gino can also prove to them that he deserves another chance.
05:47This is Melanie.
05:48Okay.
05:49I'm Gina.
05:50Nice to meet you, Gino.
05:51Nice to meet you.
05:52Well, Melanie's one of my really good friends.
05:54We work together.
05:54I trust her opinion.
05:56She looks out for me.
05:57She has my back.
05:58So he brought some sandwiches that he has to cook.
06:03Who wants a sandwich?
06:04There you go.
06:05I'm cooking the ham and cheese sandwich.
06:07Hey, Dave, Dave, lady, would y'all like one?
06:10What's up, what's up, what's up?
06:11This is my specialty.
06:14All right, I don't think the pan is on the heat.
06:17He's got this.
06:18Okay.
06:19There we go.
06:19When I was a short order cook back in the day,
06:22I would cook simple things like a ham and cheese sandwich.
06:26And man, I can cook a really good one, I'll tell you.
06:30Oh my God, my cheese is sticking to the, oh no.
06:34That's not good.
06:35The cheese is sticking to the ham.
06:37But for some reason, after assembling these sandwiches and traveling over to the party,
06:44the freaking cheese and the ham was stuck together.
06:48Oh.
06:49That screws me.
06:49I can't cook like that, man.
06:52Is that cheese soup?
06:55The cheese is dripping.
06:57I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing.
06:59It's dripping, but it's going to be great dressing when you taste it.
07:01Okay.
07:02Do you have a clean plate?
07:03I really want the first one to look good.
07:05Sure, of course.
07:05Yeah, it's all about that first serving.
07:08What's the single?
07:09Your first.
07:09I need the double.
07:11Let's see how it goes.
07:16Any condiments in here, Gino?
07:18Any condiments at all?
07:20Cheese and meat.
07:21That's what we going with.
07:24It's pretty obvious that Gino doesn't go to many potlucks because
07:31ham and cheese sandwiches is not a normal option by any means.
07:36Yeah.
07:37How embarrassing.
07:38It's getting hot in here.
07:39I'm going to go outside.
07:41Okay.
07:41I hope that's melted enough.
07:44Yeah.
07:44Is there any plate?
07:45Yes, up there.
07:49So how long have you been friends with Natalie?
07:52So far about a couple of years.
07:54A couple of years?
07:55Yeah, a couple of years.
07:56She has talked about you a little bit, so.
07:59Only a little bit.
08:01Just a little bit.
08:03Okay.
08:03Oh my gosh.
08:04Well, I understand because we kind of stopped talking for a bit after all this stuff went down
08:10to Michigan.
08:10She did tell me that the fact that she brought you here, I mean, that's a big plus.
08:17She doesn't just bring anybody here, so.
08:20Oh, really?
08:21Yeah.
08:21I mean, she's talked about guys, but I've never met.
08:25Yes.
08:26But you're saying she's dating other guys?
08:28No, she's not dating other guys.
08:29No, she's not dating other guys.
08:30Are you talking to other women or are you?
08:33Um, well, there are some girls that are writing me because they know my marriage is over.
08:43And are you writing back to them?
08:45Are you entertaining that?
08:46I talked to them, but I don't, I haven't met anyone.
08:51And does Natalie know that?
08:53Uh, I don't know.
08:56I am not feeling a good vibe right now with Melanie.
09:01I understand she's trying to protect Natalie, but this is feeling like an interrogation.
09:06And I'm very worried that I could have just blown the whole thing.
09:11Now I'm having a second thought about you.
09:47I'm very sad because I have a strong feeling for Sophie, but she told me she want to date
09:53another people and now she's been telling me not to stop.
09:56Like, how you doing?
09:58Are you okay?
09:59Are you mad?
10:01Why you care?
10:03I am so confused.
10:05I need some advice.
10:18Why are you here alone?
10:23Take a drink.
10:24Oh my God, you look great.
10:26You look so beautiful.
10:29This is soul.
10:30Soul?
10:30You look great.
10:32My sister Nicole, she's very protected.
10:35Because when I dating a girl, she told me at the time, you are a little dumb.
10:42Ah, you want to take her for a walk?
10:44She doesn't like to walk, no.
10:45She doesn't like to walk, no.
10:46She doesn't like to walk.
10:47She hates it.
10:48But it turned out my sister was all the time right about my ex-wife, Chantel.
10:53What's your problem with me?
10:55You don't deserve it, Pedro.
10:57Oh, no.
