#video #90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 17: Welcome to Your Destination
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:46I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:53I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:58Androani, Androani.
00:02:00Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:08I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:12Hey, guys.
00:02:14Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:19She feels a psycho.
00:02:21Good luck.
00:02:24You all right?
00:02:24Yeah.
00:02:25Are you okay?
00:02:26So cute.
00:02:27You run to her after this, right?
00:02:29Asshole.
00:02:31I feel like I was falling in love, though.
00:02:33But that s***, I'm done.
00:02:57Going to the gym?
00:02:58No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:00Rough night.
00:03:01Another one?
00:03:03Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:05She went off yelling at it, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:09How many people were there?
00:03:10Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:11Oh, f*** off.
00:03:12She stands up and she's like,
00:03:14how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:19I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:22Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:25I just don't know what to do.
00:03:27I'm confused.
00:03:33It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:35It's pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:36Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:41This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:43There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:48I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:51Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:55That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:04:00I don't know how much damage she realises she's done.
00:04:03It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:04So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:08I'm f***ing.
00:04:11Hurting.
00:04:13And for s***ing.
00:04:14Angry.
00:04:15Angry.
00:04:17Hey.
00:04:19Elise.
00:04:20How are you?
00:04:24I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:30I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:34I should not have acted that way.
00:04:42Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:46I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:47I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:49Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:54Did you realise what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:58I don't like embarrassment or personal s*** coming up.
00:05:01I acted a f***ing cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:06I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:09The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:13me.
00:05:13And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:17And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:28That f***ing should never happen once.
00:05:31There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:34F***ing that.
00:05:36You know, I'm out.
00:05:44Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:52Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:59Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:06:01I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:08I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I...
00:06:12Whatever.
00:06:13But you can go, there's a...
00:06:17I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:19For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:23But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:27he really likes it.
00:06:28But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:31Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:33And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:40I gotta get ready.
00:06:41Can I have a hug?
00:06:44Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:47Shh.
00:06:51I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:56I'm sorry.
00:06:58Yeah.
00:07:01But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:07:06My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:11Well, good luck with that.
00:07:14My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:16And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:20really am,
00:07:21I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:31Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:34Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:36Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:38Uh, yes.
00:07:38I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:41100%, yeah.
00:07:42Hi!
00:07:43Her name is Kamira.
00:07:45Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:47She is very cute.
00:07:48Can I touch her?
00:07:49We can't touch her here.
00:07:50We are completely hands-off.
00:07:52She does like people a lot.
00:07:54Hi!
00:07:55Oh, really?
00:07:57Hi!
00:07:58She's like a little teddy bear.
00:08:00He is like a little teddy.
00:08:02Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:08:07We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:09Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:11Fun fact, I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:17Really?
00:08:18Yes.
00:08:20Thank you so much.
00:08:22Thank you so much.
00:08:22It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:23Anytime.
00:08:24Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:25See ya.
00:08:27Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:29We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:32We can.
00:08:35I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:39everything that went on last night.
00:08:50So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:54Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay, or, like, I'm trying to just,
00:09:01I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:09:05I don't know what to do.
00:09:09I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me,
00:09:14and then what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:20And that was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise
00:09:26last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:30And I'm sorry.
00:09:32All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:35You are so much different to her.
00:09:37She's a friend.
00:09:39You are my girl.
00:09:41You embarrass her, you embarrass me, and you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:46Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:52The thing is, like, I'm, I'm falling in love with you, like, I am.
00:09:58But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:10:09I think the bottom line is, I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:16and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions, and I think just the...
00:10:20You got answers.
00:10:21You got answers.
00:10:25You're not willing to accept them.
00:10:33I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:35I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:37It will not happen again.
00:10:44No, I appreciate that.
00:10:47Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:53I'm not very confident.
00:10:56I see how, uh, convincing you are.
00:10:59I'm sorry.
00:11:01When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing, and it scares
00:11:07me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:11:11Baby, they're so cute.
00:11:13Can we see them?
00:11:14You can, yeah.
00:11:15I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh, and that's not fair to
00:11:21him.
00:11:22You are so cute.
00:11:25I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and, uh, not throw this all away
00:11:31for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:35But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:40You are so cute.
00:12:31You are so cute.
00:12:42I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:46She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move.
00:12:50And she made the move.
00:12:56I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura.
00:13:00But now, I see that she is the one who wanted to be more than friends.
00:13:07How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:13:12Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:18Honesty is a big deal for me.
00:13:22Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:25Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:27Maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:34Hey, baby.
00:13:35Hey.
00:13:36How was your day?
00:13:38Perfect.
00:13:39Was it OK?
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40I'm curious.
00:13:41I enjoyed it.
00:13:45Did you really?
00:13:46Yeah.
00:13:47He's a good guy.
00:13:50I've been saying that.
00:13:52That's a relief to hear.
00:13:54He's a good guy.
00:13:56But it turns out, we're not so good.
00:14:04Why?
00:14:05What did I do?
00:14:09He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:20There is one person.
00:14:22I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:27That one person was your best friend.
00:14:31Yeah.
00:14:31That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:35I didn't say anything because it was like, literally nothing to tell.
00:14:42You make me think like Michael is the enemy.
00:14:45He's trying to break us up.
00:14:59It is a little thing.
00:15:00Are you sure?
00:15:00It is a little thing.
00:15:01It is not a little thing.
00:15:02It's 100% a little thing.
00:15:04It was one tiny little thing.
00:15:06We got drunk.
00:15:07We were on the couch.
00:15:08I tried to kiss him.
00:15:09Big deal.
00:15:13One night, almost a full year into our friendship and before I met BeerCon.
00:15:19Michael and I were watching TV and we both had a pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:24Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch.
00:15:29And I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:32He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:36Although it was really hurtful in the moment,
00:15:38Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:41It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:43And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael
00:15:48because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:56I don't trust you.
00:16:01This is your obligation to tell me your path.
