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90 DayFiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 17
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Can we have sex?
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being unromantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You're blowing.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:34This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38That she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:18She's because of my car.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You all right?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you okay?
00:02:24So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:29I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:32But that I'm done.
00:02:55Go to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:01Her and Nat got right into her.
00:03:03She went off yelling at her, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f*** off.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:11How do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:38This morning, I'm really deflated.
00:03:40There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:45I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:48Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:52That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:57I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:03:59It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:01So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:06I'm hurting.
00:04:09I'm just angry, angry.
00:04:13Hey.
00:04:15Elise.
00:04:16How are you?
00:04:20I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:26I couldn't sleep and I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:38Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:41I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:42I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal coming up.
00:04:56I acted cool and I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions
00:05:08for me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That should never happen once.
00:05:26There's going to be a common occurrence.
00:05:28that.
00:05:31You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still going to go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:55I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I, whatever, but you can go to the zoo.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:20or he really likes it, but I think it was a massive overreaction, couldn't have been worse
00:06:25really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the
00:06:30relationship.
00:06:32I'm going to get ready.
00:06:34Can I have a hug?
00:06:36Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:43I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:48I'm sorry.
00:06:50Yeah.
00:06:53But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:03Well, good luck with that.
00:07:05My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am, I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:22Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Oh, they're cute.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32100%, yeah.
00:07:33Hi.
00:07:34Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:39Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:41We are completely hands off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi.
00:07:46Oh, really?
00:07:47Hi.
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:51She is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes,
00:07:56big spiders.
00:07:57We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:07:59Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact.
00:08:03I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thank you so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15Bye.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:25I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with,
00:08:29you know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:39It's so weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay?
00:08:48Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me.
00:09:03And then, f*** what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong, and I will own that, and I will take full responsibility that,
00:09:14like, that at least last night was, like, that's not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:20All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:23You are so much different to her.
00:09:26She's a friend.
00:09:27You are my girl.
00:09:29You embarrass her.
00:09:30You embarrass me.
00:09:32And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:34Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:40The thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:44Like, I am.
00:09:46But things like last night makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:03and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions, and I think just the...
00:10:07You've got answers.
00:10:09You've got answers.
00:10:11You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:33Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:39I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing,
00:10:53and it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:57Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00I can, yeah.
00:11:01I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh,
00:11:06and that's not fair to him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance
00:11:14and not throw this all away for one crazy Elyse escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:39CHRIS PIANOS
00:11:40All of the choice structure can't discover cane.
00:12:42I still have feelings for Laura right now.
00:12:45I see that she is the one who wanted to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:10Maybe a solo lie.
00:13:16Hey, baby.
00:13:18Hey.
00:13:19How was your day?
00:13:20Perfect.
00:13:22Was it okay?
00:13:23Yeah.
00:13:23I'm curious.
00:13:24I enjoyed it.
00:13:27Did you really?
00:13:29Yeah.
00:13:29He's a good guy.
00:13:32I've been saying that.
00:13:34That's a relief to hear.
00:13:36He's a good guy.
00:13:38But it turns out you are not so good.
00:13:46Why?
00:13:47What did I do?
00:13:51He told me that you made a move on.
00:14:02There is one person.
00:14:04I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:23You make me think like Michael is an enemy.
00:14:26He's trying to break us up.
00:14:27I didn't make you think that.
00:14:28You thought that all on your own.
00:14:30But you did not.
00:14:31We did.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:40This is a little thing.
00:14:40Are you sure?
00:14:41It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing.
00:14:44It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk.
00:14:47We were on the couch.
00:14:48I tried to kiss him.
00:14:49Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship, and before I met BeerCon,
00:14:59Michael and I were watching TV, and we both had a pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon, we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch, and I tried to kiss
00:15:10Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:16Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:23And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael, because I knew if I did, he would
00:15:29never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:15:45You tried to kiss him, okay?
00:15:48Yeah, I did.
00:15:49That means you had feelings for him.
00:15:52You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:15:59He's still in your life, and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:03Nothing happened.
00:16:06And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:08It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:17Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk.
00:16:22I tried to kiss him, but he refused me, but we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31Nope.
00:16:32You didn't want it to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:16:44Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:56I'm surprised at BeerCon's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell BeerCon.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me, and I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:22Nothing is going on.
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:25Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31I.
00:17:32No.
00:17:33Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:17:37Or just don't talk.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:43You wanted a young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:50I didn't have to go through all of these new emotions.
00:17:52I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:54You meant you wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:00And I can trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:13If you care this much.
00:18:15No, I don't.
00:18:16You cross the line.
00:18:18If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met, I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:38There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What is that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:18:50I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my d***.
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:06Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother, but I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning
00:19:19on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man, not just following her orders around.
00:19:29When you know, you know, that's how the story goes.
00:19:34I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:36Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:39I got this in a globe.
00:19:41It looks like we're going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo!
00:19:45Banana?
00:19:46You going to put me at the plate?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:56Oh!
