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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 8
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04We put it there?
00:00:06Oh, what?
00:00:09I may not be able to give you everything you want,
00:00:12but everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:00:15Do you think that I'm enough for you?
00:00:18Sure.
00:00:19That's what I need to feel, that I'm enough for her.
00:00:22I really do want this to work.
00:00:25You do love me.
00:00:26Of course, baby.
00:00:29I just want the world for your daughter,
00:00:31and I was hoping I could get your blessing to marry her.
00:00:36Well, Forrest, you have my blessing.
00:00:39I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
00:00:44I feel like Chena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
00:00:48Even though her family needs her help with money,
00:00:51what I've seen, the way they live,
00:00:54it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
00:00:58So I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to basically flip out.
00:01:05We had that argument, and you called my sister,
00:01:09and you were a little bit unhinged.
00:01:12I mean, you're upset with me, but you ran to other women.
00:01:17I mean, Anna, I love you, but you are a handful.
00:01:20Here we go again.
00:01:22Huh.
00:01:23I thought the reason we were fighting so much
00:01:26was because we were in a long-distance relationship,
00:01:29but we're still fighting.
00:01:31What does it say about our marriage?
00:01:37I don't trust Michael.
00:01:38I want you to cut him out of your life.
00:01:42He's just my friend, and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
00:01:47I just get some air, maybe, or some peace.
00:01:53I am shocked that Birkon decides to walk out on me.
00:01:57It absolutely feels like a side of him that I haven't seen yet,
00:02:01and I really don't like.
00:02:03F*** Michael.
00:02:06The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:02:09If your uncle does not give you the blessing,
00:02:12does that mean that we are not getting married?
00:02:14How's this?
00:02:16I have to try to impress his uncle,
00:02:18but what kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:02:20I'm worried I may have to reveal things
00:02:22that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:02:24I don't want to lose Daniel.
00:02:59Yesterday, I arrived at Sheena's family home in the province,
00:03:02and even though the family accepted me,
00:03:06what I've learned is just leaving me confused and bothered.
00:03:14First off, I believe that the entire time
00:03:17I was coming here to save Sheena from horrific evil monsters,
00:03:21and it turns out her family has this nice, beautiful home
00:03:25and are just normal, caring people.
00:03:27So last night, I tried to talk to Sheena.
00:03:30You have to be honest with me.
00:03:32You described your family as almost like terrible monsters
00:03:36that were stealing from you.
00:03:37Are they just, are they just, is this an act for me?
00:03:42No, they're not an act.
00:03:44They're great people.
00:03:45But they're not really great people
00:03:47if they're mistreating their daughter.
00:03:49You don't have to think anything about worry.
00:03:53They give their blessings to you,
00:03:54even though it's the first meeting.
00:03:56So it's a good thing.
00:04:00I wish her answers were more,
00:04:03you know, answers and not more like dodging around.
00:04:07Now I'm left with more questions than what I started with.
00:04:13I feel like I know bits and pieces
00:04:15of the most important parts of the story,
00:04:18but there's still many other things
00:04:19that need to be uncovered.
00:04:22I do believe my mom is going to show up
00:04:24and she's going to see the nice place.
00:04:26She's going to see this,
00:04:27and she's going to say,
00:04:28why did you need a bunny in the first place?
00:04:31And she's going to express herself
00:04:32and say exactly what's on her mind.
00:04:36I'm kind of relieved that my mom is coming
00:04:38because she can get the third perspective
00:04:40and see what's really going on.
00:04:43Coffee time, got to get my coffee time.
00:04:46Sheena's family seems to be under the impression
00:04:48that she's going to financially support them going forward.
00:04:52So I still want to tell Sheena's family
00:04:54that we are cutting them off.
00:04:55And hopefully my mom and Dev can back me up
00:04:58and kind of just get past the big hurdle
00:05:01that is impending.
00:05:05That's a strong cup of joe right there.
00:05:12Okay, Sheena.
00:05:13They should be here any second.
00:05:15Okay.
00:05:16Come on, dude.
00:05:18Okay.
00:05:18Yeah.
00:05:25Are you nervous, baby?
00:05:27Yeah, so nervous.
00:05:29I don't know what's going to happen today.
00:05:31I know Molly will bring up the finances
00:05:34and it's a conversation that we need to have.
00:05:38But Forrest wanted to impress my family.
00:05:41So he is kinder.
00:05:43I'm quite worried Molly would act not as nice.
00:05:47Oh, yes.
00:05:49Moment of truth.
00:05:54Oh.
00:05:55Oh, boy.
00:05:58Wow.
00:05:59Hey, guys.
00:06:00Wow.
00:06:01Hi, Mom.
00:06:02Hi, Deb.
00:06:03Mm-hmm.
00:06:03This is so beautiful here.
00:06:05Well, thank you.
00:06:06Wow.
00:06:08Wow.
00:06:10Right off the bat, alarm bells are going off in my head.
00:06:17My family is out right now.
00:06:19So come here, guys.
00:06:20I'll give you a tour.
00:06:22Here's the garden and stuff.
00:06:23Man.
00:06:26Sheena's told me that her family runs this struggling bed and breakfast.
00:06:31So I'm expecting something kind of quaint and rough around the edges.
00:06:35We had different kinds of plants here.
00:06:37We have fruit-bearing trees, red palm, orchids.
00:06:41Huh.
00:06:42I don't know this plant, but this is very rare to have flowers.
00:06:45Oh.
00:06:46My first reaction, holy shit.
00:06:51Sheena, who did your grass?
00:06:53Actually, before Winnie got this place, it doesn't have anything.
00:06:58So you guys did all of this?
00:06:59Yes, from no scratch.
00:07:04Sheena's expecting me to believe that if they don't take her money, that they're going to starve.
00:07:10I mean, they're living better than Forrest and I back in the United States.
00:07:16This is not adding up at all.
00:07:20And this is the pool area.
00:07:22Sheena.
00:07:22Oh.
00:07:24Then if it's around the nighttime, it would have different color, light color.
00:07:28Well, would you look at that.
00:07:31So when do I get to meet your family, Sheena?
00:07:34At dinner?
00:07:35Yes, Mom.
00:07:36Okay.
00:07:38I'm definitely going to tell Sheena's family every single thing that Sheena has told me,
00:07:44this whole story of the past seven years.
00:07:46And then I want to see how they react.
00:07:49I want to see if they're going to be shocked or if they're part of it or whatever.
00:07:55Yeah, thank you for giving me the grand tour.
00:07:58It's just beautiful.
00:07:59Yeah.
00:08:00Tonight, I will get the truth for Sheena.
00:08:02I think I'm just going to go put my legs up for a bit until dinner.
00:08:06Okay, Mom.
00:08:20Is there upper?
00:08:21I wish I can tie it to my waist.
00:08:24You can.
00:08:24Show me.
00:08:26You have to spread your leg.
00:08:28You know, I don't have much waist, so...
00:08:30I don't.
00:08:31You're tight.
00:08:32Okay.
00:08:32On the side?
00:08:33Yeah, on the side.
