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00:05so my family we grew up very very sheltered very wholesome very simple but then things really
00:11changed i really don't like change you've told me you can't accept how our values don't align
00:17then i don't see the future with us together you know my older brother my parents we are moving
00:23forward with a divorce no family's perfect we've all just changed one way or another for better or
00:30worse it's the first serious relationship i've had since olivia i most definitely am in love with tegan
00:36he's it he's the one how can you explain falling in love with someone you know what i mean
00:41my name's zach great to meet you i can't wait to just be hopefully engaged by the end of the
00:48day
00:48will you marry me please say no yes my whole family feels uncomfortable nobody is really happy
00:58other than my dad i got the memo be the dad that lydia wants you to be i feel like
01:05barry wants
01:06everybody to like him i think that's why he signed off on the marriage so quickly what was going on
01:14with veronica and micah that was really not good you're not emotionally intelligent grow a pair
01:20you're talking so far down to me veronica sees a headline and she says your brother's girlfriend
01:26has an only fancy he wants to see it i was concerned about the wedding itself and then veronica just
01:32kind of pushed me over the edge nobody really knows the full extent of how crazy it was i think
01:40we need
01:40to leave go back to boca and we are done ethan couldn't get over the fact that he thinks zach
01:48is gay talk about lack of any respect for someone's wedding especially your sisters and we need to
01:55have a conversation with with them at some point we just felt very very disrespected
02:17growing up as an only child i always wanted a large family healthy fresh air lots of music
02:24and lots of love and i wanted to share that with people it was beautiful the farm was the perfect
02:35place for all of those things to come together and the farm has always been the place we all come
02:41back to
02:52which is why after years away i've finally returned
02:58peter is feeling playful i've moved back here with the girls we have two dogs three kittens and we're
03:04finally settled i didn't want to live at the farm during the divorce because it was hard to be so
03:11close to barry knowing that if i had to go run errands i might see him but now the divorce
03:17is done
03:18and i'm back home and i'm reclaiming my life have you ever seen anything cuter than this
03:24yes he's so cute look at this one he's cuter
03:32i'm here with the girls half the time and the other half the time they're with barry
03:36and somebody else lives here with us too
03:45ken
03:49for the first couple years after barry and i separated
03:53i just wasn't sure exactly what i wanted
03:57and i couldn't be serious about somebody when i was legally still married to somebody else
04:02so ken and i broke up a few months before lydia's wedding
04:06but then when the divorce was finalized like we realized that we did want to be with each other
04:17when ken moved in we wanted it to feel like it's his home too
04:21and so we let him decorate it however he wanted and he even brought a jukebox
04:29mercy has learned the synthesizer part to jump by van halen from listening to the jukebox
04:36and it's definitely different than when we lived at the farm years ago we didn't have a jukebox playing
04:42in 80s classic rock
04:45come here lexi
04:46i'm definitely happy i'm back
04:49it isn't perfect and i've made lots of mistakes
04:52but lucky me i've got lots of people willing to tell me when i mess something up
05:01anywhere we go there we go there we go yeah it feels like feels like home
05:07what did you think of church this morning oh it was so good
05:09yeah
05:12just a little laundry to do i think the rest of the house is pretty much in order
05:16okay sides for this stuff
05:21what was that it was just the phone case
05:25so we've known each other over a year now
05:29we made it
05:31these are just all your shirts right
05:33i think you have a few
05:35oh that one's mine
05:37that someone's different here what's going on
05:39yeah so i i have decided to go with contacts because
05:45because after he got married i just kept smudging them up so he smudged up his glasses
05:50how did you smudge up his glasses i wonder
05:56anyway
05:58this is our apartment
06:01it's everything we need
06:02we're able to host people
06:04play games and hang out
06:06because that's what we've always wanted to do
06:08is have people over and have a good time
06:12now what is it like for you
06:13going from living in a bachelor pad to with a wife
