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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breathe, yo, what's up, would?
00:00:12She really like my girl, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:30Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sick.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged,
00:00:54and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything,
00:00:58and he doesn't want me,
00:00:59and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me.
00:01:05He's trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position to be sport hunter like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval
00:01:33to marry her,
00:01:34so now I have to go and get their approval
00:01:37while I have to tell them
00:01:38that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:43First, it's your career.
00:01:47I'm going to have to tell my parents
00:01:49the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard,
00:01:56so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation and my debts,
00:02:07I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:22I'm worried if she finds out
00:02:24how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:02:54That's so beautiful.
00:03:06You have
00:03:07the
00:03:10nicest ass
00:03:11I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blushing.
00:03:19And you know,
00:03:20I always thought your dimples
00:03:21were my favorite thing,
00:03:22but you know what my favorite thing is now?
00:03:26You're not going to...
00:03:27Your belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an Audi.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:37I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel,
00:03:42and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:52He's everything I could have dreamed about,
00:03:55except he doesn't have booze.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:02It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:10Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:16Last night was uncomfortable,
00:04:20and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full-on.
00:04:31And I had so much anticipation.
00:04:33I was very.
00:04:35So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex,
00:04:39it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know,
00:04:48not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night because of all, you know?
00:04:58But it was really awkward for me
00:04:59because it's been so long
00:05:01since I've been intimate like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish.
00:05:07And then it went.
00:05:11I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:13I'm in favor.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed,
00:05:19he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night,
00:05:27preparing, getting ready to go and wake up with you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:34We have a test.
00:05:36It was a test run.
00:05:38Tested it.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:43But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:04At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:08And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable.
00:06:12And I seem to have stretched to fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so happy.
00:06:26I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:30I love you more.
00:06:32And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him,
00:06:42I'm even more concerned how he's going to handle what I have to tell him
00:06:45about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle
00:07:00if he can't accept my past.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that.
00:07:07We're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:33We're never going to get out of this bed.
00:07:39Oh my goodness, oh my god, oh lord, give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bus.
00:07:49Sheen and I getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like, being inside
00:07:55of a can.
00:07:56I would never do this with anybody else but you Sheen.
00:08:00That's pretty great, I get to, you know, get up nice and close, but she's also crushing
00:08:05me to death.
00:08:06I love those, woohoo!
00:08:08Oh!
00:08:09Whoa!
00:08:11I wish they'd give us a nice, you know, extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:23I'm afraid I'm going to fall off and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:27Today I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time in a province called Cavite.
00:08:33So we're almost there though, we'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous baby.
00:08:38Oh man.
00:08:40Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago, her family has been like these ominous figures.
00:08:45She's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially.
00:08:56I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that Sheena
00:09:01is going to completely cut them off financially.
00:09:04But now it's turned into something completely and totally different than what I envisioned.
00:09:09You didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14No.
00:09:15Oh man.
00:09:17First she told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26Well, the truth is I don't have a job.
00:09:28I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:30I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:34Baby, we can do this.
00:09:36Just be careful, babe.
00:09:38So at this point, I'm concerned that I won't be able to get the blessing for Sheena's family
00:09:43that I apparently need.
00:09:47Oh my gosh.
00:09:48Is that them?
00:09:49Yes, my love.
00:09:51Oh my goodness.
00:10:00You must be Forrest.
00:10:02Yeah, I'm Forrest.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:07Hello, sir.
00:10:09Nice to meet you.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you after so long.
00:10:12Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:13Hello.
00:10:15Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:17This is my dad.
00:10:22Sheena told me that her mom is sick, so I won't be meeting her.
00:10:22She's just a little shy.
00:10:23This is my dad's version, though.
00:10:26It's okay.
00:10:27I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:29I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:33No, I'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:42Oh, man.
00:10:43Oh.
00:10:45Sheena told me that her mom is sick, so I won't be meeting her.
00:10:48But her dad and sister seem nice enough.
00:10:50A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal, but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:57You want to take a break from traveling?
00:11:00Yeah, sure.
00:11:00To do that, can you show them?
00:11:02Yeah.
00:11:03Follow me if you want to check the gardens.
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:08So this is a place.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:14There's small improvements over the years.
00:11:18Wow.
00:11:20Yeah.
00:11:22Yeah, this is the place where we have our group meals for guests.
00:11:27Boy.
00:11:28Okay, cool.
00:11:31Wow.
00:11:32Sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof.
00:11:39Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:41Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:42That's why they're stealing all this money from me.
00:11:44But it turns out that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:47Okay, welcome to our house.
00:11:50Oh, wow.
00:11:52I think you're going to be on the second master's bedroom.
00:11:55This place is huge.
00:11:57Wow.
00:12:00So Gary was under the impression that her family might be desolute or they are going to starve without her.
00:12:08It doesn't add up.
00:12:12Hey, come on, come on.
00:12:13Thank you very much.
00:12:15Have dinner.
00:12:16Yeah, all right.
00:12:17Enjoy and relax.
00:12:18Yeah, all right.
00:12:20Thank you, guys.
00:12:27My mind's just confused.
00:12:29I don't understand.
00:12:31So you like the place?
00:12:33Yeah.
00:12:33It was way worth the getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:37Yeah.
00:12:38Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yeah, they're great people.
00:12:47Okay.
00:12:47Well, I think I want to clean up my face real quick.
00:12:50Yeah, sure.
00:12:50Okay.
00:12:51I'm going to head in the bathroom real quick.
00:12:52Yeah, go great.
