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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 16
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:09Them pregnancy treatments.
00:00:11Even though we started using protection since we left San Pedro,
00:00:15we had plenty of sex without a condom the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:21I think we should.
00:00:27The annual income for petitioners for K-1 visa is $26,500 USD.
00:00:34And, you know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for me to stay here.
00:00:41Got the Filipino visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:01:09Where is the honesty?
00:01:10Up to 20-something years with your fellow woman.
00:01:14This is an abomination.
00:01:18Is there a way we can solve this?
00:01:24I got maybe a go and seek advice from the elders and chief priests.
00:01:30Challenge yourself.
00:01:34You got that final warning at work and Nat's helping you out.
00:01:39These question marks make me feel like it's super unstable.
00:01:42I'm just sick of the peppering and peppering, peppering.
00:01:44You're flogging the same horse, like...
00:01:45Because when I get a f***ing warning like that when you send me...
00:01:49It happened, but now I still have a job.
00:01:51Okay, but it makes me worried that you could be using me.
00:01:55If you think that, then I would not expect anything less than you wanting to go.
00:02:00So, please, please let me know.
00:02:09Are you kidding me?
00:02:11He said he has a f***ing fiancé.
00:02:16Kyle Jersey had dumped me and leave me alone in the desert.
00:02:20Mohammed standing me up.
00:02:21Like, I'm just so over it.
00:02:23F*** this ring!
00:02:24And f*** everything that it represented!
00:02:27And I will find love somewhere else.
00:02:30Ah!
00:02:56Swear my love, I'm just feeling hangry, hangry bear.
00:03:00When I'm hangry, I'm moody.
00:03:03Let me see that.
00:03:04Want some nuts?
00:03:07This one nut.
00:03:10I feel like a chipmunk.
00:03:12Yep, I'm a chipmunk Shane.
00:03:22I just want to stay here like this.
00:03:26Yesterday, Sheena and I met up with an immigration attorney, and we learned some disappointing news.
00:03:31Turns out, I don't make the necessary income to bring Sheena over on a K-1 visa.
00:03:36And that could take years to build up.
00:03:39So, the only option for us to be together right now really is for me to stay here so I
00:03:44can get my Filipino visa instead.
00:03:48But I'm not sure I'm ready to just pick up and move to another country.
00:03:55Sheena, we have some real big decisions we have to make.
00:03:59But I'm looking forward to tonight, and I really just want to put that down for tomorrow.
00:04:06I understand my love.
00:04:09I can't wait to, you know, visit the beaches.
00:04:12At least no one's going to disturb us.
00:04:17I'm bringing forth to Batangas, the province along the south area.
00:04:21It's quite popular for beautiful sandy beaches.
00:04:25Since talking to the immigration lawyer, it causes a lot of emotional stress.
00:04:30I'm hoping that some alone time will be relaxing, and that it will give me the opportunity to get him
00:04:37to really consider living here with me.
00:04:43Also looking outside here, nice and peaceful here.
00:04:47One thing I don't like about the beaches, the jellyfish.
00:04:51Well, let's hope that we don't get stoned by jellyfish.
00:04:53But, turns out, I did bring the jelly.
00:04:57Maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight.
00:05:01Oh, that would be great.
00:05:05I'm going to have to ask you if mom approves about this.
00:05:11Mom's going to be there watching and cheering the entire time.
00:05:15You're craving me now.
00:05:18All right, I think this is it.
00:05:21Nice.
00:05:21It's a very tight fit.
00:05:24Oh, that's tight fit?
00:05:26Oh, my gosh.
00:05:29Sheena and I talked about it, and now, not having anybody to kind of hold us back,
00:05:36I think now is the perfect time to kind of let our sexual tensions go.
00:05:41Lead away, honey.
00:05:42Yeah.
00:05:45Oh, look, there's a hammock, honey.
00:05:47Wow, this is such a beautiful place.
00:05:50Oh.
00:05:51Oh, wow.
00:05:53Wow.
00:05:55Did you prepare this?
00:05:57I mean, this is so sweet.
00:05:58I did.
00:06:00To be honest, I am quite nervous to lose my virginity, and I'm quite excited as well.
00:06:06I was like, oh, wow.
00:06:09Hey, baby.
00:06:11Boom.
00:06:13I'm quite happy because I wanted to give this to the person who had loved me for the longest
00:06:20years, and I think Forrest deserved that kind of love more than anyone else.
00:06:29Oh, wait.
00:06:29You know what?
00:06:30I had to freshen myself up and get some sexy lingerie.
00:06:35Mm, okay.
00:06:37It's Z, Darno.
00:06:39I don't know what you want to do.
00:06:42When I was younger, I always thought, you know, my first time would be great and extravagant
00:06:47and amazing, and I got older, and it wasn't happening.
00:06:52I did worry that that's just one of those life experiences that other people just get
00:06:57to have, but not me.
00:07:00So going into this love nest that I have made for Sheena and I, I am extremely nervous on
00:07:08what to do or how to do things, but I have no doubts that I'm doing it with the right
00:07:14person.
00:07:27You're looking so sexy.
00:07:29You love my hair.
00:07:30What do you think about me?
00:07:31Oh, yeah.
00:07:31You look so handsome.
00:07:32I got it all ready for you.
00:07:34You're so making me love her.
00:07:39I'm finally getting to be with the woman of my dreams, the vixen of the internet.
00:07:48I'm glad that I'm getting to give you my virginity, and I wouldn't want to give it to anybody else
00:07:54but you.
00:07:55You're going to have to help me get this on, by the way.
00:07:57Oh, really?
00:07:58Oh, my God.
00:08:00Oh, there it is.
00:08:00Oh, what?
00:08:03You're ready to go, honey?
00:08:05Ready.
00:08:05Oh, yeah?
00:08:08Well, wait.
00:08:13You're going to have to keep me waiting.
00:08:15Here I come, baby.
00:08:17Oh, you're super macho.
00:08:23Are you the sweetest honey, do you all right?
00:08:26Yes.
00:08:28Oh, my God.
00:08:44I love your dress.
00:08:46Are you a princess?
00:08:47I wish I was a princess.
00:08:48You're so sweet.
00:08:49That's beautiful.
