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00:00:01Makimaki.
00:00:02Makimaki.
00:00:03Yes.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:06I feel honored you are going to introduce me to your family.
00:00:11If you don't want to have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:00:15This trip is very important, but before we meet her family,
00:00:20I have to tell Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:00:24I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:00:29Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
00:00:34Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir yanı var.
00:00:37Kanka, kumar oynamaya devam ettiğini biliyor musun?
00:00:42I gamble every day.
00:00:44There are opportunities I have.
00:00:46Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence.
00:00:50What?
00:00:53You practice Levyar regime?
00:00:56I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
00:00:59You don't practice it anymore?
00:01:00No, sir.
00:01:03Do you lie?
00:01:05I am not a liar, uncle.
00:01:08Okay.
00:01:09I will give you guys my blessing.
00:01:13I am thrilled I have the blessing.
00:01:16But I feel guilty as all hell, because I am lying.
00:01:24On our second anniversary, you forgot this is your thing, being unromantic.
00:01:31I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:33Like, making sure your lights is on, because you're at home, and then I'm working.
00:01:39I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:41Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:45From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
00:01:51You're lying about...
00:01:52Okay, the difference between Ziad and I.
00:01:55Why are you...
00:01:55Everything I've said...
00:01:56I know, but I'm speaking.
00:01:58Everything I've said...
00:01:59When I'm talking, you should listen to me.
00:02:00I do respect you, but I'm...
00:02:01You're so disrespectful.
00:02:03You are, you are, you are, you are.
00:02:09Zero percent.
00:02:10So you're saying in this very moment, you see zero percent chance of me being your wife?
00:02:14I need more time to know you, and you need more time.
00:02:17But you're at zero?
00:02:18Zero.
00:02:39I need to sleep.
00:02:41I'm so terrified.
00:02:43No comments.
00:02:44No talking.
00:02:45So there's zero percent chance you want to marry me?
00:02:47Are we not going to discuss it?
00:02:50I want to just sleep.
00:02:51Zero percent, Ziad.
00:02:52So that's what you're feeling right now about us.
00:02:55Zero percent.
00:02:56And I don't know why you would say that in front of your friends
00:02:58when it's like my first time meeting them.
00:03:01Do you not think that's disrespectful?
00:03:03To talk to me like that in front of your friends?
00:03:05Disrespectful is when someone speak, we have to listen to him.
00:03:09I listen.
00:03:09All I do is listen to you.
00:03:10No, no, you didn't.
00:03:11You are always difficult.
00:03:13You can't...
00:03:13I'm always difficult?
00:03:15Let me speak.
00:03:15How am I difficult, Ziad?
00:03:18You've said one thing to me online.
00:03:20I don't hear nothing what you say.
00:03:21No, you speak.
00:03:22So you don't care about my feelings that I'm upset right now?
00:03:24No, no, no.
00:03:25Okay, Ziad.
00:03:26You can go to sleep.
00:03:27Okay.
00:03:29So good night.
00:03:31I say good night.
00:03:32Okay.
00:03:34Okay.
00:03:54I have some tea for you.
00:04:10This morning, I woke up, and I'm just almost at my breaking point.
00:04:14I came all the way to Morocco, and I've given this relationship my all.
00:04:19And to hear that Ziad is 0% sure of having a future with me, I'm just confused.
00:04:26Before I came to Morocco, he showed me an engagement ring saying that it was here and waiting for me.
00:04:31I spent thousands of dollars to come here, just to be sitting here right now with Ziad, and then for
00:04:38Ziad to be saying he's 0% sure, I really feel like I deserve some answers.
00:04:44So how are you feeling after, like, what happened with your friends last night?
00:04:50They gave us their opinions.
00:04:52Yeah.
00:04:54And I feel good to see them, too.
00:04:56I mean, it was nice to meet your friends.
00:04:59And I know that we have a lot to work on, but before I got here, you made it seem
00:05:04like we were ready to be engaged, and then I meet your friends, and you're, like, 0% sure.
00:05:10It makes me feel like we're never going to get married, we're never going to get engaged.
00:05:14This whole trip was a waste of my time and money that I don't have, and I'm basically here for,
00:05:21like, no reason.
00:05:24I say it's 0% for the moment.
00:05:28It's like, why now?
00:05:30You don't understand me, so...
00:05:32But how am I not... I understand what that means, so what am I not understanding about that?
00:05:36No, in your mind.
00:05:37Do you realize everything you've said about me since I got here has been negative?
00:05:44It seems like you're always mad at me. I'm always doing something wrong.
00:05:48Like, when we were talking online, you were always so nice and cute and sweet.
00:05:52I would send me nice messages and, you know, say all these, like, cute romantic things.
00:05:57And then since I've gotten here, it's been like, you're, like, mad all the time.
00:06:03Am I the girl that you want to be with?
00:06:10Yeah.
00:06:14And all these things you said, it's right.
00:06:19I'm sorry for that, really.
00:06:24I want you to enjoy here with me.
00:06:28So from right now, I would be so nice.
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:39At this moment, I don't know if I will marry here or not.
00:06:43But I'm a good wife and a good woman.
00:06:48Emma, I know her inside her.
00:06:51She's special.
00:06:52She's so sweet.
00:06:54Yeah, maybe I have been to her own here.
00:06:57I believe there is something between us.
00:07:01So from now, there is no fights.
00:07:04No fights.
00:07:08Aw.
00:07:12You can come here.
00:07:16This feels nice, babe.
00:07:20This is the very first time that I felt any physical chemistry between us.
00:07:25And I feel like things are slowly progressing with the head.
00:07:29Very slowly.
00:07:32Extremely slowly.
00:07:34But, yes, they are progressing.
00:07:37And I'm hoping that this is just a really good sign that we're moving forward.
00:07:42I think we have a lot to work on, but I think we'll be okay.
00:07:48Just with time, everything will be good.
00:08:12My head hurts.
00:08:13It itches.
00:08:15The glue is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.
00:08:30This has been on for about a week.
00:08:33This is the absolute longest I've ever had it on.
00:08:36I've only ever slept with it overnight once, and it wasn't even on for 24 hours.
00:08:41My head hurts.
00:08:42It's time.
00:08:43I have to take it off.
00:08:44I mean, it's awful right now.
00:08:49I've never been this nasty before in my life.
00:08:52I have been in Nigeria in the heat for days, and I have yet to change my wig.
00:08:59No matter how much you pull, it's not going anywhere.
00:09:04So I don't even know how it's going to feel coming off of my head, actually.
00:09:09Ow.
00:09:09It actually hurts.
00:09:16It hurts.
00:09:18It's stuck to my hair.
00:09:20My head itches.
00:09:21I have headaches.
00:09:23My scalp hurts.
00:09:24I have sores.
00:09:25I feel them growing.
00:09:27I see the redness around where my wig cap is.
00:09:31I need to take it off.
00:09:32It's time.
00:09:37Oh, my God.
00:09:43It itches.
00:09:47I have some sores on the side of my head where the glue was.
00:09:53I hate to say this, but the wig actually has an odor to it right now from all the sweating.
00:09:59I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
00:10:04But I need to feel the air touching my scalp.
00:10:10It just feels so incredible.
00:10:13It feels so light and airy, and it's not itchy anymore.
00:10:18At this moment, I don't care what Daniel feels when he sees me.
00:10:23I'm not putting the wig back on anytime soon.
00:10:27God, I've gone through so much in these last few days.
00:10:30And it's not just my hair.
00:10:33We got the approval from Daniel's uncle to be married, but I feel like it was under false pretenses.
00:11:08I don't know what to feel about his uncle.
00:11:09I finally ripped off the band-aid.
00:11:12We started leaving the airport, and there was a festival in the street with African dancers and music playing.