10:59Oh, okay.
11:01After my divorce, I promise to myself that I'm not going to be with somebody else, you know?
11:07That it's not getting along with my family.
11:09How you doing?
11:11How you been?
11:11I'm good, and you?
11:12Ah, there's a lot of things going on here right now.
11:15What is the girl?
11:17Huh?
11:18Sophie?
11:19Yeah, Sophie, what?
11:20She's like, she's been like, kind of off.
11:24You know, she's with her friend right now.
11:27Like, she's been a little distance right now.
11:30And, you know, that's making me a little worried.
11:33Like, yesterday, we got a little conversation regardless, you know, what we're here for.
11:39Mm-hmm.
11:40She tell me that she's not ready dating.
11:43That she won't want talking because there's been a lot going on in her life,
11:47her past relationship, that she have been healed.
11:50If you've not been healed before, why you try to approach to me?
11:53Because I try to be a good man, you know?
11:57I know, I know.
11:57Send the flowers two times a month, you know?
12:01It's unbelievable.
12:03You're really in love.
12:05You are really in love, so.
12:09No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
12:11You are not stupid.
12:13It's not your fault.
12:14You are doing anything you can do to make her happy.
12:18And she doesn't appreciate that.
12:21It's the first time after Pedro divorcing French Intel, he's in love with someone else.
12:27And I feel so, so frustrated right now because I love my brother and I know how,
12:34how good guy he is, but Sophie cannot say that.
12:38I need to protect him because I want to see him living his best life with a woman who really
12:44loves him and has commitment.
12:48And I don't feel like appreciated enough.
12:51Like, I know.
12:51Exactly.
12:52I don't feel like she's taking me for for granted or she's taking me like I'm playing.
12:57I'm not playing.
12:58I was seriously from the beginning, like.
12:59It's frustrated.
13:00Yeah, that's a little frustrating.
13:01It's frustrated.
13:02Yeah, let's go.
13:04You are too good.
13:05Let's walk.
13:06Let's, I need to walk.
13:08I, I don't know.
13:09Come on.
13:10You got her?
13:11Come on, babe.
13:12Being honest, being honest, Pedro.
13:15I don't like this.
13:16She's so immature.
13:18Yeah.
13:18How old is she?
13:20She's 26 at the moment.
13:2126.
13:22She is not a woman.
13:25She is acting like a little girl.
13:28Like, I don't know what I want.
13:31Believe me.
13:32When a woman is really interested in a man, she's going to do anything she can do to impress
13:40this man and be with that man.
13:44You know?
13:45Yeah.
13:46Yesterday, I said, okay, if you were someone and you want to entertain other people,
13:51how do you entertain me?
13:52Exactly.
13:53Oh, yes, of course.
13:54I said, what the ?
13:55Maybe she's confused.
13:57Confused people hurt people.
13:59It's the most dangerous people in the world.
14:02You are going to suffer and you are going to be, you're going to be like a collateral damage.
14:10I feel that I had to listen to Nicole because she always write about my relationship with
14:15Chantal in the past.
14:16But at the same time, I really, really want to suffer.
14:18She has part of my heart already.
14:22But I don't know if I can not be exclusive with her.
14:25And that's going to make me, like, sad.
14:28She wants to date another guy.
14:30Maybe I have to walk away.
14:34Anything you decide about Sophie, I will be there for you, okay?
14:39Because I want to see you happy.
14:41You are my only brother.
14:43Oh.
14:43And I love you.
14:44Oh.
14:44But being honest, I think you're going to ruin your life again.
14:53This is Kimberly.
14:54Hi, how are you?
14:55Hi, how are you?
14:56My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe for a while.
14:59And it's been a long time since I've even met anybody that's, like, relationship material.
15:03You're a beautiful woman.
15:04You're charming.
15:06Tyler, I like you.
15:08Why would you tell Pedro that he should be careful with me?
15:11He told me you were just scared.
15:12He said, I had a conversation with Liz.
15:14And Liz said, you're doing all this for Sophie.
15:17And she doesn't appreciate it.
15:18Because you're scared you've never had it.
15:21You're trying to tell me that I'm trying to sabotage you and Pedro?
15:24Like, yeah, this is bull .
15:41I'm in a stage of my life where I see what I want, and I go after it.
15:46Because I don't want those confusing, blurry lines.
15:49But I just can't say yes to us right now.
16:05I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being exclusive.
16:11And I feel overwhelmed with just making a decision on the spot.
