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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 4
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00:00:00Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:00:02Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05This is so embarrassing. I'm sorry.
00:00:06This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:10For the past 21 years, I have been with women only.
00:00:13But Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:17I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago,
00:00:21I told him I had a fling with a woman.
00:00:24And he was disgusted.
00:00:28He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:30I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:34Don't make jokes.
00:00:36He doesn't love you. That's not what love is.
00:00:38He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:41There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face.
00:00:44But if I'm not willing to take a risk for love,
00:00:48then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:53We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check
00:00:57until we get married.
00:00:59But that's just not what you said.
00:01:00A couple weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women.
00:01:05And it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:10Now seeing how he's acting in person,
00:01:12it's making me question things.
00:01:19Oh, my goodness.
00:01:22Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other.
00:01:25And I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:29But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:39Apology aside, there's still some things
00:01:42that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:54I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor
00:01:57because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:02:01I'm going to see his face, and it's just going to flow out of me,
00:02:04drip down my legs.
00:02:05And what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:15I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death
00:02:20because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:24What if he hides?
00:02:25What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:27I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:30I don't know if he's going to be like,
00:02:32wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:37Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria
00:02:39to go see Daniel for the first time.
00:02:42And I am feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:49My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns
00:02:52at dinner the other night
00:02:53that Daniel could be scamming me,
00:02:55and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:57But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face
00:03:01and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:03:04I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:08These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:11They're brand new.
00:03:13I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:17I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:21My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:25It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:28Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:33It sticks to your hair.
00:03:35It sticks to your skin.
00:03:36You have rashes.
00:03:37You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:39It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria,
00:03:42but it makes him so happy.
00:03:46I want to look beautiful for Daniel,
00:03:48so I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:50I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:55So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:59I'm pretty nervous.
00:04:04Not sure how it's going to go.
00:04:07She's horrible with directions.
00:04:10I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:13and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:16But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:21Hi, Faith.
00:04:23I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:26Oh, wonderful.
00:04:28Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:30That's the first thing I want.
00:04:32I know.
00:04:33All right, listen.
00:04:34Here's something really important.
00:04:36The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:39Yeah.
00:04:39So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:43That has to be done.
00:04:45Like immediately?
00:04:45Yes.
00:04:46Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper
00:04:49is on the 29th,
00:04:50so that the divorce becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:54I want to come clean and tell him
00:04:56that not only I was still married,
00:04:59but the divorce is there.
00:05:00And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:05:03If I'm just, Mom,
00:05:04you not only lied about the fact that,
00:05:08oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:05:10No, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:14But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:20Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years,
00:05:24Daniel doesn't know that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:33He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me,
00:05:37and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:39Because in my heart, I have been free to marry
00:05:41because my ex-wife and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:45We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:50If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:54I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:55Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:59I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:06:01until we have this conversation.
00:06:03He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:06:08Just trust me.
00:06:09I'm just worried, Mom.
00:06:11Don't worry. Don't worry. I got this.
00:06:13Let's get going.
00:06:14We need to get to the airport.
00:06:16It is getting late, and we need to get going.
00:06:19You don't have a flight to get to.
00:06:20I do have a flight.
00:06:22I struggle trusting my mom
00:06:24that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:06:28Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody
00:06:31before you're ready.
00:06:33I need to grab my phone.
00:06:35That's the last thing I need.
00:06:40So if Daniel was asking you to get married while you were in Nigeria,
00:06:43would you keep my hands to faith?
00:06:44Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:52I want to say no.
00:06:55But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:07:01Jump with both feet in.
00:07:05I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:07:08I want to be with him.
00:07:10I want to be a part of him.
00:07:11Um, I want to be his wife.
00:07:15So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:18I really don't know.
00:07:20Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:23Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:24Woo, here we go.
00:07:35Here we go.
00:07:38Oh, 61.
00:07:41What?
00:07:42Oh, 61.
00:07:44I got three.
00:07:46Oh, you done good.
00:07:48Oh, 70.
00:07:51I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:54I was married to a soldier.
00:07:57He, uh, lived up the street.
00:08:00My husband and I met in junior college.
00:08:03We loved to skate.
00:08:04So our first date was going skating.
00:08:08The first date, we went to a fair.
00:08:11And, uh, I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:20I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:23That was just, that was it.
00:08:27He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:33And here it is.
00:08:39I'm done waiting.
00:08:42No more hesitating.
00:08:45There ain't nothing wrong to once more.
00:08:49You got to feel it.
00:08:51You got to believe it.
00:08:54There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:59Big four.
00:09:01Good afternoon.
00:09:03Little late.
00:09:04Oh, boy.
00:09:06My name is Javon.
00:09:08I'm 38 years old.
00:09:09And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:09:13Who's winning?
00:09:14Who has a bingo?
00:09:16I've got several bingos.
00:09:17Oh, nice.
00:09:19I work at a nursing home.
00:09:21And I like my job.
00:09:25You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:30They have no filters.
00:09:31And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:33What did you bring us today?
00:09:35We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:40Ooh.
00:09:40Look at all that cheese.
00:09:42But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:45Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:46I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:51American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:58I call them three sixes.
00:10:00And it's not me.
00:10:05That's good.
00:10:08We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:10:11Oh, yeah.
00:10:12It's a trip way overdue.
00:10:14I'm going to see my wife.
00:10:17When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:21Actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:27So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:32Oh, okay.
00:10:35Really?
00:10:36Yeah.
00:10:38Aw.
00:10:38My wife is Annalyn.
00:10:41She's 38 years old.
00:10:43And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:46Hey, boo.
00:10:47It's your wife.
00:10:48I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:51Must be something.
00:10:52Yeah, there must be something.
00:10:55We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:58And we've been married for about two years.
00:11:04He said that?
00:11:06No, that's wrong.
00:11:08We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:11:10And we have been married for almost three years.
00:11:14Okay?
00:11:17Hello, boo-boo.
00:11:18I love you.
00:11:19And I appreciate you.
00:11:21Mwah.
00:11:22Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:27Yummers.
00:11:33Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:36we would talk for hours every day.
00:11:39And he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:45Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:49I wanted to meet Annalyn in person.
00:11:51But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:56There were flight restrictions.
00:11:57I was kind of feeling hopeless.
00:12:01And I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:12:04And then I was scrolling on social media.
00:12:07And I saw these couples getting married online.
00:12:12And I thought if they were married legally,
00:12:14he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:12:18because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:24When Annalyn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:30I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:34I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox.
00:12:38But I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:42When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with,
00:12:45you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:47It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:48When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:13:00How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:13:04Absolutely not.
00:13:05But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:13:08It is now my privilege to pronounce you lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:13:19I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:21I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:25How could you be married for years
00:13:27and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:32The whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:34So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:36So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:41Over the years, me and Annalyn have tried to meet up several times.
