#video #Love and Marriage: Huntsville - Season 10 - Episode 17: The Streets Are Talking
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00:03I know we talk about this wall, it seems like I have built up.
00:07I personally, man, I can't keep getting
00:08beat over the head for some I ain't doing.
00:12I can't go another six months going through this
00:14if there's no actions taking place, it's not going to change.
00:20What did y'all think y'all doing here?
00:23Gang up on me?
00:24I dumped your ass in that pool you keep calling at me.
00:27You won't dump me, no mother .
00:27You won't dump me, no mother .
00:30Dump me, dump me, I'm with it now.
00:32Next question.
00:33I asked you a question, you got smart with me,
00:35so that's the energy that we're going to have.
00:36Who got smart with you?
00:36You did.
00:37I don't have a reason to give shade.
00:38I'm trying to have a good, amicable trip,
00:40and I don't understand the energy.
00:41That's all.
00:42Yeah, for no reason.
00:45You said before we even went to therapy,
00:48you want me to be happy even if we're not together.
00:52Is that what this comment you don't want to spill out is about?
01:23I'm not going to say it.
01:25It was that livelihood or a portion of it.
01:27I hear the word revoke, that me up.
01:33It don't take but one client who felt like maybe you
01:36didn't do something the way they wanted it done.
01:38You're thinking about doing business with him.
01:40That affects you.
01:41That affects me.
01:42If we're talking about business, we're not just
01:44volunteering information.
01:45You're getting all up in my stuff, and you're acting like you
01:47got it all together.
01:48You know, innocent or guilty, misunderstanding,
01:50whatever situation it may be, these are questions that
01:53need answers.
01:54Had you communicated with me, your wife, as you should,
01:58then you wouldn't be in this situation.
02:01How are you not seeing if this impacts me?
02:03Who the are you?
02:05Apparently, we're you, but I have to call you.
02:07It's going to be tough to be locked on this.
02:13We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
02:18Ain't no stopping, I've dropped that.
02:22We ain't stopping, you know, you know.
02:26We keep it moving all day, all night, yeah.
02:35Yeah.
02:37Yeah.
02:37All day, all night, yeah.
02:40Ain't no stopping, I've dropped that.
02:43Yeah.
02:47Yeah.
03:11I'm excited to meet with Tisha just to catch up and see how she's been doing haven't seen her in
03:16a
03:16while so I can't wait to see how life's been treating her and just have a little girl talk
03:21and see what's going on you know I spoke to Kimmy and she told me that your son was in
03:26the car wreck
03:26I had no idea girl yes went over to that parkway
03:31then the nurses and doctors about pissed me off because they was like oh my gosh did you see
03:37the car it's a worse I'm like look I don't I do not give two about the car tell me
03:43what I'm looking
03:43tell me what I'm gonna walk into so he's doing better um good yeah a lot of bruises but
03:51yes almost tore my nerves up well I'm happy that nobody did tore my nerves up he's he's he's better
03:58Jesus Christ I can only imagine we we make it through things and we share because we have to
04:04be in a support system for each other I agree you spoke to Nell lately I have not really like
04:10at the
04:1080s party I felt like Nell and I was like sort of kind of moving along in a better direction
04:17like
04:18as opposed to the winery that energy was all off the winery was a lot for me yeah it was
04:27a lot
04:27because not only with Nell also with Destiny how was your ride Destiny it was great very peaceful
04:33oh was it peaceful after you switched cars yep I think that was some shade it was shade and I'm
04:40taking it I think Destiny and I we probably do need to have a conversation I don't know if we
04:46really
04:46resolve the whole um Destiny at the winery I felt like Destiny was defending Nell and it hurt my
04:54feelings I've been missing you at black you've been missing karaoke I have yes I've been having a lot of
05:00stuff going on Ken and I still working on things we've been it's been rocky it's been very rocky
05:06actually I thought y'all was on the up and up no with social media it's like they be trying
05:12to point
05:13us out to be the bad people like what like somebody told him they saw me out with somebody I'm
05:19like
05:19where when do I be out did it where okay so it's what people are telling him about you like
05:27like he
05:28said they said he was out with a dude of course that's going to you know yeah some issues I'm
05:33like where who now what do you say oh I don't really care well no I don't know to you
05:40I don't
05:40know who tell them to give you a description it was a small guy like him that's what they said
05:46well tell Ken don't be listening to everything on social media because they be saying stuff about him
05:51on social media too like one of the ladies came back to me and she was like you need to
05:55go tell
05:55Trish that can be in these girls DM okay I said how you know he been a girl's DM you
06:03gotta stop
06:03that like if they saying they see you out with somebody like do bye well he went to stay with
06:09Will oh yeah how you and Ken gonna offense that though when you're married like if we get in so
06:18bad
06:18argument you can't leave for a couple of days that's not okay y'all still talking marriage though
06:24you okay I have it damn
06:48yes where are you I'm in the kitchen making us some coffee oh okay we are
06:54have been dealing with a lot the daycare program director it's no longer with us two new beautiful
07:02granddaughters I've been spending a lot of time at the house my dad he's in household with us now so
