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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 9
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00:00:00Maki Maki.
00:00:02Maki Maki.
00:00:03Yes.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:06I feel honored you are there,
00:00:08introduce me to your family.
00:00:11If you don't want to have kids,
00:00:13they won't give the blessing.
00:00:16This trip is very important,
00:00:18but before we meet her family,
00:00:20I have to tell Trish about spending time
00:00:23with my ex in Colombia.
00:00:24I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:00:29Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
00:00:34Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
00:00:37Kanka, kumar oynamaya devam ettiğini biliyor musun?
00:00:42I gamble every day.
00:00:44Every opportunity I have.
00:00:46What?
00:00:53I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
00:00:59You don't practice it anymore?
00:01:01No, sir.
00:01:03Do you lie?
00:01:05I am not a liar, uncle.
00:01:08Okay.
00:01:09I will give you guys my blessing.
00:01:13I am thrilled.
00:01:14I have the blessing.
00:01:16But I feel guilty of all hell.
00:01:18Because I am lying.
00:01:24On our second anniversary,
00:01:27you forgot this is your thing.
00:01:30Being unromantic.
00:01:32I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:33Like, making sure your lights is on
00:01:36because you're at home
00:01:37and then I'm working.
00:01:39I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:41Every time you do something for me,
00:01:42you throw it to my face.
00:01:44From now on,
00:01:45I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
00:01:51You're lying about...
00:01:52Okay, the difference between Ziad and I.
00:01:54Why are you...
00:01:55Everything I've said...
00:01:56I know, but I'm speaking.
00:01:57Everything I've said...
00:01:59When I'm talking, you should listen to me.
00:02:00I do respect you, but...
00:02:01You're so disrespectful.
00:02:02You are, you are, you are, you are.
00:02:07No, no, no.
00:02:08Zero percent.
00:02:09So you're saying in this very moment,
00:02:11you see zero percent chance
00:02:12of me being your wife?
00:02:13I need more time to know you.
00:02:15And you need more time.
00:02:16But you're at zero?
00:02:38Emma, I need to sleep.
00:02:39I'm so terrified.
00:02:41No comments.
00:02:42No talking.
00:02:43So there's zero percent chance
00:02:45you want to marry me?
00:02:45Are we not going to discuss it?
00:02:48I want to just sleep.
00:02:49Zero percent, Ziad.
00:02:50So that's what you're feeling right now
00:02:52about us.
00:02:53Zero percent.
00:02:54And I don't know why you would say that
00:02:55in front of your friends
00:02:56when it's like my first time meeting them.
00:02:59Do you not think that's disrespectful
00:03:01to talk to me like that
00:03:02as a friend?
00:03:03Disrespectful is
00:03:04when someone speaks,
00:03:05we have to listen to him.
00:03:06I listened.
00:03:07All I do is listen to you.
00:03:08No, no, you didn't.
00:03:09You are always difficult.
00:03:10You can't...
00:03:11I'm always difficult?
00:03:12Let me speak.
00:03:13How am I difficult, Ziad?
00:03:15You've said one thing to me online
00:03:17and then I get you...
00:03:18I don't hear nothing what you say.
00:03:18No, you just speak.
00:03:19So you don't care about my feelings
00:03:20that I'm upset right now?
00:03:22No, no, no, no.
00:03:23Okay, Ziad.
00:03:24You can go to sleep.
00:03:25Okay.
00:03:26So good night.
00:03:28I say good night.
00:03:29Okay.
00:03:50I have some tea for you.
00:04:06This morning, I woke up
00:04:08and I'm just almost at my breaking point.
00:04:10I came all the way to Morocco
00:04:12and I've given this relationship my all
00:04:15and to hear that Ziad is 0% sure
00:04:17of having a future with me,
00:04:19I'm just confused.
00:04:21Before I came to Morocco,
00:04:23he showed me an engagement ring
00:04:25saying that it was here and waiting for me.
00:04:28I spent thousands of dollars to come here
00:04:31just to be sitting here right now with Ziad
00:04:33and then for Ziad to be saying he's 0% sure,
00:04:36I really feel like I deserve some answers.
00:04:40So how are you feeling after, like,
00:04:42what happened with your friends last night?
00:04:45They gave us their opinions.
00:04:47Yeah.
00:04:49And I felt good to see them too.
00:04:52I mean, it was nice to meet your friends
00:04:53and I know that they have a lot to work on,
00:04:57but before I got here,
00:04:58you made it seem like we were ready to be engaged
00:05:02and then I meet your friends
00:05:02and you're like 0% sure.
00:05:05It makes me feel like we're never going to get married,
00:05:08we're never going to get engaged.
00:05:09This whole trip was a waste of my time
00:05:11and money that I don't have
00:05:14and I'm basically here for, like, no reason.
00:05:18I say it's 0% for the moment.
00:05:22It's like, why now?
00:05:24You don't understand me, so...
00:05:26But how am I not under...
00:05:27I understand what that means,
00:05:28so what am I not understanding about that?
00:05:30In your mind.
00:05:31Do you realize everything you said about me
00:05:33since I got here has been negative?
00:05:38It seems like you're always mad at me.
00:05:39I'm always doing something wrong.
00:05:42Like, when we were talking online,
00:05:43you were always so nice and cute and sweet.
00:05:45I would send me nice messages
00:05:47and, you know, say all these, like,
00:05:49cute romantic things
00:05:50and then since I've gotten here,
00:05:52it's been like...
00:05:53You're, like, mad all the time.
00:05:56Am I the girl that you want to be with?
00:06:03Yeah.
00:06:08And all these things you said, it's right.
00:06:12I'm sorry for that, really.
00:06:17I want you to enjoy here with me.
00:06:21So, for me now,
00:06:24I would be so nice.
00:06:28Okay.
00:06:31At this moment,
00:06:32I don't know if I will marry here or not.
00:06:36I'm a good wife and a good woman.
00:06:41Emma, I know her inside her.
00:06:43She's special.
00:06:45She's so sweet.
00:06:46Yeah, maybe I have been to her own here.
00:06:50I believe there is something between us.
00:06:53So, from now, there is no fights.
00:06:56No fights.
00:07:00Aw.
00:07:04You can come here.
00:07:08This feels nice, babe.
00:07:11This is the very first time
00:07:13that I felt any physical chemistry between us
00:07:16and I feel like things are slowly progressing with the end.
00:07:21Very slowly.
00:07:24Extremely slowly.
00:07:26But, yes, they are progressing.
00:07:29And I'm hoping that this is just a really good sign
00:07:31that we're moving forward.
00:07:33I think we have a lot to work on.
00:07:36But, I think we'll be okay.
00:07:39Just with time,
00:07:40everything will be good.
00:08:02My head hurts.
00:08:04It itches.
00:08:05The glue is like bubble gum right now
00:08:10stuck to my head.
00:08:21This has been on for about a week.
00:08:23This is the absolute longest I've ever had it on.
00:08:26I've only ever slept with it overnight once
00:08:28and it wasn't even on for 24 hours.
00:08:31My head hurts.
00:08:32It's time.
00:08:33I have to take it off.
00:08:34I mean, it's...
00:08:35It's...
00:08:36It's awful right now.
00:08:38I've never been this nasty before.
00:08:41in my life.
00:08:42I have been in Nigeria in the heat for days
00:08:45and I have yet to change my wig.
00:08:49No matter how much you pull,
00:08:51it's not going anywhere.
00:08:53So, I don't even know how it's going to feel
00:08:55coming off of my head, actually.
00:08:58Ow.
00:08:59It actually hurts.
00:09:01Oh.
00:09:05It hurts.
00:09:06It's stuck to my hair.
00:09:09My head itches.
00:09:10I have headaches.
00:09:11My scalp hurts.
00:09:13I have sores.
00:09:14I feel them growing.
00:09:15I see the redness around where my wig cap is.
00:09:19I need to take it off.
00:09:21It's time.
00:09:26Oh, my God.
00:09:29Oh, it itches.
00:09:35I have some sores on the side of my head
00:09:38where the glue was.
00:09:41I hate to say this,
00:09:43but the wig actually has an odor to it right now
00:09:45from all the sweating.
00:09:47I've been keeping my wig on
00:09:49because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
00:09:52But I need to feel the air touching my scalp.
00:09:58It just feels so incredible.
00:10:00It feels so light and airy.
00:10:03And it's not itchy anymore.
00:10:06At this moment, I don't care what Daniel feels
00:10:08when he sees me.
00:10:10I'm not putting the wig back on anytime soon.
00:10:14God, I've gone through so much in these last few days.
00:10:17And it's not just my hair.
00:10:19We got the approval from Daniel's uncle to be married.
00:10:23But I feel like it was under false pretenses.
00:10:28I don't know what to feel about his uncle.
00:10:31I think if he had known how many women
00:10:33I had actually been with,
00:10:35I wouldn't have gotten the blessing.
00:10:37I mean, it's 21 years of being with women.
00:10:42On top of that,
00:10:43I've been so nervous to speak to my daughter, Faith,
00:10:47because I promised her
00:10:48I wouldn't get engaged to Daniel
00:10:50until after I revealed
00:10:52all of my secrets.