00:12:53Go real quick.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest was expecting something different from what he's seeing at your family's house?
00:13:02Mm-hmm.
00:13:04Yes.
00:13:05Which is probably my fault.
00:13:07Test for the water if it's good.
00:13:09Wash your face around.
00:13:11Wash your hands.
00:13:12Yeah.
00:13:13I'm not going to be honest.
00:13:18I'm worried about what is going to be said.
00:13:22What Forrest could say.
00:13:24What my family could say.
00:13:27I'm worried that everything could fall apart.
00:13:37Do you think I'm going to marry you for your money?
00:13:41No.
00:13:42That's what everybody else thought.
00:13:45I thought he was that man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me
00:13:52on in the beginning.
00:13:53And now I don't know.
00:13:54The debt is a big deal.
00:13:58Are you excited about my show tonight?
00:14:01Yeah, I am.
00:14:02What songs are you singing at your show?
00:14:04Mariana, Vicky.
00:14:09So who is, who is Vicky?
00:14:26Look at that.
00:14:28You can't tell me that's not beautiful.
00:14:30We have like the second most active by the recent work.
00:14:32Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:14:33I'm so grateful that I live here.
00:14:34It's so pretty.
00:14:35Do you want to jump in?
00:14:37Okay.
00:14:38Come on.
00:14:38You know I can't swim.
00:14:39Don't play with me.
00:14:51You know what you need?
00:14:52Hmm.
00:14:53Right?
00:14:53Coconut water.
00:14:55We're good for your brains and good for your soul.
00:14:59That sounds good.
00:15:01What energy.
00:15:03This is Aviva's second full day in Belize.
00:15:07And we're here in beautiful San Pedro because I'm going to perform tonight.
00:15:12Yesterday, Aviva was accusing me of not being over my ex from Texas.
00:15:16But in the hotel last night, I do believe that I was able to calm her down.
00:15:21I think I'm old.
00:15:23How are you going to be so fine and want to trip?
00:15:26Huh?
00:15:26Stop stressing.
00:15:28That's right.
00:15:36We had sex three times.
00:15:38No protection again.
00:15:40We're risking it all.
00:15:41We're just going with the flow.
00:15:44How is it?
00:15:46It's good.
00:15:46Mm-hmm.
00:15:47Refreshing.
00:15:47You don't have this in the States?
00:15:48In Arizona?
00:15:49No.
00:15:49Not like this.
00:15:56You excited about my show tonight?
00:15:59Yeah, I am.
00:16:01What songs are you singing at your show?
00:16:13I am trying to have this romantic beach moment with Stig, but he mentions the song Vicky.
00:16:20And I can't help but think of when my Aunt Spring brought up that rumor to me.
00:16:26They actually just did a big concert like for Valentine's Day.
00:16:30The first song that was performed was Vicky, and she was at the concert, and they left together.
00:16:40So who is Vicky?
00:16:46The concept of Vicky is a girl I was messing with who had a man, and the man wasn't treating
00:16:54her good.
00:16:54She was married, and I was the little bartender showing her love.
00:16:58You know what I mean?
00:16:59On the side.
00:17:02So, is it someone you still talk to?
00:17:05Is it someone that you have a past with?
00:17:08No, no, no, no, no.
00:17:08I had a past with you.
00:17:09That's years ago.
00:17:12So, my Aunt Spring, she knows a lot of people here.
00:17:16I've heard a lot of rumors that Vicky went to your last show with you, and you left the show
00:17:23with her.
00:17:24And I just, I'm confused, and I'm just hoping that you can clear some things up with me.
00:17:36Aviva's Aunt Spring.
00:17:37I never met her.
00:17:38I only heard about Aunt Spring, but apparently she knows me better than I know myself.
00:17:43She, the Secret Service?
00:17:45I don't, nothing to hide.
00:17:48At the concert, I was there with the bros, trying to make a good set.
00:17:53You know, trying to make sure the staff members...
00:17:56But did you go home with her?
00:17:57No, I did not.
00:17:59I didn't go home with any girl.
00:18:02You don't believe me?
00:18:04Apparently there was some article, or you were tagged in something, or she was tagged in something,
00:18:10of you guys going home together, so I'm not really sure how I'm supposed to believe you.
00:18:14Belize isn't the fake news.
00:18:16Don't let get to your head.
00:18:22I am definitely gonna do my best to not be in my head about it, but you're apparently gonna sing
00:18:28it tonight.
00:18:29How do I know she's not gonna be there?
00:18:31It's just one of my biggest songs in Belize, I can't not sing that.
00:18:34Yeah.
00:18:35You don't want me to sing the song?
00:18:37My biggest, or one of my biggest songs?
00:18:39Yeah.
00:18:41Come on, don't do that.
00:18:46All of my exes, they start off saying,
00:18:48I'm not gonna be jealous, I got you.
00:18:51But , I thought the viewer was gonna be different.
00:18:55And now I am worried how she's gonna react when I perform Vicky, when I do perform it.
00:19:02Tonight could, the whole thing up.
00:19:06I don't want that.
00:19:08If tonight is a problem, that's gonna throw me off.
00:19:11I don't, you know, I don't know if I can deal with that.
00:19:14That's not what I signed up for.
00:19:18I mean, I'll do my best, but I just would feel more comfortable if you didn't perform Vicky.
00:19:23That's all I can say.
00:19:36I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you would want a green card and money.
00:19:48And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
00:20:02Do you think, like, I'm gonna marry you for your money?
00:20:09That's what everybody else thought.
00:20:12Did you think that?
