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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 12
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:30He lives with his parents, but when I come, he's gonna get a rental and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So your aunt actually came with quote-unquote proof of me not being fearful to you.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like, oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:03I don't even know who the that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos and I need to see the text messages and make a decision.
00:01:12Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15No, girl.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait so she could prove herself.
00:01:21And then you just go buck up and pull this little sneaky .
00:01:25What the am I doing sitting over here in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please, I want you to forgive me.
00:01:46I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:50I'd rather he told me for coming here.
00:01:55Please.
00:01:56Don't touch me.
00:01:58Don't touch me, please.
00:02:17Don't touch me, please.
00:02:18I can't do it.
00:02:18I can't do it.
00:02:26I can't do it.
00:02:27So how do you feel now?
00:02:33I feel like crap.
00:02:35My God.
00:02:45Last night was awful
00:02:52This has never happened before in my whole entire life
00:02:55No matter how sick I've gotten, I've never f***ed the bed
00:02:59I'm thinking maybe the spicy food that I've been eating
00:03:03I like spice though
00:03:06I don't know, but you know how embarrassing it is
00:03:12To wake up in the middle of the night
00:03:14And there's s*** all over your sheets
00:03:16And it's just
00:03:19I feel bad that I did that
00:03:22Baby
00:03:26I accepted it with all my hats
00:03:28I told you that I love you
00:03:30You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:33She wakes me up
00:03:34And, um, the stuff, um, um, stained my clothes
00:03:41So she pooped on you?
00:03:42She pooped on me, yes
00:03:45She pooped on me
00:03:48It was everywhere
00:03:50I had to change the sheets with his help
00:03:52And I didn't know what to do
00:03:54Because I couldn't stop going to the bathroom
00:03:56It kept coming out of me
00:03:58I'm so f***ing mortified
00:04:01Are you going to call the housekeeping to come and clean everything?
00:04:05I will take care of them
00:04:06Maybe I will call them when we are going to the cooking class
00:04:08My stomach is still so upset
00:04:11And today, of all days
00:04:13Daniel has organized to take me out to no other but a cooking class
00:04:18A cooking class
00:04:25I'm so worried I'm going to have more explosive diarrhea
00:04:29But I'm going to cook for him
00:04:31I'm going to try
00:04:33I mean, if a man can love me covered in f***
00:04:36And himself covered in my f***
00:04:38Then he must love me for real
00:04:51Thank you so much
00:04:53Be careful
00:04:56Look how pretty this is
00:04:58The table, Daniel
00:05:00Look how sweet that is
00:05:01Oh, this is going to be fun
00:05:05It's so cute in here
00:05:08Hi
00:05:08Hello, madame
00:05:09Hello
00:05:10I'm Chef Rukayat
00:05:12There's lots of ingredients
00:05:14Oh my goodness
00:05:15So we're making oha soup
00:05:17Oha soup
00:05:18Oh, you're happy
00:05:20So oha soup is traditionally an Igbo meal
00:05:23First of all, I have oha leaf
00:05:25That's a star ingredient for oha soup
00:05:28Then I have my proteins
00:05:31I have stock fish
00:05:32Then I have fermented locus beans
00:05:36It's very medicinal as well
00:05:38Shall we start?
00:05:41The raw meats and the things that we are going to be cooking with
00:05:44It's making me a little queasy
00:05:49Especially the fermented beans
00:05:52My stomach is hurting so bad
00:05:54But it's okay
00:05:56I can do this
00:05:58Do I open it from here like this?
00:06:01Yes, yes
00:06:02This is beautiful
00:06:04I'm very slow
00:06:05I'm slow, honey
00:06:06But I'm doing it
00:06:07I'm happy
00:06:08I'm just educating you
00:06:11You're just happy I'm learning how to cook for you
00:06:15It's very important to learn how to cook as an Igbo woman
00:06:18I will cook as an Igbo woman
00:06:21Try it, try that best, eh?
00:06:22I am
00:06:23In my hometown
00:06:25If your wife doesn't know how to cook
00:06:26It will make you to be going outside to eat
00:06:30She can even get attracted by other women
00:06:32I don't want to hear about that
00:06:33I'm going to cook
00:06:34Just leave me alone
00:06:35I'm going to cook
00:06:36Fine, fine
00:06:36This is stock fish
00:06:38Stock fish
00:06:39I'm also going to be adding the dry fish
00:06:43The dry fish
00:06:43Which, what kind of fish is that again?
00:06:45Catfish
00:06:45Catfish, it is catfish
00:06:47Oh my God
00:06:48You're happy?
00:06:49You're smelling the smells of what your woman is cooking?
00:06:52I can't wait to test the food
00:06:55I'm very appreciative that Daniel is showing me his traditions and his culture
00:07:00It means the world to me
00:07:01It smells delicious
00:07:03Thank you
00:07:06Daniel is doing so many wonderful things
00:07:09And making our relationship concrete towards a marriage
00:07:13And I'm so happy about that
00:07:17But, at the same time
00:07:19I feel extremely guilty for not telling him my secret shit
00:07:29Wow, it looks delicious
00:07:31Thank you
00:07:32You're welcome
00:07:34I've already gotten blessings from his uncle
00:07:37From the king
00:07:38I hope you lack the food that I cooked
00:07:41Oh my God
00:07:43I'm only one step away from getting married to Daniel
00:07:49I have to start being honest with him
00:07:51As soon as possible
00:07:53I did good?
00:07:56Hmm
00:07:59Hmm
00:08:01This is so sweet
00:08:03You're wonderful
00:08:04Thank you
00:08:10This is really tasty
00:08:15Tasty, Simon
00:08:16I'm not having any right now, honey
00:08:18I'm not eating
00:08:19I was very sick last night
00:08:21I have to be very careful
00:08:31I want to talk to you about something
00:08:37Well, you have been talking to me
00:08:39So
00:08:39No, about something different
00:08:44You know how, um
00:08:47I've told you I've been married a couple of times
00:08:50Yes, you have made mention of that
00:08:54You told me about faith, Dad
00:08:56But I've never discussed it with you
00:08:58You know, deeply
00:09:12I've been married five times
00:09:17Five times?
