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00:00:00So excited to show David around. My hopes are...
00:00:03They're here.
00:00:05When the couples took off across the country,
00:00:08they tasted married life beyond the experiment.
00:00:12You've always told me, don't come here to Sydney for me.
00:00:15Well, I'm open to moving now.
00:00:17And for Stephen...
00:00:18Must admit, I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed.
00:00:21He gave Rachel the reassurance she needed
00:00:24to begin their next chapter together.
00:00:26What I see is a wife outside the experiment
00:00:29It really reaffirms the feelings are real,
00:00:32the feelings are neutral.
00:00:35My feelings are, like, they're pretty gone.
00:00:39Emotions ran high for some...
00:00:41You should be able to say something nice
00:00:43and be genuine about it.
00:00:44And despite winning over her nearest and dearest...
00:00:47David is everything that you've asked for.
00:00:50I don't know, I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it.
00:00:52David still felt he wasn't able to be the calm to Alyssa's storm.
00:00:57She still sees negatives.
00:00:58There's nothing else I can do.
00:01:00What's that?
00:01:01Why is it pink?
00:01:02Is it your ex's or something?
00:01:03And on the Gold Coast...
00:01:05I see you being pressured.
00:01:06Like, you need to be able to voice your concerns.
00:01:07Like, are you scared about her reaction?
00:01:09Pretty much.
00:01:10Scott struggled to voice his issues with Gia.
00:01:13I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells.
00:01:15Do you know what I mean?
00:01:15I mean, like, no, no, no, what I'm saying is, like...
00:01:17I didn't know you wanted to argue today.
00:01:20Tonight.
00:01:22In just a short time, you have one of the biggest decisions
00:01:25that you're going to have to make.
00:01:27Whether or not you can take this relationship
00:01:30into the real world and make it a success.
00:01:34Welcome.
00:01:35It's the last commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:01:39This is a very pivotal night.
00:01:41And after two months of marriage,
00:01:43uncomfortable truths will be exposed.
00:01:46I want a partner who can have
00:01:48a constructive conversation with me about an issue.
00:01:51I can't mind reading.
00:01:52It's not mind reading.
00:01:52It's not mind reading.
00:01:53Oh, my gosh, I can't.
00:01:54I cannot.
00:01:54Boom.
00:01:55David reveals what's really going on
00:01:57in his relationship with Alyssa.
00:01:59You did mention I was a weak man.
00:02:01She called you a weak man?
00:02:02Yeah.
00:02:03So that's a problem.
00:02:05No, no, no, do not blame me.
00:02:07After weeks of giving her heart to Danny...
00:02:09I'm not going to walk down to final vows
00:02:12with someone that's a maybe about me.
00:02:15Is this the night Beck finally calls it quits?
00:02:18I'm not doing it.
00:02:20I'm not.
00:02:21And then...
00:02:22What I'm seeing here is fake.
00:02:25I'm going to call you out.
00:02:26I've seen it the entire experiment.
00:02:29If you don't let us in, you're not going to last.
00:02:32It's Scott's moment of truth.
00:02:35I'm getting a bit nervous.
00:02:40What I'm going to talk about tonight is
00:02:42I don't want you to be upset.
00:02:44What I'm going to talk about is feelings
00:02:46where I...
00:02:49Take a breath.
00:02:52Breathe.
00:03:10It's the morning of the final commitment ceremony.
00:03:14Yummy.
00:03:16Get some caffeine.
00:03:17Cheat.
00:03:18Yeah.
00:03:19And after eight weeks in the experiment,
00:03:21tonight marks the last time
00:03:23the couples will come face-to-face with the experts.
00:03:27How'd you sleep?
00:03:28Yeah, I slept really well.
00:03:29Really, really well.
00:03:30I love our little midnight make-out sessions.
00:03:33Some people have chats.
00:03:34We have make-out sessions.
00:03:35We have make-out sessions.
00:03:36Yeah.
00:03:37I love it.
00:03:38This week, during homestays,
00:03:40the couples were tested
00:03:41as they prepare for a life outside the experiment.
00:03:45It was good.
00:03:45I'm just enjoying the last couple of weeks.
00:03:48Stella and Philip continue to evolve as a couple,
00:03:51having said,
00:03:52I love you.
00:03:55Rachel and Stephen have been slower to open their hearts.
00:03:59But day by day, their connection grows.
00:04:02It was really good to tell everyone about our homestays
00:04:05and even reflecting on it,
00:04:07like, after last night's dinner party.
00:04:09Do I dare say that we're one of the strongest in the group now?
00:04:15Dare to say it, babes,
00:04:16because I've been saying it.
00:04:22For Alyssa and David,
00:04:25homestays has exposed cracks in their relationship.
00:04:30I feel like David and I
00:04:32have been a strong couple throughout this experiment.
00:04:35I still believe we are,
00:04:36because we have each other's back.
00:04:38It's just hard to be careful.
00:04:39It's just...
00:04:39You know, we have been honest with each other
00:04:41about a lot of things.
00:04:42But since homestays, it's taken a turn.
00:04:45We have had deep conversations, big conversations,
00:04:48and David's maybe held back
00:04:51from saying what he really felt in that moment
00:04:53or questioning what I meant in that moment.
00:04:55And now, towards the end of the experiment,
00:04:57it's all coming out.
00:04:59How are you feeling?
00:05:01Um, I'm feeling...
00:05:05like...
00:05:06we've got a lot going on right now at the moment.
00:05:09Just, uh, we're not really understanding each other.
00:05:12Yeah.
00:05:13I feel like we have a lot to unpack
00:05:14and a lot to, you know, break down.
00:05:17And, yeah, there are some cracks.
00:05:18And, you know, the pressure of the experiment ending,
00:05:21it's definitely taken its toll on me.
00:05:27I felt in homestay...
00:05:28Yeah.
00:05:28..that I'm like, OK, he's keen to move to Adelaide.
00:05:31Wait, I haven't met his family.
00:05:32Wait, I haven't met his friends.
00:05:33Oh, wait, I don't even know he's got multiple jobs.
00:05:35Like, I don't know if he's stable.
00:05:37I want to have a family.
00:05:38Like, this is me spiralling
00:05:39because I'm like, this is too good to be true.
00:05:42Obviously, homestays is quite late,
00:05:43but it's brought up a lot of other things
00:05:45that we should have dealt with a long time ago.
00:05:47Like, have the conversations
00:05:49if you don't agree with something
00:05:51or have the conversation or ask the questions
00:05:52when you don't understand something that I've said.
00:05:54Well, all I'm going to say is...
00:05:56We should have gone there, but we haven't.
00:05:58And I haven't felt, like, challenged enough.
00:06:02You need to break through that softness
00:06:03and be strong with me
00:06:04because I want to be a team with you
00:06:06and talk things through and, um, you know, like...
00:06:10It's so frustrating to sit here
00:06:12trying to express my side of the story
00:06:15and I can hardly get a word in.
00:06:17I feel like there are holes.
00:06:18I think there was a...
00:06:19All I'll say is...
00:06:20There are cracks.
00:06:20There was a bit of, like...
00:06:23The last couple of days,
00:06:25what I've been struggling with
00:06:26is I haven't been as, like,
00:06:28willing to have those...
00:06:30Hard conversations.
00:06:31Hard conversations with you
00:06:32about how I was feeling.
00:06:33But, babe, like, if you don't talk to me
00:06:35about your reservations,
00:06:36that's not healthy, babe.
00:06:38Yeah.
00:06:39Talk to me.
00:06:40We need to voice.
00:06:42And that's what I need in this relationship.
00:06:43And that's...
00:06:44You're not fulfilling that need for me.
00:06:46And I believe that it's right
00:06:48to put it all out on the table.
00:06:50I don't ever want to have to hold back.
00:06:52I don't think it's that you hold back,
00:06:53but I think one thing about you
00:06:55is you hold on too much and then...
00:06:57Babe, I know, but...
00:06:57Babe, you...
00:07:13Babe...
00:07:13It's like the only thing about you,
00:07:14and she's wanted this for a long time.
00:07:15But it's not just like that with Alyssa.
00:07:18It's not.
00:07:18Respect is only on her terms
00:07:20and the relationship only goes her way
00:07:23or the highway.
00:07:24So that is a big deal break for me as well.
00:07:26It is the first time where I feel like both of us are very disconnected a lot more than we
00:07:33ever have going into a commitment ceremony.
00:07:35And tonight I'm just going to be completely honest because I've hit my limit and I'm not going to like
00:07:42hold back.
00:07:43I'm just going to put it all on the table.
00:07:49As for Danny, his controversial views resulted in a tense argument with Bec at last night's dinner party.
00:07:58It makes you feel like a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman.
00:08:02What are you on about?
00:08:04He's talking about feeling emasculated if she was the one who owned the house.
00:08:10F*** me!
00:08:14And this morning, they are still struggling to resolve the issue.
00:08:18People can feel how they want to feel.
00:08:20You know what I mean?
00:08:21Whether other people agree with it or not, like, it's not up to them.
00:08:25This is how I feel.
00:08:26I feel like moving in with a woman, she doesn't feel very manly of me, you know?
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:33You don't understand.
00:08:34I do understand. I get what you're saying.
00:08:36But I suppose if we're talking about creating a life together after this experiment,
00:08:43then you're going to have to get over that.
00:08:48Am I right or am I right?
00:08:51The funny thing is with Bec, when she feels a kind of way, it's a completely valid feeling.
00:08:56That's how she feels.
00:08:58But when I say it makes me feel this way, oh, no, but that's not right.
00:09:03It's not actually to do with you being a woman.
00:09:05I wouldn't move in with anyone and just, like, freeload off them.
00:09:09You pay the bills, I'll pay the mortgage, we're done.
00:09:10Easy.
00:09:12Finito.
00:09:14Other than that, we had a great night.
00:09:16Yes, sir, yeah.