00:08:57kind of lost my appetite i'm really nervous it's not something i would do every day
00:09:05in my world so
00:09:10yeah it's it's it's scary
00:09:17you're a cancer
00:09:30is this where we're going um this this is a big market
00:09:42okay we'll get our goat last night daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders and he talked to
00:09:50the chief priest and the chief priest says we have to do a cleansing but first i have to buy
00:09:55a goat
00:09:56two yams and bring money we are going to the makoko market to get the items and then we'll go
00:10:06to see
00:10:07the chief priest and his shrine and that's where the ceremony will take place you're overly dressed
00:10:15this whole thing is crazy but i i'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with daniel
00:10:22what are they washing what is that this is what i put in this soup
00:10:34my shoes are going to be a mess my feet are going to be a mess
00:10:39oh god this place is so crowded baby how are we going to find goats
00:10:45the uncle has said in the olden days they slaughtered the goat now they don't do that anymore
00:10:48so now what it's done it must be a female goat because i'm female but the goat gives milk so
00:10:54he
00:10:54will feed the tribe with the goat milk but what are the yams for the two yams is what it's
00:11:01what the
00:11:01um ancestors demanded we don't know why
00:11:08this is what we're looking for they're huge these are the biggest yams i've ever seen in my home
00:11:13i've never seen it before no we have big yams in nigeria here
00:11:18this one is big as me right
00:11:22yeah
00:11:24i think this is the biggest this one we need how much is this
00:11:36but baby we need it for the cleansing negotiate we're giving ten thousand
00:11:41this two yes okay how much ten thousand ten thousand yes so you're giving him full price you're not
00:11:49negotiating you need to negotiate better once we get to the goats daniel is spending my money like
00:11:56it's water he spent ten thousand on two yams and i still have to buy a goat i feel like
00:12:02we were
00:12:02ripped off i don't think daniel's a good negotiator
00:12:07is this where we buy goats yeah yes which ones are females and which ones are males
00:12:13this is female this is female this one is female
00:12:19is she gonna be good enough to cleanse me though
00:12:23what's the price
00:12:26what 200,000 for a goat no
00:12:30a lot less than that
00:12:34how low would you go
00:12:36how low would you go i'm not paying 200 for her
00:12:38i'm not baby hold on no you're letting me how much not 200 no
00:12:43okay give me 100
00:12:43a hundred
00:12:44yeah we are not paying hold on oh god we are not paying 100
00:12:47we are paying 70,000 nila please
00:12:53oh my god we just bought a freaking goat
00:12:57i have enough money for this but we still have to pay the priest
00:13:04more goat
00:13:07are you sure this is the right way
00:13:09oh god
00:13:14everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing
00:13:18he can say that i can't be cleansed
00:13:21and that will be the end of everything
00:13:23i will lose daniel forever
00:13:33where are you taking me baby just to be careful
00:13:36i am
00:13:38this one right here
00:13:39yes
00:13:40oh my god
00:13:42oh my god
00:13:47hold on
00:13:48he's yelling at me daniel
00:13:50where your shoe is
00:13:52i will hold on
00:14:09i have to be dreaming this can't be real
00:14:13damn bitch i want to run
00:14:26i'm about to take this pregnancy test
00:14:29wait should we get it over with
00:14:31aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant
00:14:34but if she's not i'd be a little relief
00:14:37okay
00:14:41babe
00:14:41oh my god
00:15:06things are still like tense between josh and i
00:15:09he came back to the apartment
00:15:10but he's barely speaking to me
00:15:13and after talking to my parents
00:15:15i am just so confused
00:15:18my parents think that i'm judging josh too harshly
00:15:21and like i don't know i am the queen at self-sabotaging
00:15:24but i'm just trying to protect myself and my family
00:15:27and it sucks because my heart wants one thing
00:15:30my mind's telling me another right now
00:15:32and um it's scary
00:15:46you're all right
00:15:48yeah
00:15:50are you
00:15:52yeah
00:15:54i'm gonna get out of the apartment
00:15:56okay
00:16:01i'm still feeling hurt by elise
00:16:03i'm starting to have a little bit of doubt creeping
00:16:07i know i've fallen for her
00:16:08but i don't want to be in a relationship where i have to explain myself 400 times
00:16:12if she thinks that i'm using that then i could use her
00:16:15and that's not the case
00:16:16and i would never want to use someone
00:16:20it feels like she's attacking my integrity
00:16:25so like
00:16:29last night sucked
00:16:31and i know you've got these worries right
00:16:33but like
00:16:34i don't want you to think that you know i would use you
00:16:37you know or i'd be like your past relationships
00:16:40i'd take advantage of you
00:16:42but that's what angered me
00:16:44you know
00:16:45it's the last thing i want to do
00:16:47okay
00:16:48i just i really like you
00:16:51you know i feel
00:16:52when you sort of say
00:16:53you know that i'm
00:16:54i'm dependent on other people
00:16:56and i might be dependent on you
00:16:58you know and that
00:16:58you know she gave me a place to live
00:17:00that's her
00:17:03that's weird
00:17:03it's not weird
00:17:04it's weird
00:17:06you know you've said it
00:17:07you've made your point
00:17:09i have nothing to hide with her
00:17:11have you
00:17:11let me ask you a question
00:17:12have you given me a reason
00:17:14for me to trust you
00:17:15do you not trust me
00:17:17not right now no
00:17:19i want to
00:17:19i do
00:17:20but let me earn that trust
00:17:21by showing you that you know
00:17:23i can look out for myself
00:17:24i can depend for myself
00:17:25i can be a partner for you
00:17:27without having to lean on
00:17:28you know friends or
00:17:29you know
00:17:31please i'm telling you right now
00:17:32please
00:17:34if you can't let me prove it to you
00:17:35then you just don't trust me
00:17:37and it's not gonna work
00:17:48i am sorry
00:17:49i do sometimes poke and prod
00:17:52yep
00:17:52that's just a character defect
00:17:53i just don't want this to be words
00:17:57like words are great to me
00:17:59and that's that's that's made me settle
00:18:01in my entire life with every relationship
00:18:03i fell for words
00:18:04and like i don't want to fall back into that
00:18:06like i've been engaged three times
00:18:07like i'm 32
00:18:08i want to get married
00:18:09and i want to have kids
00:18:10and it scares me
00:18:12because i do like you
00:18:15and i didn't expect to like you so much so soon
00:18:19it's good to hear
00:18:20because i didn't plan on like
00:18:22falling for you as hard as i've fallen for you so quickly
00:18:26i don't want you to feel like you've um
00:18:28you know you've settled and i've
00:18:29i've roped you in
00:18:31i've made you fall in love
00:18:32and then i'm some you know
00:18:33i'm useless
00:18:35you know i wouldn't let you
00:18:37feel like you've made the wrong decision
00:18:39i won't
00:18:43like i'm
00:18:43i'm crazy about you
00:18:45to be honest
00:18:48i'm glad that elise is having a little more faith in me
00:18:52the relationship needs to be built on mutual respect
