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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 13: Losing Altitude
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:05Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Ready for mama?
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35She's pretty much here.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Vierkon has admitted to me that he
00:00:45has a substantial amount of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about gambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:04OK.
00:01:07You should solve our problem right there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26I mean, Trish is starting to warm up a little bit.
00:01:29But it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:35I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46But she's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy to be with her,
00:02:12but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:02:37I'm sorry.
00:02:38This is my son.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:02Yeah.
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:38So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talked to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him and then about 11.08 p.m. I said, I love you with all my
00:03:57heart.
00:03:58He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:09He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:15Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now, what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days and we're supposed to
00:04:38leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this when I've already paid, made plans to take him somewhere
00:04:45special and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So what I'm hoping is seeing him, telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for and hopefully he'll
00:04:58come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because of what transpired.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:19So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:30And I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way shows that he's desperately in love with me and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:39Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not judging you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um,
00:07:15you have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:40Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But, at the same time,
00:07:55I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34So, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:37Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15Why is she love Lisa?
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:21She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she have not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:28It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:10:00Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:22Oh, I love mountains.
00:10:24I do, too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:31I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounced.
00:10:54I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love.
00:11:11Everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:14It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a walking surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Oh, my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:18Play revisit Ephesus.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from next century BC.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is, like, carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49No?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:05I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah.
00:14:14That makes two of us.
00:14:16But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So, the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:32Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns about our relationship.
00:14:47You have concerns about our relationship.
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:51I have concerns because you are still communicating with Michael.
00:14:57And talking about our relationship, and talking about our relationship, he has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:13Perfect.
00:15:17No, there is no point.
00:15:22He already bought a flight.
00:15:29What?
00:15:33He's coming.
00:15:38He's coming.
00:15:40He's coming.
00:15:52He's coming.
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, um, you know, I'm glad you came, because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:12Who does that?
00:16:15So you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:28Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me so, like, I can get in the car because I'm
00:16:51really full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:54I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:56Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Jesus Christ.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me a horse number.
00:17:21I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay.
00:17:36What's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose, Presage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa.
00:17:43No.
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out on the town to see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:09But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:15What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31Elise, 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:37Oh, f***, you guys work in feet.
00:18:39F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited.
00:18:42Pretty central.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:53But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down a thousand.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:09Jesus, man.
00:19:11I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for no.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:34Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:36Yeah.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:02Yeah.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05Oh, this is much needed.
00:20:07No.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Thanks.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheesies, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah.
00:20:17But, you know, I'm glad you came.
00:20:20Because you're one of my best friends.
00:20:23And, you know, as soon as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:42Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:20:54I'm lost.
00:20:55Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58I'll start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to get here.
00:21:03So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:08So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:14Thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:25I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, I could party a bit, yeah.
00:21:50Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with me and my
00:22:19cat and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially, but he parties a
00:22:32lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:38I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that, yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:46To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not cheersing to that.
00:22:50No, no, no.
00:22:51No, no, no.
00:23:12How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:23:26He seems better today.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Hmm?
00:23:32Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:37We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom, but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we had
00:23:44to run him to the vet.
00:23:46Oh, look at you and your comb.
00:23:48You don't like the comb.
00:23:50Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream comb.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:01And so, today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast and finally get to know Giovanni more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Giovanni!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clogged.
00:24:23What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:26No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:36I don't want to see it.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad then.
00:24:48First thing, the papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:57I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:09Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this and then I just...
00:25:14Yes, that's the point of the water.
00:25:17Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:23I'm going to go wash off at Mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, Ma, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:46Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47It's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Oh, okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:57Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:26:00And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:05Oh, okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig in.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great.
00:26:19And I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in-law.
00:26:25Jigon.
00:26:26Hmm.
00:26:27Mosta naman yung tulog mo pag-gabi.
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:33My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:41Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:42Yeah.
00:26:43Tapit bahay.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45Pero saya na ako na nandito ka na.
00:26:48She said she's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52Kailan hanggang kailan ka dito?
00:26:55Till when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02Ang bilis naman ano.
00:27:04She said it's too fast.
00:27:05I don't know.
00:27:07Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12I don't want to.
00:27:15It was about my daughter.
00:27:19Come with me.
00:27:47In six years of waiting for my son, I don't know what to do for her.
00:27:53She said for six years that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:59I was so worried about her.
00:28:03Because she was, sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:28:07And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long though, but I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:12I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:15I promise, okay?
00:28:16Alright.
00:28:17Do you understand, Mom?
00:28:19There are a lot of things that have happened.
00:28:22What?
00:28:23That...
00:28:23I don't know if I'm scared.
00:28:28If the child is hurt, the child is hurt.
00:28:33I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:28:37I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:28:40And we've been married for three years.
