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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:04Sophie is acting like a little girl.
00:07Being honest, I think you're going to win your life again.
00:11I feel that I have to listen to Nicole, but at the same time,
00:15I want Sophie to see that we can be great together.
00:19The beauty is perfect.
00:20Yeah, stunning.
00:21Stunning, like you.
00:22This is the side of Pedro that I like,
00:24and I feel like this is the real him.
00:26You wanna see my book?
00:27Go, I wanna see it.
00:28You wanna see my book?
00:30If he just puts the seriousness of wanting a relationship all that aside,
00:35this is how I build attraction.
00:39Will you be communicating with other women?
00:44Um...
00:46I asked him point-blank if he was talking to other women.
00:49Where are you going?
00:52He didn't have the balls to tell me the truth.
00:54I just don't wanna waste time.
00:56I'm flying back to Michigan tonight, and I have no idea where we stand.
01:01I just wanna go home, please.
01:04I wish I would've just handled this whole situation better, but now...
01:08I wish you did, too.
01:11Jamal has an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption.
01:14But I also had a daughter.
01:17Larry wants to come visit us, and I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent.
01:23How do you think he's gonna react?
01:24I think he's gonna be really upset with me.
01:26By the way, you have a sister.
01:46Hey, good morning.
01:47Good morning, cover guides.
01:48Give me this, give me this.
01:49Can't help it with this.
01:51And...
02:02I got some delicious coconut for you ladies.
02:05Mmm.
02:06Potatoes, and...
02:07I got it.
02:08Okay.
02:09Oh my gosh!
02:11Me and Julie are going with Pedro tonight to his sister's birthday party in Santo Domingo.
02:15It's a bit of a drive, so we're gonna be staying overnight in a different hotel.
02:18Coconut Cheers!
02:20Coconut Cheers!
02:21Okay, let's make this day the best day here.
02:23You want us on phone, okay?
02:24Yes.
02:25Ever since Pedro and I hit the reset button, he's just being himself.
02:28He's being funny, sweet, and silly.
02:31Take care for that.
02:31Okay.
02:32Okay.
02:32It just feels like whatever serious pressure he had in the beginning is gone.
02:37So now I'm like, okay, now we can enjoy ourselves.
02:40Let's go!
02:41Let's drive crazy!
02:44I haven't really spoken to Liz since our fallout, but Julie left her message that we'd
02:48be gone for a couple days.
02:50I'm napping.
02:51I'm already feeling super nervous about meeting Pedro's mom and his sister, so I just feel
02:56like having Liz here as well would just make things even more awkward.
03:09We're here, ladies.
03:12Things with me and Sophie are getting really good right now.
03:16Welcome to Santo Domingo, ladies.
03:18We had an amazing day and amazing kids last night.
03:23And now I'm super happy that she's coming to my sister's birthday party.
03:27Okay, this is mine.
03:28I get ready.
03:29We are like an hour.
03:30Okey-dokey.
03:39Yeah, no.
03:41This is the most conservative outfit that I bought.
03:44I mean, okay, it shows some cleave, but honestly, I'm fully covered.
03:49I think it's pretty traditional.
03:50It's still giving party because I'm not going to show up in like a sack, you know?
03:54Like I still want something cute.
03:55But yeah, I think this is pretty respectful.
04:05Let's go.
04:06We're going to have a lot of fun tonight.
04:10How many people is going to be?
04:12We're going to have like 20 people at this.
04:13This is my sister friend, you know?
04:15Oh my God.
04:16I'm scared.
04:17Look.
04:17We're only talking, okay?
04:19There's no pressure.
04:19Yeah, exactly.
04:20Yes.
04:20What if they're like, we don't like Sophie.
04:23You're like, see you later.
04:24You're going to hang out with me anymore?
04:25See you later?
04:26Really?
04:27It's my family, you know?
04:29No pressure though.
04:30Eh?
04:31You're not kidding.
04:32You're not kidding?
04:33I'm kidding.
