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00:00Teach me some Spanish.
00:01¿Cómo estás, amor?
00:02¿Cómo estás?
00:03Y amor.
00:05Amor.
00:06Amor.
00:07Grrr.
00:08Grrr?
00:09No, no.
00:10Grrr.
00:10La.
00:11Grrr.
00:12Grrr.
00:13Grrr.
00:17I'm going to, like, punch myself in the face and be like,
00:19why are you there?
00:20Like, run.
00:22Did you call my mom's mother?
00:24That was bad.
00:26Enough.
00:27Oh, my gosh.
00:30I'm triggered.
00:34You're worried that I'm a player.
00:36Yeah.
00:36Is that what you're getting at?
00:37I told you.
00:38I just hope you're not playing games with my cousin.
00:42Uh-oh.
00:43Tony's in a hot seat.
00:44Literally.
00:45Tony took me out for this amazing dinner,
00:47and then I ended up getting a picture of olives at, like,
00:51midnight that I didn't see until the next morning.
00:54Turns out that picture was from a bar that he went to afterwards
00:57by himself.
00:58Like, I would feel betrayed.
01:00I said, no problem.
01:02If that's what you want to do, I'm going to be able to do the same thing.
01:05And don't you worry.
01:06By the end of the night, I'm going to go home with 10 phone numbers.
01:09Yeah.
01:13Oh, my God.
01:13ACL is gone.
01:14I don't even know what ACL is.
01:15Is that on your ankle, or where's that?
01:18I can't even find the G spot.
01:20Oh, my God.
01:21Colt.
01:21You have to find the G spot, damn it.
01:23G is the spot.
01:24So you got to go on the coast, over here, over, under.
01:27And it's right there.
01:28It's right there.
01:29This is a good friend that draws you a coochie map.
01:35My family can be a lot, but I'm not going to lose you because my birthday party was wrong.
01:43My sister was a little bit, feeling bad because she said, like, the comment about, you know, your mother said
01:48love you.
01:48She apologized.
01:49Not to Sophie, to me.
01:51Well, I feel like if I were to ever date you, I'm not dating you.
01:54I'm dating your sister.
01:55Orders come from your sister.
01:57Wow.
01:58You want to say that?
01:59Yeah.
02:00Whoa.
02:05All right.
02:06You ready?
02:07Yes.
02:10Just ready for the tea.
02:12We're back, baby.
02:14Let's go.
02:14Let's go do this.
02:16The best thing.
02:17Our opinions are, like, the real opinions, like, the facts.
02:19Yeah.
02:20We're not holding back.
02:22Okay, Colt.
02:23First up, we're going to watch your mom arrive in Florida to try to convince Courtney to get back together
02:28with you.
02:28And this has some bonus footage.
02:31Oh.
02:31My mom.
02:32Oh, she gave you some support.
02:34Some support.
02:35So, she live in Canada, so she's flying here to give you some support.
02:39Mm-hmm.
02:40That is good.
02:41I called my mommy.
02:43I'm no answer.
02:46We have to really convince Courtney in a sweet way that she's making a mistake if she doesn't give Colt
02:53another chance.
02:54Oh, my God.
02:55My parents thought this was so awkward.
02:57They told me, like, you better not go back with him before they came over.
03:03Give them one last chance.
03:05Yeah, one last chance.
03:07I already know what play him and Debbie are going to run because I watch them say the exact same
03:12shit every single woman he's dated.
03:14And it's worked with them, so I guess that's why they keep running that play.
03:17In my teens or 20s, yeah, I've fallen for this game before.
03:22Like, I believe them now.
03:24I'm 35, babe.
03:25I played the game before.
03:26And I didn't need Colt and Debbie for anything.
03:29If anything, he was, like, dragging my life down.
03:34Hey!
03:35Hello!
03:35How are you?
03:36How are you?
03:38Thank you for seeing us.
03:39Of course.
03:40Welcome to our home.
03:41It's nice to meet you.
03:42Thank you for seeing us.
03:43Yeah.
03:44Appreciate it.
03:47No problem.
03:47Let's go sit down over here.
03:48Let's go sit down.
03:49Talk about stuff.
03:52So, first of all, Colt wants to apologize.
03:55And he knows he made a big-ass mistake.
03:57And he wants to rectify it.
03:59He tears himself apart inside.
04:02He'll rip himself apart.
04:03Why is his mom even talking on his behalf?
04:06This is really silly.
04:08Isn't he, like, 40?
04:09But on the other hand, if he really does love you
04:13and swears that he'll never do this again...
04:16He's gonna keep doing it.
04:18But why you talk with Zander Roman if you love her?
04:21Because I'm stupid.
04:23You up.
04:24I up.
04:25Okay, you admit it.
04:26Okay.
04:27He told me a lot how bad he felt about not being able
04:31to pull his weight, basically, to do something.
04:33But that's no reason for him to do what he done, Nicole.
04:36No.
04:36No, it is an excuse.
04:37It's not.
04:38Did your mom understand when you say you sent another
04:41woman's pictures?
04:42She understand it, right?
04:43She understands what I did.
04:45But she can't...
04:46Doesn't want to acknowledge or accept that reality as such.
04:49She's never really told me no or give me any type of negative feedback or...
04:55What's the thing?
04:56Consequences, I guess?
04:58She's always been, like, my friend, like, my bro, you know?
05:01She bought me my first drink, got me my first Playboy.