00:28:44And we still don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:49He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship for the rest of our lives.
00:29:02I don't want to.
00:29:04Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad.
00:29:20But...
00:29:22Don't be mad.
00:29:24Don't be mad.
00:29:25Don't be mad.
00:29:26Don't be mad.
00:29:26Who is it?
00:29:27Muhammad.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:29:52Do you really need to go, man?
00:29:53Okay.
00:29:53I don't know, God.
00:29:54Ooh!
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Ria that I was staying at with Siyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:23Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Ria, and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:35Just one person. I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:55And somehow, I made it back to the new Ria in One Piece.
00:31:03But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:20Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi!
00:31:22I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27I love you so much!
00:31:30What's up?
00:31:31What's wrong?
00:31:32What can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:37No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already.
00:31:40Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:45Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Zia everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to .
00:31:58Like, we got into a huge fight, and it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:32:05and leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:32:09Surprise.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:14That one there is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you.
00:32:27And he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:34Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:39And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:49You know, it's like I did, I did all this, like, again.
00:32:52And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of .
00:32:57Like, what?
00:32:58Like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch.
00:33:00And for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why does he...
00:33:05I mean, like, he's just, like, Ryan Gosling.
00:33:08As, like, Morocco.
00:33:12Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad.
00:33:21Don't be mad.
00:33:22But...
00:33:23Don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting...
00:33:30Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma!
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because...
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:01Yeah.
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:34:06was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:16Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:18What are your intentions on seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your...
00:34:22Are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean...
00:34:35I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:42Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's like, I just...
00:34:57I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're gonna gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:05I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:19Uh, Emma, interview you.
00:35:22I'll take one.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Mohammed.
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm gonna answer it just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:44I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why? You wanna see me?
00:35:49So, do you wanna talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something?
00:35:56Alright, well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01You too. Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So, Mohammed just asked me...
00:36:14Oh, my God. Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:18Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while, so it's like...
00:36:24Um...
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Mohammed have been through a lot.
00:36:50And we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:55So, that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always gonna regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me, because of what I did.
00:37:23So, it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:58It seems like you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:38:13I told you, yes.
00:38:14So, what else do you want?
00:38:25It seems like you are hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around and she gets to talking about this
00:38:58great place that her ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trisha's bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what
00:39:09I did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you.
00:39:24Yeah, because you said like, oh, this is a place that your ex is.
00:39:28Like Tokyo and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:35Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:38I enjoy.
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:43That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've
00:39:48done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:01I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08I'm not.
00:40:09I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather.
00:40:13Then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about him.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you had your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't want to talk about my ex, and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you're hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25Look what you did.
00:40:25You went to call him there for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:32I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:43You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:40:59That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him, or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action, not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:41Okay.
00:41:46I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after
00:42:07what I did.
00:42:09And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too much.
00:42:15I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:18I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:19I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:42:20This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:42:24I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:25I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:25I'm feeling pressure.
00:42:31I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay.
00:42:34Do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:42:43You don't respect me.
00:42:45That's not true at all.
00:42:46And now I have doubts.
00:42:48This, us, could be a mistake.
00:42:59Michael, he's coming.
00:43:01Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:43:17He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming, but I woke up this morning to a
00:43:33bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight.
00:43:41The other night in Cheshmay, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:43:48relationship with Birkan.
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:43:57and said he booked his flight.
00:44:00Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:44:09Birkan and I have made.
00:44:12But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:44:51He's very logical, he's very insightful, and I value his opinion.
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out, so why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends
00:45:05meet you and have you get along with them?
00:45:08My friends doesn't want to f*** me.
00:45:13He made that move, it's over.
00:45:15He has no chance.
00:45:20Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael, and he said that I am
00:45:28the obstacle, those two having a relationship.
00:45:31I took it as a move.
00:45:34She said that it was meaning just friends, but I don't trust Michael.
00:45:40This is his opportunity to break us up while she is confused about our relationship.
00:45:47This is a strategy.
00:45:51Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:45:59I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:46:07Maybe you should try to calm down and just meet him.
00:46:17I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay, and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:46:37I feel like I have no choice.
00:46:39He's already f***ing coming.
00:46:41He didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:46:44I just hope that Michael doesn't f*** up my entire future and my relationship.
00:46:54Let's go.
00:46:55We have a reservation.
00:46:58Okay.
00:47:09You can't speak Turkish.
00:47:11Oz, Oz, Turkish.
00:47:12Maybe I can't speak English.
00:47:13Okay, thank you.
00:47:15You know, will the Turkish say cheers?
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18I'm just cheers.
00:47:19Sherefe.
00:47:20Sherefe?
00:47:21Yes, perfect.
00:47:21To your honor.
00:47:22Sherefe.
00:47:24Sherefe.