07:09it could be challenging I mean you know no it is challenging how was work today the usual what
07:15about Lance has he been by the center Lance is too busy why it always seemed like when you need
07:21help
07:21he too damn busy that that part I don't I don't get it's like well mom have dad why dad
07:29ain't doing
07:29it that's the way I feel is he saying because my real estate license is revoked at the moment
07:36I mean is he trying to use that I don't know I mean I know you know you're on the
07:39same license
07:40revoked yeah obviously there's been a lot of speculation and talk and rumors about my license
07:47status but it's under investigation right now I do have my lawyers working on it I know it will have
07:53a positive outcome but they have advised me not to discuss the situation until we get to a resolution
07:59man that's a big chunk of money out of our household you know of course you know I have
08:06the attorney working on it you know it could be 12 months a maximum of 24 months but you don't
08:13see
08:13it taking that long for me to be able to get my real estate license back in order now well
08:17I ain't
08:17got that long I need you back in real estate because now that now you affected me I just feel
08:24like
08:24I'm taking on everybody whether it's the kids the grandkids my dad your license is being revoked
08:33I'm just in overload and I do not think no one sees that
08:43you're always so calm and acting like nothing's bothering you do you even have a care
08:51of course I have a care with any of this all this bothers me just like it bothers you
08:56it's a big deal that it happened but no I'm not gonna sit and sob and stress and cry over
09:04it
09:04I can't let this hold me down I'm Chris Fletcher when I'm stressed I can't show a sign of weakness
09:11I can't cry in front of you know the family or what have you because it's almost like oh damn
09:16if dad goes down then you know what are we gonna do what are we supposed to do
09:20we are human so you know we do make mistakes I just have to own it correct it and move
09:26on
09:26how you plan on supplementing the income where we don't have to take from the daycare
09:32there's not a plan for that
09:36yeah some money's gonna have to come from the daycare until I'm back on track
09:42that's part of us being married and the businesses being developed in case something happens here
09:49then we always have a backup here yes it's a big chunk of money that I'd usually bring in but
09:57I mean
09:58I don't know we have the cleaning company uh you about to open posh and pritzy about the daycare you
10:04ever thought about partnering with someone
10:08I mean you're my partner in life but it's just like with your brokerage I have no ownership in your
10:14brokerage
10:14right that's different what what makes it different you don't possess a real estate license either but you
10:22don't have all the accolades and certifications that I have you can't just have an ownership of a brokerage
10:29if you're not a real estate um okay it doesn't matter you do not have all the experience that I
10:34have as a daycare owner I started out at daycare at the age of 19 you are nowhere to be
10:39thought of
10:40for as a daycare I could run the damn daycare with my eyes closed you and everybody in Huntsville know
10:45that
10:49coming up on love and marriage Huntsville
10:52when you said I want you to be happy whether it's with or without me I shouldn't make a statement
10:58you
10:59should be able to think through what you're about to say especially when it pertains to your wife we've
11:07we've been up and down I feel like the peace in the house went away we definitely in a space
11:12now to
11:12where it got bad because I ended up going and getting a whole nother apartment
11:19you do not have all the experience that I have as a daycare owner I could run the damn daycare
11:24with
11:24my mother eyes closed you and everybody in Huntsville know that nobody's no one it's so hard to say
11:31for me to say now about my business okay we have the daycare even though I'm the sole owner you're
11:40the
11:40sole owner of welcome home realty and we have the cleaning company together and we have properties
11:46together we have other homes together I don't talk about that I don't talk about nothing I'm
11:52never really talking about here so why are you talking about it now because I ain't say no you
11:56said a lot no I did not I didn't say you know what all you said was my name ain't
12:01own the real estate
12:02and I'm telling you by law yeah but it's the way you sit there and you do all this and
12:06like you're
12:07just gonna sit there and discredit me I don't even move I'm sitting up and talking to you you don't
12:10have
12:10to move your persona I don't need a partner I'm a hundred percent owner I'm not discrediting you that
12:16you don't help me you do you help a lot I don't even try to bring it up but you're
12:20on my payroll
12:22like you even tell Martell half of our love Martell I see you running the sounds you're doing this you're
12:28doing that Kelly didn't pay for it didn't I say yeah we're partners you're my husband but
12:36you still possess income okay I think you know my wife is caring so much um there's so much stress
12:47and pressure there seems like every time I turn around she's crying about something she's um upset
12:53you know she's down you know about one or the other I mean you're handling it you're doing a
13:00good job everything's still running fine I'm handling everybody but me
13:09what can we do just tell me I need a nurse I need a nanny and I need a program
13:16director that's what I
13:17need if you want to help me help me figure out a nanny a nurse and a program director
13:25if I can get that I can get back to my life