00:10:54But yesterday,
00:10:55I finally ripped off the Band-Aid.
00:10:58We started leaving the airport,
00:11:00and there was a festival in the street
00:11:02with African dancers and music playing.
00:11:05It was for me.
00:11:07Daniel planned a festive parade for me.
00:11:10You're sending him money all the time,
00:11:13yet somehow he's able to buy a whole parade?
00:11:18I don't know.
00:11:19I don't know.
00:11:22And there's more.
00:11:24What else?
00:11:26Um, he dropped to his knee,
00:11:30and he pulled out a ring.
00:11:32And I was kind of stuck,
00:11:33so I shook my head, yes.
00:11:37You're awfully quiet.
00:11:39Um, I don't know what to say.
00:11:42Why would someone do that on the first day?
00:11:44Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:11:47At this point, it's beyond love bombing.
00:11:50It's like,
00:11:51kill love, Nuke.
00:11:53Oh, my God.
00:11:53Ma, this isn't good.
00:11:55You've been lying since day one of the relationship.
00:11:59The other thing I personally have an issue with
00:12:01is you haven't asked Daniel
00:12:03about the women he's been with.
00:12:07You know he's been with tons of women.
00:12:09You know he's a playboy.
00:12:11How could you let all this slide
00:12:13and just blindly agree to marry him?
00:12:18As far as Faith is concerned,
00:12:20a lot of what she said
00:12:21is actually weighing on my brain.
00:12:25Um, I'm thinking a lot about it.
00:12:29I've been so focused on my past,
00:12:31and what I've been keeping from Daniel,
00:12:33but Faith is right.
00:12:35Daniel hasn't been forthcoming about his past
00:12:37or even other women he's been with.
00:12:41There's been lots of things with Daniel I've let slide,
00:12:44and maybe I should be asking him more questions about it.
00:12:48Daniel said that we are going to meet up
00:12:50with his friends tonight,
00:12:52and I'm excited.
00:12:53I'm hoping that his friends can shed some light
00:12:55and share some stories about who Daniel actually is.
00:13:03Daniel just texted me.
00:13:09Let me gather some laundry up.
00:13:12Oh, God.
00:13:13I have no idea what he's going to think about me.
00:13:17Daniel makes me feel like the most beautiful,
00:13:20special woman in the world,
00:13:21but he's used to seeing me wear my wig.
00:13:25At home, I don't wear my wig 24-7,
00:13:28seven days a week.
00:13:34So if he's going to marry me,
00:13:36he has to get used to it.
00:13:49Hey.
00:13:51Oh, wow.
00:13:53Daddy.
00:13:55Oh, my God.
00:14:00I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:14:04Oh.
00:14:07I think it's stupid.
00:14:09It's not even sexy.
00:14:11I don't know.
00:14:12I'd rather walking naked.
00:14:15Oh.
00:14:17Oh.
00:14:17Oh, no.
00:14:18That sounds like a plan.
00:14:22I'm so frustrated.
00:14:25Sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines,
00:14:27and I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:14:31I don't want to do this right now.
00:14:36It's hard to be with him.
00:14:40How much more of this I could take, I don't know.
00:14:52Anna, why are you so emotional?
00:14:56Something you will never understand,
00:14:57because you don't have that.
00:15:09Well, I mean, I don't know what to say.
00:15:12Because no matter what I say, you know,
00:15:14if I apologize, that's not going to be good enough.
00:15:17You know?
00:15:19So I don't know what to do in this situation.
00:15:36The argument started about me saying you're not romantic.
00:15:42It has nothing to do with money.
00:15:44But you have to remind me every time we argue
00:15:51about what you do for me,
00:15:53and you throw it to my face.
00:15:55And I feel like it's so unfair,
00:15:57because you want to be a provider,
00:15:59but at the same time,
00:16:00you're always using it as an ammunition.
00:16:06Where did all this go wrong?
00:16:09Just, you're unbelievable.
00:16:29I didn't want to bring up my role in the marriage,
00:16:35but sometimes I feel like I'm not being appreciated.
00:16:43Sometimes I feel like if I bring it up,
00:16:45she might come around and say,
00:16:47hey, you know, he does a lot for me.
00:16:49Maybe I should just be a little bit nicer.
00:16:51But obviously, that doesn't work.
00:16:54You know, I would definitely want things
00:16:56to be a lot more peaceful between us,
00:16:58but sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines
00:17:01unintentionally.
00:17:03I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:17:08I'm so frustrated.
00:17:18All right.
00:17:21I'm not going to bother you.
00:17:25I'm just...
00:17:26I'm going to take a shower.
00:17:28I don't want to do this right now.
00:17:40I don't really know what's going on in his head, honestly.
00:17:44I am not one of these masogenistic
00:17:47and, you know, masculinity type thing.
00:17:49And it's really confusing
00:17:51because it sounds like it's teaching traditional stuff,
00:17:56but at the same time,
00:17:58traditional ghosts like the man provides.
00:18:00And I'm not even asking for much.
00:18:03I'm not even a woman that you have to spend a lot.
00:18:08Just because I'm, you know,
00:18:10I'm not providing as much as he provides monetary
00:18:13doesn't mean I'm not doing my part.
00:18:22Just, it's hard to be with him.
00:18:29I've been patient so long.
00:18:34That was my contribution.
00:18:36I stayed all along.
00:18:41But sometimes, he just doesn't get me.
00:18:45He knows what sets me off.
00:18:48He knows what hurts my feelings.
00:18:51He knows what offends me.
00:18:54So, we argued a lot before online.
00:18:58This is just more different.
00:19:00I'm just not used to it, like, arguing in person.
00:19:05We've never been together before, so...
00:19:10But then, how much more, like, of this I could take?
00:19:15I don't know.
00:19:15It's annoying.
00:19:16I'm just enjoying it.
00:19:31Whoo-hoo!
00:19:33Baby, I hope there's no sharts in this water.
00:19:35There is.
00:19:36Oh, hell no.
00:19:37But that's fine, they're nice, Ray.
00:19:40Oh, hell.
00:19:41There's no such thing as a nice shark.
00:19:43Malagasy shark is mad.
00:19:46Hey.
00:19:59Here we are.
00:20:02Woo!
00:20:05Where is this place?
00:20:07It's a little bit of a hike up, but it'll be worth it in the end.
00:20:12Believe me.
00:20:14We only have a few more days left of island hopping
00:20:18before we have to head out to meet Trisha's family.
00:20:21It's beautiful up here.
00:20:23There's a lot weighing heavy on my mind
00:20:26after our conversation about meeting her dad
00:20:29and all this pressure about having to have kids.
00:20:34But right now, I'm just trying my best
00:20:37to stay focused on being in such a beautiful place.
00:20:42Why you have to be up?
00:20:43It'll be worth it once we get up there, honey.
00:20:46Oh.
00:20:48I got us the most incredible place to stay
00:20:51on a very secluded part of Nosy Kumba.
00:20:55It's totally off grid, and I just love the privacy of it.
00:21:00I see it now, babe.
00:21:01I'm really excited for her to see it
00:21:05and to show her how romantic I can be.
00:21:08All right.
00:21:10We're here, baby.
00:21:12Whoo!
00:21:13Our own private quarters, baby.
00:21:16Ha ha ha!
00:21:17Ha ha ha!
00:21:17Baby, yeah!
00:21:18Ha ha ha!
00:21:20Ha ha ha!
00:21:21Ha ha ha!
00:21:21Yeah, baby.
00:21:22Oh, my God!
00:21:23Ha ha ha!
00:21:24You like it?
00:21:25Yeah!
00:21:26Come here.
00:21:26Let's check it out.
00:21:27Oh, my God.
00:21:32We can't even see all of this.
00:21:35You see the whole island, baby, is here.
00:21:38Ha ha ha!
00:21:39I'm really surprised.
00:21:40Have you ever seen a place like this before, baby?
00:21:42I've never.
00:21:44OK, let's explore here.
00:21:47And be careful, baby.
00:21:49Watch your step here.
00:21:50We got our own little waterfall and private pool.
00:21:54Oh, my God.
00:21:57I've never stayed to a place like this before.
00:22:01I'm really surprised.
00:22:03It's very beautiful, the view, the house.
00:22:09I'm living here, but I didn't know that a place like this
00:22:14could exist in Madagascar.
00:22:17I did this for you, honey.
00:22:19Beautiful bed.
00:22:21What?
00:22:21I love the bed.
00:22:22It's for you.
00:22:23I got another little surprise for you.
00:22:27What is it?
00:22:30Here we go.
00:22:32I got us a couple of jungle costumes.
00:22:34Let's hope we run around the jungle here.
00:22:37Let me see.
00:22:38There you go.
00:22:39This is yours right here.
00:22:40Oh, my God.
00:22:40You serious?
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:42I was hoping you'd want to try it and spice things up.
00:22:46I'll put mine on and you put yours on.
00:22:49OK.
00:22:51Role playing is something that I recently got into,
00:22:54and I just think it's something fun to do.
00:23:01Playing as if I'm king of the jungle and chasing her around.