16:17This is super disappointing.
16:20You know, I have put myself out there.
16:22I let him know how I feel.
16:24And he's essentially saying no.
16:26I thought we were kind of on the same page.
16:28Maybe I misread the signs that you were giving me.
16:33It's very disheartening because what I see in Tony is something very, very special.
16:38Our life goals are the same.
16:40We have the trust.
16:41We have the closeness.
16:42We have the bond.
16:43Like, seriously, what more can this guy want?
16:48You mean so much to me.
16:50And I've dated so many other guys who I feel like they totally destroyed my sense of
16:56trust and things like that.
16:58And I feel like I have that with you.
17:00And this makes sense.
17:03For me, it's a title.
17:05Putting a title to it, to me, is kind of very restrictive.
17:08Because it just, you have these expectations then.
17:11And this is what's so confusing to me.
17:13Is I feel like you're giving me such mixed messages.
17:16So what is even today?
17:18Is this we're just hanging out?
17:20Or is this a date?
17:22I mean, did you have fun still today if I called it a date?
17:25Or if I called it a hangout?
17:25But I want to know what you look at it as.
17:28I want to know what do I mean to you.
17:31Is this all coming from the kiss that we had last week?
17:35Is that why?
17:35I mean, that helped kind of spark my thoughts about everything.
17:39Because you're not making a move.
17:41So I was the one that instigated the kiss.
17:44And now I'm wondering if I didn't, would it have ever even happened?
17:48I can't answer your question.
17:50If you didn't kiss me, would I have kissed you?
17:51I could have, you know?
17:52But you didn't.
17:56Sometimes I think Vanya, she just jumps right in.
17:58She throws all her emotions into everything.
18:01She wants to commit right away.
18:02I like to take a lot of time when I date.
18:05I want to be sure a thousand percent that she's the one.
18:09Obviously, there's no rush for anything.
18:11But I just want to make sure that we're aligning.
18:13And I know that you make me happy.
18:15And I think I make you happy.
18:18I feel the same way.
18:20And I want to have more dates.
18:21And I want to get to know you better.
18:24I'm not trying to rush in.
18:25I'm not trying to.
18:26Yeah, me too.
18:27I want to know everything about you before I make that final step.
18:29And if that's something you're on board with, I think that's something I can commit to.
18:33I mean, I would like a little bit more of a defined situation.
18:37But I guess it's the step in the right direction.
18:42It's definitely better than a now.
18:45Right.
18:46But I thought that Tony has had feelings for me this entire time.
18:50And I thought that once I laid out for him that, hey, I'm interested too,
18:54that he would just sweep me into his arms and we would ride off into the sunset together.
18:59And that's not what happened.
19:02So until our next date?
19:03Yes.
19:08I've already wasted so much time in my life on men in the past who have commitment issues,
19:14who don't know what they want out of life.
19:17So if Tony is not ready to make a commitment, then I'm done.
19:21Done with that.
19:24That marks the spots in my heart.
19:26You got to start.
19:32I'm a little bit salty and I'm not a bit sweet.
19:35If you come to my table, you better know what I need.
19:45Not bad, Kim.
19:47Not bad for 55.
19:48All right, let's go partay.
20:00Thank you so much.
20:01I'm meeting some single men tonight.
20:09Hi.
20:10Oh my god, oh my god, Kimberly.
20:12Kimberly.
20:12Kimberly in a skirt.
20:14What is this?
20:14Kimberly in a skirt.
20:15You look beautiful.
20:16Are you excited?
20:17I am excited, yeah.
20:18I love seeing you in a skirt.
20:19What are we doing?
20:20So my friends Jody and Laura, they throw these fabulous parties like every couple months.
20:25So I decided to get up off the couch, leave my cats at home and forget about the family stuff
20:29for one night.
20:30So how'd it go with B, last time you saw him?
20:35I mean, I got my needs met, right?
20:38Oh my god.
20:38But you know, I've always had feelings for B, you know what I mean?
20:41You're a long time guy, kind of.
20:42Yeah.
20:43So like, even since the last time I saw him, I've just really been thinking about what I want.
20:47You know what I mean?
20:48And I think he's just always going to be this bachelor guy that, you know, and I just need more
20:53than that now.
20:54B is always going to have a special place in my heart, like always. But with everything that's
21:00going on in my life, the adoptions and everything coming to light, I really need somebody who is
21:06like emotionally stable enough to deal with all of my .