00:09:18And whilst Bec and Danny continue to disagree,
00:09:22our other couples are preparing for the final commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:09:28You look great.
00:09:30You too.
00:09:31Yep.
00:09:32Yeah.
00:09:33Very pure, you know.
00:09:35Yeah.
00:09:36Yeah.
00:09:36Very appropriate.
00:09:37Very appropriate.
00:09:39As our couples face the experts for the last time,
00:09:43a defining choice awaits.
00:09:47Tonight, they must decide.
00:09:50Stay in the experiment through to final vows,
00:09:54or walk away from their marriages for good.
00:10:01For Scott, the pressure is mounting.
00:10:04He feels it is now or never to reveal his true feelings to his bride, Gia.
00:10:10Final commitment ceremony tonight.
00:10:13Crazy, isn't it?
00:10:15Yeah.
00:10:16Can you believe that we've made it this far?
00:10:20Yeah, I definitely didn't imagine it.
00:10:25I do think we had a great week.
00:10:27I don't think we're going to have too much feedback tonight.
00:10:30I think it was great.
00:10:32Like, I can't fault homestays.
00:10:34It went really well.
00:10:35Positive, good vibes, you know.
00:10:37So, hopefully not getting grilled hard tonight.
00:10:41I feel like I've been hit a bit throughout this experiment from the experts.
00:10:46Yeah.
00:10:47Yeah.
00:10:51What else?
00:10:55I get nervous going to the commitment ceremony
00:10:59because I still can't be 100% myself,
00:11:02and I feel like I just can't have a voice sometimes
00:11:05because she thinks we're going to have an argument,
00:11:07and I want her to be able to understand that we need to speak anecdotally,
00:11:09knowing that if I have a concern or she has a concern,
00:11:12we can talk, and it's not going to lead to a disaster.
00:11:14You've got to be able to communicate.
00:11:16So, you ready for tonight?
00:11:18I don't like commitment ceremonies, you know that.
00:11:21Yeah.
00:11:22I feel like we're at the point where, you know, we're almost falling in love.
00:11:26Yeah.
00:11:27Then I feel like if she feels more than me and she doesn't get anything back from me,
00:11:32she'll start spiralling and start saying harshful things to me.
00:11:36Very harshful things.
00:11:39And so then I feel like I can't talk, and I go quiet, and I go flat.
00:11:47That retracts me every time, and that's what pushes me away from falling in love,
00:11:50and I don't think she understands that.
00:11:52So you've just got to look at the positives, you know?
00:11:57Personally, I'd love to speak up and share everything because it's good to get feedback.
00:12:02But there's another side of me where I feel like I want to protect my wife.
00:12:06I don't want to feel unstable, upset, or, you know, get nervous or have a breakdown.
00:12:10So, you know, I think, how is she going to react if I say these things?
00:12:13All right.
00:12:14See you in there.
00:12:17Bye.
00:12:18Sometimes I'm like, well, I'm just not going to talk about it.
00:12:22I'm just in the air.
00:12:23I don't know what to do.
00:12:24Bye.
00:12:25Bye.
00:12:46Hello.
00:12:46Hi.
00:12:48How are you guys?
00:12:49Very well.
00:12:50Welcome.
00:12:50Hello, guys.
00:12:52Hi.
00:12:52Hello.
00:12:53Good evening.
00:12:54Welcome.
00:12:54Hi.
00:12:58Hi.
00:13:17Hello, ladies.
00:13:18Hello.
00:13:18I'm Chris.
00:13:19Hi.
00:13:30Welcome everybody to the very final commitment ceremony of this experiment.
00:13:36Now, this is a very, very pivotal night because it is the very last time that you get to sit
00:13:43in front of the experts and to hear the feedback that we have in front of the experts and to
00:13:47hear the feedback that we have for you.
00:13:50Now, in just a short time, you have one of the biggest decisions that you're going to have to make,
00:13:54whether or not you can take this relationship in the experiment into the real world and make it a success.
00:14:02And as we know as experts, if you are not completely vulnerable with your partner at this stage of the
00:14:10experiment, then your relationship will crumble on the outside.
00:14:14It will not last.
00:14:19Now, with that being said, let's get our first couple up.
00:14:27Alyssa and David.
00:14:38Hello.
00:14:40Hello.
00:14:42So, how are things?
00:14:45Um, you know what?
00:14:47Last time we were on the couch, things were moving in the right direction.
00:14:52They still are, but we do have some hiccups that we're trying to work through at the moment.
00:14:58Okay.
00:14:59Um, obviously I'll start by saying, you know, Alyssa is an amazing girl, but personally I feel like I have,
00:15:09you know, carried a lot of the emotional weight in the relationship.
00:15:12This is just how I feel.
00:15:15What do you mean when you say carried most of the emotional weight?
00:15:18I feel like there has been times where I personally put my emotions aside just to make sure that there
00:15:26was just peace.
00:15:29And this is a thing where, like, I have tried to bring something up at the start of the relationship
00:15:34to Alyssa, and I felt like she was not receptive to it.
00:15:38So, what that ended up doing for me was making me be more cautious of bringing stuff up to her.
00:15:44Mm-hmm.
00:15:48It was more the reaction of, is it going to become an argument that was going to go out of
00:15:52hand?
00:15:54So, what happened with all of that emotion as you described it?
00:15:58If you weren't expressing that to Alyssa, what were you doing with it?
00:16:07Well, anything little that I didn't really care about, it didn't really affect me, so I'd brush over it.
00:16:12But, um, what happened in Homestays was I feel like it triggered me.
00:16:16Okay.
00:16:17I was saying Adelaide is a livable place, but I felt like Alyssa was being a bit negative about the
00:16:24move.
00:16:25I feel like she was pointing out all of the reasons why it won't work, which are all valid.
00:16:29We all know that there is things to work out in the real world.
00:16:32But it felt like, for me, she was too in her head about it, that it's affecting me right now.
00:16:42Do you know why?
00:16:43Because I'm feeling very frustrated at this part of the experiment.
00:16:47This is our last couch session, and I'm feeling like there has been some holdback.
00:16:52And some of our couch sessions could have been things that we could be working through if we had more
00:16:56open conversations.
00:16:58I feel like he doesn't want to have, like, conflict.
00:17:01But I feel like there is healthy conflict resolution.
00:17:04Otherwise, my relationship, in my eyes, this is too good to be true.
00:17:07Can I just stay?
00:17:10I want a partner who can have a constructive conversation with me about an issue.
00:17:16But a partner that shuts you down and tells you what they're saying is Bible, it is an issue.
00:17:22Why haven't I actually spoken down on you in a bad way?
00:17:25Like, I don't...
00:17:25Well, there's things you've said.
00:17:27I don't want to, I don't want to, like...
00:17:29Well, an example could be helpful for Alyssa here.
00:17:32Well, she has...
00:17:33You did mention that I was a weak man at one point.
00:17:37She called you a weak man?
00:17:39Yeah.
00:17:42So, that's a problem.
00:17:58Well, she has...
00:17:59You did mention that I was a weak man at one point.
00:18:03She called you a weak man?
00:18:05Yeah.
00:18:08So, that's a problem.
00:18:15What was the context around that?
00:18:18It was in one of our talks about, like, she's got assets, she's ahead in life, and she wants
00:18:23a guy that can match that.
00:18:25So, financially weak.
00:18:26Yeah.
00:18:27How did it feel when she said that?
00:18:29Well, I just thought, where's this coming from?
00:18:31And the thing about me is, like, I pick what I want to, like, get upset about, and I didn't.
00:18:37Maybe I should have combated that at the time.
00:18:44Alyssa, what was going on for you?
00:18:45What did you want to achieve from saying that to him?
00:18:49I was getting frustrated because I'm wanting more from David.
00:18:52I'm wanting to see more from him.
00:18:54And I feel like I want to be strong together as a couple.
00:18:58I think where I'm struggling is, it's, she wants me to be strong on her timeline.
00:19:03And that's where it feels like it is your way, or you're not happy.
00:19:10David, do you feel like you're enough for Alyssa?
00:19:12I feel like I'm 100% enough.
00:19:17Do you think she thinks you're enough?
00:19:19I think she does, but the questions that I'm getting are, like, they are confusing me.
00:19:24So, what are these questions that are confusing you?
00:19:27Well, the first thing is she's wondering, like, you know, energy, like, in five years or whatever.
00:19:33Is that going to be enough to sustain her?
00:19:34And she has said to me, if I'm not getting the fix I need, I'll go look elsewhere, essentially.
00:19:40No, I didn't say that.
00:19:42She said, I'm hungry, you need to feed me, you need to feed me.
00:19:45I've taught you more in this relationship than you've taught me.
00:19:47I'm wanting to, like, open-ended conversations and stuff.
00:19:50I'm wanting to go deep.
00:19:52Like, I'm putting all my cards on the table, I'm very direct.
00:19:55Like, I'll talk about stuff.
00:19:57I need some sort of fuel, like, it's just, it's what I like.
00:20:00But I don't know if our relationship is going to last in the real world, if this is the gap.
00:20:10I don't know if we're going to be a good match long term, if this is the energy, because I
00:20:14need to see David in his element.
00:20:16I need to see David with his family.
00:20:17I need to see David with his friends.
00:20:18I need to see what he does.
00:20:20Like, I want to have a family in the next few years.
00:20:28And, like, if we want to talk about me seeing things work in the real world, what I need to
00:20:32see as well is if someone says they want to have open-ended conversations, that has to be it.
00:20:37What's happened in this relationship is I've done a lot of listening.
00:20:40Alyssa has done a lot of talking.
00:20:43That's the fact.
00:20:44You need to speak up.
00:20:45No, no, no, but, like, it's, I don't, one thing about me is I think we're both adults, and I
00:20:51want to see that in her, that she has the ability to listen.
00:20:54I can't mind read.
00:20:55It's not mind reading.
00:20:55It's not mind reading.
00:20:56Oh, my gosh, I can't.
00:20:56I cannot.
