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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04Hello, Trish.
00:00:07Oh, you're here.
00:00:09I'm here, baby.
00:00:11I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:14Don't love me.
00:00:15I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:18I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:21after the ghosting incident.
00:00:23But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:27Surprise!
00:00:30Damn!
00:00:33You know what I really like in the States?
00:00:35The Chinese food out there.
00:00:36If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:39My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:42He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:46But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:49They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:51The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:53and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:57and that they left together.
00:01:00I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong.
00:01:04But there's definitely a part of me that wonders
00:01:06if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:11BeerCon is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:17straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:19I'm ready to take the next step with him.
00:01:22But I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:25has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:28You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:31but it can't go both ways.
00:01:35You said you'd never leave.
00:01:37I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:39I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:45I'm heading to the Philippines today.
00:01:47But last night, Sheena tells me she has been giving all her money
00:01:51to her parents this entire time.
00:01:53I am not happy, and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:02:00I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:02:03when she's alive here.
00:02:05And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:15It's a beautiful day.
00:02:33I hate packing.
00:02:35I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:36So yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:38I'm like super nervous.
00:02:40Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:42I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:45I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:47I've never left the continent.
00:02:49But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:52I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way
00:02:56to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:59I've been talking about doing this for so long,
00:03:01for so many months.
00:03:03And now that it's here, I'm like way more nervous
00:03:07than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:09The situation with Michael is giving me a little bit more
00:03:12anxiety too.
00:03:15When I confronted Michael, I really was trying to give him a chance
00:03:21so I could have a clear head before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:26But Michael does not seem like he's ever going to come to terms
00:03:30with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:33And that's not fair to me.
00:03:35So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:40Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:42We do a lot of things together.
00:03:43We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:45And I know that that is not really common,
00:03:49to have that kind of male-female friendship in other cultures,
00:03:54other religions.
00:03:55And so that's scary to feel like I might possibly have to choose
00:04:00between somebody who's my best friend
00:04:01and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:07It's open.
00:04:09Hey.
00:04:09Hey, how are you?
00:04:11Good, how are you?
00:04:11Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:13Are you excited?
00:04:14Yeah.
00:04:14A little terrified, actually.
00:04:16I know.
00:04:17I'm terrified for you.
00:04:20My parents offered to take me to the airport,
00:04:22which is really nice.
00:04:24But my relationship has felt a little bit strained
00:04:27with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:32They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:37And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect
00:04:41to see me end up with.
00:04:43So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:47You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:50So excited.
00:04:56I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:58I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:05:00I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:05:01Well, I wanted you to feel supported,
00:05:04but I'm not in favor of all this.
00:05:09I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey
00:05:13and meet a guy you never met who is a Muslim.
00:05:17It's not even in my wheelhouse to think that that would ever
00:05:20have been something that was possible.
00:05:22You know what I'm saying?
00:05:24It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:27But it's not like I'm going in completely blind
00:05:32or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:37The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:41I mean, how old is he, Laura?
00:05:45He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:48Oh, my God.
00:05:51Laura, are you serious?
00:05:52I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:56Don't make jokes.
00:05:57Holy mackerel.
00:05:57That's not funny.
00:05:58What is he thinking?
00:06:00What is he thinking?
00:06:01I'm awesome.
00:06:02What the heck is he thinking?
00:06:02I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:04No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:09That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:13Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:15Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman
00:06:18and saying all the right things.
00:06:19Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:24Okay.
00:06:24Big red flag.
00:06:25Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:26That's not what love is.
00:06:29You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:30You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:36Right now, it's not love.
00:06:38It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:40To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but...
00:06:45That guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:46I don't...
00:06:47Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:50I agree.
00:06:51A concern?
00:06:51It's more like...
00:06:52Like ten giant red flags.
00:06:56My word in heaven.
00:06:59You actually think that there's a possibility
00:07:03that this could work
00:07:04and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:08Yeah, I do.
00:07:09You do?
00:07:10If I didn't think that there was a possibility,
00:07:12I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:15My...
00:07:15My...
00:07:17Oh, my God.
00:07:22We're just pointing out all our concerns.
00:07:26You know?
00:07:27And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:33I feel blindsided.
00:07:35I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:39I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:44I just...
00:07:45Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:47All of it.
00:07:50I want to be happy for you.
00:07:53But I can't.
00:07:55I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:58I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:08:00And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me
00:08:04at this point,
00:08:06it is just messing with my head.
00:08:09It keeps me awake at night,
00:08:11thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:14Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:16Don't ever settle.
00:08:31We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:33Why?
00:08:34Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:39Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:41Yeah.
00:08:42Yeah.
00:08:42No.
00:08:42That's a show we're going to happen now.
00:08:45Yeah.
00:08:46I'm going to do it once.
00:08:47Do it twice.
00:08:49Take the cake, not just a slice.
00:08:51I got a funny feeling ain't nobody...
00:08:53What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:54You're how old?
00:08:56I am 52.
00:08:58And you said you're an adult?
00:09:00I am an adult.
00:09:01You don't need my help picking out condoms.
00:09:05My name is Lisa.
00:09:07I'm 52 years old
00:09:08and I live in King of Pressure, Pennsylvania.
00:09:10I thought you would feel better
00:09:12knowing that your mother's taking precautions.
00:09:15I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so...
00:09:17I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:20No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:23Is that not a playboy?
00:09:25Playboy's somebody who's like a gigolo.
00:09:28He didn't say he went out with a lot of women.
00:09:30No, gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:32Gigolo's a male hooker.
00:09:34No, that's not.
00:09:35That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:36That's a pimp.
00:09:37A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers
00:09:41and gets the money.
00:09:42Okay.
00:09:44I live with my daughter, Faith,
00:09:46where Faith lives with me.
00:09:48We live with each other.
00:09:49And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:52We talk about everything.
00:09:53Whether it's the topic of sex
00:09:58and masturbating to dirty dishes in the sink
00:10:01and who's going to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:10:04I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:06What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:08How do I know what size it is?
00:10:11Has he ever told you in inch...
00:10:14Well, I guess it wouldn't be in kilometers?
00:10:17No.
00:10:19I have never used a condom before.
00:10:21Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:25I have been married five times.
00:10:27Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb,
00:10:30and it led to an annulment.
00:10:33Husband number two, he was my very best friend.
00:10:36And it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:38But, after a few years, I realized he made a better friend
00:10:42than he made a husband.
00:10:44Husband number three, he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:48He was a really good guy.
00:10:50So, why did I leave him?
00:10:53I realized I was a lesbian.
00:10:56And for the past 21 years, I've been with women only.
00:10:59Let's go with the flow.
00:11:03Relax and watch what happens.
00:11:05Women are nice and curvy and soft.
00:11:10And I've had one wife, and then I've had another wife.
00:11:13But neither of them worked out.
00:11:15But I forgot about men, to be quite honest with you.
00:11:18I wasn't even thinking that I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.
00:11:22But sure enough, Daniel came along and...
00:11:27Yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:32Hi, beautiful. You're my everything. You're the light in my... my soul.
00:11:39He is 39 years old, and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:44He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form.
00:11:49So, I don't know what it is.
00:11:52He messaged me on social media.
00:11:55We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.
00:11:59So, at first, I thought, this is a scam artist.
00:12:02I said, I'm not talking to you, you're not real.
00:12:05But he kept trying to talk to me, and you know what?
00:12:08He is a smooth operator.
00:12:10He says the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.
00:12:14I love you much. You're much like a food to my soul.
