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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 7
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breathe?
00:00:10Yes, I would.
00:00:12So you really like my guy, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:20She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're pulling over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one-woman type of guy.
00:00:31Yeah, but I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child. He wants to sleep.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged, and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything, and he doesn't want me.
00:00:59And I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me and is trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick. Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend,
00:01:17because I know he has a lot of money,
00:01:18and I'm not in a position to be a sport hunter like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick. I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval to marry her,
00:01:34so now I have to go and get their approval
00:01:37while I have to tell them that their days are basically numbered
00:01:40with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:44First, it's your career.
00:01:46I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth
00:01:49about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard,
00:01:56so I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:02With my jobless situation and my debts, I am just broke.
00:02:08Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yeah.
00:02:10How much is it?
00:02:1150K.
00:02:14That's a lot of f***ing money.
00:02:17I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:20I'm worried if she finds out how I make money sometimes.
00:02:25She could leave me.
00:02:52This is beautiful.
00:02:55No.
00:03:04You have the nicest ass I have ever seen.
00:03:12I'm blessing.
00:03:17And you know, I always thought your dimples were my favorite thing, but you know what my favorite thing is
00:03:21now?
00:03:23You know, you're not going to. Your belly button. It really is. And it's an Audi. It's not an Innie.
00:03:31It's so cute.
00:03:36I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel, and it's not even 24 hours yet. I'm engaged.
00:03:43Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:45I didn't sleep last night. All I could do was stare at his face. He's everything I could have dreamed
00:03:51about, except he doesn't have poop.
00:03:56We have to talk about last night. It was awful.
00:04:02I was upset with you.
00:04:04Why?
00:04:07Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:13Last night was uncomfortable, and it was strange.
00:04:19He didn't finish.
00:04:22And I don't think he was full on.
00:04:27And I had so much anticipation, I was very.
00:04:31So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:34Even though we had sex, it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:37So it just deflated me.
00:04:39I felt, I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:42Maybe I am, you know, not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:46I was really questioning myself.
00:04:50I was stressed last night because of, you know?
00:04:53But it was really awkward for me because it's been so long since I've been intimate like that.
00:04:59And then you didn't finish, and then it went, I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:08I'm in favor.
00:05:11You know, when a man is stressed, he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:16So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:19From morning to night, preparing, getting ready to go and wake up with you.
00:05:24I was really tired after everything.
00:05:27It was a trial run.
00:05:29We have a test.
00:05:31It was a test run.
00:05:32A test finish.
00:05:33It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:35Yeah.
00:05:35I'm sorry for the first time.
00:05:37But I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:40You did.
00:05:41Yeah.
00:05:45But you want me to be honest?
00:05:47You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:50Really?
00:05:51So it was a little, it was a little painful at first.
00:05:54Is that why you were screaming?
00:05:58At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:01Okay.
00:06:02And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable, and I seem to have stretched to fit
00:06:07you just perfectly.
00:06:08And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:13I'm so happy.
00:06:14I haven't had you yet.
00:06:20I'm so glad I'm here, and I love you so much.
00:06:23I love you, Mom.
00:06:25And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:29Now that Daniel and I have been physical and I'm engaged to him, I'm even more concerned
00:06:36how he's going to handle what I have to tell him about being still married and it's a woman
00:06:41and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:45I'm already 100% into this relationship, physically and emotionally, and it's definitely going
00:06:51to be harder for me to handle if he can't accept my past.
00:06:55Yeah, what in a million?
00:06:57You keep saying things like that, we're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:29Let's go ride on a trike.
00:07:31Oh my goodness.
00:07:32Oh my God.
00:07:33Oh Lord.
00:07:35Oh my God.
00:07:36Give me strength.
00:07:37This is worse than the bus.
00:07:40Sheen and I getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like being inside
00:07:46of a can.
00:07:47I would never do this with anybody else but you, Sheen.
00:07:51It's pretty great.
00:07:52I get to, you know, get up nice and close, but she's also crushing me to death.
00:07:57I love those.
00:07:58Woohoo!
00:07:58Oh!
00:07:59Oh!
00:07:59Oh!
00:08:01I wish they'd give us a nice, you know, extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:13I'm afraid I'm going to fall off and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:17Today, I'm going to meet Sheen's family for the first time in a province called Cavite.
00:08:23So we're almost there though.
00:08:24We'll just have to get along.
00:08:25I'm nervous, baby.
00:08:28Oh man.
00:08:30Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago, her family has been like these ominous figures.
00:08:35She's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially.
00:08:45I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that Sheena
00:08:50is going to completely cut them off financially.
00:08:53But now it's turned into something completely and totally different than what I envisioned.
00:08:58You didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:03No.
00:09:04Oh man.
00:09:06First, she told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:09:10And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how I make money.
00:09:15But the truth is, I don't have a job.
00:09:17I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:18I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:22Baby, we can do this.
00:09:24Just be careful, babe.
00:09:26So at this point, I'm concerned that I won't be able to get the blessing for Sheena's family
00:09:31that I apparently need.
00:09:35Oh my gosh, is that them?
00:09:37Yes, my love.
00:09:39Oh my goodness.
00:09:48You must be Forrest.
00:09:49Yeah, I'm Forrest.
00:09:51Wow.
00:09:55Hello, sir.
00:09:56It's finally nice to meet you after so long.
00:09:59Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:01Hello.
00:10:03Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:04This is my dad's dad.
00:10:05He said it's Katrina.
00:10:06So.
00:10:09Yep.
00:10:10She's just a little shy to my dad's version, though.
00:10:13It's okay.
00:10:15I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:16That's very soon.
00:10:17I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:20No, I'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:31Sheena told me that her mom is sick, so I won't be meeting her, but her dad and sister seem
00:10:36nice enough.
00:10:37A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal, but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:44Yeah, what, you want to take a break from traveling?
00:10:46Yeah, sure.
00:10:47To do that, can you show them?
00:10:49Yeah.
00:10:49Follow me, you want to check the gardens?
00:10:51Yeah.
00:10:51Yeah.
00:10:55So this is a place.
00:10:56Yeah.
00:11:01There's small improvements over the years.
00:11:04Wow.
00:11:06Yeah.
00:11:07Yeah, this is the place where we have our group meals for guests.
00:11:13Boy.
00:11:14Okay, cool.
00:11:17Gina told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home.
00:11:21And I've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof.
00:11:25Oh, they need the money to do this.
00:11:26Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:28That's why they're stealing all this money from me.
00:11:29But it turns out that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:33Okay, welcome to our house.
00:11:36Oh, wow.
00:11:37I think you're going to be on the second master's bedroom.
00:11:40This place is huge.
00:11:42Wow.
00:11:45So, Gary was under the impression that her family might be dissolute or they are going
00:11:51to starve without her.