00:20:14Well, I don't know right now.
00:20:15I'm literally just hearing about most of this for the first time.
00:20:20Birikhan just told me that he's 50k in debt and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt and
00:20:26just ignore it.
00:20:27I'm frustrated and incredibly concerned because it's making me feel like he's just straight up using me to get out
00:20:36of his debt.
00:20:40You know, that's not who I am, actually.
00:20:44If I was someone like that, I would have lied.
00:20:49I would have never told you about my debt, you know?
00:20:56I know that, but I want to make sure that I'm making a smart decision when it comes to future
00:21:03plans, like getting engaged.
00:21:06I just gotta hustle because money is money, you know?
00:21:13You know what? I'm ready to go.
00:21:15Okay, let's go.
00:21:16Let's go.
00:21:34What's going through your head right now?
00:21:38I'm pretty frustrated.
00:21:40He told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning.
00:21:44The debt is a big deal to me because he's talked about nothing but, like, honesty and pride and respect.
00:21:50And it's really hard to respect someone that's not outright and straightforward with the truth.
00:21:56I thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:22:04the beginning.
00:22:05And now I don't know.
00:22:10What are you doing?
00:22:13Washing the dishes.
00:22:19Why are you upset?
00:22:21I told you why.
00:22:22I'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did.
00:22:26Why are you mad?
00:22:28Don't be cute.
00:22:29That doesn't fix this.
00:22:31You think I'm cute?
00:22:33I'm not gonna answer that right now.
00:22:35You gotta ask.
00:22:36No.
00:22:36You gotta ask.
00:22:37I do not have to answer.
00:22:39You gotta ask.
00:22:39You think that you can't stop.
00:22:40Why are you mad?
00:22:49You...
00:22:50You think a couple kisses will win me over?
00:22:53You think doesn't?
00:22:55Oh.
00:22:57I'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are.
00:23:01But this is probably all of the fantasies I had had kind of rolled into one in that moment.
00:23:08Having a hot Turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you.
00:23:12I don't know what it is.
00:23:13I just can't resist him.
00:23:16You're adorable.
00:23:17I know.
00:23:18That's why you love me.
00:23:22You are here.
00:23:24Oh, that is hot out here.
00:23:27Look, look.
00:23:28Limo.
00:23:30Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:23:32This bougie chick.
00:23:35There ain't nobody sugared at him.
00:23:37I don't know why he act this way.
00:23:40It's like he assumes the worst.
00:23:43I'm already doing things for you.
00:23:45So why are you asking for more?
00:23:48Is that what you want me for?
00:24:05Get out of here.
00:24:09David, they didn't give me anything since this morning.
00:24:12You're new kid.
00:24:15I don't...
00:24:16Watch out.
00:24:19Okay.
00:24:22You ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:24Okay, let's go.
00:24:31I'm so tired.
00:24:34Why?
00:24:36Because we were packing all night, that's why.
00:24:43Yesterday was tough, but after we had argument about my ex,
00:24:48we went back to the hotel and we did makeup.
00:24:52Sex.
00:24:54It was really good.
00:24:57I love sex after argument.
00:25:00Oh, yeah.
00:25:02And...
00:25:04Woo-hoo!
00:25:06Excited!
00:25:07And it's in the plane!
00:25:09I know that we still have trust issues to work through.
00:25:13But today we are going to a romantic trip that Rick booked for us in Noosie Bay.
00:25:21First flight together, baby.
00:25:23Noosie Bay is a really beautiful island.
00:25:27They do have loomers and a beautiful beach.
00:25:33If you have someone to spend time together, romantic, go there.
00:25:40Laughter
00:25:46Look how beautiful I'm riding.
00:25:48It's beautiful.
00:25:49Yeah, I...
00:25:54M-m-m-m-m-m-m-m-m-m-m-m-m-m...
00:26:10Yeah, yeah.
00:26:12Yeah.
00:26:12Yeah.
00:26:12Oh, it's hot out.
00:26:14Really hot.
00:26:15Woo.
00:26:20Woo, it's nice and cool.
00:26:22Woo, finally.
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God, baby, are you serious?
00:26:33Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:42Look, look.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:26:52Here we go.
00:26:54We'll see.
00:26:57I know you got an expensive taste.
00:27:00You're so cheap.
00:27:04Tastes good.
00:27:06It's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08It's bougie chick.
00:27:11Are you serious?
00:27:13Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:16Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:18Oh, my God.
00:27:18There ain't nobody's sugar daddy.
00:27:28Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:32I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are a boozy girl, Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, and I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he acts this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:58I will never ask him for anything.
00:28:01Look.
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:11Okay.
00:28:12Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:17I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care, of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:28I don't know.
00:28:30So what are we here to do?
00:28:34Huh?
00:28:34I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37Yeah, but your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:50You just say, oh, you act like a bougie.
00:28:52Oh, you act like, I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:05I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08And I pay your rent.
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:11So why are you asking for more?
00:29:14Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:21It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need, but I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:39See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45No.
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:48Hmm.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:54Hmm.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love, but I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy.
00:30:18I don't even.
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31So what were you expecting?
00:30:33What were you expecting?
00:30:33What were you expecting?
00:30:34I know it was not a risk, Rick.
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:49I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:56What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:05I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25Sheena's family, they seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh, this is going to be mind-shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for you, aren't you?
00:32:00OK.
00:32:05Oh.
00:32:07I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So that is a taxi.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26Moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue.
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:34It's taxi.
00:32:35Moilue.
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:40Is this where we're going?
