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90 Day Fiance : Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 17
90 Day Fiance : Before the 90 Days S 8 Ep 17
90 Day Fiance : Before the 90 Days S 8 Ep 17
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00:00:00Preview season before 90 days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:07It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:09Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:12This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:22but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:39Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:44then that's all I wanted.
00:00:46Can we have sex?
00:00:50On our second anniversary, they forgot.
00:00:54This is your thing.
00:00:56Being unromantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:00Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:06I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:07Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:12I don't like being controlled.
00:01:15Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:21Tell me, you love her.
00:01:23If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:27Dude, you made a move.
00:01:28You blow it.
00:01:29No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:30Laura made a move on me.
00:01:33This is best real.
00:01:35Am I an alternative?
00:01:37Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:40My trust is borrowed from her.
00:01:44I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:47I need more time.
00:01:51I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:55I'm one, I'm one, I'm one.
00:01:58Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:00But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:06I don't want to f***ing think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:09Hey guys, am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially f***ing supported crazy?
00:02:17She's a psycho.
00:02:18Good luck.
00:02:20You're up?
00:02:21Yeah.
00:02:22Are you okay?
00:02:23So f***ing you.
00:02:24You run to her after this, right?
00:02:26Asshole.
00:02:28I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:30But that s***, I'm done.
00:02:53Coming to the gym?
00:02:54No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:55Rough night.
00:02:57Another one?
00:02:58Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:01She went off yelling at her, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:04How many people were there?
00:03:05Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:07Oh f*** off.
00:03:08She stands up and she's like,
00:03:09How do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:14I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:17Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:19I just don't know what to do.
00:03:21I'm confused.
00:03:28It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:29It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:31Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:35This morning I'm really deflated.
00:03:37There was a really big, you know, event last night.
00:03:41Between Nat and Elise.
00:03:42I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:45Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:49That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:54I don't know how much damage she realises she's done.
00:03:56It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:03:58So, that's a lot to think about.
00:04:02I'm f***ing.
00:04:05Hurting.
00:04:06I didn't just f***ing.
00:04:08Angry, angry.
00:04:10Hey.
00:04:12Liz.
00:04:14How are you?
00:04:16I'm f***ing.
00:04:17I'm f***ing.
00:04:18I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:23I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:26I should not have acted that way.
00:04:34Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:38I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:39I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:41Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:46Do you realise what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:49I don't like embarrassment or personal f***ing coming up.
00:04:53I acted f***ing cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:04:57I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:01The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:04me and sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me and I'm just worried now where this makes
00:05:14us stand.
00:05:19That f***ing should never happen once.
00:05:22There seem to be a common occurrence.
00:05:25F***ing that.
00:05:27You know, I'm out.
00:05:34Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:42Are we still going to go to the zoo?
00:05:49Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:51I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:05:58I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I...
00:06:01Whatever.
00:06:02We can go to the zoo.
00:06:06I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:08For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:12But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:16he really likes it.
00:06:17But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:20Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:22And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:28I'm going to get ready.
00:06:29Can I have a hug?
00:06:32Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:39I think I actually really embarrassed Josh, big time.
00:06:44I'm sorry.
00:06:46Yeah.
00:06:49But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:54My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:06:58Well, good luck with Nat.
00:07:01My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:03And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:07really am, I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:17Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:20Oh, they're cute.
00:07:22Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:24Uh, yes.
00:07:25I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:27100%, yeah.
00:07:28Hi!
00:07:30Her name is Kamira.
00:07:31Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:33She is very cute.
00:07:35Can I touch her?
00:07:35We can't touch her here.
00:07:37We are completely hands off.
00:07:38She does like people a lot.
00:07:40Hi!
00:07:41Oh, really?
00:07:43Hi!
00:07:44She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:46She is like a little teddy.
00:07:47Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:52Because we have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:07:54Like, you know, koalas.
00:07:57Fun fact.
00:07:58I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:02Really?
00:08:03Yes.
00:08:05Thank you so much.
00:08:06Thanks so much.
00:08:07It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:08Anytime.
00:08:08Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:10See ya.
00:08:12Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:14We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:17We can.
00:08:19I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time.
00:08:21But it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:34So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:38Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet?
00:08:41Or are we okay?
00:08:42Or, like, I'm trying to just...
00:08:45I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:08:49I don't know what to do.
00:08:52I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me.
00:08:57And then, f*** what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:03That was completely wrong.
00:09:05And I will own that.
00:09:06And I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:13And I'm sorry.
00:09:14All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:18You are so much different to her.
00:09:20She's a friend.
00:09:21You are my girl.
00:09:23You embarrass her.
00:09:24You f***ing embarrass me.
00:09:26And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:28Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:34The f*** thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:38Like, I am.
00:09:40But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:51I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her.
00:09:57And it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:00And I think just the...
00:10:01You've got answers.
00:10:02You've got answers.
00:10:05You're not willing to accept them.
00:10:13I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:15I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:17But it will not happen again.
00:10:24No, I appreciate that.
00:10:27Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:33I'm not very confident.
00:10:35See how convincing you are.
00:10:38I'm sorry.
00:10:41When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:10:45And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:51Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:52Can we feed them?
00:10:53Okay, yeah.
00:10:54I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:10:59And that's not fair to him.
00:11:01You are so cute.
00:11:04I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and not throw this all away for
00:11:10one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:14But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:30movie chatter
00:12:01Let's go, let's go, let's go!
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00:18:20Let's go, let's go!
00:18:26Let's go, let's go!
00:18:27I miss you!
00:18:27There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:31What's that?
00:18:33Oral sex.
00:18:35Her fellow women have been giving her oral sex.
00:18:38I am not a woman.
00:18:40I have my d***.
00:18:44There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:18:49My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:18:55Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:02We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:05But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:10It's time for you to grow up and be a man, not just following her orders around.
00:19:17When you know, you know.
00:19:19That's how the story goes.
00:19:22I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:24Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:27I got this inner glow.
00:19:29It looks like we're gonna get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:32Banana?
00:19:33You gonna put me at the plate?
00:19:34Yeah.
00:19:43Oh.
00:19:44Oh.
00:19:45Hello, everyone.
00:19:46Hello.
00:19:48Welcome.
00:19:49Hello.
00:19:50Good afternoon.
00:19:51Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:19:53This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:19:56Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:19:59We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:00All right.
00:20:01Yeah.