05:04Like, she's always been there, like, you know, like, hey, I'll do it for you, boy.
05:08Don't worry.
05:09You are a regional mama's boy on this show.
05:11Little G.
05:12Yes, you're OG mama's boy.
05:15He just is very...
05:18Stupid.
05:19And then Sam, Cole is the type of person that it seems like he's always wants something
05:27that he doesn't have at the moment.
05:29It's annoying his mom doesn't teach him consequences.
05:32Yeah, like, at that one...
05:32You hurt somebody, you know, they shouldn't be with you, you're a piece of not.
05:36Oh, yeah, let me try to fix that for you.
05:39That's why he wants me now, because he can't have me.
05:42100%, I agree with that.
05:44I'm like, I'm just a placeholder until you can meet Diana.
05:48I would not enable my son that way.
05:50That's just embarrassing.
05:52That's where it's like, I don't even know if I should be mad at Colt or if I should be
05:55mad at Debbie,
05:56because clearly, like, you lie, cheat, you hurt somebody.
06:00It's like, oh, let me go get them back for you so you could do it some more.
06:03Yeah, that's just, that made me angry for you.
06:05Yeah.
06:06How does this woman think it's okay for her son to treat another woman like that?
06:11Yeah.
06:11That's not okay.
06:12Yeah.
06:12He only loves himself and his .
06:15He's not fighting for me.
06:16He's not proving he wants to be with me.
06:18He's just like, so it's like, I'm not going to be one of his options or in his love triangle.
06:23It's like, you had me, and it's like, you lost me.
06:27Courtney called me the night she kicked Colt out.
06:30She did call me.
06:32And she actually wanted to come.
06:33She was telling me that if I'm invited and she's coming to Africa, I was like, no.
06:36I still like you.
06:37In fact, I still love you.
06:39But believe me, I don't want you anymore.
06:42If she come back, I'm not interested.
06:44Not because I didn't love her, but because I cannot be second option.
06:47Even if I'll be second option, let me be second option to somebody who is good looking, smart.
06:52You know, like, well, how can I be second option to somebody who is jobless?
06:56He has more boobs than her.
06:58His tummy can not allow you to see his .
07:01And after you run with this guy, you'll be .
07:03And then you expect me to be with you?
07:06Like, I'm a big dog over here, darling.
07:08Like, I'm not, I'm not cheap.
07:12All right, this next clip is Sophie leaving Nicole's party.
07:16After the fight.
07:17Yeah.
07:17And it includes some never-before-seen footage.
07:20Okay.
07:20Oh, boy.
07:22Crazy.
07:23Get ready, Gino.
07:24Get ready.
07:26Get ready.
07:30What was that?
07:32When you said there's her monos and lover like that.
07:34No, no, no.
07:35No, no.
07:35Simplemente te voy a decir algo.
07:37Ella no puede me responde a mi.
07:38A decirme a mi.
07:39To your mother.
07:40No, about.
07:41O sea, no, excuse me.
07:42Yo no puedo tolerar eso.
07:44Damn.
07:46Well, you know, at some point you gotta feel bad for Pedro.
07:49He just, his family just don't like no one he brings home.
07:53Pretty good friends with Chantel, and she's told me too.
07:56Like, a lot of the reason their relationship didn't work out is because his family is, uh,
08:01how do you say, muy loco.
08:05Ah, I like a little crazy, personally.
08:08Let's go.
08:08Let's go.
08:08Let's go.
08:09Why?
08:10I was chill.
08:11I was chillin'.
08:12I don't know if you ever-
08:12You called my mom my mother.
08:14Oh, we were acting crazy.
08:16We.
08:17We.
08:17Like that.
08:19You don't do anything.
08:22Are you enough?
08:23I said, no, you enough.
08:25I'm talking, I don't-
08:25Okay, cool.
08:26I'm talking to you.
08:27Okay, cool.
08:28Happy birthday.
08:29Have a great birthday.
08:30Say.
08:31That's so stupid.
08:32Oh, you-
08:33I never said to your mom.
08:34I said-
08:35You, mom.
08:36I said your mom.
08:38Yes.
08:38Yeah, but you can say, Sophie, those team.
08:40Trust me.
08:41I was very respectful to your mom.
08:43I felt really betrayed by Pedro.
08:46Because when the cameras were off, he told me like, oh, you are older than Sophie.
08:54You need to be- you need to be the role model.
08:57You know, like, okay, Pedro, excuse me.
09:00What?
09:01What?
09:01Just because I am older than her, she can't disrespect me?
09:06I need to shut up?
09:08No.
09:08No.
09:10If something is bad, it's bad.
09:12Okay?
09:13She start and cross the line first.
09:16Okay, whatever.
09:17We'll see you tomorrow.
09:19And he's just- I thought he was gonna leave with her.
09:22I thought he was gonna leave with her and at least be respectful towards her.
09:25He's just-
09:26No.
09:26He's just sending her off and he's going back to the party.
09:28No.
09:29Wow.
09:29This was his chance to show to Sophie that he's a gentleman.
09:32He could've been like, either that's not how we say it and say it over here.
09:36But I get what she was saying.
09:37No.
09:37He just let her leave.
09:38Nope.
09:39Uh-uh.
09:39Holy .
09:40I can't believe that.
09:42Not holy .
09:42I love you.
09:43I can't believe it.
09:47Me and Pedro had a great day.
09:48We was laughing today.
09:50We was- I was- I laid on his lap, fell asleep on his lap today.