21:11Jody, come here, because I know this is the first lay you've had in a while.
21:14Yeah.
21:15The lay.
21:15Like seven years.
21:16Yeah, I don't know.
21:17Oh, I want to get laid.
21:18I don't know when last time you got laid.
21:20You're crazy.
21:20Oh god.
21:20It's a lady.
21:21I don't even know.
21:22All right.
21:23Let's get this party started.
21:25Let's get this party started.
21:28Here comes the party.
21:31Hi, guys.
21:33I'm Kim.
21:33How are you?
21:34Nice to meet you.
21:35What's up?
21:36Oh, you need to get laid.
21:37Oh my god.
21:38I remember you from the parties.
21:40Hi, Mia.
21:41I haven't seen you in a long time.
21:46I just lost like 50 pounds, so I just started wearing skirts with little slips and I'm like,
21:52I really like your slip.
21:53Okay.
21:56Hi, Jody.
21:58Hi.
21:59How are you?
22:00Good.
22:00How are you?
22:00I'm doing good.
22:02Hello.
22:02Hi, Joe.
22:03How are you?
22:04Nice to see you as well.
22:06This is Kimberly.
22:07Hi.
22:08How are you?
22:08Nice to meet you.
22:09Nice to meet you as well.
22:10Joe, let's get you laid first.
22:12Let's do it.
22:12Let's do it, Don.
22:13I got to do take care of business first.
22:15I feel so much better now.
22:16Do you?
22:16You just got laid.
22:17You should feel so much better.
22:19See you.
22:19Hey, guys.
22:20It's limbo time.
22:24Thanks, Joe.
22:24You know we celebrate.
22:29My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe
22:31for a while, but he's a little bit on the short side,
22:34so I've been a little leery.
22:35Come on, Kim.
22:36You know you can talk.
22:37All right.
22:37I'll go, I'll go, I'll go, I'll go, I'll go.
22:40Oh, damn it.
22:40Let me make this clear.
22:41I am five foot nine.
22:43Your girl is tall, okay?
22:44And I'm not saying you have to be six foot seven or anything,
22:47but at least be my height.
22:48I don't want to feel like an Amazon.
22:50Come on, little one.
22:52Come on, let's go.
22:53If my hip pops out in this bitch,
22:55I'm telling you right now.
22:56Ready?
22:57One, two, three.
23:02But now that I'm seeing him in person, he's kind of cute.
23:05Not really at eye level, but he's cute.
23:07Kim, are you from here?
23:08I'm from San Diego, yeah.
23:10Okay.
23:10I'm originally from Philadelphia.
23:12Are you?
23:13I know.
23:13Can't tell, right?
23:14No.
23:14I've gotten stalled since I've been here in California.
23:16Is that what happened?
23:17Yeah.
23:17I lived in Virginia for like 25 years.
23:20I moved back home when my mom started having health problems and stuff,
23:23so I moved back home 10 years ago, thank you.
23:24So then, yeah, I've been here ever since.
23:27Do you have any kids?
23:28I have a daughter.
23:29We're best of friends.
23:29It's like, we're very cool.
23:31That's how I am with my son.
23:31I have a son named Jamal.
23:33He works for this like modeling agency with his friends, and he's like,
23:36he's so good looking.
23:37I mean, this is a job for him.
23:38So he takes after his mom, huh?
23:40You're a charmer.
23:41I like you.
23:42I'm saying you're a beautiful woman.
23:43You're charming.
23:44I am charming.
23:45I get told that all the time.
23:47It's so funny.
23:48My first impression of Kim is that she's a breath of fresh air.
23:52She's a woman that's full of life.
23:53You feel her energy, you know?
23:55And it seems like we had known each other for years.
23:57So what do you do on your free time?
23:59I write music.
24:01I produce music.
24:02Wow.
24:02I love music.
24:03I have to ask you something.
24:04I have to interrupt.
24:04Are you a Michael Jackson fan?
24:05Yes, absolutely.
24:06From the time I was a little kid, the very first album I ever bought was ABC by the Jackson
24:095.
24:10So crazy.
24:10I have a tattoo of him on my arm.
24:12Do you really?
24:12I do.
24:13It's the hat.
24:14It's the hat and the glove.
24:15Wow.
24:16That is so cool.
24:17You know there's a movie coming out, right?
24:19Honey, I know all about it.
24:21I'm sorry.
24:22I should know.
24:23So my short King loves the King of Pop.