00:23:05I mean, it's hot.
00:23:08I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:23:14Oh, baby.
00:23:16You look beautiful.
00:23:17I am, seriously.
00:23:20Come on, baby.
00:23:21You look sexy, baby.
00:23:22Let's just go run around and just act a fool.
00:23:27What?
00:23:28What?
00:23:28What is this?
00:23:30I think it's stupid.
00:23:31It's not even sexy.
00:23:33I don't know.
00:23:36Baby, it's a wrong thing.
00:23:37Come on.
00:23:38I got your score on the jungle.
00:23:41Why have they been into it?
00:23:44It's like crazy fantasy.
00:23:46But I'm doing it because Rick did a lot to organize this trip.
00:23:52So I'm willing to give it a try to make him happy.
00:23:59You're my fantasy girl.
00:24:01But the way I'm dressing, I don't know.
00:24:04I'd rather walking naked.
00:24:07Oh!
00:24:09That sounds like a plan.
00:24:12Let's walk naked.
00:24:13Yeah!
00:24:14No!
00:24:16Come on, baby.
00:24:17Nobody's gonna sing.
00:24:18It should be Adam and Eve.
00:24:22Come on, baby.
00:24:45Do you have your own name?
00:24:47How could I not be?
00:24:49That's what I'm laying next to.
00:24:55We had a wonderful night.
00:24:57The way that she was holding me tight and bringing me in.
00:25:02I feel so connected to Trish.
00:25:05But in the back of my mind,
00:25:08I feel guilty because I know that I've held back for too long now.
00:25:17Time is getting close to when we go to meet her family.
00:25:22I don't want to take such a serious step without telling her about my ex.
00:25:28And so I think that she needs to know the truth.
00:25:37It's so cool here.
00:25:39That's nice.
00:25:41Yeah!
00:25:43What a view, Jesus.
00:25:46Yup.
00:25:47It's a beautiful view, baby.
00:25:50The last few days have been wonderful, I think.
00:25:53It's been like a dream.
00:25:56Yeah.
00:25:58I'm happy.
00:26:01Baby.
00:26:05There's something that I've been keeping from you.
00:26:11You make me afraid.
00:26:12I don't know what you...
00:26:16Explain yourself.
00:26:21I don't know how I should do this.
00:26:23I don't know what words to say
00:26:27that's going to make it be a forgivable act.
00:26:34I'm worried that she'll want to end things
00:26:37and I'll never see or hear from her again.
00:26:44Just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:26:52What do you mean?
00:26:58Can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:27:01Do you want the truth?
00:27:03Yeah.
00:27:05When the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:27:08I find another way to pay that debt.
00:27:11I'm sorry.
00:27:13That's fine.
00:27:15But I'm sorry.
00:27:17But I'm sorry.
00:27:17Yeah.
00:27:18But that's what I want.
00:27:18I don't know if you want to, yeah.
00:27:23I don't know what to do it.
00:27:27I love it.
00:27:27I love it.
00:27:32Good morning.
00:27:36I love it.
00:27:43I've been in Turkey for almost a week now, and it's going okay.
00:27:51We've had some difficult conversations about his debt and my friendship with my best friend Michael.
00:27:58And then last night I got to meet Birkan's best friends, and they kept having conversation in Turkish,
00:28:06and I can't help but feeling like they were keeping another secret from me.
00:28:14I don't know. I don't know what to be excited about.
00:28:18I don't even know what to pack.
00:28:22Last night, Birkan told me that we're going on this surprise romantic getaway,
00:28:27and I'm honestly having mixed feelings about it.
00:28:33I am incredibly nervous at the thought of a romantic getaway right now.
00:28:38I'm learning about his debts and the issues that he's having with jobs and money.
00:28:45And maybe I'm wrong, but it comes across to me as manipulative.
00:28:48You're trying to win me back over with something sweet.
00:28:52Like, I don't like that. I just don't like the timing of it.
00:28:56But it also could be a good thing that we're getting away right now,
00:29:00because maybe we'll have more time to, like, process and be in a more lovey state.
00:29:07So, we'll see.
00:29:16Good night.
00:29:17Good shade.
00:29:21I'm not sure I packed my airbrush for this.
00:29:24That's going to be a problem.
00:29:26You don't need to brush your hair.
00:29:27I will need to brush my hair while I'm here, yeah.
00:29:29I think we will find a fork and we will...
00:29:32A fork?
00:29:33Yeah.
00:29:33I'm not the little mermaid.
00:29:35You are.
00:29:38I think she needs some spice in life, you know?
00:29:43And I am the spice in her life.
00:29:45So, this is my Spicing It Up project number one.
00:29:57I didn't realize we were going to be right on the water.
00:30:00This is amazing.
00:30:02I like the view, you know?
00:30:03This is incredible.
00:30:04Cheshme, it is a romantic place, you know?
00:30:07It's peaceful.
00:30:08There is sea.
00:30:10Perfect place to reconnect.
00:30:12Wow.
00:30:13I didn't know there was a castle here.
00:30:15Do you want to visit there?
00:30:16I would love to visit there.
00:30:17We will go up and up and up and up again.
00:30:22I am so ready.
00:30:24I still have to tell her about my gambling.
00:30:29My friends are right.
00:30:31I can just keep a secret for the rest of my life.
00:30:34But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:30:37If you're ready, let's start our tour.
00:30:41I've always wanted to visit a castle.
00:30:44I feel like I get to be the princess now in the castle.
00:30:48Yeah, I'll always be a princess.
00:30:50When do I get to be the princess?
00:30:51I have no idea.
00:31:05Oh my God, hold on.
00:31:07Is this a bathroom?
00:31:09What?
00:31:10Is that a bathroom?
00:31:11No.
00:31:12I feel like that's a bathroom.
00:31:14Cheshme is incredible.
00:31:16It's really old and it's just beautiful.
00:31:19This is like exactly what I was envisioning when I was talking about coming to Turkey.
00:31:24Would you take our picture?
00:31:26Yeah, of course.
00:31:33Are you enjoying your day?
00:31:35I am enjoying my day.
00:31:36I couldn't have asked for a better surprise.
00:31:38Seriously.
00:31:39You know, I always try my best.
00:31:42I know.
00:31:43Because I care about you and I love you.
00:31:46I know you do.
00:31:48You know, we're still thinking about marriage.
00:31:52You still think about it.
00:31:53I still think about it.
00:31:54We didn't decide what are we going to do.
00:31:56And you have a lot of questions.
00:31:58So what are you wondering?
00:32:01I know you're wondering.
00:32:04Well, I guess I know it's hard to have conversations that can feel personal and embarrassing.
00:32:12But can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:32:19Back then I had places.
00:32:22Back when?
00:32:222019 and 2020.
00:32:24Okay.
00:32:25I had my first shisha bar.
00:32:29I take a loan from a bank.
00:32:32Then I bought my second place.
00:32:34After that, I opened my third place.
00:32:38Okay, so you had three places?
00:32:39And all of them is big.
00:32:42I was earning.
00:32:44But when the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:32:48I sell my car, sell my house, sell my places.
00:32:52I sell everything I have.
00:32:55Yeah, I worked like daily jobs and things.
00:32:59But sometimes I worked full one day, 24 hours.
00:33:03And I get paid $40.
00:33:06It's useless, so I find another way to pay that debt.
00:33:14How is that even possible?
00:33:20Do you want the truth?
00:33:23Yeah.
00:33:26I gamble.
00:33:28A lot.
00:33:34How often are you gambling?
00:33:37If I have money, I gamble.
00:33:40So, actually, it could be every day.
00:33:51I took it off so it could breathe.
00:33:54I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful
00:33:56and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:33:58I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:34:01It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me
00:34:03right now or something.
00:34:04You don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:34:06No.
00:34:08No.
00:34:22No.
00:34:24No.
00:34:27Are you all right?
00:34:30Good morning, sir.
00:34:30Mm-hmm.
00:34:40Good morning, sir.
00:34:44Good morning, sir.
00:34:46Hey.
00:34:47We're just packing.
00:34:48Since this is your last day at Misibis Bay Resort,
00:34:52the resort prepared a breakfast for you too, ma'am, sir.
00:34:55Oh, thank you.
00:34:56Yeah, sure.
00:34:57Let's go.
00:34:59It's the last morning of our honeymoon,
00:35:01and we're going to Cavite, you know, where she lives.
00:35:05But me and Annalena are still not talking.
00:35:12My strategy after last night, just to give her space.
00:35:19Every time we fight, he has this habit of, you know,
00:35:23silent treatment that he gives me,
00:35:26instead of, you know, talking it out and fixing things.
00:35:34Before we met in person,
00:35:36if we don't talk for a few days,
00:35:38it was normal because we are in a long-distance relationship.
00:35:42Ooh.
00:35:43But I just can't believe we're doing this right now,
00:35:47and we're in the same room together physically.
00:36:08Do you want to talk about last night?
00:36:13You know, clearly we had problems, you know,
00:36:15because you're hard on me a lot of the times,
00:36:18but providing for you is not easy.
00:36:22And I believe that, you know, it's my duty to do that.