13:28I can't take back the words outspoken can't fix all the trust I've broken
13:57just kind of wanted some extra little downtime before everything kind of gets popping off
14:04with summer and school and getting monster situated getting excited about monster going to college
14:11we're about to be here all by ourselves so we don't have to really see if we like each other
14:17I think we're going to benefit from alone time using some of the tools some of the stuff that the
14:24therapists have given us to work over time therapy is definitely working and we're still in it and
14:31we're still in it and we're going to be in it for a while until I'm fixed
14:38I've had time to process our conversation
14:43what conversation the conversation that we had at AC when you said
14:49I want you to be happy whether it's with or without me
14:53and that's kind of sat with me for a little while it looks like we're gonna
14:58we're gonna what I don't know you said before we even went to therapy you want me to be happy
15:05even
15:05if we're not together so is that what this comment you don't want to spill out is about some stuff
15:13just
15:13comes out or it shouldn't you're saying it shouldn't but it's it I shouldn't make a statement
15:20you should be able to think through what you're about to say especially when it pertains to your wife
15:28I think that you in general deserve to be happy like of all people
15:36you're probably the best human I've met I want you to do what makes you feel good I said babe
15:43I
15:44want you to quit your job you love real estate let's get into real estate let's do other stuff
15:48because I want you to be happy what wife wants to hear you say I hope you're happy with somebody
15:54else
15:57coming up on love and marriage hospital there has to be a measure of being mindful of your words
16:04when it comes to our relationship feel like sometimes it's pulling teeth to help you learn thoughtfulness
16:12I'm not on this journey looking for my brothers and sisters right I found them 27 years I've never
16:19even seen these kids before I said babe I want you to quit your job you love real estate let's
16:24get in
16:24real estate let's do other stuff because I want you to be happy what wife wants to hear you say
16:30I hope you're happy with somebody else as opposed to I didn't say I hope you're happy with somebody
16:35else as opposed to I'm gonna do better babe I'm in love with you I love our life and our
16:42relationship
16:42yeah you say some stuff sometime absolutely you say some stuff you kind of don't think through
16:48absolutely do I absolutely that doesn't mean I don't want to be in the relationship with you
16:55I want us to be better for each other sweetheart it seems like you're you're caught up on something
17:02different than what I said this whole thing is about you being happy I'm not unhappy what I'm sharing with
17:09you are comments and things that you've said that quite frankly don't need to be said again
17:17I'm not gonna say it again uh I'm not gonna try to say it again I may say it again
17:22but I'm gonna get
17:23over saying it again there has to be a measure of being mindful of your words when it comes to
17:32our
17:32relationship like your interview your conversation with Carlos all of that kind of stuff I'm on chemo
17:39and how many times a day you want to say all that kind of stuff to me is not thoughtful
17:45of your wife
17:47nor in respect of your relationship there's a difference between wants and needs I'm a person who
17:54actually needs sex so Kimmy is doing as admirable as a spouse to roll over and suffer through it I
18:03look at it as her standing by me while I'm standing by her I feel like sometimes it's pulling teeth
18:10to
18:10help you learn thoughtfulness you acknowledge that you're not thoughtful but when I try to give you
18:19measures of thoughtfulness because I think I'm pretty thoughtful you are you give me pushback so
18:25it's like you don't really have the intent to be thoughtful opposites attract that's not funny
18:36we've had enough drinks in this backyard throat and that's your problem you be trying to be funny
18:42and it's not funny it was a little no it wasn't why did you crack a smile because I'm trying
18:48not to
18:48punch you in your jaw when I'm trying to have a for real conversation with you that's half of the
18:54dilemma you think you say funny stuff and it's really it's not funny when we're talking about
18:59something serious this is like serious time you got to know when it's time to joke and when it's not
19:05time to joke ask all feedback and I'm listening the conversation for me is just
19:12tenderness and being intentional okay simple and direct
19:17you don't ask me you don't ask a lot for me right we make a really good team until I
19:21say dumb
19:22and then it bothers you not for a day not for a couple hours but it wears on your spirit
19:30and your
19:30soul and I'm learning through this maze of mirrors how to make sure I don't say stuff that you know
19:40will wear on you for a long period of time I'm going to work on it and I'm going to
19:45be better
19:48some of the things that we've learned over time is you know most things take time most
19:54things take time we're here seven years married seven years dating because of the resiliency of what we
20:00can do what we've gotten over in the past I love you kiddo you know that
20:07I need you to know that I love you
20:12well I know that I know at your core there's nothing that you wouldn't do for me I don't have
20:20any doubt
20:23usion
20:23coming up
20:23on love and marriage huntsfield, the winery was this a random
20:28rah
20:31that's a luck you was defending
20:32we're going to have to fight, either stay in trouble or pick us out
20:44multiplicity
20:45Why can't we get closer?