00:11:19It was for me.
00:11:21Daniel planned a festive parade for me.
00:11:24You're sending him money all the time, yet somehow he's able to buy a whole parade?
00:11:32I don't know.
00:11:34I don't know.
00:11:36And there's more.
00:11:38What else?
00:11:42He dropped to his knee, and he pulled out a ring.
00:11:46And I was kind of stuck, so I shook my head, yes.
00:11:52You're awfully quiet.
00:11:54Um, I don't know what to say.
00:11:57Why would someone do that on the first day?
00:11:59Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:12:02At this point, it's beyond love bombing.
00:12:05It's like, you're loving it.
00:12:07God, Ma, this isn't good.
00:12:10You've been lying since day one of the relationship.
00:12:14The other thing I personally have an issue with is you haven't asked Daniel about the women he's been with.
00:12:22You know he's been with tons of women.
00:12:25You know he's a playboy.
00:12:27How could you let all this slide and just blindly agree to marry him?
00:12:33As far as Faith is concerned, a lot of what she said is actually weighing on my brain.
00:12:41Um, I'm thinking a lot about it.
00:12:45I've been so focused on my past and what I've been keeping from Daniel.
00:12:49But Faith is right.
00:12:51Daniel hasn't been forthcoming about his past.
00:12:54Or even other women he's been with.
00:12:57There's been lots of things with Daniel I've let slide.
00:13:01And maybe I should be asking him more questions about it.
00:13:05Daniel said that we are going to meet up with his friends tonight.
00:13:08And I'm excited.
00:13:10I'm hoping that his friends can shed some light and share some stories about who Daniel actually is.
00:13:20Daniel just texted me.
00:13:26Let me gather some laundry up.
00:13:29Oh God.
00:13:31I have no idea what he's going to think about me.
00:13:34Daniel makes me feel like the most beautiful special woman in the world.
00:13:39But he's used to seeing me wear my wig.
00:13:42At home, I don't wear my wig 24-7, seven days a week.
00:13:52So, if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
00:14:08Hey.
00:14:09Oh, wow.
00:14:10Look.
00:14:14Oh, my God.
00:14:19I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:14:26I think it's stupid.
00:14:27It's not even sexy.
00:14:29I don't know.
00:14:31I'd rather walking naked.
00:14:34Oh!
00:14:35Oh, no!
00:14:37That sounds like a plan.
00:14:41I'm so frustrated.
00:14:44Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines.
00:14:46I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:14:50I don't want to do this right now.
00:14:56It's hard to be with him.
00:14:59How much more of this guy could take?
00:15:02I don't know.
00:15:13Anna, why are you so emotional?
00:15:17It's something you will never understand, because you don't have that.
00:15:31Well, I mean, I don't know what to say.
00:15:34Because no matter what I say, you know, if I apologize, that's not going to be good enough.
00:15:39You know, so I don't know what to do in this situation.
00:15:57The argument started about me saying you're not romantic.
00:16:05It has nothing to do with money, but you have to remind me every time we argue about what you
00:16:15do for me, and you throw it to my face.
00:16:18And I feel like it's so unfair, because you want to be a provider, but at the same time, you're
00:16:23always using it as an ammunition.
00:16:28Where did all this go wrong?
00:16:52I didn't want to bring up my role in the marriage.
00:16:59But sometimes I feel like I'm not being appreciated.
00:17:06Sometimes I feel like if I bring it up, she might come around and say, hey, you know, he does
00:17:12a lot for me.
00:17:12Maybe I should just be a little bit nicer.
00:17:15But obviously, that doesn't work.
00:17:18You know, I would definitely want things to be a lot more peaceful between us.
00:17:22But sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines unintentionally.
00:17:27I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:17:32I'm so frustrated.
00:17:42All right.
00:17:45I'm not going to bother you.
00:17:50I'm just, I'm going to take a shower.
00:17:53I don't want to do this right now.
00:18:05I don't really know what's going on in this head, honestly.
00:18:09I am not one of this misogynistic and, you know, masculinity thing.
00:18:14And it's really confusing because it sounds like it's teaching traditional stuff.
00:18:21But at the same time, traditional goes like the man provides.
00:18:26And I'm not even asking for much.
00:18:28I'm not even a woman that you have to spend a lot.
00:18:33Just because I'm, you know, I'm not providing as much as he provides monetarily doesn't mean I'm not doing my
00:18:42part.
00:18:48Just, it's hard to be with him.
00:18:55I've been patient so long.
00:19:00That was my contribution.
00:19:03I stayed all along.
00:19:07But sometimes he just doesn't get me.
00:19:12He knows what sets me off.
00:19:15He knows what hurts my feelings.
00:19:17He knows what offends me.
00:19:21So, we argued a lot before.
00:19:24Online.
00:19:25This is just more different.
00:19:27I'm just not used to it.
00:19:29Like, arguing in person.
00:19:32We've never been together before, so...
00:19:37But then, how much more, like, of this guy could take, I don't know.
00:19:43Just online.
00:19:51Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh,
00:19:58oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:19:58Woo-hoo!
00:19:59Woo-hoo!
00:20:00Uh-oh!
00:20:01Baby, I hope there's no sharks in this water.
00:20:03There is!
00:20:04Oh, hell no!
00:20:05But they are fine.
00:20:06They're nice, right?
00:20:08Oh, hell, there's no such thing as a nice shark.
00:20:11Malagasy shark is...
00:20:13Baby.
00:20:28Here we are.
00:20:31Woo!
00:20:34Where is this place?
00:20:36It's a little bit of a hike up, but it'll be worth it in the end.
00:20:41Believe me.
00:20:43We only have a few more days left of island hopping before we have to head out to meet Trisha's
00:20:49family.
00:20:50It's beautiful up here.
00:20:52There's a lot weighing heavy on my mind after our conversation about meeting her dad and all this pressure about
00:21:01having to have kids.
00:21:03But right now, I'm just trying my best to stay focused on being in such a beautiful place.
00:21:11Why do I have to be up?
00:21:13It'll be worth it once we get up there, honey.
00:21:16Oh.
00:21:17I got us the most incredible place to stay on a very secluded part of Nosy Kumba.
00:21:25It's totally off-grid, and I just love the privacy of it.
00:21:30I see it now, babe.
00:21:31I'm really excited for her to see it and to show her how romantic I can be.
00:21:38All right.
00:21:40We're here, baby.
00:21:42Woo!
00:21:43Our own private quarters, baby.
00:21:46Ha, ha, ha!
00:21:47Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:21:48Baby, yeah!
00:21:49Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:21:51Yeah, baby.
00:21:52Oh, my God!
00:21:53Ha, ha, ha!
00:21:54You like it?
00:21:55Yeah!
00:21:56Come here.
00:21:57Let's check it out.
00:21:58Oh, my God.
00:22:03We can't even see all of this.
00:22:06You see the whole island, baby, here.
00:22:09I'm really surprised.
00:22:11You've never seen a place like this before, baby?
00:22:13I've never.
00:22:15Okay, let's explore here.
00:22:19Be careful, baby.
00:22:20Watch your step here.
00:22:21We got our own little waterfalls and private pools.
00:22:25Oh, my God.
00:22:28I've never stayed to a place like this before.
00:22:32I'm really surprised.
00:22:35It's very beautiful.
00:22:37The view, the house.
00:22:40I'm living here, but I didn't know that a place like this could exist in Madagascar.
00:22:49I did this for you, honey.
00:22:51Beautiful bed.
00:22:53Ooh!
00:22:53I love the bed.
00:22:54It's for you.
00:22:55I got another little surprise for you.
00:22:59What is it?
00:23:02Here we go.
00:23:04I got us a couple of jungle costumes.
00:23:07So we're running around the jungle here.
00:23:09Let me see.