00:20:03Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:06No.
00:20:06If you want, ma'am.
00:20:07It's okay.
00:20:08It's okay.
00:20:09Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other, getting a chance to be with
00:20:14each other intimately, that was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:19And I'm hoping the spa treatment is gonna help us de-stress.
00:20:22Lay down, ma'am.
00:20:23Lay down.
00:20:24Okay.
00:20:25Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines.
00:20:28And I have a lot of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:34And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:20:37Very great.
00:20:39Oh, wow.
00:20:40I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:43I'm extra, extra long.
00:20:48This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment.
00:20:51And it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:20:55Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:20:59It's quite funny.
00:21:02How's things looking up there, ladies?
00:21:04Pretty good?
00:21:05It's okay, sir.
00:21:06Yeah.
00:21:07I feel like a giant wrapped tamale here.
00:21:11Tamale bird.
00:21:11You're gonna throw me in the oven next.
00:21:13I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:16They're gonna steam you.
00:21:16This is so strange.
00:21:19Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:23Oh, my goodness.
00:21:24But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move as the sun blasts
00:21:33me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:21:38It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:42Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:21:44Yeah.
00:21:45I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:21:47And it's starting to rain.
00:21:49Oh, yeah.
00:21:50I love the rain.
00:21:51Yeah.
00:21:52Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:21:54Oh, the banana leaf.
00:21:59Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:02Yeah.
00:22:04I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:06And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:11And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:19Well, I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:23I love you, baby bear.
00:22:25I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:28I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:31If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:35I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:38Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:22:44But at this point, living in the Philippines, I feel the best option.
00:22:49It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:22:53I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:00are way out of my bounds.
00:23:02It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:08out my soul.
00:23:10I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:23:16You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:21And I hope that your mom would happy to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:23:29us only.
00:23:32Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:38Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:44I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:23:51That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:23:58My mom has always been a very controlling person.
00:24:01And I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:08I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:11Babe, mom would strangle everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:24:17Even though I happen to try to do many things for her.
00:24:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:24:26do some things that you wanted to do.
00:24:28Not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:24:32You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:36My mother, she's always been my safety net.
00:24:39But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:24:44I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:24:50from my mother.
00:24:52Hello, sir. Excuse voice, time's up.
00:24:54Okay, thank you.
00:24:56But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do.
00:25:03And I'm scared.
00:25:07I'm tired of waiting and I'm ready to start a life together.
00:25:10It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:12I'm there for you.
00:25:25You have to decide it, yes or no.
00:25:27But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:38You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:25:48Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:25:53you have to decide what's going on in the Philippines.
00:25:58l ambris, ambris and are not going on the beach.
00:26:05If you're a veterinarian, do not see what you want to go on.
00:26:10What's going on in the Philippines?
00:26:13We would like to see what's going on in the Philippines.
00:26:13If you don't have to make a baby, he's holding you away.
00:26:18Your mum's a baby and your mum's a baby and your mum and your mum,
00:26:21have a baby or not my uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent
00:26:43our family line continuing that's what we believe and it's not gonna change
00:26:50so we only wait for you and you know that in their culture having the baby is the most important
00:27:01thing i understand that and i would hate for trish not to be respected by her community over this
00:27:08if trish didn't have a baby i feel like she would be ashamed i would feel awful if she looked
00:27:17at
00:27:17herself in that way they're waiting for our answer okay but at the same time i'm feeling like
00:27:33i'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker i don't feel like i'm being forced to um make a
00:27:41life-changing
00:27:42decision in in such little time
00:27:48i know how important it is to the family
00:27:53and i really know how important it is to trish if we're gonna be together and get married
00:28:04then i want to make you happy i want you to feel like your life is complete
00:28:11so
00:28:15i have to say yes
00:28:19so you saying yes now yes why you change your mind like that
00:28:26i didn't fully understand you know before
00:28:47i'm really shocked that rick say yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer
00:28:55maybe because of my uncle's pressure but i'm really excited and also my family is very excited to hear that
00:29:05response
00:29:11so when are we going to have the baby
00:29:19i will file for the visa
00:29:22it's going to take at least eight months to a year
00:29:25and then once she's approved after we get married then that's when we're going to start planning our
00:29:31our family together
00:29:32...
00:29:35I don't know how much the world is.
00:29:38So now I have to go to the city of Iwisay,
00:29:41where I am going and I am going to get to the city.
00:29:45I'm going to go to the city of Iwisay and to get there.
00:30:01I'm going to go to the city.
00:30:02Say quick, quick, and make this a quick.
00:30:09So what if after 20 years you start?
00:30:13By the end of August, in about three months, then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:21So in three months we are going to be engaged and he will start the process?
00:30:28If everything goes in the direction that's been going in the last few days, then yes, that's what's going to
00:30:36happen.
00:30:36We are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:30:59This is great news. I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:06Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision because I really wanted to be with Trish and the only way that
00:31:15I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:19But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:31I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:31:39She would be a great mother. And I'm actually starting to envision it and things are looking really good.
00:31:49Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:01When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:06I'm going to do that, right? You do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:32:13Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer. I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:32:26You have to snuggle before we get up. One last snuggle.
00:32:41Now I have more sex with you. Before you go, before you...
00:32:46I hope so.
00:32:50Baby.
00:32:51Baby.
00:32:52Baby.
00:32:52Here's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me. One promise.
00:32:56What is that?
00:32:57World sex.
00:32:58Oh.
00:33:01Why are you putting it off?
00:33:03I know you like it. And you've been talking. You've been hammering on that you've been.
00:33:07There's only a few things I've asked of you. And that's a major one right there for me. It's major
00:33:14for me.
00:33:16I've never had an oral sex with Lisa. Because I've never tried it before. I don't know how to do
00:33:22it.
00:33:23I have a couple of women. I've been giving her the oral sex that she wants. And she wants me
00:33:27to be doing the same. I am not a woman.
00:33:31I have my
00:33:33Yes, I give out what I have
00:33:39When we get married, I'll make it up to you
00:33:41Okay?
00:33:42Promise
00:33:43I promise you
00:33:44You better keep this promise because I've done so much
00:33:47I'm sorry, okay?