00:09:20You would be my sixth husband
00:09:24Don't
00:09:36We talk about this
00:09:39This is our decision
00:09:41Don't answer for him
00:09:42I am an adult
00:09:43And I would decipher what we want to do
00:09:59The point is
00:10:01I worry about you
00:10:03I worry about Sheena
00:10:06I felt this was the appropriate thing to do
00:10:09For our relationship
00:10:10To work and continue
00:10:13We talked privately
00:10:16She explained herself to me
00:10:17And I came
00:10:18Yeah, I'm sure she didn't
00:10:19Did she ask for your big and humble forgiveness?
00:10:23No, she actually gave me a real explanation
00:10:25And told me what was really up
00:10:28Then how about you and like me
00:10:29Or is that going to be private too, Forrest?
00:10:34Uh, you know, we talked about
00:10:36You know, her struggles
00:10:38And how when she starts to, you know, lie
00:10:41It's because she has, um
00:10:45A traumatic
00:10:47She's had traumatic experiences
00:10:50And it causes her
00:10:52To
00:10:57So, she
00:10:59She's not going to do it
00:11:00Again and again
00:11:01And again
00:11:02Mom was not built in a day
00:11:03But she has to put in the work
00:11:04And prove herself
00:11:05And she is going to prove it
00:11:07Then why didn't you make her prove herself
00:11:07Before you proposed?
00:11:12Forrest, you're more
00:11:13Bullshit than a Christmas goose
00:11:15No
00:11:15Yes, you are
00:11:17Everybody's got stress in their life
00:11:19And then to say
00:11:20I'm under stress
00:11:21So I'm going to lie
00:11:22And you're going to accept her
00:11:24Just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying
00:11:27That's no stability
00:11:28You don't have any foundation
00:11:30I'll never
00:11:31I will never
00:11:32Don't
00:11:32Mom
00:11:34I admit for everything that I did was wrong
00:11:37Oh God, here we go again
00:11:39I have to open
00:11:39Oh, you couldn't say it
00:11:40Because you don't know
00:11:41How I experienced it in my past life, you know
00:11:43I'm suffering from trust with people
00:11:47Well, guess what?
00:11:48We can't trust you
00:11:49I know you can easily trust me
00:11:51But I'm trying to do my best
00:11:52To get things over, you know
00:11:54Yeah, you're getting them over, all right
00:11:56I'm trying to
00:12:03We've heard this for seven years
00:12:07And even up until three days ago
00:12:10It was yet another lie
00:12:12She's a pathological liar, I'm thinking
00:12:17I bet you'd stay with her if she diddled and somebody else do
00:12:27Wouldn't you?
00:12:32Mom
00:12:33At the end of the day
00:12:34Yeah
00:12:35You can't answer my question
00:12:37So that's all you're gonna say
00:12:38Oh
00:12:39That's because your question is ridiculous
00:12:44I'm so disappointed in my mom's reaction to all this
00:12:48It's the whole reason why we're here
00:12:50Is to figure out how to bring Sheena to the United States
00:12:53And getting engaged
00:12:55Is a next big step
00:12:58And her being angry and mad and saying nasty things
00:13:02That's not how a mother should act
00:13:04Mom
00:13:07I'm going to
00:13:08I'm going to take the dive
00:13:10I'm gonna go in
00:13:12And if there's rocks
00:13:14I'm willing to take it
00:13:16But that is my choice
00:13:21And you're gonna have to be watching her 24 hours a day
00:13:25And be paranoid and concerned and wondering
00:13:27And you have such a trust thing
00:13:29Which means it's gonna have to be meek
00:13:31Here you are, a future teller
00:13:32No, Forrest, it's not a future telling
00:13:34It's what we have lived through the last seven years
00:13:39Do you think this is appropriate, how she's acting?
00:13:42This conversation about Molly, it's about YouTube
00:13:44Yeah, but she's making it about her
00:13:46With all her yelling around
00:13:47How the hell am I supposed to get a conversation done
00:13:50With
00:13:50All the time?
00:13:54We're gonna make things easy for you, okay?
00:13:57Are you gonna be part of our lives or not?
00:14:01Excuse me
00:14:02You're gonna give me the ultimate
00:14:04Forrest?
00:14:05Mom
00:14:05Accept this proposal or you're not a part of our lives
00:14:13I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my flight to Sydney, Australia for the first time
00:14:19To meet Joshua in person
00:14:21I'm just a little bit concerned
00:14:22I know, I know
00:14:24I want to, like, get questions answered
00:14:26Yeah
00:14:28After Girls Night Out the other night
00:14:30I ended up calling Yulia about the text I got from Josh
00:14:32Because it was really bothering me
00:14:34Seems like his life is falling apart as I'm coming
00:14:36I don't know what to do
00:14:39This sounds like a disaster
00:14:56I appreciate you bringing this
00:14:59Thank you
00:15:17What can we do now
00:15:20To
00:15:20To make this right
00:15:24I don't know
00:15:28We just got back from Nusikomba
00:15:32And after what he told me
00:15:34I'm so hurt
00:15:35I
00:15:37I don't know what to do
00:15:41I'm really angry that he lied to me
00:15:44I thought it was something serious between us
00:15:48And I still cannot believe
00:15:50He was in Colombia with that girl
00:15:56It's really crazy
00:15:58Because he bothers me a lot with
00:16:01Oh, you're still talking to your ex
00:16:04And accusing me of cheating on him with my ex
00:16:07Yet
00:16:08He's the one messing up this relationship
00:16:11Not me
00:16:15I didn't want to hurt you
00:16:17No, you did
00:16:20Just ruin our vacation
00:16:23It doesn't have to be ruined
00:16:25It doesn't have to be over
00:16:26We still have time
00:16:30I don't know, Ray
00:16:34I trust you a lot
00:16:37And I didn't expect this coming
00:16:42I didn't
00:16:43How can I trust you when you go back to the country?