00:16:06You tried to kiss him.
00:16:08Okay.
00:16:09Yeah, I did.
00:16:10That means you had feelings for him.
00:16:13You wanted something.
00:16:15They couldn't have it.
00:16:18Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:21He's still in your life.
00:16:22And you kept this from a secret.
00:16:25Nothing happened.
00:16:27And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:30It doesn't matter.
00:16:31You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:36What would you like me to say?
00:16:39Maybe you were like, sorry.
00:16:43I was drunk.
00:16:44I tried to kiss him.
00:16:45But he refused me.
00:16:47But we are still friends.
00:16:52That was hard?
00:16:53Nope.
00:16:54You didn't want it to say.
00:16:59I'm trying to change my country.
00:17:02I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:17:04Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:17:12This is so ridiculous.
00:17:19I'm surprised at Birkon's massive reaction.
00:17:25I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkon.
00:17:29I mean, let's be real.
00:17:31He's kept a lot of secrets from me.
00:17:33And I'm still here.
00:17:36That pisses me off.
00:17:39You're missing all the points.
00:17:42I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:46Nothing is going on.
00:17:46Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:49Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:55I...
00:17:55No.
00:18:02Maybe when you grow up a little bit,
00:18:04you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:18:06You wanted a young husband.
00:18:08Deal with it.
00:18:10You know what?
00:18:12I wish we never met.
00:18:14I didn't have to go through all of this...
00:18:16I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:18You wish that who never met?
00:18:21Us.
00:18:22You and me?
00:18:25I can trust you.
00:18:28That's fine.
00:18:29I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:33Mm-hmm.
00:18:38No, it's fine.
00:18:39No, I don't.
00:18:41You cross the line.
00:18:43If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:46I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:48Okay.
00:18:51Okay.
00:19:01Yes, I missed you.
00:19:04There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:19:07What is that?
00:19:09Oral sex.
00:19:12her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex i am not a woman i have my
00:19:21there's only a few things i've asked of you
00:19:27my mom she's been blowing me up all morning sending me tons and tons of text messages
00:19:33babe mom would strangle you everything she can't just to get rid of our relationship
00:19:39we both needed some space away from my mother but i'm terrified to tell her that i'm planning on
00:19:45staying in the philippines it's time for you to grow up and be a man not just following her orders
00:19:53around
00:19:57when you know you know that's how the story goes i wasn't sure that i believed it then you came
00:20:05and
00:20:05made it so easy i got this inner glow it looks like we're gonna get wrapped up in bananas
00:20:13banana you're gonna put me into plate yeah
00:20:26oh hello everyone hello hello thank you good afternoon welcome to the banana leaf wrap
00:20:34uh this is a good experience for you mom and sir because uh banana leaf wrap is good for skin
00:20:40we need to proceed back all right thank you yeah thank you should i really need to remove my tops
00:20:47or something no if you want mom it's okay it's okay last night she and i having the night away
00:20:53with
00:20:54each other getting a chance to be with each other intimately and it was definitely something that we
00:21:00both needed and i'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress
00:21:07because i only have a few more days left here in the philippines
00:21:10and i have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with sheena
00:21:16and then we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body mom very great oh wow i sure
00:21:23hope the wrap fits me
00:21:26i'm extra extra long
00:21:31this is my first time that i've done this banana leaf treatment and it feels like you're being placed
00:21:36on like as a food which is most people in my country they would use banana leaf to wrap food
00:21:42around
00:21:43it's kind of funny
00:21:46how's things looking up there ladies pretty good
00:21:49it's okay sir
00:21:50yeah
00:21:51i feel like a giant wrap tamale here
00:21:54tamale bird
00:21:55they're gonna throw me in in the oven next
00:21:57i was waiting to be steamed alive
00:22:00they're gonna steam you
00:22:02this is so strange
00:22:03like i don't understand why all my clothes are still on
00:22:07oh my goodness
00:22:08but it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:22:15as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my
00:22:22woes
00:22:23it was highly recommended by the hotel
00:22:27well honey this is quite relaxing
00:22:30yeah i'm having a lot of fun here
00:22:32and it's starting to rain
00:22:34oh yeah i love the rain
00:22:36yep
00:22:38gotta love the rain and the banana leaf
00:22:40oh the banana leaf
00:22:44just being here with you it's just amazing
00:22:48yeah
00:22:50i've been thinking about everything
00:22:52and i feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more
00:22:57and and so maybe i could get a job and start working here for the next few years
00:23:05wow
00:23:06i kept praying for you to stay here
00:23:09i love you baby bear
00:23:12i would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here
00:23:15i would try to help you find a job
00:23:17if not then i could work on my own
00:23:20find a better job
00:23:21i'll do what i can my love
00:23:25sheena and i from the very start have always dreamed about making our lives in the united states together
00:23:31but at this point living in the philippines is i feel the best option it means i get to be
00:23:38with sheena faster
00:23:41i feel that sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:47are way out of my bounds
00:23:50it's a big gamble
00:23:51but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears out my soul
00:23:58i personally believe you're my wife even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any you know church
00:24:05you're my wife and i don't want to be away from my second half
00:24:10and i hope that your mom would happy to respect that as our decision to make not hers
00:24:16but to us only
00:24:21well she's been blowing me up all morning sending me tons and tons of text messages
00:24:27even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder
00:24:30ever since i proposed to sheena
00:24:32i i felt like i needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer
00:24:40that's when she really started blowing me up
00:24:48my mom's always been a very controlling person
00:24:51and i'm terrified to tell her and dev that i'm planning on staying in the philippines
00:24:58i'm worried knowing that i'm going to disappoint my mom
00:25:01babe mom would strangle you everything as she can just to get rid of our relationship
00:25:08even though i happen to try to do many things for her
00:25:12it's time for you to grow up and be a man
00:25:15and try to tell mom that you want to do some things that you wanted to do
00:25:18not just following her orders her orders around
00:25:24you have to make your own decisions
00:25:28my mother she's always been my safety net
00:25:30but her meddling constantly causes conflict between
00:25:33sheena and i
00:25:35i think it's a good thing living in the philippines
00:25:38because it's going to definitely give me
00:25:41some space away from my mother
00:25:43hello mom sir excuse voice time's up
00:25:46okay thank you
00:25:47but at the same time i am 100 defying everything
00:25:52my mom has told me not to do and i'm scared
00:25:59i'm tired of waiting and i'm ready to start a life together
00:26:03it's your time to shine honey
00:26:05i'm there for you
00:26:17you have to decide it yes or no but if no
00:26:21we cannot be together anymore
00:26:23you have to decide it you want have a baby with me or not
00:26:41can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet
00:26:52but i'm in my life
00:26:59i have to decide what's going on
00:27:02and i have to do
00:27:06i have to buy all of them
00:27:13You just want the answer.