00:13:45But work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:48And having a marriage online has been challenging.
00:13:54Especially because Annalyn has changed.
00:13:58When I first met Anna, she was more patient, sweeter.
00:14:03She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:14:07I'm like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:14:10I've always been feisty.
00:14:13He knows that.
00:14:15And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:14:17I don't like being told what to do.
00:14:19I don't like being controlled.
00:14:22After a period of time, I had to fight to actually speak, to be heard.
00:14:28Lately, it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:14:31I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:34But before I apply for that spousal visa and move Annalyn to the U.S., we need to spend physical
00:14:41time with one another to make sure I made the right choice.
00:15:14I'm going out there because I love her.
00:15:15I'm going out there for 10 years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:15:18I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off, but I'm kind of still nervous about what this is in
00:15:23my routine.
00:15:27I don't like that we were fighting yesterday, but there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about
00:15:32that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:35What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:41Emma.
00:16:09I don't know.
00:16:23I want to get out for a bit this morning and clear my mind because my night with Emma was
00:16:29horrible.
00:16:31I want to be her husband, but we need some times to nourish others.
00:16:35I hope things better today.
00:16:43I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:45Like I thought I'd be waking up next to him and he would be like bringing me coffee in the
00:16:49morning and cuddling with me.
00:16:51And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:54We've actually just been completely separate.
00:16:59Zia's behavior last night, it's making me a little suspicious, but I'm trying not to just be in my head
00:17:06and overthink things.
00:17:07I want this to be fun and I want us to just focus on the positive.
00:17:13I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:17:24Kabira, asbahha khair.
00:17:26Na basa ziyad, alhamdulillah.
00:17:28La basa ziyad, rabaklik.
00:17:30Laf tak.
00:17:31Ah.
00:17:32Ya bakha.
00:17:37Hi.
00:17:39Good morning.
00:17:40Good morning.
00:17:41How's your night?
00:17:42This is nice.
00:17:44Really?
00:17:44Yeah.
00:17:46That's it.
00:17:47This is your place.
00:17:48I hope you will like it.
00:17:49Thanks, babe.
00:17:56Hello.
00:18:03She's adorable.
00:18:06My favorite.
00:18:09I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it.
00:18:13I know, I know.
00:18:13Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:18:16What do you want to start for about?
00:18:18I mean, it wasn't really like a good start to my trip.
00:18:22I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:18:24Yeah.
00:18:25That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:18:29Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:32Yeah.
00:18:33Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:35I love the tea here.
00:18:36Okay.
00:18:37Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:41I don't hear you.
00:18:43I don't hear you.
00:18:44I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:45Can you repeat I don't hear what you said?
00:18:46I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:47For what?
00:18:51For running away from your kiss.
00:18:54And?
00:18:56Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:19:01I mean, I'm sorry yesterday got like really dramatic,
00:19:03but I think it was just a long day for me
00:19:05because I was traveling for like 20 hours.
00:19:08I know it's difficult.
00:19:10And it was just like a lot going on.
00:19:11There was like a lot in my mind.
00:19:15Actually, there's something else I wanted to like talk to you about.
00:19:17I felt that like I didn't tell you yet.
00:19:29What?
00:19:30What is this?
00:19:30What's happened?
00:19:35I was just like upset the past couple days
00:19:37because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:39Like I've been there for five years and.
00:19:42Yes.
00:19:44Well, I got fired.
00:19:50Really?
00:19:52I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm going to cry.
00:19:55No, no, you don't need this.
00:19:57Listen, listen.
00:20:00I just need a minute.
00:20:03Emma.
00:20:04No.
00:20:11Sorry.
00:20:12No, no.
00:20:13Don't cry.
00:20:16It's a...
00:20:17Because I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:19It's just a walk.
00:20:21It's a hazard.
00:20:23And you don't need to cry for it.
00:20:26So just enjoy your moments.
00:20:28No, don't cry.
00:20:29Don't cry.
00:20:29Okay.
00:20:30Don't cry.
00:20:31Okay.
00:20:39I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:40I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:44It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:45But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:48Yeah.
00:20:48You will find another one more better than your last.
00:20:52Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:57We are together and everything will be good.
00:21:05I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:21:09It was like a tornado.
00:21:12But right now, he is showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:21:16I love you, babe.
00:21:17Yeah, it is.
00:21:18I love you more.
00:21:20What's...
00:21:20What's mean, tornado?
00:21:22Like an earthquake.
00:21:23Like a...
00:21:23Like a natural disaster.
00:21:25So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:21:29Yeah, yeah.
00:21:30That's an amazing example.
00:21:31Yeah, really.
00:21:36My future hubby.
00:21:38Ah.
00:21:39Do you know what that means?
00:21:41No.
00:21:41Can you explain?
00:21:42What do you mean?
00:21:43It's short for husband.
00:21:44Really?
00:21:45Yeah.
00:21:46Hubby.
00:21:48Uh, one feet.
00:21:49Yeah.
00:21:51Exactly.
00:22:14I can't believe the trees.
00:22:16How beautiful they are.
00:22:18I can't believe how hot it is.
00:22:19I'm probably gonna...
00:22:20I can't believe how hot it is.
00:22:21I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:22:23Lock away your smile.
00:22:28My heart is racing now.
00:22:33All right.
00:22:34See you later, Deb.
00:22:35See you later.
00:22:36Okay.
00:22:38I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams after
00:22:45seven years.
00:22:47Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:52Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:55Waka waka.
00:22:57Yeah.
00:23:01Oh, this is incredible.
00:23:03Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:23:06Crazy.
00:23:07This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:23:10If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:23:16It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:23:21Oh, man.
00:23:23Glad I'm not driving.
00:23:24Yeah.
00:23:26But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:23:29Look at that.
00:23:30That thing is pretty good.
00:23:31Yes, this is the jeepney.
00:23:32This is locally here in my cafe.
00:23:34They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with Americans,
00:23:38so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:42Incredible.
00:23:44You can see the big building there.
00:23:46That's the condo we're gonna stay.
00:23:48I wish we could stay at your place.
00:23:51Yeah.
00:23:52Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents
00:23:58said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:24:02When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their daughter,
00:24:07and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd,
00:24:14especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually just
00:24:20meet her.
00:24:21Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:24:24It's their wishes.
00:24:25I can't really go around that.
00:24:28But I'm not paying them money.
00:24:33This is the place.
00:24:34All right.
00:24:35We are here.
00:24:40There you go, Molly.
00:24:41That's it.
00:24:42The jackpot.
00:24:43Oh, .
00:24:44I got it.
00:24:45All right, charge.
00:24:49Sheena is an extreme foodie.
