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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Until I met you, my life was a nightmare.
00:00:08A part of me is alive because of you.
00:00:12No one has ever made me feel that important,
00:00:15and it really does mean a lot to me
00:00:17that he'll try to stop gambling.
00:00:19I can tell that he loves me,
00:00:21and that really is what I've been looking for.
00:00:23I adore you.
00:00:26I can't remember that I asked
00:00:28with South American girls.
00:00:30No, no, no, no.
00:00:30You remembered last night when I brought it up.
00:00:32Now all of a sudden you're pretending you don't know her?
00:00:35I can't remember.
00:00:36I am being caught.
00:00:38I lied to her.
00:00:40Yes, I know this lady.
00:00:43It's been a long time I've not talked to her.
00:00:46I'm sorry, okay?
00:00:48I'm still hurting inside,
00:00:49but at the same time,
00:00:51all my secrets are so much more than his one lie.
00:00:55If I can let this go, maybe he'll forgive me
00:00:58when I tell him everything.
00:01:00Sorry.
00:01:02We decided that both of our finances
00:01:05would be put into a shared account.
00:01:09No, actually, he doesn't have the access.
00:01:13You're not married.
00:01:15I'm really surprised that Sheena's dad
00:01:17would tell me we don't get to share a bank account,
00:01:20and Sheena is going along with it.
00:01:22I don't know if I can propose to Sheena if I can't trust her.
00:01:28There are some things that I do have questions about.
00:01:31We probably have to have a private conversation.
00:01:35I do understand why Aviva has fallen for stick,
00:01:39but now this all changes because I am here.
00:01:42This is you, isn't it?
00:01:45Oh .
00:01:47The last time I was here in Morocco,
00:01:50I was coming to visit the guy that I was dating,
00:01:54and there's, like, something else.
00:01:59We got engaged.
00:02:00We got engaged.
00:02:27How do you see, Indy?
00:02:28Oh, that's a different cat.
00:02:30Have you seen this cat before?
00:02:32No.
00:02:33This to tell that I'm from Igbo tribe.
00:02:36You look like Santa Claus.
00:02:39Really?
00:02:40Yeah.
00:02:50How are you feeling since everything yesterday?
00:02:54Yes.
00:02:57Are you still remembering that?
00:02:59I am still remembering it.
00:03:00Oh.
00:03:02It bothers me a little bit.
00:03:03So I tried to talk to her again
00:03:05to see if she would send those screenshots one more time.
00:03:09OK.
00:03:09And she blocked me on social media.
00:03:13I thought she was a friend.
00:03:14Why did she block you?
00:03:16I don't know.
00:03:18But my thought is, I guess she's jealous of us.
00:03:22So I think I'm feeling better about it,
00:03:24thinking about it that way.
00:03:27I can't believe she blocked me.
00:03:30It's making me believe that she's the one
00:03:33who was lying about Daniel.
00:03:36Maybe she wanted to be with Daniel.
00:03:38So she reached out to me to call him a scammer
00:03:41to deter me away from Daniel.
00:03:43I think she's mad that Daniel chose me over her.
00:03:47I think everything has been resolved.
00:03:50I'm trying to believe that.
00:03:54Baby, can you dress up?
00:03:56We are going to the king, OK?
00:03:59I want us to go there with warm mind, OK?
00:04:03For now, I just want to put this whole thing behind me.
00:04:07Because today, Daniel's taking me to meet the king in Lagos.
00:04:12Apparently, there are several kings of the Igbo tribe.
00:04:15And this is a real king.
00:04:17I am going to meet a real king.
00:04:19I am so scared and I'm so nervous I may pee my pants.
00:04:23We'll go see the king, but I need you to help me with my hair tie.
00:04:28Perfect right there.
00:04:30When you're talking about marriage,
00:04:32everyone don't have to go and see the king.
00:04:34But getting his blessing, it means a lot.
00:04:38You look so handsome.
00:04:39Taking her to the king is the highest honor to our culture.
00:04:43This will be the way to prove to Lisa I respect her a lot.
00:04:46And I am committed to her.
00:04:56I'm very nervous.
00:04:57Is it a big palace?
00:04:59Or is it more like a mansion?
00:05:03Just come down.
00:05:04I'm allowed to be nervous about meeting a king.
00:05:08It's exciting.
00:05:10I'm picturing a huge castle.
00:05:11It's going to be bigger than Disneyland.
00:05:13It's going to have towers and that is going to have a moat.
00:05:17Marble floors and this grand entrance.
00:05:20I don't know what I'm thinking.
00:05:21I'm thinking I'm in England.
00:05:26How do I greet him again?
00:05:27You have to know that answer.
00:05:29It is a beautiful.
00:05:31May you live long, my king.
00:05:32May you live long, my king.
00:05:34Good.
00:05:38Oh, my God.
00:05:39I'm so nervous.
00:05:41I am so afraid that I'm going to say something wrong.
00:05:44That I'm going to kneel at the wrong time.
00:05:46That I will accidentally reveal my secrets.
00:05:49I mean, this is the ultimate blessing.
00:05:53I can't mess up.
00:05:56Oh, we're turning here.
00:05:58Where are we?
00:06:01Are we here?
00:06:02Yes.
00:06:05Oh, my God, baby.
00:06:19During my last trip when we were in Marrakesh, we got engaged.
00:06:35So that's why you are so fast, you want to just to be engaged and...
00:06:39No, I don't just want to be engaged, but that's just what happened on my last trip.
00:06:43Mm-hmm.
00:06:49In social media when we speak, why you didn't say that?
00:06:53You make a story for...
00:06:56It's not a story.
00:06:57Just be, be, be real.
00:06:59I am being real.
00:07:00You have to say it without to be scared.
00:07:02For example...
00:07:03That's what I'm doing right now.
00:07:04But you take a lot of time.
00:07:06It's like...
00:07:07Well, exactly.
00:07:08I didn't want you to be mad, so I didn't say anything about it.
00:07:14It's like, I don't know you, and...
00:07:17I wouldn't trust.
00:07:19Anything you say...
00:07:22It's like, I feel like you are not good.
00:07:31She told me I was there in Morocco just to visit Marrakesh with my girlfriend.
00:07:35This is the first lie.
00:07:37The second one, when we are together in cooking clothes, she told me I was healing.
00:07:44And right now, she told me another story.
00:07:47I was with a Moroccan man in Marrakesh because we are just ready to be engaged.
00:08:03Why not really? I don't have...
00:08:06What?
00:08:08It's like...
00:08:10I can't.
00:08:12You can't what?
00:08:13I can't be engaged with you, and I can't propose you.
00:08:20I can't move on with you.
00:08:21It's like...
00:08:22What do you mean you can't move on?
00:08:23The last step.
00:08:24What do you mean?
00:08:26You're breaking up with me?
00:08:29Yep.
00:08:33I accept what you did.
00:08:34So you're breaking up with me because I was with a guy before you.
00:08:39Because you're lying to me.
00:08:41That's the problem.
00:08:44I need a minute zone.
00:08:58How is this something to break up with me over?
00:09:00What do you mean?
00:09:01How is this something for you to just leave and break up with me?
00:09:04Did I break up with you when you were talking to other girls and I had proof of you messaging
00:09:08girls, telling them to come visit you, telling them you want to get to know them?
00:09:12No.
00:09:15I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt.
00:09:17I tried to see the best in you.
00:09:19And then you find out one little thing and you're ready to just break up with me and go home.
00:09:22So why not I want to go to my home?
00:09:24Why?
00:09:26See, were we in a relationship?
00:09:30Were we in a relationship?
00:09:31Were we in a relationship?
00:09:32Were we in a relationship?
00:09:33Why can't you talk to me?
00:09:35Like I came all the way here and you're just walking away because of one thing that you're mad about?
00:09:39No.
00:09:39Can you give me a walk?
00:09:40No.
00:09:40I want to like by myself.
00:09:41No.
00:09:42Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:46Don't touch me.
00:09:47I'm not touching you.
00:09:48So just let me go.
00:09:49I want to go right now.
00:09:50Okay, bye.