00:16:46What if
00:16:47She's not in my country
00:16:48I know she's not in your country
00:16:50But you could go
00:16:51In Colombia
00:16:53Meet her
00:16:55But I'm not going to do that
00:16:57I have no intentions on ever being with her
00:17:02I promise
00:17:03That I'm going to be faithful to you
00:17:08I just hope that you can
00:17:12Forgive me
00:17:32I'm sorry
00:17:41I'm sorry
00:17:43Baby, I didn't want to add to that.
00:17:46Yes, you did.
00:17:47Baby, I didn't want to add to that.
00:17:49I'm sorry.
00:17:49Please.
00:17:52No promise?
00:17:55Don't promise me.
00:17:57Because you did promise me, but...
00:18:00See?
00:18:01Baby, I'm looking you in your face,
00:18:03and I'm telling you
00:18:05that I'm not going to cheat on you.
00:18:08That if you look at me,
00:18:09I'm not going to cheat on you, baby.
00:18:11Okay?
00:18:14¿Qué?
00:18:16I'm going to do my best to make it up to you, okay?
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:29Thank you, baby.
00:18:33I could have lost her
00:18:35for what I did,
00:18:37so I feel grateful
00:18:39that she is giving me
00:18:41the second chance.
00:18:44¿Y tú? ¿Está bien en la charla?
00:18:48No, no, no.
00:18:56Creo que todavÃa tenemos tiempo para cambiar las cosas,
00:19:00pero es que va a tomar un trabajo para mÃ
00:19:03para demostrar que soy sincero
00:19:07y para demostrar que realmente me importa
00:19:11y me gusta que esto sea aquà y me gusta esto.
00:19:19I decided to stay because I'm already in love with him.
00:19:26But I didn't know he has different personality
00:19:32that he can cheat, he can lie.
00:19:36I didn't know.
00:19:41And the way he acts, the way he solves problems,
00:19:44it scares me a lot.
00:19:45But I don't know if I could trust him again in the future
00:19:47or after this.
00:19:50I don't know.
00:19:51I heard that you, you were talking about me
00:19:59running your mouth, so said a little birdie
00:20:02all over town, I wish you'd come looking for me.
00:20:12Oh, my God.
00:20:16You think he's going to think it's sexy
00:20:17when I go to bed in my red light sleep mask?
00:20:20Oh, my God.
00:20:23Somebody tell the truth.
00:20:25Come on.
00:20:26I heard it last, it's the data for so long.
00:20:29We're driving fast, but it's already long gone.
00:20:32Don't have to laugh.
00:20:33You knew we were getting late.
00:20:34Seven, eight.
00:20:39I need another suit kiddies.
00:20:43The day is f***ing near
00:20:45I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my f***ing flight
00:20:48To Sydney, Australia for the first time to meet Joshua in person
00:20:51I feel like I'm in a dream
00:20:53Like, is this actually happening?
00:20:55I'm so excited to see him in person
00:20:57Like, is he going to be affectionate and touchy-feely?
00:21:01Is he going to run up to me at the airport?
00:21:04Like, am I going to meet his family?
00:21:06Like, I'm not just going there for a vacation
00:21:08Like, I'm going there to see if he can be my future husband
00:21:19Oh my god
00:21:22These are, like, half of my bikinis
00:21:24Okay
00:21:26This is, like, granny style
00:21:30This is, like, okay, like, I'm not having sex with you
00:21:33But, like, maybe we'll go to, like, second or third base
00:21:39This is, like, okay, game on bikini
00:21:44It's been six months since I've had sex
00:21:46Which is the longest time I've gone without sex
00:21:48Since I've been a freshman in high school
00:21:51I'm literally a born again virgin
00:21:55I want to try and take a slow with Joshua
00:21:58I definitely want to have more of an emotional connection
00:22:00Before having a physical connection
00:22:02But even if we do, his roommate is going to be there the whole time
00:22:07Which is, like, so awkward
00:22:11I feel very strange that I'm going to be staying with Joshua and also a roommate
00:22:16We have chatted on the phone a few times
00:22:18He's like a chatterbox and he tells me all the cool places in Australia
00:22:22But it's a little weird
00:22:23Why is he bringing a roommate to the rental at 40 years old?
00:22:26It seems like I'm going in a throuple here
00:22:28Like
00:22:30Josh wants a nice place for us to stay when I'm there
00:22:33So he's temporarily renting an apartment with his friend Chris
00:22:37Because he can't afford it alone
00:22:38So Chris is splitting it with him
00:22:41If Joshua was honest with me about his living situation up front
00:22:45Like, I definitely would have split half and half with him
00:22:47But I guess he was just trying to be nice
00:22:49And I don't want to offend him
00:22:51So whatever, I'm just going to roll with it
00:22:56Oh, Yulia's here
00:23:01Alyse
00:23:01Hi
00:23:02Are you ready?
00:23:03Yes
00:23:04Really?
00:23:05Hi, how are you?
00:23:06Oh
00:23:07My friend Yulia is taking me to the airport today
00:23:10Because I'm freaking out
00:23:12And I need all the emotional support I can get
00:23:15Should we do one at a time together?
00:23:17Yeah
00:23:18Okay
00:23:20You think you got it?
00:23:21Or should I, how do we do this?
00:23:23Oh my god
00:23:24It's 50 pounds
00:23:25I didn't sign up for this
00:23:26You take this one
00:23:28Okay
00:23:29Okay
00:23:30Go, go, go
00:23:32Okay, okay
00:23:33Before my hand falls off
00:23:34Okay, put it down
00:23:36She says
00:23:37One down
00:23:38Wait, wait
00:23:41Okay
00:23:45Ow
00:23:46My goodness, Alyse
00:23:48All right
00:23:49Let's hit the road
00:23:50Sydney, Australia
00:23:52I'm coming for you
00:23:58So
00:23:59Are you excited?
