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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:03We went on this beautiful trip to Key West.
00:07Then I found out there was a girl living with you.
00:11I've been burned by guys who I thought had all the good intentions,
00:15only to find out that it was all in my head.
00:19I can label this right now.
00:21I would love to be your boyfriend.
00:26Whew. Yes.
00:30I wanted to see you face to face before I tell you.
00:33I have another daughter that I've been up for adoption.
00:40Please don't hate me.
00:41You don't have to beat yourself up. It's out now.
00:45You know, I've been holding these secrets for 34 years,
00:48and it just feels like I'm finally free.
00:55Last night, Courtney came into my room. She grabbed my phone.
00:59Colt was exactly who everybody said he was.
01:03Courtney gracefully put all my stuff on the side of the road.
01:07An Uber came and took me away to the hotel.
01:11You don't love or care about me.
01:12You only care about yourself and your d***.
01:17I felt Colt was my happy ending.
01:19Now, like, my whole future just got ripped from me.
01:22I thought you were my best friend, but I feel all of it's just a lie.
01:28She is that famous selfie.
01:30You are making my brother suffering.
01:33First, Pedro's sister's making me uncomfortable,
01:35and then I have his mom just saying I should have sex with Pedro.
01:43There's only so much I can take before I'm going to lose my cool.
01:46I've been so nice to you and his f***ing mom.
01:48My f***ing mom's mother.
01:50My f***ing mom's mother.
01:51My mom would never scare me.
01:53You don't love me.
01:55My mom doesn't love me.
01:56My mom doesn't love me.
01:58I'm going to f***ing mom.
01:58You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.
02:01No, no, no, no.
02:01Okay, bye.
02:01You and your family are f***ing weird.
02:05Weirdos.
02:06flavor.
02:18Aw.
02:41Courtney broke up with me a few days ago.
02:43I've been living in this motel ever since.
02:46And when I'm at the rock bottom of my life,
02:49there's only one person I can call.
02:53Here you go.
02:55She's nice out here.
02:58My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada to save the day.
03:03How are you?
03:05Don't get up.
03:08Oh, my God.
03:11I'm doing okay.
03:12Yeah?
03:13How's it doing?
03:1641 stitches.
03:18Wow.
03:20I haven't seen my mother in person for six months,
03:22but when I told her that Courtney threw me out of the house and we broke up,
03:26she came down with her boyfriend from Canada to check it on me and make sure I'm okay.
03:31And I don't think she has a lot of confidence in my ability to take care of myself.
03:37Can you move it at all or are you not allowed?
03:39Oh, yeah.
03:40I can move it.
03:40You're not supposed to put any weight on it.
03:42But I can't really put weight on it.
03:43I can't walk on it yet.
03:45What's going on with you and Courtney?
03:48We talked a little bit, but she's just crying and she's angry at me.
03:53She's upset, disappointed, very disappointed, very sad.
03:58So I know I've been running from relationship to relationship, woman to woman, and I'm still doing that.
04:04But I love Courtney.
04:07So you guys need to be by yourself, away from her parents' home, and figure this all out.
04:11You can't keep doing this.
04:13Courtney's not going to take me back, dude.
04:16So you're not going to get back together?
04:19I don't think she wants to get back together with me.
04:24Like, you know what I did, right?
04:26Like, I'm having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
04:33And it wasn't just a friendship.
04:35We were actually exchanging adult imagery.
04:41But you weren't with Courtney when that was going on.
04:45Well, I was doing this from her house.
04:48Wow.
04:49Really?
04:50I don't know.
04:50I don't want to get into that.
04:53I feel like there should be this sense of shame that my mother and I have about talking about my
04:57or my bad behavior.
04:59But we're pretty cool.
05:01We're like bros.
05:02She's always kind of treating me more like a friend than like a mother.
05:06So me talking to her about cheating, she's always kind of got my back.
05:12If you want to get back into a relationship with Courtney, I can talk to her and I can do
05:18my best to see.
05:22Colt has a way of doing this.
05:24He's in a relationship and all of a sudden he starts wandering, you know.
05:28And he did it several times with several different people.
05:32I don't want to name names.
05:33So bad.
05:34He can't do that.
05:36But I think I can talk to Courtney woman to woman.
05:40I understand exactly how she feels.
05:43I went through something similar a long time ago.
05:45But if I make her realize how Colt feels and he really does care about her,
05:51I think I can break through that barrier and convince her to try it again.
05:57Just talk to her.
05:59I will.
05:59Try to tell her.
06:02I don't know.
06:02I know.
06:03I will.
06:03I'll talk to her.
06:06Well, thank you.
06:07Well, of course.
06:21My mom doesn't love me.
06:22I said, what the f*** am I doing to you?
06:24What am I doing to you?
06:25Your mom doesn't love you.
06:27Okay, well, you guys are too involved.
06:29This is Pedro's relationship.
06:30He's a grown f***ing man.
06:42She's acting like a crazy girl.
06:44Like, oh, your f***ing mother.
06:46Like, what is that?
06:55The relationship between Pedro, his sister, and his mom is not normal.
06:59They're so full on about him.
07:02Do you want to go talk with them?
07:03Yeah.
07:04You can talk with them.
07:05My mom doesn't love me.
07:07They're just flicking Pedro from someone he should at least get to know.
07:12If I date Pedro, that's my in-law and his sister.
07:16Yeah, I don't know.
07:17Your mom loves you in a weird way, bro.
07:21His mama, as soon as I met him, hey, why haven't you f***ed my son?
07:24That's a weird f***ing relationship.
07:26Sorry.
07:26As soon as I met her, she said, why have you not f***ed my son?
07:28Why have you not got his banana?
07:30She said it.
07:31She said that to me.
07:32How does she know this?
07:33He told her.
07:34I guess they talk about Pedro's f***ing.
07:36What was that?
07:37Why you tell her that her mother's a lover?
07:39No, no, no.
07:40No, no.
