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00:00:01Previously...
00:00:01Welcome home!
00:00:03The homestays saw some lock-in plans for their lives beyond the experiment.
00:00:08I'm open to moving now.
00:00:10I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:00:12I've got my reassurances.
00:00:14We are coming out stronger.
00:00:16Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:00:20What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:00:26After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:00:32I can't see this working.
00:00:34It's all good. It is what it is.
00:00:35It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:00:38I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:00:41You want to have a family.
00:00:43You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:00:46Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:00:49I'm just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here
00:00:54and what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:00:56Leaving David disheartened...
00:00:58The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:01:03Tonight...
00:01:04Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:01:06But when you're dealing with the mum, the family, friends,
00:01:10they all said that I'm a great guy for her,
00:01:12and she still sees negatives, there's nothing else I can do.
00:01:16Has David reached his limit?
00:01:18That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:01:21You never say space.
00:01:24It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:01:28I can see we can do life together,
00:01:30but I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:01:34Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:01:38Who would have thought?
00:01:39Who would have thought?
00:01:41The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:01:45But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:01:48Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:01:51You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:01:55And I've never been aggressive to you.
00:01:58And then...
00:01:59I think, like, for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:02:03Oh, God.
00:02:04Oh, my God.
00:02:06What are you on about?
00:02:07Yeah.
00:02:08It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:02:12That was not what I was getting at.
00:02:14Are we serious for this?
00:02:30Our couples have returned from their homestay.
00:02:33And our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness.
00:02:38After stepping into the life that could be waiting for them outside the experiment.
00:02:43Hi.
00:02:45Hey.
00:02:45Bonjour.
00:02:46Bonjour.
00:02:47Recharged and hopeful, the couples now turn their attention to the second last dinner party
00:02:53of the experiment, eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:02:58Are you excited?
00:02:59I am excited because it's been a very long time since we caught up with everyone.
00:03:05We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:03:08It's going to be exciting.
00:03:10A lot of guys to come up.
00:03:12This is...
00:03:12I'll be straight up with you.
00:03:13This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:03:17Yeah.
00:03:17Really?
00:03:18How come?
00:03:18We went through...
00:03:20The ups and downs.
00:03:21We went through the ups and downs.
00:03:21The trenches.
00:03:23But coming out of the end of it, good.
00:03:25Yeah.
00:03:26Everything's...
00:03:26Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:03:28For Rachel and Stephen, Homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage, unlocking a new confidence
00:03:35in their relationship.
00:03:37Hello, hello.
00:03:38Hello, sexy.
00:03:39Looking good.
00:03:40I appreciate that.
00:03:41I like the red.
00:03:42Right now, we've just come off the back of Homestays and it was amazing.
00:03:46Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:03:48It was that this could work.
00:03:51I think that's really what it is.
00:03:53I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again and get straight back up to the Central Coast
00:03:57and just, you know, start hanging out and yeah.
00:04:01So, it was really good.
00:04:02We had such...
00:04:04It was such a great Homestay and I'm actually just really excited to share that with everyone.
00:04:09And that's it.
00:04:10I'm glad you had a good time and you could see, you know, a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:04:16After Homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:04:18I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:04:21Like I said to Rachel, can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:04:26Yes, I can.
00:04:27And I mean that and Homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:04:32I think we're really lucky.
00:04:34You know, other couples may not have had a good Homestay,
00:04:37so we're really lucky to have had the good experience that we did.
00:04:42While Homestays brought some closer...
00:04:46For Scott, welcoming Gia into his home presented new challenges.
00:04:51What's that?
00:04:52It's a neck brace.
00:04:54Why is it pink?
00:04:55Why is it pink? Why not?
00:04:57You're trying to find a problem.
00:04:59Is it your ex or something?
00:05:00Yeah.
00:05:00Do you trust me? Like, do you trust my words?
00:05:03Do you trust me as a person?
00:05:04Yeah, I trust you.
00:05:06Yeah, why?
00:05:08I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
00:05:12I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:05:15I know I trust you, but can I commit to moving and everything if you never feel like, you know,
00:05:21that you love me?
00:05:22But back at the apartments, eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset and look on the bright side.
00:05:29I feel great.
00:05:31I just feel good walking into this dinner party, being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.
00:05:36I feel like it'll be good.
00:05:37Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night to share what we've done for Homestays.
00:05:43Yeah.
00:05:44At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion, but we hashed it out.
00:05:50Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude, we're great, we're in a really good place.
00:05:54I want to keep it like that.
00:05:57Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:06:01I'm coming to the end now, this is the last or second last one.
00:06:04Mm.
00:06:05So, yeah.
00:06:07Do you think it would cause problems if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:06:12Oh.
00:06:16Pretty much.
00:06:18Let's just do it, get it done.
00:06:20I'm excited.
00:06:21You look good, we feel good, and I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:06:27Yep, me too.
00:06:30For Bec and Danny, what began as a promising homestay took a dramatic turn.
00:06:36If my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you, they would.
00:06:43I think, obviously, because Danielle fancied me, she didn't want to, like...
00:06:49I'm joking.
00:06:51I'm joking.
00:06:52I'm joking.
00:06:52It's like a serious moment.
00:06:56These moments make me feel like shit.
00:06:58It's serious for me.
00:07:00You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say,
00:07:04oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:07:06Like...
00:07:07I never said that.
00:07:08Yeah.
00:07:08I'm done.
00:07:09F***ing boy, f***ing me.
00:07:11F***ing boy.
00:07:14F***ing...
00:07:15And now back at the apartment, an even bigger shock awaits.