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:00Hello, pa.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:03Good afternoon, pa.
00:20:04Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir, because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13All right.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:16Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:19No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am, please take a question about now.
00:20:22Last night, Sheena and I, having the night away with each other, getting a chance to be
00:20:27with each other intimately, that was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:20:35Okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines, and I have a lot
00:20:42of hard decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:46And then, uh, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:20:51Very great.
00:20:52Oh, wow.
00:20:53I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:01This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment, and it feels like you're
00:21:05being placed on, like, as a food, which is most people in my country, they would use
00:21:11banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:13It's kind of funny.
00:21:16How's things looking up there, ladies?
00:21:17Pretty good?
00:21:18It's okay, sir.
00:21:19Yeah.
00:21:20I feel like a giant wrap tamale here.
00:21:24Tamale, bro.
00:21:25They're going to throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're going to steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:32Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:38But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:21:44as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:55Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:21:58Yeah.
00:21:59I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah.
00:22:04I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah.
00:22:06Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:08Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:21And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:26And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Wow.
00:22:34I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United
00:22:58States together.
00:22:59But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:04It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things
00:23:14that are way out of my bounds.
00:23:17It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and
00:23:22tears out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any,
00:23:30you know, church.
00:23:31You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but
00:23:43to us only.
00:23:47Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:59I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom's always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm
00:24:19planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:24:33Even though I happen to try to do many things for her, it's time for you to grow up and
00:24:39be
00:24:39a man and try to tell mom that you want to do some things that you wanted to do.
00:24:43Not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict
00:24:57between Sheena and I.
00:25:00I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some
00:25:05space away from my mother.
00:25:11But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:19I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start our lives together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:29I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no, but if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:09We have to decide.
00:26:35You just want the answer, you want to have a baby or not.
00:26:54My uncle said, we are strict about having children because they represent our family
00:27:01line continuing.
00:27:03That's what we believe.
00:27:05And it's not going to change.
00:27:07So we only wait for you, and you know that.
00:27:13In their culture, having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:19I understand that, and I would hate for Trish not to be respected by her community over
00:27:24this.
00:27:26If Trish didn't have a baby, I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:27:32I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:27:46But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family.
00:28:11And I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:17If we're going to be together and get married, then I want to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete, so I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you're saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why do you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:05I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly, because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:29:20And also, my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:27Hey.
00:29:28Yeah.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:37I will file for the visa.
00:29:40Yeah, it's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:29:44And then once she's approved, after we get married, then that's when we're going to start
00:29:49planning our family together.
00:29:53And then just to start planning our family together, we're going to get married, then we're going to get married,
00:30:01then we're going to get married, then we're going to get married.
00:30:28So, what if it's after 20 years, you start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months, then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So, in three months, we are going to be engaged, and you will start the process?
00:30:48If everything goes in the direction that's been going in the last few days, then yes.
00:30:54That's what's going to happen.
00:31:12They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:31:18This is great news. I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision, because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:31:33and the only way that I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:40But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:31:59She would be a great mother.
00:32:01And I'm actually starting to envision it, and things are looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:21When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that, but you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:32:34Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:32:50You have to snuggle before we get up. One less snuggle.
00:32:56Show me your love. Show me your love. Let me show you my love.
00:33:00Show you your love. Let me show you my love.
00:33:01Show you your love. Say how you carry my arm.
00:33:03Then we'll have more sex with you. Before you go. Before you...
00:33:06I hope so.
00:33:09I hope so.
00:33:11Baby. Baby.
00:33:12There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me. One promise.
00:33:17What's that? World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you... Why are you putting it off?
00:33:24I know you like it. And you've been talking. You've been hammering on that.
00:33:28You've been...
00:33:28There's only a few things I've asked of you, and that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa, because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:44Yes.
00:33:45Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:33:48And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:51I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my...
00:33:56Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you. Okay?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:05I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise, because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry. Okay?
00:34:11I'll make it up to you.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay, like, spend, like, one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23We've got to start getting ready.
00:34:27Okay.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:38And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't want to go home.
00:34:53Baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:03So that means when you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America,
00:35:09right?
00:35:09I'm going to do that, babe.
00:35:10My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17Okay.
00:35:18We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one's going to get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28Okay? So that's what we'll do.
00:35:29That's okay.
00:35:33Right, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer, getting you to America, doing what we need
00:35:48to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money. I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:35:57That's fine, but you know how hard Nigeria is, okay? So maybe I have to call you and ask you
00:36:04for assistance.
00:36:07Thanks.
00:36:10You have to try not to because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that. I have you.
00:36:20Yeah.
00:36:21So we have a game plan now.
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:24Hmm.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed. You have to get dressed. We have to get going.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore. Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of
00:36:38the money she's giving me. No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me. She's the one processing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:53Babes.
00:36:55What?
00:36:55This is so funny.
00:36:56You gonna wear it today?