07:41Simplemente te voy a decir algo.
07:42Ella no puede me decir de mà a decirme a mÃ, to your f***ing mother.
07:46No, but...
07:46O sea, no, excuse me.
07:47Yo no puedo tolerar eso.
07:49Porque ella me va a decir a mÃ, y porque ella respeta tu mamá.
07:53Es tu mamá también.
07:53Yeah.
07:54Yeah, but...
07:54Entonces, ¿por qué?
07:56A mi cumpleaños.
07:58A mi cumpleaños.
07:59Que es mi cumpleaños.
08:00A decirme a mà eso.
08:01Yeah, okay.
08:03Dile ella que se puede ir.
08:06The only thing I have done is asking you about what are your intentions with my brother.
08:12I am respecting you, and you cannot be here to disrespect me, to respect my mom.
08:16You cannot talk to me like that.
08:19Pedro needs to rethink about this, because what she has done tonight just has demonstrated
08:26me she is not a woman for Pedro.
08:29Sophie, let's go.
08:31Let's go, let's go, let's go.
08:33I was chill, I was chillin'.
08:35I don't know if you ever...
08:35You called my mom my mother.
08:37Like, you called my mother, you said your mom's a mother, that's why she got it like that.
08:41Let's go.
08:42What did I say?
08:42I didn't say about your mom.
08:43I said you guys are grilling me.
08:44No, no, no, no.
08:45That's what I said.
08:46I said, you're so enough.
08:47I said, no, you enough.
08:49I don't want to see you here.
08:49I don't want to see you here.
08:50I don't want to see you here.
08:51It's my birthday.
08:51I don't want to see you here.
08:52Happy birthday.
08:53I don't want to see you here.
08:53Have a great birthday.
08:57I said, you...
08:58You called my mom, that's what you say.
09:00What did I call?
09:00I called your mom?
09:01Yeah, you said your mom.
09:03You say that.
09:04I said, you and your mom are grilling me.
09:05No, no, no, no, no.
09:06I didn't say nothing about your mom.
09:07You called my mom, been grilling me.
09:09You, you...
09:10Yeah, that's not...
09:11You know, I don't know if that's the language, but that's not insulting you.
09:13I said, you and your mom, yes, are grilling me, yes.
09:14That's why...
09:15That's why I get it like that.
09:17It was misunderstood that I said, you're mom.
09:20I didn't say your mom.
09:22People swear they're angry.
09:23You and your mom.
09:24Like, why would I say your mom?
09:26I've been nothing but respectful to your mom,
09:28who's been disrespecting me the whole night.
09:30Okay, English language, we say this, that.
09:32Yeah, bro, no, no, no meaning...
09:34I never said anything wrong about your mom.
09:35I said, you guys are grilling me.
09:36You guys are too involved.
09:37That's what I said.
09:38That's what I said.
09:39I never insulted your mother.
09:42Let me get a problem.
09:43We don't play around.
09:45We call that name.
09:46You mother, things like that.
09:47If you say that thing to me,
09:49things are gonna be getting better here so fast,
09:51because we respect our mother so much.
09:56I got loud, for sure.
09:58Your mother, never.
09:59Yeah, yeah.
09:59Since I got loud, your mother, never in my life.
10:01Yeah.
10:02I told Sophie,
10:03if you feel a little overwhelming,
10:04call me and can diffuse the situation.
10:06I could hear her yelling,
10:08and I could notice about me.
10:09So I'm like, put the umbilical cord, bro.
10:12I had a flash about the old rebel thing
10:13that Chantel said about my family,
10:15and I want to go through that again.
10:18I thought that Sophie was different,
10:21but I'm wrong with that.
10:23I never said your mom.
10:24I said you, your mom.
10:27I was talking with Julia.
10:28I heard you said your mom.
10:29Yes, I said your mom.
10:31Yeah, but you're looking safe, Sophie, those teens.
10:33Trust me.
10:33I was very respectful to your mom.
10:35Okay, whatever.
10:36I'll see you tomorrow.
10:39He was meant to have my back,
10:40but I'm like, okay,
10:41have your mom and your sister's back,
10:43and this is why he will be single forever.
10:46Damn.
10:51Come in.
10:52A lot of things have been happening.
10:54I am in Maine visiting my cousin, Sanela.
10:57Now it's official.
10:58You don't have a single cousin anymore.
11:01Well, when I see Tony,
11:03I have a lot of questions.
11:05Sanela.
11:06When it comes to people that I love,
11:08I don't hold back.
11:09And I think Vanya can do much better.
11:12I'm always playing with my cousin.
11:16Now that it's all out,
11:17I'm ready to find her.
11:19If something traumatic has happened to my daughter,
11:22if she needed me for something,
11:23I won't be able to live with myself.
11:26And I want you guys on this journey with me.
11:29Oh.
11:34I just do what I want,
11:36do what I want,
11:37do what I want to do.
11:38I just do what I do,
11:40do what I do,
11:41do what I want to do.
11:43If you let me,
11:45I can take you.
11:47Where you want to go.
11:48Hello.
11:50It's finally happening.
11:52I'm so excited.
11:54I just do what I want,
11:55do what I want,
11:56do what I want to do.
11:58I just do what I do,
11:59do what I do,
12:00do what I'm going to do.
12:02I just arrived in Maine,
12:04and I'm super excited
12:06to finally get to see my cousin.
12:08This is awesome.
12:09I am in Maine,
12:11visiting my cousin,
12:12Sanela,
12:12and her husband, Marinko,
12:13and it is an amazing weekend
12:15because it's my birthday.
12:17My birthday is July 4th.
12:20As you can tell,
12:21I'm a firecracker.
12:24Tony is also coming in.
12:26He's coming in on a later flight,
12:28and he's just going to meet us
12:29at Sanela's place later.
12:33Ever since Tony and I
12:35went on our little romantic date,
12:36we're now official,
12:37and this is our first trip as a couple,
12:40and it's a big deal.