20:48Raise our glasses up, get them high enough
20:51till it all spills over.
20:54Why can't we get closer?
20:57Why can't we get closer?
21:00We don't open up unless it's hot.
21:02All right.
21:03Thank you so much.
21:03You're very welcome.
21:06Hello.
21:07Hello.
21:08Look at you girls trying to dress like me.
21:10Same color.
21:11Hi, Daddy.
21:12Hey.
21:13So I'm meeting my dad at the bingo hall,
21:16one of his hangout spots.
21:17And my godmother is here, Pauline.
21:21My dad and Pauline have been best friends
21:23for over 40 years.
21:26And when I was transitioning to live with my dad,
21:31I met her when I was six or seven years old.
21:35And from that moment, I became her daughter.
21:38What long?
21:40He's with the nanny.
21:41Oh, OK.
21:41Yeah, they went to church.
21:43Oh, I love my man's son.
21:44He love his grandpa.
21:46So what have you been up to?
21:48Nothing, just working on.
21:51I know I've been on this journey looking for my brothers
21:53and sisters, right?
21:55Mm-hmm.
21:55I found them.
21:56Yeah.
21:57So guess what I'm doing?
21:58What?
21:59Going to Detroit.
22:01Oh, you're going to meet them.
22:02Yeah.
22:03All of them.
22:03All six of them.
22:04And me being the oldest, I'm like bringing everybody together.
22:07Is it six or seven?
22:10It's eight of us.
22:11Eight?
22:12But Terrell, deceased, so.
22:15Rhonda Jo is my birth mother.
22:18She did raise me until I was about five.
22:26I remember leaving the neighborhood and I saw my mom come out of a building.
22:31Like I'm yelling like that's our mom right there.
22:33Me and my brother Terrell were in the car.
22:38I remember just crying and like them trying to bribe me and my brother apart.
22:48My big brother Terrell, who taught me how to tie my shoes, who was my best friend, who
22:55was always my protector.
22:57And my dad wanted to get custody of him, but my grandmother was like, no.
23:03I told Pauline, I said, I said, I'm getting custody of my child.
23:07I said, it's okay, you know, for her to stay here until, you know, I get myself together.
23:13She said, no, not a problem.
23:15I remember the day you walked in like a little lady.
23:20I remember coming in there with some stuffed animals and I felt like everything was so big.
23:26That's what I remember.
23:27Yeah, you was just looking around.
23:28You said, come on, show me the house.
23:32It was a little rough at first.
23:34Yeah, it was.
23:35Even it took me a while to call you mama.
23:38I used to call you Pauline.
23:39Remember that?
23:40You know, I love you like, just like you were my real daughter.
23:44And you never treated me any different.
23:47I love you.
23:48I love you too.
23:52I'm kind of like emotional a little bit about meeting my siblings because I don't, I don't know.
23:5827 years.
23:59I've never even seen these kids before.
24:01I was sending them pictures in our little group chat.
24:03They had never seen my mama.
24:05They had never seen Rhonda.
24:06They don't know what she looked like.
24:08And so I'm having these conversations and I'm having to adjust because I'm realizing Tarell and me were the only
24:14two kids she ever had.
24:16The rest of them went immediately into foster care and then got adopted.
24:20And these last three, like, I never thought I, I never thought I'd find them.
24:25It's nerve-wrecking.
24:26I'm a little nervous about it.
24:28I ain't gonna lie.
24:29The moment y'all get together and see each other, all that'll change.
24:34I hope so.
24:35They will.
24:36You should, you should come.
24:37Not this time.
24:39Rhonda gonna be there too.
24:43Oh my goodness.
24:46You sure you don't wanna go?