00:36:58Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:01They would say your wife is wicked.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause. She deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:37:12That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:37:21What I want is love. And she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss. I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying. It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband. I love you.
00:37:43I knew it was going to be hard. I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:37:46Last time we were here, I got engaged. To you. Oh my God, baby.
00:37:59This trip was nothing what I expected. I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:38:05I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing. I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:12I didn't imagine any of this. I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat. I mean, none of this I never
00:38:19could have experienced without coming here.
00:38:27I don't want to go. But I have to go.
00:38:34I don't want to do with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon. When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:57It's okay, baby. It's okay, baby. It's okay, baby. I love you so much. I love you so, so much.
00:39:10We'll be together soon.
00:39:21I feel that I will not see her again. Because anything can happen. She might go back to her country
00:39:30and she might change her mind on most of the promises, like bringing me to her country. You know, on
00:39:35the visa.
00:39:37I
00:39:37Am hoping she will do it, but we are not married legally yet
00:39:42So it's very hard for me to say goodbye
00:39:46Miss you so much
00:39:50Love you baby. I can't do it. You have to walk away from me. I can't do it
00:40:07I'll go
00:40:12It's very hard I feel like I'm not gonna see him again even though I know I'm going to I'm
00:40:17making these plans
00:40:18But I'm thinking what if they fall through
00:40:22What if it's more than six months what if it's more than a year what if what if what if
00:40:27it's two years
00:40:30What happens between Daniel and I I don't know
00:40:38Oh
00:40:49It's nice a big house you can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:40:54I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night
00:40:58But she's trying to make it up to me, you know
00:41:01I've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing this must mean I really like
00:41:05you
00:41:06Oh
00:41:07Oh
00:41:08I said you play with my heart you said you're fine with the cheap stuff it is the same
00:41:19In the dark
00:41:20In the light of the cold grey cries for the old days
00:41:26It's a match in the dark
00:41:28Okay, we have everything you think?
00:41:30Yep. Okay to a trip just us
00:41:34It's just us
00:41:50What's this?
00:41:51Uh, it's called deodorant
00:41:56I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night
00:42:00But Elise has realized she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me and she's
00:42:05Organized a two-night stay at the Blue Mountains
00:42:07Take me away
00:42:10The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls and it's a different part of nature besides the beaches
00:42:15that Sydney has
00:42:16So I'm excited, you know, I've never even been
00:42:20I wouldn't say all is forgiven but she's trying and this is a good start
00:42:34Oh my god are we here?
00:42:35We are here
00:42:38This is nice
00:42:39It's a big house, we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:42:44Yes we can
00:42:47I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains
00:42:50But Josh has always spoken about it and how much he wanted to go so I decided to book us
00:42:55a trip
00:42:56And there's hot tubs there so I was like, love that
00:43:00Look baby, look what I got us
00:43:02Whoa, oh wow
00:43:04A lot of space for a lot of activity
00:43:07You're the best
00:43:09I know
00:43:10I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi, away from Nat, away from Chris, away from
00:43:16Boats
00:43:17I just want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more
00:43:23Get out of the kitchen, I was cooking for you
00:43:25You know I've never used the kitchen in my house
00:43:30So the fact that I'm doing this for you must mean I really like you
00:43:33That does mean a lot
00:43:35This should be fun
00:43:43What have you done?
00:43:46This is not the worst stuff I thought was going to be in my mouth
00:43:50Oh no
00:43:51Can you get in my mouth?
00:43:54I'm crying
00:43:55This is...
00:44:00That was a process
00:44:02Half of it went in my mouth, my face, my boobs
00:44:05Maybe, should I take it out?
00:44:09Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:44:11I don't know how to turn on the soap
00:44:13Oh
00:44:15Which pasta do you want?
00:44:17That's so embarrassing
00:44:19What pack was that in?
00:44:21I'm making you two types of pasta
00:44:23Perfect
00:44:25Like...
00:44:28Nope, not ready
00:44:29Oh God, did you?
00:44:32This feels really good
00:44:35Oh my God
00:44:40I read somewhere, I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall
00:44:45So like if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall, then you know it's ready
00:44:48Yeah, but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta
00:44:54Let's throw in the pasta
00:44:57Oh my God, there's water in here
00:45:01I think I just ruined the sauce
00:45:03Baby
00:45:05The kitchen is definitely not her element
00:45:08I love seeing the side of Elise that's doing something that she's not used to doing
00:45:13I don't like that one
00:45:14Elise, she keeps me on my toes
00:45:17I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale
00:45:21And I know it's not going to be dull with her
00:45:23Let's see, here we go
00:45:25Is it good?