00:08:34I'm looking like a woman already.
00:08:36You look beautiful.
00:08:37Oh, la, la.
00:08:48You have to forage a little bit.
00:08:50On the first one, the inner one is shorter than the...
00:08:54The inner one is shorter?
00:08:55The outer one, yeah.
00:08:57Okay.
00:09:00It's okay.
00:09:02Okay.
00:09:03Beautiful.
00:09:05Look at me.
00:09:06It is not a kiss.
00:09:10Daniel and I are going today to meet his uncle and get a blessing so we can get married.
00:09:14And I'm nervous.
00:09:17I don't know the traditions.
00:09:18I don't know the culture.
00:09:20And I don't know what his uncle is going to ask me.
00:09:22I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
00:09:24And Daniel will blame me.
00:09:26You will be the one to hold the wine.
00:09:28Okay?
00:09:29When you kneel down there, you give me the wine.
00:09:31I will be the one to present it to my uncle.
00:09:33Okay?
00:09:33But I kneel with it first.
00:09:35Yes.
00:09:37I will be kneeling down with you.
00:09:38Okay?
00:09:40Good.
00:09:40You give it to me.
00:09:41Then I will hand it to my uncle.
00:09:44Okay?
00:09:46Okay?
00:09:46Lisa is from another country.
00:09:48She don't understand our culture.
00:09:49I have to instruct her on what to do so she doesn't refer to my uncle.
00:09:55Hair tie.
00:09:56Let's try.
00:09:59Sorry.
00:10:07Daniel wants me to have traditional attire to meet his uncle.
00:10:10And I'm expected to learn how to put it on myself.
00:10:13I think I'm going to look like a clown.
00:10:15I can't hear anything because the hair tie is like plastic and it's rattling in my ears.
00:10:21But he's telling me this is Igbo traditional attire and this is what I must wear.
00:10:25So this is going to be pretty interesting.
00:10:28Maybe my bangs should be back.
00:10:34I don't mean to laugh, honey.
00:10:35I just got kicked.
00:10:39All right.
00:10:40Let me try again.
00:10:41Take care.
00:10:45What are you doing, baby?
00:10:48It doesn't look too bad.
00:10:50Oh, my God.
00:10:51All right.
00:10:51Can you help me?
00:10:53But you were there when the woman was teaching you yesterday.
00:10:56I didn't have a mirror.
00:10:57Where was my mirror to watch her?
00:10:59I had my head and I was holding it.
00:11:01You must help me.
00:11:07Oh, my God.
00:11:08Lisa doesn't know how to put on the attire.
00:11:11Tangle.
00:11:11All these things, I know them from when I was growing up.
00:11:14When my mom was alive, I used to see her when she started and I remember.
00:11:20But I never knew that someday I would be the one to help my girlfriend to tie her up.
00:11:27You have to make it cut or it's going to fall off.
00:11:35You got this.
00:11:37Okay.
00:11:38Okay.
00:11:39How do I look?
00:11:40That's good.
00:11:40You look good.
00:11:52I'm nervous.
00:11:54Why are you nervous?
00:11:56Because I am.
00:11:57This is a big deal.
00:11:59I went to impress her.
00:12:01First miracle?
00:12:01Yes, I went to give a good...
00:12:03I went to put my best foot forward.
00:12:08I'm scared less.
00:12:10And you're not telling me anything except to kneel in front of him.
00:12:13I don't know what he's going to ask me.
00:12:15I will do my best.
00:12:16My uncle will not ask you what you don't know.
00:12:18So don't lie to him.
00:12:19I know, but what you're considering a lie and what I consider a lie might be two different things.
00:12:23I'm from America.
00:12:24My culture is different than yours.
00:12:25Baby, lie is lie.
00:12:31I want to show him that I am willing to go above and beyond to be a good Igbo wife.
00:12:42Igbo wife.
00:12:43Igbo wife.
00:12:49I'm trying to be positive about Lisa, meeting my uncle.
00:12:53But I'm nervous.
00:12:56I told my uncle a little bit about Lisa, but not only her vaping.
00:13:01There are some other things she told me.
00:13:04It is a big, big thing.
00:13:06She told me that she has changed for good.
00:13:08But I want to make sure she's being honest.
00:13:11And I am worried.
00:13:14And that my uncle will not give us the blessing if she cannot explain herself.
00:13:19And I will have to walk away.
00:13:27Remember what you promised me, that you're not going to talk to her again.
00:13:32Yeah.
00:13:33I need you to show me that you keep your promise.
00:13:37I've been very concerned ever since he's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:13:43They really encouraged cheating.
00:13:45Can I see your phones now?
00:13:51So, we're going to go meet your friends.
00:13:54I do not think this is an ideal time to meet Memo and Tuba.
00:13:58But part of me really wants to ask them questions because there's a lot more I need to learn about
00:14:04Vercan.
00:14:05Tell me something interesting about Vercan.
00:14:08So, what do I say?
00:14:10I'm very concerned about Vercan.
00:14:15I'm very concerned about Vercan.
00:14:17I'm very concerned about Vercan.
00:14:31Yeah.
00:14:49¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
00:15:01We had all these firsts with me and my wife after three years of being married, first time sleeping together,
00:15:08first time eating together, first time waking up beside each other together, and then we had our first in-person
00:15:16fight.
00:15:17So right now it seems like I'm in the doghouse.
00:15:25Okay, she made her side of the bed.
00:15:31Anna, last night things got a little bit tense because I told Anna not to call my sister and vent
00:15:38about our issues in our marriage.
00:15:41Last night during our couple's massage, I am trying so hard to show him a good time, trying to be
00:15:49romantic.
00:15:51But he's always trying to find ways to criticize me.
00:15:56I would rather Anna come to me about our issues in our marriage.
00:16:01Why can't I reach out to his sister? She's my family too.
00:16:04So why can't I confide to her when he can confide to any bitch?
00:16:16What? Are you going to brush her teeth or are you just going to look at me?
00:16:20I mean, Anna, are we going to talk?
00:16:23Talk about what?
00:16:24I mean, about last night.
00:16:26I mean, I apologize for, you know, bringing that up at the wrong time.
00:16:33I want to enjoy the trip.
00:16:35Can we do that?
00:16:42Okay.
00:16:44All right, we're good?
00:16:45Okay, I hope it's all right.
00:16:48I'm happy that he apologized, but that doesn't mean all is good.
00:16:56Last night, it wasn't just really about him criticizing me.
00:17:02It's way deeper than that.
00:17:05It's about him doing things that's giving me trust issues.
00:17:12Now that I'm in person with my husband, there are things that I question about him.
00:17:17And I noticed that it's beautiful out today.
00:17:21Yeah.
00:17:22You want to head to the beach?
00:17:24Yes.
00:17:24Okay.
00:17:30But I don't want to waste this moment, especially this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:17:40What's going on over there?
00:17:42Kayaking?
00:17:43Yeah, and this one is like a bicycle.
00:17:46Yeah.
00:17:47This one is so cool.
00:17:49We're definitely going to do these.