24:47I'm thinking about it, but I don't think so.
24:49I just want to just remember Rhonda, not the condition she's in now.
24:55Well, it's bad.
24:56I didn't think she would, you know, go that route where she used to pull my whiskey and beer down
25:02the toilet.
25:04You never thought that she would've done drugs?
25:06No, I never would have.
25:09I haven't seen her in probably four years since my grandfather died.
25:15And that wasn't a good meeting.
25:16It was, it was a little, it was a little rough.
25:19Rhonda Jo really struggled with her addiction.
25:22She just really couldn't bring herself back from losing her children.
25:27Life has made her tougher because she had to survive.
25:31And she's definitely hard to get close to.
25:33When I first told her that I found my siblings, she actually checked into rehab.
25:40Oh, she did?
25:41She did.
25:42I'm nervous about meeting the siblings and then telling her that they don't wanna meet her.
25:48Right.
25:49So she not gonna take that well.
25:51Cause, um, she kinda has a sense of entitlement.
25:55Because she got the title of mama, mother.
25:59You know, I'm nervous about meeting with her again.
26:03And sometimes it's good, sometimes it's bad.
26:08Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
26:10I feel like this is not gonna go anywhere.
26:12Cause I feel like when we, once we're done here, you're gonna go back and be like,
26:14Oh, they gave up on me.
26:15So I feel like it's better for the one-on-one.
26:17I don't need to run to nobody and say nobody gave up on me.
26:19I feel like that's what you're gonna do.
26:20But I don't need to go back and say that.
26:22I'm a grown woman.
26:23I can put my big girl panties up and have a conversation with y'all like I've always done.
26:56Hey, what's up, brother? How you doing, man?
26:57I'm good. How you doing today, man?
26:59I'm good. I'm good.
26:59What are we gonna do for you? In and out? Outside?
27:02Yeah, I'm gonna do in and out.
27:03In and out. Okay.
27:05Life has been good.
27:06You know, trying to juggle, you know, new business venture, children, new relationship.
27:11Um, so I just thought maybe the car wash should be a good place for me, Ken, and Chris to
27:16get together and debrief a little bit.
27:18Man, how y'all been?
27:20Working it, bro.
27:21Life it. Life it. How about that? Life it.
27:23No, I know how that goes.
27:25People say life it means some tough going on.
27:27Tough going on.
27:28I learned that one. Life it.
27:30Did you talk to Destiny?
27:32Oh, so after I got through talking to you about the listing or whatever, I called her ass.
27:37I told her about the listing.
27:39I said, Chris, you know, I gave it to Chris, but Chris said, you know, he wanted to look out
27:43for you or whatever.
27:44And, you know, when I called her, she was more like, I'm doing a podcast at this time, aren't you?
27:48So I'm like, all right, well, guess what?
27:51She ain't hit me back.
27:52She ain't.
27:52I'm like, girl, that's $15,000, $20,000 in your pocket.
27:56You know what I'm saying?
27:56Right, right.
27:57To this day.
27:58And that's been about a week of .
28:00Yeah, a little longer.
28:02Yeah, she ain't like her.
28:04Well, I wish I wasn't in the damn situation.
28:06I don't know.
28:07You know, my license got suspended.
28:10Real estate license.
28:14What?
28:15Mm-hmm.
28:16He danced too much.
28:18Me trying to look out for someone.
28:20And I feel like I really got set up in the situation.
28:24And they went to the commission.
28:25And that's where we stand at the moment.
28:28But, you know, I got my legal people working on it.
28:31My attorneys working on it.
28:33Trying to get the changed.
28:34But right now, can't do no .
28:38How you gonna feed your family?
28:39Oh, well, first of all, that ain't the only thing I do.
28:44I mean, I got a business right here across the street, too.
28:46Yeah.
28:46What did Neil say?
28:47She mad.
28:48You know what I'm saying?
28:49She ain't liking this .
28:50Yeah.
28:51She feel like it's an embarrassment.
28:52But she...
28:56She got enough on her plate.
28:57I'm not gonna say that my wife discredits my efforts.
29:01She has so much that's overbearing her that she doesn't see what it is
29:06or all the things that I actually do.
29:08But I am a pillar of the community.
29:11So not being able to sell a home, that's an issue for the family.
29:17How are you and Trish doing?
29:18Everything going your way?
29:19Uh, it's...
29:20It's going.
29:21Currently, right now, with me and Trish's situation,
29:24we've been up and down.
29:26I feel like the peace in the house went away.
29:28Like, you know?
29:29Yeah.
29:30And for me, it's like, if I can't come home and feel peace,
29:33like, I can't be there.