00:11:53It doesn't add up.
00:11:57Okay, come on, come on.
00:11:58Thank you very much.
00:12:00Have dinner.
00:12:00Yeah.
00:12:01Yeah, all right.
00:12:02And don't relax for...
00:12:03Yeah, all right.
00:12:04Thank you, guys.
00:12:08Ah.
00:12:11My mind's just confused.
00:12:13I don't understand.
00:12:16So, you like the place?
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:18It was way worth the getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:21Yeah.
00:12:22Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.
00:12:27Yeah.
00:12:28They're great people.
00:12:31Okay.
00:12:31Well, I think I want to clean up my face real quick.
00:12:34Yeah, sure.
00:12:34Okay.
00:12:35I'm going to head in the bathroom.
00:12:36Yeah, go great.
00:12:37Go real quick.
00:12:39Do you think Forrest was expecting something different from what he's seeing at your family's house?
00:12:46Mm-hmm.
00:12:47Yes.
00:12:49Which is probably my fault.
00:12:51Test for the water if it's good.
00:12:53Wash your face around.
00:12:54Wash your hands.
00:12:55Yeah.
00:13:19Do you think I'm going to marry you for your mind?
00:13:24That's what everybody else thought.
00:13:28I thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:13:34the beginning.
00:13:35And now I don't know.
00:13:37The debt is a big deal.
00:13:40You excited about my show tonight?
00:13:43Yeah, I am.
00:13:44What songs are you singing at your show?
00:13:46Mariana, Vicky.
00:13:50So who is Vicky?
00:14:06Look at that.
00:14:07You can't tell me that's not beautiful.
00:14:09We have, like, the second most active barry in the world.
00:14:12I'm so grateful that I live here.
00:14:14It's so pretty.
00:14:15Do you want to jump in?
00:14:17Okay.
00:14:17Come on.
00:14:17You know I can't swim.
00:14:19Don't play with me.
00:14:30You know what you need?
00:14:31Mm-hmm.
00:14:32Right?
00:14:33Coconut water.
00:14:34It's good for your brains.
00:14:36It's good for your soul.
00:14:37That sounds good.
00:14:39Watch out after what energy.
00:14:42This is Aviva's second full day in Belize, and we're here in beautiful San Pedro because
00:14:48I'm going to perform tonight.
00:14:51Yesterday, Aviva was accusing me of not being over my ex from Texas.
00:14:55But in the hotel last night, I do believe that I was able to calm her down.
00:15:01Amad, are you going to be so fine and watch her?
00:15:04Huh?
00:15:05Stop stressing.
00:15:05I'm sorry.
00:15:14We had sex three times.
00:15:16No protection again.
00:15:18We're risking it all.
00:15:19We're just going with the flow.
00:15:22How is it?
00:15:23It's good.
00:15:24Mm-hmm.
00:15:25Refreshing.
00:15:25You're out of this in the States, in Arizona?
00:15:27No, not like this.
00:15:33You excited about my show tonight?
00:15:36Yeah, I am.
00:15:38What songs are you singing at your show?
00:15:41Marry a daughter.
00:15:43You know, TMPM.
00:15:46Vicky.
00:15:50I am trying to have this romantic beach moment with Stig, but he mentions the song, Vicky.
00:15:57And I can't help but think of when my Aunt Spring brought up that rumor to me.
00:16:03They actually just did a big concert, like for Valentine's Day, the first song that was performed was Vicky, and
00:16:10she was at the concert, and they left together.
00:16:17So who is Vicky?
00:16:22The concept of Vicky is a girl.
00:16:26It's a girl I was messing with who had a man, and the man wasn't treating her good.
00:16:30She was married, and I was the little bartender showing her love, you know what I mean, on the side.
00:16:38So, is it someone you still talk to?
00:16:40Is it someone that you have a past with?
00:16:44No, no, no, no.
00:16:44I had a past with you.
00:16:45Yeah, that's a good one.
00:16:48So, my Aunt Spring, she knows a lot of people here, I've heard a lot of rumors that Vicky went
00:16:55to the, your last show with you, and you left the show with her, and I just, I'm confused, and
00:17:01I'm just hoping that you can clear some things up with me.
00:17:11Aviva's Aunt Spring, I never met her, I only heard about Aunt Spring.
00:17:15But apparently, she knows me better than I know myself.
00:17:18She, the Secret Service?
00:17:21I don't, nothing to hide.
00:17:23At the concert, I was there, with the bros, trying to make a good set, you know, trying to make
00:17:30sure the show members.
00:17:31But did you go home with her?
00:17:32No, I did not.
00:17:33Didn't go home with any girl.
00:17:37You don't believe me?
00:17:38Apparently, there was some article, or you were tagged in something, or she was tagged in something, um, of you
00:17:45guys going home together.
00:17:46So, I'm not really sure how I'm supposed to believe you.
00:17:48Belize isn't the fake news.
00:17:50Don't let get to your head.
00:17:56I'm definitely going to do my best to not be in my head about it, but you're apparently going to
00:18:02sing it tonight.
00:18:03How do I know she's not going to be there?
00:18:05That's one of my biggest songs in Belize.
00:18:06I can't not sing that.
00:18:08Yeah.
00:18:09You don't want me to sing the song?
00:18:10My biggest, one of my biggest songs?
00:18:13Yeah.
00:18:15Come on, don't do that.
00:18:20All of my exes, they start off saying, I'm not going to be jealous.
00:18:23I got you.
00:18:25But, I thought Aviva was going to be different.
00:18:29And now, I am worried how she's going to react when I perform, Vicky, when I do perform it.
00:18:35Tonight could, the whole thing up.
00:18:39I don't want that.
00:18:41If tonight is a problem, that's going to throw me off.
00:18:44I don't, you know, I don't know if I can deal with that.
00:18:47That's not what I signed up for.
00:18:51I mean, I'll do my best, but I just wouldn't feel more comfortable if you didn't perform, Vicky.
00:18:56That's all I can say.
00:19:08I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:15because you would want a green card and money.
00:19:20And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
00:19:34Do you think, like, I'm going to marry you for your money?
00:19:41That's what everybody else thought.
00:19:43Did you think that?
00:19:45Well, I don't know right now.
00:19:46I'm literally just hearing about most of this for the first time.
00:19:51Vicky Khan just told me that he's 50K in debt and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt
00:19:57and just ignore it.
00:19:58I'm frustrated and incredibly concerned because it's making me feel like he's just straight up using me to get out
00:20:07of his debt.
00:20:10You know, that's not who I am, actually.
00:20:15If I was someone like that, I would have lied.
00:20:19I would have never told you about my debt.
00:20:22You know?
00:20:26I know that.
00:20:27But I want to make sure that I'm making a smart decision when it comes to future plans, like getting
00:20:34engaged.
