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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, you're the way.
00:03Today I am finally going to Tasmania to see my honey.
00:08My biggest concern about going to Australia is his mom being so darn close to us.
00:13I think it's about time that he gets off his mom's nipple.
00:23I feel like I can start living life now, so...
00:26Ring.
00:27It's coming.
00:30Please make yourself comfortable.
00:32In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
00:37I couldn't afford the life that you want.
00:40I don't want you to make choices because you feel like that's what I want in the future.
00:45You don't necessarily appreciate how much I give to this.
00:50I have an idea for a business here.
00:54Are you, like, for real?
00:55Manon will always be hustling.
01:00I know what that leads to.
01:03Us divorcing.
01:08Do you see him?
01:09Jonathan asked me to stop his location sharing, but my eyesight doesn't need to stop tracking him.
01:16What if something happens?
01:18And I just gave everything up.
01:20No way.
01:33What if something happens?
01:35It's better.
01:37It's better.
01:40I don't know.
01:52It smells good.
01:53It smells good.
01:55I started learning French when me and Manon began dating.
01:58She always says I mispronounce everything.
02:00So Manon's taking every opportunity she can to test my French.
02:04Okay, so...
02:07I'm going to take...
02:09...4...
02:10...4...
02:10...5...
02:10...5...
02:10...5...
02:11...5...
02:14...4...
02:14...4, yeah.
02:16Right?
02:19...
02:19...4 mini beignets.
02:23Everything's going to be 4 now.
02:25All right.
02:26C'est chaud.
02:29Oui, c'est chaud.
02:31Merci à vous. Bonne journée.
02:33Merci, bonne journée.
02:34Merci. Bonne journée.
02:36A tout à l'heure.
02:37No, not tout à l'heure, no.
02:38For sure.
02:39Oh, my...
02:40You're too much.
02:44I say we rest AEC.
02:46What do you want, Ben?
02:48You want to play?
02:49You want to drink?
02:50You want to eat?
02:51Go play, dude.
02:52Allez jouer.
02:53No, jouer, it's something else.
02:56It's play.
02:56No, jouer, it's having an orgasm.
03:01Jouer.
03:02That's what I said.
03:03No, you said juie.
03:04You don't want to say that.
03:06No.
03:07So the baptism's tomorrow.
03:08Yeah, I know.
03:09I'm scared and I'm excited.
03:11This weekend, Benjamin is going to be baptized, and I invited my whole family to the baptism,
03:18just to be polite.
03:19And honestly, I'm pretty shocked because everyone said they are going to be there.
03:26You know, people that I haven't seen in a long time.
03:29Some people have beef with each other, like in every each family, you know.
03:34But once you said to me, and actually I remember, I took it really at heart.
03:38You said, like, you know what, if you go to France, it may be also a good opportunity
03:41for you to make amends or bury the hatchet with everyone, and you are going to be seen
03:46like the first and the only one who actually initiate something positive.
03:52We only see each other during, like, funerals, which is very sad.
03:56No one is doing an initiative to actually meet up and have a good time.
04:00Yeah.
04:02It's really turned into, like, this big thing with all your family.
04:05And to be honest, like, for me, it's a little weird.
04:07I'm not religious.
04:10So?
04:11I don't agree with that.
04:12It's uncomfortable for me.
04:15I don't believe in Catholicism and just the establishment of religion in general.
04:19I feel like a lot of people hide behind it when they do bad things.
04:22I feel like a lot of it's greed, power.
04:25I would say that, like, for the baptism, I'm against it, you know.
04:30I'm for doing it for Manon, but as long as we're not practicing, I'm good.
04:36I get it.
04:37I get it.
04:37But we've done a lot of things your way because it was your country, your family.
04:42It's about my roots.
04:44We are French.
04:45We are Christian Catholic.
04:47The entire family is.
04:49I am.
04:50And this is just one thing that I want.
04:52I am doing this for you.
04:54And I'm there for you.
04:55And I love it.
04:56And I see it.
04:58My family and my extended family really stresses me out.
05:03They always peek at me and they always like to.
05:07Antoni said being the black sheep of the family.
05:10So I'm worried that a lot of uncomfortable moments are going to happen.
05:15And the fire in me is going to have to be put down.
05:21Yeah, it's stressful.
05:43I invited Cariana to come tonight.
05:45Yeah, she's a very, very sweet girl.
05:48You excited to have some drinks?
05:49Get loose.
05:50Yeah, I'm excited to go out tonight.
05:52Yeah?
05:53It should be fun.
05:54I hope.
05:58Jonathan's version of going out and my version actually couldn't be more different.
06:03I feel like I need to relax.