00:12:18I just fell in love with him.
00:12:21He is so sweet, it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.
00:12:25I love you, Lisa.
00:12:27And I will continue to love you.
00:12:29Daniel says I'm exquisite, and I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.
00:12:34And he better, because this damn thing is itchy as all hell.
00:12:39And it's uncomfortable.
00:12:40Can I take it off?
00:12:51I love you.
00:12:53Oh my God, it feels so much better.
00:12:55One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short.
00:12:59And I miss my long hair so much.
00:13:02So, I wear wigs.
00:13:04Daniel saw me in my natural hair first, and then he saw me in my wigs.
00:13:07And he was like, damn.
00:13:11So, now I wear wigs every day.
00:13:12And I plan on wearing my wig the whole time when I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than
00:13:18a week.
00:13:19Okay.
00:13:20Here goes nothing.
00:13:21Try a flavored one. You might like it.
00:13:23No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:25You'll be ribbed.
00:13:26No, I don't know.
00:13:27No, I don't know.
00:13:30Growing up with mom was in a roller coaster.
00:13:34My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly, at least what she thinks is love.
00:13:42She's been through a lot of relationships.
00:13:44We've moved so many places.
00:13:47I've been to 15 different schools, if that tells you something.
00:13:51Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men after 21 years.
00:13:56I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:59Oh, gosh.
00:14:02Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:06Oh, there's different sizes. Holy crap.
00:14:10Daniel and I, we've had video sex.
00:14:12We've sent pictures to each other, and I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:17But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years, I can't even think about it.
00:14:24They have different body parts than women.
00:14:27The smells, the taste, the feels, the cleanup.
00:14:31I mean, I remember 21 years ago just walking to the bathroom to have to take care of myself and
00:14:39still dripping.
00:14:40That's disgusting.
00:14:41You don't have that with women.
00:14:44It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:46Oh, I'm gonna be sick.
00:14:48Um, sir?
00:14:49If you have a moment, could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:53I'm not gonna help you.
00:14:54So embarrassing. I'm sorry.
00:14:55This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:14:57Okay.
00:14:58Yep.
00:14:58They have to be latex-free.
00:15:00I'm allergic to latex.
00:15:01I'm...
00:15:03Oh, gosh.
00:15:04When it says thinnest, does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural skin on it?
00:15:10Yep.
00:15:10It's just, it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you, or, I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:15No, you're good.
00:15:16I'm just really, really embarrassed.
00:15:17No, no, it's good.
00:15:18I'm buying the condoms myself because I'm worried that I'll get there and there won't be a latex-free condom.
00:15:25But this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me.
00:15:30This is not just about the embarrassment over the condoms.
00:15:35All I can think about is Daniel and how he has no idea that I lived my life as a
00:15:39lesbian for 21 years.
00:15:41Thank you so much.
00:15:43No problem.
00:15:43I appreciate it.
00:15:45A couple of months ago, I went into Tessa Waters to see if I could come out with my whole
00:15:50truth.
00:15:51And I told him in the past that I had a fling with a woman.
00:15:57Daniel said to me, how could I do that to myself? How could I do that to God?
00:16:01God doesn't believe in same sexes being together.
00:16:05And he was disgusted.
00:16:08There you go.
00:16:10Yeah, no problem. Let me get the rest of your time.
00:16:11You can hide them in my purse.
00:16:12I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person because I am not ashamed of who I am.
00:16:18But I'm terrified to tell him because of how he responded to the fling. I'm terrified.
00:16:26I'm worried that he's going to say that this is a mistake and walk away.
00:16:31And I'm going to be left heartbroken.
00:16:34Okay, that's over and done with.
00:16:37Thank God.
00:16:44Well, well, well.
00:16:46So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:16:48Yes, I am.
00:16:50I was a player for most of my life.
00:16:53Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:54I want somebody to be there for me.
00:16:56So you want to stop all the parties?
00:16:58I stop all the parties.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:17:01How do you think she's going to react?
00:17:05I have a check-in flight and I landed.
00:17:08But I'm worried since he's not texting me.
00:17:12You're going to need your passport.
00:17:14Let's get through here.
00:17:15I don't know.
00:17:16I left him somewhere.
00:17:17What are we doing now?
00:17:19What are we doing now?
00:17:19Oh, God.
00:17:23My flight to Belize boards in 20 minutes.
00:17:27I'm still on the other side.
00:17:30So, hopefully, we get off soon.
00:17:41I'm rushing to my next gate right now.
00:17:44I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:46It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym
00:17:49because I am having to run to my connecting flight to Belize
00:17:53to meet my boyfriend Stig for the first time.
00:17:56Stig, you better be worth it
00:17:57because running through the airport is really embarrassing.
00:18:01Stig's a famous musician in Belize
00:18:03and the women there love him.
00:18:06So, the last thing I want to do is look like a sweaty mess
00:18:10when I meet him for the first time.
00:18:11But I don't really have a choice right now.
00:18:14Four minutes.
00:18:15Just getting to my gate.
00:18:20Or maybe it was perfect timing.
00:18:23Thank the Lord.
00:18:25Next stop, Belize.
00:18:28After waiting for so long,
00:18:30I'm super nervous to meet Stig.
00:18:32But I cannot wait to get my hands on him
00:18:35and start a future together.
00:18:38My second plan to believe.
00:18:41I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:43I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:44Is that easy?
00:18:51Is that easy?
00:18:53You got the word, watch the crowd.
00:18:56If you guys are mad, he will go do it right here.
00:19:24What's up?
00:19:25I am Erlin Dwayne.
00:19:26I go by Stig the Artist.
00:19:29I'm a musician from Belmopan, Belize, Central America,
00:19:32and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:34You know the vibes.
00:19:36I think I'm a cool guy, you know.
00:19:38I'm just chill for the most part.
00:19:41But when I'm performing, it's just a different feeling.
00:19:44I just get alive.
00:19:46I love what I do.
00:19:48I love music.
00:19:49I love singing for the ladies then.
00:19:51And the girls, you know, they can get pretty wild at my show.
00:19:57There's this one time.
00:19:58This girl was literally trying to get in my pants.
00:20:00She was front stage.
00:20:01I'm like, yo, chill.
00:20:02But if that's what my music gives them, that kind of joy,
00:20:06then I'm doing the right job.
00:20:08I can't take you off my mind.
00:20:10About 10 years ago, I put out my first song, my first music video.
00:20:14I recorded every single day in the studio.
00:20:17I grew my fan base.
00:20:18And now I'm at the highest level of Belize as an artist.
00:20:21So everybody recognized me.
00:20:24And I am very grateful for the love and support that I get here.
00:20:27There could only be one.
00:20:29One you.
00:20:30One you.
00:20:31One you.
00:20:32One so one love.
00:20:33There could only be one.
00:20:33I'm very proud of what I've become.
00:20:35But I couldn't have done it by myself.
00:20:38Perf is my producer.
00:20:40He produced a lot of my biggest songs.
00:20:42Richie is my manager.
00:20:45Six is my G.
00:20:47He's one of my best friends.
00:20:48They're still my homies since we started everything.
00:20:51And I know they're always looking out for me.
00:20:54I have a special toast.
00:20:55My gallery tomorrow.
00:20:58Cheers, yeah?
00:20:59World, world.
00:21:00World, yeah?
00:21:01You really like the American girls, bro.
00:21:04You really like them.
00:21:05Farina.
00:21:06Farina.
00:21:08Farina.
00:21:08Farina.
00:21:09I go straight Farina.