00:23:10There you go.
00:23:11This is yours right here.
00:23:13You serious?
00:23:13Yeah.
00:23:15Yeah.
00:23:15I was hoping you'd want to try it and spice things up.
00:23:19I'll put mine on and you put yours on.
00:23:21Okay.
00:23:24Role playing is something that I recently got into, and I just think it's something fun to do.
00:23:34Playing as if I'm king of the jungle and chasing her around.
00:23:39I mean, it's hot.
00:23:41I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:23:49You look beautiful.
00:23:50I am, seriously.
00:23:53Come on, baby.
00:23:54You look sexy, baby.
00:23:56Let's just go run around and just act a fool.
00:24:01What?
00:24:02What is this?
00:24:03I think it's stupid.
00:24:05It's not even sexy.
00:24:07I don't know.
00:24:09Let's just roll play.
00:24:11Come on.
00:24:12I got you to score what it does.
00:24:15Why'd I get into it?
00:24:17It's like crazy fantasy.
00:24:20But I'm doing it because Rick did a lot to organize this trip.
00:24:26So I'm willing to give it a try to make him happy.
00:24:33In my fantasy, girl.
00:24:35But the way I'm chasing, I don't know.
00:24:38I'd rather walking naked.
00:24:41Oh!
00:24:44That sounds like a plan.
00:24:46Let's walk naked.
00:24:48Yeah!
00:24:49No!
00:24:50Come on, baby.
00:24:51Nobody's going to see.
00:24:53It could be Adam and Eve.
00:24:57Come on, baby.
00:25:21Do you have your own name?
00:25:23How could I not be?
00:25:24And that's what I'm laying next to.
00:25:31We had a wonderful night.
00:25:33The way that she was holding me tight and bringing me in.
00:25:38I feel so connected to Trish, but in the back of my mind, I feel guilty because I know that
00:25:47I've held back for too long now.
00:25:53The time is getting close to when we go to meet her family.
00:25:58I don't want to take such a serious step without telling her about my ex.
00:26:05And so I think that she needs to know the truth.
00:26:14It's so cool here.
00:26:16That's nice.
00:26:18Yeah!
00:26:20What a view, Jesus.
00:26:23Yep, it's a beautiful view, baby.
00:26:26The last few days have been wonderful, I think.
00:26:30It's been like a dream.
00:26:32Yeah, I'm happy.
00:26:38Yeah, baby.
00:26:42There's something that I've been keeping from you.
00:26:48You make me afraid.
00:26:50I don't know what you...
00:26:53Explain yourself.
00:26:59I don't know how I should do this.
00:27:01I don't know what words to say that's going to make it be a forgivable act.
00:27:13I'm worried that she'll want to end things and I'll never see or hear from her again.
00:27:23No, just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:27:31What do you mean?
00:27:37Can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:27:40Do you want the truth?
00:27:42Yeah.
00:27:44When the COVID hits, I'm bankrupt.
00:27:47I find another way to pay that debt.
00:28:13Good morning.
00:28:15Good morning.
00:28:17I really had fun meeting everybody yesterday.
00:28:20I did too.
00:28:21I'm still feeling tired.
00:28:24I've been in Turkey for almost a week now.
00:28:28And it's going okay.
00:28:32We've had some difficult conversations about his debt and my friendship with my best friend, Michael.
00:28:40And then last night, I got to meet Birkan's best friends and they kept having conversation in Turkish and I
00:28:49can't help but feeling like they were keeping another secret from me.
00:28:54Are you excited for the day?
00:28:56I don't know.
00:28:57I don't know what to be excited about.
00:29:00I don't even know what to pack.
00:29:02Yeah, you better pack.
00:29:04Last night, Birkan told me that we're going on this surprise romantic getaway and I'm honestly having mixed feelings about
00:29:12it.
00:29:15I am incredibly nervous at the thought of a romantic getaway right now.
00:29:20I'm learning about his debts and the issues that he's having with jobs and money.
00:29:27And maybe I'm wrong, but it comes across to me as manipulative.
00:29:30You're trying to win me back over with something sweet.
00:29:34Like, I don't like that.
00:29:36Like, I just don't like the timing of it.
00:29:39But it also could be a good thing that we're getting away right now because maybe we'll have more time
00:29:44to, like, process and be in a more lovey state.
00:29:50So, we'll see.
00:29:52We'll see.
00:29:59Good night.
00:30:04I'm not sure I packed my hairbrush for this.
00:30:08You don't need to brush your hair.
00:30:10I will need to brush my hair while I'm here, yeah.
00:30:13I think we will find a fork and we will...
00:30:15A fork?
00:30:16Yeah.
00:30:17I'm not the little mermaid.
00:30:19You are.
00:30:22I think she needs some spice in life, you know?
00:30:27And I am the spice in her life.
00:30:29So, this is my Spicing It Up project number one.
00:30:41I didn't realize we were going to be right on the water.
00:30:45This is amazing.
00:30:46I like the view, you know?
00:30:47This is incredible.
00:30:49Cheshme, it is a romantic place, you know?
00:30:52It's peaceful.
00:30:53There is sea.
00:30:55Perfect place to reconnect.
00:30:57Wow.
00:30:58I didn't know there was a castle here.
00:31:00Do you want to visit there?
00:31:01I would love to visit there.
00:31:02We will go up and up and up and up again.
00:31:07I am so ready.
00:31:09I still have to tell her about my gambling.
00:31:14My friends are right.
00:31:16I can just keep the secret for the rest of my life.
00:31:19But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:31:23If you're ready, let's start our tour.
00:31:27I've always wanted to visit a castle.
00:31:30I feel like I get to be the princess and now in the castle.
00:31:34Now I'll always be a princess.
00:31:36When do I get to be the princess?
00:31:37I have no idea.
00:31:52Oh my God, hold on.
00:31:54Is this a bathroom?
00:31:55What?
00:31:56What?
00:31:56Is that a bathroom?
00:31:57Yeah.
00:31:58I feel like that's a bathroom.
00:32:00Cheshme is incredible.
00:32:03It's really old and it's just beautiful.
00:32:06This is like exactly what I was envisioning when I was talking about coming to Turkey.
00:32:11Would you take our picture?
00:32:12Yeah, of course.
00:32:20Are you enjoying your day?
00:32:22I am enjoying my day.
00:32:23I couldn't have asked for a better surprise.
00:32:25Seriously.
00:32:26You know, I always try my best.
00:32:29I know.
00:32:30Because I care about you and I love you.
00:32:33I know you do.
00:32:35You know, we're still thinking about marriage.
00:32:39You still think about it.
00:32:40I still think about it.
00:32:41We didn't decide what are we going to do.
00:32:44And you have a lot of questions.
00:32:46So what are you wondering?
00:32:49I know you're wondering.
00:32:52Well, I guess I know it's hard to have conversations
00:32:58that can feel personal and embarrassing.
00:33:00But can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:33:08Back when?
00:33:112019 and 2020.
00:33:12Okay.
00:33:13I had my first shisha bar.
00:33:18I take a loan from a bank.
00:33:20Then I bought my second place.
00:33:23After that, I opened my third place.
00:33:26Okay.
00:33:26So you had three places?
00:33:28And all of them is big.
00:33:30I was earning.
00:33:32But when the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:33:37I sell my car, sell my house, sell my places.
00:33:41I sell everything I have.
00:33:44I worked like daily jobs and things.
00:33:48But sometimes I worked full one day, 24 hours.
00:33:52And I get paid $40.
00:33:55It's useless.
00:33:57So I find another way to pay that debt.
00:34:04How is that even possible?
00:34:10Do you want the truth?
00:34:12Yeah.
00:34:16I gamble a lot.
00:34:24How often are you gambling?
00:34:26If I have money, I gamble.