00:24:51And she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:55Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:58Whoa!
00:24:59I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:25:01Oh, my goodness.
00:25:01I can definitely smell him.
00:25:03Oh.
00:25:05Yeah, you don't.
00:25:06Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:25:08Don't go for that.
00:25:08Yeah, OK.
00:25:14So, sorry, baby.
00:25:15This is all I could get for you guys.
00:25:18You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:25:21It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:25:25The place is nice.
00:25:26It's pretty.
00:25:27But it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:25:32I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:25:35It feels good.
00:25:37It's your bag, too.
00:25:38Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:25:41It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:44If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down,
00:25:47I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:53Sheena.
00:25:54What?
00:25:54This feels more than online right now.
00:25:59Oh.
00:25:59It's making me more nervous.
00:26:03Oh, you don't have to be.
00:26:04I'm hearing it with you.
00:26:05Oh, I know I can see.
00:26:07Yeah?
00:26:08You're so excited, huh?
00:26:09Oh, yeah.
00:26:09Oh, yeah.
00:26:11Because I got some good stuff here.
00:26:14Excuse me, baby.
00:26:16Boom.
00:26:17What is that?
00:26:18This is something amazing.
00:26:21And I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:26:26Wow.
00:26:27What?
00:26:28What's that thing?
00:26:29That's...
00:26:29I think it is a cloth that goes on your body.
00:26:33It accentuates your sexuality.
00:26:39Oh, that's nice.
00:26:40I love the color.
00:26:41Oh, yeah.
00:26:43That's cool.
00:26:43I guess, guess what?
00:26:44There's even more.
00:26:46What?
00:26:46You have more?
00:26:47I have more.
00:26:49Oh, wow.
00:26:51I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:54Wow.
00:26:55To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin.
00:27:02But forest makes me feel confident of my body.
00:27:05This is another one for you.
00:27:07Oh.
00:27:07In case you want to, you know.
00:27:09Oh, that's pretty.
00:27:09That's cool.
00:27:10That's beautiful.
00:27:12Oh, okay.
00:27:13Oh, okay.
00:27:21You're so handsome always.
00:27:22I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:27:24Okay.
00:27:24Go for it, my love.
00:27:25Deep brush.
00:27:26All right.
00:27:27Do everything, my love.
00:27:30You know, when I was making, like, sexy talk with her,
00:27:34I was really just trying to, like, put her at ease, make her laugh,
00:27:37you know, just calm the mood.
00:27:41I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:45But to be honest, I'm actually kind of still nervous about what is my virginia.
00:27:53I mean, I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off, but having sex with Sheena,
00:27:59I feel like it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:28:07It's just a big deal.
00:28:09I love you.
00:28:10I love you.
00:28:11Do you want the lights on or off?
00:28:13Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:28:20It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:28:25I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:28:28And so I am nervous that beer con won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:28:35Oh, my God.
00:28:36Here we go.
00:28:43We are in the process of landing.
00:28:46And I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or beer con, but I'm excited.
00:29:02So this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:29:06I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting for the first time.
00:29:11Everything has to go perfect, so I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:29:20Laura is arriving tricky today, and today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:29:29Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:29:33I never saw this big of place.
00:29:37It just thrills me.
00:29:42Right now, I'm staying with different friends, sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:49That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:52But the privacy of our place is going to be nice because we have a lot of things to discuss
00:30:00face to face.
00:30:12It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:30:17I'm so excited now.
00:30:19I'm so excited.
00:30:20I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:30:29Oh.
00:30:31Oh!
00:30:33Oh my gosh.
00:30:35She come early.
00:30:44It's slightly close that I am having a heart attack or I am excited.
00:30:49and yeah, we will see.
00:30:53I am gonna wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:57I think that will be a lot cuter
00:30:58than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:31:03I'm really proud of the progress that I've made
00:31:06over the last 14 months,
00:31:08but I still have flaws and imperfections,
00:31:12and so I am nervous that BeerCon
00:31:15won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:31:19And I think that's a cute dress.
00:31:22All right.
00:31:27The woman I love is coming, so I'm thrilled.
00:31:32My hopes are we will get engaged and go to America,
00:31:36live together, and get married.
00:31:40But maybe she will hate me.
00:31:43Nobody knows.
00:31:49I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
00:31:52I wasn't fine till you came into my view.
00:31:58Thought I was going inside.
00:32:00Oh, my God.
00:32:01Here we go.
00:32:10Welcome, gorgeous.
00:32:13How are you?
00:32:14I'm good.
00:32:15I am good.
00:32:17How are you doing?
00:32:18It was so long.
00:32:19Yeah, I know.
00:32:21I am still thinking about, oh, my God, America.
00:32:24You know?
00:32:31Welcome again.
00:32:35I think everything's perfect right now.
00:32:38Yeah.
00:32:38That's really sweet.
00:32:39Yeah, that was.
00:32:41I know.
00:32:42I know.
00:32:43I know.
00:32:43Yeah.
00:32:46So let's go this way.
00:32:48OK.
00:32:49These bumps are a pain with suitcases.
00:32:52He looks amazing.
00:32:53Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing,
00:32:57which is that dark romance male main character.
00:33:00When you look at her, what do you think?
00:33:02She's perfect.
00:33:03I don't need to look at her.
00:33:05I don't need, because I feel it, you know?
00:33:08I'm complete.
00:33:09So we don't need to see.
00:33:11That's probably the best answer ever.
00:33:18That was, like, the best flight I've ever taken.
00:33:20Yeah.
00:33:21Seriously.
00:33:22I'm glad.
00:33:23I'm really glad.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:41It's good to see you.
00:33:42Yeah.
00:33:43You too.
00:33:47I don't know what's happening.
00:33:51It's very awkward right now.
00:33:56I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know,
00:33:59it was, like, great when we first met.
00:34:01He hugged me.
00:34:02He kissed me.
00:34:02And then we sit on this train, and it's, like,
00:34:05he doesn't know who I am.
00:34:06And I don't know who he is.
00:34:13I think we're close.
00:34:18I'm hoping that, as time moves forward,
00:34:22that this will turn around, and it will feel more like it
00:34:25did when we were online.
00:34:27But right now, something is off, and it's freaking me out.
00:34:40Anna called me like it were, talking about your brother,
00:34:43your brother.
00:34:44I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged, like,
00:34:48kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:34:49She was just talking about that woman.
00:34:54Uh, yeah.
00:34:56Who is the woman?
00:34:57Oh, my God.
00:35:01Oh, my God.
00:35:18This is nice.
00:35:21Really?
00:35:22This is screaming, I failed a pottery class.
00:35:25No, but she doesn't like how you dress,
00:35:27so you got to do something else.
00:35:28Ugh.
00:35:30Yeah.