12:42I am a little nervous
12:43about Tony and Sanela hanging out.
12:46You know how they always say,
12:48when you date a girl,
12:49you date a girl and her best friend,
12:50so poor Tony.
12:53Sanela can be very critical,
12:55but I totally believe
12:57that when the right guy comes along,
12:59Sanela is going to be able
13:00to recognize it,
13:01and she will fully support
13:02our relationship.
13:03And I hope it's Tony.
13:05It better be Tony.
13:08I am here!
13:13Oh, my God, you're so pretty.
13:17I missed you.
13:18Look at you all from Florida.
13:20Very much Florida, right?
13:22Are you ready for a touch-up?
13:24Maybe.
13:25I'm excited.
13:27Can't wait to hear everything about you.
13:30Sanela has her own salon,
13:32and she's touching up
13:33my beautiful permanent makeup.
13:35All right, come on in.
13:36A lot of things
13:37have been happening.
13:38So I'm excited
13:40that I have someone like her
13:41in my life to keep this up.
13:44So now it's official.
13:46You don't have
13:46a single cousin anymore.
13:48I still don't understand
13:49what took him so long.
13:51I don't know.
13:51I don't know.
13:52It beats me, too.
13:53But good things come to those who wait,
13:55so here we are.
13:57Have you guys had a talk,
13:59a sex talk?
14:01You mean the celibacy talk?
14:03No, we have not,
14:04but that's definitely something
14:05that needs to be brought up.
14:07I wonder when it comes
14:08to sleeping in your house,
14:10what we're going to do.
14:11I think maybe it might be
14:12a good idea for me
14:13to not be in the same room
14:14with him,
14:14just to not give him
14:15any mixed messages
14:17or wrong ideas.
14:18Yeah.
14:19It would be too soon
14:20for that anyways.
14:21Yeah.
14:21Yeah.
14:21Yeah.
14:22Even though Tony and I
14:23have been friends
14:24for about a year and a half
14:25at this point,
14:26I still haven't shared
14:27with him my thoughts
14:28about sex and my celibacy.
14:31Because even though
14:32we were just friends,
14:33I always liked him.
14:34And I also felt
14:35that he always liked me.
14:36I feel like that tension
14:38between us
14:39prevented me
14:41from ever bringing up
14:42sexual encounters
14:43with other people
14:44because it would just be weird.
14:46But now that we are
14:47in a relationship,
14:49I just want to make sure
14:50that we're on the same page
14:51so that our expectations
14:52match going forward.
14:55You know,
14:55he had showed
14:56some red flags.
14:58I mean,
14:58he's been good to you,
14:59but he's also been
15:00a little bizarre
15:01with certain moves
15:02he has made.
15:03I know.
15:04There's something
15:05that did happen
15:05that really got me upset.
15:07So,
15:08he took me out
15:09for dinner
15:10and it was amazing.
15:11It was so much fun.
15:12And then
15:13he ended up going
15:14to another restaurant
15:15afterwards
15:16and a club
15:18by himself.
15:22No,
15:23I was livid.
15:24I would be too.
15:25And especially because
15:26he was just trying
15:27to defend it
15:28like it's something
15:29perfectly normal.
15:30Like, oh,
15:30it doesn't mean anything.
15:31I'm like, uh...
15:32Normal?
15:33Oh, my God.
15:34Okay, we'll see
15:34how you feel
15:35when I start doing that.
15:38That's not something
15:39you do.
15:39You don't just
15:40send your girlfriend home
15:41and then you go out
15:42to a bar
15:42and sit there by yourself.
15:44What's he looking for?
15:48Oh, wow.
15:49This is beautiful.
15:50And then we'll
15:51do a quick lip.
15:52I love it.
15:53Okay.
15:54When it comes
15:55to people that I love,
15:56I don't hold back.
15:57And I think
15:59Vanya's standards
16:00used to be pretty high,
16:01but recently,
16:02just looking at
16:03her past couple
16:04of relationship
16:05that she had,
16:06I think she can
16:07do much better.
16:08But I'm not sure
16:09if Tony's that person.
16:11All right, Vanya,
16:12just so you know,
16:14when I see Tony,
16:16I have a lot of questions.
16:18Vanya,
16:20he's in my house
16:21and I have the right.
16:23to ask the questions
16:24because no one's
16:25playing with my cousin.
16:27I wish I had
16:28the same talk
16:29with the stupid ass
16:29Josko.
16:31Okay.
16:31I would have fair
16:32kick this ass.
16:34I do want Sanala
16:35to grill him
16:36because who takes
16:37their girlfriend
16:38out for dinner,
16:39send her home,
16:40and then you go on
16:41to a bar
16:41to sit there
16:42by yourself?
16:43Like, what's the purpose
16:44of you sitting at a bar?
16:45Like, unless it's
16:46to pick up another girl.
16:47I see no other reason.
16:49We need to find out,
16:51Vanya,
16:51if Tony has
16:52your best interest.
16:54Of course he does.
16:55Well, we'll find out.
16:58We definitely need
16:59some answers
16:59because I've dealt
17:01with enough of Clayboys
17:02in my life,
17:03not looking forward
17:04to another one.
17:10Yeah.
17:11Uh, wait,
17:12hold up,
17:13is that me?
17:13Looking in the mirror
17:14who I see?
17:15Know I can overcome anything.
17:17Not looking at my circumstances.
17:18Keep...
17:18Yesterday was such
17:20a rollercoaster,
17:21you know?
17:22It wasn't really
17:23a rollercoaster
17:23because you,
17:24it went down quick.
17:25I didn't have a chance.
17:26but it got brought back up.
17:28I just had to do it.
17:29It was like,
17:29overtaking my body,
17:31you know?
17:31I'm determined to do better.
17:33I keep you looking clean.
17:35I'm determined to do better.
17:37You know just what I mean.
17:39I know I could do better.
17:40Oh, here we are.
17:42Hey.
17:43Where's Mr. Larry?
17:45Where is he?