00:36:26But when I'm telling you that, like, I'm not trying to, like,
00:36:31throw it in your face, I basically want you to just cut me a little slack.
00:36:35It's like, what you're saying is, because I'm provide, you gotta be soft.
00:36:40Because if I react a certain way, you're uncomfortable with my emotion.
00:36:45Anna, I don't bring it up to say, hey, look, look what I did.
00:36:48So shut up.
00:36:49You know what I'm saying?
00:36:50Like, that's not what I'm trying.
00:36:51That's exactly what I feel.
00:36:52Maybe I'm just, like, not translating it right to you.
00:36:55But the way I view it is, it's like, look, you know, Anna, I work hard to do X, Y,
00:36:59and Z.
00:37:00So, you know, I want a light bulb to come on and be like, you know,
00:37:03my husband works really hard, so I'm gonna make sure his day is positive
00:37:07when I talk to him on his break for 15 minutes.
00:37:10But no, you're nagging me all the time.
00:37:13You don't think how that makes me feel, like, sometimes?
00:37:16Like, when somebody's constantly criticizing you,
00:37:19when they're supposed to be on your side?
00:37:24But it's not easy being your woman, putting up with your tantrums, stubbornness, whining.
00:37:34It takes a lot of patience to be with you.
00:37:39I know some women would have been, would have given up already.
00:37:46All I hear is, like, you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
00:37:52I mean, you tell me I'm a downer.
00:37:55You tell me I'm not romantic.
00:37:57I mean, Anna, you're this perfect picture,
00:38:00and I'm this project that you're working on.
00:38:05So, do you regret, like, marrying me?
00:38:35Hey.
00:38:37Oh, wow.
00:38:39Daddy.
00:38:45Oh, my God.
00:38:58Let's get money out of the ATM.
00:39:00And then I want to go for a walk.
00:39:03Or a while.
00:39:08What?
00:39:10What's wrong?
00:39:13I took it off so it could breathe.
00:39:19It was itchy and hot, and I've worn it for quite a while.
00:39:25And you didn't tell me you're taking it off?
00:39:27No, I didn't tell you I was taking it off.
00:39:35I was astonished when I saw her.
00:39:38It's embarrassing.
00:39:40She looks older.
00:39:43I didn't believe she's, Lisa used to know.
00:39:47If we are going to be together, she have to wear her wig.
00:39:51She's not gonna go with her short hair.
00:39:54Thank you so much.
00:39:56I want her to miss my friends tonight.
00:40:00But if she don't wear the long hair, my friends will be embarrassed.
00:40:04My friends will judge her.
00:40:13What?
00:40:15What?
00:40:16Like you wish I would have had it on to go out?
00:40:19Yes.
00:40:20Because you know it's a wig, and I need to be natural sometimes.
00:40:24It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now or something.
00:40:28I'm not embarrassed, but...
00:40:34My hair needed to be washed, and my head needs to air out, babe.
00:40:38Why didn't you stay inside when it dries?
00:40:41You wear it before coming out.
00:40:46So you don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:40:48I'm not saying you're not pretty, but I love the long hair.
00:40:51Well, I don't have long hair. I have short hair.
00:40:59I'm hurt, and now I feel ugly, and I feel unwanted and unloved.
00:41:05I want to go back upstairs and just cry.
00:41:07I don't even want to look at him.
00:41:09I want to be away from him.
00:41:13You have to be wearing your wig when we are missing my friends or missing people.
00:41:17Okay?
00:41:19I mean, I can't wear it all the time.
00:41:22I'm not saying that all the time, but when we are going out to meet friends, families,
00:41:27where is?
00:41:29You're being rude.
00:41:31You don't understand.
00:41:32I was very scared for you to see me without my wig.
00:41:37Sorry.
00:41:37And I want you to feel that I'm beautiful without it just as much as I am with it.
00:41:42You are.
00:41:42You're always beautiful.
00:41:44Okay?
00:41:44You are.
00:41:46I would hug you.
00:41:48You're mine, always.
00:41:54I don't feel he means it.
00:41:56I was hoping Daniel wouldn't say I look beautiful and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:42:00I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:42:04I don't know.
00:42:05I have so many questions, but I have to get answers.
00:42:08And I'm hoping tonight with his friends I'll get some.
00:42:11Because right now I'm starting to see red flags and cracks where I never did before.
00:42:24What's going on?
00:42:27We were getting along really well, getting really flirty.
00:42:32And we made out.
00:42:36I was feeling so like lonely and abandoned.
00:42:40I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:42:43You have sex with her.
00:42:46Did you?
00:42:58No, just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:43:03You make me afraid.
00:43:04I don't know what you...
00:43:08Explain yourself.
00:43:25You remember those five days that you weren't talking to me?
00:43:35Why you bring up five days?
00:43:37What's wrong with five days?
00:43:38I already explained everything, so what's the problem now?
00:43:44The problem isn't that.
00:43:46It's what I did.
00:43:48What...
00:43:51What's wrong?
00:43:53I'm trying to tell you now.
00:43:57You make me afraid.
00:43:58Say, Riko, I don't know why you hesitate.
00:44:00What's wrong?
00:44:04When you...
00:44:05When you weren't talking to me, I...
00:44:10I started talking to my ex.
00:44:17She was like the only one that, you know, was there to...
00:44:21to listen to me.
00:44:23So, I decided to book a trip, going to Columbia, to be with my ex.
00:44:36I mean, I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned, I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:44:43What?
00:44:46You would have sex with her.
00:44:48Did you?
00:44:54Yes.
00:45:07I'm sorry, baby.
00:45:10I...
00:45:11I messed up.
00:45:12I know I did.
00:45:15I regret what I did.
00:45:17I regret what I did.
00:45:18But this is something we can work through, baby.
00:45:21Shut up, Riko.
00:45:22It was a mistake.
00:45:23Shut up.
00:45:28Maybe I...
00:45:29How?
00:45:32Rick, how could you do that to me?
00:45:35We were together.
00:45:35We were there.
00:45:39Maybe you weren't there.
00:45:42And I told you, after a couple of days, I said, if I don't hear from you, then I'm gonna
00:45:47assume that it's over, that you don't want me anymore.
00:45:50And I still didn't hear from you until a couple of days after that.
00:45:54And by then, I had already booked a flight there.
00:46:03I did reply to your messages.
00:46:05I did reply to your call.
00:46:07And I even told you, I'll call you when I'm free.
00:46:11You told me that you would call me when you get back from the police station.
00:46:16I wouldn't hear it from you.
00:46:17I would call you, and then you said that I was stalking you.
00:46:20That sounds like to me that you didn't want to be with me.
00:46:24Why did you wait, like, for a long time to tell me?
00:46:27Why?
00:46:29Why?
00:46:30Because I wanted us to build something together.
00:46:33I wanted to share, you know, precious time with you.
00:46:40Maybe you just still love that girl.
00:46:43No, no.
00:46:45It's over.
00:46:47It's over now.
00:46:48I swear I'm not talking to her anymore.
00:46:51I haven't had any contact with her.
00:46:55I thought you were different.
00:47:00That I can trust you.
00:47:02You even promised me there, like, I won't hurt you, Trisha.
00:47:07I'm not like your ex.
00:47:08And what you did?
00:47:09Guess what?
00:47:11Same thing.
00:47:12It's the same.
00:47:14You cheated.
00:47:19Jesus.
00:47:20I thought you were a good guy.
00:47:23I am a good guy, baby.
00:47:24You can't, you can't, you can trust me, baby.
00:47:27It's different now.
00:47:29We've met in person.
00:47:30We've consummated our relationship.
00:47:32We have a stronger bond now.
00:47:33Don't, don't you see that?
00:47:35No.
00:47:38Can't we just start from, from there?
00:47:41Can't we just start from, from the day that we first touched?
00:47:46I'll never talk to you.
00:47:48Baby, can't we just start from?
00:47:49Baby.
00:47:50No.
00:47:50Shut up.
00:47:51Don't call me baby.
00:47:52Shut up, Rick, shut up.
00:47:52Maybe we look at relationships differently.
00:47:55Shut up.
00:47:58Where are you going?
00:47:59I don't care.
00:48:01Oh, f***.
00:48:02Ow.
00:48:31Babe, what are you cooking?
