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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 09: Initial Descent
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00:00:00Maki Maki.
00:00:02Maki Maki.
00:00:03Yes.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:06I feel honored you are to introduce me to your family.
00:00:11If you don't have kids, they won't give the place to you.
00:00:16This trip is very important, but before we meet her family,
00:00:20I have to tell Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:00:24I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:00:29Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
00:00:34Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
00:00:37Kanka, kumar oynamaya devam ettiğini biliyor musun?
00:00:42I gamble every day.
00:00:44Every opportunity I have.
00:00:46Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence.
00:00:50What?
00:00:53You protested Lavia Rezim?
00:00:56I have been with a woman before.
00:00:58Yes, sir.
00:00:59You don't practice it anymore.
00:01:00No, sir.
00:01:03Do you lie?
00:01:05I am not a liar, uncle.
00:01:08Okay.
00:01:09I will give you guys my blessing.
00:01:13I am thrilled I have the blessing.
00:01:16Bro, I feel guilty as all hell, because I am lying.
00:01:24On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:01:28This is your thing, being unromantic.
00:01:31I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:34Like, making sure your lights is on, because you're at home, and then I'm working.
00:01:39I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:41Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:45From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
00:01:51You lie about...
00:01:53Okay, the difference between Ziad and I.
00:01:55Why are you...
00:01:55Everything I've said...
00:01:56I know, but I'm speaking.
00:01:58Everything I've said...
00:01:59When I'm talking, you shouldn't listen to me.
00:02:01I do respect you, but...
00:02:10So you're saying in this very moment, you see 0% chance of me being your wife.
00:02:15I need more time to know you, and you need more time.
00:02:17But you're at 0?
00:02:45So there's 0% chance you want to marry me?
00:02:47Are we not going to discuss it?
00:02:50I want to just sleep.
00:02:510% Ziad?
00:02:52So that's what you're feeling right now about us, 0%.
00:02:55And I don't know why you would say that in front of your friends
00:02:58when it's, like, my first time meeting them.
00:03:01Do you not think that's disrespectful, to talk to me like that as one of your friends?
00:03:05Disrespectful is when someone speaks, we have to listen to him.
00:03:09I listen...
00:03:09All I do is listen to you.
00:03:11No, no, you didn't.
00:03:11You are always difficult.
00:03:13You can't...
00:03:13I'm always difficult?
00:03:15Let me speak.
00:03:15How am I difficult, Ziad?
00:03:18You've said one thing to me online, and then I get you...
00:03:20I don't hear nothing what you say.
00:03:21No, you speak.
00:03:22So you don't care about my feelings that I'm upset right now?
00:03:24No, no, no.
00:03:25Okay, Ziad.
00:03:26You can go to sleep.
00:03:27Okay.
00:03:29So good night.
00:03:31I say good night.
00:03:32Okay.
00:03:34Okay.
00:03:54I have some tea for you.
00:04:10This morning, I woke up, and I'm just almost at my breaking point.
00:04:14I came all the way to Morocco, and I've given this relationship my all, and to hear that
00:04:20Ziad is 0% sure of having a future with me, I'm just confused.
00:04:26Before I came to Morocco, he showed me an engagement ring saying that it was here and waiting for
00:04:31me.
00:04:32I spent thousands of dollars to come here just to be sitting here right now with Ziad,
00:04:37And then for Ziad to be saying he's 0% sure, I really feel like I deserve some answers.
00:04:45So how are you feeling after, like, what happened with your friends last night?
00:04:50They gave us their opinions.
00:04:52Yeah.
00:04:54And I feel good to see them, too.
00:04:57I mean, it was nice to meet your friends.
00:04:59And I know that we have a lot to work on, but before I got here, you made it seem
00:05:04like
00:05:04we were ready to be engaged, and then I meet your friends, and you're, like, 0% sure.
00:05:10It makes me feel like we're never going to get married.
00:05:13We're never going to get engaged.
00:05:14This whole trip was a waste of my time and money that I don't have.
00:05:19And I'm basically here for, like, no reason.
00:05:24I say it's 0% for the moment.
00:05:28It's like, why now?
00:05:30You don't understand me, so...
00:05:32But how am I not...
00:05:33I understand what that means.
00:05:34So what am I not understanding about that?
00:05:36No, in your mind.
00:05:37Do you realize everything you said about me since I got here has been negative?
00:05:44Seems like you're always mad at me.
00:05:46I'm always doing something wrong.
00:05:48Like, when we were talking online, you were always so nice and cute and sweet.
00:05:52I would send me nice messages and, you know, say all these, like, cute romantic things.
00:05:57And then since I've gotten here, it's been like, you're, like, mad all the time.
00:06:03Am I the girl that you want to be with?
00:06:15And all these things you said, it's right.
00:06:19I'm sorry for that, really.
00:06:24I want you to enjoy here with me.
00:06:28So, from going out, it would be so nice.
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:39At this moment, I don't know if I will marry here or not.
00:06:44But I'm a good wife and a good woman.
00:06:48Emma, I know her inside her.
00:06:51She's special.
00:06:52She's so sweet.
00:06:54Yeah, maybe I have been too hard on here.
00:06:58I believe there is something between us.
00:07:01So, from now, there is no fights.
00:07:04No fights.
00:07:08Aw.
00:07:12You can come here.
00:07:16This feels nice, babe.
00:07:20This is the very first time that I felt any physical chemistry between us.
00:07:25And I feel like things are slowly progressing with the head.
00:07:30Very slowly.
00:07:33Extremely slowly.
00:07:35But, yes, they are progressing.
00:07:38And I'm hoping that this is just a really good sign that we're moving forward.
00:07:42I think we have a lot to work on.
00:07:45But I think we'll be okay.
00:07:47Just with time, everything will be good.
00:08:12My head hurts.
00:08:13It itches.
00:08:14Because the glue is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.
00:08:31This has been on for about a week.
00:08:33This is the absolute longest I've ever had it on.
00:08:36I've only ever slept with it overnight once.
00:08:39And it wasn't even on for 24 hours.
00:08:41My head hurts.
00:08:42It's time.
00:08:43I have to take it off.
00:08:44I mean, it's awful right now.
00:08:49I've never been this nasty before in my life.
00:08:52I have been in Nigeria in the heat for days.
00:08:56And I have yet to change my wig.
00:09:00No matter how much you pull, it's not going anywhere.
00:09:04So I don't even know how it's going to feel coming off of my head, actually.
00:09:09Ow.
00:09:09It actually hurts.
00:09:16It hurts.
00:09:18It's stuck to my hair.
00:09:20My head itches.
00:09:22I have headaches.
00:09:23My scalp hurts.
00:09:24I have sores.
00:09:25I feel them growing.
00:09:27I see the redness around where my wig cap is.
00:09:31I need to take it off.
00:09:32It's time.
00:09:38Oh, my God.
00:09:41Oh, it itches.
00:09:47I have some sores on the side of my head where the glue was.
00:09:53I hate to say this, but the wig actually has an odor to it right now from all the sweating.
00:09:59I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
00:10:04But I need to feel the air touching my scalp.
00:10:10It just feels so incredible.
00:10:13It feels so light and airy.
00:10:15And it's not itchy anymore.
00:10:18At this moment, I don't care what Daniel feels when he sees me.
00:10:23I'm not putting the wig back on anytime soon.
00:10:27God, I've gone through so much in these last few days.
00:10:30And it's not just my hair.