00:18:54and not this sort of toxic takedown mentality
00:18:57that i can see that she's doing
00:18:59i'm hoping that things get better
00:19:01and we just keep building
00:19:02because i do see a future with elise
00:19:03so i think we get that out of the way
00:19:07and then we can just get stronger and stronger
00:19:11well you know what
00:19:13isn't it really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off
00:19:15i don't think it's a bit windier
00:19:17i'll go wherever you are
00:19:20follow you this far
00:19:23i'll go wherever you are
00:19:26follow you this far
00:19:42moment of truth
00:19:43moment of truth
00:19:47how are you feeling babe
00:19:49i'm freaking out
00:19:53i am too actually
00:20:01all right
00:20:02should we get it over with
00:20:04i'm gonna go in there alone
00:20:07why
00:20:08because i just want to do it on my own
00:20:11how long does it take
00:20:13i don't know
00:20:13it's in spanish
00:20:14oh my
00:20:18it just feels so surreal
00:20:19thinking about how far
00:20:21stick and i have come over the past few weeks
00:20:23come on let me get a little bit of a kiss
00:20:27a few days ago
00:20:28i was convinced we were breaking up
00:20:30now i'm taking a pregnancy test
00:20:32so much has happened
00:20:34but i'm leaving in less than two days
00:20:36and i have a lot of mixed emotions
00:20:38i would love to find out that i'm pregnant and get this incredible news but
00:20:44leaving stick is gonna be really difficult
00:20:48after this
00:20:49i might be no drinking no partying none of that
00:20:52for you too
00:20:53no no no no
00:20:54hmm
00:20:56if it's positive i gotta celebrate later on
00:21:01i would be excited about all this
00:21:03we would make like beautiful kids
00:21:06and i would love to have a son
00:21:08and by the grace of god
00:21:10he just like he wants to sing
00:21:13i'm not saying he has to be an artist
00:21:15because that's you know what i did
00:21:16nothing like that
00:21:18i'm scared
00:21:21all right
00:21:22do your thing
00:21:23okay
00:21:25i just like boys because i know they're like
00:21:27mama's boys and they
00:21:30it's gonna be daddy's boy
00:21:31what are you talking about
00:21:32no no the girls i always favor the dad
00:21:34that's what i've heard
00:21:35boys always favor the mom
00:21:36that's what i've seen it
00:21:36not to sound bad but i don't want the sims of my past
00:21:39to fall on me so i'm scared to have a daughter
00:21:42i don't want to have to kill anybody
00:21:45whatever
00:21:46it gives me baby fever
00:21:57i really want to know now before i leave
00:21:59i don't want to find out when i'm back in arizona without him
00:22:02because that would suck for him and me
00:22:09even though we only had unprotected sex for
00:22:13i don't know
00:22:14four to five days
00:22:16i still just feel like
00:22:18i might be pregnant
00:22:20i just have that feeling
00:22:25babe
00:22:27how's it going are you done
00:22:28not yet
00:22:33here goes nothing
00:22:36moment of truth
00:22:54bruh my palms are sweaty
00:22:58i can tell that she's really hoping that she's pregnant
00:23:00if she is
00:23:01i'm gonna be right by her side
00:23:03but
00:23:05honestly
00:23:05if she's not pregnant
00:23:07i'd be a little relief
00:23:10babe
00:23:11oh my god
00:23:16okay
00:23:19una y cinco minutos
00:23:21so you gotta wait one to five minutes
00:23:24right now
00:23:25i don't think we're ready
00:23:27so
00:23:28it's a little scary
00:23:30if there's one line it's negative
00:23:31two
00:23:32it's positive
00:23:36well
00:23:44i feel like so much has happened in the last couple days
00:23:47i think this has shown me
00:23:48i just want something different
00:23:50i'll just be a few minutes
00:23:53before i leave morocco
00:23:55there's just one last thing that i need to take care of
00:24:20i have a lot of stuff
00:24:23i have a lot of stuff
00:24:27Thank you so much.
00:24:45Yesterday was another emotional day for me.
00:24:48I got stood up by Mohammed.
00:24:52I am single.
00:24:53I have no reason to be in Morocco anymore.
00:24:55And I'm ready to go home.
00:24:59I just know that this wasn't meant for me.
00:25:04I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:25:07And I think the best thing to do in this moment
00:25:10is to just get back home as soon as possible.
00:25:14So I am flying back to the U.S. today.
00:25:20Last night, when I got back to my hotel,
00:25:23I received a text from Mohammed.
00:25:27And he said,
00:25:29Are you serious?
00:25:30You came to Morocco for someone else, not for me.
00:25:33I'm not your plan B.
00:25:36I think this was his plan all along.
00:25:38To bail on me and humiliate me one last time.
00:25:43He knew I came here for someone else,
00:25:45and he was really mad about it.
00:25:47So he just had me running around Morocco
00:25:50and jumping through hoops for him
00:25:52like I always used to do in the past.
00:25:54And I fell for it.
00:25:57I feel kind of dumb getting ditched by Mohammed.
00:26:01But at least now, I don't have to wonder
00:26:03about any more what-ifs.
00:26:05That door is closed forever.
00:26:13I'll just be a few minutes.
00:26:16But before I leave Morocco,
00:26:19there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:26:34Hi.
00:26:38I really want to leave Morocco in peace
00:26:40after both of these failed relationships.
00:26:43So when I changed my flight,
00:26:46I decided to let Ziad know.
00:26:48And he actually agreed to meet me to say goodbye.
00:26:56Good morning.
00:26:58How are you?
00:27:00Okay, how are you?
00:27:02Fine.
00:27:04I mean, this day you're going to travel to your country.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:10So I wish you a good word.
00:27:14And that's all what I have to say, so...
00:27:17You don't want to say sorry for anything?
00:27:19Me?
00:27:20Mm-hmm.
00:27:21It's me who shall say sorry.
00:27:23I mean, I think we both have things to apologize for.
00:27:27Come on.
00:27:28What do you want to find out?
00:27:32I'm hurt with what happened.
00:27:35I came here because I loved you
00:27:37and because I wanted to be with you.
00:27:41Did you ever love me?
00:27:44Before you come here, I was in love with you, really, yeah.
00:27:47But when you come here,
00:27:48we see each other in the reality how we are.
00:27:51Everything about us, it's not work.
00:27:56I'm really sorry.
00:27:59It's fine.
00:28:01Yeah.
00:28:04Okay.
00:28:05Well, thanks for everything.
00:28:06Thanks for you, too.
00:28:09So, yeah.
00:28:11That's all.
00:28:14Okay.
00:28:19Bye.
00:28:21Goodbye.
00:28:23I tried to ride on love again
00:28:25But it took me down a dead end street
00:28:29I thought I struck the gold mine
00:28:31I can't turn back the clock, rewind
00:28:35Because it's too late
00:28:37You know it's too late
00:28:38Shame about the love we left behind
00:28:42Because we were so great
00:28:43And we were so great
00:28:45Talking to him didn't make me feel better
00:28:47It's almost like it doesn't matter to him
00:28:50I was just expecting him to care a little bit more
00:28:53Too late
00:28:56This has definitely been a learning experience
00:28:59I think this has shown me
00:29:00and taught me what I don't want
00:29:02in a relationship
00:29:09Thank you so much
00:29:15Thank you
00:29:16Have a nice night
00:29:18Thank you
00:29:18Thank you very much
00:29:19Hello
00:29:23I want to go home
00:29:24and focus on becoming the best version of me
00:29:31How many bags?