00:34:30So, actually, it could be every day.
00:34:41I took it off so it could breathe.
00:34:44I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:34:49I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:34:51It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now or something.
00:34:54You don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:35:01I don't think I'm pretty.
00:35:03I don't think I'm good.
00:35:03I don't think I'm too bad.
00:35:07I don't think I'm too bad.
00:35:08Do you love me?
00:35:11I just need to know.
00:35:14I don't know what you're done.
00:35:17I don't know me.
00:35:20Are you all right?
00:35:22Uh-huh.
00:35:32Good morning, sir.
00:35:37Good morning, sir.
00:35:38Good morning, sir.
00:35:39Hey, we're just packing.
00:35:41Since this is your last day at Missivis Bay Resort,
00:35:44the resort prepared a breakfast for you too, ma'am, sir.
00:35:48Oh, thank you.
00:35:49Yeah, sure.
00:35:50Let's go.
00:35:53It's the last morning of our honeymoon,
00:35:54and we're going to Cavite, you know, where she lives.
00:35:59But me and Annalyn are still not talking.
00:36:05My strategy after last night,
00:36:10just to give her space.
00:36:12Every time we fight,
00:36:14he has this habit of, you know,
00:36:17silent treatment that he gives me
00:36:20instead of, you know, talking it out and fixing things.
00:36:28Before we met in person,
00:36:30if we don't talk for a few days,
00:36:32it was normal because we are in a long-distance relationship.
00:36:37Ooh.
00:36:37But I just can't believe we're doing this right now,
00:36:41and we're in the same room together physically.
00:37:03Do you want to talk about last night?
00:37:08You know, clearly we have problems, you know,
00:37:11because you're hard on me a lot of the times,
00:37:14but providing for you is not easy.
00:37:18And I believe that, you know, it's my duty to do that.
00:37:21But when I'm telling you that,
00:37:25like, I'm not trying to, like, throw it in your face.
00:37:28I basically want you to just cut me a little slack.
00:37:31It's like what you're saying is because I'm provide,
00:37:33you've got to be soft.
00:37:35Because if I react a certain way,
00:37:38you're uncomfortable with my emotion.
00:37:41Anna, I don't bring it up to say,
00:37:43hey, look, look what I did, so shut up.
00:37:45You know what I'm saying?
00:37:46Like, that's not what I'm trying.
00:37:47That's exactly what I feel.
00:37:48Maybe I'm just, like, not translating it right to you,
00:37:51but the way I view it is, it's like, look, you know,
00:37:53Anna, I work hard to do X, Y, and Z.
00:37:56So, you know, I want a light bulb to come on and be like,
00:37:59you know, my husband works really hard,
00:38:00so I'm going to make sure his day is positive
00:38:03when I talk to him on his break for 15 minutes.
00:38:06But no, you're nagging me all the time.
00:38:09You don't think how that makes me feel like sometimes,
00:38:13like when somebody's constantly criticizing you,
00:38:15when they're supposed to be on your side?
00:38:20But it's not easy being your woman,
00:38:25putting up with your tantrums, stubbornness, whining.
00:38:31It takes a lot of patience to be with you.
00:38:36I know some women would have been, would have given up already.
00:38:44All I hear is, like, you're just constantly complaining
00:38:47about me all the time.
00:38:49I mean, you tell me I'm a downer,
00:38:52and you tell me I'm not romantic.
00:38:55I mean, Anna, you're this perfect picture,
00:38:57and I'm this project that you're working on.
00:39:03So, do you regret, like, marrying me?
00:39:34Hey.
00:39:35Oh, wow.
00:39:37Daddy.
00:39:44Oh, my God.
00:39:57Let's get money out of the ATM.
00:40:00And then I want to go for a walk.
00:40:03What?
00:40:09What's wrong?
00:40:12I took it off so it could breathe.
00:40:19It was itchy and hot, and I've worn it for quite a while.
00:40:24And you didn't tell me you're taking it off?
00:40:26No, I didn't tell you I was taking it off.
00:40:35I was astonished when I saw her.
00:40:38It's embarrassing.
00:40:41She looks older.
00:40:44I didn't believe she's...
00:40:46Lisa used to know.
00:40:47If we are going to be together,
00:40:49she have to wear her wig.
00:40:51She's not gonna go with her short hair.
00:40:54Thank you so much.
00:40:57I want her to miss my friends tonight.
00:41:00But if she don't wear the long hair,
00:41:02my friends will be embarrassed.
00:41:04My friends will judge her.
00:41:14What?
00:41:17Like, you wish I would have had it on to go out?
00:41:20Yes.
00:41:21But you know it's a wig,
00:41:23and I need to be natural sometimes.
00:41:25It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now
00:41:28or something.
00:41:29I'm not embarrassed, but...
00:41:36My hair needed to be washed,
00:41:37and my head needs to air out, baby.
00:41:39Why didn't you stay inside when you're, um,
00:41:42when it dries?
00:41:43You wear it on before coming out.
00:41:47So you don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:41:50I'm not saying you're not pretty,
00:41:52but I love the long hair.
00:41:53Well, I don't have long hair.
00:41:55I have short hair.
00:42:01I'm hurt,
00:42:02and now I feel ugly,
00:42:04and I feel unwanted and unloved.
00:42:07I want to go back upstairs and just cry.
00:42:09I don't even want to look at him.
00:42:12I want to be away from him.
00:42:15You have to be wearing your wig
00:42:17when we are meeting my friends or meeting people.
00:42:20Okay?
00:42:21I mean, I mean, I can't wear it all the time.
00:42:25I'm not saying all the time,
00:42:27but when we are going out to meet friends,
00:42:28families, wear it.
00:42:32You're being rude.
00:42:34You don't understand.
00:42:34I was very scared for you to see me without my wig.
00:42:40Sorry.
00:42:40And I want you to feel that I'm beautiful without it
00:42:42just as much as I am with it.
00:42:45You're always beautiful.
00:42:47Okay?
00:42:47You are.
00:42:49I would hug you.
00:42:51You're mine.
00:42:51Always.
00:42:57I don't feel he means it.
00:42:59I was hoping Daniel wouldn't say I look beautiful
00:43:02and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:43:04I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:43:08I don't know.
00:43:09I have so many questions,
00:43:10but I have to get answers.
00:43:12And I'm hoping tonight with his friends,
00:43:14I'll get some.
00:43:15Because right now,
00:43:16I'm starting to see red flags in cracks
00:43:18where I never did before.
00:43:28What's going on?
00:43:31We were getting along really well,
00:43:34getting really flirty.
00:43:36And we made out.
00:43:40I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:43:44I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:43:48You have sex with her.
00:43:51Did you?
00:44:04No, just know that what I'm about to tell you,
00:44:08I regret it.
00:44:09You make me afraid.
00:44:11I don't know what you...
00:44:14Explain yourself.
00:44:31You remember those five days that you weren't talking to me.
00:44:41And...
00:44:42Why you bring up five days?
00:44:44What's wrong with five days?
00:44:45I already explained everything,
00:44:47so what's the problem now?
00:44:51The problem isn't that.
00:44:53It's what I did.
00:44:56What...
00:44:59What's wrong?
00:45:01I'm trying to tell you now.
00:45:04You make me afraid.
00:45:06Say, Rico, I don't know why you hesitate.
00:45:08What's wrong?
00:45:11When you...
00:45:12When you weren't talking to me,
00:45:15I...
00:45:18I started talking to my ex.
00:45:25She was, like, the only one that, you know,
00:45:28was there to...
00:45:29to listen to me.
00:45:32So...
00:45:32I decided to...
00:45:34book a trip,
00:45:36going to Columbia,
00:45:37to be with my ex.
00:45:44I mean, I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:45:50I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:45:54You have sex with her.