00:17:50Are we interested in renting this?
00:17:53Yeah, you can do it this way.
00:17:54Okay.
00:17:55Have you been in one of these before?
00:17:57No.
00:17:59Are you excited?
00:18:00I'm excited.
00:18:01All right.
00:18:03Woo-hoo!
00:18:04Bye-bye.
00:18:05Go on out this way.
00:18:09It's so fun.
00:18:10Yeah.
00:18:13I just love this.
00:18:15Just remember this moment.
00:18:19Look at my face!
00:18:24It's so long.
00:18:26It's like a stork.
00:18:27It's pedaling.
00:18:28Yeah, right, right, yeah.
00:18:30The aqua bike is a little bit uncomfortable because I'm so tall.
00:18:34I couldn't...
00:18:35You have long legs.
00:18:39It's difficult.
00:18:40Yeah.
00:18:43They're not built for people over six foot.
00:18:47Maybe jet skis next time.
00:18:51Thank you.
00:18:53Oh, my God.
00:18:54That was so fun.
00:18:58Cheers.
00:18:58Cheers.
00:19:00Come on.
00:19:05It's pretty good.
00:19:07Mm-hmm.
00:19:12So, you know, this is the last day of our honeymoon.
00:19:15Mm-hmm.
00:19:16So we're about to go back home really soon.
00:19:19You're going to meet my mom.
00:19:22But there's something I want to talk about.
00:19:26Okay.
00:19:27You know what we argued about last night?
00:19:31That was about my sister.
00:19:33Yeah, also because you remind me why I did what I did.
00:19:38Because you talk to this person, I don't want you to.
00:19:44I need to make sure that you keep your promise.
00:19:49Remember what you promised me when you were on the phone before you came down here.
00:19:56That you're not going to talk to her again.
00:19:59Yeah.
00:19:59But I need you to show me that you keep your promise.
00:20:04Okay.
00:20:05So, can I see your phone?
00:20:09Now?
00:20:14Okay.
00:20:15Okay.
00:20:18I know that checking Yvonne's phone is bad.
00:20:21I wish I don't have to do that.
00:20:23But having an online marriage, we are not together physically.
00:20:27For me to know what he's really doing.
00:20:32I have been very concerned ever since he's been watching all this masculinity podcast.
00:20:39Because they really encourage cheating.
00:20:50They really say that if he cheats, it's okay as long as he provides.
00:20:56It really scares me a little bit.
00:20:58So, for my peace of mind, I need to be totally sure that there's nothing going on.
00:21:09I need to know what he's doing.
00:21:12I need to know what he's doing.
00:21:33I need to know what he's doing.
00:21:35Wow.
00:21:35I need to know what he's doing.
00:21:47I need to know what he's doing.
00:21:58I need to know what he's doing.
00:21:58Like he's doing it.
00:22:02Estoy muy seguro de todo lo que está ahora.
00:22:07Después de keeping algunos grandes secretos de mÃ,
00:22:11Bercón tiene muchas ganas para tratar de decirme
00:22:14quiénes me pueden y no pueden ser friends con.
00:22:17Yo sabÃa que Bercón tenÃa muchos problemas
00:22:20con mi relación con Michael,
00:22:22pero para decirme que quiere que me quiera
00:22:24mi mejor amigo de mi vida,
00:22:26es un nuevo controlante de él,
00:22:29y es muy preocupante para mÃ.
00:22:34Me quedó en la cama, solo.
00:22:37Porque no me gusta él.
00:22:40No tengo nada en común con él, ¿ok?
00:22:43You both care about me.
00:22:44You have that in common.
00:22:49Pero siempre dijo que me confÃa.
00:22:52Ya.
00:22:53Tienes que confiarme en esto,
00:22:57porque...
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00:24:15Especially since the last few days have proven
00:24:18that there's a lot more I need to learn about beer con.
00:24:46It's so good to meet you.
00:24:50I'm Laura.
00:24:51I'm Tuba.
00:24:52Nice to meet you.
00:24:53Nice to meet you.
00:24:54I'm Laura.
00:24:55Nice to meet you.
00:24:56Nice to meet you.
00:24:57Even though I am feeling bad about the argument,
00:25:00I think this is the best time for Memo and Tuba to meet Laura
00:25:04because they're the best two people can teach her
00:25:09that I'm not a bad guy.
00:25:11I'm just trying to protect the one I love.
00:25:16I will translate.
00:25:17You guys are going to mix up and...
00:25:20And I'm going to ask lots of questions about you.
00:25:22Okay.
00:25:24Yeah, this sounds like a threat.
00:25:26It's not a threat.
00:25:26Yeah, it's a threat.
00:25:27It's not a threat.
00:25:28Okay.
00:25:38How long have you known beer con?
00:25:42How long have you known beer con?
00:26:03Thank you sir.
00:26:06Thank you.
00:26:12Oh.
00:26:16This is actually what I do every day.
00:26:18This is something for relaxing.
00:26:19It's like medication.
00:26:21I have my tea.
00:26:22I have my shisha.
00:26:23I will be fine.
00:26:25While it's fun to see this side of beer con hanging out
00:26:28with his friends, it's also kind of eye opening.
00:26:32He knew everyone when we walked in.
00:26:35He has a regular table.
00:26:37And now I'm hearing that he comes here literally to smoke shisha every day.
00:26:43I mean, he just told me about this massive amount of debt that he has.
00:26:47I feel like he should be doing something more productive with his time.
00:26:52Tell me something interesting about beer con.
00:26:55He wants to say something interesting about beer con.
00:26:57That's a new translator here.
00:27:00Oh, nice job.
00:27:06People can't reach the inside, inner me, you know?
00:27:10That's why people think I'm tough and I'm angry 24-7.
00:27:15In fact, he's a very soft person.
00:27:17Inside, I have a little cheek.
00:27:22But I also like the dark parts and the protective nature.
00:27:31It's a good combination.
00:27:47It's a good combination.
00:27:55¿Qué?
00:28:22Oh, my mouth is watering.
00:28:26I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:28:29Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom,
00:28:31or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard,
00:28:33battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:28:34I want to talk about Sheena.
00:28:36There's been quite a bit of confusion.
00:29:06Baby, I love to see that smile on your face.
00:29:12The linguers here are kind.
00:29:14You just bring banana, and you just give them,
00:29:17and you're playing with you.
00:29:19Sound like fun.
00:29:21Lemurs make good pets, you know, like a cat or a dog.
00:29:25Oh, no, no, that's illegal with me.
00:29:29Oh, it's illegal, okay.
00:29:32Today we're taking a boat to Nosy Coma to see some lemurs.
00:29:37This is something that I've been looking forward to,
00:29:40because I think that Madagascar is the only place
00:29:44that you can find lemurs.
00:29:45You're here, huh?
00:29:49Also, for a long time,
00:29:51that's the only thing I knew about Madagascar from the movie.
00:29:55So I'm really excited to see them in person.
00:29:59Oh, oh, oh.
00:30:06So cute.
00:30:09Look at the black one.