09:54An amazing day.
09:56And I was starting to have these real feelings and then his mom and sister.
10:00So I hope they know they're the reason I'm not touching your son's banana, weirdos.
10:04That was your moment.
10:06I lose it.
10:08I lose it.
10:08They're fucking- they're a family member.
10:11Who does that?
10:12Honestly, tonight I probably would've because I had a great day.
10:16And now-
10:16Really?
10:16Oh, yeah.
10:18I was gonna sleep in his hotel room.
10:22She didn't give you any signs that this is what she wants?
10:25No, any signs.
10:26If Javi know that Sophie want to do the delicioso that night, I'd jump in the bank.
10:32.
10:33Oh, you guys.
10:35Even if I see the you.
10:36I'll leave it.
10:40And you would've touched his banana?
10:41I would've touched his banana.
10:42I mean-
10:45Eggs?
10:46Yeah, yeah.
10:47What is eggs?
10:48We would've- maybe the eggs.
10:49Maybe not the banana, maybe the eggs.
10:51Maybe one egg.
10:54Just an egg.
10:55Or just like boop.
10:57Hello?
10:57Hello, I don't think I would like that very much.
11:00You're gonna touch one of my balls?
11:01What is that?
11:03I want him to know you could've got laid last night, bro, and your family that up.
11:07So be mad at them.
11:12Yeah, I'm sure a lot of people would say that her and I might've had a better chance at working
11:17if it wasn't for the people that she let in our relationship.
11:20Don't act like I've done something wrong when they're the ones been talking about me all night.
11:24She said she needs an emotional connection to want to have sex with somebody.
11:28Well, we had sex more after our marriage than we had sex our entire marriage.
11:33Easily.
11:34Easily.
11:34I think our entire marriage we had sex five times.
11:39We had sex five times in a weekend after we weren't together.
11:56It's your birthday.
11:57You don't have to be there to ask me questions.
11:59The first time meeting his family, if that's what I dealt with, imagine being married to
12:04him and having them.
12:06Like, I feel like it is a family issue.
12:07I don't think Pedro's as much the problem as his family is.
12:21I do think that Sophie didn't have a chance walking in to that party.
12:25I saw them being so welcoming to Julia, so they could have been that welcoming to Sophie.
12:31Don't look at me.
12:34Pedro.
12:37She's hiding something.
12:42I'm kind of interested in what happened when, like, the camera's cut.
12:45My sister was a little bit, feeling bad because she said, like, the comment about, you know,
12:50your mother doesn't love you.
12:51I say, you don't say those things.
12:53You know, but she say, okay, I'm sorry for that.
12:55She apologized.
12:55It's not too Sophie to me.
12:58Oh.
12:59Well, I feel like if I were to ever date you, I'm not dating you.
13:02I'm dating your sister.
13:04I feel like orders come from your sister.
13:07But that's just how I feel and how I see it.
13:09And I feel like...
13:10Wow, Elise.
13:11Wow.
13:12My friend, you want to say that?
13:13I say it because I'm your friend.
13:16What?
13:18Watching this back, do you feel like you should have stepped in and done something?
13:21Yes.
13:22I used to have stepped in and done something because the situation was, like, blurred all
13:25that proportion.
13:26The nights would have been very different with a step in, but it is what it is.
13:34Nobody couldn't, you know, stop that.
13:39Teach me some Spanish to move the senoritas.
13:42Okay.
13:43What's something that's, like, slick?
13:45Dominicans say, okay, okay, mamacita.
13:47Okay, okay, mamacita.
13:48Claro.
13:50Como estas, amor?
13:52Como estas, amor?
13:54Como estas, mi amor?
13:56Como estas?
13:57Y amor.
13:58Amor.
13:59Amor.
14:00Amor.
14:01Amor.
14:01Rr.
14:02Rr.
14:03Rr.
14:04Rr.
14:05Rr.
14:05Rr.
14:08Rr.
14:09Come on, you have to pull your tongue, write your tongue.
14:14Rr.
14:15Rr.
14:16Rr.
14:21Rr.
14:22Rr.
14:22Rr.
14:23Rr.
14:25Rr.
14:25Rr.
14:29Rr.
14:30Rr.
14:30Rr.
14:35Rr.
14:36Rr.
14:45Rr.
14:45Rr.
14:45Rr.
14:46Rr.
14:47Hi, Tony.
14:48How are you?
14:49Come on in.
14:50Thank you, thank you.
14:52Nice to see you.
14:52Nice to see you too.
14:53Are you here?
14:54Yes, it's fine.
14:54Welcome to Maine.
14:55All right.
14:56Thank you for having me.
14:58Hi, Tony.
15:00Mariko, nice to meet you.
15:02Oh, he's cute.
15:03Where did he come from?
15:05Hi, look, look.
15:06Hi.
15:08Wow.
15:09Hi.
15:10So I thought we were going to be making s'mores.
15:13What happened to that?
15:14Let's go.
15:15Let's go get it.
15:16Let's go get it.
15:17Yes.
15:20Why would you leave him alone with her?
15:24I don't want to talk to you alone, because I have some worries.
15:30Uh-oh.
15:32Tony's in a hot seat, literally by the fire.
15:36She told me about the story when you guys went to a restaurant
15:39and took her back home, and then you
15:41went to a bar sitting by yourself.
15:43I went to a bar afterwards, but it was nothing more than that.