00:47:26Cheers.
00:47:32Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins,
00:47:49but BeerCon's pissed, and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:48:00You're, like, pounding it like a shot.
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am miserable.
00:48:08You're miserable.
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:48:16This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:48:19This one is the three different Turkish grape.
00:48:24Okay, let's try.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:27You're welcome.
00:48:28Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:48:53That's not true at all.
00:48:55And now I have doubts.
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake.
00:49:07I don't know.
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:12This.
00:49:13Us.
00:49:18Here we are.
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope.
00:49:22I have booked a resort.
00:49:24The pictures online looked really nice.
00:49:27So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it.
00:49:35Step on it.
00:49:37Get rid of it.
00:49:37Take it outside.
00:49:38God!
00:49:38No!
00:49:40God!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:54Guys, where are we going?
00:49:56Left here and we're there.
00:49:57Just up here on the left.
00:50:00Here we are.
00:50:00Well, it looks super cute.
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:50:14We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:23At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up and I am completely delirious, completely
00:50:29foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face on, I went to the mother bar, and now I am beyond thankful we're at
00:50:34the rental and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:50:37Guys, I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Just shut the door, would you?
00:50:45Else?
00:50:46Oh!
00:50:47Her.
00:50:48Oh my God.
00:50:48This is the bathroom we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh no.
00:50:52This is too small.
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:57You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward and be positive and show him that I'm not a complainer.
00:51:04It's small as s***.
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of Josh getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial.
00:51:16And I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:51:19Like, no offense.
00:51:20Love you, Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:23Oh!
00:51:25What?
00:51:26Wait, wait, wait.
00:51:27What?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa, we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:31Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:32Right, I put it up.
00:51:33You know?
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:39I didn't let him do that.
00:51:40But I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So like, what?
00:51:43When we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird.
00:51:46When we have sex.
00:51:47It's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:55Excuse me.
00:51:56So I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one in such high def.
00:52:02My social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:52:09She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone.
00:52:11So it'll be interesting to see how, you know, we both react to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:25Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get, like, a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not, do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:52:40There's, like, literally only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm going to need more pillows.
00:52:47Uh, we can organize that.
00:52:50Pillows, steamer, in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down, promise.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:01Okay.
00:53:01Night, guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:04All right.
00:53:06This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep, and go to bed.
00:53:10Okay, perfect.
00:53:11And I'm on the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:15Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, so he's going to sleep
00:53:19on the couch.
00:53:20That way, we're both avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:53:27Like, he's hot.
00:53:28Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:53:30But, like, I came here wanting to do things differently, like, not leading with sex.
00:53:35But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might
00:53:39be getting.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:47Josh!
00:53:53Are you going to come say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's, uh...
00:54:02You know why?
00:54:03You look like someone killed you.
00:54:06Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08All right, well, come say goodnight to me.
00:54:10Thanks.
00:54:11Thanks.
00:54:13Thanks.
00:54:13Thanks.
00:54:14Thanks.
00:54:16Thanks.
00:54:17Thanks.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:26It's going to be a hard sleep on the couch.
00:54:28But, yeah, it's good to try and connect more on that emotional level than the sexual level
00:54:32off the bat.
00:54:33I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:54:40As soon as I saw it, I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor, but, um, you know.
00:54:46I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection straight away from the moment we
00:54:51met.
00:54:52But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with, um, Elise yet.
00:54:55I'm a bit worried that she might, you know, find out some things, you know, parts of my
00:54:59life that she's not exactly happy with.
00:55:01I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person, you know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:55:05And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:55:24Okay, we have to pack.
00:55:37Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah.
00:55:42Yeah, sure.
00:55:45Things are not settled with Lisa.
00:55:48I'm still really hot with all the offense she has committed by telling lies.
00:55:54But I decided to go on this trip with her.
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget your nation.
00:55:59I don't know.
00:56:00I don't think so.
00:56:01I think we're good.
00:56:03This is going to be difficult, but I will try my best to have a good time.
00:56:18Long ride.
00:56:19We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:56:21And what is the place like?
00:56:23It's a lake.
00:56:24Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at and lots of activities to do.
00:56:30So, I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:56:36You're welcome.
00:56:48You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:56:51You know what we call these in America?
00:56:53The boonies.
00:56:54What is she?
00:56:55The boondocks, where there's no real civilization.
00:56:59It's just, it's just woods.
00:57:04Here we are.
00:57:06It's a nice place, I hope.
00:57:10I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:57:15It's the western part of Lagos.
00:57:17The pictures online looked really nice, and it's in my price range.
00:57:22So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:57:29Oh, wow.
00:57:30I like it.
00:57:32What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space, right?
00:57:37It's nice.
00:57:38It's fine.
00:57:38It's nice, huh?
