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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:01No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:03My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:11I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?
00:00:24I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39What are you doing?
00:00:40You're just a little girl together.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it, I don't know.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The man.
00:00:58We're happy in the Dominican Republic, stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:09I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:15Oh, sexy.
00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yes.
00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santel and Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:44I want my wife, I want the house, I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.
00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:05But now I have to be serious.
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15So is this who you are?
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love wife?
00:02:20No, I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.
00:02:24Oh, yeah, you can be concerned.
00:02:24But don't call at me hostile, because I die.
00:02:27No, you cannot do it, I die.
00:02:29You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:57Hi.
00:02:58Hi, hi.
00:02:59Is it possible using my pina colada?
00:03:00Of course.
00:03:01Thanks.
00:03:1321.
00:03:24Hey, bitches!
00:03:26Click, snap, look at that.
00:03:30I'm here!
00:03:32Look at that.
00:03:34Check, check, check, check it out.
00:03:36Look at that.
00:03:37Girl strip!
00:03:38Girl strip!
00:03:39Do I have your attention?
00:03:42I'm Sophie.
00:03:44I'm 26 years old.
00:03:45I'm from London, and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.
00:03:48It's so hot.
00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years,
00:03:53and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Cheers!
00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce,
00:03:58and what better way to celebrate
00:03:59than with a girls' trip?
00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like...
00:04:03You're gonna have to, like,
00:04:04take the will on this.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks
00:04:08and just have a good time and not stress
00:04:09and just actually have some fun.
00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:15Me, too.
00:04:16And the guys here are fine.
00:04:18Even the workers are cute.
00:04:20The hotel people are cute.
00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.
00:04:24Everything's an upgrade for me, ladies.
00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.
00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.
00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected,
00:04:33and we kind of became a support for each other
00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.
00:04:38And, yeah, now we've actually become friends.
00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?
00:04:42I still like the older man.
00:04:44Older, but how old?
00:04:4693 is fine.
00:04:47Let's stick with 94.
00:04:4997.
00:04:4994.
00:04:52I'm Liz.
00:04:53I'm 33 years old,
00:04:54and I'm from San Diego, California.
00:04:56But I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.
00:05:05But I'm single,
00:05:06and it feels really good to be single for once.
00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:15Latinian?
00:05:17Latinian.
00:05:18I would say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:20Oh, yeah, I like that.
00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:22Yeah.
00:05:23So, you like them.
00:05:24Okay.
00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip,
00:05:26obviously both single, ready to have a great time.
00:05:28And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:32When we met,
00:05:33when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona,
00:05:35we immediately just, like, hit it off.
00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends,
00:05:39and I feel like she's the perfect person
00:05:40to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:41I'm going to be your coach,
00:05:43babysitter, whatever you want to call me.
00:05:46Annoying bitch.
00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:51He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me,
00:05:53Sophie, the single, not you.
00:05:56I'm Julia.
00:05:57I'm 31 years old.
00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar,
00:06:00and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:03My husband, Brandon, very protective.
00:06:07But he has a reason,
00:06:08because we have secrets.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I doesn't tell anybody yet,
00:06:14because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed
00:06:19at drinking mocktails.
00:06:21So let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah, let's have Jinky in my ears.
00:06:25After dealing with this divorce
00:06:27and the stress with Rob and everything,
00:06:29like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob
00:06:33towards the end of the marriage
00:06:34that it's really hard for me to even believe
00:06:37that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:44Hi, thank you.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:47Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I missed you.
00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob,
00:06:51I just fell in love with him so quick
00:06:53that I didn't even think twice
00:06:54about moving to another country to marry him.
00:06:59But even though we was married,
00:07:01I found out he actively had a dating profile
00:07:04on a dating site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.
00:07:11Let's explore.
00:07:13I was only on a dating app
00:07:14after Sophie told me
00:07:16to go talk to other women
00:07:17ten f***ing times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man
00:07:22that I feel I deserve,
00:07:23and I had to walk away.
00:07:38I was only 20 years old
00:07:39when I first started talking to Rob,
00:07:41and there's definitely something scary
00:07:43about getting back out there
00:07:44because I've only known my life
00:07:46as an adult really with Rob.
00:07:48I haven't really seen
00:07:48what life looks like without Rob.
00:07:50But it's also very exciting.
00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you,
00:07:54and we have a special guy
00:07:56who we come to see.
00:07:59For the past four months,
00:08:01I've been talking to this guy,
00:08:02and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall, he works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:14If you could write on paper,
00:08:15the perfect guy,
00:08:16it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro,
00:08:21and, yeah,
00:08:23it is that Pedro
00:08:24from Chantelle and Pedro.
00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media,
00:08:34and then I saw this really cute guy,
00:08:36and I was like, okay,
00:08:37like, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking,
00:08:40I was like, wait, like,
00:08:41it's Pedro.
00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking,
00:08:46I didn't know the ins and outs
00:08:47of what happened between him and Chantelle.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation,
00:08:52but I know better than to judge someone
00:08:54based on other people's opinions.
00:08:57We have been talking a lot,
00:08:58and then we ended up meeting up
00:09:00three times or so in person.
00:09:02He basically was like,
00:09:03oh, like, what's your ideal date?
00:09:05Like, and I told him, like,
00:09:06what type of food,
00:09:07what type of restaurant,
00:09:08what type of gift I want,
00:09:09and he just, like, did all of it,
00:09:10and I was like, oh.
00:09:11So what was the gift?
00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store,
00:09:15and he bought me a $2,000 necklace,
00:09:17and that was the first time we met in person.
00:09:19Oh, my God.
00:09:21I know.
00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic,
00:09:25and I like that he's, like,
00:09:27trying to win me over, kind of,
00:09:28because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers, like, once.
00:09:30It's, like, every week I get new flowers at my door,
00:09:32and then he leaves, like,
00:09:32this little, like, love note in the flowers.
00:09:34Do you see that smile?
00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta
00:09:38and me in Texas,
00:09:39we don't hang out much.
00:09:41We've only hanged out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here
00:09:43to the Dominican Republic
00:09:44for his sister's birthday,
00:09:46and I wanted to do this girl's trip
00:09:47for a while now,
00:09:48so it kind of made perfect sense
00:09:50to just combine the two.
00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time
00:09:53you're spending with him.
00:09:54Yeah, but also,
00:09:55I'm not trying to jump into, like,
00:09:57something super serious immediately,
00:09:58because I only met him, like, a couple times.
00:10:00You just finished your relationship.
00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:02Like, my end goal is a relationship again,
00:10:04but right now,
00:10:05I also want to be single,
00:10:07and I want to make sure
00:10:07I know what I want this time.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro,
00:10:13but at the same time,
00:10:14I've been through hell
00:10:15with my own marriage,
00:10:16and his marriage was a train wreck,
00:10:18obviously,
00:10:19so I want to make sure
00:10:20I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time
00:10:23and giving myself the time I need
00:10:24to figure it out.
00:10:25We're going to see him tonight,
00:10:26which will be fun.
00:10:27I'll have fun.
00:10:28Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends, yeah.
00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro
00:10:33about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here
00:10:36and have a good time
00:10:37and get to know him,
00:10:38but I feel like
00:10:39he's catching very strong feelings
00:10:41very early on,
00:10:42and I really just want to make sure
00:10:44that I don't let someone force me
00:10:47into something that
00:10:48I'm just really not ready for yet.
00:10:49So, let's have fun!
00:10:52Yay!
00:10:54we're happy in the Dominican Republic.
00:10:55Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:11:17All right, cadets.
00:11:19Your mission today
00:11:20is to infiltrate this valley.
00:11:21It's full of enemies.
00:11:22They're going to be on all sides
00:11:24and surrounding you.
00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:29Wee!
00:11:32I'm going to get you.
00:11:36Ooh, I like this.
00:11:47Get around to the left.
00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.
00:11:49Star Wars hiding.
00:11:50Not Star Wars.
00:11:51We're not in the Navy.
00:11:54My name is Kim.
00:11:55I'm 55 years old.
00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.
00:11:58And for the past
00:12:00probably 10, 20 years,
00:12:01I've just been feeling
00:12:02really down about myself.
00:12:04And now I can say
00:12:05Kim is 55 and fabulous.
00:12:14For the past year,
00:12:15I've been on this weight loss journey
00:12:16and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.
00:12:19And it's been life-changing.