24:26Okay, Joe.
24:27I see you.
24:28He gets major points for that.
24:30Should we mingle?
24:31Honey, otherwise we just stay here the whole night.
24:32I know.
24:33Let's just go.
24:33All right.
24:34Let's still mingle.
24:35I'll talk to you soon and I'll get you out.
24:36We'll change numbers.
24:37Yeah, I'll hook up people for you.
24:39I like him.
24:40He's so nice.
24:41He was like, you're so pretty.
24:42Blah, blah, blah.
24:43Did he have a connection?
24:44I felt it.
24:45I felt it.
24:46And I was really surprised, you know?
24:47But I just, I felt like really, like, safe.
24:50Oh, my.
24:51I love that feeling.
24:52Oh, my God.
24:52That's the best feeling.
24:54Yeah.
24:54Joe said all the right things.
24:56Like complimenting me on my outfit,
24:58complimenting how pretty I am.
24:59And he made me feel really beautiful.
25:03You know, it's like when you first meet people,
25:06you just don't hear that.
25:07It's always they pick out the flaws in me
25:09before they see the beautiful Kim.
25:11Ready?
25:11One, two, three.
25:17And I think that's like a game changer for me, you know?
25:20It's like green flag, green flag, green flag, green flag.
25:23So, yeah, I like them.
25:24How are you getting home?
25:26I'm taking an Uber because I live in the boondocks.
25:29OK.
25:30You mind if I walk you out as you go?
25:31No, I would love that.
25:33OK.
25:33Are you ready to go?
25:34Yes.
25:34OK.
25:35Thank you for walking me out.
25:36Of course.
25:38Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:40Huh?
25:40Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:42Shut up.
25:43I'm going home.
25:45I don't want to put like any unrealistic expectations
25:48onto Joe, you know?
25:50But he seems like such a good, like a genuine soul.
25:54Do you mind if I give you a hug?
25:55No, of course not.
25:57It's so nice to meet you.
25:58Nice to meet you.
25:59So nice to meet you.
25:59I look forward to talking to you.
26:01I know me too.
26:02Are you going to talk to me?
26:03I will talk to you.
26:04Absolutely.
26:05I really want to find love.
26:06And it's been a long time since I've even met anybody
26:09that's like relationship material.
26:11But at the same time, it's like terrifying to think
26:14that I could get close with someone,
26:16tell them all about my past.
26:18And that could make somebody walk away from me.
26:22All right, bye Joe.
26:23Bye bye.
26:24Nice to meet you.
26:24You too.
26:27It was really nice.
26:30Are you normally one who kind of takes charge?
26:33Yeah, definitely chivalrous guy.
26:36He is definitely the type of person I want in my life.
26:39But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
26:42I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
26:45Are you going to make me nervous?
26:46Why?
26:48Why?
27:08Right now, I'm texting Via and I'm letting him know
27:14that I am on my way to meet him at Kayaki.
27:19The DR is beautiful.
27:20The rain has let up.
27:22And, yeah, day two.
27:25I want you to take me, take me, take me to Mexico.
27:30With every kiss you got me tongue-tied.
27:32Every kiss you got me upside down.
27:38How are you?
27:40I'm good, how are you?
27:41Good, good, good.
27:42I bought you some shoes.
27:45Wait, I didn't even know we need shoes.
27:47Okay, well, I kind of figured that, so that's why I got them for you.
27:51I'm the master kayaker here.
27:53I had a great first date with Via.
27:55We went surfing and now we're going kayaking.
27:59And I love that he wants to go out and do these things with me.
28:06You know what you're doing.
28:08Oh.
28:09Oh.
28:10No.
28:10No, you don't.
28:12No, I don't.
28:12You know you don't.
28:14In all my past relationships, the focus was never really on anything I wanted to do.
28:20When I was with Ed, he was such a princess.
28:22It was always fine dining, bottles of wine, cappuccino, steak, and then a nightcap at home.
28:30We never got out.
28:31We were never active with each other.
28:33How about we like hit it hard right now?
28:39Slow down.
28:40And when I was with Jason, he just was a homebody.
28:43The most exciting thing we did was every Wednesday we went to go get chicken wings.
28:46And then we came home and went to bed.
28:50This is fun.
28:51I'm actually really enjoying this.
28:54You've been single for like a year and a half?
28:56Yeah, about a year and a half.
28:58I tend to jump from like serious relationship to another one.
