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00:00:00Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:07With past boyfriends.
00:00:09I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No.
00:00:17We can leave the past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past,
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey Boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:37And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me that we're going to be married.
00:00:51We can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:55I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:05Do you want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:14I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met.
00:01:18But now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:21Good night.
00:01:22Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:24It's freaking me out.
00:01:29You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:36I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:40You can meet her.
00:01:42I'll go with energy, homer.
00:01:44Now that the ancestors are approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:50But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:54We don't accept it here.
00:01:56You were giving your parents money.
00:01:59Why did you not tell us?
00:02:01They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
00:02:06It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:10That still doesn't answer the question.
00:02:14He's just got the blinders on and I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:22It's okay, baby.
00:02:34How does the family mind want to get you?
00:02:38How does the family mind want to go?
00:02:41If you are the family mind?
00:02:42Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:43Oh, yeah.
00:02:44Check what you want.
00:02:45Then we could haggle, okay?
00:02:47I'm a man.
00:02:49I'll be a man.
00:02:52I'm a man.
00:02:52I'm a man.
00:02:53I'm a man.
00:02:54I'm a man.
00:02:55I'm a man.
00:02:57Hey, Sheen, what do you think of these?
00:03:00Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:01Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:09I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now.
00:03:12And despite all the drama, being with Sheena every day is amazing.
00:03:19Thank you, thank you.
00:03:20Thank you so much.
00:03:21Yeah, thanks.
00:03:22What is something you need?
00:03:23Well, I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:26Well, I like that.
00:03:27Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:28Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her.
00:03:34It's just something I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:38Make sure you're holding me.
00:03:40Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:41You're holding me.
00:03:42Okay, there we go.
00:03:44Does it fit?
00:03:45Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:49Mm-mm.
00:03:49Yeah.
00:03:50Okay.
00:03:51Sorry, that's too sad.
00:03:52I'm sorry.
00:03:53I'm a giant man.
00:03:58I kind of packed really light since Sheena was going on and on about how easy and cheap
00:04:03it is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:06Turns out, you can find clothes.
00:04:08It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:12Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:15Maybe there's a t-shirt that you can use.
00:04:17I'm going 2X.
00:04:182X?
00:04:19Nah, that's too small.
00:04:20She won 5X.
00:04:23Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:28Forrest is around like 6'2 or 6'3.
00:04:32It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:36My previous partner, that was around like 5' or 5'2.
00:04:41But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen.
00:04:48Wow, you look like a macho.
00:04:50You look like a professional guy.
00:04:51You look like a tennis player.
00:04:53Yeah.
00:04:54It's too tight.
00:04:55It's too tight.
00:04:56Ow.
00:04:56See, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:04:58Yeah.
00:05:01Right now, I'm kind of regretting
00:05:03bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts and a pair of undies
00:05:06on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:08But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:12Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:14You never know.
00:05:17Hey, baby.
00:05:18It's so hot.
00:05:20You know, maybe I'll just take a seat real quick.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Let's take a seat.
00:05:25Yeah.
00:05:27I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:30Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines,
00:05:34it's been kind of hard to come by.
00:05:36And unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:42So, Sheena, how are you feeling after last night?
00:05:47It's a much better now, so you don't have any problems with that.
00:05:51Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents
00:05:58and not actually saving anything.
00:06:00I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront
00:06:05her parents about this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:08The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about,
00:06:15you know, the money issues and everything.
00:06:20I believe that after everything the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only thing
00:06:27we can do.
00:06:27So, it's time to be independent, it's time to be strong, and I'm going to be behind you
00:06:33and be your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:39I understand that, babe.
00:06:44This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:46I would plan a meeting for you so you could explain to them the situation that,
00:06:52sorry, we don't have that much money, but we're trying to stay because we have a lot of plans
00:06:57for us, and I will have to move with you to the U.S.
00:07:01Just show them that you are a very sincere person, what kind of person you are, because
00:07:06in my culture, parents are the ones who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:17So, if my parents would approve, then it would be much easier for just to have a better future for
00:07:23us.
00:07:31Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand?
00:07:34Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:37It's complicated.
00:07:40Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:45I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:52I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:07:55So, now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are
00:08:00basically
00:08:00numbered with getting money away from their daughter.
00:08:03This does not sound like an easy task.
00:08:06Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about,
00:08:12what if we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your parents?
00:08:21Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion,
00:08:26then things doesn't quite work.
00:08:33So, you think that we should have me come see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:41I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:45Well, Sheena, all right.
00:08:51But my mom is definitely going to blow her lid.
00:08:55She's not going to take this too well.
00:08:57I know, babe.
00:08:59I understand about that.
00:09:02My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my mom out of
00:09:09the situation.
00:09:10She already doesn't trust Sheena.
00:09:12And I believe that this is just going to make things worse.
00:09:15And I'm scared.
00:09:25Don't wear a strapless bra on a flat that's going to take two days.
00:09:31I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be done with my
00:09:37titties because they're hurting.
00:10:04Today is my big day.
00:10:05Today, my girlfriend is coming.
00:10:09So, that's why I'm excited and happy.
00:10:13Oh, my God.
00:10:14Lisa is coming today.
00:10:16I barely slept last night.
00:10:18How should I put this?
00:10:20I live in Hawaii.
00:10:22That's my hometown.
00:10:24But because of things that are going on there, a lot of shooting, a lot of kidnappings.
00:10:30Lisa booked a hotel for Sheena to stay here in Lagos.
00:10:35I can't even wait to, you know, welcome her.
00:10:38And when I see her with my eyes, oh, my God.
00:10:42I will kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:49I'm really nervous.
00:10:53I planned a lot of things to welcome her from the airport.
00:10:58She doesn't have an idea of what I'm planning.
00:11:06So, we have begun to just say, I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:14I'm so excited.
00:11:16I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time.
00:11:19But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:22Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I've been with women for the past 21
00:11:28years.
00:11:28Oh, my gosh.
00:11:30I am so ready for this to come to fruition.
00:11:35I want to marry Daniel.
00:11:37But I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria.
00:11:41And that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:45But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:49I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:11:56Oh, touchdown.
00:12:06Oh, my God.
00:12:19I mean, so this works.
00:12:21So anger.
00:12:23Just so hard.
00:12:33I'm so nervous.
00:12:34I feel like a drowned rat from the heat and the humidity.
00:12:40I did not sleep at all on the plane,
00:12:43and my nerves are just going crazy.
00:12:46I'm feeling really self-conscious right now.
00:12:48Oh, my god.
00:12:56I have a deep sweat.
00:12:58When you're this large, you can't help but have deep sweat.
00:13:01I'm going to wash my crotch area,
00:13:03because I don't want to stink down here either.
00:13:13I am freaking out to the point where I feel sick to my stomach.
00:13:17I think he's going to be as handsome as ever,
00:13:20and I think he's going to look at me and say,
00:13:22oh, my god, she's older than I thought she was.
00:13:24Because everything with this heat,
00:13:26I can't camouflage anything.
00:13:28And my age of 52 is showing today.
00:13:34Oh, my god.
00:13:35It was such a long flight.
00:13:38The bags are under my eyes, and the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:44Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video,
00:13:48I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect,
00:13:51getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle just
00:13:55where it needs to be, and trying to be perfect.
00:13:58And I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:04Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay.
00:14:14In a few seconds, she should be coming out.
00:14:17I will see.