04:34You're not kidding.
04:35My mom, my sister, they are very savage.
04:39So, I have to be in high alert tonight.
04:44The last thing that I want is for my mom and my sister is scare Sophie away.
04:50I think we're stressing it.
04:52It's my sister.
04:53She's crazy.
04:53That's the problem.
04:55Pedro is not really making me feel very like comforted.
04:58Like, oh no, my sister is sweet.
04:59He's literally like, no, she's insane.
05:02I'm so scared.
05:03It's okay.
05:03What did I get myself into?
05:05What did I get myself into?
05:13Blackies!
05:13Hey!
05:15Pedro!
05:17To mommy.
05:18Hi!
05:18How's that?
05:20Julia, nice to meet you!
05:22Let me introduce you, Julia.
05:23Welcome to my birthday.
05:24Thank you for inviting us.
05:27Famous Sophie.
05:29How's that?
05:30She's the same.
05:30She's the famous Sophie.
05:34She's famous because my brother has talked to me about her.
05:37No, she's famous for me.
05:39You're making my brother suffering.
05:43Aw, yeah Sophie, you're making my brother suffering right now.
05:49Every day, all the same.
05:51People talk and never listen.
05:52When they say, give me fame, but can't make their own decision.
05:55On my mind, so far gone, but my heart is on a mission.
05:58A vision, I'm driven, so put the key in my ignition.
06:02Hello.
06:03What's up?
06:03How are you?
06:05All right.
06:06I'm like shaking.
06:23You can make it.
06:28I'm excited to see them, you know?
06:30I'm anxious to see the kids.
06:31Yeah, me too.
06:33I'm excited to see Bean.
06:34Yeah.
06:34He's speaking now.
06:35He's saying words.
06:36I know, he calls me BMK.
06:38Baby Mama Kim.
06:41Today's the day that Larry and his family arrive in San Diego, and Jamal and I are on the way
06:46to go meet them.
06:48We've only seen them once before in North Carolina, but we talk or we'll video chat or text once a
06:54week, and the video chats with his son are probably my favorite thing.
06:59He's obsessed with my cats, and it's really become like a special part of my life.
07:08Did you get any sleep last night?
07:09No.
07:11No.
07:12Don't start crying.
07:13Hence the best.
07:15I'll be fine.
07:15Well, just try to stay strong when you're talking to him, you know?
07:18Yeah.
07:18I just really need to do this, you know?
07:21Yeah.
07:22Yeah.
07:22Yeah.
07:22But I'm scared.
07:24Leading up to today, I've been feeling super anxious.
07:27I've had a couple panic attacks.
07:30I've cried a lot of tears, because I'm like, how am I going to tell this guy that now he
07:35has not just Jamal, but he's got a sister, too, that I also place for adoption?
07:41I hope he's understanding and that he doesn't hate me.
07:44It's a lot.
07:47I really don't have that much information to give Larry about his sister, because it was a closed adoption.
07:52So I don't know who adopted her, I don't know where she lives now, and I don't even know her
07:57name.
07:58But it's not fair to him that I've been holding all of this in.
08:01And now I just have to release it.
08:03I have to let it go.
08:05I can't live like this anymore.
08:07I just can't do it.
08:16Can you grab the stuff out of the back?
08:19Oh.
08:21It's hot today.
08:23I'm so nervous.
08:25I feel like I'm going to throw up.
08:30All right, lead the way.
08:33I've been waiting for my mom to tell Larry about my sister, because I want to, like, get closer with
08:40my brother.
08:41Like this?
08:42But I've been distant from him.
08:44Just because this secret was eating at me, I just felt bad getting closer to him while hiding something from
08:51him.
08:55It's going to be fine.
08:56It's, like, one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, you know?
08:59Yeah.
09:00It's hard when you've lied all the time to, like, open up like that, you know?
09:06If you can tell me the truth about him, then you can tell him the truth about her.
09:12I just don't know what Larry is going to think about me once I tell him this news.
09:17I'm scared that he's going to judge me.
