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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:44then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary.
00:00:54You forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:06I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:42My trust is broken right now.
00:01:46I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:53I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:08I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:12Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:19She's a psycho.
00:02:21Good luck.
00:02:24You all right?
00:02:24Yeah.
00:02:25Are you okay?
00:02:26So cute.
00:02:27You run to her after this, right?
00:02:29Asshole.
00:02:31I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:33But that I'm done.
00:02:57Come to the gym?
00:02:58No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:03:00Rough night.
00:03:01Another one?
00:03:03Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:05She went off yelling at the, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:09How many people were there?
00:03:10Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:11Oh, f*** off.
00:03:12She stands up and she's like, how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another
00:03:18girl financially?
00:03:19I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:22Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:25I just don't know what to do.
00:03:26I'm confused.
00:03:33It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:35It's pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:36Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:41This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:43That was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:48I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:51Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:55That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:04:00I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:04:03It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:04So, that's a lot to think about.
00:04:08I'm f***ing.
00:04:11Hurting.
00:04:13And for s***ing.
00:04:14Angry.
00:04:15Angry.
00:04:17Hey.
00:04:19Elise.
00:04:20How are you?
00:04:24I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:30I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:34I should not have acted that way.
00:04:42Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:44Is that a...
00:04:45I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:47I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:48Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:54Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:58I don't like embarrassment or personal s*** coming up.
00:05:01I acted a f***ing fool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:05I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:09The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions
00:05:13for me and sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me and I'm just worried now where
00:05:21that's where this makes us stand.
00:05:28That s*** should never happen once.
00:05:31There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:34s*** that.
00:05:36You know, I'm out.
00:05:44Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:52Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:59Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:06:01I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:08I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I, I, whatever, but you can go to the
00:06:14zoo.
00:06:17I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:19For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:23But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:27or he really likes it.
00:06:28But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:31Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:33And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:40I gotta get ready.
00:06:41Can I have a hug?
00:06:43Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:51I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:56I'm sorry.
00:06:58Yeah.
00:07:01But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:07:06My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:11Well, good luck with that.
00:07:14My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:16And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:20really am,
00:07:21I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:31Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:33Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:36Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:37Uh, yes.
00:07:38I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:41100%, yeah.
00:07:42Hi!
00:07:43Her name is Kamira.
00:07:45Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:47She is very cute.
00:07:48Can I touch her?
00:07:49We can't touch her here.
00:07:51We are completely hands off.
00:07:52She does like people a lot.
00:07:54Hi!
00:07:55Oh, really?
00:07:57Hi!
00:07:58She's like a little teddy bearer.
00:08:00She is like a little teddy.
00:08:01Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:08:07We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:09Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:11Fun fact, I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:16Really?
00:08:18Yes.
00:08:20Thank you so much.
00:08:21Thank you so much.
00:08:22It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:23Anytime.
00:08:23Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:25Bye.
00:08:27Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:29We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:32We can.
00:08:35I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know,
00:08:39everything that went on last night.
00:08:50So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:54Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay, or, like, I'm trying to just,
00:09:01I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:09:05I don't know what to do.
00:09:09I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, and how much you mean to
00:09:13me, and then f*** what.
00:09:15You go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:20And that was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise
00:09:26last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:30And I'm sorry.
00:09:32All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:35You are so much different to her.
00:09:37She's a friend.
00:09:38You are my girl.
00:09:41You embarrass her.
00:09:42You f***ing embarrass me.
00:09:44And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:46Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:52The f***ing thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:56Like, I am.
00:09:58But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:10:09I think the bottom line is, I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:16and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:19And I think just the...
00:10:20You got answers.
00:10:21You got answers.
00:10:24You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:32I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:35I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:37It will not happen again.
00:10:44No, I appreciate that.
00:10:47You're giving me another chance.
00:10:53I'm not very confident.
00:10:56See how convincing you are.
00:10:59I'm sorry.
00:11:01When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:11:06And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:11:11Baby, they're so cute.
00:11:13Can we feed them?
00:11:15I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:20And that's not fair to him.
00:11:22You are so cute.
00:11:25I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this
00:11:30all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:35But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:53I feel like I'm not going to be able to do it.
00:12:33Earlier today, I met with Laura's friend, best friend, Michael.
00:12:42I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:46She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move, and she made the move.
00:12:56I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who
00:13:04wanted to be more than friends.
00:13:07How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:13:12Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:17Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:22Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:25Maybe there was a lot of lies, and maybe soul a lie.
00:13:34Hey, baby.
00:13:35Hey.
00:13:36How was your day?
00:13:38Perfect.
00:13:39Was it okay?
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40Yeah.
00:13:40I'm curious about it.
00:13:41I enjoyed it.
00:13:45Did you really?
00:13:46Yeah.
00:13:47He's a good guy.
00:13:50I've been saying that, that's a relief to hear.
00:13:53Why?
00:13:54He's a good guy.
00:13:56But it turns out, you were not so good.
00:14:04Why?
00:14:05Why?
00:14:05What did I do?
00:14:09He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:31I didn't say anything because it was like, literally nothing to tell.
00:14:42You make me think like, Michael is the enemy, he's trying to break us up.
00:14:46I didn't make you think that.
00:14:47You thought that all on your own.
00:14:49But you did not avoid it.
00:14:52It was almost a year ago.
00:14:55I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:59This is a little thing.
00:15:00Are you sure?
00:15:00It is a little thing.
00:15:01It is not a little thing.
00:15:02It's 100% a little thing.
00:15:04It was one tiny little thing.
00:15:06We got drunk.
00:15:07We were on the couch.
00:15:08I tried to kiss him.
00:15:09Big deal.
00:15:13One night, almost a full year into our friendship.
00:15:16And before I met BeerCon.
00:15:19Michael and I were watching TV and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:24Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch.
00:15:29And I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:32He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:36Although it was really hurtful in the moment.
00:15:38Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:41It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:43And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:48Because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:56I don't trust you.
00:16:01This is your obligation to tell me your path.
00:16:06You tried to kiss me.
00:16:08Okay?
00:16:09Yeah, I did.
00:16:10That means you had feelings for her.
00:16:13You wanted something.
00:16:15They couldn't have it.
00:16:17Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:21He is still in your life.
00:16:22And you kept this from a secret.
00:16:25Nothing happened.
00:16:27And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:30It doesn't matter.
00:16:31You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:36What would you like me to say?
00:16:39Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:43I was drunk.
00:16:44I tried to kiss him.
00:16:45But he refused me.
00:16:47But we are still friends.
00:16:52That was hard?
00:16:53Nope.
00:16:54You didn't want it to say.
00:16:59I'm trying to change my country.
00:17:01I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:17:06Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:17:12This is so ridiculous.
00:17:19I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:24I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:29I mean, let's be real.