00:20:57I know, I can't mind read, babe.
00:20:59You're frustrating me because I can't read your mind.
00:21:01When something, when she, when I start saying something that she's not getting, I'm frustrated.
00:21:05I don't want to deal with this anymore.
00:21:07No, I'm not dealing with it.
00:21:08I'm just saying.
00:21:08You're now talking in circles.
00:21:10So I'm going to, I'm going to pull you up there.
00:21:12I mean, this has been very,
00:21:15enlightening, I think, for us to get a glimpse inside what's really going on in the relationship.
00:21:22So an observation from, from us here is that you've both made missteps, I think, in terms of your communication
00:21:31and what you've brought to the couch here.
00:21:34Because, Alyssa, you were aware that he was withholding.
00:21:37You knew he was not being up front with you.
00:21:39So you could have brought that up.
00:21:41And so, David, for you, you were choosing not to speak up.
00:21:47You haven't arrived at an outcome.
00:21:49No.
00:21:50But you've helped us see what's going on inside.
00:21:53So thank you for that to this point.
00:21:56So now let's look forward.
00:21:58Because, as you know, this is the last commitment ceremony.
00:22:01This is almost the end of the experiment for you two.
00:22:05Where to from here?
00:22:14Well, I'm sitting here because I want that help.
00:22:18I guess what we need to do is look beneath the arguments here.
00:22:22Because there's a reason that you have been avoiding bringing these issues up.
00:22:29Here's an opportunity to now say, OK, we're going to come at this as equals.
00:22:33Not one putting the other down.
00:22:35Not one avoiding and running away.
00:22:36We are coming here together to have this open, honest, mature conversation about what you both want post-experiment.
00:22:44Because otherwise, the last couple of months has been a waste of time.
00:22:50You've got that opportunity now.
00:22:52It's not too late.
00:22:55Can you do that?
00:22:57Yeah.
00:22:58Alyssa?
00:23:00Yeah.
00:23:04You're OK.
00:23:06I do believe that the things we have gone through are significant.
00:23:13And I believe that there are genuine feelings here.
00:23:16I do feel strong feelings towards Alyssa.
00:23:18That's why I'm still here.
00:23:20OK.
00:23:22All right.
00:23:22Well, on that note, we're going to go to a decision.
00:23:25Alyssa, we'll start with you.
00:23:27I didn't come here for three months to waste it.
00:23:31And, like, I came here to find my person.
00:23:35I want to settle down.
00:23:36I want to have a family.
00:23:37I want the happy ending.
00:23:38And that is why I want to move forward as a team.
00:23:44And no holding back.
00:23:47And because there's so many feelings involved,
00:23:50and, like, I really care about this relationship so much,
00:23:53I have decided to stay.
00:23:55OK.
00:23:57And to you, David.
00:24:06I'll take your advice on board.
00:24:09And, yeah, I wrote a stand.
00:24:15Pleased to see that.
00:24:17This could be make or break for you guys.
00:24:20You're about to make the decision of this experiment,
00:24:24the thing that is going to determine which way you go in your future.
00:24:28Good luck, guys.
00:24:43Good work, guys.
00:24:45Good luck.
00:24:56Coming up...
00:24:57You do not have to tell me you love me,
00:24:59but I'm not going to walk down to final vows
00:25:02with someone that I may be.
00:25:04Bec hits her limit.
00:25:06I'm not doing it.
00:25:09And...
00:25:09Bye.
00:25:10Take a breath for a minute.
00:25:13Breathe.
00:25:14Will Scott speak up?
00:25:18When I care about someone so much,
00:25:20I feel like I can't speak my voice when I'm over-concerned,
00:25:23and it's a weakness of mine.
00:25:35All right, let's have our next couple up.
00:25:40Rachel and Stephen.
00:25:42Hey.
00:25:46Hello.
00:25:47Hello.
00:25:48Hello.
00:25:49How are you?
00:25:50Hi, Anna.
00:25:51I love this energy.
00:25:53Can I just say, Steve,
00:25:54are you got a bit of a swagger?
00:25:55Oh, he sure does.
00:25:57Oh, don't flatter me, John.
00:26:00Especially coming from you.
00:26:04Where do you two want to begin?
00:26:07Homestays, I guess.
00:26:08I mean, it seems like it's had a big impact on the two of you.
00:26:11Yeah.
00:26:13Homestays was a big success for me,
00:26:16and I believe Rachel as well.
00:26:19It's sort of changed the relationship in many ways.
00:26:22Oh, in what way?
00:26:24For me, Rachel was fantastic.
00:26:26I showed her my passions,
00:26:28and she went out on the boat,
00:26:30and she enjoyed herself,
00:26:31a smile ear to ear,
00:26:32and we had lots of banter, laughing.
00:26:34It was a really super sweet time.
00:26:37But it's not that she's in the fishing.
00:26:39It's the independence.
00:26:41I can go,
00:26:42I feel like I can rely on Rachel.
00:26:44If something happens in the well where I'm like,
00:26:46jeez, can you help me out with this?
00:26:48Rachel's going to go,
00:26:48I've got your back.
00:26:49And she's just going to get it done.
00:26:51And so as a result of that,
00:26:53how do you feel about her?
00:26:56Well,
00:26:58I feel like I can see myself falling in love with Rachel.
00:27:02Woo-hoo!
00:27:04That's massive.
00:27:06Hmm.
00:27:10Rachel, uh...
00:27:12These are the tears of happiness, I swear.
00:27:14Let's just take a moment, shall we?
00:27:15Just a little bit overwhelmed.
00:27:17In a good way.
00:27:21So I feel the same.
00:27:23You know,
00:27:23I can definitely see myself falling in love with you too.
00:27:27There's something going on for you right now, Rachel.
00:27:30What is it?
00:27:30This is a very significant moment for you.
00:27:33Yeah.
00:27:34Um,
00:27:35I think I shared with you, John,
00:27:36before I came in here the last time,
00:27:39someone told me that they loved me.
00:27:41The very next day,
00:27:42they told me that I don't remember saying it.
00:27:47That was after seven years of a toxic situation.
00:27:53And so,
00:27:54um,
00:27:56it's a hard thing.
00:27:57My barriers go up.
00:28:01And so,
00:28:03having this journey with Stephen
00:28:05and knowing, you know,
00:28:07how he feels about vulnerability
00:28:08and when he says something,
00:28:10he means it.
00:28:11So,
00:28:12for him to be sitting here
00:28:13and saying that to me,
00:28:15it, yeah,
00:28:17bam,
00:28:17right in the feels
00:28:18in a really beautiful way
00:28:19because I'm like,
00:28:20yeah,
00:28:21I believe him.
00:28:24And I don't think that I thought
00:28:27that I would believe
00:28:29a man again
00:28:30in that way.
00:28:32You're welcome.
00:28:34And you know what?
00:28:35He said that holding your hand,
00:28:37sitting next to you,
00:28:39Yeah.
00:28:39and showing you
00:28:41his family.
00:28:42Yeah.
00:28:42All the things that signal
00:28:45Yep.
00:28:46he's not going anywhere.
00:28:47Yeah.
00:28:49It's different.
00:28:50It is very different.
00:28:52Is it scary?
00:28:53It's petrifying.
00:28:58What are you scared of
00:28:59the most?
00:29:01I'm scared that Stephen
00:29:03will go back to his life
00:29:04in Sydney
00:29:06and it's just going to be
00:29:07easier for him
00:29:08to let me go
00:29:10because he is time poor
00:29:12and he has his business
00:29:14and so,
00:29:15it might be a burden
00:29:18to try and maintain
00:29:19our relationship
00:29:20with me
00:29:21so he might just
00:29:22let me go.
00:29:25So,
00:29:26yeah,
00:29:28that's,
00:29:28that's my fear.
00:29:31I feel hurt.
00:29:33Well,
00:29:33how does that land
00:29:34for you, Stephen,
00:29:35when you hear her say that?
00:29:37Um,
00:29:37yeah,
00:29:38it makes me feel helpless
00:29:39at times
00:29:39and I just don't know
00:29:41what to say
00:29:41because I,
00:29:42when I see Rachel
00:29:43in these states,
00:29:44the first thing I want to do
00:29:46is try and comfort her
00:29:47and try to fix the situation.
00:29:49I'll reassure her,
00:29:50at least,
00:29:50at least take the edge off
00:29:52a bit.
00:29:53So,
00:29:54if you don't have to fix it
00:29:55and you just sit with it
00:29:56and validate it,
00:29:57can you do that?
00:29:58I can do that.
00:29:59I can't say I'm
00:30:01happy with that
00:30:01but,
00:30:02I mean,
00:30:02it's,
00:30:03it is what it is.
00:30:03It makes you feel
00:30:04a bit uncomfortable.
00:30:05It does.
00:30:05Yeah,
00:30:06good.
00:30:06It does.
00:30:07Good.
00:30:07It does.
00:30:08And the only thing
00:30:09I can say to her is
00:30:10is that the only thing
00:30:11that I feel like
00:30:11that's going to fix this
00:30:12is actually go out there
00:30:13in the real world
00:30:14and put it into practice
00:30:15and prove it wrong,
00:30:17pretty much.
00:30:18Well,
00:30:19haven't you changed?
00:30:21You know,
00:30:21all the both of you
00:30:22sitting in front of us today.
00:30:24This was all,
00:30:25all done at homestays.
00:30:26It was amazing
00:30:27what homestays did for us.
00:30:29We love it.
00:30:30We love it.
00:30:31All right.
00:30:32Let's go to the decision.
00:30:33Let's start with you first,
00:30:35Steve-O.
00:30:36There was a big question mark
00:30:37with me before homestays.
00:30:39I'm like,
00:30:39this could make or break us
00:30:41but,
00:30:42it's just only brought
00:30:43me closer to Rachel.
00:30:45So I'm going to,
00:30:47yeah,
00:30:48stay.
00:30:48Beautiful.