09:20He's going to be ashamed of me.
09:24Okay.
09:26What if he just turns around and leaves?
09:28What if he never speaks to me again?
09:29I'm scared of it.
09:31I just keep thinking.
09:32I'm going to lose him again.
09:35Ooh.
09:37I can feel my heartbeat.
09:38Ooh.
09:40No, everything's fine.
09:41You're freaking me out, Jamal.
09:42You're freaking me out.
09:43Everything's fine.
09:47Oh, here they come.
09:51I'm going.
09:58Hi, guys.
09:59Who is that?
10:01Come here.
10:03Hi, baby.
10:04Hello.
10:05Hello.
10:06Oh, look at this.
10:07Wow, look at you.
10:08You got your hair?
10:09Yeah.
10:10You know?
10:11Hello.
10:13What's up?
10:19Hi, Nellie.
10:21Hi, Nellie.
10:21You're so pretty.
10:22That's Nellie.
10:23I got presents for you.
10:25I just love seeing Larry and the family, and Bean is just so cute.
10:30What's my name?
10:31BK.
10:31BK, right?
10:33I'm BK.
10:33Who's that?
10:35Uncle Mom.
10:37What's up, boy?
10:39I'm just looking at him like, wow, these kids are a part of me.
10:42Like, they have my blood in them.
10:44And I really want for us to build a family together.
10:47Come on.
10:48So, if this doesn't go well today, I have a lot to lose.
10:51I can lose my relationship with my grandkids.
10:54I can lose the relationship with his wife.
10:56And I can lose the relationship with Jamal and Larry.
10:59I just feel like I can lose everything.
11:02Bean, do you want your gift?
11:04Yeah.
11:04What are you doing, Bean?
11:07Bean?
11:07Bean?
11:09Bean?
11:10Bean?
11:11Bean?
11:11Bean?
11:13Bean?
11:13We got those car?
11:15He loves his firetrucks, race car.
11:17Anyway, I got Charles Waters, some fruit, just little stuff.
11:20So...
11:21Oh, thank you.
11:22Look at this.
11:23Did you say thank you for the picnic?
11:25Thank Uncle Mom and BK?
11:27For the picnic?
11:28Come home, Mom.
11:29You're welcome.
11:30You're welcome.
11:32You're welcome.
11:34No, no.
11:35knew i was adopted and i wanted to find my birth mother two years ago my family did a dna
11:41test when
11:42i got my results back i found my first cousins did some digging and we ended up finding kim
11:48so what's going on with y'all and the nc nothing trying to make same thing every day working taking
11:56care of the babies and loving on them it's been real cool getting to know them i definitely want
12:03them to be a part of my life i want to be a part of theirs and i just want
12:08to move forward let me
12:10give her a strawberry she's so cute oh man
12:16i'm sitting here looking at larry and i feel like i'm having a full-on panic attack
12:25i do got to talk to y'all
12:29is it bad yes
12:32i have to talk to y'all i just need to get this out okay wait no i got to
12:37get it out
12:39larry come here first come on this side please
12:44i wanted to see you face to face before i tell you
12:49hard attack just take it just take a breather don't have a heart attack please
13:02i realized i made a huge mistake with natalie so i invited her to michigan and after some persuading
13:08she agreed there's something important i actually want to tell you today okay so i decided that
13:23you know
13:24wait i mean no pression
13:32yo pedro's mom is she yeah she's crazy that's weird what was she saying i heard banana she's saying
13:39maybe you know you know that interesting but you don't have a taste in me yet
13:43if this family just keeps on disrespecting me the whole night there's only so much i can take
13:48before i'm gonna lose my cool
13:59i'm so excited i get to pick natalie up she's here in michigan it's gonna be a good day
14:19good vibes a little concerning at the end but this time is going to be better
14:26i wasn't even back on the plane to michigan before i realized i made a huge mistake with natalie
14:33i don't want to be talking to a bunch of girls and you know i really want to find someone
14:38that i can
14:38settle down with i truly believe natalie might be the one so i invited her to visit me in michigan
14:46and after some persuading she agreed i need to go all in with natalie and see how it goes
15:03oh natalie how are you i'm good how are you oh my god so good to see you again so
15:10good to see you
15:11oh what's that these are for you oh no i really thought i was done with gino but the reality