00:07:23so since we got back to sydney from homestays things are great like cheers baby cheers girl
00:07:31the last night like since we've been back like there's not really any need to talk about it like
00:07:35he made a joke it frustrated me he got frustrated with me and then we wake up the next morning
00:07:42we
00:07:42give each other a cuddle we have a shag and we move on cheers it's all blown over like
00:07:50shocking oh stop it for most couples homestays brought them together but for one couple it
00:07:59marked the end of the road going to the dinner fight tonight yeah i'm going alone and obviously
00:08:06chris and i left each other at homestays i wrote some questions down and maybe we could just be
00:08:12like really raw and honest with each other about all the answers first question is do you accept
00:08:20full responsibility for your defensiveness and the aggression i felt from you last week
00:08:29yeah you don't have to agree yeah no i agree yeah just i feel like we've just i've already
00:08:33suffered enough from this i honestly felt like i was um 15 getting in trouble by a teacher or
00:08:39something do you have feelings for me um okay um in the beginning uh yes but i just think um
00:08:51yeah we
00:08:52also have some um differences as well and i just wanted to put my dad hat on and like live
00:08:59my best
00:08:59life homestays was my last plea to see if he was going to fight for me at all but chris
00:09:07just kind of
00:09:07gave up so i did break up with chris on the farm but i'm going to the dinner party because
00:09:15i want that
00:09:17last chance to sort of just like find out why chris actually didn't want this relationship
00:09:23i just want clarity on what the hell happened
00:09:27but sam isn't the only one struggling with the fallout of their homestay
00:09:33during their trip to adelaide alissa received a wake-up call obviously i want to settle down in
00:09:39adelaide but what are your thoughts about me moving to sydney just for a couple of years
00:09:45i would hate that
00:09:49um you know you want to have a family and you don't want to keep putting it off
00:09:56people sometimes take 10 years to fall pregnant that's the truth yeah i know about mom i don't know
00:10:01that yeah i've never tried that's right but you don't know that a couple of years
00:10:06i don't think you've got a couple of years to wait
00:10:12it's really stressful now and after a confronting conversation with her mom
00:10:18alissa unraveled and david was left wondering where he fits
00:10:23i will be honest with you i i started to spiral like i want to have a family in the
00:10:31next few years
00:10:33don't want to miss out on being a mom and if we're going to make this thing work
00:10:37david might have to move to adelaide alissa i'm really sorry babe i have to ask this to you
00:10:43you've sat here and you've talked a lot about what your wants and needs are
00:10:49what about yeah david
00:10:53now back at the apartments david has had a wake-up call of his own
00:11:00oh man i'm feeling at my limit post home stays
00:11:09can i see myself living in adelaide absolutely but you know after having you know come back to
00:11:16sydney and having time to just come down from the high of home stays i am feeling a bit low
00:11:22and that is because there were a couple things that have still like
00:11:27trinkled in the back of my mind could you see yourself living here
00:11:33to be honest yeah
00:11:36i know that you're willing to move here which is great
00:11:39but i don't know i feel like i'm getting overwhelmed with it because
00:11:45i am i am i am because it's like a lot david actually is everything that you've asked for
00:11:53i know right now this is too good to be true
00:11:55like and that is also another reason why i'm scared too
00:11:59throughout this experiment i have been patient
00:12:02because i know there is something in this relationship to fight for
00:12:06but when you get to that point where like you're dealing with like the mom the family
00:12:11friends they all said that i'm a great guy for her and she still sees negatives
00:12:17there's nothing else i can do i've hit my limit and i'm not going to push any further
00:12:24it's getting very real that i could potentially be putting everything on the line for someone
00:12:29who doesn't want to to meet me halfway
00:12:33so today i know i need to be honest for me i think it's important to just express how i
00:12:38feel
00:12:40looking handsome thanks babe you're looking gorgeous i love the dress thank you well we're
00:12:44kind of almost matching
00:12:48how are you feeling going to the dinner party after homestays
00:12:54homestays was a massive massive week
00:12:57so i'm at the point where like i said you know i'm happy to give all the
00:13:02space you need i'll take the space i need because i definitely need space
00:13:08yeah like i feel like i've just gone put it all on the line and you know at the end
00:13:14i'm not going
00:13:14to force anything
00:13:18that's the first time i've ever said heard you say that you need space
00:13:21i know but you never say space you're always like you're more like let's like whatever this is the
00:13:28first time you've ever said space yeah i know that that kind of like rattled me a little bit normally
00:13:34i'm the one that needs space so you know what if he needs space gladly because i need space right
00:13:40now
00:13:40just from my head and i don't need any of this pressure right now i feel like i'm at my
00:13:45tether i feel
00:13:46like he's at his tether we're both tired and he's been snoring louder than usual like it's just been
00:13:52a bit of a emotional roller coaster the reason i need space because yeah i am a calm person but
00:13:59i'd
00:13:59get into my limit where i just need to take some space for my own brain because i feel like
00:14:04i put
00:14:04my cards on the table but it almost felt like you were just looking for the negatives and when
00:14:10someone's looking for the negatives too much of why things can't work like i'm not going to force
00:14:14that i'm not going to force a connection if it's just me looking for the positives and someone else
00:14:19is looking for anything to be like why this can't work
00:14:24i would be lying to you if i said i wasn't questioning things right now and questioning
00:14:30our relationship i am in that headspace
00:14:34so i'm not going into the dinner party with elissa feeling my best self i'm sure you're in a similar
00:14:40boat babe i'm just as as tired as you yeah exactly i'm just as as tired exactly yeah i'm just
00:14:47as tired
00:14:47as you i get it
00:14:58it'll be the honor of getting up let's get out of here yep let's go
00:15:05after you after me thanks
00:15:08off to the gallows we go
00:15:13i don't want to do this
00:15:28well dinner party number seven the second last one before we wind this all up and it is a very
00:15:36important one because they've come back from the homestays as they start to get a glimpse of what
00:15:42their life will be like with this person in the real world this is a really crucial part of the
00:15:49experiment for them because some of them will bond closer together through the homestays i think it's
00:15:55going to be really good what about you i'm excited whereas others will start to really fall apart and
00:16:01question their overall compatibility with their matches
00:16:08okay it's noisy they'll hear that in the mics they'll hear that and you do that all the time you
00:16:13don't even realize
00:16:19well the homestays throws up the ultimate question could this relationship last in the outside world
00:16:25we're going to see you tonight
00:16:33oh first in first one's in
00:16:37rachel and steve-o
00:16:39no one to talk to you but ourselves
00:16:41straight to the bar straight to the bar babes i don't think i've seen steven look so relaxed
00:16:50and so really walking in with rachel yes very unified tell me when thank you that's good oh my gosh
00:17:00thank you so much gotta look after you oh i appreciate it me and rachel we're good we've
00:17:07walked into the cocktail party we're first in there we're pouring drinks we're cracking jokes
00:17:11i'll just take this with me oh you're gonna take that okay probably the most relaxed i've ever been in