00:35:31Going to grill with you all the kill
00:35:33with all the skills.
00:35:35Adrenaline brush through your blood for real.
00:35:37If you can feel that, then you can feel lust.
00:35:39Now here comes the rush.
00:35:41I think you got some good purchases.
00:35:43Ugh.
00:35:44Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:35:46Ugh.
00:35:47It'll be fine.
00:35:48It's going to be fine.
00:35:51I'm running some last minute errands with my sister Ashley,
00:35:54because I'm flying to the Philippines in a couple of days
00:35:56to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:36:01I'm excited and I'm super nervous
00:36:03because we've been married for three years.
00:36:06But we've never been in the same room
00:36:08or even the same continent with each other.
00:36:12So, are you all packed up?
00:36:15You ready?
00:36:15Uh, I think I'm as ready as I'm ever going to be.
00:36:20And, you know, me and Anna's relationship,
00:36:22it's just been this spiraling,
00:36:24like, up and down loop-de-loop rollercoaster ride.
00:36:27But when things are good,
00:36:29I'm, like, really happy to be in a relationship.
00:36:31I think Anna's very funny.
00:36:33Yeah.
00:36:34Like, Anna seems like she's a good time.
00:36:37She's just a lot.
00:36:40But Javon marrying somebody online was actually wild to me.
00:36:46I do think they love each other,
00:36:47but I don't know, like,
00:36:49I wouldn't just call this, like, a normal marriage.
00:36:52This is something I've never seen or heard of before.
00:36:57You know, like, Anna actually called me.
00:37:01You spoke to her?
00:37:03Mm-hmm.
00:37:05And she called me, like, at work.
00:37:08I'm working.
00:37:09I'm with customers.
00:37:10And she's just, you know, talking about,
00:37:13your brother, your brother.
00:37:14I don't know what to do with him.
00:37:15Rah, rah, rah.
00:37:17Rah, rah, rah.
00:37:18Rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:37:18And I was like, can't even get her off the phone.
00:37:21Yeah.
00:37:22She was just talking about that woman.
00:37:29Uh, yeah.
00:37:33So who, who is the woman?
00:37:40So the woman is just, like, a friend of mine
00:37:44that I've, that I've known for a long time.
00:37:48We communicate so well,
00:37:50and we can stay on the phone for hours.
00:37:52I think because we're both having problems
00:37:55in our, you know, relationship,
00:37:57it's, it's, it's definitely more easygoing,
00:38:00and it's more positive.
00:38:04So, but what is it that, that Anna's so, like,
00:38:08threatened and bothered by her?
00:38:10Like, what, what is it?
00:38:12Because I feel like I'm missing something.
00:38:16Yeah, I mean, there used to be
00:38:18this, this, this, this small thing between us,
00:38:21but we're better.
00:38:23Also, that, so, so, Javon, that's not okay.
00:38:28That is no good.
00:38:30I know, you know, and I'm not.
00:38:31So, so that's why she's so upset then.
00:38:34Yeah.
00:38:36Me and my friend, we never officially dated,
00:38:38but there was feelings for one another.
00:38:41We lost touch for a while,
00:38:43but I reached out to her because I was going
00:38:48through a rough time in my marriage
00:38:50and I needed someone that knew me
00:38:54and that understood me.
00:38:55I wasn't trying to hide anything.
00:38:58So, I just came out and told Anna Lynn
00:39:00I was talking to this other person.
00:39:03I don't think it's a big deal,
00:39:04but obviously she does
00:39:05because she's extremely pissed off and upset.
00:39:11I'm not saying she don't have a valid reason
00:39:14to be upset,
00:39:15but it's just completely platonic,
00:39:18you know,
00:39:19and she don't have to worry about that.
00:39:22Have you tried to call her?
00:39:24I have, but, you know,
00:39:27she, she blocked me.
00:39:30For real?
00:39:33She gets so aggressive.
00:39:35See, this is the problem.
00:39:36Like, this is how,
00:39:37this is why I had to go outside of our marriage
00:39:42to talk to somebody else about our marriage
00:39:45and it shouldn't be that way.
00:39:48Obviously, Anna feels disrespected
00:39:51and I do get that.
00:39:54I know that she's 1,000% unhinged,
00:39:57like kind of off her rocker a little bit,
00:39:59but I do feel like he presses her buttons.
00:40:02Javon just needs to say sorry
00:40:03and try and talk to her.
00:40:05And if they don't know how to talk,
00:40:07then they don't need to be married.
00:40:09You're about to see your wife for the first time.
00:40:12You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight.
00:40:16I don't know what to do.
00:40:18I don't know what to do.
00:40:23I heard some interesting things
00:40:26from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:40:29Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
00:40:34I just want to prefer, like,
00:40:36a privacy between us, you know?
00:40:38Now, now you're kind of,
00:40:39now you're kind of being really disrespectful.
00:41:00Hey, guys.