00:20:36I just got to hustle because money is money, you know?
00:20:43You know what?
00:20:44I'm ready to go.
00:20:45Okay, let's go.
00:20:46Let's go.
00:21:03What's going through your head right now?
00:21:07I'm pretty frustrated.
00:21:09He told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning.
00:21:13The debt is a big deal to me because he's talked about nothing but, like, honesty and pride and respect.
00:21:19And it's really hard to respect someone that's not outright and straightforward with the truth.
00:21:25I thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:21:32the beginning.
00:21:33And now I don't know.
00:21:38What are you doing?
00:21:41Washing the dishes.
00:21:47Why are you upset?
00:21:49I told you why.
00:21:50I'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did.
00:21:54Why are you mad?
00:21:56Ha, ha, ha.
00:21:56Don't be cute.
00:21:57That doesn't fix this.
00:21:59You think I'm cute?
00:22:01I'm not going to answer that right now.
00:22:03You've got to ask.
00:22:04No.
00:22:04You've got to ask.
00:22:05I do not have to answer.
00:22:07You've got to ask.
00:22:07You think me.
00:22:07Why are you mad?
00:22:08Stop.
00:22:09You...
00:22:17You think a couple of kisses will win me over?
00:22:21You think doesn't?
00:22:23Oh.
00:22:24I'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are.
00:22:28But this is probably all of the fantasies I had had kind of rolled into one in that moment.
00:22:35Having a hot Turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you, I don't know what
00:22:40it is.
00:22:41I just can't resist him.
00:22:43You're adorable.
00:22:44I know.
00:22:45That's why you love me.
00:22:47Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:22:49You are here.
00:22:51Oh, that's hot.
00:22:53Look, look.
00:22:55Little mole.
00:22:56Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:22:59This bougie chick.
00:23:01There ain't nobody sugared at him.
00:23:04I don't know why he act this way.
00:23:07It's like he assumes the worst.
00:23:09I'm already doing things for you.
00:23:12So why are you asking for more?
00:23:14Is that what you want me for?
00:23:29Get out of here.
00:23:33Baby, they didn't give me any kiss since this morning, so give me a kiss.
00:23:39I don't, watch out.
00:23:43Okay.
00:23:45You ready?
00:23:46Yeah, I'm ready.
00:23:48Okay, let's go.
00:23:55Oh, that was so tough.
00:23:57Why?
00:23:59Because we were packing all night, that's why.
00:24:06Yesterday was tough, but after we had argument about my ex, we went back to the hotel and we did
00:24:14makeup, sex.
00:24:17It was really good.
00:24:19I love sex after argument.
00:24:31I know that we still have trust issue to work through, but today we are going to a romantic trip
00:24:40that Rick booked for us in Noosie Bay.
00:24:43First flight together, baby.
00:24:45Noosie Bay is a really beautiful island.
00:24:49They do have loomers and a beautiful beach.
00:24:55If you have someone to spend time together, romantic, go there.
00:25:07Look how beautiful it is, right?
00:25:31Yeah, we are here.
00:25:33Oh, that is hot out.
00:25:35Really hot.
00:25:41Oh, it's nice and cool.
00:25:44Finally.
00:25:47Don't touch me, I'm hot.
00:25:50Oh my God, maybe are you serious?
00:25:54Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:03Hey, look, look.
00:26:06Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:26:11Here we go.
00:26:14Here we go.
00:26:15We'll see.
00:26:16I know you got expensive taste.
00:26:20You suck sheep.
00:26:24Please do it.
00:26:26That's cheap.
00:26:28This bougie chick.
00:26:29No.
00:26:31You serious?
00:26:33Yeah, I'm serious.
00:26:37There ain't nobody's sugar daddy.
00:26:51I don't know why he called me like that.
00:26:54Like you are a boozy girl Trisha.
00:26:57I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.
00:26:59And I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:02I got my own money.
00:27:04I don't know why he act this way.
00:27:06I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:09And it's like he assumes the worst.
00:27:13It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:16But I will never ask him for anything.
00:27:20Look.
00:27:26Oh, it's a nice room.
00:27:29Look.
00:27:32See what I set up for you?
00:27:35I don't care.
00:27:37You don't care, of course.
00:27:40Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:27:48So what are we here to do?
00:27:51Huh?
00:27:52I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:27:55Yeah, but your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:27:59Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:01You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:04Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:07You just say, oh, you act like a boozy.
00:28:09Oh, you act like I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:13Did I say that?
00:28:15You didn't say it.
00:28:16But you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:28:22I'm already doing things for you.
00:28:25Did I pay your rent?
00:28:26Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:28:28So why are you asking for more?
00:28:30Is that what you want me for?
00:28:34It's not what I want you for.
00:28:36But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:38It's not that much.
00:28:41I'm going to get you what you need,
00:28:43but I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:28:51So make it easy.
00:28:53Keep your money.
00:28:55See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:28:58I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:01So why did you come?
00:29:02Because I thought you were different.
00:29:04Hmm.
00:29:06So I thought also you were different.
00:29:10Hmm.
00:29:11What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:13Because that I'm not.
00:29:19I didn't expect something like this.
00:29:22I didn't expect something like this.
00:29:22I'm not with him because of money.
00:29:25I'm just with him for love.
00:29:27But I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:29:32It's crazy.
00:29:33I don't even.
00:29:39What were you expecting from me?
00:29:42You know what I do.
00:29:46So what were you expecting?
00:29:48What were you expecting?
00:29:50I know that well.
00:29:55I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:04I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:07That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:10What happened to that?
00:30:18Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:30:19I just want to look at them.
00:30:21Hello.
00:30:22Hi.
00:30:23Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:30:25I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:30:26You don't kill a chicken?
00:30:27I had chickens.
00:30:28They were my pets.
00:30:29They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:30:32Your chicken watch TV?
00:30:34Yes.
00:30:35Oh, my God.
00:30:39Sheena's family.
00:30:40They seem pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:30:44What were you expecting when you go here?
00:30:47Oh, this is going to be mind shattering here.
00:30:51Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:17I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:31:20You're such a gentleman.
00:31:23You treat me like a queen.
00:31:26I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:31:26I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:31:32I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:31:33I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:31:33So, that is a taxi?
00:31:36Yeah.
00:31:36Moilue.
00:31:38Moilue.
00:31:39Moilue?
00:31:40Yes.
00:31:42And that means what?
00:31:44It's taxiing.
00:31:45Oh.
00:31:45No.
00:31:50Is this where we're going?
00:31:52This.
00:31:53The market?
00:31:54I have always wanted to go to a market.
00:31:56I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:01This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:05This is nothing like the farmer's markets
00:32:08that I have been to.
00:32:12No one thinks the same.
00:32:16Let's go from here.
00:32:17OK.
00:32:19It kind of reminds me of a flea market,
00:32:21but a flea market with food.