00:33:50I'll make it up to you
00:33:54I wish it's possible for us to stay like
00:33:56Spend like one more week
00:34:00It's not possible
00:34:01I've got to start getting ready
00:34:05Okay
00:34:07I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria
00:34:10And more than half my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies
00:34:16And then I had to make up for all those lies
00:34:21And I'm finally at a happy point
00:34:22Everything is done
00:34:24I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married
00:34:27I don't want to go home
00:34:31Baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you
00:34:34Before you left
00:34:37I sent you to help us
00:34:39To find my papers
00:34:41So that means when you get back to America
00:34:43You have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America, right?
00:34:47I'm going to do that, babe
00:34:49My first step is to get back to work
00:34:50And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer
00:34:54Okay
00:34:56We are going to find out which is better
00:34:58The K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria
00:35:01Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:35:04That would be nice
00:35:05Okay, so that's what we'll do
00:35:07That's okay
00:35:10Right, babe
00:35:11You do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been
00:35:18At this point
00:35:19Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer
00:35:22Getting you to America
00:35:24Doing what we need to do
00:35:25I cannot send any more money
00:35:27I can't even spend money anymore
00:35:29I'm done
00:35:34Um, that's fine
00:35:35But you know how hard Nigeria is
00:35:38Okay
00:35:38So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance
00:35:44Thanks
00:35:47You have to try not to
00:35:48Because I have to save for us to get you to America
00:35:53Um, babe
00:35:55There's no problem about that
00:35:56I had you
00:35:59So we have a game plan now
00:36:05Alright, I have to get dressed
00:36:06You have to get dressed
00:36:07We have to get going
00:36:10She said she's not going to give me money anymore
00:36:12Fine, because
00:36:13I'm not getting married to her
00:36:15Because of the money she's giving me
00:36:16No
00:36:17I'm getting married to her
00:36:18Because
00:36:19She's the one I want to settle down with
00:36:22She has good plans for me
00:36:23She's the one processing my visa to come to America
00:36:27She's not expecting me to do it by myself
00:36:31Babes
00:36:31What?
00:36:32This is so funny
00:36:33You gonna wear it today?
00:36:35Do you know what we might say to me?
00:36:37What?
00:36:37They would say your wife is weak
00:36:40Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:36:42Oh my god
00:36:44So, um, she deserves an applause
00:36:46She deserves a good, you know, good tins
00:36:57What I want is love
00:36:59And she has been giving it to me
00:37:00I will miss her, um
00:37:02Her soft kiss
00:37:04I will miss everything about her
00:37:07Even the sky is crying, it's raining
00:37:12You're my husband
00:37:12I love you
00:37:19I knew it was gonna be hard
00:37:20I didn't know it was gonna be this hard
00:37:22Last time we were here
00:37:24I got engaged
00:37:26To you
00:37:35This trip was nothing what I expected
00:37:38I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed
00:37:40I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing
00:37:44I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people
00:37:48I didn't imagine any of this
00:37:50I didn't imagine I'd buy a f***ing goat
00:37:52I mean, none of this
00:37:54I never could have experienced without coming here
00:38:02I don't wanna go
00:38:05But I have to go
00:38:09I don't know what you're doing, William
00:38:11It'll happen soon
00:38:13When you get sad
00:38:14Look at my picture
00:38:29I love you
00:38:33It's okay
00:38:36It's okay, baby
00:38:38It's okay, baby
00:38:40I love you so much
00:38:42I love you so, so much
00:38:45We'll be together soon
00:38:48Am I yours or just passing my
00:38:52Why, baby?
00:38:56I feel that I will not see her again
00:39:00Because anything can happen
00:39:02She might go back to her country
00:39:05And she might change her mind
00:39:06On most of the promises
00:39:07Like bringing me to her country
00:39:09You know, the visa
00:39:12I am hoping she will do it
00:39:14But we are not married legally yet
00:39:17So it's very hard for me to say goodbye
00:39:21I'm gonna miss you so much
00:39:25I love you, baby
00:39:25I can't do it
00:39:26You have to walk away from me
00:39:27I can't do it
00:39:28I can't do it
00:39:47It's very hard
00:39:48I feel like I'm not gonna see him again
00:39:50Even though I know I'm going to
00:39:51I'm making these plans
00:39:53But I'm thinking
00:39:53What if they fall through?
00:39:57What if it's more than six months?
00:39:59What if it's more than a year?
00:40:00What if
00:40:00What if
00:40:02What if it's two years?
00:40:04What happens
00:40:05Between Daniel and I?
00:40:07I don't know
00:40:23This is nice
00:40:24It's a big house
00:40:25We can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:40:29I was really upset with Elise
00:40:30And how she acted at the bar the other night
00:40:32But she's trying to make it up to me
00:40:34You know, I've never used a kitchen in my house
00:40:36So the fact that I'm doing this
00:40:38Must mean I really like you
00:41:02Okay, we have everything you think?
00:41:04Yep
00:41:04Okay, to a trip
00:41:06It's just us
00:41:07Chris gets the place to himself now
00:41:10Silence is coming soon
00:41:13It's finally peaceful
00:41:15On the moon
00:41:20Blue mountains
00:41:21It's lighter
00:41:23What's this?
00:41:25Uh, it's called deodorant
00:41:27I was really upset with Elise
00:41:31And how she acted at the bar the other night
00:41:33But Elise has realised she was in the wrong
00:41:35But Elise has realised she was in the wrong
00:41:35And she's trying to make it up to me
00:41:37And she's organised a two night stay
00:41:39At the Blue Mountains
00:41:40Take me away
00:41:43The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking
00:41:45And waterfalls
00:41:45And it's a different part of nature
00:41:47Besides the beaches that Sydney has
00:41:49So I'm excited
00:41:50So I'm excited
00:41:50I've never even been
00:41:52I wouldn't say all is forgiven
00:41:54But she's trying
00:41:55And this is a good start
00:42:03And this is a good start
00:42:07Oh my god, are we here?