00:09:50Yeah, goodbye.
00:09:56I did all of this for us to be together.
00:09:59He's an asshole.
00:10:00He's literally an asshole.
00:10:10Oh, I got a crown too?
00:10:14I am King Forrest.
00:10:15Dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess.
00:10:21My dreams have come to fruition.
00:10:25Welcome, conquistador.
00:10:26Let's go, man.
00:10:27Onward!
00:10:30Corinne.
00:10:30Can you come here for a minute?
00:10:32Coming.
00:10:33The girl in the photo is Corinne's friend.
00:10:36She has no reason to lie to her.
00:10:38February 7th.
00:10:40Where were you?
00:10:41I don't know.
00:10:41I think Hopkins did a wedding.
00:10:43That picture was in the Hopkins.
00:10:44You were here in Placidia with her.
00:10:56I mean, this is you, isn't it?
00:11:01Oh .
00:11:02Yeah, that's you.
00:11:11This is from like two months ago.
00:11:17What is this?
00:11:18Is this something that you-
00:11:18That's a fan.
00:11:19That's somebody that's a fan.
00:11:21This is a fan.
00:11:23So you didn't tell her that you loved her?
00:11:25No, I didn't.
00:11:26So why is there a text right here saying, I'ma love you forever.
00:11:35And when my niece Corinne asked, why does that look like Stig?
00:11:39They say, that's my man.
00:11:41Is there some reason that there's text of you telling this girl you love her and her claiming that you're
00:11:46her man?
00:11:47Because these girls are super fans and that's okay and I appreciate that.
00:11:50So I asked you.
00:11:52No.
00:11:52This is more than super fan.
00:11:54No.
00:11:54This girl definitely says that you guys were together there.
00:11:57Cup.
00:11:59Corinne.
00:11:59Can you come in here for a second?
00:12:01Yes, honey.
00:12:02Coming.
00:12:05So, he claims he doesn't know who she is.
00:12:08That literally, that she's just a fan.
00:12:12So, okay.
00:12:13So I know her.
00:12:14She's a close friend of mine.
00:12:16I don't think my friend, a girl with a fan smile would have lied to me about something like that.
00:12:21She mentioned when she goes to the city, she sees you.
00:12:28The fair farm probably.
00:12:29No.
00:12:29No.
00:12:30Ah, yes.
00:12:31So, okay.
00:12:32February 7th.
00:12:33Where were you?
00:12:38Hopkins.
00:12:39I don't know.
00:12:40I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:12:44No.
00:12:45That picture wasn't Hopkins.
00:12:47You were here in Plasencia with her.
00:12:58I can see something's going on through the window.
00:13:01I have no idea what's being said, but I just hear a lot of commotion and I'm freaking out.
00:13:09It is frustrating to be left out of this conversation.
00:13:13It seems very important, but I trust my aunt and she must have a reason for wanting to keep me
00:13:20out of the loop.
00:13:20I just wish I knew what the was going on.
00:13:23You guys were definitely together.
00:13:25Yeah.
00:13:25More than one instances, different dates.
00:13:29No, on the real one, I don't know what the is like that.
00:13:32If I was with a girl, I might tell her the truth.
00:13:34I might tell her Aviva the truth.
00:13:36I ain't not lying.
00:13:38I don't want to hurt Aviva's feelings because I know like she truly and genuinely loves Stig.
00:13:45Even to bring this information forward to Auntie Spring has been like so traumatic to me,
00:13:52but I know that my friends and Stig have been hooking up.
00:13:57Stig bull a lot, but if he knows that he doesn't want the relationship, he should leave.
00:14:05I mean, report this girl, that girl, pictures, messages, don't lie.
00:14:15Up, daddy.
00:14:17Thank you, Nisi.
00:14:18I appreciate you.
00:14:19You're welcome.
00:14:19Fuck.
00:14:21Yeah.
00:14:22All of that is exactly, getting extra about it is exactly what my husband would do too.
00:14:28This is all the things that I worry about between you guys.
00:14:33The girl in the photo is Corinne's friend.
00:14:36They've known each other since they were diapers.
00:14:38She doesn't know anything about him dating Aviva.
00:14:41She has no reason to lie to her about what she's doing.
00:14:44And if this is just a fan, then he needs to explain that to her because this is overly friendly
00:14:51with the fan.
00:14:52Aviva actually cares a lot about you and loves you and I don't want her to end up, you know,
00:15:01you living two different lives.
00:15:02And I still don't believe anything that you're saying right now.
00:15:07So, do you want to explain this to Aviva later?
00:15:12You're either going to tell her or I'm telling her.
00:15:19I have nothing to hide.
00:15:23Ann Spring is trying to put her on me because of her past relationship, which is unfair.
00:15:29So now, I can't believe I have to tell Aviva what a picture of a fan that might ruin my
00:15:37entire relationship.
00:15:39We'll see, I guess.
00:15:41I don't even know.
00:16:04Oh, that's weird.
00:16:05So what?
00:16:06It's a cotton texture.
00:16:07Yeah, that's why it's called cotton.
00:16:08Cotton fruit.
00:16:09Yeah.
00:16:14It's sour, right?
00:16:18Oh, Lordy.
00:16:21I was a guinea pig for everybody.
00:16:29The other one is we call pastillas.
00:16:32Pastillas, it's like soft milk candy.
00:16:36Hey, Mom.
00:16:37We're going to be heading out to Venice Mall today.
00:16:39And I know you guys aren't, you know, the big mall walkers like we are.
00:16:43So.
00:16:44No, we're not mall people.
00:16:47No.
00:16:48We're thinking about going today to see a bamboo organ.
00:16:53Yeah.
00:16:54At church.
00:16:54Yes, Mom.
00:16:55I'm interested in learning all about that type stuff, so.
00:16:58Yeah.
00:16:59Okay.
00:17:00I'm glad you love my mangoes recommendation.
00:17:02Yes.
00:17:02I told you.
00:17:03I love tango stuff.
00:17:04Yes.
00:17:05Any others?
00:17:06I could try them.
00:17:08Just grab the steed.
00:17:09Suck it out.
00:17:12I told you.
00:17:14Slurp that steed right now.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16Let's go, baby.
00:17:18I think I'm going to tackle this baby next right here.
00:17:22Mmm.
00:17:24Our chariot.
00:17:31Honey, are you excited?
00:17:33Heck yeah, I am.
00:17:35I've just been really wanting to go to this place, you know, ever since I got here to
00:17:38the Philippines.
00:17:40Right here, it's just beautiful there.
00:17:44Yeah.
00:17:44I've known about the place, but I haven't visited there.
00:17:48Oh, we can go into it.
00:17:49I'm so excited on you.
00:17:50Yeah, me too, baby.
00:17:53Hello, we're here.
00:17:55Oh, my God.
00:17:58I learned about this place from searches online for pop romantic places in the Philippines.
00:18:03Wow, look at that.
00:18:06It's a mall that looks like Venice, and Sheena loves Italian food and everything like Italian.
00:18:13Boom.
00:18:15I've been thinking a lot about what's been happening the last few days, and we really
00:18:19need to have a hard discussion about her lying.
00:18:22Now, finally being able to be alone with Sheena without my mom behind me, I can talk to her
00:18:28and help her understand that all these lies that she's been spreading have left a scar.
00:18:35And I'm hoping to hear from Sheena that she won't lie anymore.
00:18:41Wow, look at this place.
00:18:43What do you think?
00:18:44Awesome.
00:18:45Oh, my gosh.
00:18:46Is that water?
00:18:48Yeah, it looks nice.
00:18:49Wow.
00:18:50Oh, my gosh.
00:18:53You first walk in, you see these beautiful buildings, and you look down, and then there's
00:18:58this giant swimming pool.
00:19:00You got some, like, little Italian guys just chilling out on these little boats.
00:19:05It's beautiful.
00:19:07Oh, my God.
00:19:09It took years for them to build Rome and everything, but now we are in it.
00:19:15The architectural stuff is amazing.
00:19:17I really feel like we're in Italy.
00:19:19Yeah, this is the most romantic place.