29:35We definitely in a space now to where it got bad
29:38because I ended up going and getting a whole other apartment.
29:45I decided to take the next step and move out.
29:47I felt like the energy in the house was a little off.
29:50So much has transpired over the last few weeks,
29:53so I want to kind of, you know, go somewhere where I can clear my head
29:55and, you know, try to really figure this thing out.
29:59It sucks because I done said a million times I was done.
30:02But when real life hits you, it's like, man, I ain't even dead.
30:05I love her, so it's hard.
30:07For me, sometimes when I cut that switch off,
30:10it's hard for me to cut it back on.
30:12Yeah.
30:12You know what I mean?
30:13Kim moving out, getting his own apartment, I commend that.
30:15I think that's good for any man.
30:17I think, Kim, I need to go and get a woman without a husband,
30:22possibly without kids.
30:24Because if I was in this situation and he don't have no kids,
30:26I'd be with a woman with no kids.
30:28You ain't gonna get you a 20-something-year-old woman.
30:30No, I don't want that either.
30:31Anything under 30 days, they act slow.
30:33You make good money, you're smooth, you're cool.
30:36What, so you can control her?
30:37Yeah, that's what I know.
30:38I ain't got no time for that.
30:40Man, these ones need to be controlled.
30:40They want a dream.
30:41If you don't control them, they're gonna control you.
30:43You ain't seen that?
30:44Trish trying to control you.
30:45I mean, he do everything!
30:49Martell's biggest thing is control.
30:52And you just, it just doesn't work trying to control another person
30:57because they're their own human being.
31:01Stop trying to control them.
31:02One thing I'm learning as I get older is like,
31:05man, times are changing.
31:07It's like at the first sign of resistance, people quit.
31:11Yeah.
31:11There's no, like...
31:12That's y'all's generation.
31:14Yeah, it's our generation.
31:16But it's like, for me, I got a lot of fight.
31:19You know, people call it naive.
31:21People call it, you know, being stupid and all that.
31:24But it's like, for me, like, when you love somebody,
31:27like, you just don't give up.
31:28The reason people giving up these days so easily, man,
31:30because they got so many options.
31:31Well, they think they got options.
31:33No, no, no.
31:34No, no, no.
31:34So, like, I guess...
31:36You got options and you got actual good options,
31:39like something that's actually valuable,
31:41something that's actually...
31:42Oh, yeah, yeah.
31:42Most of these women misinterpret it.
31:44Yeah, for sure.
31:44They think, oh, all these guys liking my stuff,
31:46they in my DMs.
31:46They just want to .
31:47That's it.
31:48That's it.
31:49I get married.
31:50I'm going to have to lock you all the way down.
31:53Man.
31:53You can't even go nowhere without me.
31:57You know how many women want to be taken care of?
32:00Bills paid?
32:01Right.
32:01There you go.
32:03I don't know what Ken over there doing.
32:05Oh, .
32:06Well, you know what?
32:07I don't know doing either.
32:08We're about the same .
32:10I'll tell you, y'all .
32:32I'll tell you, y'all .
32:37Taco Tuesday is like my thing.
32:39See, this is my whole little Taco Tuesday get up.
32:41So I invited Destiny and Tisha to come and join me.
32:44Tisha says I never invite her.
32:45So here you go, girl.
32:47Welcome to my world.
32:48I'm going to be humble.
32:49Yes.
32:50We'll have all of these.
32:52See the margarita.
32:53Right.
32:54Are you good?
32:55Been working.
32:56You've been busy.
32:57Yes.
32:58We've been trying to get all of those little properties together.
33:00How is the restaurant for Joanne Lane coming along?
33:03It's just like, you know.
33:04The process of the steps.
33:07Yeah.
33:07Scott Realty is slower as well.
33:09And Marcel was like, his focus has been on Whitehall.
33:13The Whitehall project is almost completed.
33:15It's sleek.
33:16It's modern.
33:17It is a luxury feel.
33:19And it's new for the Huntsville market.
33:21So I'm super excited about this and what the future holds for Scott's development.
33:25I'm actually about to do some marketing photo shoot for it.
33:29I'm collabing with some ladies that's in real estate.
33:31Like, you know, residential is not my focus.
33:33So I need to partner with someone that's in residential so we can work together to get
33:37this house sold.
33:38Who are you partnering with?
33:40What do you mean?
33:42How are you going to say something like that?
33:44Tisha's going to find another residential broker instead of me.
33:49Boy, that 1.0 is something else, ain't it?
33:51Just the simple fact that you said another residential real estate agent.
