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90 Day Fiancé Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 17
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:25If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is Bethlehem.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38That she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:58I'm one.
00:01:58I'm one.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday.
00:02:00You have to decide it.
00:02:01But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:12Am I crazy?
00:02:14Or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:18She feels a psycho.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You're all right?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you okay?
00:02:24So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:29I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:32That I'm done.
00:02:55Go to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:01Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:03She went off yelling at the, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f*** off.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:12how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:38This morning, I'm really deflated.
00:03:40There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:45I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:48Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:51That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:57I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:03:59It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:01So, that's a lot to think about.
00:04:04I'm, um, hurting.
00:04:09I'm just, um, angry, angry.
00:04:13Hey.
00:04:15Elise.
00:04:16How are you?
00:04:20I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:25I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:38Is that a, is that a sorry or is that a...
00:04:40I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:42I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal coming up.
00:04:56I acted cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:08me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That should never happen once.
00:05:26There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:28that.
00:05:31You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:55I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I...
00:06:05Whatever.
00:06:06But you can go to the zoo.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:20he really likes it.
00:06:21But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:24Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:43I think I actually really embarrassed Josh, big time.
00:06:48I'm sorry.
00:06:50Yeah.
00:06:53But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:03Well, good luck with that.
00:07:05My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am,
00:07:13I'll have time to like, when I'm back.
00:07:22Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Mmm, they're cute.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32100%, yep.
00:07:33Hi!
00:07:34Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:39Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:41We are completely hands off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi!
00:07:46Over here.
00:07:48Hi!
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:50She is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:57We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:00Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact.
00:08:03I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thanks so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15Bye.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:24I'm glad that Elise is having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you
00:08:29know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:39It's so weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay?
00:08:48Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me.
00:09:03And then what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last
00:09:15night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:20All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:23You are so much different to her.
00:09:26She's a friend.
00:09:27You are my girl.
00:09:29You embarrass her, you embarrass me, and you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:34Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:40The thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you, like, I am.
00:09:45But things like last night, it makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:03and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:06And I think just the-
00:10:07You got answers.
00:10:09You got answers.
00:10:11You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:33Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:39I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how, uh, convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:10:52And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:57Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00We can, yeah.
00:11:01I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:06And that's not fair to him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance
00:11:14and not throw this all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:25You are so cute.
00:11:39But you are so cute.
00:11:40Let's go, let's go, let's go!
00:12:35Let's go, let's go, let's go!
00:12:40I think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who wanted
00:12:47to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honesty is a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies, and maybe it's still a lie.
00:13:16Hey, baby.
00:13:18Hey.
00:13:19How was your day?
00:13:20Perfect.
00:13:21Was it okay?
00:13:23Yeah.
00:13:23I'm curious.
00:13:24I enjoyed it.
00:13:27Did you really?
00:13:29Yeah, he's a good guy.
00:13:32I've been saying that, that's a relief to hear.
00:13:36He's a good guy, but it turns out, we're not so good.
00:13:46Why, what did I do?
00:13:51Yeah.
00:13:52He told me that you made a move on him.
00:14:02There is one person.
00:14:03I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like, literally nothing to tell.
00:14:23You make me think like Michael is the enemy.
00:14:26He's trying to break us up.
00:14:27I didn't make you think that.
00:14:28You thought that all on your own.
00:14:30But you did not avoid it.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:39This is a little thing, are you sure?
00:14:41It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing.
00:14:44It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk.
00:14:47We were on the couch.
00:14:48I tried to kiss him.
00:14:50Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship and before I met BeerCon, Michael and I were
00:15:00watching TV and we both had pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch and I tried to kiss
00:15:10Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:15Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:23And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael because I knew if I did,
00:15:29he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:15:45You tried to kiss him, okay?
00:15:48Yeah, I did.
00:15:49That means you had feelings for him.
00:15:52You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:15:59He is still in your life and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:03Nothing happened.
00:16:06And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:08It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:17Maybe you were like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk.
00:16:22I tried to kiss him.
00:16:24But he refused me.
00:16:25But we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31No.
00:16:32You didn't want to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:16:44Now, I'm thinking about maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:56I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me, and I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:22Nothing is going on.
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:25Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31I...
00:17:32No.
00:17:33Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:17:37Or just on top.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:42You wanted a young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:50I didn't have to go through all of these...
00:17:52I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
00:17:54You meant you wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:01I can't trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:13If you care this much...
00:18:15No, it's fine. No, I don't.
00:18:16You cross the line.
00:18:18If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met,
00:18:22I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:38There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What's that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:18:50I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my d***.