00:27:16You want to have a baby or not.
00:27:32My uncle said we are strict about having children
00:27:37because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:42That's what we believe.
00:27:44And it's not going to change.
00:27:46So we only wait for you, and you know that.
00:27:52In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:59I understand that, and I would hate for Trish
00:28:01not to be respected by her community over this.
00:28:04If Trish didn't have a baby,
00:28:07I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:28:11I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:28:20They're waiting for our answer.
00:28:24Okay.
00:28:26But at the same time, I'm feeling like
00:28:30I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:28:34I don't feel like I'm being forced
00:28:37to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:47I know how important it is to the family.
00:28:52And I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:57If we're going to be together and get married,
00:29:02then I want to make you happy.
00:29:05I mean, I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:29:10So...
00:29:13I have to say yes.
00:29:18So you're saying yes now?
00:29:21Yes.
00:29:22Why do you change your mind like that?
00:29:25I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:39I'm really excited that you're going to eat a baby.
00:29:47I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly
00:29:51because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:55Maybe because of my uncle's pressure.
00:30:00But I'm really excited.
00:30:02And also, my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:30:09Hey.
00:30:10Unpia.
00:30:11So when are we going to have the baby?
00:30:20I will file for the visa.
00:30:23It's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:30:27And then once she's approved, after we get married,
00:30:30then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:30:37Unpia.
00:30:37Unpia.
00:30:38Unpia.
00:30:40Unpia.
00:30:49Unpia.
00:31:03Unpia.
00:31:06Unpia.
00:31:08Unpia.
00:31:10Unpia.
00:31:11Unpia.
00:31:12So what if it's after 20 years, you'll start?
00:31:16By the end of August, in about three months,
00:31:20then I will propose to Trish.
00:31:24So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:31:29and you will start the process?
00:31:32If everything goes in the direction
00:31:34that it's been going in the last few days, then yes.
00:31:38That's what's going to happen.
00:31:57They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:32:03This is great news.
00:32:06I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:32:09They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:32:11Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision because I really wanted to be with Trish.
00:32:18And the only way that I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:32:24But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:32:37I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:32:44Trish.
00:32:45She would be a great mother.
00:32:48And I'm actually starting to envision it and things looking really good.
00:32:55Her happiness is all I want.
00:33:08When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:33:13I'm going to do that.
00:33:14But you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:33:21Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:33:24I can't even spend money anymore.
00:33:26I'm done.
00:33:39We have to snuggle before we get up.
00:33:41One last snuggle.
00:33:44Show me your love.
00:33:45Show me your love.
00:33:46Show me your love.
00:33:47Let me show you my love.
00:33:49Show you your love.
00:33:50Say how you carry my heart.
00:33:52Now I have more sex with you.
00:33:53Before you go.
00:33:54Before you.
00:33:56I hope so.
00:33:58I hope so.
00:33:59I hope so.
00:34:00Baby.
00:34:01Baby.
00:34:02There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:34:05One promise.
00:34:07What is that?
00:34:08Oral sex.
00:34:09Oh.
00:34:11Why are you putting it off?
00:34:14I know you like it.
00:34:15And you've been talking.
00:34:16You've been hammering on that.
00:34:18You've been.
00:34:18There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:34:21And that's a major one right there for me.
00:34:24It's major for me.
00:34:27I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:34:30Because I've never tried it before.
00:34:32I don't know how to do it.
00:34:35Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:34:38And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:34:41I am not a woman.
00:34:43I have my .
00:34:46Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:51When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:53Okay?
00:34:54Promise.
00:34:55I promise you.
00:34:56You better keep this promise because I've done so much.
00:34:59I'm sorry.
00:35:01Okay?
00:35:02I'll make it up to you.
00:35:07I wish it's possible for us to stay, like, spend, like, one more week.
00:35:12It's not possible.
00:35:14You've got to start getting ready.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:35:24And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:35:29And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:35:34And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:35:36Everything is done.
00:35:38I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:35:40I don't want to go home.
00:35:44Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:35:51I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:55So that means when you get back to America,
00:35:58you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:36:01I'm going to do that, babe.
00:36:03My first step is to get back to work.
00:36:05And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:10We are going to find out which is better,
00:36:12the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:36:16Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:36:19That would be nice.
00:36:20Okay?
00:36:21So that's what we'll do.
00:36:22That's okay.
00:36:25Right, babe.
00:36:27You do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:36:33At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer
00:36:38getting you to America, doing what we need to do.
00:36:41I cannot send any more money.
00:36:43I can't even spend money anymore.
00:36:45I'm done.
00:36:50Um, that's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is.
00:36:54Okay?
00:36:54Okay?
00:36:55So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:37:01Thanks.
00:37:03You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:37:09Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:37:13I have you.
00:37:15So we have a game plan now.
00:37:17Yes.
00:37:18Hmm.
00:37:22All right, I have to get dressed.
00:37:24You have to get dressed.
00:37:24We have to get going.
00:37:27She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:37:29Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me.