33:56They're not listing the properties.
33:58I'm going to be the company that's going to list it.
34:00They're more available to show.
34:01Because at the end of the day, I don't have the time to do all this stuff.
34:06But, you know, we can make some magic happen together.
34:08So that's what it really was all about.
34:12Then that works out perfectly.
34:14Yeah.
34:16Because I'll be calling you, Kimmy, hey, can you go show this house?
34:18And I'm going to say, no, ma'am.
34:19You can go, Tisha.
34:20You can go show your house, Tisha.
34:22And I'll be like, okay, gotcha.
34:23There.
34:31Hello, hello, hello, hello, hello.
34:34Hi, boo.
34:35Look at you.
34:36Yo.
34:36It's been a minute since I've seen the ladies, but it's Taco Tuesday.
34:40And I'm excited to see Kimmy and Tisha.
34:43How y'all been?
34:44We've been good.
34:46I haven't seen your shining face since the 80s party.
34:48The 80s party was something interesting.
34:51Why you said it was something interesting?
34:52What's that?
34:53That's because y'all had a little tiff.
34:55That's what it was.
34:56When did it at the 80s party?
34:57You had a little tiff at the winery.
35:00And then when we got to the 80s party,
35:02I'm glad y'all let it go.
35:03We just haven't had a chance to talk about it.
35:05What are we talking about?
35:07The winery was just a random fry.
35:13All right.
35:14There we go, sweetie.
35:16That's the blue for y'all.
35:18Do you want any margarita?
35:20I'm not sure if I want a margarita,
35:21but I will take a nice little shot to get the edge off,
35:27because we're going to leave that energy
35:29at the bottom of the shot.
35:30I hope so, with all of us.
35:33I don't think she would have had that moment at the winery
35:37if what happened in the car had been resolved.
35:40That's all I'm trying to say.
35:41Nothing happened in the car, didn't it?
35:42I had a conversation with Nell about just coming in
35:45and having fun.
35:47Does she feel like she offering an apology?
35:48I don't know.
35:49And I said already that she's taking accountability
35:52and she's trying to be in a good place and have a good time.
35:55And you said the same thing, but then you're like,
35:56well, she need to say that in my face.
35:57Which one is it?
36:00You know what?
36:00I'm done with talking about her.
36:02OK.
36:02You know what?
36:03I think we should pull over,
36:04and I'm going to go check on that.
36:05What do you mean, pull over?
36:07No.
36:08No.
36:08The answer's no.
36:10OK, perfect.
36:11I felt like you was defending Nell.
36:13In what way?
36:14And I'm like, you can't be in the middle,
36:16but also take a side.
36:17You're going to have to either stay in the middle
36:19or pick a side.
36:20But what did I defend?
36:22I need a concrete statement that supports the fact
36:25that I supported her being on the scene.
36:26I can't remember verbatim what you said, Destiny.
36:27I'm not going to remember word for word what you said.
36:29But what I'm saying to you is that.
36:30If you're going to hold me to the fire,
36:32then you need to remember what I said.
36:33No, baby.
36:34I don't remember what you said.
36:35Well, how are you going to hold me to a fire
36:37of something you can't even remember?
36:38Because I know how you make me feel.
36:39I think that Tisha has so many feelings,
36:42and I have learned that I just can't keep apologizing
36:45for people's feelings, especially Tisha's,
36:47because she got a lot of feelings about a lot of people.
36:49As a friend, you have to be like,
36:52OK, I can receive how I made you feel.
36:54Did I not do that on a winery trip?
36:56So why are we talking about something
36:58that I've already acknowledged and said,
36:59if that made you feel that way, that wasn't my intent?
37:03Because obviously, it didn't go anywhere there,
37:06because we have this bad energy right now.
37:08I came in here to have some nachos and drinks,
37:11and I didn't have no energy.
37:13OK.
37:14You feel like we have it now?
37:16A little bit.
37:19I feel like this is not going to go anywhere,
37:21because I feel like once we're done here,
37:23you're going to go back and be like,
37:24oh, they came up on me.
37:25So I feel like it's going up with a one-on-one.
37:26I don't need to run to nobody and say nobody.
37:28I feel like that's what you're going to do.
37:29But I don't need to go back and say that.
37:31I'm a grown woman.
37:32I can put my big girl panties up and have a conversation with y'all.
37:35Like, I've always done.
37:36They both have this imaginary issue,
37:39and they're trying to, like, make it land
37:41and make me feel a way about something
37:44that they can't even tell me or give me an example of.
37:47Give me something that I can actually maybe take and say,
37:50OK, I can own that.