00:30:49Brilliant.
00:30:50And what about you,
00:30:52Rachel?
00:30:52What do you got?
00:30:53Stay or leave?
00:30:54I know this is going
00:30:54to shock everyone
00:30:57but I wrote stay
00:30:58and that's us
00:30:59on a boat fishing.
00:31:02Beautiful.
00:31:04We have loved watching you
00:31:07through this experiment.
00:31:08You've had some difficult moments
00:31:10along the way
00:31:11but you've grown,
00:31:13you know,
00:31:13and the way in which
00:31:15you're together now
00:31:16really,
00:31:17it's on display.
00:31:19Everyone sees it.
00:31:20You're a unified couple.
00:31:22It's fantastic.
00:31:23What I would say to you
00:31:24in this final week
00:31:26is don't get inside
00:31:27your head too much.
00:31:29You need to be
00:31:31enjoying
00:31:32this final week
00:31:34rather than
00:31:35thinking too far ahead
00:31:37because that's something
00:31:38that I think in the past
00:31:40you've been a bit
00:31:41guilty of doing
00:31:42and on that
00:31:43you can go back
00:31:44back to your group.
00:31:45Come on.
00:31:47Yes.
00:31:48Good start.
00:31:52Woohoo!
00:31:54Oh!
00:32:00You made me cry.
00:32:02Oh, you're welcome.
00:32:03Yeah.
00:32:16Let's get our
00:32:17next couple
00:32:18up on the couch.
00:32:21Beck and Danny.
00:32:22Ooh!
00:32:25Hey, guys.
00:32:26Hello.
00:32:27How are you?
00:32:28Good, home.
00:32:28Very well.
00:32:29Good, good, good.
00:32:31Homestays.
00:32:32Let's start with you.
00:32:33Beck,
00:32:34what were they like?
00:32:35They were great.
00:32:37I was in my own
00:32:38estate.
00:32:39I was in my own home
00:32:40with my dog.
00:32:42We saw my family
00:32:43at my auntie's
00:32:44beach house
00:32:45and that was great.
00:32:47Dad and Daniel
00:32:48get along really well
00:32:49which is great.
00:32:51So, good start.
00:32:52Great start.
00:32:56What else happened
00:32:57at the home stay?
00:32:59We met
00:33:00Beck's friends.
00:33:01That went pretty good,
00:33:02didn't it?
00:33:02Like, just like
00:33:03the tough questions
00:33:04and then
00:33:05that night
00:33:06we went back
00:33:06to Beck's
00:33:08and we were
00:33:09sitting around
00:33:09like having a
00:33:10having a fire
00:33:12and then
00:33:13I cracked a joke
00:33:15like about
00:33:16her cousin
00:33:17fancying me
00:33:19and it landed poorly.
00:33:24What did he say
00:33:25with the joke?
00:33:26Can you just tell us?
00:33:28We were having a bit
00:33:29of an emotional moment
00:33:30with one another
00:33:30talking about our feelings
00:33:31and how it's been
00:33:33on home stays
00:33:33and Daniel said
00:33:35if all else fails
00:33:36at least Daniel
00:33:37fancies me
00:33:37type thing.
00:33:42And I lost it.
00:33:46And why?
00:33:48Because
00:33:49it makes me feel like
00:33:51when we're having
00:33:52this conversation
00:33:52that means so much
00:33:54to me
00:33:54that it diminishes it
00:33:56and it makes it a joke.
00:33:59I get it.
00:34:00I shouldn't have said it
00:34:01but I feel like
00:34:02our fight styles
00:34:03don't really match
00:34:04too well.
00:34:06What scared me was
00:34:08we couldn't rectify
00:34:09it too quickly
00:34:11and where I'm
00:34:12sort of holding back
00:34:13a little bit
00:34:14is
00:34:15I don't
00:34:16I wouldn't want to move
00:34:17and then we have
00:34:18an argument like that
00:34:19and I feel really
00:34:19isolated and alone.
00:34:21I don't want to do that.
00:34:22So
00:34:23arguing is something
00:34:24that scares you
00:34:25when it comes to beg.
00:34:26Why?
00:34:27I think for both of us
00:34:29it just doesn't work.
00:34:33Wow.
00:34:34Okay.
00:34:35What am I saying wrong?
00:34:37Just to use the words
00:34:39for both of us
00:34:39it doesn't work.
00:34:44I'm not saying
00:34:45we don't work
00:34:45I'm saying
00:34:46our fight style
00:34:47doesn't work.
00:34:48Oh yeah that
00:34:48no okay.
00:34:50So this is what
00:34:51happens sometimes
00:34:52I try and say something
00:34:53and beg takes it
00:34:54in completely
00:34:55the wrong way.
00:34:57Bec what's going on
00:34:59inside of you right now?
00:35:01Um I suppose
00:35:02I'm fearful
00:35:02because I've
00:35:03let every wall down.
00:35:06So what happens
00:35:06to you when he says that?
00:35:08Just
00:35:10kills my soul
00:35:11a little bit
00:35:11to be honest with you.
00:35:16Because I'm like
00:35:17well
00:35:19why haven't you
00:35:20said this to me?
00:35:22Because
00:35:22because what
00:35:23I'm fearful to say it
00:35:24because I don't want
00:35:25to upset you.
00:35:28No no no
00:35:29do not blame me.
00:35:30I'm not blaming you.
00:35:31Don't say
00:35:31you're fearful
00:35:32to tell me
00:35:33because you're going
00:35:33to upset me.
00:35:35I'm here
00:35:36in love with you.
00:35:38We're at the end
00:35:38of this experiment.
00:35:42You're making it seem
00:35:43like I've been
00:35:44holding on to this
00:35:44for six months.
00:35:45Honestly
00:35:45I noticed it
00:35:46in Adelaide
00:35:47when I felt isolated.
00:35:48Up until then
00:35:49I haven't noticed it.
00:35:53Bec I look
00:35:54at your face
00:35:56you seem
00:35:57very concerned.
00:36:02I think he's got
00:36:03more reservations
00:36:04than he lets on.
00:36:05Oh really?
00:36:06I do yeah.
00:36:07I do.
00:36:09I do.
00:36:09I do.
00:36:15Danny Danny
00:36:16look at me.
00:36:18There really is
00:36:19no time for you
00:36:19to make light
00:36:20of the situation.
00:36:22Because when you
00:36:23add things up Danny
00:36:25it's not making
00:36:26her feel secure.
00:36:27You know you haven't
00:36:28said your feelings
00:36:29back to her.
00:36:30You've gone to
00:36:31the family
00:36:31and they've
00:36:32validated you
00:36:33and then
00:36:34you're not bringing
00:36:35up issues
00:36:35because you're
00:36:36afraid of the
00:36:37fight style.
00:36:38It starts
00:36:39to add up
00:36:40and it makes
00:36:41her feel
00:36:42what Bec?
00:36:47Like he's just
00:36:48not that into me.
00:36:54So that's a problem
00:36:56because this far
00:36:58into the experiment
00:36:58you don't want
00:36:59your partner
00:37:00to be thinking
00:37:03he's just not
00:37:04that into me.
00:37:07Yeah but I am.
00:37:09I've told you
00:37:10that I am.
00:37:11You know I am.
00:37:14So why is she
00:37:15not believing it?
00:37:17I don't know.
00:37:18I can't speak for Bec.
00:37:22I'm asking
00:37:24for you
00:37:25to sit there
00:37:26and say to me
00:37:28Bec this is how
00:37:29I feel about you
00:37:29just once.
00:37:33You know how I feel
00:37:34about you.
00:37:35You know I care
00:37:36about you so much.
00:37:37I do know you
00:37:38care about me
00:37:38but where is
00:37:40the passion?
00:37:42I see tiny
00:37:43glimpses of it
00:37:45but I feel
00:37:47like you are
00:37:47holding back.
00:37:49You said to me
00:37:50once at the
00:37:50beginning of this
00:37:51experiment
00:37:51and I'll never
00:37:52forget it
00:37:52and it's probably
00:37:54ruined me.
00:37:56Daniel's like
00:37:57well when you
00:37:59are obsessed with
00:37:59each other
00:37:59you're all over
00:38:00each other
00:38:00and I don't
00:38:01have that.
00:38:02I just don't
00:38:03get it from him
00:38:04at all.
00:38:05He doesn't want
00:38:06to hold my hand
00:38:06walking down the
00:38:07street.
00:38:07That's not your
00:38:08style no worries.
00:38:09Whenever we have
00:38:10a kiss I'm the
00:38:10one going to
00:38:11kiss you.
00:38:12You never ever
00:38:12ever go to
00:38:13kiss me.
00:38:14You don't
00:38:14compliment me.
00:38:15Hardly ever.
00:38:18So for me it's
00:38:19like well I'm
00:38:20this fool that's
00:38:21allowed my heart
00:38:21to get to this
00:38:22point and he's
00:38:24not there and
00:38:24he's not going
00:38:25to feel that
00:38:25way.
00:38:28I don't think
00:38:29that's a fair
00:38:30assumption.
00:38:37The thing that's
00:38:39important here
00:38:39Danny is that
00:38:40she's just told
00:38:41you in a very
00:38:42clear cut way
00:38:43why she doesn't
00:38:46feel like you're
00:38:47interested.
00:38:51Your reaction
00:38:53is well that's
00:38:53not fair.
00:38:54No but like
00:38:55yes that's
00:38:56exactly what we
00:38:57just heard.
00:39:01even like all
00:39:02of the husbands
00:39:02walk past us
00:39:03sitting at the
00:39:04commitment ceremony
00:39:04and they all
00:39:05acknowledge their
00:39:06wives and you
00:39:06never do.
00:39:07You ignore me.
00:39:11And I don't
00:39:12know how I've
00:39:13gotten to this
00:39:13point of these
00:39:14feelings with
00:39:15that.
00:39:19I'm so worried.
00:39:24I'm actually so
00:39:25worried.