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:07Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother, but I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on
00:19:20staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man, not just following her orders around.
00:19:29When you know, you know, that's how the story goes.
00:19:34I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:36Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:39I got this in a load.
00:19:41It looks like we're going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo! Banana?
00:19:46You going to put me at the plate?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:52I'm not sure.
00:19:56Oh!
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:00Hello, Pa.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:02Hello.
00:20:03Good afternoon, Pa. Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir, because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13All right. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you.
00:20:16Should I really need to remove my tops or something? No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:22Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other,
00:20:26getting a chance to be with each other intimately,
00:20:28it was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:20:35Right down, man.
00:20:36Right down.
00:20:37Okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines,
00:20:41and I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:46And then, uh, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to our body, ma'am.
00:20:50I agree.
00:20:52Oh, wow.
00:20:53I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:01This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment,
00:21:04and it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food,
00:21:08which is most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:13It's kind of funny.
00:21:16How's things looking up there, ladies? Pretty good?
00:21:18It's okay, sir.
00:21:19Yeah.
00:21:20I feel like a giant wrap tamale here.
00:21:24A tamale, bro.
00:21:25They're going to throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're going to steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:32Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:37But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:21:45as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my...
00:21:51woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:55Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:21:58Yeah, I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah, I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah, got to love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:08Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything, and I feel like last night just
00:22:22strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:25And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Well, I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States
00:22:58together. But at this point, living in the Philippines, I feel the best option.
00:23:04It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:14are way
00:23:15out of my bounds. It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips
00:23:22up my heart and tears out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any,
00:23:30you know, church. You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happy to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:23:44us only.
00:23:46Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:59I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom's always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning on
00:24:20staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle you everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship,
00:24:33even though I happen to try to do many things for her.
00:24:37It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:24:41do some things that you
00:24:42wanted to do, not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between
00:24:57Sheena and I.
00:25:00I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines, because it's going to definitely give me some space
00:25:06away from my mother.
00:25:12But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:19I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start life together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:28I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:10You want to do something.
00:26:14Do not have to decide it, you want to go to my own society?
00:26:27I don't know.
00:26:29I will not be able to sue you, but I will not be able to do it.
00:26:34I will never be able to do it.
00:26:35You just want the answer.
00:26:38You want to have a baby or not.
00:26:54My uncle said,
00:26:56we are strict about having children
00:26:58because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:03That's what we believe.
00:27:05And it's not going to change.
00:27:07So we only wait for you.
00:27:10And you know that.
00:27:12In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:19I understand that, and I would hate for Trish
00:27:22not to be respected by her community over this.
00:27:25If Trish didn't have a baby,
00:27:28I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:27:32I would feel awful if she looked at herself
00:27:35in that way.
00:27:40They're waiting for our answer.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:46But at the same time,
00:27:48I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat
00:27:51in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54You don't feel like I'm being forced
00:27:56to make a life-changing decision
00:28:00in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family,
00:28:11and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:17If we're going to be together and get married,
00:28:22then I want it to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:28:28So,
00:28:32I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you're saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why do you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:28:57I'm very excited that you're going to be eating a baby.
00:29:04I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly,
00:29:09because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure,
00:29:17but I'm really excited.
00:29:19And also,
00:29:20my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:37I will file for the visa.
00:29:41It's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:29:44And then once she's approved,
00:29:46after we get married,
00:29:47then that's when we're going to start planning
00:29:49our family together.
00:29:51would've done an epic verb?
00:30:09.
00:30:09.
00:30:11.
00:30:11.
00:30:17.
00:30:19.
00:30:20.
00:30:22Say quick, quick, make this a quick.
00:30:28So what if it's after 20 years you start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months,
00:30:36then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:30:45and he will start the process?
00:30:47If everything goes in the direction that's been going
00:30:51in the last few days, then yes.
00:30:54That's what's going to happen.
00:31:12They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:31:18This is great news.
00:31:20I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision
00:31:29because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:31:33and the only way that I would be able to
00:31:36is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:40But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:31:46it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:31:54of having this family with Trish.
00:31:59She would be a great mother,
00:32:01and I'm actually starting to envision it,
00:32:06and things are looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:21When you get back to America,
00:32:23you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that, but you do know
00:32:28I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:32:33Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore.
00:32:39I'm done.
00:32:47We have to snuggle before we get up.
00:32:52One last snuggle.
00:32:56Show me your love.
00:32:57Show me your love.
00:32:58Let me show you my love.
00:33:00Show you your love.
00:33:01Say how you carry my heart.
00:33:03Do I have more sex with you?
00:33:04Before you go?