15:47Tony took me out for this amazing dinner, and we watched the sunset.
15:52It was just gorgeous.
15:53Aw.
15:53And I went home, and I just assumed that he was going home, too.
15:57And then I ended up getting a picture of olives at midnight that I didn't see until the next morning.
16:03Turns out that picture was from a bar that he went to afterwards by himself.
16:08So that's weird he didn't invite you.
16:10And that was my point, exactly.
16:12I don't mind you going to a bar and sitting at a bar by yourself.
16:16A, you should invite me, or B, you should let me know what you're doing, and now just go send
16:21me home and do it behind my back.
16:22Yeah, that's weird.
16:23Maybe because you don't drink?
16:25I don't know.
16:26No, he had drinks at dinner.
16:27So it's not like I told him you can't have drinks around me.
16:31If a guy I was dating went to a bar without me, I'd be like, wow, you know I love
16:36bars.
16:37Why would you do that without me?
16:38Like, I would feel betrayed.
16:40So then when I talked to him about it later, I said, no problem.
16:44If that's what you want to do, I'm going to be able to do the same thing.
16:47And don't you worry.
16:48By the end of the night, I'm going to go home with 10 phone numbers.
16:52We were always friends.
16:54We kept it.
16:57Are you sure?
16:57Absolutely, 100%.
16:59Well, you had a girlfriend living with you, and then you were hanging out with Vanya.
17:02I mean, if I was that girlfriend, I would be pissed.
17:05Wow, she's smiling.
17:06She's like stirring the pot.
17:08I told you, I just hope you're not playing games with my cousin.
17:12This is just so awkward.
17:15What have you been talking to her about?
17:16I mean, she just like full out assaulted me out there.
17:20Assaulted?
17:20That's a hard word to use.
17:22Yeah, I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
17:27Is this where we're sleeping tonight, or?
17:29Well, this is where you're sleeping.
17:31I'm going to be sleeping upstairs.
17:32Great.
17:34I didn't visualize this conversation transpiring like this.
17:38Unfortunately, a lot happened that was bad.
17:42Bad tensions, bad energy.
17:45And then this was just like the straw that broke the camel's back.
17:50I was secretly hoping that Tony would sneak into my bedroom and have a discussion with me afterwards.
17:55Be like, babe, you know, let's just forget about this and let's just look forward.
18:01But he didn't.
18:02We just called it a night.
18:03And it was just awkward in Tony's room, awkward in my room, awkward in her husband's room.
18:10It was a house of awkwardness.
18:16No marshmallows.
18:17Get those out of here.
18:18Get those out of here.
18:19All right.
18:20You guys ready to play a game?
18:21Yeah.
18:22Let's go.
18:23Let's go.
18:23This is called Marshmallow Whispers.
18:26I already ate three marshmallows before you got here.
18:30This is inspired by Vanya and Tony having s'mores by the fire with her cousin.
18:35You will each take turns putting marshmallows in your mouth and whispering phrases to your partner of things that happen
18:42on the single life that they must guess.
18:45I go first.
18:46You go first.
18:47Okay.
18:50I'm sure you had bigger things in your mouth before.
18:52Just go ahead.
18:58Don't spit it out at me.
19:01Sophie.
19:02Sophie.
19:03Road.
19:06What do you want to say?
19:07Road.
19:08Sophie was?
19:09Road.
19:10Road.
19:11A pony.
19:12Sophie rode a pony.
19:14Yay.
19:20We can't do her.
19:21Pedro.
19:22Pedro.
19:22SISTER.
19:24Sister.
19:25Can't do my male.
19:29Pedro's sister can't.
19:33Can't.
19:34Can't.
19:35Can't.
19:36Okay.
19:37Do it again.
19:38What's this?
19:39You're the sister can't do my male.
19:44Come on.
19:46Shut them in there, Liz.
19:47You only did three, bitch.
19:48I did four, and I have a small mouth.
19:50Yeah, thank you.
19:57What?
19:59Is it me?
19:59Kim?
20:00Okay, it's Kim something.
20:03Kim had a booty call.
20:05I did.
20:06Okay.
20:10Whoa.
20:16Colt.
20:17Colt.
20:18And Courtney.
20:19And Courtney.
20:21Want.
20:22Want.
20:22A swing.
20:23A swing?
20:24Mm-hmm.
20:25In the bedroom.
20:26In the bedroom.
20:27Mm-hmm.
20:28Oh, Pedro's sister.
20:32You're pointing at your
20:33.
20:36Pedro.
20:38Pedro.
20:41Pedro si te block him.
20:46I can't even understand you
20:47with all the marshmallows.
20:48What the going on here?
20:52That was not cute.
20:53It was awful.
20:54That was so good.
20:55It probably looked like
20:56somebody in my mouth.
21:01You want to do a fire drill?
21:02Yeah.
21:03One, two, three.
21:07I'm sorry.
21:14You fell in.
21:16Oh, actually,
21:17your spot is not bad.
21:18Your spot's terrible.
21:19Oh.
21:21The next scene
21:22we're going to watch
21:23is when you guys
21:24went for a hike with Larry,
21:25and it includes
21:26some never-before-seen footage.
21:28Okay, yeah.
21:29That was a fun day.
21:30It's like our first
21:31family outing.
21:34So cool having a family.
21:38Wow, isn't it weird
21:39seeing them?
21:40San Diego?
21:41My boys.
21:44Looks like me.
21:46Not as good looking.