00:21:11We are dead.
00:21:11Ah!
00:21:14Listen, my friends, they could joke around as much as they want
00:21:17and tease me.
00:21:18But I'm very serious about my girlfriend, Aviva.
00:21:22Two years ago, I started talking to Aviva on social media.
00:21:26At first, we were both in a relationship.
00:21:29But when we both became single, it was way beyond friends.
00:21:35Aviva's super hot.
00:21:36She has the most beautiful blue eyes.
00:21:38But one of the most attractive things about Aviva is her personality.
00:21:44She has a beautiful heart.
00:21:46So humble and gentle.
00:21:48And she has a cute little laugh with her.
00:21:51I don't have to be stick the artist, you know?
00:21:53I don't have to impress her.
00:21:54I can be Erlen Dwayne.
00:21:56And that's why I feel like she's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
00:22:01So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:22:03Yes, I am.
00:22:05You think you'd have settled down really with this woman?
00:22:07Start a family.
00:22:08Let's get married.
00:22:10Let's have kids.
00:22:10I don't know.
00:22:12I might wanna be a baby.
00:22:15You're a breather.
00:22:17You wanna bury her, girl?
00:22:18Hello?
00:22:18Come on.
00:22:19I mean...
00:22:20Woof!
00:22:21Woof!
00:22:21Woof!
00:22:22Damn!
00:22:24So you're right that she...
00:22:25So you know why she can have your baby over here over America?
00:22:28America?
00:22:29America?
00:22:30America because you want to be a ton...
00:22:32You know why you get citizens and...
00:22:33I mean...
00:22:35The girls?
00:22:37The...
00:22:37They get serious, bro.
00:22:38It's getting serious, you know?
00:22:41So you wanna stop all the party?
00:22:42I stop all the party.
00:22:44That's part of my life.
00:22:45I mean...
00:22:46He's...
00:22:46You know, like...
00:22:47I plan to take her to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:51You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows?
00:22:53You ready for that?
00:22:55Yeah!
00:22:55I mean, I hope she's ready.
00:22:57You know what they call San Pedro, right?
00:23:00Temptation Island.
00:23:01Yee-haw!
00:23:02So what if you fix a San Pedro when a hundred girls jump out to you?
00:23:06I could bet you as you reach San Pedro...
00:23:08I wanna marry you.
00:23:09I'm sorry!
00:23:10Hey!
00:23:10Hey!
00:23:13My past in the relationship, I tell him...
00:23:15Like, you're gonna get jealous?
00:23:16No, no, no.
00:23:17They always trip, so I told Aviva...
00:23:19We're gonna say, I hope you don't trip.
00:23:23And she's like, no, I'm not like that.
00:23:24I'm not jealous.
00:23:25But...
00:23:26I don't know.
00:23:28I want somebody up on my side, you know?
00:23:30To sit up and worry about all that kind of stuff.
00:23:33Yeah, but everywhere we go, people always say,
00:23:36you have XYZ girls.
00:23:38How do you think she's going to react?
00:23:42I hope...
00:23:43I hope I pray I could be the best version of myself.
00:23:46This time I could do things a little bit different.
00:23:49You know what this is, right?
00:23:50Uh-huh.
00:23:51I heard that sound too many times, bro.
00:23:54I can't control that.
00:23:57I can't control that.
00:24:00A lot of my relationships in the past have failed
00:24:04because of this very issue.
00:24:06You know, I was a player for most of my life.
00:24:10Now, I truly want a family.
00:24:11I want somebody I can go home to at night,
00:24:13and they're there to listen to me, to be there for me.
00:24:17I hope Aviva can be that person,
00:24:19and that I can be a faithful partner.
00:24:22You guys are gonna love Aviva.
00:24:25You know, I love her.
00:24:26So let's see how it goes.
00:24:27I have 20% fit.
00:24:30God!
00:24:32Damn!
00:24:33We're stuck here next time.
00:24:39So update on the food.
00:24:41Ooh, that's shrimp.
00:24:43Look at that.
00:24:45That's good stuff.
00:24:46I hope Sheen and I get good airway and food lights,
00:24:50but then you take a flight back home.
00:24:54Forrest is arriving today,
00:24:55he's back.
00:24:58It's quiet.
00:24:59Or the house.
00:25:00We'll leave back.
00:25:00I have it though.
00:25:04It's quiet.
00:25:05Daddy?
00:25:06Myre come!
00:25:06How did I get good?
00:25:10Myre come!
00:25:11she's the same time!
00:25:12Yay!
00:25:13I'm sofik.
00:25:19Forrest is arriving today with his parents, and I feel, wow, like, super happy and excited.
00:25:28I'm on my way to the airport now.
00:25:31We rented a bigger apartment where we can all stay together.
00:25:35So I'm carrying quite a few bags.
00:25:43Also, I am bringing jackfruit.
00:25:46I want Morris and his family to taste the local goodies here in the Philippines.
00:25:54I'm really quite nervous, and I don't know to react.
00:26:01It's possible that I would kiss him before him, or not.
00:26:05I would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the first time.
00:26:10Honestly speaking, we will both enjoy with each other.
00:26:14But I'm worried, regarding with Molly, that she would say bad things to me.
00:26:21So I'm trying to get rid of my nervousness, especially meeting the first time with the love of your life.
00:26:28It's once in a lifetime, so why not enjoy with it?
00:26:38Look, we're touching now.
00:26:44We're out there so long.
00:26:48Sweetie.
00:26:48We're out there so long.
00:26:51Forrest, this sure is a long way to come traveling for a girl.
00:26:56Yeah.
00:26:56But she's not just any girl.
00:27:04All right.
00:27:19We are exiting the plane.
00:27:24After 30 hours of being on an airplane, I finally made it to the Philippines.
00:27:30I'm feeling ecstatic.
00:27:33I feel like I drank, like, six energy drinks.
00:27:42Mom.
00:27:43Mom.
00:27:49I don't know.
00:27:52Great choice though.
00:27:54It's in the probably...
00:27:55Yeah.
00:27:59Yes, I have a check-in flight, and it landed.
00:28:02But I'm also worried, since he's not texting me.
00:28:08I'm really calm down.
00:28:09I'm not going to tell you.
00:28:14Here's the way.
00:28:15Guys, with your immigration, you're
00:28:17going to need your passport.
00:28:18Please get through here.
00:28:18I don't know.
00:28:19I left them somewhere.
00:28:21Oh my god.
00:28:24What are we doing now?
00:28:25I don't know, Deb.
00:28:26Look.
00:28:27Deb, stop.
00:28:28Oh god.
00:28:37I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish.
00:28:40But I think it's important that we're completely
00:28:43transparent with each other.
00:28:45I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you
00:28:51were doing for those five days and why you weren't
00:28:55in contact with me.
00:29:10Today's video is going to be about
00:29:15in the morning.
00:29:18Did you slip good?
00:29:20I slipped great, baby.
00:29:22I slipped beautiful in the morning, babe.
00:29:36He was really tired from what we did.
00:29:42So was it everything you expected it to be?
00:29:46Even more.
00:29:50Yesterday night, we had sex two times.
00:29:56He's older, and I didn't think, like,
00:29:59he can do all of the stuff he did to me.
00:30:02Like, for the second round, it was, oh, my God.
00:30:09You want to go one more round?
00:30:12Do that.
00:30:24You good?
00:30:25Yeah.
00:30:26We're here.
00:30:28Wow, so this is the market.
00:30:30Yeah.