00:45:26It's actually not that bad
00:45:33It's horrible
00:45:35Be honest
00:45:36I'm not picky
00:45:37It was the most fun I've had making dinner
00:45:41I laughed my head off
00:45:42And I needed that
00:45:43Me too
00:45:45You know what's so cute about Josh
00:45:47Is like when I f*** up or I do something stupid
00:45:49Or I feel really awkward
00:45:51Like he makes so light of it
00:45:53I don't know, it's like
00:45:54It's the little moments like then
00:45:56That I'm like, you know what, like
00:45:57I feel like he could be my forever
00:46:00But there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on
00:46:03And it's been constantly playing in the back of my mind
00:46:06I don't know if I can go back to Florida
00:46:10Not having met your son
00:46:13To see how you are as a father
00:46:15You would have met him already, I would want you to
00:46:17But he's moved away
00:46:19So for now, like, can we FaceTime?
00:46:22Will that work?
00:46:23Yeah
00:46:25I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through
00:46:28But I'm leaving soon
00:46:30And I haven't met anyone in his family
00:46:31I haven't met his son
00:46:33And this is a huge part of his life
00:46:35That I'm completely missing out on
00:46:38So I really, really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip
00:46:43Pretty full
00:46:44Me too
00:46:49I don't know
00:46:49Are you looking for wedding bands?
00:46:51I like classic stuff
00:46:54It is really important for me to have the wedding ring
00:46:59$268
00:47:01I think he's not sure
00:47:04They don't want someone mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman
00:47:09They can have you
00:47:10Okay
00:47:11Okay
00:47:12Okay
00:47:25It's adorable
00:47:27Sure
00:47:28Why not?
00:47:31We have a wiener!
00:47:33Yeah, you really wanted that, don't you?
00:47:38I don't know
00:47:40I'm not sure
00:47:40We have a wiener!
00:47:42We have a wiener!
00:47:42Ready, boo?
00:47:42Woo!
00:47:44Woo!
00:47:46Woo!
00:47:50Oops!
00:47:52Ha!
00:47:53Ha!
00:47:54Ha!
00:47:55That chick knows my belly!
00:47:57Ha!
00:47:58Ha!
00:47:58Ha!
00:47:59Ha!
00:48:03Ha!
00:48:05That was fun
00:48:06Yeah
00:48:06That was so fun
00:48:09Oh, look at those shops
00:48:10That's where you can find very nice wedding gowns and dresses
00:48:15Like, really pretty
00:48:17Nice
00:48:18Can't wait for the anniversary party
00:48:22Yeah
00:48:25Things with Jovon and I are really good
00:48:28And now, in a couple of days, we're having our anniversary party
00:48:32Where we're going to renew our vows
00:48:36Since we never had a wedding in person
00:48:38Basically, it's just like a second wedding to me
00:48:42You know?
00:48:45Because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face
00:48:49I've been dreaming about this
00:48:52I've been dreaming about this
00:48:52And now it's happening and I just can't wait
00:48:57Okay, boo
00:48:59Yay!
00:49:01Are you ready?
00:49:02Yeah, I guess so
00:49:06Now that we're going to renew our vows
00:49:10Good afternoon
00:49:11We decided to look at rings
00:49:15We've been married almost three years
00:49:17And sometimes I still can't believe that Jovon hasn't put a ring on it yet
00:49:24I feel like I'm the only woman in the world that got married without a wedding band
00:49:31Hi
00:49:33Hello, what are you looking for?
00:49:35Uh, we're looking for wedding bands
00:49:37We have different styles
00:49:38Okay
00:49:39What are you prepared for?
00:49:41Well, I'm okay with the simple, plain wedding bands
00:49:44I want it more classic
00:49:47I like classic stuff
00:49:53This one
00:49:57It is really important for me to have the wedding ring, my symbol of love
00:50:03You need a ring to symbolize that?
00:50:06I assume you don't want someone mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman
00:50:11They can have you
00:50:12Okay
00:50:15She's on the market
00:50:16I'll go, I'll go
00:50:17I'm playing, relax
00:50:19When is your wedding?
00:50:22Well, we're actually married already
00:50:24We don't have an official wedding rings yet
00:50:27We did our marriage online, that's why
00:50:30You know, to be fair, you know, I did get you a ring
00:50:37Okay, you send me your money and I bought a ring that's under $100
00:50:43That's turned my finger green
00:50:46But that's what you wanted
00:50:47I thought...
00:50:48No, I thought it's just a substitute ring
00:50:51Mmm
00:50:52How about Borserk?
00:50:54What do you think?
00:50:55When it comes to bands, like, I prefer, like, black like this, silver in the middle
00:51:02Kind of sporty, but they don't sell that good
00:51:07I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married, and I like it a lot
00:51:15I'm not a jewelry person, and I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need or want
00:51:23I'm not a jewelry person
00:51:23This one is good, it's just that...
00:51:26It's too, uh...
00:51:29Skinny?
00:51:30Like, do you have something that's a little bit wider?
00:51:33I have different kind of design
00:51:35Okay, this one
00:51:39This one is good, I like this one
00:51:42More simple, but really looks like I'm married
00:51:46You know what I mean?
00:51:48How much is this?
00:51:50Per gram, no?
00:51:52Yes
00:51:5215,510 in peso
00:51:5315,510?