00:48:32I want to I want you to go to the roof and wait for me yeah all right so see
00:48:39you there okay babe
00:48:42Emma and I we feel ourselves like we forget problems and we start refreshing again from
00:48:48the beginning I never cook for my girlfriend before so I feel nervous to cook for Emma
00:49:00I want it to be perfect babe you can just put it there babe this is so cute thank you
00:49:13babe
00:49:14you look so nice thanks babe you look very handsome tonight what did you make yeah what do you think
00:49:20inside here tagine so I hope you will like it let's see oh that actually looks very good
00:49:29so as muslims people when we want to eat anything yeah we say bismillah mm-hmm like bon appetit yeah
00:49:37to
00:49:39you
00:49:43mmm so good it's fine if you eat it or no no so good
00:49:50thank you for doing all this I love the sweet side of you because that makes me feel like you
00:49:53actually
00:49:54like love me yeah it's because I feel it it's you feel romance in the air we're passing this period
00:50:03of fighting something good I don't believe one day you will be here to eat dinner with me I feel
00:50:09so so
00:50:12happy to see you here especially it's like a dream and unreal what's what's the word we can't say it's
00:50:19real unreal I was very sweet babe look at you being so romantic today I'm happy to be here too
00:50:29yesterday it was 0% right now it's 7% so it's only at 7 now it's slowly slowly step
00:50:41by step we can't be
00:50:42like 0% and 50% no what percent do you need to actually get engaged 100 exactly and you're
00:50:53only
00:50:53at 7 right now it's just numbers wait time it will be more than 200 all right on a scale
00:51:02from zero to a
00:51:03hundred percent how much do you love me why are you always looking for the town he says because I
00:51:08need
00:51:08to know I always say 70 70 percent it's okay so you you love me more than if you're sure
00:51:18you want to
00:51:19get engaged yeah because engagement it's a big thing okay you see all right but you love me at 70
00:51:25mm-hmm okay that's good you know what would have made this dinner a hundred times better some dessert
00:51:34mm-hmm mm-hmm so you want to go to desert huh you want to go to desert you say
00:51:40desert dessert
00:51:42deserve not the desert ah dessert deserve yeah like ice cream but yes I do want to go to the
00:51:53that's funny because when we talked the first time you told me you never see a camel you are here
00:51:59right
00:51:59now in marcus and I know it's your birthday tomorrow so I plan to take you to the desert
00:52:04it will be nice oh me I'm excited that's like my dream to go to the desert and ride a
00:52:12camel yeah yeah
00:52:14I think it's really sweet that Ziet is planning this desert trip for the both of us I know that
00:52:20he's only at seven percent but I only have two weeks left of my trip and I'm really hoping that
00:52:26a romantic getaway outside of the city will speed things up what do you wear to ride a camel pants
00:52:46I'm in a good mood we're packing up and we're going to like a romantic getaway in the desert
00:52:51and it's my birthday so happy birthday to me yep and then there's more what's going on we were
00:53:00getting along really well getting really flirty and he came into my room and we made out and then we
00:53:13had
00:53:13six twice so I finally got all the physical touch I've been wanting and it felt really good and it
00:53:27was nice I would say it's like a normal it's like average size it's nothing crazy but it's not teeny
00:53:35tiny
00:53:36it like it fits in your hand that's like the best way to describe it I could deal with it
00:53:41but I think he's
00:53:44really worried about how people are going to view him especially because he is Muslim and like his religion and
00:53:50everything but I had to tell someone I feel like after having sex we were in like a perfect place
00:53:59he was being just so much
00:54:01nicer to me and he was like telling me how much he loved me and how much he cared about
00:54:04me and how like he does
00:54:06want a future with me so with the way the last night went I could really see a proposal and
00:54:15I think
00:54:15hopefully he changed his mind and he's feeling just as sure as I am I do feel better now that
00:54:23we finally
00:54:24did have sex I think this means that we're getting a lot closer but he still doesn't know about the
00:54:30whole Mohammed situation I know that he does have questions about everything and I feel like if I'm
00:54:37going to be that serious about him and our relationship I don't want there to be any
00:54:41secrets I don't want to lie to him about anything my friends and family have kind of warned me that
00:54:45once
00:54:46he finds out about Mohammed he's probably going to break up with me that's the last thing that I want
00:54:51to happen but I know that I'm going to need to tell him sooner rather than later
00:55:01come on a wine for me
00:55:11do you look handsome I like this on you
00:55:16you really do you look really awesome wine you look beautiful that's Tony which you know
00:55:21we're gone now I'm giving her the time of her life for me come on a wine for me
00:55:31I will teach you how to say thank you I will teach you is important I want to know how
00:55:37to say thank you
00:55:38thank you thank you thank you going without my wig for the first time in front of Daniel
00:55:47was a very vulnerable experience for me and Daniel didn't respond the way I had hoped putting the
00:55:56wig back on today was horrible and now he's responding to me like I'm the most beautiful
00:56:02creature on earth yet again does he not love me for who I am I'm thinking about what face said
00:56:09and I'm
00:56:09starting to question what Daniel's intentions really are I'm a little nervous is there anything I should
00:56:17know you don't have to be of us because they're my friends I know them very well that's why I
00:56:23invited
00:56:23them they're my friends I know they're your friends but they're not my friends and I'm going and they're
00:56:28gonna judge me but needless to say I'm gonna judge you through them Daniel tonight is taking me to meet
00:56:37his friends and his cousin and I'm hoping they can shed some light on a few things about Daniel
00:56:45Daniel and I don't talk about our past relationships that's why mine has never been mentioned because I
00:56:50every time I tried to talk to Daniel he shuts up he doesn't talk about his past at all so
00:56:56meeting his
00:56:57friends is a great opportunity to know more about Daniel and understand who he is
00:57:27so this is a Emmanuel and this is a judge
00:57:31George yeah this is lovely happy to witness this event today honestly honestly we are so happy
00:57:42Lisa is older than Daniel she might not be his type I think he has fully see Lisa and I
00:57:50think
00:57:52he's comfortable with us she will make a good to go I know him when I was there when I
00:58:03was about 11 years
00:58:04oh my goodness no you know where I'm from very poor family I'm wearing good clothes today is because of
00:58:11her
00:58:11wow you can tell I know him as someone that has only one pair of shoe really yeah you didn't
00:58:19tell me
00:58:20these things um I was afraid I used to wear um just a pair of shirts with some eye openings
00:58:26on the on the
00:58:27buttocks is that true really so without her I don't know where I would be today
00:58:35do you know why the relationship is perfect why do you know why no because you have transformed this life
00:58:50well it's not easy I have to say it's not easy helping Daniel
00:58:56I work 15 hour days seven days a week that's how Daniel is changing because I'm working the hard times
00:59:05and it concerns me because he doesn't share much of his past with me I want to know more about
00:59:13your
00:59:13old life baby kids okay so I do have a question was he very popular with ladies oh he's a
00:59:27handsome guy
00:59:31woman loves me so much but that was the past yes I've not bring any woman I've not brought any
00:59:38woman
00:59:38in my family in the name of getting married to the woman you know that's when when Daniel came at
00:59:47me
00:59:47on social media out of the blue I thought he was a scam artist I thought he was fake I
00:59:53did not think he
00:59:54was real so I didn't totally trust Daniel for a little while it took me it took him a minute
01:00:00to
01:00:00get me to trust him the thing is I'm just surprised that he's only been with me since December and
01:00:08he's
01:00:08already proposed honestly thank God that he's the one let me just say you've helped him in different
01:00:15areas and he's just like an angel who came to his life all I'm hearing right now is I am
01:00:24Daniel's
01:00:25savior he is a new man it's giving me a bit of a pause you know there's something that happened
01:00:31before I came to Nigeria that Daniel hasn't been able to explain to me he has been sincere to you
01:00:40he
01:00:40has been honest he is truthful you seem to be sweating a little bit over this I have to sweat
01:00:48because I don't know you just need to have trust yes but the thing is Daniel was talking to another
01:00:56girl on social media at the same time he was talking to me be honest because I will walk out
01:01:07if
01:01:07you're not are we going to have more debt more financial problems because you can't stop gambling
01:01:17for Valentine's Day I sent you money did you gamble that yeah
01:01:32you regret like marry me
01:01:53no I mean it seemed like you had to think about it for a minute no I love you it's
01:01:59just that I want
01:02:00you to you know like I guess I want you to be more like positive I just want you to
01:02:07overlook the
01:02:09negativity you're making me feel uncomfortable like you're not enjoying your time with I'm enjoying
01:02:15the time makes me feel really did you see me yesterday when I was doing this yeah but I couldn't
01:02:21fit you're doing
01:02:22doing all the things that you have to do but you always have to leave a remark look I can
01:02:30promise you this I'm gonna do my best to not you know throwing your face about what I do in
01:02:40the marriage
01:02:43like provide for you and I promise you not to be so negative but I mean can you make me
01:02:52a promise and just ease up on me a little bit cut me a little bit of slack
01:03:00I actually feel bad when you feel bad when you feel guilty I feel like sometimes I act I overreact
01:03:09to things I just really want to have a good time please
01:03:13well I do too but I feel like you always look constipated like
01:03:18because I'm always being get my ass chewed out like it's just like you're like this you're one
01:03:30oh my god boo it's so sunny today yeah
01:03:35thank god stop raining I thought we'll be stuck in the room the whole time
01:03:43I don't want you to get too comfortable because it's still might rain oh my god
01:03:47you don't say that
01:03:49you jinx it
01:03:50you have to try it with cheese
01:03:53I mean but don't you think that's a weird combination
01:03:56if you're going to rate it one to five
01:03:58probably a two
01:04:00a two?
01:04:01yeah
01:04:01really?
01:04:06just a 90 year old man
01:04:08in the last stages of his life
01:04:11basically that's how you're making me sound
01:04:14so we good?