21:47You look like him.
21:47I keep telling him, eh?
21:50Before that,
21:51we had had lunch,
21:51and they were both
21:53looking at the menu,
21:54and their faces
21:55were scrunched
21:56the same way,
21:56and I was like,
21:56this is so weird.
21:57But they look like
21:58their dad that way.
21:59And I was like,
22:00wow.
22:01Like, they look
22:02a lot alike.
22:02Like, it gives me goosebumps
22:03because they look
22:04so much alike, you know?
22:06Somebody told me
22:07the other day,
22:07Larry looks more like me
22:08than Jamal does,
22:09and I was like,
22:09I don't know about that,
22:10but he does.
22:11He looks just like me.
22:12Do you guys like each other?
22:14I love them.
22:16Do you love me?
22:17I love you.
22:18Aw.
22:19Aw.
22:19I'll say it back.
22:20Aw, that's so cute.
22:22Aw, stop it.
22:23I'm so awkward.
22:24I don't know
22:25how to do these things.
22:26Aw, that's so sweet.
22:28When I was in the military
22:30after I had her
22:32and I was standing
22:33in line at the ATM
22:34and this woman of color
22:37came in with her baby
22:39and they were in line
22:40in front of me
22:41and I swear to this day
22:42it was her.
22:43Yeah.
22:44Oh, my God.
22:47Aw, baby.
22:48No, it's okay.
22:49It was really hard.
22:51Aw.
22:52And I know,
22:52just when I said,
22:53it was the hair,
22:55her skin tone,
22:56I mean...
22:57when you're not,
22:58when you're not,
22:58you're not.
22:59Yeah.
23:00That makes me really sad.
23:01Sorry.
23:03It's okay.
23:07And I don't know,
23:07I think that's why,
23:08like, I've always had,
23:09like, a really hard time
23:10with her.
23:11You know what I mean?
23:12And I don't know why.
23:13Maybe because she's a girl?
23:15I don't know.
23:16I just have a really hard time
23:17with that one.
23:18You know?
23:21Her telling us that story
23:22and being emotional about it,
23:23I'm like, still?
23:23In her head,
23:24maybe it was like,
23:25this could have been.
23:26Yeah, and that's fine.
23:27But the way she told it
23:28was like,
23:29I still think
23:30that was my kid.
23:32Yeah.
23:32And I'm like,
23:33damn.
23:35I don't know,
23:36I can't even bring
23:36a black girl home now.
23:37You might think
23:38that's her kid.
23:39How old is Chantel now?
23:4030?
23:41Maybe my mom thinks
23:42that's her kid too.
23:43Oh, that's insane.
23:44Do you want...
23:46Now that it's all out,
23:47I'm ready to find her.
23:50Mm-hmm.
23:53I'm with you.
23:54I'm ready to...
23:55I'm ready to find her.
23:56What about you?
24:00The next chapter.
24:03Yeah, I've been ready,
24:05you know?
24:06I feel like when my mom
24:07wanted to start looking
24:08for my sister immediately,
24:09I was a little caught off guard
24:11because I wanted to look
24:12for her years ago.
24:13I think ever since
24:15Larry has gotten
24:15to our lives,
24:16she kind of has been
24:17way more erratic
24:18with him and my sister.
24:21I think she just kind of
24:22wants to rip the Band-Aid off
24:23and let's just get it all done.
24:25Let's just be over it.
24:26And this is something
24:27we're going to have
24:28to be patient with.
24:29But I know
24:31how my sister wants
24:32to find us.
24:34I have dreams about her.
24:37I know she's out there.
24:38I know she's alive.
24:40What if my sister's like
24:42Cardi B or something?
24:43What a story.
24:47There is the possibility
24:49she might not want
24:50to see me.
24:50She might be angry.
24:52I'm preparing my mental
24:53for that.
24:55So I contacted
24:56the adoption agency
24:59and sent them an email
25:01and I got noted,
25:03I got response back
25:04from a post-adoption,
25:07lifelong post-adoption
25:08counselor.
25:09So her job is to put me
25:11in touch with my daughter.
25:13They sent a letter
25:14to her.
25:15So what the process does
25:16is they'll notify them,
25:20that side,
25:20if would she like
25:22to be in contact with me.
25:23They're not going to
25:24give me her phone number.
25:24You know what I mean?
25:25It has to be,
25:26it's a process.
25:26It might take six months.
25:28It could take
25:28the rest of my life.
25:30I don't know.
25:30So then after they do that,
25:32then if she says yes,
25:34then we'll exchange emails
25:35through the adoption agency.
25:36We'll exchange letters,
25:38get to know each other.
25:39And then if she wants
25:40to meet me,
25:41then we'll arrange
25:41to meet in North Carolina
25:43at the adoption agency.
25:44She's like,
25:45you never know
25:45when it's going to happen,
25:46but it will happen.
25:47She was like,
25:48she said that they've matched
25:49hundreds and hundreds
25:50of families together.
25:52So she said,
25:53don't give up hope.
25:53If she sends it back
25:55and it's a rejection,
25:56we will let you know.
25:58But she may change her mind.
26:00She's like,
26:00never give up on her.
26:01And I was like,
26:01I never have given up on her.
26:05Okay, you are going
26:07to be playing body ball.
26:09Ooh.
26:09In the dating world,
26:11you are trying to find
26:11a partner who will
26:12always have your back.