06:17it's nice to come home to a home that has been created by my wife
06:22i love having a reason to clean the home
06:24moving in together was
06:27so much easier than people made it out to be
06:29i don't think there are any things that like he does that annoys me
06:33he knows not to leave the toilet seat up
06:35he knows not to crowd the counter space because that's for me to do
06:40i'm truly surprised how well we adjusted to living together and just building a home together
06:47so be honest
06:48right
06:49what is life like living with me as your wife
06:54amazing of course
06:55but after 10 p.m. you are on a different level
07:05is the honeymoon phase over yet
07:08nope
07:10zach sees a sign of me that no one else will ever see ever know about
07:14that's that
07:14i think i've uh
07:17not only introduced her but also
07:20watered the seed of of curiosity for her in this realm
07:24and so i think uh
07:27it's fun to see her
07:29and me just like interact in those ways
07:34lydia zach just said you're naughty
07:38it's true
07:44dear lord thank you for this food
07:45thank you for this time together
07:47a wonderful day at church
07:49in your name
07:49amen
07:55so good
07:56the best part of marriage has just been
07:59being fully known and fully loved
08:02the best part of married life is definitely learning
08:05uh whether it's learning about lydia
08:07or learning about myself
08:11take your time
08:13and be who she needs
08:16in times of need so
08:20we have two empty chairs
08:22i am excited to
08:24have start a family
08:25and everything with you
08:27and
08:28i like feel like i'm ready
08:30to be a mother
08:32i can agree
08:35yeah traveling's really fun with you though
08:37we still have a lot of places we want to go
08:40it's not that we're going to stop traveling when we have kids
08:43there'll just be fewer and far between and more special
08:46because there'll be more people to share with
08:48yeah
08:49so we got married in february
08:51it's been eight months
08:52and so we're planning to wait a year
08:54before we start a family
08:56four months left
08:57four months left
08:58who's counting
09:00apparently you
09:02i love the idea of starting a family with you
09:05i'm ready
09:06we're just preparing our lives for another human being
09:10we don't want you
09:11and we don't want me
09:25i know mariah and micah are only in town for a limited time but
09:30we were hoping to have that conversation for the whole family and everything
09:36it's been eight months of
09:38zach and i praying
09:40sorting through everything and what happened
09:42leading up to the wedding
09:45i feel like
09:46you've been mistreated and lied about
09:48and that first year has been hard
09:52we just want to have one conversation with the whole family
09:54in one place
09:55there are so many assumptions made about both of us
09:58it did some damage
09:59and we've had to deal with that for the months that we've been married
10:03you're saving your first kiss for your wedding
10:05yeah
10:06how do you do that
10:08i gotta ask you
10:09yeah
10:11are you gay
10:14i know i'm straight
10:16but we had to iron out those assumptions
10:19and then show each other that we actually cared for each other
10:22more than anything that anyone said about us
10:26i gotta learn what
10:27how to move forward in that
10:28so obviously one of you there to support you
10:30is you gotta
10:32teach your some stuff out and that so
10:34i don't think i have to figure anything out
10:36i think i just need to say a few things
10:38okay
10:40let's go
10:40let's go
10:47out of the kitchen
10:56i was living up in minnesota
10:57and then i moved down here to georgia in july
11:02i just wanted to have a change of scenery and be a closer to the family and everything
11:07so i've been down here
11:08getting the farm in shape
11:10building this barn and you know lots of land work cutting down trees mowing
11:16staying at the farm or at my dad's house depending on what i'm doing
11:20just seeing what it's like to live back down here
11:25are you divorced yet
11:27no she olivia will not call or respond
11:31do anything she's purposely trying to hold me up
11:35trying to make my life hell
11:38i believe olivia won't let me go
11:43um because she doesn't want to let me move on to anybody else
11:49i think that's her motive
11:52what's going on with tegan
11:57oh me and tegan
11:58uh broke up
12:01and i don't know
12:08i knew that she was tired of long distance
12:11and i kept telling her that i would move
12:15to wisconsin and i never did
12:20and you know you can only tell someone so many times i'm going to do this and you don't
12:24and it just doesn't mean anything
12:29me not being divorced yet still