00:32:23And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:32:27You can buy anything and everything.
00:32:30There are live poultry.
00:32:32There is dry fish, smoked fish.
00:32:35Hello.
00:32:36There are women doing hair right there
00:32:38in the middle of the market.
00:32:39It looks so beautiful.
00:32:44Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:32:45I just want to look at them.
00:32:47OK.
00:32:47Oh, my goodness.
00:32:49Ooh.
00:32:51Be careful.
00:32:52Like this.
00:32:53Hello.
00:32:54Hi.
00:32:55Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:32:57She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:32:59OK.
00:33:00I eat chicken.
00:33:01No, no.
00:33:01I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:02You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:03I had chickens.
00:33:05They were my pets.
00:33:06My chickens were spoiled.
00:33:08They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:33:10You're chicken watch TV?
00:33:12Yes.
00:33:13Really?
00:33:17Oh, my God.
00:33:20Bye, chicken.
00:33:22OK.
00:33:23Let's go.
00:33:24OK.
00:33:25I have to take you to the stars.
00:33:29I love fabric.
00:33:31Hello.
00:33:32Good afternoon.
00:33:33Good afternoon.
00:33:33Good afternoon.
00:33:33Beautiful.
00:33:35You're welcome.
00:33:36I would like you to check the one that will feed you.
00:33:38Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to wake up with you.
00:33:41He was there.
00:33:42You saw him.
00:33:47Smart.
00:33:50We have to pay him a visit.
00:33:53Why?
00:33:54Yeah, because, you know, my uncle have to approve.
00:33:57You know, he doesn't know you that much.
00:33:59So he will ask you some questions.
00:34:03I'm confused.
00:34:04What has he not given us approval for?
00:34:07He was very happy at the engagement.
00:34:23But I thought everything was said and done.
00:34:28I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:34:30I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:34:32That's just a proposal.
00:34:33In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:34:37This is Nigerian.
00:34:38I know.
00:34:39We have different cultures.
00:34:40We have different way of life.
00:34:42But you didn't warn me about that.
00:34:46You have to see you dress in traditional attire.
00:34:50Maybe one of the wrapper here.
00:34:53This?
00:34:54This one here.
00:34:55Yeah, this one.
00:34:56I love them.
00:34:59You know, my uncle love her.
00:35:00He likes good things.
00:35:02And this is colorful.
00:35:03Yes.
00:35:03This is the hair tie.
00:35:05You have to tie this one on your head.
00:35:07OK.
00:35:08Yeah, it's on the head.
00:35:11I'm confused.
00:35:13You're confused.
00:35:13You're confused.
00:35:14You're confused.
00:35:17OK, so it gets wrapped around.
00:35:20Yeah.
00:35:22And then it gets tied.
00:35:24Yeah.
00:35:24Just giving you the clue on how to tie it.
00:35:29I can't hear you.
00:35:30It's very loud.
00:35:34Oh, my gosh.
00:35:35How am I going to do this?
00:35:37I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:35:40I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:35:43And there's no way I'm going to remember how to do everything.
00:35:46Yeah.
00:35:47I don't want to look like a fool.
00:35:49I don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:35:52Very easy.
00:35:53Very easy.
00:35:54Yeah.
00:35:55It's nice.
00:36:00What should I expect?
00:36:02Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:36:05We have to cut it.
00:36:06OK.
00:36:07Yeah.
00:36:07We have to give it to a tailor.
00:36:10Oh, yes.
00:36:10I can cut.
00:36:11But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:36:15The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:36:21Because I'm too fat.
00:36:22Yeah.
00:36:23Let me cut it.
00:36:24I'm coming.
00:36:25All right.
00:36:26I'm too fat.
00:36:29Baby, you're not fat.
00:36:31You said you're fat.
00:36:31Yeah.
00:36:32Yeah.
00:36:33You're fat.
00:36:35I'm feeling awful.
00:36:36And I'm kind of taken aback.
00:36:38I have to meet his uncle.
00:36:40And I have to wrap myself up in two layers of this wrap,
00:36:44this big headdress.
00:36:45And I'm going to look fat.
00:36:48OK.
00:36:48Make your wrap, please.
00:36:54I have to try to impress his uncle.
00:36:56I have to try to impress his uncle.
00:36:56But what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:00What kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:37:03I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:37:09This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:37:11So I'm, I'm scared.
00:37:16You're welcome.
00:37:28I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage
00:37:33right in front of me.
00:37:38What the is Aviva doing?
00:37:51See, I'm outside in San Pedro on the main street walking holding hands.
00:37:56I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:37:59You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:38:10How you feeling?
00:38:11We good?
00:38:12I'm nervous.
00:38:13Won't be overthinking.
00:38:15Enjoy the show.
00:38:17Enjoy the entertainment.
00:38:18OK.
00:38:19I'm an entertainer, all right?
00:38:20All right.
00:38:21We good?
00:38:22Yes.
00:38:23All right.
00:38:25I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song.
00:38:29But listen, I'm still going to go and peace stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:38:33I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:38:37Ready?
00:38:38Semi-ready.
00:38:39Ready.
00:38:40I have to say it like me.
00:38:40No, you can't say ready.
00:38:41You can't say ready.
00:38:42Ready.
00:38:42Ready.
00:38:48Come on.
00:38:53That's good, brother.
00:38:57Trouble, man.
00:38:57I'm going to cheer, mother .
00:38:59All right.
00:39:00Aviva.
00:39:05Welcome to all the party people tonight.
00:39:08Sting the artist in the band.
00:39:13I'm super, super excited to see Sting performing for the first time.
00:39:19But I feel super nervous.
00:39:24I still have my suspicions to what Sting's manager in Ant Spring had to say about Sting
00:39:30and other women.
00:39:31I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him, at his shows.
00:39:37I don't know what to expect.
00:39:39All right.
00:39:41All right.
00:39:41Let's keep the artist.
00:39:43There's no money.
00:39:43Anybody from Belize?
00:39:44Make some money nice.
00:39:47League up to all the girls that came from far for this one, yeah.
00:39:51Like, yo.
00:39:53Yeah, yeah.
00:40:05I'm going to say, I'm going to marry your daughter.
00:40:07Can I have your blessings?
00:40:09That would be amazing.
00:40:11I know you think that I'm a bad guy, and I'm going to break her heart.
00:40:17What is that?
00:40:43I'm trying to enjoy myself, and I'm trying to be supportive.
00:40:46But he started playing Vicky after I asked him not to.
00:40:56Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl and flirting with her on stage
00:41:04right in front of me.
00:41:09It's just really hard to watch, and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:41:14Hey!
00:41:15Hey!
00:41:16Hey!
00:41:17Are you too pretty?
00:41:23Hey, are you too pretty?
00:41:25You too pretty?