26:13So we are going to see
26:15how well you two
26:15can work together
26:16and have each other's backs.
26:18You must use your bodies
26:19to hold a ball between you
26:21as you complete various tasks.
26:23No way.
26:25Are you ready?
26:26Yes.
26:26Okay, the first task
26:28is to touch both walls
26:29of the room.
26:31Let's go this way first.
26:32We're going to turn
26:33our whole bodies, okay?
26:34Is this the easiest one?
26:35I think so.
26:36Okay.
26:36All right, let's go.
26:37Yeah!
26:38Turn this way.
26:39I'm coming, mate.
26:40All right.
26:40Small steps.
26:42Okay.
26:44Got it.
26:45Got it.
26:47Don't let me knock
26:48that over.
26:49Okay.
26:50Boom.
26:52Oh, crap.
26:53Oh, crap.
26:53Go, go, go, go, go.
26:54Go, go, go.
26:55No, I got you.
26:56Just touch it.
26:58Okay, yay.
27:02Boom.
27:03Done.
27:04Yeah.
27:04Turn?
27:05No, don't turn, don't turn.
27:06I could have touched it backwards.
27:07There you go.
27:07It's fine, it's fine.
27:11Touched.
27:12Touched.
27:12Last up,
27:13spin in a full circle
27:14three times.
27:15Ready?
27:21This looks so stupid.
27:23All right.
27:24One,
27:26two,
27:28three.
27:29Oh,
27:30breaking the record.
27:32Five,
27:33six.
27:34How many?
27:39Let's go.
27:47Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
27:49Let me, let me,
27:51one second.
27:51Okay.
27:52You got it?
27:53I got you.
27:53Okay.
27:54And the last time.
27:56Good job.
27:58Bam.
27:58Oh, I got to see.
28:00All right,
28:00the next clip we're gonna watch
28:02is a conversation,
28:03Pedro,
28:04you had with Sophie
28:05the day after the birthday party.
28:07It is amazing
28:08how much has happened
28:09on this trip.
28:11Too much.
28:20Good morning.
28:22Good morning.
28:23How you doing?
28:25I'm doing okay.
28:27I like his outfit there.
28:29That's a nice color combo.
28:30I won't just say this.
28:32Oh,
28:32he's color,
28:33yes.
28:33He looks good in that.
28:34But look at you.
28:35You look like you just come from Yacht.
28:36We're matching.
28:41Why is Sophie dressed like
28:43she's about to go birdwatching?
28:45Your sister was going crazy.
28:46Ooh,
28:47she looks so classy.
28:49She looks so beautiful.
28:49She's a beautiful girl.
28:51Look at that butt.
28:51Damn.
28:52I know.
28:53I don't look at girls that way,
28:54but I look at Sophie that way.
28:55Tell me the store
28:56where I can go and get me one.
28:58I wanted to have a fun time,
29:00you know,
29:00just be at your sister's birthday.
29:01I didn't know
29:02I was there to be grilled,
29:04especially when we're not
29:04in a relationship.
29:06She looks burnt out.
29:09She was judging me
29:09the whole night, Pedro.
29:11And you're mad
29:12because I said the word
29:14Yes, I am.
29:16After that party,
29:17I talked to my sister,
29:18like, to my mom,
29:19hey,
29:20all those moms
29:21that I tried to,
29:22you know,
29:23get this girl like me,
29:24you destroy it.
29:26We were only one night.
29:28It's not fair.
29:29I told that to my mom,
29:31my sister,
29:31like,
29:31you destroy it.
29:32Everything I've been done,
29:33you destroy it.
29:35What did they say back?
29:37They went quiet,
29:37like,
29:38and they say that
29:39Sophie's not the woman for you,
29:41you know,
29:41like, you know,
29:42she's not the girl for you.
29:43What standards do they want?
29:46Mm,
29:47you know,
29:48no kids,
29:49prepared woman,
29:50you know,
29:50like,
29:51degree,
29:51you know,
29:52dress well,
29:53no show too much,
29:56like,
29:56more professional stuff.
29:58Stuff.
29:59So she didn't have a chance?
30:02No like that.
30:05She could have a chance.
30:08My family can be a lot,
30:10but Anna,
30:11I'm going to lose you
30:12because
30:13our birthday party was wrong.
30:15I want to be there for you.
30:18I want to say I'm sorry for last night.
30:21I'm sorry if I made you feel
30:23I disrespected your mom.
30:24That's not,
30:25wasn't my intention.
30:41And I should have been more chill
30:42with Nicole.
30:45After last night,
30:46like,
30:46it's just a lot,
30:47so I just need to,
30:47like,
30:48step back a little bit.
30:49And every time I feel like we talk
30:51and we're, like,
30:51agreeing on something,
30:52it's just, like,
30:53something else happens
30:54and I'm just, like,
30:55it's just overwhelming.
30:57Yeah,
30:57too much drama.
30:58Yeah,
30:59usually how it starts,
31:00it's how it's going to end,
31:02so.
31:02I just need, like,
31:03a little bit of space
31:04just to, like,
31:05process everything.
31:06I still like you
31:07and I still want to get to know you.
31:09I think Lydia and Nicole
31:10are going to run off
31:11every woman
31:12because,
31:13I mean,
31:14Pedro is, like,
31:15the love of their life.
31:16I think so.
31:17I think they want to keep
31:18Pedro to themselves,
31:19so they're going to make it
31:20difficult for every single woman
31:22to date him.