00:42:08We are here
00:42:11This is nice
00:42:12It's a big house
00:42:13We can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:42:16Yes we can
00:42:20I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains
00:42:23But Josh has always spoken about it
00:42:25And how much he wanted to go
00:42:27So I decided to book us a trip
00:42:29And there's hot tubs there
00:42:30So I was like
00:42:30Love that
00:42:32Look baby
00:42:33Look what I got us
00:42:35Whoa
00:42:36Oh wow
00:42:37A lot of space for a lot of activity
00:42:40You're the best
00:42:41I know
00:42:42I thought it was a great idea
00:42:44To get out of Bondi
00:42:46Away from Nat
00:42:47Away from Chris
00:42:48Away from Boat
00:42:49I just want for us to really unplug
00:42:51And just be with each other more
00:42:55Get out of the kitchen
00:42:56I was cooking for you
00:43:00You know I've never used the kitchen in my house
00:43:03So the fact that I'm doing this for you
00:43:04Must mean I really like you
00:43:05That does mean a lot
00:43:07This should be fun
00:43:13Baby
00:43:15What have you done
00:43:17Baby
00:43:17Ew
00:43:18This is not the worst
00:43:19I thought it was going to be in my mouth
00:43:21Oh no
00:43:24Baby
00:43:26I'm crying
00:43:28Ew
00:43:29Ew
00:43:29Ew
00:43:29Ew
00:43:32Oh that was a process
00:43:34Half of it went in my mouth
00:43:35My face
00:43:36My boobs
00:43:37Maybe
00:43:38Should I take it off?
00:43:41Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:43:43I don't know how to turn on the stove
00:43:45Oh
00:43:47Which pasta do you want?
00:43:49That's so embarrassing
00:43:50What packet was that in?
00:43:53I'm making you two types of pasta
00:43:55Perfect
00:43:59Nope, not ready
00:44:01Oh my god
00:44:02This feels really good
00:44:07Oh my god
00:44:12I read somewhere
00:44:13I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall
00:44:16So like if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall
00:44:19Then you know it's ready
00:44:20Yeah, but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta
00:44:25Let's throw in the pasta
00:44:28Oh my god
00:44:29There's water in here
00:44:32I think I just ruined the sauce
00:44:34Baby
00:44:36The kitchen is definitely not her element
00:44:40But I love seeing the side of Elise
00:44:41That's doing something that she's not used to doing
00:44:45I don't know what that would do
00:44:46Elise, she keeps me on my toes
00:44:49I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale
00:44:52And I know it's not going to be dull with her
00:44:54Let's see, here we go
00:44:57Is it good?
00:44:58It's actually not that bad
00:45:04It's horrible
00:45:06Be honest
00:45:07I'm not picky
00:45:08It was the most fun I've had making dinner
00:45:12I laughed my head off
00:45:13And I needed that
00:45:15Me too
00:45:16You know what's so cute about Josh
00:45:18Is like when I f*** up
00:45:19Or I do something stupid
00:45:20Or I feel really awkward
00:45:22Like he makes so light of it
00:45:23I don't know
00:45:24It's like it's the little moments like then
00:45:27That I'm like you know what
00:45:28Like I feel like he could be my forever
00:45:31But there's just one thing
00:45:33He hasn't followed through on
00:45:34And it's been constantly playing in the back of my mind
00:45:37I don't know if I can go back to Florida
00:45:41Not having met your son
00:45:43To see how you are as a father
00:45:46You would have met him already
00:45:47I would want you to
00:45:48But he's moved away
00:45:49So for now
00:45:51Like can we FaceTime?
00:45:53Will that work?
00:45:54Yeah
00:45:55I'm not trying to harp on him again
00:45:57After everything that we've went through
00:45:59But I'm leaving soon
00:46:00And I haven't met anyone in his family
00:46:02I haven't met his son
00:46:03And this is a huge part of his life
00:46:06That I'm completely missing out on
00:46:08So I really really hope that it can happen
00:46:10Before the end of my trip
00:46:13Pretty full
00:46:14Me too
00:46:15I'm looking for wedding bands
00:46:21I like classic stuff
00:46:24It is really important for me
00:46:26To have the wedding ring
00:46:29$268
00:46:30I think he's not sure
00:46:33You don't want some men that's taking me
00:46:36You know
00:46:37Still available
00:46:38Single woman
00:46:39They can have you
00:46:40Okay
00:46:42Okay
00:46:56Sure
00:46:57Why not
00:47:00We have a winner
00:47:03Yeah
00:47:03You really wanted that, don't you?
00:47:08Here we go
00:47:11Ready, boo?
00:47:24That chick knows my belly
00:47:33That was fun
00:47:35That was so fun
00:47:38Oh, look at those jobs
00:47:40That's where you can find
00:47:41Very nice wedding gowns
00:47:43And dresses
00:47:44Like, really pretty
00:47:46Nice
00:47:48Can't wait for the anniversary party
00:47:50Yeah
00:47:54Things with Jovon and I
00:47:56Are really good
00:47:57And now
00:47:58In a couple of days
00:47:59We're having our anniversary party
00:48:00Where we're going to renew our vows
00:48:05Since we never had a wedding in person
00:48:07Basically, it's just like
00:48:09A second wedding to me
00:48:11You know
00:48:14Because last time
00:48:15We didn't get to touch each other
00:48:17Face to face
00:48:18I've been dreaming about this
00:48:21And now it's happening
00:48:22And I just can't wait
00:48:25Okay, boo
00:48:28Yee
00:48:29Are you ready?
00:48:31Yeah
00:48:31I guess so
00:48:34Now that we're going to renew our vows
00:48:38Good afternoon
00:48:40We decided to look at rings
00:48:44We've been married almost three years
00:48:46And sometimes I still can't believe that Jovon hasn't put a ring on it yet
00:48:53I feel like I'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band
00:49:00Hi
00:49:00Hello
00:49:01What are you looking for?
00:49:03We're looking for wedding bands
00:49:05We have different styles
00:49:07Okay
00:49:07What are you prepared for?
00:49:09Well, I'm okay with a simple, plain wedding band
00:49:12I want it more classic
00:49:15I like classic stuff
00:49:21This one
00:49:25It is really important for me
00:49:28To have the wedding ring
00:49:29My symbol of love
00:49:31You need a ring to symbolize that?
00:49:33I assume you don't want some men mistaken
00:49:36Miss, you know, still available
00:49:38Single woman
00:49:39They can have you
00:49:40Okay
00:49:42Okay
00:49:42She's on the market
00:49:44I'll go, I'll go
00:49:45I'm playing
00:49:45You can relax
00:49:47When is your wedding?