00:41:27Are you too pretty?
00:41:29A little pretty?
00:41:30You too pretty?
00:41:33What is sticky?
00:41:34I'm not a wal'uuh pretty.
00:41:35Watch out.
00:41:36You know that you're pretty.
00:41:38You're brown skin, but you're here.
00:41:39I ain't doing no P.K.'s.
00:41:43What the is Aviva doing?
00:41:47I'm seeing a sea of people partying,
00:41:50having the time of their lives,
00:41:54and Aviva head down in her phone while I'm singing.
00:41:59This is not the behavior I want in my future wife,
00:42:01much less my girlfriend right now, like, come on.
00:42:09This is one of my favorite songs on the release, yeah.
00:42:29Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:42:32Oh, six for us. Yeah, yeah.
00:42:35One, two, three, four, five.
00:42:38What's up?
00:42:39I forgot.
00:42:40All of these songs I forgot.
00:42:43You're distracting me.
00:42:45I am so pissed.
00:42:48I can't even think straight right now.
00:42:55Ah.
00:42:57Make it round.
00:42:58Make the fufu to be round.
00:42:59How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:43:01Are you asking me?
00:43:03This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:43:05Call it very well.
00:43:07No.
00:43:07My uncle.
00:43:08No.
00:43:09Stop raising your voice on me.
00:43:11Call it again.
00:43:12He's pushing me really hard, and I'm getting angry.
00:43:15What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:43:17Can you stand up and walk?
00:43:18Let me see.
00:43:19You want to see me walk?
00:43:20Yes.
00:43:21Are you walking now, ma'am?
00:43:22Watch me walk.
00:43:23Come back.
00:43:24Come back.
00:43:43I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:43:48I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:43:56I got something to prove.
00:43:58Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:44:02No, no.
00:44:02You're not fat, baby.
00:44:03Come on.
00:44:05And I'm stressed.
00:44:08No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:44:09That's how stressed I am right now.
00:44:14Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:44:17I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:44:19I tried to quit, and I couldn't, and I am so frustrated with you.
00:44:26It's not funny.
00:44:29There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:44:32He wants my hair a certain way.
00:44:33He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:44:36I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:44:39He doesn't want me to vape.
00:44:42And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:44:45But I just found out I have to try to impress his wife.
00:44:48My uncle for the blessing, and I am feeling so much pressure
00:44:52of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:44:55So I'm stressing out, and I want my vape.
00:45:02He surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:45:06How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:45:10I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:45:12I'm from Ibo land, so we have to learn.
00:45:15And Ibo people, we have tradition.
00:45:18And if Lisa wants to marry me, she have to learn all this.
00:45:25Am I dressed OK for this?
00:45:27Yeah, I look good.
00:45:28I look good.
00:45:29Come on.
00:45:30It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture
00:45:33to impress my uncle.
00:45:38That may be the one.
00:45:40There's a traditional way of blessing by wine, OK?
00:45:43OK.
00:45:44You have to shake it.
00:45:45After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, OK?
00:45:49The ground must test it, must.
00:45:52Then pick it up again.
00:45:53Mm-hmm.
00:45:54Woman blessing by wine is a taboo.
00:45:57It's not good.
00:45:59Can I drink it?
00:46:01Yes, you can test it.
00:46:02But it's very strong.
00:46:04It's very strong.
00:46:05OK, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:46:09Oh.
00:46:16Yes, sir.
00:46:17It's cassava.
00:46:18Did you pound it?
00:46:19Did you pound it?
00:46:20It's pounding.
00:46:20Oh, OK.
00:46:21Pounded one, OK.
00:46:22Mm.
00:46:24Oh, you eat.
00:46:27OK.
00:46:28You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:46:31Good.
00:46:32I've done so much research about fufu.
00:46:35It is fermented cassava.
00:46:37I learned how to roll it.
00:46:39I learned you flatten it.
00:46:40I learned you dip it.
00:46:41So I'm prepared.
00:46:42And I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:46:45Try it, try it, try it, try it, try it.
00:46:49It's.
00:46:51Ew.
00:46:53Ew.
00:46:57Did I do it right?
00:46:59You didn't boil the fufu.
00:47:00You have to boil it.
00:47:01You just swallowed it.
00:47:03B boil it again.
00:47:06All right.
00:47:08Dip your hand.
00:47:10Ah.
00:47:11Make it round.
00:47:12Make the fufu to be round.
00:47:14How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:47:16Are you asking me?
00:47:17Yes.
00:47:19Ah.
00:47:24This is really good.
00:47:25This is ahaha soup.
00:47:27I can just eat that.
00:47:28Good.
00:47:29I need a spoon.
00:47:30Use your hand.
00:47:31I am not going to eat soup with just the fufu.
00:47:33Use your hand.
00:47:34Dip your hand inside the soup and take it.
00:47:37Look, baby.
00:47:42I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me.
00:47:46But I didn't think he'd be so forceful about it.
00:47:49I am in the nursing field and I work in caregiving.
00:47:54I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:47:57It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:48:00It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers, and
00:48:06lick them dry.
00:48:07That's no.
00:48:08That's just nasty.
00:48:10I think he's being very rude.
00:48:13Um, have you taken your power wine?
00:48:15No.
00:48:18Can you taste it?
00:48:19No.
00:48:22No.
00:48:22No.
00:48:22Go on, go on.
00:48:24Test, test.
00:48:28You have to respect this to me.
00:48:30I did.
00:48:31I tasted it.
00:48:37Do you know what we call it in our dialect?
00:48:39No.
00:48:40My ampou.
00:48:41My ampou.
00:48:42Eh?
00:48:42I can't say that.
00:48:44What does it mean?
00:48:44My ampou.
00:48:45My ampou.
00:48:46Oh.
00:48:48Call it very well.
00:48:49My ampou.
00:48:50No.
00:48:51You drink it.
00:48:52You respect it.
00:48:53You respect it.
00:48:53No.
00:48:54Well, shit, I'm at all yours on.
00:48:55Stop raising your voice on me.
00:48:57All yours on.
00:48:58Call it again.
00:48:59Hey.
00:49:00Uh-uh.
00:49:00Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:49:02Eh?
00:49:03Relax.
00:49:06I'm done talking to you.
00:49:07I'm, I hope you're not drunk.
00:49:11What is that?
00:49:12I thought you're drunk.
00:49:13I took one sip.
00:49:15It doesn't matter.
00:49:16Um, just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:49:19No, I'm not.
00:49:19You're the one who's changing.
00:49:20Look at you.
00:49:21Put it down and talk nicely.
00:49:24This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:49:27I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:49:33But he's being rude to me.
00:49:35What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:49:37Can you stand up and walk?
00:49:38Let me see.
00:49:39Let me see.
00:49:40You want to see me walk?
00:49:41Yes.