31:25and, like,
31:26I guess when
31:28Chantel
31:30was, like,
31:30working and
31:31doing all the work
31:32and then Pedro's
31:33taking the money
31:34Chantel's making
31:35and sending it
31:35to his family
31:37over there,
31:37so now
31:39they probably want
31:40another woman
31:41that's going to, like,
31:42provide for them
31:42or Pedro's the one
31:44providing for them,
31:44so it's, like,
31:45they might see Sophie
31:46as a threat,
31:47like,
31:47oh,
31:47she's getting jewelry
31:48and flowers
31:49and, oh,
31:50she's going to be,
31:50like,
31:51taking our source
31:52of income, too.
31:54I think he should
31:55never introduce anybody
31:56to his mom and sister.
31:59That's why I just need
32:00a bit of, like,
32:01time.
32:07That was bad.
32:09She's a nice person.
32:10You know,
32:11she's a nice person.
32:12But she pulled away.
32:16Sorry.
32:55And this morning,
32:56I just saw everything
32:57was ruined
32:58because last,
32:59there was a party.
32:59She was a little bit
33:00at the distance,
33:01you know.
33:02She was ready to go.
33:04Like,
33:05we're starting
33:05from zero again.
33:07Yeah, bro,
33:08you can say
33:09whatever you want.
33:09You can say,
33:10that amazing guy
33:11that I'm in the world.
33:12But if you don't
33:13give me the opportunity
33:15to be with you,
33:16that's
33:17we need to drink
33:22a little therapy.
33:23You remember
33:23in the last resort?
33:24Yeah.
33:25We did.
33:25It's like,
33:26throw away air.
33:34Yeah!
33:37Too much here.
33:38Yeah.
33:38I'm tired.
33:42We're going to watch
33:42a bonus scene next.
33:44Oh.
33:45This is your meetup
33:46with Courtney
33:46to get some ice cream.
33:51Finally,
33:51Courtney agreed to meet.
33:53My mom did something right.
33:57It's good to see you again.
34:00You look pretty.
34:02How you doing?
34:03Good.
34:06I'm glad you're doing well.
34:08How are you doing?
34:12Doesn't matter, I guess.
34:13See, this is how
34:14they lure you back in.
34:15They're like,
34:15do you want food?
34:16Do you want drinks?
34:17I'm like, yes, here I am.
34:18I love ice cream.
34:21Debbie wants me
34:21to go back to Canada
34:22with her.
34:23Yeah, I think
34:23that's a good idea.
34:30So this is it?
34:32I mean, what do you want?
34:37You?
34:39Jesus Christ.
34:40How many times
34:40this last meeting
34:41for Colt and Courtney?
34:43I'm gonna go.
34:45I will go now.
34:48I'm going.
34:50But you're also texting
34:51other women
34:52that you want them,
34:53you love them.
34:54I told Diana
34:54that I love you.
34:57I've spent time away from you.
34:59I've thought about it.
35:00I've been able to analyze
35:01everything and think about it
35:02and really put my heart
35:03and my feelings
35:04and my brain in together.
35:06I think about you
35:07all the time.
35:09I still had this love
35:10for Courtney.
35:11I mean, it was hard.
35:13She was there with me
35:13every moment of every day
35:14for months.
35:16Suddenly it's ripped away.
35:17It's like,
35:18part of me is ripped away.
35:20What are you doing?
35:22Trying to get Uber
35:23to get out of here.
35:25Oh, my God.
35:29I'm triggered.
35:34I feel like I've been
35:36here for you
35:36through the whole thing
35:37and you keep...
35:40What?
35:41I'm not gonna see you.
35:42Just waiting to escape.
35:43I'm not gonna see you again.
35:45I'm like, okay,
35:46I drove 30 minutes
35:48to be here
35:49and then
35:51the moment I sit down,
35:52I think we only talked
35:53for one minute
35:54and he's like,
35:54okay, I'm gonna get an Uber
35:55and go.
35:56And I'm like,
35:57I came all this way
35:58to see you,
35:59to say goodbye to you
36:00and you're just gonna,
36:01like, run off.
36:02I just felt
36:05in a way,
36:05like, rejected
36:06or like a slap in the face.
36:08Like, I keep
36:09putting all this effort
36:12and it's not reciprocated.
36:14You told me that
36:15you don't want anything
36:16to do with me,
36:16naturally so.
36:17I didn't say
36:18I don't want anything
36:19to do with you.
36:19I said,
36:21how am I gonna trust you again?
36:23How am I going to, like,
36:25be your girlfriend
36:25or wife?
36:27You did me dirty,
36:28but I don't hate you.
36:29It's like the minute
36:30he got out his phone,
36:31I'm like,
36:32I know whatever he's doing
36:33on that phone
36:33is a manipulation tactic.
36:34If she would've been like,
36:35all right, see ya,
36:37do you think he would've left?
36:38He would not have left.
36:39Probably wasn't even
36:39on the Uber app.
36:40That man was just
36:41got it out, blank screen,
36:43waiting for her to say
36:44what you're doing
36:44so he could say,
36:46just ordering my ride
36:47so she could immediately
36:48be like, wait.
36:50Then she's chasing him,
36:51now she's exactly back
36:53where he needs her.
36:54And it's like,
36:55oh, and I hate that it works,
36:57but it does.
36:58This has happened
36:58so many times.
36:59And I'm like, no!
37:00F***!
37:01I hate that technique
37:02because it works!