00:24:02Yeah
00:24:02I know
00:24:03Like I really am excited
00:24:04I've never felt this way about someone before
00:24:09I'm just a little bit concerned
00:24:10I know
00:24:11I know
00:24:12I want to like
00:24:13Get questions answered
00:24:14Yeah
00:24:16I mean
00:24:16I don't even think you can drive a boat anymore
00:24:18Because of the work incident
00:24:20That's so stressful
00:24:21To be happening
00:24:21Or right before your freaking trip
00:24:25After girls night out
00:24:26The other night
00:24:27I ended up calling Yulia
00:24:28About the text I got from Josh
00:24:29Because what he told me
00:24:31Was very concerning
00:24:32I don't know what to do
00:24:34This sounds like a disaster
00:24:37He sells boats for a living
00:24:39He's a yacht broker
00:24:40And a few weeks ago
00:24:42Joshua took a boat
00:24:45That his company was selling
00:24:46For a joyride
00:24:48With some of his friends
00:24:49And ended up crashing the boat into rocks
00:24:52And he has a final warning at work
00:24:54I think that it's absolutely irresponsible of him
00:24:57The man's almost 40
00:24:58Yeah
00:24:59I know
00:25:00Oh my god
00:25:01We're close to the airport
00:25:02I see it
00:25:04So
00:25:04He might lose his job
00:25:06I just found out that
00:25:07He lives with his parents
00:25:10It's crazy
00:25:11Like
00:25:12Seems like his life is falling apart
00:25:13As I'm coming
00:25:14But I really like him
00:25:16And I'm starting to fall for him
00:25:17So
00:25:18I just want to give this a chance
00:25:22Are you ready?
00:25:23No
00:25:23Kinda
00:25:24Yes
00:25:24And ready as I'll ever be
00:25:26Listen
00:25:26If I didn't take this trip
00:25:28I would always think in the back of my mind
00:25:30What if
00:25:30What if
00:25:30What if
00:25:31But at the same time
00:25:32Like just
00:25:33You know
00:25:34Don't carry your heart on your sleeve
00:25:35Like you usually do
00:25:37I love you
00:25:38With all my heart and soul
00:25:40You got this
00:25:42Thank you so much
00:25:43Bye
00:25:43I love you
00:25:43I'll text you okay
00:25:44Bye
00:25:44Bye
00:25:54Am I getting pranked?
00:25:56What is going on?
00:25:59I applied for the tourist visa
00:26:01Once I got my ticket to go see Joshua
00:26:04And it got instantly accepted
00:26:05And I was like great
00:26:07Perfect
00:26:07But I get to the airport
00:26:09And they're like
00:26:10Your visa is denied
00:26:13Oh my god
00:26:14I'm literally
00:26:16F***ing my pants
00:26:17This guy keeps refreshing the system
00:26:19And he keeps saying I'm denied
00:26:20I've literally put my heart
00:26:22And my soul into Joshua
00:26:23I just want to go into this
00:26:25With like
00:26:25Ease and calmness
00:26:27And excitement
00:26:28Why is this
00:26:29F***ing happening to me
00:26:30At the airport?
00:26:31Did it work?
00:26:34No
00:26:36I got denied again
00:26:37I got denied again
00:26:40I can't win panic attacks
00:26:45The girl in the photo
00:26:47She's my friend
00:26:48And do we know
00:26:49If this is still going on
00:26:51Currently?
00:26:54Are we actually calling?
00:26:56Oh
00:26:56You're gonna
00:26:57Oh
00:26:57F***ing
00:26:58Get your questions ready
00:26:59Hello
00:27:13Babe
00:27:13What are you doing?
00:27:15Are you going somewhere?
00:27:17Yeah
00:27:17I'm
00:27:18I'm gonna go meet up
00:27:19With Anne Spring
00:27:19Really?
00:27:20You're just gonna leave me here
00:27:21By myself?
00:27:22There's a nice weather
00:27:23Right now
00:27:24The beach
00:27:25The pool
00:27:26You're just gonna leave me all day?
00:27:28I'm not sure
00:27:29How long it's gonna take
00:27:30Aye aye
00:27:32Don't forget right
00:27:33My dad is coming later
00:27:34Okay
00:27:45I'm getting a little nervous
00:27:47Because
00:27:48I don't know what the people
00:27:49Are gonna hear from Anne Spring
00:27:51Probably more lies
00:27:52But I don't want that to affect us
00:27:53I don't want her to hear something really bad
00:27:55And
00:27:56Want to end things
00:27:58I don't want to lose Aviva
00:27:59Especially over this
00:28:01Like
00:28:02She would be stupid
00:28:04To have us break up for this
00:28:07But I have a bad feeling about it
00:28:17Hello
00:28:18Hi
00:28:18Would you like something to drink?
00:28:20Do you have a mojito?
00:28:22Yes
00:28:22Okay
00:28:22Make it extra strong
00:28:23I will
00:28:25And then I'm waiting for two more people
00:28:26Okay
00:28:27Okay
00:28:27Thank you
00:28:28You're welcome
00:28:30Hello
00:28:31Hi
00:28:32Hi
00:28:33I hope
00:28:38I already ordered a strong drink
00:28:40Oh
00:28:41Is that the timing we're on?
00:28:43Sure are
00:28:44Okay
00:28:46Thank you
00:28:47Looks so good
00:28:49You're welcome
00:28:50Could we order something?
00:28:51Can I get a strawberry daiquiri?
00:28:53Strawberry mojito
00:28:55Strawberry mojito?
00:28:56Yes
00:28:57Okay
00:28:57Thank you
00:29:01So
00:29:02Mojito o'clock here
00:29:04Yep
00:29:06Last night was pretty intense
00:29:08I saw you and Stig talking
00:29:10And it seemed a little heated
00:29:13You want to give me your side of the story?
00:29:17Did he give you his side of the story?