00:17:31He's kept a lot of secrets from me.
00:17:33And I'm still here.
00:17:35That pisses me off.
00:17:39You're missing all the points.
00:17:42I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:45Nothing is going on.
00:17:46Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:49Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:55I...
00:17:55No.
00:17:57Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:18:00Or just don't talk.
00:18:02Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:18:06You wanted a young husband.
00:18:08Deal with it.
00:18:10You know what?
00:18:12I wish we never met.
00:18:14I don't have to go through all of this.
00:18:16I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:17I'm sorry.
00:18:18You wish that who never met?
00:18:21Us.
00:18:22You and me?
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:25I can trust you.
00:18:28That's fine.
00:18:28I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:38If you care this much...
00:18:40No, I don't.
00:18:41You cross the line.
00:18:43If you're gonna tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:46I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:48Okay.
00:19:03There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:19:08What's that?
00:19:09Oral sex.
00:19:12Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:19:15I am not a woman.
00:19:17I have my...
00:19:21There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:27My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:33Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:39We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:43But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:48It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
00:19:51Not just following her orders around.
00:19:57When you know, you know.
00:19:59That's how the story goes.
00:20:02I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:20:04Then you came and made it so easy.
00:20:07I got this in a globe.
00:20:09It looks like we're gonna get wrapped up in bananas.
00:20:12Woo! Banana?
00:20:14You gonna put me at the plate?
00:20:15Yeah.
00:20:24Oh!
00:20:25Oh!
00:20:26Hello, everyone.
00:20:28Hello.
00:20:28Hello, Pa.
00:20:30Welcome.
00:20:30Hello.
00:20:31Good afternoon, Pa. Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:35This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:37Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:40Go on.
00:20:40We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:41Alright, thank you. Yeah, thank you.
00:20:45Should I really need to remove my tops or something? No.
00:20:48If you want, ma'am.
00:20:49It's okay.
00:20:50It's okay.
00:20:51Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other,
00:20:55getting a chance to be with each other intimately,
00:20:58it was definitely something that we both needed.
00:21:01And I'm hoping the spa treatment is gonna help us de-stress.
00:21:05Okay.
00:21:07Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines,
00:21:10and I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:21:16And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:21:20Very great.
00:21:22Oh, wow.
00:21:23I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:21:26I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:31This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment,
00:21:34and it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:38Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:43It's kind of funny.
00:21:46How's things looking up there, ladies? Pretty good?
00:21:49It's okay, sir.
00:21:50Yeah.
00:21:51I feel like a giant wrapped tamale here.
00:21:55Tamale, bro.
00:21:55They're gonna throw me in the oven next.
00:21:57I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:22:00They're gonna steam you.
00:22:02This is so strange.
00:22:03Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:22:07Oh, my goodness.
00:22:08But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:22:15as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:22:23It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:22:27Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:22:30Yeah, I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:32And it's starting to rain.
00:22:35Oh, yeah, I love the rain.
00:22:37Yeah.
00:22:38Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:40Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:44Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:48Yeah.
00:22:50I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:53And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:58And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:23:05Wow.
00:23:06I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:23:09I love you, baby bear.
00:23:11I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:23:15I would try to help you find a job.
00:23:17If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:23:22I'll do what I can, my love.
00:23:25Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:23:31But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:37It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:41I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:47are way out of my bounds.
00:23:50It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:56out my soul.
00:23:58I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:24:05You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:24:10And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:24:18us only.
00:24:21Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:24:27Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena, I felt like
00:24:34I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:40That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:48My mom has always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning
00:24:54on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:58I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:25:01Babe, mom would strangle everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship, even though I happen to
00:25:10try to do many things for her.
00:25:12It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:25:17do some things that you wanted to do, not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:25:23You have to make your own decisions.
00:25:28My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:35I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:42from my mother.
00:25:44Hello, ma'am, sir. Excuse voice. Time's up.
00:25:46Okay, thank you.
00:25:48But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:55I'm scared.
00:25:59I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start a life together.
00:26:03It's your time to shine, honey. I'm there for you.
00:26:17You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:26:32You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:41Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:47I have to decide what is your life.
00:26:52What is your life?
00:27:00What is your life?
00:27:02You have to decide what is yourRI, or what is your life?
00:27:05If you want to live in me or not, my life is about to live in you.
00:27:13If something you want to live in my life, you will find me.
00:27:15the answer you want to have a baby or not
00:27:32um my uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent our family line
00:27:40continuing that's what we believe and it's not gonna change so we only wait for you and you know that
00:27:52in their culture having the baby is the most important thing i understand that and i would
00:28:00hate for trish not to be respected by her community over this if trish didn't have a baby i feel
00:28:08like
00:28:08she would be ashamed i would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way
00:28:20they're waiting for our answer okay
00:28:26but at the same time i'm feeling like i'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker
00:28:34i don't feel like i'm being forced to um make a life-changing decision in in in such little time
00:28:47i know how important it is to the family
00:28:52and i really know how important it is to trish if we're gonna be together and get married
00:29:03then i want to make you happy i want you to feel like your life is complete so
00:29:13i have to say yes
00:29:18so you're saying yes now yes why you change your mind like that
00:29:25i didn't fully understand you know before
00:29:40i'm excited that you're going eating a baby
00:29:47i'm really shocked that rick say yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer
00:29:56maybe because of my uncle's pressure but i'm really excited and also my family is very excited to hear
00:30:05that response
00:30:12so when are we going to have the baby
00:30:19i will file for the visa yeah it's going to take at least eight months to a year and then
00:30:27once she's
00:30:28approved after we get married and that's we're gonna we're gonna start planning our our family together
00:30:35uh
00:30:36to
00:30:37They were the people that were killed until they were shot.
00:30:41There were two scars on the forest.
00:30:44That was a good idea because they didn't do what happened.
00:30:49I was here thinking about this and talking about how they were killed and they turned out to be destroyed.
00:31:03What do you think?
00:31:05Say quick and quick and make peace and quick.
00:31:12So what if it's after 20 years you start?
00:31:16By the end of August, in about three months,
00:31:20then I will propose to Trish.
00:31:24So in three months, we are going to be engaged
00:31:29and he will start the process?
00:31:32If everything goes in the direction that it's been going
00:31:35in the last few days, then yes, that's what's going to happen.
00:31:57They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:32:03This is great news.
00:32:05I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:32:11Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision
00:32:14because I really wanted to be with Trish.
00:32:18And the only way that I would be able to
00:32:22is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:32:24But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:32:32it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:32:37I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:32:40of having this family with Trish.
00:32:44Trish.
00:32:45She would be a great mother.
00:32:48And I'm actually starting to envision it.
00:32:52And things are looking really good.
00:32:55Her happiness is all I want.