00:39:30I just don't
00:39:31feel like you
00:39:32have any desire
00:39:33and I just
00:39:34yeah I'm just
00:39:35nervous.
00:39:37The reality is
00:39:39is that how
00:39:40can you move to
00:39:41Adelaide and
00:39:42how can we
00:39:43live this life
00:39:44together if this
00:39:45is how it's
00:39:46going to be.
00:39:47I can't be the
00:39:48one going to
00:39:49kiss you just
00:39:51so that there's
00:39:52a level of
00:39:52affection.
00:39:53I can't.
00:39:56I'm not doing
00:39:57it.
00:39:57I've done it.
00:39:57I did it.
00:39:58I nearly married
00:39:59it.
00:40:00I'm not doing
00:40:00it.
00:40:02I'm not.
00:40:04I'm not doing
00:40:04it.
00:40:05You're either
00:40:05into me.
00:40:06You have had
00:40:07enough time to
00:40:08know if I am
00:40:09the type of
00:40:10person you would
00:40:10want to be with.
00:40:11You do not have
00:40:12to tell me you
00:40:12love me but I'm
00:40:13not going to
00:40:14walk down to
00:40:15final vows
00:40:16with someone
00:40:16with someone
00:40:17that's a
00:40:17maybe about
00:40:18me.
00:40:19I'm not doing
00:40:19it.
00:40:20I'd rather be
00:40:20heartbroken now
00:40:21than heartbroken
00:40:22in six months
00:40:23time.
00:40:37You have had
00:40:38enough time to
00:40:39know if I am
00:40:40the type of
00:40:40person you would
00:40:41want to be with.
00:40:42You do not have
00:40:42to tell me you
00:40:43love me but I'm
00:40:44not going to
00:40:44walk down to
00:40:46final vows
00:40:46with someone
00:40:47that's a
00:40:48maybe about
00:40:49me.
00:40:49I'm not
00:40:50doing it.
00:40:50I'd rather be
00:40:51heartbroken now
00:40:51than heartbroken
00:40:52in six months
00:40:53time.
00:41:15How does that land
00:41:16for you, Danny?
00:41:22Well, obviously
00:41:23it hurts to see
00:41:24Beck like that.
00:41:25What is she
00:41:26saying to you
00:41:28that you've
00:41:29done to get
00:41:30her to this
00:41:31point?
00:41:32Well, just
00:41:32not be
00:41:35passionate and
00:41:36not be the
00:41:37man she needs
00:41:38me to be.
00:41:40I've had my
00:41:41guard up
00:41:42essentially.
00:41:42That's what,
00:41:44yeah.
00:41:52When she lays
00:41:53this out on
00:41:54the table,
00:41:55no compliments,
00:41:57very few,
00:41:59lack of intimacy,
00:42:01not making her
00:42:01a priority,
00:42:02not saying how
00:42:04you feel about
00:42:04her.
00:42:06What do you
00:42:07think that does
00:42:08to her?
00:42:11Yeah, it
00:42:12would destroy
00:42:13her.
00:42:14What do you
00:42:15think it does
00:42:16to the
00:42:16relationship?
00:42:17Destroys the
00:42:18relationship as
00:42:19well.
00:42:21Why?
00:42:22Because you
00:42:23can't have,
00:42:24you can't build
00:42:24a relationship
00:42:25on like sand
00:42:26foundations,
00:42:28do you know
00:42:28what you mean?
00:42:28So help us
00:42:29understand why
00:42:30you're not doing
00:42:32these things to
00:42:34bring her close.
00:42:38just,
00:42:40obviously we've
00:42:41talked about
00:42:42the five star,
00:42:42that's the bit
00:42:43where I've been
00:42:43holding back.
00:42:47But I guess
00:42:48after my last
00:42:48relationship,
00:42:49I haven't felt
00:42:50this strongly
00:42:51towards a woman
00:42:51or been this
00:42:52close with a
00:42:53woman in years.
00:42:56But of course
00:42:57I still have a
00:42:57bit of a guard
00:42:58up because
00:42:59last time,
00:43:00when it didn't
00:43:01work out,
00:43:02it destroyed
00:43:02my life.
00:43:04How nice
00:43:05would it be
00:43:06to have heard
00:43:06that?
00:43:07Well, you just
00:43:07did.
00:43:08I know, but
00:43:09why do I have
00:43:09to go to this
00:43:10length to hear
00:43:11that?
00:43:11Because I'm not
00:43:11no good at
00:43:12this shit.
00:43:14Well, I've
00:43:15been begging
00:43:15you for this
00:43:16level of openness
00:43:17for nearly three
00:43:19months.
00:43:20And so hearing
00:43:21that makes me
00:43:23feel like there's
00:43:25hope, you know?
00:43:31Why does that
00:43:32make you feel
00:43:32hopeful?
00:43:33Because if he
00:43:34hasn't felt
00:43:34like this in
00:43:35years, then
00:43:37that means
00:43:37that it's
00:43:42real and
00:43:43you might be
00:43:44into me, but
00:43:45you need to
00:43:46open yourself
00:43:47to me.
00:43:48Yeah, I guess
00:43:48like this has
00:43:49been a problem
00:43:50in the past
00:43:50that I am
00:43:52just a shit
00:43:52boyfriend, to
00:43:53be honest.
00:43:54I am.
00:43:55I ain't that good,
00:43:57to be honest.
00:43:57But that is a
00:43:58very easy way
00:43:59of getting out
00:44:00of it.
00:44:01Don't hold me
00:44:01accountable, I'm
00:44:02just a shit
00:44:03boyfriend.
00:44:04No, I'm not
00:44:04saying it like
00:44:04that.
00:44:05But you are.
00:44:07And that's what
00:44:07she's hearing.
00:44:11What she wants
00:44:12right now from
00:44:12you, Danny, is
00:44:14for you to step
00:44:15into this and go,
00:44:16you know what?
00:44:16Yeah, I've
00:44:17dropped the ball.
00:44:19And I've sent
00:44:20you the wrong
00:44:20signals.
00:44:22And I'm
00:44:22accountable, and
00:44:24I'm going to do
00:44:24different.
00:44:25But I'm not
00:44:25getting that
00:44:26from you.
00:44:28No, I,
00:44:29Bec, I want
00:44:29to say I am.
00:44:30And I'm sorry
00:44:31if, like,
00:44:32it's for making
00:44:32you feel like that,
00:44:33genuine, from the
00:44:34bottom of my heart.
00:44:35You know I'd never
00:44:35want to upset you.
00:44:36You mean the
00:44:37world to me.
00:44:41And I'm sorry
00:44:42if I've dropped
00:44:43the ball.
00:44:43It was never
00:44:44my intention.
00:44:49I like hearing
00:44:50it, but I need
00:44:50to see it.
00:44:51Yeah, an old,
00:44:52old time.
00:44:52I can't keep
00:44:53on hearing it.
00:44:54And then
00:44:55nothing changes.
00:44:56Well, let me
00:44:56show you then.
00:44:59Okay.
00:45:03Let me show you.
00:45:08Now, with that,
00:45:09we're going to
00:45:09go to the decision.
00:45:13Bec, what have
00:45:14you got for us,
00:45:14stay or leave?
00:45:16Well, you,
00:45:17you have my heart.
00:45:19And, like, you
00:45:20are the most
00:45:22special person.
00:45:22I've never met
00:45:23anyone like you.
00:45:24Right?
00:45:25And I feel really,
00:45:26really lucky that
00:45:27we were matched
00:45:28and we get to go
00:45:28on this journey
00:45:29together.
00:45:33But I need you
00:45:36to give me
00:45:39half of what I'm
00:45:40giving you, at least.
00:45:48we have overcome
00:45:50so many hurdles
00:45:51together and we've
00:45:53made it this far.
00:45:54So,
00:45:57I said,
00:45:59stay.
00:46:00And then I said,
00:46:01proud of us.
00:46:03Love it.
00:46:04Love it.
00:46:05And, Danny?
00:46:06Yeah, obviously,
00:46:08I want to apologise
00:46:08again.
00:46:09I'm so sorry.
00:46:10You know,
00:46:10you mean the world
00:46:11to me and this week
00:46:13I'll try and prove
00:46:14that to you.
00:46:16I'm here for love
00:46:17and I think I can
00:46:18find that with you.
00:46:19so that's why I wrote
00:46:20stay.
00:46:21Good.
00:46:32Danny,
00:46:32from where we're
00:46:33sitting,
00:46:34this week is on you.
00:46:36You have to do the
00:46:37heavy lifting.
00:46:38You've got a partner
00:46:40here with you
00:46:41who's put her
00:46:42heart out there
00:46:44and said,
00:46:44I'm in love.
00:46:45I want this.
00:46:46You need to step up.
00:46:50And if you are
00:46:52feeling these
00:46:54strong emotions
00:46:55for her,
00:46:56then you've got to
00:46:56start showing it.
00:46:58Yeah.
00:47:01With that,
00:47:02you can go back
00:47:03to the group.
00:47:04Thanks, guys.
00:47:05Well done, guys.
00:47:08Thanks for all
00:47:09thanks.
00:47:10Good work, you two.
00:47:15That's it.
00:47:21Communicate with me.
00:47:23My wife hates me
00:47:24and so do one
00:47:25experience as well.
00:47:27I don't hate you, boo.
00:47:29I just can't keep
00:47:30on asking
00:47:31at the very minimum.
00:47:32It's either there
00:47:33or it's not.
00:47:34And if it's not,
00:47:35you've got to walk away.
00:47:36Now.
00:47:37Right.
00:47:38Okay?
00:47:39But he, yeah.
00:47:43Still to come.
00:47:45I haven't been able
00:47:46to address her concern
00:47:47without Gia and I
00:47:48having an argument
00:47:49or her spiralling.
00:47:50What kind of things
00:47:51could she say?
00:47:53In a moment
00:47:54that demands honesty.