00:12:22I have more energy
00:12:23and it's like I'm just tapping
00:12:26into this young,
00:12:27more adventurous Kim again.
00:12:30When I was 19 years old,
00:12:32I went into the military
00:12:33and I was a sharpshooter
00:12:36and I jumped out of planes.
00:12:39I was a bad bitch back then.
00:12:43I got you.
00:12:44You said, ugh.
00:12:45And now, 30 years later,
00:12:46I'm trying to get my groove back.
00:12:48Especially in my dating life.
00:12:51Boo!
00:12:51You're shot.
00:12:52Oh, crap.
00:12:55Do you think we should
00:12:56just call a truce?
00:12:57Just call a truce
00:12:58and we'll work together.
00:12:59You know how I use a gun?
00:12:59I do.
00:13:00So I'm on a date
00:13:01and this is Javier.
00:13:03I'm excited to be here.
00:13:06I like women
00:13:06when they take charge.
00:13:07Oh, do you?
00:13:08Do you?
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:09You got the right kind of woman then.
00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah,
00:13:14that kind of set us up, right?
00:13:15Like a little blind date.
00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman too.
00:13:19Probably too.
00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time,
00:13:22I was like,
00:13:22well, he's kind of handsome.
00:13:24A little bit.
00:13:25No, I'm just joking.
00:13:26He's so handsome.
00:13:27Gracias.
00:13:28De nada.
00:13:30Oh, no!
00:13:31No!
00:13:34I've been casually dating
00:13:35for the last few months,
00:13:37but it is hard as
00:13:38to find a good man
00:13:40in your 50s.
00:13:42Okay.
00:13:43We're done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm putting my gun down.
00:13:46I feel like I can see
00:13:47through all your games
00:13:48and let's just be honest,
00:13:49I was with the biggest game player
00:13:50ever in the world.
00:14:00I met Usman on social media
00:14:01about five years ago.
00:14:05He's a singer-rapper
00:14:06in Nigeria,
00:14:07and after 11 months
00:14:09of talking on the phone,
00:14:10my ass was on a plane
00:14:12to Africa
00:14:12to go meet Usman in person.
00:14:14Oh, my God!
00:14:18Oh, my God!
00:14:19From the beginning,
00:14:20Usman and I went through a lot.
00:14:21We had a lot of challenges,
00:14:23a lot of disagreements.
00:14:24Why would you bring me down here
00:14:26to shoot a video
00:14:27about another woman?
00:14:28Oh, my God!
00:14:30This is funny.
00:14:31Is this funny, too?
00:14:32you!
00:14:33But eventually,
00:14:34we worked it out,
00:14:35and he put a ring on it.
00:14:37Will you remind me, babe?
00:14:38Yes!
00:14:39I knew that Usman
00:14:40wanted to have a couple kids,
00:14:42and my baby-making days are over,
00:14:44but I loved Usman so much
00:14:46that I was willing
00:14:47to let him take a second wife
00:14:48to have a baby.
00:14:49And it's crazy
00:14:50when I think about that.
00:14:52When I get married
00:14:53to the second wife,
00:14:54I should take her child
00:14:56to you in this day.
00:14:57No, sir.
00:14:58Listen to me.
00:14:58That will bring you guys
00:14:59more closer.
00:15:00No.
00:15:01And you love each other,
00:15:02like close friends.
00:15:03No.
00:15:03But he wanted me
00:15:05and the second wife
00:15:06to, like, coexist
00:15:07and, like, make biscuits
00:15:08or something,
00:15:09I don't know,
00:15:09and, like, raise this baby together.
00:15:11What the ?
00:15:14Luckily,
00:15:14I came to my senses
00:15:15before this became
00:15:16a whole sister-wise
00:15:18kind of thing.
00:15:19You're a asshole.
00:15:20You are a asshole.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:25We tried.
00:15:26We tried, right?
00:15:28We tried.
00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.
00:15:31I really don't need a man
00:15:32too much for anything,
00:15:33but I miss having a man.
00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.
00:15:38I want to feel
00:15:39the comfort
00:15:39and feel safe.
00:15:41Safe is, like,
00:15:41my biggest thing.
00:15:44So, how do you like it?
00:15:45It was so much fun.
00:15:46Oh, my gosh.
00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.
00:15:49You were in the military?
00:15:49Yes.
00:15:50Wore the little uniform,
00:15:52wore the little beret,
00:15:53jumped out of planes.
00:15:54I've done a lot.
00:15:55That's very sexy.
00:15:57Do you want to see me
00:15:57in my uniform?
00:15:58Do you have your uniform?
00:15:59No, but I'll get one.
00:16:02So, where do you live?
00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:06Do you, like,
00:16:07live by yourself?
00:16:08I have two roommates.
00:16:09Oh, f**k, two.
00:16:10So, it's like a big bachelor pad.
00:16:13No, no, not really.
00:16:15I live with two young women.
00:16:19So, like,
00:16:20how did you end up
00:16:21with two girl roommates?
00:16:23I used to date one of them.
00:16:24You used to date
00:16:25one of your roommates?
00:16:26I used to date
00:16:26one of my roommates.
00:16:27Okay.
00:16:28What happened?
00:16:29Do you don't mind me asking?
00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.
00:16:33Oh, my dear.
00:16:33She dumped me.
00:16:35Well, I would have, too,
00:16:36if you would have cheated on me.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:39Javier is really cute,
00:16:41but there's a lot
00:16:42of red flags here.
00:16:44He's a man in his 50s
00:16:45with roommates.
00:16:46And, like,
00:16:47what is the situation
00:16:48with his ex, right?
00:16:49He lives with her.
00:16:50He cheated on her.
00:16:52They're still banging.
00:16:53There's something going on there.
00:16:54It's not even a red flag
00:16:55at this point.
00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren
00:16:57going,
00:16:57Kim, get out of here.
00:16:58Kim, get out of here.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:01It was fun.
00:17:03It was fun.
00:17:04Yeah, you too.
00:17:05In my past relationships,
00:17:06I let so much slide,
00:17:08and I'm just not
00:17:09going to do it now.
00:17:10I'm not going to do it.
00:17:11I'll text you.
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:13Or text me.
00:17:14Okay, got it.
00:17:15Thank you for taking me out here.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:17So, I'm not going to see
00:17:18Javier again,
00:17:19but some woman
00:17:20is going to snatch him up.
00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.
00:17:22Sorry.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:41Hello.
00:17:42What are you doing?
00:17:43I ran out of groceries
00:17:44at my house.
00:17:44Oh.
00:17:45So, is my house
00:17:45the grocery store now?
00:17:47I actually need
00:17:47to take him to his bins.
00:17:48Oh, you do?
00:17:49Mm-hmm.
00:17:49Oh.
00:17:51Jamal is my son.
00:17:52He's 30 years old.
00:17:54I don't think anybody
00:17:56could be prouder
00:17:57of their son
00:17:58than I am of Jamal.
00:17:59He is everything to me.
00:18:05Do you have a ranch?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.
00:18:09I use that.
00:18:11I feel like
00:18:12we don't hang out anymore.
00:18:13You just come over
00:18:14when you need stuff.
00:18:14That's not true.
00:18:15I'm going to hang out here
00:18:16while I get my stuff.
00:18:17It's like a
00:18:18two for one.
00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?
00:18:22No.
00:18:22Would you like
00:18:23to take a potato?
00:18:24Yeah.
00:18:24I'll leave you one.
00:18:25Thanks.
00:18:27So, yeah.
00:18:27I went on, like,
00:18:28a little laser tag date.
00:18:30Oh, yeah?
00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.
00:18:34Maybe dating isn't
00:18:35something you should be
00:18:36stressing too hard about.
00:18:38I just feel like
00:18:39I see...
00:18:40I just think
00:18:40you have a lot
00:18:41of other things going on.
00:18:45Indeed.
00:18:48Things have been
00:18:49feeling really tense
00:18:50and, like,
00:18:51really difficult
00:18:52between Jamal and I
00:18:53right now.
00:18:54Can you tell me
00:18:54what's been going on
00:18:55with him?
00:18:57I mean,
00:18:57there's no easy way
00:18:59to...
00:19:02say what I have to say,
00:19:04you know?
00:19:04Or discuss
00:19:05what I've done.
00:19:08Love you.
00:19:09Love you, too.
00:19:09I'm going to go head out.
00:19:12I've kept things
00:19:13from him
00:19:13that have broken
00:19:15his trust with me.