00:49:49Well, we're actually married already
00:49:52But we don't have an official wedding rings yet
00:49:55We did our marriage online
00:49:57That's why
00:49:57You know, to be fair
00:50:01You know
00:50:02I did get you a ring
00:50:04Okay
00:50:05You send me your money
00:50:07And I bought a ring that's under $100
00:50:11That's turned my finger green
00:50:13But that's what you wanted
00:50:15I thought
00:50:15No, I thought it's just a substitute ring
00:50:19How about for sir?
00:50:21What do you think?
00:50:23When it comes to bands
00:50:24Like, I prefer
00:50:26Like
00:50:27Black like this
00:50:28Silver in the middle
00:50:29Kind of sporty
00:50:30But
00:50:30They don't sell that
00:50:32I already bought myself
00:50:36A non-expensive ring
00:50:38Before we got married
00:50:39And I like it a lot
00:50:42I'm not a jewelry person
00:50:44And I really don't want to spend money
00:50:46On something I don't need or want
00:50:50This one is good
00:50:51It's just that
00:50:53It's too
00:50:54What?
00:50:56Skinny
00:50:56Like
00:50:57Do you have something
00:50:58That's a little bit wider?
00:51:00I have different kind of design
00:51:02Okay
00:51:02This one
00:51:06This one is good
00:51:07I like this one
00:51:08More simple
00:51:10But
00:51:11Really looks like
00:51:12I'm married
00:51:13You know what I mean?
00:51:15How much is this?
00:51:17Per gram, no?
00:51:1915,510 in peso
00:51:2115,510
00:51:22How much is that?
00:51:23U.S.
00:51:23That's 268
00:51:25In dollar
00:51:26268, yeah
00:51:27Do you have anything budget?
00:51:29No, we didn't really have a budget
00:51:32But
00:51:34She's not
00:51:35She's not sure
00:51:37Aren't we going to buy this?
00:51:40What do you mean today?
00:51:42Yeah
00:51:44I can come back, Will
00:51:51You can come back?
00:51:54Yeah
00:51:56Because I got to sort out my bank stuff
00:51:58Okay
00:52:01Why would you bring me
00:52:03Ring shopping
00:52:04If we're not going to buy anything anyway
00:52:07What's the point
00:52:09Of going out?
00:52:10Just to get an idea
00:52:12Of what you want
00:52:20Thank you so much
00:52:22Bye-bye
00:52:25I feel so humiliated
00:52:27I can't even have the cheapest ring
00:52:31It's not just a jewelry
00:52:33It's a symbol of our marriage
00:52:36I waited six years
00:52:39To be together in person
00:52:41He never applied for a spousal visa
00:52:44And now
00:52:45I still don't have a ring
00:52:49Once again
00:52:50He is making me feel
00:52:52Like he's not invested
00:52:54In our relationship
00:52:57That was embarrassing
00:52:59A little bit
00:53:01You just don't care
00:53:03Don't you?
00:53:10I don't know why he insists
00:53:12That I'm in love with him
00:53:14I really don't
00:53:15I mean you did
00:53:16Jump on a plane
00:53:17And come to my rescue
00:53:20I don't think
00:53:21He's the only person
00:53:22That thinks that
00:53:25There's a lot of layers there
00:53:27And I mean
00:53:45Oh
00:53:46Hey
00:53:46Hey
00:53:47A little concern
00:53:48From that phone call
00:53:49You gave me
00:53:49Yeah
00:53:51Me too
00:54:02I'm assuming you've talked
00:54:03To Miracon
00:54:03Yeah
00:54:04I did
00:54:04It was super great
00:54:06Thanks for that
00:54:07I kind of partly blame you
00:54:10Okay
00:54:13I don't know
00:54:14He's
00:54:14You don't know
00:54:15I don't know
00:54:16What was said
00:54:17Between you and him
00:54:18I only know
00:54:19My mind in the story
00:54:20Okay
00:54:20So we have to
00:54:22Come together
00:54:22Okay
00:54:23Super curious
00:54:25What was going
00:54:26Through your head
00:54:27Telling him
00:54:28That I
00:54:29Hit on you
00:54:30Like I don't
00:54:31Understand
00:54:31How that even
00:54:33Came up
00:54:33We never did anything
00:54:35And he's pissed off
00:54:36About it
00:54:37Because I didn't
00:54:38Tell him
00:54:39Told me that
00:54:40He wishes
00:54:40He never met me
00:54:41And I kind of
00:54:43Feel like
00:54:43There was zero
00:54:44Reason for you
00:54:45To bring that up
00:54:47And I'd like to know
00:54:48Why you did
00:54:49Okay
00:54:51I brought it up
00:54:52Because Miracon
00:54:54Was under the impression
00:54:55That I
00:54:55Was in love with you
00:54:57That man
00:54:58Kept pushing
00:54:59And pushing
00:54:59And pushing
00:55:01And at some point
00:55:02I need him to understand
00:55:04That
00:55:05I said no
00:55:07To us having a relationship
00:55:09But you were the one
00:55:10That asked
00:55:10And from that
00:55:12He got very upset
00:55:12And I tried to reassure him
00:55:13It was a year ago
00:55:14It didn't
00:55:15I mean it was
00:55:16Before you met him
00:55:17I feel like
00:55:18Honestly
00:55:19It feels like
00:55:20A backhanded way
00:55:22Of trying to sabotage it
00:55:24How long have you
00:55:25Been here with him?
00:55:27How long have you
00:55:28Been here with him?
00:55:29Two and a half weeks?
00:55:30And in two and a half weeks
00:55:31You could not convince him
00:55:32That I was not a threat?
00:55:40That's not on me
00:55:41I did everything I could
00:55:42To diffuse that situation
00:55:45I don't know why
00:55:47He insists
00:55:48That I'm in love with you
00:55:50I really don't
00:55:50I mean you did
00:55:51Jump on a plane
00:55:52And come to my rescue
00:55:55I don't think
00:55:56He's the only person
00:55:57That thinks that
00:56:01There's a lot of layers there
00:56:03But
00:56:04No that's
00:56:05Not something I want to happen
00:56:07Anyhow
00:56:09We're friends
00:56:11I don't want to do more
00:56:14At the end of the day
00:56:15I want you to be happy
00:56:16All I ever heard
00:56:17Was little stories
00:56:18Here and there
00:56:19About him from you
00:56:20You said
00:56:20All these bad things
00:56:23And just
00:56:23Why does she keep
00:56:24Talking to this guy?