00:33:05Before you...
00:33:06I hope so.
00:33:09Help me soon.
00:33:11Baby.
00:33:12Baby.
00:33:12There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:33:16One promise.
00:33:17What's that?
00:33:18World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you...
00:33:23Why are you putting it off?
00:33:24I know you like it.
00:33:26And you've been talking.
00:33:27You've been hammering on that.
00:33:28You've been...
00:33:28There's only a few things I've asked of you,
00:33:31and that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa,
00:33:40because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:44Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:33:47And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:50I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my...
00:33:56Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:03Okay?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:05I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry.
00:34:10Okay?
00:34:11I'll make it up to you.
00:34:14Yeah.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay, like,
00:34:18spend, like, one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23You gotta start getting ready.
00:34:27Okay.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:37And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't want to go home.
00:34:53Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:03So that means when you get back to America,
00:35:06you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America, right?
00:35:09I'm gonna do that, babe.
00:35:11My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17Okay.
00:35:18We are gonna find out which is better,
00:35:20the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one's gonna get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28Okay? So that's what we'll do.
00:35:29That's okay.
00:35:33But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer getting you to America,
00:35:47doing what we need to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money.
00:35:50I can't even spend money anymore.
00:35:51I'm done.
00:35:57That's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is.
00:36:00Okay?
00:36:01So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:36:07Thanks.
00:36:10You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:36:19I have you.
00:36:21So we have a game plan now?
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:24Hmm.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed.
00:36:29You have to get dressed.
00:36:30We have to get going.
00:36:31Yes.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:36:35Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me.
00:36:39No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me.
00:36:47She's the one processing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:53Babes.
00:36:54What?
00:36:55This is so funny.
00:36:56You gonna wear it today?
00:36:58Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:01Say your wife is wicked.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh, my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:37:09She's, she deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:37:12It's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:37:21All I want is love.
00:37:22And she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:37:28I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying.
00:37:33It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband.
00:37:36I love you.
00:37:37I love you.
00:37:42I knew it was gonna be hard.
00:37:44I didn't know it was gonna be this hard.
00:37:46Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:37:50To you.
00:37:52Oh, my God, baby.
00:37:59This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:02I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:38:04I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:38:08I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:12I didn't imagine any of this.
00:38:14I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:38:16I mean, none of this.
00:38:18I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:38:27I don't wanna go.
00:38:30But I have to go.
00:38:34I don't know.
00:38:34I don't know what you're doing with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon.
00:38:38When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:53I love you, son.
00:38:56Shh.
00:38:58It's okay.
00:38:59Shh.
00:39:00It's okay, baby.
00:39:02It's okay, baby.
00:39:05I love you so much.
00:39:07I love you so, so much.
00:39:20I feel that I will not see her again because anything can happen she might go back to her
00:39:29country and she might change her mind on most of the promises like bringing me to her country you
00:39:34know um the visa I am hoping she will do it but we are not married legally yet so it's
00:39:43very hard for
00:39:43me to say goodbye I miss you so much I love you baby I can't do it you have to
00:39:52walk away from me I
00:39:53can't do it
00:40:12it's very hard I feel like I'm not gonna see him again even though I know I'm going to
00:40:16I'm making these plans but I'm thinking what if they fall through
00:40:22what if it's more than six months what if it's more than a year what if what if what if
00:40:27it's two
00:40:28years what happens between Daniel and I I don't know
00:40:49it's nice a big house we can have sex in a lot of rooms I was really upset with Elise
00:40:56and how she
00:40:57reacted at the bar the other night but she's trying to make it up to me you know I've never
00:41:01used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing this must mean I really like you
00:41:11you said you play with my heart you said you're fine with the cheap stuff it tastes the same in
00:41:19the
00:41:19dark in the light of the cold gray cries for the old days it's a match in the dark
00:41:28okay we have everything you think yep okay to a trip just us Chris gets the place to himself now
00:41:50what's this it's called deodorant I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the
00:42:00other night but Elise has realized she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me
00:42:04and
00:42:04she's organized a two-night stay at the Blue Mountains take me away the Blue Mountains are known
00:42:11for their hiking and waterfalls and it's a different part of nature besides the beaches
00:42:15that Sydney has so I'm excited you know I've never even been I wouldn't say all is forgiven
00:42:21but she's trying and this is a good start oh my god are we here we are yeah nice it's
00:42:39a big house
00:42:40we can have sex in a lot of rooms yes we can I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains
00:42:50but Josh has always spoken about it and how much he wanted to go so I decided to book us
00:42:55a trip