00:19:16Text me later
00:19:17or something.
00:19:17Got you.
00:19:18It'll be pretty busy,
00:19:19but I will...
00:19:20Make time for your mom,
00:19:21Jamal.
00:19:23All righty.
00:19:23See you later.
00:19:24I preach authenticity.
00:19:26I preach being genuine,
00:19:28and I've been living
00:19:29a lie.
00:19:30And when the truth comes out,
00:19:32these things that I'm hiding
00:19:33are going to hurt
00:19:34other people.
00:19:35I'll never forgive myself
00:19:36for that.
00:19:38Never forgive myself.
00:19:45Let's go,
00:19:46little puppy.
00:19:48The first time I see
00:19:49something online,
00:19:49you know,
00:19:49I say,
00:19:50oh my God,
00:19:52like,
00:19:52she looks fine,
00:19:53like.
00:19:54The hair,
00:19:54the eyes,
00:19:55the lips,
00:19:56the f***,
00:19:56the ass,
00:19:57the leg.
00:19:58Maybe,
00:19:59if we love it,
00:20:00we get some.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:03Nice to meet you.
00:20:03I'm Gino.
00:20:04I have never been
00:20:05to a singles event before.
00:20:07Well,
00:20:08I'm not divorced yet.
00:20:09Oh.
00:20:12I knew meeting women
00:20:14in person
00:20:14would probably be difficult,
00:20:16but how did this all
00:20:17end up in such a disaster?
00:20:29Step down.
00:20:31Let's go.
00:20:32What you drinking,
00:20:32what you want.
00:20:33Two counters.
00:20:34We're here.
00:20:36Let's go.
00:20:41Come on,
00:20:43Gino,
00:20:43you got this.
00:20:55All right,
00:20:57last 10 seconds
00:20:58before the end.
00:21:00I'm Gino.
00:21:01I'm 56 years young
00:21:02and I'm from
00:21:03Kent, Michigan.
00:21:04One,
00:21:04let it all go.
00:21:05Woo!
00:21:06Nice job!
00:21:08I'm newly single
00:21:09and I'm looking
00:21:10for the love of my life.
00:21:12I'm way out of here.
00:21:15I'm working out of here.
00:21:17getting myself in shape.
00:21:19I mean,
00:21:19after everything
00:21:20that I've been through,
00:21:22I want some young,
00:21:23beautiful,
00:21:24single ladies, baby.
00:21:26Woo!
00:21:27Would you mind taking, uh,
00:21:29just a couple selfies for me?
00:21:30Of course.
00:21:31If you don't mind,
00:21:32could you try to get my
00:21:33calves in it a little bit?
00:21:34Sure.
00:21:35Give me a big smile.
00:21:37I really want to find
00:21:38a woman that has a good heart
00:21:41who's very much into me
00:21:42just how I am.
00:21:43Nice job.
00:21:44I just have to do
00:21:45a better job
00:21:46at choosing women
00:21:47because I have
00:21:49failed miserably
00:21:51in the last,
00:21:53well,
00:21:54last four years anyway.
00:21:59Oh, my God.
00:22:00Is it?
00:22:01Jasmine?
00:22:02Is it you?
00:22:03Oh, my God.
00:22:06I met my soon-to-be
00:22:07ex-wife, Jasmine,
00:22:09online
00:22:09about four years ago
00:22:11and went to Panama
00:22:12to meet her.
00:22:13Oh, my God.
00:22:14We're standing here for today.
00:22:15Yeah.
00:22:17Yeah.
00:22:20But looking back,
00:22:22I should have never
00:22:22married Jasmine
00:22:23and brought her to the U.S.
00:22:25there were some
00:22:26huge, serious red flags.
00:22:28You trash.
00:22:30I don't want to see you anymore.
00:22:31That's your choice.
00:22:33F***ing...
00:22:34Don't...
00:22:35Guys?
00:22:36I'm going to f***ing
00:22:37kill this.
00:22:38Oh, God damn,
00:22:38the president.
00:22:39Stop.
00:22:40Jasmine,
00:22:40look at me.
00:22:42Stupid liar.
00:22:43I f***ing can't hear me.
00:22:45During our relationship,
00:22:47Jasmine always found a way
00:22:48to beat me down.
00:22:49And then last year,
00:22:51I found out that Jasmine
00:22:53was having a baby
00:22:54with a random dude
00:22:55down the street
00:22:57two months
00:22:58after we separated.
00:23:00I want you to know
00:23:01that I am pregnant.
00:23:05And Matt and I agree
00:23:06that we want to have the baby
00:23:08and that's what
00:23:09we're going to do.
00:23:11Well...
00:23:13Good.
00:23:15I thought she loved me.
00:23:19I thought she wanted
00:23:21to have a child with me.
00:23:26She's such a liar.
00:23:33She's such a liar.
00:23:36I was knocked down,
00:23:38but I got back up
00:23:39on my feet,
00:23:40and now I just want
00:23:41to look forward
00:23:42to living my best life.
00:23:56Today, I'm going
00:23:57to an event
00:23:58that is hosted
00:23:59by a singles group
00:24:00that I found
00:24:01on social media.
00:24:26I have never been
00:24:29to a singles event before.
00:24:30In fact,
00:24:31I haven't met
00:24:32a woman in person
00:24:33and asked her out
00:24:35on a date
00:24:35in probably
00:24:36a good 30 years.
00:24:38Hi.
00:24:40Got Michelle over there
00:24:41and Rachel here.
00:24:43What's up?
00:24:44Before the internet,
00:24:45I'd use classified ads.
00:24:47It was scary
00:24:48because I didn't really know
00:24:51what they looked like.
00:24:52In hindsight,
00:24:54it's probably not
00:24:55the safest thing to do,
00:24:57and I'm lucky
00:24:58I never got scammed.
00:25:00So this is Amy.
00:25:01Hi.
00:25:02Hello.
00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.
00:25:03Nice to meet you.
00:25:04Nice to meet you.
00:25:05I'm Gino.
00:25:05But even now,
00:25:07I prefer to meet
00:25:08women online.
00:25:10Being rejected
00:25:11in person
00:25:12is the worst, right?
00:25:13You feel so small,
00:25:15and it's hard to take.
00:25:16So I am way
00:25:18out of my comfort zone
00:25:19being here.
00:25:20I think we need
00:25:21to go play
00:25:22some kickball.
00:25:23Yeah, let's go.
00:25:24Let's go.
00:25:24Let's go.
00:25:25Let's go.
00:25:26Let's go.
00:25:27Hey, can we get Gino up here?
00:25:33Let's go.
00:25:33My bat?
00:25:35Let's go.
00:25:36Go, go, go.
00:25:37Gino, Gino.
00:25:39Gino, Gino.
00:25:40Gino, Gino.
00:25:56Gino.
00:25:57What's your name?
00:25:57Gino.
00:25:58Gino, I'm Erin.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.
00:26:05Awesome, good job.
00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me
00:26:09because it got me out of my comfort zone.
00:26:12But now that I have to have conversations with them,
00:26:14I hope I don't mess it up.
00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like,
00:26:19oh my God, another normal guy.
00:26:21Oh, that's good.
00:26:21It's 70% women, so like that's why.
00:26:2470%?
00:26:25I like that.
00:26:25I know, right?
00:26:26That's why I get excited.
00:26:28I'm like, a guy?
00:26:32So tell us, like what brought you here?
00:26:35What brought me here?
00:26:36Well, I mean, I'm single now.
00:26:38When did you get divorced?
00:26:41When I get divorced?
00:26:43Well, I'm not divorced yet, OK?
00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.
00:26:50We don't live together.
00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.
00:26:56What if they're not done?
00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready?
00:27:04I'm with you on that.
00:27:06He seems so nervous.
00:27:08He's shaking.
00:27:09His voice is cracking.
00:27:10What the hell is going on here?
00:27:11What is he hiding?
00:27:13So tell us what happened.
00:27:15So basically what happened is five months after our marriage, she met a guy, a random guy at the gym
00:27:22and cheated on me with him.
00:27:24And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.
00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?
00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me, not telling them about my nightmarish,
00:27:40miserable relationship that I just went through.
00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.
00:27:46But anyway, the change of subject a little, what are you guys looking for in a man?
00:28:09I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a
00:28:16disaster?
00:28:23A man.
00:28:28All lies out mean?
00:28:30What you looking at?