12:31that's been extremely frustrating for me over the last year
12:36and definitely has affected me and tegan
12:41i've had an attorney for over a year now
12:45and olivia has ignored him
12:49said you know i'm out of the country i'll get back to you when i'm home
12:53and then weeks later when she comes back she never does anything
12:56so he has to start over get him trying to get nothing ever has happened
13:06sometimes in life you're lucky enough
13:09to meet somebody that you
13:12actually truly connect with
13:14like not just on a physical level but like a spiritual
13:19emotional level
13:22and that was very much
13:25true with me and tegan
13:27it's hard
13:28to move on
13:30i feel like i can't walk away and spend the rest of my life wondering
13:35if i could have
13:36saved it
13:37i really
13:39truly feel like there's
13:44unfinished business
13:45i think you'll save me
13:49oh i'm gonna hit my girl
13:53if i go crazy
14:02hello
14:03hello
14:05lydia and zach want to sit down and talk to everybody
14:08i feel like they're coming here wanting an apology
14:11mom pretty much accused zach of being controlling and taking over
14:15desires i wanted for the wedding
14:17let's go
14:18know your daughter before you make accusations like that
14:22hug your brother and mom
14:25i'm a little bit concerned about ethan
14:28because he can be pretty hot-headed
14:31and i could tell with zach lydia's found something really good
14:34let me just polish my halo you know
14:38i want you all to know the night before our wedding
14:41it was actually the hardest night of my life
15:01how you been
15:02oh i'm pretty good
15:03good to see you
15:08how have you been pretty good i'm coming up here to see all my family i haven't seen them in
15:13a
15:13while been really busy oh i got a new go-kart you got it running no not yet i'm also
15:20coming to take
15:21a whole bunch of my stuff back down to florida because i finally have my own place your spare
15:25doesn't look any good ethan i'm gonna drive to mexico in this do you want to push me no after
15:31i broke up with veronica i knew i needed to make a change i met a pretty incredible girl and
15:37we are
15:40doing great and we are happy keeping things somewhat private you know kind of evaluating
15:47everything that's happened over the last couple years um i don't think i was on the path for what
15:53i wanted and i'm gonna switch things up a little bit and just chase a peaceful life
16:01looks like isaac made it
16:07yeah i will thanks for dropping me off
16:13calen dropped me off today everything's good between us still we've been together for just over
16:18a year now all right well i'll see you soon it's been a while since the wedding there were a
16:24few
16:24factors that led to things just being tense part of it was them rushing the wedding and us not really
16:30knowing zach well enough i didn't want to sit around and just let somebody walk into my family
16:36that wasn't going to treat my sister right because i've seen that happen before with my brothers
16:42ancestors and i've had it and i wasn't going to have it again
16:50hello hello hello hello i almost called you mercy mercy mercy lord have mercy long time
17:01how's montana amazing montana has been treating me very well very peaceful very happy
17:11you guys i'm so happy to be home you see what i've done this looks great isn't it crazy oh
17:20my gosh i
17:21love that it's open it feels really good to be back here for a while the farm just kind of
17:26felt like
17:28not abandoned but there was nothing really you know going on it was a rental property and it just had
17:35a
17:35different vibe to it now having mom living there it's it feels a lot more like home it's just a
17:45difference kind of special being able to come home now oh ethan do you like it i like it yeah
17:55looks
17:55good on you yeah thank you well it like this complements the shape of your head nicely thank you
18:02unlike yours yeah what's going on here i don't know oh i'm wearing a wig right now um
18:12i have alopecia an autoimmune condition that causes hair loss it started when i was little
18:20when it's really bad i have no eyebrows eyelashes no hair on my head that's what i'm dealing with
18:28right now these are just stickers no they're not yeah they're they're they're just literally cheap
18:34stickers i got online and then i have four wigs that i kind of can play around with i'm working
18:42on
18:43making a collection of a lot of them let me see your nose pretty good isn't it yeah i'm gonna
18:49oh yeah did you actually get plastic surgery no oh okay no i just got i literally i went to
18:55the
18:55the emergency room that one night got the stitches i pulled the stitches out myself and i'm fine my gosh