06:06Jonathan doesn't even drink.
06:07And I, myself, I don't want to say I'm an avid drinker.
06:11But I mean, I'm not going out sober.
06:14I kind of rack up a bill.
06:19Caner's going to come meet us over there.
06:24Joy to the world.
06:26Man, you really don't like him.
06:28No.
06:29I don't like that you don't like Caner so much.
06:32Yeah, I don't know if I can help all that.
06:35Caner's a longtime best friend of Jonathan.
06:39And they work together.
06:41Before I got serious with Jonathan, I was already made well aware of Caner and Jonathan's nights out.
06:47They went out together after work and we're partying it up and taking random people home.
06:53They are definitely partners in crime to say the literal least.
06:59Yeah, but remember he's my friend too, so you know.
07:02I know, but...
07:08My elbow is like itchy.
07:10I think there's like a mosquito problem here.
07:13There it is.
07:20Nice spot, huh?
07:21It is nice.
07:24So I actually saw Cariana today.
07:27We actually went and spied on you.
07:33You spying on me just makes you feel like there's no trust in this relationship.
07:39But I feel like one day, like asking me, it's okay, let's not share our location to the next day.
07:44I feel like I need more time than just a day or two to feel better.
07:49But the thing is like what I don't like is that you from the distance thinks that I go with
07:53like a young girl on my back and flip.
07:55But like it wasn't, it's not like that.
07:57No, I can see.
07:58No, you can't.
07:59You cannot tell me what I can and cannot see.
08:01I am there, I see it.
08:02You don't see, it's from too far.
08:05It makes me feel better.
08:08I would really, really like her to trust me enough where she wouldn't have to worry about where I am
08:13and what I'm doing.
08:14The things that worry me a lot is that she'll never get over it.
08:18Hi, guys.
08:20Hey, Cariana, how are you?
08:22Good, how are you?
08:23Good, come to me because I don't want to stand up.
08:26Hi.
08:26How are you?
08:27You got your drink ready?
08:28I did, I already got a drink.
08:29She couldn't be sober around us, so.
08:31Cariana, I heard you went spying on me with Chloe today.
08:34I did.
08:35You're viewing it as malicious, we're viewing it as helpful.
08:39Helpful and fun.
08:39I know, I view it as that you don't trust me.
08:42If it's making me feel better, just let it be.
08:44Cariana, what do you think?
08:45If your boyfriend was working, would you go spy on him too?
08:49She does spy on her boyfriend.
08:50Probably, probably, yeah.
08:52Why are you women crazy like that?
08:54Because you make us crazy.
08:56You guys make us crazy.
09:00Hey, man.
09:02Finally, some backup, man.
09:04Finally, man.
09:05Sorry that I'm a little late.
09:06Oh, man.
09:07Hi, Chloe.
09:08Hey, Caner.
09:09How are you?
09:10Good.
09:11Nice to see you, welcome back.
09:13Hi.
09:13So happy to be here.
09:15I'm perfectly okay with Jonathan and Caner having a friendship,
09:18but once I found out that he had cheated,
09:21it kind of opened that door for me to view him differently
09:25because Caner, he's the one to create the perfect space
09:30to enable Johnny's bad behavior.
09:33It looked like you was in the sun because you're still a little tan.
09:36I am?
09:37Yeah, a little bit.
09:39You are.
09:39Yeah, right?
09:40Yeah.
09:41I no longer dislike you.
09:45She went spying on me at work today.
09:47I saw you.
09:49Yeah.
09:49You didn't tell me?
09:50You did not see me.
09:51I didn't see her.
09:52You didn't see her?
09:53I didn't see her.
09:53Well, she was over there.
09:54I saw her.
09:55And you say, oh, he's with Caner.
09:56He's fine.
09:57No, it's not that I said he's with Caner.
09:59He's fine.
09:59I said, oh, he's with Caner.
10:02Nothing's fine.
10:04What do you mean, Abe?
10:05You better be nice.
10:07I don't want to have a problem with you.
10:09You better not.
10:11No, Caner.
10:12You better not.
10:15You better not.
10:15Yeah.
10:16Yeah, no, we better not.
10:18Don't try to start a fight right here, please.
10:20Right now.
10:21If you've seen me fight, this isn't me fighting.
10:22This is me conversating.
10:24That's how you talk to people?
10:25Yes.
10:25Don't be intimidated by me.
10:27That's scary.
10:27No, I stand on business.
10:29You have to stand on business with people or they walk over you.
10:32You should see me when I'm actually getting mad.
10:36Since I meet Chloe, she's been like that, so I know how she is already.
10:40Her personality is a lot.
10:42I always try to be, like, nice and easy with her because I have, like, a hard personality
10:47also.