17:48Oh, there he is.
17:48Yo.
17:49Yo, yo, what's up, man?
17:50What's up, brother?
17:51All right.
17:52Nice fit.
17:53Oh, thank you.
17:55Yesterday,
17:55I came clean to Larry
17:56about the daughter
17:57I put up for adoption
17:58and it was one
17:59of the hardest things
18:00I've ever had to do
18:01in my life.
18:02How are you?
18:03I'm doing good.
18:04I'm doing good today.
18:04Good today?
18:05All right.
18:05No crying.
18:06No crying today.
18:07Hopefully no crying today.
18:09Larry was so accepting
18:11and so understanding
18:12more than I ever
18:13could think possible.
18:14I just feel like
18:15I'm ready to shed my past
18:17and move forward now.
18:19And I want Larry
18:20definitely in my life,
18:21you know?
18:21I want for us
18:22to build a family together,
18:23so.
18:25Let's just go
18:26walk and talk and
18:27I don't know,
18:28I just want to like
18:29hang out with my boys.
18:30All right.
18:30My boys.
18:31All right.
18:31My boys.
18:32I never thought
18:33I'd say that.
18:34My boys.
18:35All right, y'all ready?
18:36Yeah.
18:37Shotgun.
18:38I'm the older brother,
18:39get in the back.
18:40Shotgun.
18:40Just get your ass
18:41in the verb seat.
18:41You got it.
18:42No, he's our guest.
18:44Then he should get
18:44in the front seat.
18:45No, he gets the best.
18:46Y'all are chauffeuring me.
18:49Put your seatbelt on, sir.
18:51Go on.
18:52Can you tell your brother
18:52to put a seatbelt on, though?
18:53Put your seatbelt on, girl.
18:55Yeah, you're right.
18:55She can't drive, for real.
18:57Even though Larry and Jamal
18:59weren't raised together,
19:00the energy between them
19:02is just crazy.
19:04Like, Larry has
19:05the typical older brother vibe,
19:07while Jamal's just like
19:08the baby brother.
19:09It's very endearing to me
19:11being their mom.
19:13I feel the lightest
19:14I've felt in 34 years.
19:1730 years.
19:17Yeah.
19:19She's glowing,
19:20not in there.
19:20You are.
19:21You're glowing.
19:22That's why I'm wearing
19:23my shades today.
19:29Right.
19:30Let's go, guys.
19:37Welcome to San Diego, Larry.
19:39Welcome to San Diego.
19:41I belong here.
19:43You do.
19:43Your roots are here.
19:44Yeah.
19:46Wow, isn't it weird
19:47seeing him?
19:48San Diego.
19:50Looks like me.
19:51Not as good looking.
19:52You look like him.
19:53I keep telling him that.
19:54What?
19:55You look like me.
19:59It's so cool
19:59coming out here
20:00and getting to spend
20:02pretty much the day
20:02with just them two.
20:04You know what I'm saying?
20:06It is real cool
20:07out here, isn't it?
20:09I'm definitely feeling
20:10the brotherly love.
20:11I don't know about you.
20:12I do.
20:13I feel like we should
20:13do things we were supposed
20:15to do, like play catch
20:17and raid the fridge
20:18with moms.
20:20You want to race?
20:21Let's do it.
20:22All right.
20:23We're going to race
20:23to that pole right there.
20:25You ready?
20:25You can even do
20:26the three, two, one.
20:27Okay.
20:28Three, two, one.
20:34Woo!
20:36Do you guys like each other?
20:37I love them.
20:39Do you love me?
20:40I love you.
20:41Aw.
20:42I'm about to say it back.
20:43I love you too.
20:44Aw.
20:49So how are you feeling
20:50since yesterday, Larry?
20:52Feeling good.
20:54It was a surprising news
20:56absolutely, but, you know,
20:58glad it's out.
20:58I'm glad there are no more
20:59secrets, so she says.
21:03I'll let you know.
21:04There isn't.
21:05No, I know.
21:06I know.
21:06But I'm good, though.
21:07It's all good, man.
21:10We're moving on from here.
21:11Now that it's all out,
21:13I'm ready to find her.
21:19And I want you guys
21:20on this journey with me,
21:21but how do you feel about it?
21:24I'm with you.
21:25I'm ready to, I'm ready to find her.
21:27How about you?
21:28Yeah, I've been ready, you know?
21:31Before yesterday,
21:32I felt so alone with my secrets
21:34and really ashamed.
21:36But now, with the support
21:37of both of my sons,
21:39we can start the journey
21:40to find my daughter.
21:41I did name her Jennifer,
21:44and it might not be her name now.
21:46Right, right.
21:46You know, they probably
21:47did change it,
21:48but it was my way
21:49of identifying with her,
21:51you know?
21:52It was a closed adoption,
21:54so I don't have a lot
21:55of information about my daughter.
21:57The adoption agency
21:58will have to reach out to her
22:00and then see if she
22:01wants to contact with me.
22:05But there is the possibility
22:07she might not want to see me.
22:09You gave her a like,
22:10like you gave me.
22:11She don't know anything else.
22:12But you know,
22:13not everybody feels
22:15the same way you do, right?
22:16Yeah.
22:16And I love you for that.
22:18I truly, truly love you
22:19because you've made this
22:20really easy for me.
22:21Mm-hmm.
22:22But she really might just,
22:24she might be angry.
22:26I'm preparing my mental for that.
22:28You know what I mean?
22:31The best case scenario
22:32is that I can fly her out here,
22:35get to know her,
22:36she can meet her brothers.
22:37That would be, um,
22:40that would be like
22:41a dream come true for me.
22:45Look, it's the seals.
22:46Oh, yeah.
22:47You haven't seen them here.
22:48Go right there.
22:49Isn't that crazy?
22:50They really right there.
22:51They're right there.
22:52Look at them.
22:52Look at them.
22:53I know.