00:14:29I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:35How am I going to be able to keep all these promises I made to Faye?
00:14:38What if I come clean about my past and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:43And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:44What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:46Dude, I'm terrified.
00:14:49I'm afraid he's going to reject me.
00:14:51And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:14:59I am here. I am wishing.
00:15:02I'm done. I'm done. I'm done.
00:15:04All right, here we go.
00:15:17What's she taking a deep breath for, man?
00:15:19Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:21Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:15:23Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:26I know, man.
00:15:28Cute.
00:15:29Sexy.
00:15:30Javon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:35But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:40It's hard for you to have a child like that.
00:15:44This is where we're going.
00:15:46Okay.
00:15:47The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:15:55my second date here in Turkey.
00:15:58Are you nervous?
00:15:59A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:16:07What are you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:10No, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:13Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:16:16Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:19I know, man.
00:16:20The only time you're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:25You got me in a love, hey.
00:16:29Call it a love, hey, baby.
00:16:34All right.
00:16:36You're driving me.
00:16:37All right.
00:16:38Love you, too, man.
00:16:39Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:42Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:16:50Yeah, man, I'm excited.
00:16:53This is it.
00:16:54Today is the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:17:03I just got past checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:10I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:20This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I need
00:17:28to figure out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:32I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:39This is it.
00:17:41Can't wait to see her.
00:17:51I don't know.
00:17:53I don't know.
00:17:54I don't know.
00:17:57I'm having fun.
00:17:59I don't know.
00:18:00I don't know.
00:18:15Oh
00:18:17Mg cute sexy
00:18:27Hey Javon, it's me your wifey
00:18:42I'm Annalyn and I'm 38 years old from Cavite, Philippines
00:18:48I've always been, I would say, bubbly, happy person, talkative
00:18:54But there's also a hard-working part of me as well
00:18:58I went to university and I studied mass communication
00:19:03Because I like talking
00:19:05Sometimes a lot
00:19:08But I decided to stop working full-time
00:19:11Because Javon and I are on opposite time zones
00:19:14So I have to change my sleep schedule
00:19:19And that has made it really difficult to keep up any kind of job
00:19:24Thankfully, Javon sends me $400 to $500 once a month
00:19:37My mom and I live next to each other
00:19:40And she has a small store
00:19:46I feel like we're more like best friends
00:19:51But she's a very timid, shy woman
00:19:55And I'm more like
00:19:56Yeah
00:20:03He's so strong
00:20:04I need to change my height
00:20:08Because Javon is higher
00:20:10The height difference
00:20:11I'm excited
00:20:15I'm excited
00:20:16I'm booked
00:20:16Because I'm in Missy Biss
00:20:18Missy Biss Bay
00:20:19Hi, wow
00:20:22Tomorrow morning
00:20:23I'm traveling to Beagle
00:20:24To meet Javon
00:20:26And finally have our honeymoon
00:20:31This will be the first time
00:20:33That we get to spend time together
00:20:34Physically
00:20:35And intimacy-wise
00:20:38We'll be able to discover a lot more about each other
00:20:41So, yeah
00:20:42Good luck to us
00:20:47Grabe excited na ako, Mama
00:20:50Medyo kinakabahan din ako
00:20:53Kasi, ang tagal
00:20:54Ang tagal ko kasing hinantay to
00:20:56Tapos ngayon, nandito na
00:20:57Oo nga, anim na taon, ano?
00:20:59Grabe, anim na taon
00:21:00Bala ko nga, hindi na mangyayaring darating yun
00:21:04Six years na yan
00:21:06Umikot na lang ang buong buhay mo
00:21:09Ang mundo mo sa kanya
00:21:10Kakahintay ang mga tawag niya
00:21:12Hindi ka na nakakapagtrabaho ng maayos
00:21:16Hindi ka na nakikipagkita sa mga kaibigan mo
00:21:21Mahirap kaya pagmasdan mo ang anak mong ganyan
00:21:25Ang alam ko, may tampuhan kayo ni Javon
00:21:29Okay na ba kayo?
00:21:32Technically, hindi pa talaga namin nasusolg fully yung problem
00:21:41Naisip ko, magfocus muna sa mga positibong bagay
00:21:45Lalo na sa first time meeting namin
00:21:48Saka ako na lang siya i-discuss later on
00:21:53Javon and I had a fight recently
00:21:56Because he told me that he's been talking to this woman
00:21:59That he used to have feelings for
00:22:02Even though we talk about it
00:22:04I feel like he still doesn't understand
00:22:07Why it feels like a betrayal to me
00:22:10But at the same time
00:22:12Javon and I have some problems
00:22:15That are way, way worse than this
00:22:39Javon and I have a lot of struggles
00:22:41And at times we fight a lot
00:22:43Javon thinks I changed
00:22:46But how I see it is that
00:22:49He's the one that really changed
00:22:51What happened was
00:22:54After we got married
00:22:55He started watching podcasts
00:22:58About masculinity and stuff
00:23:01They teach the man to find women
00:23:04That's soft, feminine and submissive
00:23:09Suddenly you have this idea in your head
00:23:11That I should be like this as a woman
00:23:13Like what the hell
00:23:15We were not like this before
00:23:17I feel like he's trying to change me
00:23:20To a person that I'm not
00:23:22He thinks that even if I don't agree with him
00:23:25I should just be quiet
00:23:26And I'm a type of woman
00:23:28That I just don't agree
00:23:29I question things
00:23:46I love Javon
00:23:47And I know he loves me
00:23:49But my biggest fear is
00:23:52Javon will come here
00:23:53And we can't get along
00:23:56But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend
00:23:59I'm meeting a husband
00:24:00I can't just
00:24:01You know
00:24:02Give off after everything I did
00:24:04For six years
00:24:07If we can't resolve our issues
00:24:09And we fight the whole time
00:24:10What am I gonna do?
00:24:14I hope you'll be honest
00:24:16You'll be able to wait for him
00:24:18In the last few years
00:24:41How are you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:24:44To be completely honest
00:24:45I was really frustrated
00:24:50Disappointed
00:24:50Because I went to bed alone
00:25:00When I got here
00:25:02There were lots of moments
00:25:03Where it felt really awkward
00:25:05Like we were
00:25:07Not sure what to say
00:25:09And I internalized those things
00:25:13And so last night
00:25:15I decided to go out into the living room
00:25:18And see if I could have
00:25:20A little bit of a conversation with beer con
00:25:24I felt really disconnected
00:25:25That whole first day
00:25:29I wanted to give you some space
00:25:31So
00:25:31But at the time
00:25:33I'm thinking
00:25:33Oh sh**
00:25:34My worst fear
00:25:35That he's just not attracted to me in person
00:25:39Has just come true
00:25:42It didn't
00:25:44Yeah
00:25:45We ended up like making out pretty good
00:25:48Good times
00:25:53We have time
00:25:54To explore this further
00:25:56As
00:25:57We get to know each other better
00:25:59But
00:26:00You know
00:26:01I am still kind of feeling a little like
00:26:04Unsure about the situation
00:26:05Because
00:26:06He decided to put the brakes on us having sex
00:26:09And also
00:26:11I am worried
00:26:12Because we have some things to do later today
00:26:15That I'm really anxious
00:26:29More rain
00:26:30Yeah
00:26:31God loves us
00:26:33I feel like he's crying on us
00:26:35We are bringing bliss
00:26:37Wherever we go
00:26:38Okay
00:26:40I think this is where we're going
00:26:41Okay
00:26:45The thing I have planned today
00:26:46This is probably the least romantic
00:26:50And the most awkward date we could have
00:26:53On my second date here in Turkey
00:26:58Hello
00:26:59Hi
00:27:00Oh my kitty
00:27:01You must be Laura
00:27:03Yes
00:27:03Nice to meet you
00:27:04Nice to meet you
00:27:05Please take a seat
00:27:06Okay
00:27:06Thank you
00:27:07Before I came to Turkey
00:27:09I had been researching skin removal surgery
00:27:13And Turkey
00:27:14And Turkey has such high quality plastic surgeons
00:27:16So fortunately
00:27:18I was able to secure an appointment with one
00:27:22But unfortunately
00:27:23The only appointment they had
00:27:26Was for today
00:27:29So awkward
00:27:31Are you nervous?