00:29:20He did
00:29:20He told me that he took a picture with a fan
00:29:25And that it was all just a fan interaction
00:29:33It's a friend of Corinne's
00:29:35And the girl has no reason to lie
00:29:36Right
00:29:37So I got your frozen coconut strawberry mojito
00:29:41And your strawberry
00:29:42Thank you
00:29:43You ladies enjoy
00:29:44Thank you
00:29:45Thank you
00:29:45Thank you
00:29:47So maybe I should let Corinne explain
00:29:52So here is this picture
00:29:56And if you can see like his
00:29:57Yeah
00:30:01That's a little bit more than a fan
00:30:04The girl in the photo
00:30:05We have known each other since we were really young
00:30:08She has been telling me about her and him for a while
00:30:12That they have been having relations off and on
00:30:18So when Springhead told me that you guys were starting dating
00:30:22It was kind of weird to me
00:30:24Because I know that they have a low-key relationship
00:30:28But they do have a relationship
00:30:30Sexual, everything
00:30:36Wow
00:30:38And do we know if this is still going on currently?
00:30:42What do we know before I lose my mind on him?
00:30:45I can like see if I can call her and see if she will
00:30:49I would love to
00:30:56Are we actually calling?
00:30:58Oh
00:30:59You're gonna
00:31:00Get your questions ready
00:31:06Can you hear me?
00:31:11So Aviva, like what would you want me to ask my friend?
00:31:15When was the last time they slept together?
00:31:18Like when was the last time you and Stig ever like
00:31:22or whatever
00:31:28She said last month when they were here in Placentia
00:31:34Have they talked after that?
00:31:37Like are you and Stig like still communicating?
00:31:40Do you guys still talk?
00:31:44Like he ever tell you he's in a relationship?
00:31:48So he tell you he's single?
00:31:52He says he's single
00:31:55So he never mentioned Aviva?
00:32:01I'm sorry friend, I owe you a night out
00:32:04Hey
00:32:08Do you still believe him when he's saying he doesn't know her and that she's just a fan?
00:32:14This girl has no reason to lie to Corinne
00:32:16There's no reason to lie
00:32:17She didn't even know about you
00:32:24So I have a real shocking text here
00:32:30We do have an upcoming trip
00:32:33Them together?
00:32:35So this trip is in San Pedro end of the month Friday to Sunday
00:32:45Exactly when you leave
00:32:51Sounds like this girl has kind of a casual relationship with Stig
00:32:56Not like a serious girlfriend
00:32:59But still, if she's telling the truth
00:33:01They were hooking up a month ago when we were supposed to be exclusive
00:33:05That's just crazy to me
00:33:08I feel like I don't even know Stig at this point
00:33:10And that's devastating
00:33:17I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you
00:33:20But I was scared
00:33:22In my culture, it's a sin
00:33:23They will banish you
00:33:25I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell me
00:33:28I think it sucks
00:33:29Kick fires
00:33:42I've been married five times
00:33:47Five times
00:33:51You would be my sixth husband
00:34:14So why didn't you mention them to me?
00:34:16Why didn't you discuss with me?
00:34:18You only told me of two
00:34:19Well, you never really asked
00:34:21And so I just never mentioned it
00:34:24But there's...
00:34:27Yeah
00:34:32I don't feel bad
00:34:34You can get married to a hundred men
00:34:37And divorce
00:34:39But when you meet your God-giving husband
00:34:45Um, it lasts forever
00:34:49So what transpired?
00:34:52Well, they haven't all been faithful
00:34:53Really?
00:34:54Yeah
00:34:55Did they cheat?
00:34:55The men?
00:34:57One did
00:34:57Okay, one did
00:34:58The fifth one
00:35:00So tell me
00:35:02Tell me about these 50 men
00:35:03Um, what happened?
00:35:05Um
00:35:08Yeah
00:35:12The fifth one was really bad
00:35:14Um
00:35:15We were married a few months
00:35:18And then they ran off to be with somebody else
00:35:21And I couldn't locate them for quite a while
00:35:24And I recently located them
00:35:26Okay
00:35:28And I filled out the divorce papers
00:35:30But I'm still married
00:35:35You are still married to the fifth one
00:35:38I am still married
00:35:44I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you
00:35:47But you asked me to marry you in the middle of the airport with everybody there
00:35:51And I couldn't say no
00:35:52And I couldn't tell you that
00:35:55So I have been sleeping with another man's wife
00:36:01We are legally separated
00:36:13You don't know what you have cost me
00:36:16Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin
00:36:19They will banish you
00:36:20I'm sorry
00:36:28Daniel, listen
00:36:29I have not been with this person for nine years
00:36:32Nine years
00:36:33We've been married
00:36:34But we have not lived in the same state
00:36:35We have not lived
00:36:36Shared the same bed for nine years
00:36:38We have been separated
00:36:40For nine years
00:36:41I call you on phone every day
00:36:44After a conversation
00:36:45I will tell you I love you
00:36:46And you will respond
00:36:47Because I love you
00:36:49You love me and you have not told me about it
00:36:51I have not
00:36:51Can you keep
00:36:52Shots
00:36:53Keep quiet
00:36:57This is a monster I've been dating
00:37:00You never told me
00:37:01No
00:37:03I was scared to tell you
00:37:06It took me a long time to get the divorce
00:37:09But the divorce is almost here
00:37:20I've told you all the things you wanted to know about me
00:37:24I never hide anything
00:37:28You told me you love me
00:37:30I do love you
00:37:33Sleeping with another man's wife
00:37:35I don't think it's love
00:37:38I'm sorry
00:37:42You're sorry?
00:37:44I'm sorry
00:37:46My uncle came all the way from Gowery to Lagos
00:37:48Because of you and I
00:37:52My friends came
00:37:54But I never know you have
00:37:56You know, hidden stores
00:37:57So I lied to them
00:37:59You didn't lie to them
00:38:01I did this
00:38:04I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell you
00:38:10This is unbelievable
00:38:13I don't know how to fix this
00:38:14I
00:38:16I'm sorry
00:38:17Do you want your ring back?