01:04:17all right
01:04:20yes we made up right now
01:04:22but because of the last few days
01:04:26I kind of worried about the future
01:04:30we struggled to get along during our honeymoon
01:04:33how are we going to get along for the rest of our lives?
01:04:37come here come sit on my lap
01:04:40come
01:04:42we've been together six years
01:04:44in a long distance relationship
01:04:46and now that we're finally
01:04:48get to be together physically
01:04:51you see everything
01:04:53about your partner
01:04:55and I hope that
01:04:58Jovan and I can take all the good
01:05:00with the bad
01:05:01but right now
01:05:03I don't know
01:05:07I so sweat
01:05:08I don't know
01:05:24how often are you gambling?
01:05:26if I have money
01:05:27I gamble
01:05:30so actually
01:05:31it could be every day
01:05:38is gambling
01:05:39part of all of this debt
01:05:41no
01:05:43I'm still
01:05:44trying to pay
01:05:45but
01:05:45that is why
01:05:47I have to gamble
01:05:48because I need money
01:05:49and I have nowhere to find
01:05:55I gamble
01:05:56I make more money
01:05:57I have a progress
01:05:58that's how my friends
01:06:00and I paid our rent
01:06:02for a long time
01:06:03that's how we live
01:06:08I'm angry
01:06:10I'm hurt
01:06:11I am shocked
01:06:13I think gambling is fine
01:06:16like when you have money to lose
01:06:19but he doesn't have anything
01:06:21the fact that he thinks
01:06:23that he can gamble
01:06:24instead of actually going out
01:06:26and finding a job
01:06:27is ridiculously concerning to me
01:06:30that's not a job
01:06:32I don't even understand
01:06:33what he's thinking
01:06:35so
01:06:37instead of a gift
01:06:38for Valentine's Day
01:06:40I sent you money
01:06:41yeah
01:06:41did you gamble that?
01:06:46yeah
01:06:47you sent me
01:06:49how much
01:06:50like $150
01:06:51yeah
01:06:51yeah
01:06:52and that makes
01:06:53$5,000
01:06:54and
01:06:55we made it
01:06:57$20
01:06:58I guess
01:06:58and we paid our rent
01:07:00it was like
01:07:01you sent us money
01:07:02but
01:07:02it wasn't solving anything
01:07:04it just
01:07:05okay
01:07:05we can eat
01:07:06but
01:07:06maybe three days later
01:07:08we have to
01:07:09empty the house
01:07:10you know
01:07:11but
01:07:11what if you would have
01:07:12lost that?
01:07:13I will figure it out
01:07:14but I
01:07:18that was money
01:07:19that I sent you
01:07:20for you
01:07:20and if you would have
01:07:21lost it
01:07:22and been like
01:07:23hey I lost the money
01:07:23that you gave me
01:07:24I would be livid
01:07:25I'm actually kind of
01:07:26livid right now
01:07:26that seems irresponsible
01:07:28to me
01:07:28what can I say?
01:07:31I'm trying to make
01:07:32a way out for us
01:07:35so if you
01:07:35gambling is something
01:07:36I have to do
01:07:40is gambling
01:07:41an addiction?
01:07:43gambling is not
01:07:44an addiction
01:07:44for me
01:07:45if I was addicted
01:07:48I don't care
01:07:50if I lose
01:07:51or win
01:07:51but I care
01:07:54and I'm winning
01:07:56if you come to America
01:07:58and we're sharing
01:07:59our life
01:07:59we're sharing
01:08:00our money
01:08:00we're sharing
01:08:00our banks
01:08:01are you going to
01:08:02pick it up
01:08:02and gamble it?
01:08:03you just
01:08:04well it would be
01:08:06our money
01:08:06no it is your money
01:08:08I don't gamble
01:08:09with your money
01:08:09but I will gamble
01:08:10you kind of already did
01:08:14but how do you
01:08:15have something
01:08:16that's specifically
01:08:17yours
01:08:17if we're married
01:08:18wouldn't it always
01:08:19be ours?
01:08:21it is like
01:08:21if I
01:08:23it is like
01:08:24if I make
01:08:24five thousand
01:08:25per month
01:08:26I will give you
01:08:27four thousand
01:08:28but I will tell you
01:08:29that one thousand
01:08:30dollar I need
01:08:31and I will bet
01:08:32with that
01:08:35and I will make
01:08:36that one thousand
01:08:37maybe nothing
01:08:38maybe fifty thousand
01:08:40because this is me
01:08:41this is my life
01:08:42this is how I do things
01:08:47gambling is just
01:08:48a way to make money
01:08:51I started
01:08:52when I was having
01:08:53financial struggle
01:08:55because you know
01:08:56I had nothing
01:08:58but now
01:08:59mostly
01:09:00I just bet
01:09:00some football games
01:09:01because that's what
01:09:02I used to do
01:09:03for a living
01:09:04just I can't play
01:09:06but I can bet
01:09:09if we do go through
01:09:10with this
01:09:11and apply for that
01:09:11K-1 visa
01:09:12I am financially
01:09:14responsible for you
01:09:15for like ten years
01:09:17and I guess
01:09:18that's my concern
01:09:19is that
01:09:19are we going to have
01:09:20more debt
01:09:21more financial problems
01:09:22because
01:09:23you can't stop
01:09:33gambling
01:09:34so until you feel
01:09:37like you're successful
01:09:38you're going to keep
01:09:39gambling
01:09:39yeah
01:09:46it's super alarming
01:09:47it's super alarming
01:09:48to me
01:09:48to hear that
01:09:49he thinks
01:09:49that this
01:09:50is the best way
01:09:52to make money
01:09:52and knowing
01:09:53that I will be
01:09:54financially responsible
01:09:55for him
01:09:57concerns me
01:09:57greatly
01:09:59this is
01:10:00really serious
01:10:01and I feel like
01:10:02I should just
01:10:03pull the plug
01:10:03and go home now
01:10:11this girl
01:10:12ended up calling me
01:10:13and pretty much
01:10:15told me he's a scam artist
01:10:16because he's going
01:10:17after more women
01:10:18than just me
01:10:18that are in America
01:10:21I am here begging you
01:10:23for some truth
01:10:24of what Daniel
01:10:26actually is
01:10:27and if I don't come home
01:10:28with everything
01:10:29on Daniel
01:10:30I will not be coming
01:10:31back to this country
01:10:39Daniel was talking
01:10:40to another girl
01:10:41on social media
01:10:42at the same time
01:10:43he was talking to me
01:10:49be honest
01:10:50because I will walk out
01:10:52if you're not
01:11:01yes
01:11:02I can't remember
01:11:03the last time
01:11:04I talked to the lady
01:11:05and I was
01:11:06I was talking to you
01:11:08and she was
01:11:09disturbing me
01:11:13this girl
01:11:14ended up calling me
01:11:18and talking to me
01:11:19telling me
01:11:21all these things
01:11:21that Daniel
01:11:22was saying to her
01:11:23and she also
01:11:24pretty much told me
01:11:26he's a scam artist
01:11:27because he's going
01:11:27after more women
01:11:28than just me
01:11:29that are in America
01:11:30did you know
01:11:31about this woman
01:11:32that he was talking to
01:11:34um
01:11:37to be sincere
01:11:38I don't know
01:11:39about that
01:11:41a couple months ago
01:11:43an American woman
01:11:44got in touch
01:11:44with me
01:11:45on social media
01:11:45and basically
01:11:47told me
01:11:47Daniel was talking
01:11:48to her
01:11:48at the same time
01:11:49he was talking
01:11:50to me
01:11:51she sent me
01:11:52screenshots of her
01:11:53and Daniel's
01:11:54conversation
01:11:54she sent me
01:11:55personal pictures
01:11:56Daniel sent to her
01:11:57of himself
01:11:59and he called
01:12:00her baby
01:12:01that hurt me
01:12:02it still hurts me
01:12:04Daniel said
01:12:05she's just a friend
01:12:06and after he blocked
01:12:08her
01:12:08I gave him
01:12:09the benefit
01:12:09of the doubt
01:12:10and I deleted