10:47I can be an asshole, too.
10:49But she's an asshole.
10:54My trust issues come from your actions, but you work with him and you go out with him.
11:00So what am I not going to like?
11:02Him.
11:03So you're telling me right now that you don't like me?
11:06I'm not exactly a fan.
11:08No.
11:08I have such an issue with him going out with you.
11:11Exactly.
11:11Then he's not going to go out with you anymore.
11:13That's something that you have to do with him.
11:14I want to go out with my friend, okay?
11:16You can't control me like that.
11:17You can't do that kind of thing.
11:19Respect me.
11:20Respect what I say.
11:21I do respect what you're saying.
11:23Clearly not because I'm saying I don't like to go out with him.
11:26Oh, my God.
11:27This is getting crazy.
11:30Come on.
11:31No, it's not.
11:32Come on.
11:32It's a serious thing.
11:34Like, Chloe, I'm not defending him, okay?
11:36I'm just trying to tell you.
11:37Well, you're not defending me either.
11:38So you can't play Switzerland.
11:43Would you be okay with me cooking my way a little bit?
11:47Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.
11:51I don't like to be told what to do.
11:53I would just love to, like, tell you what I'd like and then you cook it.
11:57Is it this whole house?
11:59Yes.
12:00Looks lovely.
12:01When I picture Matthew and I getting our first place together, I did not envision this three-bedroom house.
12:07Two little twin beds here.
12:09Twins is on the agenda then, is it?
12:15One little spark is all it will take to set this whole world on fire.
12:21To finally find our way home.
12:27Welcome to Australia.
12:31It's really pretty.
12:33I'm glad you're on here.
12:34No, really.
12:35It's so pretty.
12:35So, it's the nature.
12:37Aww.
12:52All right.
12:52Is that it?
12:53Yeah, that's it babe.
12:54What?
12:55Oh, it's totally different from what I expected.
12:58Seriously.
12:59I'm very much excited to show Patia our home for the first time here in Tasmania.
13:05I own a couple of properties here and I rent them out for income.
13:10And I recently renovated this one for Patia and I to live in.
13:14That's coming out.
13:15That's coming out.
13:16I know it's not a ring, but it's a house.
13:19That's got to count for something, right?
13:26Oh my gosh, babe.
13:28It's super cute.
13:30You did good with the decorating and the plants.
13:34Oh, and you have our pictures up.
13:36This is when we first met.
13:38I love it.
13:40You like that?
13:40So, you ready for the rest of the house tour?
13:42Yes.
13:43All right.
13:44This is obviously the lounge room.
13:46We need to buy a couch.
13:49Okay.
13:49We can go shopping and we can pick out something that you like.
13:53I love that word, the sound.
13:54Shopping.
13:55Yep.
13:56It's been years since Patia and I lived together full-time, so there's going to be a little bit of
14:02an adjustment period.
14:04We're polar opposites.
14:06I like to keep things simple, but Patia prefers a more luxurious lifestyle.
14:12This is the master.
14:13It gets a lot of sunlight in here.
14:15It's nice, huh?
14:16Okay.
14:16You did good with the bed in here.
14:18Do you like the bedding or not really?
14:19I do.
14:19I like the bedding.
14:20I like the curtains.
14:21Yeah.
14:22I'm very sort of structured.
14:23I like to get all the laundry done, everything folded.
14:26And this is my closet, I take it?
14:28That and this is your closet.
14:30Ah!
14:30And there you go that.
14:31And that's your closet there too.
14:33That's a good size.
14:34Oh, and up here for my purses.
14:36And her laundry basket is overflowing, so it makes for an interesting dynamic.
14:45Something smells good.
14:47You're cute with your mask on.
14:49Oh my God.
14:50Sorry, you know when I travel I have to put sort of the mask on.
14:54Is that the secret to your fountain of youth?
14:57One.
14:58I have many.
15:00Oh, the salmon looks so fresh.
15:02Well this is fresh Tasmanian salmon.
15:04And then you're going to be having 50 grams of asparagus.
15:07And you're going to be having 150 grams of brown rice.
15:10So that's going to be 379 calories.
15:14I like to be very strict with my diet.
15:17During the day I will have 100 grams of kangaroo and then 150 grams of brown rice
15:24and then maybe a little bit of broccoli or green beans.
15:27And I'll repeat that meal about five times throughout the day, every two or three hours.
15:34You season it?
15:36Well you know how I like to cook.
15:38You're going to have to learn to cook with seasonings for me now that I'm here.
15:41Yes.
15:41Well let's spice things up a bit.
15:43You want to make it hot?
15:44Hot chili flakes.