00:42:56and there's hot tubs there so I was like love that look baby look what I got us whoa oh
00:43:04wow a lot of
00:43:06space for a lot of activity you're the best I know I thought it was a great idea to get
00:43:12out of Bondi
00:43:13away from Nat away from Chris away from boats I just want for us to really unplug and just
00:43:20be with each other more get out of the kitchen I was cooking for you
00:43:27you know I've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing this for you must
00:43:32mean I
00:43:32really like you that does mean a lot this should be fun
00:43:46this is not the first time I thought it was going to be in my mouth
00:44:02half of it went in my mouth my face my boobs maybe should I take it off
00:44:09why isn't this coming to a boil I don't know how to turn on the stove oh which pasta do
00:44:16you want
00:44:17that's so embarrassing what packet was that in
00:44:21I'm making you two types of pasta perfect
00:44:28nope not ready oh god this feels really good
00:44:35oh my god
00:44:40I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta is ready if it sticks to the wall so like
00:44:45if you
00:44:46cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall then you know it's ready like yeah but I don't think
00:44:49that's the same with penne pasta let's throw in the pasta oh my god there's water in you oh I
00:45:01think
00:45:01I just ruined the sauce baby the kitchen is definitely not her element but I love seeing
00:45:09the side of Elise is doing something that she's not used to doing at least she keeps me on my
00:45:16toes
00:45:17I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale and I know it's not gonna be dull
00:45:22with her
00:45:23let's see here we go okay it's horrible be honest I'm not picky it was the most fun I've had
00:45:39making
00:45:39dinner I laughed my head off and I needed that me too you know what's so cute about Josh is
00:45:47like
00:45:48when I up or I do something stupid or I feel really awkward like he makes so light of it
00:45:52I don't know
00:45:53it's like it's the little moments like like then that I'm like you know what like I feel like he
00:45:59could be my forever but there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on and it's been constantly
00:46:04playing in the back of my mind I don't know if I can go back to Florida not having met
00:46:11your son
00:46:13to see how you are as a father you would have you would have met him already I would want
00:46:17you to
00:46:17but he's moved away so for now like can we face time will that work yeah I'm not trying to
00:46:25harp on him
00:46:26again after everything that we've went through but I'm leaving soon and I haven't met anyone in
00:46:31his family I haven't met his son and this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing
00:46:36out
00:46:37on so I really really hope that we can happen before the end of my trip pretty full me too
00:46:50I like classic stuff it is really important for me to have the wedding ring 268 dollar
00:47:00I think he's not sure you don't want some men mistaken me as you know still available single
00:47:08woman they can have you sure why not we have a wiener yeah you really wanted that don't you
00:48:04that was fun yeah that was so fun
00:48:08oh look at those shops that's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses like
00:48:15really pretty nice can't wait for the anniversary party yeah thanks with Jovon and I are really
00:48:27good and now in a couple of days we're having our anniversary party where we're going to renew our vows
00:48:36since we never had a wedding in person basically it's just like a second wedding to me you know
00:48:45because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face I've been dreaming about this and now
00:48:53it's
00:48:53happening and I just can't wait okay are you ready yeah I guess so now that we're going to renew
00:49:08our vows good afternoon we decided to look at rings we've been married almost three years and sometimes I still
00:49:20can't believe that Jovon hasn't put a ring on it yet
00:49:24I feel like I feel like I'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band
00:49:32hi hello what are you looking for wedding bands we have different style okay what are you prepared for
00:49:40well I'm okay with a simple plain wedding bands I want it more classic I like classic stuff
00:49:53this one
00:49:57it is really important for me to have the wedding ring my symbol of love you need a ring to
00:50:04symbolize
00:50:05that I assume you don't want some men mistaken me as you know still available single woman they can have
00:50:12okay okay she's on the market I'm playing relax when is your wedding well we're actually married already
00:50:24we don't have an official wedding rings yet we did our marriage online that's why
00:50:30you know to be fair you know I did get you a ring okay you send me your money and
00:50:39I bought a ring
00:50:41that's under $100 that's turned my finger green but that's what I thought no I thought it's just a
00:50:50substitute drink how about poor sir what do you think when it come to bands like I prefer like
00:50:59like like like this silver in the middle kind of sporty but they don't sell that
00:51:07I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married and I like it a lot
00:51:15I'm not a jewelry person and I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need or want
00:51:23this one is good it's just that it's too skinny like do you have something that's a little bit
00:51:31wider I have different kind of this time okay this one this one is good I like this one more
00:51:42simple
00:51:43but really looks like I'm married you know what I mean how much is this per gram no yes 15
00:51:52510 in
00:51:53peso 15 510 how much is that you're saying 268 in dollar 268 yeah you have anything budget
00:52:02no we didn't really have a budget but she's not sure are we gonna buy this we mean today yeah
00:52:16I can come back
00:52:29yeah cuz I gotta sort out my bank stuff okay why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not
00:52:38gonna buy anything anyway
00:52:40okay what's the point of going out just to get an idea of what you want
00:52:53thank you so much bye-bye
00:52:58I feel so humiliated I can't even have the cheapest ring it's not just a jewelry it's a symbol of
00:53:09our
00:53:09marriage I waited six years to be together in person he never applied for spousal visa and now I still
00:53:19don't have a ring once again he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship
00:53:45I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with him I really don't I mean you did jump
00:53:51on a plane and come to my rescue I don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:53:59there's a lot of layers there and I mean
00:54:22you
00:54:24you gave me. Yeah, me too.