00:57:39Oh, my God.
00:57:43What is it?
00:57:45Yeah, it's a spider.
00:57:46No, that could be poisonous.
00:57:49I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before.
00:57:54I have.
00:57:55I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:57:58I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:58:01This thing is in Africa.
00:58:03This could be dangerous.
00:58:05Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just smush.
00:58:13It's moving!
00:58:16Kill it.
00:58:17Step on it.
00:58:18Get rid of it.
00:58:19Take it outside.
00:58:20No!
00:58:23Daniel!
00:58:25All right, stop.
00:58:26Leave it.
00:58:27I will kill it myself.
00:58:29No, don't kick it again.
00:58:31Stop!
00:58:32Stop kicking it!
00:58:37Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:58:40Okay.
00:58:42Don't kick it at me.
00:58:44I have a phobia of spiders.
00:58:46It's just a spider.
00:58:48No, it's not just a spider.
00:58:50It was huge.
00:58:51It was like tarantula-sized spider.
00:58:54You are so rude.
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders.
00:58:59I told you to kill spiders.
00:59:00Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02I have spandled arms.
00:59:03Just spider.
00:59:04Ordinary spider.
00:59:04It's not an ordinary spider.
00:59:06It's a vicious spider.
00:59:07This is room you paid for.
00:59:08You know where the spider's coming from.
00:59:10Kill the spider.
00:59:11Kill it.
00:59:11No, you kill it.
00:59:14We're here now, right?
00:59:18So, what are we here for?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway.
00:59:24Romantic, you said?
00:59:25Yes.
00:59:30She wants us to have a romantic trip, but it's very hard for me.
00:59:37I am feeling tense, because I don't know what my uncle is going to do.
00:59:43Whether he will cancel this marriage.
00:59:46I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:59:49You should enjoy it.
00:59:51You came.
00:59:52Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest.
00:59:56You know why I'm here, right?
00:59:57No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:59:59No.
01:00:01I'm here because I don't want the money you paid to be a waste.
01:00:08That's the only reason why you came.
01:00:14So, no sex.
01:00:17No kissing.
01:00:19Auntie, I call my uncle, and I want him to consult, you know, the oracle, the ancestors.
01:00:25Why don't you just wait a couple days?
01:00:27Just a couple days.
01:00:29We can make this work for a couple days.
01:00:32Daniel, I need a couple days.
01:00:34To do what?
01:00:35Just to get my head together, and then we call your uncle.
01:00:42I need a couple days because I have to come clean to Daniel about the rest of everything
01:00:46before he goes to his uncle.
01:00:49But he's already so angry with me.
01:00:52How am I going to get through it?
01:00:55I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out.
01:01:00I need a day or two.
01:01:02That's all I'm asking for.
01:01:04I want to have a day or two with you.
01:01:07Fine.
01:01:13This is what never ends.
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:17Is your mom always this bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
01:01:24Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:01:27You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter.
01:01:29You don't want a bitchy wife.
01:01:31Don't be a asshole.
01:02:16What's wrong?
01:02:18Really?
01:02:20Yeah, really.
01:02:21You don't help me with anything.
01:02:24Like this laundry and this.
01:02:26This one never ends.
01:02:28Why do you do this?
01:02:30What the f**k?
01:02:34It's been nice having Javon in my house,
01:02:37but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern
01:02:41about our long-distance relationship.
01:02:44On top of that,
01:02:46now that Javon and I are living together in one house,
01:02:51slowly, a baby.
01:02:54I get to see how he is.
01:02:58He's very messy and he just puts the clothes and the towels everywhere.
01:03:05I feel like I have a toddler and I always have to pick up stuff.
01:03:10From male to male, is your mom always this bossy?
01:03:15What? I heard that.
01:03:17We just haven't got time.
01:03:19I heard that.
01:03:21No, me too loves me.
01:03:24Yeah, well, I love you too, Nana.
01:03:25I mean, it doesn't mean that you're not bossy.
01:03:28What's wrong with telling your husband to pick up the socks?
01:03:31There's nothing wrong with that, Anna.
01:03:33It's how you're delivering, Anna.
01:03:35What do you want from me?
01:03:36Instead of coming in the room and saying,
01:03:39Javon, pick up your stuff!
01:03:40You know, you can just say,
01:03:43ooh, if you don't mind,
01:03:44could you just pick up your stuff?
01:03:48Javon.
01:03:48Yeah?
01:03:49No matter how much I put it,
01:03:50if you really would like to pick up that socks,
01:03:53you would have...
01:03:55See?
01:03:55Oh, I...
01:03:55You don't see that.
01:03:57I do, actually.
01:03:58You do, but you don't do it.
01:03:59No.
01:04:04And, like, every time I talk to you,
01:04:06you leave the room.