15:45Oh and Chipotle seasoning.
15:47I like that.
15:48Wow, you really are going nowhere aren't you?
15:51I want to have my salmon too.
15:52Are you going to season my salmon?
15:55Yes.
15:56The difference between me and Dylan and how we eat is like night and day.
15:59Like he will literally boil his chicken to get the fat out.
16:04I'm like there's no fat in chicken breast.
16:07Me and Dylan argue a lot about food.
16:09I don't know if it's going to ever stop really.
16:12And we'll probably be arguing to her grace.
16:16I'm so happy that you cooked for me, but I want to do some of the cooking too.
16:20Yeah.
16:20I know how you're strict with your diet, but would you be okay with me cooking my way a
16:25little bit?
16:25Yes, you can cook your way, but like I need 30 grams of protein, 100 grams of carbohydrates
16:31and some micronutrients in every meal.
16:35Why do you always make it like a science project?
16:38Sometimes the way that you eat is lots of sugar, lots of oil.
16:42It is a fun cheat meal for me.
16:44Cheat meal?
16:44My cookie's not that bad.
16:46You're calling it a cheat meal?
16:47No, it's just like all those sauces that you use.
16:49No, I don't.
16:50And then all the oil that you use.
16:52I don't use that much oil.
16:54You don't even measure when you put the oil in.
16:55You just throw it in.
16:56You don't even put the measuring kit.
16:57No, but I eye it.
16:58I know.
16:59Well, there's no eyeing here.
17:00Babe, I know how I've been cooking a long time.
17:03I know just my eyeing.
17:04I know you know how to cook, but I'm just saying if I'm trying to keep my physique in
17:08shape, I can't just be eating whatever.
17:12You act like you're doing a modeling shoot every day.
17:15You have to lighten up and enjoy.
17:17But what if that's how I like to live?
17:22Oh, gosh.
17:24Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.
17:28He likes things specific ways.
17:31I'm very independent.
17:32I don't like to be told what to do.
17:34And, you know, and he does that to me.
17:36We haven't been together in years and Dylan, he needs to compromise with me.
17:40Or it's just going to be really hard for me and Dylan to succeed.
17:44I would just love to, like, tell you what I'd like and then you cook it.
17:48Because I love normal.
18:06And I will listen before you...
18:10It's like sheep.
18:14Are you excited to look at houses?
18:16Yeah, very excited.
18:18I know Greto is keen to move out of my parents' place,
18:22so I've arranged for us to see a rental property today.
18:25The estate agents picked out some things.
18:28I've asked for character, decent size.
18:32I mean, is it going to be in an urban area?
18:36It's probably not as urban as you were hoping for.
18:39But we can make it work.
18:44One of the reasons I left Oklahoma was because I really wanted to live
18:47in a walkable city with public transportation.
18:50I like to be able to walk to a coffee shop and walk to the store.
18:55I do that in Oklahoma sometimes when people think I'm weird.
18:59There's some really nice houses around here.
19:02I wonder what the average age of the people who live here, though, are.
19:07Matthew's lived in cities before, but he also loves the countryside.
19:11So I'm hoping we can find a compromise.
19:15All right, here we are.
19:17This looks really nice, actually.
19:20There's our estate agent.
19:23Hi, Nigel.
19:24Hi, Matthew.
19:25How are you?
19:26Are you OK?
19:26Very good, thank you.
19:27That's a good spot.
19:28You've got a nice courtyard.
19:29Nice and quiet.
19:31Very cute, yeah.
19:31Let's go inside and take a look around, shall we?
19:33Okay.
19:33Really?
19:34Is it this whole house?
19:35Yes, it is, yeah.
19:36Oh, wow.
19:36That's huge.
19:37Looks lovely.
19:39So come on through.
19:40Wow.
19:40Nice entrance hallway.
19:42Uh-huh.
19:42This is like a legit house.
19:43This is good.
19:44Yeah, very nice and spacious.
19:46So take you through to the sitting room.
19:47The sitting room?
19:48Yeah.
19:48Is that a living room?
19:50Same as the living room.
19:51You may call it that.
19:51So dual aspects.
19:52You've got nice light flowing through here.
19:54View out to the front.
19:55So right across the hallway, you've got the kitchen.
20:00Aw, look how cute the oven is.
20:02It's so small.
20:03Yeah, nice little English oven.
20:05How do you even cook anything in here so small?
20:08Yeah, this is an average oven.
20:10That's it.
20:12It's only the first place we're seeing, but I could picture us living here.
20:16This is good.
20:16This is a nice functional area.
20:18This house could be a really good stepping stone for us.
20:22So then we're into the principal bedroom.
20:24Bright, spacious room.