00:41:05oh yeah hey guys we're gonna go down and have some coffee by the pool so uh we'll be up
00:41:16in a
00:41:16little while talk to you in a bit later
00:41:44i arrived in the philippines yesterday
00:41:47and the first night with the woman of my dream sheena was amazing
00:42:05there's a lot of new and fun things i'm finding out uh being with sheena physically i found out
00:42:11there's a night sheena what and uh she's kind of grabby oh really very i'm not you're very uh
00:42:18into being physical night sheena
00:42:24you know just finally being able to hold you and be with you and and kiss you it just felt
00:42:30awesome
00:42:32and i know that i talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like that
00:42:38but i really believe that we should um wait you know till we know each other a bit more
00:42:45you know in person
00:42:48i understand my love
00:42:51i really feel like after seven years me coming here to the philippines and just having sex with
00:42:58sheena straight up it's not what i want to do yeah i agree with that i just want to get
00:43:04to know you
00:43:04much better we'll know when the time is right i agree to that also probably when my mom's not around
00:43:18we'll see you later i don't need a coat that's for sure oh nice and cool in here
00:43:28i'm excited
00:43:36so where exactly are we you're taking us again
00:43:40so it's a chinatown here manila actually one of the oldest chinatown here in the whole world
00:43:47because chinese people have been trading with the filipinos before spanish people arrive
00:43:54spaniards so there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods i'm ready to eat it all
00:44:04so i got a little curiosity question uh to ask you guys uh i heard some interesting things you know
00:44:13coming for your from your guys's bedroom last night the little giggles
00:44:18so uh did uh you guys uh do the old uh nookin nookin nookin no no no no no no
00:44:31no no
00:44:33so why why why didn't you guys
00:44:38well just wasn't the right time or place to do that
00:44:42oh okay well you guys can always come and talk to us if you have questions
00:44:49it's not an embarrassing subject to me
00:44:52it's interesting
00:44:53it takes practice to be good at it
00:44:57my parents are just it's a little too much
00:45:05it's a little bit rude and awkward for me
00:45:08i just want to prefer like a privacy between us you know
00:45:13i respect you guys for for waiting and there's nothing wrong with that
00:45:17there are other things that you can do if you guys didn't want to do the nookin nookin
00:45:24there's oral sex there's fondling
00:45:28now now you're kind of being really disrespectful here mom i get it
00:45:32you're trying to be helpful but you're pushing too far
00:45:36you know if we want to talk about sex with you we'll come up and ask about it
00:45:43okay excuse me
00:45:48i thought it was nice that he was defending her honor that's admirable
00:45:53but i was very shocked by forest's reaction
00:45:57thank you very much
00:46:00well forest how why is this a you know a total 180
00:46:04from our normal discussions where you're right in there using the same language
00:46:07the same talk saying yeah i'm gonna get into that do that
00:46:10it's drastic night and day
00:46:13i see where this is headed
00:46:15oh my god i miss this place
00:46:17see us at home
00:46:20sheena already has that control that thumb on him
00:46:23let's not forget she was lying to him for years
00:46:27giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future
00:46:31and i don't know if forest will actually hold her accountable
00:46:34but we need to get some answers
00:46:45you don't need to talk about your past
00:46:49i know i know everything about your life
00:46:51you don't know everything
00:46:53i really want to tell the ed about my last engagement
00:46:57because i think it's the only way that we could move forward
00:47:17oh look at the mirrors
00:47:19wait i want to check my outfit
00:47:22here hold that
00:47:25we look cute
00:47:28i can see you can you see yourself
00:47:43i'm excited to go shopping
00:47:46it's always crowded
00:47:49this is an easy place to get lost
00:47:52today i want to take emma to old me you know
00:47:55i feel so bad because emma she loves her job
00:47:59i want to make her feel so better and she loves shopping so
00:48:04oh look at those bags
00:48:06those are cute
00:48:08the market place in the median
00:48:10they have a thousand stores there
00:48:13oh my gosh i love all of these clothes
00:48:16you can find anything you want
00:48:19oh look at these rugs
00:48:21those are nice
00:48:22yes
00:48:23oh wait there's bags
00:48:24let's go look at the bags
00:48:26let's let's let's see what you want
00:48:31oh this is so cute
00:48:32can you hold this i want to look at everything
00:48:33yeah yeah look for anything you want
00:48:36i think i like these little wallets
00:48:39these are cute
00:48:41i think i'm gonna buy these three
00:48:43not you me
00:48:44you're gonna get them
00:48:45yeah
00:48:46hey
00:48:47it's like my gift to you
00:48:50can i give you a kiss
00:48:51not hair
00:48:52hair kiss
00:48:53maybe
00:48:54is that okay
00:48:55yeah yeah that's okay
00:48:56can i do that from now on
00:48:57yeah yeah yeah
00:48:57i'll just give you air kisses whenever i want to kiss you
00:48:59yeah
00:49:03it's really nice to have
00:49:05zied offer to buy me things
00:49:07and buy gifts for me
00:49:08that was so romantic
00:49:11because that's never something i've had in the past
00:49:14it's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than i was feeling yesterday
00:49:18where are you taking me babe
00:49:20this is popular here in marrakish
00:49:24what is this
00:49:30what is that
00:49:32what do we call them in english
00:49:33snails
00:49:35snails
00:49:35i like don't want that
00:49:36really
00:49:37no
00:49:38it's like
00:49:39traditional
00:49:39i'm not trying
00:49:40no
00:49:43i literally would throw up
00:49:48it's so delicious
00:49:49that is the grossest thing i've ever seen in my whole life
00:49:52it's a slimy snail
00:49:55and you just suck it down
00:49:58for me it's delicious
00:50:03that's like really gross
00:50:05what's like the weirdest food you've ever tried
00:50:08like snails would be weird
00:50:10for you for me no
00:50:11so for me sushi for example
00:50:14i love sushi
00:50:15yeah it's
00:50:16we are different
00:50:17it's
00:50:18are we compatible
00:50:26thank you
00:50:27can you hold my other bag actually
00:50:30what else can we do like while we're here
00:50:32did you like horses
00:50:34i love horses
00:50:36i think we have to choose this one
00:50:39i like the white one
00:50:39your heads
00:50:42just one by one
00:50:45one by one
00:50:47oh my god this is so romantic
00:50:49this is like a romantic love ride
00:51:00this is three kisses you kiss me today
00:51:05i'm happy that we had a better day today
00:51:07yeah me too it was big difference between this day and last day
00:51:15yesterday was like really hard for me
00:51:16it like brought up old feelings
00:51:19because you know i've been lied to you know i've been lied to a lot like in my past like
00:51:23with past boyfriends so when when you kind of lied to me it was like a trigger for me
00:51:29yeah so you don't know you don't know you don't know you don't know you don't know i know you're
00:51:37right now not in past so yeah but don't you want to know about my life
00:51:42just like things like things like don't you want to know about me yeah i know i know i know
00:51:46everything about your life you don't know everything
00:51:50no i know everything i know your family i know uh where do you live i know i know but
00:51:55there are things that like i that have happened in my life that you don't know about
00:52:02like i don't know what i mean
00:52:03like i thought we can leave the impasse
00:52:05something passes it's passes
00:52:11i want to be vulnerable i want to share you know details about who i am in my past and
00:52:16i really want to be able to tell zied about my last engagement because i think it's the only way
00:52:22that we could move forward
00:52:25but for him to shut me down it does make me wonder if zia just doesn't want to talk about
00:52:31the past because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me
00:52:39since i've gotten to morocco i've just felt really rejected by him
00:52:44and so now i'm just feeling a little concerned about everything
00:52:54i need you to be able to look me in the eye why have you lied to us all along
00:53:00i was so fearful
00:53:02of my parents they would say bad things to me they would say bad things to other people okay and
00:53:07it
00:53:07affects me emotionally mentally drains me and i know i need that direct answer as to why you
00:53:15continue to hide it
00:53:42hello javon
00:53:54i'm leaving for the philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife anna for the first time
00:54:00but me and anna we haven't spoken to each other in about a week
00:54:05my sister talked to anna lynn and she actually unblocked me