00:10:33We got the approval from Daniel's uncle to be married.
00:10:36But I feel like it was under false pretenses.
00:10:41I don't know what to feel about his uncle.
00:10:44I think if he had known how many women I had actually been with, I wouldn't have gotten the blessing.
00:10:50I mean, it's 21 years of being with women.
00:10:55On top of that, I've been so nervous to speak to my daughter, Faith, because I promised her I wouldn't
00:11:03get engaged to Daniel until after I revealed all of my secrets.
00:11:07But yesterday, I finally ripped off the Band-Aid.
00:11:12We started leaving the airport, and there was a festival in the street with African dancers and music playing.
00:11:19It was for me.
00:11:21Daniel planned a festive parade for me.
00:11:23You're sending him money all the time, yet somehow he's able to buy a whole parade?
00:11:33I don't know.
00:11:34I don't know.
00:11:36And there's more.
00:11:38What else?
00:11:42He dropped to his knee, and he pulled out a ring.
00:11:46And I was kind of stuck, so I shook my head yes.
00:11:52You're awfully quiet.
00:11:53Um, I don't know what to say.
00:11:57Why would someone do that on the first day?
00:12:00Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:12:02At this point, it's beyond love bombing.
00:12:05It's like, tell love nuke.
00:12:07Oh, God.
00:12:08Ma, this isn't good.
00:12:10You've been lying since day one of the relationship.
00:12:14The other thing I personally have an issue with is, you haven't asked Daniel about the women he's been with.
00:12:22You know he's been with tons of women.
00:12:25You know he's a playboy.
00:12:27How could you let all this slide and just blindly agree to marry him?
00:12:33As far as Faith is concerned, a lot of what she said is actually weighing on my brain.
00:12:41Um, I'm thinking a lot about it.
00:12:45I've been so focused on my past and what I've been keeping from Daniel.
00:12:49But Faith is right.
00:12:51Daniel hasn't been forthcoming about his past.
00:12:54Or even other women he's been with.
00:12:57There's been lots of things with Daniel I've let slide.
00:13:01And maybe I should be asking him more questions about it.
00:13:05Daniel said that we are going to meet up with his friends tonight.
00:13:09And I'm excited.
00:13:10I'm hoping that his friends can shed some light and share some stories about who Daniel actually is.
00:13:18Hmm.
00:13:20Daniel just texted me.
00:13:26Let me gather some laundry up.
00:13:29Oh God.
00:13:31I have no idea what he's going to think about me.
00:13:35Daniel makes me feel like the most beautiful special woman in the world.
00:13:39But he's used to seeing me wear my wig.
00:13:42At home I don't wear my wig 24-7, seven days a week.
00:13:52So if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
00:14:08Hey.
00:14:09Oh wow.
00:14:10Rocks.
00:14:11Daddy.
00:14:14Oh my God.
00:14:18I'm waiting my jungle queen.
00:14:26I think it's stupid.
00:14:27It's not even sexy.
00:14:30I don't know.
00:14:31I'd rather walking naked.
00:14:34Oh!
00:14:36Oh no!
00:14:37That sounds like a plan.
00:14:41I'm so frustrated.
00:14:44Sometimes I feel like I'm sticking on landmines and I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:14:50I don't want to do this right now.
00:14:56It's hard to be with him.
00:14:59How much more of this I could take, I don't know.
00:15:13Hannah, why are you so emotional?
00:15:17Something you will never understand because you don't have that.
00:15:31Well, I mean, I don't, I don't know what to say.
00:15:34Because no matter what I say, you know, if I apologize, that's not going to be good enough.
00:15:39You know?
00:15:40So I don't know what to do in this situation.
00:15:58The argument started about me saying you're not romantic.
00:16:04It has nothing to do with money.
00:16:07But you have to remind me every time we argue.
00:16:14About what you do for me and you throw it to my face.
00:16:18And I feel like it's so unfair because you want to be a provider.
00:16:22But at the same time, you're always using it as an ammunition.
00:16:28Where did all this go wrong?
00:16:33You're unbelievable.
00:16:35Okay.
00:16:53I didn't want to bring up my role in the marriage.
00:16:58But sometimes I feel like I'm not being appreciated.
00:17:06Sometimes I feel like if I bring it up, she might come around and say, hey, you know, he does
00:17:12a lot for me.
00:17:12Maybe I should just be a little bit nicer.
00:17:15But obviously, that doesn't work.
00:17:18You know, I would definitely want things to be a lot more peaceful between us.
00:17:22But sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines unintentionally.
00:17:27I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:17:33I'm so frustrated.
00:17:43All right.
00:17:45I'm not going to bother you.
00:17:50I'm just, I'm going to take a shower.
00:17:53I don't want to do this right now.
00:18:05I don't really know what's going on in his head, honestly.
00:18:09I am not one of this misogynistic and, you know, masculinity thing.
00:18:15And it's really confusing because it sounds like it's teaching traditional stuff.
00:18:21But at the same time, traditional goes like the man provides.
00:18:26And I'm not even asking for much.
00:18:29I'm not even a woman that you have to spend a lot.
00:18:33Just because I'm, you know, I'm not providing as much as he provides monetary doesn't mean I'm not doing my
00:18:43part.
00:18:47Just, it's hard to be with him.
00:18:55I've been patient so long.
00:19:00That was my contribution.
00:19:02I stayed all along.
00:19:08But sometimes, he just doesn't get me.
00:19:12He knows what sets me off.
00:19:15He knows what hurts my feelings.
00:19:17He knows what offends me.
00:19:21So, we argued a lot before.
00:19:24Online.
00:19:25But it's just more different.
00:19:27I'm just not used to it.
00:19:30Like, arguing in person.
00:19:32We've never been together before.
00:19:34So, how much more, like, of this guy could take?
00:19:42I don't know.
00:19:43It's just annoying.
00:19:59Woohoo!
00:20:00Baby, I hope there's no sharks in this water.
00:20:03There is.
00:20:04Oh, hell no.
00:20:05But that's fine.
00:20:06They're nice, right?
00:20:08Oh, hell.
00:20:09There's no such thing as a nice shark.
00:20:11Malagasy shark is bad.
00:20:14Babe.
00:20:28Here we are.
00:20:31Woo!
00:20:34Where is this place?
00:20:36It's a little bit of a hike up, but it'll be worth it in the end.
00:20:41Believe me.
00:20:43We only have a few more days left of island hopping before we have to head out to meet Trisha's
00:20:49family.
00:20:50It's beautiful up here.
00:20:52There's a lot weighing heavy on my mind after our conversation about meeting her dad and all this pressure about
00:21:01having to have kids.
00:21:04But right now, I'm just trying my best to stay focused on being in such a beautiful place.
00:21:11Why do I have to be up?
00:21:13It'll be worth it once we get up there, honey.
00:21:17I got us the most incredible place to stay on a very secluded part of Nosy Kumba.
00:21:25It's totally off-grid, and I just love the privacy of it.
00:21:30I see it now, babe.
00:21:32I'm really excited for her to see it and to show her how romantic I can be.
00:21:38All right.
00:21:40We're here, baby.
00:21:43Our own private quarters, baby.
00:21:47Baby, yeah!
00:21:51Yeah, baby.
00:21:53Oh, my God.
00:21:54You like it?
00:21:56Yeah!
00:21:57Come here.
00:21:57Let's check it out.