20:25You could have put your bed here.
20:27You can even maybe put in a desk as well in this room.
20:30Definitely.
20:30Have an office space.
20:31Yeah.
20:32When I picture Matthew and I getting our first place together, I picture us in a tiny flat,
20:39cooking vegan meals in our kitchen and cuddling up on the couch with our cats.
20:44I did not envision this three bedroom house meant for a family with multiple kids.
20:50Let's show you the bathroom then.
20:51Okay.
20:52If he's so concerned about our finances, why would he want to pay for space we don't even need?
20:58Let's show you the other bedroom.
20:59So this traditionally would be the second bedroom, so you've got space for a little bed.
21:04I think it would make an excellent kids' bedroom as well.
21:06It would, definitely.
21:07Having like two little twin beds here.
21:09Yeah.
21:09What do you think, Grella?
21:10Yeah.
21:11I mean, yeah.
21:12Yeah.
21:14Twins is on the agenda then, isn't it?
21:16Oh, yeah.
21:16I guess we're having twins now.
21:18Yeah.
21:18We are too, yeah.
21:20Okay.
21:21Let's take it through then.
21:23Matthew pointing out that the second bedroom could be for our two kids.
21:27Bye.
21:29Definitely put a rock in my stomach because I've become really unsure if I want kids.
21:39But I haven't told him yet.
21:46Sharp road.
21:50So, the real estate guy was nice, wasn't he?
21:54Yeah.
21:55But, like, I don't think I'm ready to settle down in a neighborhood village yet.
22:02I would just feel really isolated here.
22:05It doesn't really matter where you live if both people drive and it's there.
22:11You can live five, ten minutes away from a town center, right?
22:15It's just, like, it doesn't make any sense for a house to, what, fill out for no reason right now.
22:23You know what I mean?
22:23Like, it's just, it doesn't make any sense to me.
22:27I am feeling really overwhelmed.
22:32I don't mind having more space rather than less space.
22:35I think we'll fill it out in time.
22:39My wants and needs were kind of mowed over.
22:45Matthew seems pretty certain about our future.
22:48But I just don't think I'm in a place to be moving into a house in the middle of nowhere
22:53with a set of twins.
22:55I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
22:59C'est noté.
23:01Noté.
23:10She's already a little tipsy.
23:12I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.
23:15Whew.
23:38The Lord is with you.
23:41Acclaming the word of God.
23:42Louange to you, Lord Jesus.
23:46Assieds you.
23:49Benjamin's baptism is happening today.
23:53My relationship with my sister, Marie, has been a little bit complicated.
23:57Especially since I moved to the US.
24:00She always kind of left a little bit of a distance between us.
24:04So that's why I decided to make up the godmother to help us reconnect.
24:10Benjamin, Laurent.
24:12Je te baptise.
24:14Au nom du Père.
24:15Et du Fils.
24:17Et du Saint Esprit.
24:19On peut l'applaudir.
24:20Yeah.
24:34Everyone.
24:35Everyone.
24:36All the world.
24:36Tout d'abord, je tenais à vous dire un grand, grand merci d'être tous venus au baptême
24:42de Benjamin.
24:43Plus de 10 ans que je ne suis plus ici en France.
24:46Mais j'ai voulu vraiment inviter tout le monde parce que la vie change, la vie évolue.
24:50Et j'ai vraiment voulu en profiter cette fois qu'avec mon mari, on rentre en France.
24:55Voilà.
24:56Parce qu'on sait pas où est-ce qu'on sera demain.
25:01I haven't seen most of these people for 10 plus years.
25:07I'm kind of proud of what I've done.
25:09Because who would have imagined my entire family, even people who have been with each other,
25:14being actually all together, bonding, talking, laughing, and just enjoying and having a good time.
25:19That feels good.
25:23That morito is so strong.
25:27I don't know what I want.
25:28Because everything is so good in France, though.
25:31I know it's going to be very good.
25:32Everything is so good.
25:34Like my sausage thing I had.
25:36You mean your own sausage?
25:40Your American sausage?
25:41No, I mean the sausage thing I got at the laundry.
25:43I haven't had the chance to taste your own sausage for like two months.
25:47You know that?
25:47Taste?
25:48I haven't had.
25:49That's been like over a year.
25:52No, I'm not talking about that.
25:53Yeah.
25:54The way you phrase it.
25:56We're at the dinner table with your family.
25:59They don't speak English.
26:00No man.
26:00They don't speak English.
26:01It's sausage for them.
26:03Mary's cute.
26:05She isn't here.
26:06Who cares?
26:07It's just me and you.
26:08Well, after you go to the house.
26:11You're going to find a house?