00:38:20I'll give you your ring back and I'll leave
00:38:40Oh my goodness
00:38:51I've been sleeping with her
00:38:52Sleeping with another man's wife
00:38:57No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
00:39:00I don't know what to do
00:39:02Oh my God
00:39:17How are you feeling?
00:39:19Are you nervous?
00:39:20I'm nervous
00:39:20A bit like it's an excited nervousness
00:39:23I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, Elise
00:39:25I'm obsessed with her
00:39:27So I'm hoping she will like me as much as I like her
00:39:31It is definitely
00:39:32What is it, a couple of hours?
00:39:33Yep, yep
00:39:33You're yourself, aren't you?
00:39:37The guy keeps calling the border control in Australia
00:39:40My visa's been denied eight times
00:39:43What are you doing?
00:40:23Last night, Trish was very cold
00:40:27And I felt like she needed her space
00:40:30And I've been trying to make the most of our last day here at Nosy Bay
00:40:34Trying to remind Trish of how fun things can be between us
00:40:39I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit
00:40:43I don't know for sure
00:40:48Why was the round so short?
00:40:51Like, they was only into it for like 20 seconds
00:40:54I don't know
00:40:57I thought you knew something about this
00:41:01I don't know their rules
00:41:06Moringa fight started in Madagascar
00:41:08And you don't use something on your hand
00:41:11You just fight directly
00:41:15It's scary, but that's the culture
00:41:18Because before, we didn't have anything to protect
00:41:22This is why
00:41:23And we keep the culture till now
00:41:28We should solve our problem
00:41:29I will win
00:41:31Oh, you will?
00:41:33I'll give you one free shot
00:41:38We could watch them, you know, fight in here
00:41:40And then we could do some wrestling at home
00:41:46I cannot forget all the things he has done
00:41:49But it makes me feel a little bit happy and smile
00:41:55I want this relationship to work
00:41:59That's why I'm trying to give him a chance
00:42:03Okay, this is the deal
00:42:05You have to pick one
00:42:06And if the one you pick win
00:42:10We do have sex tonight
00:42:12If the one I pick win
00:42:15We don't have sex tonight
00:42:18I'm going to put my sex life on the lawn
00:42:20In some other man's head
00:42:23No, that's my rule
00:42:25So pick the good one
00:42:28I mean, dude over there is much taller
00:42:31So I'm going to have to go with him
00:42:33Okay, I'm going to take the blue shirt
00:42:35Okay, okay, okay
00:42:36You got to get him for me, man
00:42:38My sex life depends on it
00:42:42Hey, keep your distance, man
00:42:45Yeah, you're going to make the ball get him
00:42:49Hey, hey, hey, referee
00:42:52I don't know the rules to this thing
00:42:54I don't know how points are scored
00:42:57Come on, my man, get him
00:42:58But after everything we've been through
00:43:00I'm just happy that she's even considering having sex with me
00:43:05Yeah, keep that distance
00:43:06I hate seeing people fighting
00:43:08Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah
00:43:10Oh, yeah, get him
00:43:11Yeah, oh, you open it up more
00:43:13You open it up more
00:43:14It's over, it's over, it's over
00:43:23Come on, come on, ref
00:43:24Do the right thing, ref
00:43:27Yeah
00:43:28Yeah
00:43:29I'm doing something
00:43:32I'm doing something, baby
00:43:33Get ready
00:43:34Get ready
00:43:34We had a really good day
00:43:38But there is no way
00:43:40We are going to have sex tonight
00:43:43I don't want him to touch me at all
00:43:46It's too soon for that
00:43:50Oh, look at the
00:43:52That's what they used to use in the Jesus days right there
00:43:55Yeah, we use it to carry everything
00:43:57You'll see a lot of it, man
00:43:59Yeah
00:44:02Yeah
00:44:04So, um, what do you think, baby?
00:44:07Do you still want me to lead you down?
00:44:13I already told my dad that we were here
00:44:16And we are coming to visit them
00:44:18So
00:44:20I cannot go back
00:44:28You're not going to tell him about what happened, are you?
00:44:32No, I'm not
00:44:35My dad is really protected
00:44:37Like, oh, my daughter is in a good and in right hands
00:44:42That's what he wants
00:44:44That's what I want from you, too, baby
00:44:46I want your happiness
00:44:48And hopefully he'll be able to see, you know, how much that I love his daughter
00:44:58I'm feeling more nervous and anxious than I was before about this meeting with her family
00:45:05I'm worried about going there and dealing with their expectations
00:45:10When we're not even in a good place
00:45:14They want a younger guy that's, you know, never been married
00:45:17And that is excited about having children
00:45:21And then that's something that I'm not
00:45:25I love Trish so much
00:45:27And I really want to be with her and make this work
00:45:31But right now, it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread
00:45:59I'm supposed to be boarding my flight to Australia right now
00:46:03But I'm stuck here because my visa's been denied eight times
00:46:07The guy keeps calling the Board of Control in Australia
00:46:10I am panicking and I'm freaking out
00:46:14It worked
00:46:16What?
00:46:17It's worked?
00:46:19We got it?
00:46:20Give me a high five
00:46:21Let's get the guys going
00:46:23Come on
00:46:23Thank God
00:46:25They got it
00:46:26Thank you so much
00:46:27If I wasn't about to go meet the love of my life
00:46:30I would ask you for your number
00:46:31My guy told me that I put my first name as my last name
00:46:36When applying for the visa
00:46:38So it didn't match my passport
00:46:41What a sire relief
00:46:43Because, like, I'm so excited to go see Josh
00:46:47Always do this ritual before applying
00:46:53I have to do it
00:46:55I cannot believe that I am traveling the world for someone I've never met in person
00:47:04But I'm doing this because I truly believe that Joshua is my partner
00:47:09And I've never felt more ready in my life
00:47:14Oh my God
00:47:15I'm f***ing going to Australia
00:47:43I'm f***ing going to Australia
00:48:15I'm f***ing going to Australia
00:48:18And I live in Sydney, Australia
00:48:21I'm sort of in between places at the moment
00:48:24How are you?