00:47:56Things that can
00:47:57make someone feel
00:47:58pretty defeated
00:47:59and let down.
00:48:00Such us?
00:48:01Um...
00:48:02Scott hesitates.
00:48:05If you can't speak
00:48:07honestly in front
00:48:08of Gia,
00:48:08then I'm really
00:48:09concerned about
00:48:10the possibility
00:48:11of this relationship
00:48:12surviving
00:48:13outside the experiment.
00:48:23next on the couch
00:48:28Chris and Sam.
00:48:33Hello.
00:48:34Hello.
00:48:36Hi.
00:48:41Body language
00:48:42says a lot.
00:48:43Yeah, it's been tough.
00:48:45Yeah.
00:48:50Um, what happened
00:48:52last time we sat here,
00:48:53I wrote leave
00:48:55in the moment
00:48:56and then I kind
00:48:57of regretted it.
00:48:58Um, we decided
00:49:00to go to homestays
00:49:01and I thought,
00:49:02okay, I'm really
00:49:02going to try
00:49:02and turn this around
00:49:03and I bought him
00:49:04some flowers
00:49:05and I got him a card
00:49:05and made him,
00:49:06went to the shop
00:49:07and got groceries
00:49:07and made dinner
00:49:09and then we had
00:49:10a day with my cattle.
00:49:10You know, we were
00:49:11outside and that's,
00:49:13I thought that was
00:49:13really fun
00:49:15and then we had
00:49:16a bonfire.
00:49:20Sam pulled out
00:49:21a journal
00:49:21with some questions
00:49:23in it,
00:49:23hand on heart
00:49:24I was answering
00:49:25them the best
00:49:25that I could
00:49:27and then Sam
00:49:28decided to leave
00:49:29the farm
00:49:31and I thought,
00:49:33look, I've really
00:49:33tried to turn this
00:49:34around, I really
00:49:35took on all of
00:49:35your guys' feedback
00:49:36and yeah, I just
00:49:38feel like I've
00:49:39shut down now.
00:49:42Yeah, I just felt
00:49:44like he was
00:49:44saving face.
00:49:47Especially like
00:49:47the flowers
00:49:48and dinner thing.
00:49:50It felt very like
00:49:51I need to do
00:49:52these things
00:49:52to show that
00:49:52I've put in effort.
00:49:54For me, it was
00:49:55genuine, I was
00:49:55trying to be as
00:49:56genuine as I could
00:49:57and I thought
00:49:57that was a way
00:49:59to try and make
00:49:59you feel welcome
00:50:00at the farm.
00:50:00I feel like your
00:50:01effort was like
00:50:02to push forward
00:50:03and there was
00:50:04effort for you to
00:50:05grow but it was
00:50:05never like,
00:50:06I need to grow
00:50:07for us and I
00:50:08want to grow
00:50:08to be a better
00:50:09partner for you.
00:50:16Where did the
00:50:17relationship go
00:50:18wrong for you
00:50:19both?
00:50:24I feel like
00:50:24Chris never really
00:50:25fully forgave me
00:50:27for calling him
00:50:28out on like
00:50:29behaviours.
00:50:31From then on,
00:50:32especially after
00:50:33you guys gave him
00:50:34feedback, it was like
00:50:35a no return point
00:50:36from then.
00:50:40Where did it go
00:50:41wrong for you?
00:50:43I feel like
00:50:45after the retreat,
00:50:46that chemistry,
00:50:47it was lacking
00:50:48for me.
00:50:49We were intimate
00:50:50a second time
00:50:50and I just felt like
00:50:51that wasn't there
00:50:52for me.
00:50:55Was it the quality
00:50:56of the interaction?
00:50:57Was it him
00:50:58as a person?
00:51:00What was it that
00:51:01felt off for you?
00:51:03If I'm being honest,
00:51:04it was just the quality
00:51:05of the interaction.
00:51:05I just, I don't know,
00:51:06it just wasn't there
00:51:07for me.
00:51:15Is that something
00:51:16that you spoke
00:51:16to Sam about?
00:51:18No, I didn't want
00:51:18to hurt his feelings.
00:51:24How are you feeling
00:51:25about that, Sam,
00:51:25to hear this?
00:51:27Oh, yeah.
00:51:28Like, I guess
00:51:29I'm surprised.
00:51:31And like,
00:51:32I guess what really
00:51:33sucks is that
00:51:34I was out on the farm
00:51:35and I was like
00:51:36hurting cows
00:51:37and I was like,
00:51:37this is so good
00:51:38and the kids thing
00:51:39never bothered me.
00:51:40Like, it's always
00:51:41something that I've
00:51:41wanted in my life.
00:51:43Then I was just like,
00:51:44it was so annoying
00:51:45that everything else
00:51:46would have worked.
00:51:52This is really
00:51:52disappointing for us
00:51:54because we had
00:51:55so much hope
00:51:56for the two of you.
00:51:58It's just so
00:52:00unfortunate that
00:52:01along the way,
00:52:02with all of the
00:52:03pressure that the
00:52:03experiment brings,
00:52:05that the wheels
00:52:05have fallen off.
00:52:09It is disappointing
00:52:09that I came here
00:52:11to find love
00:52:12and, you know,
00:52:12I know that I'm
00:52:13a slow burn
00:52:14and, you know,
00:52:14I know that I get
00:52:15anxious once I do
00:52:16get feelings for someone
00:52:17because it takes me
00:52:18so long to build
00:52:18feelings for someone
00:52:21and, yeah,
00:52:22it's just really
00:52:22disappointing that
00:52:23it all ended up
00:52:24like this
00:52:25but, you know,
00:52:27high hopes for the
00:52:28future.
00:52:30Yeah.
00:52:32What about you,
00:52:33Chris?
00:52:33Yeah, and I said
00:52:34to Sam that I want
00:52:34to be really good
00:52:35friends with him.
00:52:36We've been on this
00:52:37journey for eight
00:52:38weeks so, yeah,
00:52:40I hope that we can
00:52:40stay in each other's
00:52:41lives outside of here.
00:52:43Yeah.
00:52:45All right, well,
00:52:46we're going to go
00:52:47to a decision.
00:52:49Chris, we'll start
00:52:50with you.
00:52:52I've obviously
00:52:52learned a lot about
00:52:53myself and I hope
00:52:53you have too
00:52:54and, you know,
00:52:56I'm sorry that it
00:52:56didn't work out for us.
00:52:58My time has
00:52:59unfortunately run out
00:53:00so, yeah,
00:53:02I have to leave.
00:53:04Okay, thank you.
00:53:06And to you, Sam.
00:53:08It's been a journey.
00:53:09I've learned a lot.
00:53:1090% of our time
00:53:11together was awesome.
00:53:13Yeah, but, you know,
00:53:14it's come to a time
00:53:15to pack it up
00:53:16and leave.
00:53:22I'm sorry you've
00:53:23both landed here,
00:53:25but hopefully you
00:53:26have learned some
00:53:27lessons along the
00:53:28way that you can
00:53:30take into your next
00:53:31relationships.
00:53:32Sure.
00:53:32And parenthood,
00:53:33you know, this is
00:53:34all about that
00:53:35self-development as
00:53:37well as couple
00:53:38development.
00:53:40Thank you both
00:53:41so much.
00:53:42Well done, you two.
00:53:52Well done, guys.
00:53:54We're going to miss
00:53:54you.
00:53:57Our next couple
00:53:58up on the couch,
00:54:01Stella and Phillip.
00:54:05Hello.
00:54:06Hello there.
00:54:07Hello there.
00:54:10How are we doing?
00:54:11Well, we're more
00:54:12interested in how
00:54:12you're doing.
00:54:14Yeah.
00:54:15Coming into
00:54:15homesteading was
00:54:16very, very important
00:54:17for me.
00:54:18I was always open
00:54:19to moving, so it was
00:54:19a really big deal
00:54:20to go into Stella's
00:54:21space.
00:54:22I was just really
00:54:23keen to see what
00:54:24it would look like.
00:54:26I just tried to
00:54:27envisage everything,
00:54:28like how I'd live
00:54:29there, the vibe,
00:54:30the energy and all
00:54:31that kind of stuff.
00:54:33after the experiment,
00:54:35Stella's going to come
00:54:36back for my mum's
00:54:37birthday, celebrate
00:54:38that.
00:54:39We're going to spend a
00:54:41few days in Melbourne
00:54:42and then I'll pick my
00:54:43car up and drive up to
00:54:45Cronulla.
00:54:47Just move again.
00:54:48Yeah.
00:54:49Yeah.
00:54:50Straight in.
00:54:51Yeah.
00:54:51Oh.
00:54:52Moving in.
00:54:53That's a plan.
00:54:55Yeah.
00:54:56So it is a plan.
00:54:57We got there.
00:54:59Here's the thing.
00:55:00When I first met you,
00:55:02you loved control.
00:55:03Yeah.
00:55:03You mapped out, you
00:55:06know, what you wanted
00:55:07to do during the day,
00:55:08your fitness, your
00:55:09health, your sleep,
00:55:11everything on point.
00:55:13And you, without a
00:55:15plan, there was a part
00:55:16of you that wasn't
00:55:18committing.
00:55:19And now you've come up
00:55:21with a plan.
00:55:22You've got certainty.
00:55:23And now you're on the
00:55:24same track.
00:55:25Because I want this
00:55:26relationship to work.
00:55:29Yeah.
00:55:29Yeah.
00:55:31And I feel like every
00:55:34woman can agree with
00:55:35that.
00:55:36When you don't
00:55:37understand your man's
00:55:38intentions, that's when
00:55:40you get frazzled, that's
00:55:41when you overthink,
00:55:42that's when you're in
00:55:42your head.
00:55:43When you know that the
00:55:44man is like, okay, let's
00:55:46do this, I think you
00:55:48really settle in to get
00:55:49that part.
00:55:50You really do.
00:55:52Philip, I want you to
00:55:53turn to Stella and tell
00:55:55her how you feel.