26:11Well, honestly, the thing is that we don't have a lot of money.
26:15Okay?
26:15So the problem is that I want to visit and see what I can get.
26:20For what price I don't enter in Europe.
26:23To return to the same situation that I had in America where I work two or three jobs.
26:29You change.
26:30Yes, it's true.
26:30Yes, but also I can't completely get who I am at the table.
26:34Well, I'm someone who needs to work to feel successful.
26:41I've always been like that.
26:43So I try to find a good balance.
26:46I want a balance.
26:51What's up, my heart?
26:52Yeah, it's okay.
26:54You're fatigued?
26:56Yeah.
26:57I don't know the alcohol.
26:58I'm fatigued.
26:59No, it's not the alcohol.
27:00I feel good.
27:04I'm afraid that I can't find this balance.
27:07I don't want to come back to what I was in the United States.
27:12I don't want to have a career.
27:15I need to.
27:16How can I pay everything if I don't have a career?
27:19But you can do it here, chérie.
27:22You've always been a leader.
27:25Stop.
27:25Yes, it's true.
27:28You've always been able to do what you want.
27:31I've done like everyone.
27:32I've worked like everyone.
27:33It's cool.
27:33Yes, it's already very good.
27:36It's already very good.
27:36It's already very good.
27:36But I went alone there and everything.
27:37Do you know what you have?
27:38Rememore-toi a little bit of your career.
27:40Look where you are.
27:42It's not a failure.
27:46It is definitely an overwhelming day.
27:49And all of these pessimistic, toxic, negative, intrusive thoughts won't go away.
27:55My parents, they never went to high school.
27:58They've never moved abroad.
28:00They don't realize how hard it is coming back to France.
28:04I cannot stop remembering about my life in LA and what I left.
28:08And I feel like a total failure.
28:15Hey, so he's getting pretty unruly.
28:19So I'm going to take him home to get him to sleep.
28:21Your family?
28:22Can you see me with my fingers?
28:22Yeah.
28:23I have no idea what's been going on, but Minowen was crying.
28:35She's already a little tipsy.
28:38I know how stressed she gets and overwhelmed when she's around her family.
28:44Nothing good can come from it.
28:46I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.
28:49Merci beaucoup pour toi.
28:51Au revoir.
28:52Au revoir.
28:57That was a while.
29:02Hey, how are you?
29:03You are Patia.
29:05My mum and Patia basically hate each other.
29:07And we're here.
29:08Yes.
29:09Don't know how long until things are just going to explode.
29:13So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
29:14Probably this week.
29:15You might have to keep an eye on her doing.
29:36Hey, babe, do you want a protein shake?
29:38Sure.
29:40Hey, what's the tuna for?
29:42You going to put that in the protein shake?
29:44No.
29:45I mean, I'm crazy, but I'm not that crazy.
29:50Oh.
29:50Is that your phone?
29:57Hello.
29:59Hi, it's me.
30:00Hi, how are you, Mum?
30:01Yeah, not bad.
30:02I'm in the area.
30:03I thought I'd pop in and see you guys.
30:05Oh, beautiful.
30:06Is that okay?
30:07I'm not intruding or anything?
30:09No, that's great.
30:11All right, I'll be there shortly.
30:12All right, can't wait to see you.
30:14Okay, can't wait to see you two either.
30:15Bye.
30:17Hey, why is she coming now?
30:19I don't want to look like this.
30:21Well, I looked at you and you said it was okay.
30:23But I haven't seen her in years.
30:23When she saw you, the first time she saw you in Hawaii,
30:27her jaw hit the floor.
30:28And she's just like, she's gorgeous.
30:30Yeah, but I don't want to see you.
30:31She's going to be about five minutes.
30:33All right.
30:37I talk to my mum two, three times a week,
30:40and I do confide in her.
30:43She gives great advice.
30:44But Batia and my mum don't really get along.
30:48Batia thinks I have this abnormal relationship with my mum
30:51and my mum sees the animosity that Batia has for her
30:56and she's not a big fan.
30:58So I'm hoping they can get off on the right foot
31:00and not just start fighting immediately.
31:05I can't believe she's already in her business already.
31:08Yeah, she's my beautiful darling.
31:08I just got here.
31:09You're great.
31:10How long is she staying?
31:12I don't know.
31:13She's probably just stopping by for five minutes.
31:17This is...
31:18Oh, God.
31:22She's here.
31:29Hey.
31:30How are you?
31:30Come on here.
31:31I'm good and you open too.
31:31Hi, Jones.
31:33I didn't know you were coming over.
31:35Sorry I look like this.
31:36That's okay.
31:37I got you some flowers.
31:39Oh, thank you.