00:21:58Oh, my God.
00:22:03We can't even see all of this.
00:22:06You see the whole island, baby, is here.
00:22:09I'm really surprised.
00:22:11You've never seen a place like this before, baby?
00:22:13I've never.
00:22:15Okay, let's explore here.
00:22:19Be careful, baby.
00:22:20Watch your step here.
00:22:22We got our own little waterfalls and private pools.
00:22:25Oh, my God.
00:22:28I've never stayed to a place like this before.
00:22:33I'm really surprised.
00:22:35It's very beautiful.
00:22:37The view, the house.
00:22:41I'm living here, but I didn't know that a place like this could exist in Madagascar.
00:22:49I did this for you, honey.
00:22:51Beautiful bed.
00:22:53I love the bed.
00:22:54It's for you.
00:22:55I got another little surprise for you.
00:22:59What is it?
00:23:02Here we go.
00:23:04I got us a couple of jungle costumes.
00:23:07Let's hope we run around the jungle here.
00:23:09Let me see.
00:23:10There you go.
00:23:11This is yours right here.
00:23:13You serious?
00:23:14Yeah.
00:23:15I was hoping you'd want to try it and spice things up.
00:23:19I'll put mine on, and you put yours on.
00:23:21Okay.
00:23:24Role playing is something that I recently got into, and I just think it's something fun
00:23:30to do.
00:23:34Playing as if I'm king of the jungle and chasing her around.
00:23:38I mean, it's hot.
00:23:41I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:23:47Oh.
00:23:49You look beautiful.
00:23:50I am, seriously.
00:23:53Come on, baby.
00:23:54You look sexy, baby.
00:23:56Let's just go run around and just act a fool.
00:24:01What?
00:24:02What is this?
00:24:04I think it's stupid.
00:24:05It's not even sexy.
00:24:07I don't know.
00:24:09I'm making this role play.
00:24:11Come on.
00:24:12I got you a score of the jungle.
00:24:15Come on, baby.
00:24:16Get into it.
00:24:17It's like crazy fantasy, but I'm doing it because Rick did a lot to organize this trip,
00:24:27so I'm willing to give it a try to make him happy.
00:24:33In my fantasy, girl.
00:24:36But the way I'm chasing, I don't know.
00:24:38I'd rather walking naked.
00:24:41Oh!
00:24:44That sounds like a plan.
00:24:46Let's walk naked.
00:24:48Yeah!
00:24:49No!
00:24:50Come on, baby.
00:24:51Nobody's going to see.
00:24:53It could be Adam and Eve.
00:24:57Come on, baby.
00:25:21Do you have your own man?
00:25:23How could I not be?
00:25:24That's what I'm laying next to.
00:25:31We had a wonderful night.
00:25:33The way that she was holding me tight and bringing me in.
00:25:38I feel so connected to Trish, but in the back of my mind, I feel guilty because I know that
00:25:47I've held back for too long now.
00:25:54Time is getting close to when we go to meet her family.
00:25:58I don't want to take such a serious step without telling her about my ex.
00:26:05And so I think that she needs to know the truth.
00:26:14So cool here.
00:26:16That's nice.
00:26:18Yeah!
00:26:20What if you, Jesus?
00:26:23Yep, it's a beautiful view, baby.
00:26:26The last few days have been wonderful, I think.
00:26:30It's been like a dream.
00:26:34Yeah.
00:26:35I'm happy.
00:26:39Baby.
00:26:42There's something that I've been keeping from you.
00:26:48You make me afraid.
00:26:50I don't know what you...
00:26:53Explain yourself.
00:26:59I don't know how I should do this.
00:27:01I don't know what words to say that's going to make it be a forgivable act.
00:27:12I'm worried that she'll want to end things and I'll never see or hear from her again.
00:27:23Just know, just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:27:31What you mean?
00:27:37Can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:27:40Do you want the truth?
00:27:42Yeah.
00:27:44When the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:27:47I find another way to pay that debt.
00:28:13Good morning.
00:28:15Good morning.
00:28:16Good morning.
00:28:18Good morning.
00:28:20yesterday. I did too. I'm still feeling tired. I've been in Turkey for almost a week now and it's
00:28:29going okay. We've had some difficult conversations about his debt and my friendship with my best
00:28:38friend Michael. And then last night I got to meet Birkan's best friends and they kept having
00:28:46conversation in Turkish and I can't help but feeling like they were keeping another secret from
00:28:53me. I don't know. I don't know what to be excited about. I don't even know what to pack. Last
00:29:05night
00:29:05Birkan told me that we're going on this surprise romantic getaway and I'm honestly having mixed
00:29:12feelings about it. I am incredibly nervous at the thought of a romantic getaway right now.
00:29:20I'm learning about his debts and the issues that he's having with jobs and money. And maybe I'm
00:29:28wrong, but it comes across to me as manipulative. You're trying to win me back over with something
00:29:33sweet. Like, I don't, I don't like that. Like, I just don't like the timing of it. But it also
00:29:40could
00:29:41be a good thing that we're getting away right now because maybe we'll have more time to, like,
00:29:45process and be in a more lovey state. So we'll see.
00:29:59Good night.
00:30:01Good night.
00:30:04I'm not sure I packed my hairbrush for this.
00:30:08You don't need to brush your hair.
00:30:10I will need to brush my hair while I'm here. Yeah.
00:30:13I think we will find a fork and we will.
00:30:16A fork?
00:30:17Yeah.
00:30:17I'm not the little mermaid.
00:30:19You are.
00:30:22I think she needs some spice in life, you know? And I am the spice in her life. So this
00:30:31is my Spicing It Up project number one.
00:30:34Cheshme.
00:30:42I didn't realize we're going to be right on the water. This is amazing.
00:30:46I like the view, you know?
00:30:47This is incredible.
00:30:49Cheshme, it is a romantic place, you know? It's peaceful. There's sea. Perfect place to reconnect.
00:30:57Wow. I didn't know there was a castle here.
00:31:00Do you want to visit there?
00:31:01I would love to visit there.
00:31:02We will go up and up and up and up again.
00:31:07I am so ready.
00:31:09I still have to tell her about my gambling.
00:31:14My friends are right.
00:31:16I can just keep the secret for the rest of my life.
00:31:20But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:31:23If you're ready, let's start our tour.
00:31:27I've always wanted to visit a castle.
00:31:30I feel like I get to be the princess and now in the castle.
00:31:34Now I'll always be a princess.
00:31:36When do I get to be the princess?
00:31:38I have no idea.
00:31:52Oh my God, hold on.
00:31:54Is this a bathroom?
00:31:55What?
00:31:56What?
00:31:56Is that a bathroom?
00:31:57Yeah.
00:31:58I feel like that's a bathroom.
00:32:00Cheshme is incredible.
00:32:03It's really old and it's just beautiful.
00:32:06This is like exactly what I was envisioning when I was talking about coming to Turkey.
00:32:11Would you take our picture?
00:32:12Yeah, of course.
00:32:20Are you enjoying your day?
00:32:22I am enjoying my day.
00:32:23I couldn't have asked for a better surprise.
00:32:25Seriously.
00:32:26You know, I always try my best.
00:32:29I know.
00:32:30Because I care about you and I love you.
00:32:33I know you do.
00:32:35You know, we are still thinking about marriage.
00:32:39You still think about it.
00:32:40I still think about it.
00:32:41We didn't decide what are we going to do.