00:54:36I'm assuming you've talked to Miracon? Yeah, I did. It was super great. Thanks for that.
00:54:42I kind of partly blame you. Okay.
00:54:48I don't know. He's, you don't know? I don't know what was said between you and him.
00:54:53I only know mine in the story. Okay. So we have to come together. Okay. Super curious. What was
00:55:01going through your head telling him that I hit on you? Like, I don't understand what, how that even
00:55:08came up. We never did anything and he's pissed off about it because I didn't tell him, told me that
00:55:15he wishes he never met me. And I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring
00:55:20that up.
00:55:22Okay. And I'd like to know why you did. Okay.
00:55:27I'm broad enough because Miracon was under the impression that I was in love with you.
00:55:32That man kept pushing and pushing and pushing. And at some point, I need him to understand
00:55:40that I said no to us having a relationship, but you were the one that asked. And from that,
00:55:47he got very upset. And I tried to reassure him was a year ago. It didn't, I mean, it was
00:55:52before you
00:55:52met him. I feel like, honestly, it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it.
00:56:00How long have you been here with him? How long have you been here with him?
00:56:05Two and a half weeks.
00:56:06And in two and a half weeks, you cannot convince him that I was not a threat?
00:56:16That's not on me. I did everything I could to diffuse that situation.
00:56:21I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you. I really don't.
00:56:27I mean, you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue.
00:56:31I don't think he's the only person that thinks that.
00:56:37There's a lot of layers there.
00:56:40But no, that's not something I want to happen.
00:56:43Anyhow, we're friends. I don't want to anymore.
00:56:50At the end of the day, I want you to be happy.
00:56:53All I ever heard was little stories here and there about him from you.
00:56:56You said all these bad things.
00:56:59And just, why does she keep talking to this guy?
00:57:01So I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff.
00:57:05And you don't have to worry about him and I anymore.
00:57:08You just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you
00:57:11before you make a commitment.
00:57:13I don't even know what to do right now.
00:57:15There's part of me that just wants to go have another conversation with him,
00:57:18but I don't even know what to say.
00:57:19Because he just told me he wishes he never met me.
00:57:22Okay.
00:57:22But the opposite of love is not anger, it's apathy.
00:57:25So angry means he still loves you.
00:57:30I don't believe Michael when he says
00:57:32he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically.
00:57:36But I think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind.
00:57:40And I think he does care about the future of my relationship with Birkon.
00:57:45Birkon is the person I need in my life.
00:57:48And I want to fix this.
00:57:50I just don't really know how to go about it.
00:57:54So what do I do?
00:57:55I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal.
00:58:00Do you acknowledge that he felt the way he did?
00:58:03It didn't matter whether he was right or not.
00:58:06No, I never said that.
00:58:08At the end of the day,
00:58:10the relationship is more important than the argument,
00:58:15which means somebody has to say, I'm sorry.
00:58:18It's amazing how the words, I'm sorry,
00:58:21when said truly can diffuse a situation.
00:58:24Okay.
00:58:25I see your point.
00:58:28I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that.
00:58:37I'll let you know how it goes.
00:58:40Yeah.
00:58:59How are you?
00:59:01I'm good.
00:59:02How are you?
00:59:04I'm okay.
00:59:07I was just wondering if we could talk.
00:59:16I'm sorry, did you say not today?
00:59:19Yeah.
00:59:23Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
00:59:26I'm sorry.
00:59:28Just give me the space.
00:59:32Okay.
00:59:33I guess I will get a room somewhere.
00:59:37Okay.
00:59:38We both need time.
00:59:41Yeah.
00:59:41And we both need to think about what's going on.
00:59:44Mm-hmm.
00:59:47Okay.
