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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 12: Final Boarding Call
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03God will give you people happy home.
00:00:05I bless you in a marriage.
00:00:08I say you shall be well with two people in a care.
00:00:11I have done everything Daniel has asked of me
00:00:14so that we can get married.
00:00:16But technically, I'm still married to a woman.
00:00:20And I have to tell him soon.
00:00:24Josh is kind. He's super sweet.
00:00:26So I'm going to Australia.
00:00:28Yeah, hold on. Where are you staying?
00:00:30He lives with his parents.
00:00:32But when I come, he's going to get a rental
00:00:35and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia
00:00:42to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night
00:00:46that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So yeah, I actually came with
00:00:55quote-unquote proof of me.
00:00:58I'm not being fearful too.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like,
00:01:01oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:02I don't even know who the f*** that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos
00:01:06and I need to see the text messages
00:01:08and make a decision.
00:01:12Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15I'm not good.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait
00:01:19so she could prove herself
00:01:21and then you just go walk up
00:01:23and pull this little sneaky.
00:01:25What the f*** am I doing
00:01:27sitting over here in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please.
00:01:44I want you to forgive me.
00:01:46I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:51I'd rather he told me
00:01:53before coming here.
00:01:56Please.
00:01:57Don't touch me.
00:01:58Don't touch me, please.
00:02:27It's a radio final.
00:02:34I feel like crap.
00:02:36Oh, my God.
00:02:47Last night was awful.
00:02:50Next time, I don't sleep.
00:02:54This has never happened before
00:02:56in my whole entire life.
00:02:57No matter how sick I've gotten,
00:02:59and I've never f***ed the bed.
00:03:01I'm thinking maybe
00:03:03the spicy food you have been eating.
00:03:06I like spice, though.
00:03:08You know, I drink spices
00:03:09and yours are not different.
00:03:12I don't know,
00:03:13but you know how embarrassing it is
00:03:15to wake up in the middle of the night
00:03:17and there's f***ed all over your sheets
00:03:18and it's just...
00:03:22I feel bad that I did that.
00:03:25I feel bad that I did that.
00:03:25Baby.
00:03:28I accepted it with all my heart.
00:03:31I told you that I love you.
00:03:33You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:35You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:36You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:37She woke me up
00:03:37and the stuff stained my clothes.
00:03:44So she pooped on you?
00:03:46She pooped on me, yes.
00:03:48She pooped on me.
00:03:51It was everywhere.
00:03:53I had to change the sheets
00:03:55with his help
00:03:56and I didn't know what to do
00:03:57because I couldn't stop
00:03:58going to the bathroom
00:03:59and it kept coming out of me.
00:04:02I'm so f***ing mortified.
00:04:05Are you going to call
00:04:06the housekeeper
00:04:07to come and clean everything?
00:04:08I will take care of them.
00:04:10Maybe I will call them
00:04:11when we are going
00:04:11to the cooking class.
00:04:13My stomach is still so upset
00:04:15and today,
00:04:16of all days,
00:04:17Daniel has organized
00:04:19to take me out
00:04:19to no other
00:04:20but a cooking class.
00:04:22A cooking class!
00:04:23Do you need my help?
00:04:25No.
00:04:26Are you sure?
00:04:26Yes.
00:04:27Okay.
00:04:30I'm so worried
00:04:31I'm going to have
00:04:31more explosive diarrhea
00:04:34but I'm going to cook for him.
00:04:36I'm going to try.
00:04:38I mean,
00:04:38if a man can love me
00:04:39covered in f***
00:04:40and himself covered in my f***
00:04:43then he must love me for real.
00:04:56Thank you so much.
00:04:58Be careful.
00:05:01Look how pretty this is.
00:05:03The table, Daniel.
00:05:05Look how sweet that is.
00:05:07Oh, this is going to be fun.
00:05:10It's so cute in here.
00:05:14Hello, madam.
00:05:15Hello.
00:05:16I'm Chef Rukaiat.
00:05:17There's lots of ingredients.
00:05:19Oh my goodness.
00:05:21So we're making oha soup.
00:05:23Oha soup?
00:05:24Yes.
00:05:24Oh, you're happy.
00:05:26So oha soup is
00:05:27traditionally an Igbo meal.
00:05:29First of all,
00:05:29I have oha leaf.
00:05:30That's the star ingredient
00:05:31for oha soup.
00:05:34Then I have my proteins.
00:05:37I have stock fish.
00:05:38Then I have fermented locust beans.
00:05:42It's very medicinal as well.
00:05:44Shall we start?
00:05:47The raw meat
00:05:48and the things
00:05:49that we are going to be cooking with,
00:05:51it's making me a little queasy.
00:05:55Especially the fermented beans.
00:05:58My stomach is hurting so bad,
00:06:01but it's okay.
00:06:03I can do this.
00:06:05Do I open it from here?
00:06:07Like this?
00:06:08Yes.
00:06:08This is beautiful.
00:06:11I'm very slow.
00:06:12I'm slow, honey,
00:06:12but I'm doing it.
00:06:14I'm happy.
00:06:15I'm just educating you.
00:06:18You're just happy
00:06:18I'm learning how to cook for you.
00:06:22It's very important
00:06:23to learn how to cook
00:06:24as an Igbo woman.
00:06:26I will cook as an Igbo woman.
00:06:28Try her best, eh?
00:06:29I am.
00:06:31In my hometown,
00:06:32if your wife doesn't know how to cook,
00:06:34it will make her to be going outside to eat.
00:06:37She can even get attracted by other women.
00:06:40I don't want to hear about that.
00:06:41I'm going to cook.
00:06:42Just leave me alone.
00:06:43I'm going to cook.
00:06:43Fine.
00:06:44This is stock fish.
00:06:45Stock fish.
00:06:47I'm also going to be adding the dry fish.
00:06:50The dry fish.
00:06:51Which, what kind of fish is that again?
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:54It is catfish.
00:06:55Oh, my God.
00:06:56You're happy?
00:06:57You're smelling the smells
00:06:58of what your woman is cooking?
00:07:00I can't wait to test the food.
00:07:03I'm very appreciative
00:07:05that Daniel is showing me
00:07:06his traditions and his culture.
00:07:08It means the world to me.
00:07:10It smells delicious.
00:07:14Daniel is doing so many wonderful things
00:07:17and making our relationship concrete
00:07:20towards a marriage.
00:07:22And I'm so happy about that.
00:07:26But at the same time,
00:07:28I feel extremely guilty
00:07:30for not telling him my secret shit.
00:07:38Wow.
00:07:39It looks delicious.
00:07:41You're welcome.
00:07:43I've already gotten blessings
00:07:45from his uncle, from the king.
00:07:48I hope you lack the food that I cooked.
00:07:51Oh, my God.
00:07:52I'm only one step away
00:07:54from getting married to Daniel.
00:07:58I have to start being honest with him
00:08:00as soon as possible.
00:08:03I did good?
00:08:05Hmm.
00:08:11This is so sweet.
00:08:13You're wonderful.
00:08:26I'm not having any right now, honey.
00:08:28I'm not eating.
00:08:29I was very sick last night.
00:08:31I have to be very careful.
00:08:42I want to talk to you about something.
00:08:48Well, you have been talking to me, so...
00:08:50No, about something different.
00:08:55You know how, um...
00:08:57I've told you I've been married a couple of times?
00:09:00Yes, you have made mention of that.
00:09:05You told me about faith, Dad.
00:09:08I've never discussed it with you, you know, deeply.
00:09:21Um...
00:09:23I've been married five times.
00:09:29Five times?
00:09:32You would be my sixth husband.
00:09:36God.
00:09:49We talk about this.
00:09:51This is our decision.
00:09:53Don't answer for him.
00:09:54I am an adult,
00:09:56and I will decipher what we want to do.
00:10:12The point is,
00:10:14I worry about you.
00:10:16I worry about Sheena.
00:10:19I felt this was the appropriate thing to do
00:10:21for our relationship
00:10:23to work and continue.
00:10:26We talked privately.
00:10:29She explained herself to me,
00:10:30and I came...
00:10:31Yeah, I'm sure she didn't.