00:33:08When you get back to America,
00:33:10you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:33:13I'm going to do that.
00:33:14But you do know I can't keep sending as much money
00:33:17as I have been.
00:33:21Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:33:24I can't even spend money anymore.
00:33:26I'm done.
00:33:39I want to snuggle before we get up.
00:33:41One last snuggle.
00:33:52Now I have more sex with you.
00:33:53Before you go, before you...
00:33:56I hope so.
00:33:58I hope so.
00:34:00Baby.
00:34:01Baby.
00:34:02Here's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:34:05One promise.
00:34:07What's that?
00:34:08Oral sex.
00:34:09Oh.
00:34:11Why are you putting it off?
00:34:14I know you like it.
00:34:15And you've been talking.
00:34:16You've been hammering on that.
00:34:18There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:34:21And that's a major one right there for me.
00:34:24It's major for me.
00:34:27I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:34:30Because I've never tried it before.
00:34:32I don't know how to do it.
00:34:35Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:34:38And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:34:41I am not a woman.
00:34:43I have my .
00:34:46Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:51When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:53Okay?
00:34:54Promise.
00:34:55I promise you.
00:34:56You better keep this promise because I've done so much.
00:34:59I'm sorry.
00:35:01Okay?
00:35:02I'll make it up to you.
00:35:07I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:35:12It's not possible.
00:35:14You gotta start getting ready.
00:35:18Okay.
00:35:19I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:35:23And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:35:29And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:35:34And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:35:36Everything is done.
00:35:38I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:35:40I don't want to go home.
00:35:45Baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:35:51I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:56So that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to
00:36:00America, right?
00:36:01I'm gonna do that, babe.
00:36:03My first step is to get back to work.
00:36:05And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:36:09Okay.
00:36:10We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:36:16Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:36:19That would be nice.
00:36:20Okay? So that's what we'll do.
00:36:22Yes, I can.
00:36:25But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:36:33At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer getting you to America, doing what we need
00:36:41to do.
00:36:41I cannot send any more money.
00:36:43I can't even spend money anymore.
00:36:45I'm done.
00:37:03You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:37:09Um, babe, there's no problem about that. I have you.
00:37:15So we have a game plan now?
00:37:17Yes.
00:37:18Hmm.
00:37:22All right, I have to get dressed. You have to get dressed. We have to get going.
00:37:25Yes.
00:37:27She said she's not going to give me money anymore. Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of
00:37:32the money she's giving me. No.
00:37:34I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:37:40She has good plans for me.
00:37:41She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:37:45She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:37:48Babes.
00:37:49What?
00:37:49This is so funny.
00:37:51Are you going to wear it today?
00:37:53Do you know what women will say to me?
00:37:55What?
00:37:55They will say your wife is wicked.
00:37:58Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:38:00Oh, my God.
00:38:02So, um, she deserves an applause. She's, she deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:38:07That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:38:16All I want is love. And she has been giving it to me. I will miss her, um, her soft
00:38:22kiss. I will miss everything about her.
00:38:27Even the sky is crying. It's raining.
00:38:31You're my husband. I love you.
00:38:33I love you.
00:38:38I knew it was going to be hard. I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:38:42Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:38:46To you.
00:38:48Oh, my God, baby.
00:38:55This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:58I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed. I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing. I didn't
00:39:04imagine seeing a king of all people. I didn't imagine any of this. I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:39:13I mean, none of this. I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:39:23I don't want to go.
00:39:27I don't want to go.
00:39:27But I have to go.
00:39:31I can't wait to do with you.
00:39:33It'll happen soon.
00:39:35When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:39:55It's okay.
00:39:58It's okay, baby. It's okay, baby. It's okay, baby. I love you so much. I love you so, so much.
00:40:08We'll be together soon.
00:40:11Am I yours or just passing by?
00:40:15My baby.
00:40:19I feel that I will not see her again.
00:40:21Because anything can happen.
00:40:26She might go back to her country and she might change her mind on most of the promises, like bringing
00:40:32me to her country, you know, the visa.
00:40:36I am hoping she would do it, but we are not married legally yet. So it's very hard for me
00:40:42to say goodbye.
00:40:45I miss you so much.
00:40:49I love you, baby. I can't do it. You have to walk away from me. I can't do it.
00:41:06Okay, I'll go. I'll go.
00:41:12It's very hard. I feel like I'm not going to see him again, even though I know I'm going to.
00:41:16I'm making these plans, but I'm thinking, what if they fall through?
00:41:22What if it's more than six months? What if it's more than a year? What if, what if, what if
00:41:27it's two years?
00:41:30What happens between Daniel and I? I don't know.
00:41:33Oh, I don't know.
00:41:49This is nice. It's a big house. We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:41:55I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night, but she's trying to
00:42:00make it up to me.
00:42:01You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house.
00:42:03So the fact that I'm doing this must mean I really like you.
00:42:31Okay, we have everything you think?
00:42:33Yep.
00:42:34Okay, to a trip, just us.
00:42:37Chris gets the place to himself now.
00:42:40Silence is coming soon.
00:42:43It's finally peaceful on the moon.
00:42:49Blue Mountains.
00:42:51It's lighter.
00:42:53What's this?
00:42:55It's called deodorant.
00:43:00I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night.
00:43:04But Elise has realised she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me
00:43:07and she's organised a two-night stay at the Blue Mountains.
00:43:11Take me away.
00:43:13The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls
00:43:16and it's a different part of nature besides the beaches that Sydney has.
00:43:20So I'm excited.
00:43:21You know, I've never even been.
00:43:23I wouldn't say all is forgiven, but she's trying.
00:43:27And this is a good start.
00:43:38Oh my God, are we here?
00:43:40We are here.
00:43:42This is nice.
00:43:44It's a big house.
00:43:44We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:43:48Yes, we can.
00:43:52I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains, but Josh has always spoken about it and how much he wanted
00:43:58to go.
00:43:59So I decided to book us a trip.
00:44:01And there's hot tubs there.
00:44:02So I was like, love that.
00:44:05Look, baby.
00:44:06Look what I got us.
00:44:07Whoa.
00:44:09Oh, wow.
00:44:10A lot of space for a lot of activity.
00:44:13You're the best.
00:44:14I know.
00:44:15I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi, away from Nat, away from Chris, away from
00:44:21boats.
00:44:22I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more.
00:44:28Get out of the kitchen.
00:44:30I was cooking for you.
00:44:33You know, I've never used a kitchen in my house.
00:44:36So the fact that I'm doing this for you must mean I really like you.
00:44:39That does mean a lot.
00:44:41This should be fun.
00:44:43I'm going to go.
00:44:48Oh, my God.
00:44:49What have you done?
00:44:51Ew, ew.
00:44:52This is not the best stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth.
00:44:56Oh, no.