00:28:31Yeah, I'm sinking my teeth like a big cat.
00:28:32One, I give you a little more, a little more.
00:28:35That you look at me and that you're flying so high.
00:28:37I'm morning tonight.
00:28:39I'ma show you what I like.
00:28:42Pedro's bad, baby.
00:28:44Hahaha.
00:28:44Ha, ha, ha.
00:28:45Muy mala, mala, mala, mala, mala.
00:28:49Muy mala, you bad honey, got bad money, you bad money.
00:28:53Mala, muy mala.
00:28:55Hello, baby.
00:28:57Hello, baby.
00:28:59What's up, Rojo?
00:29:00How are you?
00:29:01Good, good.
00:29:03My name is Pedro.
00:29:04I'm 33 years old.
00:29:05Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic.
00:29:07But right now, I live in Atlanta, Georgia.
00:29:09Trae la van, si, ya estamos aquÃ.
00:29:11Si.
00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel, I've been keeping a low profile.
00:29:15I need a time to myself.
00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.
00:29:20Eso, papá.
00:29:22But now, I put everything behind me,
00:29:25and I'm ready for the next shot of my life.
00:29:28Bam.
00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there.
00:29:31Asà mismo.
00:29:31Asà mismo.
00:29:33¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?
00:29:34Vamos a agrar la van, ponerla bien bonita.
00:29:36Para Sofi.
00:29:37Tú siempre estás dispuesto a darlo todo por una mujer.
00:29:40Yo soy un tipo romántico.
00:29:41So, I'm putting my best effort in this, OK?
00:29:46Si, claro.
00:29:47I'm so excited.
00:29:49I'm very happy.
00:29:50Because Sofi arrived in the yard with her friends,
00:29:52and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight.
00:29:55I really want to impress Sofi when she is in my own country.
00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the van.
00:30:01They're going to drive Sofi and her friends around the yard.
00:30:05Pedro, ¿a la verdad es que te gusta esa mujer?
00:30:08No me gusta, papá.
00:30:10Me encanta.
00:30:11Óyeme.
00:30:13The first time I saw something online, you know, I said,
00:30:16oh, my God, like, she looks fine.
00:30:19Like, she have everything that I was looking for.
00:30:22The hair, the eyes, the lip, the , the ass, the leg.
00:30:26And she got, you know, the waist.
00:30:28You know, like, it's going to be here, going to be down, you know,
00:30:31like a guitar kind of style, you know?
00:30:33That's made me a little crazy.
00:30:44I have a strong feeling for Sofi,
00:30:45and I really, really want a relationship with her.
00:30:48She has very kind heart.
00:30:49She has the full package.
00:30:52It's the moment of you to reiniciate your life again.
00:30:54Yes.
00:30:55And I hope that the mistakes that you could make
00:30:57will not be repeated.
00:30:58No.
00:30:59All the mistakes that you've met in the past
00:31:00were mistakes.
00:31:01You understand?
00:31:02Now I've learned my mistakes.
00:31:03When I met you, I was like,
00:31:04Chantel, I thought my life was set for forever.
00:31:07And then, you know, everything went to the drain.
00:31:13Ah!
00:31:14Hey!
00:31:15Ah!
00:31:17Baby!
00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard
00:31:24and moved to the United States for love.
00:31:26Hello, my baby.
00:31:28Mwah!
00:31:29Mwah!
00:31:31But Chantel family caused so much drama.
00:31:33They went freaking crazy.
00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:31:35What'd you say ?
00:31:36I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect,
00:31:39and nobody else.
00:31:40Let's go!
00:31:41Hey!
00:31:42Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:45Chantel never stand up for me with her family.
00:31:48That's dropping a wedge between us
00:31:50to the point our marriage couldn't survive.
00:31:55I feel that we go different ways in life.
00:31:58I want my divorce.
00:32:02I can.
00:32:05I can continue with this.
00:32:07I learned a lot of things from my marriage.
00:32:09Put more time, more effort, listen more,
00:32:13be more flexible, you know.
00:32:15And that's helped me right now to mature.
00:32:18Hey!
00:32:19So, it's good.
00:32:20Hey!
00:32:21Papa, you know what?
00:32:22Okay.
00:32:23Give him a little kiss.
00:32:25We'll see you there.
00:32:27Oh, ho, ho, ho!
00:32:30You're doing good tonight.
00:32:33You're doing great.
00:32:35It's a big nut.
00:32:37Okay?
00:32:39All was good.
00:32:41Now let's go down.
00:32:44Let's go, little puppy.
00:32:47It's been a long time.
00:32:49I never thought that this is going to be my life.
00:32:51The fact that I'm three years old,
00:32:54not a kid, you know me,
00:32:55it made me feel a little devastated.
00:32:58We have to be nice and clean.
00:33:01What you never know.
00:33:02I want the type of life that everyone's dreamed about.
00:33:06I want my wife.
00:33:07I want the house.
00:33:08I want the kid.
00:33:10Maybe if we love it, we get some.
00:33:13If not, we try again.
00:33:17I want to show Sophie a time in her life in the yard
00:33:20and I hope at the end of the street
00:33:22we can be a relationship forever.
00:33:25Okay.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:28We're ready.
00:33:39Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:33:43She has the biggest heart and she loves Cass.
00:33:52Who's that beauty?
00:33:54Who's that beast?
00:33:55Dirty mouth, the conscience clean.
00:33:57All in one, a king and queen.
00:33:59Who's she?
00:34:00I must admit.
00:34:02That's me.
00:34:04I know what I bring to the table.
00:34:06I got my plate.
00:34:07I'm willing and able to make my own bed
00:34:10and eat it all alone.
00:34:12That's me.
00:34:13Hi. How was everything?
00:34:14It was great.
00:34:15Thank you so much.
00:34:16Let me go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:18Have a great day, okay?
00:34:19Thank you so much.
00:34:20Bye.
00:34:20For about two years now,
00:34:22I have been the spa supervisor
00:34:24in a hotel casino.
00:34:26Ooh, it's closing time.
00:34:28I really like it.
00:34:30I like scheduling.
00:34:31I like keeping things organized
00:34:33and I think I get that from my military training
00:34:36because you have to be organized
00:34:38when you're in the military.
00:34:40Are you almost done?
00:34:41We gotta go.
00:34:41It's girls night.
00:34:43Yeah, I just gotta clean up this stuff
00:34:44and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend
00:34:48and I love the fact that, like,
00:34:49I can confide in her about things.
00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:54I haven't been out in a while,
00:34:55so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are gonna meet
00:34:59some of our other friends
00:35:00and we're just gonna have
00:35:01a little ladies night.
00:35:02I really wasn't a part of the planning,
00:35:04but I'm just down for whatever at this point.
00:35:07So, if you see any guys tonight,
00:35:08you gonna try to talk to them?
00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:13Really?
00:35:14Yeah.
00:35:14How'd that go?
00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:22No.
00:35:24But that's a different story.
00:35:27I don't know.
00:35:28I just feel like I'm not gonna just settle
00:35:30for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:32You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.
00:35:36Yeah.
00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.
00:35:40No more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:42Yeah, you're gonna need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:46Like, I've never had that.
00:35:48And I really need to feel that love,
00:35:50like, once before I die.
00:35:53Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know,
00:36:00she's been through so much in her life
00:36:02that she does deserve to find love.
00:36:04Not someone who's gonna try to take advantage
00:36:06or use her.
00:36:08She's a beautiful person,
00:36:09so I believe she should find someone
00:36:10who is going to cherish her
00:36:12and treat her like a queen.
00:36:14All right, let's go.
00:36:15Let's go.
00:36:16Pretty girls around the world,
00:36:18they waking up, they serving up,
00:36:19you couldn't catch this one if you tried.
00:36:21Oh, we serve, we serve spicy.
00:36:23Yeah, we know it's a lot.
00:36:25Going right up here.
00:36:27What is this?
00:36:28Let's see where we get inside.
00:36:34Hi!
00:36:35Hi!
00:36:36We love you!
00:36:38Hello, baby!
00:36:41Hi, girl, baby!
00:36:43What are we doing?
00:36:43What are we doing?
00:36:44Sit down.
00:36:45What the is? Pitch a friend.
00:36:46Just chill out.
00:36:48What is this?
00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman
00:36:54in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.
00:37:00Just calm down.
00:37:02We got you.
00:37:03You knew about that.
00:37:04I did.