37:03It's so evil!
37:05Like, I'm sad for myself,
37:08but I'm like more sad
37:09for your situation,
37:10like, where life's broken.
37:13I don't know how to explain it.
37:15I'd say like any ex you see
37:16or any ex you're saying goodbye to,
37:18it's sad because it's like,
37:19okay, this is the end
37:20of our story.
37:22This is the end of our friendship.
37:23This is the end of our story.
37:25I feel like Courtney
37:27gets lost in all of this
37:28because it's like,
37:29what about Colt?
37:30What about what he needs?
37:31What about blah, blah, blah?
37:32But what about Courtney?
37:33Her heart got shattered
37:35in the whole process of this.
37:36I'm sure you felt used.
37:37I'm sure you felt duped.
37:39I question my whole reality.
37:40I'm like,
37:41was any of this real for him
37:42or was he just lying
37:43and manipulating me
37:44the entire time?
37:47I blew my knee out.
37:49Yeah.
37:49I knew a new knee.
37:50Yeah.
37:51ACL is gone.
37:51I don't even know what ACL is.
37:53Is that on your ankle
37:54or where's that?
37:55I can't even find the G spot.
37:57Oh my God, Colt.
38:06I must have been the medication.
38:07I know.
38:08Is that what it is?
38:09I know perfectly
38:10where the G spot is.
38:11Oh.
38:11A lot of men have problems
38:12finding that.
38:13Well, where is it?
38:14It's over there.
38:16I'm going to draw you a map.
38:17Yes, actually.
38:22Okay.
38:23Well,
38:24I'm going to keep this forever
38:25and I'm going to make copies
38:26and any guy I date,
38:28I'm going to be like,
38:28here you go.
38:29Oh, yeah.
38:29That's definitely a priority.
38:31For my friend Colt.
38:32You should have for sure.
38:33You got it here.
38:35That's like a map.
38:36Okay.
38:36G is a spot.
38:37So you got to go to the coast
38:38over here,
38:39over, under,
38:41and go over
38:41and then to the side.
38:42And then this way.
38:43It's right there.
38:44It's right there.
38:45It looks like a little penis.
38:46Well, you got to go in
38:47a little bit.
38:48Okay.
38:48I'm going to keep this
38:49for the rest of my life.
38:50Thank you so much.
38:50Oh, you're welcome.
38:51This is a good friend
38:52that draws you a coochie map.
38:54I think we're, like,
38:56going to be bonded for life.
38:59What do you want to do now?
39:00Meet you up at your hotel
39:02or do you want to get an Uber?
39:03I don't want an Uber.
39:05I'm going to, like,
39:06punch myself in the face
39:07and be like,
39:07why are you there?
39:08Like, run.
39:11She still cares about me.
39:13I don't deserve it.
39:18Excuse me.
39:18My chariot awaits.
39:22So, off camera,
39:23he told me he's going,
39:25like, oh,
39:26this is the last time
39:26we're going to see each other.
39:28So, I dropped him
39:28back at his hotel.
39:30Then he calls me
39:30and, like, on the phone
39:31he's begging me
39:32to, like,
39:33come to his hotel
39:34and have sex with him
39:35and stuff.
39:36And I'm just like,
39:36no.
39:38No.
39:38I'm not having sex with you.
39:40Like, what the hell?
39:40Oh, gross.
39:43Presumptious.
39:43I don't know what he was thinking.
39:46I think that man is delusional.
39:47The online girls were too busy
39:49for chat that day
39:50and then he wanted to
39:51get something in real life.
39:55Next time on Between the Sheets.
40:02Things got
40:04a little bit intimate.
40:06A little like.
40:09Yeah, baby.
40:10She's like,
40:11oh, poppy,
40:11oh, poppy.
40:13Did you go,
40:13you poppy?
40:15Yeah.
40:16You don't know what he's talking.
40:19Tell me,
40:19how is sex talking?
40:20What is that?
40:21I definitely said
40:22I won't do anal.
40:23Okay.
40:24That's good to know.
40:25I did it one time
40:26and it hurt so bad
40:27I was,
40:27no.
40:28Sorry.
40:29One and done.
40:30Not even a one,
40:31it was a quarter done.
40:34I don't know
40:35where, like,
40:36your feelings are at
40:37with me.
40:38I'm really confused
40:39where I'm at
40:41myself.
40:42Look at me
40:42taking charge
40:43of the conversation.
40:44Not once did he say,
40:46let's see where
40:47things go with us.
40:48Not once did he ever
40:49stand up and be like,
40:51I want to date you.
40:53Are you interested
40:54in seeing where
40:54this is going?
40:55And I think that
40:56should have been
40:56a man moment.
40:57He didn't give me
40:58much to fight for.
41:00This has happened
41:01to me so many times
41:02in the past.
41:03A guy starts out
41:04one way
41:04and then it turns out
41:05that it was the opposite
41:06the whole time.
41:07I mean,
41:07if you really think
41:08I'm a person
41:08that's going to truly
41:09just hurt you,
41:10then you should
41:11walk away from me.
41:12I agree.
41:13Oof.
41:14God,
41:14this was a hard one.
41:16I don't excuse
41:17his behavior
41:18because we're adults.
41:19We're going to have
41:20things that happen
41:21to us that we don't like.
41:22That doesn't give you
41:23green light
41:24to go disrespect
41:25your significant other.
41:27It's just,
41:27it's bad.
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