00:29:32Three
00:29:33A lot of makeup
00:29:34Here you go
00:29:35Thank you so much
00:29:39But
00:29:41I'm not giving up on my search for love
00:29:42I'm a hopeless romantic
00:29:44I love love
00:29:46And
00:29:47no matter how many times
00:29:48people have left me or dumped me
00:29:50that's never going to stop me
00:29:52that's never going to stop me
00:29:52I know true love is real
00:29:54And I know somewhere in the world
00:29:57my person does exist
00:29:59who's happy to be with me
00:30:03And I know that I'm going to find it
00:30:06I know I'm going to find it
00:30:08And
00:30:10I'm not going to stop until I do find it
00:30:13because I know it's out there
00:30:17And
00:30:17this isn't the end of my journey
00:30:20And you never know
00:30:21It could happen tomorrow
00:30:25Or on the plane
00:30:30Morocco, it's been real
00:30:31A lot of ups and downs
00:30:33But
00:30:34I'm ready to go home
00:30:37I'm ready
00:30:38So
00:30:39Goodbye, Morocco
00:30:46This is the water
00:30:48Let's do this
00:30:50I'm making a real effort here
00:30:52to fit in
00:30:56You never had a washing machine?
00:30:59You remember you called me boozy
00:31:01I'm not boozy
00:31:02I think I gotta take that back
00:31:06My wife to be
00:31:07I'm a fair with half a little woman
00:31:13Woman
00:31:14Is it true what your husband said?
00:31:17Yes
00:31:18This is totally sacrilege
00:31:21The dancing is over
00:31:47I love the door
00:31:50I love the door
00:31:54Yes
00:31:54That's it
00:31:56I can do some squats with this
00:31:58Yeah
00:32:08Oh
00:32:09What's up
00:32:10Okay
00:32:11All right
00:32:14It's my second day
00:32:17With Trisha's family
00:32:19And I've been trying to make myself useful today,
00:32:23helping around the house.
00:32:25This is the water.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:29All right.
00:32:30Let's see.
00:32:30Let's do this.
00:32:33How often do you do this?
00:32:35Every day or?
00:32:36Yeah.
00:32:36Macaron and shanandri every day.
00:32:38You watch every day, huh?
00:32:39Ah, you cook every day.
00:32:41Oh, cook every day?
00:32:42Yeah.
00:32:43You got to get the water for laundry, for cooking everything.
00:32:47Ah.
00:32:48I'm making a real effort here to fit in,
00:32:51to, you know, do some of the chores that they do.
00:32:55Here's my shoulder.
00:32:56Oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:32:59What up, Mura?
00:33:02Slut.
00:33:02Man.
00:33:04Hey, babe.
00:33:06Check out your man, baby.
00:33:10You good?
00:33:11Put it in there.
00:33:13Bring the water here.
00:33:14Okay.
00:33:15Thank you for showing me where the water was.
00:33:18Let me show Chetty.
00:33:19Show her.
00:33:24That's it.
00:33:26Yeah, this is not my soap here.
00:33:28Yeah.
00:33:29You have to.
00:33:33It's going to take forever.
00:33:36I think this is easier.
00:33:40I've never washed my clothes to the machine.
00:33:43Babe, are you serious?
00:33:44You never had a washing machine?
00:33:46We never had one.
00:33:48You even do this in Tana, huh?
00:33:50Yeah, even in Tana.
00:33:51I'm doing this.
00:33:55Remember you called me boozy?
00:33:57I'm not boozy.
00:33:58Babe, I think I got to take that back now.
00:34:01I know you be doing this s***.
00:34:05Man.
00:34:09So how was with my dad?
00:34:11Did you understand each other?
00:34:13Oh, yeah.
00:34:14But we didn't talk about anything serious.
00:34:18He didn't talk about babies?
00:34:21I don't know.
00:34:22Nah, I thought it was best just to leave that subject alone for now.
00:34:29He's not going to leave the subject alone.
00:34:32He's really, really worried about the baby more than I thought.
00:34:41So you should not take a long time.
00:34:46He wants that you should decide it before we go.
00:34:53What do you think your dad will do if I don't come up with an answer about it in the
00:34:59next couple days?
00:35:03I don't know, Rick.
00:35:05But it's not just my dad.
00:35:07To me, having a baby means a lot.
00:35:13I want the mother-child relationship that I didn't get to have.
00:35:17You know, my mom, she left for another person.
00:35:29When I was one years old, my parents break up and my mom found another man.
00:35:40In my culture, when two people broke up and they have a child together and the girl decided to marry
00:35:55it with another man,
00:35:56she cannot touch the baby, she cannot see the baby, unless her husband buys animals and she has to cut
00:36:08the throat,
00:36:10the blood, they put it here on the babies.
00:36:14My mom didn't do it after she left us because her husband didn't accept for doing it.
00:36:24So she left me with my dad.
00:36:29She just followed the guy.
00:36:33She didn't care.
00:36:40Wash your clothes.
00:36:44I know.
00:36:48I'm not used to talk about my mom because she makes me a little bit upset.
00:36:54Like, how she could not love a baby?
00:36:59It's cute, though.
00:37:02She left.
00:37:03I was just one years old.
00:37:05I know you're precious.
00:37:10You had a daddy that loves you more than...
00:37:15That's why I want...
00:37:16I want to make them happy.
00:37:19They want a grandchild.
00:37:23I think that Trisha's trying to fill a void.
00:37:26I want her to heal and have the life that she's envisioning.
00:37:31She deserves to be a mom, and I don't ever want to take that away from her.
00:37:37But at the same time, I'm not even financially prepared right now to have another child.
00:37:45My worst fear is to lose Trish.
00:37:48And it hurts me to think that I might have to let her go.
00:38:04Hi!
00:38:05You look sexy driving that boat!
00:38:08Today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:38:12But he got a final warning because he took out a boat for a joyride and crashed it.
00:38:17I have so many questions.
00:38:18This whole boat thing is just super confusing to me.
00:38:21Squared away, so you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:38:25Joshua.
00:38:25It was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:38:28How did you pay for that?
00:38:51You look like a serial killer.
00:39:18I feel so much better.
00:39:20I could finish shaving now.
00:39:21I sprayed.
00:39:22Don't worry.
00:39:23It doesn't smell.
00:39:24Yeah.
00:39:25Yeah.
00:39:26I like Chris.
00:39:27I do.
00:39:28He's a great roommate, really fun.
00:39:30And he's like a brother.
00:39:33That's hot.
00:39:34Whatever.
00:39:36But I'm not dating Chris.
00:39:38I'm dating Josh.
00:39:39Woo!
