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90 Day Fiance- Before The 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 18 - Emergency Exit
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04Will you marry me?
00:00:06Yes.
00:00:10I feel the surprises, but this is definitely the best one.
00:00:14This is my fiancée, Aviva.
00:00:16This is my fiancée's day.
00:00:19I love you, babe.
00:00:21I love you, too.
00:00:25I don't know if I can go back to Florida
00:00:29not having met your son.
00:00:31I'm leaving soon, and this is a huge part of his life
00:00:35that I'm completely missing out on.
00:00:37I would want you to, but it's moved away.
00:00:41Like, can we FaceTime?
00:00:43Yeah.
00:00:46This one is good. I like this one.
00:00:49Are we gonna buy this?
00:00:52I gotta sort out my bank store.
00:00:55It is really important for me to have the wedding ring.
00:00:59I feel so humiliated.
00:01:02It's not just jewelry.
00:01:04It's a symbol of our marriage.
00:01:07You just don't care, don't you?
00:01:09Yeah.
00:01:13At the end of the day, somebody has to say, I'm sorry.
00:01:16I don't really think that it's that big of a deal
00:01:20that I didn't tell BeerCon I had made a move on Michael.
00:01:24But BeerCon is the person I need in my life.
00:01:27I was just wondering if we could talk.
00:01:30Uh-uh. Not today.
00:01:32Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
00:01:35I'm sorry.
00:01:40They must see.
00:01:42.
00:01:44Trish saw that my ex had texted me,
00:01:48and I responded inappropriately.
00:01:54And bring him to my father's house.
00:01:57We talk about the babies, the future.
00:02:04I don't want anything from you.
00:02:07She and I have decided that I'm going to stay here
00:02:11and live here in the Philippines.
00:02:14Oh, my God.
00:02:15I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
00:02:21I trust my son.
00:02:23I don't trust you.
00:02:26I'm sorry.
00:02:27I just want to need space.
00:02:47What is the scariest thing I've done?
00:02:49I mean, if I had to think of the craziest thing sexually I've done,
00:02:52this is crazy.
00:02:54I mean, my ex was flying the plane,
00:02:56and I was having sex with him while he was flying the plane.
00:02:58Like,
00:02:59I don't want to hear that.
00:03:01You don't?
00:03:01No.
00:03:02Okay, sorry.
00:03:12I don't typically do crazy adventure stuff.
00:03:15It's not because I don't want to do it,
00:03:17but, like, I just don't.
00:03:19So I'm happy I'm able.
00:03:20I found this and we can do it.
00:03:22Yeah, I'm excited.
00:03:24Anything to put a smile in your face?
00:03:27You put a smile in your face.
00:03:29Period.
00:03:31My time in Australia is almost coming to an end,
00:03:34and everything seems good right now between Josh and I.
00:03:38After our talk,
00:03:39Josh said that he's going to work on setting up a FaceTime call with his son,
00:03:42and, like, I am so happy about that.
00:03:45It makes me feel like there's a lot of hope in the future for us.
00:03:49But in the meantime,
00:03:50I know he's adventurous,
00:03:51and he loves to do adventurous stuff.
00:03:53So I decided to take him to do something called abseiling.
00:03:57Do you even know what abseiling is?
00:03:59I have no idea what abseiling is.
00:04:02I heard abs.
00:04:03I heard sailing.
00:04:04It sounded cool,
00:04:05so I just booked the thing.
00:04:07You can't make fun of me if I'm bad at this,
00:04:09because it's A for I'm forever trying.
00:04:12Are you scared of heights?
00:04:14Not really.
00:04:15I mean, it's not like I love them.
00:04:17It'd be fun.
00:04:18Really?
00:04:18Yep.
00:04:21We're here.
00:04:22Yay!
00:04:23Let's do this thing.
00:04:26How are we going?
00:04:27Hi!
00:04:28Hey, Mitch.
00:04:29Josh, how are you?
00:04:30Elyse.
00:04:30Hey, nice to meet you.
00:04:32Whereabouts are you from?
00:04:33Sydney.
00:04:34Sydney?
00:04:34Miami.
00:04:35Wow.
00:04:36So we're going canyoning today,
00:04:37and we're going to be abseiling down a waterfall.
00:04:40Oh, I have to get wet.
00:04:42Yeah.
00:04:43You will be getting submerged and jumping into pools of water.
00:04:47Oh.
00:04:47And you have to go abseil off the waterfall.
00:04:51Cool.
00:04:51Exciting?
00:04:52Yep.
00:04:53Excited?
00:04:54Yep.
00:04:54Yep.
00:04:55Cool.
00:04:55Awesome.
00:04:59Here we go.
00:05:03Oh, my God.
00:05:05Well, it's stunning.
00:05:07Oh, my God.
00:05:08Oh, my God.
00:05:08So that's the waterfall we're going to be abseiling down.
00:05:13Here is the cardio.
00:05:14Get that ass in check.
00:05:16Yeah, it's a good view.
00:05:18Really?
00:05:18Yep.
00:05:19Okay, go.
00:05:19Okay.
00:05:20I don't think Elyse realised, you know, what she'd signed up for, but that's a lot.
00:05:25You know, it can be quite hairy.
00:05:27Yeah?
00:05:27.
00:05:28Am I going to be sleeping?
00:05:29So we get up to this canyon, and we have to change in our wetsuits because we're going
00:05:33through rock pools.
00:05:34I don't want to do this.
00:05:36I don't want to do this.
00:05:36It's fun.
00:05:37It's fun.
00:05:39I don't want to do this.
00:05:41Yeah, you do.
00:05:49Come on, baby.
00:05:50I don't want to.
00:05:51Let's go.
00:05:53Come on.
00:05:54Come on.
00:05:56Yes.
00:05:57Woo!
00:05:59Woo!
00:06:00Woo!
00:06:00Woo!
00:06:01Woo!
00:06:01Woo!
00:06:01If I had read the description before doing this, I would never have taken him.
00:06:06It's scary.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:09Let's go.
00:06:10Jump in.
00:06:15Yeah, dude.
00:06:17Dude, that was sick.
00:06:19The guy's like, oh, you have the cannonball, like, three feet over a rock.
00:06:22I'm like, the .
00:06:23Not me.
00:06:24I'm not doing that.
00:06:26Ready?
00:06:27One, good job.
00:06:28Yeah!
00:06:30Woo!
00:06:30Come on.
00:06:31Come on.
00:06:31Come on.
00:06:31Guess what?
00:06:32I did it.
00:06:33She's such a trooper.
00:06:34Thanks, babe.
00:06:38Dude, you did.
00:06:39I did.
00:06:40Oh, my gosh.
00:06:41Oh, my gosh.
00:06:43I don't like this at all, actually.
00:06:47Oh.
00:06:53Good girl.
00:06:54Good girl.
00:06:55No, no, no.
00:06:56I'm done, baby.
00:06:57I'm so done.
00:06:58Hey, we're almost there.
00:06:59Almost there.
00:07:00Really?
00:07:00Yeah.
00:07:01.
00:07:03What the ?
00:07:04I can't feel my hands.
00:07:10It's so cold.
00:07:22I cannot feel my hands.
00:07:24How am I doing this?
00:07:27I'm shaking, like, this is not good.
00:07:30It'll be rough.
00:07:32Oh, my God.
00:07:34I'm scared.
00:07:35I'm freezing.
00:07:36Do you feel my legs shivering?
00:07:38Mm-hmm.
00:07:40You're next.
00:07:41I can't do this anymore.
00:07:42You're right.
00:07:43You're right.
00:07:44I can't do this.
00:07:45I want to get off now.
00:07:48Hey.
00:07:48Like, I want to get home.
00:07:50I don't want to do this.
00:07:51Hey.
00:07:52Hey.
00:07:53You have to get down there.
00:07:55Get down there.
00:07:57It's all right.
00:07:58Hey.
00:07:59You're gonna be all right.
00:08:00Uh-uh.
00:08:01You're gonna be all right.
00:08:02You're gonna be all right.
00:08:02Oh.
00:08:03I am scared out of my mind.
00:08:07Two hours of jumping through frigid, cold water.
00:08:11I'm starting to get hypothermia.
00:08:15And, like, I exaggerate a lot, but this is not an exaggeration.