00:27:33A little bit
00:27:34Yeah, actually
00:27:35So you want me to come inside with you
00:27:38Or you want to do it alone?
00:27:42If you want to come, you can
00:27:44Okay
00:27:45A few weeks ago
00:27:46I asked Bjorkon to come with me
00:27:48Because I kind of want to see
00:27:49How our future could look together
00:27:53As someone who's supposed to support me
00:27:55But now I kind of think
00:27:57It just feels weird
00:27:58Even though we made out last night
00:28:00I am still feeling insecure
00:28:02About how he actually perceives me physically
00:28:07Is he attracted or not?
00:28:11Laura thinks too much about her appearance
00:28:15It is a curse that
00:28:17You always try to be perfect
00:28:22But nobody is perfect
00:28:23If you ask me
00:28:25I'm happy with my teeth
00:28:26Because it is my teeth
00:28:27I'm going to eat with this
00:28:28So who cares?
00:28:30But this is her body
00:28:32And she's not happy with that
00:28:33That's why I support her
00:28:36Hi
00:28:37You must be Laura
00:28:37I am
00:28:38Nice to meet you
00:28:39Nice to meet you
00:28:39You come?
00:28:40Nice to meet you
00:28:41Thank you
00:28:41Please take your seats
00:28:42Okay
00:28:43So I'm Dr. Amar
00:28:45I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon
00:28:47How can I help you?
00:28:49I have recently lost 140 pounds
00:28:52And so I have some like
00:28:54Loose skin in places
00:28:56That I am looking to have removed
00:28:58Which areas bothers you?
00:28:59Mainly in my stomach area
00:29:02It's my least confident spot
00:29:05Uh-huh
00:29:05So I will take you to the studio
00:29:08Okay
00:29:08For some pictures
00:29:09If it's okay for you
00:29:10That's fine
00:29:10And then you can ask your questions
00:29:12Okay
00:29:13And we can figure out
00:29:14A treatment plan for you
00:29:16I love that
00:29:16Thank you very much
00:29:20Just knock the door when you're ready
00:29:21Okay
00:29:22I will come in
00:29:22Thank you
00:29:23Alright
00:29:25Can I?
00:29:26For sure you can
00:29:30I touched someone else's boobs
00:29:32I'm sorry
00:29:36It's like a jellyfish
00:29:37I just wanted to touch
00:29:40You can't blame me guys
00:29:47I guess at least you're having fun
00:29:51Perfect
00:29:52This is going to be enough for me
00:29:54Can you come closer to the background?
00:29:56Come closer?
00:29:57Perfect
00:29:57Okay
00:29:58Now we're going to pull this part down
00:30:00A little bit more
00:30:02Perfect
00:30:02Yeah, this is an area that I
00:30:04Yeah, I got it
00:30:05Look at
00:30:05I got it
00:30:07Perfect
00:30:07No, nothing is seen
00:30:11Perfect
00:30:12All right
00:30:14Okay
00:30:15Just a few pictures
00:30:16Okay
00:30:17And it will be over
00:30:18Your arms will be on your back
00:30:19Exactly like that
00:30:21Thank you very much
00:30:27This part as fast as possible
00:30:34I feel really awkward
00:30:36Because my stomach area
00:30:39Is my biggest insecurity
00:30:41Perfect
00:30:42Same thing to the other side
00:30:45I have worked my ass off
00:30:48Literally and figuratively
00:30:49And the fact that I still have
00:30:52The loose skin
00:30:53Has been really hard
00:30:55Thank you very much
00:30:56That's great
00:30:57When I look in the mirror
00:30:59I don't want to see myself
00:31:00At 315 pounds anymore
00:31:02I want to see myself now
00:31:05And the work that I've put in
00:31:11Oh, okay
00:31:12So
00:31:16The problem
00:31:17At the tummy part
00:31:19Is actually really common
00:31:22After losing so much weight
00:31:23Yeah
00:31:24I will just show you some pictures
00:31:32So
00:31:33As you can see
00:31:34Horizontal problem here
00:31:36We should cut vertically
00:31:41I was not expecting
00:31:42The doctor to
00:31:44Take the things that you know
00:31:46Are your
00:31:47Most insecure flaws
00:31:49And project them
00:31:50For everyone to see like that
00:31:54I am immediately regretting
00:31:56Having Bearcon come with me
00:31:58Here I am
00:31:59Sitting next to
00:32:00My boyfriend
00:32:02Who happens to be
00:32:0320 years younger than I am
00:32:04Like what the hell
00:32:06Was I thinking
00:32:07This is
00:32:09Not romantic
00:32:10It's not sexy
00:32:11It's awful
00:32:19So do you think
00:32:20I can meet
00:32:20Your family
00:32:22My brothers
00:32:23My father
00:32:23Everyone have
00:32:24Her life
00:32:26So I'm not going to meet
00:32:27Anyone in your family
00:32:28While I'm here
00:32:28That's what I think
00:32:30It's really odd
00:32:31That he wouldn't want
00:32:32To introduce me
00:32:32It just makes me feel
00:32:34Like he's hiding
00:32:35Something about his life
00:32:47Hello
00:32:49How are you
00:32:52Do you know where I can buy
00:32:53Like hair oil
00:32:54Like to make my hair shiny
00:32:59Oh
00:33:00Excuse me
00:33:01Do you know where I can get hair oil
00:33:04No not
00:33:05Like hair oil
00:33:06Not spice
00:33:07Down there
00:33:07Okay
00:33:08Okay
00:33:11Maybe here
00:33:12No
00:33:13No
00:33:15Bags
00:33:16Not oil
00:33:17Can you get
00:33:20Stuff for your hair
00:33:21Here
00:33:22Oh really
00:33:23Here
00:33:23Perfect
00:33:24I love tea
00:33:36We're going to be cooking today
00:33:39Thank you
00:33:42This doesn't really match my outfit
00:33:44It's fine
00:33:45It's just
00:33:45It's for cover your outfit
00:33:47So you don't need
00:33:48Thank you
00:33:50This morning
00:33:51I took a walk
00:33:52Through the Medina
00:33:53To try and clear my head
00:33:55This isn't really sexy
00:33:57Right now
00:33:58I'm feeling really concerned
00:33:59About everything that's happened
00:34:01Since I landed
00:34:02Ziad's been very distant with me
00:34:04Emotionally and physically
00:34:06The whole time that I've been here
00:34:08And it's making me a little suspicious
00:34:11I'm actually really excited for this
00:34:13But Ziad is taking me to a cooking class today
00:34:17And I really think it's such a cute idea
00:34:21I'm going to really try not to just be in my head
00:34:24And overthink things
00:34:26And I'm hoping this could be a fun bonding moment between us
00:34:30What are we making?