00:30:10There's three of them.
00:30:11So do they ever come down?
00:30:13Yeah, they run like this everywhere.
00:30:16And what do they eat?
00:30:18Whenever they see the fruits, like that, they eat all of it.
00:30:22Huh.
00:30:23These lemurs, they're cute and they're strange at the same time.
00:30:28To me, they act similar to monkeys, but they're not as human as, like, monkeys are.
00:30:35They look like squirrel monkeys.
00:30:39Oh, look.
00:30:40Wow, this one's right next to us.
00:30:44Hey, man.
00:30:45What's that noise you're making, baby?
00:30:47That's their...
00:30:48Is that their language?
00:30:50I can't hear that.
00:30:53I tell him I'm like a big...
00:30:55You close your mouth and do it like that.
00:30:59Monkey, monkey, monkey.
00:31:00Is it monkey or what do you say?
00:31:02Monkey.
00:31:02Monkey.
00:31:03Monkey, monkey.
00:31:04Monkey, monkey.
00:31:05Yes.
00:31:06You see?
00:31:07Oh, he's looking around.
00:31:08Let's get a picture.
00:31:10Come on, let's get one together.
00:31:15Man, the kids will love this.
00:31:17Yeah.
00:31:19My boys, I miss them.
00:31:22But it'll be worth it if I can bring the stepmommy home.
00:31:26Yeah, I'll be there.
00:31:29I envision that we can have this family unit, just the four of us.
00:31:37You know that I love your kids, right?
00:31:40But I cannot just, you know, being a stepmom, like, forever.
00:31:47I want to have my own.
00:31:52I mean, I love kids, but, like, right now, I'm not in a position to have another child.
00:31:59What's the issue?
00:32:04Well, it's...
00:32:06I know it's a hard time, but I know what it is.
00:32:09I know.
00:32:11So, I took care of my little brother and sister without any help, like, my dad going to work, and
00:32:17only them and me was in the house.
00:32:21And before, when I told you that I want my own kids, then you say, oh, we should talk about
00:32:28it when you're coming here.
00:32:30So, this is the time to talk about it.
00:32:34You should decide.
00:32:38You want what you don't want.
00:32:41Oh, Trish, I'm not ready to make that decision right now.
00:32:48At this point in my life, I don't think I'm ready to have another child.
00:32:54I'm 52 years old, and I'm getting up there in age, so having another child is going to be, like,
00:33:02starting all over again.
00:33:04And it's hard enough, as it is, dealing with my two little ones.
00:33:11And I haven't even told her about what I did in Columbia.
00:33:17She might not even want a child with me after she finds that out.
00:33:24What do you want?
00:33:27I mean, I'm not totally closing the door on the idea of having a child.
00:33:34For how long you'll be, you'll decide it, like, okay, now I'm going to have kids.
00:33:40I can't put a time frame on that.
00:33:44I wish he would stop making excuses and tell me what he really wants.
00:33:51I need to know, and it's very important, and not only for me, but for my family.
00:33:58In my culture, it's very important to have kids.
00:34:02And it's not a question.
00:34:06I'm going to take Rick to my hometown in a few days, and I'm worried.
00:34:13If he decided he does not want to have kids anymore, I'm not sure if I will be able to
00:34:20stay with him.
00:34:28I had heard that you guys had been taking all of Sheena's earnings.
00:34:36She told us if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would threaten her and mistreat her.
00:34:46You forced her.
00:34:48Do you just hate it?
00:35:06Oh, big up!
00:35:15Okay.
00:35:17Wow.
00:35:20It's not very ripe.
00:35:23Hello.
00:35:23Hello.
00:35:24Um, mom, Dev.
00:35:27And this is my sister Katrina and my dad, Steve.
00:35:29Uh, hello.
00:35:30Hello.
00:35:31Hello.
00:35:31This is my mom, Molly, and my dad, Dev.
00:35:33So very nice to meet you, sir.
00:35:35This is Dev.
00:35:36Hello.
00:35:37Good to meet you.
00:35:38Steve, Dev.
00:35:39Steve.
00:35:39Dev.
00:35:40Dev.
00:35:41Dev, yeah.
00:35:42Hi, I'm Molly.
00:35:43So very nice to meet you.
00:35:44It's a pleasure.
00:35:45I'm Katrina.
00:35:46Oh, nice to meet you.
00:35:47Good to meet you, Katrina.
00:35:48Hi, Forrest.
00:35:49Hey, pops.
00:35:50How's it going?
00:35:51Yeah.
00:35:52So, mom, we're just trying to show you on how we make jackboots.
00:35:55That is a knife.
00:35:56Yeah.
00:35:59Tonight, I'm worried about, you know, everything that's going to happen.
00:36:03Anyone want to try?
00:36:04Oh, I sure do.
00:36:05Oh, thank you.
00:36:07I don't know which version of my mom I'm going to get.
00:36:09Am I going to get the nice, sweet mom who loves and cares everybody?
00:36:13Or am I going to get hard-nosed, rock-hard, battle, battle, battle, battle?
00:36:17You want to go sit down for a while?
00:36:20Oh, yeah.
00:36:20That'd be great.
00:36:21That'd be great, yeah.
00:36:23But at the same time, I'm starting to get kind of tired and overwhelmed with learning new
00:36:27things every single time about Sheena.
00:36:30So I'm hoping that we can get the truth all out on the table.
00:36:36Oh, look at that.
00:36:38So these are banana leaves.
00:36:39We use this as a buddle fight.
00:36:42Very traditional.
00:36:44This usually was practiced in the military when they went up to the mountains.
00:36:48So no plates, just the banana leaves and all the food.
00:36:53All natural stuff.
00:36:54Yes, it's wonderful.
00:36:56A buddle fight is like a traditional Filipino culture of everyone to eat in one whole dime leaf.
00:37:04So it's like this, they have to do like this, in a line.
00:37:08Ah.
00:37:08I just thought Molly would really enjoy this because she's interested in learning about my culture,
00:37:15especially when it comes to food.
00:37:17Oh, my mouth is watering.
00:37:19Oh.
00:37:20I hope that the buddle fight is the only fight that would happen tonight.
00:37:26Next batch.
00:37:27Next batch, the whole thing.
00:37:29Seafood.
00:37:30Oh, shrimp.
00:37:31Oh, my gosh.
00:37:32Those look delicious.
00:37:34Mussels.
00:37:35The big fish goes in the middle.
00:37:37Yes.
00:37:38My first impression of Sheena's family was they're hospitable, they're very welcoming.
00:37:44I mean, I've never quite seen a spread as nice as this.
00:37:49Usually, uh, make a rice ball, for instance.
00:37:51Just pick around, then scoop it in your mouth, shove it in your mouth, shove it up.
00:37:56Shove it up.
00:37:57Shove it on up.
00:38:02That be told, that does not line up at all from what I heard about them from Sheena.
00:38:08God, the flavors that just come through.
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12Mmm.
00:38:12Mmm.
00:38:15I was under the impression that they were these money-grubbing, cruel people that pretty much locked Sheena away
00:38:24and wouldn't let her out, only to go to work, and then to hand over her check.