00:08:19I can't do this.
00:08:23I want to get down.
00:08:25But the only way to get down is to go down this massive waterfall.
00:08:31I feel like I'm gonna die.
00:08:33Ah!
00:08:34Ah!
00:08:35Oh, my God!
00:08:36Ah!
00:08:37I can't do this!
00:08:39What do I do?
00:08:42Ah!
00:08:43Ah!
00:08:45Ah!
00:08:46Ah!
00:08:47Ah!
00:08:48Ah!
00:08:48Ah!
00:08:49Ah!
00:08:50Ah!
00:08:54Ah!
00:08:55Ah!
00:08:57Ah!
00:08:57Ah!
00:09:04I'm sorry.
00:09:05I just want to need space.
00:09:11Forrest, I'm telling you, you're making a mistake.
00:09:15I love her, and I know we can do things here together.
00:09:18I know I can live here.
00:09:28I've chosen Sheena to be my wife, and you need to trust my decision and trust her.
00:09:34Stop thinking with your pecker and start thinking with your brain.
00:09:39Forrest telling me that he's gonna move to the Philippines.
00:09:43You know, I'm like in panic mode.
00:09:45It's not gonna work.
00:09:47It won't work.
00:09:49Forrest can be way too optimistic at times, and his autism can affect that because he isn't able to focus
00:09:57in on what the realities are.
00:10:01My whole point is to protect Forrest, to make sure that his needs are met, and I don't think Sheena
00:10:09can do it.
00:10:10I know full well that if you moved here, yes, you'd be with Sheena, all that.
00:10:16And then the whole goal of ever trying to get you to the United States would just go out the
00:10:20window.
00:10:21And you would have to accept that.
00:10:31I need to take a breath for a bit.
00:10:33Sorry.
00:10:38When Forrest told her our plans, Molly was so much explosive, I felt that I was kind of a bit
00:10:44scared, and I wanted to take a break.
00:10:47But I know that I need to stand up for myself and for Forrest.
00:10:54Have you even factored how much it's gonna cost, how much the bills are?
00:11:00Where are you gonna live, Forrest?
00:11:03Sheena and I will go get a place of our own.
00:11:06I will take good care of yourself.
00:11:07And pay with all your money.
00:11:09I am a professional, and I could look, I could, you know.
00:11:12You could this, you could that, you could this.
00:11:15How much is rent here?
00:11:17How much, 900 a month?
00:11:19No, you can get places for $300, $400.
00:11:22A lot cheaper for a month.
00:11:23So she makes about $500 a month, and that's right?
00:11:26Yes, yes.
00:11:27US dollars.
00:11:28So she makes $500 a month, and you're getting, saying that rent is $400?
00:11:37That leaves $100 to pay your bills, your utilities, buy food.
00:11:42And we have, we have, I have him, he have me.
00:11:45Sheena.
00:11:45And I will take care of your son.
00:11:47You don't have to worry about that.
00:11:49You are living on daydreams, and living on the thought of love.
00:11:53And happy homemaker, and being in a little house, and all that.
00:11:56No, no.
00:11:56I love your son, and I'll do anything my best for him.
00:11:59Your mom doesn't pay the bills, Sheena.
00:12:05Mom, there's gonna be lots of hurdles.
00:12:08But how the visa works here, that allows me to live here in the country, and get employment here.
00:12:15You've never worked here.
00:12:16You've had one job in your life.
00:12:19You are on disability.
00:12:20I have to overcome my own challenges.
00:12:23You are on disability for a reason.
00:12:25You do have autism.
00:12:28And I want you to be able, I want you to get a job.
00:12:32I want you to better yourself.
00:12:33But of course, you need to plan things out better.
00:12:38Do the right process, or you come back to the United States.
00:12:43Contact Social Security, and say that you want to start working.
00:12:48Then you go through the vocational rehabilitation programs the government provides.
00:12:52See what type of job and money you can make.
00:12:54See how you can save up.
00:12:56You can't just say, oh, there is this magical miracle job that you haven't even applied for,
00:13:01that you know nothing about, that you don't even know what their requirements are.
00:13:04You don't know anything.
00:13:07You have to go on the assumption that you could not get a job here.
00:13:12And even if you do, how much do you think that you're going to make working here?
00:13:26No.
00:13:27I want you to be here, my love.
00:13:29I'm six and seven. You're so hard for me.
00:13:32Oh, God.
00:13:32Lucy, I'm not sure.
00:13:34Oh, it's so hard for the seven years.
00:13:37Don't start the tears, Sheena, please.
00:13:37Stop. I can't. You don't know how I feel.
00:13:39It's hard for me for the last seven minutes of waiting for him.
00:13:44It's so stressful.
00:13:53I don't know what to do.
00:13:56I love Sheena so much, but I can't help thinking that my mom is right.
00:14:02That living here in the Philippines is definitely going to be a bigger challenge than what I thought it was
00:14:08going to be.
00:14:10What if I can't get a job here successfully?
00:14:13I can't, I can't be a burden on Sheena, especially, I just can't, can't do that.
00:14:26Sheena, I feel conflicted about everything.
00:14:30I don't want to leave you, but I think that I might have to go home.
00:14:38I'm going to work, make some money, and then I'm going to apply for the K-1 visa.
00:14:46I don't know, my love.
00:14:49If things doesn't work, it's the end of my story.
00:14:54It's not the end of the story of Sheena.
00:14:57I love you, that's why I gave you this ring.
00:15:00This ring is a promise.
00:15:03If the K-1 visa doesn't work out, then I'll move back here, and I'm going to get married too.
00:15:10I will not give up.
00:15:23This is my husband, Javon.
00:15:25Hello, nice meeting you.
00:15:26Nice meeting you.
00:15:27Happy doing your hair and makeup today.
00:15:28Okay.
00:15:29We are finally going to do our renewal of vows.
00:15:33I'm very happy.
00:15:35I've been waiting for this for a long time.
00:15:38I just, I don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
00:15:40I mean, I invited my whole family and friends to go to see you.
00:15:43I would really put an effort.
00:15:48I brought you something.
00:15:50I hope that our time apart would give both of us time to cool down.
00:15:57I want to show him that I'm serious about our relationship.
00:16:00Why did you mislead me when Michael made the move?
00:16:03I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
00:16:08Can you do that?
00:16:12Can you do that?
00:16:27Okay.
00:16:28Hey.
00:16:29Hi.
00:16:30Good morning.
00:16:31Good morning po, Ma'am Anna and Sergio Bon.
00:16:33Welcome to Balai Indang.
00:16:35Ah, the hair and makeup is up.
00:16:37Oh, okay.
00:16:38I'm going to put you in the top.
00:16:39Ready?
00:16:40Yeah, ready.
00:16:43This is a nice door.
00:16:50Enjoy.
00:16:52Hi.
00:16:53Good morning.
00:16:54Hello.
00:16:56Today is the day that we are finally going to do our renewal of vows.
00:17:01Good morning.
00:17:02Hi, Hanna.
00:17:03Hi, nice meeting you.
00:17:04I'm Ray.
00:17:05This is my husband, Javon.
00:17:06Nice meeting you.
00:17:07I'll be doing your hair and makeup today.
00:17:10Okay.
00:17:10You ready to start?
00:17:12I'm as rare as I'm ever going to be.
00:17:16We never had a real wedding, so today is very important for us.
00:17:22I'm very happy.
00:17:24Been waiting for this for a long time.
00:17:27The part of me is a little bit down.
00:17:30When I think about the ring, I don't have.
00:17:34But I want to stay positive, though.
00:17:38It's his first time to have his makeup done.
00:17:43I don't think we're going to take it that far today.
00:17:45Oh, no?
00:17:46No.
00:17:47No, I'm good.
00:17:51I'm excited, but I'm a bit nervous.
00:17:54You know, I feel like this is a big moment for the both of us.
00:17:58I want to show Hanna how dedicated I am to make her happy
00:18:03and, you know, give her the day that she always wanted.
00:18:06But at the same time, I just feel a wave of anxiety and nervousness
00:18:13because obviously me and Hanna have different ideas on what romance is.
00:18:18So I really don't want to disappoint her.
00:18:27Okay.
00:18:29Wait a minute.
00:18:36So, are you excited about today?