00:37:05I knew.
00:37:05She's in on it.
00:37:07I hate you.
00:37:08Uh-oh.
00:37:09Uh-oh.
00:37:10Oh, no.
00:37:11Here we go!
00:37:12Here's the voices.
00:37:13You can hear me.
00:37:17Welcome, welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:20All right, so we are going to have some of San Diego's
00:37:24finest wingmen and wingwomen on this very stage
00:37:27pitching their wonderful single friends
00:37:30with a PowerPoint presentation
00:37:32so that you know who is available and looking for love
00:37:36in this room tonight.
00:37:38Give it up!
00:37:38Give it up!
00:37:41Give it up!
00:37:41Give it up!
00:37:42Give it up!
00:37:43Give it up!
00:37:44Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.
00:37:48However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.
00:37:52And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.
00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes,
00:38:01bullet points about different things that we love about her.
00:38:05And who knows?
00:38:06Magic could happen.
00:38:08All right, let's get started and Pitch Up Friends
00:38:11starting with Rachel pitching.
00:38:14Alex!
00:38:16So I am introducing my friend Alex.
00:38:19He just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:23Oh, it's 42.
00:38:26What do you think?
00:38:29Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:34Do you have a strong line?
00:38:36Standards.
00:38:38Boundaries.
00:38:40Alex, come on up here.
00:38:45Questions for Alex.
00:38:47Question.
00:38:49Alex.
00:38:50Do you like older women?
00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever at 19's age.
00:38:58Okay.
00:38:59Give it up for Alex!
00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:05We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:09Yeah!
00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings
00:39:17and my 55-year-old ass is going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:21Why the am I here?
00:39:23I'm so nervous now.
00:39:25I'm sweating.
00:39:27Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:39:31The most authentic, funny military vet, yo.
00:39:38She has the biggest heart and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world.
00:39:49Cats.
00:39:51Her cats.
00:39:52You have to love cats.
00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no.
00:39:58You cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:00Cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:01They sleep.
00:40:03Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kimberly?
00:40:06First of all.
00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?
00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.
00:40:12Kind of true, but you know.
00:40:15Questions for Kimberly?
00:40:16Raise your hand.
00:40:18Well, hello.
00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 55.
00:40:22Damn it.
00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:26Thank you so much.
00:40:29So embarrassing.
00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.
00:40:33Um, hey.
00:40:35My dad lives in New York.
00:40:37Have you dated a man that is far away?
00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria.
00:40:43So why would I not go to New York?
00:40:45Why the not?
00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad.
00:40:50And all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man.
00:40:57And I know they have the best intentions.
00:40:59But this crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabelle Bitchin' Moments!
00:41:08Okay, so what are we going to do?
00:41:09Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:41:10I don't like you.
00:41:11I'm done.
00:41:11Are you?
00:41:12But I love you guys.
00:41:13I appreciate it.
00:41:14I do appreciate it.
00:41:15That was amazing, right?
00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:20Oh, yep.
00:41:21I gotta go.
00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:23What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:27I have plans to hook up right now.
00:41:31Oh!
00:41:32Wait.
00:41:33Wait.
00:41:34So, like, a booty call.
00:41:36A booty call, yeah.
00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:43But I like to have sex.
00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:48I like to have orgasms.
00:41:49Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:52I'm like, hello?
00:41:53Come to Kim.
00:41:54You guys remember B, right?
00:41:58I'm going to them.
00:42:00Oh, ho!
00:42:01Whoa!
00:42:02Hey!
00:42:02Hey!
00:42:03Hu.
00:42:04And this is a great deal.
00:42:18Two for five, how can you beat that?
00:42:19I mean, I am budget-conscient.
00:42:21And some girls will hate it and say, why are you being so cheap?
00:42:25But if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman, that was all about value...
00:42:29We're going to get along at the grocery store.
00:42:41Hi. Excuse me.
00:42:43Do you know where the package meat is at?
00:42:48The hamburger?
00:42:49Yeah, it's going to be down here on the left.
00:42:51All the way down?
00:42:52All the way down?
00:42:52Uh-huh.
00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon to be ex-wife was vegan.
00:42:57Oh.
00:42:59And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat because she's vegan, you know?
00:43:04Yeah.
00:43:04But now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem. I feel so happy.
00:43:10You know what I'm saying.
00:43:11Yeah. A little ball and chain.
00:43:14Ball and chain, right.
00:43:15Yeah.
00:43:15But thanks a lot. Nice talking to you.
00:43:18Sure. Enjoy your meat.
00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays. I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.
00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.
00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge,
00:43:35I have the freedom to do that now.
00:43:37Hmm. I think this will work.
00:43:41Take that, Jazz.
00:43:44The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.
00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball, but maybe not the best situation, like, to
00:43:56find a date.
00:43:57In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.
00:44:02So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.
00:44:07It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.
00:44:11It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone if I know this person is already interested in
00:44:19me.
00:44:19Check this out.
00:44:21I posted a picture today of me working out.
00:44:25This woman says, sexy man, I definitely would not be able to go with you,
00:44:31because I'll be looking at you instead of the trainer while I'm drawing.
00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately, and I love it.
00:44:46I freaking love it.
00:44:50Oh, someone's messaging me.
00:44:54Who is it?
00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post, and she says, great job.
00:45:01She's proud of me.
00:45:02Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.
00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.
00:45:13Thank you. So are you.
00:45:14And you're just so adorable.
00:45:16Look at your smile. It's so cute.
00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.
00:45:22I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.
00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.
00:45:32Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
00:45:35Oh, really?
00:45:36You should watch her.
00:45:37Don't get close to me.
00:45:38Don't touch her.
00:45:39Don't you.
00:45:40Relax, relax.
00:45:41No, no.
00:45:42Don't you.
00:45:43Listen.
00:45:44Get off me.
00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year, and then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the Happily Ever After Tello.
00:46:21And we've been texting each other ever since.
00:46:23Exactly how I like my women.
00:46:25Soft.
00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.
00:46:30But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.
00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie, like with actions, not just words.
00:46:39I know it's my last shot.
00:46:42I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up.
00:46:44Now, that I could post on my Instagram.
00:46:46That big-ass cucumber.
00:46:51Hello?
00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.
00:46:56Oh!
00:46:57Candle in the car.
00:46:59The van alone, cute.
00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.
00:47:04He's coming on very strong.
00:47:05Ah!
00:47:06It's Pedro.
00:47:07He has an ink in his hands.
00:47:28This is my first night in the VR, and I am going out with Sophie and Julian.
00:47:34And we are actually going to go meet Pedro.
00:47:38I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends, so I'm super excited right now.
00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.
00:47:54I live in Washington.
00:47:56It's always gloomy.
00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine, and it can be very depressing at times.
00:48:03So, when Sophie planned a girls trip, I was all about it.
00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.
00:48:11I am really excited.
00:48:13I want to get dressed up.
00:48:13I want to go out.
00:48:14I want to meet people.
00:48:15I want to mingle.
00:48:16I want to flirt.
00:48:16And I want to feel sexy.
00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship.
00:48:22And looking back, I've never picked the right guy.
00:48:25And I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.
00:48:30Um, I think you're amazing.
00:48:33And I want to ask you out on a date.
00:48:36One of my last relationships was Ed.
00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face.
00:48:42But, um...
00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.
00:48:45Burn!
00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.
00:48:48Hey, go f*** yourself.
00:48:50Bye.
00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.
00:48:52You are out at the toll, you drunk.
00:48:54Shut the f*** up.
00:48:56You don't give a f***, Ed.
00:48:58But, despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed and always wanted to make it work.
00:49:05Will you marry me?
00:49:10But then, Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.
00:49:14You're gonna be the best person of yourself, and it's not gonna be with me.
00:49:19Liz, rest assured, I'm always gonna be an asshole.
00:49:25Then came Jason.
00:49:27You're in the past.
00:49:28We're gonna move forward.
00:49:29Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
00:49:32Otherwise, you're gonna have to deal with me.
00:49:34Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year.
00:49:40And then, the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most, like, he
00:49:46didn't.
00:49:46He couldn't.
00:49:48A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, I didn't get the best news.
00:49:55I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.
00:49:59It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage that Jason
00:50:07and I had.
00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch.
00:50:13Me being sick, but...
00:50:18I think I can touch it.
00:50:25Being sick took a huge toll on me, but I also know that I'm gonna overcome it.