00:10:32Did she ask for your big and humble forgiveness?
00:10:36No, she actually gave me a real explanation
00:10:39and told me what was really up.
00:10:41Then how about you enlighten me,
00:10:43or is that going to be private to you, Forrest?
00:10:48Uh, you know, we talked about, you know,
00:10:51her struggles and how when she starts to, you know, lie,
00:10:55it's because she has, um,
00:11:00she's had traumatic experiences,
00:11:03and it causes her to...
00:11:11So who says she's not going to do it again
00:11:15and again and again?
00:11:16Well, almost not built in a day,
00:11:17but she has to put in the work and prove herself,
00:11:19and she is going to prove it.
00:11:20Then why didn't you make her prove herself
00:11:21before you proposed?
00:11:26Forrest, you're more full of s***
00:11:28than a Christmas goose.
00:11:29No.
00:11:30Yes, you are.
00:11:32Everybody's got stress in their life,
00:11:33and then to say,
00:11:34I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie,
00:11:37and you're going to accept her
00:11:39just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying?
00:11:42That's no stability.
00:11:43You don't have any foundation.
00:11:45I will...
00:11:46Don't.
00:11:47Mom, I admit for everything that I did was wrong.
00:11:52Oh, God, here we go again.
00:11:54I have to open...
00:11:54Oh, you couldn't say it because you don't know
00:11:56how I experienced it in my past life, you know?
00:11:59I'm suffering from trust with people.
00:12:02Well, guess what?
00:12:03We can't trust you.
00:12:04You can't...
00:12:05I know you can easily trust me,
00:12:06but I'm trying to do my best
00:12:08to get things over, you know?
00:12:10Yeah, you're getting them over, all right?
00:12:12I'm trying to...
00:12:18We've heard this for seven years,
00:12:23and even up until three days ago,
00:12:26it was yet another lie.
00:12:28She's a pathological liar, I'm thinking.
00:12:33I bet you'd stay with her if she diddled
00:12:36and somebody else do.
00:12:38Hey, Mom...
00:12:44Wouldn't you?
00:12:48Mom?
00:12:49At the end of the day,
00:12:51Sheena and I...
00:12:52You can't answer my question,
00:12:54so that's all you're going to say.
00:12:55Oh, John.
00:12:56That's because your question is ridiculous.
00:13:00I'm so disappointed in my mom's reaction to all this.
00:13:05It's the whole reason why we're here,
00:13:06is to figure out how to bring Sheena to the United States.
00:13:10And getting engaged is a next big step.
00:13:15And her being angry and mad and saying nasty things,
00:13:19that's not how a mother should act.
00:13:22Mom?
00:13:24I'm going to...
00:13:25I'm going to take the dive.
00:13:27I'm going to go in.
00:13:29And if there's rocks,
00:13:31I'm willing to take it.
00:13:34But that is my choice.
00:13:39And you're going to have to be watching her 24 hours a day
00:13:42and be paranoid and concerned and wondering.
00:13:45And you have such a trust thing,
00:13:47which means you're going to have to be meek.
00:13:48Here you are, a future teller.
00:13:49Here you are, a future teller.
00:13:50No, Forrest, it's not a future telling.
00:13:52It's what we have lived through the last seven years.
00:13:56You think this is appropriate, how she's acting?
00:14:00This conversation about Molly, it's about you two.
00:14:02Yeah, but she's making it about her
00:14:04with all her yelling around.
00:14:06How the hell am I supposed to get a conversation done
00:14:08with all the time?
00:14:12We're going to make things easy for you, okay?
00:14:16Are you going to be part of our lives or not?
00:14:20Excuse me?
00:14:21You're going to give me the ultimate...
00:14:22Forrest?
00:14:23Mom?
00:14:24Accept this proposal or you're not a part of our lives.
00:14:32I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my
00:14:35flight to Sydney, Australia for the first time
00:14:37to meet Joshua in person.
00:14:40I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:14:42I know, I know.
00:14:43I want to, like, get questions answered.
00:14:46Yeah.
00:14:47After Girls' Night Out the other night,
00:14:49I ended up calling Yulia about the text I got from Josh
00:14:51because it was really bothering me.
00:14:53It seems like his life is falling apart as I'm coming.
00:14:56I don't know what to do.
00:14:58This sounds like a disaster.
00:15:17I appreciate you bringing this.
00:15:40What can we do now
00:15:43to make this right?
00:15:47No, I don't know.
00:15:51We just got back from Nusikomba,
00:15:54and after what he told me,
00:15:57I'm so hurt.
00:15:59I...
00:15:59I don't know what to do.
00:16:04I'm really angry that he lied to me.
00:16:08I thought it was something serious between us,
00:16:11and I still cannot believe.
00:16:14He was in Colombia with that girl.
00:16:20It's really crazy because he bothers me a lot with,
00:16:25oh, you're still talking to your ex
00:16:27and accusing me of cheating on him with my ex.
00:16:31Yet, he's the one messing up this relationship, not me.
00:16:39I didn't want to hurt you.
00:16:41No, you did.
00:16:44Just ruined our vacation.
00:16:47It doesn't have to be ruined.
00:16:48It doesn't have to be over.
00:16:50We still have time.
00:16:53I don't know, Ray.
00:16:57I trust you a lot.
00:17:01And I didn't expect this coming.
00:17:06I didn't.
00:17:07How can I trust you when you go back to your country?
00:17:11What if...
00:17:11She's not in my country.
00:17:13She can't go.
00:17:14I know she's not in your country,
00:17:15but you could go in Colombia, meet her.
00:17:20But I'm not going to do that.
00:17:22No.
00:17:22I have no intentions on ever being with her.
00:17:27I promise that I'm going to be faithful to you.
00:17:34I just hope that you can forgive me.
00:17:58I'm sorry.
00:18:01I'm sorry.
00:18:05See, it hurts so much.
00:18:06I know, baby.
00:18:07I know you've been hurt in the past, baby.
00:18:09I didn't want to add to that.
00:18:12Yes, you did.
00:18:13Baby, I didn't want to add to that.
00:18:14I'm sorry.
00:18:15Please.
00:18:18I promise.
00:18:22Don't promise me, because you did promise me, but see?
00:18:27See, it was hard.
00:18:28Baby, I'm looking at you in your face,
00:18:29and I'm telling you that I'm not going to cheat on you.
00:18:35Baby, look at me.
00:18:36I'm not going to cheat on you, baby, OK?
00:18:41I'm not.
00:18:42I'm going to do my best to make it up to you, OK?
00:18:52OK.
00:18:56Thank you, baby.
00:19:00I could have lost her for what I did.
00:19:03So I feel grateful that she is giving me the second chance.
00:19:11Do you need to give me a shower?
00:19:15You can go.
00:19:24I think that we still have time to turn things around.
00:19:28But it's going to take some work for me to prove that I'm sincere
00:19:34and to show her that I really do care and want this to work.
00:19:47I decided to stay because I'm already in love with him.
00:19:54But I didn't know he has different personality that he can cheat.
00:20:09And the way he acts, the way he solves problems, it scares me a lot.
00:20:14I don't know if I could trust him again in the future or after this.
00:20:19I don't know.
00:20:25I heard that you, you were talking about me, running your mouth.
00:20:30So you said a little birdie, all over town, wish you'd come looking for me.
00:20:42Oh, my God.
00:20:45Do you think he's going to think it's sexy when I go to bed in my red light sleep mask?
00:21:03Six, seven, eight.
00:21:09I need another suitcase.
00:21:13The day is f***ing near.
00:21:15I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my f***ing flight to Sydney, Australia
00:21:19for the first time to meet Joshua in person.
00:21:22I feel like I'm in a dream.
00:21:23Like, is this actually happening?
00:21:26I'm so excited to see him in person.
00:21:28Like, like, is he going to be affectionate and, like, touchy-feely?
00:21:31Is he going to, like, run up to me at the airport?
00:21:34Like, am I going to meet his family?
00:21:36Like, I'm not just going there for, like, a vacation.
00:21:39Like, I'm going there to see if he can be my future husband.
00:21:50Oh, my God.
00:21:53So these are, like, half of my bikinis.
00:21:56Okay.