00:32:43The market?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market.
00:32:46I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:48Shh, shh, shh, shh, shh.
00:32:52This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:55This is nothing like the farmer's markets that I have been to.
00:33:03No one thinks the same.
00:33:07Let's go from here.
00:33:08OK.
00:33:10It kind of reminds me of a flea market, but a flea market with food.
00:33:14And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:33:18You can buy anything and everything.
00:33:21There are live poultry.
00:33:23There is dried fish, smoked fish.
00:33:26Hello.
00:33:27There are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market.
00:33:31It looks so beautiful.
00:33:35Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:33:37I just want to look at them.
00:33:39Oh, my goodness.
00:33:40Ooh.
00:33:42Be careful.
00:33:45Hello.
00:33:46Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:33:49She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:33:51I eat chicken.
00:33:53No, no, I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:54You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:55I had chickens.
00:33:57They were my pets.
00:33:58My chickens were spoiled.
00:34:00They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:34:04Yes.
00:34:06Really?
00:34:10Oh, my God.
00:34:12Bye, chicken.
00:34:15Okay.
00:34:15Let's go.
00:34:16Okay.
00:34:18I have to take you to the stars.
00:34:21I love fabric.
00:34:24Hello.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:26They're beautiful.
00:34:27Thank you. You're welcome.
00:34:28I would like you to check the one that will feed you.
00:34:31Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to wake up with you.
00:34:34He was there. You saw him.
00:34:38I saw you.
00:34:40I saw you.
00:34:40I saw you.
00:34:43I saw you.
00:34:43Tomorrow, we have to pay him a visit.
00:34:46Why?
00:34:47Yeah, because, you know, my uncle have to approve.
00:34:50You know, he doesn't know you that much.
00:34:53So, he'll ask you some questions.
00:34:57I'm confused.
00:34:58What has he not given us approval for?
00:35:00He was very happy at the engagement.
00:35:03Yes, but he have not given us the blessing to marry.
00:35:08The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:35:12In my culture, you get blessing from your parents.
00:35:15But my dad is not well.
00:35:17My uncle will have to call my father on the part back.
00:35:20I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:22I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:24I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:26That's just a proposal.
00:35:28In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:35:31This is Nigerian.
00:35:32I know.
00:35:33We have different cultures.
00:35:35We have different way of life.
00:35:36But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:40He have to see you dress in a traditional attire.
00:35:44Maybe one of the wrapper here.
00:35:48This?
00:35:48This one here.
00:35:49Yeah, this one.
00:35:50This one here.
00:35:50This one here.
00:35:51I'm not.
00:35:54You know, my uncle love her.
00:35:55He likes good tea.
00:35:56It's nice.
00:35:57And this is colorful.
00:35:58Yes.
00:35:58This is a hair tie.
00:36:00You have to tie this one on your head.
00:36:03Okay.
00:36:03Yes.
00:36:04On the head.
00:36:07I'm confused.
00:36:08You're confused.
00:36:09You're confused.
00:36:09You're confused.
00:36:13Okay, so it gets wrapped around.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:18And then it gets tied.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:24I can't hear you.
00:36:26It's very loud.
00:36:30Oh, my gosh.
00:36:31How am I gonna do this?
00:36:32I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:36:36I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:36:39And there's no way I'm gonna remember how to do everything.
00:36:42Yeah.
00:36:43I don't wanna look like a fool.
00:36:45I don't wanna look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:36:48Very easy.
00:36:49Very easy.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:51It's nice.
00:36:57What should I expect?
00:36:59Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:37:02We have to cut it.
00:37:03Okay.
00:37:04Yeah.
00:37:04We have to give it to a teller.
00:37:06Oh, yes.
00:37:07I can cut.
00:37:08But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:37:12The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:37:18Because I'm too fat.
00:37:19Yeah, it's time.
00:37:20Let me cut it here.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:22All right, thank you.
00:37:24I'm too fat.
00:37:26Baby, you're not fat.
00:37:28You said you're fat.
00:37:29Yeah, yeah.
00:37:30You're fat.
00:37:32I'm feeling awful, and I'm kind of taken aback.
00:37:35I have to meet his uncle, and I have to wrap myself up in two layers of this wrap, this
00:37:42big headdress, and I'm gonna look fat.
00:37:45Okay, make your wrap, please.
00:37:51I have to try to impress his uncle, but what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:58What kind of questions are gonna be asked?
00:38:01I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:38:06This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:38:10So I'm scared.
00:38:15You're welcome.
00:38:18What is that?
00:38:22Nikki.
00:38:24I'm the liquid kind of .
00:38:26I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage right in front of
00:38:33me.
00:38:36What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:52See, I'm outside in San Pedro on the main street walking holding hands.
00:38:57I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:39:00You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:39:12How you feeling? We good?
00:39:14I'm nervous.
00:39:15Don't be overthinking. Enjoy the show. Enjoy the entertainment.
00:39:20Okay.
00:39:21I'm an entertainer, all right?
00:39:22All right.
00:39:23We good?
00:39:24Yes.
00:39:25All right.
00:39:27I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song.
00:39:31But listen, I'm still gonna go and peace stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:39:35So, I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:39:39Ready?
00:39:40Semi-ready.
00:39:42Ready.
00:39:42I have to say it like me. No, you can't say ready. You gotta say ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:49Uh-huh.
00:39:50Come on.
00:39:54Oh!
00:39:56That's good, brother.
00:39:57That's good, brother.
00:39:59Trouble.
00:40:00Man, we're here, mother .
00:40:02All right.