31:39And I brought a vase because I didn't know if Dylan had one.
31:41Oh, that's so sweet.
31:42And there's some Australian biscuits for you.
31:44Oh my gosh.
31:46How are you?
31:46So you're here.
31:47Welcome to Tassie.
31:48Thank you so much.
31:50You look beautiful.
31:51And you do too.
31:52You look healthy.
31:53You're having your brekkie?
31:54Yes, Dylan.
31:55Make me some breakfast.
31:56So you've got the orchids going?
31:58Yes.
31:58That's her favourite flower.
32:00That's lovely.
32:00That's lovely.
32:02I actually haven't seen Patia in 11 years.
32:05I've never had the problem with her.
32:07I think that she's always had the problem with me.
32:09Because I feel that there's jealousy towards me with my relationship with Dylan.
32:13I just think it's a little bit off that she would want to get in between our relationship
32:17because, you know, mother and son, you're bound for life.
32:21So I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.
32:25You're here.
32:26Yes, I'm here.
32:28I can't believe it.
32:29I made it so custom.
32:29You can't believe it either.
32:29Yeah.
32:30That's fabulous.
32:31I love it.
32:31It was so good seeing him at the airport.
32:33Yeah.
32:33Yeah.
32:34Yeah.
32:35Yeah.
32:37What do you want to say, Jo?
32:39Yeah, everybody's fine.
32:40Yeah, that's fine.
32:42My mum and Patia basically hate each other.
32:45And so far, everything's going great.
32:47They're both playing a game of who could be the nicest.
32:51Thank you so much for the beautiful roses.
32:53Oh, look at that.
32:54Would you like to put some water in there, Dylan?
32:55Yes.
32:56Yes.
32:56But I don't know how long until things are just going to boil up and they're just going
33:01to explode.
33:03Yellow for friendship.
33:04I love it.
33:05Yeah.
33:06So what do you think of the pad?
33:08Isn't it fab?
33:08It is.
33:10But Dylan and I did talk about going furniture shopping since there's only like a few items
33:14in here.
33:15He needs a bit of a sofa or something.
33:16Well, I was thinking like maybe a cream colour, L-shaped section here.
33:22Yeah.
33:22And you know, since there's not much of a dining space in this area, I was thinking something
33:27like that, but right over here.
33:28You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
33:34Don't worry.
33:35Both eyes are on.
33:36No, I've gotten better.
33:37Have you?
33:38Yes, I have.
33:38Oh, good girl.
33:39Good girl.
33:41So I've settled with it.
33:44With the spending?
33:45Yes.
33:47I've only been here less than 24 hours and she's already like rrrr about my finances.
33:53I'm like, the ****.
33:55It's none of her business and she shouldn't be putting in her two cents.
33:59Yeah, I don't want to put you on the spot right now, but I just find that sometimes I
34:03find it hard to believe.
34:05Okay.
34:05Well, just prove it to you.
34:06Yeah, prove it to me.
34:08All right.
34:08Well, I'm going to have to go.
34:09I really hope that we can all spend some time together.
34:12That'd be great.
34:13Thank you for stopping.
34:14Oh, okay.
34:15Don't worry.
34:16You're dumping me off, are you?
34:17No, no one's getting dumped.
34:18We're going to have a coming together.
34:20It makes me nervous and it makes me mad that she's already automatically inserting herself
34:26into our relationship.
34:27Thank you for stopping, dog.
34:29This is exactly what I was worried about.
34:31Bye.
34:32Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business with his mom.
34:36I'm so damn sick of it.
34:40I'm glad she came by, but I still feel like we still need to, you know, talk about some
34:46things.
34:47Yeah.
34:47I mean, obviously you talked to your mom about the spending habits.
34:50Look, I had, I had opened up to my mom and I had told her, because before you came, you
34:58were down on your bills.
34:59You were struggling with rent.
35:01You were fighting to pay all that.
35:02You couldn't make your bills, you know, and then you went out and dropped a huge shopping
35:07spree.
35:07And now you're saying that you've changed.
35:10And that was like a week ago.
35:13I wish my mom didn't bring up Patia's spending, but Patia does have a spending problem and
35:19it's been going on for years.
35:21I'm going to be financially supporting her now.
35:24And if she wants to come here and have the champagne lifestyle, unfortunately, it's
35:29not going to work.
35:30I've learned I don't need all the nice, fancy things anymore.
35:35Patia's been asking for a commitment pretty much for 12 years.
35:39I do love her and I want things to work out, but I'm not there yet.
35:47I need to see some changes in you, because it's very easy to slip back into old habits,
35:52you know?
35:52No, no, no, no, no, no.