29:02Like, I don't regret any of my past relationships, but they definitely weren't easy.
29:07Yeah.
29:08I've always been one to kind of end up being like the dominant in the relationship
29:12and never been able to like really be feminine in a relationship.
29:16Yeah.
29:17Are you normally one who kind of takes charge?
29:20Yeah, definitely, definitely a chivalrous guy.
29:25Like all your chivalry is like so new to me.
29:29It's a big culture thing.
29:30Yeah.
29:30Because my dad was very traditional and very macho.
29:38Via is very chivalrous.
29:40This is exciting for me.
29:42It's something different.
29:43All right.
29:43I've always felt like the man in the relationship.
29:46Like there's times when I would open Ed's door or help him into the car.
29:50Are you going to jump in though?
29:50I'm going to jump in Ed.
29:54But Via is very attentive.
29:56I feel safe.
29:57I feel comfortable.
29:58And I realized, especially since I've gotten sick, that Via is definitely the type of person
30:03I want in my life.
30:05I'm enjoying my time here, for sure.
30:08I'm glad I met you.
30:11Like I said, it's so unexpected.
30:17Did you make me nervous?
30:18Why?
30:19You're smelling a lot right now.
30:21Oh, oh.
30:28Oh.
30:32Oh.
30:35Oh.
30:40I think I'm really falling for Via.
30:46It's like almost this like fairytale dream come true.
30:49That was nice.
30:52Okay.
30:54But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
30:57I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
31:01Well, I think I have girls night around two tonight.
31:05Okay.
31:06I don't know what I'm doing, but I'll definitely let you know.
31:10It's kind of like, am I even worthy to date?
31:13Am I worth someone taking a chance on me?
31:15Because, I mean, I wouldn't even know if I'd want to date someone knowing that they're sick right now.
31:22It's such a complicated, hard experience.
31:25I never thought I'd have to be sharing this.
31:27This is supposed to be my getaway.
31:33Are you taking her seriously?
31:36I'm not a player or anything like that.
31:38That's just saying.
31:39Are you sure?
31:40If Natalie's friends don't like me, this can destroy our relationship.
31:45He seems like he does like you.
31:49But I think he's hiding something.
32:10Are you talking to other women or are you?
32:13I talk to them, but I haven't met anyone.
32:19And does Natalie know that?
32:22I don't know.
32:24I told Mel that I'm speaking with other girls because I wanted to be honest with her.
32:30But I'm realizing that I f***ed up.
32:34Now I'm Gino the player instead of being this really good guy.
32:39If Natalie's friends don't like me, this can destroy our relationship.
32:45Now I'm having a second thought about you.
32:48Are you taking her seriously, though?
32:51Oh, am I taking it?
32:52Yeah, of course I am.
32:53Okay.
32:53Of course, yeah.
32:55It's not like, I'm not a player or anything like that.
32:57That's just saying.
32:58Are you sure?
33:01All right.
33:02How you going, Alba?
33:04Hey, how's it going, man?
33:06Good, how are you?
33:06Good, good.
33:07Good to talk to you.
33:08Yeah, all right.
33:09Good, good.
33:10So, I was talking to Gino.
33:13Okay.
33:15So, how has it been since he's been in D.C.?
33:18I mean, it's been good.
33:21We get along really well.
33:23He's been very flirtatious.
33:25I mean, he was even in my bed last night.
33:27Oh?
33:27Yes.
33:28But I have my guard up with everything.
33:32He seems like he does like you.
33:36Okay.
33:37But when he's talking to me, he's not really looking at me eye to eye.
33:42Right.
33:42And I think he's hiding something.
33:45He was telling me that there was a woman writing to him.
33:48Okay.
33:49Is he talking to other women?
33:52He is.
33:54Yeah.
33:55To find out that he's talking to other women is disappointing.
33:58We're not in an exclusive relationship, but, like, this is exactly the problem that I had
34:03with him in the first place.
34:04He thinks if he, you know, omits something just because he didn't tell you, he doesn't
34:08think that's lying.
34:10Actually, we really haven't sat down and talked to each other about that.
34:13But what I do know is that I'm not going to put myself in a situation where I get hurt
34:24again.
34:24Absolutely not.
34:26I see.
34:27Yeah.
34:28Do you not like him?
34:29Be honest.
34:30Do you like him or not?
34:31Like, do you?
34:31I really don't.
34:32Okay.
34:33I really don't.
34:34You don't like him?
34:35Yeah, I don't like him.