00:32:44And you have a lot of questions.
00:32:46So what are you wondering?
00:32:49I know you're wondering.
00:32:52Well, I guess I know it's hard to have conversations that can feel personal and embarrassing.
00:33:00But can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:33:07Back then I had places.
00:33:10Back when?
00:33:102019 and 2020.
00:33:12Okay.
00:33:13I had my first shisha bar.
00:33:18I take a loan from a bank.
00:33:20Then I bought my second place.
00:33:23After that, I opened my third place.
00:33:26Okay.
00:33:26So you had three places?
00:33:27And all of them is big.
00:33:30I was earning.
00:33:32But when the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:33:37I sell my car, sell my house, sell my places.
00:33:41I sell everything I have.
00:33:44I work like daily jobs and things.
00:33:48But sometimes I work full one day, 24 hours.
00:33:52And I get paid $40.
00:33:55It's useless, so I find another way to pay that debt.
00:34:04How is that even possible?
00:34:10Do you want the truth?
00:34:12Yeah.
00:34:23How often are you gambling?
00:34:26If I have money, I gamble.
00:34:30So actually, it could be every day.
00:34:41I took it off so it could breathe.
00:34:44I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:34:49I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:34:52It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now or something.
00:34:55You don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:35:20Are you all right?
00:35:21Let's go, sir.
00:35:22Mm-hmm.
00:35:32Hello, sir.
00:35:37Hello, hi.
00:35:38Good morning, sir.
00:35:39Hey.
00:35:40We're just packing.
00:35:41Since this is your last day at Missivis Bay Resort,
00:35:44the resort prepared a breakfast for you two, ma'am, sir.
00:35:48Oh, thank you.
00:35:49Yeah, sure.
00:35:50Let's go.
00:35:52It's the last morning of our honeymoon,
00:35:54and we're going to Cavite, you know, where she lives.
00:35:59But me and Annalyn are still not talking.
00:36:05My strategy after last night,
00:36:10just to give her space.
00:36:12Every time we fight,
00:36:14he has this habit of, you know, silent treatment
00:36:18that he gives me instead of, you know,
00:36:23talking it out and fixing things.
00:36:28Before we met in person,
00:36:30if we don't talk for a few days,
00:36:32it was normal because we are in a long-distance relationship.
00:36:37Ooh.
00:36:37But I just can't believe we're doing this right now,
00:36:41and we're in the same room together physically.
00:37:03Do you want to talk about last night?
00:37:08You know, clearly we have problems, you know,
00:37:11because you're hard on me a lot of the times,
00:37:14but providing for you is not easy.
00:37:18And I believe that, you know, it's my duty to do that.
00:37:21But when I'm telling you that,
00:37:25like, I'm not trying to, like, throw it in your face.
00:37:28I basically want you to just cut me a little slack.
00:37:31It's like, what you're saying is,
00:37:33because I'm provide, you gotta be soft.
00:37:36Because if I react a certain way,
00:37:38you're uncomfortable with my emotion.
00:37:41Anna, I don't bring it up to say,
00:37:43hey, look, look what I did, so shut up.
00:37:45You know what I'm saying?
00:37:46Like, that's not what I'm trying.
00:37:47That's exactly what I feel.
00:37:49Maybe I'm just, like, not translating it right to you,
00:37:51but the way I view it is, it's like, look, you know,
00:37:53Anna, I work hard to do X, Y, and Z.
00:37:55So, you know, I want a light bulb to come on and be like,
00:37:59you know, my husband works really hard,
00:38:00so I'm gonna make sure his day is positive
00:38:03when I talk to him on his break for 15 minutes.
00:38:06But no, you're nagging me all the time.
00:38:09You don't think how that makes me feel?
00:38:11Like, sometimes, like,
00:38:13when somebody's constantly criticizing you,
00:38:15when they're supposed to be on your side.
00:38:21But it's not easy being your woman.
00:38:25Putting up with your tantrums, stubbornness, whining,
00:38:31it takes a lot of patience to be with you.
00:38:36I know some women would have been,
00:38:38would have given up already.
00:38:44All I hear is, like,
00:38:45you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
00:38:49I mean, you tell me I'm a downer,
00:38:52and you tell me I'm not romantic.
00:38:55I mean, Anna, you're this perfect picture,
00:38:57and I'm this project that you're working on.
00:39:03So, do you regret, like, marrying me?
00:39:34Hey.
00:39:35Oh, wow.
00:39:38Jenny.
00:39:44Oh, my God.
00:39:57Let's get money out of the ATM.
00:40:00And then I want to go for a walk.
00:40:03What?
00:40:09What's wrong?
00:40:13I took it off so it could breathe.
00:40:19It was itchy and hot,
00:40:21and I've worn it for quite a while.
00:40:26No, I didn't tell you I was taking it off.
00:40:35I was astonished when I saw her.
00:40:38It's embarrassing.
00:40:41She looks older.
00:40:44I didn't believe she's...
00:40:46Lisa used to know.
00:40:47If we are going to be together,
00:40:49she have to wear her wig.
00:40:51She's not gonna go with her short hair.
00:40:55Thank you so much.
00:40:57I want her to miss my friends tonight.
00:41:00But if she don't wear the long hair,
00:41:03my friends will be embarrassed.
00:41:04My friends will judge her.
00:41:14What?
00:41:16What?
00:41:17Like, you wish I would have had it on to go out?
00:41:20Yes.
00:41:21But you know it's a wig,
00:41:23and I need to be natural sometimes.
00:41:25It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me
00:41:27right now or something.
00:41:29I'm not embarrassed, but...
00:41:36My hair needed to be washed,
00:41:37and my head needs to air out, babe.
00:41:39Why didn't you stay inside when you're, um...
00:41:42When it dries, you wear it on before coming out?
00:41:48So you don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:41:50I'm not saying you're not pretty,
00:41:52but I love the long hair.
00:41:53Well, I don't have long hair.
00:41:55I have short hair.
00:42:01I'm hurt,
00:42:02and now I feel ugly,
00:42:04and I feel unwanted and unloved.
00:42:07I want to go back upstairs and just cry.
00:42:10I don't even want to look at him.
00:42:12I want to be away from him.
00:42:15You have to be wearing your wig
00:42:17when we are meeting my friends
00:42:18or meeting people.
00:42:20Okay?
00:42:21I mean...
00:42:22I mean, I...
00:42:23I can't wear it all the time.
00:42:25I'm not saying all the time,
00:42:27but when we are going out to meet friends,
00:42:29families,
00:42:30wear it.
00:42:32You're being rude.
00:42:34You don't understand.
00:42:35I was very scared for you to see me without my wig.
00:42:40Sorry.
00:42:40And I want you to feel that I'm beautiful without it
00:42:42just as much as I am with it.
00:42:45You're always beautiful.
00:42:47Okay?
00:42:48You are.
00:42:49I will hug you.
00:42:51You're mine.
00:42:51Always.
00:42:57I don't feel he means it.
00:42:59I was hoping Daniel wouldn't say I look beautiful
00:43:02and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:43:04I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:43:08I don't know.
00:43:09I have so many questions,
00:43:10but I have to get answers.
00:43:12And I'm hoping tonight with his friends I'll get some.
00:43:15Because right now I'm starting to see red flags
00:43:18in cracks where I never did before.
00:43:28What's going on?
00:43:31We were getting along really well,
00:43:34getting really flirty.
00:43:36and we made out.