00:34:35Tagine with chicken and lemon
00:34:38Yum
00:34:38That sounds good
00:34:45Tell me what she's saying
00:34:47We start with lemon
00:34:49Okay
00:34:50Wait, but I want to do it
00:34:53Oh, you peel it
00:34:54Exactly
00:34:55Oh
00:34:56So we're peeling the lemon
00:34:58Exactly
00:34:58All right
00:34:59I could do that
00:35:04I did it
00:35:04Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:35:05She said you make it
00:35:08Perfect
00:35:08Perfect
00:35:14Oh
00:35:15Are you going to try it?
00:35:17No
00:35:19Careful, two fingers
00:35:20Got it
00:35:21Don't I look like a wife right now?
00:35:23I have an apron on
00:35:25I'm cooking
00:35:25This is like real wife material
00:35:28This is actually a lot of fun
00:35:30Yeah
00:35:31I like this
00:35:32I want to teach Emma how to cook for me
00:35:35I don't have a picture of you in my mind
00:35:37You are cooking
00:35:39Yeah, I don't
00:35:40I don't cook
00:35:41No
00:35:42You need, for example, to make breakfast
00:35:45I don't like breakfast
00:35:46Dinner, lunch
00:35:48How did you leave if you don't?
00:35:50Coffee is my breakfast
00:35:51I could make you, like, toast
00:35:56And what about the lunch?
00:35:57I'll order you something
00:35:59For lunch, I can cook for myself
00:36:01I make it easy for you
00:36:03That's, yeah, yeah
00:36:05That's better
00:36:08What's your favorite food?
00:36:10It's touching with meat
00:36:12What's my favorite?
00:36:14Do you remember?
00:36:15It's, uh, it's sushi
00:36:17Yeah
00:36:18I know it
00:36:19Oh, you remember
00:36:21Have you ever cooked for your other ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:24No, never
00:36:25We don't eat in-house
00:36:27Or, no
00:36:28We, if we want
00:36:29If you want to eat
00:36:30We eat outside
00:36:31So
00:36:31We don't have time
00:36:33So you don't eat in the house
00:36:34Never
00:36:34Just for myself
00:36:37Or for my parents
00:36:43Did you tell your family about me yet?
00:36:46Yeah, yeah
00:36:46They know
00:36:47You are here
00:36:48And I'm with you
00:36:51Before I came to Morocco
00:36:54Ziad mentioned that he didn't tell anyone in his family that I was coming
00:36:58I was upset
00:37:00So
00:37:00I'm glad that Ziad finally told them
00:37:03But
00:37:05I'm a little disappointed
00:37:06That he hasn't set up a meeting
00:37:09I want to know more about him
00:37:11And understand him a little bit more
00:37:12And I feel like meeting his family is the best way to do that
00:37:16So do you think I can meet your family?
00:37:20Uh, I don't know which time they will be free
00:37:23Or they will be there, for example
00:37:26My father always traveling
00:37:30So I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here
00:37:33Maybe, yeah
00:37:34That's what I think
00:37:37Don't you think that's a little frustrating for me?
00:37:40It is, it is
00:37:41Like I'm not seeing your apartment
00:37:42I'm not meeting your family
00:37:43It is
00:37:44Every one of my brothers
00:37:46My father
00:37:47Everyone have their life
00:37:51You know, this is the man that I love
00:37:53And that I want to be with
00:37:55It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me to his family
00:37:58And it just makes me feel like he's hiding me
00:38:01Or hiding something about his life
00:38:04And that's not okay
00:38:08Have you ever introduced a girl to your parents?
00:38:10A girl?
00:38:11Yeah
00:38:11No, no, no
00:38:13The girls you date normally aren't just Moroccan girls
00:38:16Yeah, yeah
00:38:17Have you ever talked to an American girl, like online?
00:38:21Or just me?
00:38:24Uh-huh
00:38:26Have you talked to girls from, like, Europe?
00:38:29Uh, no, no
00:38:33Because the app that we met on is international
00:38:36Yeah, yeah, I know
00:38:37I was matched with a lot of girls, but I don't talk
00:38:40We don't, we didn't talk
00:38:42You didn't message any of them?
00:38:44No, no, no
00:38:47I feel like he's lying to me
00:38:50Before I came to Morocco, me and Sia had gotten into a huge fight
00:38:53Because I found out that he's still talking to a woman online
00:38:57He told me that he wasn't cheating on me
00:39:00But I'm not so sure about that
00:39:03So I downloaded this extension on my laptop
00:39:07And it shows you in order who people follow
00:39:12Cut the garlic
00:39:18This morning, I checked on my computer
00:39:20And I found out that he's still adding more women
00:39:25They're all from different countries
00:39:26I mean, it's like he's never stopped looking for other options
00:39:31It feels like everything is hitting me all at once
00:39:34And I'm putting the pieces together
00:39:37And it's just making me wonder if he did cheat on me
00:39:40Or if he even really wants this relationship
00:39:43I think it's time to find out what's the real story here
00:39:52I still really want to talk to your family
00:39:55It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first
00:40:00So they could have a better understanding
00:40:03I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do
00:40:06If Forrest went over there by himself
00:40:08I need to be there with Forrest
00:40:12Forrest
00:40:23This is the area where there's a lot of street clubs
00:40:32That's something we're going to have to do
00:40:34I don't need to see that
00:40:36All I need is my sheep
00:40:38Forrest, it's not the point of replacement
00:40:42It's the point of just observing other things
00:40:47I have no interest in women
00:40:50But the human body is beautiful
00:40:52I don't even go to those in the States
00:40:54On my construction job, that was our lunch
00:40:58Because they cook the best hamburgers
00:41:01Monday was amateur day
00:41:04Oh, man
00:41:06Oh, look at that tree coming right out of the wall
00:41:14Oh, no, that's me, yeah
00:41:16Mmm
00:41:18My conversation with Sheena yesterday
00:41:20Forced me to reevaluate how I'm going to approach Sheena's parents
00:41:23And we decided that it's best to meet Sheena's family first
00:41:27Without my mom and dad
00:41:29So what other things are in, what do you call it?
00:41:32Intramural roles
00:41:33So this is another historical site in Manila
00:41:37So it's like a Spanish piece
00:41:38Oh, man
00:41:39I just have such a thing for history
00:41:42Because you have to learn from history
00:41:44Yes
00:41:45Because history repeats itself
00:41:47You can kind of predict what's going to happen
00:41:50If you don't learn from mistakes from the first time
00:41:54You know, that's how I've always felt
00:41:56I'm not looking forward to talking to my mom about this at all
00:42:01She's pretty much going to freak out and really think now
00:42:04That her family is trying to get the hooks into me
00:42:06Like, I'm going to go the first day
00:42:08And they're just going to set me down
00:42:09They're going to open up my brain
00:42:11And they're just going to pour the brainwashing juice directly into my soul
00:42:16And she's going to fight me tooth and nail to allow herself to go
00:42:21Here we are at the intramurals
00:42:25Woo!