00:39:40And things have been a little rocky with Josh and I the past few days.
00:39:45Hopefully this red light mask did wonders.
00:39:47I need to get cute to go on this boat.
00:39:50We had an intense conversation at the beach the other day.
00:39:52But ever since then, things are starting to move in a better direction.
00:39:57And today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:40:01You'll have a fun day out there.
00:40:02It'll be awesome.
00:40:03It's a fun job.
00:40:04Well, I know it's fun.
00:40:05A little too much fun.
00:40:08Please focus on the positives for today.
00:40:10Let's have a positive day.
00:40:11Period.
00:40:11I like that.
00:40:12I'll give you a report card tonight.
00:40:14Okay.
00:40:15I get along well with Elise.
00:40:16I like Elise.
00:40:17But she's definitely looking for problems.
00:40:19Since she's been here, I've seen them go up and down very quick and very fast.
00:40:23Almost like a perfect little toxic relationship.
00:40:26So, short term, I think it's going to be fine.
00:40:29But long term, I don't know.
00:40:31I don't know.
00:40:44Have a good day.
00:40:51Hi.
00:40:53Does...
00:40:54Do you guys know if Josh is here?
00:40:56He's not here right now, no.
00:40:58But he's on his way.
00:40:58He works here, right?
00:40:59Yeah, he does.
00:40:59Yeah.
00:40:59Okay.
00:41:00Yeah, that's it.
00:41:00That's actually his desk.
00:41:01This one?
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03Should I sit at his desk?
00:41:04Yeah, go for it.
00:41:04Go for it.
00:41:05That's his desk.
00:41:06That is where the magic happens.
00:41:08Hi, I'm Joshua.
00:41:11You just go down here.
00:41:12Turn right.
00:41:13Straight down to the right.
00:41:14Yep.
00:41:24Hi!
00:41:24You look sexy driving that boat.
00:41:29Hi.
00:41:34Hello.
00:41:37I know Alyssa's been a bit worried about my position at work because of some of the mistakes
00:41:41I made.
00:41:42Of course, the main part of my job is selling boats.
00:41:45But I wanted to see with her own eyes that I've still got a job.
00:41:48And you know, she's got nothing to worry about.
00:41:50Are you ready?
00:41:51I'm ready.
00:41:52I'm ready, baby.
00:41:54It's so pretty around here.
00:41:56Wow.
00:41:57Yeah.
00:41:57It's a beautiful day and it's a beautiful boat with a beautiful man.
00:42:02So, when I walked in looking for you today, I went into your office and I met someone and
00:42:08I sat at your desk.
00:42:09Did you?
00:42:10Yeah.
00:42:11Did you get some work done?
00:42:13No, not at all.
00:42:15It's fun to show off a little bit.
00:42:17I do like being out on the water any chance I get.
00:42:20That was my first impression of you when I saw you on social media.
00:42:23She's on the front of a boat looking fabulous.
00:42:25I think it was on the back, actually.
00:42:28You're on the front.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:30He would know boats better than me.
00:42:32Yes.
00:42:34Can I see outside?
00:42:36Yeah.
00:42:36I got some champagne.
00:42:38Smart boy.
00:42:39This is like an ideal day for me.
00:42:41I'm glad.
00:42:46Well, I'm happy you took me on the boat.
00:42:48Did you ask your boss or?
00:42:51I did, yeah.
00:42:52And he gave you permission?
00:42:53Yep.
00:42:55Before I got to Australia, Josh had sent me a text saying he got a final warning from work
00:43:00because he took out a company boat that they were selling for a joyride with friends and
00:43:06crashed it.
00:43:08He has to pay back the damages.
00:43:10He owes $20,000.
00:43:11So, yeah, I'm happy he still has a job, but I feel like what he did was 100% irresponsible.
00:43:17I have so many questions and I still haven't had a proper conversation about it yet.
00:43:21Listen, it's like I'm not here to make you feel any worse, but this whole boat thing is just super
00:43:30confusing to me.
00:43:31So, what happened that night?
00:43:39Nat and a few other, Nat and another few friends, they have friends who are going to become clients of
00:43:45mine.
00:43:46And those clients who I'm trying to network with and get closer to are then going to come to me
00:43:52when they want to buy a boat.
00:43:54So, I took them out on one of our company boats and on our way back here.
00:44:01So, I got a bit too shallow and clipped a rock and I was f***ing bricks.
00:44:05But, you know, it could have been way worse.
00:44:11It got fixed straight away.
00:44:13Joshua.
00:44:16You told me it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:44:20Well, look, when I first did the damage, I thought that it was, you know, going to be a little
00:44:25bit more damage.
00:44:26Because I didn't know exactly.
00:44:27I couldn't swim under the boat and see what happened.
00:44:29But, no, it was like, it was a couple of grand.
00:44:32Thank God, you know.
00:44:33And is that paid off?
00:44:35Yeah, it is paid off.
00:44:36How did you pay for that?
00:44:38Well, before you got here, I sold a boat.
00:44:40I sold a share in a boat.
00:44:41So, that commission did not go to me.
00:44:44The money that you sold, you didn't get that money.
00:44:46It went to that damages.
00:44:47So, that squared away.
00:44:49So, you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:44:52I'm still working.
00:44:53I'm still got a job.
00:44:54I'm responsible.
00:44:55I can, I'm trusted.
00:44:57I know you got worried about it, but all in all, you know, I have my s**t together.
00:45:03Yeah.
00:45:05Okay.
00:45:08Well, I understand that.
00:45:10And I'm really happy I came on the boat.
00:45:12But, I guess the only thing that's, like, really on my mind and, like, putting a damper on this is
00:45:18the knot situation.
00:45:20Okay.
00:45:21Why can't I drop the knot there?
00:45:24I didn't realize she was on the boat with you that night.
00:45:27And, like, this emotional connection you have with her, the financial hold she has on you.
00:45:33I don't want to have to keep ten times having to tell you something and you not believe it.
00:45:38You're not letting things go.
00:45:39No, I'm letting it go.
00:45:40I just didn't.
00:45:41It doesn't seem like you are.
00:45:42I'm trying to get you down to the bottom of this.
00:45:44Okay.
00:45:45Let's go and see her.
00:45:46Let's us three hang out so it's just us three.
00:45:48And, you know, hopefully I can put your mind at ease.
00:45:52We'll do it tonight.
00:45:55Okay.
00:45:57Of course, she was on the boat.
00:45:59Did she pay for the damages?
00:46:01Should have been my first question.
00:46:04I mean, Josh clearly still has a job, but he depends on Nat financially.
00:46:08I'm just still really confused.
00:46:10So, I'm really glad that I'm going to see Nat tonight so I can get some answers and just finally
00:46:15put this to rest.
00:46:30I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:46:33I am scared.
00:46:35This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:46:38They will come after him.