22:54As for the worst case scenario,
22:56it's not the fact
22:57that she won't talk to me,
22:59it's that she's either not living
23:00or that she needed me for something
23:02and I wasn't there for her.
23:03And I wouldn't be able
23:04to live with myself.
23:08And if I can't make peace
23:09with my past,
23:10I don't know if I'll ever find
23:12love and happiness,
23:13which is something
23:14that I've been looking for
23:15my whole life.
23:17It's your favorite animal, right?
23:18It's my favorite animal.
23:19You know why?
23:20Why?
23:20Because they're loud and fat
23:21just like I am.
23:23It's true.
23:27Your sister and your mom
23:29was acting crazy to me
23:30and you're mad
23:31because I said the word
23:33Yes, I am.
23:34Whoa.
23:35I'm having flashback
23:36because I'm so toxic
23:38to my family.
23:39I told each other
23:40you want to be better than this.
23:42Your family are going to push
23:43people in your life away.
23:44You know that, right?
24:08This is when I feel
24:09a little bit, you know,
24:10like trash.
24:11This is supposed to be
24:13a fun day
24:14but everything was like
24:17very overwhelming.
24:32It's a bit important
24:33because it's my mom
24:34and my sister and my partner.
24:35They got to get along.
24:37I don't want all the time
24:39fighting, fighting.
24:40It's not good.
24:43Last night
24:44the birthday party
24:45was terrible.
24:46I feel very frustrated
24:47because the things
24:48between me and Sophie
24:49was good before
24:51and right now
24:52my family destroyed
24:53everything that I built
24:55with Sophie
24:55into this moment
24:56because they got
24:57big argument.
25:00I have a flashback
25:01because Chisantel
25:02was so toxic
25:03to my family.
25:05The relationship
25:06could have survived.
25:09I thought that
25:09Sophie would be
25:10better than this.
25:13I haven't talked
25:13to Sophie since last night
25:16and I'm very concerned
25:18what's going to happen
25:19right now
25:19with a rep on the street.
25:23Good morning.
25:24Good morning.
25:26How you doing?
25:27I'm doing okay.
25:33How you feel?
25:34How about last night?
25:36Um, the whole night.
25:39Your sister and your mom
25:40was acting crazy to me
25:41and I still was respectful
25:42all the way up
25:43until the end.
25:44I wanted to have
25:44a fun time, you know,
25:45just be at your sister's birthday.
25:46I didn't think
25:47they'd really care
25:47that I was there
25:48to be honest.
25:49I thought I'd meet them.
25:50You'd be like,
25:50hey, how are you?
25:51And that was it.
25:51I didn't know
25:52I was there to be grilled.
25:54But you called
25:56your mother
25:57in front of everybody.
25:59I have explained to you
26:01that it's a language barrier.
26:02Your mom does not mean
26:04your mom.
26:04Yeah, that's...
26:06Did you not see
26:07what they all were saying
26:08to me the whole night?
26:10I said,
26:11you and your mom.
26:13I didn't say,
26:14your mom.
26:15Like, there's a difference.
26:16All I was saying
26:17was you and your mom.
26:18I just swore.
26:19You and your mom.
26:20And what I'm finding
26:21hurtful is that
26:22Pedro is not even, like,
26:24standing up for me.
26:25It's kind of a turn off.
26:27They wasn't respecting it
26:29and you're mad at me.
26:29Yeah, I remember.
26:30There's some problem
26:31they got before with Chantel.
26:32So I acted like Chantel.
26:33Eh?
26:33I know Chantel
26:34called your sister a bitch.
26:36And Chantel did a lot worse
26:37than me.
26:37I did not act like your ex.
26:38Sorry, but I didn't.
26:40Yeah, kind of way
26:41say of my...
26:43In the Mica Republic,
26:44you know, the moms
26:45for us, like,
26:46something holy.
26:48That's it.
26:49She was judging me
26:49the whole night, Pedro.
26:51And you're mad
26:52because I said the word
26:54Yes, I am.
26:55Whoa.
26:57Before everything happened
26:58at the party,
26:58me and Pedro
26:59were actually having
26:59a really nice day.
27:00Like, I was really
27:01getting to know him.
27:02I felt more comfortable
27:03with him.
27:04And honestly,
27:04if all that didn't happen,
27:06I was even like,
27:07I might sleep in his bed
27:08or he can sleep in my bed
27:09because I was feeling
27:10a connection
27:11and I was like,
27:11okay, maybe we can
27:12get closer.
27:13So, yeah,
27:14his family,
27:15which is weird,
27:16but they blocked him.
27:19Your family
27:19are going to push
27:20people in your life away.
27:22You know that, right?
27:23If that's how
27:24they talk to people,
27:24like, if you just
27:25introduce a girl
27:26and they do that
27:26every time,
27:27I don't think it's possible
27:28that would ever work out
27:29with them acting like that.
27:30You know?
27:31You know,
27:32understand that.
27:38I want to say
27:39I'm sorry for last night.
27:40My family can be
27:41a lot,
27:43but Anna,
27:43I'm going to lose you
27:44because
27:45our birthday party
27:46was wrong.
27:48They want to be there
27:48for you.
27:50I'm sorry
27:51if I made you feel
27:52I disrespected your mom.
27:53That's not,
27:54wasn't my intention.
27:56And I should have been
27:57more chill with Nicole.
27:58Yeah, like,
27:59look,
28:00you and me,
28:01let's forget about
28:02this moment.
28:03Can we brush it up?
28:06Because I know
28:06when I last night
28:07made this a disaster,
28:08okay?
28:09I think I just,
28:10like, after last night,
28:11like, it's just a lot,
28:12so I just need to,
28:13like, step back
28:14a little bit.
28:16I'm still getting over
28:17all the drama
28:17I went through
28:18with my marriage,
28:19so I'm not ready
28:20to deal with
28:20someone else's crazy.
28:22So even though
28:23I do really like Pedro
28:24and I'm not ready
28:24to call it quits
28:25with him,
28:25I do need some time
28:27to figure out
28:27what's best for me
28:28at this point.