00:55:56You're going to make
00:55:56me cry.
00:56:04You know.
00:56:06You know.
00:56:09We can't cope.
00:56:13No.
00:56:14You know.
00:56:16Oh, stop it.
00:56:24You 100% know that I am
00:56:26in love with you.
00:56:27No, no, baby.
00:56:28And that you shouldn't
00:56:29doubt anything.
00:56:30No.
00:56:30There's a lot of unknown
00:56:31and stuff like that.
00:56:32It's okay, we've got this.
00:56:33But, you know, we're a
00:56:34team.
00:56:35Yeah.
00:56:42So, Stella, how does that
00:56:44feel when he says that
00:56:47knowing that he's got a
00:56:48plan and he's moving in?
00:56:51Again, like, I really go
00:56:52from the two weeks of the
00:56:53conversation, like, this
00:56:55man makes me feel safe.
00:56:57I don't think I have
00:56:58experienced love before
00:57:00meeting him because, oh,
00:57:03he shows up for me.
00:57:05Yeah.
00:57:06Big time.
00:57:07Yes, baby.
00:57:07Yeah.
00:57:08Can I just ask you, Stella,
00:57:09what's getting you upset
00:57:11right now?
00:57:11Why is this so important?
00:57:13Yeah, I feel quite lucky
00:57:15in the sense that if this
00:57:19works out, it means that
00:57:20everything that was in the
00:57:22past, all those learning
00:57:23curves, all those
00:57:24relationships, all was
00:57:26worth for this moment,
00:57:28you know, because I do,
00:57:30I think, at the stage of
00:57:32my life where I do truly
00:57:34want this to be my
00:57:35forever person and I do
00:57:37see, I do see that.
00:57:40Yeah.
00:57:42Pleasure.
00:57:46Well, you got real on
00:57:47this couch tonight.
00:57:49It was great.
00:57:51And on that note, we're
00:57:53going to go to a decision.
00:57:54Stay or leave, you're up
00:57:55first, Stella.
00:57:57Obviously not a surprise
00:57:58and I think I drew a love
00:58:00heart from very early on.
00:58:03Nice.
00:58:04And what about you,
00:58:05Philip?
00:58:06I'm not going anywhere.
00:58:08Just started.
00:58:09We're staying.
00:58:10That's what we like to see.
00:58:14Thanks for being in.
00:58:16Thanks for being in.
00:58:17You are a team and you've
00:58:19got this.
00:58:20Yeah.
00:58:20Thanks, guys.
00:58:21I really appreciate it.
00:58:21I really appreciate this
00:58:22whole thing.
00:58:24Well done, you two.
00:58:26Great work.
00:58:30Hi, thanks.
00:58:37Trimming.
00:58:38Our last couple up on the
00:58:41couch, Gia and Scott.
00:58:48Good evening.
00:58:49Hello.
00:58:50Hello.
00:58:50How are we?
00:58:51Good.
00:58:51Hi, Gia.
00:58:52Hello.
00:58:56So, how are you guys?
00:58:58All right.
00:58:59Um, I'm getting a bit nervous.
00:59:14So, you know, I care so much
00:59:19about Gia.
00:59:20What I'm going to talk about
00:59:21tonight is I don't want you
00:59:23to be upset.
00:59:25Okay.
00:59:25What I'm going to talk about
00:59:26is feelings where I...
00:59:30Take breath for a minute.
00:59:33Breathe.
00:59:46What I'm going to talk about
00:59:47tonight is I don't want you
00:59:48to be upset.
00:59:50Okay.
00:59:51What I'm going to talk about
00:59:52is feelings where I...
00:59:55Take breath for a minute.
00:59:58Breathe.
01:00:04It's a weakness of mine.
01:00:07When I care about someone so
01:00:09much, I feel like I...
01:00:11I can't speak my voice when
01:00:12I have a concern.
01:00:14It's a weakness of mine.
01:00:16What I find so far is
01:00:18I haven't been able
01:00:19to address a concern
01:00:20without Gia and I
01:00:22having an argument
01:00:22or her spiraling.
01:00:25Let's say that you want
01:00:26to bring something up
01:00:27and Gia is not in the mood
01:00:28to hear for whatever reason.
01:00:30Mm-hmm.
01:00:31You find yourself
01:00:32simply cowering away from that
01:00:34and not returning
01:00:34to that topic?
01:00:38Pretty much.
01:00:40What have you observed
01:00:41about Gia's behavior
01:00:42that leads you to have
01:00:44that reaction?
01:00:46What kind of things
01:00:47could she say?
01:00:55Can I please just say
01:00:57things that can make
01:00:58someone feel pretty defeated
01:01:00and let down?
01:01:01Don't touch us.
01:01:07Honestly.
01:01:09If you can't speak
01:01:10honestly in front of Gia
01:01:12about the things
01:01:12that she does
01:01:13and say that hurt you
01:01:14or scare you
01:01:15or make you feel off...
01:01:16Well, he has.
01:01:21Then I'm really, really,
01:01:23really concerned
01:01:23about the possibility
01:01:24of this relationship
01:01:26surviving outside
01:01:27the experiment.
01:01:42Scott?
01:01:43Yeah?
01:01:44We've got all night.
01:01:45I know we're not.
01:01:46We're not going anywhere.
01:01:47We're going to sit here
01:01:48and ask you
01:01:48uncomfortable questions
01:01:50until you come clean.
01:01:52Okay?
01:01:53I just...
01:01:53So...
01:01:54I care about it so much.
01:01:55If you don't let us in...
01:01:56I know.
01:01:57You're not going to last.
01:02:00What I'm seeing here
01:02:01is fake.
01:02:03I'm going to call you out.
01:02:04I've seen it
01:02:05the entire experiment.
01:02:07You talk about things
01:02:09in a way where
01:02:10you don't give us
01:02:11any of the information.
01:02:13You skirt around the issues.
01:02:15I get it.
01:02:16You're trying to
01:02:17fly under the radar.
01:02:19But what we're saying
01:02:19tonight is that ends.
01:02:21Yeah.
01:02:22Okay?
01:02:23Okay.
01:02:23You sat down here.
01:02:24You're petrified of Gia
01:02:25and you're not
01:02:27answering the questions.
01:02:33So I'm going to ask you
01:02:34again, Scott.
01:02:35What kind of things
01:02:37could Gia say
01:02:38that would
01:02:38make you feel fearful
01:02:40of speaking up?
01:02:42So this is probably
01:02:43the most magic concern.
01:02:45It could happen
01:02:46probably on average
01:02:47once a week.
01:02:48I feel like there's
01:02:49a bit of pressure
01:02:49of me to say I'm in love.
01:02:50And when I don't say it,
01:02:52Gia will tend
01:02:53to spoil and say
01:02:54things like,
01:02:56you're a crime,
01:02:56you're not a man,
01:02:57you're not a provider.
01:02:58You don't give me
01:02:59reassurance.
01:03:02Pretty much
01:03:02every name under the sun,
01:03:03right?
01:03:05Every name under the sun
01:03:06is wild.
01:03:07Gia,
01:03:08babe,
01:03:09the reason why I'm here
01:03:10is because I know
01:03:11she doesn't intentionally
01:03:12mean it.
01:03:13It's because it comes
01:03:13from a place of hurt.
01:03:14I'll explain
01:03:15that you talk
01:03:16for yourself.
01:03:16And I just
01:03:18will explain,
01:03:19babe,
01:03:20like,
01:03:20listen to what
01:03:21you're saying.
01:03:22I know you don't mean it.
01:03:23Like,
01:03:23where's this coming from?
01:03:24And, like,
01:03:25I don't know what it is.
01:03:25I just don't know.
01:03:28When you're having
01:03:29that situation
01:03:30and there are things
01:03:30that are being said,
01:03:31how do you feel
01:03:32in that moment?
01:03:34In these moments
01:03:35that you're describing now
01:03:36that where she's
01:03:37coming at you
01:03:37personally.
01:03:39I just feel like
01:03:41when it's,
01:03:41I just feel
01:03:42completely destroyed
01:03:43like I'm worthless.
01:03:45That's pretty major.
01:03:47But I just want
01:03:48Jia to know
01:03:49that I care so much
01:03:50about her.
01:03:51My feelings are strong.
01:03:52I'm falling for her.
01:03:53But when these things
01:03:54happen,
01:03:54it pulls me back
01:03:55and it holds me back.
01:03:58And so, Jia,
01:04:00what do you think
01:04:01when you're feeling
01:04:03threatened or
01:04:05not happy
01:04:05with what Scott says
01:04:07that you attack him?
01:04:09What is that about
01:04:10for you?
01:04:11This is a man
01:04:12that you're falling
01:04:13in love with
01:04:14from every indication
01:04:15I've had.
01:04:17Well, I'll just
01:04:18say it out loud.
01:04:22If this wasn't on camera,
01:04:23I told him
01:04:24I'm in love with him
01:04:24yesterday.
01:04:27So this is a man
01:04:28you love.
01:04:30So where does that
01:04:31come from?
01:04:31So, for me,
01:04:35I've felt this way
01:04:36for Scott
01:04:37for the last few weeks
01:04:39and there's been
01:04:40so many moments
01:04:41where, like,
01:04:42I've wanted to say it
01:04:43and I'm like,
01:04:44you can't be the girl
01:04:45who says it first.
01:04:46Usually, it's been
01:04:47the guy who said it first,
01:04:48so this is weird for me.
01:04:49And I've wanted him
01:04:50to know why
01:04:51I've been spiraling.
01:04:52It's because of this.
01:04:53Like, I've been wanting
01:04:54to say it
01:04:54and I know he's not there
01:04:55and it's frustrating for me
01:04:56because I feel rejected,
01:04:57to be honest.
01:04:59The leading up to where
01:05:00you're having these
01:05:01big feelings
01:05:02and that's what's
01:05:02making you feel like,
01:05:03oh my God,
01:05:04he's going to reject me.