00:37:34No.
00:37:34I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:37:40She has good plans for me.
00:37:41She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:37:45She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:37:48Babes.
00:37:49What?
00:37:49This is so funny.
00:37:51Are you going to wear it today?
00:37:53Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:55What?
00:37:55They would say your wife is wicked.
00:37:58Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:38:00Oh, my God.
00:38:02So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:38:04She deserves a good, you know, good tins.
00:38:07That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:38:16What I want is love.
00:38:18And she has been giving it to me.
00:38:20I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:38:23I will miss everything about her.
00:38:27Even the sky is crying.
00:38:29It's raining.
00:38:31You're my husband.
00:38:32I love you.
00:38:33I love you.
00:38:38I knew it was going to be hard.
00:38:40I didn't know it was going to be this part.
00:38:42The last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:38:46To you.
00:38:48Oh, my God, baby.
00:38:56This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:58I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:39:01I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:39:04I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:39:09I didn't imagine any of this.
00:39:11I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:39:13I mean, none of this.
00:39:15I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:39:23I don't want to go.
00:39:27Do I have to go?
00:39:31I can't let you do with you.
00:39:33It'll happen soon.
00:39:35When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:39:55It's okay.
00:39:58It's okay, baby.
00:40:00It's okay, baby.
00:40:03I love you so much.
00:40:05I love you so, so much.
00:40:08We'll be together soon.
00:40:11Am I yours or just passing by?
00:40:15Bye, baby.
00:40:19I feel that I will not see her again because anything can happen.
00:40:26She might go back to her country and she might change her mind on most of the promises,
00:40:31like bringing me to her country, you know, the visa.
00:40:36I am hoping she will do it, but we are not married legally yet.
00:40:41So, it's very hard for them to say goodbye.
00:40:45I miss you so much.
00:40:49I love you, baby.
00:40:50I can't do it.
00:40:50You have to walk away from me.
00:40:52I can't do it.
00:41:02Okay, I'll go.
00:41:07I'll go.
00:41:12It's very hard.
00:41:13I feel like I'm not going to see them again even though I know I'm going to.
00:41:16I'm making these plans, but I'm thinking what if they fall through?
00:41:22What if it's more than six months?
00:41:24What if it's more than a year?
00:41:25What if, what if, what if it's two years?
00:41:30What happens between Daniel and I?
00:41:32I don't know.
00:41:49It's nice.
00:41:51It's a big house.
00:41:52You can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:41:55I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:41:59But she's trying to make it up to me.
00:42:01You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:42:03So the fact that I'm doing this must mean I really like you.
00:42:06It's fine.
00:42:08Oh, god.
00:42:37Chris gets the place to himself now.
00:42:40Silence is coming soon.
00:42:43It's finally peaceful on the moon.
00:42:50Blue Mountains.
00:42:53What's this?
00:42:55It's called deodorant.
00:43:00I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:43:04But Elise has realised she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me and she's
00:43:08organised a two night stay at the Blue Mountains.
00:43:11Take me away.
00:43:13The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls and it's a different part of nature besides the beaches
00:43:19that Sydney has.
00:43:20So I'm excited. You know, I've never even been.
00:43:24I wouldn't say all is forgiven, but she's trying and this is a good start.
00:43:38Oh my God, are we here?
00:43:40We are here.
00:43:42This is nice.
00:43:44It's a big house. We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:43:48Yes, we can.
00:43:52I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains, but Josh has always spoken about it and how much he wanted
00:43:58to go.
00:43:59So I decided to book us a trip.
00:44:01And there's hot tubs there. So I was like, love that.
00:44:05Look, baby, look what I got us.
00:44:07Whoa.
00:44:09Oh, wow.
00:44:10A lot of space for a lot of activity.
00:44:13You're the best.
00:44:14I know.
00:44:15I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi, away from Nat, away from Chris, away from
00:44:21boats.
00:44:22I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more.
00:44:28Get out of the kitchen. I was cooking for you.
00:44:33You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:44:36So the fact that I'm doing this for you must mean I really like you.
00:44:39That does mean a lot.
00:44:41This should be fun.
00:44:48Baby!
00:44:49What have you done?
00:44:52This is not the worst stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth.
00:44:56Oh, no.
00:44:58Baby, I'm not.
00:45:01I mean, I'm crying.
00:45:03This is ew, ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.
00:45:07Oh, that was a process.
00:45:09Half of it went in my mouth, my face, my boobs.
00:45:12Maybe, should I take it out?
00:45:16Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:45:18I don't know how to turn on the soap.
00:45:20Oh.
00:45:22Which pasta do you want?
00:45:24That's so embarrassing.
00:45:26What packer was that in?
00:45:28I'm making you two types of pasta.
00:45:30Perfect.
00:45:35Nope, not ready.
00:45:37Oh, God.
00:45:39This feels really good.
00:45:43Oh, my God.
00:45:44Oh.
00:45:47I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall.
00:45:52So, like, if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall, then you know it's ready.
00:45:56Yeah, but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta.
00:46:01Let's throw in the pasta.
00:46:05Oh, my God, there's water in here.
00:46:08Oh, I think I just ruined the sauce.
00:46:10Uh-huh.
00:46:11Baby.
00:46:13The kitchen is definitely not her element.
00:46:17I love seeing the side of Elise that's doing something that she's not used to doing.
00:46:22All right, that'll do.
00:46:23Elise, she keeps me on my toes.
00:46:26I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale, and I know it's not going to be
00:46:31dull with her.
00:46:31Let's see how we go.
00:46:34Is it good?
00:46:35It's actually not that bad.
00:46:42It's horrible.
00:46:44Be honest.
00:46:45I'm not picky.
00:46:46It was the most fun I've had making dinner.
00:46:50I laughed my head off, and I needed that.
00:46:52Me too.
00:46:54You know what's so cute about Josh is, like, when I f*** up or I do something stupid or I
00:46:59feel really awkward, like, he makes so light of it.