00:51:55How much is that in US$?
00:51:57268
00:51:58In dollar
00:51:59268, yeah
00:52:00Do you have anything budget?
00:52:03No, we didn't really have a budget
00:52:06But...
00:52:09He's not sure
00:52:10Are we gonna buy this?
00:52:13What do you mean today?
00:52:15Yeah
00:52:17I can come back, boo
00:52:24I can come back, boo
00:52:25You can come back?
00:52:27Yeah
00:52:29Cause I gotta sort out my bank stuff
00:52:31Okay
00:52:34Why would you bring me ring shopping?
00:52:38Why would you bring me ring shopping?
00:52:38If we're not gonna buy anything anyway?
00:52:41What's the point of going out?
00:52:44Just to get an idea of what you want
00:52:54Thank you so much, bye-bye
00:52:58I feel so humiliated
00:53:02That I can't even have the cheapest ring
00:53:04It's not just a jewelry
00:53:07It's a symbol of our marriage
00:53:10I waited six years
00:53:12To be together in person
00:53:14He never applied for a spousal visa
00:53:17And now I still don't have a ring
00:53:23Once again, he is making me feel
00:53:26Like he's not invested in our relationship
00:53:31That was embarrassing
00:53:33A little bit
00:53:35You just don't care, don't you?
00:53:45I don't know why he insists
00:53:47That I'm in love with him
00:53:49I really don't
00:53:50I mean, you did
00:53:50Jump on a plane
00:53:52And come to my rescue
00:53:54I don't think
00:53:55He's the only person
00:53:56That thinks that
00:53:59There's a lot of layers there
00:54:01And, I mean
00:54:16Oh
00:54:20Hey
00:54:22A little concern from that phone call you gave me
00:54:24Yeah?
00:54:26Me too
00:54:36I'm assuming you've talked to Miracon?
00:54:38Yeah, I did
00:54:39It was super great
00:54:41Thanks for that
00:54:42I kind of partly blame you
00:54:45Okay
00:54:48I don't know
00:54:49He's... you don't know?
00:54:50I don't know what was said between you and him
00:54:53I only know my end of the story
00:54:55Okay
00:54:55So, we have to come together
00:54:58Okay
00:54:59Super curious
00:55:00What was going through your head?
00:55:02Telling him that I hit on you
00:55:05Like, I don't understand what...
00:55:07How that even came up
00:55:09We never did anything
00:55:10And he's pissed off about it
00:55:12Because I didn't tell him
00:55:14Told me that he wishes he never met me
00:55:17And I kind of feel like
00:55:19There was zero reason for you to bring that up
00:55:22Okay
00:55:23And I'd like to know why you did
00:55:24Okay
00:55:25Okay
00:55:27I'm brought it up because
00:55:28Biracon
00:55:29Was under the impression that I was in love with you
00:55:32That man kept pushing and pushing and pushing
00:55:36And at some point I needed him to understand
00:55:39That
00:55:40I said no
00:55:43To us having a relationship
00:55:45But you were the one that asked
00:55:46And from that he got very upset
00:55:48And I tried to reassure him it was a year ago
00:55:50It didn't...
00:55:51I mean it was before you met him
00:55:53It was...
00:55:54I feel like honestly
00:55:55It feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it
00:56:00How long have you been here with him?
00:56:03How long have you been here with him?
00:56:05Two and a half weeks?
00:56:06And in two and a half weeks you cannot convince him that I was not a threat?
00:56:08What?
00:56:16But that's not on me
00:56:17I did everything I could to defuse that situation
00:56:21I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you
00:56:26I really don't
00:56:26I mean you did
00:56:27Jump on a plane and come to my rescue
00:56:31I don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:56:37There's a lot of layers there
00:56:39But
00:56:40No, that's
00:56:41Not something I want to have
00:56:43Anyhow
00:56:45More friends
00:56:47I don't want to anymore
00:56:50At the end of the day
00:56:51I want you to be happy
00:56:53All I ever heard was little stories here and there about him from you
00:56:56You said all these bad things
00:56:59And just
00:57:00Why does she keep talking to this guy?
00:57:02So I came to meet him
00:57:03To see all the other good stuff
00:57:05And you don't have to worry about him and I anymore
00:57:08You just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you
00:57:11Before you make a commitment
00:57:13I don't even know what to do right now
00:57:15Like there's part of me that just wants to like go have another conversation with him
00:57:18But I don't even know what to say
00:57:19Cause he just told me he wishes he never met me
00:57:22Okay, but the opposite of love is not anger, it's apathy
00:57:25So angry means he still loves you
00:57:29I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all
00:57:35Romantically
00:57:37But I think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind
00:57:40And I think he does care about the future of my relationship with beer con
00:57:45Beer con is the person I need in my life
00:57:48And I want to fix this
00:57:50I just don't really know how to go about it
00:57:54So what do I do?
00:57:55I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal
00:58:00Do you acknowledge that he felt the way he did?