00:40:02Aviva!
00:40:08Welcome to all the party people tonight. Sting the artist independent.
00:40:16I'm super, super excited to see Sting performing for the first time.
00:40:23But I feel super nervous.
00:40:27I still have my suspicions to what Sting's manager in Ant Spring had to say about Sting and other women.
00:40:35I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him, at his shows.
00:40:40I don't know what to expect.
00:40:43Anyhow?
00:40:47Anybody from Belize? Make some one nice.
00:40:51Big up.
00:40:52To all the girls that came from far for this one.
00:40:54Yeah, like...
00:40:57Lessons on long life.
00:41:01Too many things.
00:41:03The one time you ain't gonna wedding money, girl.
00:41:06Today I'm gonna meet your father.
00:41:08This is what I'm gonna say.
00:41:09I'm gonna marry your daughter, and can I have your blessings?
00:41:13That would be amazing.
00:41:16I know you think that I'm a bad guy,
00:41:18and I'm gonna break her heart.
00:41:22What is that?
00:41:27Yeah, we smoke, yeah, we smoke, yeah, we smoke, yeah, we smoke,
00:41:29yeah, we f***ing shit.
00:41:31Got some rum in my throat, got some hoons in my droop,
00:41:34and my f***ing play, you see me?
00:41:36Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:41:48I'm trying to enjoy myself, and I'm trying to be supportive,
00:41:52but he started playing Vicky after I asked him not to.
00:41:56You gotta pack up like Nicky.
00:41:58I'm Dali Potter you're trying to s***,
00:42:00but she know who's a rock, like Nicky.
00:42:02And not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl
00:42:07and flirting with her on stage right in front of me.
00:42:15It's just really hard to watch,
00:42:17and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:32You're too pretty.
00:42:34You're really too pretty, see that?
00:42:36You're too pretty.
00:42:41Watch out.
00:42:43You know that you're pretty.
00:42:44You brown skin, but you're here now, P.K.
00:42:49What the is Aviva doing?
00:42:53I'm seeing a sea of people partying,
00:42:57having the time of their lives.
00:43:00And Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife,
00:43:09much less my girlfriend right now.
00:43:10Like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on release.
00:43:19Yeah.
00:43:21You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.
00:43:25And I wanna give you love till you call, baby, just you alone, yeah.
00:43:31Ooh, it feels so right.
00:43:34Do the things your best.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:51you're distracting me i am so pissed i can't even think straight right now
00:44:04ah make this round make the fufu to be round
00:44:07how am i supposed to dip it up if it's round are you asking me this is a control thing
00:44:13with daniel
00:44:13right now call it very well no no stop raising your voice call it again he's pushing me really
00:44:22hard and i'm getting angry what the hell does daniel want right now can you stand up and walk let
00:44:27me
00:44:27see you want to see me walk yes are you walking my mom watch me come back come back
00:44:54i'm fuming right now by the way
00:44:58you're angry i'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat
00:45:04don't you know i got nothing to lose i got something to prove
00:45:13no no you're not fat baby come on
00:45:17and i'm stressed no i need to smoke my vape that's how stressed i am right now
00:45:26do you remember the promise you gave me i said i wouldn't smoke i tried to quit and i couldn't
00:45:33and i i am so frustrated with you it's not funny there are a few things daniel expects
00:45:43of me he wants my hair a certain way he wants me to ask permission for things i i have
00:45:50to ask to
00:45:50have a drink of alcohol he doesn't want me to vape and i did tell daniel i would slow down
00:45:57vaping
00:45:58but i just found out i have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing and i am feeling
00:46:04so much
00:46:04pressure of who i need to be for daniel so i'm stressing out and i want my vape
00:46:16you surprised me with the uncle thing how am i going to learn how to tie a traditional attire
00:46:24i'm going to look ridiculous i'm from iboland so we have to learn
00:46:29people people we have tradition and if this one to marry me she have to learn all this
00:46:39my dress okay for this yeah you look good you look good come on it's very important for lisa to
00:46:45learn my language and culture to impress my uncle
00:46:51come white that may be the one that's a traditional way of blessing by white okay okay
00:46:57you have to shake it after shaking it you have to drop it on the ground okay
00:47:03the ground must test it first then pick it up again
00:47:08mm-hmm woman blessing by one is is a taboo it's not good can i drink it yes you can
00:47:16test it but
00:47:17it's it's very strong it's very strong don't put too much in my glass
00:47:24oh
00:47:31yes sir it's cassava did you pound it did you pound it oh okay pounded one okay
00:47:40oh you do know that i studied the fufu online good i've done so much research about fufu
00:47:50it is fermented cassava i learned how to roll it i learned you flatten it i learned you dip it
00:47:57so i'm prepared and i'm excited to show him i can do this
00:48:01throw it try it try it try it
00:48:03uh-huh
00:48:04eat
00:48:09ew ew ew
00:48:13did i do it right you didn't boil the fufu you have to boil it you just swallowed it boil
00:48:19it again
00:48:22all right
00:48:24dip your hand
00:48:27ah make it round make the fufu to be round how am i supposed to dip it up if it's
00:48:32round are you asking
00:48:33me yes
00:48:36oh
00:48:41this is really good this is a oha oha soup i could just eat that i need a spoon
00:48:46use your hand to eat soup i'm not going to eat soup with just
00:48:50use your hand dip your hand inside the soup and take
00:48:54look baby
00:49:00i think daniel is just trying to prove a point to me but i didn't think he'd be so forceful
00:49:05about it
00:49:07i am in the nursing field and i work in caregiving
00:49:11i know what kind of germs get under your fingernails it's one thing to eat with fufu it's another thing
00:49:19to dip your fingers into the soup scoop it up suck your fingers and lick them dry that's no that's
00:49:26just nasty i think he's being very rude um have you taken your power wine no thank you can you
00:49:36test it
00:49:40test go on go on test test
00:49:46you have to respect this too i did i tasted it
00:49:56do you know what we call it in our dialect no my uncle my uncle hey i can't say that
00:50:02what does it
00:50:03mean my uncle my uncle oh call it very well no no you drink it you respect it no
00:50:12stop raising your voice call it again hey hey don't talk to me that way
00:50:22relax
00:50:25i'm done talking to you i hope you're not drunk
00:50:30what is that i thought you're drunk i took one sip it doesn't matter um just a drunk can make