00:47:02But I don't know, it's the little moments, like, then, that I'm like, you know what, like, I feel like
00:47:08he could be my forever.
00:47:10But there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on, and it's been constantly playing in the back of my
00:47:15mind.
00:47:16I don't know if I can go back to Florida not having met your son to see how you are
00:47:24as a father.
00:47:25You would have met him already. I would want you to. But he's moved away. So, for now, like, can
00:47:32we FaceTime? Will that work?
00:47:34Yeah.
00:47:35I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through.
00:47:38But I'm leaving soon, and I haven't met anyone in his family. I haven't met his son.
00:47:43And this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing out on.
00:47:48So I really, really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip.
00:47:53Pretty full.
00:47:54Let me tell.
00:47:56Let me tell.
00:47:59We're looking for wedding bands. I like classic stuff.
00:48:04It is really important for me to have the wedding ring.
00:48:10$268.
00:48:12I think he's not sure.
00:48:15You don't want someone mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:48:20They can have you.
00:48:21Okay.
00:48:23Okay.
00:48:38It's disastrous.
00:48:40Sure.
00:48:40Why not?
00:48:43We have a wiener!
00:48:46Yeah.
00:48:47You really wanted that, don't you?
00:48:50Yeah.
00:48:52Here we go!
00:48:53Wee!
00:48:55Ready, boo?
00:48:56Woo!
00:48:57Woo!
00:49:03Oops!
00:49:09That ticked off my belly!
00:49:19That was fun, yeah.
00:49:20That was so fun.
00:49:22Oh, look at those shops.
00:49:25That's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses.
00:49:29Like, really pretty.
00:49:31Nice.
00:49:33Can't wait for the anniversary party.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:39Things with Jovon and I are really good.
00:49:42And now, in a couple of days, we're having our anniversary party, where we're going to renew our vows.
00:49:51Since we never had a wedding in person, basically, it's just like a second wedding to me, you know?
00:49:59Because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face.
00:50:05I've been dreaming about this.
00:50:07And now it's happening and I just can't wait.
00:50:12Okay, boo.
00:50:14Yee!
00:50:16Are you ready?
00:50:17Yeah, I guess so.
00:50:21Now that we're going to renew our vows,
00:50:25Good afternoon.
00:50:27We decided to look at rings.
00:50:31We've been married almost three years and sometimes I still can't believe that Jovon hasn't put a ring on it
00:50:39yet.
00:50:40I feel like I'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band.
00:50:47Hi.
00:50:49Hello, what are you looking for?
00:50:51We're looking for wedding bands.
00:50:53We have different styles.
00:50:55Okay.
00:50:55What are you prepared for?
00:50:57Well, I'm okay with a simple, plain wedding band.
00:51:01I want it more classic.
00:51:04I like classic stuff.
00:51:09This one.
00:51:14It is really important for me to have the wedding ring, my symbol of love.
00:51:20You need a ring to symbolize that?
00:51:22I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:51:28They can have you.
00:51:29Okay.
00:51:32She's on the market.
00:51:33I'll go, I'll go.
00:51:34I'm playing.
00:51:35Relax.
00:51:36When is your wedding?
00:51:39Well, we're actually married already.
00:51:41We don't have an official wedding rings yet.
00:51:45We did our marriage online.
00:51:46That's why.
00:51:47You're a liar.
00:51:49You know, to be fair, you know, I did get you a ring.
00:51:54Okay.
00:51:55You sent me your money and I bought a ring that's under $100.
00:52:01That's turned my finger green.
00:52:03But that's what you wanted.
00:52:06I thought.
00:52:06No, I thought this is just a substitute ring.
00:52:09Mm.
00:52:10How about Borsair?
00:52:12What do you think?
00:52:13When it comes to bands, like, I prefer, like, black like this, silver in the middle.
00:52:20Kind of sporty, but they don't sell that.
00:52:25I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married.
00:52:30And I like it a lot.
00:52:33I'm not a jewelry person.
00:52:35And I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need or want.
00:52:42This one is good.
00:52:43It's just that it's too skinny.
00:52:48Like, do you have something that's a little bit wider?
00:52:52I have different kind of design.
00:52:54Okay.
00:52:58This one is good.
00:52:59I like this one.
00:53:00More simple, but really looks like I'm married.
00:53:06You know what I mean?
00:53:07How much is this?
00:53:10Per gram, no?
00:53:1215,510 in peso.
00:53:1415,510.
00:53:15How much is that in US?
00:53:16That's 268 in dollar.
00:53:19268, yeah.
00:53:21Do you have anything budget?
00:53:22No, we didn't really have a budget.
00:53:25No, we didn't really have a budget.
00:53:27She's not...
00:53:28We didn't really talk about that.
00:53:30Are we going to buy this?
00:53:33We mean today?
00:53:35Yeah.
00:53:36Yeah.
00:53:37I can come back a little.
00:53:45You can come back.
00:53:47Yeah.
00:53:50Because I got to sort out my bank stuff.
00:53:51Yeah.
00:53:51Yeah.
00:53:52Okay.
00:53:55Why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not going to buy anything anyway?
00:54:02What's the point of going out?
00:54:04Mm-hmm.
00:54:05Just to get an idea of what you want.
00:54:07What you want.
00:54:15Thank you so much.
00:54:17Bye-bye.
00:54:19I feel so humiliated that I can't even have the cheapest ring.
00:54:26It's not just a jewelry.
00:54:28It's a symbol of our marriage.
00:54:32I waited six years to be together in person.
00:54:36He never applied for a spousal visa.
00:54:39And now, I still don't have a ring.
00:54:44Once again, he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship.
00:54:52That was embarrassing.
00:54:55A little bit.
00:54:57You just don't care, don't you?
00:55:07I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you.
00:55:11I really don't.