00:56:25So I came to meet him
00:56:26To see all the other
00:56:28Good stuff
00:56:29And
00:56:29You don't have to worry
00:56:30About him and I anymore
00:56:32You just need to make sure
00:56:33That he's the right guy
00:56:34For you
00:56:35Before you make a commitment
00:56:37I don't even know
00:56:38What to do right now
00:56:39Like there's part of me
00:56:39That just wants to like
00:56:40Go have another conversation
00:56:41With him
00:56:42But I don't even know
00:56:42What to say
00:56:43Because he just told me
00:56:44He wishes he never met me
00:56:45Okay
00:56:46But
00:56:46The opposite of love
00:56:47Is not anger
00:56:48It's apathy
00:56:48So angry means
00:56:49He still loves you
00:56:53I don't believe Michael
00:56:54When he says
00:56:55He doesn't have any
00:56:56Feelings for me at all
00:56:59Romantically
00:56:59But I think ultimately
00:57:01He does have
00:57:02My best interest in mind
00:57:03And I think he does care
00:57:04About the future
00:57:05Of my relationship
00:57:06With beer con
00:57:08Beer con is the person
00:57:10I need in my life
00:57:11And
00:57:12I want to fix this
00:57:13I just
00:57:14Don't really know
00:57:15How to go about it
00:57:17So what do I do?
00:57:18I feel like he
00:57:19Never could understand
00:57:21That I didn't feel like
00:57:22That was that big of a deal
00:57:23Do you acknowledge that
00:57:25He felt the way he did?
00:57:27It didn't matter
00:57:27Whether he was right or not
00:57:29No, I never said that
00:57:31At the end of the day
00:57:33The relationship
00:57:34Is more important
00:57:35Than the argument
00:57:38Which means
00:57:38Somebody has to say
00:57:39I'm sorry
00:57:41It's amazing
00:57:42How the words
00:57:43I'm sorry
00:57:44When said truly
00:57:45Can diffuse the situation
00:57:47Okay
00:57:48I see your point
00:57:51I guess I'll go
00:57:52Give him a call
00:57:52And see if I can
00:57:53Fix that
00:57:55Thank you
00:58:00I'll let you know
00:58:01How it goes
00:58:02Thank you
00:58:21How are you?
00:58:24I'm good
00:58:25How are you?
00:58:26I'm okay
00:58:29I was just wondering
00:58:31If we could talk
00:58:36Not today
00:58:38I'm sorry
00:58:39Did you say not today?
00:58:41Yeah
00:58:45Am I not supposed to come back
00:58:47To the apartment?
00:58:48I'm sorry
00:58:50Just give me that space
00:58:54Okay
00:58:55I guess I will
00:58:57Get a room somewhere
00:58:59Okay
00:59:00We both need
00:59:01Time
00:59:02Yeah
00:59:03And we both need
00:59:04To think about
00:59:05What's going on
00:59:06Mm-hmm
00:59:09Okay
00:59:12Okay
00:59:13Bye
00:59:15Bye
00:59:16Bye
00:59:21I don't want to force you
00:59:23But like
00:59:23Am I ever going to meet your son?
00:59:26When Elise asked to meet my son
00:59:27I can see that she really, really cares
00:59:29But honestly
00:59:30After all the fighting with Elise
00:59:32I've had my doubts
00:59:33About trying to let her in
00:59:34To the most important part of my life
00:59:42Oh my god
00:59:44Oh that's hot
00:59:45Oh that's nice
00:59:46Oh it's really hot
00:59:49That's burning
00:59:51Oh you found the champagne
00:59:52It did
00:59:54So good
00:59:55I think you should open it
01:00:00Wow
01:00:02Cheers to that
01:00:10What a perfect ending
01:00:12To
01:00:12A perfect little guy
01:00:14Good drive
01:00:16Good cooking
01:00:19It's so funny
01:00:20So funny
01:00:22Okay
01:00:22I tried
01:00:24So am I making it up to you?
01:00:26So am I doing a good job so far?
01:00:28Yeah
01:00:28Absolutely
01:00:30Well
01:00:31Have I made it up to you enough
01:00:33That like
01:00:34You can let me in your own world?
01:00:37You have
01:00:39Well
01:00:40I want to be with you
01:00:42And
01:00:42I'm scared that
01:00:44I've came literally around the world
01:00:46And all I've met
01:00:47Is like
01:00:47A few friends
01:00:49And
01:00:49I don't want to force you
01:00:50But like
01:00:52Am I ever going to meet your son?
01:00:58When Elise asks to meet my son
01:01:00Or you know
01:01:01Talk to my son
01:01:02I find that endearing
01:01:03But honestly
01:01:04The last couple of days
01:01:05After all the fighting with Elise
01:01:07I've had my doubts
01:01:08About whether I'll introduce him or not
01:01:11Obviously I'm very protective about my son
01:01:13So I want to be confident
01:01:15That this relationship is going to work
01:01:18I understand he's young
01:01:20And it's like a video call
01:01:22And it's probably like
01:01:23A lot to explain to him
01:01:25Yeah
01:01:26I do want to prove
01:01:27How much you mean to me
01:01:29But um
01:01:31That's been
01:01:31Playing on me heavily
01:01:35What's been playing on you heavily?
01:01:36Explain that
01:01:38It's just been
01:01:39A tough year
01:01:42I didn't
01:01:42I didn't move him away
01:01:43But you know
01:01:44He's been an hour and a half
01:01:45Playing ride
01:01:47And
01:01:48I don't see him as much as I want
01:01:51I still feel like he thinks
01:01:52I can get up there a lot more than I can
01:01:54So
01:01:54It's just
01:01:58A guilty feeling for me at the moment
01:02:01I miss him
01:02:03You know
01:02:04Especially when you're here
01:02:05You know
01:02:05Really?