00:48:25Elise is s***
00:48:26It is, it is
00:48:29Yogurt, veggies
00:48:31But my girlfriend Elise is coming
00:48:33And I want a nice place for her
00:48:34So my friend and I, Chris, have a rental that we have organized for when she gets here
00:48:39Did she request all of, literally every bit of this?
00:48:42She requested a lot more
00:48:44And how are you feeling?
00:48:45Are you nervous?
00:48:46I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness
00:48:48So it is definitely
00:48:49What is it, a couple hours?
00:48:51Yep, yep
00:48:51Until I have to pick her up from the airport
00:48:54You're f***ing yourself, aren't you?
00:48:55I'm checking
00:48:58Come check this out
00:48:59What is it?
00:49:03I thought I'd establish a hierarchy really quickly
00:49:06Are you kidding?
00:49:10It's in my bedroom
00:49:11Wow
00:49:12At least he's going to f***ing hate it
00:49:15I like it
00:49:18Tell me about this photo that Chris puts above your bed
00:49:23It's typical Chris, you know, Jesus
00:49:25You don't have to take me right now
00:49:27You can build up to it
00:49:28She gets here tonight, so we'll see if it stays up or not
00:49:33I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, you know, after talking for six months
00:49:39Elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one
00:49:44Elise is beautiful
00:49:45But what I love about Elise is that she's an unbelievable listener
00:49:49And you can tell she cares
00:49:52Elise is very fiery
00:49:53But I think that's an attractive quality
00:49:56I know when she gets here that I will be obsessed with her
00:50:00So I'm hoping that she will like me as much as I know I like her
00:50:05Let's go
00:50:13What are you going to wear?
00:50:15Oh, blue pants, cream jacket
00:50:16Wait, so we're wearing the same thing
00:50:18How's she going to know who's who?
00:50:20No, I'm just joking
00:50:22Today's the Melbourne Cup race
00:50:23So it's a horse race
00:50:25All of Australia watches it
00:50:27This is something that Chris and I would typically celebrate together
00:50:31Ready, princess?
00:50:32Princess is almost ready
00:50:35It's an excuse to dress up and have a few drinks
00:50:37We're going to whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race
00:50:41She says she's spontaneous
00:50:42So I think she'll be okay with it
00:50:44So we can go straight from the airport
00:50:46And Melbourne Cup off a 25-hour flight
00:50:55I'm now starting to be like, oh, wow, it's actually happening
00:50:59Yeah, big day
00:51:02I'm jumping into a relationship with someone that I've never met
00:51:04Like, in person
00:51:06It's so different
00:51:07So, um, being a Miami chick
00:51:09How do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
00:51:13I don't know
00:51:14If she has a problem, it'll be with Nat, not me, I reckon
00:51:16Yeah, if she has a problem, it'll definitely be with Nat, not you
00:51:19Yes
00:51:20Do you think American girls are more jealous?
00:51:23Do you think it's weird for them?
00:51:24Do you think it's different?
00:51:25Like, a male and female friend?
00:51:26What do they think?
00:51:27You make a good point
00:51:28I didn't think about that
00:51:32My friend that's a girl, Nat
00:51:33She's just a special person that looks after everyone
00:51:37Like, she's let me stay with her
00:51:39While I've been looking for a place
00:51:41So, I've been living with her for three months
00:51:45Okay, wait, let me step back for one second
00:51:48Because Elise said that you told her you were with your parents
00:51:51Oh
00:51:54No
00:51:55Are you?
00:52:00Well, I am...
00:52:02I'm nervous
00:52:03Very nervous
00:52:04Jesus
00:52:07Hold my hand
00:52:11I got you, boy
00:52:13It is really important for me that this works out
00:52:16You know, I dragged her halfway across the world
00:52:18I wouldn't do that on a whim, more just for fun
00:52:24But, you know, I feel a bit embarrassed
00:52:26Because I don't have a lot of stability in my life at the moment
00:52:29And I know that's important to a girlfriend
00:52:33I hope she can see that I'm ready to get really serious
00:52:36And, you know, settle down
00:52:40She's already...
00:52:41Is she already here or...?
00:52:42Yeah, she just touched down, so...
00:52:44Okay
00:52:47I literally just landed in Australia
00:52:49I am tired, I'm overwhelmed
00:52:52But I am about to meet Josh for the first time
00:52:56Oh, my God
00:52:58I cannot believe I'm here
00:52:59My adrenaline is pumping
00:53:01Oh, my God, I'm gonna go do it
00:53:03Beautiful lady
00:53:03Thank you
00:53:04Hopefully my husband thinks I'm beautiful, too
00:53:06I'm about to meet him for the first time
00:53:10You want me to maybe stand a little back
00:53:12Or should I be right here next to you?
00:53:13Well, it was always the case
00:53:14You weren't coming right up with me, right?
00:53:15Okay, right
00:53:16Well, okay
00:53:17Does she know I'm here, though?
00:53:19Um, I don't know
00:53:20No, I didn't say anything, no
00:53:22Okay
00:53:24I have so many emotions right now
00:53:27Like, I literally just saw on Chris' social media
00:53:30That Chris and Josh are, like, in, like, straight suits and ties
00:53:35First of all, weird that Chris is coming to pick me up
00:53:38I have so much anxiety already, how it is
00:53:41Like, so much anxiety
00:53:45Do you want a light massage?
00:53:48Take the nerves away
00:53:50I've been envisioning this moment for so long
00:53:53And I've already had a f***ing travel day from hell
00:53:56So the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport
00:54:00Is he not comfortable enough to meet me on his own?
00:54:03Like, what the f***?