00:44:58Baby.
00:45:01I'm crying.
00:45:02This is ew, ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.
00:45:05Oh, that was grossest.
00:45:09Half of it went in my mouth, my face, my boobs.
00:45:12Maybe, should I take it off?
00:45:16Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:45:18I don't know how to turn on the stove.
00:45:20Oh.
00:45:22Which pasta do you want?
00:45:24That's so embarrassing.
00:45:26What packet was that in?
00:45:28I'm making you two types of pasta.
00:45:31Perfect.
00:45:35Nope, not ready.
00:45:37Oh, God.
00:45:39This feels really good.
00:45:43Oh, my God.
00:45:47I read somewhere, I heard,
00:45:49that you'll know if pasta's ready
00:45:51if it sticks to the wall.
00:45:52So, like, if you cook pasta
00:45:54and then it sticks to the wall,
00:45:55then you know it's ready.
00:45:56Yeah, but I don't think that's the same
00:45:58with penne pasta.
00:46:02Let's throw in the pasta.
00:46:05Oh, my God, there's water in here.
00:46:09I think I just ruined the sauce.
00:46:11Baby.
00:46:13The kitchen is definitely not her element,
00:46:16but I love seeing the side of Elise
00:46:18that's doing something that she's not used to doing.
00:46:22All right, that'll do.
00:46:23Elise, she keeps me on my toes.
00:46:26I don't like it when things get stagnant
00:46:28or boring or stale,
00:46:29and I know it's not going to be dull with her.
00:46:31Let's see how we go.
00:46:34Is it good?
00:46:35It's actually not that bad.
00:46:41It's horrible.
00:46:44Be honest.
00:46:45I'm not picky.
00:46:46It was the most fun I've had making dinner.
00:46:50I laughed my head off,
00:46:51and I needed that.
00:46:52Me too.
00:46:54You know what's so cute about Josh
00:46:56is, like, when I f*** up
00:46:58or I do something stupid
00:46:59or I feel really awkward,
00:47:00like, he makes so light of it.
00:47:02I don't know.
00:47:03It's like, it's the little moments,
00:47:04like, then,
00:47:05that I'm like, you know what?
00:47:06Like, I feel like he could be my forever.
00:47:10But there's just one thing
00:47:11he hasn't followed through on,
00:47:13and it's been constantly playing
00:47:14in the back of my mind.
00:47:16I don't know if I can go back to Florida
00:47:20not having met your son
00:47:22to see how you are as a father.
00:47:25You would have, you would have met him already.
00:47:26I would want you to.
00:47:27But he's moved away.
00:47:29So for now, like, can we FaceTime?
00:47:32Will that work?
00:47:34Yeah.
00:47:35I'm not trying to harp on him again.
00:47:36after everything that we've went through.
00:47:38But I'm leaving soon,
00:47:40and I haven't met anyone in his family.
00:47:42I haven't met his son.
00:47:43And this is a huge part of his life
00:47:45that I'm completely missing out on.
00:47:48So I really, really hope
00:47:49that it can happen
00:47:50before the end of my trip.
00:47:53Pretty full.
00:47:54Me too.
00:47:59We're looking for wedding bands.
00:48:01I like classic stuff.
00:48:04It is really important for me
00:48:07to have the wedding ring.
00:48:10$268.
00:48:10Dollar.
00:48:12I think he's not sure.
00:48:15You don't want some men
00:48:16mistaking me as, you know,
00:48:18still available, single woman.
00:48:20They can have you.
00:48:22Okay.
00:48:22Okay.
00:48:23Okay.
00:48:37It's adorable.
00:48:39Sure.
00:48:40Why not?
00:48:43We have a wiener!
00:48:46Yeah.
00:48:47You really wanted that, don't you?
00:48:51There we go!
00:48:53Wee!
00:48:54Ready, boo?
00:48:56Woo!
00:48:57Woo!
00:48:59Woo!
00:49:04Oops!
00:49:05Ha!
00:49:07Ha!
00:49:09That chick knows my belly!
00:49:11Ha!
00:49:11Ha!
00:49:12Ha!
00:49:13Ha!
00:49:13Ha!
00:49:13Ha!
00:49:13Ha!
00:49:16Ha!
00:49:19That was fun.
00:49:20Yeah.
00:49:20That was so fun.
00:49:22Ooh, look at those shops.
00:49:25That's where you can find
00:49:26very nice wedding gowns
00:49:28and dresses.
00:49:29Like, really pretty.
00:49:31Nice.
00:49:33Can't wait for the anniversary party.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:39Things with Jovon and I
00:49:41are really good.
00:49:42And now, in a couple of days,
00:49:44we're having our anniversary party,
00:49:46where we're going to renew our vows.
00:49:51Since we never had a wedding in person,
00:49:53basically, it's just like a second wedding to me.
00:49:57You know?
00:49:59Because last time,
00:50:01we didn't get to touch each other face to face.
00:50:05I've been dreaming about this.
00:50:07And now it's happening,
00:50:08and I just can't wait.
00:50:12Okay, boo.
00:50:15Yee!
00:50:16Are you ready?
00:50:17Yeah, I guess so.
00:50:21Now that we're going to renew our vows,
00:50:25good afternoon.
00:50:27We decided to look at rings.
00:50:31We've been married almost three years,
00:50:33and sometimes I still can't believe
00:50:36that Jovon hasn't put a ring on it yet.
00:50:40I feel like I'm the only woman in the world
00:50:43that got married without a wedding band.
00:50:47Hi.
00:50:49What are you looking for?
00:50:51Uh, we're looking for wedding bands.
00:50:53We have different styles.
00:50:55Okay.
00:50:55What are you prepared for?
00:50:57Well, I'm okay with a simple, plain wedding band.
00:51:01I want it more classic.
00:51:04I like classic stuff.
00:51:09This one.
00:51:14It is really important for me
00:51:16to have the wedding ring,
00:51:18my symbol of love.
00:51:20You need a ring to symbolize that?
00:51:22I assume you don't want
00:51:24some men mistaking me as, you know,
00:51:26still available, single woman.
00:51:28They can have you.
00:51:29Okay.
00:51:31Okay.
00:51:32She's on the market.
00:51:33I'll go, I'll go.
00:51:34I'm playing.
00:51:35Relax.
00:51:36When is your wedding?
00:51:38Well, we're actually married already,
00:51:41but we don't have an official wedding rings yet.
00:51:45We did our marriage online, that's why.
00:51:47I'm a liar.
00:51:49You know, to be fair, you know,
00:51:52I did get you a ring.
00:51:54Okay.
00:51:55You sent me your money,
00:51:57and I bought a ring that's under $100
00:52:01that's turned my finger green.
00:52:04But that's what you wanted.