01:04:18We...
01:04:18All we do is...
01:04:21That's all we do.
01:04:22All right.
01:04:22Well, I'm gonna try a little action today.
01:04:26Would you like to go get, like, a manicure?
01:04:29Like, a feet done?
01:04:33Well, you definitely need a pedicure.
01:04:38Okay.
01:04:47I feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet.
01:04:51Dang, how bad do you think my feet is?
01:04:55Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough.
01:04:59But it's hard to be romantic
01:05:01when you're being nagged a lot.
01:05:05Still, you thought it'd be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for Anna,
01:05:09to show her, you know what?
01:05:10I appreciate what you do.
01:05:11Hi.
01:05:12Good afternoon.
01:05:14Hello.
01:05:14Hello, Paul.
01:05:15I just hope that she sees
01:05:16that I'm making a real effort here.
01:05:19So?
01:05:20It's like Barbie threw up in here.
01:05:24Suits you so well.
01:05:26Look at you.
01:05:27Yeah.
01:05:28Sitting like a queen.
01:05:30It's all pink.
01:05:31I like it.
01:05:32I know you do.
01:05:36There you go.
01:05:37Yeah.
01:05:41See, I told you.
01:05:44It just feels weird.
01:05:47Oh, that's nice.
01:05:50Oh, my God, boo.
01:05:51That's a lot.
01:05:53You doing okay over there?
01:05:56I'm so tired.
01:06:02Is this being romantic?
01:06:05Yeah.
01:06:05Did I pass the test today?
01:06:07Kind of.
01:06:08Yeah.
01:06:09Some cool points.
01:06:10I like that.
01:06:12Mm-hmm.
01:06:14You still have to be nicer to me, though.
01:06:16And I'll do more nice things.
01:06:20Like, if I leave, like, underwear
01:06:22or socks on the floor, you know,
01:06:26will you be nice?
01:06:28No.
01:06:29No?
01:06:29I mean, you can be nice to me
01:06:32by not dropping them on the floor.
01:06:38I know, but Anna, you know,
01:06:40you used to be a lot softer and sweeter
01:06:42and, you know, more patient with me.
01:06:46You know what I think it is?
01:06:47It's just I think that you knew
01:06:48I wasn't going anywhere
01:06:49and you got comfortable.
01:06:53Being too comfortable
01:06:55is not a good thing
01:06:56because you feel like,
01:06:58okay, well, I got this person.
01:07:00I don't have to try anymore, you know.
01:07:02He's always going to be there
01:07:03no matter what.
01:07:06Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
01:07:13I don't understand
01:07:15where did this come from?
01:07:16Did you get it from those videos
01:07:18that you've been watching
01:07:20about masculinity
01:07:22and all the things?
01:07:24No, that's my...
01:07:25That's all my idea.
01:07:28I take full credit for that.
01:07:32It's just odd
01:07:33because I feel like
01:07:34over the couple of years
01:07:36watching all these videos,
01:07:39you've changed
01:07:39and I love who you are.
01:07:44But Anna, this is who I was
01:07:45when you first met me.
01:07:46No, you're not.
01:07:48You were not that prideful before.
01:07:50I feel like your idea
01:07:52of being a husband changed.
01:07:55You see, it's like a power.
01:07:57I don't have any.
01:07:59That's the problem.
01:08:00Like, I feel like...
01:08:00That's the problem.
01:08:01You need to feel powerful.
01:08:02No.
01:08:02And you're not going...
01:08:03I feel like
01:08:04I have all the responsibility
01:08:05with no authority
01:08:07because when I tell you
01:08:08to do something,
01:08:08you don't listen to me.
01:08:09So what are you talking about?
01:08:13You want traditional roles
01:08:15when it applies to you.
01:08:18I always have to take care
01:08:19of everything financially.
01:08:21So as your husband,
01:08:23I feel like having to say
01:08:24is nice.
01:08:25You know,
01:08:26it just means
01:08:26you're just respectful.
01:08:30Ah, just done
01:08:32with this conversation.
01:08:38Why did you bring me here?
01:08:39Well,
01:08:40I wanted you
01:08:42to have a good time.
01:08:43Yes!
01:08:43But if you were going to...
01:08:44Do I look like
01:08:44I'm having a good time?
01:08:45But you set me up.
01:08:47You were asking me questions
01:08:48and I just answered them honestly.
01:08:51You ever heard the term,
01:08:52you know,
01:08:52you don't want to hear the answers
01:08:53so cease from asking
01:08:54dumbass questions?
01:08:57You ever think about that?
01:08:58And you don't want
01:08:59a bitchy wife.
01:09:01Don't be a f***ing asshole.
01:09:04I can just sit here
01:09:05and get my feet done.
01:09:06Like,
01:09:07I don't have to...