01:02:07Well yeah
01:02:07Well cause when you're here
01:02:08I think you know
01:02:08If he was here as well
01:02:10It'd be like
01:02:10I'd love you two to get along
01:02:12And then it'd be like
01:02:13Perfect little world
01:02:18I guess it's just painful to
01:02:19To think about it
01:02:23It's okay to have feelings
01:02:24It's okay to be upset
01:02:27If you weren't emotional about your son
01:02:29And you didn't feel this way
01:02:31I would be worried
01:02:31I'd be very very worried
01:02:34That means you're a good dad
01:02:35And it means you care
01:02:41You know
01:02:41It's like
01:02:42Having a son's responsibility
01:02:43And like excitement
01:02:44And you do things with him
01:02:45And then
01:02:45When something like that
01:02:47Gets taken away from you
01:02:48You're like
01:02:49I feel like I lost myself
01:02:52Yeah I feel like
01:02:52I've sort of lost a bit of myself
01:02:56My relationship with my son
01:02:58We're really tight
01:02:59I've been there since he was born
01:03:02He's my little partner in crime
01:03:04We go camping
01:03:05We go fishing
01:03:06Surfing
01:03:07You know
01:03:07We kick footballs
01:03:08We go and play golf
01:03:09It's such a good part of my life
01:03:12So it really did hurt
01:03:14This year
01:03:15When I didn't have that
01:03:18I want to help
01:03:19Make you feel like
01:03:20You're back together
01:03:24I want to be that rock for you
01:03:27I ain't gonna do that
01:03:31Be there for you
01:03:31Support you in any way I can
01:03:33But you have to let me into your life
01:03:36I can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:03:41This is very emotional because
01:03:43Being away from my son
01:03:44Affected me
01:03:45You know
01:03:46More than I thought
01:03:47But I don't want that to hold me back
01:03:49From bringing Elise fully into my life
01:03:51I can see that she really really cares
01:03:54She's shown that she's worthy of you know
01:03:56Getting to know my son
01:03:58But at the same time
01:03:59It is scary to let her in
01:04:01The most important part of my life
01:04:03What if things don't work out
01:04:04You know
01:04:05That's going to be pretty devastating
01:04:06For all of us
01:04:08Well I'm here for you now
01:04:30I mean
01:04:32After getting her family's approval
01:04:35I just
01:04:40F*** it up
01:04:42I don't want
01:04:43They should take bro
01:04:44Sure
01:04:45Thank you so much for joining us.
01:05:35I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes, that I'm willing to have a child, but
01:05:41it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing. Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's
01:05:48family, but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo. Now Trisha and I, we can sleep
01:05:54together and, you know, take a nice warm shower together and not have to worry about the eyeballs
01:06:00on us. They were really happy. You see all of them. I thought they was going to be like,
01:06:11fireworks set off after I said, then I, after I agreed to have that baby.
01:06:17They're so sweet. I'm going to miss them.
01:06:23I'm ready to have a baby, but what if you change your mind?
01:06:32Maybe. As long as we're going and moving in the right direction, I'm all on board with having a
01:06:39baby with you because I know that it'll make you happy. I know that's what you really want.
01:06:47I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially
01:06:53ready to have another child. But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises,
01:07:01this could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family. I know how much her family means to
01:07:08her. So I feel like that I have to keep my word. I'm hoping in time that I'd be in
01:07:15a better situation
01:07:16to financially support another child. Um, yeah, I'm, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:07:26It looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh? Our future.
01:07:50Do you have to eat in the restroom or anything? No, I don't. I don't eat anything like this dog.
01:07:56Oh, I don't eat chicken.
01:08:03Well, damn. My flight's been delayed. That's it. We wait for one hour.
01:08:11Hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana.
01:08:15A couple of days in Tana before my baby.
01:08:25That's really sad story.
01:08:30It's just all the beginning.
01:08:34Oh, God.
01:08:45Let me see. Let me see. Let me see. If you don't want this one, I won't follow you.
01:08:49So let me see.
01:08:57We were waiting on our flight and it just kept getting delayed.
01:09:01The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:09:06I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:09:09Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:09:14And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:09:19It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone and she probably saw that
01:09:31my ex had texted me.
01:09:33Is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:09:37Yes.
01:09:40Some of the most beautiful times of my life has been hit you.
01:09:45So, with me, was that the beautiful time?
01:09:48Why would you tell that to her?
01:09:51A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex.
01:09:58And then she was telling me that, you know, she misses the times that we had together and I responded
01:10:06and I responded inappropriately.
01:10:13And then she was telling me that, you know, you didn't tell me if I didn't ask.
01:10:35Why?
01:10:43He told me that he's not talking to his ex.
01:10:46That it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:10:51But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:10:59Mary.
01:11:06He makes me sad.
01:11:14Like, I love him.
01:11:17We talk about the babies, the future.
01:11:40I mean, after getting her family's approval, everything just felt, it felt different than it did the whole couple weeks
01:11:49prior.
01:11:50Like, how did I come so close to getting what I wanted and then I just f***ed up?
01:12:02And I'm not sure if I'll get another chance to make things right with Trish.
01:12:06And it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter.
01:12:19Are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the United States?
01:12:25We are leaving tomorrow.
01:12:27I know my mom is not going to accept it, but I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:12:32to ensure she and I are together.
01:12:34I have decided I'm going to stay here in the Philippines.
01:12:39This is our choice.
01:12:40What the f***?
01:12:41You just came out of your mouth?
01:13:01Man, I'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today.
01:13:04I know he feels relaxed when mama's sitting around in her bed and sorrow.
01:13:20So when I talked to Forrest, he's like, oh, surprise mom, I went and met with a lawyer.
01:13:26And the lawyer says he has to have like a certain amount of income, something like that.
01:13:31He didn't do anything right at all.
01:13:35I'm upset right now.
01:13:37Forrest is coming back.
01:13:38And for the last few days, Dev and I haven't heard anything from Forrest or Sheena.
01:13:43And we've just felt like we've kind of been left in the dark.
01:13:47You know, I don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation.
01:13:55I don't know what the conversation is going to be.
01:14:01Hey, we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all.
01:14:17Hey, mom.
01:14:20How's things going?
01:14:22It's going pretty good.
01:14:23How are you guys?
01:14:27Well, I think we need to have a talk.
01:14:30Yeah.
01:14:31I think we need to figure things out a little bit.
01:14:34Yeah.
01:14:35That's kind of why we're here.
01:14:39Today is supposed to be my last day in the Philippines, but Sheena and I have made the decision for
01:14:45me to stay here and basically start a life here with her.