00:52:05Oh, no, I thought it's just a substitute ring.
00:52:09Mm.
00:52:10How about for sure?
00:52:12What do you think?
00:52:13When it comes to bands,
00:52:15like, I prefer, like,
00:52:18black like this, silver in the middle,
00:52:20kind of sporty,
00:52:21but they don't sell that.
00:52:25I already bought myself
00:52:27a non-expensive ring
00:52:29before we got married,
00:52:30and I like it a lot.
00:52:33I'm not a jewelry person,
00:52:35and I really don't want to spend money
00:52:37on something I don't need or want.
00:52:42This one is good.
00:52:43It's just that it's too, um...
00:52:46What?
00:52:48Skinny.
00:52:48Like, do you have something
00:52:49that's a little bit wider?
00:52:52I have different kind of design.
00:52:54Okay.
00:52:54This one.
00:52:58This one is good.
00:52:59I like this one.
00:53:01More simple,
00:53:02but really looks like
00:53:04I'm married.
00:53:06You know what I mean?
00:53:07How much is this?
00:53:10Per gram, no?
00:53:11Yes.
00:53:1215,510 in peso.
00:53:1315,510?
00:53:15How much is that?
00:53:16U.S.
00:53:16That's $268 in dollar.
00:53:19$268, yeah.
00:53:20Do you have anything budget?
00:53:22No, we didn't really have a budget,
00:53:25but...
00:53:28He's not sure.
00:53:30Are we gonna buy this?
00:53:33What do you mean, today?
00:53:35Yeah.
00:53:37I can come back, Will.
00:53:45We can come back.
00:53:47Yeah.
00:53:49Because I gotta sort out
00:53:51my bank stuff.
00:53:51Okay.
00:53:55Why would you bring me
00:53:57ring shopping
00:53:58if we're not gonna
00:53:59buy anything anyway?
00:54:02What's the point
00:54:03of going out?
00:54:05Just to get an idea
00:54:06of what you want.
00:54:15Thank you so much.
00:54:17Bye-bye.
00:54:19I feel so humiliated
00:54:22that I can't even have
00:54:24the cheapest ring.
00:54:26It's not just a jewelry.
00:54:28It's a symbol
00:54:30of our marriage.
00:54:32I waited six years
00:54:34to be together in person.
00:54:36He never applied
00:54:38for a spousal visa.
00:54:39And now,
00:54:40I still don't have a ring.
00:54:44Once again,
00:54:46he is making me feel
00:54:48like he's not invested
00:54:49in our relationship.
00:54:52That was embarrassing.
00:54:55A little bit.
00:54:57You just don't care,
00:54:59don't you?
00:54:59Yeah.
00:55:01Yeah.
00:55:02Yeah.
00:55:04Yeah.
00:55:07I don't know
00:55:07why he insists
00:55:09that I'm in love
00:55:10with him.
00:55:11I really don't.
00:55:12I mean,
00:55:12you did
00:55:13jump on a plane
00:55:14and come to my rescue.
00:55:17I don't think
00:55:17he's the only person
00:55:18that thinks that.
00:55:21There's a lot
00:55:22of layers there.
00:55:24And,
00:55:24I mean...
00:55:29I don't know
00:55:44Oh.
00:55:44Hey.
00:55:45Hey.
00:55:46A little concern
00:55:47from that phone call
00:55:48you gave me.
00:55:49Yeah.
00:55:50Me too.
00:56:01I'm assuming
00:56:02you've talked
00:56:02in beer con?
00:56:03Yeah,
00:56:04I did.
00:56:04It was super great.
00:56:06Thanks for that.
00:56:07I kind of partly
00:56:08blame you.
00:56:10Okay.
00:56:13I don't know...
00:56:14He's...
00:56:14You don't know?
00:56:15I don't know
00:56:16what was said
00:56:17between you and him.
00:56:18I only know
00:56:19my end of the story.
00:56:20Okay.
00:56:21So,
00:56:21we have to come together.
00:56:23Okay.
00:56:24Super curious.
00:56:25What was going
00:56:26through your head
00:56:27telling him
00:56:28that I hit on you?
00:56:31Like,
00:56:31I don't understand
00:56:32how that even came up.
00:56:34We never did anything
00:56:36and he's pissed off
00:56:37about it
00:56:38because I didn't tell him.
00:56:40Told me that
00:56:40he wishes
00:56:41he never met me
00:56:42and I kind of feel like
00:56:44there was zero reason
00:56:45for you to bring that up.
00:56:48Okay.
00:56:49And I'd like to know
00:56:49why you did.
00:56:50Okay.
00:56:53I'm brought it up
00:56:54because Peter Khan
00:56:55was under the impression
00:56:56that I was in love
00:56:57with you.
00:56:59That man kept pushing
00:57:00and pushing
00:57:01and pushing
00:57:03and at some point
00:57:03I need him to understand
00:57:06that I said no
00:57:09to us having a relationship
00:57:11but you were the one
00:57:12that asked
00:57:12and from that
00:57:14he got very upset
00:57:14and I tried to reassure him
00:57:15it was a year ago
00:57:16it didn't
00:57:18I mean it was
00:57:18before you met him
00:57:19it was
00:57:20I feel like
00:57:20honestly
00:57:21it feels like
00:57:23a backhanded way
00:57:24of trying to sabotage it.
00:57:27How long
00:57:27have you been here with him?
00:57:30How long
00:57:30have you been here with him?
00:57:32Two and a half weeks?
00:57:33In two and a half weeks
00:57:34you cannot convince him
00:57:35that I was not a threat?
00:57:43But that's not on me
00:57:44I did everything
00:57:45I could
00:57:45to defuse that situation
00:57:49I don't know
00:57:49why he insists
00:57:51that I'm in love with you
00:57:53I really don't
00:57:54I mean you did
00:57:55jump on a plane
00:57:56and come to my rescue
00:57:59I don't think
00:57:59he's the only person
00:58:00that thinks that
00:58:05there's a lot of layers there
00:58:07but
00:58:08no that's
00:58:09not something
00:58:10I want to happen
00:58:10anyhow
00:58:13we're friends
00:58:15I don't want to anymore
00:58:18at the end of the day
00:58:19I want you to be happy
00:58:21all I ever heard
00:58:22was little stories
00:58:22here and there
00:58:23about him from you
00:58:24you said
00:58:25all these bad things
00:58:27and just
00:58:28why does she keep
00:58:28talking to this guy?