00:49:41Are you walking no man?
00:49:43Watch me walk.
00:49:44You're walking no man.
00:49:45Oh, come back.
00:49:46Come back.
00:49:46Come back.
00:49:47Watch me walk.
00:49:48Watch me walk.
00:49:48Come back.
00:49:50Oh.
00:50:01For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:50:06But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:50:10I don't recall that.
00:50:11What's your job?
00:50:13The importance you have pants, you know?
00:50:16To help her.
00:50:19Well, always.
00:50:41Are you ready to go?
00:50:42Yeah.
00:50:43It's already late.
00:50:45I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:50:56I think that's the boat right there.
00:50:58We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:51:01Last night was really rough.
00:51:03We got in this big argument.
00:51:07I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:51:12to buy her stuff.
00:51:13I'm not here for that.
00:51:16We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:51:18So eventually, we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:51:24Oh, my God.
00:51:27But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:51:33Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:51:37You're welcome.
00:51:37Wow, baby.
00:51:47So beautiful.
00:51:49Today, we took the boat to an island called Nosy Oranja.
00:51:53This place looks like paradise.
00:51:56I see crystal blue waters.
00:51:58A sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:52:04It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and be sad.
00:52:09You know, take some strolls along the beach.
00:52:15I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:52:19Thank you so much.
00:52:23Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:52:26Oh, I know.
00:52:28Seriously?
00:52:29No.
00:52:30I wouldn't have learned a skill like that.
00:52:33We put it there.
00:52:35Like, you see?
00:52:35Oh, man.
00:52:36That's cool.
00:52:36And you can walk.
00:52:37Oh, what?
00:52:39It's not going to fall?
00:52:41No.
00:52:41That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:52:43You got like a nest up there.
00:52:45No.
00:52:46You can do it.
00:52:47All right.
00:52:47Here we go.
00:52:48Here we go, baby.
00:52:52I'm here to find my future wife.
00:52:55And I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:52:59Let's go.
00:53:00She has a presence that's so captivating.
00:53:04It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:53:07Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:53:09Let me see.
00:53:10But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:53:17a future.
00:53:18Oh, my God.
00:53:19It's hot.
00:53:19I want to sit down.
00:53:23Man, baby.
00:53:24What?
00:53:26This is beautiful.
00:53:27Mm-hmm.
00:53:29I'm so glad that we're here.
00:53:30It was a rough night last night.
00:53:32Yeah.
00:53:35I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:53:45I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich.
00:53:52So I'm not asking a lot.
00:53:54Just you through my needle and that's it.
00:54:00I think when you were asking me for things, then that, you know, kind of triggered some things that I've
00:54:07gone through in the past.
00:54:09Don't you?
00:54:11Just past relationships, and I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want to
00:54:21be with me anymore.
00:54:23I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:54:30Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:54:35I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Chini, for seven years.
00:54:40Chini is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:54:45I think Chini had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide.
00:54:51And it caused a lot of issues between us.
00:54:54That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:55:01You run without money.
00:55:04I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:55:08But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs.
00:55:13That's it.
00:55:13That's what I'm asking.
00:55:16You know when you bring me to your suitcase, I have to let everything in here.
00:55:23My life, my job.
00:55:26Yes, I know that.
00:55:27Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:55:34That's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:55:36A promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:55:39I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:55:44That everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:55:49My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:55:54With you, it's different.
00:55:58The way you talk, the way you give me affection.
00:56:02I love that.
00:56:07You think that I'm enough for you?
00:56:09Yes, you are.
00:56:10You are enough.
00:56:14That means a lot to me.
00:56:16And I love you.
00:56:17That's why I want our relationship for you.
00:56:22This is what I want too, baby.
00:56:27You ready to go have some fun?
00:56:29Yeah, I want to get in the water.
00:56:31Yeah, let's go.
00:56:33I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:56:40That's what I need to feel.
00:56:43Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:56:50I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:56:56But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:57:03We're finally getting into a good place.
00:57:06But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:57:11I really don't know how to tell her.
00:57:13But eventually, it needs to come out.
00:57:20Do you love me?
00:57:22Of course, baby.
00:57:38The fruit is ready.
00:57:42Just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:57:45Just in time. Perfect.
00:57:46Yeah, thanks.
00:57:47Good stuff.
00:57:48We hope you enjoy this.
00:57:50This is our native food.
00:57:51Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:57:57That sounds awesome.
00:58:00Dinner is served.
00:58:11You see how it works in America, or in my culture, we normally start with the oldest, and we go
00:58:16down the line.
00:58:18Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:58:20Oh, I am the biggest.
00:58:22We go by size here.
00:58:24Okay.
00:58:26I just met Sheena's family, and so far, they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
00:58:32For the last 70 years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her awfully.
00:58:38And now, I'm hearing they are decent people.
00:58:42I feel confused, but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena, and then go
00:58:51from there.
00:58:55So, how's your travel here from America?
00:58:58It was long, and it was hard.
00:59:01But I got to see my Sheen for the first time.
00:59:06And finally, yes.
00:59:08Finally.
00:59:09I'm curious, though.
00:59:10What were you expecting when you go here?
00:59:13Oh.
00:59:15I was expecting, um...
00:59:21Well, I was expecting...
00:59:25It's kind of hard to even say.
00:59:28You know, my mom's under the impression that I might be walking into a scam.
00:59:40Every, I know, there's, in every place, there are scammers, no?
00:59:45A lot of scammers.
00:59:46She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
00:59:48Prove her wrong.
00:59:50Prove her wrong. That's the rest thing.
00:59:51That's it.
00:59:55How'd you guys feel when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:00:03Yeah, I thought, finally, because it's so long, we're not really sure if we're gonna meet you in person.
01:00:13No.
01:00:13I have to say, a lot of it had to do with finances.
01:00:18I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:00:20No.
01:00:23Just eat, babe. Enjoy your meal, okay?
01:00:29Um...
01:00:29But the question is, uh...
01:00:32I don't recall it. What's your job?
01:00:37Yeah.
01:00:40So...
01:00:40This is kind of going to be mind-shattering here.
01:00:45I'm unemployed right now.
01:00:51I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:00:54Disability for what?
01:00:56So, I have, uh, autism.
01:00:58I have problems talking with others.
01:01:01Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:01:08So, that's enough for you, for your daily life?
01:01:12It covers, it covers everything in my life right now.
01:01:15But I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:01:22But, I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:01:28Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:01:29And I was hoping I could get your blessing.
01:01:42Well, Forrest...
01:01:43Of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:01:50So, without any funding, how will you survive, you know?
01:01:55The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:01:58Yeah.
01:01:59Probably job, no?
01:02:00I have the energy.
01:02:02I have the drive.
01:02:02I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:02:06I'm going to be working full-time.
01:02:08And, yeah, be support for her.