00:46:50So, you've got to wait one to five minutes.
00:47:07So, two lines is pregnant.
00:47:09One line is not.
00:47:20There we go.
00:47:23It's a pretty strong, dark one line.
00:47:27Not two.
00:47:29Yeah, I know.
00:47:31All right.
00:47:32Two means pregnant.
00:47:34Two means pregnant.
00:47:36Do you think it's going to just stay negative?
00:47:39I think so.
00:47:43I actually feel really disappointed.
00:47:46Stig and I have had so much fun the past few weeks.
00:47:49We've gotten closer.
00:47:50I've gotten to see a side of him I didn't know before.
00:47:52And I was really excited to think about having our baby and starting a little family.
00:47:58I'm really sad.
00:47:59I'm really bummed.
00:48:02Don't worry.
00:48:03I feel more let down than I expected.
00:48:06I don't know.
00:48:07I thought it would be a perfect end to our trip.
00:48:11I don't know.
00:48:12If we could, you know.
00:48:14I just don't know when I'm going to see you next.
00:48:16No.
00:48:17Why are you saying that?
00:48:18Like, you're acting like, well, we're going to break up when you leave or something?
00:48:21That would just, I feel like, make things happen quicker.
00:48:25Like, I would have motivation to hurry up, move, instead of go home and, eh.
00:48:31Don't stress yourself out.
00:48:33Don't think about it so deep.
00:48:37It's really hitting me that I'm going home and I just have no idea what to expect.
00:48:42Without a baby, it's hard to know how serious he is about our future.
00:48:50I'm worried that after I leave Belize, he's not going to be around me anymore.
00:48:55And Stig is going to go just right back into his old partying ways.
00:49:00I just feel a little unsure about what the future holds.
00:49:04And it's giving me a lot of anxiety.
00:49:06Don't care.
00:49:19Don't you spell it, baby?
00:49:42This is so not what I expected.
00:49:45This is a small, tiny cubbyhole.
00:49:47It is hot.
00:49:49The priest is yelling and screaming at me,
00:49:51and I don't know what he's saying.
00:49:56I know this is supposed to cleanse me from my lies,
00:49:59but I swear to God I am about to be cursed.
00:50:02I am scared.
00:50:04This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:50:41I have seen it.
00:50:46Somehow he knows when he throws these shells,
00:50:49and they land in a certain way.
00:50:51I'm there for a cleansing.
00:50:52This is craziness.
00:50:56who is this man he's to be my husband why are you here
00:51:03um my wife to be had i'm affair with her fellow woman
00:51:14woman yes sir is it true what your husband said
00:51:21yes there's more though i also lied to everybody i wasn't married twice like i had told daniel
00:51:30i was married five times and we're waiting on the divorce of the fifth one
00:51:38this is totally sacrilege
00:51:43in africa any woman that committed an abomination there is something we call sacrilege
00:51:49it requires i cleanse them up by the ghost directing us we are just the mouthpiece to
00:51:56the ghost and if they mess up the cleansing the ghost will say no
00:52:19give him all of what you have in your pocket that i gave you give him all of it daniel
00:52:23put it there don't put it there
00:52:33what is your response
00:52:39you are bringing goat you are bringing yam there is another thing you need to do
00:52:51that is what they both say
00:52:58hmm
00:53:02what is this is your husband
00:53:06what is this is you
00:53:09repeat after me me and my husband is one
00:53:12me and my husband are one
00:53:14forever and ever
00:53:15forever and ever
00:53:17no man no woman
00:53:18no man no woman
00:53:19put us under
00:53:20put us under
00:53:21that is what i promise
00:53:22that is what i promise
00:53:23kiss it
00:53:24give it to me
00:53:25you have agreed
00:53:29you are crying
00:53:34yes
00:53:49i wish i knew what
00:53:51i wish i knew what
00:54:05what is going on this is terrifying i'm telling you this is voodoo magic
00:54:13after this cleansing today will you mess up again
00:54:18now it's an agreement between you and oracle
00:54:22if you misbehave they will come after you
00:54:31you need to remove the rubber
00:54:49taking off the rubber from the goat signifies that she has been cleansed that is our tradition
00:54:56embrace your husband
00:54:59embrace your husband
00:55:00embrace your husband
00:55:00embrace your husband
00:55:03am i clean
00:55:22i don't know what just happened i know i'm cleansed i don't care about anything else
00:55:34point is if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife then that's all i wanted
00:55:41well done
00:55:44maybe i love you
00:55:45i love you too
00:55:54i am extremely happy that we are we are cleansed
00:55:58we can go ahead and get married
00:56:02we can have sex
00:56:15why not come on
00:56:17When you share it, share it, share it, happy.
00:56:32Last night was more sloppy than what I thought it would be.
00:56:39I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:56:41It's way better than what I thought.
00:56:42Me and my hand, I'm sorry, we're going to have to break up.
00:56:45I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:56:48I'm so glad.
00:57:05Sheena, I feel lots of weight off my mind.
00:57:08Yeah.
00:57:10Last night, just being able to touch you and feel you.
00:57:15Just makes me so, so happy.
00:57:20It was the most special moment that I've ever had with you.
00:57:27I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:57:30You're so glad.
00:57:33You're going to tide me out.
00:57:40I know.
00:57:41Yeah, it's like you took the driver's seat and just kept going.
00:57:44As of today, I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:57:48It was a great sensation.
00:57:49I never, it's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:57:52Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:57:56Me and my hand, I'm sorry, we're going to have to break up.
00:58:01I really enjoyed it last night with you and I'm so, so happy and I'm so glad that we've
00:58:07been come to this stage.
00:58:10Yeah.
00:58:10I was thinking about how it'd be before sleeping with you and I thought it'd be like this magical
00:58:16thing.
00:58:17Like there was going to be like sparks and fireworks.
00:58:20And last night was exactly kind of what I thought.
00:58:25Well, more sloppy than what I thought it would be.
00:58:31When you got on top and started going, my legs were so I felt like I needed a life preserver
00:58:39to make sure I don't drown.
00:58:42It was the best 35 seconds of my life.
00:58:45No, okay.
00:58:46I lasted a little bit longer than that.
00:58:48But Sheena, man, she went and hopped on top of me and just showed me who was the boss.
00:58:55I didn't do that.
00:58:55Oh, yeah, you did.
00:58:57Oh, no, I didn't.
00:58:58You took charge.
00:59:01I'm happy because you're quite gentle.
00:59:03You're quite the gentle one for me.
00:59:05I mean, so I felt the respect and the love from you.
00:59:08I didn't want to hurt you.
00:59:09So that's kind of why I kind of laid back and let you go.
00:59:15I was, to be honest, I didn't know how to put a condom to this, you know.
00:59:21But I couldn't say the right word.
00:59:24There's a lot of learning.
00:59:27But I think that we haven't got it.