00:21:57This is, like, granny style.
00:22:01This is, like, okay, like, I'm not having sex with you,
00:22:04but, like, maybe we'll go to, like, second or third base.
00:22:10This is, like, okay, game on bikini.
00:22:16It's been six months since I've had sex,
00:22:18which is the longest time I've gone without sex
00:22:20since I've been a freshman in high school.
00:22:23I'm literally a born-again virgin.
00:22:27I want to try and take a slow with Joshua.
00:22:30I definitely want to have more of an emotional connection
00:22:32before having a physical connection.
00:22:34But even if we do, his roommate is going to be there
00:22:38the whole time, which is, like, so awkward.
00:22:43I feel very strange that I'm going to be staying with Joshua
00:22:47and also a roommate.
00:22:48We have chatted on the phone a few times.
00:22:51He's like a chatterbox,
00:22:52and he tells me all the cool places in Australia.
00:22:54But it's a little weird.
00:22:56Why is he bringing a roommate to the rental at 40 years old?
00:22:59It seems like I'm going in a thruckle here.
00:23:01Like, Josh wants a nice place for us to stay when I'm there.
00:23:06So he's temporarily renting an apartment with his friend Chris
00:23:10because he can't afford it alone.
00:23:11So Chris is splitting it with him.
00:23:14If Joshua was honest with me about his living situation up front,
00:23:18like, I definitely would have split half and half with him.
00:23:21But I guess he was just trying to be nice,
00:23:23and I don't want to offend him.
00:23:24So whatever, I'm just going to roll with it.
00:23:29Oh!
00:23:30Yulia's here!
00:23:34Elise!
00:23:35Hi!
00:23:35Are you ready?
00:23:36Yes!
00:23:37Really?
00:23:38Hi, Sam.
00:23:39How are you?
00:23:41My friend Yulia is taking me to the airport today
00:23:44because I'm freaking out,
00:23:46and I need all the emotional support I can get.
00:23:49Should we do one at a time together?
00:23:51Yeah.
00:23:52Okay.
00:23:54You think you got it, or should I?
00:23:56How do we do this?
00:23:57Oh, my God.
00:23:58It's 50 pounds.
00:23:59I didn't sign up for this.
00:24:01No.
00:24:01You take this one.
00:24:02Okay.
00:24:03Oh!
00:24:03Okay.
00:24:05Go, go, go!
00:24:06Okay, okay.
00:24:07Before my hand falls off.
00:24:09Okay.
00:24:09Put it down.
00:24:11One down.
00:24:13Wait, wait.
00:24:21My goodness, Elise.
00:24:24All right, let's hit the road.
00:24:26Sydney, Australia, I'm coming for you!
00:24:33I know!
00:24:34So, are you excited?
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:37I know.
00:24:38Like, I really am excited.
00:24:39I've never felt this way about someone before.
00:24:44I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:24:46I know, I know.
00:24:47I want to, like, get questions answered.
00:24:50Yeah.
00:24:51I mean, I don't even think he can drive a boat anymore
00:24:54because of the work incident.
00:24:56That's so stressful to be happening right before your freaking trip.
00:25:00After Girls Night Out, the other night, I ended up calling Yulia about the text I got from Josh
00:25:05because what he told me was very concerning.
00:25:08I don't know what to do.
00:25:10This sounds like a disaster.
00:25:13He sells boats for a living.
00:25:15He's a yacht broker.
00:25:16And a few weeks ago, Joshua took a boat that his company was selling
00:25:23for a joyride with some of his friends and ended up crashing the boat into rocks.
00:25:28And he has a final warning at work.
00:25:31I think that it's absolutely irresponsible of him.
00:25:34The man's almost 40.
00:25:35I know.
00:25:37Oh, my God.
00:25:38We're close to the airport.
00:25:38I see it.
00:25:40So he might lose his job.
00:25:42I just found out that he lives with his parents.
00:25:47It's crazy.
00:25:48Like, it seems like his life is falling apart as I'm coming.
00:25:51But I really like him, and I'm starting to fall for him.
00:25:54So I just want to give this a chance.
00:25:59Are you ready?
00:26:00No.
00:26:01Kinda, yes.
00:26:02And ready as I'll ever be.
00:26:03Listen, if I didn't take this trip, I would always think in the back of my mind,
00:26:07what if?
00:26:07What if?
00:26:08What if?
00:26:09But at the same time, like, just, you know, don't carry your heart on your sleeve like you usually do.
00:26:14I love you with all my heart and soul.
00:26:18You got this.
00:26:19Thank you so much for taking me.
00:26:21Bye, I love you.
00:26:21I'll text you, okay?
00:26:22Bye.
00:26:22Bye.
00:26:32Am I getting pranked?
00:26:34What is going on?
00:26:37I applied for the tourist visa once I got my ticket to go see Joshua, and it got instantly accepted,
00:26:43and I was like, great, perfect.
00:26:46But I get to the airport, and they're like, your visa is denied.
00:26:51Oh, my God, I'm literally f***ing my pants.
00:26:55This guy keeps refreshing the system, and he keeps saying I'm denied.
00:26:59I've literally put my heart and my soul into Joshua.
00:27:02I just want to go into this with, like, ease and calmness and excitement.
00:27:07Why is this f***ing happening to me at the airport?
00:27:10Did it work?
00:27:12No.
00:27:13No?
00:27:14I got denied again.
00:27:16I got denied again.
00:27:19I'm telling panic attacks.
00:27:24The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
00:27:27And do we know if this is still going on currently?
00:27:34Are we actually calling?
00:27:35Oh, you're going to?
00:27:37Oh, f***.
00:27:37Get your questions ready.
00:27:54Babe, what are you doing?
00:27:56Are you going somewhere?
00:27:58Yeah, I'm going to go meet up with Anne Spring.
00:28:01Really?
00:28:02You're just going to leave me here by myself?
00:28:04There's a nice weather right now.
00:28:06The beach, the pool.
00:28:08Is he going to leave me all day?
00:28:10I'm not sure how long it's going to take.
00:28:12Aye, aye.
00:28:14Don't forget, right?
00:28:15My dad is coming later.
00:28:16Okay.
00:28:28I'm a little nervous because I don't know what Aviva's going to hear from Anne Spring.
00:28:33Probably more lies, but I don't want that to affect us.
00:28:36I don't want her to hear something really bad and want to end things.
00:28:41I don't want to lose Aviva, especially over this.
00:28:44Like, she would be stupid to have us break up for this.
00:28:49But I have a bad feeling about it.
00:29:00Hello.
00:29:01Hi.
00:29:02Would you like something to drink?
00:29:04Do you have a mojito?
00:29:05Yes.
00:29:05Okay.
00:29:06Make it extra strong.
00:29:07I will.
00:29:08And then I'm waiting for two more people.
00:29:10Okay.
00:29:10Okay.
00:29:11You're welcome.
00:29:14Hello.
00:29:22I already ordered a strong drink.
00:29:24Oh, is that the timing we're on?
00:29:27Sure are.
00:29:28Okay.
00:29:28Okay.
00:29:32Looks so good.
00:29:33You're welcome.
00:29:34Could we order something?
00:29:35Can I get a strawberry daiquiri?
00:29:37Strawberry daiquiri?
00:29:38I have a strawberry mojito.
00:29:40Strawberry mojito?
00:29:40Yes.
00:29:41Okay.
00:29:46So, mojito o'clock here.
00:29:49Yep.
00:29:51Last night was pretty intense.
00:29:53I saw you and Stig talking and it seemed a little heated.
00:29:58You want to give me your side of the story?
00:30:01Did he give you his side of the story?
00:30:04He did.
00:30:05He told me that he took a picture with a fan and that it was all just a fan
00:30:14interaction.
00:30:18It's a friend of Corinne's and the girl has no reason to lie.
00:30:23So, I got your frozen coconut strawberry mojito and the strawberry.
00:30:28You ladies enjoy.
00:30:29Thank you so much.
00:30:32So, maybe I should let Corinne explain.
00:30:38So, here is this picture and if you can see like his.
00:30:43Yeah.
00:30:46That's a little bit more than a fan.
00:30:49The girl in the photo, we had known each other since we were really young.