00:43:40I was feeling so like lonely and abandoned.
00:43:45I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:43:48You have sex with her.
00:43:51Did you?
00:44:05No, just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:44:10You make me afraid.
00:44:11I don't know what you...
00:44:14Explain yourself.
00:44:31You remember those five days that you weren't talking to me.
00:44:42Why you bring up five days?
00:44:44What's wrong with five days?
00:44:46I already explained everything, so what's the problem now?
00:44:51The problem isn't that.
00:44:53It's what I did.
00:44:56What?
00:44:59What's wrong?
00:45:01I'm trying to tell you now.
00:45:05You make me afraid.
00:45:06Say, Rico, I don't know why you hesitate.
00:45:08What's wrong?
00:45:09What's wrong?
00:45:11When you...
00:45:13When you weren't talking to me,
00:45:15I...
00:45:18I started talking to my ex.
00:45:25She was like the only one that, you know, was there to listen to me.
00:45:32So I decided to book a trip going to Columbia to be with my ex.
00:45:44I mean, I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:45:50I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:45:55You have sex with her.
00:45:57Did you?
00:46:04Yes.
00:46:17I'm sorry, baby.
00:46:20I messed up.
00:46:22I know I did.
00:46:25I regret what I did.
00:46:28But this is something we can work through, baby.
00:46:31Shut up.
00:46:32It was a mistake.
00:46:32Shut up.
00:46:39Maybe I...
00:46:39How?
00:46:42Rick, how could you do that to me?
00:46:45We were together.
00:46:50Maybe you weren't there.
00:46:52And I told you after a couple of days, I said,
00:46:55if I don't hear from you, then I'm going to assume that it's over,
00:46:59that you don't want me anymore.
00:47:00And I still didn't hear from you until a couple of days after that.
00:47:05And by then, I had already booked a flight there.
00:47:13I did replay to your messages.
00:47:16I did replay to your call.
00:47:18And I even told you, I'll call you when I'm free.
00:47:22You told me that you would call me when you get back from the police station.
00:47:27I wouldn't hear from you.
00:47:28I would call you.
00:47:30And then you said that I was stalking you.
00:47:32That sounds like to me that you didn't want to be with me.
00:47:35Why did you wait, like, for a long time to tell me?
00:47:39Why?
00:47:41Why?
00:47:42Because I wanted us to build something together.
00:47:45I wanted to share, you know, precious time with you.
00:47:52Maybe you just still love that girl.
00:47:55No, no.
00:47:57It's over.
00:47:59It's over now.
00:48:00I swear I'm not talking to her anymore.
00:48:03I haven't had any contact with her.
00:48:07I thought you were different.
00:48:13That I can trust you.
00:48:15You even promised me there, like, I won't hurt you, Trisha.
00:48:19I'm not like your ex.
00:48:21And what you did?
00:48:22Guess what?
00:48:24Same thing.
00:48:25So, baby, it's not the same because...
00:48:26It's the same.
00:48:27You cheated.
00:48:32Jesus.
00:48:33I thought you were a good guy.
00:48:36I am a good guy, baby.
00:48:37You were not.
00:48:38You can't.
00:48:38You can trust me, baby.
00:48:40It's different now.
00:48:42We've met in person.
00:48:43We've consummated our relationship.
00:48:45We have a stronger bond now.
00:48:47Don't you see that?
00:48:48No.
00:48:51Can't we just start from there?
00:48:54Can't we just start from the day that we first touched?
00:48:59I'll never talk to you.
00:49:01Baby, can't we just start from...
00:49:02No.
00:49:02Baby.
00:49:03No.
00:49:04Shut up.
00:49:04Don't call me baby.
00:49:05Shut up, Rick. Shut up.
00:49:07Maybe we look at relationships differently.
00:49:08Shut up.
00:49:11Where are you going?
00:49:13I don't care.
00:49:14Oh, ****.
00:49:16Oh, ****.
00:49:46Oh, babe.
00:49:47What are you cooking?
00:49:49I want to...
00:49:50I want you to go to the roof.
00:49:52And wait for me.
00:49:53Yeah, yeah.
00:49:54Alright.
00:49:55So, see you there.
00:49:56Okay, babe.
00:49:58Emma and I, we feel ourselves like we forget problems and we start refreshing again from the beginning.
00:50:05It, it, it, it, it, I never cooked for my girlfriend before.
00:50:11So, I feel nervous to cook for Emma.
00:50:17I want her to be perfect.
00:50:23Babe.
00:50:24Babe.
00:50:24You can just put it there.
00:50:26Babe, this is so cute.
00:50:29Thank you, babe.
00:50:31You look so nice.
00:50:32Thanks, babe.
00:50:34You look very handsome tonight.
00:50:35What did you make?
00:50:36Yeah.
00:50:37What do you think inside here?
00:50:39Tajine.
00:50:40So, I hope you will like it.
00:50:42Let's see.
00:50:43Ooh.
00:50:44That actually looks very good.
00:50:46So, as Muslim people, when we want to eat anything...
00:50:50Yeah.
00:50:51We say bismillah.
00:50:52Mm-hmm.
00:50:52Like bon appetit.
00:50:54Yeah.
00:50:54To you.
00:50:59Mm.
00:51:01So good.
00:51:02It's fine if you eat it or no.
00:51:04No.
00:51:05So good.
00:51:07Thank you for doing all this.
00:51:09I love the sweet side of you, because that makes me feel like you actually, like, love me.
00:51:15It's because I feel it.
00:51:17Do you feel romance in the air?
00:51:19We're passing this period of fighting.
00:51:22That's something good.
00:51:23I don't believe one day you will be here to eat dinner with me.
00:51:27Mm-hmm.
00:51:27I feel so, so happy to see you here, especially.
00:51:32It's like a dream and unreal.
00:51:35What's the word?
00:51:37We can't say it's...
00:51:37Unreal.
00:51:38Unreal.
00:51:39Mm-hmm.
00:51:41That was very sweet, babe.
00:51:43Look at you being so romantic today.
00:51:46I'm happy to be here, too.
00:51:48Yesterday it was 0%.
00:51:50Right now it's...
00:51:547%.
00:51:55So it's only at 7% now?
00:51:57Yeah.
00:51:57Well, it's slowly, slowly, step by step.
00:52:01We can't be, like, 0% and 50%.
00:52:04No.
00:52:08What percent do you need to actually get engaged?
00:52:10100?
00:52:11Exactly.
00:52:12And you're only at 7% right now?
00:52:14It's just numbers.
00:52:16With time, it will be more than 200.
00:52:18All right.
00:52:20On a scale from 0% to 100%, how much do you love me?
00:52:25Why are you always looking for this?
00:52:26How many cents?
00:52:27Because I need to know.
00:52:29I always say 70%.
00:52:3270%?
00:52:33Yeah.
00:52:33Okay.
00:52:34So you love me more than if you're sure you want to get engaged to me?
00:52:40Yeah, because engagement, it's a big thing.
00:52:42Okay.
00:52:43You see?
00:52:43All right.
00:52:44But you love me at 70.
00:52:46Mm-hmm.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47That's good.
00:52:50You know, it would have made this dinner 100 times better, some dessert.
00:52:54Mm-hmm.
00:52:55Mm-hmm.
00:52:57So you want to go to dessert?
00:52:59Huh?
00:53:00You want to go to dessert?
00:53:00You say dessert?