00:19:21Oh, wow, they got a chicken restaurant up there.
00:19:24I have barely traveled internationally, but I definitely believe this is what Italy would
00:19:28look like.
00:19:29Little clowns everywhere, dancing people.
00:19:34Should we do the same?
00:19:39I'm super grateful to have this time alone with Sheena.
00:19:42Oh, my gosh.
00:19:43Look at that.
00:19:44Oh, wow.
00:19:45They have dresses and everything.
00:19:46Yeah, that's cool.
00:19:47Do you think you want to dress up a little bit and get some photos?
00:19:50Yeah, why not?
00:19:51All right.
00:19:51We could try.
00:19:52Go check it out here.
00:19:53I just hope that some dresses would fit me, though.
00:19:56Do you want the right answer?
00:19:57Yeah, that would be great.
00:19:59I've always told Sheena that I would come over to the Philippines as her knight in shining
00:20:04armor.
00:20:04Oh.
00:20:07This looks nice.
00:20:08I would love that.
00:20:09Yeah.
00:20:10Sorry.
00:20:12Ah!
00:20:12So, dressing up as her shining knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess,
00:20:17it just feels like my dreams have come to fruition.
00:20:24Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:20:26Yes.
00:20:27Oh, my God.
00:20:28I am King Forrest.
00:20:31Grace, baby.
00:20:34I wonder how Sheena's going to look, though.
00:20:36Where's she hiding?
00:20:44Oh, my Sheen.
00:20:47I look like a princess in a red ribbon.
00:20:48You are a princess.
00:20:51Oh, my God.
00:20:56You look amazing, baby.
00:20:57Oh, that would be great.
00:21:02A parasol.
00:21:05Seeing Sheena dressed up in that red dress.
00:21:08I found myself completely and totally speechless.
00:21:12Well, conquistador.
00:21:13Let's go, baby.
00:21:15Onward!
00:21:16She is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
00:21:19Do I look regal to you?
00:21:20You look like a perfect king of mine.
00:21:23I love you, my lover.
00:21:24I love you, my Sheen, so much.
00:21:29And I want to be your rock.
00:21:32But...
00:21:36Just...
00:21:37I don't like how it ended up, you know, with the lies and whatever.
00:21:42And I need to know that you will always come to me truthfully and honestly.
00:21:51I understand, my love.
00:21:53I felt so hopeless for what I did, for not telling the truth to you.
00:21:59And I'm trying to open up everything for you.
00:22:02Every single problem that you need to learn.
00:22:07But it's hard for me.
00:22:13And you know what?
00:22:14I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:22:21I think Forrest would appreciate if I would tell him the truth.
00:22:25He needs to know.
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:38My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:22:42that.
00:22:42I actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:22:45Oh, my God.
00:22:47In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet my boyfriend Joshua, who's super sexy.
00:22:53But my parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened a few years
00:23:00ago with my ex.
00:23:01Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler.
00:23:05For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:23:07Run.
00:23:16We'll begin just by coming to a comfortable position.
00:23:22No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:26No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:31My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:34My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:39I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:44I'm doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:58Ew.
00:23:59Can I, like, touch up a second?
00:24:00Look at this.
00:24:01This is disgusting.
00:24:02Yeah, do it right now.
00:24:04Okay.
00:24:05Do I have lip hair?
00:24:07Like, would you tell me?
00:24:09How would you describe yourself?
00:24:11As a very outgoing, loving, kind-hearted person with great boobs, great nipples, great.
00:24:21I would show you if I could, but I would get in trouble.
00:24:39Just breathe, Elise.
00:24:42So, I've been recently trying meditation.
00:24:46Not the best at it, but, like, definitely in high-stress situations, meditation comes in handy.
00:24:52And especially right now, because I'm going to go see my parents.
00:24:57I'm really excited to see my family, but it's hard, because I'm kind of like the odd sheep in the
00:25:03family.
00:25:04My parents have this picture-perfect marriage.
00:25:07Met on a blind date, and now been married for over 40 years.
00:25:11My brother, who's 16 months older than me, has been married with two kids.
00:25:16Been with the same girl for eight years.
00:25:17And then, here I am at age 32, when I've never been married, and I don't have kids.
00:25:23And I've made some poor choices with men.
00:25:27I want to find the one more than anything in this world.
00:25:31But, like, my track record is bad.
00:25:34Like, horrible.
00:25:37I've been proposed to five times, and three of them I said yes to.
00:25:42And I've still never walked down that aisle.
00:25:46Recently, I decided to do something completely out of the box, and I went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
00:25:56I had some fun in Mexico.
00:25:58I thought I found the one, but he showed his true colors, and he turned out to be another failed
00:26:03relationship.
00:26:04I went to Tiffany to ask for her back.
00:26:12You literally told me you could see a life outside here with me and not her.
00:26:17Carlo and I tried to make it work after the singles retreat, but it didn't work out.
00:26:22It hurt.
00:26:23And that was a hard one to move on from.
00:26:27So I took that time to work on myself, and I think that's what I needed.
00:26:32Because now I have a new man in my life who's super sexy.
00:26:36I just don't know what my parents think about all this.
00:26:41Definitely scared that my parents are sitting in the house currently saying,
00:26:46oh, my God, what is our daughter doing again?
00:26:49My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:26:53that.
00:26:54I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:26:57Oh, my God.
00:27:00How you doing?
00:27:01I'm good.
00:27:02Do you want any meds?
00:27:04No.
00:27:05But you can't just cover it.
00:27:06Oh, cover your feet.
00:27:07Cover the feeties.
00:27:09Yeah.
00:27:11Hi, Mom!
00:27:13Hi!
00:27:14Hi, Dad!
00:27:16What's this?
00:27:16Come here.
00:27:18Come here.
00:27:18Come here.
00:27:19Come on up.
00:27:19Hi!
00:27:20Oh, I missed you.
00:27:22I love you.
00:27:22Hey, we got a gimp over here.
00:27:24Hi, Daddy.
00:27:25We have a gimp.
00:27:26My dad just had two knee surgeries.
00:27:28He's just literally been sitting in a chair.
00:27:30And that's very hard for him because he's always out and about and a big workaholic.
00:27:37Okay, you want to see?
00:27:38You want to see?
00:27:39You want to see?
00:27:39I don't know.
00:27:40All right, all right.
00:27:41Ready?
00:27:41What?
00:27:43My dad's a venture capitalist.
00:27:45He gives money to companies in order for them to go public.
00:27:51Or he takes an equi...
00:27:52Oh, God.
00:27:53I should probably know what my dad does.
00:27:55But, like, I don't know.
00:27:57You know what I found, Elise?
00:27:59Your bin.
00:28:00But I want you to take this.
00:28:01I want whatever you want in here to take it.
00:28:03Because we're renovating the house and I need room.
00:28:06Show us all the report cards with A's.
00:28:09Oh, there are none.
00:28:11What do you mean I got straight A's?
00:28:12Oh, let's see.
00:28:13Okay.
00:28:14This is wild.
00:28:15Oh, summer 2006, when you were 13 years old, third summer.
00:28:19Oh, those are letters from camp?
00:28:21Oh, letters from camp.
00:28:22Oh, let me adjust that.
00:28:23I was camper of the year.
00:28:24No, no, no.
00:28:24This is when she went to, um, overnight camp.
00:28:27Oh, look at that.
00:28:28Oh, my God.
00:28:32Remember you smuggled your phone in?
00:28:34Yup.
00:28:35We're very close family.
00:28:38The four of us have always stuck together and it hasn't always been the easiest.
00:28:44Elise was always wild.
00:28:46We bailed Elise out of a lot of things.
00:28:50Maybe too many.
00:28:52So, what's up?
00:28:54Where are you going?
00:28:55New Zealand?
00:28:56Australia?
00:28:58Yeah.
00:28:59Um, it might be silly of me, but, like, I really like him and I want to go.
00:29:03Well, you don't know him.
00:29:05No, I've never met him.
00:29:08So, why this now?
00:29:12I'm getting older.
00:29:13I'm 32.
00:29:13I've done a lot of self-reflection.