19:01that was quite a night lord yeah so what are we doing i'm on three hours of sleep i drove
19:07overnight
19:09lydia and zach are coming up here yeah lydia and zach want to have a meeting with us about
19:14their feelings or maybe i don't know yeah lydia and zach want to sit down and talk to everybody
19:24but i have a lot on my heart and my mind me and tegan are broken up it's very hard
19:30to shake my focus
19:31off of that for anything i just feel like there was way too many emotions people got carried away
19:39yes to say the least
19:52how long has it been since we've been to the farm it's been a minute
19:55i think it'll be good to have the whole family there to talk with everyone we're going to the
20:04farm we figured it was a good time because if the whole family's in town pretty last minute but we
20:10just wanted to address um stuff around our wedding we had some pretty surprising things come our way
20:19when ethan asked if i was gay it was just very it didn't make sense i had proposed and you're
20:24asking
20:24if i'm even attracted to her like this is ridiculous i want to bring it to their attention that you
20:32know
20:32what they did did hurt us and you know they could have gone about it quite differently no when we
20:43were
20:43engaged i know there was a lot of people talking about zach and i and their concerns about us they
20:50said they were doing everything because they care in that care all i felt was hurt well i want you
20:56to
20:57know i want you to be happy and i'm very happy to see that you're happy but i just have
21:01to say it
21:02you only known him for three months and you get married in two months you sure you're good with
21:05that well four months if that matters it's too fast it's too much i feel like they're rushing into it
21:14we all feel pressured into having to accept somebody that we don't know how can lydia really know like
21:19how much of a provider you could be or if you'll take care of lydia just i can't take like
21:24much more
21:24i'm just gonna lose it yeah that guy really does pop in blue
21:32it's like hey this is something you did that affected us we want to move forward and this is
21:37this is something that is we feel is holding us back in our relationship with you because of how it
21:45hurt
21:45zach and lydia are coming i'm a little bit dreading it because i know that things were crazy at their
21:59wedding and i feel like they're coming here wanting an apology and i have mixed feelings about
22:06that because i am sorry that a lot of things happened the way they did at the same time
22:15i'm not sorry that we really cared last night lydia called us we asked her if she was okay with
22:25me
22:25and mercy being on the conversation and she said she didn't really see a need for us to be there
22:29i think they don't want us to hear what they have to say obviously i guess i am a little
22:34bit nervous
22:34about zach and lydia's expectations anything that was said or done before the wedding was coming from
22:41a place of love and concern about lydia we were concerned about her because there are crazy people
22:45out there and it's sad that you have to question everything but you really do yeah and with that
22:51timeline it's completely normal for us to have questions i mean just you know all of us have moved
23:00on moved forward and accepted zach as a brother-in-law a son-in-law whatever as part of the
23:07family
23:07including ethan and isaac and micah but i feel like zach and lydia haven't been able to move on
23:18i've been angry i've been really upset at my family for what they did there were nights on end that
23:25i
23:25would fall asleep crying and zach was just there to come for me because i was just hurt and i
23:29was just
23:29upset it took us a while to kind of approach this conversation we were frustrated we were scared of
23:39maybe not being accepted or loved dealing with all that at once took a long time i also wanted to
23:48be
23:48able to talk knowing what i wanted to say and not just getting all emotional and not having a direction
23:55i took eight months i'm not ashamed of that
24:02i've really been wrestling with it a lot what i would say how how i would say it
24:11i think some of the things they said just made me realize like
24:16they don't really know me and that hurts because you want to be known by your family
24:25i don't know if it's just me or if most of the family feels this way if it's just the
24:30middle child
24:30but i've always felt like overlooked second thought and i just felt that on my wedding day and that's just
24:39not what's supposed to be i know i need this to move forward and whatever happens from it