00:55:12I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:55:17I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:55:21There's a lot of layers there.
00:55:23And, I mean...
00:55:39Oh.
00:55:44Hey.
00:55:45Hey.
00:55:46A little concern from that phone call you gave me.
00:55:49Yeah.
00:55:50Me too.
00:56:01I'm assuming you've talked in beer con?
00:56:03Yeah, I did.
00:56:04It was super great.
00:56:06Thanks for that.
00:56:07I kind of partly blame you.
00:56:10Okay.
00:56:13I don't know.
00:56:14You don't know?
00:56:15I don't know what was said between you and him.
00:56:18I only know mine in the story.
00:56:20Okay.
00:56:21So, we have to come together.
00:56:23Okay.
00:56:24Super curious.
00:56:25What was going through your head telling him that I hit on you?
00:56:31Like, I don't understand how that even came up.
00:56:35We never did anything.
00:56:36No, we did not.
00:56:37I was pissed off about it because I didn't tell him.
00:56:40Told me that he wishes he never met me.
00:56:43And I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up.
00:56:48Okay.
00:56:49And I'd like to know why you did.
00:56:51Okay.
00:56:53I'm brought it up because beer con was under the impression that I was in love with you.
00:56:58That man kept pushing and pushing and pushing.
00:57:03And at some point, I needed him to understand that I said no to us having a relationship.
00:57:11But you were the one that asked.
00:57:13And from that, he got very upset.
00:57:14And I tried to reassure him it was a year ago.
00:57:16It didn't.
00:57:18I mean, it was before you met him.
00:57:20I feel like, honestly, it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it.
00:57:27How long have you been here with him?
00:57:32Two and a half weeks.
00:57:33And in two and a half weeks, you cannot convince him that was not a threat.
00:57:43But that's not on me.
00:57:44I did everything I could to defuse that situation.
00:57:49I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you.
00:57:53I really don't.
00:57:54I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:57:59I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:58:05There's a lot of layers there.
00:58:07But no, that's not something I want to happen.
00:58:11Anyhow.
00:58:13We're friends.
00:58:15I don't want to anymore.
00:58:18At the end of the day, I want you to be happy.
00:58:21All I ever heard was little stories here and there about him from you.
00:58:24You said all these bad things.
00:58:27And just, why does she keep talking to this guy?
00:58:30So I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff.
00:58:34And you don't have to worry about him and I anymore.
00:58:37You just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you.
00:58:40Before you make a commitment.
00:58:42I don't even know what to do right now.
00:58:44There's part of me that just wants to go have another conversation with him.
00:58:47But I don't even know what to say.
00:58:48Because he just told me he wishes he never met me.
00:58:51But the opposite of love is not anger, it's apathy.
00:58:54So angry means he still loves you.
00:58:58I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically.
00:59:05But I think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind.
00:59:09And I think he does care about the future of my relationship with BeerCon.
00:59:14BeerCon is the person I need in my life.
00:59:17And I want to fix this.
00:59:20I just don't really know how to go about it.
00:59:23So what do I do?
00:59:26I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal.
00:59:30Do you acknowledge that he felt the way he did?
00:59:33It didn't matter whether he was right or not.
00:59:36No, I never said that.
00:59:38At the end of the day, the relationship is more important than the argument.
00:59:45Which means somebody has to say I'm sorry.
00:59:49It's amazing how the words I'm sorry when said truly can diffuse the situation.
00:59:55Okay.
00:59:56I see your point.
00:59:58I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that.
01:00:08I'll let you know how it goes.
01:00:11Yeah.
01:00:30How are you?
01:00:33I'm good.
01:00:34Okay.
01:00:34How are you?
01:00:35I'm okay.
01:00:38I was just wondering if we could talk.
01:00:45Not today.
01:00:48I'm sorry.
01:00:48Did you say not today?
01:00:51Yeah.
01:00:55Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
01:00:58I'm sorry.
01:00:59Just give me that space.
01:01:04Okay.
01:01:05I guess I will get a room somewhere.
01:01:09Okay.
01:01:10Okay.
01:01:11We both need time.
01:01:13Yeah.
01:01:14And we both need to think about what's going on.
01:01:17Mm-hmm.
01:01:19Okay.
01:01:22Okay.
01:01:23Bye.
01:01:26Bye.
01:01:32I don't want to force you, but like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:37When Elise asked to meet my son, I can see that she really, really cares.
01:01:41But honestly, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts about trying to let her in to the
01:01:46most important part of my life.
01:01:56Oh, my God.
01:01:58Oh, that's hot.
01:01:59Oh, that's hot.
01:01:59It's hot, huh?
01:02:00Oh, it's really hot.
01:02:03That's burning me.
01:02:05Oh, you found the champagne I got.
01:02:07It did.
01:02:08Sound good.
01:02:09I think we should open it.
01:02:14Wow.
01:02:16Cheers to that.
01:02:25What a perfect ending to a perfect little guy.
01:02:29Good drive.
01:02:31Good cooking.
01:02:34It's so funny, huh?
01:02:35So funny.
01:02:36Okay.
01:02:37I tried.
01:02:39So am I making it up to you?
01:02:41Am I doing a good job so far?
01:02:43Yeah, absolutely.
01:02:45Well, have I made it up to you enough that, like, you can let me in your own world?
01:02:52You have.
01:02:55Well, I want to be with you and I'm scared that I've came literally around the world and all I've
01:03:02met is, like, a few friends.
01:03:04And I don't want to force you, but, like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:03:14When Elise asks to meet my son or, you know, talk to my son, I find that endearing.
01:03:19But honestly, the last couple of days, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts about whether I'll
01:03:25introduce him or not.
01:03:27Obviously, I'm very protective of my son, so I want to be confident that this relationship is going to work.
01:03:34I understand he's young and it's like a video call and it's probably, like, a lot to explain to him.