00:29:15Well, the way I look at it is Joshua, he has a really nice way about him.
00:29:21He's kind of the opposite of me.
00:29:23Like, he's very calm temperament.
00:29:25And I like that.
00:29:27I haven't found love in Miami.
00:29:29No.
00:29:29I feel like I've exhausted every option in Miami.
00:29:33Haven't found love in Miami?
00:29:34Hello, Australia.
00:29:35Yeah, right.
00:29:36I mean...
00:29:37Yeah, right.
00:29:37Welcome to...
00:29:39What the ?
00:29:41I know it sounds ridiculous to my parents, but I wouldn't be flying around the world to Australia to meet
00:29:47just any guy.
00:29:53My boyfriend Joshua is a sexy 39-year-old from Sydney, Australia.
00:30:00He is so caring, attentive.
00:30:03He's just, like, a happy-go-lucky guy, like, that everyone wants to be around.
00:30:06He's just, like, an overall, like, a golden retriever puppy.
00:30:12I met him on social media.
00:30:14He slid in my DMs, and we've been talking ever since.
00:30:19When we first started messaging, I did not think it was going to be serious at all.
00:30:23But he totally caught me off guard.
00:30:26There's something about him that's so genuine and so different from what I am used to.
00:30:32Josh has a 12-year-old son who lives with his mom, and his son's the most important person to
00:30:37him.
00:30:38Seeing Joshua as a father makes me fantasize that one day maybe we could have a family.
00:30:45Recently, it's gotten very serious.
00:30:47So, in a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet Joshua for the first time.
00:30:52And, like, oh, my God.
00:30:55I just want to get there and see him and be in his arms already.
00:31:00You know, Elise, I'm glad you're getting out of Miami,
00:31:02but I'm really concerned about your choices in who you pick, you know?
00:31:08Well, I'm not going to stand for bull anymore.
00:31:10You know, I'm not going to stand for it.
00:31:13For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:31:15But if you think, like, there's any, like, you know, what do they call them, gold digger in there, then
00:31:20run.
00:31:21Yeah.
00:31:23Run.
00:31:24Because no mas, no mas, no mas.
00:31:29My parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men
00:31:33because of what happened a few years ago with my ex.
00:31:37I thought he was in love with me, and I was really in love with him.
00:31:41But after being with him for a few years, he ended up stealing my identity
00:31:45and got a credit card out in my name and racked it up $500,000.
00:31:52He conned me and completely broke my heart.
00:31:54And I felt so foolish that I let a guy completely embarrass and demolish me.
00:32:01And the worst part is, who had to get me out of this trouble?
00:32:05My dad.
00:32:08Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler,
00:32:12another guy that's going to take advantage of you.
00:32:14My question is, how do you pull the ripcord if this is going south?
00:32:18What's the evacuation plan if, like, you know, this is...
00:32:21Hello, Mom and Dad!
00:32:23Like, no, I'm not, I can't do that anymore.
00:32:28I really want the love that my parents have.
00:32:32They genuinely love each other, and they're each other's best friends.
00:32:36But, like, I'm scared that, like, I'm about to go all this way,
00:32:39and I could have my heart broken again, and I don't want that.
00:32:44My dream for you is I want to see you happy.
00:32:48And I think a big part of that is being able to smell out bull .
00:32:53I'm going to try my damn best to not disappoint you, to not disappoint me, you know.
00:32:59And I'm going to see where it goes.
00:33:03Hey!
00:33:04Hi!
00:33:05Hi!
00:33:05Michael has always given me really great advice, and I feel like I need that now.
00:33:12You're emotionally compromised.
00:33:14But if you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:33:17I would really appreciate it if you would let me come out there.
00:33:21May I come out there? May I meet him?
00:33:34Are we here?
00:33:35Yes.
00:33:38Oh, my gosh, baby.
00:33:42I don't see a palace.
00:33:44I thought I'd see a palace, baby.
00:33:58I don't know.
00:33:59I don't know.
00:33:59I don't know.
00:34:00I don't know.
00:34:01I don't know.
00:34:03I don't know.
00:34:04I don't know.
00:34:04Hi, Uncle.
00:34:04How are you?
00:34:05I'm good.
00:34:06How are you?
00:34:06I'm good.
00:34:06I'm fine.
00:34:08Daniel is taking me to meet the king today, and I am thinking I'm going to this palace.
00:34:15But what the ?
00:34:18This is not a palace.
00:34:19Where are we?
00:34:20This is nothing like I expected.
00:34:22I'm scared.
00:34:24Oh.
00:34:34Oh.
00:34:42Oh, yes, he's a beautiful.
00:34:46Oh, yes, the beautiful.
00:34:55Oh my god, this is a king.
00:34:57He looks like a king.
00:35:00He's wearing lion head and this headdress.
00:35:05And I feel like I'm going to myself.
00:35:07I don't know what to do.
00:35:46Yes, sir.
00:35:50the lord of couple comes to me because i'm his royal majesty i'm like i'm an aura call
00:35:57a prophet and that's a loyal father your blessings is enormous it's not like every other
00:36:04blessings if this thing if it's going to work well i will ask our ancestors
00:36:34i'm getting more nervous because this is so not what i expected
00:36:39what if the ancestors don't give us the blessing does it erase the uncle's blessing does it erase
00:36:46how daniel feels about me i have no idea he's the king
00:37:13hey hey how's it going i just found
00:37:19a hater sounds good yay um yeah i was checking in with some people at home and
00:37:29i was wondering if i could have like i don't know 30 minutes or so no you don't need a
00:37:34long time
00:37:35yeah is that cool yeah you know what am i gonna do
00:37:40probably go find some shisha yay all right have fun see ya
00:37:48i have a mix of emotions after the boat ride today
00:37:54beercon opening up to me was really sweet but i definitely still have some hesitations
00:38:02when it comes to beercon's gambling and his debt and i feel like i need to talk to someone who
00:38:11can
00:38:11ground me help me understand and process all of the things that are going on
00:38:18hey
00:38:20hi long time no see stranger
00:38:24this is the same thing to you how's it going uh i'm doing well-ish well-ish why well-ish
00:38:33that's that can help for when you're not here oh
00:38:36i know you missed me i know it's been a while i'm sure you missed me
00:38:42nope meryl liar liar i missed you too
00:38:49i have been messaging michael a little bit since i've been in turkey but he definitely doesn't
00:38:54have all the details i trust and respect him and he has always given me really great really sage
00:39:03advice and i feel like i need that now
00:39:07bring something home
00:39:11you know i've thought about it a few times honestly
00:39:15i mean he's super sweet and he's really really putting in effort to make me feel special okay
00:39:24but it's like he's given me some information that's like straight up a lot to think about
00:39:30you have me all ears girl i mean
00:39:35he has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount of debt
00:39:41substantial in turkish terms well in u.s dollars it's 50 000
00:39:51yeah so i mean that's not good but um i think probably the thing that like
00:39:58concerned me the most he talks a lot about dambling like he'll take money and instead of
00:40:04putting it towards his debt he'll gamble it to try to win more i'm just so concerned
00:40:12what's he gonna do in the states like burn through my money gambling i don't know what to do
00:40:18but at the same time he's ridiculously thoughtful and like so intentional and sweet
00:40:29no one has ever put this much thought and care into things that they planned for me like today he
00:40:36took me out on this amazing boat cruise and he told me because of me he's started to feel alive
00:40:46again and like he's starting to be like himself and i don't get people very often in my life who
00:40:52make me feel cared for so that is a huge huge win for me in the in the pro category
00:41:03i would feel best if you came home honestly
00:41:08you'd feel best if i came home yeah because you're emotionally compromised
00:41:16i can tell you he's running an incredible con game right now his job is to woo you to make
00:41:23you feel
00:41:23like the love of his life to make you feel incredibly special and you've been deprived of these experiences
00:41:29for so damn long that a guy like him that's all he has to do and you're falling head over
00:41:36heels for him
00:41:50you're willing to sacrifice common sense because a vote ride was enough to win your heart
00:42:02i know that the red flags sound crazy but i also think it's easier
00:42:13to hear about red flags than it is green flags the green flags are harder to see
00:42:17unless you see them with your own eyes
00:42:21i mean i ask god if you truly want to move forward with this man