00:17:16a cocktail party we're in a good place we're both so keen to uh get out of this experiment see
00:17:33where
00:17:33life takes us especially after the homestays all righty oh my gosh here we are cheers hopefully uh
00:17:40ah you know it's just us we can have all the food and the drink i mean i wouldn't be
00:17:45mad about it babes
00:17:49i mean i'm just i think i'm just really really excited to share how much fun we had
00:17:54and like and how good
00:17:58isn't that nice that a couple is sitting here talking about themselves not everybody else yes this is great
00:18:04oh chicken yeah you're gonna make you blush and the enthusiasm yeah in rachel's voice and face as
00:18:13she is just excited to tell people the good news they had a good week
00:18:26stop rubbing your name
00:18:32i'm trying to understand you because i don't understand you you're all confusing the
00:18:35well
00:18:50this whole i'm at my limit i need space it sounds really bad
00:18:58does it
00:19:00so maybe we've got to word it different it's not taking space from each other
00:19:06it's just taking space to process everything
00:19:10okay
00:19:14oh look who it is
00:19:22this whole i'm at my limit i need space it sounds really bad
00:19:29oh
00:19:29so maybe we've got to word it different it's not taking space from each other it's just taking
00:19:35space to process everything
00:19:38okay
00:19:40oh look who it is
00:19:42oh my god oh my god
00:19:46oh alissa and david
00:19:51hang on how are you mate dude that's all i can do
00:19:55how are you good to see you bro likewise man looking good
00:19:58oh that's some energy there isn't it
00:20:00oh at first yeah first you guys
00:20:03we've got so much done oh yeah we've got a lot to evaluate let's just get some uh
00:20:08evaluate okay okay
00:20:18so are you prepared for everyone to find out that i'm a better fisherman than you or
00:20:22oh hang on whoa
00:20:28walking into the cocktail party tonight you know i was obviously i've been on a load post the home stays
00:20:36i've sort of just been feeling deflated
00:20:39oh right in my face and i did make it known to alissa that you know i am sort of
00:20:44one in my own
00:20:45space you know in my head just to sort of figure things out um so i did walk in on
00:20:50a low
00:20:55spot
00:20:56oh here we go
00:20:57hello there what's up
00:20:59it's got gia just spent little
00:21:01little
00:21:02spot here no
00:21:03oh so pretty you both hi
00:21:06i'm gonna give you some love
00:21:08gorgeous
00:21:08hello
00:21:12walking into the cocktail party tonight with gr like you know we're not perfect we still have a couple
00:21:16things to work on get a drink and get in here brother i always look at the bright side if
00:21:20there's
00:21:21something that's really bad i just see the more good in someone can we carry that thanks
00:21:29all right chris why don't you tell me what's running through your head going into this
00:21:33one saving grace for me is that last time i was in this car with um sam it was just
00:21:38so yucky and
00:21:39awkward so i'm grateful not to have that you know at the moment well it was so awkward you could
00:21:45cut the tension with the knife and i could not wait to get out of the car i just hope
00:21:50this um
00:21:52you know situation with sam and i can get squashed pretty quickly so i can have a
00:21:56a couple of shams and try and enjoy my night
00:22:01yeah no this is definitely not how i expected to be going to a dinner party in the experiment i
00:22:05think
00:22:05chris and i started off really strong and everything was going good and then at some
00:22:08point he just flipped and it all just sort of fell apart and i don't really know what that flip
00:22:13was
00:22:13in him you know if sam's coming tonight oh i definitely know he'll be going yeah he wants
00:22:22to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty on our dirty laundry but you
00:22:29know
00:22:29what there's two sides to this story and coming to the dinner party to back myself and say my side
00:22:35of
00:22:39the story oh oh chris is alone ew how you going okay that's a surprise hi hey bud so chris
00:22:56walks in solo
00:22:59well that's not my prediction drink drink drink drink i mean they were very bad at the commitment
00:23:06ceremony chris had written leave sam was absolutely in tears about it all there was a
00:23:11hope that the homestay they might be able to turn it around but this looks like it's actually uh not
00:23:17been salvaged yeah yeah i'm all right you look very tanned thanks babe but um the fit's good my life's
00:23:24not i would love one your life is okay yeah you've got this ship you've got this ship yes obviously
00:23:30it
00:23:30didn't work out wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait i feel like maybe sam and i can unpack
00:23:35it
00:23:36together all right so you don't want to talk about that no i'll give you i'll give you a little
00:23:39run i'll
00:23:40give you a little rundown it's really hard seeing them not walking together because i genuinely had
00:23:45hope that they would get past this the seeing chris walking in by himself like it was genuinely like
00:23:52pretty heart breaks but basically um yeah um sam ended it with me two days into homestays
00:23:59he ended it with you this is the second day he ended it yeah yeah he ended it with you
00:24:03yeah
00:24:05oh sam ended it i wonder why yes i wonder why obviously we had like a you know a pretty
00:24:11bad couch session i took accountability i decided that i wanted to learn and grow from the feedback
00:24:18that i got um so i went into homestays trying to turn it around gia knows i spoke with you
00:24:23about it
00:24:23morning flowers made him dinner i tried everything that i could to turn it around but unfortunately um
00:24:28yeah it didn't work for us and it was really it was a real shock because i thought we were
00:24:32actually
00:24:33doing quite well like you know i started to get those feelings back for him again so so chris was
00:24:37saying he started getting feelings for sam again okay so he was shocked by it blindsided
00:24:45so it's pretty it's pretty sad um but i respect sam's decision to exit um and we actually weren't
00:24:51even going to come tonight like they we he left the farm we were just going to leave it at
00:24:55that because
00:24:55we unpacked a lot of it um but i've decided to give sam the respect of coming tonight so we
00:25:00can both
00:25:00talk to you guys about it and um let you know what's happened and then sit in front of the
00:25:05experts and yeah get their advice but like no ill feelings towards sam i respect his decision but
00:25:10yeah she's single again yeah alissa how was yours uh
00:25:23i feel like i'm still processing everything yep it's crunch time right it's crunch time for you guys yeah
00:25:31um but we'll talk about it later at the dinner party okay
00:25:41i feel like i feel like i feel like i feel like i feel like i feel like i feel
00:25:51like i feel like
00:25:53for the best part we had a really good home state you know i got clarity so it's been decided
00:26:00i will be
00:26:01making that move happen sooner rather than later he looks tan do you get a spray tan huh no no
00:26:07we went
00:26:07to the beach what the hell and i just thought you know what like it's time to go for an
00:26:10adventure
00:26:20ah he's beck and danny beck and danny hello i'm feeling phenomenal walking into this cocktail party
00:26:28tonight danny and i are in a great spot we are planning our future together
00:26:36we had great homestays and i've got no beef with anyone oh my god pigs fly
00:26:40what the hell i'm not arguing with anyone hello how was homestays cheers how'd you go how was
00:26:49alan oh my god yeah i got back and i was a bit drained to tell you the truth it
00:26:58was it's a lot
00:26:59like i felt a bit uncomfortable in our house and i felt a bit out of place and it made
00:27:03me
00:27:04did think about like the logistics of the move more like how it's going to work or or because i'm
00:27:10not just going to move in with that of course and live like ah put my feet up this is
00:27:14rent free like
00:27:15yeah that doesn't sit well with me so it just solidified there's more things we need to talk
00:27:19about of course so yeah we're gonna do i think yeah awesome crazy love it i think danny and i
00:27:30are