00:42:28So this you can see
00:42:30It's like a garrison for Spanish governors
00:42:32For all the important guys
00:42:34Yes, yes, yes
00:42:36For Spanish rulers at that era
00:42:39Mostly like 1600s
00:42:40That is neat
00:42:41Hey, mom, look at the fountain
00:42:44Yeah, that's good stuff here
00:42:45Oh, my God
00:42:47So beautiful
00:42:48Yeah
00:42:48You can definitely tell that you're not in America anymore
00:42:50You can see the constructions, the variation
00:42:53Do you know what?
00:42:54One thing Deb and I talk about all the time
00:42:56Is we'll look at a rock
00:42:58And we say
00:43:00You know, imagine how much this rock has seen
00:43:06It all blows my mind right there
00:43:08Oh, man
00:43:11To Sheena's credit
00:43:12She really is making the effort
00:43:15To show us the best of her country
00:43:16Oh, my God
00:43:18Yes, hard
00:43:19How old is this?
00:43:20Probably a thousand years
00:43:21I don't know
00:43:21Yeah, you could try to open
00:43:22Maybe something will pop up
00:43:24Oh, no, no
00:43:24I don't want to open it
00:43:26But honestly
00:43:27I don't regret going so hard on Sheena
00:43:29The other night like that
00:43:32Whoa
00:43:32Oh, my God
00:43:34I want to get one of these hats
00:43:35Oh, mom and her hats
00:43:37Yeah, that's what it look like
00:43:38Oh, you're like Vietnamese
00:43:39Oh, hey, that's perfect
00:43:41I want to believe she has good intentions
00:43:44Yeah, you look so handsome
00:43:45But we're just sitting here
00:43:47Stirring in this pot
00:43:50I'm still struggling to figure out
00:43:52Why Sheena lied
00:43:53And I know in my heart
00:43:56That there is more to this story
00:43:58There
00:43:59There
00:44:02That's the monkeys walk
00:44:04I'm going to sit down, guys
00:44:06I'm sweating like crazy
00:44:09This is all wonderful
00:44:11I didn't realize how truly beautiful the Philippines is
00:44:16Yes, thanks so much
00:44:18I mean, seeing this, meeting you
00:44:21Yes, mom
00:44:22Is so important
00:44:24But there's still one little piece of the puzzle
00:44:29And that's with your family
00:44:33So I still really want to talk to them
00:44:35And discuss things
00:44:39Well, I'm glad that you brought up, you know, Sheena's family
00:44:47Sheena and I had a discussion
00:44:49About, you know, going by ourselves to meet your parents
00:44:52And how it's important that I meet them
00:44:54Before mom and dad meet them
00:44:57So, mom
00:44:58I know that you wanted to go as a group
00:45:00To meet with Sheena's family
00:45:02But we would really like it if you come the next day
00:45:07Forrest
00:45:08Isn't that right, babe?
00:45:10It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first
00:45:13So they could have a better understanding
00:45:18I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do
00:45:21If Forrest went over there by himself
00:45:23If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena
00:45:27The way that they do
00:45:28With the whole tradition
00:45:31And the first oldest daughter thing
00:45:33And that we're broke
00:45:35Then who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest
00:45:39I need to be there with Forrest and Sheena
00:45:45I feel it is important
00:45:48That you have me and Dev
00:45:51To stand by your side
00:45:53Just we will come in
00:45:55And say our greetings
00:45:57Hello, how are you?
00:45:58No going and yelling and screaming
00:46:00I promise
00:46:02And so I was hoping
00:46:06That you would be in agreement to doing that
00:46:09Allowing us to come
00:46:14Mom
00:46:15We're not saying that we don't want you to be there
00:46:18We want you to be there
00:46:20We just want you to go the next day
00:46:23Because we can talk about special pink fairy dust
00:46:27And all this other great things
00:46:29But we live in reality
00:46:31Okay?
00:46:32And in reality
00:46:33You are a very hardcore person
00:46:37You know you are going to go
00:46:39And look for anything to be said
00:46:43And I'm an adult
00:46:44You need to treat me like an adult
00:46:46I am not a child anymore
00:46:49And you should be able to trust me and Sheena
00:46:52And our judgment
00:46:53I cannot trust Sheena yet
00:46:55She has not perfect it
00:46:56And I cannot trust you now
00:46:59This is the perfect moment
00:47:00I cannot trust you now
00:47:03I know Forrest
00:47:04He will sacrifice his own self
00:47:07And do anything for Sheena
00:47:09This was the whole reason why I came here
00:47:13Was to protect Forrest from Sheena's parents
00:47:15This is total bull
00:47:22Only moments away
00:47:24This is so surreal
00:47:26I'm meeting my husband
00:47:28Not just any man
00:47:29I have a feeling
00:47:31That we're going to have some communication problem again
00:47:34I don't know
00:47:37Come on
00:47:39Bobby, where are you?
00:47:43Bobby
00:47:45Oh, man
00:47:46Oh, man
00:48:07Beautiful but classy
00:48:11Oh, today is the day that I'm going to meet my loving husband, and I'm so excited.
00:48:20It's just so surreal.
00:48:26After being married for three years, in a relationship for six years, I finally get to meet my husband in
00:48:35person for the first time.
00:48:37It's so crazy.
00:48:41Hi, hello, good morning. I'm finally picking up my husband. Could you please bring us some champagne later on?
00:48:49I suggested that we start this trip on our honeymoon, so this morning, I checked into this beautiful resort in
00:48:57Bicol, but it's been raining ever since I showed up.
00:49:02Some people would think that it's a bad sign, but you know, I'm Catholic, and for us, water is cleansing.
00:49:10For me, it's a blessing.
00:49:12Some breath spray for the first kiss ever.
00:49:17My God, Javon, here I come.
00:49:22Daraga Airport, please.
00:49:25Wow, I feel like puking.
00:49:30There's just so many emotions going on in my system right now.
00:49:35I feel happy. I feel excited. I feel intense.
00:49:40It's just the fact that I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:49:46At the same time, I have a feeling that we're also going to have some communication problem again. I don't
00:49:52know.
00:49:53But I don't want to be negative because this moment is very special to me. I've been waiting for a
00:50:01long time.
00:50:02So for today, I'm going to focus on the positive, which is the love and the feelings we have for
00:50:09each other.
00:50:19I'm just touched down. I'm very, very excited about what's about to happen.
00:50:25This is so surreal.
00:50:27I can't believe that even though we've almost been married for three years, I'm about to meet my wife for
00:50:33the first time.
00:50:35This moment is huge because it's been a buildup over years.
00:50:39I'm excited, but also I have a lot of anxiety because things are far from perfect right now.
00:50:47I would love to get back to the place where me and Anna can have fun and laugh together and
00:50:54be happy in our relationship, like how it was in the beginning.
00:51:04This has been like an overdue dream for me.
00:51:07I would always daydream of how it's going to be, how it would feel like.
00:51:13I wonder how it feels to touch him, to hold him.
00:51:18Oh my God.
00:51:20The nervousness is just leveling up.
00:51:24It's like ordering something online and when it finally arrives, you're just excited to unpack the package.
00:51:42Just past customs, I'm one step closer to seeing Anna and just so ready.
00:51:48Okay.
00:51:48Okay.
00:51:49Take that.
00:51:50I'm waking up today and I'm gonna find you see the sun.
00:51:54Come on.
00:51:56Barbie, where are you?
00:51:58I'm beating on my skin.
00:52:00I soak it in.
00:52:01Um.
00:52:05Better days have just arrived and I'm ready now.