35:54I've been there, done that.
35:55I have changed.
36:00You have to understand that letting you come here to live with him and move with him
36:05and everything, that's a big thing also.
36:07It's not the same.
36:08He doesn't have anything to lose.
36:10It is.
36:10I risk my entire future going out the window.
36:14He doesn't risk that.
36:32You guys want to go out alone, then fine.
36:34But at least get me to a point where I'm like, okay.
36:37Kaner's an Amy.
36:38I don't hate Kaner.
36:39I trust you.
36:40I no longer have an issue with it.
36:42But don't push it.
36:43Okay, but I'm trying to get there, Chloe.
36:45I'm trying to get there.
36:46Like, I'm bringing you to my house.
36:48I'm showing you how I live.
36:49I'm giving you my schedule.
36:50I'm giving you cash access to my cameras, my location, just so you can see that you can
36:54trust me enough where I can just go out peacefully with my friends.
36:58You have to understand that he getting into a relationship with you and letting you come
37:05here to live with him and move with him and everything, that's a big thing also.
37:09It's not the same.
37:10He doesn't have anything to lose.
37:12Do you think that he needs somebody to live with him, to be with somebody?
37:15No, he doesn't need anything.
37:16That's what he means.
37:17He's showing you a lot.
37:19But it's not the same as if he's risking the same.
37:21It is kind of the same.
37:22If you put a balance, it is kind of the same.
37:24Okay, pause.
37:25What is he risking?
37:25Ready?
37:26Go ahead.
37:26I'll wait.
37:26That's not a risk.
37:29That's a want.
37:31It is a risk.
37:31I risk my entire future going out the window.
37:35He doesn't risk that.
37:37If anything, he has something to gain.
37:38He has a partner.
37:39He has someone he can be with.
37:43I left a business that my mom built from the ground up.
37:46That's all I've ever known.
37:47And I'm coming here with no job now.
37:50And you're not gaining anything with me?
37:52But I am, but you're not losing as much as I'm losing.
37:59I'm leaving everything I've ever known to come here to pursue this relationship with Jonathan.
38:06And not that I'm looking for a gold star.
38:08But I just don't see him giving up anything other than his, like, young Johnny lifestyle of hooking up with
38:19these random tourists.
38:22Which, I don't know, I guess that's a big deal to him and Kaner.
38:26It's a big deal.
38:29If you guys are both putting a lot to be with each other, why, like, why you guys don't trust
38:35each other?
38:35Because there's a lot to lose.
38:39But at this point, we just have to trust each other, Karina.
38:41But it doesn't...
38:42You're right, we do.
38:43But we've had so many issues in the past to get where we are that I'm afraid for something to
38:48happen again.
38:49Because I don't want to lose you and I don't want to lose this.
38:51I don't want to have to move back home.
38:54The trust has been broken in the past, which is why I am the way I am.
39:00I want to go out with my friend, okay?
39:03Really?
39:04You know, you can't control me like that.
39:05You can't hold me down like that.
39:06You know what I mean?
39:08Jonathan needs to understand how serious I'm actually being.
39:13My anxiety is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that he's going to just break my trust
39:19again.
39:20I don't want to stop being with Jonathan because I do see it in the future.
39:25I just think that I have a very fine line between you wanting to live your life and you wanting
39:33to cheat on me.
39:34That's not controlling.
39:35If I'm controlling you to not cheat on me, then you should go be single.
39:43You were so like crazy and get psycho and jealous and you know, you want to break up with me
39:48because you thought this and this happened when nothing really, really happened.
39:51I wouldn't break up with you on a thought of something happening.
39:54I would break up with you because something happened.
39:56You have to trust me more than that.
39:59If I saw something and I had proof, I'm not staying.
40:08Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
40:12I have up.
40:14I want to be with you.
40:16You liar.
40:17To me, untuck to me like nothing happened.
40:21Why the mints are so stupid?
40:24There's no chance to come back together.
40:29Mom!
40:30My mom is coming down with a certain expectation in her head.
40:34I hope Jonathan is ready for all the scrutiny.
40:38Welcome to my home.
40:40Johnny's house.
40:41Would it be where I want my daughter to live? Absolutely not.
40:44You're deciding to live here and I can't finance it.
40:48You are going to have to make your own way.
40:51I'm cutting her off.
41:01My mom said I was talking about the family.
41:04This is my chance to talk to her.
41:07And I think that Manon, she is still very strong.
41:11I'm afraid that it creates politics.
41:14Because I don't like you to be disputed.
41:16And now it's going to be done.
41:18I'm freaking tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
41:23I have a little character.
41:25I just want to pack up all of my and go back to LA.
41:29Bye.
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