01:03:41Yeah, I do want to prove how much you mean to me. But, um, that's been playing on me heavily.
01:03:51What's been playing on you heavily? Explain that.
01:03:54It's just been a tough year. I didn't move him away, but, you know, it was an hour and a
01:04:02half plane ride and I don't see him as much as I want.
01:04:07I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can, so it's just
01:04:12a guilty feeling for me at the moment.
01:04:16So, I miss him, you know, especially when you're here, you know.
01:04:23Really?
01:04:23Well, yeah, well, because when you're here, I think, you know, if he was here as well, it'd be like,
01:04:28I'd love you two to get along and then it'd be like a perfect little world.
01:04:35I guess it's just painful to think about it.
01:04:40It's okay to have feelings and it's okay to be upset.
01:04:45If you weren't emotional about your son and you didn't feel this way, I would be worried. I'd be very,
01:04:50very worried.
01:04:52That means you're a good dad and it means you care.
01:04:59You know, it's like having a son's a responsibility and, like, excitement and you do things with him.
01:05:03And then when something like that gets taken away from you, you're like, I feel like I lost myself.
01:05:10Yeah, I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself.
01:05:15My relationship with my son, we're really tight.
01:05:18I've been there since he was born.
01:05:20He's my little partner in crime.
01:05:22We go camping, we go fishing, surfing, you know, we kick footballs, we go and play golf.
01:05:28It's such a good part of my life.
01:05:31So, it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that.
01:05:37I want to help make you feel like you're back together.
01:05:43I want to be that rock for you.
01:05:47I ain't gonna do that.
01:05:50Be there for you, support you in any way I can.
01:05:52But you have to let me into your life.
01:05:55I can't do that without getting brought into your life.
01:06:01This is very emotional because being away from my son affected me, you know, more than I thought.
01:06:07But I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life.
01:06:11I can see that she really, really cares.
01:06:13She's shown that she's worthy of, you know, getting to know my son.
01:06:18But at the same time, it is scary to let her in, the most important part of my life.
01:06:23What if things don't work out?
01:06:24You know, that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us.
01:06:28Well, I'm here for you now.
01:06:52I mean, after getting her family's approval.
01:06:56I mean, after getting her family's approval.
01:06:59I just f*** it up.
01:07:03I don't want anything from church.
01:07:09I just f*** it.
01:07:27Well, I don't want anything from church.
01:07:28I'm here for you.
01:07:29The music is always better.
01:07:32I'm not a big fan.
01:07:33I'm not a big fan of church.
01:07:33I'm a big fan of church.
01:07:34I'm 볼úe.
01:07:34How are you?
01:07:35I'm a big fan of church.
01:07:35I can't believe you're out there.
01:07:35I'm a big fan of church.
01:07:35My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:07:48Hello, man.
01:07:49Now.
01:07:50Thank you for your blessing.
01:07:52Oh, my brother cried.
01:07:54Hello, man.
01:08:00I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes,
01:08:04that I'm willing to have a child.
01:08:05But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:08:10Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family,
01:08:14but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:08:18Now Trisha and I, we can sleep together and, you know,
01:08:21take a nice warm shower together
01:08:23and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:08:29They were really happy.
01:08:31You see all of them?
01:08:33Wasn't it?
01:08:33Oh, wasn't it?
01:08:36I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off
01:08:39after I said that, after I agreed to have that baby.
01:08:44They're so sweet.
01:08:46Gonna miss them.
01:08:50I'm ready to have a baby.
01:09:14I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind
01:09:18about whether or not I'm financially ready to have another child.
01:09:23But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises,
01:09:28this could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family.
01:09:33I know how much her family means to her, so I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:09:41I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:09:48But, um, yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:09:54It looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:09:58I know.
01:09:58Our future.
01:10:04You do love me.
01:10:07I love you more than anything.
01:10:20You have to eat the restaurant or anything?
01:10:23No, I don't.
01:10:24I don't eat anything like this, um, only chicken.
01:10:32Well, damn.
01:10:35My flight's been delayed.
01:10:37That's it.
01:10:37We wait for one hour.
01:10:41Hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana.
01:10:45A couple of days in Tana before my baby.
01:10:55That's really sad.
01:10:58Sad story.
01:11:01It's just all beginning.
01:11:29We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:11:33The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her, and I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:11:41Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:11:45And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone, and it kind of hit me that, um, I noticed
01:11:56she kept looking over at my phone, um, and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:12:05Is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:12:10Yes.
01:12:27And then she was telling me that, um, you know, she misses the times that we, we had together, and,
01:12:38and I responded.
01:12:40And, uh, responded inappropriately.
01:13:03And then, uh, responded inappropriately.
01:13:10I was like...
01:13:17He told me that he's not talking to his ex.
01:13:21That it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:13:27But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:13:35Baby.
01:13:42He makes me sad.
01:13:51Like, I love him.
01:13:54We talk about the babies, the future, and I, we just, my dad just give him blessing.
01:14:18I mean, after getting her family's approval, everything is felt, it felt different than
01:14:25it did the whole couple weeks prior.
01:14:29How did I come so close to getting my, what I wanted, and then I just up?
01:14:40And I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:14:45And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:14:58Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:15:04We are leaving tomorrow.
01:15:06I know my mom is not going to accept it, but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:15:11to ensure
01:15:12Shane and I are together.
01:15:13I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:15:18This is our choice.
01:15:20What the f*** you just came out of your mouth?
01:15:43Man, I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today.
01:15:45I know he feels relaxed when mom is sitting around in her bed and sorry mood.
01:15:51We okay, I, we okay, I, dokey, dokey, the sound of my heartbeat.
01:15:57We okay, I, dokey, dokey, I, dokey, dokey.
01:16:02So when I talked to Forrest, he's like, oh, surprise mom.
01:16:06I went and talked, met with a lawyer and the lawyer says he has to have like a certain
01:16:11amount of income, something like, like that.