00:42:27i would really appreciate it if you would let me come out there
00:42:32and see him for myself before you make that level of commitment that level of decision about your life
00:42:40may i come out there may i meet him
00:42:46i don't know i don't know that's a really big deal i feel like that could really push him away
00:42:55and create some big problems for me as i do move forward in this relationship
00:43:07i really don't know what to do here on the one hand it might be nice to have a third
00:43:12party to give me
00:43:14their perspective but on the other hand beer con already doesn't like my friendship with michael
00:43:21and i feel like michael showing up here that would piss him off and and honestly i've always thought
00:43:29that he had some sort of underlying feelings for me and the fact that he's willing to just fly out
00:43:35here
00:43:36and rescue me from myself really does kind of concern me about what his intentions are
00:43:44i want to talk to him about it first before we decide for sure okay i can respect that and
00:43:53i will
00:43:53let you know how it goes okay thank you for considering it
00:44:02so your aunt actually came with the screenshot of some message from me saying i'm gonna love you
00:44:09forever i can't be with somebody who's been lying and cheating on me this whole time i don't know who
00:44:18the that is
00:44:19you know what i have been waiting to tell you something
00:44:34to be honest it's it's really hard for me to talk about this
00:44:47the truth is that most of the people that i love happen not to be serious with me
00:44:54they just wanted to play with my feelings and my previous partner that i was expecting that guy to
00:45:01love me to love me but he never loved me he already had someone with him he had been cheating
00:45:09me for
00:45:10long three years and it appears me that i would suffer the same fate like leaving behind
00:45:20i did that blind i did that blind because i'm afraid that i would lose you
00:45:26my previous partner i finally discovered after the longest years that this guy already
00:45:32had a partner while dating with me i just felt unwanted
00:45:40and i really blame myself for not being a perfect woman like i had done something to drive him away
00:45:51if i was ever to do anything to push force away i would feel so much in pain it's an
00:45:59indescribable pain
00:46:08sheena that guy did not deserve you at all i'm not like him i won't be like him i would
00:46:17never leave you
00:46:19for having issues if you just tell me up front what the situation is i'll be there to support you
00:46:30i hope you have the courage to come to me from now on
00:46:41i will do my best and i will put up my negatives feelings aside but i cannot promise you in
00:46:50words
00:46:50but in actions open up and trusting more with you is the best way i knew that china was in
00:46:59a
00:46:59relationship before but i didn't know that it affected her to this extent things are not perfect
00:47:06but i feel that sheena and i were able to talk things out and i'm glad that she's willing to
00:47:12work
00:47:12with me it's making me feel better i'm falling more and more in love with her every single day
00:47:18i just really wish that i could feel more confident that this won't happen again
00:47:32bye auntie bye i love you love you
00:47:39is everything okay it's pretty good okay
00:47:51tonight was a total disaster i wanted my aunt to grill him and get the answers however i was hoping
00:48:00deep
00:48:00down they would like each other and she would end up having good things to say about him
00:48:07clearly that's not what happened and at this point i i don't know what's actually going on
00:48:17are you gonna tell me what happened um yeah a lot okay
00:48:27so your aunt actually came with quote unquote proof proof in her mind
00:48:36proof of what proof of me not being fearful to you okay
00:48:45and continue to me she gave me an ultimatum she said if i if i don't tell you who she's
00:48:52gonna tell you
00:48:53it's gonna be worse and all that so i'm like anyways go ahead
00:49:01she pulled up with a picture of me hugging a girl and with a kiss on her cheek
00:49:09from when probably recently like maybe a couple weeks ago
00:49:18but that's what i do though i take pictures with fans and i sometimes i do that nothing bad
00:49:24so this was just a random girl
00:49:29yeah probably just a fan apparently corinne she's like that's her friend and the girl is like oh she's
00:49:37messing with me and she was with me in this city or whatever i'm like girl i don't even know
00:49:41who that is
00:49:46well no and apparently some uh i think they they asked the girl about the picture and she
00:49:52sent a screenshot of some message from me of saying i'm gonna love you forever bro
00:50:00from him who the hell is in me apparently i'm him
00:50:04not him in that message uh okay so there's photos and text messages apparently but not real text message
00:50:17you have the photo i don't have it i don't know who the that is i don't know how else
00:50:25can i say i don't
00:50:26i don't want to curse not even like that i could show you like a million more pictures like that
00:50:31print is saying it's her friend and that she knows that you guys are hooking up that's what is concerning
00:50:37to me
00:50:40bloody current crazy if you're messing with her then you're messing with her why would they lie about that
00:50:45if i was messing with her i would tell you the truth then i would have been like let's
00:50:51have a treat but i was joking i'm joking babe i'm joking because i have no reason to lie
00:51:01i just don't know what to believe at this point
00:51:06i need to see the photos and i need to see the text messages and from there i can make
00:51:11a decision
00:51:13make a decision about what if i
00:51:16i can trust you if i can believe you if i want to continue that's all i can say right
00:51:22now
00:51:25this is gonna ruin our night i'm tired i'm not i'm gonna i'm not gonna get mad at you tonight
00:51:33i
00:51:33just need to see oh okay don't do all that now oh it's not gonna be like that tonight i
00:51:42mean i'm just
00:51:42i'm not feeling it tonight i came all the way to belize and i was ready to start a family
00:51:49with him
00:51:50and then he pulls back on the babies he won't say he loves me and hearing that he's possibly in
00:51:57another relationship it's just crazy after everything i've put into this relationship
00:52:02i don't forget today even happened to be honest with you
00:52:12all right right here i really hope that he's telling me the truth because i can't be with
00:52:19somebody who's been lying and cheating on me this whole time this could really be the end for me and
00:52:34i'm going to australia everything's great between joshua and i but i do have some worries about him
00:52:41when you get there are you guys staying in the same room yeah hold on where are you staying okay
00:52:45so he
00:52:46admitted to me that he lives with his parents no so baby yes there's some things i kind of want
00:53:00to
00:53:00talk to you about today spending time alone with shina it's been great
00:53:09okay okay but it's been one heck of a curvy road being here in the philippines
00:53:35stella
00:53:37stella do you want a treat come here
00:53:43Treats? Come on. Treats? Come on.
00:53:53Stella, your mommy just got home from Grammy and Grampy's.
00:53:57Feels so good to be home.
00:53:58I'm happy I'm with my little kitty.
00:54:01You want some catnip? Come here, Stella.
00:54:04Come here. Stella, look.
00:54:07So I was considered a crazy catwoman
00:54:10because I literally had three cats and a dog.
00:54:13And then I don't know if I'm a crazy catwoman anymore
00:54:16because I only have two cats now.
00:54:19But Stella is pretty much my life.
00:54:24I hated cats.
00:54:26Cats were actually pretty disgusting to me.
00:54:28And when I was a young kid,
00:54:29I got told I was really allergic to cats.
00:54:31Right, Stella?
00:54:32And then once I got Stella,
00:54:35I became obsessed with cats.
00:54:41I love your breath.
00:54:44And if I kiss you too much,
00:54:45you're going to yap at me.
00:54:50Yeah.
00:54:52You want another treat?
00:54:53One more treat?
00:54:54Oh, God.
00:54:55Did you fart, Stella?
00:54:57Ugh.
00:54:59Stella smells.
00:54:59I feel like she, like, licked her butt
00:55:01and I just put my mouth in her butt.
00:55:04She farts when she's really excited, actually.
00:55:07Is Stella a girl?
00:55:09Stella is a boy.
00:55:11Stella is transgender.
00:55:13Stella's all the sexes.
00:55:15I got Stella.
00:55:17I went to go get her spayed.
00:55:19And they're like,
00:55:20hey, just to let you know,
00:55:22yeah, your cat,
00:55:22yeah, she's, um,
00:55:24she's a male.
00:55:25And I said, you know what?
00:55:26My ex and I named her Stella
00:55:29and I'm keeping it.