01:12:11the screenshots
01:12:12because I believed
01:12:13him
01:12:14but the more
01:12:15I'm hearing
01:12:16his friends say
01:12:17how I changed
01:12:17his life
01:12:18the more I'm
01:12:19wondering
01:12:20if this woman
01:12:20was right
01:12:21and Daniel
01:12:22was just looking
01:12:23for any American
01:12:24woman who was
01:12:25willing to respond
01:12:27she said that
01:12:28you were going
01:12:29after her strong
01:12:29and she wasn't
01:12:30giving you
01:12:30the time of the day
01:12:31so what do you
01:12:33want to say
01:12:33about that
01:12:33Daniel
01:12:36that is on
01:12:37social media
01:12:37right
01:12:38it is on
01:12:38social media
01:12:39so social media
01:12:40I have a lot
01:12:41of friends there
01:12:41you do
01:12:42you do
01:12:42but we're not
01:12:43talking about them
01:12:44we're talking
01:12:44no no
01:12:45I'm asking you
01:12:47about her
01:12:48because you did
01:12:48talk to her
01:12:49that's why
01:12:50I told you
01:12:50that before
01:12:51I met you
01:12:51that there's
01:12:52some other ladies
01:12:54who wanted
01:12:55they wanted me
01:12:56and some of them
01:12:57were you know
01:12:57coming after me
01:12:58like I told you
01:12:59but she wasn't
01:13:00you were going
01:13:00after her
01:13:01yes you were
01:13:02I never did
01:13:03yes she did
01:13:04you wanted her
01:13:04as an American
01:13:05she told me so
01:13:06I never went to
01:13:07I never go to her
01:13:08for friendship
01:13:09or any relationship
01:13:12there's something
01:13:12more going on
01:13:13Daniel
01:13:18I don't know
01:13:19I don't know
01:13:19why she's trying
01:13:20to accuse me
01:13:20have you pursued
01:13:22Americans before
01:13:23Lisa
01:13:26um
01:13:27I do talk
01:13:28to other women
01:13:29from America
01:13:30yes from America
01:13:31I do talk to other
01:13:32women from America
01:13:33I only chat them
01:13:34you know
01:13:34ask them how
01:13:35they're doing
01:13:35you know
01:13:36ask them how
01:13:37the day went
01:13:37you know
01:13:37that's the only
01:13:38thing I do
01:13:39but I've not
01:13:40tried to date
01:13:42an American lady
01:13:42before
01:13:43no
01:13:44Lisa is the
01:13:44first lady
01:13:45that you know
01:13:46that came into
01:13:46my life
01:13:48well I love
01:13:49Daniel
01:13:49yes
01:13:50but nobody
01:13:51is perfect
01:13:52and I am here
01:13:53begging you
01:13:53for some
01:13:55truth
01:13:55of what
01:13:56Daniel
01:13:56actually is
01:14:01I need to
01:14:02clear all this
01:14:03up before
01:14:03we get married
01:14:05maybe she lies
01:14:11um
01:14:13it's not funny
01:14:19all I want
01:14:20to say
01:14:21I want you
01:14:22to trust
01:14:22him
01:14:24why should
01:14:25I tell
01:14:26me why
01:14:26I know
01:14:27him very
01:14:28very well
01:14:28I know
01:14:29why I
01:14:30have you
01:14:30to trust
01:14:31him
01:14:32he cannot
01:14:33disappoint you
01:14:35I'm the one
01:14:35working 15
01:14:36hour days
01:14:37I'm the one
01:14:38working seven
01:14:38days a week
01:14:39to make sure
01:14:39he looks
01:14:40like this
01:14:41so I am
01:14:42giving up
01:14:42stuff to
01:14:43be here
01:14:43my family
01:14:44is worried
01:14:45about me
01:14:45they have
01:14:46every concern
01:14:47and if I
01:14:47don't come
01:14:48home with
01:14:48everything on
01:14:49Daniel
01:14:50I will not
01:14:50be coming
01:14:51back to
01:14:51this country
01:14:52and if
01:14:53you're not
01:14:53going to
01:14:53share it
01:14:54with me
01:14:54I will
01:14:54find it
01:14:55I'm not
01:14:55I didn't
01:14:56hide
01:14:56anything
01:14:57you picked
01:14:58me from
01:14:58the gutter
01:14:59you cluttered
01:15:00me
01:15:01you feed
01:15:01me
01:15:02so why
01:15:03should I
01:15:03be playing
01:15:04with you
01:15:05why should
01:15:06I be
01:15:06you know
01:15:07playing games
01:15:14I feel like
01:15:15his friends
01:15:15are protecting
01:15:16him
01:15:16as every
01:15:17friend
01:15:17if they're
01:15:18a really
01:15:18good friend
01:15:18should have
01:15:19your back
01:15:19but I feel
01:15:21like a sugar
01:15:21mom
01:15:23they kept
01:15:23saying it
01:15:24over and
01:15:24over and
01:15:25over again
01:15:25I'm an angel
01:15:26I have saved
01:15:27Daniel from
01:15:27the street
01:15:29I'm sitting
01:15:30here wondering
01:15:30is he a scam
01:15:32artist
01:15:32is he after
01:15:33me for my
01:15:33money
01:15:34I just don't
01:15:35think he's
01:15:36telling me
01:15:36the full
01:15:37truth
01:15:37I think
01:15:38he's given
01:15:38me little
01:15:39nibbles
01:15:39of what
01:15:40is reality
01:15:41and it's
01:15:42going to be
01:15:42up to me
01:15:43to put
01:15:43together
01:15:43this puzzle
01:15:44piece
01:15:45I appreciate
01:15:46you guys
01:15:46coming and
01:15:47meeting me
01:15:47I was just
01:15:48hoping for
01:15:48a little bit
01:15:49more than
01:15:49this
01:15:49from my own
01:15:50opinion
01:15:51I think
01:15:52you're scared
01:15:52for heartbroken
01:15:53you don't
01:15:53want to be
01:15:54hurt anymore
01:16:00I'd rather
01:16:01you stay
01:16:01with her
01:16:02and not
01:16:02coming here
01:16:04I cannot
01:16:05be with
01:16:06someone
01:16:06who still
01:16:07have feelings
01:16:08for their
01:16:08ex
01:16:10I cannot
01:16:11I'm sorry
01:16:13I know
01:16:13now that
01:16:14I was wrong
01:16:15please
01:16:16forgive me
01:16:32we're both
01:16:33back to
01:16:35Nosey Bay
01:16:36is here
01:16:37okay
01:16:37so let's
01:16:39go back
01:16:40don't touch
01:16:41me
01:16:41don't touch
01:16:42me
01:16:43don't make
01:16:44it worse
01:16:45just leave
01:17:02me
01:17:03are you ready
01:17:07Trish
01:17:08don't touch
01:17:10me
01:17:10just bring
01:17:11your luggage
01:17:12I'll bring
01:17:12mine
01:17:12and let's
01:17:13go
01:17:15I don't
01:17:16want to
01:17:16even
01:17:17look at
01:17:18him
01:17:22I thought
01:17:23he's
01:17:23different
01:17:24from my
01:17:24ex
01:17:25like
01:17:26a good
01:17:26guy
01:17:27a good
01:17:28father
01:17:29a good
01:17:30boyfriend
01:17:30faithful
01:17:33but
01:17:33Rick
01:17:34didn't
01:17:35tell me
01:17:36the truth
01:17:36he was
01:17:37not
01:17:37honest
01:17:38with me
01:17:41go ahead
01:17:42what are
01:17:43you waiting
01:17:44for
01:17:44go
01:17:45waiting
01:17:46for you
01:17:47what you
01:17:48care
01:17:49I told
01:17:50him that
01:17:51I was
01:17:52hurting
01:17:52from my
01:17:53past
01:17:53relationship
01:17:54but
01:17:55here we
01:17:56are
01:17:56same
01:17:57story
01:17:57again
01:18:02maybe
01:18:03just don't
01:18:05talk
01:18:06how long
01:18:07are you
01:18:07not going
01:18:07to talk
01:18:07to me
01:18:08why
01:18:08you care
01:18:08about
01:18:09that
01:18:09how long
01:18:09I'm
01:18:10going to
01:18:10talk
01:18:10or not
01:18:11because I
01:18:11want to
01:18:11resolve
01:18:12this
01:18:12resolve
01:18:12what
01:18:13you
01:18:13do
01:18:13remember
01:18:14what you
01:18:14did
01:18:14I do
01:18:15remember
01:18:17I
01:18:17rather
01:18:18you
01:18:18stay
01:18:18here
01:18:19and
01:18:19not
01:18:19coming
01:18:20here
01:18:23I
01:18:24refuse
01:18:24to
01:18:24believe
01:18:25that
01:18:25you
01:18:25regret
01:18:25me
01:18:26coming
01:18:27I
01:18:28have
01:18:28seen
01:18:28the
01:18:28love
01:18:28in
01:18:28your
01:18:29eyes
01:18:30you
01:18:31know
01:18:31just