00:27:30probably the strongest in the experiment if i'm honest with you and like it feels like it can only
00:27:36go up from here coming up i would never just move in danny's jaw-dropping confession from my point of
00:27:48view anyway i suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you feel like a has the whole table
00:27:52talking what are you on about oh my god here we go
00:28:17when did you talk to him last um the last time he spoke to me was um the friday after
00:28:23he left and
00:28:24he and all he said was that he wanted to come to the dinner party committed ceremony
00:28:29yeah i don't know what the energy is going to be like with sam i hope he comes in like
00:28:32nice
00:28:35i just yeah i just can't deal with any more you know
00:28:45oh
00:28:47hello everyone oh here's sam here he is how you going good how are you good you look nice yeah
00:28:54how are you not too bad hello
00:28:59sam how are you matt i'm hugging like chest height but i've got a vertical problem
00:29:06hey look look at me brother thanks thanks thanks let's get a drink
00:29:10i hope he doesn't come at me like why are you worried oh i just just don't worry no i
00:29:15just can't deal
00:29:15with it like all right no you're okay how are you are you okay uh i just feel a bit
00:29:26like there was no
00:29:27real effort while we're away but we'll get into it at the table yeah no no he's given us a
00:29:32bit of a grief
00:29:35what was he says um that you guys you know went to homestays and like he cooked dinner one night
00:29:40or you
00:29:40guys have dinner together one night and he thought the first night was going okay um and then obviously
00:29:46you guys both had a chat and decided that it wasn't right yeah yeah dude he didn't drive
00:29:54you're eating up his bullshit don't eat up his
00:30:02dinner is served okay let's go babes you got it let's go man
00:30:10all righty well let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin we will get to the bottom of what
00:30:16actually happened at the homestay between sam and chris yes we need to understand what actually went on
00:30:22there cheers guys cheers cheers you got the um you got the tits out again oh yeah
00:30:35what it's all for the boys yeah i love this video yes
00:30:54wow it's very technical now chris sam
00:31:07I
00:31:07Really want to talk about from our perspective what led me to the decision to end things. Yeah, and how
00:31:13I felt the whole homestay. So yeah
00:31:18Tonight is going to be shit I
00:31:24Sam and I've already hashed this out at the farm
00:31:27We're revisiting it in front of the group. So for me, this is not comfortable
00:31:32I'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly and I just want to get this over
00:31:35and done with
00:31:39Hope Sam gets the closure that he needs and we can yeah move on. I
00:31:44Thought we both just need to say
00:31:46Everything that got us to this point
00:31:49Especially with meeting the experts tomorrow. I want to get as much as I can out of this experience
00:31:54Yeah, we've mentioned it at the cocktail party that we you know well you decided to
00:32:00end it so
00:32:01Yeah, like I didn't really fight that at all you were like
00:32:06Also, just like okay because I I had given so much to try and make it work. I don't want
00:32:11to come
00:32:15My god here we go again
00:32:20If Chris thinks that's loads of effort I feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in the future like
00:32:27Yeah
00:32:31I
00:32:32Can I ask a question?
00:32:34How did Sam end the relationship and where and how did it happen? I could I tell that's what I
00:32:38want you guys both to say yeah
00:32:41Yeah, so homestays obviously you all saw the last commitment ceremony
00:32:46I wrote stay and Christopher at leave and that was really hard for me to battle with personally because I
00:32:51did have feelings for Chris
00:32:53So like obviously now I'm very nervous going into homestays and we get to the car to drive down and
00:32:58I'm like
00:33:00Just sitting in the car and it's so uncomfortable and I'm I like literally just like shut my eyes and
00:33:05kind of pretend that I'm sleeping
00:33:07And then I get to the farm and then I do try to have fun and have a good time.
00:33:12I'll wake up the next morning
00:33:14And Chris is nowhere to be seen
00:33:17No message no no
00:33:21I'm just there sitting for an hour in his house at his place with no car
00:33:25Just by myself and then he rocks up his eyes went to the gym this morning was really windy last
00:33:30night and I'm like, okay cool
00:33:32And like this is what I'm starting to feel like are you really do you really want me here?
00:33:35Do you like really want to show me how much you want this relationship to work?
00:33:42Look for me it was letting him sleep a little bit longer
00:33:48We're not interrupting each other tonight, right?
00:33:54Okay, can I keep going my story then yeah
00:33:58So then we come to the fire the next night, and this is when I'm like this is my last
00:34:03play here
00:34:04Like I'm gonna try and see if he really wants to fight for this if he really wants this relationship
00:34:08to work and I had written down
00:34:11Questions that were all just about what the expert said
00:34:15Going through all these questions and then he starts to get a bit shorter with him because he's sick of
00:34:18talking about it
00:34:19And then I'm like Chris do you even have feelings for me?
00:34:23And he goes oh, you know with what's happened over the last couple of weeks
00:34:26I feel like my feelings are pretty damaged and like I don't really know if I do anymore
00:34:35And I'm like well then what am I doing here
00:34:40Then I was just like well then do we just end it here and you were just like yeah, I
00:34:43think that's probably like right to do
00:34:46And what I don't understand is where I hurt your feelings and where you lost your feelings for me
00:34:56What I honestly feel like happened is that you just like did the bare minimum
00:35:01Got me flowers so that you could come here tonight and say I did this for Sam
00:35:05I tried but like I know that you were checked out of this relationship already. I know you didn't want
00:35:10to give it a go
00:35:16If I'm honest and I'll have to be honest
00:35:19It seems like you're putting a lot on Chris. Yeah
00:35:23And just because we have expectations to fill our cup fully doesn't mean this other person is trying hold on
00:35:30a second
00:35:33Let's not forget that like the week before Sam was in a world of pain alone
00:35:41Being yeah, correct. Sorry. I'm gonna say something here
00:35:48Beck needs to mind her business
00:35:50I don't know how her homestays went but that should be her focus for a couple weeks out of final
00:35:55bowels
00:35:56Don't worry about your man doll
00:35:59I'm not gonna sit let anyone sit here and say your expectations are too high when Sam sat there in
00:36:05tears by himself
00:36:06Not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a whole week because the person that he
00:36:11has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him
00:36:14Like let's all just take a step back
00:36:16You've been aggressive too at the dinner at the dinner at the dinner parties
00:36:20You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior honey, so
00:36:25Just pipe it down a little bit
00:36:34Sam sat there in tears by himself not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a
00:36:40whole week
00:36:40Because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him like let's all just take a
00:36:46step back
00:36:47You've been aggressive too at the dinner at the dinner parties
00:36:52You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior, honey, so just pipe it down a little
00:36:57bit
00:36:58And I've never been aggressive to you
00:37:02Can I speak now first of all
00:37:05Like hand on heart I tried my hardest to turn it around I
00:37:10Got the feedback from the experts. I took it on board. I took accountability
00:37:14I realized that I wanted to grow and learn as a person and I wanted to come out the other
00:37:18end and I'm sorry
00:37:19But I was doing that and I thought we had a good day and like you pulled the notepad out
00:37:24and then asked me the questions
00:37:25And I just for me I felt like you know like can we just live in the moment?