00:59:30And giving all myself to Forrest, I felt amazing.
00:59:33It's hard to describe.
00:59:36How would you rate me?
00:59:37One to ten.
00:59:39Well, let me say around 11 perhaps for me.
00:59:47Sex was great.
00:59:49Yeah, I know.
00:59:50But the connection that we got afterwards, after, is definitely something I was not expecting.
00:59:55I just feel like, you know, the world is revolving around us now.
01:00:03Yeah, it's like a magnet.
01:00:06Mm-hmm.
01:00:08And I really feel like, even though we're not legally married, we can work out the paperwork later.
01:00:15But last night, you became my wife.
01:00:26And if I go back now, then I won't have you, and I won't have basically my wife with me.
01:00:35So, this has made me even more committed to, you know, do everything in my power to be with you.
01:00:43Having sex with Sheena definitely has changed a lot of things.
01:00:48I feel like our heart and our souls are one and the same.
01:00:53But I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines, and I'm just extremely torn right now.
01:00:58Because you can go and you can be like, oh, I love you.
01:01:00Well, I love you on the phone, but it's not the same as holding the person in your arms.
01:01:07I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines.
01:01:13But I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
01:01:19It's going to be like a typhoon hitting a hurricane and kind of just blow everything up.
01:01:28I love Trisha very, very much.
01:01:32I need more time.
01:01:35I'm not prepared to do so.
01:01:39I want my family.
01:01:50Do you want to go see the Maya universe today?
01:01:53Yeah.
01:01:54What happened?
01:01:55You still in a bad mood?
01:01:57A little.
01:01:59There's plenty of time.
01:02:01We're going to make babies stop tripping.
01:02:14I'm excited to see these.
01:02:16Yes, it's amazing here.
01:02:20This is our very last day together on this trip.
01:02:23So I want to make it count.
01:02:25I want it to be special.
01:02:26So today I decided to take Aviva to the Maya Nunes, one of Belize's main attractions.
01:02:34You're going to love this.
01:02:36I'm going to be your official tour guide.
01:02:38Oh.
01:02:40I'm glad we're at this place.
01:02:42This is very spiritual for me.
01:02:45So I want to experience this with Aviva.
01:02:47I want to experience this with Aviva.
01:03:16Front and center, go see.
01:03:17This is one, right?
01:03:18Back in the day, I would be right here,
01:03:21performing for all my peoples.
01:03:22And I would have been the group eight in the front row.
01:03:24Ah.
01:03:26Gonna marry your daughter.
01:03:32I hope you're seeing that, babe, that I do want kids with you.
01:03:35I do want a family.
01:03:36This is not something just regular for me.
01:03:39Not just a little vacay you visited me.
01:03:42This is more than that for me.
01:03:44All right?
01:03:46It makes me happy, babe.
01:03:47I love you, babe.
01:03:47I love you, mom.
01:03:48I love you, too.
01:03:52I was feeling pretty upset about the negative pregnancy test.
01:03:56But now, Stey and I are joking around, having a good time.
01:04:00And he's just making me feel so special.
01:04:03Look at the tree.
01:04:04Pretty, right?
01:04:05It's super cool walking around the Mayan ruins.
01:04:08It's beautiful, so much history.
01:04:10And I just love spending this quality time with him.
01:04:14And all seems lovely.
01:04:16Wow.
01:04:19That's huge.
01:04:20Right?
01:04:21That is so cool.
01:04:23I know.
01:04:25People go all the way to the top.
01:04:28That is beautiful.
01:04:29We should, for sure.
01:04:30You want to go to the top?
01:04:31Hell yeah.
01:04:31Yeah.
01:04:31Me, too.
01:04:33This feels double easy.
01:04:35Oh, my God.
01:04:37I'm full of gratitude at this point.
01:04:40We've been through so much.
01:04:42And there were days when it looked dark, when we thought that, you know, maybe this is it.
01:04:48I'm going to race you to the top now.
01:04:50But look at us.
01:04:53But look at us.
01:05:22Something, since the first time I met you, babe, at the airport, something just made me feel like you're the
01:05:27one for real.
01:05:28I knew I was going to do this.
01:05:29I know you were scared.
01:05:31But I actually fell in love with you, Viva.
01:05:36And I want to be with you for the rest of my life.
01:05:39That's so sweet.
01:05:42Will you marry me?
01:05:48Yes.
01:05:50She said yes!
01:05:55That's so sweet.
01:06:00I love you.
01:06:06You got me shaking, Viva.
01:06:09Is this left?
01:06:11Left.
01:06:13Hopefully it fits.
01:06:15Yes.
01:06:17What?
01:06:24I've engaged a stig.
01:06:26The artist.
01:06:27How cool is that?
01:06:30Cute.
01:06:31I love you.
01:06:31I'm full of surprises, but this is definitely the best one.
01:06:34This is the most nervous I've ever been, for real, for real.
01:06:38I'm an engaged man now.
01:06:41I've been carrying around this engagement ring for a while.
01:06:44But at first, I wasn't too sure, because I felt like she was questioning me and who I am.
01:06:49You know, that made me a little sad.
01:06:52But then closer leading up to today, I felt sure in my heart.
01:06:57You still want to go to the top?
01:06:58Of course I do.
01:06:59Let's go.
01:07:00Let's go.
01:07:01Let's go.
01:07:02This is my fiancée, Viva.
01:07:03This is my fiancée's stig.
01:07:09You're walking in sync.
01:07:12You've got to call it Spring.
01:07:14I'm going to...
01:07:14I have to tell you it's Spring.
01:07:16Oh, no.
01:07:17I'm going to marry your niece.
01:07:19Ha, ha.
01:07:22Ha, ha.
01:07:23That's so cool.
01:07:24I'm all right.
01:07:26Babe, there's always going to be people spreading rumors, trying to get into your mind.
01:07:31Forget about all that, right?
01:07:32I got you.
01:07:33We're a team now.
01:07:34I'm not going to lie to you.
01:07:35Okay.
01:07:36Promise you.
01:07:37I definitely believe you now.
01:07:47I love you, babe.
01:07:49I love you, too.
01:07:50I love you, too.
01:07:51You make me love, you're crazy.
01:08:00Okay.
01:08:01Bring your homies in form of the Baroga.
01:08:03I love you, too.
01:08:05I love you.
01:08:06I love you.
01:08:06I love you, too.
01:08:08I love you, too.
01:08:09Hey, jeez.
01:08:12Oh, look, babe.
01:08:13That's some bananas.
01:08:13Let's get something for your family.
01:08:15You want bananas.
01:08:17I think your family likes Vidalos too, don't they?
01:08:27So the dark green one isn't better?
01:08:30Yeah, this is better for it.
01:08:33Tonight, Trish and I are flying back to Antananarivo.
01:08:37Yeah.
01:08:39There he is looking.
01:08:41These past few days, I've seen more sides to Trish.