24:47i need to be okay with that i just know this is the step i need to take
25:00what are some things that you might want to address with your mom i mean definitely with what she had
25:06said about you being controlling i have no idea how this family meeting is going to go i need to
25:13address with mom
25:17just how she went about a few things like she pretty much accused zach of being controlling and taking over
25:23desires i wanted for the wedding yet she didn't even know what i had thought of i've seen
25:30um a usurping of lydia's desires where lydia wants something for the wedding and he just shoots it down
25:37because he has another plan in mind she said i wanted hunter green for my wedding which is a
25:41color i would never think of blue has always been both our favorite colors it's blue that's not
25:48and i gave my opinion but then said after i was like you know i i think blue looks best
25:54but i want
25:55you to make the decision because you're the bride and you know i think you know you have a better
26:02eye for those sorts of things and so i if anything i was completely letting her make the decision
26:09it was just yeah it's like know your daughter before you make accusations like that
26:30oh king of the world i'm king of the world
26:43what are you doing oh hello i'm just envisioning myself out on the gulf
26:50clipping at 20 knots nothing but the the wind in my hair and the spray on my skin
27:00okay no i mean so yeah i was just checking it out that's all
27:07so uh have you found any uh prospective buyers micah bought it micah bought this yes i made him quite
27:15a deal on it i think he's gonna fix it up and sell it wow he sometimes pops up in
27:21random places like
27:22on the boat in the middle of the field he's giving myself a self-guided tour since you know years
27:28past
27:28i missed out on the tour that you've given others okay we're generally on good terms but i like him
27:36to
27:37call first before he shows up i mean that's something that i've kind of asked him to do
27:42i don't want to be in the house and look out the window and just see him there i want
27:47to know if i
27:48look out i'm gonna see woods and birds maybe a deer i'm not gonna see barry and he might see
27:56something
27:56he doesn't want to see i think lydia and zach are going to be here soon so do you want
28:04them to find you
28:05on the boat or do you want to come closer to the house i'll get down and i'll be over
28:10in a little bit
28:12okay well i'm gonna go see the kids
28:15this is the first time all the family are going to be able to be together since the wedding
28:21i became aware of zach and lydia's challenges once they got back from europe how they were feeling
28:26during the wedding the night before the rehearsal all that i began to understand you know just how deeply
28:33lydia was feeling the hurt and the pain my role as father is to be lydia's validation and i know
28:41that
28:41i did that more so than any of the boys or kim all right main event all right here we
28:55are
29:15we got this we got this let's go
29:30we got this we got this
29:34let's go
29:41hi guys oh my goodness mariah oh my god hey everyone's here i haven't seen you in forever
29:47no mariah first sorry
29:54you look so good although i've hardly seen you today we're going to talk about some of the things that
30:01happened around the wedding and um kind of lydia and zach's feelings about all of the wedding drama and
30:12ken is inside working on his jukebox
30:16he asked me do you want me to sit in on this and i said well i think this is
30:20just going to be family
30:27i'm more of a quiet person i've heard both sides of the story i would rather be in the house
30:33watching the dogs i try to avoid drama as much as possible hey
30:44it is weird that you know ken's now at the house that i used to be head of the household
30:53over but you
30:54know it's like what do you say weird is the new norm so i'm just what do you do i'm
31:01used to weird
31:07i'm going to be in the house and i'm going to be in the house and i'm going to be
31:10in the house
31:10go hug your brother-in-law
31:14hey how's it going
31:15doing good how are you doing good to see you
31:18i think we're all here this is the first time we've all this is all the siblings
31:23wow everybody's here this is a big conversation
31:27going into it i'm like you know lydia knows exactly what she's going to say
31:32how we felt about things we're going to control what we can control and whatever their reactions
31:38are we can't control you've been traveling yeah lydia and zach have been upset with me and ethan and
31:47really everyone because of everyone except barry because of how things played out at their wedding