01:14:50You ready?
01:14:51Yeah, we're going to go.
01:14:52Go, let's go.
01:14:52All right, guys.
01:14:53I know that my mom is not going to accept it, but she has to understand that I'm not the
01:15:00child that, you know, she's seen all these years.
01:15:03I have changed a lot.
01:15:05This is a trip, and I'm ready to do what I need to do to ensure Sheena and I are
01:15:09together.
01:15:09Oh, my God.
01:15:17Wow.
01:15:18Look at that.
01:15:19They lose to any ethnic race.
01:15:23Look at that.
01:15:28She came from originally from a punishment during the Spanish era that people would have to put their feet and
01:15:35they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet.
01:15:38It's just that it tells a whole story.
01:15:40It's just a damn.
01:15:41I agree.
01:15:41Oh, my goodness.
01:15:43Oh, look at that.
01:15:44Yay.
01:15:45Oh, thank you.
01:15:47Oh, that's beautiful.
01:15:49Good job, guys.
01:15:50That's awesome.
01:15:51Well, you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo, but you have to be
01:15:57in a rhythm with your partner, too, at the same time.
01:16:00Kind of like life.
01:16:02Well, I think Sheena and I were worth moving in perfect rhythm.
01:16:09Yeah, definitely.
01:16:15So, Sheena, do we get menus, or how does it work?
01:16:19I think there's a set menu that's going to be prepared, so you can try, guys.
01:16:25Thank you so much.
01:16:34So, where you guys went, just fill me in what happened and give me all the details.
01:16:41Um, yeah, I feel like me and Sheena, we really bonded in more ways than one.
01:16:57You had sex, didn't you?
01:17:02You know what?
01:17:03Yeah, we did.
01:17:06Now time.
01:17:08I enjoyed it.
01:17:09It was fun.
01:17:10Yeah.
01:17:13You guys think that you have a good physical connection with each other?
01:17:20Yeah.
01:17:22I feel like our souls have really connected, and now we can really understand each other.
01:17:31I'm happy that, you know, my son finally lost his virginity.
01:17:35Finally, you know.
01:17:37Lookie, lookie, lookie.
01:17:38Bang, bang, bang, bang.
01:17:41And also, too, that's an important aspect, to know if they have compatibility on all aspects, including sexuality.
01:17:51Well, that's good.
01:17:52Well, that's good.
01:17:52I'm glad you guys are both de-virginized, finally.
01:17:55That's...
01:17:56Yeah, Mom.
01:18:00Well, I know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that Forrest has to leave you
01:18:06tomorrow.
01:18:07But it must be very painful, but are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get
01:18:18you over to the United States?
01:18:22But did you guys talk to me?
01:18:23Did you guys talk, make any plans?
01:18:26Because this is, we are leaving tomorrow.
01:18:32Yeah, we talked a lot yesterday with the K-1 visa.
01:18:37I found out that being on disability, I don't make enough money.
01:18:44So, she and I have decided that I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:18:53Forrest?
01:18:54I'm tired of being alone.
01:18:56Oh, my God.
01:18:57I did not expect to be staying here long term.
01:19:01Oh, you didn't expect to...
01:19:03Paul.
01:19:04I want my love with me in my second half.
01:19:07This is our choice.
01:19:09What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:19:12Mom.
01:19:13Where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out?
01:19:16Was that in between the...
01:19:18Excuse me?
01:19:20You can say one thing you only want to say, but for me, I have him.
01:19:23He had me.
01:19:24I don't care if you're here for my son.
01:19:25I'm doing my best for my part for your son because I love your son and I've worked everything for
01:19:30heart for him.
01:19:30For our future.
01:19:31I want you to trust your son for once in a while.
01:19:38I trust my son.
01:19:40I don't trust you.
01:19:46Sorry, I just want to need space.
01:19:48I'm sorry.
01:19:50I'm sorry.
01:19:51Excuse me.
01:19:58Next time on Before the Nani Dies.
01:20:00When do you plan on applying for the fiancé visa so I can live in movies?
01:20:05I thought you were going to apply for me in the U.S.
01:20:10No.
01:20:12Stig never mentioned wanting to move to the U.S.
01:20:15It's two hours before I'm leaving.
01:20:17It's just really weird timing.
01:20:19You won't be able to make any money.
01:20:21I swear you're going to be my sugar mama.
01:20:24I wish we could have talked it out last night.
01:20:27You've been texting William this morning?
01:20:28What has he been saying?
01:20:29I asked him if we could talk and he said sure.
01:20:34I want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how I ever felt about
01:20:40Michael.
01:20:41Why did you mislead me while Michael made the move?
01:20:44I was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him.
01:20:51Can you do that?
01:20:55Are you excited about today?
01:20:57I think I should ask you that question though.
01:21:01I just don't know what I'm going to say for my vows.
01:21:03It's just going to be like the basics.
01:21:06I just wanted today to be full of love.
01:21:11But it just feels like any other day for him.
01:21:15I don't know.
01:21:17You can't pretend that everything is fine.
01:21:22I love your son and I'll do anything my best for him.
01:21:25Love doesn't pay the bills, Gina.
01:21:27You know, I'm like in panic mode that he's going to move to the Philippines.
01:21:32It's not going to work.
01:21:33It won't work.
01:21:34How much do you think that you're going to make working here?
01:21:38Where are you going to live for us?
01:21:40Have you even factored how much it's going to cost?
01:21:43I don't know what to do.
01:21:47All the messages and the texts.
01:21:49Why did you betray me?
01:21:52Why don't you block her?
01:21:54If you want this relationship, tell her that you don't want her anymore.
01:21:59That I'm with you.
01:22:01I love Trish.
01:22:03But love isn't so black and white.
01:22:07I need to be honest about my feelings.
01:22:10I don't know what to do.
01:22:14Oh my God.
01:22:16Stunning.
01:22:16I don't think Elise realized, you know, what she'd signed up for.
01:22:20Mom!
01:22:21Stop talking.
01:22:22I'm so involved in there.
01:22:24Come on, baby.
01:22:26What do I do?
01:22:28Yeah, first, I'm just thinking she's being a drama queen.
01:22:32And I start to think, oh, is she okay?
01:22:35Help me now!
01:22:38Help me now!
01:22:40Help me now!
01:22:40Help me now!
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