15:21is that
15:21gino and i are not in a committed relationship and i think i may have overreacted what's that on
15:28your face there's something on my face i think you've got some oh you know it could be from a
15:34flower
15:37did you stick the flowers in your face since dc he's opened up he's been apologetic
15:45he's been more transparent and i want to see if he's changed do you like my makeup i do
15:52there's just something about gino you can't stay mad at him very long
15:57i love it you're good all right let's go let's get out of here
16:07today we are going to the riverfront okay it's a beautiful place on the water and i think i give
16:14us
16:14like a fresh start you know compared to the last time you were here you know i think i think
16:20we both
16:20deserve a fresh start let's feel the water here oh it's nice i want to put my feet in the
16:37water it'll
16:37cool us off how is it oh my god are you really going to get up on there yes come
16:45on holy cow i probably
16:49rolled my pants a little feel it oh my god doesn't that feel good that is cold we like that
16:56girl's
16:56crazy no okay holy i love the fact that you really seem to bring out the playful side of me
17:07for sure
17:08and you're okay with it yeah i'm not used to that oh my god i'm all wet now
17:16i mean this is so beautiful i mean boom there's canada right there in your face and the weather is
17:25perfect i know it's gorgeous perfect weather yes yeah but you know there's something important i
17:33actually want to tell you today okay yeah so
17:40i decided that well what i want to do is i'm not i don't want to speak to any other
17:48women anymore
17:50like and i want to focus on you and our relationship and building our relationship
17:54you know i don't want to risk losing you i think if i continue to talk to a bunch of
17:59women that that's
18:00probably going to happen i'm shocked i'm surprised but i'm happy that you made this decision because
18:09you wanted to make this decision i did not think that this was going to come out of his mouth
18:17it's
18:17only been two weeks since we last talked about it so i am skeptical you know he can say a
18:22lot of things
18:23but he needs to show me by his actions that he truly means this but i am excited because we
18:30deserve
18:30a chance there is one more very important thing that i need to ask you stop what i want to
18:37ask you
18:38is if you're hungry because i know a really good place that's not far from here yes i'm hungry
18:48natalie seems very happy that i want to focus all my energy just on her ready yeah
18:56we still have a lot of things to figure out we haven't even had sex yet but i'm hoping while
19:02she's
19:02in michigan we'll really be stepping up to the next level ready here we go it's beautiful and then
19:08i mean who knows say canada canada all right
19:25she's a famous sophie you are making my brother suffering
19:30oh yeah you're making my brother suffering right now
19:38you're a liar you're a liar you're a liar you're a liar
19:42do you want a shot yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
19:51i think she just got here and nicole already seems a little bit unhinged
19:58i'm already seeing what pleasure is talking about sophie let me introduce you to my mom you talk to my
20:03mom
20:03mom already yeah absolutely yes okay okay we're yeah okay we're
20:22okay so
20:27I could see Sophie and then
20:31I was a normal woman, a woman like no big, Pedro has a pattern, women that are
20:41voluminous, that she has here, I don't know, she doesn't have anything in her head.
21:08What was she saying? What was she saying? I heard banana and I heard X.
21:17She said, we don't have anything intimate yet, you know what I mean?
21:22Okay. And then she said, it's stupid.
21:24I'm saying, finish, I won.
21:26Maybe, you know, you know that I'm interested, but you don't have a taste in me yet.
21:32That's embarrassing, bro. We're in front of everybody.
21:34She said, oh my God, the reason why Sophie is not coming to you,
21:38because you're not going to give you some platinum.
21:43Jesus Christ.
21:45You know, it's just awkward.
21:47Why are you not my son? I'm like, wait, what?