31:57i mean i think they're wanting apologies do i think it's fair i mean are you going to apologize
32:04i don't i don't know
32:07i'm a little bit concerned about ethan because he can be pretty hot-headed and i'm hoping
32:16that that will be calm and under control today
32:27so um thank you guys for making this happen been wanting to have this conversation for a while and
32:34i'm glad you guys could all make it i guess i'll start with owning whatever i can i know
32:39it was quick when we got married and i know that did kind of pressure you guys to
32:48you have to get to know zach in a certain amount of time and and i'm i'm sorry if that
32:51pressured you
32:52in any way but with that like some people chose to get to know him and some people just made
33:01their
33:01judgments and and that was that i know you guys care it would be amazing if there was a way
33:14to show
33:14that care especially to zach and some of you have done really well at that but if you do approve
33:21if you
33:21do see that it's good it'd be nice to see that effort a little bit um so if there are
33:33any concerns
33:34that still are lasting now um or any questions that you guys have in general i'm i'm also open to
33:42those conversations i don't have a lot of pain from what they did to me it's more that they would
33:49do it
33:49to me and that they're hurting her in the process that hurt me more i'm trying to lift lydia up
33:56because i know what she's doing is right we want to figure it out we want to move forward and
34:01obviously
34:02like we're open books and we want to figure things out if there's anything that you guys don't see fit
34:08i'd love to be a part of this family in that and so yeah just kind of voicing what she
34:13was
34:18i want you all to know sorry i did not want to cry
34:29we were treated the night before our wedding supposed to be a joyful time celebrating the
34:35last night as a blap it was actually the hardest night of my life
34:42so
34:55so
35:11The way we were treated the night before our wedding
35:14was supposed to be a joyful time
35:17celebrating the last night as a flap.
35:19It was actually the hardest night of my life.
35:31Lydia, I felt awful after...
35:37I don't know, hindsight.
35:42I guess I can't speak for everyone here,
35:44but I'm assuming most of what was done,
35:47even though it wasn't done in the right way
35:50or everything happened so fast or whatever the excuse is,
35:52it was looking out for your best interest
35:55because we all care about you a lot.
35:59There's been, obviously, tension.
36:01There was a lot of tension between my brothers, some me.
36:04We do need to make sure he's the one for Lydia.
36:07He needs a test to see his true colors.
36:10I say we just let it happen today,
36:12and then we just try to give a .
36:15I was so wrapped up in a lot.
36:17It's not an excuse.
36:18I should have been there for you even more than I was.
36:23You still dance with me?
36:25I know I did.
36:27And that means a lot.
36:30I can only imagine how difficult that was for Lydia and Zach,
36:34Zach especially.
36:36You know, hindsight, I'm like, Zach, you're a great guy.
36:39You two seem fit for each other.
36:41But when you're, you know, I meet you two hours
36:45before you propose to my sister,
36:47there's a lot of stuff that goes on.
36:50For sure.
36:51Yeah, I mean, you know, people do act different under pressure,
36:55and that's mainly what I was feeling.
36:57There was a lot of pressure with it being rushed
37:00and then seeing, you know, past relationships.
37:02People have come into the family really fast
37:04and just turned out bad,
37:06and that's the only thing that was stuck in my head.
37:09Looking back, I see that I, certain times I acted,
37:13you know, like an idiot.
37:16I'm going to apologize to both of you
37:18for certain things that I've done.
37:20It may have been good intentions or thought it was good,
37:23but it just went about a completely wrong way.
37:26That's all I see from mine, so.
37:28Appreciate it.
37:29You know, you both were saying
37:31if we still have things or whatever.
37:34I don't have, I don't think any of us do.
37:36For me, from the time that you two said I do,
37:39it was done.
37:40And I'm 100% supportive of both of you,
37:43and I see you as a son, son-in-law, part of the family.
37:51So far, I'm seeing more healing with Micah and Isaac
37:55than there is with Kim.
37:56I think there's a conversation that just needs to happen
38:00between Lydia and Kim.
38:03There's a lot there to unpack.
38:05It goes deeper than the wedding.
38:07It goes into the realm of when the divorce happened
38:11and things like that.
38:12There's healing that's needed there, I think,
38:14that relationship between those two.