00:30:54She has been telling me about her and him for a while that they have been having relations off and
00:31:02on.
00:31:04So, when Spring had told me that you guys were starting dating, it was kind of weird to me.
00:31:11Because I know that they have a low-key relationship, but they do have a relationship.
00:31:18Sexual, everything.
00:31:22Wow.
00:31:24And do we know if this is still going on currently?
00:31:29What do we know before I lose my mind on him?
00:31:32I can like see if I can call her and see if she will.
00:31:36Maybe we can see.
00:31:36I would love to.
00:31:43Are we actually calling?
00:31:45Oh.
00:31:46You're going to?
00:31:47Oh .
00:31:47Get your questions ready.
00:31:50Hello?
00:31:52Oh .
00:31:53Can you hear me?
00:31:58So, Aviva, like what would you want me to ask my friend?
00:32:03When was the last time they slept together?
00:32:05Like when was the last time you and Sting ever like or whatever?
00:32:16She said last month when they were here in Placentia.
00:32:22Have they talked after that?
00:32:25Like are you and Sting like still communicating?
00:32:28Do you guys still talk?
00:32:31They still communicate.
00:32:33Like he ever tell you he's in a relationship?
00:32:37So he tell you he's single?
00:32:40He says he's single.
00:32:43Yeah.
00:32:44So he never mentioned Aviva?
00:32:46Hmm.
00:32:47Okay.
00:32:49I'm sorry friend.
00:32:51I owe you a night out.
00:32:52Hey.
00:32:57Do you still believe him when he's saying he doesn't know her and that she's just a fan?
00:33:02This girl has no reason to lie to Corinne.
00:33:05Yeah, she has no reason to lie.
00:33:06She didn't even know about you.
00:33:13So I have a real shocking text here.
00:33:20We do have an upcoming trip.
00:33:24Them together?
00:33:26So this trip is in San Pedro, end of the month, Friday to Sunday.
00:33:36Exactly when you leave.
00:33:42Sounds like this girl has kind of a casual relationship with Stig.
00:33:46Not like a serious girlfriend.
00:33:48But still, if she's telling the truth, they were hooking up a month ago when
00:33:53we were supposed to be exclusive.
00:33:56That's just crazy to me.
00:33:58I feel like I don't even know Stig at this point.
00:34:00And that's devastating.
00:34:08I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you.
00:34:11But I was scared.
00:34:12In my culture, it's a sin.
00:34:14They will banish you.
00:34:16I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell you.
00:34:19I'm going to give shots.
00:34:20Kick first.
00:34:35I've been married five times.
00:34:41Five times?
00:34:44You would be my sixth husband.
00:34:48About you.
00:35:07So why didn't you mention them to me?
00:35:10Why didn't you discuss it with me?
00:35:11You only told me of two.
00:35:13Well, you never really asked.
00:35:15And so I just never mentioned it.
00:35:18But there's...
00:35:21Yeah.
00:35:26I don't feel bad.
00:35:28You can get married to 100 men and divorce.
00:35:33But when you meet your God-given husband...
00:35:40It lasts forever.
00:35:44So what transpired?
00:35:46Well, they haven't all been faithful.
00:35:48Really?
00:35:49Yeah.
00:35:49Did they cheat?
00:35:50The men?
00:35:51One did.
00:35:52Okay, one did.
00:35:53The fifth one.
00:35:55So tell me.
00:35:57Tell me about these 50 men.
00:35:58What happened?
00:36:03Yeah.
00:36:07The fifth one was really bad.
00:36:10We were married a few months.
00:36:13And then they ran off to be with somebody else.
00:36:16And I couldn't locate them for quite a while.
00:36:19And I recently located them.
00:36:22Okay.
00:36:23And I filled out the divorce papers.
00:36:26But I'm still married.
00:36:30You are still married to the fifth one.
00:36:34I am still married.
00:36:40I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you.
00:36:43But you asked me to marry you in the middle of the airport with everybody there.
00:36:47And I couldn't say no.
00:36:48And I couldn't tell you that.
00:36:52So I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:36:57We are legally separated.
00:37:10You don't know what you have cost me.
00:37:13Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:37:16They will banish you.
00:37:17I'm sorry.
00:37:21I'm sorry.
00:37:25Daniel, listen.
00:37:26I have not been with this person for nine years.
00:37:29Nine years.
00:37:30We've been married, but we have not lived in the same state.
00:37:33We have not lived, shared the same bed for nine years.
00:37:36We have been separated for nine years.
00:37:38I call you on phone every day.
00:37:42After a conversation, I will tell you I love you and you will respond.
00:37:45Because I love you.
00:37:46You love me and you have not told me about it.
00:37:49I have not.
00:37:49Can you keep quiet?
00:37:54This is some months you have been dating.
00:37:57You never told me.
00:37:59No.
00:38:01I was scared to tell you.
00:38:04It took me a long time to get the divorce, but the divorce is almost here.
00:38:18I've told you all the things you've always known about me.
00:38:23I never hide anything.
00:38:26You told me you love me.
00:38:29I do love you.
00:38:32Sleeping with another man's wife, I don't think is love.
00:38:37I'm sorry.
00:38:41You're sorry?
00:38:43I'm sorry.
00:38:45My uncle came all the way from Goveri to Lagos because of you and I.
00:38:51My friends came.
00:38:54But I never know you have, you know, hidden stores.
00:38:57So I've lied to them.
00:38:59You didn't lie to them.
00:39:00I did this.
00:39:04I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell you.
00:39:09This is unbelievable.
00:39:12I don't know how to fix this.
00:39:14I, I, I'm sorry.
00:39:17Do you want your ring back?
00:39:19I'll give you your ring back and I'll leave.
00:39:39Oh my goodness.
00:39:51I've been sleeping with her.
00:39:53Sleeping with another man's wife.
00:39:58No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:40:01I don't know what to do.
00:40:03Oh my God.
00:40:05Oh.
00:40:08Oh.
00:40:08Oh.
00:40:11Oh.
00:40:18How are you feeling?
00:40:20Are you nervous?
00:40:21I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness.
00:40:24I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, Elise.
00:40:27I'm obsessed with her.
00:40:28So I'm hoping she will like me as much as I like her.
00:40:32It is definitely.
00:40:34What is it, a couple of hours?
00:40:34Yep, yep.
00:40:35You're f***ing yourself, aren't you?
00:40:36I'm just.
00:40:39The guy keeps calling the board of control in Australia.
00:40:42My visa's been denied eight times.
00:40:45What do you do?
00:40:46Oh.
00:40:49Oh.
00:41:02Oh.
00:41:03Oh.
00:41:03Oh, oh.
00:41:05Oh.
00:41:27Last night Trish was very cold and I felt like she needed her space and I've been trying
00:41:36to make the most of our last day here at Nosy Bay. Trying to remind Trish of how fun things
00:41:42could be between us. I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit. I don't know for sure.
00:41:53Why was the round so short? Like they was only into it for like 20 seconds.
00:42:00I don't know.
00:42:03Thought you knew something about this.
00:42:06I don't know their rules.
00:42:11Moringa fight started in Madagascar and you don't use something on your hand. You just fight directly.
00:42:21It's scary but that's the culture because before we didn't have anything to protect. This is why. And we keep
00:42:30the culture till now.
00:42:34We should solve our problem and I will win.
00:42:38Oh you will?
00:42:39I'll give you one free shot.
00:42:44We could watch them, you know, fighting here and then we could do some wrestling at home.
00:42:49No.
00:42:53I cannot forget all the things he have done. But...
00:42:57It makes me feel a little bit happy and smile.
00:43:01smile. I want this relationship to work. That's why I'm trying to give him a chance.
00:43:10Okay, this is the deal. You have to pick one, and if the one you pick win, we do have
00:43:18sex
00:43:19tonight. If the one I pick win, we don't have sex tonight.
00:43:25I'm going to put my sex life on the lawn in some other man's head.
00:43:31No, that's my rule, so pick the good one.
00:43:36I mean, dude over there is much taller, so I'm going to have to go with him.
00:43:41Okay, I'm going to take the blue shirt off.