00:18:40Are you kidding me?
00:18:42Of course I'm excited today.
00:18:43Very excited.
00:18:44This is just like a paradise to me.
00:18:47With the makeup, the dress.
00:18:50The center of attention.
00:18:51Yeah.
00:18:52And, you know, the photos.
00:18:55Uh-huh.
00:18:56I think I should ask you that question, though.
00:18:59I'm okay.
00:19:01You know.
00:19:02Nervous?
00:19:03Well, you don't have to be nervous.
00:19:04Like, I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
00:19:08And, you know, I'm not good at, uh...
00:19:11Well, you don't have to write a long poem.
00:19:15Okay?
00:19:15It doesn't have to be like that.
00:19:17Well, I'm not...
00:19:17It doesn't have to be...
00:19:18I'm not a writer or a poet.
00:19:20You don't have to be.
00:19:21Okay.
00:19:22There's just going to be a few things.
00:19:24You know what I'm saying?
00:19:25Like, the basics, basically.
00:19:30How I feel about doing my vows, I'm just going to get straight to the point.
00:19:35But, you know, Anna's the opposite for me.
00:19:37She wants to make a whole declaration speech.
00:19:42What is wrong with being expressive?
00:19:46Sometimes I feel like I wish one day when it happens, not now, God will take me before him.
00:19:52That's when the time he will appreciate me.
00:19:54And he will say, I miss you and your big mouth.
00:19:58You know?
00:20:03I just want you to say what's in your heart because, you know, this is a special day.
00:20:09Yeah.
00:20:09I mean, I invited my whole family and friends to going to see you.
00:20:13Mm.
00:20:14I would really put an effort.
00:20:17I mean, Anna, I'm here, so that's it for...
00:20:19Yeah, but I would really be the energy there.
00:20:23Okay.
00:20:26Hi, Bubu.
00:20:28I love you.
00:20:29Love you, too.
00:20:33You know what?
00:20:35You're not even supposed to be here.
00:20:37Okay.
00:20:38You're not supposed to see my look, my bridal look.
00:20:43All right.
00:20:44I feel like Javon is acting like today is any other day for him.
00:20:50And that's really disappointing.
00:21:00Thank you, buddy.
00:21:32I know your bond is not the most
00:21:34romantic guy but I just wanted today to be fun light full of love something
00:21:46that I can always look back on I love him but I can't pretend that everything is
00:21:55fine when it's not
00:22:30how did it feel spending the night here last night
00:22:33it wasn't very fun I really did not enjoy waking up alone
00:22:41yesterday beer con basically told me not to come home
00:22:44so I decided I just should suck it up and get a room at Michael's hotel
00:22:49and hope that our time apart would give both of us a little bit of time to cool down
00:22:57but staying in a hotel sucked I don't have any of my stuff I'm in the same clothes from yesterday
00:23:03and of course I miss beer con
00:23:09I wish we could have talked it out last night instead of now having to wait and deal with it
00:23:15all today but
00:23:17beer con was pretty mad at me he said things to me that I don't know if he really meant
00:23:26or if he was just angry
00:23:28I obviously said things to him too that I really didn't mean
00:23:32I really didn't have any intention of getting on a plane and leaving
00:23:35I hope that that's not what he wants
00:23:38and you've been texting with him this morning and what has he been saying
00:23:42um yeah I did I asked him if we could talk and he said sure
00:23:46so
00:23:48I will probably take a little peace offering and see if we can have a conversation face to face
00:23:57I know that I should have just apologized from the beginning for hiding the history between Michael and me
00:24:04I want to show him that I'm serious about our relationship
00:24:07and that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how I ever felt about Michael
00:24:13or how I could even feel about Michael
00:24:41Laura is keeping secret from me misleading me
00:24:45and she didn't even try to apologize
00:24:50by spending the time in the hotel
00:24:52I wanted her to realize what is it going to be like without me
00:25:00her pride doesn't cuddle her in the nights
00:25:07hey
00:25:09hey
00:25:11I brought you something
00:25:20I know you like that
00:25:23thank you
00:25:35I'm sorry
00:25:39that I didn't tell you that I was the one that hit on Michael sooner
00:25:44I did not mean for that to hurt you
00:25:47and I'm so sorry that was never my intent
00:25:53thank you
00:25:57so
00:25:59why did you mislead me
00:26:02but Michael made the move
00:26:05I was worried
00:26:07that if
00:26:08you knew that I was the one who had had feelings at one point
00:26:13that I was the one that hit on him
00:26:16that you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him
00:26:25okay
00:26:26but
00:26:26the missing thing is
00:26:29I think
00:26:30you had feelings for
00:26:34I did have feelings for him
00:26:38but I want to tell you that
00:26:40you are not a replacement for Michael
00:26:43and in fact
00:26:44the things that you do
00:26:47are so much sweeter and kinder
00:26:50and so much more of the type of man I actually want to be with
00:26:55I want you to know that I do love you
00:26:58I do want
00:27:00this relationship to work
00:27:02you and me
00:27:10you can't tell me 5,000 times in a row that I love you
00:27:14but
00:27:15like you said
00:27:18I'm into actions
00:27:19my words
00:27:28honestly I'm
00:27:30I'm scared to
00:27:32even say this
00:27:37would you feel better
00:27:40if I just
00:27:40cut him out of my life
00:27:55when do you plan on applying for the fiance visa
00:27:59so I can live here in Belize
00:28:01I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
00:28:06no
00:28:08I really wish Stig didn't wait like two hours before I'm leaving to bring this up
00:28:12I just would rather live here and I thought that's what we were talking about this whole time
00:28:16it's just really weird timing
00:28:18and I can't help feeling like
00:28:21is this a red flag?
00:28:42babe
00:28:43yes
00:28:44I'm going to miss you
00:28:46I know
00:28:47I'm going to miss you too
00:28:48and I'm going to wake up tomorrow by myself
00:28:53same
00:29:03sorry
00:29:10babe
00:29:11you're my fiance
00:29:14you realize that?
00:29:16it's crazy
00:29:16it's crazy
00:29:17you did such a good job
00:29:18it was a beautiful proposal
00:29:20it was everything I could have asked for
00:29:22I'm going to go home engaged
00:29:25I'm excited
00:29:27me too
00:29:30you're my fiance now
00:29:31I know
00:29:32any thoughts to give you would never get married and settle down
00:29:35it's crazy
00:29:36I woke up this morning and I was like
00:29:39I got a ring on my finger
00:29:42yes
00:29:42when do I put a ring on
00:29:43like when I get married
00:29:45I'm going to get you a ring before I leave
00:29:50you like the ring babe?
00:29:51of course I like the ring
00:29:53it's beautiful
00:29:54you did a good job
00:29:55thank you
00:29:57when do you plan on applying for the fiance visa
00:30:01so I can come here and live here in Belize
00:30:04I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
00:30:11no
00:30:12what?
00:30:14what do you mean?
00:30:15the whole time we've been talking about me coming here
00:30:17and living here with you
00:30:20Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the U.S.
00:30:23and based on everything that he said to me on the phone
00:30:26and since I've been in Belize
00:30:29I had always thought that I was going to be the one moving here
00:30:33I mean this is the Belize that I plan to eventually hopefully move to
00:30:38you would move to Belize?
00:30:39yeah I would
00:30:40for real?
00:30:41yeah
00:30:42would you move here?
00:30:44of course I would move here
00:30:45what?
00:30:45this is so pretty
00:30:47I don't really want to ever leave Belize
00:30:49do you see yourself living in Belize?
00:30:51I mean of course I would love to be beautiful
00:30:53yeah
00:30:56so you want to live with me in Arizona?