01:08:45I've fallen even deeper in love with her,
01:08:48but I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
01:08:54This is my grandma used to sell fruits before.
01:09:00This was her stand right here?
01:09:02Did you sell stuff out here?
01:09:04Yeah, like fruits.
01:09:06Oh my God, baby, I just cannot picture you doing that.
01:09:09Yeah.
01:09:10I know how important it is to Trish and her family,
01:09:14but I think the best solution to this is for Trish to ask her dad again for more time.
01:09:22Trish's dad seems like a nice guy and maybe they could ease up a little bit.
01:09:37Yeah.
01:09:53Yeah.
01:09:56Yeah.
01:10:24What's the knife for?
01:10:29That's the knife for?
01:10:30Oh, thank God.
01:10:31I don't know what that knife was for.
01:10:33I didn't see anything to cut.
01:10:42What's your name?
01:10:47Oh, that's good to run.
01:11:00You say, how was your vacation?
01:11:03Oh, it's been wonderful.
01:11:05I love your daughter very much.
01:11:08And each day that goes by, I'm loving her even more.
01:11:21Oh, that's good.
01:11:33We're going to leave.
01:11:35So that's why he's called us here.
01:11:51Um, what about your answer?
01:11:56How about the kids?
01:12:04I want to respect your dad's demands for a decision now.
01:12:13Um, but I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:28Um, I love Patricia very, very good.
01:12:53You have to decide it, yes or no.
01:13:03But if no, they have to hold me.
01:13:09Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally tied.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So why the am I here?
01:13:22Is it just, is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping you financially.
01:13:25I want to, I want to, no, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:28I can do that one more time.
01:13:29I'm going to leave.
01:13:30But I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:13:33You want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35Hey, guys, let me ask you guys all the f***ing questions.
01:13:40This guy's a psycho.
01:13:51Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55You don't need the shower.
01:13:57I stink.
01:13:59Maybe you do need a shower.
01:14:09Well, you're not f***ing good.
01:14:13Oof.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar?
01:14:16Or where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today, and it honestly was great.
01:14:24It would be nice if he owned the boat, but like driving his company's boat, it's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered, but the Nat situation has not cleared up,
01:14:33and that's like the one thing kind of lingering over us.
01:14:37So we set up tonight for us to just all get together and put everything on the table.
01:14:42We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:47Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship, but like Josh hasn't been transparent from the
01:14:56start.
01:14:57He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that, they text throughout the day, throughout the night, at all hours of
01:15:08the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, not, not, not, not.
01:15:14It's like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't like looked at the messages, but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all, what is going on, because I am so confused.
01:15:37Just do me a favour.
01:15:39Don't kick off.
01:15:41I can't promise you anything.
01:15:44I can't promise you anything.
01:15:46I can't promise you anything.
01:15:48I can't promise you anything.
01:15:48How are you doing?
01:15:50How are you doing?
01:15:50How are you doing?
01:15:50Good, good to see you.
01:15:51It's good.
01:15:52Thanks for coming, guys.
01:15:54Don't mind me.
01:15:55I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:56It's still cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:16:01Say, how are you?
01:16:02I'm good.
01:16:03I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05Port a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so...
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking her concern seriously
01:16:23and that I'm committed to building a relationship with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me,
01:16:29especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing still?
01:16:31To you guys.
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realize that we're just friends
01:16:36and that we can finally move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat today.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41It was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And, like, there's so much to digest, you know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel, like, uncomfortable.
01:16:55One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily,
01:16:59but, like, I just feel very uncomfortable about this connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You're even on the boat together that night.
01:17:16He damaged it.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:19So what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:25I wouldn't want to be best friends with someone
01:17:26if I wasn't emotionally tied with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm going to be honest.
01:17:32Like, I'm scared he's so close financially with you.
01:17:37So I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't say right.
01:17:51You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me, it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's, I just think it's gross.
01:18:06I just, I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating
01:18:10and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me
01:18:13to be supported by another girl.
01:18:15Like, so why the f*** am I here?
01:18:17Is this just sexual?
01:18:19Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman
01:18:21and she's helping you financially.
01:18:23No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:18:25If you say that one more time, I'm going to leave.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:33But then what's your f***ing game plan?
01:18:36What?
01:18:36I want to know, when I leave,
01:18:38you are going to go live with Nat, yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers,
01:18:46but it is short f***ing term.
01:18:51But I don't want to f***ing think of my man
01:18:53living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and a big female?
01:18:57I think it's f***ing weird.
01:18:58Do you want me to go ask every single person there?
01:19:00Because I will.
01:19:00I wouldn't.
01:19:01It'd be embarrassing to you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me.
01:19:07I don't give a f***.
01:19:09Hey, guys!
01:19:11Let me ask you guys all the f***ing question.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl
01:19:17and getting financially f***ing f***ing supported crazy?
01:19:24Did you know?
01:19:25No!
01:19:26He's f***ing lying to me!
01:19:28That's pretty crazy.
01:19:30Thank you!
01:19:30How long have you been to?
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33We've been talking six months.
01:19:34They hadn't met until just recently, though.
01:19:38He shouldn't be living with her, right?
01:19:40And getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:41Thank you!
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her
01:19:44and he's getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:46Thank you!
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be!
01:19:53Is this not crazy now?
01:19:54Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the f*** am I supposed to do?
01:19:57You're not saying half the story.
01:19:58You're not yelling at a bar where I live.
01:20:00You're here!
01:20:01She's a psycho.
01:20:03She's a psycho.
01:20:04I'm sorry.
01:20:05You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07F*** you, bitch.
01:20:08F*** you.
01:20:08F*** off.
01:20:09Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing this.
01:20:16She's a psycho.
01:20:17What the f***?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:19Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues
01:20:22that aren't even there.
01:20:23That's...
01:20:24Yeah, that's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Cute, you guys are together.
01:20:38So f*** you.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So f*** you.
01:20:41So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43She's both...
01:20:45Do you want to go?
01:20:46Bye, guys.
01:20:47Asshole.
01:20:51Oh, I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love with her.
01:20:58But that s***, I'm done with her.
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:12I miss you.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22My fellow women have been given her the oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my d***.
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34Ready, boo?
01:21:35Woo!
01:21:36Woo!
01:21:38In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42What are you looking for?
01:21:43Wedding bands?
01:21:45$268.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:49I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
01:21:56Make it happy.
01:21:57Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00She went off yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03F*** that.
01:22:06I'm f***.
01:22:07Angry.
01:22:08Angry.
01:22:09Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment, like that would be, would be, that, that would be the end.
01:22:19Hey.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:28Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah.
01:22:44I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:51This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that f*** that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Was it okay?
01:22:59Yeah, he's a good guy.
01:23:01But it turns out we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:09Nothing is going on.
01:23:09Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:19Beer Con's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:27Hey.
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