00:55:31Stella has a penis,
00:55:32but I call her a girl.
00:55:34She's gender confused.
00:55:35It's 2025.
00:55:362025, it's acceptable.
00:55:38Come on.
00:55:38Come to me here.
00:55:39Come on, Stella.
00:55:40Right here.
00:55:41Try and get off me here.
00:55:42Oh.
00:55:43You're not doing my tricks.
00:55:45Come on, jump up a little.
00:55:46Jump up for mommy.
00:55:47Oh, dad, my kitty.
00:55:50Stella is my life.
00:55:52Like, if Stella can be in a man's body,
00:55:54I would, you know,
00:55:56date her.
00:55:58Date her.
00:56:01I know, it's confusing.
00:56:03I don't like women.
00:56:05I like men.
00:56:05I like penis too much, actually.
00:56:19Mommy's gonna go see her friends.
00:56:20Yeah, I'll be right back, okay?
00:56:23Bye, Stella.
00:56:33I'm happy to be back in Miami
00:56:35after a few days with my parents,
00:56:37but every time I see them,
00:56:39it reminds me of how much I want what they have.
00:56:42Like, I may seem like the crazy, wild girl
00:56:45that, like, doesn't give a f***,
00:56:46but, like, deep down,
00:56:47I want love, and I want to get married,
00:56:50and I want children,
00:56:51and I want, like, my husband to be my best friend
00:56:54in my forever.
00:56:56And even though we have never met in person,
00:56:58I know Josh is just so f***ing amazing.
00:57:01He's sexy, and he's hot,
00:57:03and he's adventurous, and he's active.
00:57:05Like, I'm so infatuated.
00:57:08And I would literally be the happiest girl in the world
00:57:11if he was the one.
00:57:13Oh, my God.
00:57:14Joshua just texted me right now.
00:57:16Hi, babe.
00:57:16How are you?
00:57:17XL.
00:57:18He just sent me a picture.
00:57:22He looks big.
00:57:22His hands look big.
00:57:24Love a good big hand.
00:57:28Even though everything's great
00:57:30between Joshua and I,
00:57:31I do have some worries about him.
00:57:35I held back some information
00:57:36with my parents about Joshua
00:57:38because they have enough on their plate.
00:57:39I don't want to worry them.
00:57:41So I think meeting up with my girlfriends,
00:57:43I can get a different point of view
00:57:45and perspective
00:57:45and, like, kind of dig into the worries that I have.
00:57:50Look what the cat's brought in!
00:57:52Hi!
00:57:54Oh, my God.
00:57:55My bros is so tight.
00:57:57I miss you.
00:57:59Blonde!
00:58:00Hi.
00:58:01Look how blonde she is.
00:58:02Oh, my God.
00:58:02Wait, come here.
00:58:03Let me give you a hug.
00:58:05You look so cute.
00:58:09Wait, are we drinking?
00:58:11Of course.
00:58:12We already had espresso marquineas
00:58:13before we got here.
00:58:14That's pre-game you're getting here.
00:58:15Oh, my God.
00:58:16So, what's going on?
00:58:19I'm going to Australia.
00:58:22Oh.
00:58:23I'm doing it.
00:58:24I'm going.
00:58:25I can't believe you're .
00:58:26I mean, listen, it's, like, the Miami men suck, you know?
00:58:29Yeah.
00:58:30And Josh is kind.
00:58:32He's super sweet.
00:58:33He's someone I typically wouldn't go for.
00:58:35Okay.
00:58:36He's not a typical Miami guy.
00:58:39Elise is one of the funniest, kindest people I know.
00:58:43And I also feel like she is a hopeless romantic.
00:58:46Elise gives these guys her whole heart,
00:58:49and she gets nothing in return for it.
00:58:53So, when Elise told us she was going
00:58:55to meet some guy in Australia,
00:58:57I gently thought, what the F?
00:58:59I thought, you're insane, and you're crazy, yeah?
00:59:02Yeah.
00:59:04So, when you get there,
00:59:05are you guys staying in the same room?
00:59:06Is he getting in your own room?
00:59:08Yeah, hold on.
00:59:09Where are you staying?
00:59:10Okay, so, I asked him when I got my plane ticket
00:59:13to send me his apartment and, like, video it.
00:59:16Yeah.
00:59:16Okay.
00:59:17Every single day, I was asking him
00:59:18for him to send me the video.
00:59:20And then he admitted to me
00:59:22that he lives with his parents.
00:59:24No!
00:59:26So, I don't think he has much money.
00:59:29I was like, so, Joshua, like,
00:59:31I'm going to come,
00:59:32and I'm going to live with your parents?
00:59:35He's like, no, I will get a rental
00:59:37and split it with a roommate
00:59:39because he can't afford a rental by himself.
00:59:42Oh, okay.
00:59:46Listen, the money situation's not the big thing.
00:59:50I can work with a guy that doesn't have money,
00:59:52but here's the thing about Josh.
00:59:56He makes me feel special,
00:59:57and he makes me feel important.
00:59:59I'd much rather a guy with not that much money
01:00:02that gives me emotional love
01:00:04than a guy that just spends.
01:00:06I've had every single man spend everything on me
01:00:09with no emotional love.
01:00:12I think it's a good thing
01:00:13that he is more caring, more kind,
01:00:16because she's looking for something different.
01:00:18She's looking for a genuine connection.
01:00:21But no girl and man at 39
01:00:23should be living with no roommate.
01:00:25That's crazy.
01:00:26Or with the parents.
01:00:27I mean, living with his parents is crazy.
01:00:29We sound like another Miami pack of girls,
01:00:31but, like, finances are important.
01:00:33They provide safety.
01:00:34They provide stability.
01:00:35Food on the table.
01:00:35You have a house.
01:00:37You, like, the bills are being paid.
01:00:39Exactly.
01:00:40I am concerned, as your friend,
01:00:44like, I'm wearing red.
01:00:45Like, I feel the red flags everywhere.
01:00:47Right, but every single time
01:00:49I talk to him on the phone,
01:00:50I get off feeling so energized
01:00:52and so cared about and so giddy.
01:00:56I am going to Australia
01:00:58because I truly believe
01:01:00that he could be my future husband.
01:01:02But Joshua sent me a text last night
01:01:05that was super alarming,
01:01:07and it kind of threw me off.
01:01:10I'm almost embarrassed
01:01:11to even tell anyone about it.
01:01:12And if I tell my girlfriends about this,
01:01:15they would probably tell me not to go,
01:01:17and that's the last thing I want.
01:01:20I'm hoping to get down there
01:01:21and figure this all out
01:01:22because I want this so badly to work out.
01:01:34I was wondering if you wanted
01:01:35to take a gondola ride with me.
01:01:37Oh, really?
01:01:37I guess right here would be it.
01:01:39Felicia bella.
01:01:40Ciao.
01:01:41Oh.
01:01:42Ciao, gracias.
01:01:43Ciao, senor.
01:01:44Oh, thank you.
01:01:46Oh, wow.
01:01:51Oh, my gosh.
01:01:53Here we go, baby.
01:01:55I wonder how much pouring that takes.
01:02:05This is so beautiful, honey.
01:02:07Yeah.
01:02:08I miss being in my night outfit.
01:02:10Really?
01:02:11Yeah.
01:02:11I know what you're thinking, huh?
01:02:14Always.
01:02:15You're thinking of fun, sexy stuff.
01:02:17No, you're the one doing that, not me.
01:02:19No, it sounds like you're the one
01:02:21No, you're the one doing that thing.
01:02:22I think I know some of your secrets are coming out.
01:02:24I know, I know, I'm not.
01:02:28Today, spending time alone with Sheena,
01:02:30it's been great to just spend time together
01:02:34and finally get to talk to each other
01:02:37and really put everything out.
01:02:41I hope, with my love and support,
01:02:44Sheena will come to understand
01:02:46that she doesn't need to lie anymore.
01:02:49She can move forward and tell me stuff from now on
01:02:54instead of just leaving me in the dark.
01:02:57That's a nice place to visit.