00:30:59that's new information
00:31:00I mean you're more than welcome to I guess
00:31:04I'd rather live here
00:31:09you won't be able to make any money
00:31:11that's why you're going to be my sugar mama
00:31:14no
00:31:14I'm not going to be your sugar mama
00:31:18I'm not going to be pregnant working and supporting you
00:31:21I might not be able to make money right away
00:31:22be able to think long term
00:31:23and how that's going to benefit both of us
00:31:27okay
00:31:29listen
00:31:29I'm super popular in Belize
00:31:32but I'm not making no American money
00:31:34and the only time I'm able to work in America
00:31:37is if I have a work visa
00:31:38or if I'm a citizen
00:31:39I want to make the big bucks
00:31:41I want to give my child a life that I never had
00:31:48you don't think maybe the U.S. makes more sense
00:31:51you have family out there
00:31:53I have family out there
00:31:54probably
00:31:55they have better health care
00:31:57and all that
00:31:58okay
00:31:58sure
00:31:58I'll file for you
00:32:02jeez
00:32:03if you don't let them
00:32:04they're doing trucks
00:32:08I don't know
00:32:10I just would rather live here
00:32:12and I thought that's what we were talking about this whole time
00:32:16so
00:32:17quite the switch up
00:32:19my guy
00:32:23I really wish Stig didn't wait
00:32:25like two hours before I'm leaving
00:32:26to bring this up
00:32:27it's just really weird timing
00:32:29and I can't help feeling like
00:32:32is this a red flag
00:32:34did he propose
00:32:36just so he could get to the U.S.?
00:32:39I don't know
00:32:41just give me some time to look into it
00:32:43now let's take that serious, babe
00:32:45let's think about that
00:32:46we're talking about family
00:32:47and how we need to make a plan
00:32:49let's make a plan
00:32:50and execute
00:32:51yep
00:32:52I know
00:32:53okay
00:33:00oh boy
00:33:01no, no, no
00:33:03after Trish saw the text messages
00:33:05between me and my ex
00:33:07she refused to talk to me
00:33:09but
00:33:10if I lose her
00:33:11I'll be losing
00:33:12the best thing that
00:33:13ever happened to me
00:33:17Trisha
00:33:20sit down
00:33:22I gave you a chance
00:33:24when we were in Nocibe
00:33:26why did you betray me?
00:33:47coming back here
00:33:48just reminds me
00:33:49of our first few nights together
00:33:52how excited
00:33:53we both were
00:33:57how happy we were together
00:34:00oh boy
00:34:01no, no, no
00:34:24after Trish saw the text messages
00:34:26between me and my ex
00:34:28she refused to talk to me
00:34:33she didn't sit with me
00:34:35at the airport
00:34:36she changed her seats
00:34:37on the plane
00:34:38and
00:34:39she got back to Tenant
00:34:41and decided to stay
00:34:42at her apartment
00:34:43and
00:34:44she's telling me
00:34:46that she
00:34:46has nothing to say
00:34:47to me anymore
00:34:49she trusted me
00:34:50I guess I kind of
00:34:52I kind of blew it
00:34:57I didn't have any plans
00:34:59to go back
00:34:59with my ex
00:35:00or anything like that
00:35:01and I didn't say that
00:35:03in the text messages
00:35:04but
00:35:04I could see why
00:35:05Trish would
00:35:07be afraid
00:35:07that it could happen
00:35:13I should have had
00:35:14the respect
00:35:14you know
00:35:16not to respond
00:35:17while I'm spending
00:35:18time with her
00:35:20it wasn't
00:35:21the right thing
00:35:22for me to do
00:35:25I think
00:35:26I responded
00:35:27to my ex
00:35:28because
00:35:29for a while
00:35:30she was the only person
00:35:31I could really
00:35:32count on
00:35:34to be there
00:35:35for me
00:35:37I met my ex
00:35:38on vacation
00:35:40in Columbia
00:35:43and my feelings
00:35:44were very strong
00:35:46for her
00:35:47there was so much
00:35:49chemistry
00:35:49sexually
00:35:50in any other
00:35:52type of way
00:35:52that you can think of
00:35:55the relationship
00:35:56ended
00:35:56because we couldn't
00:35:57figure out
00:35:58how to make
00:35:59our future
00:36:00work together
00:36:00it wasn't
00:36:02because
00:36:02we stopped
00:36:03loving each other
00:36:07my ex
00:36:08blocked me
00:36:08because
00:36:09she knew
00:36:09that I was
00:36:10going to Madagascar
00:36:12to meet
00:36:12Trish
00:36:13and she was
00:36:15hurt by it
00:36:15and so
00:36:17it took me
00:36:18totally off guard
00:36:19that she
00:36:20unblocked me
00:36:21and she was
00:36:22contacting me
00:36:23at this time
00:36:26I sent Trisha
00:36:28a long
00:36:29apology
00:36:29with no excuses
00:36:30and asked her
00:36:32if we can
00:36:33please get together
00:36:34and talk
00:36:36but when she
00:36:38texted me back
00:36:39she said
00:36:40sure
00:36:40period
00:36:41I don't know
00:36:42why she put
00:36:43period
00:36:43I don't know
00:36:45if that means
00:36:45it's final
00:36:46this is our
00:36:46final talk
00:36:47or
00:36:49or what
00:36:53I'm so
00:36:54set on not
00:36:55losing Trish
00:36:56right now
00:36:56because
00:36:58I've fallen
00:36:58even deeper
00:37:00in love
00:37:01with her
00:37:01since getting
00:37:02to know
00:37:02her family
00:37:05and I was
00:37:06actually getting
00:37:07excited
00:37:07about the
00:37:08possibility
00:37:09of getting
00:37:10married
00:37:10and having
00:37:11a family
00:37:12together
00:37:13I don't know
00:37:14how receptive
00:37:15she's gonna be
00:37:16with anything
00:37:18that I have
00:37:19to say
00:37:20but I have
00:37:22to give it
00:37:23my all
00:37:24if I lose
00:37:25her I'll be
00:37:26losing
00:37:26the best thing
00:37:29that ever
00:37:31happened to me
00:37:45oh my god
00:37:49Trisha
00:37:51hello
00:37:53sit down
00:38:01not exactly
00:38:02the greeting
00:38:03I was expecting
00:38:05what'd you expect
00:38:07I'm not happy
00:38:08to see
00:38:13I just want
00:38:15to apologize
00:38:17I should have
00:38:18told you
00:38:18about the message
00:38:19as soon as it
00:38:20happened
00:38:22I had no intention
00:38:24on like
00:38:24keeping it
00:38:25from me
00:38:25that's
00:38:28four days
00:38:29you
00:38:30you didn't
00:38:31say anything
00:38:31for four days
00:38:32that's too much
00:38:33and all the messages
00:38:35was on the text
00:38:37was really
00:38:37disrespectful
00:38:39we were
00:38:40with me
00:38:43why did you
00:38:44betray me
00:38:46after I gave
00:38:47you a chance
00:38:48when we were
00:38:49in Nusibé
00:38:51I forgive you
00:38:52what you did
00:38:53in Colombia
00:38:54you were supposed
00:38:55to earn
00:38:56my trust
00:38:56back
00:38:57not to break
00:38:58a single time
00:38:59I didn't have
00:39:01any plans
00:39:02on breaking
00:39:03up with you
00:39:04and being
00:39:04with her
00:39:05or any of that
00:39:06I didn't realize
00:39:08that she would
00:39:09take this
00:39:09and be cheating
00:39:10on you
00:39:11yes it is
00:39:11cheating
00:39:12this is where
00:39:13the cheating
00:39:14started
00:39:17if I was
00:39:18in your place
00:39:20me
00:39:20I know
00:39:21exactly
00:39:22what I should
00:39:23do
00:39:23to make
00:39:24you feel
00:39:24good
00:39:25so you
00:39:25don't know
00:39:26because you
00:39:27can't
00:39:27I don't know
00:39:27what it is
00:39:28that's gonna