00:50:37you
00:50:37change the system you're the one who's changing look at you put it down and talk nicely
00:50:44this is a control thing with daniel right now i understand that he's pushing me really hard to do
00:50:50things a proper etiquette way but he's being rude to me what the hell does daniel want right now
00:50:57can you stand up and walk let me see let me see you want to see me walk yes are
00:51:02you walking no man
00:51:03watch me walk you're walking no oh come back come back come back watch me walk i'm back
00:51:22so for the last seven years i've been hearing that sheena's family has been treating her
00:51:25awfully but all i know is i need to get their blessing to marry sheena i don't recall it what's
00:51:32your job
00:51:35the importance you have pants you know to help her well forrest
00:52:04sheena you ready to go yeah it's already late i think the boat is waiting for us
00:52:19i think that's the boat right there we better hurry up before they leave us
00:52:25last night was really rough we got in this big argument i just thought it was kind of bold of
00:52:33her
00:52:33to just tell me that you know she wants me to buy her stuff i'm not here for that
00:52:40we couldn't really come to an agreement so eventually we uh decided to put a pin in it
00:52:46and enjoy our evening together oh my god but i still feel concerned about whether or not
00:52:54i can fulfill her her needs slow slow slow oh thank you wow baby
00:53:12so beautiful today we took a boat to an island called nosy aranja
00:53:18this place looks like paradise i see crystal blue waters a sandbar that separates two islands that
00:53:27you can actually walk across it's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and reset
00:53:35you know take some scrolls along the beach
00:53:41i'd be afraid to swing that thing thank you so much
00:53:49do you know how to put this on your head
00:53:52i know
00:53:55seriously no i would have learned a skill like that
00:53:59we put it there
00:54:01oh man that's cool oh what it's not gonna fall no that's because you got all that hair up there
00:54:10you
00:54:10got like a nest up there no you can do it all right here we go here we go baby
00:54:19i'm here to find my future wife and i'm serious about trish being that one let's go
00:54:27she just has a presence that's so captivating it just makes me want to be close to her yeah i'm
00:54:35doing it let me see but at the same time we need to work through issues that we have in
00:54:42order for us to
00:54:44have a future oh my god it's hot i want to sit down
00:54:50man baby what this is beautiful
00:54:56i'm so glad that we're here that was a rough night last night yeah
00:55:03i want to apologize for what happened yesterday
00:55:13i just want you to know like i know that you are not rich so i'm not asking a lot
00:55:22just you do my
00:55:24need again that's it
00:55:28i think when you were asking me for for things
00:55:32and that you know kind of triggered some things that i've gone through in the past
00:55:38what's your name just past relationships and i felt like you know once i wasn't giving enough
00:55:49you know they didn't want to be with me anymore they just need to make sure that you know that
00:55:54won't
00:55:54happen again money has been an issue in previous relationships i was married to samson and frederick's
00:56:07mom cheney for seven years cheney is from nigeria and i brought her over on a k1 visa
00:56:15i think cheney had higher expectations than what i could realistically provide
00:56:21and it caused a lot of issues between us that's why i've tried to be really straightforward with
00:56:27trish about my financial situation you run without money i'm not gonna leave you if you don't buy me
00:56:38anything but i just want to make sure if you buy all my needs that's it that's what i'm asking
00:56:47you know when you bring me to the country i have to let everything in here my life my job
00:56:57yes i know yeah so i just want to make sure that she you will take care of me when
00:57:03i'm there
00:57:05that's the promise that i'm making to you a promise that i'm going to take care of all your needs
00:57:10i may not be able to give you everything you want like your ex that everything you need you don't
00:57:17have to worry about my ex did a lot for me but i was not happy with you it's different
00:57:28the way you talk
00:57:31the way you give you being fake truth i love that
00:57:38you think that i'm enough for you yeah yes you are you are enough
00:57:46that means a lot to me
00:57:47and i love you that's why i want our relationship work this is what i want too baby
00:57:59you ready to go have some fun yeah let's go i'm starting to feel better that trish is reassuring
00:58:10me that i'm enough for her that's that's that's what i need to feel because i think that being
00:58:17insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship i really do care about tree and want this to
00:58:26work
00:58:28but it's hard because i still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in colombia
00:58:36we're finally getting into a good place but everything always feels so fragile between us
00:58:44i really don't know how to tell her but eventually it needs to come out
00:59:16i'm just in time just in time for dinner
00:59:19it's perfect yeah thanks good stuff we hope you enjoy this this is our native food grilled chicken
00:59:27grilled squid and pork and our natural tropical fruits that sounds awesome oh dinner is served
00:59:45so
00:59:46see how it works in uh in america or in my culture we normally start with the eldest and we
00:59:50go
00:59:51okay we do so first since you're the biggest you start oh i am the biggest we go by size
00:59:58here
01:00:00okay i just met sheena's family and so far they're definitely not the evil dragons i was expecting
01:00:07for the last seven years i've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her
01:00:12awfully and now i'm hearing they are decent people i feel confused but all i know is i need to
01:00:23get their
01:00:23blessing to marry sheena and then go from there so um how's your travel here from america it was long
01:00:35and
01:00:36it was hard but i got to see uh machine for the first time now finally yes finally i'm curious
01:00:46though
01:00:46what were you expecting when you go here i was expecting um well i was expecting
01:01:01it's kind of hard to say i you know my mom's uh under the impression that um i might be
01:01:10walking into a scam
01:01:16every another there's in every place there's scammers no no no not scammers i should be meeting
01:01:24us tomorrow prove it wrong that's the rest thing that's that's that's it
01:01:32how'd you guys feel um when you guys heard i was actually here
01:01:40yeah i thought to finally because it's so long um we're not really we're not really sure if