00:50:31I'm really hopeful about my future.
00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.
00:50:38I want to live my life, and I really do want to find love again.
00:50:45Girls' Night!
00:50:47I deserve the best.
00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.
00:50:54I bet you're missing me now.
00:51:01You are my soul!
00:51:03I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.
00:51:06Really?
00:51:07Yeah.
00:51:07Mine was, like, two days before this trip.
00:51:10It's my first night in the DR, and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking forward
00:51:15to just spending some time with Pedro.
00:51:16Hello?
00:51:17Oh my gosh.
00:51:19Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with, which
00:51:24I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.
00:51:25Bye.
00:51:27Hello!
00:51:29Oh!
00:51:33Oh my god!
00:51:35Oh my goodness!
00:51:37Oh my goodness!
00:51:37Okay, should I hop in the back?
00:51:39I'm sorry.
00:51:41That is, like, candle in the car!
00:51:45Candle in the car!
00:51:47The van alone?
00:51:48Cute.
00:51:49But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed, and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.
00:51:55I feel like that is welcome to his country.
00:51:58I don't think that's too much.
00:52:00Candle in the car.
00:52:01Okay.
00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.
00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?
00:52:09No, it's really cute.
00:52:11It's cute.
00:52:11It is cute.
00:52:12It is cute.
00:52:13Okay, I'm back.
00:52:15Did he do the bowl as well?
00:52:16What?
00:52:18Pedro put this in more sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there too.
00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.
00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.
00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.
00:52:30I speak Julia language.
00:52:32Yeah.
00:52:33This translator.
00:52:33Yeah.
00:52:35Do you wanna kiss him?
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:37If he goes in, probably go psst.
00:52:38Well, yeah, we haven't done anything yet, you know?
00:52:40So, it's like, I'm gonna hug him.
00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands, or do we put it in your hands?
00:52:45Put it in my hands.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47In my hands.
00:52:56Let's go.
00:52:57Let's dance homage.
00:53:08It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.
00:53:11I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.
00:53:13Maybe you could show me, cause I've been waiting so long.
00:53:22Ah!
00:53:23Is it Pedro?
00:53:24Where is he?
00:53:24He covered it into his hands.
00:53:26Shut up.
00:53:27He covered it into his hands.
00:53:27He covered it into the flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:30You've been dying on the phone.
00:53:35You got this, girl.
00:53:39Wow!
00:53:42You look good.
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:45How you been?
00:53:45I'm good. How are you?
00:53:46How about the fly?
00:53:47It's long. It's okay.
00:53:50She looked, like, stunning.
00:53:53She looked stunning.
00:53:54Oh, the hug that she gave me was very awkward.
00:53:58Hug like a brother.
00:53:59She hug me like a, like a, like a, like a, like a, side hug.
00:54:03Oh, good-bye.
00:54:05Even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.
00:54:07Oh, good job, boy.
00:54:09Oh, boom.
00:54:12Introduce Miss to you.
00:54:13Oh, yeah, that's Miss.
00:54:15Oh, hey.
00:54:18How's it going?
00:54:19How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:21That's the first time I met Julia.
00:54:22And then she hugged me with so much sight, like, God damn it.
00:54:25Like, Sophie, come on.
00:54:27Get Julia's energy, please.
00:54:28You love it?
00:54:29I'm ready to be here.
00:54:31Nice to meet you.
00:54:32Liz.
00:54:33Okay, ladies, we're going to go out there to the rooftop.
00:54:37You're going to meet my friends, enjoy the night.
00:54:40Follow me, ladies.
00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?
00:54:41How you doing?
00:54:43I'm doing good.
00:54:43How are you?
00:54:44Good, good, good.
00:54:45Do this one?
00:54:46Yeah, please.
00:54:56Good, good.
00:54:57I'm .
00:54:58Cool, good, good.
00:54:58Uh, guys.
00:55:00Let me introduce you.
00:55:02They are my friend Villas.
00:55:04Darling.
00:55:05Ernestys.
00:55:06Raphael.
00:55:07Okay.
00:55:08She is Sofi.
00:55:09Julia.
00:55:11And Liz.
00:55:12To your.
00:55:13Very nice to meet you.
00:55:14question how was the band was good good job guys they helped me I can tell
00:55:24Pedro's very excited for all his friends to meet me which it's nice but it feels
00:55:31like I'm like walking into like a job interview or like I'm supposed to give a
00:55:35speech or something because they were just sat there like this at me okay
00:55:45I already feel like there's expectation of me and I'm kind of brought here as
00:55:50Pedro's girlfriend it's just kind of freaking me out a little bit
00:55:58Wow okay go to the bottom you know where the bottom
00:56:12that's that energy bro I don't know what like I don't know I don't know I don't
00:56:20what's very awkward as a side of this office here but right now it's it's feel
00:56:27cold indifference weird you know like awkward Sophie entirely different
00:56:35person that I met before
00:56:40sexually he is he's good he's great with me and his big so there you go even though I'm in
00:56:47my fifties I still have urges I still have needs
00:56:53Oh
00:57:07I have plans to hook up right now
00:57:21wait wait so like a booty call a booty call yeah so a booty call is when you're not in
00:57:30a
00:57:30relationship and you just meet up with one of your little friends and you know you have some drinky
00:57:36drinks and then do the deed and then you just go home even though I'm in my fifties I still
00:57:42have
00:57:43urges I still have needs and it like gets the needs met you know what it's a step in the
00:57:48right
00:57:49direction why not I'm meeting up with Benjamin or as everybody calls him B he's a really good friend of
00:57:56mine and I dated him for about six months before I met Usman once Usman and I broke up and
00:58:02he knew
00:58:03it he just slid right in the DMS and we've been banging it out ever since it's it's tricky with
00:58:11me
00:58:11and B because the connection is there like you can feel it you know but he's just a friend with
00:58:16benefits
00:58:16like I I just don't feel like we're at that point to make it a relationship when B and I
00:58:22tried to date
00:58:23like five six years ago we were doing pretty good we have a lot of things in common and then
00:58:29about six
00:58:29months in B hit me up with he wanted to be like in a thropple he wanted me to have
00:58:35sex with the woman
00:58:36and I was just like are you high no I'm not doing that he was very free-spirited back then
00:58:42and Kim was
00:58:43not sexually B is he's good he's great with me and his big so there you go you had that
00:58:49with Usman
00:58:50though it was the same thing you had the connection but there was all these other red flags that's how
00:58:54I feel and I don't want the red flag being a woman of a certain age that we all are
00:59:01it is refreshing
00:59:06for me to see her having a little bit of a hoe phase you know what I'm all for that
00:59:14are you for
00:59:14that yeah I think she I mean get it out of her system for a little bit until she finds
00:59:18the right
00:59:18one friends with benefits and whatever they have is is a good connection I'm down for it yeah
00:59:26but we wanted her to find somebody that is truly special and truly right that she can fall in love
00:59:32with and that loves her true he ain't the one no for tonight he is the one
00:59:45me and I have been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels because he has roommates
00:59:50and with my house I never know if Jamal's gonna show up or not at first it was a little
01:00:00inconvenient
01:00:00but I have to tell you like hotel sex is kind of hot nice hotel sex
01:00:14oh yeah come on in waiting to see you
01:00:22it's good to see you Michelle I know I know yeah come on in come on in come on in
01:00:27this is nice B I know right