00:39:28satisfy you
00:39:31why
00:39:31it's simple
00:39:32though
00:39:33why don't
00:39:34you block
00:39:34her
00:39:36it didn't
00:39:37come to my
00:39:37mom
00:39:38if that's
00:39:38what you
00:39:39want
00:39:39if you want
00:39:39if you want
00:39:40this relationship
00:39:41make her
00:39:42understand
00:39:42that I'm
00:39:43with you
00:39:44she already
00:39:45knows that
00:39:45I'm with you
00:39:46she doesn't
00:39:46know
00:39:47that's why
00:39:48she keep
00:39:48texting you
00:39:49she doesn't
00:39:50tell her
00:39:50to understand
00:39:51that
00:39:54make her
00:39:55understand
00:39:55that
00:39:55you don't
00:39:56want her
00:39:57anymore
00:40:01block her here
00:40:02and tell her
00:40:10nothing to say
00:40:11I'm
00:40:11conflicted
00:40:14I love you
00:40:15so much
00:40:16but
00:40:18I can't
00:40:19block her
00:40:21why
00:40:23why
00:40:31I'm having
00:40:31the best
00:40:32time of my
00:40:32life
00:40:32getting the
00:40:33waterfall
00:40:33in
00:40:34I'm just
00:40:34thinking
00:40:34she's being
00:40:35a drama
00:40:35queen
00:40:37I get
00:40:38down to
00:40:38the bottom
00:40:39and I
00:40:40see
00:40:40all these
00:40:41people
00:40:41surrounding
00:40:42Elise
00:40:42and I
00:40:43start to
00:40:43think
00:40:44is she
00:40:45okay
00:41:08welcome
00:41:09everyone
00:41:10we are
00:41:10gathered here
00:41:11today
00:41:11to celebrate
00:41:12the
00:41:12enjoying
00:41:12love
00:41:13between
00:41:13Zavon
00:41:14and
00:41:14Annalyn
00:41:16we honor
00:41:16the journey
00:41:17that has
00:41:17been filled
00:41:18with laughter
00:41:18challenges
00:41:20triumphs
00:41:20and long
00:41:21distance
00:41:21calls
00:41:22now
00:41:23Zavon
00:41:23and Annalyn
00:41:24it's time
00:41:25to renew
00:41:26your vows
00:41:26to each
00:41:26other
00:41:35Zavon
00:41:35can you
00:41:36read your
00:41:36vows
00:41:37to Annalyn
00:41:47I vow
00:41:48to cherish
00:41:50love
00:41:52honor
00:41:53and obey
00:41:55and always
00:41:56protect you
00:41:57and be there
00:41:57for you
00:41:58and
00:41:59also
00:42:00learn to
00:42:02be more
00:42:02patient
00:42:03and
00:42:04put up
00:42:05with your
00:42:05sassiness
00:42:06I love you
00:42:13Javon
00:42:14delivered
00:42:15his vows
00:42:16and
00:42:16it may be
00:42:18not so
00:42:18dramatic
00:42:19and
00:42:20like a
00:42:21poetry
00:42:21but
00:42:22when I
00:42:23look at
00:42:23his eyes
00:42:24I could
00:42:26feel the
00:42:27sincerity
00:42:29I have
00:42:30waited
00:42:31so long
00:42:33for this
00:42:33moment
00:42:34to finally
00:42:35say this
00:42:36in person
00:42:37I promise
00:42:38that I'll
00:42:39continue to
00:42:40be a good
00:42:41wife
00:42:41you can
00:42:42always count
00:42:43on me
00:42:43you'll never
00:42:45feel alone
00:42:46again
00:42:46and
00:42:47I'll
00:42:48continue
00:42:48to
00:42:50pick up
00:42:51your dirty
00:42:52socks
00:42:52even though
00:42:53I keep
00:42:53nagging you
00:42:55and I
00:42:56don't
00:42:56expect
00:42:57you
00:42:57to be
00:42:57perfect
00:42:58because
00:42:58no one
00:42:59is
00:42:59but
00:43:00I
00:43:00expect
00:43:01us
00:43:01to be
00:43:01together
00:43:02no matter
00:43:02what
00:43:03I love
00:43:04you so
00:43:04much
00:43:06love you
00:43:07too
00:43:11Javon
00:43:11and
00:43:12Annalyn
00:43:12today
00:43:13you have
00:43:14renewed
00:43:14your
00:43:14vows
00:43:15and
00:43:15reaffirmed
00:43:16your
00:43:16commitment
00:43:16to
00:43:16one
00:43:16another
00:43:17it
00:43:18is
00:43:18my
00:43:18great
00:43:18honor
00:43:19and
00:43:19pleasure
00:43:19to
00:43:19once
00:43:20again
00:43:20pronounce
00:43:21you
00:43:21husband
00:43:21and
00:43:21wife
00:43:21one
00:43:22second
00:43:23man
00:43:24you
00:43:24have
00:43:24something
00:43:24to give
00:43:25up
00:43:26yeah
00:43:28yeah
00:43:30is that
00:43:30the one
00:43:30you
00:43:30wanted
00:43:38all right
00:43:39now
00:43:39we can
00:43:40get on
00:43:40with it
00:43:42you may
00:43:43now share
00:43:43a kiss
00:43:44to seal
00:43:44your
00:43:44renewed
00:43:45vows
00:43:53you
00:43:54you did
00:43:54so
00:43:55good
00:43:55oh
00:43:56great
00:43:56actually
00:43:57you
00:43:58were so
00:43:59great
00:44:02and
00:44:03I know
00:44:04sometimes
00:44:05I don't
00:44:05like it
00:44:05when you
00:44:06trick
00:44:06me
00:44:06but
00:44:07this
00:44:07is
00:44:07the
00:44:07greatest
00:44:08trick
00:44:08ever
00:44:10finally
00:44:11have
00:44:11my
00:44:11wedding
00:44:12ring
00:44:21yes
00:44:21nice
00:44:22to
00:44:22meet
00:44:23you
00:44:23finally
00:44:24hey
00:44:25cousin
00:44:26thank you
00:44:26for coming
00:44:27and for all
00:44:28the efforts
00:44:28thank you
00:44:30for coming
00:44:42okay guys
00:44:43the reception
00:44:44is over
00:44:45there
00:44:45go
00:45:01for me
00:45:02I think
00:45:03marrying someone
00:45:03online is kind
00:45:05of crazy
00:45:05because it's
00:45:06been a long
00:45:06time that
00:45:07they've waited
00:45:08to see each
00:45:09other to be
00:45:09together
00:45:09I know
00:45:11that
00:45:11Javon and
00:45:12Anna has
00:45:12difficulties
00:45:13in their
00:45:13relationship
00:45:14but I've
00:45:15noticed now
00:45:16that they
00:45:16are just
00:45:17focusing
00:45:17in with
00:45:17their love
00:45:18to each
00:45:18other
00:45:19with how
00:45:19they will
00:45:20going to
00:45:20work out
00:45:21with their
00:45:21relationship
00:45:22so I'm
00:45:22really happy
00:45:23for seeing
00:45:23that
00:45:24now
00:45:25cut that
00:45:26cake
00:45:27cut that
00:45:28cake
00:45:29cut that
00:45:30cake
00:45:30yay
00:45:32wow
00:45:37it's just
00:45:38so
00:45:39overwhelming
00:45:40boo
00:45:40I feel
00:45:41so much
00:45:41happiness
00:45:42that I
00:45:43haven't felt
00:45:43before
00:45:45I just
00:45:46feel so
00:45:46loved
00:45:48five
00:45:49four
00:45:50three
00:45:50two
00:45:51one
00:45:57this is
00:45:57something
00:45:58that I will
00:45:58treasure for
00:45:59the rest
00:45:59of my life
00:46:00it was
00:46:00the best
00:46:01night
00:46:02ever
00:46:03I'm
00:46:04eternally
00:46:05grateful
00:46:05yeah
00:46:06yeah
00:46:10hello
00:46:12hello
00:46:12Woo hoo!
00:46:14No!
00:46:17No, no!
00:46:27Ah!!
00:46:28No, no!
00:46:37Ah!!
00:46:38Ah!
00:46:40Ah!
00:46:41Ah!
00:46:41Ah!
00:46:52Look, I know it does look scary, like there's a job, but she's very safe.
00:46:56I know the guy at the top can sort of, you know, belay her down and you know, do it
00:47:00himself.
00:47:02I'm having the best time of my life, I'm, you know, abseiling down, getting the waterfall
00:47:06in.
00:47:07You know, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen, but um, I get down to the bottom
00:47:16and I see all these people, you know, surrounding Elise.
00:47:20Take a deep breath, take a deep breath.
00:47:28I start to think, oh you know, is she okay?
00:47:58I'm sorry.
00:48:06You made it.
00:48:08I need to get chained so I can keep you in.
00:48:10Josh always knows how to calm me down.
00:48:13Like his physical touch just makes me feel like safe.
00:48:16It's like a quality I love about him.
00:48:19That was amazing.
00:48:20It was so good.
00:48:21My boyfriend saved the day.