00:43:43Okay, okay, okay. You got to get him for me, man. My sex life depends on it.
00:44:00I don't know the rules to this thing. I don't know how points are scored. Come on, my man, get
00:44:06him.
00:44:07But after everything we've been through, I'm just happy that she's even considering having sex with me.
00:44:14Yeah, keep that distance.
00:44:15I hate seeing people fighting.
00:44:17Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah. Get him. Get him. Get him. Oh, you open it up more.
00:44:22You open it up more. It's over. It's over. It's over. It's over.
00:44:32Come on. Come on, ref. Do the right thing, ref.
00:44:36Yeah!
00:44:39I'm so glad.
00:44:41I'm getting some, baby. Get ready. Get ready.
00:44:44We had a really good day, but there is no way. We are going to have sex tonight.
00:44:52I don't want him to touch me at all. It's too soon for that.
00:45:00Oh, look at the...
00:45:02That's what they used to use in the Jesus days right there.
00:45:05Yeah, we use it to carry everything. You'll see a lot of it now in town.
00:45:12Yeah. So, um, what do you think, baby? Do you still want me to leave your dad?
00:45:23I already told my dad that we were here and we are coming to visit them, so...
00:45:30I cannot go back.
00:45:38You're not going to tell him about what happened, are you?
00:45:43No, I'm not.
00:45:46My dad is really protected. Like, oh, my daughter is in a good and in right hands. That's what he
00:45:54want.
00:45:55That's what I want from you, too, baby. I want you... I want your happiness.
00:46:00And hopefully he'll be able to see, you know, how much that I love his daughter.
00:46:09I'm feeling more nervous and anxious than I was before about this meeting with her family.
00:46:17I'm worried about going there and dealing with their expectations when we're not even in a good place.
00:46:25They want a younger guy that's, you know, never been married and that is excited about having children.
00:46:33And, and that's something that I'm not.
00:46:37I love Trish so much and I really want to be with her and make this work.
00:46:43But right now, it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:47:02What do we do?
00:47:09This is, like, a fourth time system regression.
00:47:12I'm supposed to be boarding my flight to Australia right now, but I'm stuck here because my visa's been denied
00:47:18eight times.
00:47:20The guy keeps calling the border control in Australia. I am panicking and I'm freaking out.
00:47:26I am panicking and I'm freaking out.
00:47:28It worked.
00:47:29What?
00:47:31It's worked?
00:47:32We got it?
00:47:34Give me a high five.
00:47:35Let's get the s*** guys going.
00:47:37Come on.
00:47:37Thank s*** God!
00:47:39They got it!
00:47:40Thank you so much.
00:47:41If I wasn't about to go meet the love of my life, I would ask you for your number.
00:47:44The guy told me that I put my first name as my last name when applying for the visa, so
00:47:53it didn't match my passport.
00:47:56What a sire of relief because, like, I'm so f***ing excited to go see Josh.
00:48:01I always do this ritual before applying.
00:48:07I have to do it.
00:48:09I cannot believe that I am traveling the world for someone I've never met in person.
00:48:18But I'm doing this because I truly believe that Joshua is my partner.
00:48:24And I've never felt more ready in my life.
00:48:29Oh my God!
00:48:31I'm f***ing going to Australia.
00:48:45I am so tired.
00:49:12I realize that Joshua has had a left ear to accept it.
00:49:24Hey!
00:49:27Hey!
00:49:28Hey!
00:49:29Hey!
00:49:32Hey!
00:49:32My name is Joshua, I'm 39 years old and I live in Sydney, Australia.
00:49:37I'm sort of in between places at the moment.
00:49:40How are ya?
00:49:42Elise is .
00:49:43It is, it is.
00:49:46Yogurt, veggies.
00:49:48But my girlfriend Elise is coming and I want a nice place for her.
00:49:51So, my friend and I, Chris, have a rental that we have organised for when she gets here.
00:49:56Did she request all of, literally every bit of this?
00:49:59She requested a lot more.
00:50:01And how are you feeling?
00:50:02You're nervous?
00:50:03I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness, so it is definitely...
00:50:07What, is it a couple of hours?
00:50:08Yep, yep, until I have to pick her up from the airport.
00:50:11You're ****ing yourself, aren't you?
00:50:15Come check this out.
00:50:19What is it?
00:50:21I thought I'd establish a hierarchy really quickly.
00:50:24Are you kidding?
00:50:27It's in my bedroom.
00:50:29Wow.
00:50:30Elise is going to **** hate it.
00:50:32I like it.
00:50:36Tell me about this photo that Chris puts above your bed.
00:50:40It's typical Chris, you know.
00:50:42Jesus.
00:50:43You don't have to hang me right now.
00:50:45You can build up to it.
00:50:47She gets here tonight, so we'll see if it stays up or not.
00:50:51I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, you know, after talking for six months.
00:50:57Elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one.
00:51:03Elise is beautiful.
00:51:04But what I love about Elise is that she's an unbelievable listener and you can tell she cares.
00:51:11Elise is very fiery, but I think that's an attractive quality.
00:51:15I know when she gets here that I will be obsessed with her.
00:51:19So I'm hoping that she will like me as much as I know I like her.
00:51:24Here we go.
00:51:32What are you going to wear?
00:51:34Oh, blue pants, cream jacket.
00:51:35Wait, so we're wearing the same thing.
00:51:37How's she going to know who's who?
00:51:39No, I'm just joking.
00:51:42Today's the Melbourne Cup race, so it's a horse race.
00:51:45All of Australia watches it.
00:51:46This is something that Chris and I would typically celebrate together.
00:51:50Ready, Princess?
00:51:52Princess is almost ready.
00:51:54It's an excuse to dress up and have a few drinks.
00:51:57We're going to whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race.
00:52:01She says she's spontaneous, so I think she'll be okay with it.
00:52:04So we can go straight from the airport and the Melbourne Cup off a 25-hour flight.
00:52:15I'm now starting to be like, oh, it's actually happening.
00:52:19Yeah, big day.
00:52:22I'm jumping into a relationship with someone that I've never met, like, in person.
00:52:26It's so different.
00:52:28So, being a Miami chick, how do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
00:52:34I don't know.
00:52:35If she has a problem, it'll be with Nat, not me, I reckon.
00:52:37Yeah, if she has a problem, it'll definitely be with Nat, not you.
00:52:40Yes.
00:52:41Do you think American girls are more jealous?
00:52:44Do you think it's weird for them?
00:52:45Do you think it's different?
00:52:46Like, male and female friends?
00:52:47What do they think?
00:52:48You make a good point.
00:52:49I didn't think about that.
00:52:53My friend, that's a girl, Nat, she's just a special person that looks after everyone.
00:52:58Like, she's let me stay with her while I've been looking for a place.
00:53:03So, I've been living with her for three months.
00:53:07Wait, let me step back for one second, because Elise said that you told her you were living
00:53:12with your parents.
00:53:13Oh.
00:53:16No.
00:53:19We're here.
00:53:21Wow.
00:53:23I am...
00:53:23I'm nervous.
00:53:25Very nervous.
00:53:26Jesus.
00:53:29Hold my hand.
00:53:32I got you, boy.
00:53:35It is really important for me that this works out.
00:53:38You know, I dragged halfway across the world.
00:53:40I wouldn't do that on a whim or just for fun.
00:53:47But, you know, I feel a bit embarrassed, because I don't have a lot of stability in
00:53:51my life at the moment.
00:53:52And I know that's important to a girlfriend.
00:53:56But I hope she can see that I'm ready to get really serious and, you know, settle down.
00:54:03She's already...is she already here?
00:54:05Yeah, she just touched down, so...
00:54:07Yeah.
00:54:10I literally just landed in Australia.
00:54:13I am tired.
00:54:14I'm overwhelmed.
00:54:15But I am about to meet Josh for the first time.
00:54:20Oh, my God.
00:54:21I cannot believe I'm here.
00:54:23My adrenaline is pumping.
00:54:24Oh, my God, I'm gonna go do it.
00:54:26Beautiful lady.
00:54:28Hopefully my husband thinks I'm beautiful, too.
00:54:29I will.
00:54:30I'm about to meet him for the first time.