37:51Or, like, get out of my face.
37:52That's stupid.
37:53Whatever.
37:54But I can't even get that, besides your energy.
37:57Like...
37:57Well, at the end of the day,
37:58I don't remember exactly what Destiny said.
38:01However, I do remember that I didn't like the way
38:04she was handling the situation.
38:05I felt like she was taking a side,
38:07and I felt like he was taking Nell's side.
38:10So the thing is,
38:12is that I don't want it to continue to be a pattern.
38:15You said that even when it was with the Martell situation,
38:19like, well, I was knowing I've known Martell longer,
38:21and I met you guys through Martell.
38:23It just started making me question everything.
38:25Like, OK, well, because you have known Martell longer
38:28and you met us through Martell,
38:30does that mean your relationship with Martell
38:32is more important than our relationship?
38:35And you've known Nell longer than you've known me.
38:37Does that mean that your loyalty is more towards them?
38:41Have I shown you that?
38:43You have not.
38:44OK, so why are you questioning it?
38:46But because when I felt like you was defending Nell to me...
38:50And I acknowledge how you felt, and I apologize,
38:54and I don't know what more you want me to do,
38:56and I'm not groveling and kissing ass.
39:01I don't want you to grovel, I don't want you to kiss my ass,
39:03but I do want you to acknowledge how I feel about something.
39:07How many more times do I need to do that?
39:09Well, now you're trying to dismiss my feelings,
39:11and I will give you an example.
39:12I am not.
39:12Y'all don't remember.
39:13Y'all gaining up.
39:14Y'all doing this.
39:15Y'all doing that.
39:16Boy, that Tisha, boy.
39:17That Tisha.
39:18Tisha for them streets.
39:19I be trying to tell y'all.
39:20Like, what are we doing?
39:22There's no way that's productive.
39:24Tisha, you said you want to be to acknowledge your feelings, right?
39:28Have I done that?
39:29No, no, no.
39:30I haven't acknowledged your feelings.
39:31So I didn't apologize.
39:32No, this is what I'm saying to you.
39:33You can't be like...
39:34Why are you getting there?
39:35Because you want me to talk.
39:35Why are you going there?
39:36Because I'm talking too.
39:37I was speaking.
39:38I asked you a question.
39:39I asked you a question.
39:41I asked you a question.
39:42I'm not answering any more questions than this.
39:43I feel like I'm being gassed right now.
39:45Oh, my God.
39:45I asked you a question.
39:46Jesus Christ.
39:47Jesus Christ.
39:48Gained up on gas.
39:49Yes.
39:50What else, girl?
39:51You going to be the victim soon?
39:57This season on Love and Married Huntsville.
40:01Tisha tell Trish, supposedly somebody came to her and I was in their DMs.
40:05She told Trish that?
40:06If there's anybody that shouldn't carry bones, it's us.
40:12It was Trish.
40:13Oh, God damn.
40:14Oh, hell no.
40:15See, Heart Eyes, my picture that I post, it was heart, heart, heart, licky tongue.
40:21I spent the block on someone.
40:22I did.
40:23I'm not going.
40:24What's him?
40:25Oh!
40:25Let's not protect your best friend here.
40:28Now, all of a sudden, that my license revoked, now you're trying to make a big deal out of it.
40:32No, I'm making a big deal out of your lack of disclosure.
40:35I thought that we were going to go into business together.
40:37Oh, am I supposed to get on a bullhorn and alert everybody that my license revoked?
40:41Just me.
40:42Who the you?
40:44Real talk, I need you to tell your brother.
40:46That needs to get finished.
40:48It's a small project.
40:50I'd like for you to pick up and get out your soft hands, Eric.
40:53Motivate me, Reese.
40:54You're going to motivate me.
40:55I guarantee you're going to be motivated.
40:56A lawsuit.
40:56You're a little slimy ass.
40:58you, Marceau.
40:59Horrible for him.
41:00What you said to me was that, oh, you don't defend me in rooms that I'm not in.
41:03The only person that don't defend you is your husband.
41:04Oh, my God.
41:06Wait, if he was right, wait.
41:07You're probably the .
41:08I think you're a husband.
41:10Are you?
41:11No, you're not .
41:12Sure.
41:13I just didn't tell them.
41:14You're wrong.
41:15If I'm not talking about me behind my back.
41:19You want me to fight with now?
41:20I'm gone.
41:20Don't walk out this door.
41:21I'm leaving.
41:21No, I'm leaving.
41:22Don't walk out the door.
41:23I'm leaving.
41:24You need to stop with the victimization.
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