00:58:03It didn't matter whether he was right or not
00:58:06No, I never said that
00:58:08At the end of the day
00:58:10The relationship is more important than the argument
00:58:15Which means somebody has to say I'm sorry
00:58:19It's amazing how the words I'm sorry
00:58:21When said truly can diffuse the situation
00:58:25Okay, I see your point
00:58:28I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that
00:58:32Thank you
00:58:37I'll let you know how it goes
00:58:39Thank you
00:58:40Yeah
00:58:58How are you?
00:59:01I'm good
00:59:02How are you?
00:59:04I'm okay
00:59:06I was just wondering if we could talk
00:59:13Uh-uh, not today
00:59:16Uh-uh, not today
00:59:16I'm sorry, did you say not today?
00:59:19Yeah
00:59:23Am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
00:59:26I'm sorry
00:59:28Just give me that space
00:59:32Okay, I guess I will get a room somewhere
00:59:37Okay, we both need time
00:59:41Yeah
00:59:41And we both need to think about what's going on
00:59:44Mm-hmm
00:59:47Okay
00:59:50Okay, bye
00:59:53Bye
00:59:59I don't want to force you, but like
01:00:01Am I ever going to meet your son?
01:00:04When Elise asked to meet my son
01:00:06I can see that she really, really cares
01:00:08But honestly, after all the fighting with Elise
01:00:10I've had my doubts about trying to let her in
01:00:13to the most important part of my life
01:00:22Oh my god
01:00:23Oh, that's hot, oh, that's nice, right?
01:00:26Oh, it's really hot
01:00:28That's burning me
01:00:30Oh, you found the champagne, I got it
01:00:32I did, it's so good
01:00:34I think we should open it
01:00:39Wow!
01:00:41Cheers to that
01:00:49What a perfect ending to a perfect little day
01:00:53What a drive
01:00:55Good cooking
01:00:58It's so funny, huh?
01:01:00It's so funny, okay?
01:01:01I tried
01:01:03So am I making it up to you?
01:01:05Am I doing a good job so far?
01:01:07Yeah, absolutely
01:01:10Well, have I made it up to you enough
01:01:12that, like, you can let me in your own world?
01:01:17Yeah, I've...
01:01:19Well...
01:01:20I want to be with you and
01:01:22I'm scared that
01:01:23I've came literally around the world
01:01:25and all I've met is, like, a few friends
01:01:28And I don't want to force you
01:01:30but, like...
01:01:31Am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:38When Elise asks to meet my son or, you know, talk to my son, I find that endearing
01:01:42But honestly, the last couple of days, after all the fighting with Elise, I've had my doubts about whether I'll
01:01:48introduce him or not
01:01:50Obviously, I'm very protective of my son
01:01:52So I want to be confident that this relationship is going to work
01:01:57I understand he's young and it's, like, a video call and it's probably, like, a lot to explain to him
01:02:04Yeah, I do want to prove how much you mean to me
01:02:08But, um, that's been playing on me heavily
01:02:14What's been playing on you heavily? Explain that
01:02:17It's just been, you know, a tough year
01:02:21I didn't move him away, but, you know, he's an hour and a half plane ride and I don't see
01:02:28him as much as I want
01:02:28But, I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can, so
01:02:35It's just...
01:02:37A guilty feeling for me at the moment
01:02:41I miss him, you know, especially when you're here, you know
01:02:45Really?
01:02:46Well, yeah, well, cos when you're here, I think, you know, if he was here as well, it'd be like
01:02:50I'd love you two to get along and then it'd be, like, a perfect little world
01:02:57I guess it's just painful to, to think about it
01:03:02It's okay to have feelings, it's okay to be upset
01:03:06If you weren't emotional about your son, and you didn't feel this way, I would be worried
01:03:10I'd be very, very worried
01:03:13It means you're a good dad and it means you care
01:03:20You know, it's like having a son's responsibility and, like, excitement and you do things with him
01:03:24And then when something like that gets taken away from you, you're like, I feel like I lost myself
01:03:31Yeah, I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself
01:03:36My relationship with my son, we're really tight
01:03:39I've been there since he was born
01:03:41He's my little partner in crime
01:03:43We go camping, we go fishing, surfing, you know, we kick footballs, we go and play golf
01:03:48It's such a good part of my life
01:03:51So, it really did hurt this year when I didn't have that
01:03:57I want to help make you feel like you're back together
01:04:03I want to be that rock for you
01:04:10I want to be there for you, support you in any way I can, but you have to let me
01:04:13into your life
01:04:15I can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:04:20This is very emotional because being away from my son affected me, you know, more than I thought
01:04:26But I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life
01:04:30I can see that she really, really cares
01:04:33She's shown that she's worthy of, you know, getting to know my son
01:04:37But at the same time, it is scary to let her in, the most important part of my life
01:04:42What if things don't work out?