00:37:30Can we just have a bit of fun and but you understand with the questions there things that were burning
00:37:34inside course?
00:37:37Yeah, cool. I'll keep talking babes
00:37:40So I I felt uncomfortable, but I stayed calm and I answered the question I answered the questions as best
00:37:46as I could
00:37:47But it would you ended it with me you said like yeah, yeah
00:37:51Can I just say it's like the reason I ended up is because I asked Chris do you still have
00:37:57feelings for me?
00:37:59If if you were trying so hard and you thought that everything was what you're saying then at that point
00:38:05you should have said
00:38:05Sam yes, I have feelings for you
00:38:11Can I ask a question?
00:38:13Do you feel like when Chris said leave the other week at the last commitment sir?
00:38:18I know really hurt you like you were really upset we could see that
00:38:21Do you think that that really hurt you to a point where had you already made up your mind?
00:38:27I don't my mind that just hurt me to the point where this is why I think I needed so
00:38:31much for Chris because I was really hurt that
00:38:33He said he wanted to leave that he had already given up
00:38:35So I'm like I need to see from you that you haven't given up completely and I get maybe for
00:38:39you what you did was enough
00:38:41But for me it was and then I decided that based on the fact that what you did wasn't enough
00:38:45my expectations to call it happened
00:38:46I ended things because I wasn't getting what I wanted from Chris and if that's not what he can give
00:38:51Because he's got kids and he's got fun got everything else then you're not ultimately a good man
00:39:02It's really upsetting that there hasn't worked out between Sam and Chris because I care for both boys
00:39:08but listening to both sides of the story I'm like
00:39:13They're not speaking the same language and they're seeing different things and I don't think they're gonna align tonight
00:39:22Just unfortunately it hasn't worked. I don't want this to be yucky. I just want to be amicable
00:39:26I don't want to be yucky either. It's not yucky though, is it? It's not yucky
00:39:30Don't mistake passion for anger. I think you're both passionate. It's not yucky in my opinion. You're both just ironing
00:39:35it out
00:39:37We do love you both. We love you a lot. Yeah, I'm sure things I think it's really sad what's
00:39:44happened with Sam and Chris
00:39:45I love them as people and I love them together and I'm getting this feeling of like Chris did try
00:39:52The way he knew how and it wasn't enough for Sam
00:39:56It's it's it's a hard one
00:40:07So Beck and Danny how about you guys your next how was your homestays we had such a good homestays
00:40:15didn't we
00:40:18Give my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you they would I think obviously because Danielle fancy
00:40:26me
00:40:29I'm joking you should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say all
00:40:34your cousin wants to
00:40:34Me I never said that there's a camera in my face and you're abusing me over a joke dude
00:40:39There's a camera in my face and you're making a joke of what I'm saying. Yeah, I'm done
00:40:45Well, we have like a like two perfect things and then like the top we had a little argument at
00:40:53the end
00:40:56we
00:40:56We had a tiny little ding-dong at the end
00:41:00It lasted about 15 minutes
00:41:02I think like for me. I don't know for anyone else who experienced like going into your partner's home
00:41:10In that moment. I felt like a bit out of place in the house like up until that point. I
00:41:14felt so comfortable
00:41:16Like so welcome. Not that I was ever like unwelcome
00:41:20But in that moment arguing like
00:41:22Hardly an argument a ding dong
00:41:24But yeah, or whatever you want to call it
00:41:29Whilst Danny did call it an argument
00:41:31Bec called it a ding-dong so she's wanting to really contain it
00:41:34Yes, when we had the disagreement at the house. I felt really uncomfortable because it's not my space is your
00:41:39space
00:41:40Yeah, I don't know if anyone else can
00:41:42Yeah, so that was sort of something that stuck with me in the sense of like
00:41:48Moving for it made me look at it things in a different way in the sense that
00:41:53I probably want to I don't know how I'd want to navigate
00:41:59If I was to move to Adelaide how the logistics of it would look as a man
00:42:06Ah, as a man
00:42:10I feel like like do you know what you mean like it's more Bec's house than it is my house
00:42:14Like moving into her house, yeah
00:42:15Yeah, correct like like I'd want to sit down and speak to Bec on a deeper level about that
00:42:22Because like I feel like if you move in with a woman and like I would never just move in
00:42:30Like we'd have to talk about that on a deeper level in the sense that like
00:42:35I'm not moving out of my house
00:42:39No, I'm not asking you to but what I'm saying is like
00:42:42It's how he fits into it babe
00:42:44Like yeah, how I fit into it. That's that's more what I'm saying
00:42:47And to you right now you're probably like that that like that's easy
00:42:51I know like it's just like I get from Danny's perspective
00:42:54He's like yeah, I move in so like he's got to get his stuff out
00:42:57Where does he put his stuff and like and we would make space 100% for that
00:43:01But from my point of view anyway, I suppose everyone looks at it different
00:43:04But it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman
00:43:08What are you on about?
00:43:25Oh
00:43:36Oh, no, that's not what I was getting at. Oh, God. Oh, my God. He's talking about feeling emasculated
00:43:43if she was the one who owned the house.
00:43:46And let's not use the term bitch in that way either, Danny.
00:43:50Not cool.
00:43:51We're on 800 square metres five minutes from the city
00:43:54with a $97,000 mortgage and a $3 million house.
00:43:59F*** me.
00:44:03Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:44:05Like, firstly, you've never said that to me.
00:44:10Women have worked really, really hard
00:44:12to make sure that we've got this multimillion-dollar home
00:44:15in the most affluent suburb of South Australia.
00:44:18So, yeah, you're not going to be a b***h moving into my house.
00:44:22That was not what I was getting at.
00:44:25Are we f***ing serious for this?
00:44:27We're in the 2020s, emasculated
00:44:31by moving into a home with your woman.
00:44:34I'll be honest, I'll be doing hers.
00:44:36I want to...
00:44:36Let's grow up.
00:44:38You like to be a provider.
00:44:40Correct, correct, yeah.
00:44:41I'll be honest, I couldn't go to hers.
00:44:43I'm going to buy the house.
00:44:44I'm going to pay for everything.
00:44:45Like, that's just a manly thing.
00:44:48Dan's a bit like me.
00:44:49He likes to feel like the man, the boss, the alpha male.
00:44:53So, I understand where Danny's coming from.
00:44:54He just wants to feel more emasculated in the relationship.
00:44:58We're more traditional in that way too.
00:45:00No, but, like, I get it.
00:45:01Like, I have a...
00:45:02My house is bigger than yours, but it's like, yeah, like...
00:45:05It's a different vibe.
00:45:06I do agree with Danny.