00:58:30so I came to meet him
00:58:31to see all the other
00:58:32good stuff
00:58:34and
00:58:34you don't have to worry
00:58:35about him and I anymore
00:58:37you just need to make sure
00:58:38that he's the right guy
00:58:39for you
00:58:40before you make
00:58:40a commitment
00:58:42I don't even know
00:58:43what to do right now
00:58:44like there's part of me
00:58:44that just wants to like
00:58:45go have another conversation
00:58:46with him
00:58:47but I don't even know
00:58:47what to say
00:58:48because he just told me
00:58:49he wishes he never met me
00:58:50okay
00:58:51but
00:58:51the opposite of love
00:58:52is not anger
00:58:53it's apathy
00:58:53so angry means
00:58:55he still loves you
00:58:58I don't believe Michael
00:59:00when he says
00:59:01he doesn't have
00:59:02any feelings
00:59:03for me at all
00:59:04romantically
00:59:05but I think
00:59:06ultimately
00:59:07he does have
00:59:08my best interest
00:59:09in mind
00:59:09and I think
00:59:10he does care
00:59:10about the future
00:59:11of my relationship
00:59:12with beer con
00:59:14beer con
00:59:15is the person
00:59:16I need in my life
00:59:17and
00:59:18I want to fix this
00:59:19I just
00:59:20don't really know
00:59:22how to go about it
00:59:23so what do I do
00:59:25I feel like
00:59:26he never could
00:59:27understand that
00:59:27I didn't feel like
00:59:28that was that big
00:59:29of a deal
00:59:29you acknowledge that
00:59:32he felt the way
00:59:33he did
00:59:33it didn't matter
00:59:34whether he was right
00:59:35or not
00:59:36no I never said that
00:59:37at the end of the day
00:59:40the relationship
00:59:41is more important
00:59:42than the argument
00:59:45which means
00:59:45somebody has to say
00:59:46I'm sorry
00:59:49it's amazing
00:59:49how the words
00:59:50I'm sorry
00:59:51when said truly
00:59:52we can diffuse
00:59:53the situation
00:59:55I see your point
00:59:58I guess I'll go
00:59:59give him a call
01:00:00and see if I can
01:00:01fix that
01:00:02thank you
01:00:08I'll let you know
01:00:09how it goes
01:00:09thank you
01:00:10yeah
01:00:30how are you
01:00:32I'm good
01:00:33how are you
01:00:35I'm okay
01:00:37I was just
01:00:39wondering if
01:00:40we could talk
01:00:46not today
01:00:48I'm sorry
01:00:48did you say
01:00:49not today
01:00:51yeah
01:00:55am I not
01:00:56supposed to come
01:00:56back to the apartment
01:00:58I'm sorry
01:01:00just give me
01:01:00that space
01:01:04okay
01:01:04I guess
01:01:06I will
01:01:07get a room
01:01:08somewhere
01:01:09okay
01:01:10we both need
01:01:11time
01:01:12yeah
01:01:13and we both need
01:01:14to think about
01:01:15what's going on
01:01:16mm-hmm
01:01:19okay
01:01:21okay
01:01:22bye
01:01:25bye
01:01:32I don't want
01:01:33to force you
01:01:33but like
01:01:34am I ever
01:01:35going to meet
01:01:35your son
01:01:37when Elise
01:01:37asked to meet
01:01:38my son
01:01:38I can see
01:01:39that she really
01:01:40really cares
01:01:41but honestly
01:01:41after all the
01:01:42fighting with Elise
01:01:43I've had my doubts
01:01:44about trying to
01:01:45let her in
01:01:46to the most
01:01:46important part
01:01:46of my life
01:01:56oh my god
01:01:57oh that's hot
01:01:59oh that's hot
01:01:59oh it's really hot
01:02:03that's burning
01:02:04oh you found
01:02:06the champagne
01:02:06I got it
01:02:07it did
01:02:07it sounded good
01:02:08I think we should
01:02:10open it
01:02:14wow
01:02:16cheers
01:02:17cheers to that
01:02:24what a perfect
01:02:25ending to
01:02:26a perfect
01:02:27little guy
01:02:28good drive
01:02:31good cooking
01:02:34it's so funny
01:02:35huh
01:02:35so funny
01:02:36okay
01:02:36I tried
01:02:39so am I
01:02:39making it up to
01:02:40you
01:02:40am I doing
01:02:41a good job
01:02:41so far
01:02:42yeah
01:02:43absolutely
01:02:45well
01:02:46have I made
01:02:47it up to
01:02:47you enough
01:02:48that like
01:02:49you can let
01:02:49me in your
01:02:50own world
01:02:52you have
01:02:54well
01:02:55I want
01:02:56to be with
01:02:57you and
01:02:57I'm scared
01:02:59that I've
01:03:00came literally
01:03:00around the world
01:03:01and all I've
01:03:02met is like
01:03:02a few friends
01:03:04and I don't
01:03:05want to force
01:03:05you but like
01:03:07am I ever
01:03:08going to meet
01:03:08your son
01:03:14when Elise
01:03:14asks to meet
01:03:15my son
01:03:16or you know
01:03:16talk to
01:03:17my son
01:03:17I find
01:03:18that endearing
01:03:19but honestly
01:03:20the last couple
01:03:21of days
01:03:21after all the
01:03:22fighting with
01:03:22Elise
01:03:23I've had my
01:03:23doubts about
01:03:24whether I'll
01:03:25introduce him
01:03:25or not
01:03:27obviously I'm
01:03:27very protective
01:03:28of my son
01:03:29so I want
01:03:30to be confident
01:03:31that this
01:03:31relationship
01:03:32is going
01:03:32to work
01:03:34I understand
01:03:35he's young
01:03:36and it's like
01:03:37a video call
01:03:38and it's probably
01:03:38like a lot
01:03:40to explain
01:03:40to him
01:03:41yeah
01:03:42I do want
01:03:43to prove
01:03:43how much
01:03:44you mean
01:03:44to me
01:03:45but um
01:03:47that's been
01:03:48playing on me
01:03:49heavily
01:03:51what's been
01:03:51playing on you
01:03:52heavily
01:03:52explain that
01:03:54it's just
01:03:55been
01:03:55a tough
01:03:57year
01:03:58I didn't
01:03:59I didn't
01:03:59move him
01:04:00away
01:04:00but you know
01:04:01he's an hour
01:04:02and a half
01:04:02plane ride
01:04:03and I don't
01:04:05see him
01:04:05as much
01:04:05as I want
01:04:07I still feel
01:04:08like he thinks
01:04:09I can get up
01:04:10there a lot
01:04:10more than I
01:04:11can so
01:04:11it's just
01:04:14a guilty
01:04:15feeling for me
01:04:16at the moment
01:04:18I miss him
01:04:20you know
01:04:21especially
01:04:21when you're
01:04:22here you know
01:04:23really
01:04:23well yeah
01:04:24well because
01:04:24when you're
01:04:25here I think
01:04:25you know
01:04:25if he was
01:04:26here as well
01:04:27it'd be like
01:04:28I'd love you
01:04:28to get along
01:04:29and then it'd
01:04:29be like
01:04:31perfect little
01:04:31world
01:04:35I guess
01:04:36it's just
01:04:36painful to
01:04:37to think