01:04:43You know, that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us
01:04:47Well, I'm here for you now
01:05:10I mean, after getting her family's approval
01:05:14I mean, after getting her family's approval
01:05:17I just... it up
01:05:21Thank you very much
01:05:22I don't want anything to approach
01:05:23I don't want anything to approach
01:05:51My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby
01:05:55My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby
01:06:03Hello, man, now, thank you for your blood
01:06:07Oh, my God, they're crying
01:06:10Hello, man
01:06:15I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes, that I'm willing to have a child
01:06:21But it felt great to get Trisha's father's blessing
01:06:25Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family
01:06:29But I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo
01:06:33Now, Trisha and I, we can sleep together and, you know, take a nice, warm shower together
01:06:38And not have to worry about the eyeballs on us
01:06:44They were really happy
01:06:46You see all of them
01:06:48Wasn't it?
01:06:50I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off
01:06:54After I said that, after I agreed to have that baby
01:06:58They are so sweet
01:06:59I'm going to miss them
01:07:01I'm going to miss them
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby
01:07:06But what if you change your mind?
01:07:13Maybe
01:07:13As long as we're going and moving in the right direction
01:07:17I'm all on board with having a baby with you
01:07:21Because I know that it'll make you happy
01:07:23I know that's what you really want
01:07:27I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind
01:07:31About whether or not I'm financially ready to have another child
01:07:36But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises
01:07:41This could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family
01:07:46I know how much her family means to her
01:07:49So I feel like that I have to keep my word
01:07:54I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation
01:07:57To financially support another child
01:08:03Yeah, I'm kind of banking on that
01:08:07Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out
01:08:10I'm hoping her, I'll keep you
01:08:18You do love me
01:08:19Baby, Dad, I love you more than anything
01:08:32I think I like you
01:08:33Do you have to use the restroom or anything?
01:08:35No, I don't eat anything with this dog or a chicken.
01:08:44Well, damn.
01:08:46My flight's been delayed.
01:08:48That's it.
01:08:50We wait for one hour.
01:08:52Hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana.
01:08:57Couple of days in Tana before my baby is going to go back.
01:09:06That's really sad.
01:09:09Sad story.
01:09:12It's just all beginning.
01:09:15Oh, no.
01:09:39We were waiting on our flight, and it just kept getting delayed.
01:09:44The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:09:48I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:09:51Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:09:56And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:10:01It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone, and she probably saw that
01:10:13my ex had texted me.
01:10:15Is this the same ex you went to see in Colombia?
01:10:19Yes.
01:10:33A few days ago, I got a text message from my ex, and she was telling me that she misses
01:10:44the times that we had together.
01:10:47And I responded, and I responded inappropriately.
01:11:17Why?
01:11:20Why?
01:11:21Malzinho Mendyia, oh, I remember.
01:11:23Oh, oh.
01:11:26Finally.
01:11:27He told me that he's not talking to his ex.
01:11:30It's completely over between Rick and that girl, but they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:11:42baby
01:11:48he makes me sad
01:11:57like i love him we talk about the babies the future and
01:12:07i we just my dad just give him blessing
01:12:15i don't want anything
01:12:18i mean after getting her family's approval everything just felt it felt different than
01:12:31i did the whole couple weeks prior how did i come so close to getting my what i wanted
01:12:40and then i just up i'm not sure if i'll get another chance to make things right with trish
01:12:50and it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter
01:13:03are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the united states
01:13:09we are leaving tomorrow
01:13:11i know my mom is not going to accept it but i'm ready to do what i need to do
01:13:17to ensure
01:13:17she and i are together i have decided i'm going to stay here in the philippines this
01:13:23is our choice what's that you just came out of your mouth
01:13:46man i'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today
01:13:48i know he feels relaxed when mom is sitting around and we're bad and sorry
01:14:05so when i talked to forrest he's like oh surprise mom i went and met with a lawyer and the
01:14:12lawyer
01:14:12says he has to have like certain amount of income something like like that he didn't do anything right at
01:14:18all
01:14:20i'm upset right now forrest is coming back and for the last few days dev and i haven't heard anything
01:14:27from forrest or sheena
01:14:28and we've just felt like we're kind of been left in the dark
01:14:32you know i don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation
01:14:40i don't know what the conversation is gonna be
01:14:47we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow
01:14:50and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all
01:15:03hey mom
01:15:05how's things going
01:15:07it's going pretty good how are you guys
01:15:13well i think we need to have a talk
01:15:16yeah
01:15:16i think we need to figure things out a little bit
01:15:19yeah
01:15:21that's kind of why we're here
01:15:25today was supposed to be my last day in the philippines