00:54:34You want me to maybe stand a little back or should I be right here next to you?
00:54:37Well, that was always the case.
00:54:37You weren't coming right up with me, right?
00:54:39Okay, right.
00:54:39Well, okay.
00:54:41Does she know I'm here, though?
00:54:43Um...
00:54:43I don't know.
00:54:44No.
00:54:44I didn't say anything, no.
00:54:46Okay.
00:54:48I have so many emotions right now.
00:54:51Like, I literally just saw on Chris' social media that Chris and Josh are, like, in, like, straight suits and
00:54:59ties.
00:54:59First of all, weird that Chris is coming to pick me up.
00:55:03I have so much anxiety already, how it is.
00:55:06Like, so much anxiety.
00:55:10Do you want a light massage?
00:55:12Take the nerves away.
00:55:15I've been envisioning this moment for so long, and I've already had a travel day from hell.
00:55:21So the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport, is he not comfortable enough to meet
00:55:26me on his own?
00:55:27Like, what the ?
00:55:30I just traveled 30 hours, so I have all this time to think.
00:55:34And I'm starting to spiral out of control.
00:55:37This guy is 39 and has a roommate.
00:55:40And on top of that, he has this job incident.
00:55:45And I'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me and the overwhelming pressure of, like, not trying
00:55:49to let them down.
00:55:51Good luck.
00:55:52Don't let.
00:55:57I've been wrong so many times, and I've done not only damage to me, but damage to my family.
00:56:02I don't have another wrong in me.
00:56:05Oh, no.
00:56:07Oh, no.
00:56:08Oh, no.
00:56:10Oh, no.
00:56:12Hello.
00:56:13Hi.
00:56:14Nice to meet you.
00:56:15This is my dad.
00:56:16Hi.
00:56:16When it comes to dating, my son is always drama.
00:56:20Talking to a bunch of girls.
00:56:21When he says that he's serious as Elviva, I have to question it.
00:56:25That girl said, you guys actually hooked up before about a month ago.
00:56:31So is any of this true?
00:56:50Oh, look, there they are.
00:56:51That must be his dad.
00:56:59How are you doing?
00:57:00Hi.
00:57:01Hi.
00:57:02How are you?
00:57:02Good evening.
00:57:03Hello.
00:57:04Spring.
00:57:05Nice to meet you.
00:57:06Hi, nice to meet you.
00:57:08I'm Aviva.
00:57:09Good evening.
00:57:09Nice to see you.
00:57:11Can I offer you guys a drink?
00:57:12Or what are you drinking?
00:57:14I would love a drink.
00:57:15I don't know.
00:57:16Did you try a Panty Ripper yet?
00:57:18You might do one of those.
00:57:20Two Panty Ripper, please.
00:57:21Yes, please.
00:57:23I had plans to meet up with Stig's dad tonight, and I'm really, really nervous.
00:57:30I don't want to come off as just this crazy girl meeting his dad for the first time.
00:57:36But after talking to Corinne's friend, I learned so much today, and I definitely want to bring
00:57:44this up to Stig.
00:57:45I wanted Aunt Spring to be here because she can ask all the hard questions and basically
00:57:51play a bad cop, and she doesn't have to worry about the repercussions.
00:57:57You took her away from me all day, Aunt Spring.
00:57:59It's definitely been an interesting day.
00:58:03Yeah.
00:58:03Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
00:58:06There's a lot to talk about.
00:58:08Oh, really?
00:58:11Aviva has been gone since morning with her aunt.
00:58:15Right now, the vibes are off.
00:58:17Aviva has basically been, like, ignoring my texts all of today.
00:58:23I'm pretty sure Aunt Spring is there putting stuff in her head, so I'm, like, I'm, I don't
00:58:29know.
00:58:30I'm anxious.
00:58:32My dad came to the hotel earlier.
00:58:34I gave him a quick summary of what went down with Aunt Spring.
00:58:38Last night, Aunt Spring pull up swinging.
00:58:41Yeah?
00:58:41Yes.
00:58:42Pull out the phone and ask me, so what is this?
00:58:46So I got a picture of me and a girl, and I hold her by her waist, and I did.
00:58:51Really?
00:58:53You sure you don't have done with this girl?
00:58:54No, no, no, no.
00:58:55I didn't even know this one made it for her.
00:58:58Where do we start?
00:58:59What?
00:59:01Jump right into it?
00:59:02I don't know.
00:59:03I mean, you're meeting my dad for the first time.
00:59:05I know, I know.
00:59:05This is very uncomfortable.
00:59:07Sorry that you have to be here for this.
00:59:13Aviva, maybe you should be the one to explain to him what's going on today?
00:59:21I mean, I talked to that girl and...
00:59:23What girl?
00:59:24Current?
00:59:25No, not, not to my niece.
00:59:27Yeah.
00:59:27To the girl in the photo.
00:59:29The random girl I took a picture with.
00:59:32Look on the reverse.
00:59:38What happened?
00:59:40She said that you guys actually had, you know, hooked up before.
00:59:48It was about a month ago, and that apparently you're going to San Pedro at the end of the month
00:59:54with her.
01:00:00So is any of this true?
01:00:02So is any of this true?
01:00:02No.
01:00:04No.
01:00:05I swear.
01:00:07I swear, I swear.
01:00:35I can see where Aunt Spring is coming from.
01:00:37It was probably the text between them.
01:00:39It was probably the text between them.
01:00:40What happened there?
01:00:41She said, my man happened.
01:00:44My man happened.
01:00:45I mean, I can see why you said...
01:00:47And so we called her to clear up that, and she spoke with Aviva.
01:00:50Probably not a good look, but...
01:00:51It's not a good look, but to me, it's not a definite...
01:00:53I would figure that if this girl really wants to prove that this is going on, she'd say, here's a
01:01:01text.
01:01:03That was the last one she provided with him telling her that he loved it.
01:01:07But have you seen, like, conversations, like...
01:01:10Not long conversations.
01:01:11Yeah, not long conversations, but the only texts that I saw were...
01:01:13Like, saying, like, well, can I meet you?
01:01:15Can I see you?
01:01:16Everything like that, that'll prove that...
01:01:19Yeah, no, it's about it.
01:01:22Young lady probably didn't even have my number in real life.
01:01:24That's crazy.
01:01:26I have no reason to lie.
01:01:30She just completely made that up.
01:01:32Then what do you need from me?
01:01:35Call me every day.
01:01:36You want my location?
01:01:39I don't have nothing to hide.
01:01:41Hey, I'm here having you with my dad.
01:01:43Do you think I'm not serious about you?
01:01:49I'm not sure if he's just lying and making this stuff up.
01:01:53But he did bring up a point that the girl in the photo couldn't provide solid evidence.
01:02:01I don't even know if she actually has Sig's phone number.
01:02:05So all I have right now is his word against hers.
01:02:11Well, I'm going to take your word for it.
01:02:13That maybe she's just trying to cause drama.
01:02:20What's the humor about?
01:02:21I don't know.
01:02:22Man's finger don't believe me?
01:02:24I mean, I don't know.
01:02:27I do feel that Aviva is quick to trust Stig.
01:02:32Stig may be able to fool Aviva, but he's definitely not fooling me.
01:02:36But I have given her all the information, and it is her choice to make her future decisions.
01:02:45And if I do later, you know, find out that, you know, you weren't telling the truth, I obviously wouldn't
01:02:50want to continue.
01:02:51But I do still want to work things out.
01:02:54Like, I want it, I want it to work it out with you.
01:02:57Babe, for the millionth time, I don't mind it could be a billionth time.
01:03:03I'm going to be as transparent as I can in this relationship.
01:03:07I live in a glass house.
01:03:08Nothing to hide, right?
01:03:09I got to.
01:03:12I'm glad all the drama is done.
01:03:15I have a clean slate right now, but I'm definitely worried about what else could come out in the future.
01:03:23A few months ago, when Aviva was hinting about being exclusive, I did take some steps and made some changes,
01:03:30but I wasn't 100%.
01:03:32I was still entertaining people.
01:03:34I wasn't sleeping around, but I was texting people, hanging around people.