28:29I still like you
28:30and I still want
28:30to get to know you,
28:31you know?
28:31It's not,
28:32it's not change
28:32my things about you,
28:34it's more so,
28:35like,
28:36well, what if I get
28:37to like you more,
28:38now I also have to
28:39deal with your family,
28:40like, coming for me?
28:41Is that something
28:42I actually want?
28:43So I just need
28:44a bit of, like, time.
28:47Sophie,
28:47the first woman
28:48that's been excited
28:49about it,
28:50saying my divorce,
28:52I put too much
28:53effort on this,
28:55and I don't want
28:56not losing her
28:57for the mistake
28:58that my mom
28:58and my sister
28:59did to her.
29:03All right.
29:05Sorry.
29:14Thank you for seeing us.
29:16I think Debbie
29:17is an enabler.
29:18Oh, you want to go cheat?
29:19Oh, don't worry, son,
29:20I'll go fix that for you.
29:21He really does love you
29:24and swears
29:24that he'll never
29:25do this again.
29:26He's going to keep
29:27doing it.
29:28Like, what the f***?
29:30I don't know
29:31if Debbie even believes
29:32the words coming
29:32out of her mouth.
29:46It's so bright and sunny.
29:49It is.
29:50I get blinded.
29:51Anyway, we have to
29:53really convince Courtney
29:54in a sweet way
29:56that she's making a mistake
29:58if she doesn't give
29:59Colt another chance.
30:00I know.
30:00Give him one last chance.
30:03I think he really cares
30:04about her.
30:05I guess I'll park
30:12in front of the house.
30:13Okay.
30:14There we go.
30:18And then, yeah,
30:19we'll scoop it out
30:20and then we'll add
30:21all the good stuff.
30:24So Colt sent me a text.
30:25His mom's in town
30:26and she wants to talk
30:27to me.
30:28I'm like,
30:28what the f***?
30:29Like, why would she
30:30want to come talk to me?
30:35I haven't met Debbie
30:37in person,
30:38but I've gotten to know
30:39her over the past few
30:40months through video chat.
30:42Thank you for seeing us.
30:43Of course.
30:45You're so beautiful.
30:46Oh, thank you.
30:47You too.
30:47She has the history
30:48of meddling
30:49in all of his relationships,
30:51but I wonder if Colt
30:52told his mom
30:53that he was sending
30:54jerk-off videos
30:55to other women.
30:56I like his shirt.
30:57Cute.
30:58Hi.
30:59Hi.
31:00Welcome to our home.
31:01It's nice to meet you.
31:01Thank you for seeing us.
31:03Appreciate it.
31:06No problem.
31:07Nice meeting you.
31:08Nice meeting you.
31:09We have a lovely home.
31:10Well, thank you.
31:11I'm very surprised
31:12that Debbie came.
31:14Colt really hurt
31:15her flesh and blood.
31:17Yeah.
31:17Our daughter, you know.
31:18Oh, it was heartbreaking
31:20seeing Courtney so upset.
31:22I had totally
31:23lost respect for him.
31:24I told him he
31:24in his own nest.
31:26Yeah.
31:26And she never
31:27cusses at me.
31:31So first of all,
31:33Colt wants to apologize.
31:34And he knows
31:35he made a big-ass mistake.
31:36He knows it.
31:38And he wants to rectify it.
31:40He knows you guys
31:41have done everything
31:41in the world
31:42for I'm going to
31:42start crying here.
31:43You have some tissues.
31:45I've been crying so much.
31:47Like, I have bags
31:48under my eyes.
31:48I've been crying so much
31:49the past, like,
31:50four or five days.
31:51I saw he's, like,
31:53messaging this other woman.
31:55I'm like, okay, I'm done.
31:56Like, I can never
31:57trust you again.
31:59Yeah, that's not
32:00a good way to find out.
32:01That's for sure.
32:02Right.
32:03I mean, she's had
32:03situations like this before
32:06where she's been
32:07really serious
32:08with the guys.
32:09And then all of a sudden
32:10she finds out
32:12they're two-timing her.
32:13I understand that.
32:14I mean, I really do.
32:17But on the other hand,
32:18if he really
32:19does love you
32:20and swears that
32:21he'll never
32:22do this again...
32:23He's going to keep
32:24doing it.
32:25No, he thinks
32:26maybe if you two
32:28were together
32:30alone for a few days
32:32he could work this out.
32:35So he goes back
32:36and forth on what
32:37he wants.
32:37I feel he's lost
32:38and confused.
32:39So it's like,
32:40I'm not going to be
32:40one of his options
32:42or in his love triangle.
32:43It's like,
32:43you had me
32:44and you've lost me.
32:46I think Debbie
32:47is an enabler.
32:48Oh, you want to go cheat?
32:50Oh, don't worry, son.
32:51I'll go fix that for you
32:52and go tell them
32:52what a great guy you are
32:54and to give you
32:54another chance.
32:55Like, I don't know
32:56if Debbie even believes
32:57the words coming
32:58out of her mouth.
32:58Like, oh,
32:59he learned his lesson
33:01after the hundredth time
33:02he's done this one, woman.
33:05So, I mean,
33:06I can talk,
33:07you know,
33:09all I can
33:10but if you're
33:12sure about this.
33:13Yeah, I feel like
33:14on a relationship standpoint
33:15I'm done.
33:16Like...
33:20I was so proud
33:21of Courtney
33:21to tell Debbie
33:23that she's done
33:24with Colt.
33:25This is a betrayal
33:26on us
33:27as well as Courtney
33:28because we opened
33:30up our house
33:30to a stranger.
33:32And he was taking
33:33advantage of our
33:35hospitality.
33:37Again, I apologize
33:38for everything
33:39and thank you so much
33:41for taking him in.
33:42I'm really sorry
33:43the way it turned out.
33:44I really am.
33:45Yeah, it's disappointing.
33:46Yeah.