00:52:09I've been waiting for my time and I've won it all.
00:52:13Everything I want cannot begin.
00:52:16Take every day as it comes
00:52:24Mommy!
00:52:27Hey, boo!
00:52:31Oh, boo!
00:52:34Oh, man.
00:52:40Okay.
00:52:43Okay.
00:52:46Look at you in pink.
00:52:48Like a peach on a windowsill.
00:52:51Yeah, I told you.
00:52:53Yeah.
00:52:55Happy, huh?
00:53:00Stop crying. It's okay.
00:53:02You're supposed to be happy.
00:53:04I'm happy.
00:53:06Here's some joy.
00:53:10I rehearsed the moment in my head
00:53:12a thousand times of how I was going to approach her
00:53:15and what she was going to look like.
00:53:17And she's just everything that I ever hoped for and more.
00:53:24Oh, my God.
00:53:26You're so fluffy.
00:53:28You're very handsome and tall and, yeah, perfect.
00:53:34It just feels like a dream.
00:53:37It feels surreal.
00:53:38Like, I still can't believe it, but I just want more kisses.
00:53:47It's still not enough.
00:53:51I got you some chocolate.
00:53:53Some more stuff for you in my suitcase.
00:53:54Very smart, mister.
00:53:56Yeah.
00:53:57Like, I can't even wrap my brain around it that I am standing next to my wife.
00:54:04It just feels amazing.
00:54:06And I'm ready for the honeymoon.
00:54:18You look uncomfortable right now, so I'm curious if you're okay with this.
00:54:23Everything is fine by me.
00:54:24I am comfortable with everything.
00:54:25Seeing your photos is just...
00:54:29It is just...
00:54:30Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:54:32Are you?
00:54:38I will just show you some pictures.
00:54:51So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here that we should cut vertically.
00:54:57We call it abdominoplasty, but in public it's called thumbtack.
00:55:01Okay.
00:55:02So, fix this area here and here in this part.
00:55:06We can remove it.
00:55:07Okay.
00:55:08When we do an FDL tummy tuck, we have to cut in the middle of your tummy.
00:55:13So, it's almost impossible to hide it.
00:55:15Right.
00:55:15Okay.
00:55:17You look uncomfortable right now, so I'm curious if...
00:55:20I'm comfortable with everything.
00:55:23Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:55:25Are you?
00:55:32Then it made me uncomfortable.
00:55:36It kind of surprised me, but it's just...
00:55:38It is just people's life, you know?
00:55:44Which is not a problem for me.
00:55:50So, overall, all for $7,175.
00:55:56Okay.
00:55:57That's pretty much all.
00:55:57The healing period, usually the patients...
00:55:59That's what I was about to ask.
00:56:00Usually the patients ask.
00:56:01Uh-huh.
00:56:02So, six weeks.
00:56:03Okay.
00:56:03All right.
00:56:04So, like, anything I do at the gym, pretty much, would be done for six weeks.
00:56:08Almost, yes.
00:56:09Almost.
00:56:09But approximately two to three weeks later, you can start jogging and light exercises.
00:56:15Excellent.
00:56:16And I'll have a packet of all this information.
00:56:19Of course.
00:56:19It's already printed out.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:21Thank you very much.
00:56:22But we'll be in touch.
00:56:24Yes, absolutely.
00:56:25And if you have additional medical questions, feel free to ask.
00:56:29I love that.
00:56:30I was just gonna ask if there was an email.
00:56:31I'd love to meet you.
00:56:33I appreciate your time.
00:56:38Thanks.
00:58:33I love how supportive Birkan is.
00:58:37His words are so touching.
00:58:42I feel like I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him
00:58:48that, yeah, he really does love me, and I can trust what he's saying.
00:58:53You want to go?
00:58:53Okay.
00:58:54Now let's go.
00:58:56Okay.
00:59:01You're the best.
00:59:02I know.
00:59:04That's my mojo.
00:59:13Since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
00:59:18No, I don't.
00:59:19I just don't want us to have any secrets.
00:59:21So what about you?
00:59:22When we match, we're talking, and one day, we just go away.
00:59:27Can you just give me some details while you dispray?
00:59:40Cute!
00:59:42That is so cute!
00:59:45That's, like, the cutest thing I've ever seen.
00:59:48Can we eat now?
01:00:01This is so pretty!
01:00:03Yes.
01:00:03Do you want to sit over here?
01:00:05You can sit right at this table.
01:00:07I'm feeling a little frustrated after the cooking class because I feel like the past couple
01:00:12days, he's just been changing his story.
01:00:14He's been telling different things to me online and in person.
01:00:18Oh, this is what we made.
01:00:19This is so solid.
01:00:20And then seeing what Sietta's doing on social media, I feel like he has something that he's
01:00:26hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me.
01:00:29This is all the more reason that I think every girl needs to do a little bit of stalking.
01:00:35I would never, like, show up at someone's house in the middle of the night.
01:00:38Like, that's, like, creepy stalker status.
01:00:41But, you know, like, some light digging is, like, totally normal.
01:00:47I investigate.
01:00:49I don't stalk.
01:00:53We did a really good job.
01:00:56Yeah.
01:00:56Should we try it?
01:00:59Tastes it all.
01:01:02Mmm.
01:01:03That's really good.
01:01:05Do you like it?
01:01:07It's so delicious.
01:01:08Good.
01:01:17You don't eat yours.
01:01:19There is...
01:01:20Yeah, I'm eating.
01:01:21No, you eat nothing.
01:01:22You just...
01:01:25I have a lot on my mind.
01:01:27I'm thinking...
01:01:28For example?
01:01:31I don't know.
01:01:32I'm just, like, thinking about...
01:01:34About what?
01:01:35Just, like, the whole...
01:01:40argument we got into a couple weeks ago.
01:01:42What?
01:01:43When I found out that you were still talking to girls.
01:01:47And you haven't talked to any girls since.
01:01:49No.
01:01:50So you don't talk to girls on your social media?
01:01:52Social media?
01:01:53It's...
01:01:53Just people who know me.
01:01:56I've been looking at your page.
01:01:59Every day.
01:02:00Mm-hmm.
01:02:01You follow new girls.
01:02:02Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:02:04And?
01:02:05No, no.
01:02:05There is not...
01:02:05Yeah.
01:02:06And it's, like, thousands of people that you follow.
01:02:08There is...
01:02:08It's, like, respect.
01:02:09If someone follow me, I follow him back.
01:02:11So what if they message you?
01:02:12Do you respond to messages, too?
01:02:15Just people who...
01:02:16They know me or I know them.
01:02:18If girls try to flirt with you, what do you say?
01:02:20I would say thanks.
01:02:21That's all.
01:02:23Oh...
01:02:23So since we've been dating...
01:02:25...have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:02:29I speak only with you, like, something romantic,
01:02:32because you are my girl.
01:02:37So...
01:02:37So you don't think you've ever cheated on me?
01:02:42No, I don't.
01:02:43You would never cheat?
01:02:44No.
01:02:45Or lie?
01:02:46No.
01:02:47I just don't want us to have any secrets between each other.
01:02:50For me, everything on me, I say to you.
01:02:54I don't hide nothing.
01:02:58Anything she asks me, I give her answers.
01:03:01But in the beginning of our relationship,
01:03:05she did something that confused me.
01:03:08And I never ask her about it.