38:17All the concerns that everyone voiced,
38:20whether to you or in private,
38:24whether you go about it in the proper way
38:25or the wrong way, there is a time for that,
38:28and that time has passed.
38:29You guys are both part of the family now,
38:31and I'm very happy to see you both doing well.
38:37And I'm sorry anything that I did, you know, hurt you,
38:41which I know it did, so I apologize for that.
38:43Yep.
38:45Thanks.
38:46Before their wedding, I was just saying what I saw
38:51and what I felt, just like Isaac and Micah.
38:55We were just encouraging Lydia to not rush into something,
39:00especially with not knowing, really,
39:02what their physical attraction is.
39:04I think there's nothing wrong with checking yourself
39:06and being like, do you see what I see
39:08or am I just delusional, you know?
39:12But I certainly could have been nicer, you know,
39:16gone about things maybe in a better way.
39:19It's awesome to have you back here,
39:21being able to have more time with you
39:24because it's a lot closer than Minnesota, so.
39:28It's encouraging to hear Ethan apologize.
39:30He definitely had quite a big peace
39:33and just the pain and hurt caused.
39:36I wouldn't call it water under the bridge.
39:38I would just call it forgiveness
39:42of just him owning up to the things he did wrong.
39:46I mean, it's good to clear the man.
39:49And, Dad, I don't know if I've said it enough,
39:51but thank you so much for all your support.
39:55Please.
39:57I feel like it's almost like a little jab at me,
40:00like, at least my dad was supportive, you know?
40:03My mom wasn't.
40:05But she was feeling all of that support
40:07because Barry just rubber-stamped the Zach relationship
40:11and didn't even ask questions about anything.
40:16When you're just getting to know somebody,
40:18you just, you can tell, you know?
40:21And I could tell with Zach, you know,
40:24Lydia's found something really good.
40:26I just wish I could have exported that to everyone.
40:33Well, I just had a peace from the beginning
40:35and I supported him the whole time.
40:38Let me just polish my halo, you know?
40:43He's gloating a little bit,
40:45and I feel like I don't get any credit
40:47for really caring about who she spends the rest of her life with.
40:51In the process of getting to know him,
40:54seeing him for who he is gave me the peace that, yeah,
40:58they're meant for each other, right?
41:00And Barry, from the beginning, was a very trusting person in me,
41:05and I really appreciated that.
41:08But I just don't think Kim has really done that.
41:11I think there's a lot still to figure out,
41:14and I think I've seen too many tears from Lydia
41:17to think that everything's okay.
41:26Today we're trying to find Bigfoot.
41:35One of my favorite things in the world is being high.
41:39I'm high as a kite!
41:41You're on a dating app?
41:43Hello, I'm Barry.
41:45Barry has a nickname.
41:46He's called Plath Daddy.
41:48You know I got it like that!
41:51Me and Tegan, we haven't talked in a while.
41:53Really?
41:55So, you're running after her?
41:57Mm-hmm.
41:58The weight that I've put on in the last four and a half years,
42:01it's been hard, but I'm turning that around.
42:04I can tell that you're not attracted to me like I am.
42:09Tegan doesn't know that I'm here.
42:11The worst thing that can happen is she finds out...
42:15Ethan Plath!
42:18I'm starting to think that maybe, you know, it's going too fast.
42:21Was Kalen putting pressure on you?
42:23She wants to get married soon.
42:25I never pressured you about really anything.
42:30That was her.
42:32Are you serious?
42:33I think he's here.
42:36Oh, my God.
42:38I heard you talk about Joshua, but the way that you called me out, that hurt.
42:44We lost a son in 2008.
42:48It was an accident.
42:50Mom has been the target with people in the past, but looking at it now from a different perspective, she
42:55was never in the wrong.
42:56I've heard things about the way you pursued Tegan and you giving a lot and her not giving in return.
43:03I wasn't looking for your opinion.
43:05If people don't want our opinions, we won't give our opinions.
43:08It actually makes me angry.
43:11I'm not perfect.
43:13I know I very well could have judged them wrongly.
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