33:47Yeah.
33:48I feel a little bad
33:49for trashing Colt
33:50to his mom
33:50but I need to be honest
33:52with her.
33:52I need to be honest
33:53with myself.
33:54There's no world
33:55where I'd get back
33:56with Colt.
33:57All right, bye.
33:58Bye.
33:59It was nice meeting you.
34:01I've pretty much
34:01been a full-time
34:02nurse for this
34:03lying, cheating
34:04piece of
34:05like I need Debbie
34:06to just take over
34:07now so I can move on.
34:09Bye.
34:10Bye-bye.
34:13Okay.
34:15Is your attention
34:16for a long-term
34:17relationship with Vanya?
34:18You're worried
34:18that I'm a player.
34:19Is that what
34:19you're getting at?
34:20You had a girlfriend
34:21living with you
34:22and then you were
34:22hanging out with Vanya.
34:24Honestly,
34:24I feel betrayed
34:25by Vanya.
34:26She's told her
34:27a lot about my past
34:28that now is
34:29almost using against me.
34:30She just like
34:31full-assaulted me
34:32out there.
34:36I need a boy
34:38with really soft hair
34:39Who lets me run
34:41my hands through
34:41it and doesn't care.
34:43Come on in, Vanya.
34:45Okay.
34:46Ooh, need help?
34:47Go on.
34:49That's a big one.
34:50This is packing
34:51for three days.
35:02Look who it is.
35:03That was good to see you.
35:05Good to see you.
35:05Good to see you.
35:07I am just arriving
35:08to Sunil and Marinka's
35:09house in Maine
35:10and they're hosting
35:11Tony and I
35:12for my birthday weekend.
35:13Thanks for having me.
35:16So what are you making?
35:17I gotta feed my rabbits.
35:21He's got two of them now.
35:22I know.
35:23Two vegans.
35:24You guys can catch up.
35:25I'm just gonna go
35:25change my clothes
35:26because I'm sweaty.
35:28Okay.
35:28Sounds good.
35:28I'll see you in a minute.
35:29Sounds good.
35:31So tell me a little bit
35:33about this guy.
35:35Tony, so he's actually
35:36a doctor.
35:37He's very, very smart
35:39and that's one of the things
35:40that I really love about him
35:41is that, you know,
35:42we can have all these
35:44awesome intellectual conversations
35:45and that's important
35:46because, you know,
35:47I get bored so easily
35:49so I love that.
35:50Well, I can't wait
35:52to meet him, so.
35:53I hope you like him.
35:56Hi, Tony.
35:56Hello.
35:57How are you?
35:58Come on in.
35:59Thank you, thank you.
36:00Nice to see you.
36:01Nice to see you.
36:01Is he going to leave you here?
36:02Yes, that's fine.
36:03Welcome to Maine.
36:03All right.
36:04All right, come on in.
36:05Thank you for having me.
36:06It's Marinka.
36:07Marinka?
36:08Tony, nice to meet you.
36:09Nice to meet you.
36:10Nice to meet you.
36:11My lady.
36:12So, Tony,
36:13can I get yourself a drink?
36:14Yeah, actually,
36:15I could use a bourbon neat.
36:16Sure.
36:17We gotta go downstairs
36:18to the bar.
36:19My expectations
36:20for Tony this weekend
36:21are to get along
36:22with everybody,
36:24present himself
36:25in the best light.
36:26I definitely want
36:27Sainala to give
36:28her stamp of approval.
36:29It would mean
36:30the world to me
36:30to know that she
36:32is on board
36:33with this relationship.
36:34This is beautiful.
36:36Absolutely serene.
36:37How long you guys
36:38lived here for?
36:40About nine years.
36:41Nine years.
36:41You guys were married
36:42for how long?
36:43Nineteen.
36:44Nineteen years.
36:45What's the secret?
36:47Foundation is very,
36:48very important.
36:49You know,
36:50building a strong,
36:50strong foundation.
36:52You were friends.
36:52We were good friends
36:53back then.
36:54Me and Vanya
36:54were best friends
36:55for a year and a half.
36:56But I think
36:57after my divorce
36:58it's a little bit harder
36:59so I'm being
36:59extra cautious.
37:01Yeah.
37:03How long
37:04were you married for?
37:07I was only married
37:07for eight months.
37:08Very short.
37:09There was a lack
37:11of communication
37:12on both ends
37:13in the end.
37:14It's work.
37:15It's not easy.
37:16No marriage,
37:17no relationship.
37:19Nothing is easy.
37:20You know,
37:21you just have to
37:22communicate
37:23and talk about it
37:24and somebody's
37:25got to apologize.
37:31So I thought
37:32we were going
37:32to be making
37:33s'mores.
37:34What happened to that?
37:35Let's go.
37:36Let's go get it.
37:37Let's go get it.
37:37Yeah.
37:39I know that
37:40Sonella wants
37:41to grill Tony
37:41and with me
37:42and Marinka
37:43walking away
37:43I am definitely
37:44giving her
37:45the opportunity
37:46to do that.
37:47Now there's
37:48two of us.
37:50He went
37:51to a bar
37:52alone
37:53after our date
37:54and I still
37:55can't figure out
37:56what he was doing
37:57where his head
37:57was at.
37:58I'm hoping
37:59Sonella can get
38:00to the bottom
38:00of that
38:01because I still
38:02have questions
38:02on it.
38:06Vanya is my
38:06best friend
38:07as you know.
38:08We talk every day
38:09and I've seen
38:10her hurt before.
38:12Is your attention
38:13for a long-term
38:14relationship with Vanya
38:16or is it something
38:17just for the fun?
38:19She told me
38:20about the story
38:20when you guys
38:21went to a restaurant
38:21and took her breath
38:23home and then
38:24you went to a bar
38:24sitting by yourself.
38:25Were you seeking
38:26for another friend?
38:27No.
38:28Yeah, I went to a bar
38:29afterwards but it was
38:30nothing more than that.