01:09:09Then just stay here, okay?
01:09:11Don't come home.
01:09:12You need to calm down.
01:09:18I don't want to see you
01:09:19ever again.
01:09:22Don't come home.
01:09:24Don't come home.
01:09:26Jerk.
01:09:29You're disgusting.
01:09:34Hey, I will see you soon.
01:09:36All right.
01:09:36I cannot believe
01:09:38Michael is actually
01:09:40here in Turkey.
01:09:41He said to tell you hi.
01:09:43I'm not saying hi.
01:09:47You want to open it?
01:09:50Hey!
01:09:51Hi, friend.
01:09:51Oh, my God.
01:10:13I have a phone call.
01:10:20Hello.
01:10:23Hey, good morning.
01:10:24Good morning.
01:10:25How are you?
01:10:28Are you doing well?
01:10:30Oh.
01:10:31My hotel won't be ready
01:10:32until, like,
01:10:33two o'clock.
01:10:35Is there any chance
01:10:36I can fly to my
01:10:37say hello?
01:10:40It's totally fine with me.
01:10:42I mean...
01:10:43I was just going to say
01:10:45I pin-drop you my location.
01:10:47Okay, I will see you soon.
01:10:50I'm going to start
01:10:51walking in your direction.
01:10:52All right.
01:10:53Be careful.
01:10:55Thanks.
01:10:56Bye-bye.
01:10:56Bye.
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried
01:11:07that Michael's here.
01:11:09Now that this is real
01:11:11and he actually
01:11:12showed up in Turkey,
01:11:14my stomach is about
01:11:16to explode on itself.
01:11:18I'm incredibly nervous
01:11:20and feel like I'm about to die.
01:11:27Hey.
01:11:29Hey.
01:11:30That was Michael.
01:11:32What is he saying?
01:11:35He said to tell you hi.
01:11:38What?
01:11:40Why?
01:11:41Because...
01:11:42I'm not saying hi.
01:11:45Well...
01:11:46He's going to be here
01:11:48at this apartment.
01:11:50This apartment?
01:11:52And about...
01:11:53Turkey is okay,
01:11:54but this apartment...
01:11:56Ten minutes.
01:12:01I cannot believe
01:12:03that Michael
01:12:04is actually
01:12:05here in Turkey.
01:12:07He dropped everything
01:12:08to get on a plane for me.
01:12:10I mean,
01:12:11it does feel pretty good
01:12:12that someone cares
01:12:14about me enough
01:12:14to do that,
01:12:16but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated.
01:12:22So you think
01:12:23this is normal?
01:12:28Well...
01:12:29I think he's
01:12:30just concerned
01:12:31about me.
01:12:33Yeah.
01:12:34Sure.
01:12:36That's totally normal
01:12:38for friends
01:12:39to be concerned
01:12:39about each other.
01:12:40Yeah, I believe him.
01:12:42He's such a good heart.
01:12:50I'm not five years old.
01:12:52I don't eat that...
01:12:55Your friend
01:12:56is trying to
01:12:57this connection
01:12:58and you're like,
01:12:59yay!
01:13:01Okay.
01:13:03It's like,
01:13:03I don't get it.
01:13:06I never wanted him
01:13:07to come
01:13:08and I still
01:13:09don't want him
01:13:10to come.
01:13:11I think
01:13:12he's coming
01:13:13in Turkey
01:13:14to mix up
01:13:15Laura's mind.
01:13:16Maybe talk
01:13:17some about me.
01:13:19Give Laura
01:13:20more doubts.
01:13:22But
01:13:22if
01:13:23our relationship
01:13:25is gonna end
01:13:26because of Michael,
01:13:29I don't blame Michael.
01:13:30I will blame Laura.
01:13:37You want to open it?
01:13:39Yeah, I do, actually.
01:13:47Hey!
01:13:49Hi, friend.
01:13:50Oh, my God.
01:13:51I cannot believe
01:13:52you're in Turkey.
01:13:53Is it safe to come in?
01:13:55Yes!
01:13:56Oh, my God.
01:13:57Wild!
01:13:58Oh, my God.
01:13:59You're making a palace here.
01:14:07I cannot believe
01:14:08you're in Turkey.
01:14:09I know.
01:14:09This is amazing.
01:14:11The most spontaneous thing
01:14:12I've ever done
01:14:13in my life.
01:14:13I have no doubt.
01:14:14And I do it for you.
01:14:15I do it for you.
01:14:19So...
01:14:19Oh, my God.
01:14:21Absolutely.
01:14:22Oh, wow.
01:14:24Yeah, this is fantastic, right?
01:14:26I hope my hotel room
01:14:27looks like this.
01:14:27Holy cow.
01:14:29Hi, Michael.