00:30:31I only gave Trish a little sample of what I could do.
00:30:34I have some more tricks up my sleeve.
00:30:38If it were up to me, I'd just stay at the hotel all day.
00:30:41But this is our first day in Madagascar together,
00:30:44and Trish wants to take me to explore her city.
00:30:48What is that fried fish right there?
00:30:50Yeah.
00:30:50This is so different from anywhere I've ever been in my life.
00:30:55Today, I want to show him everything around in Antananarivu.
00:31:03First, I'm taking him to the market in Alakili.
00:31:09The butcher shop right here, huh?
00:31:11Mm-hmm.
00:31:14And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:31:20Yeah.
00:31:21Ooh, pig face.
00:31:23Yeah.
00:31:24Oh, my God.
00:31:25What is that, baby?
00:31:26What is that?
00:31:27That's the stomach of the cow.
00:31:30That's the stomach.
00:31:31Yeah, yeah.
00:31:31And then is this also, like, intestines or what?
00:31:34Yes.
00:31:35I think I see a heart over there.
00:31:37Yeah, that's here.
00:31:39Oh, my God.
00:31:41I'm feeling like Trish deceived me.
00:31:43I mean, this is our first date.
00:31:45All this raw meat is going to mess up the sexy vibes we had going this morning.
00:31:51So this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat.
00:31:55Yes, yeah, yeah.
00:31:55Oh, you know, we don't see that.
00:31:58In my culture, we eat everything.
00:32:01We don't waste something in the cow.
00:32:05Oh, my God.
00:32:06Even the feet, the head, intestine, the heart, liver, everything.
00:32:13It's just food, relax.
00:32:16Baby, I know that's not a brain right there.
00:32:19It's brain.
00:32:20Oh, my God.
00:32:21Oh, my God.
00:32:21Yeah.
00:32:22Why?
00:32:22And would you eat that?
00:32:24Of course.
00:32:26Baby, don't put that in those stew that you cook for me.
00:32:30Please don't.
00:32:42Ooh.
00:32:44I hope somebody's going to enjoy it.
00:32:47Wow, what a view.
00:32:49You can see all Madagascar here.
00:32:53Wow.
00:32:54I can see the whole eye in there.
00:32:56Yeah.
00:32:57Oh, my God.
00:33:02Oh, my God.
00:33:20It's not like this.
00:33:25Like this.
00:33:38Hey, hey, hey, get it, baby, get it, baby.
00:33:44Got a little booty.
00:33:52I know how to tap dance, but this is not tap dance.
00:33:55This is something foreign to me.
00:33:56I've never seen this style of dance before,
00:33:58but I'm realizing that there's a lot that I don't know about Trish
00:34:02just from talking to her over the phone.
00:34:04Like, she's an amazing dancer.
00:34:07I didn't know she had that in her.
00:34:10Hey, all right.
00:34:16Every minute, I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish,
00:34:19but I think it's important that I get to know her better
00:34:23and they were completely transparent with each other.
00:34:27Wow.
00:34:28That was something.
00:34:29Was that your traditional dance?
00:34:31No, that's not mine.
00:34:32I just dance like that.
00:34:35You like it?
00:34:37Oh, it's beautiful.
00:34:38The name of the place is Rufa.
00:34:41Rufa?
00:34:42Rufa.
00:34:42That means a palace.
00:34:44Oh, okay.
00:34:46Now, where's the palace?
00:34:47Is it?
00:34:47It's there.
00:34:48Oh, that's the palace.
00:34:49Okay, yeah.
00:34:50It's beautiful.
00:34:52Oh, I'm tired even.
00:34:54Yeah.
00:34:54Yeah.
00:34:57This is so beautiful, baby.
00:34:59I'm having such a great time with you.
00:35:02But, um, you know, there's some things that I want to talk to you about.
00:35:10So, I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:35:19and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:35:24I already told you, like, you want me to explain to you everything that happened.
00:35:30You know that all of these things that you're telling me, you know, kind of sounds unbelievable in a way.
00:35:39I would like you to be open and honest with me right now.
00:35:45I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
00:36:01You sent him money, right?
00:36:04Is that not part of a romance scam?
00:36:08My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:36:12She's in so much debt.
00:36:14I think this topic needs to be over because this is ridiculous.
00:36:18Done.
00:36:30Now we got entertainment.
00:36:34Uh-oh.
00:36:36And we have fire.
00:36:38What we gonna do?
00:36:40Gonna break that heat.
00:36:41What we gonna do?
00:36:42Gonna break that heat.
00:36:44What we gonna do?
00:36:44Sell the competition.
00:36:45Oh, go for it, babe.
00:36:46What we gonna do?
00:36:47Gonna break that heat.
00:36:48Oh!
00:36:50Yay!
00:36:50I can do it.
00:36:52Oh!
00:36:53That was so close.
00:36:55I'm already done.
00:36:57Let me try.
00:36:59That was way over my head.
00:37:00That was on you.
00:37:01That was on you.
00:37:04I'll give you a good one.
00:37:06Hotter, like a baseball.
00:37:07Oh, my God.
00:37:10That looks delicious.
00:37:13What kind of food do they have in Nigeria?
00:37:15Well, Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals.
00:37:18He's always eating rice.
00:37:20Is it like a fried rice thingy thing?
00:37:22I don't know.
00:37:23I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:25Where are you going?
00:37:27I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:29Wow.
00:37:30Why?
00:37:31I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet for the very first time.
00:37:36Oh, my goodness.
00:37:38Wow, congratulations.
00:37:39Good for you.
00:37:41But it's crazy.
00:37:42Is it not crazy?
00:37:43Yeah, it's slightly a little crazy.
00:37:44I would agree.
00:37:46But, you know, the heart wants what the heart wants.
00:37:48So go for it, I say.
00:37:52I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel for the first time in just a few days.
00:37:57I can't believe I'm doing this.
00:37:59I must be insane.
00:38:00I really must be.
00:38:03I'm very, very nervous.
00:38:05So I wanted to take the edge off by having a night out with my daughter, Faith, and my friend,
00:38:09Juna.
00:38:11Oh, my.
00:38:12There's a volcano.
00:38:13Here it comes.
00:38:15I love teaching train.
00:38:16Woo!
00:38:18Juna is my very best friend.
00:38:20I swear to God, if she was a lesbian, Juna would be my ideal woman.
00:38:26Juna knows the ringer I've been through in past relationships.
00:38:30And she is supportive of Daniel.
00:38:33I'm hoping this is finally more happy every year.
00:38:36I'm going to hold you to it.
00:38:37What?
00:38:38That this is my happily ever after?
00:38:39Yes.
00:38:40This is the last time.
00:38:43My issue is she's saying it's the last one, as she said every other time, which we know.
00:38:48Right.
00:38:48He's always talking sweet to me.
00:38:51He's always trying so hard to do things.
00:38:53He just makes me feel so good and so wonderful.
00:38:57It's a good thing that he's treating you well, but that's part of what concerns me.
00:39:02The love bomber right away, it's part of a romance scam.
00:39:09They go for single, and I don't mean to say rude, older women who have been hurt and who are
00:39:17desperately looking for somebody and want someone to give them all the compliments, all the love.
00:39:22Oh, stop.
00:39:24Hold on.
00:39:25Do I look like an old, vulnerable, searching for somebody, woman, on the internet?
00:39:33No, I was minding my own business, not looking for anybody.
00:39:37But you sent him money, right?
00:39:40Is that not part of a romance scam, sending money?