38:32And I told her
38:33about the whole experience.
38:34Another girl could have
38:35come and poached you.
38:36Do you know how that looks?
38:38You're worried
38:38that I'm a player.
38:39Yeah.
38:39Is that what you're
38:40getting at?
38:42You had a girlfriend
38:43living with you
38:43and then you were
38:44hanging out with Vanya.
38:45I mean, if I was
38:46that girlfriend
38:46I would be pissed.
38:48I never hung out
38:48with her or I never
38:50hung out with Vanya
38:50when I was dating her.
38:51We were always friends.
38:53We kept it.
38:56Are you sure?
38:57Absolutely.
38:58100%.
38:58Well, uh...
38:58Yeah, the timeline
38:59doesn't match up.
39:02I am coming here
39:03for Vanya's birthday
39:05and to spend time
39:05with the family
39:06and I've barely been here
39:07for an hour
39:08and someone just
39:09gave me a third degree.
39:12Honestly, I feel
39:13betrayed by Vanya
39:14because I feel like
39:16she's told her
39:17a lot about my past
39:18that now someone
39:18is using against me.
39:20I just hope
39:21you're not playing
39:22games with my cousin.
39:23You're looking at my past
39:24and you're not looking
39:24at right now.
39:25What did we miss?
39:27A lovely talk,
39:28a lovely discussion.
39:29Yeah?
39:30All right, well,
39:31the Zerd's here.
39:32I'm gonna hit the hay.
39:33I'm tired, I'm exhausted.
39:35Why?
39:36It's tired.
39:36I mean, a long day.
39:38Long day.
39:41Really?
39:42Yeah, I'm tired.
39:42I'm exhausted.
39:43I just need to get out of here.
39:44Okay, well,
39:45I'm gonna come with.
39:46All right, thanks, guys.
39:48Good night, guys.
39:48I'm sorry.
39:56What happened?
39:58I hope you didn't go
39:59too far.
40:00They're just getting
40:01defensive over nothing.
40:03Like, he's just not
40:04giving me anything
40:05to prove to me
40:07that he really means well.
40:09So you did go too far.
40:14What have you been
40:15talking to her about?
40:15I mean,
40:16she just, like,
40:17full-out assaulted me
40:18out there,
40:18and, I mean,
40:19I just don't appreciate
40:20her line of questioning.
40:22What did she say?
40:24I mean,
40:25I don't wanna get into it.
40:26I'm exhausted,
40:27and...
40:28Is this where
40:29we're sleeping tonight,
40:30or...?
40:30Well, this is where
40:31you're sleeping.
40:32I'm gonna be sleeping
40:33upstairs.
40:34Right.
40:42I planned on
40:43talking to Tony
40:44about my celibacy
40:46and the reason
40:46for not sharing
40:47the bed with him,
40:48but he's really angry,
40:50and he's shutting down,
40:51and now might not be
40:53the best time
40:54to have that conversation.
40:56I guess that is what it is,
40:58and good night.
41:01I absolutely cannot believe
41:04that this trip
41:05is off to such
41:06a bad start,
41:06and this tension
41:10between Tony
41:10and Sonella
41:11is only the beginning.
41:13It's not even
41:13the half of it.
41:14Something happened
41:15with Tony today
41:16that I'm not even ready
41:19to share
41:19with Sonella yet.
41:20It's dangerous
41:23playing with
41:24the heart of a woman.
41:31Still to come
41:32on The Single Life.
41:33Oh, my goodness.
41:42You're getting me
41:42all hot.
41:43Oh, yeah?
41:44Well, that's
41:45and can lead to that.
41:46I'm really excited
41:47to see where
41:48this can take us.
41:49Because I like you.
41:53Whoa, is that
41:54the Queen of England?
41:56Hello, peasants.
41:57Hello.
41:58I've been talking
41:58to a man
41:59from Derbyshire, England
42:01named Wayne.
42:02Hi!
42:03Oh, wow.
42:06This legit
42:07might be my person.
42:10Ah!
42:13I'm single,
42:14I'm on holiday,
42:14and I've told Pedro
42:16I need some space.
42:17Let me touch it.
42:19Oh, wow.
42:20Okay.
42:21This guy looks like
42:22the right amount of space.
42:23For a base.
42:25Like, in you go.
42:29This is my daughter.
42:30I'm surprised
42:31I'm meeting you today.
42:32I didn't expect that.
42:33I'm surprised
42:33you're even here.
42:35If there's going
42:36to be any chance
42:36for our relationship
42:38to work,
42:39I'm going to have
42:39to win Bella over.
42:41I can't stand by
42:43and watch you
42:43embarrass yourself
42:44with a troll like Gino,
42:46the spineless loser
42:47like him.
42:50You okay?
42:51No.
42:53I want to throw up.
42:57Diana and Courtney,
42:59I was treating both women
43:00equally wrong.
43:02I hurt so many people.
43:06I'm going to fight
43:07like hell
43:07to get her back.
43:09Which one?
43:13Good question.
43:15You kiss him.
43:19Yeah.
43:20Bye.
43:21What the hell?
43:23I care about him,
43:24and he thinks I don't
43:25because I went on
43:26one date.
43:27One date.
43:27I went on one date.
43:29This.
43:31I just feel
43:31mad.
43:32I just feel terrible.
43:33Disgrace.
43:38Do you mind
43:38if I have a dance?
43:39It's my girl.
43:40Are you serious?
43:42I'm just like
43:43really done with this.
43:44The fact that he's
43:45projecting this
43:46insecurity on me,
43:47it's not right.
43:47I'm not going to
43:48stand for it.
43:49So you're stopping
43:51me from being
43:51who I am?
43:52You don't see
43:52a problem here at all.
43:53What is the
43:54freaking problem?
43:55The problem is
43:55actually us.
43:56We might have
43:57even bigger problems
43:58than I originally
43:59thought.
44:00I'm done with
44:01this.
44:03I'm done,
44:03Tony.
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