34:37I'm looking at this whole weekend like it's a big test for Gino.
34:41I want to believe that he can be truthful.
34:43I want to believe that he can be honest and that all of this is because of his past trauma,
34:48his relationship, everything that he's gone through.
34:50I don't want to keep looking.
34:52I don't want to keep searching.
34:53I don't want to keep asking.
34:54I don't want to keep wondering.
34:56I want to believe him.
34:59How are you?
35:00How are you?
35:01Good.
35:01What were y'all talking about out there?
35:04Nothing.
35:04Girl stuff.
35:05Girl stuff?
35:06Just work stuff.
35:08But if he thinks he's going to make a fool out of me again, I mean, he's crazy.
35:13That's not going to happen.
35:14All right.
35:19Like, I really like Pedro, but for me, it's really important to enjoy my freedom.
35:24So I think tonight I'm going to focus on that.
35:26This trip is just not going how I hoped at all.
35:29Pedro's just ghosting me and not even replying to any of my messages.
35:32My name is Tao.
35:33Nice to meet you.
35:34But this hot guy's already come up to me trying to flirt with me.
35:37Yeah, I kind of like it.
35:38This is what I needed.
35:39Cheers.
35:40Cheers.
35:41Cheers.
35:41Cheers.
35:43Cheers.
35:44Cheers.
36:12This trip is just not going how I hoped.
36:14At all so far.
36:16Like, I feel like the first night was just awkward and weird.
36:19And then Liz, my friend, spoke negatively about me to the guy I'm talking to.
36:24So I'm still pissed off at her.
36:26And now Pedro's not even replying to any of my messages.
36:28Gracias.
36:33Gracias.
36:34Now I'm like, well, I guess he's just decided to ghost me and that's it then.
36:39But I'm not going to spend my night stressing about it.
36:41I just want to have fun.
36:44Arriba.
36:44Abajo.
36:47In your mouth.
36:52Do you see some good guys around?
36:54Oh, yeah.
36:54I've already seen two and I just got here.
36:56Already.
36:57Good.
36:58It's good.
36:59I'm excited.
37:00Like, I do like Pedro, but for me it's really important to also enjoy my freedom, you know.
37:06And so I think tonight I'm going to focus on that.
37:08Good.
37:09So maybe when today you go home not alone.
37:12I mean, I...
37:15Chill.
37:19Oh, my God.
37:19He's looking at me.
37:21Okay.
37:21If you end up with somebody tonight, you should take him to the my room.
37:26Because my room is messy.
37:29No, they need to know the real me.
37:31If I meet a guy...
37:31Not in the first night.
37:32He needs to see my room.
37:33Not in the first night.
37:34Hello.
37:35Hi.
37:35Sorry, girls, for coming like that.
37:37Okay, Julia.
37:39My name is Tao.
37:40Nice to meet you.
37:41I'm Sophie.
37:43You're here on vacation?
37:44Yeah.
37:45Okay, where you come from?
37:46We both live in America.
37:48Oh, how long have you been here?
37:51Four days.
37:52And what do you do in those four days?
37:54I've come here to support Sophie because she are...
37:57have a difficult time.
37:59She are divorcing.
38:02So, and now I'm supporting her single, funny,
38:05life.
38:07So, we have a poor girl's treat.
38:09Yeah.
38:10What are you doing here?
38:12I am general doctor.
38:13After work, I come in, take a drink, like relax a little bit.
38:18This hot doctor guy has already come up to me trying to flirt with me.
38:23He talks very slow and mysteriously, you know?
38:26So, yeah, I kind of like it.
38:28This is what I needed.
38:30One more juice of piña, too.
38:33Oh, you're Spanish also.
38:35Oh, yeah.
38:36I used to live in Spain, España.
38:38I'm not fluent, but...
38:39I'm not fluent, but...
38:41I'm a little bit.
38:41What is that?
38:42What happened to the corner?
38:43Hello.
38:44Hi.
38:45How are you?
38:45Hi.
38:49Ugh.
38:50There grows the vibe.
38:52Hi.
38:52Gustavo.
38:53Liz.
38:54Gustavo?
38:54Yes.
38:55Nice to meet you.
38:55Nice to meet you.
38:56You also.
38:57What do you want to drink?
38:58What are we drinking?
39:00Mahito.
39:00Should we go over to the side?
39:02Yes, I'm going to go.
39:04I had just arrived at the bar, and Sophie's not acknowledging my presence at all.