01:16:14He didn't do anything right at all.
01:16:18I'm upset right now.
01:16:20Forrest is coming back and for the last few days, Dev and I haven't heard anything from
01:16:25Forrest or Sheena and we've just felt like we're kind of been left in the dark.
01:16:29You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic
01:16:38vacation.
01:16:39I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:16:45We're supposed to be flying out tomorrow and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning
01:16:52at all.
01:17:01Hey, mom.
01:17:04How's things going?
01:17:06It's going pretty good.
01:17:07How are you guys?
01:17:12Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:16I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:20That's kind of why we're here.
01:17:24Today was supposed to be my last day in the Philippines, but Sheena and I have made the
01:17:30decision for me to stay here and basically start a life here with her.
01:17:36You ready?
01:17:36Yeah, we're going to have to go.
01:17:38Let's go.
01:17:38All right, guys.
01:17:39I know that my mom is not going to accept it, but she has to understand that I'm not the
01:17:46child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:17:49I have changed a lot.
01:17:51This is a trip and I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Sheena and I are
01:17:55together.
01:18:01Oh, my God.
01:18:03Wow.
01:18:04Look at that.
01:18:06They move to every ethnic race.
01:18:10Look at that.
01:18:15It came from originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put
01:18:21their feet and they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet.
01:18:25It's just like it tells a whole story.
01:18:27Yes.
01:18:27It's just a damn.
01:18:28I agree.
01:18:29Oh, my goodness.
01:18:30Oh, look at that.
01:18:31Yay!
01:18:33Oh, thank you.
01:18:35Oh, that's beautiful.
01:18:36That's awesome.
01:18:37Good job, guys.
01:18:38That's awesome.
01:18:39Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo, but you have to be
01:18:45in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time.
01:18:48Kind of like life.
01:18:50Well, I think Sheena and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:18:57Yeah, definitely.
01:19:03So, Sheena, do we get menus or how does it work?
01:19:08There's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:19:16Oh, thank you so much.
01:19:21So, with the, the, um, where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give me all
01:19:28the details.
01:19:30Um, yeah, I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded in more ways than one.
01:19:46You had sex, didn't you?
01:19:52You know what?
01:19:53Yeah, we did.
01:19:56Now, time.
01:19:58I enjoyed it.
01:19:59It was fun.
01:20:04You guys think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:20:10Yeah.
01:20:12I feel like our souls have really connected and now we can really understand each other.
01:20:22I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity, finally, you know.
01:20:28Nookie, nookie, nookie.
01:20:29Bang, bang, bang, bang.
01:20:32Then, also, too, that's an important aspect, to know if they had compatibility on all aspects,
01:20:39including sexuality.
01:20:42Well, that's good.
01:20:44I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized, finally.
01:20:47That's, yeah, mom.
01:20:52Well, you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:20:58Tomorrow, but it must be very painful, but are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and
01:21:11get you over to the United States?
01:21:14Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:21:19Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:21:25Yeah, we talked a lot yesterday. With the K-1 visa, I found out that being on disability, I don't
01:21:35make enough money.
01:21:37So, she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:21:46Forrest?
01:21:48I'm tired of being alone.
01:21:50Oh, my God.
01:21:51I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:21:56Oh, you didn't expect to fall.
01:21:59I want my love with me in my second half.
01:22:01This is our choice.
01:22:04What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:07Mom.
01:22:08Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:22:11Was that in between the ?
01:22:13Excuse me.
01:22:15You can say one thing something you want to say, but for me, I have him. He had me.
01:22:19I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:22:20I'm doing my best for my part for your son, because I love your son, and I've worked everything
01:22:24hard for him for our future.
01:22:26I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:22:33I trust my son.
01:22:35I don't trust you.
01:22:41I'm sorry.
01:22:42I just want to need space.
01:22:44I'm sorry.
01:22:46I'm sorry.
01:22:47Excuse me.
01:22:54Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:57When do you plan on applying for the fiance visa so I can live in Belize?
01:23:02I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
01:23:07No.
01:23:09Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the U.S.
01:23:12It's two hours before I'm leaving.
01:23:14It's just really weird timing.
01:23:16You won't be able to make any money.
01:23:17I swear you're going to be my sugar mama.
01:23:21I wish we could have talked it out last night.
01:23:24You've been texting with him this morning?
01:23:26What has he been saying?
01:23:27I asked him if we could talk, and he said sure.
01:23:31I want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger
01:23:35than how I ever felt about Michael.
01:23:39Why did you mislead me when Michael made the move?
01:23:42I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
01:23:49Can you do that?
01:23:53Are you excited about today?
01:23:55I think I should ask you that question, though.
01:23:59I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
01:24:02It's just going to be, like, the basics.
01:24:33I just wanted today to be full of love.
01:24:35What do you think that you're going to make working here?
01:24:37Where are you going to live, Forrest?
01:24:39Have you even factored how much it's going to cost?
01:24:43I don't know what to do.
01:24:47All the messages in the text.
01:24:49Why did you betray me?
01:24:52Why don't you block her?
01:24:54If you want this relationship, tell her that you don't want her anymore.
01:24:58That I'm with you.
01:25:01I love Trish.
01:25:03But love isn't so black and white.
01:25:07I need to be honest about my feelings.
01:25:11I don't know what to do.
01:25:14Oh, my God.
01:25:17Stunning.
01:25:17I don't think Elyse realized, you know, what she'd signed up for.
01:25:21Mom!
01:25:22What's wrong, baby?
01:25:23I'm so wrong, babe.
01:25:25Come on, baby.
01:25:27What do I do?
01:25:28Yeah, first, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen.
01:25:33I start to think, oh, is she okay?
01:25:36Get down!
01:25:38Get down!
01:25:39Get down!
01:25:39Get down!
01:25:39Get down!
01:25:40Get down!
01:25:40Get down!
01:25:40Get down!
01:25:41Get down!
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