00:48:22He really helped me.
00:48:30Oh my God.
00:48:31That was a crazy.
00:48:32I mean, here I am trying to book this fun adventure and it becomes a complete and utter disaster
00:48:38for me.
00:48:38Well, I had the best time.
00:48:40I'd do it all over again.
00:48:42Probably not right now.
00:48:43No, I think we can say that we've been there, done that and let's try and uh...
00:48:48Forget it.
00:48:49Yes.
00:48:51I can.
00:48:56Oh.
00:49:06Why?
00:49:07Who is that?
00:49:08Nothing.
00:49:13What do you mean nothing?
00:49:29at least really went above and beyond for me today so I want to do something nice for her
00:49:33and stop by anchor point it's supposed to have these stunning views but unfortunately I just
00:49:39got a text with some bad news and I'm trying to figure out how I can break it to Elise
00:49:43without
00:49:44her freaking out I am yeah I'm nervous stunning pretty amazing I'm where I've never been here
00:49:56checking things off your bucket list huh yeah listen I have to tell you something are you okay baby
00:50:09um we're not going to be able to talk to my son why it's just not possible today
00:50:21there's other people to consider as well you know him his mother sorry
00:50:33wow I'll let you down I didn't mean for it to happen like that
00:50:39so I'm sorry
00:50:41well that's really upsetting that we're not gonna be able to video chat him
00:50:45yeah it is I told you I want to meet people in your life I want to see into your
00:50:49world I'm here
00:50:52yeah well maybe I'm just good at disappointing you good disappointing people so maybe that's just me
00:51:00it's more than just a broken promise the fact that I'm leaving here soon and not being able
00:51:06to meet his son is like scary that is very important aspect of his life and you should
00:51:14be pushing harder than simply receiving a text on your phone that we can't meet your son like maybe he
00:51:20doesn't think I'm good enough like settling for no doesn't make me feel like you're gonna fight for us
00:51:27you just say it so nonchalantly like I let you down like remember what else I'm disappointed I'm upset
00:51:33I wouldn't blame you for not coming back or walking away
00:51:42so you're like okay to walk away I didn't say that I said I wouldn't blame you for walking away
00:51:52I'm so cold do you want me to run and get your jumper I'll get you my black one
00:52:07what just happened he just said to me he basically I can walk away and it's just not gonna happen
00:52:13I'm not gonna meet his son and like I'm trying to be so nice and help him out and like
00:52:17I do care about
00:52:17him a lot like I do I like him but if he's like so easy for me to walk away
00:52:22then what is it going
00:52:23to be on the other side of the world what's going on why don't you disrespect me you just told
00:52:34me I
00:52:34could walk away I said I wouldn't blame you if you walked away I don't want you to walk away
00:52:39I don't
00:52:44not perfect I keep dropping the ball but I will try and be better for you
00:52:54you say you don't live up to your expectations you say you drop the ball like I'm falling for
00:52:59someone that's like what do you want me to do like I'm scared yeah I'm really sorry I'm it means
00:53:05a lot
00:53:06that you're upset about this because I'm upset about it but I don't want you to think that I didn't
00:53:10want you to speak to him it will happen you guys will play a big big part in each other's
00:53:15lives
00:53:19I'm in love with you
00:53:27that's crazy yeah it is
00:53:32you mean that I do
00:53:39I don't even know what's going on in this moment I literally nearly died today he just told me it's
00:53:43okay if I walk away from him and now he's telling me he's in love with me I've never heard
00:53:48that from
00:53:48him before and like of course it's so nice to hear but I mean he's telling me this right after
00:53:54giving me the bad news it's like does he really mean he loves me please don't get angry let's figure
00:54:02it out sorry it didn't happen right now if I want him as my husband I need to be able
00:54:08to trust him
00:54:09full-heartedly but I don't feel like I can trust him right now and that sucks
00:54:22so once I leave really gotta trust each other
00:54:28don't be drunk and stupid
00:54:29I have a fiance now what are you talking about
00:54:32you trust me babe
00:54:37why are you so emotional
00:54:55you ready?
00:54:58I guess not really
00:54:59now the path is split in two
00:55:05and mine is taking me from you and yours is headed towards the western coast
00:55:12I can't follow you hold me close
00:55:15I feel hollow I love you most
00:55:17it's been a beautiful ride
00:55:21I miss you so much
00:55:22I miss you too
00:55:23I plan to visit you soon
00:55:25really?
00:55:26yeah
00:55:26like I mean well I don't know how quick we're gonna move on this violent situation
00:55:31I want to do some research first
00:55:34this whole time I was picturing us living in Belize
00:55:38that's kind of what we talked about
00:55:41so now I just feel like it's a sudden change up
00:55:43but I understand why
00:55:45I understand why
00:55:47I'm not saying that I want to just completely dis-Belize and never come back
00:55:50you know
00:55:50yeah
00:55:52I could see us living in the States though for a little bit
00:55:55making some money
00:55:57coming back to Belize
00:55:58building a nice house
00:56:02Stig and I obviously have a lot to figure out
00:56:05that said I'm keeping an open mind
00:56:08because I believe love is more important than the location
00:56:12I just feel like we are meant for each other
00:56:15our paths crossed for a reason
00:56:18and I'm completely in love with him
00:56:20I have fallen really hard for him
00:56:24here we go
00:56:31why are you so emotional
00:56:33yeah so I just got like an overwhelming feeling of gratitude
00:56:41I'm just happy
00:56:48so once I leave
00:56:50we just really got to trust each other
00:56:53I got to
00:56:54when it comes to stuff like that
00:56:55I got to
00:56:56I have a fiancé now
00:56:57what are you talking about
00:56:59you trust me babe
00:57:01I do
00:57:03what are you talking about
00:57:41This trip has been a lot of great times, but also a lot of hurdles.
00:57:47You know, they say that a plane can't fly without resistance.
00:57:52We had a lot of resistance, and we still made it through that.
00:58:03I think this has been a great trip.
00:58:06I love you too.
00:58:09I'm going to miss you.
00:58:15Thank you for healing me, coming into my life, saying yes to me.
00:58:22It's sad leaving Stig, but the trip was amazing.
00:58:26I can just see us living in Arizona, having a little family.
00:58:31I just see a lot of positives in our future, and I'm just excited that we're where we're at now.
00:58:37Give me just a second now to catch my breath.
00:58:41I better catch my friend.
00:58:43One last question.
00:58:46I love you.
00:58:47I love you.
00:58:59I'm really excited about the future.
00:59:00I'm really excited to get married.
00:59:04In America, there's a lot more opportunities for me as an artist, for me to make good money, real money.
00:59:09I could network with people.
00:59:12I could network with other big dancehall artists, bigger than myself.
00:59:15And I know people.
00:59:16Not in Arizona.
00:59:17I don't know nobody.
00:59:21Actually, I'm more down to go to Houston.
00:59:24There's more opportunity for me in Houston.
00:59:26You know, my brothers are in Houston.
00:59:28I have a lot of artist friends, producer friends.
00:59:31I am a man who don't frighten me easily.
00:59:33What else have you guessed?
00:59:36My ex is in Houston, but they are.
00:59:41We ain't worried about her.
00:59:43I don't have a ring on, but hey.
00:59:48Make way, make way.
00:59:51Nah, come on.
00:59:52I'm playing.
00:59:52I'm engaged, you know what I mean?
01:00:02We had our plans.
01:00:05This is the best way for us to be together faster together.
01:00:10You can't let mom change your mind.
01:00:12I think Forrest's mom is much more controlling than he even would realize.
01:00:18He's been manipulated.
01:00:19Please, I really want you to stay.
01:00:32Would you feel better if I just cut him out of my life?
01:00:39Can you do that?
01:00:55If that's what it's going to take to fix this and for you to trust me, then yeah, I would
01:01:04do that.
01:01:08Okay.
01:01:11This is exactly what I was worried about.
01:01:14The possibility that I would eventually have to choose between my best friend and the love of my life.
01:01:22But Birkan truly, genuinely loves me.
01:01:26And I think having the opportunity to be fully loved by someone is worth giving up my friendship with Michael
01:01:31over.
01:01:38You know what?
01:01:40I don't want you to cut your relationship with him.
01:01:44We can still be friends.