21:49Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
21:50That's what she was saying. That's what she said.
21:53Mom, you don't do those things. Nobody's mom can do those things.
21:57Can I just chill with you for one second?
21:59Yes.
21:59And then I'll go back.
22:01Yeah, yeah.
22:01And I need one drink and I'm done.
22:03Okay.
22:03I just like, seriously, my nerves, I'm like, I'm just like, it was super a lot, you know?
22:09Pedro's mom is, yeah, she's crazy.
22:11Like, I don't even need to talk to her much longer to realize that.
22:15If this family just keeps on disrespecting me the whole night,
22:20there's only so much I can take before I'm going to lose my cool.
22:25I just, I have anxiety sometimes, so it's just acting up a little bit, but I'm okay.
22:28I ain't here.
22:28I'm not going to tell you about yourself, okay? Never. Remember that.
22:31Okay.
22:34I made some bad decisions, you know?
22:37And there's so many times we went on the phone and I wanted to say something,
22:40but I just couldn't say it.
22:42And I feel like all I've done is lie.
22:45Holding the information from me, I wish you wouldn't have done it.
22:48Please don't hate me.
22:50Oh, ho, ho, ho, ho.
22:59I wanted to see you face-to-face before I tell you.
23:04Hard attack.
23:22I have another daughter that I put up for adoption.
23:29You do?
23:32Hmm.
23:32It's your sister.
23:34Hmm.
23:36Please don't hate me.
23:38Please, this is so hard, and I don't think anybody can understand.
23:46I wanted to talk to you face-to-face, and there's so many times we went on the phone
23:49and I wanted to say something, but I couldn't say it.
23:52I just couldn't say it.
23:54And I feel like all I've done is lie, you know?
24:04What was the situation at the time?
24:07Your birth dad and I were back together, and things were fine, and then I got pregnant.
24:13And then, um, same thing.
24:16I had her by myself.
24:18I had her at a different hospital by myself.
24:20He didn't give me one, one iota of, I love you, though, let's try.
24:25Not one.
24:27Yeah, yeah.
24:28I did everything.
24:29Everything was done by myself, you know?
24:35Calm down.
24:37You just talk to him.
24:38Yeah.
24:39I'm not gonna hate you.
24:41I'm not gonna hate you.
24:41You're not a bad person.
24:44It's all right.
24:45It's all right.
24:46It's all right.
24:47You're so white.
24:48Aw, see?
24:49Aw.
24:50It's all right.
24:51Bing, Bing, don't give her a hug.
24:52Don't give BK a hug, okay?
24:55I just made some, you know, I was not the smartest back then.
24:58I made some bad decisions, you know?
25:05And Bing tell you it's gonna be all right.
25:07It's gonna be all right.
25:08It's okay.
25:10I love you.
25:13I don't know where she's at.
25:14Okay.
25:15I don't know.
25:15I know she was born a year after you.
25:17Oh, she's after me.
25:19Yeah.
25:20It's just, it's just crazy.
25:22I have a sister.
25:24It's a lot.
25:25Just knowing, like, now I have two biological siblings, and I'm the oldest of both of them.
25:32Just don't hate me.
25:33Please don't.
25:34I don't know what to say.
25:35I'm, like, ashamed that I didn't tell you.
25:37Holding the information from me, I mean, it's shocking.
25:40Don't get me wrong.
25:41I wish you wouldn't have done it.
25:42But, I mean, how mad could I be that she's my birth mother, and she gave me a life, gave
25:47me an opportunity to have a beautiful wife, two beautiful kids, you know?
25:52And I will never take that for granted.
25:56When it comes to, like, the telling part of it, yeah, you could handle some stuff better.
26:00I'm sorry.
26:01I'm so sorry.
26:02And I'm so sorry to him, too, you know?
26:04It's really, like, this has messed our relationship up so bad.
26:08This has been eating me up because I knew this secret, and I was just like, I don't
26:12want to start this relationship with you, and then this day happens.