01:03:11Sometimes I see her reaction, how she talked with me.
01:03:15It's like she has, like, secrets or something inside here.
01:03:20It's like I feel it.
01:03:23I want to feel like I can trust you.
01:03:26And that, like, you're not ever going to do something behind my back.
01:03:29Like, I don't ever want to have to worry about it.
01:03:31I don't hide nothing.
01:03:35So...
01:03:35What about you?
01:03:38Do you have some secret to me?
01:03:43No.
01:03:44Sure.
01:03:45Mm-hmm.
01:03:48Because I remember when we match, we're talking, and one day...
01:03:55Where is she?
01:03:56I don't know.
01:03:57We just go away.
01:03:59So when you come back, I was waiting for you to talk.
01:04:03You didn't talk.
01:04:06Can you just give me some details while you just pray?
01:04:13Um, I was just going through a bad breakup.
01:04:17So, no.
01:04:18In the sad moments when we talk, you're still with someone or by yourself?
01:04:23I was going through a breakup.
01:04:26When we speak in the first time, you give me a picture of you like you are single.
01:04:32Yeah.
01:04:33And you are not.
01:04:34You are still with him.
01:04:35Well, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:38Breakup.
01:04:39I mean, you're still talking with him.
01:04:40Like, going through a breakup means...
01:04:42Still talking with him.
01:04:44We were going through a breakup.
01:04:46I have to repeat again.
01:04:47I have to repeat.
01:04:48No.
01:04:49So you don't want to tell a couple of us.
01:04:50Babe, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:52That's my answer.
01:04:53I was going through a breakup.
01:04:55I wasn't in the right headspace to start a relationship.
01:04:59Ah.
01:05:01Me and Zied have actually never talked about why I ended things with him when we first started dating.
01:05:07So I'm really shocked to hear Zied bringing this up right now.
01:05:11I mean, honestly, I did kind of just drop him and disappear because I was trying to make things work
01:05:16with my ex.
01:05:20I really want to be open with Zied about Mohamed.
01:05:23But I feel like with the ways Zied is, like, badgering me for this information right now, he wouldn't take
01:05:30it well.
01:05:33So I'm just not really ready to tell him in this moment.
01:05:38That was a long time ago.
01:05:40Right?
01:05:41No, I want to listen to the details.
01:05:44I'm here with you now.
01:05:45And I want to be with you now.
01:05:46I'm not talking with now.
01:05:47Yeah.
01:05:48What I know is...
01:05:49Because I want to be with you now and focus on right now, us being together.
01:05:55She's being weird.
01:05:57She don't want to tell me everything.
01:06:00And when I speak with her in the subject, she changed the subject for another subject.
01:06:10Right now, I see, like, she's hiding a lot of things.
01:06:15And I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.
01:06:27Wow, what did you do all this?
01:06:29Yeah.
01:06:30I am very nervous because it has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:06:36Okay.
01:06:39Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's going to go?
01:06:45Javon, you ready for me?
01:06:50Now, how is it all of a sudden you can miraculously change and stand up to your parents?
01:06:56Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:06:58Now, the story changes again.
01:07:01Lying.
01:07:02Not keeping her story straight.
01:07:04That's where I have an issue.
01:07:06I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:07:11They're going to have you snooker before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:07:26I'm so happy.
01:07:27Really?
01:07:28Yeah.
01:07:30What?
01:07:30You can just look at me all night.
01:07:53I just met my wife for the first time in person.
01:07:57Man, I dreamed about this day for a long time.
01:08:00This is freaking huge.
01:08:04Right now, we're on our way to the resort that Anna booked.
01:08:07And it's a very surreal feeling.
01:08:11Before I met you, I have a lot of thought about this.
01:08:17Daydream about this.
01:08:19Wild dream about this.
01:08:20Yeah.
01:08:21Wet dreams about this.
01:08:23But then it's funny because even though we're married, I was a bit worried about it.
01:08:28I was thinking like, oh my God, like, am I going to be shy?
01:08:32But I feel like I can fart over here right now.
01:08:40Anna's personality is a big ball of energy.
01:08:43And she's a little wacky.
01:08:45And she can literally hold a conversation all on her own.
01:08:50Pretty much the opposite of me.
01:08:53But what can I say?
01:08:54That's my wife.
01:08:57So am I what you were expecting?
01:09:00You're exactly what I was expecting.
01:09:04My beautiful, shatty wife.
01:09:10Here we are.
01:09:15This is really nice.
01:09:17That's why I picked it.
01:09:19It's got good taste, you know.
01:09:21Yes.
01:09:23So.
01:09:23Ready?
01:09:27Okay.
01:09:28You got it?
01:09:28Yeah.
01:09:29Good.
01:09:30No.
01:09:31You heavy.
01:09:34No, don't throw me away.
01:09:36Don't throw you?
01:09:38No.
01:09:39You may look tiny, but you heavy, though.
01:09:42Wow, would you do all this?
01:09:44Yeah.
01:09:45Okay.
01:09:47I've been waiting on this night for six years.
01:09:50It's our honeymoon, and seeing the rose petals on the bed, you know.
01:09:56The environment's right for us to, you know.
01:09:59To get it in.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:07Yeah.
01:10:07Yeah.
01:10:07Boo, this is yours.
01:10:11You can take off your...
01:10:13These come with the room?
01:10:14Yeah.
01:10:15Okay.
01:10:15You can take this off.
01:10:16Oh, I'm kind of scared to take my socks off.
01:10:22Oh, I can smell that.
01:10:28Oh, boy.
01:10:33I was wearing boots.
01:10:34I haven't taken a shower in, like...
01:10:36Why would you wear boots...
01:10:3733 hours.
01:10:38...on a 33-hour flight?
01:10:43Get a big whiff, man.
01:10:44That's what you're going to have to deal with on a day-to-day basis.
01:10:46You want to take a shower?
01:10:49Please do.
01:10:50All right.
01:10:51Okay?
01:10:51I'll be right out.
01:10:54I knew that I would learn a lot of things about Jubon, but I did not expect that the feet
01:11:01would smell so badly.
01:11:07Smell terrible.
01:11:11Oh.
01:11:13Okay.
01:11:15I am very nervous because, oh, my God.
01:11:19I've never been with a man for a long time.
01:11:22It has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:11:27Okay.
01:11:28Yeah.
01:11:29Look at you.
01:11:30Better.
01:11:31I am worried a little bit.
01:11:32I'm not going to be able to satisfy him.
01:11:35I don't know.
01:11:38What if the positions have changed?
01:11:41Do I still know how it's going to go?
01:11:44Like...
01:11:44I don't know.
01:11:51Juvon.
01:11:51You ready for me?
01:11:55Hey.
01:11:56Yeah.
01:11:57Look at you.
01:11:59Mm-hmm.
01:11:59Good, boo.
01:12:02I know we have a lot to figure out about each other the next few weeks, but so far, Juvon
01:12:09and I are off to a really romantic start.
01:12:12All right.
01:12:12You ready?
01:12:12You ready?
01:12:13Yeah.
01:12:13Yeah.
01:12:13But, oh, my God.
01:12:16I've never seen any married couple that took three years before doing it.
01:12:23Wish me luck.
01:12:37Sheena, if we go and meet your parents, I agree to not speak out of turn.
01:12:46And I don't believe you're going to do that.
01:12:49And we cannot mess this up with Sheena's family.