01:04:38about it
01:04:40it's okay
01:04:41to have
01:04:42feelings
01:04:42it's okay
01:04:43to be
01:04:43upset
01:04:44if you
01:04:45weren't
01:04:45emotional
01:04:46about your
01:04:46son
01:04:47and you
01:04:47didn't feel
01:04:48this way
01:04:48I would
01:04:49be worried
01:04:49I'd be
01:04:50very very
01:04:50worried
01:04:52it means
01:04:52you're a
01:04:53good dad
01:04:53and it
01:04:54means you
01:04:54care
01:04:59you
01:04:59it's like
01:05:00having a
01:05:00son's
01:05:01responsibility
01:05:01and like
01:05:02excitement
01:05:02and you
01:05:03do things
01:05:03with him
01:05:03and then
01:05:04when something
01:05:04like that
01:05:05gets taken
01:05:05away from
01:05:06you
01:05:06you're
01:05:06like
01:05:07I feel
01:05:07like I
01:05:07lost
01:05:08myself
01:05:10yeah
01:05:10I feel
01:05:10like I've
01:05:11sort of
01:05:11lost a bit
01:05:12of myself
01:05:15my relationship
01:05:16with my son
01:05:16we're really
01:05:17tight
01:05:18I've been
01:05:18there since
01:05:19he was born
01:05:20he's my
01:05:21little partner
01:05:21in crime
01:05:22we go camping
01:05:23we go fishing
01:05:24surfing
01:05:25you know
01:05:25we kick
01:05:26footballs
01:05:27we go and
01:05:27play golf
01:05:28it's such
01:05:29a good part
01:05:30of my life
01:05:30so it
01:05:32really did
01:05:32hurt
01:05:32this year
01:05:33when I
01:05:34didn't have
01:05:35that
01:05:37I want
01:05:37to help
01:05:38make you
01:05:38feel like
01:05:39you're back
01:05:40together
01:05:43I want
01:05:44to be
01:05:44that rock
01:05:44for you
01:05:47I'm
01:05:47gonna do
01:05:47that
01:05:50be there
01:05:50for you
01:05:51support
01:05:51you in
01:05:51any way
01:05:52I can
01:05:52but you
01:05:53have to
01:05:53let me
01:05:54into your
01:05:54life
01:05:55I can't
01:05:56do that
01:05:56without
01:05:56getting
01:05:57brought
01:05:57into
01:05:57your
01:05:57life
01:06:01this
01:06:01is
01:06:01very
01:06:01emotional
01:06:02because
01:06:02being
01:06:03away
01:06:03from
01:06:03my
01:06:03son
01:06:04affected
01:06:04me
01:06:05more
01:06:05than
01:06:05I
01:06:05thought
01:06:07but
01:06:07I
01:06:07don't
01:06:07want
01:06:08that
01:06:08to
01:06:08hold
01:06:08me
01:06:08back
01:06:08from
01:06:09bringing
01:06:09Elise
01:06:09fully
01:06:10into
01:06:10my
01:06:10life
01:06:11I
01:06:11can
01:06:11see
01:06:11that
01:06:11she
01:06:12really
01:06:12really
01:06:12cares
01:06:13she's
01:06:14shown
01:06:14that
01:06:14she's
01:06:14worthy
01:06:15of
01:06:15getting
01:06:16to
01:06:16know
01:06:16my
01:06:16son
01:06:17but
01:06:18at
01:06:18the
01:06:18same
01:06:18time
01:06:18it
01:06:19is
01:06:19scary
01:06:20to
01:06:20let
01:06:20her
01:06:20in
01:06:21the
01:06:21most
01:06:21important
01:06:21part
01:06:22of
01:06:22my
01:06:22life
01:06:23what
01:06:23if
01:06:23things
01:06:23don't
01:06:24work
01:06:24out
01:06:24that's
01:06:25going
01:06:25to be
01:06:25pretty
01:06:25devastating
01:06:26for
01:06:26all
01:06:26of
01:06:26us
01:06:28I'm
01:06:29here
01:06:29for
01:06:29you
01:06:29now
01:06:48I
01:06:52mean
01:06:53after
01:06:54getting
01:06:54her
01:06:54family's
01:06:55approval
01:06:56full
01:06:59I
01:06:59just
01:07:00it up
01:07:03I
01:07:04don't want
01:07:04anything
01:07:05from
01:07:05sure
01:07:34you
01:07:35My baby's happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:07:48Hello, man.
01:07:49Wow.
01:07:50Thank you for your blessing.
01:07:52Oh, my God, they're crying.
01:07:54Hello, man.
01:08:00I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them, yes,
01:08:04that I'm willing to have a child.
01:08:05But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:08:10Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family,
01:08:13but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:08:18Now Trisha and I, we can sleep together
01:08:20and, you know, take a nice, warm shower together
01:08:23and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:08:29They were really happy.
01:08:31You see, all of them.
01:08:33Oh, wasn't it?
01:08:33Oh, wasn't it?
01:08:36I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off
01:08:39after I agreed to have that baby.
01:08:43They're so sweet.
01:08:45God, I miss them.
01:08:50I'm ready to have a baby.
01:08:52But what if you change your mind?
01:08:59Mary, as long as we're going and moving in the right direction,
01:09:04I'm all on board with having a baby with you.
01:09:07Because I know that it'll make you happy and that's what you really want.
01:09:14I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially
01:09:20ready to have another child.
01:09:23But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises, this could put Trish in a very bad
01:09:31situation with her family.
01:09:33I know how much her family means to her, so I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:09:41I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:09:48Um, yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:09:55Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:09:58Our future.
01:10:04You're...
01:10:05Do, baby.
01:10:07Baby doesn't love you more than anything.
01:10:20You have to use the restroom or anything?
01:10:23No, I don't.
01:10:24I don't eat anything but it's just, um, I already checked.
01:10:32Well, damn.
01:10:35My flight's been delayed.
01:10:37That's it.
01:10:37We wait for one hour.
01:10:40Hope this bad boy's going straight to Tanner.
01:10:45Couple of days in Tanner before my baby.
01:10:55That's really sad.
01:10:58Sad story.
01:11:01It's just all beginning.
01:11:04I'll go.
01:11:28We were waiting on our flight and it just kept getting delayed.
01:11:33The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:11:37I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:11:41Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:11:45And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:11:52It kind of, it kind of hit me that, um, I noticed she kept looking over at my phone, um,
01:12:00and she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:12:05Is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:12:10Yes.