26:17Yeah, I'm looking at you.
26:18We've been talking all the time.
26:20Because I'm so glad you all found us, and, like, I have this family.
26:23I'm going to be honest.
26:24I don't know where we go from here, but, like, I just want my family.
26:27You know what I mean?
26:28As the one you're, you know, you're coming to telling, you don't have to beat yourself
26:34up about it.
26:35Every day.
26:36Don't.
26:37Stop.
26:37It's out now.
26:38It's out.
26:39We just move on.
26:40We go from here.
26:40You know what I'm saying?
26:43I need a hug.
26:44Brittany, come here and give me a hug, because you, Brittany always gives me a hug.
26:48I know.
26:48I get the best hugs.
26:49You, too.
26:51Thank you, too.
26:55I'm sorry.
26:56I didn't tell you guys that.
26:57It's okay.
27:00I had closed that part of my life, you know?
27:02I had closed my heart to that.
27:05Because when I put Larry up for adoption, it was so painful that you have to.
27:12You have to, like, lock it.
27:13You have to treat it kind of like a death, in a way.
27:15How are you, Larry?
27:16No, she's all proud of you, too.
27:17I'm sorry.
27:18I'm sorry.
27:18I'm sorry.
27:21You're going to be right from here, okay?
27:24But once I told him, it was like all the maternal feelings came back.
27:30You did good.
27:31You did good.
27:33i didn't realize like how much i really loved him until that moment until this one moment
27:40i know i'll never be his mom because he has a mom that raised him
27:44but i can be something in his life and that just means everything to me
27:57i'm really proud of my mom i want to see her
28:01tell him and she did and they took it well
28:06i keep feeling like i want to cry when i think about it it's just like
28:10everything i wanted you know ah
28:13we get everybody in here oh oh me look at the camera
28:21oh there we go
28:23you know i've been holding these secrets for 34 years
28:32and it just feels like i'm finally free
28:35one two three
28:40i'm finally free
28:46now the only thing left to do is find my daughter
28:49i don't know who she is i don't know where she is but you better believe i'm gonna try
28:55i owe it to her and i owe it to myself and i owe it to larry and jamal
29:04cheers
29:04cheers
29:05my uncle marco is one of the most important people in my life
29:08getting his blessing is very important to me
29:11he's a good kid
29:12i mean he's got a lot of heart
29:14yeah
29:14look at what he's been through
29:16how well did you know jasmine
29:17do you think that gino's still in love with her
29:31so isn't it nice to be in the city and see the whole city
29:34yeah it is a really nice city
29:35this is
29:36a great city
29:39you need stickies on your hat
29:54hey that's my uncle
29:56gino
29:57uncle marco
29:59who's this beautiful lady
30:01this is natalie
30:02my pleasure
30:03nice to meet you
30:04that's the way we do
30:07my uncle marco is one of the most important people in my life
30:10especially now that my dad has passed
30:13he's like my father figure now
30:14and i value his judgment more than anyone when it comes to my relationships
30:20you guys ready to order
30:21yeah let me have two conies
30:23i think i'm just gonna get two coney island hot dogs
30:26actually make it three
30:27okay
30:27i'm gonna go by your recommendation because i've never been here
30:30couple chili dogs
30:31looks like all chili dogs
30:33well natalie where are you from
30:36i'm from las vegas
30:37really
30:38but i live in dc right now
30:39so
30:40do you have children
30:42yeah i have two
30:43no kidding
30:44i have a daughter
30:45she's 23
30:46and a son he's 21
30:47what
30:48you look like you're 21 yourself
30:51holy smokes
30:53you guys enjoy
30:55thank you
30:56you're welcome
30:56maybe we can have a coney cheers
30:58okay let's do it
30:59okay
31:00coney cheers
31:01cheers
31:02coney cheers
31:03cheers
31:07mmm
31:11i like the onions
31:12is it the best one you've ever eaten
31:14or no
31:15because it's the only one i've ever eaten
31:16the only one
31:19so yeah it's the best one