01:01:47He's a good guy.
01:01:49He proved he's worthy of being friends.
01:01:52I'm okay with that.
01:01:54But friends.
01:01:55Not best friend.
01:01:57Not that weird friendship.
01:02:05She's trying to do something to save this relationship.
01:02:09I appreciate that because once that relationship gets into the dead end, nobody can get it out.
01:02:17We're good.
01:02:19We're good.
01:02:19It'll be good.
01:02:20But we got to work on.
01:02:22I know.
01:02:26It is always bad to lose people.
01:02:30I lost a lot of people.
01:02:33And I don't want her to cut relationship with her friend.
01:02:38I'm not going to be the one who breaks them apart, you know?
01:02:43Thanks for talking to me.
01:02:46Thanks for trying to make up.
01:02:51I love Laura because she has a pure heart.
01:02:55And she makes me love life.
01:02:58So I want her to be happy.
01:03:23Are you okay, babe?
01:03:26I don't know, babe.
01:03:37We're the last day in this beautiful apartment.
01:03:41I know, honey.
01:03:42It's fine.
01:03:43I don't know.
01:03:44I don't know.
01:03:45I don't know.
01:03:46I don't know.
01:03:49I don't know.
01:03:49I don't know.
01:03:51It's the last night in the Philippines with Sheena.
01:03:54And my heart is cracking.
01:03:58The talk we had with my mom is still weighing on my mind.
01:04:05It's very annoying when my mom is right because she'll never let me hear the end of it.
01:04:10On top of that, it hurts my heart seeing Sheena get so emotional that I'm going to have to leave
01:04:15her.
01:04:16But at the end of the day, if I do everything correctly, I know that Sheena and I will have
01:04:22a bright future.
01:04:23And I hope that she understands.
01:04:30Please, I really want you to stay.
01:04:37You can't let mom change your mind.
01:04:40You have to decide this on your own will.
01:04:44Sheena.
01:04:46Honey, we have overcome mountains.
01:04:50We have overcome problems.
01:04:52We have struggled through so many years, even a pandemic.
01:04:57We had our plans to grow and have a family.
01:05:02I want you here.
01:05:04And I know that this is the best way for us to be together faster together.
01:05:10And that's what I've been waiting for you for the longest time.
01:05:18Sheena, I can't do that.
01:05:21It's literally tearing me up thinking about being away from you.
01:05:25But I think mom was kind of right.
01:05:29I want to have a bright future together.
01:05:32And getting you to the United States is the best option.
01:05:38And to do that, I need to go and start work and do the process and make sure I have
01:05:45everything stabilized in America.
01:05:52It hurts that Forrest happened to change his mind.
01:05:56It feels like he would rather choose his mom over me.
01:06:00I mean, I understand if he happened to work in the U.S., he could earn much more better money.
01:06:07But I am worried that Forrest wouldn't find a job that easy because of his disability issues.
01:06:13I feel like he's been manipulated to think that living in the Philippines was impossible.
01:06:20But it's not certain that this other plan is going to work out.
01:06:26The faster I get back home, the faster I can start the process.
01:06:31And if I don't get the K1 against 9, then I can come back here and stay here if things
01:06:37don't work out in here.
01:06:40But how about mom?
01:06:43I'm quite worried that she would try her best to make sure to stay in the United States forever.
01:06:50This decision, it's not my mother. It's my own decision.
01:06:57But I see a bright future together.
01:06:59And I'm in your heart and you're in my heart. And you are my true home.
01:07:06I want to put my faith into him as my partner, that he would find a way to be together
01:07:12long term.
01:07:13But I think Forrest's mom is much more controlling than he would realize.
01:07:21I know that Molly still have worries and doubts regarding our relationship.
01:07:27And I'm worried that she could influence him and cause problems.
01:07:32She could break us apart.
01:07:34It's just...
01:07:40It's hard.
01:07:51Holy , holy , holy , holy .
01:07:54Why is everything so cold?
01:07:57Surprise, surprise. She's cold.
01:07:58My god, thank you so much.
01:08:02Take that away.
01:08:02She's a pain in the ass, but it's in a cute way, you know.
01:08:06I like that.
01:08:07How do you feel about me?
01:08:11Like I'm falling for you.
01:08:13But not in love.
01:08:29Good morning.
01:08:30Good morning, good morning.
01:08:32It's a little chilly out here today.
01:08:34I thought you were sleeping.
01:08:35I was, I just woke up.
01:08:44Time to go back to Bondi?
01:08:45Yeah.
01:08:46It was a good little getaway.
01:08:49Mostly.
01:08:52I feel really sad.
01:08:54This is our last full day together.
01:08:56We're driving back to Bondi in a little bit.
01:08:59And then tomorrow I fly back to Miami.
01:09:02Hmm.
01:09:04Did you wake up still loving me?
01:09:07I'm asking.
01:09:08Yes, I did.
01:09:10I just have so many mixed emotions right now.
01:09:13Like he told me he loved me.
01:09:15And that means the world to me.
01:09:17But at the same time,
01:09:19here he is again,
01:09:20not living up to his promise
01:09:21to video chat with his son.
01:09:24I understand there's external factors,
01:09:26but if you're going to see a future with me
01:09:28and maybe your wife,
01:09:30like the fact that you didn't try harder,
01:09:33I don't know.
01:09:34It's just like scary.
01:09:36I'm going home tomorrow
01:09:38and I have no idea what the future holds.
01:09:41This is really heavy.
01:09:44Your last night.
01:09:46Hmm.
01:09:48I booked us somewhere nice.
01:09:50Tonight.
01:09:51In Bondi?
01:09:52Yep.
01:09:53I'm fine.
01:09:54Yep.
01:09:55So, let's go get changed and get home.
01:10:07I never imagined I'd fall in love so quickly.
01:10:09This has never happened before.
01:10:12But saying I love you
01:10:13and then not having it heard back,
01:10:15I am sort of wondering where she's at.
01:10:17You know, is it not as real for her as it is for me?
01:10:20That is a bit concerning.
01:10:36So beautiful here, babe.
01:10:38It's nice to miss you.
01:10:46Sorry, guys.
01:10:47This is your table.
01:10:51I've got the menu for you guys.
01:10:53Thank you so much.
01:10:56So cold.
01:10:57But you're always cold.
01:10:58Always cold.
01:10:59They did say they have blankets,
01:11:01so I'm going to ask her for a blanket.
01:11:02Okay, good idea.
01:11:03God, it's so cold.
01:11:05Surprise, surprise.
01:11:06She's cold.
01:11:07Holy .
01:11:08Holy .
01:11:09Holy .
01:11:10Why is everything so cold?
01:11:13As soon as there's like the slightest breeze
01:11:15or the sun's down, she's cold.
01:11:17Thanks for coming, guys.
01:11:19Don't mind me.
01:11:20I just brought some hand warmers.
01:11:22I'm freezing.
01:11:23It's so cold.
01:11:23I'm freezing.
01:11:25Wow, turn on the car.
01:11:27I'm so cold.
01:11:29Holy camoly, I'm cold.
01:11:31You'd think by now that she'd know how to dress,
01:11:33you know, in Sydney.
01:11:34I'll wear something a bit warmer.
01:11:35You okay?
01:11:36Do you want my jacket?
01:11:37Yeah, I do.
01:11:38Yeah, I'm shivering.
01:11:39Oh, God.
01:11:40It's a little nipply out.
01:11:41A little nipply.
01:11:42She's a pain in the ass, but it's in a cute way.
01:11:45You know?
01:11:46I like that.
01:11:48Well, you look stunning, as always.
01:11:51Alrighty, I've got the blanket for you.
01:11:53Oh, my God.
01:11:53Thank you so much.
01:11:55I'll take that away for you.
01:11:56Um, can we please get two spicy margaritas?
01:11:59Two spicy margaritas?
01:12:01Tahin, have you got it?
01:12:02Tahin, we do.
01:12:03Oh, I do.
01:12:04How lovely.
01:12:05Thanks so much.
01:12:06Thank you, guys.
01:12:11Last night.
01:12:16How do you feel?
01:12:19About what?
01:12:20About me.
01:12:22Like, in general?
01:12:24Yeah.
01:12:26I mean, like, I'm falling for you.
01:12:32But not in love.