00:39:45Even though I live paycheck to paycheck, I send Daniel money almost every two weeks.
00:39:52Daniel works in construction.
00:39:54He makes very little money, and he lives in a very poor area of Nigeria.
00:39:59I give Daniel money for food.
00:40:01I have bought him clothes.
00:40:04I give him money for fuel, for electricity.
00:40:08This is my generator.
00:40:11Daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two, maybe three times.
00:40:16But I give Daniel money more for myself because I want to feel that he's safe, and I want to
00:40:22feel that he's secure.
00:40:24All I know is within the first two months, you sent $2,000 total.
00:40:30And that was two months ago.
00:40:32So how much more is it now?
00:40:35I don't know.
00:40:38How did he do it before he met you?
00:40:41Does he not have a job?
00:40:44Yes, he has a job.
00:40:46But lately, he's been sick and he's missed work because of the malaria and other things that he has caught.
00:40:52And that's not a red flag to you.
00:40:54He needs you, and now all of a sudden, he's getting sick all the time.
00:41:00My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:41:06She borrows from Juna a lot.
00:41:08She's in so much debt, and it has me feeling more on edge.
00:41:14You were telling me, has Juna gave you money to help us with bills?
00:41:18She has.
00:41:19Haven't you?
00:41:20So she's been giving you, how much in debt now are we?
00:41:24You already know I hate that you're asking for money all the time.
00:41:27But it hasn't been the amount that it has been.
00:41:30It's so bad.
00:41:33Daniel seems to be a really, really nice person.
00:41:36I see how happy she is.
00:41:38So I have given her money to send to him, and I gave Lisa the money for the visa to
00:41:46go to Nigeria.
00:41:47I do have some concerns, because if he's scamming her, then he's scamming me.
00:41:56This was between Juna, me, and Daniel.
00:41:59It had nothing to do with you and me and your bills.
00:42:02It had to do with Juna and I and Daniel.
00:42:05And you're still not seeing any red flags about this?
00:42:09Juna has talked to him.
00:42:10Does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting?
00:42:15No, he doesn't.
00:42:17But, you know, texting and talking are two different things.
00:42:25There's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything.
00:42:28That's fine, because I know things that are inside and out more than you do,
00:42:33because you're not in the relationship.
00:42:36And this may be the best relationship I've ever had.
00:42:42You've said that every time.
00:42:47This has all been an emotional wreck, and we have not had one positive conversation together.
00:42:51And it's breaking my heart as much as it's breaking yours.
00:42:54And I think this topic needs to be over, because this is ridiculous.
00:42:58It always has to be over.
00:43:01I'm done.
00:43:03I'm done?
00:43:05Done.
00:43:20This might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl.
00:43:25We would say one burner.
00:43:26That means you have one partner.
00:43:30Never always been a one burner.
00:43:32I used to be full of gallo.
00:43:35I need to make some changes in my lifestyle.
00:43:37But I'm nervous to handle all that.
00:43:43This is crazy.
00:43:48I'm super excited, super nervous.
00:43:51Probably just 34 minutes until I land.
00:43:55Let me rephrase that.
00:43:5834 minutes until me and the shrimp land.
00:44:02And they actually landed on my pants.
00:44:05I have greasy, smelly sauce all over me.
00:44:09The things I do freezing, the things I do, they're welcome.
00:44:19Now it's getting warm in here as the beat beat crack into the atmosphere.
00:44:24Come on, let's switch gears and the power stir and go.
00:44:27Let's go.
00:44:29So today, my girl is coming.
00:44:31I want to give her a Belizean welcome.
00:44:34Beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady.
00:44:38Today, I'm meeting my girlfriend Aviva for the very first time in person.
00:44:47Aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city.
00:44:50To my apartment.
00:44:51But she don't know that we have my nice hotel room in Belize City.
00:44:55Because I want a nice little romantic stay tonight.
00:44:59But hey, this looks a little kinky.
00:45:05I have butterflies.
00:45:07I feel like a kid again.
00:45:09This might be the start of the rest of my life.
00:45:13With Aviva.
00:45:14With one girl.
00:45:15We would say one burner.
00:45:18One burner.
00:45:19That means you have one partner.
00:45:23Never always been a one burner.
00:45:24I used to be full of gal.
00:45:26But I need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle.
00:45:29So I can be the man that I've always envisioned that I would be.
00:45:33I just wanna...
00:45:36Uh, am I driving over?
00:45:38Yes, sir.
00:45:38All right.
00:45:41Aviva, Aviva.
00:45:43Minutes away from picking you up.
00:45:48I'm nervous.
00:45:51I'm about to meet my man, please.
00:45:56After two years of talking and six months of dating,
00:45:59I'm finally meeting Stig for the first time.
00:46:03Over here.
00:46:03We made it.
00:46:05I'm super, super nervous and it's making me nauseous.
00:46:16Oh, the flight just landed.
00:46:19I'm ready.
00:46:23What's going on, bro?
00:46:24I appreciate it, bro.
00:46:28I appreciate it, bro.
00:46:29Yes, man.
00:46:31Blessings.
00:46:34The ladies.
00:46:37Okay, I am going to the bathroom to crush him up.
00:46:41I'm super nervous.
00:46:43I know he's outside waiting.
00:46:47I just wanna make sure that he sees me and he's attracted to me.
00:46:51I'm so tired and it's stressing me out.
00:46:57I know he's around beautiful women all the time.
00:47:00And deep down, there's things I'm worried about.
00:47:04I'm so nervous.
00:47:06My biggest fear is that I'm going to go in with this big loving heart and it's just gonna get
00:47:14crushed.
00:47:17here we go.
00:47:18This is what I've been preparing myself for.
00:47:23Oh, I'm on the list.
00:47:30This is crazy.
00:47:35Oh, my .
00:47:37I'm gonna throw up.
00:47:38I'm gonna throw up.
00:47:40Oh, my.
00:47:49Oh.
00:47:51Oh.
00:47:52Oh.
00:47:53Arieva.
00:47:55Yeah.
00:47:56I am.
00:48:08You're looking more beautiful in person.
00:48:10No.
00:48:11Social media, don't.
00:48:13Nah, ain't got nothing on you.
00:48:16She's a good kisser.
00:48:18You know, it felt good.
00:48:19Mm-hmm.
00:48:20It felt natural.
00:48:21It felt good.
00:48:22It did.
00:48:23Did it get a red?
00:48:24You're a blessing.
00:48:25You're a blessing.
00:48:26I love it.
00:48:29Aw.
00:48:30You're here.
00:48:31I know.
00:48:33You're very beautiful.
00:48:35You look really good, too.
00:48:36And I'm super happy.
00:48:38Love that boudé.
00:48:44Aviva got a fat ass.
00:48:46I had no idea.
00:48:47I know she's been in the gym a lot.
00:48:48But what?
00:48:49I like it.
00:48:53It's like, mm-hmm.
00:48:54Mm-hmm.
00:48:55Okay, well, I brought you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:58And, uh...
00:48:59No way.
00:49:01It's up.
00:49:02Yeah.
00:49:03Don't eat that.
00:49:04Don't eat that.
00:49:05Please don't.
00:49:05Just throw it away.
00:49:07You did say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me, so...
00:49:11I mean, I brought it.
00:49:13I brought it.
00:49:14It's here.
00:49:14It's a little...
00:49:15I bet.
00:49:16I'm a man of my word.
00:49:17Ask anybody.
00:49:18Ask about me.
00:49:18Okay.