31:23she's too funny
31:24we vibe good together
31:26we have a good connection
31:27we have that
31:28yeah
31:28you know
31:29on his own accord
31:30he came to me
31:32and said that he
31:33didn't want to talk to anybody else
31:34and he wanted to focus on us
31:37let's celebrate
31:39let's celebrate
31:41cheers
31:42cheers
31:43cheers
31:44cheers
31:45i like this girl
31:46i think she's intelligent
31:48smart
31:48and i think the best sign i've seen out of the two of them tonight
31:53is when he talks she smiles
31:55and when she talks he smiles
31:58i didn't see that with you know who
32:01do you want to have a baby with her
32:06well i mean like i always wanted to have a child of my own
32:11yeah
32:12right
32:12and i guess the question is would you be open to it you think
32:19i mean that i mean that's honestly that's an insane thing to even think about because
32:23we just established today that you're not talking to other women
32:27and now we're talking about babies
32:29we've got to progress a little bit more
32:31okay i'm going to get the room
32:33i'm going to get the room
32:36uncle marco is very interesting
32:39i don't think he realizes how old i am
32:41i don't think he realizes that ship has sailed
32:44i don't know about completely sail
32:46because there's always options
32:49i'm going to have to excuse myself
32:50i have to hit the bathroom real quick
32:52all right
32:53all right
32:54i bet you we'd have really cute babies
32:56well i know we'd have cute babies
32:58the first thing i'm going to do
32:59i'm going to snap a hat on his head
33:01oh my god
33:02and it's going to be a fedora tiny little baby hat
33:06okay do you know
33:09i guess
33:11you know i'm hoping to mind if i ask you a couple questions
33:13no i don't mind at all
33:15you know just to know
33:15um you know i just want to make sure that um is he capable of not talking to other women
33:22if he finds the right lady i believe that man will be faithful
33:27right
33:29to the end
33:30okay
33:31well that's good to know
33:50i really do
34:21because he's a good kid
34:22i hope because he's seen the drama between him and jasmine has seen his first marriage
34:28has seen everything so it makes me feel like the tides have turned
34:33and she knows changed
34:34but i'm still very cautious
34:37you don't want to lose this
34:38you don't want to lose this one buddy
35:06sabotage any chance he has
35:07i've been so nice to you and his mom and you guys
35:10i have to know
35:11i have to know you want to know you want to know you want to know you want to know
35:13you want to know
35:21i just i have anxiety sometimes so it's just acting up a little bit but i'm okay
35:24i'm here i'm not going to play you by yourself okay never remember that
35:27okay
35:37sophie
35:53i've only been at pedro's sister's birthday party for literally an hour and already this
35:59is just the weirdest party i've ever been to in my life first as soon as i walk in pedro's
36:04sister's making me uncomfortable and then i have his mom just saying i should have sex
36:09with pedro like what's the goal here i don't understand what's going on it's just so uncomfortable
36:17you like the country
36:19yes it is very beautiful this is my first time here
36:21well i hope you can continue to come here
36:25i want to know Pedro more
36:27that's a start
36:29right?
36:31yes
36:31yes
36:32Pedro is a very good man
36:35he knows how to treat a woman
36:39but he is also on the other hand
36:41I don't want to have a relationship with Pedro and I'm not healed by my ex
36:48casada?
36:49yes
36:49divorciada?
36:50how is?
36:51now I'm in the process of divorce
36:55but you're married legally?
36:58legally legally at this moment yes
37:14pedro's mom is just way too much and i'm trying so hard to be respectful like i'm not gonna
37:20start an argument with pedro's mother like i'm just not but i don't understand why she's like
37:25talking to me this way it's crazy
37:27hello hello
37:28hello
37:29mami
37:29pero diom blando
37:31i can't talk to sophie
37:37are you okay?