01:12:36Not yet.
01:12:40Josh literally tells me everything I want to hear.
01:12:44But I feel like he sometimes kind of just says things to appease me.
01:12:48Like, he'll say he's going to do X, Y, and Z.
01:12:52But there's, like, no action behind that.
01:12:55You know, there's one side of me that sees the future with him.
01:12:58Like, getting married and having kids.
01:13:00But then there's this other side of me that's like,
01:13:02am I even being realistic with my expectations with him?
01:13:05And is it just hopeful and wishful thinking?
01:13:09I am falling for you.
01:13:11I cannot imagine going back to Miami without you.
01:13:16But we live in different continents.
01:13:18We're a 16-hour time difference.
01:13:22You have a son here.
01:13:23Mm-hmm.
01:13:24How do you plan to make this work?
01:13:27You know, I think it's a move.
01:13:28Obviously, it's a move for either one of us,
01:13:31whether it be here or there.
01:13:33I guess it's one pretty big con for me to move into Miami.
01:13:37Well, your son?
01:13:38Mm-hmm.
01:13:38OK, yes.
01:13:39OK, so if I was to move here, where would we go?
01:13:43Who would pay for it?
01:13:44You and I find a place together?
01:13:46We live, we move in together?
01:13:50OK, but like, have you gone on a website and looked for places?
01:13:53No.
01:13:55Slowly.
01:13:59Look, I'm confident I can call this off.
01:14:02More than confident.
01:14:07I'm scared.
01:14:08I just don't know if I can, I don't know.
01:14:09So am I.
01:14:10You just gotta let go sometimes.
01:14:13I'm just, like, I don't know if you're stable.
01:14:19I want to make it work.
01:14:21I believe you...
01:14:22But wanting to and doing so, you're...
01:14:23I believe that it will work in my eyes.
01:14:26I think you will find excuses to make it not work.
01:14:32Why are you hesitant?
01:14:33I've given you a solid game plan, and you're still hesitant.
01:14:37You've had a hard year.
01:14:38Like, financially, I don't know how you're gonna be able to make this work.
01:14:42I don't know.
01:14:43Sorry that I can't, you know...
01:14:46I don't have a big nest egg.
01:14:48You just have to trust.
01:14:50Because you are somebody...
01:14:51Can you stop being rude to me?
01:14:52Like, seriously.
01:14:52Like, you are.
01:14:53Like, yep, Josh.
01:14:54Like, that's your quality.
01:14:55Because you're being a dick to me.
01:14:56I am sticking up for myself.
01:14:58That's all I am doing.
01:15:00I still care about you and love you,
01:15:03and you don't know how you feel.
01:15:05So, that obviously throws you out in my mind.
01:15:09Feels a little bit like you don't want it to happen,
01:15:12but you don't want to admit it.
01:15:16You think I'm not putting anything into action,
01:15:19but I feel like the ball's in your court.
01:15:29I'll block you everywhere.
01:15:31Trish, don't do that, please.
01:15:32I will, even now.
01:15:33I don't have nothing to do with you.
01:15:35No, Ray, please.
01:15:36Just, this is my phone.
01:15:37Give me the other thing.
01:15:37I don't have nothing to tell.
01:15:39Please.
01:15:42I'll just walk away and never speak to him again.
01:15:48I wasted my time.
01:15:57I love you so much, but I can't block her.
01:16:04Why?
01:16:06Why?
01:16:23I don't know what to do, because it's, I'm in love with you,
01:16:31but I do still have feelings for her, too.
01:16:36Oh.
01:16:39And?
01:16:40No, nothing else to do.
01:16:43Nothing else to say.
01:16:46I love you.
01:16:47No, no, no.
01:16:47You don't love me.
01:16:54I asked her to choose, then you made your choice.
01:17:04When Trish asked me to block my ex,
01:17:08I realized that I can't completely shut the door.
01:17:13And I wanted to be honest about my feelings.
01:17:18So you chose your ex over her,
01:17:20after all you guys have been through.
01:17:23I don't look at it as I chose my ex over her.
01:17:28What do you look at it as?
01:17:33I look at it as, um, just not ready to let go.
01:17:39Totally.
01:17:41I love Trish, but, um...
01:17:46I mean, love isn't so black and white.
01:17:50It's possible to have feelings for two people at the same time.
01:17:59I wasted my time.
01:18:03I look at it as a waste.
01:18:06I still, I'm still willing to try to make it clear.
01:18:10But I...
01:18:10It's nothing to do anymore.
01:18:13I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for his ex.
01:18:17I'll block you everywhere.
01:18:19Oh, Trish, don't do that, please.
01:18:20I will, even now.
01:18:21I don't have nothing to do with you.
01:18:23No, baby, please.
01:18:23Just, this is my phone.
01:18:25You didn't buy it.
01:18:26You didn't do anything.
01:18:27No, just give me time to think.
01:18:27I don't have nothing to tell.
01:18:29Please.
01:18:30Trish, don't do that.
01:18:32I don't have anything to do right now.
01:18:37I hate that it makes me suffer again.
01:18:42You planned a future with me.
01:18:44You told me that you loved me.
01:18:47But I still have feelings for her.
01:18:54I do, but that doesn't mean I'm going back to her.
01:18:59And my feelings for you are strong.
01:19:02I still want us to go on.
01:19:06I cannot do that.
01:19:08I'll never be a second choice of someone.
01:19:12So, I'll take my love back and forget about him.
01:19:22Don't.
01:19:27Don't ever bother me.
01:19:29Can I give you a point?
01:19:29No, no, no, no.
01:19:30You made a choice.
01:19:35Let's finish.
01:19:38Good.
01:19:47I'm feeling really, really angry.
01:19:51Like, I don't understand why he make me fall in love with him and break my heart.
01:20:00Like, he shouldn't have come to Madagascar.
01:20:04Meet me.
01:20:06I don't know what to say anymore.
01:20:08I'll just walk away and never speak to him again.
01:20:19I wish you realized that I do love her and I do think that she's special.
01:20:25I want us to be together, but I just wasn't ready.
01:20:35That's all I can see.
01:20:46Holy balls.
01:20:47Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:20:50I feel like I should ask for your autograph.
01:20:53Jeez.
01:20:54Give me a ring finger.
01:20:55Give me a ring finger.
01:20:56I'm asking you.
01:20:58Will you marry me?
01:21:00We just got things back on track and I'm worried that as we go back to long distance, we're only
01:21:07going to have more drama and more problems.
01:21:09Do you accept?
01:21:12Make it having no shoes.
01:21:16So today I decided to take a pregnancy test.
01:21:25Javon, boo.
01:21:27That is what I think it is.
01:21:30Holy ****, I'm about to be a dad.
01:21:33You don't need to be with me.
01:21:34It may have taken seven years to get here, but it's not going to take seven years to get you
01:21:38back home.
01:21:39I still don't completely trust Sheena.
01:21:42She still manipulates.
01:21:45Here I thought I was coming to get all these questions answered.
01:21:47No, I have more questions.
01:21:50You okay?
01:21:53It's so hard to trust that he's going to come back for me.
01:21:56I don't want people to leave me.
01:22:01It hurts me deeply that it didn't work out between Trish and I, and I'm leaving with no hope at
01:22:09all.
01:22:21I'm literally leaving for that report in one hour, and he just left.
01:22:27Like, how can you tell me you love me and you're falling for me, and then you bring the ****
01:22:32girls back and disrespect me?
01:22:34Oh my God, he stopped sharing his location with me.
01:22:37I am so exhausted from this emotional rollercoaster.
01:22:41Like, what do I do now?
01:22:45I've given so much to make Daniel happy.
01:22:48I was so sure of him, and now I'm just insecure.
01:22:52He's not communicating with her much.
01:22:54I wanted to find a reason why, and I did find things.
01:22:59Faith went on your email.
01:23:02How come in your contacts, you have somebody listed as wife?
01:23:06So who is this wife?
01:23:11Are you ready?
01:23:13Tell me what happened.
01:23:14I don't even know where to start.
01:23:22Are you questioning the whole relationship at this point?
01:23:27You are with me.
01:23:27Stay.
01:23:29I don't know where to start.
01:23:29Oh family!
01:23:30What are you doing?
01:23:31What are you doing?
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