00:45:08I think for a man to feel masculine and his masculine energy,
00:45:12they want to have the house and the woman move into it.
00:45:15I know that's not, like, the norm these days, but, like, I like that.
00:45:18And that's what me and Scott are doing.
00:45:20So, I do agree with Danny on that.
00:45:22I think he wants to feel like the man and he has every right to feel like that.
00:45:26I feel like it's emasculating.
00:45:28Like, I get what you're saying.
00:45:29Correct, yeah, yeah.
00:45:29You want your place to be, like, here, babe, like, come to me.
00:45:32Like, I'm the man.
00:45:34Like, I think that's, like, where you're coming from.
00:45:36Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
00:45:38I felt uncomfortable when we argued and it sort of...
00:45:41It made me feel demasculated to, like, be in her house.
00:45:44Yeah, like a bit of a bitch.
00:45:46I've had that discussion with Beck two or three times.
00:45:49I'm not a hit 1990s song on R&B radio
00:45:53that keeps repeating itself, do you know what you mean?
00:45:55I didn't feel uneasy until we had the disagreement,
00:45:57and I was just like, no, I don't know what you mean, Danny.
00:46:02I do wonder if Danny's showing a little insecurity there.
00:46:05You know, I think some men would not see a barrier
00:46:09to moving into a house owned by the woman.
00:46:12It wouldn't feel emasculating.
00:46:14He's really dropped the ball here.
00:46:16And I'm old school too.
00:46:18I'm exactly the same.
00:46:19I can proudly say it as well that if me and Rachel do something,
00:46:22I would feel more comfortable if Rachel moved into my place,
00:46:26feel like a provider.
00:46:28Well, I don't think that's very fair
00:46:30because at the end of the day,
00:46:31the difference is that I've got a massive house
00:46:34with a lot of space five minutes out of the city
00:46:36with a mortgage of 97 grand.
00:46:38I feel like you're a team.
00:46:39I feel like you're a team.
00:46:40A hundred percent.
00:46:41I was brought up on those values.
00:46:43That's just the way I think.
00:46:44If I moved to Adelaide, I'd be getting lost.
00:46:46Yeah.
00:46:47Prost over.
00:46:47No.
00:46:52But I wouldn't, like, you would get to work together.
00:46:54I know we work together, but as a man,
00:46:57it's just what I do.
00:46:59As a man, maybe I'm old school like that,
00:47:01but I believe, like, the man should be the man of the house
00:47:04and take care of the big bills.
00:47:06It's nice to have your own thing,
00:47:08but ultimately you work together, right?
00:47:10Exactly, yeah.
00:47:11Ultimately you work together.
00:47:12It's about how can we work together,
00:47:14how can we make this work,
00:47:15what are your needs, you know, vice versa.
00:47:18It doesn't have to be a demasculating thing,
00:47:20it just has to be teamwork.
00:47:22Like you're a team.
00:47:23No, you're a team.
00:47:25For some reason, it's just a mental thing.
00:47:28It just works like that.
00:47:31Females feel more secure when it is like that.
00:47:34It's just how it is.
00:47:35Unfortunately, it's a double set.
00:47:36It's just how it is.
00:47:37Gays don't have that problem.
00:47:41I understand where Danny's coming from,
00:47:43don't agree with it,
00:47:44but I understand where Danny's coming from.
00:47:47Beck and Danny's homestay,
00:47:49I don't think was as great as they made it out to be.
00:47:53There's something not right there.
00:47:55This is a serious conversation you guys need to talk.
00:47:58Yeah, I know, for a dinner party.
00:48:02Don't like shut up.
00:48:04Excellent.
00:48:05So glad we're talking about it with everyone.
00:48:09Oh, goodness.
00:48:11No, I said it to you already.
00:48:12Not to that level, babes.
00:48:14I have. 100%.
00:48:15You haven't?
00:48:15No.
00:48:25Still to come.
00:48:27I did spiral a little bit.
00:48:29Dave, what's going through your head, bro?
00:48:31David finally finds his voice.
00:48:34I've hit my wall.
00:48:35I've been calm throughout this whole thing,
00:48:37but I'm at my limit.
00:48:39This is really a relationship in peril.
00:48:42Yeah.
00:48:43Before Beck confronts Danny.
00:48:46I would have appreciated it
00:48:47if you haven't been that open.
00:48:49It's in a lot of relations.
00:48:51It's just made me...
00:48:52I can't take on the table.
00:48:53I'm going to be an experiment now.
00:48:54Before homestead.
00:49:03How about you?
00:49:04Alyssa.
00:49:05How was yours?
00:49:10Um...
00:49:11Do you know what?
00:49:12Alyssa and David really have not spoken about themselves at all.
00:49:15No.
00:49:16And that is not usual for them.
00:49:18David looks quite uncomfortable, actually.
00:49:21Yeah.
00:49:23I feel like we had highs and lows.
00:49:27I did spiral a little bit.
00:49:29Like, I did get in my head.
00:49:31Because, you know, as soon as we touched down in Adelaide,
00:49:34I felt like this weight...
00:49:39I felt like, oh, my goodness, I...
00:49:41You know, I said I was going to move to Sydney
00:49:43and, like, we're going to make this thing work in Sydney
00:49:45and we'll meet halfway,
00:49:46but I have a lot of responsibilities in Adelaide.
00:49:50I have contracts in place.
00:49:51I have my business.
00:49:52I have a house.
00:49:53I have a cat.
00:49:54But I'm almost 34.
00:49:56And in the next few years, I want to start a family.
00:49:58So I kind of put pressure on myself
00:50:01and that's where I started to spiral on homestays
00:50:03because I was like, shit, this is not going to work.
00:50:07Like, I don't think I'm going to be able
00:50:08to stretch myself out of Adelaide,
00:50:10like, in the next three months.
00:50:12It might look like six to 12 months
00:50:14if we're going to make this work in the real world.
00:50:21Beforehand, you were saying,
00:50:22potentially, you'd give it three months to move to Sydney.
00:50:25Is it the move to Adelaide now?
00:50:27Well, that's what it would probably be.
00:50:32It would be Adelaide, yeah.
00:50:33Oh.
00:50:35We haven't heard that from her before.
00:50:37A lot came out of homestays,
00:50:39but it's just like, how do we move, like, forward?
00:50:42But I feel like the way that we process things
00:50:44are very different.
00:50:46And I'm wondering, why am I spiralling?
00:50:48You know, we're all under pressure,
00:50:49but some people also deal with pressure differently.
00:50:52When I need to just process,
00:50:53my mind's going, bing, bing, bing, bing.
00:50:56I retract.
00:50:58Things have kind of turned on its head a little bit.
00:51:01Alyssa's now saying, I can't move.
00:51:04David's going, look, I'm willing to sacrifice everything
00:51:06and move down to Adelaide to give this relationship the best chance.