01:03:38So, I'm not really proud of it now, but I was still unsure about Aviva because we haven't met in
01:03:46real life.
01:03:47But Aviva doesn't notice?
01:03:50Yeah, she doesn't notice.
01:03:52I didn't want to scare her away.
01:03:54And now that we've met in person, and it's what I thought it was, no other woman in the picture.
01:04:00I'm done with all that.
01:04:02Now I'm just hoping, and she doesn't find out.
01:04:05Are we good?
01:04:07Mm-hmm.
01:04:08Let's move forward from it.
01:04:09Okay.
01:04:10Yeah?
01:04:10Yeah.
01:04:16She called me a liar.
01:04:18She called me a scammer.
01:04:20But she's the real scammer.
01:04:22I'm sorry.
01:04:23I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:04:26I came here to tell you everything.
01:04:29I want you to go home, please.
01:04:33And he doesn't even know if she's a she.
01:04:35Oh, my God.
01:04:38Oh, my God.
01:04:52I feel like dying.
01:04:58I'm not okay.
01:05:07I've done the worst.
01:05:10I've committed the worst sin.
01:05:12Sleeping with another man's wife.
01:05:14I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:05:16Someone.
01:05:18Shouldn't have never known him.
01:05:20I should have kept it a secret.
01:05:24In America, they have been legally separated.
01:05:26No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:05:27Don't tell me in America.
01:05:28You don't have to tell me that.
01:05:32I respect my culture.
01:05:36I'm engaged with another man's wife.
01:05:38In my culture, we don't do that.
01:05:41It's a very big offense if you should do it in our tribe.
01:05:45It's something that will bring shame not only to me, but to my family as well.
01:05:50I could be banished because of Lisa, because of our lies.
01:05:56I want to go back to him, but I'm scared.
01:06:00This is forbidden, and I don't know how to talk to God, my God.
01:06:04I don't know how to talk to the ancestors, because I have to ask for apology.
01:06:12Daniel, I'm sorry.
01:06:15Daniel.
01:06:17Daniel, no.
01:06:19Daniel, stop.
01:06:20Stop.
01:06:21Please, listen to me.
01:06:23I'm sorry.
01:06:24I'm sorry I didn't tell you the truth.
01:06:27I'm sorry I didn't speak to you about this before now.
01:06:30I'm sorry.
01:06:31I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:06:34I came here to tell you everything.
01:06:38I love you.
01:06:39And I want us to be together forever.
01:06:42I'm so sorry.
01:06:45Really?
01:06:46Please forgive me.
01:06:48You're messed up.
01:06:50That's all I have to say.
01:07:04Can you stop?
01:07:05Stop.
01:07:10I feel empty.
01:07:14I don't think he's ever going to forgive me.
01:07:17And I haven't even told him everything.
01:07:21I should have told him in the beginning.
01:07:26I waited and I waited and I held off.
01:07:29And the worst case scenario happened.
01:07:32He doesn't want me near him.
01:07:34He doesn't want to hear me.
01:07:37I'm worried that I have lost Daniel.
01:07:40There's no coming back from this.
01:07:45I'm a f***ed up person.
01:07:50F*** up.
01:07:52F***.
01:07:57She called me a liar.
01:07:59She called me a scammer.
01:08:05But she's the real scammer.
01:08:16And I taught the, you know, white people tell us the truth.
01:08:29I've given her my heart.
01:08:31I trusted her.
01:08:33I believed in her.
01:08:36What did I do to deserve all this?
01:08:39I mean, for God's sakes, I've been separated for nine years.
01:08:44Separated.
01:08:46For nine years.
01:08:47Didn't know where she lived.
01:08:49And he doesn't even know she's a she.
01:08:52Oh, my God.
01:08:54When he finds out she's a she, I don't know what he's going to think.
01:08:59I haven't even been with a man for 21 years.
01:09:03I don't have any hope anymore.
01:09:10I want you to go home, please.
01:09:33Hey, Naka, forgive me.
01:09:38You're not going to forgive me.
01:09:42You're not going to forgive me.
01:09:48You're not going to forgive me.
01:10:09Oh, my God.
01:10:12So why are you so dressed up?
01:10:13It's Melbourne Cup Day.
01:10:15Do you want to come and have a few drinks?
01:10:17The last thing I thought possible was, one, to bring Chris,
01:10:21and, two, to take me to a bar the second I landed at the airport.
01:10:27After a few tequilas, you won't even forget that you haven't had showered or put makeup on or done your
01:10:32hair.
01:10:46Oh, man.
01:11:05Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
01:11:21Oh, my God.
01:11:23It's all right.
01:11:24Oh, my God.
01:11:27I'm literally shaking.
01:11:29It's all right.
01:11:30I'm so happy I'm finally touching you.
01:11:32Yes, I know, same.
01:11:34Far out.
01:11:36You're sexy.
01:11:37So are you.
01:11:38Don't leave my side.
01:11:44Oh, my God, I'm so happy to see you.
01:11:46You're so sexy, I think.
01:11:48All you think is you're the tired.
01:11:49No, I know.
01:11:50I know.
01:11:51I know.
01:11:52I know.
01:11:56It feels really, really good.
01:11:57Finally.
01:11:58Finally.
01:11:59How good does it feel?
01:12:01Amazing.
01:12:02How does she look?
01:12:03She looks amazing.
01:12:05Do you feel like you look amazing?
01:12:06No, I feel like I look like absolute s**t.
01:12:08What are you talking about?
01:12:09I did not want him to see me for the first time looking like this, especially when he's
01:12:13dressed up like this.
01:12:15Like, it's like an oxymoron.
01:12:17Right?
01:12:17Wait, oxymoron means s**t, s**t, s**t.
01:12:20Wait.
01:12:22I don't know, but I just feel like he looks really good and, like, I just look, like,
01:12:27slumming.
01:12:27You look amazing.
01:12:28I need reassurance every five minutes.
01:12:30Okay, I'm happy to do that.
01:12:31Every three.
01:12:34You actually look exactly what I thought.
01:12:36Perfect.
01:12:36No.
01:12:37So do you.
01:12:38So do you.
01:12:39I was so s**t scared, and I had so much anxiety, but then seeing him standing there and seeing
01:12:46the look in his eyes, I felt like I just have to follow my heart, and, like, I have to
01:12:50give this a chance.
01:12:51And then I hugged him, and I felt like I've known him for years.
01:12:54I really didn't expect to feel this comfortable this soon.
01:12:58So why are you so dressed up?
01:13:00Um, because it's Melbourne Cup Day.
01:13:03This is the biggest day of the year.
01:13:05Okay.
01:13:06So we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few drinks and let your hair down.
01:13:10I know that you're probably jet-lagged.
01:13:13I'm tired.
01:13:14I feel like s**t.
01:13:15I look like s**t.
01:13:16I need a shower.
01:13:17We don't have time.
01:13:19So where are we going to undo it?
01:13:21Oh!
01:13:23Chris!
01:13:25Can I tell her that we don't have time?
01:13:27Yeah, we're going out.
01:13:28We're going out.
01:13:29Yeah.
01:13:30I know it's bad timing, but after a few tequilas, you won't even forget that you haven't had showered or
01:13:36put makeup on or done your hair.
01:13:39Yep.
01:13:39And time is a factor, so.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41It is?
01:13:42So, yeah.
01:13:43Yes.
01:13:43First race is in 13 minutes.
01:13:46If it makes you happy, I'll do it, but I feel really uncomfortable.
01:13:50You guys look very good, and I s**t like a trainer.
01:13:53Something in your 50 bags.
01:13:55So, should we do it right here?
01:13:58No, I didn't think that far ahead.
01:13:59Surely Josh did.
01:14:00I think we can open up all my suitcases, and we can have, like, a party of what Elise could
01:14:04wear.
01:14:04I like when people pick out my outfit.
01:14:06Yeah.
01:14:06Let's start now.
01:14:11Each boy grab a suitcase and open it up.
01:14:20I see dresses.
01:14:22Josh would like that on me.
01:14:24I send him a picture.
01:14:26I kind of want to dress sluttier.
01:14:29Dress what?
01:14:30Sluttier.
01:14:31No, you dress how you want.
01:14:32I don't mind.