00:54:09but she's still really upset that i'm back in touch with a friend i once had feelings for
00:54:16there's so much riding on this trip anna being as angry it's just not good
00:54:25hey what's going on what's going on what's going on ask yourself what's going on javon
00:54:33i mean uh you know anna don't don't be so aggressive
00:54:37not being aggressive you told me yourself if we're going to be married we can't be keeping
00:54:46anyone special from the past but you're doing it
00:55:02i'm dealing with so much over here by myself i'm dealing with your problems i'm dealing with my
00:55:08problems and sometimes i don't feel like i'm being emotionally supported by you so you know i kind of
00:55:15felt like i was just a little bit desperate just to just to be understood and just heard
00:55:24if you feel like sometimes you can't talk to me you have siblings you have a dad you have a
00:55:33mom
00:55:34but if you're big circle there's still not enough you're american get the therapy
00:55:42i mean but like who can afford therapy right now
00:55:52she's not taking any accountability that you know she played a part in why i reached out to a friend
00:56:00i need to be able to rely on my wife but she makes it impossible
00:56:06even when i'm like at work and you're going through something i always try to be there for you
00:56:11emotionally you know okay okay listen i try but i don't see you trying for me when do you show
00:56:18up for
00:56:19me in that way oh god
00:56:25like hello i've been i've been waiting for you for six years
00:56:29i have devoted invested so much love
00:56:39if you don't feel like that's understanding enough waiting for you for that long
00:56:46i don't know what is
00:56:55i know you've made you know some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long
00:57:01and i do apologize and i do take accountability for what i've done
00:57:09okay
00:57:11okay
00:57:13so you're gonna stop talking to her
00:57:18i can stop but can we at least work on our communication
00:57:25okay
00:57:27okay
00:57:27that's all i want boo that's that's it
00:57:32with jubon coming out to the philippines
00:57:34i do feel like i could let go of some negative feelings about this situation
00:57:41but even though he agreed that he's not gonna talk to that woman anymore
00:57:48do i believe it
00:57:52no not really
00:57:54so i will definitely talk about this again in person
00:58:00do you think we can like move past it
00:58:04like when we see each other
00:58:06i don't know
00:58:07maybe
00:58:26whoa look at this place
00:58:28this was a church
00:58:30oh
00:58:311588 man that is old
00:58:33it's old
00:58:33here we got something
00:58:44yeah it's precision
00:58:47oh my goodness
00:58:48we call that fiesta
00:58:50oh yes
00:58:51that's a culture of a catholic here in my country
00:58:53goodness
00:58:55yes
00:58:56oh my god
00:58:57yeah it's really cool
00:58:58look at this
00:59:02i decided to take force and his family
00:59:05the chinatown because i'm a chinese mix
00:59:08my mom is chinese descent
00:59:11so i wanted to show how chinese culture interbonded with filipina culture
00:59:17smell that
00:59:19oh that smells so good
00:59:21so this is a place that to make handmade noodles
00:59:24i eat that air
00:59:26hello
00:59:26oh
00:59:28yesterday i was quite a little nervous to meet for his parents
00:59:32especially molly
00:59:34okay thank you
00:59:35thank you
00:59:36there's been problems between me and molly
00:59:39but i'm so glad that she happened to accept me
00:59:43and i wanted to provide them the best first day here in the philippines
00:59:49yum
00:59:49oh thank you
00:59:51slurps up
00:59:53slurps up and slurps up
00:59:54yeah actually that's here the culture here
00:59:57if you want to slurp it means you're eating the good noodles
00:59:59so that's a good sign
01:00:00so the loud are the best right
01:00:01yeah yes
01:00:02here i go
01:00:05yeah you are the king of slurp
01:00:07slurps
01:00:08i made sure to get on my glasses
01:00:09that's the that's the key
01:00:10this is all good
01:00:11yeah
01:00:13well sheena
01:00:16i wanted to to thank you for your apology
01:00:19yesterday
01:00:20i mean that really showed a lot um to me
01:00:24but i did i did want to uh ask you about a few things
01:00:33okay
01:00:34okay mom i'm listening
01:00:35and i need you to be able to look me in the eye
01:00:38and i need you to be truthful with me
01:00:42one hundred percent
01:00:46you lied to us about giving your parents the money
01:00:52this was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to america
01:00:57to be a family with us
01:00:59these were the plans all of these years
01:01:02and then for it to just find out now before we come here that hasn't been happening
01:01:13why have you lied to us all along
01:01:20i really owe you millions and thousands of explanation i need
01:01:24i hope you can listen to my situation
01:01:27the reason why that i happen to give my money to my parents
01:01:32is because being a breadwinner
01:01:35it's a cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around
01:01:41i mean i completely understand giving your parents money
01:01:44needing to help your family that's what family does
01:01:48but my issue with it is that you lie
01:01:58to be honest the reason also that's the another reason i was so scared
01:02:03because my parents my mom happened to guilt tripping me from time to time
01:02:10if i don't give them money she makes me feel that i'm such a selfish person and it hurts me
01:02:17a lot
01:02:18okay but if i'm asking you a direct question i need that direct answer and even now
01:02:24you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you continue to hide it
01:02:33watching sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful
01:02:38i i'm wanting to step in and defend her and protect sheena
01:02:42but at the same time i i don't understand what fear she had of telling me
01:02:50i was so fearful of my parents they would say bad things to me they would say bad things to
01:02:56other
01:02:57people okay and it affects me emotionally mentally
01:02:59and it drains me every day no and it makes me feel so bad no no sheena i'm not asking
01:03:06you that
01:03:07i'm asking you why you did not tell us
01:03:14i couldn't handle myself anymore because
01:03:17i can't sheena i can't understand what you're saying
01:03:21i am sorry oh my god
01:03:23see there's your manipulation put the tears
01:03:26please put your tissue down
01:03:30i'm trying to have sheena acknowledge
01:03:34actions that she did that weren't acceptable
01:03:38so even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents
01:03:42what's the motivation for hiding it
01:03:44they gotta get answers
01:03:53oh my god this is really happening
01:03:55oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
01:03:58i can't believe i'm doing this
01:04:00i love this but i am worried about some things
01:04:04she was physical with a woman
01:04:07my jaw
01:04:08they got me up
01:04:09i did you
01:04:11my one is
01:04:13i can
01:04:14oh my god
01:04:17oh my god
01:04:18oh my god oh my god
01:04:29oh my god oh my god
01:04:31here he is
01:04:32awesome
01:04:33here we go
01:04:34yep
01:04:35here goes everything
01:04:43thank you
01:04:45oh my gosh
01:04:47i'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life daniel in nigeria for the very first time
01:04:54what am i doing
01:04:55i don't know mom what are you doing
01:04:57certainly not what i would be doing
01:05:01it still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women
01:05:05i'm traveling across the world to meet a man
01:05:09and i love him
01:05:11i love him
01:05:13you're gonna see when i come home how excited and happy i am
01:05:16you're gonna see when i talk to you there
01:05:18how happy i am and you're gonna be happy for me
01:05:22i just
01:05:24i don't want it to ruin
01:05:25your heart
01:05:32i'm gonna pee my pants
01:05:34oh god please don't
01:05:37here we go
01:05:42all right
01:05:43you remember the rules
01:05:45don't get married on the trip even when the divorce comes through
01:05:47yes
01:05:48and i would complain about everything
01:05:51it'll be a foundation
01:05:52and if you have questions
01:05:53i will ask them
01:05:57i love you
01:05:58i love you too
01:06:00i'm gonna miss you so much
01:06:02stay safe
01:06:03oh god
01:06:05this is the biggest risk i've ever taken
01:06:08flying across the world
01:06:10to another country
01:06:11to nigeria africa
01:06:13to be with a man i have never met before
01:06:15i can't believe i'm doing this
01:06:18oh my god this is really happening
01:06:21oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god oh my god
01:06:24oh my god i can't believe i'm doing this
01:06:27happy dance
01:06:31i hope daniel will accept me
01:06:33for everything that i am
01:06:34and who i am
01:06:35and that he will become my sixth
01:06:38and final spouse
01:06:41angel is coming
01:06:43and who then
01:06:43and you
01:07:07and i series
01:07:09we lean
01:07:11and what i am
01:07:13and when hematic
01:07:32Please, give me $500, um, Pepe.