00:53:02Dessert.
00:53:03Desserve?
00:53:03Not the desert.
00:53:04Ah.
00:53:05Dessert.
00:53:06Desserve?
00:53:06Yeah, like ice cream.
00:53:08But yes, I do want to go to the desert.
00:53:14That's funny, because when we talked the first time, you told me you never see a camel.
00:53:18You are here right now in Marcos.
00:53:21And I know it's your birthday tomorrow.
00:53:22So I plan to take you to the desert.
00:53:25It would be nice.
00:53:27Aw, mate.
00:53:30I'm excited.
00:53:31That's like my dream, to go to the desert and ride a camel.
00:53:34Yeah, yeah.
00:53:35I think it's really sweet that Ziet is planning this desert trip for the both of us.
00:53:40I know that he's only at 7%, but I only have two weeks left of my trip, and I'm really
00:53:47hoping that a romantic getaway outside of the city will speed things up.
00:53:51What do you wear to ride a camel?
00:53:54Pants?
00:54:08I'm in a good mood.
00:54:09We're packing up, and we're going to like a romantic getaway in the desert, and it's my birthday.
00:54:14So happy birthday to me.
00:54:17Yep.
00:54:18And then there's more.
00:54:20What's going on?
00:54:21We were getting along really well, getting really flirty, and he came into my room, and we made out.
00:54:34And then we had sex.
00:54:38Twice.
00:54:41So I finally got all the physical touch I've been wanting, and it felt really good.
00:54:48And it was nice.
00:54:51I would say it's like a normal, it's like average size.
00:54:56It's nothing crazy, but it's not teeny tiny.
00:54:59It like, it fits in your hands.
00:55:02That's like the best way to describe it.
00:55:03I could deal with it.
00:55:06But I think he's really worried about how people are going to view him, especially because he is Muslim and
00:55:13like his religion and everything.
00:55:15But I had to tell someone.
00:55:17I feel like after having sex, we were in like a perfect place.
00:55:23He was being just so much nicer to me, and he was like telling me how much he loved me
00:55:27and how much he cared about me,
00:55:28and how like he does want a future with me.
00:55:33So, with the way the last night went, I could really see a proposal.
00:55:39And I think hopefully he changed his mind, and he's feeling just as sure as I am.
00:55:46I do feel better now that we finally did have sex.
00:55:50I think this means that we're getting a lot closer, but he still doesn't know about the whole Muhammad situation.
00:55:57I know that he does have questions about everything.
00:56:01And I feel like if I'm going to be that serious about him and our relationship, I don't want there
00:56:05to be any secrets.
00:56:06I don't want to lie to him about anything.
00:56:08My friends and family have kind of warned me that once he finds out about Muhammad, he's probably going to
00:56:13break up with me.
00:56:14That's the last thing that I want to happen.
00:56:17But I know that I'm going to need to tell him sooner rather than later.
00:56:37You look handsome. I like this on you. You really do. You look really...
00:56:43Awesome wine. You look beautiful and stunning.
00:56:47Wish me a wig off.
00:56:48You didn't think right for me. Now I'm giving her the time of her life for me.
00:56:52Come on and wine for me.
00:56:57I will teach you how to say thank you.
00:57:00I will teach you...
00:57:01Thank you is important. I want to know how to say thank you.
00:57:03Imana.
00:57:04Imana. Is this thank you? Imana.
00:57:07Imana. Thank you.
00:57:10Going without my wig for the first time in front of Daniel,
00:57:13was a very vulnerable experience for me.
00:57:18And Daniel didn't respond the way I had hoped.
00:57:22Putting the wig back on today was horrible.
00:57:25And now he's responding to me like I'm the most beautiful creature on earth yet again.
00:57:31Does he not love me for who I am?
00:57:34I'm thinking about what Faith said,
00:57:36and I'm starting to question what Daniel's intentions really are.
00:57:42I'm a little nervous. Is there anything I should know?
00:57:46You don't have to be nervous because they're my friends.
00:57:49I know them very well.
00:57:50That's why I invited them. They're my friends.
00:57:52I know they're your friends, but they're not my friends.
00:57:55And I'm going and they're going to judge me.
00:57:57But needless to say, I'm going to judge you through them.
00:58:03Daniel tonight is taking me to meet his friends and his cousin.
00:58:06And I'm hoping they can shed some light on a few things about Daniel.
00:58:13Daniel and I don't talk about our past relationships.
00:58:16That's why mine has never been mentioned,
00:58:18because every time I try to talk to Daniel, he shuts up.
00:58:22He doesn't talk about his past at all.
00:58:24So meeting his friends is a great opportunity to know more about Daniel
00:58:28and understand who he is.
00:58:31I'm going to have a seat.
00:58:44My beautiful queen is coming back from the United States.
00:58:50Her name is Lisa.
00:58:52Welcome.
00:58:54Thank you so much.
00:58:55so this is Emmanuel and this is George George yeah this is love day happy to
00:59:04witness this event today honestly honestly we are so happy Lisa is older
00:59:13than Daniel she might not be his type I think he has fully see Lisa and I think
00:59:21he's comfortable with us she will make a good to home I know him when I was there when I
00:59:33was about
00:59:3311 years oh my goodness no you know where I'm from very poor family I'm wearing good clothes
00:59:40today is because of her Wow you can tell I know him as someone that has only one pair of
00:59:47shoe
00:59:47really yeah you didn't tell me these things um I was afraid I used to wear um just a pair
00:59:55of
00:59:55shirts with some eye openings on the on the obitox is that true really so um without her I don't
01:00:03know
01:00:03where I don't know where I would be today do you know why the relationship is perfect why do you
01:00:10know why no because you're that transformed his life we should continue doing that don't debate from
01:00:17it well it's not easy I have to say it's not easy helping Daniel I work 15 hour days seven
01:00:30days a
01:00:30week that's how Daniel is changing because I'm working the hard times and it concerns me because
01:00:38he doesn't share much of his past with me I want to know more about your old life baby okay
01:00:46so I do
01:00:48have a question was he very popular with ladies he's a handsome guy is a black woman loves me so
01:01:04much
01:01:04but that was the past yes I've not bring any woman I've not brought any woman in my family in
01:01:12the name
01:01:13of getting married to the woman you know that's when when Daniel came at me on social media out of
01:01:21the blue I thought he was a scam artist I thought he was fake I did not think he was
01:01:27real so I didn't
01:01:28totally trust Daniel for a little while it took me it took him a minute to get me to trust
01:01:34him I'm just
01:01:37surprised that he's only been with me since December and he's already proposed honestly thank God that
01:01:44he's the one and you see you've helped him in different areas he's just like an angel who can choose
01:01:52life all I'm hearing right now is I am Daniel Savior he is a new man it's giving me a
01:02:01bit of a pause
01:02:03you know there's something that happened before I came to Nigeria that Daniel hasn't been able to
01:02:09explain to me he has been sincere to you he has been honest he is truthful you seem to be
01:02:20sweating a
01:02:21little bit over there I have to sweat because I don't know you just need to have trust yes but
01:02:27the
01:02:27thing is Daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking to me
01:02:38be honest because I will walk out if you're not
01:02:45are we going to have more debt more financial problems because you can't stop gambling
01:02:52for Valentine's Day I sent you money did you gamble that yeah you regret like marrying me
01:03:29no I mean it seemed like you had to think about it for a minute no I love you it's
01:03:35just that I want you
01:03:37to you know like I guess I want you to be more like positive I just want you to overlook
01:03:46the