01:18:31allow
01:18:32me
01:18:32the
01:18:32opportunity
01:18:33to
01:18:33show
01:18:33you
01:18:33how
01:18:34committed
01:18:35I
01:18:35am
01:18:40to
01:18:41I
01:18:41told
01:18:41you
01:18:42I
01:18:42was
01:18:42ashamed
01:18:42of
01:18:42what
01:18:43I
01:18:43did
01:18:43you
01:18:43were not
01:18:44even
01:18:45ashamed
01:18:46because
01:18:46I
01:18:47explained
01:18:47to you
01:18:48after
01:18:48the
01:18:48five
01:18:49days
01:18:49but
01:18:49you
01:18:49still
01:18:49went
01:18:50to
01:18:50Colombia
01:18:51so
01:18:51why
01:18:51didn't
01:18:52you
01:18:52cancel
01:18:54because
01:18:54even
01:18:55after
01:18:55those
01:18:55five
01:18:55days
01:18:56things
01:18:57still
01:18:57didn't
01:18:57add up
01:18:58and I
01:18:58felt
01:18:59like
01:18:59I
01:19:00was
01:19:00just
01:19:00getting
01:19:01strung
01:19:01along
01:19:02because
01:19:03I
01:19:03thought
01:19:03you
01:19:03were
01:19:03cheating
01:19:04on
01:19:04me
01:19:04and
01:19:04I
01:19:04felt
01:19:05like
01:19:06it's
01:19:06my
01:19:07fault
01:19:08it's
01:19:09my
01:19:09fault
01:19:11we
01:19:11didn't
01:19:11really
01:19:11start
01:19:12communicating
01:19:13like
01:19:13before
01:19:14until
01:19:14I
01:19:15got
01:19:15back
01:19:17so
01:19:17in
01:19:17your
01:19:18mind
01:19:18is
01:19:19even
01:19:20if
01:19:20she
01:19:20already
01:19:21explained
01:19:21to
01:19:22me
01:19:22I
01:19:22will
01:19:23still
01:19:23go
01:19:23because
01:19:23I
01:19:24want
01:19:24to
01:19:24revenge
01:19:24her
01:19:25in
01:19:29some
01:19:30ways
01:19:30that's
01:19:30true
01:19:33I
01:19:34know
01:19:35now
01:19:35that I
01:19:35was
01:19:36wrong
01:19:43please
01:19:44I
01:19:45want
01:19:45you
01:19:45forgive
01:19:45me
01:19:48I
01:19:52have
01:19:52nothing
01:19:53to
01:19:53say
01:19:53Rick
01:19:57I
01:19:57cannot
01:19:57be with
01:19:58someone
01:19:58who
01:19:59still
01:19:59have
01:20:00feelings
01:20:00for
01:20:00their
01:20:01ex
01:20:03I
01:20:04rather
01:20:04he
01:20:05told
01:20:05me
01:20:05like
01:20:06for
01:20:06coming
01:20:06here
01:20:07no
01:20:09I
01:20:10don't
01:20:10know
01:20:10what
01:20:11to
01:20:11tell
01:20:11my
01:20:11dad
01:20:13my
01:20:14whole
01:20:14family
01:20:16I
01:20:20don't
01:20:20know
01:20:20what
01:20:21to
01:20:21tell
01:20:21them
01:20:24don't
01:20:25touch
01:20:25me
01:20:27because
01:20:28that
01:20:28and
01:20:28even
01:20:29not
01:20:29on
01:20:29us
01:20:33we
01:20:34just
01:20:34have
01:20:34to
01:20:34work
01:20:35to
01:20:35I
01:20:35cannot
01:20:36I'm
01:20:37sorry
01:20:46next
01:20:46time
01:20:47on
01:20:47before
01:20:47the
01:20:4790
01:20:48days
01:20:48oh
01:20:50my
01:20:50god
01:20:51Sienna
01:20:51and I
01:20:51are
01:20:52going
01:20:52for
01:20:52a
01:20:52little
01:20:52romantic
01:20:53getaway
01:20:53outside
01:20:54of
01:20:54the
01:20:54city
01:20:54have
01:20:55a
01:20:55nice
01:20:55birthday
01:20:55surprise
01:20:56for
01:20:57you
01:20:57later
01:20:57a
01:20:57surprise
01:20:58yeah
01:20:58we're
01:20:59really
01:20:59connecting
01:20:59and
01:21:00Sied's
01:21:01always
01:21:01known
01:21:02that
01:21:02I've
01:21:02wanted
01:21:02a
01:21:03proposal
01:21:03on
01:21:03my
01:21:03birthday
01:21:03I
01:21:04have
01:21:04one
01:21:05more
01:21:05thing
01:21:05for
01:21:05you
01:21:06okay
01:21:10this
01:21:11is
01:21:11us
01:21:11I'm
01:21:12very
01:21:12excited
01:21:13to
01:21:13see
01:21:13where
01:21:14my
01:21:14wife
01:21:15lives
01:21:15and
01:21:16where
01:21:16my
01:21:16money
01:21:17is
01:21:17going
01:21:18wow
01:21:20this
01:21:21is
01:21:21a
01:21:21lot
01:21:22bigger
01:21:22than
01:21:22what
01:21:22I
01:21:23initially
01:21:23thought
01:21:24everywhere
01:21:24I look
01:21:25I just
01:21:25see
01:21:26dollar
01:21:26signs
01:21:27a lot
01:21:27of
01:21:27travel
01:21:27photos
01:21:28huge
01:21:28closets
01:21:29it
01:21:30makes
01:21:30me
01:21:30feel
01:21:31taken
01:21:31advantage
01:21:32of
01:21:34I
01:21:34know
01:21:35it
01:21:35is
01:21:36hard
01:21:37to
01:21:37understand
01:21:38my
01:21:38lifestyle
01:21:39my
01:21:39choices
01:21:41beer
01:21:41beer
01:21:42beer
01:21:42has
01:21:42what
01:21:42I
01:21:43can
01:21:43only
01:21:43consider
01:21:44to
01:21:44be
01:21:44a
01:21:45gambling
01:21:45problem
01:21:45and
01:21:46it's
01:21:46really
01:21:47making
01:21:47me
01:21:48second
01:21:48guess
01:21:48any
01:21:49kind
01:21:49of
01:21:49future
01:21:50I
01:21:50could
01:21:50have
01:21:50with
01:21:50beer
01:21:51con
01:21:51I
01:21:52that
01:21:53is
01:21:53why
01:21:53you
01:21:53are
01:21:53so
01:21:53special
01:21:54to
01:21:54me
01:21:54even
01:21:55if
01:21:55we
01:21:55have
01:21:56problems
01:21:56we
01:21:58will
01:21:58find
01:21:58solution
01:22:01until
01:22:01yesterday
01:22:03you
01:22:03did
01:22:04not
01:22:04know
01:22:04anything
01:22:05about
01:22:06Sheena's
01:22:06finances
01:22:07you
01:22:08didn't
01:22:08know
01:22:08the
01:22:09truth
01:22:09about
01:22:09her
01:22:10relationship
01:22:10with
01:22:11her
01:22:11family
01:22:12is
01:22:13this
01:22:13a
01:22:13person
01:22:14you
01:22:14can
01:22:14trust
01:22:15these
01:22:16were
01:22:16big
01:22:16lies
01:22:17for
01:22:18us
01:22:19she
01:22:19did
01:22:20lie
01:22:20about
01:22:21almost
01:22:21everything
01:22:23it
01:22:24really
01:22:24hurts
01:22:25me
01:22:25but
01:22:27I
01:22:27can't
01:22:28be
01:22:28with
01:22:28someone
01:22:29who
01:22:29is
01:22:29going
01:22:29to
01:22:30constantly
01:22:30lie
01:22:30to
01:22:30me
01:22:34tonight
01:22:35we're
01:22:36meeting
01:22:36up
01:22:36with
01:22:36my
01:22:37aunt
01:22:37spring
01:22:37heard
01:22:38a lot
01:22:38about
01:22:38you
01:22:39and
01:22:40there's
01:22:40some
01:22:40things
01:22:41that
01:22:41I
01:22:41do
01:22:41have
01:22:42questions
01:22:42about
01:22:42I
01:22:43do
01:22:43understand
01:22:44why
01:22:44Aviva
01:22:44has
01:22:45fallen
01:22:45for
01:22:45Stig
01:22:46but
01:22:46I
01:22:46don't
01:22:47think
01:22:47that
01:22:47he
01:22:48is
01:22:48the
01:22:48great
01:22:48person
01:22:49that
01:22:49she
01:22:49believes
01:22:49him
01:22:50to
01:22:50be
01:22:51so
01:22:51I
01:22:52have
01:22:52heard
01:22:53some
01:22:53things
01:22:54I
01:22:55mean
01:22:55this
01:22:56is
01:22:56you
01:22:56isn't
01:22:56it
01:23:01I
01:23:01came
01:23:02here
01:23:02to be
01:23:02with
01:23:02you
01:23:03but
01:23:03I
01:23:03want
01:23:03answers
01:23:04say
01:23:05it
01:23:05I
01:23:06don't
01:23:06want
01:23:06to
01:23:06find
01:23:06out
01:23:07by
01:23:07her
01:23:07I
01:23:08want
01:23:08to
01:23:08find
01:23:08out
01:23:08I
01:23:09except
01:23:09where
01:23:09I
01:23:09didn't
01:23:10do
01:23:10I
01:23:11can't
01:23:11he
01:23:12is
01:23:12lying
01:23:12to
01:23:13me
01:23:13and
01:23:13he's
01:23:13trying
01:23:14to
01:23:14make
01:23:14me
01:23:14look
01:23:15insane
01:23:15I
01:23:16don't
01:23:16want
01:23:16to
01:23:16believe
01:23:16there's
01:23:17others
01:23:18I
01:23:18need
01:23:19this
01:23:19lady
01:23:19to
01:23:19write
01:23:19back
01:23:20to
01:23:20me
01:23:20because
01:23:20I
01:23:20need
01:23:21to
01:23:21know
01:23:21is
01:23:22he
01:23:22a
01:23:23scammer
01:23:23did
01:23:24she
01:23:24write
01:23:25yes
01:23:25she
01:23:26wrote
01:23:26a
01:23:26lot
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