00:51:10But her retracting and pulling away from Dave,
00:51:13freaking Dave out,
00:51:14you know, I sort of felt for Dave a little bit.
00:51:16Like, if anything, all the risk is on David.
00:51:19And there was one other thing.
00:51:22I know that I can be a bit full-on.
00:51:25And, like, he does ground me,
00:51:28but maybe I'm finding a little bit sometimes too much
00:51:31where I feel like I'm not myself.
00:51:33Like, it's really shifting my energy,
00:51:36and that's not something I'm used to.
00:51:39My husband also snores,
00:51:40so I've had, like, lack of sleep the last three months.
00:51:43Like, it's just... It's a compiling thing.
00:51:48I feel like, right now,
00:51:50Alyssa is trying to look for any little thing she can pull
00:51:54from the sky to question things in the relationship,
00:51:58and that is pushing me away.
00:51:59She says she doesn't want to push me away,
00:52:02but her throwing all these doubts,
00:52:04there's only so much I can take
00:52:06before I start feeling like an idiot, you know?
00:52:10I think I was fine with just continuing
00:52:13to be that emotional shoulder to lean on
00:52:17until home stays.
00:52:19We've been on this experiment for two months,
00:52:21and it's been long enough for her to, like,
00:52:24be a bit more certain.
00:52:26You know, if this ultimately isn't gonna work,
00:52:28I'm not gonna force anything.
00:52:30Like, it's up to her to come from her head into her heart
00:52:33for this to work long-term.
00:52:37Dave, what's going through your head, bro?
00:52:45I've hit my wall.
00:52:46I've been calm throughout this whole thing,
00:52:48but I'm at my limit.
00:52:51You know, and I sort of need that mental space as well,
00:52:54just as much as she probably needs it
00:52:55from coming back from home stays.
00:52:58And it's something we both need.
00:52:59But it's at the point, emotionally,
00:53:01I don't have much to give.
00:53:03I'm invested in this relationship.
00:53:04I am prepared to move for this relationship.
00:53:06But for me, I bonded with her mom
00:53:09and her two best friends.
00:53:10And I've got her mom saying,
00:53:12this is all good for you.
00:53:13Her friend saying, this is good for you.
00:53:14I really love David a lot.
00:53:17So I'm just like,
00:53:19what other green checks do you need ticked off?
00:53:22Like, you know?
00:53:27Well, this is David being really raw, isn't it?
00:53:30I mean, he's saying that he's exhausted
00:53:32and also he's hit his limit.
00:53:35And I know that they talk about it
00:53:38in relation to the experiment,
00:53:40but actually, you know,
00:53:42the experiment for some people,
00:53:43it brings them closer right now.
00:53:45And I get some real worries
00:53:47that he's started to step back.
00:53:50We got cracks, man.
00:53:51We've got cracks like everyone.
00:53:52We got cracks.
00:53:53But that's something that, you know,
00:53:55we will talk to the experts about.
00:53:58We actually haven't seen them
00:53:59in this state before, have we?
00:54:01No.
00:54:02I'd say absolutely more questions
00:54:04than answers we got tonight.
00:54:06So that's where we've got to go tomorrow night.
00:54:09We are going to need to ask
00:54:10about the homestays
00:54:12and particularly where they see themselves
00:54:15in the future.
00:54:17This is really a relationship in peril.
00:54:20Yeah.
00:54:28How are you all homestays, guys?
00:54:30I went out on his Harley.
00:54:32Like, I grew up there,
00:54:33so I'm like, I went to school there,
00:54:35I had my first kiss there,
00:54:36I did this there,
00:54:37and it's like, it's not like
00:54:38a foreign place for me.
00:54:39Yeah.
00:54:39It's just easier the fact
00:54:40that she's lived there before.
00:54:42So that was pretty big for us to have.
00:54:43That's amazing.
00:54:44Yeah, it was really good.
00:54:45The taste of the outside world,
00:54:47you know what I mean?
00:54:48We know.
00:54:49Yeah.
00:54:49So what's your plan
00:54:50on the track, guys,
00:54:52after the experiment?
00:54:53I do like Cronulla.
00:54:55Yeah.
00:54:56That's good.
00:54:56I could see myself there.
00:54:57That's very important.
00:54:58That's the whole point of it.
00:54:59That's great.
00:55:00The home visit,
00:55:00it's like, can I see myself there?
00:55:02Yes, I can.
00:55:03Let's just do it.
00:55:04Just give it a go, yeah.
00:55:05Just give it a go,
00:55:06like, and that was a realisation I had.
00:55:08And you have a plan moving forward,
00:55:10and you guys are great.
00:55:12Yeah.
00:55:15Rachel and Stephen,
00:55:16homestays.
00:55:17Hey, guys.
00:55:17Who's talking?
00:55:19I didn't know you missed.
00:55:19You can talk.
00:55:20Captain Steve-o.
00:55:21I reckon Rachel go first,
00:55:22and I'll...
00:55:23No, can Steve-o go first, please?
00:55:24I agree.
00:55:25I think Steve-o can go first.
00:55:27I'll go first.
00:55:28I always talk.
00:55:29Yeah.
00:55:30Can you hear me down there?
00:55:31Yeah.
00:55:32Yeah, boys.
00:55:32Loud and clear.
00:55:33All right, so, look,
00:55:35I'm happy to say that
00:55:36Rachel and my family did get along.
00:55:38Everyone loves each other.
00:55:39A lot of the drinks were flowing.
00:55:40Everything was fantastic.
00:55:42And, yeah, we had a really good time
00:55:44and took Rachel out on the boat,
00:55:47and she got to experience a little,
00:55:49you know, a little snapshot
00:55:51of what my life is about
00:55:53and what I'm passionate about.
00:55:54So I took her out fishing
00:55:56and I can definitely say
00:55:57very impressed with Rachel.
00:55:59She's a country girl.
00:56:01Full-on leaned in.
00:56:03She's a catch.
00:56:04I am the catch of the day.
00:56:05She's a catch.
00:56:06That's right, the catch of the day, right.
00:56:07Amen.
00:56:09And, look,
00:56:10I was very impressed
00:56:10with her fishing skills.
00:56:12She kissed a couple fish.
00:56:13I did.
00:56:14But I'm looking at this woman going,
00:56:16look, it's not just
00:56:17that she's leaning into fishing.
00:56:19It's more the fact
00:56:20that I'm seeing a woman there
00:56:21that is having a crack
00:56:23and I can see that outside fishing,
00:56:27Rachel will have my back in things.
00:56:33I can see we can do life together,
00:56:35but I feel a lot more confident now
00:56:37that the foundation has been laid
00:56:38on my side anyway with Rachel
00:56:40that we can take this out
00:56:42onto the outside
00:56:46and have somewhere to start
00:56:48because it's been done and dusted.