00:38:29That's what I was led to believe.
00:38:34I just want to say this meal that you prepared is just incredible.
00:38:39I'm just so grateful.
00:38:40And you have created such a beautiful home, I must say.
00:38:45Thank you, thank you.
00:38:46It must have been so expensive.
00:38:52But, um, I was actually quite surprised to see how, how it really is.
00:38:57Um, I expected something very different.
00:39:00But you guys made us feel very, very welcome, and I appreciate that so much.
00:39:07Uh, so I wanted to ask, um, are you guys okay with Sheena moving to the United States?
00:39:15Uh, actually, uh, that is already her dream years ago, to work there in the U.S.
00:39:23Oh.
00:39:24Okay.
00:39:26That's interesting.
00:39:29Yes.
00:39:30But, uh, yesterday, uh, Forrest made it clear that, uh, no, he's a little low on budget also, and so
00:39:39I don't know what the situation is, you know?
00:39:42So, uh...
00:39:43Actually, let's put Forrest's finances to the side, and I want to talk about Sheena.
00:39:52There's been quite a bit of confusion, and I had, I, um, had heard that you guys had been, um,
00:40:02taking the, all of Sheena's earnings.
00:40:10And she, uh, told, uh, told us that, um, if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you
00:40:22would threaten her and be cruel to her and mistreat her.
00:40:30That you forced her.
00:40:35No?
00:40:37Did you say that?
00:40:47If she doesn't give me the blessing, I will have fierce words.
00:40:52You, Dan, don't you know her culture?
00:40:55I'm here to make sure that Sheena is a good woman.
00:40:59It is our tradition.
00:41:01You are not an Igbo woman.
00:41:04Tell me, do you drink?
00:41:05Do you smoke?
00:41:07Are you a practicing Christian?
00:41:09I have not always been a very good Christian.
00:41:12Thank you.
00:41:31Wow.
00:41:54¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
00:42:03Bunch of cute photos of his dog
00:42:06And photos of me that I sent him
00:42:10Actually, lots of photos of me
00:42:13I'm realizing that maybe I should cut him some slack
00:42:18But I guess I'm still learning how to trust him
00:42:24Well, for now, I don't see any red flag, honestly
00:42:31You know, I told you I was going to stop talking to that person
00:42:37And I did
00:42:40I mean, did you think I wasn't telling the truth?
00:42:42I think I never know
00:42:47Well, now you know
00:42:51It's a little bit offensive that she feel like she needs to look through my phone
00:42:56In order to feel comfortable
00:42:58Anna's supposed to trust me regardless
00:43:01She's actually supposed to trust me before, you know, we got married
00:43:07You know, but at the same time
00:43:09I watch a lot of relationship podcasts
00:43:12And one of the hosts
00:43:14He sometimes makes good points about
00:43:16A little paranoia is healthy
00:43:20I mean, most women only act right
00:43:22When they feel like they can be replaced
00:43:26So I'm not saying go out and cheat
00:43:29But a little bit of paranoia
00:43:31A little bit of fear is healthy
00:43:32Are we good?
00:43:36I do want to trust you
00:43:38But I'm not going to lie
00:43:39I'm not still like 100%
00:43:50And if you talk to her again
00:43:52I'm going to break this phone
00:43:54I don't care
00:43:55I mean, Anna
00:43:59Just look at it this way
00:44:00I mean, I passed all your tests
00:44:03For now
00:44:03Okay, for now
00:44:05For now
00:44:06Do you want to go through my luggage up in the room?
00:44:08Yes, I will
00:44:09All right
00:44:11Do you have extra phone?
00:44:14Just kidding
00:44:15Nah, that I'll with you
00:44:16I'm pissing off
00:44:40As soon as I go in
00:44:42Do I kneel down before him?
00:44:46Okay
00:44:47Stop being nervous, okay?
00:44:48Okay
00:44:51I am in a very uncomfortable situation
00:44:53I'm sitting next to the man I love
00:44:55And he doesn't know about me
00:45:00He doesn't know that I'm still married
00:45:03He has no idea
00:45:04I've only been with women for 21 years
00:45:07And right now
00:45:08I'm feeling scared
00:45:09Because I don't want to lie to his uncle
00:45:11But I don't want to tell him any of my secrets
00:45:14I want us to have this blessing
00:45:15More than anything in the world
00:45:17I want to be with Daniel
00:45:25We're going to do this
00:45:27If he doesn't give me the blessing
00:45:29I will have fierce words
00:45:46I don't want to lie to him
00:45:49So if he doesn't know that I'm going to lie to him
00:45:53What's up?
00:45:55What's up?
00:45:56What's up?
00:45:56What's up?
00:45:57What's up?
00:45:57What's up?
00:46:00¿No sabes la cultura?
00:46:31No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:47:00My good lady, how are you?
00:47:04Nervous, uncle. I'm very nervous today.
00:47:09Yes.
00:47:11You are not an Igbo woman.
00:47:15I want to know you more.
00:47:18I will ask you some pertinent questions.
00:47:24Tell me who are you.
00:47:27I am a Native American
00:47:30I am part Irish also
00:47:33I come from a mother who gave me up for adoption
00:47:36at a very young age
00:47:38I have a family that adopted me
00:47:40and they took very good care of me
00:47:43I am a hard worker
00:47:45I make sure I take care of my household
00:47:47I make sure when Daniel needs money
00:47:49that I take care of his household
00:47:59I am a practicing Christian
00:48:01I have not always been a very good Christian
00:48:05but Daniel makes me into a better woman
00:48:08he makes me into a stronger Christian
00:48:15I do drink
00:48:17not a lot
00:48:18but I do drink some, yes
00:48:20do you smoke?
00:48:23I do not smoke
00:48:25I have smoked in the past
00:48:27I have given it up
00:48:34are you or were you a lesbian?
00:48:38do you practice lesbianism?
00:48:49Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt
00:48:53I don't want to make things bigger
00:49:03wait what did she say?
00:49:15Gracias por ver el video.
00:49:36Gracias por ver el video.
00:50:05Laura is already worried about my finances and my debt.
00:50:11I don't want to make things bigger.
00:50:13I know, I know, I know, but I know everything is time now.
00:50:18But what?
00:50:21I know.
00:50:35I know.
00:50:49I know.
00:50:57I know.
00:51:18What's she saying?
00:51:30I know.
00:51:35I know.
00:51:36I definitely think it's possible that he's hiding something else that his friends know
00:51:41about.
00:51:41And for whatever reason, no one's telling me.
00:51:46And I don't like that.
00:51:55I know.
00:51:57I know.
00:52:01I know.
00:52:14I know.
00:52:16I know.
00:52:21I know.
00:52:28I know.
00:52:40I know.
00:52:43I know.
00:52:55I know.
00:52:59I know.
00:53:12I know.
00:53:14I know.
00:53:16I know.
00:53:33I know.
00:53:37I know.
00:53:49I know.
00:53:50I know.
00:53:52I know.