00:45:57Did you?
00:46:03Yes.
00:46:16I'm sorry, baby.
00:46:20I messed up.
00:46:22I know I did.
00:46:25I regret what I did.
00:46:28But this is something we can work through, baby.
00:46:31Shut up.
00:46:32It was a mistake.
00:46:32Shut up.
00:46:38Maybe I...
00:46:39How?
00:46:42Rick, how could you do that to me?
00:46:45We were together.
00:46:50Maybe you weren't there.
00:46:52And I told you, after a couple of days, I said,
00:46:55if I don't hear from you,
00:46:56then I'm gonna assume that it's over,
00:46:59that you don't want me anymore.
00:47:00And I still didn't hear from you
00:47:02until a couple of days after that.
00:47:05And by then, I had already booked a flight there.
00:47:13I did replay to your messages.
00:47:16I did replay to your call.
00:47:18And I even told you, I'll call you when I'm free.
00:47:22You told me.
00:47:23You told me that you would call me when you get back
00:47:25from the police station.
00:47:27I wouldn't hear from you.
00:47:28I would call you.
00:47:29And then you said that I was stalking you.
00:47:32That sounds like to me that you didn't want to be with me.
00:47:35Why did you wait, like, for a long time to tell me?
00:47:38Why?
00:47:40Why?
00:47:42Because I wanted us to build something together.
00:47:45I wanted to share, you know, precious time with you.
00:47:52Maybe you just still love that girl.
00:47:55No, no.
00:47:56It's over.
00:47:59It's over now.
00:48:00I swear I'm not talking to her anymore.
00:48:02I haven't had any contact with her.
00:48:07I thought you were different.
00:48:12That I can trust you.
00:48:15You even promised me there, like, I won't hurt you, Trisha.
00:48:19I'm not like your ex.
00:48:20And what you did?
00:48:22Guess what?
00:48:23Same thing.
00:48:25So, baby, it's not the same because...
00:48:26It's the same.
00:48:27You cheated.
00:48:32Jesus.
00:48:33I thought you were a good guy.
00:48:35I am a good guy, baby.
00:48:37You were not...
00:48:38You can't...
00:48:38You can trust me, baby.
00:48:40It's different now.
00:48:41We've met in person.
00:48:43We've consummated our relationship.
00:48:44We have a stronger bond now.
00:48:46Don't you see that?
00:48:48No.
00:48:51Can't we just start from there?
00:48:54Can't we just start from...
00:49:00Baby.
00:49:03No.
00:49:04Shut up.
00:49:04Don't call me baby.
00:49:05Shut up, Rick.
00:49:06Shut up.
00:49:07Maybe we look at relationships differently.
00:49:08I...
00:49:09Shut up.
00:49:11Where are you going?
00:49:13I don't care.
00:49:14Oh, .
00:49:15Wow.
00:49:46Oh, babe.
00:49:47What are you cooking?
00:49:49I want to...
00:49:50I want you to go to the roof.
00:49:52And wait for me.
00:49:53Yeah, yeah.
00:49:54All right.
00:49:54So, see you there.
00:49:56Okay, babe.
00:49:58Emma and I, we feel ourselves like we forget problems.
00:50:02And we start refreshing again from the beginning.
00:50:06It'll add to the sweet.
00:50:08I never cooked for my girlfriend before.
00:50:11So, I feel nervous to cook for Emma.
00:50:16I want her to be perfect.
00:50:23Babe.
00:50:24You can just put it there.
00:50:26Babe, this is so cute.
00:50:29Thank you, babe.
00:50:31You look so nice.
00:50:32Thanks, babe.
00:50:33You look very handsome tonight.
00:50:35What did you make?
00:50:36Yeah.
00:50:37What do you think inside here?
00:50:39Tajine.
00:50:40So, I hope you will like it.
00:50:41Let's see.
00:50:43Ooh.
00:50:44That actually looks very good.
00:50:46So, as Muslim people, when we want to eat anything...
00:50:50Yeah.
00:50:51We say bismillah.
00:50:52Mm-hmm.
00:50:52Like bon appetit?
00:50:54Yeah.
00:50:54To you.
00:50:59Mmm.
00:51:01So good.
00:51:02It's fine if you eat it or no.
00:51:04No.
00:51:04So good.
00:51:07Thank you for doing all this.
00:51:09I love the sweet side of you.
00:51:10Because that makes me feel like you actually, like, love me.
00:51:15It's because I feel it.
00:51:17It's...
00:51:17You feel romance in the air?
00:51:19We're passing this period of fighting.
00:51:22That's something good.
00:51:23I don't believe one day you will be here to eat dinner with me.
00:51:27I feel so...
00:51:29So happy to see you here, especially.
00:51:32It's like a dream and unreal.
00:51:35What's...
00:51:36What's the word?
00:51:37We can't say it's...
00:51:37Unreal.
00:51:39Mm-hmm.
00:51:41That was very sweet, babe.
00:51:43Look at you being so romantic today.
00:51:46I'm happy to be here, too.
00:51:48Yesterday it was 0%.
00:51:50Right now it's...
00:51:547%.
00:51:55So it's only at 7% now?
00:51:56Yeah.
00:51:58It's slowly, slowly, step by step.
00:52:01We can't be, like, 0% and 50%, no.
00:52:08What percent do you need to actually get engaged to 100?
00:52:11Exactly.
00:52:12And you're only at 7% right now?
00:52:14It's just numbers.
00:52:16With time, it will be more than 200.
00:52:18All right.
00:52:20On a scale from 0% to 100%, how much do you love me?
00:52:25Why are you always looking for this how many cents?
00:52:27Because I need to know.
00:52:28I would say 70%.
00:52:3270%?
00:52:33Yeah, it's...
00:52:33Okay.
00:52:33So you love me more than if you're sure you want to get engaged to me.
00:52:40Yeah, because engagement, it's a big thing.
00:52:42Okay.
00:52:43You see?
00:52:43All right.
00:52:44But you love me at 70.
00:52:45Mm-hmm.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47That's good.
00:52:48Yep.
00:52:50You know what would have made this dinner 100 times better?
00:52:52Some dessert.
00:52:54Mm-hmm.
00:52:55Mm-hmm.
00:52:57So, you want to go to dessert?
00:52:59Huh?
00:53:00You want to go to dessert?
00:53:00You say dessert?
00:53:02Dessert.
00:53:03Dessert?
00:53:03Not the desert.
00:53:04Ah.
00:53:05Dessert.
00:53:05Dessert?
00:53:06Yeah, like ice cream.
00:53:08But yes, I do want to go to the desert.
00:53:12You look okay.
00:53:14That's funny, because when we talked the first time, you told me, you never see a camel.
00:53:19You are here right now in Maracas, and I know it's your birthday tomorrow, so I plan to take you
00:53:23to the desert.
00:53:25It should be nice.
00:53:27Aw, mate.
00:53:29I'm excited.
00:53:31That's like my dream, to go to the desert and ride a camel.
00:53:34Yeah, yeah.
00:53:35I think it's really sweet that Dessert is planning this desert trip for the both of us.
00:53:40I know that he's only at 7%, but I only have two weeks left of my trip, and I'm really
00:53:47hoping that a romantic getaway outside of the city will speed things up.
00:53:50What do you wear to ride a camel?
00:53:54Pants?
00:54:08I'm in a good mood.
00:54:09We're packing up, and we're going to like a romantic getaway in the desert, and it's my birthday.
00:54:14So happy birthday to me.
00:54:17Yep.
00:54:18And then there's more.
00:54:20What's going on?
00:54:21We were getting along really well, getting really flirty, and he came into my room, and we made out.
00:54:34And then we had sex.
00:54:38Twice.
00:54:41So I finally got all the physical touch I've been wanting, and it felt really good.