01:15:28but she and i have made the decision for me to stay here
01:15:33and basically start a life here with her
01:15:39i know that my mom is not going to accept it but she has to understand that
01:15:45i'm not the child that you know she's seen all these years i have changed a lot this trip and
01:15:53i'm ready to do what i need to do to ensure she and i are together
01:16:24wow
01:16:26she has a whole story
01:16:26yes i agree oh my goodness
01:16:29oh look at that yay oh thank you oh that's beautiful
01:16:35gracias good job guys
01:16:37that's awesome
01:16:37well you realize you have to be not only in a rhythm with the bamboo but you have to be
01:16:44in a rhythm with your partner too at the same time
01:16:46kind of like life
01:16:49well i think she and i will work moving in perfect rhythm
01:16:55yeah definitely
01:16:57yeah definitely
01:17:02so she and do we get menus or how does how does it work
01:17:05actually there's a set menu that's going to be prepared so you can try guys
01:17:15thank you so much
01:17:19so with the the um where where you guys went just fill me in what happened and give me all
01:17:26the details
01:17:28um yeah i feel like me and sheena we really bonded
01:17:35in more ways than one
01:17:44you had sex didn't you
01:17:49you know what yeah we did
01:17:53now time
01:17:55i enjoyed it it was fun
01:17:58yeah
01:18:01yeah
01:18:01you guys uh think that you have a good physical connection with each other
01:18:07yeah
01:18:09i feel like our souls
01:18:11have been connected
01:18:12really connected and now we can really understand each other
01:18:15yeah
01:18:18i'm happy that you know my son finally lost his virginity finally you know
01:18:24nookie nookie nookie bang bang bang bang
01:18:28then also too that's an important aspect to know if they had compatibility on all aspects including sexuality
01:18:38well that's good i'm glad you guys are both de virginized finally that's yeah mom
01:18:48well you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that forest has to leave you
01:18:54tomorrow
01:18:54but it must be very painful but are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to try and get
01:19:06you over to the united states
01:19:10did you guys talk make any plans because this is we are leaving tomorrow
01:19:20yeah we talked a lot yesterday um with the k-1 visa i found out that being on disability i
01:19:30don't make enough money
01:19:32so she and i have decided that i'm going to stay here and live here in the philippines
01:19:41forest
01:19:41i'm tired of being alone
01:19:44oh my god
01:19:46i did not expect to be staying here long term
01:19:50oh you didn't expect it full
01:19:53i want my love with me in my second half
01:19:55this is our choice
01:19:58what's that that you just came out of your mouth
01:20:01mom
01:20:01where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out
01:20:05was that in between the
01:20:07excuse me
01:20:09you could say one thing something you want to say but for me i have him he had me
01:20:12i don't care if you're here for my son
01:20:14i'm doing my best for the part for your son
01:20:16because i love your son and i want everything for heart for him for our future
01:20:19i want you to trust your son for once in a while
01:20:26i trust my son
01:20:28i don't trust you
01:20:34sorry i just want to need space
01:20:38sorry
01:20:39sorry
01:20:39excuse me
01:20:47next time on before the 90 days
01:20:49when do you plan on applying for the fiancee visa so i can live in police
01:20:55i thought you were going to apply for me in the u.s
01:20:59no
01:21:01stig never mentioned wanting to move to the u.s
01:21:04it's two hours before i'm leaving
01:21:06it's just really weird timing
01:21:08you won't be able to make any money
01:21:10i swear you're going to be my sugar mama
01:21:13i wish we could have talked it out last night
01:21:16you've been texting with him this morning what has he been saying
01:21:19i asked him if we could talk and he said sure
01:21:22so
01:21:23i want to show him that my feelings for him are so much stronger than how i ever felt about
01:21:30michael
01:21:31why did you mislead me while michael made the move
01:21:34i was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him
01:21:40can you do that
01:21:45are you excited about today
01:21:46i think i should ask you that question though
01:21:49i just don't know what i'm gonna say for my vows
01:21:53it's just gonna be like the basics
01:21:56i just wanted today to be full of love
01:22:01but it just feels like any other day for him
01:22:05i don't know
01:22:06i can't pretend that everything is fine
01:22:12i love your son and i'll do anything my best for him
01:22:14love doesn't pay the bills gina
01:22:17you know i'm like in panic mode that he's gonna move to the philippines
01:22:21it's not gonna work it won't work
01:22:24how much do you think that you're gonna make
01:22:26working here
01:22:27where are you gonna live for us
01:22:29have you even factored how much it's gonna cost
01:22:33i don't know what to do
01:22:37all the messages in the text
01:22:39why did you betray me
01:22:42why don't you block her
01:22:44if you want this relationship
01:22:46tell her that you don't want her anymore
01:22:49that i'm with you
01:22:51i love trish
01:22:53but i mean love isn't
01:22:55so black and white
01:22:57i need to be honest about my feelings
01:23:00i don't know what to do
01:23:04oh my god stunning
01:23:07i don't think at least realized you know what she'd signed up for
01:23:10mom
01:23:13i'm so involved
01:23:15come on baby
01:23:16what do i do
01:23:18you
01:23:19yeah at first i'm just thinking she's being a drama queen
01:23:23and i start to think oh s***
01:23:24is she okay
01:23:28help me child
01:23:29help me child
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