01:00:28so much nicer than those old hotels we used to get oh man back in the day look at us
01:00:37now you look
01:00:38beautiful as usual I try my name is Benjamin but everybody calls me B because I'm like the bumblebee
01:00:45I always be buzzing around and you never know where I'll land at this is a good bit this is
01:00:52nice look
01:00:52look at the big bit this is a big bit the reason why me and Kim keep coming back to
01:00:57each other is
01:00:58definitely because of the friendship that we have together she's somebody I'd definitely like I rock with
01:01:05so I went to this like dating event thing you know what I'm saying yeah see this is why I
01:01:10love you
01:01:10because we can talk about this stuff right of course of course so it was Laura and Jody and
01:01:15my friend Lily right and they pitched me so it was called pitch a friend it was a slideshow
01:01:20presentation like a real slideshow like with pictures yeah of me and then like my likes and
01:01:26dislikes and all this stuff so it was cool it was very touching but it just was not my thing
01:01:31sometimes I tell B about me like meeting other guys or like this whole pitch a friend thing because I
01:01:37want to see what he's going to say like don't do that let me try to be your man B
01:01:41and I are good
01:01:42together and I know he sees it and I was kind of hoping that with age that B would like
01:01:47you know
01:01:47calm it down a little bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous relationship we've known
01:01:53each other forever yeah I miss you so much I miss you too like we're cool like we're friends with
01:01:57benefits now and I love that but like I'd like maybe to see it grow to see what else it
01:02:01could be
01:02:04we've always talked about it you know and the only way we gonna find that out is with more time
01:02:09mm-hmm we should plan like once every two weeks when we can you haven't even been to my house
01:02:18yet
01:02:18no but I'm so crazy I'm coming
01:02:26yeah okay I am tired and I just want to go take a shower is that okay yeah of course
01:02:32okay I'll give
01:02:33you a massage once I get out of the shower so I'm just I'm just baby baby please baby baby
01:02:40baby baby
01:02:41please what can can you show me like what that what my dad yes that might feel like yes let's
01:02:47go let
01:02:47me see oh let me see let me see I have good him I love B to death and I
01:02:53would love to be in a
01:02:54relationship with him and I'm putting out the vibe but he is not picking up what Kim is putting down
01:02:59so I mean where do we go from here oh all right I'm gonna go take a shower I don't
01:03:06want to be
01:03:06shuffling with my walker up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old I just want more for myself
01:03:12so if
01:03:13B doesn't step up soon I mean this whole relationship is gonna have an expiration date I'm not gonna keep
01:03:18waiting traveling today to see Natalie again god aren't these sexy I mean holy cow I hope she
01:03:29gives me a second chance and more importantly I hope I don't mess it up
01:03:51why are you packing up shampoo well I gotta wash the hair right the little hair that I have the
01:03:56patch of
01:03:57hair on my back of my head I shampoo it I condition it I take very good care of it
01:04:02that's the only hair I got left on my head
01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie you know so I bought a couple of new shirts hopefully she'll like
01:04:24them I
01:04:26I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie they're colorful that's for sure definitely colorful
01:04:34I visited Natalie in Vegas previously because that's where her home's at this time I'm gonna travel to DC
01:04:42because she's currently working remotely there god aren't these sexy I mean holy cow that's some sexy ass
01:04:50underwear right here a lot of our talks through text and such has been a lot of small talk to
01:04:56be honest
01:04:57and hasn't been very deep so I really really don't know how Natalie feels about me but I don't think
01:05:06she
01:05:06would invite me to her apartment if she didn't have any feelings for me I don't need my little blue
01:05:13pills
01:05:14and I'm not packing any because the little blue pills I need for someone that is ugly on the inside
01:05:22and a constant bitch then I need something to pump me up but Natalie is a different story because just
01:05:29her personality and attitude the way she is I'm gonna get it up man all right I think we got
01:05:37it
01:05:50time to board I'll see you soon Natalie I've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last two
01:05:58years
01:05:58so trying to put myself out there again it's not easy
01:06:07but there's not many times that you can get a second chance and especially with a woman that's high quality
01:06:15like Natalie is
01:06:23good morning good morning how are you doing great doing great my first time in Washington DC
01:06:29I'm excited excited I hope you enjoy your stay thank you I'm so excited to be here to see who
01:06:36I'm meeting today
01:06:37Natalie on top of her having a great personality and caring and fun and kind she is a hot sexy
01:06:45passionate Latina let me tell you
01:06:46she's on fire baby
01:06:53oh is this it yeah this is it
01:06:56thank you
01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office
01:07:00the plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment
01:07:17how are you feeling
01:07:19well I'm super excited to see her and hang out with her and but I have some nervousness it's a
01:07:26little nerve-wracking
01:07:32my heart's racing a bit
01:07:35that's what Natalie does to me
01:07:47I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance
01:07:51but more importantly I hope I don't mess it up
01:07:55hey
01:07:59what was your name again?
01:08:01Via
01:08:01Via
01:08:01yeah it's nice to meet you
01:08:02oh you don't do the kiss thing?
01:08:05no there you go there you go
01:08:06Via is very good looking and he smells expensive
01:08:14honestly if I never wanted to get divorced like he would still be mad
01:08:17any hookers with him?
01:08:20I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants
01:08:24what the we doing here?
01:08:36how do you feel right now?
01:08:38I don't know why his energy just gives me like I just feel like in his head we're in a
01:08:43relationship
01:08:43like if you ask him I feel like he's like yeah that's my girl
01:08:55they take a long time in the restaurant what they're doing?
01:08:59nobody tell you you can have fun
01:09:02just have fun
01:09:03I feel like he won't let me have fun now
01:09:05like now he's gonna feel like she's in my country she's meeting my friends
01:09:10like I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe
01:09:13you just loosen up a little bit with a couple drinks and you'll be good
01:09:18let's just think of girls
01:09:20it'll be a good night
01:09:21yeah
01:09:21you know what?
01:09:23help me meet my man
01:09:25kitty's thirsty
01:09:28really girls just arrived at the club to meet Pedro and his friends
01:09:31and it's a very overwhelming environment
01:09:34sorry you can sit down
01:09:38you can sit over here
01:09:39what's up V
01:09:40I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van
01:09:42and now I just feel like he's thinking this is my girlfriend
01:09:45she's meeting all my friends
01:09:46and it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before
01:09:49which that's what I loved before it was so easy going
01:09:51and this feels a little bit, a little bit pressure
01:09:55Lisa I'm going to introduce it to my friend Villa
01:09:58what is your name again?
01:09:59Villa
01:10:00nice to meet you
01:10:00oh you don't do the kiss thing?
01:10:02I don't think that's what we're doing
01:10:03just kidding
01:10:05no
01:10:05there we go
01:10:06Villa
01:10:08Villa
01:10:08is
01:10:09very good looking
01:10:11he's very well groomed
01:10:13like his haircuts on point
01:10:15and
01:10:16he smells really good
01:10:17he smells expensive
01:10:20chairs thank you for inviting us all
01:10:24woo
01:10:24whoo
01:10:25arriba
01:10:25whoo
01:10:27arriba
01:10:27abajo
01:10:28pae el centro
01:10:30pae el centro
01:10:31pae el centro
01:10:33aadestro
01:10:33wow
01:10:34that's it
01:10:35bachata bjota
01:10:37you dance?