00:59:49Okay.
00:59:50Bye.
00:59:53Bye.
01:00:00I don't want to force you, but like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:00:04When Elise asked to meet my son, I can see that she really, really cares.
01:00:08But honestly, after all the fighting with Elise,
01:00:10I've had my doubts about trying to let her in to the most important part of my life.
01:00:22Oh, my God.
01:00:23Oh, that's hot.
01:00:24Oh, that's hot.
01:00:25Oh, that's hot, huh?
01:00:26Oh, it's really hot.
01:00:28That's burning me.
01:00:30Oh, you found the champagne, I thought.
01:00:32It did.
01:00:33It's so good.
01:00:34I think we should open it.
01:00:39Wow.
01:00:41Cheers to that.
01:00:49What a perfect ending to a perfect little day.
01:00:54Good drive.
01:00:55Good cooking.
01:00:58It's so funny, huh?
01:01:00It's so funny.
01:01:01Okay?
01:01:01I tried.
01:01:03So am I making it up to you?
01:01:05Am I doing a good job so far?
01:01:07Yeah, absolutely.
01:01:10Well, have I made it up to you enough that, like, you can let me in your own world?
01:01:16You have.
01:01:19Well, I want to be with you, and I'm scared that I've came literally around the world,
01:01:25and all I've met is, like, a few friends.
01:01:28And I don't want to force you, but, like, am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:37When Elise asks to meet my son or, you know, talk to my son, I find that endearing.
01:01:43But honestly, the last couple of days, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts
01:01:47about whether I'll introduce him or not.
01:01:50Obviously, I'm very protective of my son, so I want to be confident that this relationship
01:01:55is going to work.
01:01:57I understand he's young, and it's, like, a video call, and it's probably, like, a lot
01:02:03to explain to him.
01:02:04Yeah.
01:02:05I do want to prove how much you mean to me.
01:02:08But, um, that's been playing on me heavily.
01:02:14What's been playing on you heavily?
01:02:16Explain that.
01:02:17It's just been, you know, a tough year.
01:02:21I didn't move him away, but, you know, he's an hour and a half plane ride, and I don't
01:02:27see him as much as I want.
01:02:30I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can, so it's just
01:02:35a guilty
01:02:37feeling for me at the moment.
01:02:41I miss him, you know, especially when you're here, you know.
01:02:45Really?
01:02:45Well, yeah, well, because when you're here, I think, you know, if he was here as well,
01:02:49it'll be like, I'd love you two to get along, and then it'll be like a perfect little world.
01:02:57I guess it's just painful to think about it.
01:03:02It's okay to have feelings, and it's okay to be upset.
01:03:06If you weren't emotional about your son, and you didn't feel this way, I would be worried.
01:03:11I'd be very, very worried.
01:03:13It means you're a good dad, and it means you care.
01:03:20You know, it's like having a son's responsibility and, like, excitement, and you do things with
01:03:24him, and then when something like that gets taken away from you, you're like, I feel like
01:03:28I lost myself.
01:03:31Yeah, I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself.
01:03:36My relationship with my son, we're really tight.
01:03:39I've been there since he was born.
01:03:41He's my little partner in crime.
01:03:43We go camping, we go fishing, surfing, you know, we kick footballs, we go and play golf.
01:03:48It's such a good part of my life.
01:03:51So, it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that.
01:03:57I want to help make you feel like you're back together.
01:04:03I want to be that rock for you.
01:04:07How are you going to do that?
01:04:10Be there for you, support you in any way I can, but you have to let me into your life.
01:04:15I can't do that without getting brought into your life.
01:04:20This is very emotional because being away from my son affected me, you know, more than I thought.
01:04:26But I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life.
01:04:30I can see that she really, really cares.
01:04:33She's shown that she's worthy of, you know, getting to know my son.
01:04:37But at the same time, it is scary to let her in, the most important part of my life.
01:04:42What if things don't work out?
01:04:43You know, that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us.
01:04:47Well, I'm here for you now.
01:05:10I mean, after getting her family's approval,
01:05:17I just f*** it up.
01:05:21I don't want anything to approach her.
01:05:51My family's happy that you're going to do that.
01:05:54Give me a baby.
01:06:04Oh, man.
01:06:05Wow.
01:06:06Thank you for your blessings.
01:06:07Oh, my God, they're crying.
01:06:15I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them, yes,
01:06:19that I'm willing to have a child.
01:06:20But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:06:25Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family,
01:06:29but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:06:33Now, Trisha and I, we can sleep together
01:06:35and, you know, take a nice, warm shower together
01:06:38and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:06:44They were really happy.