00:49:19Okay.
00:49:20Ready?
00:49:22Let's go.
00:49:23Let me get that one for you.
00:49:27I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:31I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:36It was a very magical moment.
00:49:38He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:44Please throw this away now.
00:49:45No, no, no, no.
00:49:45I'm gonna eat it.
00:49:46Whatever.
00:49:46You get steak.
00:49:47We're throwing it away.
00:49:48It's going.
00:49:49It's going.
00:49:50It's going.
00:49:50It's gone.
00:49:51Steak is just making me feel really special.
00:49:54And I know I only just got here, but it just seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought
00:50:00up that he hasn't been exclusive with just me seem a little silly and not true.
00:50:06You're actually here.
00:50:08I know.
00:50:09What are we going to do?
00:50:11Wow.
00:50:11I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:17Laura is coming to Turkey and it makes me feel excited.
00:50:22Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked out.
00:50:31I know that's something that I should tell her.
00:50:36But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:50:42Bye.
00:50:44You're welcome.
00:50:46Take care.
00:50:47I'm sure to ride.
00:50:49You too.
00:50:49Goodbye.
00:50:50Goodbye.
00:50:52Just be safe, okay?
00:51:01I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet BeerCon in person for the very first time.
00:51:06And I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:11Bye.
00:51:12Love you.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:23There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face and everyone that was
00:51:29naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so.
00:51:32But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks.
00:51:36And if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk
00:51:41for?
00:51:52I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life.
00:51:58And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car ride with my parents with
00:52:06a good smutty book.
00:52:08With some really steamy moments.
00:52:18This is the best part.
00:52:21It's darkness, you know.
00:52:23It's what I love about Nietzsche.
00:52:25He lighten the people around him, but he's the darkness himself.
00:52:30He was the part of the reason I wanted to find the light.
00:52:35I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface.
00:52:42I am trying to learn lives that I never lived.
00:52:46I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life.
00:52:51I had the chance to have a professional career of a football player.
00:52:56I was on the training and my knee collapsed with the other one's knee and my head crashed.
00:53:04I know it was over.
00:53:06But I still play football for fun.
00:53:11You know, I love the game.
00:53:12Just have to keep moving and embrace the pain.
00:53:16Life is like this.
00:53:18One part is struggling and one part is surviving.
00:53:26One shot!
00:53:50One shot!
00:53:56One shot!
00:53:57around.
00:53:58She was so supportive, so optimistic.
00:54:00She made me believe that dreaming is OK.
00:54:06That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me.
00:54:10I am in the darkness, but I can see the sun.
00:54:15It is about third or four weeks I told her I love her.
00:54:20And now Laura is coming to Turkey,
00:54:22and it makes me feel excited.
00:54:25Also, I feel nauseous, because I'm freaking out.
00:54:31I want to move things to the next level, and maybe propose.
00:54:35I don't know yet.
00:54:37I'm waiting for just meeting.
00:54:47Memo and Yutuba are my best friends in Izmir.
00:54:52I'm not close with my family, so they
00:54:55they are the closest people I have.
00:55:03What are you doing?
00:55:04What are you doing?
00:55:05What are you doing?
00:55:07Laura will come tomorrow.
00:55:09But we will die.
00:55:14You have a great excitement.
00:55:16I have a great excitement.
00:55:18I heard you talk about your voice.
00:55:20I said hello.
00:55:22But I didn't see it.
00:55:27How old were you?
00:55:2845.
00:55:49She is old.
00:55:52It's okay.
00:55:53Because I dated older woman before.
00:55:55The thing I'm attracted with older woman is...
00:56:00They understand, you know.
00:56:02Not childish.
00:56:05And Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:56:09She looks young.
00:56:12You told her about her life.
00:56:14You told her about her life.
00:56:15Yes.
00:56:15No, she doesn't know.
00:56:20She knows.
00:56:21She knows.
00:56:21She knows.
00:56:24She doesn't know.
00:56:26Yes.
00:56:26She doesn't know.
00:56:28Yes.
00:56:28But she doesn't have to talk from the phone.
00:56:53She doesn't have to talk from the phone.
00:56:56Yes.
00:56:56Yes.
00:56:56But...
00:56:57I don't know.
00:56:58She's gonna react.
00:57:05I don't know.
00:57:08She's gonna react.
00:57:09I don't know.
00:57:24She's gonna react.
00:57:30I don't know.
00:57:42I don't feel good about Michael at all.
00:57:46They are doing your reactivity together,
00:57:48but you think that you're just friends?
00:57:51I don't buy it.
00:57:53I'm not comfortable with this friendship she has.
00:57:56And if she doesn't cut Michael out of her life,
00:58:00I don't know if this relationship is going to work.
00:58:08I'm supposed to be your cop now.
00:58:10I thought that you were with somebody else.
00:58:13Now that we're face to face,
00:58:15I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
00:58:19I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
00:58:23Oh, man. I'm scared now.
00:58:32I'm done.
00:58:34I'm done.
00:58:44Babe.
00:58:46You okay?
00:58:47I can't. I can't.
00:58:50Now I'm going to get out of her.
00:58:52I don't know what to do at this point,
00:58:54because it always ends up being a fight.
00:58:58Every time I've tried,
00:59:00she voiced my opinion.
00:59:02She doesn't want to talk about me.
00:59:04She doesn't want to hear me.
00:59:06Or she told me I'm not allowed to feel that way.
00:59:10And see if we can find her.
00:59:12See if we can fix this.
00:59:24Faith, let me talk to you for a minute.
00:59:28I really don't want to.
00:59:29No. Look at me. Look at me.
00:59:31Please look at me.
00:59:34I love Daniel, and I know that you're worried
00:59:37that I'm in another bad relationship
00:59:39and things are going to go sour,
00:59:40and you're trying to save me from that,
00:59:42but I don't want you to feel like you're being second choice.
00:59:45I will always choose you before somebody else.
00:59:48Look at me. I will.
00:59:50You said do not marry Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:52I promise you with the bottom of my heart,
00:59:54I am not marrying Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:58I'm not.
00:59:59Just give me the opportunity to do this.
01:00:03If you break this promise...
01:00:05I'm not going to break this promise.
01:00:06If you break this promise again,
01:00:10I can't do this anymore.
01:00:11No, because that would be toxic,
01:00:13and I'm not a toxic person anymore, okay?
01:00:16So just please, give me a hug.
01:00:18I really need some space right now.
01:00:21Okay. I'll do that.
01:00:28This was an awful lot for her today.
01:00:35I have been in so many relationships
01:00:36and moved around so much on this poor child
01:00:39when she was little.
01:00:42But at that time, I was searching for who I was.
01:00:45I want to show her that this is different.
01:00:48I'm a grown-up.
01:00:50I'm not this young mom who is trying to take care of a young child
01:00:54and have a relationship after relationship.
01:00:56I want my happily ever after.
01:00:59I want this to be forever.
01:01:03And Faith doesn't see that yet.
01:01:14Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:21I'm trying to understand your feelings,
01:01:23and I'm trying to not fight about it.
01:01:26Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him
01:01:28without you knowing him
01:01:29and that I'm going to choose him over you?
01:01:34You never listen.
01:01:37I'm telling you to think about us first.
01:01:45Listen, I understand your point of view.
01:01:48I'm listening to you,
01:01:49and I'm going there to get to know him better.
01:01:51I'm going there to see if we are compatible.
01:01:54I'm not going there just to run off and get married.