01:14:33I don't need a bra or underwear with this dress.
01:14:36That saves time.
01:14:37Saves time?
01:14:38Yeah, that's time.
01:14:38Let's get ready.
01:14:41All right.
01:14:42I will go get ready in the bathroom.
01:14:43Yep.
01:14:44We'll be outside.
01:14:45Just here.
01:14:45Right here.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48I like that she's a trooper.
01:14:49That is attractive.
01:14:50If you're someone that's sort of like, yep, you know what?
01:14:52You want to do it?
01:14:52Let's do it.
01:14:58So what do you think about it?
01:15:00Good.
01:15:00That went well, I think.
01:15:02Yeah.
01:15:02Yeah.
01:15:03She is a firecracker.
01:15:04Yeah.
01:15:06I just can't believe that I'm actually getting ready in a bathroom at the airport to go to
01:15:11a bar to watch an event.
01:15:13I really just hope Josh sees how much, like, effort I'm putting into this relationship.
01:15:20Obviously, this isn't the ideal first day with Josh.
01:15:24The last thing I thought possible was, one, to bring Chris, and two, to take me to a bar the
01:15:31second I landed
01:15:33at the airport.
01:15:35But I flew across the world to, like, get a glimpse of his life and figure out if he's
01:15:39the person I want to be with.
01:15:41Everything seems good right now.
01:15:43Our connection and our chemistry was, like, it's there.
01:15:46So I'm really going to just try and make the best of it.
01:15:52I am here.
01:15:54Oi.
01:15:55There she is.
01:15:56You look stunning.
01:15:58I'm not even wearing underwear.
01:15:59Oh, well.
01:16:01Just hope it doesn't get too windy.
01:16:06All right.
01:16:07Well, now I'm dressed like you boys.
01:16:09Better, I'd say.
01:16:10It's the three musketeers.
01:16:19Are you going to be part of our lives or not?
01:16:23You're going to give me the ultimate...
01:16:24Forrest?
01:16:25Hmm.
01:16:27I'm just a little bit...
01:16:29Excuse me?
01:16:29You know...
01:16:30Excuse me?
01:16:31You going on your little task?
01:16:32You have...
01:16:32I don't like the attitude you're having.
01:16:45You made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle my decisions.
01:16:51You seem like you're way too stressed out.
01:16:54We don't want to cause you any more stress.
01:16:59Well, you're the big man now, aren't you?
01:17:00You're the big grown-up that can handle all the...
01:17:03and make all the decisions on his own, right?
01:17:07Yes.
01:17:09Yes, I am.
01:17:13I have always had to protect Forrest because of his autism.
01:17:20And it's happened before where he's been taken advantage of
01:17:24and used and hurt deeply.
01:17:29I'm absolutely positive that Sheena manipulated Forrest again
01:17:33just so that he would propose to her.
01:17:36But in the grand scheme of things,
01:17:39Forrest is going to do what Forrest wants to do.
01:17:43And now I feel like I lost my son.
01:17:47I really feel like I lost my son.
01:17:51And it makes me really sad.
01:17:58You know, Forrest, you have done this crap to me over and over again.
01:18:03And I am tired.
01:18:06I am so tired.
01:18:08I am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into.
01:18:14And then when I crawl up to grab you out again
01:18:18and crawl up to save you out of a situation
01:18:21or to help you,
01:18:22you turn around and you give me the big bird.
01:18:25Well, it's none of your effing business, Mom.
01:18:29And do you think that the next time
01:18:33it crumbles and falls
01:18:34that when you go to pick up the phone
01:18:36to call me to save you
01:18:37that I'm going to be there?
01:18:38I promise, I won't come to you.
01:18:44Sheena and I are going to move forward.
01:18:47Okay?
01:18:48You're going to be in our lives, but...
01:18:51You think?
01:18:51I think.
01:18:53You might be surprised, Forrest.
01:18:55Oh, well...
01:18:55You just might be surprised.
01:19:00All right, well...
01:19:04Have a good night to you both.
01:19:11I'm sorry, my love.
01:19:13Thank you for standing over me.
01:19:16It's okay, baby.
01:19:19It's hard to think
01:19:21that my mom would actually step away from my life
01:19:25rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
01:19:29I never thought it would come to this
01:19:32and that my own mother would put me in this situation.
01:19:38Losing my mom is something
01:19:40I've never expected to lose on this trip.
01:19:43I lost my best friend,
01:19:46the person who's been with me my entire life,
01:19:48the person who gave birth to me.
01:19:51And it's tearing me apart.
01:19:54My God.
01:19:56It is time that Mommy just cut it.
01:20:01Mommy has to let him be the man
01:20:03and take the knocks and not bail him out.
01:20:07Forrest is on his own now.
01:20:09Yep.
01:20:16Oh, God, I'm starting to be like Sheena.
01:20:19Oh, my God.
01:20:23I told him the truth
01:20:24and he won't even talk to me.
01:20:26Did you even tell him about the women?
01:20:28No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:20:31He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:20:34Yes, he is.
01:20:36I can't tell him that.
01:20:37I can't tell him.
01:20:39You have to.
01:20:40I can't.
01:20:50Daniel.
01:20:51Daniel.
01:20:54Daniel.
01:21:24I don't think it's a good idea
01:21:26for us to stay together.
01:21:28So I'm going to get myself a different room.
01:21:44Hi, do you want to have a separate room, please?
01:21:48Hi.
01:21:49Let's do it.
01:22:03Hi.
01:22:06I just told Daniel how many times I was married
01:22:08and that I'm still married.
01:22:11Okay.
01:22:12He didn't take it very well.
01:22:15And I'm in a whole different room.
01:22:18I told him the truth and he won't even talk to me.
01:22:25No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:22:27I've only told him about the marriages.
01:22:42Yes, he is.
01:22:43I can't tell him that.
01:22:45I can't tell him.
01:22:46You have to.
01:22:47I can't.
01:22:49He's never going to forgive this.
01:22:51I was going to forgive that.
01:22:53I know you don't want to tell him so you can stay together.
01:22:57But you, he will find out eventually.
01:23:06I'm sorry.
01:23:08Daniel is the one forever face.
01:23:11He's really the one.
01:23:13I want him face.
01:23:15I want Daniel.
01:23:18I want Daniel.
01:23:20I don't want this to be over.
01:23:24I don't want this to be over.
01:23:30We're here.
01:23:31Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:34Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, not leading with sex, but at the
01:23:41same time, he's hot, and I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might
01:23:47be getting.
01:23:47It's okay.
01:23:48Josh!
01:23:52We're packing up to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
01:23:56This is like make or break.
01:23:59I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
01:24:01to be introduced to your family.
01:24:04I told you, yes.
01:24:05So what else do you want?
01:24:07Just tell me now.
01:24:09Just tell me.
01:24:12Emma!
01:24:13Maddie!
01:24:14You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
01:24:17What's wrong?
01:24:18It literally went to with him leaving me alone in the desert.
01:24:22Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
01:24:25Don't be mad.
01:24:26What?
01:24:29Who is it?
01:24:30Mohammed.
01:24:31Oh, my God.
01:24:32Hello?
01:24:34The other night, I called my friend Michael, because I have concerns.
01:24:39And now Michael has the same concerns.
01:24:42He has no place in our relationship.
01:24:44Well, he wants to come here.
01:24:46He already bought a flight.
01:24:49What?
01:24:50Oh, my God, I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:24:54Oh, my God, I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:24:56Oh, my God, I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:24:57Oh, my God.
01:24:58I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
01:25:02I'm going to wipe the tears, and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
01:25:05I'm asking you to give me a chance.
01:25:08I planned a small romantic getaway.
01:25:11Is this a kind of, um, trap?
01:25:18Is this being romantic?
01:25:20Yeah.
01:25:20Did I pass the test today?
01:25:21Kind of.
01:25:22Okay.
01:25:23You still have to be nicer to each other.
01:25:25I think that you got comfortable.
01:25:27Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
01:25:30You don't want to, bitchy wife, don't be a asshole.
01:25:35I'm like, I don't have to talk.
01:25:37I don't want to see you ever again.
01:25:39Don't come home, ever.
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