00:53:57I know.
00:54:00I know.
00:54:00I know.
00:54:05But it doesn't make me doubt that it's possible.
00:54:07And also, there are other things working against us that Rick doesn't know about.
00:54:31No, no, no, no.
00:54:45If there's a chair available, yeah.
00:54:47That'd be nice.
00:54:48What?
00:54:49You complain a lot.
00:54:52So what can I expect when I meet the family?
00:54:56They will ask you some questions.
00:54:58Who are you?
00:54:59What do you want from my daughter?
00:55:02What's your plan for her?
00:55:04Okay.
00:55:05I know that this is a big step,
00:55:08and I feel honored that you want to introduce me to your family.
00:55:16And when I'm about the same age as your dad, right?
00:55:19You're older than my dad.
00:55:23Old is your dad?
00:55:24Fifteen.
00:55:27But your father does know how old I am, right?
00:55:31Yeah.
00:55:32You haven't told your dad my age?
00:55:34No.
00:55:39I didn't say that she already married twice.
00:55:43I didn't say that she have kids.
00:55:46Aw, Trish.
00:55:49My dad, he doesn't want a man older than me
00:55:52and a man who have a lot of kids
00:55:56and a man who already been married, divorced.
00:56:02So that's why I didn't tell my dad much about Rick.
00:56:06Otherwise, I think my father would just refuse to meet him.
00:56:11But blessing for my dad, it means a lot for me.
00:56:15So what's going to happen to us if your dad doesn't accept me?
00:56:21My dad would say,
00:56:24Oh, you have to choose then between you and my dad.
00:56:30And if you don't have kids,
00:56:33they won't give the blessing.
00:56:36It's really important to my family.
00:56:40I'm being put in such a disadvantage.
00:56:44She hasn't given her family any information about me.
00:56:48They don't know my age.
00:56:50They don't know that I've been married, have kids.
00:56:53Nothing at all.
00:56:54I'm just getting thrown into the lion's den.
00:56:58They really want Trish to have a baby.
00:57:01And that's the part that I'm most worried about.
00:57:04Because at this point, I don't know if I'm ready.
00:57:09To make that decision.
00:57:12I just want to go in there and be as open and honest as I can.
00:57:19And, you know, show them that I'm a good person.
00:57:22That I'm a loving father.
00:57:25And that I'm here for their daughter.
00:57:28And I'm going to treat her well.
00:57:31And do the best that I can to make you happy.
00:57:36I mean, hopefully that's enough for him to accept me.
00:57:43I know that this trip is very important.
00:57:46I know that I need to meet her family, get to know them,
00:57:50and get to know more about Trish through her family.
00:57:53But I feel even worse about not telling Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:58:03I have to tell Trish before we meet her family.
00:58:07And I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:58:22I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
00:58:25Most Americans would find that very weird.
00:58:28This is just a very delicious dessert.
00:58:32It's not like an execution.
00:58:36There's reality.
00:58:37It's an aberration.
00:58:39And it is not in our blood.
00:58:41Uncle.
00:58:42She told me this was one time chain.
00:58:46Do you lie?
00:58:49Is she saying the truth?
00:59:00It's a nice night.
00:59:02Yep.
00:59:07You hear those waves?
00:59:09Yeah, I do.
00:59:10It seems like they're louder at night.
00:59:12Oh!
00:59:13My shoes.
00:59:16Did they break?
00:59:17They break.
00:59:18Oh, f***.
00:59:26Well, you can be my Trish Charming and carry me.
00:59:29In your dress?
00:59:31Like, oh, if you don't want to, that's fine.
00:59:34I mean, I want to, but it's like you're in a dress, though.
00:59:40Just so...
00:59:41What?
00:59:41You're the most unromantic I've ever met.
00:59:44Okay.
00:59:44It's like you've never been with a woman before.
00:59:47Tonight is the last night of our honeymoon.
00:59:50And I'm glad that we were able to work through some trust issues.
00:59:54Because after this, we're going to Cavite, where Anna Lynn lives.
01:00:00And while I'm there, we're going to have our vow renewal with our family and friends.
01:00:04And hopefully that'll be good.
01:00:06Well, I can still walk with one straw, but it's just...
01:00:09You sure?
01:00:10Yeah.
01:00:11I'm not really unhappy that our honeymoon is ending,
01:00:14because I think the real test for us is day-to-day life.
01:00:19Are we able to live in the same space for long periods of time
01:00:23without trying to kill one another?
01:00:26You know, we'll see.
01:00:28Hey.
01:00:29Say hello, hello.
01:00:31They have a hello, hello set up.
01:00:33Okay.
01:00:34Welcome to the Hello, Hello, Bark.
01:00:37We have the sweet potato and gulaman.
01:00:40We have purple yam and some cheese and corn.
01:00:44Something.
01:00:44Okay.
01:00:46Hello, hello is a popular Filipino dessert.
01:00:49Hello, hello in English means mix, mix.
01:00:51So you have to mix all the ingredients together with the milk and ice.
01:00:59It doesn't count unless I put the cheese in it.
01:01:02No, cheese and corn, okay?
01:01:04Okay.
01:01:09This is just a very delicious dessert.
01:01:12It's not like an execution.
01:01:17I've never had a dessert with cheese and corn in it.
01:01:20Most Americans would find that very weird.
01:01:24I'm not forcing you to do something you don't like.
01:01:27However, I wish you will be more open-minded
01:01:30that when I suggest something, you will try it at least once.
01:01:34Just once.
01:01:35I mean, I try almost anything just once,
01:01:39but cheese and corn and ice cream and jelly?
01:01:42Really?
01:01:44Yeah, but I'm willing to accept the challenge.
01:01:47Yeah.
01:01:49So cold.
01:01:51Is it?
01:01:51Uh-huh.
01:01:52But you enjoying it though.
01:01:54Enjoy it.
01:01:59So we just mix it, right?
01:02:01Uh-huh.
01:02:02All right.
01:02:04Mm.
01:02:05Oh my God.
01:02:07Do you realize this is our first halo-halo together?
01:02:11Yes.
01:02:12Really nice.
01:02:16I mean, Anna, there's a lot going on in here.
01:02:20Mm-hmm.
01:02:21But it is good though.
01:02:24Excuse me, ma'am.
01:02:24I'm sorry.
01:02:25Do you need anything else?
01:02:26Ah, yeah.
01:02:27Can you please take a photo of us?
01:02:29Sure, ma'am.
01:02:30We're at the honeymoon.
01:02:32It's okay.
01:02:32Is that okay?
01:02:33Yes, ma'am.
01:02:35And one, two, three.
01:02:39There you go, ma'am.
01:02:40Uh-huh.
01:02:41Thank you.
01:02:42I hope you knew you had a-ha-ha-ha, ma'am.
01:02:44Look at that.
01:02:45Yeah.
01:02:46Oh, yeah.
01:02:47That's a good photo.
01:02:50I don't think so, but okay.
01:02:53What's wrong?
01:02:56You know, the face that you're giving me, you look miserable.
01:03:03You know I don't mean to, though.