01:03:46negativity you're making me feel uncomfortable like you're not enjoying your time with I'm enjoying the
01:03:53time makes me feel really did you see me yesterday when I was doing this yeah but I couldn't fit
01:03:59you're
01:03:59doing all the things that you have to do but you always have to leave a remark look I can
01:04:08promise you
01:04:08this I'm gonna do my best to not you know throwing your face about what I do in the marriage
01:04:18like provide
01:04:22for you and I promise you not to be so negative but I mean can you make me a promise
01:04:31and just ease up on
01:04:33me a little bit cut me a little bit of slack I actually feel bad when you feel bad and
01:04:42I feel guilty I
01:04:43feel like sometimes I act I overreact to things I just really want to have a good time please
01:04:52well I do too but I feel like you always look constipated like oh because I'm always being
01:05:19in the room the whole time I don't want you to be too comfortable because it's still my brain oh
01:05:26my
01:05:26god you don't say that you jinx it you have to try it with cheese I mean but don't you
01:05:34think
01:05:34that's a weird combination if you're going to rate it one to five how is probably a two a two
01:05:41yeah
01:05:41really this is a 90 year old man in the last stages of his life basically that's how you're making
01:05:52me
01:05:52sound so we good all right yes we made up right now but because of the last few days I
01:06:07kind of worried
01:06:08about the future we struggled to get along during our honeymoon how are we gonna get along for the rest
01:06:17of our lives come here come sit on my lap we've been together six years in a long-distance relationship
01:06:27and now that we're finally get to be together physically you see everything about your partner
01:06:37and I hope that Jovon and I can take all the good with the bad but right now I don't
01:06:46know
01:07:05how often are you gambling if I have money I gamble so actually it could be every day
01:07:20is gambling part of all of this debt no I still trying to pay but that is why
01:07:29I have to gamble because I need money and I have nowhere to find
01:07:37I gamble I make more money I have a progress that's how my friends and I paid our rent for
01:07:45a long time
01:07:46that's how we live
01:07:52I'm angry I'm hurt I am shocked I think gambling is fine like when you have money to to lose
01:08:02but he doesn't have anything the fact that he thinks that he can gamble instead of actually
01:08:09going out and finding a job is ridiculously concerning to me that's not a job I don't
01:08:16even understand what he's thinking so instead of a gift for Valentine's Day I sent you money
01:08:33like 150 dollars yeah yeah and that makes 5,000
01:08:38and we made it 20 I guess and we paid our rent it is like you sent us money but
01:08:46it wasn't solving
01:08:48anything it's just okay we can eat but maybe three days later we have to empty the house you know
01:08:55but what if you would have lost that I will figure it out but I
01:09:03that was money that I sent you for you and if you would have lost it and been like hey
01:09:08I lost the
01:09:08money that you gave me I would be livid I'm actually kind of livid right now that seems irresponsible
01:09:13to me what can I say I'm trying to make a way out for us so if you gambling is
01:09:21something I
01:09:22have to do is gambling an addiction gambling is not an addiction for me if I was addicted I didn't
01:09:34I
01:09:34don't care if I lose or win but I care and I'm winning if you come to America and we're
01:09:44sharing our
01:09:45life we're sharing our money we're sharing our banks are you gonna pick it up and gamble it
01:09:49because you just money well it would be our money no it is your money how I don't gamble with
01:09:55your
01:09:55money but I will get already did but how do you have something that's specifically yours if we're
01:10:04married wouldn't it always be ours no it is like if I it is like if I make five thousand
01:10:11per month
01:10:12I will give you four thousand but I will tell you that one thousand dollar I need and I will
01:10:18bet with
01:10:19that and I will make that one thousand maybe nothing maybe fifty thousand because this is me
01:10:28this is my life this is how I do things
01:10:34gambling is just a way to make money I started when I was having financial struggle because you
01:10:43know I had nothing but now mostly I just bet some football games because that's what I used to do
01:10:50for
01:10:51living just I can't play but I can bet if we do go through with this and apply for that
01:10:59K-1 visa I am
01:11:00financially responsible for you for like 10 years and I guess that's my concern is that are we going to
01:11:08have more debt more financial problems because you can't stop gambling no because if I hit a grand
01:11:17jackpot I won you know I have money see I succeeded so until you feel like you're successful you're gonna
01:11:27keep gambling yeah it's super alarming to me to hear that he thinks that this is the best way to
01:11:40make money
01:11:41and knowing that I will be financially responsible for him concerns me greatly
01:11:48this is really serious and I feel like I should just pull the plug and go home now
01:12:00this girl ended up calling me and pretty much told me he's a scam artist because he's going after more
01:12:07women than
01:12:07just me that are in America I am here begging you for some truth of what Daniel actually is and
01:12:17if I don't
01:12:17come home with everything on Daniel I will not be coming back to this country
01:12:30Daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking to me
01:12:40this girl ended up calling me
01:12:41be honest because I will walk out if you're not
01:12:53yes I can't remember the last time I talked to the lady and um I was I was talking to
01:12:59you and she was disturbing me
01:13:05this girl ended up calling me
01:13:10and talking to me telling me all these things that Daniel was saying to her and she also um pretty
01:13:17much told me he's a scam artist because he's going after more women than just me that are in America
01:13:22did you know about this woman that he was talking to
01:13:26um
01:13:27um
01:13:30to be sincere I don't know about that
01:13:34a couple months ago an American woman got in touch with me on social media
01:13:38and basically told me Daniel was talking to her at the same time he was talking to me
01:13:44she sent me screenshots of her and Daniel's conversation she sent me personal pictures Daniel sent to her of himself
01:13:52and he called her baby that hurt me it still hurts me
01:13:57Daniel said she's just a friend and after he blocked her I gave him the benefit of the doubt and
01:14:04I deleted the screenshots because I believed him
01:14:08but the more I'm hearing his friends say how I changed his life
01:14:12the more I'm wondering if this woman was right
01:14:15and Daniel was just looking for any American woman who was willing to respond
01:14:21she said that you were going after her strong and she wasn't giving you the time of the day
01:14:26so what do you want to say about that Daniel
01:14:30that is on social media right
01:14:31it is on social media
01:14:33so social media I have a lot of friends there
01:14:35you do you do but we're not talking about them
01:14:38we're talking
01:14:38no no I'm not on this team
01:14:40I'm asking you about her because you did talk to her
01:14:43that's why I told you that before I met you
01:14:46there's some other ladies
01:14:48who wants they wanted me
01:14:50and some of them were you know coming after me
01:14:53like I told you
01:14:54but she wasn't you were going after her
01:14:55no no
01:14:56yes you were Daniel
01:14:57I never did
01:14:57yes you did you wanted her as an American
01:15:00I never did
01:15:00she told me so
01:15:01I never went to her
01:15:01I never went to her to you know for friendship or any relationship
01:15:06there's something more going on Daniel
01:15:13I don't know I don't know why she's trying to accuse me
01:15:15have you pursued Americans before Lisa?
01:15:22I do talk to other women
01:15:24from America?
01:15:25from America?