01:06:46You see all of them.
01:06:48Wasn't it?
01:06:50I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off
01:06:54after I said that, after I agreed to have that baby.
01:06:58They're so sweet.
01:07:00Gonna miss them.
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby.
01:07:06But what if you change your mind?
01:07:13Maybe, as long as we're going and moving in the right direction,
01:07:18I'm all on board with having a baby with you.
01:07:21Because I know that it'll make you happy.
01:07:23I know that's what you really want.
01:07:27I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind
01:07:31about whether or not I'm financially ready to have another child.
01:07:36But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises,
01:07:41this could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family.
01:07:46I know how much her family means to her.
01:07:49So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:07:54I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation
01:07:57to financially support another child.
01:08:01But, um, yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:08:07It looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:08:11Our future.
01:08:17You're...
01:08:18Do, baby.
01:08:19Baby, I love you more than anything.
01:08:32Do you have to eat the restroom or anything?
01:08:35I don't.
01:08:36I don't eat anything but just, um,
01:08:38I don't eat chicken.
01:08:44Well, damn.
01:08:46My flight's been delayed.
01:08:48That's it.
01:08:50We wait for one hour.
01:08:52Hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana.
01:08:57Couple of days in Tana before...
01:09:01My baby.
01:09:06That's really sad.
01:09:10Sad story.
01:09:12It's just all beginning.
01:09:15I know.
01:09:27Let me see.
01:09:27Let me see.
01:09:28If you don't want this phone, I won't call you.
01:09:31Yes, sir.
01:09:31So, thank you, sir.
01:09:32No.
01:09:33No.
01:09:34Defy your .
01:09:36That's okay.
01:09:39We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:09:44The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:09:47I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:09:52Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:09:56And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:10:01It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone, and she probably saw that
01:10:13my ex had texted me.
01:10:15Is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:10:19Yes.
01:10:22All of the most beautiful times of my life has been with you.
01:10:27So with you was not the beautiful time.
01:10:31Why don't you tell that to her?
01:10:33A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex.
01:10:41And she was telling me that, you know, she misses the times that we had together.
01:10:47And I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:10:56Why did you just tell her your message?
01:11:00It was Wednesday.
01:11:02It was Wednesday.
01:11:03Why?
01:11:05I would never hide something.
01:11:08This is what I'm talking about.
01:11:10You never told me what's really true.
01:11:13You didn't tell me if I didn't know.
01:11:18Why?
01:11:26He told me that he's not talking to his ex.
01:11:29That it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:11:34But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:11:49He makes me sad.
01:11:58Like, I love him.
01:12:01We talk about the babies.
01:12:03He's the future.
01:12:06And I, we just, my dad just give him blessing.
01:12:25I mean, after getting her family's approval, everything just felt, it felt different than it did the whole couple weeks
01:12:33prior.
01:12:35How did I come so close to getting my, what I wanted, and then, I just, up.
01:12:46And I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:12:50And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:13:03Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:13:09We are leaving tomorrow.
01:13:11I know my mom is not going to accept it, but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:13:17to ensure she and I are together.
01:13:18I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:13:23This is our choice.
01:13:25What's that you just came out of your mouth?
01:13:46Man, I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today.
01:13:48I know he feels relaxed when mom is sitting around in her bed and sorrow.
01:14:05So, when I talked to Forrest, he's like, oh, surprise mom, I went and met with a lawyer.
01:14:11And the lawyer says, he has to have, like, a certain amount of income, something like that.
01:14:16He didn't do anything right at all.
01:14:20I'm upset right now.
01:14:22Forrest is coming back.
01:14:23And for the last few days, Deb and I haven't heard anything from Forrest or Sheena.
01:14:28And we've just felt like we've kind of been left in the dark.
01:14:32You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation.
01:14:40I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:14:47We're supposed to be flying out tomorrow.
01:14:50And we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all.
01:15:03Hey, mom.
01:15:05How's things going?
01:15:08It's going pretty good.
01:15:08How are you guys?
01:15:13Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:15:16Yeah.
01:15:17I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:15:19Yeah.
01:15:20That's kind of why we're here.
01:15:25Today was supposed to be my last day in the Philippines.
01:15:28But Sheena and I have made the decision for me to stay here.
01:15:33And basically start a life here with her.
01:15:36You ready?
01:15:37Yeah, we're going to have...
01:15:38Oh, let's go.
01:15:38Bye, guys.
01:15:40I know that my mom is not going to accept it.
01:15:43But she has to understand that I'm not the child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:15:49I have changed a lot this trip.
01:15:52And I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Sheena and I are together.