01:02:59I wish I knew some Italian songs
01:03:01so I could sing them to you.
01:03:09Come on, Sheena, give me a...
01:03:10Come on, Sheena, give me a...
01:03:25Yeah, I love it.
01:03:28I love you, my Sheena.
01:03:29I love baby beer.
01:03:34That's so sweet.
01:03:35You're so sweet.
01:03:36You taste like juice-based.
01:03:38Mmm!
01:03:43It's been one heck of a curvy road
01:03:45being here in the Philippines
01:03:46ever since I got here.
01:03:48But one thing that's been consistent the entire time
01:03:51is how I feel with Sheena one-on-one.
01:03:54Okay, guys, grab me.
01:03:56Oh, ah!
01:04:00When you take away all the distractions
01:04:02and everybody else's opinions,
01:04:04what's left is a love
01:04:06that I've never, ever felt before.
01:04:11That's so much fun.
01:04:13It feels great to finally have someone
01:04:15who accepts my quirks and oddities 100%.
01:04:21And that's what I love about her.
01:04:24Look at the beautiful flowers.
01:04:27Oh, that's cool.
01:04:28There's a lot of bisteria.
01:04:32Wow, this place is so beautiful.
01:04:34I love it.
01:04:36Oh, actually, it's like past next time,
01:04:38but it's okay.
01:04:40So, baby.
01:04:41Yes?
01:04:42There's some things I kind of want
01:04:44to talk to you about.
01:04:47Well, over the last seven years,
01:04:51I've been wanting to come here
01:04:52and be with you
01:04:53and get to, you know, see you.
01:04:58And I know that we've had some ups and downs
01:05:00since I've gotten here,
01:05:01but I think it's only going to make us stronger
01:05:05because you are my one special person.
01:05:10There's a glimmer in your brown eyes.
01:05:14Okay?
01:05:15Yeah.
01:05:16But, Sheena,
01:05:18thank you for being in my life.
01:05:21Let's continue to be in each other's lives
01:05:23from now on.
01:05:25So here we are, two kindred souls.
01:05:27If you would do me the honor.
01:05:30Oh, my God.
01:05:32Will you please marry me?
01:05:35These are the moments that make up our lives.
01:05:38Oh, my God.
01:05:39All of the memories and all the first times.
01:05:45I love you, baby.
01:05:47I love you, baby.
01:05:49Yes, I do.
01:05:51Only in so many dreams.
01:05:53Give me your finger.
01:05:56Is this the right thing, Aaron?
01:05:58Six years now, I had this ring.
01:06:02Thank you, my love.
01:06:03It's so beautiful.
01:06:08I wanted to be with you for the rest of my life.
01:06:12Thank you, my love.
01:06:21That was so wonderful.
01:06:28I love you, baby bear.
01:06:30Thank you so much for being my bear.
01:06:35Thank you for staying with me all this time.
01:06:38I'm sorry I didn't come sooner.
01:06:41Aww.
01:06:47I've never felt super happy in my life, and this is the best day of life ever.
01:06:55I can't even think straight.
01:06:56You know, to think that I finally got the woman of my dreams after seven years.
01:07:01Just keep following your dreams, everybody, and you will get what you need.
01:07:08You'll get there.
01:07:11I love you, baby.
01:07:20I'm super happy and super satisfied with how everything went.
01:07:24Any nerves about telling your family for us?
01:07:28Sort of, yeah.
01:07:30But I'm going to tell my mom that it's the right time.
01:07:33It's the right time.
01:07:35I've been waiting for this long.
01:07:36Yeah, and we've been waiting for this the entire time, and it was our decision.
01:07:42Welcome to the Tunnel of Love.
01:07:43That's amazing.
01:07:45You know what's something funny about this Tunnel of Love?
01:07:47Wow.
01:07:48It may be hot outside, but after we entered here, I think it got a little hotter.
01:07:55You're so funny, huh?
01:07:58I love you, my love.
01:07:59I love you, my Sheen.
01:08:03Are you sure you are going to take good care of him?
01:08:06Yes, my king.
01:08:08I don't think so.
01:08:10You don't think so?
01:08:11No, no, no, no, no.
01:08:12Why are you laughing?
01:08:14Do you see me laugh?
01:08:16I get to go and sit down.
01:08:20I can't spend that.
01:08:22So now I'm worried, because if the king would hold his blessing, I don't know what I would do.
01:08:35Okay.
01:08:38The ancestor has spoken.
01:08:43Lisa.
01:08:44Yes.
01:08:44Proceed forward.
01:08:53This is a miracle, Karim.
01:09:06Uh-huh.
01:09:13Are you sure you are going to take good care of him?
01:09:18Yes, my king.
01:09:20Are you sure?
01:09:22Yes.
01:09:24I don't think so.
01:09:27You don't think so?
01:09:28No, no, no, no.
01:09:29Why are you laughing?
01:09:34Why are you laughing?
01:09:38No, no, no, no, no, no?
01:09:44I get to go and sit down.
01:09:49i just meant that laughing in the in the presence of a king it means that you think the king
01:09:57is
01:09:57talking trash telling lies he's very disrespectful to the king and to his palace so now i'm worried
01:10:07because if the king would hold his blessing i don't know what i would do who are you laughing
01:10:13at you are laughing at me no my king i'm laughing because i'm nervous i have a nervous laugh you
01:10:26have
01:10:26a nervous laugh i'd either laugh or cry your husband did not tell you
01:10:38um may you leave my change she's the wife i want to marry and she has been nervous
01:10:48okay she has been trying to know uh most of our tradition she's trying her best
01:10:57good
01:11:00i have come come my daughter
01:11:13don't laugh again come my daughter
01:11:20you don't laugh before a traditional emergency like me
01:11:26unless i laugh
01:11:30why you laugh now
01:11:36laugh laugh laugh yeah i tell you to laugh now okay
01:11:41i have come my brother come and hold your wife
01:11:49so our ancestors accept you
01:11:55it shall be well with you people
01:11:58god will bless you people god will make this union to be fruitful god will give you people happy home
01:12:06i bless you in a marriage i say it shall be well with you people in a case
01:12:14i say this will you know
01:12:16will work well
01:12:23enjoy your wife wife enjoy your husband
01:12:27uh-huh uh-huh
01:12:29i wasn't sure i was going to get the blessing i was on pins and needles
01:12:34but when the king says we are blessed
01:12:38it's a relief
01:12:40lisa
01:12:42you are now one of us
01:12:44my final thought which is very very very important thing
01:12:50i want to see how our waifu dance
01:12:54dance anyhow you know how to dance
01:12:57you must dance with me
01:13:03i've made it there's nothing more ultimate than a blessing from the king so that we can get married
01:13:11but at this moment i'm still married to a woman and he doesn't know
01:13:20i've held on to these secrets so long it's weighing on me heavily
01:13:24i have to tell him soon and i'm hoping that he can understand and accept me for who i am
01:13:31and what my past is
01:13:34i'm hoping we live happily ever after i want this so bad
01:13:38my wife's gotten done very well
01:13:47siad you're gonna talk to me now
01:13:49i'm just wasting your time
01:13:51siad you're an asshole
01:13:53you want to act like you're perfect you want to put on this whole front
01:13:56like you're this great guy but you're a liar do you want to tell everyone how we had sex
01:14:01good bye guys it's the end
01:14:15i can't i can't
01:14:46i'm really upset right now i thought we'd at least be able to like
01:14:51talk about what happened
01:14:55and i didn't think he was gonna break up with me
01:15:01i just feel like he took any excuse and any reason to just end all of this and walk away
01:15:06and he i think he was just waiting for a reason to walk away
01:15:12what are you thinking about right now me i'm not someone to be in a king
01:15:21i want just to go that's all
01:15:30i'm so mad because she lied for everything so maybe tomorrow she's gonna tell me another story so i
01:15:37can't give her another chance i make a lot of my energy to be with her but i feel betrayed
01:15:50all what i want right now is to leave everything about her and forget her name too
01:16:15where is
01:16:17where's he going
01:16:20you're gonna talk to me now
01:16:23you just waste your time i'm waiting for someone to pick me to go home so
01:16:30so you're not staying here tonight no
01:16:34you're just gonna walk out and leave me here by myself
01:16:37you can't enjoy it with the view
01:16:41so what about the the two weeks that i'm here you can't wait now call the gay and you can
01:16:46come
01:16:49said you're an
01:16:50asshole
01:16:51and you're a liar how about that how about you're a liar do you want to tell everyone how we
01:16:55had sex
01:16:56do you want to tell them that you want to act like you're perfect you want to put on this
01:17:01whole
01:17:01front like you're this great guy but you're a liar okay say anything you want okay so did that not
01:17:08happen did we not have sex i will finish all things did we not have sex i will not continue
01:17:14did we
01:17:14not have sex anything you want because we did it's okay for me it's the end
01:17:27bye guys go
01:17:40like when i didn't even do anything like that was before we were in a relationship and he's done
01:17:45so much to me since i've been his girlfriend and i like accepted it because i loved him
01:17:56i just feel like i wasted my time again and i did all of this
01:18:00to try to be with someone and like i get broken up with again
01:18:09and now i'm single and alone and he gets to just go home
01:18:15yeah he left me in the desert in the middle of nowhere
01:18:31i just don't understand like it's like i try so hard to like find love and to like make it
01:18:40work and it
01:18:41just never it never happens for me like it never does and i always get left i always get dumped
01:18:47it's
01:18:47always me and it's like that's the only thing i want like all i want is to find love and
01:18:55like get married
01:18:57and it just never it never happens for me
01:19:02yeah
01:19:03just never it just don't you know
01:19:16oh
01:19:32I have a feeling that my mom's didn't have a lot of questions for us.