01:03:05But I don't believe you.
01:03:06You don't believe it?
01:03:07This is your thing.
01:03:10Whining and being unromantic.
01:03:13Uh-huh.
01:03:13I mean, how am I unromantic, though?
01:03:17Like, the faces that I make?
01:03:19Yeah, and then, you know, how you say things.
01:03:25Okay.
01:03:26For example, on our second anniversary, I said, hey, boo, you know what it is?
01:03:33You're like, oh, yeah.
01:03:36And then you just move on.
01:03:38Oh.
01:03:38Like, wow.
01:03:40You forgot.
01:03:42I mean, I work 15 hours a day, so it's kind of a luxury that you can, you know, keep
01:03:50up with days like that, because you're just sitting at home.
01:03:53I don't have that luxury, and I'm just so drained all the time.
01:03:59Some other people are working, too, but they don't do that.
01:04:03They still have time to be sweet to their wives.
01:04:07Well, I'm sorry.
01:04:09Maybe I'm just not a good husband.
01:04:20It's frustrating, because for me, this is love.
01:04:24I'm showing up.
01:04:24I'm providing.
01:04:25I mean, I thought that meant something.
01:04:29But Anna, seeing it through the female lens, she has this perception built up in her head that I have
01:04:35to be just over-the-top romance for her living in a fantasy.
01:04:39I don't know.
01:04:40My love language is physical touch and words of affirmation.
01:04:45I always make sure that my partner knows that I find him attractive.
01:04:49But just because you are supposed to provide and protect doesn't mean you always have to have this machismo energy,
01:04:58like you can't show vulnerability.
01:05:00You're still a human being.
01:05:02I am afraid that Yubon is never going to understand me and my needs.
01:05:08He hears me, but he doesn't really listen.
01:05:12I just want you to have just more understanding, because what I do is not easy.
01:05:17I mean, is that not romantic, like making sure your lights is on, because, you know, you're at home, and
01:05:25then I'm working.
01:05:26I'm getting tired of this.
01:05:27Okay.
01:05:29Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face, because you have to remind me that
01:05:35you're the man.
01:05:36That's what man does.
01:05:39I'm not trying to, Anna.
01:05:40I'm just trying to get you to understand, like, what I do is just not easy, and I can't remember
01:05:45everything, you know?
01:05:53Anna, why are you so emotional?
01:05:56Something you will never understand, because you don't have that.
01:06:03Well, I mean, I'm sorry, Anna.
01:06:06Seem like I can't do anything right around you, so.
01:06:10From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
01:06:19I will never mistreat any of my children.
01:06:22Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:06:25Sorry.
01:06:27Your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just, like, throwing it in the trash can.
01:06:44She told us, if she didn't give the money to you guys, that you would mistreat her.
01:07:02She said that you guys mistreated her if you didn't give her the money, that you were...
01:07:08I don't know how mistreated her.
01:07:10Well, that you, um, that you called her names and you threatened to throw her out and make her homeless.
01:07:22You sure you didn't say anything that would have been...
01:07:29Well, why did you say that, Sheena?
01:07:38Why do you feel like you have to lie all the time?
01:07:46I want to admit that I lie.
01:07:52Just to cover things up so I don't want to lose for us, because it is hard for me to
01:07:58save money.
01:08:01I try to help you guys, because you need all the help, but every time that I want to save,
01:08:06it's not even enough for me to get the visa.
01:08:08I cannot save enough.
01:08:10Yours is so hard for me.
01:08:14It is absolutely insane that Sheena would lie about her family in the first place.
01:08:20It makes no sense.
01:08:22And the hysterical theatrics aren't helping at all to clear any of this up.
01:08:29I'm just disappointed that we got, uh, told that we were kind of abusing you.
01:08:34I'm sorry, Bill.
01:08:35I do.
01:08:37And I do humbly apologize.
01:08:45I'm...
01:08:46I just don't understand why she would tell us stories that she's given every penny to you guys.
01:08:55Well, actually, it's, uh, you know, she gave it to us, and it's all listed, you know?
01:09:01So, when the time she needs it, we can, you know, give it back to her.
01:09:08Really?
01:09:09Of course.
01:09:10She's always alone.
01:09:20Sheena, I'm really kind of surprised.
01:09:24Here I thought they were mistreating you and taking all your money and finding out that they were just borrowing
01:09:30it.
01:09:30It's, uh, it's a way different story than everything you told me.
01:09:34No, I...
01:09:35I'm sorry.
01:09:39My family beat all my help.
01:09:41Making a big breadwinner is hard for me.
01:09:45And I don't want to lose you, because, Boris, you told me that they have to save money, that you
01:09:52shouldn't give money to your family.
01:09:55But now I'm feeling even worse, because your lies are just taking our perfect, happy relationship and just, like, throwing
01:10:04it in the trash can.
01:10:05But I haven't told you the right things, because I'm worried that you might give up on me.
01:10:17Sheena Braith, I know that you've been trying hard.
01:10:22I don't approve of the stories and keeping everything hidden from everybody.
01:10:26Yes.
01:10:26That's not something that was cool.
01:10:28But for years, you've been fighting for yourself and sort of, unfortunately, got all mixed up.
01:10:36We knew that she was trying to save up for a visa, but we didn't know how would she even
01:10:41acquire that.
01:10:42She doesn't tell us what's the process.
01:10:46We're not going to guess it.
01:10:48She wasn't really telling us the real truth, you know, what's really happening.
01:10:55Sheen.
01:10:58You need to make sure to say, I'm never going to lie to anybody again, and I will be open
01:11:03with everybody.
01:11:06To everyone, I promise I would never lie again for whatever I said to you guys.
01:11:15I regret for doing everything.
01:11:17I'll do my best to be much more open up to you guys.
01:11:22It hurts to find out that for the last seven years, Sheena had, you know, lied about everything with her
01:11:29family and the money situation.
01:11:31I thought she had more faith in me.
01:11:34But I'm glad that everything is out of the open now.
01:11:37And I hope that we can finally work towards our future.
01:11:43I think I'm going to jump in here, Pops.
01:11:47Let me understand here.
01:11:48So you mentioned that you're borrowing the money, right?
01:11:53Yes.
01:11:55So how long would it take to provide, you know, if she asked for her money back?
01:12:02You haven't given us, asked us for a certain amount.
01:12:06So we don't, we don't know.
01:12:08I'd say about maybe $4,000.
01:12:16We have to check the, our finances.
01:12:22I was surprised because if they plan to get married, it's a guy who should provide for her.
01:12:30We didn't expect she'd be asking us for that amount, ano?
01:12:33Yeah, nagulat nga din ako noong unang sinabi niya, na-mesyo niyo.
01:12:38But, kasi nungaling nga, regarding us, it's painful for us.
01:12:44First impressions, Molly and the stepfather, maang, ano, no?
01:12:49First impression of us is, siypre, ganun ka, masama ka agad, no?
01:12:55If she came and said, hey, I can't keep, you know, giving you guys loan, would you guys not be
01:13:02taking the loan?