01:14:31Nice to meet you finally.
01:14:33Heard so much about you.
01:14:35Yeah, he'll probably hurt.
01:14:37I'm...
01:14:38Okay.
01:14:45Make yourself at home.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:47Do you want something to drink?
01:14:49Tea?
01:14:50Yeah, anything like that?
01:14:51Okay.
01:14:52Just have a seat right here.
01:14:53I don't know how it works.
01:14:54Yeah, that's my...
01:14:54Do the women make tea here
01:14:56or do the boys do it?
01:14:58Boys?
01:14:59Do the boys make the tea?
01:15:01They call men
01:15:02if they are grown up.
01:15:04Oh, okay.
01:15:09Um...
01:15:09Would you like anything?
01:15:11Nope.
01:15:13I am perfect.
01:15:27So, buddy, what you watching?
01:15:30Scarface.
01:15:36You like American classic movies?
01:15:39No.
01:15:43I like mob stuff.
01:15:46I enjoy pretty much violence.
01:15:54Do you like?
01:15:55Do I like this movie or...?
01:15:58Violence.
01:16:05Golly, I...
01:16:06I'll be honest with you.
01:16:08I don't know what to make of American.
01:16:10I know I just kind of dropped it on him,
01:16:12but he's talking about violence to me on the couch.
01:16:15If that's truly who he is,
01:16:16then I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura.
01:16:20My first impression of beer con
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:16:23than I think the beer con and she are.
01:16:25So, I want to make sure that she makes the right choice.
01:16:35I love you so much.
01:16:37But stop telling me that.
01:16:39Stop with her in some secrets.
01:16:41All I can think about
01:16:43is how there's more to tell him
01:16:45and I have to get it said
01:16:47before he goes to his uncle.
01:16:48It has to be tonight.
01:16:50So, I have more to tell you, then.
01:16:53More to tell me?
01:17:01Is this really how it ends?
01:17:05Can we go back to where it all began?
01:17:11Oh, I really want for this
01:17:14is to go back to where you love me again.
01:17:19Good morning.
01:17:21Good morning.
01:17:22Good morning.
01:17:25You're going to sleep.
01:17:26You're going to sleep or I'll...
01:17:28You kept me awake or I tried to lie.
01:17:30I know.
01:17:31I didn't mean to keep you awake.
01:17:32I couldn't help it.
01:17:33I was sad.
01:17:33You almost went to bed with tears.
01:17:42Why were you crying?
01:17:44I feel bad about everything that transpired.
01:17:48But I feel better this morning.
01:17:51Yeah, because I cuddled you, right?
01:17:54And you were crying so loud,
01:17:55so I have to...
01:17:56I have to cuddled you, you know?
01:18:02Last night, I cried myself to sleep
01:18:03and all I could think about
01:18:05is how I have to tell Daniel my secret
01:18:07and I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever.
01:18:10But Daniel held me all night,
01:18:12so I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful.
01:18:16Today is a new day
01:18:18and I'm hoping that we can explore
01:18:20and have some fun together.
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake
01:18:25and I'd like to walk around
01:18:26and see what else there is.
01:18:28That's fine.
01:18:29All right, let's get dressed.
01:18:41Come on.
01:18:42Let's go down towards the water.
01:18:47Oh, my gosh.
01:18:50This is a whole resort
01:18:51and there's nobody here.
01:18:59It's not like it's pictures.
01:19:03It's pretty desolate, actually.
01:19:06And it's a bit run down.
01:19:10Can you smile a little bit?
01:19:12No.
01:19:13But maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is going to help me with Daniel.
01:19:20Maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:19:22for the two of us.
01:19:25Wow.
01:19:26Water is so big.
01:19:28Yeah, it's so big, the water.
01:19:30I don't know.
01:19:33Oh, look at this.
01:19:35This is neat.
01:19:36Let's have one.
01:19:38Two, please.
01:19:42I feel that things are going back to normal.
01:19:44Like, Lisa is trying to rebuild
01:19:46our relationship.
01:19:48Oh, wow.
01:19:51Delicious.
01:19:52Let's go for a bike ride.
01:19:54Can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know.
01:19:57I will try.
01:19:59To me, I welcomed it.
01:20:01I want us to be together
01:20:02because I love her.
01:20:07You know, it takes muscle to pull this.
01:20:09Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling
01:20:11and I'm doing the steering.
01:20:13Look at the pace.
01:20:15No, not that fast.
01:20:16I think you're maybe not that fast.
01:20:20Don't go so fast.
01:20:24I feel so light and so good
01:20:27in this moment with Daniel.
01:20:28He is having fun
01:20:30and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:32as he's doing it,
01:20:33I really feel like we're reconnecting.
01:20:36Are you having fun?