01:01:48we're gonna meet you in person you know i i have to say a lot of it what had to
01:01:54do with
01:01:54finances i don't make that much money unfortunately
01:02:01just eat babe enjoy your meal okay um but the question is uh i i don't recall it what's your
01:02:12job
01:02:16yeah so this is kind of going to be mind shattering here i'm unemployed right now
01:02:30i'm actually uh receiving disability disability for for what so i have uh autism i have problems
01:02:38talking with with others like right now i'm having a terrible awful time
01:02:47so that's enough for you for your daily life it covers it covers everything in my life right now
01:02:54but i realize i'm not making enough to support a family right now
01:03:02but i believe i'll be able to get a full-time job
01:03:07just i just want the world for your daughter and i was hoping i could get your blessing
01:03:20well forrest of course the importance you have pants you know
01:03:30so you without any funding how will you survive you know
01:03:36the only way to survive is to get a job yeah proper job i have the energy i have the
01:03:42drive i just want to
01:03:43make sure you guys know i'm completely and totally serious i'm going to be working full-time
01:03:48and yeah be support for her
01:03:53i prefer that she has a boyfriend that is capable because it's the guy's uh obligation to support
01:04:03a wife and she now also is you know she's very helpful and look there no so talagang hindi mawawala
01:04:14sa akin yan
01:04:21okay you have my blessing
01:04:26but you're going to help her and she's been helping us also oh
01:04:34how has she been uh doing that sometimes if we lack funds for you know she would help us you
01:04:42know pay
01:04:42like that no oh i understand yeah yeah i'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow
01:04:54my mom and dad yeah they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys
01:05:02we're looking forward to it it's going to be a blast
01:05:07i should be happy that i got their blessing but i feel like sheena hasn't been 100
01:05:12honest with me what i've seen it's not the same as what i've been hearing for the last seven years
01:05:20the way she described her family the way they live the whole money situation the stories are not adding
01:05:27up and i'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to come in and going to think everything has
01:05:36been a lie this entire time she's going to basically flip out
01:05:53michael i want you to cut him out of your life so you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you
01:06:03or him
01:06:04yes you heard me right this kind of changes my thinking a little bit and i'm in about him
01:06:32yes i mean that was definitely fun
01:06:42i knew i killed it but i forgot my lyrics middle show my mind but don't be so hard on
01:06:49yourself
01:06:49i'll always be hard on myself
01:06:54i'm so tired it's been such a long night yeah
01:06:59we're just getting back to the hotel from stig's performance and i felt a little uncomfortable
01:07:07but i think i did well i knew i had to hold it together and just push my feelings to
01:07:13the side
01:07:16my feet are killing me you want to give me a foot massage
01:07:24maybe maybe maybe
01:07:28i had a good time i thought you did really well thank you
01:07:34so did i handle it okay like
01:07:38i guess
01:07:43you guess
01:07:44uh what'd i do
01:07:48how does this girl think that she handled this well like how
01:07:54you're mad at me
01:07:57aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance
01:08:01she's on her phone texting while i'm performing i'm boiling inside
01:08:07and she she she thinks everything is fine and dandy
01:08:13what please tell me what i did wrong
01:08:16when you're on your phone texting
01:08:26oh no it wasn't like that like
01:08:30it's gonna hurt my feelings
01:08:32being on my phone
01:08:33yes not the right time for that
01:08:36you weren't even watching you were
01:08:37yes i brought
01:08:38drop i'm literally performing
01:08:41singing to you
01:08:45i wasn't trying to be disrespectful
01:08:48it wasn't intentional but
01:08:51he was dancing with another woman in front of me and he played vicky even though i asked him not
01:08:57to
01:08:57do so
01:08:58it's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song
01:09:01it wasn't even a big event i just feel like it's not fair
01:09:12sorry
01:09:13i don't have anybody out here like you have to understand that
01:09:16there is all these girls on stage with you so i'm gonna talk to my people i'm gonna text my
01:09:21friends
01:09:22i can do that
01:09:24do what you want
01:09:30you're supposed to be on on my team a part of my team that you did not hype me up
01:09:35kind of killed my vibe actually that's why i feel like i forgot my lyrics i was just distracted
01:09:43you keep talking about these other girls this these other girls having fun hyping me up and
01:09:47my girl is there just on her phone it's my first time in a situation like this there's lots of
01:09:55beautiful girls around i just i felt awkward i didn't feel confident and i just wanted you really
01:10:12i didn't mean to make you feel a certain way but okay
01:10:26i'm kind of at a loss because i am trying my best to not get super jealous not overreact
01:10:35but apparently i didn't do a very good job
01:10:42i am worried that if he thinks i'm too jealous and crazy he might just break up with me
01:10:48i don't want to scare him off but part of me is terrified that i already have
01:11:07in the middle of nowhere there is dog
01:11:12i don't like those things why because you got they beat me or bark me
01:11:19bark at you bark at me okay no you're fine my english is your english is perfect
01:11:29so
01:11:38last night i found out that beer con has an immense amount of debt
01:11:45and i was worried that he really just does want a green card
01:11:50but i have put a lot into this relationship so maybe i just need to give it a little bit
01:11:56more time
01:11:56to see how red the red flags actually are
01:12:02maybe they're just a little pink i don't know
01:12:11there's lots of evil eyes yeah i like that tree full of them
01:12:21i wanted to show her different areas and different villages and also it is the place
01:12:28that makes evil eye beads there
01:12:33okay you there
01:12:39evil eye beads when you hear it it's like something bad
01:12:43but it is not it is for good luck
01:12:54when people see you if they get jealous about you thoughts about you
01:12:59the evil eye consumes bad thoughts and protects you
01:13:03the evil eye beads
01:13:08perfect
01:13:09oh you did it
01:13:11i got one
01:13:16in turkey everybody believes that superstition because
01:13:20you know people need to believe something
01:13:24not me i mean through reality actually
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting so she will enjoy.