01:19:37It just felt right to kind of propose to Sheena.
01:19:43You guys happy?
01:19:44Oh, yeah, I'm ecstatic.
01:19:48What the f***, Forrest?
01:20:02What you do to me, I could write a book on screen.
01:20:08Ripples run around, you're flying, back to where you started.
01:20:12What the f***, forrest?
01:20:21What the f***, forrest?
01:20:33What the f***, forrest?
01:20:36I'm a f***, forrest?
01:20:36I'm a f***.
01:20:44I'm a f***.
01:20:52Just amazing, just filled with so much light
01:20:54and so much happiness.
01:20:56No, I can't even.
01:20:57I felt like I don't want to sleep
01:20:58after everything would happen.
01:21:00You're not going to sleep tonight, huh?
01:21:02No, I'm just too happy.
01:21:03I hope I get some sleep tonight.
01:21:04Yeah.
01:21:06I'm going to be sitting there and you're going to attack me.
01:21:08Oh, no, I'm not going to attack you.
01:21:10You crazy.
01:21:13She and I have been talking for a while
01:21:15about when would be the perfect time to have sex.
01:21:18And now, knowing that we are going to be committed
01:21:21to each other 100%,
01:21:22we're both ready to let out that sexual tension
01:21:25and maybe even get a little bit freaky.
01:21:29Don't worry, I told you.
01:21:30I'm going to get you some dog chains,
01:21:33some dog collar, and some dog balls you want.
01:21:36Well, you are a vet,
01:21:37and I know that you're well-supplied.
01:21:39Don't worry, this is free when I'm the vet around.
01:21:43Oh, my gosh.
01:21:46I'm happy you said yes.
01:21:48Of course.
01:21:49One in a million years to the most wonderful beard
01:21:53that I ever had in my life.
01:21:55I feel a lot of weight off my shoulders.
01:21:57Me too.
01:21:59But I have a feeling that my mom's going to have
01:22:02a lot of questions for us.
01:22:06But I'm ready to take the jump with you.
01:22:10Even if she has doubts,
01:22:12I'm pretty sure my mom's going to be happy for us.
01:22:16At least I'm hoping she's going to be.
01:22:21I just got a text from my mom.
01:22:23She's down by the pool.
01:22:24Okay, my love.
01:22:25Let's go.
01:22:26Okay.
01:22:31Baby, just breathe.
01:22:32Yes.
01:22:33Everything's going to be at peace.
01:22:36Hey, guys.
01:22:38Hey, Mom.
01:22:40Did you have fun?
01:22:42Oh, yeah.
01:22:43We went to the Gondola Mall.
01:22:45We got there.
01:22:46Oh, really?
01:22:47Yeah.
01:22:47We walked around.
01:22:49Did you ride the little boat thingy, my bobber?
01:22:51No, of course we did.
01:22:52Oh, how nice.
01:22:52Yeah, I figured.
01:22:54Yeah, we got there, and it was fun.
01:22:56It was pretty cool.
01:22:58All right.
01:22:59Yeah, and we just walked around.
01:23:01We looked at a few stores,
01:23:03and then we came to a little point
01:23:06with tons of nice little flowers and lights
01:23:09and just a whole lot of people,
01:23:12and it just felt, you know,
01:23:15like the right place to, you know,
01:23:20kind of propose to Sheena.
01:23:25Hmm.
01:23:27And, uh, she said yes.
01:23:40You guys happy?
01:23:45Oh, yeah.
01:23:46I'm ecstatic, Forrest.
01:23:51I asked you to hold off and wait
01:23:53so she could prove herself,
01:23:55and then you just go walk up
01:23:56and pull this little sneak
01:23:59if you are not going to be willing to listen.
01:24:03What the am I doing
01:24:05sitting over here in this country, then, Forrest?
01:24:10I think you're just being a stubborn ass,
01:24:12and you just don't want to accept our happiness.
01:24:17Excuse me?
01:24:21Don't be shaking your head and agreeing
01:24:23when you weren't there.
01:24:23I agree, because this is why we talk as couples.
01:24:26We work, we talk about this.
01:24:30And this is our decision.
01:24:31Then she'll answer for him
01:24:32if you weren't in its head
01:24:34and you weren't there at the time
01:24:35when he decided to do it.
01:24:37And I would decide for what we want to do.
01:24:40Hey, Mom.
01:24:40You think maybe it would have been nice
01:24:42if you would have included us?
01:24:44Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
01:24:48Mmm.
01:24:50Oh, jeez, Forrest.
01:24:51Your life.
01:24:53It's over.
01:24:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:25:01I'll give you one free shot.
01:25:06Trish is very hard to read.
01:25:08I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
01:25:12If the one you pick win,
01:25:14we do have sex tonight.
01:25:16So pick the good one.
01:25:18Oh, no, no, no.
01:25:19Hey, hey, hey, referee.
01:25:21All right.
01:25:23Go, go, go.
01:25:25Sydney, Australia, I'm coming for you!
01:25:28I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend
01:25:31after talking for six months.
01:25:33Elise is beautiful.
01:25:34But at the same time, she's very fiery.
01:25:37I'm nervous.
01:25:38Very nervous.
01:25:39How do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
01:25:42You think American girls are more jealous?
01:25:44I don't know.
01:25:45If she has a problem, it'll definitely not.
01:25:48The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
01:25:51And do we know if this is still going on currently?
01:25:57Are we actually calling?
01:25:59Oh, you're going to...
01:26:00Oh, f***.
01:26:01Get your questions ready.
01:26:05Why didn't you make her prove herself before you proposed?
01:26:09When she starts to lie,
01:26:11it's because she has traumatic, mad experiences.
01:26:15Everybody's got stress in their life.
01:26:17And then to say,
01:26:18I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie.
01:26:20And you're going to accept her,
01:26:22just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying.
01:26:25Of course, you're more bulls***t than a Christmas goose.
01:26:29I really want to tell you something.
01:26:34I've been married five times.
01:26:37Five times?
01:26:38And I filled out the divorce papers.
01:26:41But I am still married.
01:26:45I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:26:48Someone...
01:26:48I'm sorry.
01:26:49I came here to tell you the truth.
01:26:52To tell you everything.
01:26:53I want to go home, please.
01:26:56She called me a liar.
01:26:58She called me a scammer.
01:26:59What?
01:27:00She's the real scammer.
01:27:01She's the real scammer.
01:27:02She's the real scammer.
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