01:02:12I prefer that Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable
01:02:17because it's the guy's obligation to support a wife.
01:02:24And, Sheena also is, you know, she's very helpful, you know?
01:02:30There, you know, so, talagang hindi mawawala sakin'yan.
01:02:51Oh.
01:02:53How has she been, uh, doing that?
01:02:55Sometimes, if we lack funds for her, you know, she would help us, you know, pay, like that, you know?
01:03:02Oh.
01:03:03I understand.
01:03:06Yeah.
01:03:06Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:03:12My mom and dad, they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:03:20We're looking forward to it.
01:03:22It's going to be a blast.
01:03:25I should be happy that I got their blessing, but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with
01:03:30me.
01:03:31What I've seen, it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:03:38The way she described her family, the way they live, the whole money situation.
01:03:43The story is not adding up.
01:03:45And I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to come in and going to think everything has been
01:03:54a lie this entire time.
01:03:56She's going to basically flip out.
01:04:09Michael, I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:04:15So, you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:04:20Yes, you heard me right.
01:04:23This kind of changes my thinking a little bit, and I'm in a...
01:04:26About him?
01:04:27No.
01:04:29No.
01:04:36Morning, Doc.
01:04:37Bye.
01:04:40Take care, take care.
01:04:45Yeah, I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:04:55I knew I killed it, but I forgot my lyrics, middle throw.
01:05:00my mind, but...
01:05:01Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:05:03I'll always be hard on myself.
01:05:04It's okay.
01:05:07I'm so tired.
01:05:09It's been such a long night.
01:05:10Yeah.
01:05:12We're just getting back to the hotel from Stig's performance, and I felt a little uncomfortable, but I think I
01:05:21did well.
01:05:22I knew I had to hold it together and just push my feelings to the side.
01:05:29My feet are killing me.
01:05:31You want to give me a foot massage?
01:05:34Maybe.
01:05:37Maybe.
01:05:37Mm-hmm.
01:05:41I had a good time.
01:05:42I thought you did really well.
01:05:47So, did I handle it okay? Like...
01:05:53You guess?
01:05:55You guess?
01:05:57What'd I do?
01:06:00How does this girl think that she handles this well? Like, how?
01:06:06You're mad at me?
01:06:09Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:06:13She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.
01:06:16I'm boiling inside.
01:06:19And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:06:25Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:06:28When you were on your phone.
01:06:30Texting.
01:06:32Mm.
01:06:34Mm.
01:06:38Oh, no.
01:06:39It wasn't like that, like...
01:06:41It should hurt my feelings.
01:06:43Being on my phone?
01:06:44Yes, the , not the right time for that.
01:06:46You weren't even watching. You were...
01:06:48Yes, I'm literally performing.
01:06:52Singing to you.
01:06:55I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:06:59It wasn't intentional.
01:07:01But...
01:07:02He was dancing with another woman in front of me.
01:07:04And he played Vicky even though I asked him not to.
01:07:08So...
01:07:08It's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song.
01:07:12It wasn't even a big event.
01:07:13I just feel like it's not fair.
01:07:22Sorry.
01:07:23Hi.
01:07:23I don't have anybody out here.
01:07:25Like, you have to understand that there is all these girls on stage with you.
01:07:28So I'm gonna talk to my people.
01:07:30I'm gonna text my friends.
01:07:32I can do that.
01:07:32I can do what you want.
01:07:34Cool.
01:07:36To me, that's .
01:07:39You're supposed to be on my team, a part of my team.
01:07:43That dude did not hype me up.
01:07:45Kinda killed my vibe, actually.
01:07:47That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.
01:07:49I was just distracted.
01:07:52They keep talking about these other girls, this.
01:07:54These other girls having fun, hyping me up.
01:07:56And my girl is there just...
01:07:58on her phone.
01:08:01It's my first time in a situation like this.
01:08:04There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:08:05I just...
01:08:06I felt awkward.
01:08:07I didn't feel confident.
01:08:08And I just wanted...
01:08:09You really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:08:14Anyways.
01:08:16I'm disappointed.
01:08:17Maybe I need a...
01:08:21I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but okay.
01:08:27BRB.
01:08:29BRB.
01:08:29BRB.
01:08:31BRB.
01:08:31BRB.
01:08:34I'm kind of at a loss because I am trying my best to not get super jealous, not overreact.
01:08:43But apparently, I didn't do a very good job.
01:08:50I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy, he might just break up with me.
01:08:56I don't want to scare him off, but part of me is terrified that I already have.
01:09:14We are in the middle of nowhere.
01:09:16There is dog.
01:09:19I don't like dogs.
01:09:21Why?
01:09:22Because you got bit...
01:09:23They beat me or bark me.
01:09:26Bark at you.
01:09:28Bark at me.
01:09:29Okay.
01:09:30No, you're fine.
01:09:31My English is...
01:09:32Your English is perfect.
01:09:34Reboot.
01:09:35Reboot.
01:09:45Last night, I found out that Birkan has an immense amount of debt.
01:09:51And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:09:56But I have put a lot into this relationship, so maybe I just need to give it a little bit
01:10:02more time to see how red the red flags actually are.
01:10:08Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:10:10I don't know.
01:10:16There's lots of evil eyes.
01:10:18Yeah.
01:10:19I like that tree full of them.
01:10:22Today, my plan is taking Laura to the Nazarca.
01:10:26I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:10:31And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:10:44When you hear it, it's like something bad.
01:10:48But it is not.
01:10:49It is for good luck.
01:10:59When people see you, if they get jealous about you, thoughts about you...
01:11:04The evil eye consumes, thoughts, and protects you.
01:11:13Perfect.
01:11:14Oh, you did it!
01:11:16I got one!
01:11:17Aynen, aynen.
01:11:18Ben çıkartayım bunu.
01:11:20In Turkey, everybody believes that superstition because, you know, people need to believe something.
01:11:28Not me.
01:11:28I'm into reality, actually.
01:11:31But I know that Laura, she loves crafting, so she will enjoy.
01:11:36Susie, please.
01:11:41Oh, that's cool.
01:11:42It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:11:44I suck at every talent thing.
01:11:48No, you don't.
01:11:49Yeah, I am.
01:11:50Check at this.
01:11:50I have no talent.
01:11:52No, it's good.
01:11:53Now you just roll it.
01:11:53It has a tail.
01:11:58And it just broke.
01:12:01Apparently, I suck at evil eye beads.
01:12:05Yeah, he does.
01:12:06It just makes me angry.
01:12:08I can't even get it out.
01:12:10But this is part of life, you know?
01:12:12Sometimes I can suck.
01:12:16Enjoy the moment.
01:12:23All of the evil eye stuff.
01:12:25Yeah.
01:12:25Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:12:27Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:12:29Is that something that your family taught you?
01:12:31Your parents taught you?