01:12:24A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex.
01:12:31and she was telling me that um you know she misses the times that we we had together and
01:12:38and i responded and i responded inappropriately
01:12:54i would never hide something this is what i'm talking about you never told me what's really
01:13:04i just told you you didn't tell me if i didn't ask why
01:13:18he told me that he's not talking to his ex that it's just completely over between rick and that girl
01:13:26but they start talking while we are at my father's house
01:13:41he makes me sad
01:13:50like i love him we talk about the babies the future and
01:14:00i wish my dad just give him blessing
01:14:09i don't want anything
01:14:18i mean after getting her family's approval everything is felt it felt different than it did the whole couple weeks
01:14:27prior
01:14:29how did i come so close to getting my what i wanted and then i just
01:14:39i'm not sure if i'll get another chance to make things right with trish
01:14:44and it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter
01:14:58are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the united states
01:15:04we are leaving tomorrow i know my mom is not going to accept it but i'm ready to do what
01:15:11i need to do
01:15:11to ensure shannon and i are together i have decided i'm going to stay here in the philippines
01:15:17this is our choice
01:15:20what's that you just came out of your mouth
01:15:43man i'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today
01:15:45i know he feels relaxed when mom isn't around in her bed and sorrow
01:16:02so when i talked to forrest he's like oh surprise mom i went and met with a lawyer
01:16:08and the lawyer says he has to have like a certain amount of income something like like that
01:16:14he didn't do anything right at all i'm upset right now forrest is coming back and for the last few
01:16:22days
01:16:23dev and i haven't heard anything from forrest or sheena and we've just felt like we're kind of been
01:16:28left in the dark you know i don't know what to expect when they get back from their little
01:16:37rendezvous romantic vacation i don't know what the conversation is gonna be
01:16:45we're supposed to be we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow
01:16:49and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all
01:17:01hey mom how's things going it's going pretty good how are you guys
01:17:12well i think we need to have a talk yeah i think we need to figure things out a little
01:17:18bit
01:17:18yeah that's kind of why we're here
01:17:24today was supposed to be my last day in the philippines but she and i have made the decision
01:17:30for me to stay here and basically start a life here with her you ready yeah we're gonna go let's
01:17:38go
01:17:38hi guys i know that my mom is not going to accept it but she has to understand that i'm
01:17:45not the child
01:17:46that you know she's seen all these years i have changed a lot this trip and i'm ready to do
01:17:53what i
01:17:53need to do to ensure she and i are together
01:18:00oh my god wow look at that
01:18:05they lose to any of these graceful look at that
01:18:15it came from originally from a punishment during the spanish era that people would have to put
01:18:21their feet and they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet
01:18:25it's just that it tells a whole story yes just today i agree oh my goodness oh look at that
01:18:31yay oh
01:18:33thank you oh that's beautiful good job guys well you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm
01:18:42with the bamboo but you have to be in a rhythm with your partner too at the same time kind
01:18:48of like life
01:18:50well i think she and i were worth moving in perfect rhythm
01:18:57yeah definitely
01:19:03so she and do we get menus or how does how does it work
01:19:08there's a set menu that's going to be prepared so you can try guys
01:19:17thank you so much
01:19:21so with the the um where where you guys went just fill me in what happened and give me all
01:19:28the details
01:19:30um yeah i feel like me and sheena we really bonded
01:19:37in more ways than one
01:19:46you had sex didn't you
01:19:52you know what yeah we did
01:19:55it's about time i enjoyed it it was fun yeah
01:20:04you guys uh think that you have a good physical connection with each other yeah
01:20:12i feel like our souls have been connected really connected when now we can really understand each other
01:20:22and i'm happy that you know my son finally lost his virginity finally you know
01:20:28lookie lookie lookie bang bang bang bang
01:20:32then also too that's an important aspect to know if they had compatibility on all aspects including sexuality
01:20:42well that's good i'm glad you guys are both divergenized finally that's yeah mom
01:20:52well you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that forrest has to leave you
01:20:58tomorrow
01:20:59but it must be very painful but are there plans being made and arrangements made
01:21:07somehow to try and get you over to the united states
01:21:14did you guys talk make any plans because this is we are leaving tomorrow
01:21:25yeah we talked a lot yesterday um with the k-1 visa i found out that being on disability i
01:21:35don't make
01:21:36enough money so she and i have decided that i'm going to stay here and live here in the philippines
01:21:47forrest i'm tired of being alone oh my god i did not expect to be staying here long term oh
01:21:56you didn't
01:21:57expect it full i want my love with me my second half this is our choice what's that you just
01:22:05came out of
01:22:06your mouth mom where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out was that in between the
01:22:13excuse me you could say one thing something you want to say but for me i have him he had
01:22:18me i don't
01:22:19care if you're here for my son i'm doing my best for my heart for yourself because i love your
01:22:23son and
01:22:23i want you everything for hard for him for our future i want you to trust your son for once
01:22:29in a while
01:22:32i trust my son i don't trust you
01:22:41i'm sorry i just want to need space sorry
01:22:54next time on before the nanny dies when do you plan on applying for the fiance visa it's like
01:23:00living bodies i thought you were gonna apply for me in the u.s
01:23:08no stig never mentioned wanting to move to the u.s it's two hours before i'm leaving it's just really
01:23:15weird timing you won't be able to make any money that's why you're gonna be my sugar mama
01:23:21i wish we could have talked it out last night you've been texting with him this morning what has
01:23:26he been saying i asked him if we could talk and he said sure so i want to show him
01:23:33that my feelings
01:23:33for him are so much stronger than how i ever felt about michael why did you mislead me like michael
01:23:41made
01:23:42the moment i was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him can you do
01:23:50that
01:23:53are you excited about today i think i should ask you that question though
01:23:59i just don't know what i'm gonna say for my vows it's just gonna be like the basics
01:24:05i just wanted today to be full of love but it just feels like any other day for him i
01:24:14don't know
01:24:15i can't pretend that everything is fine
01:24:21i love your son and i'll do anything my best for love doesn't pay the bills gina
01:24:27you know i'm like in panic mode that he's going to move to the philippines
01:24:31it's not gonna work it won't work how much do you think that you're gonna make working here
01:24:37where are you gonna live for us have you even factored how much it's gonna cost
01:24:43i don't know what to do
01:24:47all the messages in the text why did you betray me why don't you block her if you want this
01:24:55relationship
01:24:56tell her that you don't want her anymore that i'm with you i love trish but i mean love isn't
01:25:06so black and white i need to be honest about my feelings i don't know what to do
01:25:15oh my god stunning i don't think elise realized you know what she signed up for
01:25:22it's not me come on baby yeah first i'm just thinking she's being a drama queen
01:25:33i start to think oh is she okay
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