01:20:38Yes, I am.
01:20:39See, this is exactly what we needed.
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself,
01:20:45but I can't
01:20:45because all I can think about
01:20:47is how there's more to tell him
01:20:50and I have to get it said
01:20:51before he goes to his uncle.
01:20:53It has to be tonight.
01:21:16It's a bonfire, honey.
01:21:18We're dancers.
01:21:20I'm enjoying this time.
01:21:24This is beautiful.
01:21:26Have a seat.
01:21:28Let's watch them.
01:21:29Let's enjoy it.
01:21:33It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:21:40Woo!
01:21:42This is nice.
01:21:45Are you glad you gave me
01:21:46one more day?
01:21:50I'm enjoying spending time with you.
01:21:52This is what
01:21:52this few days is about.
01:21:55Do you feel like
01:21:55you're reconnecting
01:21:56with me a little bit?
01:21:58I really want us
01:21:59to reconnect.
01:22:01You know,
01:22:02I miss
01:22:02the way we used to be.
01:22:05But
01:22:05I'm trying to respect
01:22:07our tradition.
01:22:09We have to call my uncle.
01:22:11When I call him,
01:22:12I will beg
01:22:13on our behalf.
01:22:14I love you.
01:22:16I love you, too.
01:22:16I want to make you
01:22:18I want to, you know,
01:22:20love you forever.
01:22:22But
01:22:22stop telling me lies.
01:22:24Stop
01:22:24with hurting some secrets.
01:22:27Okay?
01:22:29I understand.
01:22:31Okay.
01:22:33So I have more
01:22:34to tell you then.
01:22:36More to tell me?
01:22:41What do you mean?
01:22:43So,
01:22:44like,
01:22:45in Nigeria,
01:22:46it's not legal
01:22:47for
01:22:49men to marry men
01:22:50or women to marry women,
01:22:51right?
01:22:52It's not legal?
01:22:53It's not, yeah.
01:22:54In America, it is.
01:22:56Yes,
01:22:56because I've had all of that.
01:23:01So,
01:23:02my last marriage
01:23:03wasn't with a man.
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman,
01:23:09Daniel.
01:23:12And I've been with
01:23:13more than one woman.
01:23:17You're the first man
01:23:18that I've been with
01:23:19in 21 years.
01:23:25Because, um...
01:23:30It's not...
01:23:31Don't...
01:23:32It's not as bad as...
01:23:33Don't come close to me!
01:23:39Next time on
01:23:40before the 90 days.
01:23:42Hey!
01:23:43Hello!
01:23:45Hi!
01:23:47Having female friends
01:23:47can be hard to juggle,
01:23:49but I want to prove to her
01:23:50that she has nothing
01:23:51to worry about.
01:23:52Today, I found out
01:23:53that he was living with you.
01:23:54Yeah.
01:23:54Yeah, I think that
01:23:55she has a financial hold on you
01:23:56that's making you feel
01:23:57some sort of...
01:23:58No way!
01:23:59I have to hold
01:24:00big words.
01:24:01Are you jealous of me
01:24:02and our relationship?
01:24:08You're officially
01:24:09on the GP!
01:24:12I only have a week
01:24:13left here in the Philippines,
01:24:14and I don't want to waste
01:24:15any time
01:24:16in bringing Sheena
01:24:17to America.
01:24:18So, I have to
01:24:19be very clear here.
01:24:21If you file today
01:24:23for the K-1 vision,
01:24:25it will be denied.
01:24:30I just feel
01:24:32really hopeless
01:24:33because
01:24:34I'm putting in
01:24:35massive effort.
01:24:37And at this moment,
01:24:38I'm at a crossroads.
01:24:40I don't know
01:24:40how to move forward.
01:24:42I don't know
01:24:42how to move forward.
01:24:47I'm excited
01:24:48to see my family.
01:24:49You think they're
01:24:50going to be happy
01:24:50to see?
01:24:51Yeah, to see me.
01:24:53What about me?
01:24:54I don't know.
01:24:56I feel scared.
01:24:58My family
01:24:59won't accept
01:25:00Rick
01:25:01when they don't
01:25:02like something.
01:25:03They are
01:25:04really aggressive.
01:25:06Rick doesn't know
01:25:07what he's in for.
01:25:12They want babies.
01:25:20You have a lot
01:25:22of secrets.
01:25:23I have no more secrets.
01:25:24Shut your mouth.
01:25:25You don't have to.
01:25:25You have been
01:25:25bitten by a woman.
01:25:27Not even women.
01:25:28Women.
01:25:30What the range?
01:25:34Daniel's not
01:25:34going to accept
01:25:35me for who I am.
01:25:37You know what?
01:25:38F*** him.
01:25:40F*** him.
01:25:43Jesus.
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