01:01:57I'm listening to your concerns,
01:01:59and I am going to voice them.
01:02:01I promise you I will.
01:02:03Okay?
01:02:04Can I have a hug now?
01:02:06Okay, come here.
01:02:07I love you.
01:02:08I will start listening better.
01:02:11I'm proud of everything you do.
01:02:13You are wonderful and kind-hearted
01:02:14and loving and sweet and caring,
01:02:16and you have been good to your mother,
01:02:19regardless of what I've put you through.
01:02:21And I'm proud of you,
01:02:22and I will listen to you more, okay?
01:02:24All right.
01:02:27I understand where Faith is coming from,
01:02:29and I understand that she has been down this road
01:02:32with past relationships over and over again.
01:02:35I hold her opinion deeply in my heart,
01:02:39but I think Daniel is different.
01:02:42I think he's the real deal.
01:02:43I think he's a very precious man who is very rare.
01:02:46And I would be a fool not to go after him.
01:02:52Can we go home now?
01:03:05You're welcome, welcome.
01:03:07Zig is everything I thought he would be.
01:03:09He looks super good.
01:03:10There is definitely some chemistry,
01:03:14but it's a bit scary.
01:03:16I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle,
01:03:19and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy,
01:03:21but I hope that you haven't been seeing other people.
01:03:27Just breathe.
01:03:29You got this.
01:03:30You're a man.
01:03:32Sheena and I have been waiting seven years
01:03:34to meet up with each other,
01:03:35and I'm hoping my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:03:38I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:03:41Yeah.
01:03:41There's still some things that have to be discussed
01:03:44before we can proceed.
01:04:00It's your boy.
01:04:02No way.
01:04:04I love it.
01:04:06Mm-hmm.
01:04:08Celebrity status, okay.
01:04:11Can I take a picture of it?
01:04:13Yeah, sure.
01:04:15Lovely, lovely girl.
01:04:19You know you can change the world.
01:04:26So, where are we going?
01:04:28I don't even know where we're going.
01:04:29I don't know.
01:04:30I don't know where we're going.
01:04:30You don't know?
01:04:31No, I don't.
01:04:31Yes, you do.
01:04:32The driver, you know where we're going?
01:04:33The driver's just taking us?
01:04:34He don't know where we're going either.
01:04:35Oh, whatever.
01:04:36So, I don't know.
01:04:36But I can tell you, though,
01:04:38we're going to spend the night in Billy City at a hotel.
01:04:42Tomorrow, we're going to go to the islands.
01:04:44I do have a show out on the islands.
01:04:46Okay.
01:04:48Some new songs.
01:04:49I'm excited to perform those.
01:04:51Excited.
01:04:51Hopefully I kill it.
01:04:52Okay.
01:04:53A lot of people are going to be there?
01:04:54Yep.
01:04:55Are you ready to be there?
01:04:57Are you ready for that?
01:04:58I'm nervous.
01:04:59Do you want me there even?
01:05:01Of course I want you there.
01:05:02Okay.
01:05:06I know Stig can't stop working while I'm here.
01:05:09I would never ask him to do that.
01:05:12But I'm really shocked to hear that I'm seeing Stig perform already in just a couple days.
01:05:19We're here.
01:05:22I've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls and having him interact with
01:05:28fans in front of me.
01:05:30And now I'm going to be thrusted into it right away.
01:05:34And it's a bit scary.
01:05:36Okay.
01:05:38Welcome.
01:05:39Okay.
01:05:39I'll leave you here for now.
01:05:42This is nice.
01:05:42This is super nice.
01:05:42So I have an extra prize for you.
01:05:44Okay.
01:05:45Since you said that you love the flower, I got you some more flowers.
01:05:48Aw.
01:05:49Those are so pretty.
01:05:51This was to show you that you're my one and only.
01:05:53And this is to show some gratitude that you're here.
01:05:56Aw.
01:05:57I like them.
01:05:59They're so pretty.
01:06:00Check them out.
01:06:02Stig is everything I thought he would be.
01:06:04He looks super good.
01:06:05There is definitely some chemistry.
01:06:08What are you going to do with those?
01:06:11I'm all over you.
01:06:12We've been touching each other, kissing each other.
01:06:14So I hope the night continues on sexually.
01:06:22Let's get comfy.
01:06:23That sounds good to me.
01:06:25I'm attracted to her even more than her in person.
01:06:28But I'm a gentleman.
01:06:30I'm not going to just push up on her and try to get some the first night.
01:06:35We'll see how it goes.
01:06:36I'm going to let it play out the way it should play.
01:06:39I'm going to get more comfy.
01:06:42So.
01:06:44What about you at that?
01:06:46A flower?
01:06:47Sorry, it's not a rose, right?
01:06:47What's it?
01:06:48There's a rose.
01:06:49I think there's a rose.
01:06:51What are you going to get?
01:06:52Stig on your forehead.
01:06:53You could get it here.
01:06:54Only if you get Aviva.
01:06:55Then you leave my ass and I have Aviva big on my neck or something.
01:07:00How do you think Aviva would feel?
01:07:02I'm going to leave you.
01:07:03Mm-hmm.
01:07:05Unless you make me leave you.
01:07:06Oh.
01:07:07What would make you want to leave me?
01:07:11Oh, that's a good question.
01:07:12If you, um, you can't understand what I do for work and how I, you know, my lifestyle because
01:07:19of what I do and who I am.
01:07:20Yeah.
01:07:21I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy,
01:07:27but, but I also want to be like respected too.
01:07:31Just like, I hope that you haven't been seeing other people because I feel like we've been
01:07:36talking seriously, but I get it.
01:07:40Why are you rolling your eyes like that?
01:07:41I don't know.
01:07:42Cause like.
01:07:43You don't trust me?
01:07:44Oh, you don't trust me?
01:07:45I mean, I know your lifestyle.
01:07:48There's a lot of beautiful women around you always, so.
01:07:51They're not you though.
01:07:53Okay, Mr. Charming.
01:07:57Oh, I got you.
01:07:58Okay.
01:08:05I do have one more thing for you that's not spilled Chinese food.
01:08:10Okay.
01:08:10Yeah.
01:08:11Steak makes me feel really comfortable.
01:08:14He just knows the exact right thing to say.
01:08:16And Steak and I just feel right together.
01:08:18It's just a spark, a connection, a happiness, all wrapped together with a bow.
01:08:26I don't know.
01:08:28I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:34Hi.
01:08:35Hi.
01:08:37Hi.
01:08:43Hey.
01:08:44That's how you feel?
01:08:45Uh-huh.
01:09:00Yes, man.
01:09:02That is it.
01:09:03She's just fine as .
01:09:06Okay?
01:09:07Mmm.
01:09:08I will be soon.
01:09:11Aviva just might be the one, but I don't think she understands the extent of, you know,
01:09:16of my lifestyle as a performer.
01:09:18Sometimes girls go on stage, dance on me.
01:09:21You know, girls be in my DMs.
01:09:23Some pretty girls.
01:09:24I don't know if she can handle all that.
01:09:27She said she will, but we'll see.
01:09:38All right, I'm on monster passport.
01:09:42Left you on the airplane.
01:09:43But we found it, got it figured out, and here we go.
01:10:00He's texting me.
01:10:02He's already here.
01:10:04Feeling so happy and floating and lightened feeling.
01:10:11All right, here we go.
01:10:14I actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom.
01:10:17Go ahead.
01:10:17Oh, man, I got to find it.
01:10:18I'll see you in a minute.
01:10:19This way.