01:13:06Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:13:12The cultural thing and the duty of the family.
01:13:16Now, how is it all of a sudden, under one day, you can miraculously change and stand up to your
01:13:22parents?
01:13:23Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:13:26It's just that probably got misunderstood.
01:13:28Oh, now the story changes again, again.
01:13:32You told me yourself that you are pressured and you're scared of your family, remember?
01:13:40Yes, but I am a full-grown adult and I could know.
01:13:44But now you feel totally safe and...
01:13:47Yes, I understand, Mom.
01:13:49Ah, how that switches.
01:13:51Sheena telling me that her parents aren't bad people, it's like, what?
01:13:57What are you saying?
01:13:59That's a total different story from what you've been telling me all along.
01:14:03Oh, they're mistreating me.
01:14:04They're going to kick me out.
01:14:06They call me names, all of this.
01:14:08And now the story switches.
01:14:10It's hard to think bad of your parent.
01:14:13You can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents.
01:14:17Where my problem is, is her lying, not keeping her story straight.
01:14:22That's where I have an issue.
01:14:25I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:14:30It would be the most perfect setup for your family and you guys.
01:14:34Your family, of course, doesn't want you to leave this country and go to the United States.
01:14:40So you get forced to come over there and then it's twice the amount of money to your parents.
01:14:47And he will be the grunt just like you are.
01:14:51Stop.
01:14:51Don't.
01:14:52I don't do that.
01:14:53I love my person.
01:14:54I love your son.
01:14:55I love more than anything.
01:14:56I have self-respect for your son.
01:14:57But I'm just saying, my fear is, Forrest is going to say and do anything just to keep
01:15:04your love and then find out that it was all a con.
01:15:09Mom, you acting this way has proven my point.
01:15:14I ask you to please just wait one day so I can go and greet Sheena's family.
01:15:20That was it.
01:15:21And look at where we're sitting right now.
01:15:23You can't even hold your temper.
01:15:26My mom is saying things that are way out of line.
01:15:30Sheena is a person with such a kind heart that she would never do anything to put me
01:15:35in danger or hurt me.
01:15:37I brought my mom to Manila to kind of support me and give me advice.
01:15:44But instead, she's always just nuking it, which makes everything worse.
01:15:50Mom, I don't think one day is truly going to change.
01:15:55Everything.
01:15:56Forrest, it's not even the point.
01:15:58We can't even have a decision.
01:15:59We've gone beyond that.
01:16:00It's already gone beyond that.
01:16:01You know why it's gone beyond that?
01:16:03Because of the fact that you don't trust me.
01:16:11I have bust my ass trying to make sure to be there for you and to be there for her.
01:16:20You think that if I didn't trust you that I would bring you all the way here to the Philippines?
01:16:25That took a lot of trust to bring you here.
01:16:30Forrest saying that he doesn't trust me, that I won't blow up, the reason why I blow up has always
01:16:38been to protect him.
01:16:41But to see how he's taken that protection and made it a problem, it's painful.
01:16:52And I will not be anybody's problem.
01:16:57You guys want your life?
01:16:58You want your thing?
01:16:59Mom, we're not trying to hurt you.
01:17:02They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:17:07So, good luck, guys.
01:17:08Good luck.
01:17:11So, how do you feel this conversation went?
01:17:14Did you get what you wanted?
01:17:16Yes, it's for the best that she's not coming.
01:17:28Oh, my God, is it really you?
01:17:36He devoured me.
01:17:39When we get to the room, then maybe I will cheer you.
01:17:42No.
01:17:47Oh, my God, you better stop.
01:17:49Oh, my God, Daniel.
01:18:01I don't mind being here from morning to night.
01:18:24I can't believe I'm finally about to meet Daniel.
01:18:28Excuse me.
01:18:31Hello.
01:18:32This is a beginning chapter.
01:18:35No matter what it is, whether it's good or bad, it's going to change everything in my life right now.
01:18:57Oh, my God.
01:19:01Oh, my God.
01:19:11i want to look at you let me look at you so beautiful
01:19:23oh my god i don't even have words for how i felt when i first saw daniel he started running
01:19:29towards me and i was like oh my god that's him and and and my heart just exploded and and
01:19:36he devoured me
01:19:41oh my god daniel
01:19:46when we get to the room then uh maybe i will show you
01:19:49oh my god you better stop
01:19:57oh my god oh my god is it really you is it really oh my god
01:20:14don't cry don't try not to cry don't you cry
01:20:22she's more gorgeous than i think more beautiful than the flowers i gave her
01:20:28really yeah no i'm a mess i've been on a plane for an hour
01:20:32come on you're such a need as this table beautiful angel
01:20:37oh my god baby i love you
01:20:43oh my god i don't know what to do i don't know what to do next okay we should go
01:20:48let me get
01:20:48mike are you gonna get the luggage i will get this you get that one which way
01:21:00what the heck
01:21:01what the heck
01:21:11did you do this for me did you really do this
01:21:37i walked out and there's music and it's loud and there's dancers dancing around and i'm
01:21:44thinking what the hell is this how they welcome all foreigners into their country but no this is
01:21:51about me daniel set this up for me what the hell is going on here this is nuts
01:22:00girl wait a minute hold this let me try wait hold the flowers wait
01:22:08is that right girl am i doing it yeah
01:22:15i can't do it i don't know
01:22:16i plan to welcome her like a queen that's why i invited traditional dancers
01:22:25dancers i am happy that she joined the dancers and the way she's laughing
01:22:32i am very sure about this at this moment
01:22:44oh my god that was so amazing
01:22:49thank you
01:23:01what are you doing
01:23:02what are you doing
01:23:08can you learn me
01:23:19the next time on before the 90 days
01:23:22this one is for you
01:23:27that's the one
01:23:28today we are travelling to meet she uh's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married
01:23:33They have a lot of questions for you.
01:23:36First, it's your career.
01:23:38The truth is, I'm quite frustrated for us.
01:23:42I haven't saved anything for a future.
01:23:44You're an adult.
01:23:45You could find a job.
01:23:46You have to be man out of it.
01:23:49I brought condoms too, baby.
01:23:51Go take your shower.
01:23:52Get everything ready.
01:23:54It's been 21 years since I've been with a man.
01:23:57Let me take your shower.
01:23:58I want it to happen.
01:24:00What if I want it, and he doesn't want me?
01:24:01I don't want it.
01:24:08When we first started talking, he was so sweet,
01:24:12calling me his wife within, like, 10 minutes.
01:24:15So you are looking to get married?
01:24:17Yes.
01:24:24She lied about something.
01:24:27Sometimes you overstep just a little bit.
01:24:30We had the argument, and you called my sister.
01:24:34I love you, but you are a little bit unhinged.
01:24:39Oh, my god.
01:24:40I can't believe you're born right now.
01:24:42You done?
01:24:43Done with this conversation.
01:24:47Well, this is something you didn't tell me about.
01:24:50Wait, stop.
01:24:50Can you just calm down?
01:24:52Because I wanted to.
01:24:53You've been holding a secret for, what, four months now?
01:24:55Now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days
01:24:59directly has to do with her ex.
01:25:01The wizard I didn't told you is trying to get me back.
01:25:10I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a job.
01:25:14So with my debt, I am just broke.
01:25:18Did you say your debts?
01:25:20Yeah.
01:25:22How much is it?
01:25:26I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:28I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:28I don't want to give you a heart attack.
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