00:54:48And it was nice.
00:54:51I would say it's like a normal, it's like average size.
00:54:56It's nothing crazy, but it's not teeny tiny.
00:54:59It like, it fits in your hand.
00:55:01That's like the best way to describe it.
00:55:03I could deal with it.
00:55:06But I think he's really worried about how people are going to view him, especially because he is Muslim and
00:55:13like his religion and everything.
00:55:15But I had to tell someone.
00:55:17I feel like after having sex, we were in like a perfect place.
00:55:23He was being just so much nicer to me, and he was like telling me how much he loved me,
00:55:27and how much he cared about me, and how like he does want a future with me.
00:55:31Okay.
00:55:32So, with the way the last night went, I could really see a proposal, and I think hopefully he changed
00:55:40his mind, and he's feeling just as sure as I am.
00:55:46I do feel better now that we finally did have sex.
00:55:49I think this means that we're getting a lot closer, but he still doesn't know about the whole Muhammad situation.
00:55:57I know that he does have questions about everything, and I feel like if I'm going to be that serious
00:56:03about him and our relationship, I don't want there to be any secrets.
00:56:06I don't want to lie to him about anything.
00:56:08My friends and family have kind of warned me that once he finds out about Muhammad, he's probably going to
00:56:13break up with me.
00:56:14That's the last thing that I want to happen, but I know that I'm going to need to tell him
00:56:19sooner rather than later.
00:56:37You look handsome.
00:56:39I like this on you.
00:56:41You really do.
00:56:42You look beautiful.
00:56:45You look beautiful.
00:56:46I look beautiful and stunning.
00:56:47Which...
00:56:47Your wig off.
00:56:48Put anything right for me.
00:56:50Now I'm giving her the time of her life with me.
00:56:52Come on and wine for me.
00:56:57I will teach you how to say thank you.
00:57:00I will teach you...
00:57:01Thank you is important.
00:57:02I want to know how to say thank you.
00:57:03I'mana.
00:57:04I'mana.
00:57:05Yes, thank you.
00:57:06I'mana.
00:57:07I'mana.
00:57:10going without my wig for the first time in front of daniel was a very vulnerable experience for
00:57:18me and daniel didn't respond the way i had hoped putting the wig back on today was horrible and
00:57:25now he's responding to me like i'm the most beautiful creature on earth yet again does he
00:57:32not love me for who i am i'm thinking about what faith said and i'm starting to question what
00:57:37daniel's intentions really are i'm a little nervous is there anything i should know
00:57:46you don't have to be of us because they're my friends i know them very well that's why i
00:57:50invited them they're my friends i know they're your friends but they're not my friends and i'm
00:57:55going and they're going to judge me but needless to say i'm going to judge you through them
00:58:03daniel tonight is taking me to meet his friends and his cousin
00:58:06and i'm hoping they can shed some light on a few things about daniel
00:58:13daniel and i don't talk about our past relationships that's why mine has never been mentioned because
00:58:18i every time i try to talk to daniel he shuts up he doesn't talk about his past at all
00:58:24so meeting his friends is a great opportunity to know more about daniel and understand who he is
00:58:42my beautiful queen
00:58:47the storming beauty you know from european states her name is lisa welcome thank you thank you so much
00:58:55so this is emmanuel and this is um george george yeah and this is love day
00:59:02i love day i'm happy to witness this event today honestly honestly we are so happy
00:59:08we love it
00:59:10lisa is older than daniel
00:59:14she might not be his type
00:59:16i think he has fully see lisa and i think
00:59:21he is comfortable with that
00:59:24she will make a good home
00:59:28how long have you known daniel
00:59:30i know him when i was there when i was about 11 years
00:59:34Oh, my goodness.
00:59:36You know where I'm from?
00:59:37A very poor family.
00:59:38I'm wearing good clothes today because of her.
00:59:41Wow.
00:59:42You can tell.
00:59:43I know him as someone that has only one pair of shoes.
00:59:48Really?
00:59:48Yeah.
00:59:49You didn't tell me these things.
00:59:51I was afraid.
00:59:53I used to wear just a pair of shirts with some openers on the buttocks.
00:59:59Is that true?
01:00:00Really?
01:00:01It's really.
01:00:01So without her, I don't know what I would be to do.
01:00:06Do you know why the relationship is perfect?
01:00:09Why?
01:00:09Do you know why?
01:00:10No.
01:00:11Because you have transformed this life.
01:00:14We should continue doing that.
01:00:17Don't deviate from it.
01:00:21Well, it's not easy.
01:00:23I have to say, it's not easy helping Daniel.
01:00:27I work 15-hour days, seven days a week.
01:00:30That's how Daniel is changing because I'm working the hard times.
01:00:36And it concerns me because he doesn't share much of his past with me.
01:00:43I want to know more about your old life, baby.
01:00:46Kids.
01:00:47Okay, so I do have a question.
01:00:49Was he very popular with ladies?
01:00:54Oh.
01:00:58He's a handsome guy.
01:01:00He's a black handsome guy.
01:01:03Women love me so much.
01:01:05But that was the past.
01:01:07Look, I have not brought any woman, I have not brought any woman in my family in the name of
01:01:13getting married to the woman.
01:01:15You know that.
01:01:17When Daniel came at me on social media, out of the blue, I thought he was a scam artist.
01:01:24I thought he was fake.
01:01:25I did not think he was real.
01:01:27So I didn't totally trust Daniel for a little while.
01:01:31It took him a minute to get me to trust him.
01:01:35But the thing is, I'm just surprised that he's only been with me since December and he's already proposed.
01:01:42Honestly, thank God that he's the one.
01:01:46Let me just say you've helped him in different areas.
01:01:50He's just like an angel who can choose life.
01:01:54All I'm hearing right now is I am Daniel's savior.
01:01:59He is a new man.
01:02:00It's given me a bit of a pause.
01:02:03You know, there's something that happened before I came to Nigeria
01:02:06that Daniel hasn't been able to explain to me.
01:02:11He has been sincere to you.
01:02:14He has been honest.
01:02:17He is truthful.
01:02:19You seem to be sweating a little bit over this, though.
01:02:21I have to sweat because I don't know.
01:02:24You just need to have trust.
01:02:26Yes.
01:02:27But the thing is, Daniel was talking to another girl on social media.
01:02:31At the same time, he was talking to me.
01:02:38Be honest.
01:02:40Because I will walk out if you're not.
01:02:45Are we going to have more debt, more financial problems?
01:02:48Because you can't stop gambling.
01:02:52For Valentine's Day, I sent you money.
01:02:54Did you gamble that?
01:03:08Do you regret, like, marrying me?
01:03:28I mean, it seemed like he had to think about it for a minute.
01:03:33No, I love you.
01:03:35It's just that I want you to, you know, like, I guess I want you to be more, like, positive.
01:03:43I just want you to overlook the negativity.
01:03:48You're making me feel uncomfortable, like you're not enjoying your time with me.
01:03:52I'm enjoying the time.
01:03:53It makes me feel really...
01:03:54Did you see me yesterday when I was doing this?
01:03:57Yeah, but...
01:03:58That I couldn't fit?
01:03:59You're doing all the things that you have to do, but you always have to leave a remark.
01:04:06Look, I can promise you this.
01:04:09I'm going to do my best to not, you know, throw in your face about what I do in the
01:04:18marriage.
01:04:21Like, provide for you.
01:04:23And I promise you not to be so negative.
01:04:27But, I mean, could you make me a promise and just ease up on me a little bit, cut me
01:04:34a little bit of slack?
01:04:39I actually feel bad when you feel bad, and I feel guilty.
01:04:43I feel like sometimes I act, I overreact to things.
01:04:49I just really want to have a good time, please.