01:07:37My name is Daniel.
01:07:39I am 29 years old.
01:07:43I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe.
01:07:45We have traditions, and we believe in traditions.
01:07:49As an Igbo man, we love competition.
01:07:51We work hard, and we have to be honest.
01:08:04I grew up very poor.
01:08:06Sometimes, we eat once in a day because there's no food.
01:08:11My family do the best they can do, and I am really close to my family.
01:08:16But some years ago, I lost my mom before she died.
01:08:21She told me that during the war, she nearly be killed, that a white woman protected her.
01:08:27And I have to make sure that I get married to a white woman, so I decided I will do
01:08:31it.
01:08:32And that's how I found Lisa.
01:08:38Lisa is 52 years old.
01:08:41She lives in Pennsylvania.
01:08:42She's a beautiful woman.
01:08:43She has, um, she has a good body structure.
01:08:47She's thick.
01:08:48She has bops.
01:08:50She has what I want.
01:08:51Like fire!
01:08:53Feel the heat!
01:08:54She don't hide anything.
01:08:55She supports me financially.
01:08:57She makes me feel loved.
01:09:00That's why I fell in love with her.
01:09:29She's a beautiful woman.
01:09:31I made my own peace in the world.
01:09:34I made my own peace in the world.
01:09:40This is a great day, and I'm happy to do my own prayers.
01:09:47You've got to go to my poor, and you know my friends.
01:09:50I'm proud of you.
01:09:51I am proud of you.
01:09:52I am proud of you.
01:09:55I am proud of you.
01:09:57to reduce these spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:10:04I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:10:09One, she vip.
01:10:11Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:10:15And three, she was physical with a woman, one time.
01:10:20This is the worst.
01:10:30We don't believe that same sex exists in our culture.
01:10:35Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:10:39So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:10:43She gave me her promise that she have stopped it.
01:10:46Brand lovers.
01:10:52She gave me her promise to her.
01:10:56She gave me her promise to her.
01:11:06She gave me her promise to her.
01:11:16Now that our ancestors have approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:11:26I'm planning a big surprise for Lisa when I meet her at the airport I've been talking
01:11:33to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria if I marry Lisa to make me change the story
01:11:40of my family and if I should make it to America this will change my life to good
01:11:59I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases yes oh it feels like it got colder it gets cold or
01:12:08gets hot no
01:12:09straight weather wow here we are oh we're here here you go I will take this thank you you're welcome
01:12:32after all of this excitement anticipation and build up of coming to Turkey and meeting beer con
01:12:40face to face it's starting off a little bit awkward but I'm still so happy to be finally standing here
01:12:48with him it just feels so right I'm excited to see this oh you want me to go first yeah
01:12:59of course okay
01:13:01oh my god this is huge oh yeah this is way bigger than it looked in pictures this is amazing
01:13:13this kitchen is bigger than almost my every house so this is incredible you like this oh my god I
01:13:23love
01:13:23this I'm gonna move here you can see the sea oh my god wow this is amazing I'm so excited
01:13:37to finally be
01:13:38here and to finally be doing this did worth it all the trip yeah yeah I know so how about
01:13:52you change and we
01:13:54will see because that sounds awesome let's see that let's do that okay this is the best part
01:14:08part of his mirror this is incredible I would love to like live right there like with this view every
01:14:16day yeah I like these old buildings I do too yeah architecture is the art we live in I love
01:14:29that yeah
01:14:30I like really profound yeah I love that phrase beer con has so many like random comments for things
01:14:37and he has a way of taking things that are just very simple and creating this like giant philosophical
01:14:44discussion around it it's really pretty now that the Sun's gone down when the darkness comes the light
01:14:53shines out sometimes it's a little exhausting because I'm like oh my god it's just the sunset I guess we
01:15:07the people are I don't know where he comes up with all of this I mean it can feel a
01:15:17little ridiculous
01:15:17sometimes but ultimately I like it and I wouldn't change it how was your day yeah it was good I
01:15:29enjoyed it
01:15:30how about you I mean I'm exhausted I traveled a time to get here but it was really fun to
01:15:37see some of
01:15:38the sights and I'm exhausted and I have got to get some sleep okay you want to go to bed
01:15:56actually it's just nine o'clock and I have no sleep so why don't you go some sleep and I
01:16:06will watch
01:16:07some TV and join you after have a nice night all right good night good night
01:16:41um Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here he tracked my flight texted me like
01:16:48as
01:16:48soon as soon as I landed to say I saw you landed and then he's just kind of checked up
01:16:53on me I said
01:16:55everything's good and then he was like your tone is less than excited my dear so I think it's interesting
01:17:04that he can pick up on that but I just have a lot of things to process right now him
01:17:16just staying out
01:17:17there watching TV it's just I don't know different maybe than what I was expecting I feel like it's not
01:17:24this like super great magical moment just feels off I don't know how to explain it just feels off
01:17:33it is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the
01:17:42man that I flew halfway around the world to meet and so I feel like there's something really wrong and
01:17:50I
01:17:50don't know maybe he's hiding something or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person but either way
01:17:59I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point
01:18:08I ain't there Colin
01:18:16does this story make any sense to you at all
01:18:19I can't handle it anymore
01:18:21it doesn't make any sense to me
01:18:23Forrest does it make sense to you
01:18:25I want to end this now
01:18:27you're acting all hostile
01:18:28I'm not yeah you are
01:18:30of course
01:18:42my family
01:18:43have been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid
01:18:47for they should be helping me around
01:18:49they kept always promising to me that they would do anything
01:18:52we can't understand you
01:18:56you have to speak you have to be strong and you got to speak
01:19:00clearly
01:19:03I need you to really please
01:19:07point blank
01:19:08you were giving your parents money
01:19:11why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us
01:19:24because I feel so scared
01:19:27that if I happen not to give them money
01:19:31they would say bad things
01:19:33they say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it
01:19:38and I was afraid that I was running back
01:19:41does this story make any sense to you at all
01:19:44honestly when you try to look at it
01:19:47and without the tears
01:19:48and without
01:19:49oh my god I don't want to live anymore
01:19:51it doesn't make any sense to me
01:19:54at all
01:19:55the pieces aren't just lining up
01:19:57I'm sorry
01:19:58but they're not lining up
01:20:06it's very concerning
01:20:08because
01:20:09how do I even know
01:20:11that your feelings and plans are actually genuine
01:20:16oh you were scared
01:20:17Forrest would have come to me
01:20:20and said mom
01:20:21I got to get on a freaking plane right now
01:20:23I got to go over there and save her
01:20:26but it sounds to me
01:20:27you obviously weren't that scared
01:20:29that you couldn't tell him
01:20:30and that you could put up with it all that years
01:20:32and hide it
01:20:35Forrest does it make sense to you?