37:39she just asked me about like my eggs
37:40but now i feel awkward because i feel like she's judging me
37:43i was trying to be real with her
37:45no no it's just awkward
37:47sorry
37:49and after everything Pedro's been through and his failed marriage and everything
37:53you would think his family want him to be happy and find someone but it feels like they're
37:57just trying to sabotage any chance he has
38:02there's a troublage
38:06Oh
38:22Where's the girl come on go with me
39:01She was grilling the out of me
39:03I'm trying to play it cool to purchase but I've never been girl like this in my life. It's very
39:07full on
39:07She's like, so why are you choosing my son? How did you find my son?
39:11It feels like she doesn't want him to be happy with anyone. This is any girl, right?
39:16They're very a lot
39:20Hello
39:22How are you doing here? I'm gonna leave you. We're good. We do it. Yeah, the cake is so good
39:28Oh, thank you so much
39:31Excuse me. Ah, Sophie, excuse me. I just want to talk to you. I promise him no
39:39Interfere in his life, but I know Pedro is totally in love with you. He's not in love with me.
39:46He likes me
39:47No, yeah, but I can see on him in his eye the sparks on anything
39:53I know my brother enough like I can tell Pedro's like ready to like have a family
39:58Get married again all that stuff, you know, and I haven't even like fully divorced yet, which he knows that
40:04is something that I feel
40:05I don't really go sorry about how about something
40:09But they told me like a day you are cold a day you are hot I
40:16Woman when he's really interested in a man she's trying to be around here trying to approach me
40:23Not keep me away. Why do you so involved like that's his relationship?
40:29Like it doesn't really have anything to respectfully doesn't have anything to do with here
40:32I don't want to see you so for him his sister and his mom shouldn't have anything to do with
40:39his relationship
40:40But it is kind of weird like I'm close to my mom look I get it
40:43No, she wouldn't scare away a guy like you guys are gonna scare me away when that's the least thing
40:48pressure once I
40:51I
40:52Just need to know what is happening here because he's calling me I'm telling me everything you are doing because
40:58he's not okay
40:59But why are you so involved with your brother's love life? What does that have anything to do with you?
41:05Respect me?
41:05What does have anything to do with you?
41:08I am just here
41:09Well Sarah about he
41:11I'm asking you about it
41:12I don't know you
41:15I don't know you
41:18I don't know you
41:19I've been so nice to you and his mom and you guys
41:23I've been like
41:25Your mom has been rude to me
41:26Your mom has been rude to me
41:28Your mom has been rude to me
41:31You both don't love you
41:33My mom doesn't love me
41:34My mom doesn't love me
41:37I don't want to go there
41:38You guys have a weird relationship
41:40You and your family are weird
41:44Weirdos
41:46Weirdos
41:46What kind of relationship is that?
41:48Weird
41:52Next time on The Single Life
41:54When I'm at the rock bottom of my life there's only one person I can call
41:59There you go
42:00My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada to save the day
42:04You and Courtney need to figure this all out
42:07You can't keep doing it
42:09Courtney's not going to take me back dude
42:11I think I can talk to Courtney woman to woman
42:14And convince her to try it again
42:18Cole wants to apologize
42:20He knows he made a big ass mistake
42:22I'm like what the
42:26Now that it's all out I'm ready to find her
42:30And I want you guys on this journey with me
42:32But there is the possibility she might not want to see me
42:36If something traumatic has happened to my daughter
42:38Or she needed me for something
42:40I won't be able to live with myself
42:44Is your attention for a long term relationship with Vanya?
42:48Or is it something just for the fun?
42:51I know that Sanela wants to grill Tony
42:54But I'm worried that maybe Sanela has gone a little too far
42:58She just like full out of salt to me out there
43:03I said you call my mom that's what you say
43:05What did I call? I called your mom?
43:07Yeah you said your mom
43:08You say that
43:11Pedro's mom and sister are just absolutely insane
43:15And Pedro is not even like standing up for me
43:18It's kind of a turn off
43:20Trust me I was very respectful to your mom
43:22Okay whatever we'll see you tomorrow
43:25And this is why he will be single forever
43:27F**k
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