01:04:52Well, I do, too.
01:04:53But, I feel like you always look constipated, like, uh...
01:04:58Because I'm always being chewed, getting my ass chewed out.
01:05:02Like, it's just, like...
01:05:03Like, you're like this, Javon.
01:05:10Oh, my God, boo!
01:05:12It's so sunny today!
01:05:14Yeah!
01:05:15I think it's going to rain again.
01:05:18Thank God it stopped raining.
01:05:20I thought we'd be stuck in the room the whole time.
01:05:22I don't want you to get too comfortable, because it still might rain.
01:05:25Oh, my God!
01:05:27I mean...
01:05:27Don't say that!
01:05:29You jinxed it!
01:05:30We'll have to try it with cheese.
01:05:33I mean, but don't you think that's a weird combination?
01:05:36If you're going to rate it one to five, how is it?
01:05:39Probably a two.
01:05:40A two?
01:05:41Yeah.
01:05:41Really?
01:05:44I'm going to go to the bathroom.
01:05:46This is a 90-year-old man in the last stages of his life, basically.
01:05:51That's how you're making me sound.
01:05:54So we good?
01:05:57All right.
01:06:00Yes, we made up right now, but because of the last few days, I'm kind of worried about
01:06:08the future.
01:06:11We struggled to get along during our honeymoon.
01:06:14How are we going to get along for the rest of our lives?
01:06:18Come here.
01:06:19Come sit on my lap.
01:06:21Come on.
01:06:22We've been together six years in a long-distance relationship, and now that we're finally
01:06:29get to be together physically, you see everything about your partner, and I hope that Jovon
01:06:39and I can take all the good with the bad, but right now, I don't know.
01:06:48I'm so sweat, I know.
01:06:51I'm so sweat, I know.
01:07:20Is gambling part of all of this debt?
01:07:24No.
01:07:25I'm still trying to pay, but that is why I have to gamble, because I need money, and
01:07:32I have nowhere to find.
01:07:38I gamble, I make more money.
01:07:39I have a progress.
01:07:41That's how my friends and I paid our rent for a long time.
01:07:46That's how we lived.
01:07:51I'm angry.
01:07:53I'm hurt.
01:07:54I am shocked.
01:07:57I think gambling is fine when you have money to lose, but he doesn't have anything.
01:08:04The fact that he thinks that he can gamble instead of actually going out and finding
01:08:09a job is ridiculously concerning to me.
01:08:14That's not a job.
01:08:15I don't even understand what he's thinking.
01:08:20So, instead of a gift for Valentine's Day, I sent you money.
01:08:25Yeah.
01:08:26Did you gamble that?
01:08:30Yeah.
01:08:31You sent me how much?
01:08:34It was like $150, yeah.
01:08:35Yeah, and that makes $5,000, and we made it $20, I guess, and we paid our rent.
01:08:44It was like you sent us money, but it wasn't solving anything.
01:08:49It's just, okay, we can eat, but maybe three days later we have to empty the house, you know?
01:08:55But what if you would have lost that?
01:08:58I will figure it out.
01:09:00But I...
01:09:03That was money that I sent you for you, and if you would have lost it and been like,
01:09:07hey, I lost the money that you gave me, I would be livid.
01:09:10I'm actually kind of livid right now.
01:09:12That seems irresponsible to me.
01:09:14What can I say?
01:09:16I'm trying to make a way out for us.
01:09:19So, if you...
01:09:21Gambling is something I have to do.
01:09:25Is gambling an addiction?
01:09:28Gambling is not an addiction for me.
01:09:31If I was addicted, I don't care if I lose or win, but I care.
01:09:39And I'm winning.
01:09:41If you come to America, and we're sharing our life, we're sharing our money, we're sharing
01:09:46our banks, are you going to pick it up and gamble it?
01:09:49Because you just...
01:09:50No, it is your money.
01:09:51Well, it would be our money.
01:09:52No, it is your money.
01:09:54How is it?
01:09:54I don't gamble with your money, but I will gamble with mine.
01:09:56You kind of already did.
01:10:00How do you have something that's specifically yours if we're married?
01:10:04Wouldn't it always be ours?
01:10:06No.
01:10:07It is like if I make $5,000 per month, I will give you $4,000.
01:10:14But I will tell you that $1,000 I need, and I will bet with that.
01:10:21And I will make that $1,000, maybe nothing, maybe $50,000.
01:10:26Because this is me.
01:10:28This is my life.
01:10:29This is how I do things.
01:10:34Gambling is just a way to make money.
01:10:39I started when I was having financial struggle, because, you know, I had nothing.
01:10:45But now, mostly, I just bet some football games, because that's what I used to do for a living.
01:10:51Just, I can't play, but I can bet.
01:10:56If we do go through with this and apply for that K-1 visa, I am financially responsible for you
01:11:02for, like, 10 years.
01:11:04And I guess that's my concern, is that are we going to have more debt, more financial problems, because you
01:11:11can't stop gambling?
01:11:14No, because if I hit a grand jackpot, I won, you know?
01:11:19I have money, see?
01:11:21I succeeded.
01:11:23So, until you feel like you're successful, you're going to keep gambling?
01:11:28Yeah.
01:11:34It's super alarming to me to hear that he thinks that this is the best way to make money.
01:11:41And knowing that I will be financially responsible for him concerns me greatly.
01:11:48This is really serious, and I feel like I should just pull the plug and go home now.
01:12:00This girl ended up calling me, and pretty much told me he's a scam artist, because he's going after more
01:12:06women than just me that are in America.
01:12:10I am here begging you for some truth of what Daniel actually is.
01:12:16And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel, I will not be coming back to this country.
01:12:30Daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking to me.
01:12:40Be honest, because I will walk out if you're not.
01:12:53Yes, I can't remember the last time I talked to the lady, and I was talking to you, and she
01:13:01was disturbing me.
01:13:05This girl ended up calling me, and talking to me, telling me all these things that Daniel was saying to
01:13:14her.
01:13:15And she also pretty much told me he's a scam artist, because he's going after more women than just me
01:13:21that are in America.
01:13:22Did you know about this woman that he was talking to?
01:13:27Um...
01:13:30To be sincere, I don't know about that.
01:13:34A couple months ago, an American woman got in touch with me on social media, and basically told me Daniel
01:13:40was talking to her at the same time he was talking to me.
01:13:44She sent me screenshots of her and Daniel's conversation.
01:13:47She sent me personal pictures Daniel sent to her of himself, and he called her baby.
01:13:54That hurt me.
01:13:55It still hurts me.
01:13:57Daniel said she's just a friend.
01:13:59And after he blocked her, I gave him the benefit of the doubt, and I deleted the screenshots because I
01:14:06believed him.
01:14:08But the more I'm hearing his friends say how I changed his life, the more I'm wondering if this woman
01:14:14was right.
01:14:15And Daniel was just looking for any American woman who was willing to respond.
01:14:21She said that you were going after her strong, and she wasn't giving you the time of the day.
01:14:25So what do you want to say about that, Daniel?
01:14:30That is on social media, right?
01:14:31It is on social media.
01:14:33So social media, I have a lot of friends there.
01:14:35You do, you do, but we're not talking about them.
01:14:38We're talking...
01:14:38No, no, I'm not on this team.
01:14:40Give me your hand, please.
01:14:40I'm asking you about her because you did talk to her.
01:14:43That's why I told you that before I met you, there were some other ladies who wanted me, and some
01:14:51of them were coming after me.
01:14:53But she wasn't.
01:14:54You were going after her.
01:14:55No, no.
01:14:56Yes, you were, Daniel.
01:14:56I never did.
01:14:57Yes, you did.
01:14:58You wanted her as an American.
01:15:00She told me so.
01:15:01I never went to her.