01:13:09I think, uh, if it's, uh, you know, if it's feasible, you know, that for us not getting any help,
01:13:19we would do that, you know?
01:13:23But I just wish that she'd talked to us and explained it to us more.
01:13:29See, after all these years, Sheen, we could have just came and did this.
01:13:33Instead of going and, you know, making stories, putting things around about.
01:13:38I lie because I fear of losing him.
01:13:42Sheen, you're going to lose me if you don't...
01:13:45Stop lying.
01:13:46You gotta be honest with us.
01:13:47Yes.
01:13:50I'm very, very sorry.
01:13:52And I'm trying to strive my best to work hard for me to save.
01:13:56That's all I wish.
01:14:01I'm relieved that the truth is out.
01:14:03But I'm afraid that Forrest is taking everything he heard tonight at face value.
01:14:09Now, it's just to the point where I gotta just say, you need to think about what's happening in this
01:14:15relationship that all she's doing is lying.
01:14:18Maybe someday she'll come down the road and tell us some other secret that we don't know.
01:14:22That will tear the relationship apart.
01:14:24I don't trust her as far as I could throw her.
01:14:27But time will tell.
01:14:38You practice the girlism?
01:14:40If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture.
01:14:47There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:14:50Please tell me the truth.
01:14:53I am so guilt-ridden.
01:14:55I just want to be open and honest and see if she'll take me for who I am.
01:14:59Are you okay?
01:15:12You practice the girlism?
01:15:20Daniel told me that Lisa protested lesbianism in the past.
01:15:26I know lesbianism is rampant in America.
01:15:31Here, we don't do it at all.
01:15:32If she wants to live with my nephew, she must abide by our culture and tradition.
01:15:42Please, my young lady, don't be offended.
01:15:47I'm not insulting you.
01:15:49But lesbianism is an aberration.
01:15:53And it is not in our blood.
01:15:56There are things we don't practice in our place.
01:16:02Please, tell me the truth.
01:16:06What the f*** is happening?
01:16:10I am shocked by the question.
01:16:15I don't know what to say about it.
01:16:18My sexuality, being called an aberration, hurts me a lot.
01:16:23I am who I am.
01:16:25And I'm not ashamed of it at all.
01:16:27And I just want to be honest and tell the truth.
01:16:29But I'm struggling inside with what's right and what's not right and what I want to do and what I
01:16:34don't want to do.
01:16:35It's an inner battle.
01:16:40I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
01:16:52You don't practice it anymore?
01:16:56No, sir.
01:16:59It was a fling.
01:17:00It was one time.
01:17:06Do you lie?
01:17:10I think everybody says a fib once in a while.
01:17:13That doesn't make it right.
01:17:16I have lied in the past, but I am not a liar.
01:17:25Is she saying the truth?
01:17:29Tell me.
01:17:30Yes, uncle.
01:17:31She's telling the truth.
01:17:35Okay.
01:17:36I am not a liar, uncle.
01:17:38Okay.
01:17:40But I will tell Daniel to monitor you.
01:17:42To make sure you never do that again.
01:17:50Why does your uncle ask me if I partake in lesbianism?
01:17:53Why would he ask me that?
01:17:55I told him that you have done it before, but it was a mistake.
01:17:59Yeah, you told him everything.
01:18:01You told him everything.
01:18:02That wasn't for you to tell anybody.
01:18:04That was between us.
01:18:05No, no, no, no, no.
01:18:06Yes.
01:18:06I have to.
01:18:07You're wrong.
01:18:08This is my uncle.
01:18:08I don't care if it's the Pope of the Catholic Church.
01:18:11You don't tell anybody.
01:18:11Are you trying to insult him?
01:18:12I'm not insulting anybody.
01:18:14I'm telling you, you don't tell people certain things.
01:18:16My uncle is like father to me, so I have to discuss everything with him.
01:18:19You don't even tell me what you've already spoken to your uncle about.
01:18:22I ask you what kind of questions he's going to ask me, and you're like, I don't know.
01:18:26I don't know.
01:18:27I don't know.
01:18:28I don't know if to tell you.
01:18:29You don't want me to know, but you want him to know everything.
01:18:32Oh, my God.
01:18:33Yes.
01:18:33Oh, my God.
01:18:36Are you okay?
01:18:39Yes, uncle.
01:18:55Yes, uncle.
01:18:59I don't care about your mother.
01:19:02I don't care about your mother.
01:19:08Oh, my God.
01:19:15I don't care.
01:19:17I don't care about your mother.
01:19:18I get married.
01:19:19You aren't me.
01:19:22I don't care about your mother.
01:19:26I don't care about your mother.
01:19:33i've been hearing from you
01:19:40and i will give you guys my blessing
01:19:45thank you son
01:19:48thank you uncle
01:20:03i am thrilled i have the blessing but i feel guilty as all hell because he kept bringing up the
01:20:11fact
01:20:12are you a liar we do not lie we do not and and that's making me feel guilty because i
01:20:19am i
01:20:23i need to go we shall be well with you in the name of jesus christ our lord
01:20:32said you were with you
01:20:35i want daniel but i have the secret that i've been with women for the past 21 years i have
01:20:41the secret
01:20:42that i'm married still to a woman but it's 21 years it's not a mistake it's who i am and
01:20:49i'm so scared
01:20:50he's not going to understand that stop crying that is yours you are his rule
01:20:58i am so guilt-ridden because i love this man and i just want to be open and honest and
01:21:05get this over
01:21:05with and see if he'll take me for who i am but it's getting harder and harder as the time
01:21:10goes on
01:21:24next time on before the 90 days i get to be the princess and now in the castle
01:21:29now i'll always be a princess we're on this surprise romantic getaway but i'm honestly having mixed
01:21:35feelings about it i'm worried he's hiding more secrets can you tell me where your debt came from
01:21:42do you want the truth yeah
01:21:54do you realize everything you said about me since i got here has been negative
01:21:58it makes me feel like we're never going to get married we're never going to get engaged
01:22:02this whole trip was a waste of my time
01:22:06i'm just at my breaking point i deserve some answers am i the girl that you want to be with
01:22:13it's glued on to the point where my wig is like bubble gum right now stuck to my head
01:22:19i have to take it off oh my god i've been keeping my weight on because i know daniel loves
01:22:25me with my
01:22:26long hair i have no idea what he's going to think but if he's going to marry me he has
01:22:32to get used to it
01:22:35hey oh my god
01:22:41all i hear is like you're just constantly complaining about me all the time i mean you
01:22:48tell me i'm a downer you tell me i'm not romantic sometimes i feel like i'm stepping on landmines and
01:22:55i don't know how to navigate around the landmines i mean anna do you regret like marrying me
01:23:06baby there's something i've been keeping from you i explain yourself in those five days when you
01:23:14weren't talking to me i decided to book a trip to columbia and be with my ex shut up it
01:23:23was a mess
01:23:28it was a mess
01:23:28that was a mess
01:23:28it was a mess
01:23:29it was little bit better
01:23:31it wasn't live
01:23:31Gracias.
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