01:20:43a lot of it yeah
01:20:46I understand that if you love your parents
01:20:49and you want to have love from them
01:20:51you would try to do anything
01:20:53to make them love you
01:20:56Forrest
01:20:56it's hard to say no to a parent
01:20:59especially when
01:20:59that still didn't answer
01:21:00the question
01:21:02it's hard for me to say no to you
01:21:04it's hard for me
01:21:05to stick up for her
01:21:07against you
01:21:11I believe Sheena's not trying to lie
01:21:14or use things as excuses
01:21:16I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say
01:21:18and
01:21:20she gets so overwhelmed
01:21:22all she can get is
01:21:25you know
01:21:26diary of the mouth
01:21:30I wouldn't be
01:21:31being a good boyfriend
01:21:32to Sheena
01:21:34if I just sat there
01:21:35and watched her flounder
01:21:38obviously she knows she did wrong
01:21:41what's your goal here?
01:21:42just to sit here
01:21:43and keep beating her down?
01:21:46I think what we have to do
01:21:48is we need to
01:21:50get Sheena
01:21:51away from her parents
01:21:54because ultimately
01:21:55the root
01:21:56of this nasty tree
01:21:59is the parents
01:22:01Sheena
01:22:02we need to hear from you
01:22:04that you're ready to
01:22:06move forward
01:22:07and confront your parents
01:22:08about what we're going to do
01:22:09from now on
01:22:12I'm willing to take
01:22:14the risk
01:22:15to confront my parents
01:22:16it is the only way
01:22:18to end this kind of problem
01:22:19which is what she should have done
01:22:21to set up with you
01:22:23years and years ago
01:22:25we could sit there
01:22:25and we could talk about the past
01:22:26and he said
01:22:27she said
01:22:28he could do that
01:22:29she cannot do that
01:22:30it's time to move forward now
01:22:32Forrest
01:22:33I want to add this
01:22:34now
01:22:38I don't even want to talk
01:22:39about the parents anymore
01:22:40I don't want to talk
01:22:41about anything
01:22:42you're acting all hostile
01:22:43I'm not hostile
01:22:44yeah you are
01:22:46and you're causing
01:22:48Sheena a lot of stress
01:22:49you're causing me
01:22:50a lot of stress
01:22:51I tried to have
01:22:52a nice dinner
01:22:52and our nice dinner
01:22:54turned into
01:22:55obsessed
01:22:58it's okay babe
01:23:04I now see
01:23:05that Forrest is too deep
01:23:07he's just got the blinders on
01:23:09only wanting to believe her
01:23:12now he sees us
01:23:14as the big bad
01:23:15bad nasties
01:23:16that attacked
01:23:17his poor Sheena
01:23:19but still
01:23:20I have to always protect Forrest
01:23:22because I know
01:23:23that he really loves her
01:23:25and I will not stop
01:23:28trying to find out
01:23:29why
01:23:29she lied
01:23:36next time on
01:23:38before the 90 days
01:23:39I'm about to meet my wife
01:23:41for the first time
01:23:42this is so surreal
01:23:43come on
01:23:45where are you
01:23:46this is like ordering
01:23:48something online
01:23:49and we're just excited
01:23:51to unpack
01:23:51the package
01:23:55are you nervous?
01:23:58a little bit
01:23:59yeah actually
01:24:00before I came to Turkey
01:24:02I did make an appointment
01:24:04with a plastic surgeon
01:24:05I have some like
01:24:06loose skin in places
01:24:08that I am looking
01:24:09to have removed
01:24:11this card
01:24:11as best as possible
01:24:13but I'm immediately
01:24:15regretting having
01:24:16Fear.com come with me
01:24:17I will just
01:24:18show you some pictures
01:24:25I've been looking
01:24:26at your page
01:24:27every day
01:24:28you follow new girls
01:24:29just girls
01:24:30girls
01:24:30girls
01:24:31girls
01:24:31girls
01:24:31girls
01:24:32yeah
01:24:33I downloaded
01:24:34this extension
01:24:35on my laptop
01:24:36and it shows you
01:24:38who people follow
01:24:39this morning
01:24:41I saw that he was
01:24:42still following
01:24:42thousands of women
01:24:43so since we've been
01:24:44dating
01:24:45have you talked
01:24:46romantically
01:24:46to any other girls?
01:24:49Sheena and I
01:24:50had a discussion
01:24:50about going by
01:24:52ourselves to meet
01:24:52your parents
01:24:53and how it's
01:24:53important that I
01:24:54meet them
01:24:55before mom
01:24:56and dad meet them
01:24:57I can't even
01:24:58imagine what her
01:24:59parents would try
01:25:00and do if Forrest
01:25:01went over there
01:25:01by himself
01:25:01I need to be
01:25:03there with
01:25:04with Forrest
01:25:05Sheena
01:25:06your parents
01:25:07are going to do
01:25:08the same
01:25:08line that they've
01:25:10used on you
01:25:11all along
01:25:11well my family
01:25:12isn't a bad
01:25:13people
01:25:13now the story
01:25:15changes again
01:25:16I still don't know
01:25:18if this isn't
01:25:18something that
01:25:19you're involved
01:25:20in either
01:25:29I love him
01:25:30with everything
01:25:31I am
01:25:32but he doesn't
01:25:33know that I've
01:25:34been married
01:25:35five times
01:25:35and I'm still
01:25:36married
01:25:37to a woman
01:25:40what are you doing?
01:25:41great
01:25:41great
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