01:10:38yes
01:10:38that's when that video looks like
01:10:40one
01:10:41two
01:10:46there you got it
01:10:53as we're dancing i can tell we're both very attracted to each other get close get close
01:10:57get close to me no get close to me no worry he just smells really good he dresses well
01:11:04and he's just hot but even though i'm attracted to him i don't want to like be all over him
01:11:09the
01:11:09first night and lead him on because i still don't really know what i want yet hey hey so you've
01:11:15never danced bachata before i was trying to sign up for a bachata lessons while i'm out here it's so
01:11:20easy i can teach you that okay we can start here right so it's one two three oh you do
01:11:30know
01:11:33one two one two one two and bam bam bam bam bam bam
01:11:43you lied to me you said she didn't know she said she was gonna take classes
01:11:52over here better everyone just left that's okay
01:11:59they needed that alone time yeah you look beautiful you look gorgeous thank you thank you
01:12:05i'm super happy that you're here that you take the invitation to come in here
01:12:10to spend a little time with me i know you want to have the best time i woke up and
01:12:15i had a pina
01:12:16colada for breakfast because i'm in the dr wow that's a lot you don't need classes no
01:12:26i think liz likes your friend yeah look yeah yeah
01:12:31so are you from here or are you from well i was born um in atlanta when's your birthday
01:12:38september september i'm may baby i'm a gemini you're a gemini yeah what is your size i'm a libra
01:12:46okay i feel like us libras are pretty well well balanced which is is this your only tattoo oh yeah
01:12:53wow it's a whole sleeve it's a libra so a woman with the blindfold and the scale
01:13:01what's this oh it's my son's name i have a kid
01:13:08riley leanne you have a kid yeah really she's gonna be 12. you have a 12 year old yeah my
01:13:15baby
01:13:15means everything to me same yeah same he is my reason for everything definitely no
01:13:23i'm feeling butterflies talking to via there'll be a in july he's sweet he loves his kid he's
01:13:30making eye contact with me we're having great conversation i think we need a drink to that
01:13:36i think we need a shot is your friend at home yes
01:13:43he is oh it's okay this is in her single era so this is her time to just like live
01:13:49her life a little
01:13:50bit same with me i'm not in a toxic relationship you're separate right now are you still married
01:13:55are you divorced how how how how that goes like i'm still suddenly married but i'm like started
01:14:03the process of divorce but we're still fine you are now like just now so it's very new
01:14:13it never really felt like it was the end because he would still call me he still called you he
01:14:18called
01:14:18me two days ago four in the morning for what it was unknown numbers to have me blocked and he
01:14:23was
01:14:23like why do you have me blocked i'm like we're getting divorced why why so sad with you like why
01:14:30you not can move on honestly if i never wanted to get divorced like he would still be mad
01:14:35i thought that sophie and her husband divorced was more fight alone because she tell me he was
01:14:42the worst husband that he he made her like miserable all the time if that guy threw you that bad
01:14:50why you get the phone calls and answer the phone any hookers with him
01:15:02yeah we like hooked up after a few months because as much as that guy was horrible to me i
01:15:08still had
01:15:08love for him when he was being nice to me i forgot about all the bad memories and so we
01:15:13slept together
01:15:16they've been hookups and she never told me they did hookup before i am speechless it's hard when
01:15:24you love someone i can't just be like you bye you know look if you want to be with rob
01:15:28okay be with
01:15:29rob or or be with every guy that you want to be but i don't want to be collateral damage
01:15:35for somebody
01:15:36they don't know what it wants what the we doing here
01:15:42i wish i would have just handled this whole situation better you know but now i wish you did
01:15:48too i've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years i'm sorry that i hurt you so bad
01:15:54i
01:15:54don't know i don't know what i up you know
01:16:10i'm just getting home from my night with b even at 55 i'm still doing the walk of shame
01:16:25come on let me give you some treats
01:16:29hi my baby
01:16:33last night was pretty amazing
01:16:35he's really good in bed i have to say oh and usually after a night like that i'm feeling all
01:16:41zen and woosah and you know calm but right now i'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because jamal's
01:16:47coming over so good to be out of those clothes my god he thinks he's coming over here to help
01:16:53me
01:16:53build a dresser but really i have some things i need to talk to him about
01:17:03it's like a pipe ding dong hey what's up how are you good how are you i'm good so this
01:17:11is a dresser
01:17:12i want to put in my guest room see is it big it's look at the picture oh okay here
01:17:18we go so they go a
01:17:19into e it goes like this yeah this is easy this is so fun so i went out for girls
01:17:28night last night
01:17:29with laura jody and lily you know my friend from work lily so we went to mavericks and they had
01:17:34this
01:17:34event called pitch me yeah so they did like a presentation of like what i'm looking for in a
01:17:40guy and all the guys were like 12 jamal they weren't even like grown you know well i feel like
01:17:45your last couple guys have been younger so my last one guy was younger so well b's not really b's
01:17:5544
01:17:55so i mean he's you know what's his real name benjamin oh yeah b sounds better yeah but um so
01:18:01then he
01:18:02texts me and i went over to a hotel with him last night sure you don't want to know yeah
01:18:09i don't need
01:18:10to hear that things have been tense between me and jamal lately i've hid things from him for so long
01:18:19that when i told him it just devastated him as long as we're not talking about these things jamal and
01:18:27i are fine but it's like everything's hidden under this carpet and i have to pull that carpet away
01:18:32every now and then and talk about it but jamal will just hang up on me he won't answer a
01:18:36text he'll
01:18:36walk out the house it's been very uncomfortable um you know larry's coming out here
01:18:46why is he coming over here just to see like you know where i grew up at and you know
01:18:51get a little
01:18:52more of my family history i wish i would have just handled this whole situation better
01:18:59you know but now i wish you did too you hit him for so long
01:19:09i've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years
01:19:16i did what i thought yeah but why'd you hide him for so long
01:19:25just give me a second
01:19:29jamal is not my only child
01:19:42jamal's dad and i were never married um we were together for seven and a half years
01:19:47we were in the military together and he was just cheating all the time it was just like
01:19:54every day there was like a different girl when i got pregnant with my first son larry first thing
01:20:01his dad said was abort it and i just couldn't do that but i was only 21 years old i
01:20:08couldn't imagine
01:20:08being a single mom i was not mentally ready i was starting my military career i was just not ready
01:20:14so i decided to put my son up for adoption and i never told jamal until last year when larry
01:20:20found
01:20:20us through an ancestry website i don't think you ever would have told me i would have told you i
01:20:26don't think so and that's a huge thing for me is like
01:20:31i don't think you ever would have told me because like there was no reason to not tell me
01:20:36i just didn't know how to say it you know and it's always been like me and you me and
01:20:42you me and
01:20:42you and i finally got our relationship to where like i've always wanted it to be right
01:20:47so it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret i felt like in my head i
01:20:52was just like
01:20:53trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you too because i just didn't
01:20:58you're protecting me i don't know i just didn't know how to handle it i didn't didn't i that's
01:21:02that is the complete truth i did not know how to handle this at all at all
01:21:08last year i found out i had an older brother full blood mommy and dad and my first thought
01:21:17was that she was lying it was a joke or something because why would you hide this for so long
01:21:24when
01:21:24we're so close and then when i found it was true i was just really pissed off i have this
01:21:29whole family
01:21:30family and you knew about it and i'm like how could my own mom like look me in my eyes
01:21:37when she knows
01:21:38i have a whole brother dude that's just not something i'm like even thought about forgiving yet
01:21:47because i just i just don't know who would do that so i'm like damn
01:21:58i don't know i feel like your mom's a person you're supposed to trust like only like if you
01:22:02can't trust anyone else you can trust her but now it's like wow i can't trust anyone in the world
01:22:07anymore oh i'm like shaking it's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this
01:22:16whole
01:22:17thing you do make a lot of excuses i'm sorry that i hurt you so bad i don't know i
01:22:23don't know what
01:22:23i up you know like i don't i don't know what else to say to fix it i know keeping
01:22:31larry from jamal
01:22:32was not the right thing to do it ended up just hurting him worse jamal had every right to know
01:22:38that
01:22:39he had a brother out there and now all i'm trying to do is just repair what i up
01:22:45last year jamal and i went to north carolina to meet larry his wife and his son meeting larry for
01:22:53the first time was like crazy because i'm looking at him i'm like okay this is my blood this is
01:22:58my son
01:22:59and he has my face he looks just like me but he's a total stranger to me and technically i'm
01:23:07a grandma
01:23:09it's a surreal feeling but i'm so relieved because he was such a good man and i don't know
01:23:18how he would have turned out if i would have kept him you know it makes me feel certain that
01:23:22i did the
01:23:23right thing since then jamal and i have been talking with larry and i invited him to san diego so
01:23:30i could
01:23:31get to know him more and he could see where i'm from what do you think you even want to
01:23:37do with larry
01:23:38once he comes out here like what's next you think you're gonna have like a deep talk with him i
01:23:41have
01:23:42to have a deep talk with him about what about the other one
01:24:04how do you think he's gonna react i think he's gonna be pissed he's gonna be really upset with
01:24:09me hey by the way you have a sister like the larry wasn't the only child that i put up
01:24:18for adoption
01:24:20i also had a daughter
01:24:31this season on the single life
01:24:37this is the kind of life that i want where i can have fun with my partner
01:24:43you're getting me all hot oh yeah this is my dominican fling that i've been looking for
01:24:49nice to meet you i'll never see you again i was helping him upload something on social media and it
01:24:56shows me all the women he's been messaging something's fishy about this courtney's worried
01:25:01that i'm just gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day are you still living that way dude be honest
01:25:07with me well um how are you a wreck i'm like shaking i didn't tell my son larry about his
01:25:16sister
01:25:16when he first found me here but i want to tell him now and i'm really scared what if he
01:25:22just turns
01:25:23around and leaves what if he never speaks to me again do you mind if i have a dance it's
01:25:33my girl
01:25:33are you serious i do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else i just don't see how that's
01:25:39respectful the guy that you're with so you're stopping me from being who i am you don't see a
01:25:44problem here at all what is the freaking problem i think the problem is actually us i'm done with
01:25:49this yesterday i was talking police and she made me feel maybe i you have another guy you mind but
01:25:56why would she tell you that i don't want sophie to play game with me i'm not interesting hell no
01:26:03not
01:26:03with me everything i told you he knows you've never had my back that's breaking girl code like you don't
01:26:13do
01:26:14that go home liz adios
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