01:10:21Oh, man.
01:10:23I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:10:25Yeah.
01:10:26It's just, I mean, I think that I have these ideas of what I want
01:10:29to say because the emotions get there, the feelings get there.
01:10:34Settle down, Molly.
01:10:35Settle down.
01:10:43Just breathe.
01:10:44This is going to be good.
01:10:47Everything's going to be at peace.
01:10:49You got this.
01:10:50You got this.
01:10:51You're the man.
01:10:52Keep moving forward.
01:10:54My mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money
01:10:57again.
01:10:58She sent text messages to Sheena that made her really upset
01:11:02and hurt.
01:11:05So I'm hoping that my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:11:10Woo!
01:11:11Hey, Mom.
01:11:12Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with
01:11:15each other, and I just want everything to go smoothly.
01:11:20You look good.
01:11:20Let's get this mixed up a little bit.
01:11:23Here, let me get this little.
01:11:25There you go.
01:11:26You look good.
01:11:27Are you ready?
01:11:28Are you ready?
01:11:28Yes, I'm ready.
01:11:29This is your moment, okay?
01:11:33I'm so nervous.
01:11:41Let's do this thing.
01:11:43Here it comes.
01:11:44You got this.
01:11:44You will do fine.
01:11:45You tell her hello.
01:11:46You say, well, just do whatever you feel.
01:11:49Okay.
01:11:49Go for us.
01:11:50You got this.
01:11:51Go for us.
01:11:52Go.
01:11:53I love you guys.
01:12:05Oh, my goodness.
01:12:25Oh, my goodness.
01:12:44Our journey's about to start, and we're going to go to the next level.
01:12:49Oh, my goodness.
01:12:49I love you too.
01:12:50Oh, my goodness.
01:12:56Meeting you, getting to be with you finally, is my world.
01:13:01My everything.
01:13:03My everything.
01:13:04Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:06Sheena.
01:13:07Oh, I'm so with you, baby.
01:13:09You're the best muggle bear ever.
01:13:11I love you.
01:13:13It feels like heaven.
01:13:15It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:19I love you.
01:13:21Sheena, can I give you a kiss?
01:13:24Sure.
01:13:29Oh, this is so wonderful.
01:13:32Kissing you.
01:13:35It was ecstatic.
01:13:37She has some really good, like, perfume or something on.
01:13:40Actually, I put some a lot of flavor, like, flavored perfumes in it.
01:13:45I know you're going to love it.
01:13:46Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:47I think I got it all over me.
01:13:48Oh, really?
01:13:49Yeah.
01:13:52I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:57I want us to be a big family.
01:14:00Hi, mom.
01:14:03Hi.
01:14:15Too hot to be crying, Boris.
01:14:17I know.
01:14:18I'm having a thing as you.
01:14:22Oh, boy.
01:14:23Seen Sheena cry, seen Boris cry.
01:14:26And then the big trigger was just death.
01:14:29And then, ah, it was the water works.
01:14:31You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:32You're okay, okay?
01:14:34I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:39I don't cry very often.
01:14:41And right there, I couldn't hold it back, you know.
01:14:44It kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:46I'm sorry.
01:14:48I completely apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:51Well, thank you for apologizing.
01:14:54But let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:56Yes.
01:14:56Because we're going to be, today is a happy day.
01:14:59We are all together, right?
01:15:01I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:15:02It's been like a family.
01:15:04We're family now.
01:15:06We're family.
01:15:07You're with family now, Sheen.
01:15:11Seeing her face to face with him, face to face with me.
01:15:15This whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:17I love you, my Sheen.
01:15:18I love baby bands.
01:15:20And you got the softest lips ever.
01:15:22Oh, really?
01:15:23And you taste like candy.
01:15:26But apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed and talked about before we can proceed.
01:15:36That's just how I see it.
01:15:42I would call you, you would press decline, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:15:49I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:15:55During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I had made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:16:03What did you do?
01:16:15I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:35Okay, I can promise you that I won't get mad, but I can't promise that it won't hurt.
01:16:44About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life, and for five days, I didn't answer Rick's
01:16:52call.
01:16:54He was really, really upset, and he caused a huge problem for us.
01:17:01Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:17:05Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:17:07Yeah.
01:17:07And you said that he blamed you?
01:17:09Yeah, he blames me.
01:17:11Like, I was complete for everything, so I was really nervous and upset.
01:17:17And also, I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:17:25Oh, man.
01:17:27I scared him.
01:17:29After my ex-boyfriend got robbed, my brother got an accident.
01:17:35He hurt someone, bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:39We did a lot of process, like going for the radiographic, and the guy at the hospital.
01:17:46We're paying for his food and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:51Then we went to the police to pay for the amends.
01:17:56Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:59I mean, I would call you, call you.
01:18:02You would press decline.
01:18:04I didn't press decline.
01:18:06Or you would just not pick up.
01:18:07I didn't pick up.
01:18:08And I would text you, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:12I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:16I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:19I didn't even want to talk to anybody when I came back there,
01:18:25because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:28I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:30We have to work together.
01:18:32I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:33So it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:38Maybe just say, that's not true.
01:18:41I don't believe.
01:18:42Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:44Maybe you will judge me, but yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:56I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much,
01:19:00but it's different now, because I see you.
01:19:03I see who you are.
01:19:05So I can share, like, everything happens to my life.
01:19:12You okay?
01:19:20I completely understand what you're saying now.
01:19:24Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.
01:19:29I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:33What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.
01:19:39But now that we're face-to-face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes,
01:19:45and I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.
01:19:51Here she is going through all these things,
01:19:54and instead of being there for her,
01:19:57I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:20:00What did you do?
01:20:08During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days,
01:20:12I talked to my ex from Colombia,
01:20:17and she said that, you know,
01:20:19why don't you, you know, come down here?
01:20:22I'm missing you.
01:20:23And so, you know, I decided to book a trip
01:20:28and go spend time with her.
01:20:34Even though Trish started talking to me again in my heart,
01:20:38I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:40And so I still went to Colombia.
01:20:44My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:47We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:51Did you have sex?
01:20:52We had sex all the time, the whole time,
01:20:57multiple times a day, every day.
01:21:00I feel bad for that.
01:21:04So I know that I need to tell her.
01:21:06But I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:12And, uh, it might be the end of us.
01:21:20Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:23This is it?
01:21:24I can't believe I can't believe I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:27I'm really proud of the progress that I've made.
01:21:29But I am nervous.
01:21:31BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
01:21:35Oh, my God, here we go.
01:21:42I love Lisa.
01:21:44She's thick.
01:21:45She has boobs.
01:21:47But as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
01:21:51We don't accept that.
01:22:09We're here going to the Philippines.
01:22:11Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:22:13I've never even met my wife yet.
01:22:16This would be actually our first meet.
01:22:18Oh, okay.
01:22:21Me and Anna, we've been married two years.
01:22:24He said that?
01:22:26No, we have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three years.
01:22:31Okay?
01:22:34Did you guys do the old nookin' nookin'?
01:22:40You're pushing too far.
01:22:41It's in the right time or place.
01:22:44Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
01:22:48Let's not forget, she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future.
01:22:54You haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied.
01:22:59Like, the pieces aren't lining up.
01:23:06I don't like that we were fighting yesterday.
01:23:09But there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
01:23:14What? What is this? What's happened?
01:23:17I really want to tell Ziyad about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could
01:23:23move forward.
01:23:27No.
01:23:27I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:30I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:31I don't know what I'm going to do.
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