01:13:35Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:47Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It has a tail.
01:13:55And it just roll.
01:13:58Apparently, I suck at evil eyebeats.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:09Sometimes I can suck.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:23Is this something like that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30They taught me.
01:14:31OK.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of dance around that topic.
01:14:39And I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:43We never had a good relationship.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:50No, actually.
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birhan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:11So hearing that Birhan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this.
01:15:22And it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:38But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:15:47person.
01:15:47My family is my friends.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:54For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:07I don't want you to be too close with him because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:16Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:24I will give you a solution.
01:16:29I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:16:35So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:16:42No, actually, it's not an ultimatum, you know.
01:16:45What is it then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:51We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:54When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:10He can't.
01:17:12This is relationship.
01:17:15This is the one who you get married, not some activity buddies.
01:17:23I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:17:33it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet
01:17:38and I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit.
01:17:43And I'm in about him.
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:17:52Hmm.
01:17:52So why don't you think a little, you know, I just get some air maybe or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me, especially when I've tried to be very understanding with the massive amount of debt that
01:18:27he revealed to me.
01:18:29This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:18:43No.
01:18:44No.
01:18:45He's not going to do that.
01:18:45And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better come and apologize, and if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:19:19No.
01:19:20No.
01:19:20He's not going to do that.
01:19:22He's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:26Let me.
01:19:28Where is my woman?
01:19:52Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:01No.
01:20:01I gave you .
01:20:02I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I did like this.
01:20:07It makes someone go.
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't want to.
01:20:09I'm not even going to drink it anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop can make someone go.
01:20:13Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it, Danny?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:19Ukuelu.
01:20:19Okay.
01:20:20Ukuelu.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:28I know.
01:20:28I know.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:29So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:32Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:35You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:40Come on.
01:20:56I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together, and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving is giving off warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:16I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:18My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:25We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:21:29You're not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't, then?
01:21:35Or should I tell him that you're preaching?
01:21:36No, you shouldn't.
01:21:37You don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family, we don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:49Yes.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:22:00How's this?
01:22:08You told me you are a man who can make his own decisions.
01:22:11Yes.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me without a blessing that you can't
01:22:16marry me.
01:22:17Yes.
01:22:18I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:22:22In my family, we have the way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want everything possible to make sure that my uncle gave us blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:33And that's, and the vaping is the only thing that you're very concerned about?
01:22:36That's your biggest concern?
01:22:37Yeah.
01:22:42Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:46Thinking of what?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape, but that seems really small compared to all the other
01:22:55things that Daniel doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me.
01:23:03And even if he accepted my past, once I reveal my secrets to him, is he going to have to
01:23:08tell
01:23:09all of his family that I've only been with women for the past 21 years and that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle about that, I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:26I'm here, huh?
01:23:28Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:32So cute.
01:23:33Maki Maki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it if I can bring a step-mommy home.
01:23:40But I want to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided does not want to have kids, I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:54Now that I'm in person with my husband, he's giving me trust issues.
01:23:59Remember what you promised me before you came down here.
01:24:03I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:06So, can I see your phone?
01:24:10Now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:23Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:28I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:30Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisini büyüyecek bence.
01:24:34Wait.
01:24:35What did she say?
01:24:38Oh, yes.
01:24:39Moment of truth.
01:24:42Man.
01:24:44This is so beautiful here.
01:24:46Holy .
01:24:48Well, would you look at that.
01:24:50Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money,
01:24:55that they're going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight, we'll get the truth for Sheena.
01:25:00She told us if she didn't give the money that you would mistreat her.
01:25:07Do you hate it?
01:25:12Uncle.
01:25:14You are not an Igbo woman.
01:25:17I want to know Igbo more.
01:25:20I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know about me.
01:25:24I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I want us to have this blessing more than anything in
01:25:28the world.
01:25:29Are you a practicing person?
01:25:31I have not always been, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:36Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:38I am.
01:25:40I am.
01:25:41Do you practice the otherlike regime?
01:25:42But I can't do it.
01:25:44I am.
01:25:46I am.
01:25:46I am.
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