01:16:01Oh, my God.
01:16:03Wow.
01:16:04Look at that.
01:16:06They moved to every ethnic race.
01:16:09Well, look at that.
01:16:14It came originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put their feet
01:16:21and they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet.
01:16:24Yes.
01:16:24It tells a whole story.
01:16:26Yes.
01:16:27It's just a damn.
01:16:27I agree.
01:16:28Oh, my goodness.
01:16:29Oh, look at that.
01:16:31Yay!
01:16:32Oh, thank you.
01:16:34Oh, that's beautiful.
01:16:35That's great.
01:16:36Good job, guys.
01:16:37That's awesome.
01:16:38Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo.
01:16:43But you have to be in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time.
01:16:46Kind of like life.
01:16:49Well, I think Sheena and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:16:55Yeah, definitely.
01:17:02So, Sheena, do we get menus or how does it work?
01:17:06Actually, there's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:17:10Oh.
01:17:10Here you go.
01:17:11Here you go.
01:17:12Here you go.
01:17:12Here you go.
01:17:13Oh, good.
01:17:15Thank you so much.
01:17:19So, with the, the, um, where, where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give
01:17:26me all the details.
01:17:28Um, yeah.
01:17:30I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded in more ways than one.
01:17:36Mm-hmm.
01:17:44You had sex, didn't you?
01:17:49You know what?
01:17:50Yeah, we did.
01:17:53Now, time.
01:17:55I enjoyed it.
01:17:56It was fun.
01:17:58Yeah.
01:18:01You guys, uh, think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:18:07Yeah.
01:18:09I, I feel like our souls have really connected and now we can really understand each other.
01:18:19I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity.
01:18:23Finally, you know.
01:18:24Nookie, nookie, nookie.
01:18:26Bang, bang, bang, bang.
01:18:29And also too, that's an important aspect to know if they had compatibility on all aspects,
01:18:35including sexuality.
01:18:38Well, that's good.
01:18:40I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized finally.
01:18:43That's.
01:18:43Yeah, mom.
01:18:48Well, you know, it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:18:54tomorrow, but it must be very painful.
01:18:58But are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get you over to the United States?
01:19:10Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:19:14Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:19:20Yeah, we, we talked a lot yesterday.
01:19:22Um, with the K-1 visa, I found out that being on disability, I don't make enough money.
01:19:32So, she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:19:41Forrest?
01:19:42I'm tired of being alone.
01:19:45Oh my God.
01:19:45I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:19:50Oh, you didn't expect to fall.
01:19:53I want my love with me in my second half.
01:19:55This is our choice.
01:19:58What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:20:01Mom.
01:20:02Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:20:05Was that in between the ?
01:20:07Excuse me.
01:20:08You can say one thing something you want to say, but for me, I have him. He had me.
01:20:12I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:20:14I'm doing my best for my part for your son because I love your son and I've worked everything hard
01:20:18for him for our future.
01:20:20I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:20:26I trust my son. I don't trust you.
01:20:34I'm sorry. I just want to need space.
01:20:37I'm sorry.
01:20:39I'm sorry.
01:20:40I'm sorry.
01:20:40I'm sorry.
01:20:49We're going to be with you guys.
01:21:10Next time on Before the 90 days.
01:21:10you're gonna be my sugar mama i wish we could have talked it out last night you've been texting
01:21:17with him this morning what has he been saying i asked him if we could talk and he said sure
01:21:22so i want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how i ever felt
01:21:29about
01:21:30michael why did you mislead me but michael made the move i was worried you would try to put a
01:21:38stop to my friendship with him are you excited about today i think i should ask you that question
01:21:49though i just don't know what i'm gonna say for my vows it's just gonna be like the basics i
01:21:57just
01:21:57wanted today to be full of love but it just feels like any other day for him i don't know
01:22:06you can't pretend that everything is fine
01:22:12i love your son and i'll do anything my best love doesn't pay the bills gina you know i'm like
01:22:18in
01:22:19panic mode that he's going to move to the philippines it's not going to work it won't work
01:22:24how much do you think that you're going to make working here where are you going to live for us
01:22:29have you even factored how much it's going to cost i don't know what to do
01:22:37all the messages in the text why did you betray me why don't you block her if you want this
01:22:45relationship tell her that you don't want her anymore that i'm with you i love trish but love isn't
01:22:55so black and white i need to be earnest about my feelings i don't know what to do
01:23:05oh my god stunning i don't think at least realized you know what she'd signed up for
01:23:14yes come on baby yeah first i'm just thinking she's being a drama queen
01:23:23i start to think oh is she okay
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