00:56:50I'm still going to meet her side,
00:56:51but I feel more confident on my side
00:56:53that Rachel and my family
00:56:55and my lifestyle will match now.
00:56:56So we had a good time.
00:56:58That's a bad example.
00:57:04Who would have thought?
00:57:06Who would have thought?
00:57:09Hearing Stephen talk about our home stay
00:57:11and, like, the beautiful things
00:57:12he was saying, yeah.
00:57:15You sound emotional.
00:57:16I am emotional.
00:57:17I'm so emotional about it
00:57:19because I've got this guy
00:57:22that I truly, truly care about
00:57:25and I'm developing
00:57:26such strong feelings for
00:57:28and every time he talks about us
00:57:31with the group and everything,
00:57:33it's beautiful.
00:57:34It's just so nice
00:57:36and what an amazing journey
00:57:40and opportunity we've had
00:57:41and the fact that we get to be
00:57:44with each other is just even better.
00:57:48Some guys are going to buy girls flowers.
00:57:51My guy bought me a fishing rod.
00:57:53I know.
00:57:53I'm just saying.
00:57:55And I was happy.
00:57:57Your girl's got her first fishing rod.
00:57:59Oh, Rachel looks so happy.
00:58:02Look at Stephen's smile.
00:58:04We've never seen him smile like this.
00:58:06We've never seen him as relaxed
00:58:08and as confident as he has been tonight.
00:58:11That was a full-bodied smile.
00:58:13He's really transformed
00:58:15but watching him now
00:58:17is just such a joy
00:58:18and he's so comfortable in her space.
00:58:21Look, we went through hard times
00:58:23at the start of our relationship.
00:58:25You all saw it
00:58:26and you know what?
00:58:28We've just saw it
00:58:29and we're now hitting weeks
00:58:31where it should test us
00:58:33and instead it's strengthening us
00:58:35and it's really nice.
00:58:36I love it.
00:58:37Yay!
00:58:39Well done.
00:58:41Rachel and Steve-o
00:58:53At the dinner table tonight,
00:58:56Danny said that he
00:59:00would feel like a bitch
00:59:02moving into a girl's house.
00:59:05I hadn't heard that yet
00:59:08and like I would hope
00:59:09that my husband knows
00:59:11that he can talk to me.
00:59:12Like we talk about everything.
00:59:15So, yeah.
00:59:18I feel blindsided by him.
00:59:23I feel completely utterly
00:59:24betrayed by my husband.
00:59:35If I was to move to Adelaide
00:59:38as a man
00:59:40it makes you feel like
00:59:41a bit of a bitch
00:59:42moving in with a woman.
00:59:51I've never experienced a slow burn
00:59:53before
00:59:54and here I am
00:59:56with a slow burn
00:59:57and like I said
00:59:58we went through hard yards
01:00:00earlier
01:00:00and now
01:00:01we're so strong
01:00:02because of that
01:00:03and so
01:00:04I think I would have appreciated
01:00:08having been that open
01:00:17frankly Danny
01:00:18time and time again
01:00:19has not stepped up
01:00:21and made the commitment
01:00:21that she wants
01:00:23and craves.
01:00:24She's been transparent.
01:00:25He hasn't said
01:00:26that he loves her back.
01:00:28He's now saying
01:00:29I don't want to live
01:00:29in your house.
01:00:31So there's a number
01:00:32of things that are now
01:00:33adding up
01:00:33that Beck's starting
01:00:35to worry about
01:00:35when it comes to
01:00:36Danny's level of commitment.
01:00:38Yes.
01:00:38And rightly so.
01:00:40I mean
01:00:44the idea
01:00:45of
01:00:45like
01:00:46that
01:00:46it
01:00:47like
01:00:48that you
01:00:49like
01:00:49you basically just said
01:00:50if I was to move to Adelaide
01:00:52I don't know
01:00:53if I'd want to move
01:00:55into my house.
01:00:56I was just saying
01:00:56I didn't
01:00:56I was just saying
01:00:57I would have rather
01:00:59you had said that to me
01:01:00before announcing it
01:01:01to a table of people.
01:01:03I was just saying
01:01:03I didn't say that
01:01:04I was just saying
01:01:05we have to like
01:01:07put money into your house
01:01:08and we're renovating
01:01:09or I'd pick up the mortgage
01:01:10because we're just moving
01:01:11on how it is
01:01:11would make you feel
01:01:12demasculating.
01:01:13Yeah.
01:01:14Okay.
01:01:14I'm excited
01:01:15I was just saying
01:01:16I'm like
01:01:16only 50% of the time
01:01:18I still go to meet
01:01:19and I was like
01:01:20well
01:01:20I haven't said that to me
01:01:21so for my
01:01:22that's why I keep saying
01:01:22my side
01:01:23moving out
01:01:27I think Bec revealed
01:01:29how hard
01:01:30that conversation was
01:01:31for her
01:01:32you know
01:01:32when she said
01:01:33oh here we are
01:01:34having this conversation
01:01:34in front of everyone
01:01:35she felt really uncomfortable
01:01:37and I think
01:01:37after the dinner tonight
01:01:39they'll be going home
01:01:40for quite a big conversation.
01:01:59Okay so the purpose
01:02:01of this conversation
01:02:02is to talk about
01:02:03what's been happening
01:02:03within the group of women.
01:02:05Hello!
01:02:06Hello ladies!
01:02:08Welcome to your hens night!
01:02:11Not to make comparisons
01:02:13between men and women
01:02:14and who does it better.
01:02:15Wow.
01:02:15I just hope that there's
01:02:16some insight here
01:02:17with the ladies
01:02:18that yes
01:02:19in the future
01:02:19you are going to be
01:02:20in contact with other women
01:02:22who have strong personalities
01:02:24have strong judgements
01:02:25about you
01:02:26or opinions about you
01:02:31but that doesn't mean
01:02:32that you have to play dirty.
01:02:34As a woman
01:02:35I think it's important
01:02:36that we support each other
01:02:41love that.
01:02:44That we empower each other
01:02:46I'm so excited
01:02:47this is amazing
01:02:50that we don't compete
01:02:52with each other
01:02:55that we give other women
01:02:57an opportunity to shine
01:02:59Jules
01:02:59were you married?
01:03:02Yes!
01:03:06Just like we do
01:03:07I'm falling in love with you
01:03:10and that does not
01:03:11take away any of our power.
01:03:13You're the last dinner party
01:03:14and we're you are on the
01:03:14and I'll be right back up
01:03:17and I'll be right back to you
01:03:18and I'm so excited
01:03:20and I'll be right back to you
01:03:20and I'll be right back up
01:03:22I'll be right back.
01:03:27You
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