01:05:05Why go hurt him?
01:05:07Because I felt hurt
01:05:10and I was like,
01:05:11let me hurt him.
01:05:13That's the truth.
01:05:18That's a pretty big
01:05:20revelation
01:05:21and also hurdle
01:05:23for Scott
01:05:24to have to handle
01:05:25and walk around
01:05:26eggshells
01:05:27trying to not
01:05:28have you have
01:05:30this reaction.
01:05:31I just think
01:05:31this is very new for me.
01:05:33I haven't ever been
01:05:33in this situation before.
01:05:35But in the situation
01:05:36of saying that you're hurt
01:05:38and therefore
01:05:39you're choosing
01:05:39to hurt back,
01:05:41is that the way
01:05:42that you normally are?
01:05:45No.
01:05:48I'm going to insist
01:05:49and underline this
01:05:50because I really want you
01:05:51to take in Gia
01:05:53that we can absolutely
01:05:55see how strong
01:05:56your relationship
01:05:57with Scott is.
01:05:58But it is a pattern
01:05:59that you're bringing
01:06:00to the table
01:06:00that you need to break
01:06:02because it will be
01:06:03the thing
01:06:04that makes him
01:06:05run the other way.
01:06:18The leading up
01:06:19to where you're having
01:06:20these big feelings
01:06:21and that's what's
01:06:22making you feel like,
01:06:22oh my God,
01:06:23he's going to reject me.
01:06:25Why go hurt him?
01:06:28Because I felt hurt
01:06:30and I was like,
01:06:31let me hurt him.
01:06:34That's the truth.
01:06:37I'm going to insist
01:06:38and underline this
01:06:39because I really want you
01:06:40to take in Gia.
01:06:43It is a pattern
01:06:44that you're bringing
01:06:44to the table
01:06:45that you need to break
01:06:46because it will be
01:06:48the thing that makes him
01:06:49run the other way.
01:06:57Do you feel secure
01:06:58in your relationship
01:06:59with Scott?
01:07:07Like, yes and no.
01:07:10Why no?
01:07:13I don't know,
01:07:14because, like,
01:07:15sometimes I can't
01:07:16bring something up
01:07:17because I'm argumentative
01:07:18or so I don't feel like
01:07:19I'm secure with him
01:07:21and I can be myself.
01:07:22So that and, like,
01:07:23he doesn't feel
01:07:24as strong as I feel.
01:07:26Like, well,
01:07:27he could just leave.
01:07:29Am I going to move
01:07:30for like?
01:07:31Am I going to take
01:07:31my daughter out
01:07:32of her school in Melbourne
01:07:33and move to the Gold Coast
01:07:34if he just likes me?
01:07:38Just don't feel
01:07:39as secure as maybe
01:07:39I could
01:07:41in the relationship.
01:07:43So there's still
01:07:44room there for you
01:07:45to grow
01:07:45in terms of security
01:07:46in the relationship.
01:07:49How does it make you
01:07:50feel to hear
01:07:52Gia say that she
01:07:53doesn't feel secure
01:07:54in the relationship?
01:07:58I'm confused
01:07:58because Gia tells me
01:07:59that she feels secure.
01:08:01I try and
01:08:03tickle the boxes
01:08:04to make a note
01:08:05and reassure
01:08:06that I'm all in on this
01:08:07and, like,
01:08:08when we have tough times,
01:08:09like, I just keep telling you
01:08:10I'm here for you.
01:08:11I want you to be
01:08:11the shoulder to cry on
01:08:12and, like, you know,
01:08:13whenever there is bad things,
01:08:15maybe sometimes I say,
01:08:16or, like, I don't want
01:08:17to hear it
01:08:18or something like that
01:08:19but, you know...
01:08:20Well, that's why
01:08:20I don't feel secure.
01:08:23Because I'm like,
01:08:25well, I can't bring that up
01:08:26so, like, how do I...
01:08:27How can I be vulnerable
01:08:28and feel safe?
01:08:29Because it's swept
01:08:30under the rug, you know?
01:08:33You shut down
01:08:33my feelings
01:08:34a lot of the time.
01:08:35I'm going to present myself.
01:08:35I've never shut down
01:08:36your feelings, Gia.
01:08:37Never.
01:08:37Well, that's my perception
01:08:39and I feel like sometimes
01:08:40we'll talk about something
01:08:42and you just don't listen
01:08:44and so then I just
01:08:45stop talking about it
01:08:46because he says I'm arguing
01:08:48and I'm like,
01:08:48OK, well, I just, like,
01:08:49I'll just forget my feelings.
01:08:50Let's just leave it.
01:08:52Because then my brain
01:08:53is like,
01:08:54oh, my God,
01:08:54you're arguing again.
01:08:55He's not going to fall
01:08:56in love with you.
01:08:56And it's like...
01:08:58It's like I can't win,
01:08:59to be honest.
01:09:01That's how I feel.
01:09:06Well, at last,
01:09:08we've got the real Scott
01:09:10and Gia sitting
01:09:11in front of us.
01:09:12And isn't it interesting
01:09:15that week after week
01:09:16you guys have sat here
01:09:17and said everything's fine.
01:09:18We're a great couple.
01:09:21Tonight,
01:09:23you're exposing yourselves
01:09:26and everything isn't great
01:09:28between the two of you.
01:09:30Scott nearly couldn't breathe tonight
01:09:33because he was so scared
01:09:34about bringing an issue up
01:09:35with you, Gia.
01:09:37That's not healthy.
01:09:40So,
01:09:41it comes down
01:09:42to the two of you.
01:09:44Are you prepared
01:09:44to do the work?
01:09:46Hear things you might not like,
01:09:48but know that when you hear
01:09:50those feelings,
01:09:50you get closer,
01:09:51not further away.
01:09:54But you've got to be real
01:09:56over this next week.
01:09:58Otherwise,
01:09:58it is going to slip
01:10:00through your fingers.
01:10:04We're going to go
01:10:05to the decision.
01:10:06Stay or leave
01:10:07and we'll go with you first,
01:10:10Gia.
01:10:11Um,
01:10:13yeah.
01:10:14I think we needed
01:10:15to have this conversation tonight
01:10:16because we're at the end.
01:10:18I don't want to
01:10:18have any questions unanswered
01:10:20and that's
01:10:21the same with
01:10:22me saying
01:10:23that I love him
01:10:24and I just wanted to
01:10:25just be
01:10:26fully in.
01:10:28So,
01:10:28anyways,
01:10:29with that,
01:10:30we'll take on
01:10:31your advice this week
01:10:32and I'm going to
01:10:34stay.
01:10:34Mmm.
01:10:35Love that.
01:10:37What do you got, Scott?
01:10:38Stay or leave?
01:10:40Obviously,
01:10:40we've come so far
01:10:41to this experiment
01:10:42and I honestly
01:10:42appreciate
01:10:43the three of you
01:10:44for what you've done
01:10:45for us
01:10:45and how you've paired us
01:10:46and
01:10:47I was nervous
01:10:48walking here tonight
01:10:48and I don't get nervous
01:10:50and I feel so light
01:10:51right now
01:10:52because
01:10:53we can both
01:10:54have our say
01:10:56and I can
01:10:56tell you right now
01:10:58this is going to
01:10:58help us so much.
01:11:00So,
01:11:00I'm excited for this week
01:11:02because I just feel
01:11:02so happy just
01:11:03after this conversation.
01:11:05So,
01:11:05I'm staying
01:11:05in the sun
01:11:06because we're going
01:11:07to the sunny Gold Coast.
01:11:10All right,
01:11:10you two.
01:11:13So,
01:11:13it's a big week
01:11:14coming up
01:11:15for the two of you
01:11:15and I know
01:11:16it's hard for you
01:11:17as a couple
01:11:18but when issues
01:11:19get brought up
01:11:20this week
01:11:20when you talk
01:11:21about the big stuff
01:11:23try and be curious
01:11:25as opposed
01:11:26to defensive.
01:11:28All right.
01:11:29Good luck.
01:11:30Good work.
01:11:37I'm here.
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:44All right.
01:11:45Mm-hmm.
01:11:46All right.
01:12:07Tomorrow night.
01:12:08What is going on here?
01:12:10Chanel.
01:12:11Shannon.
01:12:11Oh, no.
01:12:13What?
01:12:14James.
01:12:15I'm Tony.
01:12:16Oh, my God.
01:12:18During the matchmaking process
01:12:19there was more
01:12:20than one person
01:12:21that our participants
01:12:22were compatible with.
01:12:24The unforgettable
01:12:25final test
01:12:26is back.
01:12:27Oh, my God.
01:12:28It is the ultimate test
01:12:29of trust
01:12:30and security.
01:12:31And this season
01:12:33the experts
01:12:34have upped the ante
01:12:35like never before.
01:12:37We are removing
01:12:37the element of choice
01:12:38from the final test.
01:12:40Over two
01:12:41incredible nights.
01:12:43I feel sick.
01:12:44I feel like
01:12:44I'm going to pass out.
01:12:46All our participants
01:12:48will make
01:12:49their alternative matches.
01:12:51The only date man
01:12:52that pay for money.
01:12:53Let's get married.
01:12:55Some will more
01:12:56than enjoy
01:12:56the fresh perspective.
01:12:58Why do I always
01:12:58get the young ones?
01:12:59I like it.
01:13:01You've got to stop
01:13:02touching me
01:13:02because if my wife
01:13:03sees this
01:13:03she's going to go.
01:13:04No!
01:13:06Before
01:13:09the biggest twist
01:13:12the experiments
01:13:13ever seen.
01:13:15It's the gas greener.
01:13:17Are you serious?
01:13:20That is disgusting.
01:13:22Oh, you...
01:13:23Oh, you...
01:13:28Oh, you...
01:13:29Oh, you...
01:13:30Oh, you...
01:13:31Oh, you...
01:13:31Oh, you...
01:13:32Oh, you...
01:13:32Oh, you...
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