39:11She immediately takes off to the other side of the bar with this guy.
39:15She's being cold.
39:17Sophie.
39:17Please don't talk to me.
39:18Let's go into the girls' talk.
39:20We can go into, like, right here somewhere.
39:22It doesn't feel good.
39:24Yes.
39:26Okay, quick question.
39:28Do you like the doctor?
39:29As soon as he's a doctor, I'm like, you safe, people?
39:32I'm like, you know.
39:34Like, his personality is very kind.
39:37I like him.
39:38Okay, wow.
39:39I think I need a lot to be caught up on.
39:41What's been going on with Pedro?
39:45He texted you tonight?
39:47Let me check it.
39:50He hasn't texted me.
39:52That's the answer?
39:53Yes.
39:53So, the past, like, more than 24 hours, he's kind of been ghosting me.
39:59I don't know what happened.
40:04Yesterday, me and him had a conversation, and it didn't go well, because he came into that,
40:09like, thinking I had a boyfriend or something.
40:12And I was like, why do you think that?
40:13And he told me this made me feel like there's another guy, and he should be careful, because
40:20he's going to get his feelings hurt with me, because I'm not ready.
40:24Well, Sophie, I was obviously drinking, but if I do remember, he told me you were being
40:29different.
40:30But why would you tell him he should be careful with me?
40:33I was trying to make it known, okay, well, she's not used to this, so don't be, like,
40:39pushed away from it.
40:40But everything I told you, he knows, and I feel bad.
40:44Then why would you tell him that he should be careful with me?
40:47If I said be careful, I didn't mean it that way.
40:51I don't give a about Pedro.
40:52I'm worried about Sophie getting hurt.
40:55I want him to be careful with her heart.
40:57Take it slow.
40:58I'm not trying to sabotage you.
41:03Yeah, this is bullsh**.
41:06So, technically, all of this conversation, because...
41:10No, no, no, no, no.
41:11She said, I had a conversation with Liz, and Liz said, you're doing all this for Sophie,
41:16and she's not ready.
41:17She doesn't appreciate it.
41:19Because you're scared, you've never had it.
41:21I haven't had it.
41:22You're correct.
41:23I just felt for your pain and everything.
41:25I'm sorry.
41:26You feel for Pedro's pain, because I could tell you.
41:28I don't feel for Pedro's pain.
41:29You told Pedro.
41:31She doesn't deserve it, because she's not ready.
41:34I don't know what the f**k is going on.
41:36I feel like Sophie's looking for someone to blame for her relationship problems with Pedro,
41:40but she's not going to put the f**k blame on me.
41:43I've been fired, you're here.
41:44As a friend, at the end of the day, girl, you should...
41:46You have my back, not his back.
41:48You just can't.
41:52Next time on The Single Life.
41:54I really like this.
41:56Wow.
41:56I'm feeling so like...
41:57Can you look at her eyes?
41:58I'm trying to.
42:00That's how beautiful you look.
42:01They call them fun pillows.
42:02You don't need to bounce them.
42:03I found the perfect outfit for my first date with Joe, but I have to say I'm a little nervous.
42:08I need you to do something goofy or sexy.
42:10I'm not doing anything sexy.
42:11I don't know you.
42:12Ready?
42:13Joe seems really, really, really great.
42:16Like a great guy.
42:17But they all started out sweet.
42:18Usman started out sweet.
42:20Got it.
42:20Okay.
42:21I should do love your dress.
42:25The fact that I haven't told Bia yet about my cancer makes me extremely anxious because
42:30I don't know how he'll react.
42:31But with the way I'm feeling with Bia, I know I have to.
42:34I don't share with a lot of people how I'm sick right now.
42:40A lot happened at once, and suddenly it's like, not only are we dating, but it's like we're
42:44married or something.
42:46It's just a lot.
42:48Are you kidding me?
42:50After everything I've done for you, you piece of you have erectile dysfunction.
42:55You can't walk.
42:56You're homeless.
42:57You're jobless.
42:58The level of disrespect is insane.
43:02You've never had my back.
43:04Yes, I have.
43:04You've never had my back.
43:05Okay, enough, enough.
43:07Pedro's goes to me.
43:08Probably will never talk to me again.
43:10So at this point, I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just done with this whole trip.
43:14Bye, Liz.
43:14Go home.
43:16Bye.
43:16Adios.
43:18Liz.
43:19She just it all up.
43:20She's a horrible person.
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