01:15:25yes from America
01:15:26I do talk to other women from America
01:15:28I only chat them you know
01:15:30ask them how they're doing you know
01:15:31ask them how the day went you know
01:15:33that's the only thing I do
01:15:35but I've not tried to date an American lady before
01:15:38no Lisa is the first lady that's you know
01:15:41that came into my life
01:15:44well I love Daniel
01:15:45yes
01:15:45but nobody is perfect
01:15:47and I am here begging you
01:15:49for some truth of what Daniel actually is
01:15:57I need to clear all this up before we get married
01:16:02maybe she lies
01:16:03yes
01:16:08um
01:16:10it's not funny
01:16:15all I want to say
01:16:17I want you to trust him
01:16:21why should I?
01:16:22tell me why
01:16:23I know him very very well
01:16:25I know why I actually trust him
01:16:29he cannot disappoint you
01:16:31I'm the one working 15 hour days
01:16:33I'm the one working 7 days a week
01:16:36to make sure he looks like this
01:16:38so I am giving up stuff to be here
01:16:40my family is worried about me
01:16:42they have every concern
01:16:44and if I don't come home with everything on Daniel
01:16:47I will not be coming back to this country
01:16:49and if you're not going to share it with me
01:16:51I will find it
01:16:52I'm not hiding
01:16:53I didn't hide anything
01:16:54you picked me from the gutter
01:16:56you cluttered me
01:16:58you feed me
01:16:59so why should I be playing with you?
01:17:03why should I be, you know
01:17:04playing games
01:17:12I feel like his friends are protecting him
01:17:14as every friend
01:17:15if they're a really good friend
01:17:16should have your back
01:17:17but I feel like a sugar mom
01:17:21they kept saying it over and over and over again
01:17:23I'm an angel
01:17:24I have saved Daniel from the street
01:17:27I'm sitting here wondering
01:17:29is he a scam artist?
01:17:31is he after me for my money?
01:17:32I just don't think he's telling me the full truth
01:17:35I think he's given me little nibbles
01:17:38of what is reality
01:17:39and it's going to be up to me to put together this puzzle piece
01:17:43I appreciate you guys coming and meeting me
01:17:46I was just hoping for a little bit more than this
01:17:48from my own opinion
01:17:50I think you're scared for heartbroken
01:17:52you don't want to be hurt anymore
01:17:59I'd rather you stay here
01:18:00and not coming here
01:18:03I cannot be with someone
01:18:05who still have feelings for their ex
01:18:09I cannot
01:18:10I'm sorry
01:18:12I know now that I was wrong
01:18:14please
01:18:15forgive me
01:18:22you
01:18:33we're both back to
01:18:36Nosey Bay
01:18:37it's here
01:18:38okay
01:18:39so let's go back
01:18:42Don't touch me. Don't touch me.
01:18:45Don't make it worse. Just leave me alone.
01:19:06Are you ready?
01:19:17I don't want to even look at him.
01:19:24I thought he's different from my ex.
01:19:28Like, a good guy, a good father, a good boyfriend.
01:19:34Faithful, but Rick didn't tell me the truth.
01:19:39He was not honest with me.
01:19:43Go ahead.
01:19:45What are you waiting for? Go.
01:19:48Waiting for you.
01:19:50What you care?
01:19:52I told him that I was hurting from my past relationship,
01:19:58but here we are, same story again.
01:20:06Maybe.
01:20:07Uh-uh. Just don't talk.
01:20:09How long are you not going to talk to me?
01:20:11Why are you kidding about that?
01:20:12How long I'm going to talk or not?
01:20:14Because I want to resolve this.
01:20:15Resolve what?
01:20:16You didn't remember what you did?
01:20:18I do remember.
01:20:21I'd rather you stay here and not coming here.
01:20:27I refuse to believe that you regret me coming.
01:20:31I've seen the love in your eyes.
01:20:34You know, just allow me the opportunity
01:20:36to show you how committed I am to you.
01:20:45I told you I'm ashamed of what I did.
01:20:47I'm not proud of you.
01:20:48You were not even ashamed.
01:20:50Because I explained to you after the five days,
01:20:53but you still went to Columbia.
01:20:55So why didn't you cancel?
01:20:58Because even after those five days,
01:21:01things still didn't add up.
01:21:02And I felt like I was just getting strung along.
01:21:07Because I thought you were cheating on me,
01:21:09and I felt like it's my fault.
01:21:13It's my fault.
01:21:15We didn't really start communicating like before
01:21:19until I got back.
01:21:22So in your mind is,
01:21:25even if she already explained to me,
01:21:27I will still go because I want to revenge her.
01:21:34In some ways, that's true.
01:21:39I mean, I know now that I was wrong.
01:21:49Please.
01:21:50I want you to forgive me.
01:21:57I have nothing to say, Rick.
01:22:02I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for their ex.
01:22:10I'd rather he told me, like, for coming here.
01:22:14Now, I don't know what to tell my dad.
01:22:19My whole family.
01:22:26I don't know what to tell them.
01:22:28I don't know what to tell them.
01:22:29I'm going to cry.
01:22:31Don't touch me, Rick.
01:22:34It's not like I'm giving up on us.
01:22:40We just have to work to move.
01:22:42I cannot.
01:22:43I'm sorry.
01:22:53Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:55Oh, my God.
01:22:58Sied and I are going for a little romantic getaway
01:23:00outside of the city.
01:23:02I have a nice birthday surprise for you later.
01:23:05A surprise?
01:23:06Yeah.
01:23:06We're really connecting, and Sied's always known
01:23:09that I've wanted a proposal on my birthday.
01:23:12I have one more thing for you.
01:23:14Okay.
01:23:18This is us.
01:23:19I'm very excited to see where my wife lives
01:23:23and where my money is going.
01:23:26Wow, bro.
01:23:28This is a lot bigger than what I initially thought.
01:23:32Everywhere I look, I just see dollar signs,
01:23:35a lot of travel photos, huge closets.
01:23:38It makes me feel taken advantage of.
01:23:42I know it is hard to understand my lifestyle, my choices.
01:23:50BeerCon has what I can only consider to be a gambling problem,
01:23:54and it's really making me second guess
01:23:57any kind of future I could have with BeerCon.
01:24:00You know, that is why you are so special to me.
01:24:03Even if we have problems,
01:24:06we will find a solution.
01:24:10Until yesterday,
01:24:12you did not know anything about Sheena's finances.
01:24:16You didn't know the truth about her relationship with her family.
01:24:21Is this a person you can trust?
01:24:25These were big lies for us.
01:24:28She did lie about almost everything.
01:24:33It really hurts being deep in my court.
01:24:36But I can't be with someone who is going to constantly lie to me.
01:24:43Hi!
01:24:45Tonight, we're meeting up with my Aunt Spring.
01:24:47Heard a lot about you.
01:24:49And there's some things that I do have questions about.
01:24:53I do understand why Aviva has fallen for Stig,
01:24:56but I don't think that he is the great person that she believes him to be.
01:25:01So, I have heard some things.
01:25:05I mean, this is you, isn't it?
01:25:11I came here to be with you,
01:25:13but I want answers.
01:25:15Say it.
01:25:16I don't want to find out by her.
01:25:18I want to find out from you.
01:25:19I cannot step to what I didn't do.
01:25:21I can't.
01:25:22He is lying to me,
01:25:23and he's trying to make me look insane.
01:25:26I don't want to believe there's others.
01:25:28I need this lady to write back to me,
01:25:30because I need to know.
01:25:32Is he a scammer?
01:25:34Did she write?
01:25:35Yes, she wrote a lot.
01:25:40Oh, God.
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