01:15:01I never went to her for friendship or any relationship.
01:15:06There's something more going on, Daniel.
01:15:13I don't know.
01:15:14I don't know why she's trying to accuse me.
01:15:15Have you pursued Americans before, Lisa?
01:15:21Um, I do talk to other women.
01:15:24From America?
01:15:25Yes, from America.
01:15:26I do talk to other women from America.
01:15:28I only chat them, you know, ask them how they're doing, you know, ask them how the day went, you
01:15:33know.
01:15:33That's the only thing I do.
01:15:35But I've not tried to date an American lady before.
01:15:39No, Lisa is the first lady that, you know, that came into my life.
01:15:43Well, I love Daniel.
01:15:45Yes.
01:15:46But nobody is perfect.
01:15:47And I am here begging you for some truth of what Daniel actually is.
01:15:57I need to clear all this up before we get married.
01:16:01I need to clear all this up before we get married.
01:16:31I'm the one working 15-hour days.
01:16:34I'm the one working seven days a week to make sure he looks like this.
01:16:38So I am giving up stuff to be here.
01:16:40My family is worried about me.
01:16:42They have every concern.
01:16:44And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel, I will not be coming back to this country.
01:16:49And if you're not going to share it with me, I will find it.
01:16:52I'm not hiding.
01:16:53I didn't hide anything.
01:16:54You picked me from the gutter.
01:16:56You cluttered me.
01:16:58You feed me.
01:16:59So why should I be playing with you?
01:17:03Why should I be, you know, playing games?
01:17:12I feel like his friends are protecting him, as every friend, if they're a really good friend,
01:17:16should have your back.
01:17:18But I feel like a sugar mom.
01:17:21They kept saying it over and over and over again.
01:17:23I'm an angel.
01:17:24I have saved Daniel from the street.
01:17:27I'm sitting here wondering, is he a scam artist?
01:17:30Is he after me for my money?
01:17:32I just don't think he's telling me the full truth.
01:17:35I think he's given me little nibbles of what is reality.
01:17:40And it's going to be up to me to put together this puzzle piece.
01:17:43I appreciate you guys coming and meeting me.
01:17:46I was just hoping for a little bit more than this.
01:17:48From my own opinion, I think you're scared for heartbroken.
01:17:52You don't want to be hurt anymore.
01:17:59I'd rather you stay here and not coming here.
01:18:03I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for their ex.
01:18:09I cannot.
01:18:10I'm sorry.
01:18:12I know now that I was wrong.
01:18:14Please, forgive me.
01:18:33We're both back to Nosey Bay is here.
01:18:38Okay.
01:18:39So let's go back.
01:18:41Don't touch me.
01:18:43Don't touch me.
01:18:44Don't make it worse.
01:18:46Just leave me alone.
01:19:10Don't touch me.
01:19:12Just bring your luggage.
01:19:13I'll bring mine and let's go.
01:19:17I don't want to even look at him.
01:19:24I thought he's different from my ex.
01:19:28Like a good guy, a good father, a good boyfriend.
01:19:33Faithful.
01:19:35But Rick didn't tell me the truth.
01:19:39He was not honest with me.
01:19:43Go ahead.
01:19:45What are you waiting for?
01:19:47Go.
01:19:48Waiting for you.
01:19:50What you care.
01:19:52I told him that I was hurting from my past relationship.
01:19:57But here we are.
01:19:59Same story again.
01:20:06Baby.
01:20:07Uh-uh.
01:20:07Just don't talk.
01:20:09How long are you not going to talk to me?
01:20:11Why are you kidding about that?
01:20:12How long I'm going to talk or not?
01:20:14Because I want to resolve this.
01:20:15Resolve what?
01:20:16You didn't remember what you did?
01:20:18I do remember.
01:20:20I'd rather you stay here and not coming here.
01:20:27I refuse to believe that you regret me coming.
01:20:31I've seen the love in your eyes.
01:20:34You know, just allow me the opportunity to show you
01:20:37how committed I am to you.
01:20:45I told you I was ashamed of what I did.
01:20:47I'm not proud of you.
01:20:48You were not even ashamed.
01:20:50Because I explained to you after the five days,
01:20:53but you still went to Columbia.
01:20:55So why didn't you cancel?
01:20:58Because even after those five days,
01:21:01things still didn't add up.
01:21:02And I felt like I was just getting strung along.
01:21:07Because I thought you were cheating on me.
01:21:09And I felt like it's my fault.
01:21:13It's my fault.
01:21:15We didn't really start communicating like before
01:21:19until I got back.
01:21:22So in your mind is,
01:21:24even if she already explained to me,
01:21:27I will still go because I want to revenge her.
01:21:34In some ways, that's true.
01:21:38I mean, I know now that I was wrong.
01:21:50I want you to forgive me.
01:21:58I have nothing to say, Rick.
01:22:02I cannot be with someone
01:22:04who still have feelings for their ex.
01:22:10I'd rather he told me,
01:22:11like, for coming here.
01:22:14Now,
01:22:16I don't know what to tell my dad.
01:22:19My whole family.
01:22:26I don't know what to tell them.
01:22:28Okay.
01:22:31Don't touch me, Rick.
01:22:34It's not like I'm giving up on us.
01:22:40We just have to work, too.
01:22:42I cannot.
01:22:43I'm sorry.
01:22:53Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:55Oh, my God.
01:22:58Zied and I are going for a little romantic getaway
01:23:00outside of the city.
01:23:02I have a nice birthday surprise for you later.
01:23:05A surprise?
01:23:05Yeah.
01:23:06We're really connecting.
01:23:07And Zied's always known
01:23:09that I've wanted a proposal on my birthday.
01:23:11I have one more thing for you.
01:23:14Okay.
01:23:18This is us.
01:23:19I'm very excited to see where my wife lives
01:23:23and where my money is going.
01:23:26Oh, wow, bro.
01:23:28This is a lot bigger than what I initially thought.
01:23:32Everywhere I look,
01:23:33I just see dollar signs,
01:23:35a lot of travel photos,
01:23:36huge closets.
01:23:37It makes me feel taken advantage of.
01:23:50BeerCon has what I can only consider
01:23:52to be a gambling problem.
01:23:54And it's really making me second guess
01:23:57any kind of future I could have with BeerCon.
01:24:01Now, that is why you are so special to me.
01:24:03Even if we have problems,
01:24:06we will find a solution.
01:24:10Until yesterday,
01:24:12you did not know anything
01:24:14about Sheena's finances.
01:24:16You didn't know the truth
01:24:18about her relationship with her family.
01:24:21Is this a person you can trust?
01:24:25These were big lies for us.
01:24:28She did lie about almost everything.
01:24:33It really hurts being deep in the court.
01:24:36But I can't be with someone
01:24:38who is going to constantly lie to me.
01:24:43Hi!
01:24:45Tonight, we're meeting up with my Aunt Spring.
01:24:47Heard a lot about you.
01:24:49And there's some things
01:24:51that I do have questions about.
01:24:53I do understand why Aviva has fallen for Stig,
01:24:56but I don't think that he is the great person
01:24:59that she believes him to be.
01:25:01So, I have heard some things.
01:25:05I mean, this is you, isn't it?
01:25:11I came here to be with you,
01:25:13but I want answers.
01:25:15Say it.
01:25:16I don't want to find out by her.
01:25:18I want to find out from you.
01:25:19I cannot step to where I didn't do it.
01:25:20I can't.
01:25:22He is lying to me,
01:25:23and he's trying to make me look insane.
01:25:26I don't want to believe there's others.
01:25:28I need this lady to write back to me
01:25:30because I need to know.
01:25:32Is he a scammer?
01:25:34Did she write?
01:25:35Yes, she wrote a lot.
01:25:40Oh, God.
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