01:12:31Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:12:32They taught me.
01:12:33Okay.
01:12:36We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:12:38Yeah.
01:12:39Usually, we kind of dance around that topic.
01:12:41And I'd like to know more about them.
01:12:45We never had a good relationship.
01:12:49Do you see them very often?
01:12:52No, actually.
01:12:54My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:13:04Birhan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:13:09We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:13:13So hearing that Birhan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:13:20My family already doesn't approve of this.
01:13:23And it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel like everything is against us.
01:13:32Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:13:37I don't know.
01:13:39But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:13:47person.
01:13:49My family is my friends.
01:13:52I understand that.
01:13:55For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know.
01:14:00Michael.
01:14:07I don't want you to be too close with him.
01:14:10Because I don't trust him.
01:14:14Also, I don't like him.
01:14:16Well, he is very important in my life.
01:14:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:14:34So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him?
01:14:41No, actually, it's not an ultimatum, you know.
01:14:44What is it then?
01:14:45You're going to choose me.
01:14:49This is the point.
01:14:50We are thinking about marriage.
01:14:52When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:14:57And yes, you heard me right.
01:15:03I don't like that.
01:15:05He's just my friend and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:15:09He can't.
01:15:10This is relationship.
01:15:13This is the one who you get married, not some activity buddies.
01:15:22I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:15:26But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:15:30it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet.
01:15:36And I really don't like.
01:15:38This kind of changes my thinking a little bit.
01:15:41And I'm in a...
01:15:42About him?
01:15:43No.
01:15:46He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:15:49Hmm.
01:15:50So, why don't you think a little, you know, I just get some air, maybe.
01:15:58Or some peace.
01:16:00I don't know.
01:16:05I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:16:13It's super disrespectful to me, especially when I've tried to be very understanding with a massive amount of debt that
01:16:24he revealed to me.
01:16:27This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:16:35I'm out of the way he talked to me.
01:16:37The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:16:39No.
01:16:40No.
01:16:41He's not gonna do that.
01:16:42And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:16:47Oh, shh.
01:17:02I'm mad.
01:17:04And he better come and apologize.
01:17:05And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:17:08I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:17:10The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and .
01:17:13No.
01:17:13No.
01:17:14He's not gonna do that.
01:17:15He's not gonna shake his hand in front of my face.
01:17:18Let me go.
01:17:19Okay.
01:17:22Where is my woman?
01:17:39Gosh.
01:17:44Baby, why are you here?
01:17:48Why are you talking to me like that?
01:17:50You raised your voice.
01:17:52You put your hand in my face.
01:17:53No, I gave you .
01:17:55I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:17:57That's why I did like this.
01:17:59It makes someone .
01:18:00I took two sips.
01:18:01I don't wanna...
01:18:02I'm not even gonna drink it anymore.
01:18:03Even a drop can make someone go...
01:18:05Then why are you drinking it?
01:18:06Why did you order it?
01:18:07I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:18:11.
01:18:13And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:18:16I am an American.
01:18:17Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:18:20I know.
01:18:20You came to Africa.
01:18:21You came to Nigeria.
01:18:22So what?
01:18:23Don't raise your voice.
01:18:24Oh, come on.
01:18:25How can I raise my voice?
01:18:26I'm a beautiful queen.
01:18:27Come on.
01:18:27You are raising your voice on me.
01:18:29I'm sorry, okay?
01:18:30No.
01:18:32Come and eat.
01:18:33Are you gonna be nice?
01:18:36I've been nice always.
01:18:37Let's go.
01:18:38Come and eat your food.
01:18:41Huh?
01:18:42My queen.
01:18:43That's your little girl.
01:18:44No.
01:18:45Don't put your arm around me.
01:18:47No.
01:18:48The most beautiful queen.
01:18:49No.
01:18:53I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:18:56This is our first full day together, and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:19:00The way he's behaving is giving off warning signs.
01:19:03I don't like it.
01:19:06I'm sorry.
01:19:08I'm a little nervous.
01:19:09My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:19:12I told him that you're a Christian.
01:19:14I am a Christian.
01:19:15Good.
01:19:16We don't smoke.
01:19:17So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:19:20You're not allowed to.
01:19:21I'm trying to quit.
01:19:23So should I tell my uncle that you don't pay?
01:19:25No, you don't talk about it at all.
01:19:29I don't want to be a liar.
01:19:32In my family, we don't tell lies.
01:19:36We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:19:40Let me ask you this.
01:19:41Okay.
01:19:42If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:19:49How's this?
01:19:58You told me you are a man who can make his own decisions.
01:20:00Yes.
01:20:01I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me without a blessing that you can't marry me.
01:20:06Yes.
01:20:07I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:20:11In my family, we have one of our, the way we do our things.
01:20:15And I want everything possible to make sure that my uncle gave us blessing.
01:20:20That's my concern.
01:20:21And that's, and the vaping is the only thing that you're very concerned about?
01:20:25That's your biggest concern?
01:20:26Yeah.
01:20:31Are you worried?
01:20:33I'm thinking.
01:20:34Thinking of what?
01:20:37Daniel is so worried about the vape, but that seems really small compared to all the other things that Daniel
01:20:45doesn't know about me.
01:20:46I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:20:49I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me.
01:20:52And even if he accepted my past, once I reveal my secrets to him, is he going to have to
01:20:56tell all of his family that I've only been with women for the past 21 years?
01:21:00And that I'm still married?
01:21:02If we tell his uncle about that, I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:21:07I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:21:14We're here, huh?
01:21:16Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:19So cute.
01:21:20Maki Maki.
01:21:22Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:21:24Yeah.
01:21:24It'll be worth it if I can bring a step mommy home.
01:21:27But I want to have my own.
01:21:30If he decided does not want to have kids, I don't know if I could be with him.
01:21:36You want what you don't want.
01:21:41Now that I'm in person with my husband, he's giving me trust issues.
01:21:46Remember what you promised me before you came down here.
01:21:50I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:21:53So, can I see your phone?
01:21:57Now?
01:22:00Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:22:04Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:22:08Ben söyleyeyim.
01:22:10Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:22:14I don't want to make things bigger.
01:22:16Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisini büyüyecek bence.
01:22:20Wait.
01:22:21What did she think?
01:22:24Oh, yes.
01:22:25Moment of truth.
01:22:28Man.
01:22:30This is so beautiful here.
01:22:32Holy .
01:22:33Well, would you look at that.
01:22:36Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money, that they're going to starve.
01:22:42Tonight, we'll get the truth machine up.
01:22:45She told us if she didn't give the money, that you would mistreat her.
01:22:52Did you say that?
01:23:00You are not an Igbo woman.
01:23:03I want to know Igbo more.
01:23:04You are not an Igbo woman.
01:23:05The child is an, question andacht.
01:23:05Can thinkin
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