00:54:05I just traveled 30 hours
00:54:07So I have all this time to think
00:54:09And I'm starting to spiral out of control
00:54:12This guy is 39 and has a roommate
00:54:15And on top of that, he has his job incident
00:54:19And I'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me
00:54:22And the overwhelming pressure of, like, not trying to let them down
00:54:26Good luck
00:54:27Don't let
00:54:32I've been wrong so many times
00:54:33And I've done not only damage to me, but damage to my family
00:54:37I don't have another wrong in me
00:54:48This is my dad
00:54:49When it comes to dating, my son is always drama
00:54:53Talking to a bunch of girls
00:54:55When he said that he's serious as Elviva
00:54:57I have to question it
00:54:58That girl said
00:55:00You guys actually hooked up before
00:55:02About a month ago
00:55:05So, is the name of this true?
00:55:22Oh, look, there they are
00:55:23That must be his dad
00:55:31Hi
00:55:32Hi
00:55:32How are you?
00:55:33Good evening
00:55:34Hello
00:55:35Spring
00:55:35Nice to meet you
00:55:37This is my dad
00:55:37Hi, nice to meet you
00:55:38I'm Elviva
00:55:39Nice to see you
00:55:42Can I offer you guys a drink?
00:55:44Or what are you drinking?
00:55:45I would love a drink
00:55:46I don't know
00:55:47Did you try Panty Ripper yet?
00:55:49You might do one of those
00:55:50To Panty Ripper, please
00:55:51Yes, please
00:55:53I had plans to meet up with Stig's dad tonight
00:55:57And I'm really, really nervous
00:56:00I don't want to come off as just this crazy girl
00:56:04Meeting his dad for the first time
00:56:07But after talking to Corinne's friend
00:56:10I learned so much today
00:56:12And I definitely want to bring this up to Stig
00:56:15I wanted Aunt Spring to be here
00:56:17Because she can ask all the hard questions
00:56:20And basically play a bad cop
00:56:22And she doesn't have to worry about the repercussions
00:56:27You took her away from me all day, Aunt Spring
00:56:29It's definitely been an interesting day
00:56:33Yeah
00:56:33Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
00:56:35Hmm
00:56:36There's a lot to talk about
00:56:37Oh, really?
00:56:41Aviva has been gone since morning with her aunt
00:56:44Right now, the vibes are off
00:56:46Aviva has basically been ignoring my texts all of today
00:56:52I'm pretty sure Aunt Spring is there putting stuff in her head
00:56:55So I'm, I don't know
00:56:59I'm anxious
00:57:01My dad came to the hotel earlier
00:57:03I gave him a quick summary of what went down with Aunt Spring
00:57:07Last night, Aunt Spring pull up swinging
00:57:09Yeah?
00:57:10Yes
00:57:11Pull out the phone
00:57:12And ask me
00:57:14So what is this?
00:57:15So I got a picture of me and a girl
00:57:16And hold her by her waist
00:57:17And I did
00:57:19Really?
00:57:21You sure you don't have done this, girl?
00:57:23No, no, no, no
00:57:23I didn't even know this would be the father
00:57:26Where do we start?
00:57:28What?
00:57:29Jump right into it?
00:57:30I don't know
00:57:31I mean, you're meeting my dad for the first time
00:57:33I know, I know
00:57:34This is very uncomfortable
00:57:35Sorry that you have to be here for this
00:57:40Aviva
00:57:40Maybe you should be the one to explain to him what's going on today
00:57:48I mean, I talked to that girl and
00:57:51What girl?
00:57:52Corrine?
00:57:53No, not to my niece
00:57:55Yeah
00:57:55To the girl in the photo
00:57:57The random girl I took a picture with
00:58:00Thank you
00:58:01Thank you
00:58:04Uh, what happened?
00:58:07Um, she said that
00:58:09You guys actually had
00:58:12You know, hooked up before
00:58:15It was about a month ago
00:58:17And that
00:58:19Apparently you're going to San Pedro
00:58:21At the end of the month with her
00:58:27So is any of this true?
00:58:29No
00:58:31No
00:58:31That, I swear
00:58:33I swear, I swear
00:58:35I can see where Anspring is coming from
00:58:38When he said that he's serious as Aviva
00:58:40I have to question it
00:58:42Because when it comes to dating
00:58:44My son is always, um
00:58:47Drama
00:58:48He's always been talking to a bunch of girls
00:58:51And I just never saw him just settling down now
00:58:54Especially with the work that he's doing
00:58:57Show my dad the photo so he can tell
00:59:01I don't know why a best friend would lie to a best friend
00:59:04That's supposedly the text between them
00:59:06What happened there?
00:59:07She said, my man happened
00:59:09My man happened
00:59:10So
00:59:11I mean, I can see why
00:59:12And so we called her to clear up that
00:59:14And she spoke with Aviva
00:59:15Probably not a good look
00:59:16But it's not a good look
00:59:17But to me, it's not a definite
00:59:19I would figure that if
00:59:22Uh, this girl really wants to prove that she's
00:59:24This is going on
00:59:26She'd say, here's a text
00:59:28That was the last one she provided with him
00:59:30Telling her that he loved it
00:59:32But
00:59:32Have you seen like
00:59:33Just the same one?
00:59:34Like conversations
00:59:34Like
00:59:35Not long conversations
00:59:36Yeah, not long conversations
00:59:37But the only text that I saw
00:59:38Like saying like
00:59:39Well, can I meet you?
00:59:40Can I see you?
00:59:41Everything like that
00:59:42That'll prove that
00:59:44Yeah, no, it's about it
00:59:47Young lady probably didn't even have my number
00:59:48In real life
00:59:49That's crazy
00:59:51I have no reason to lie
00:59:54She just completely made that up
00:59:56Then what do you need from me?
01:00:00Call me everything
01:00:00You want my location?
01:00:03I don't have nothing to hide
01:00:06Hey, I'm here having you with my dad
01:00:08Do you think I'm not serious about you?
01:00:13I'm not sure if he's just lying
01:00:15And making this stuff up
01:00:17But he did bring up a point
01:00:19That the girl in the photo
01:00:20Couldn't provide solid evidence
01:00:25I don't even know
01:00:26If she actually has Sig's phone number
01:00:29So all I have right now
01:00:31Is his word against hers
01:00:34Well
01:00:36I'm going to take your word for it
01:00:37That maybe she's just
01:00:39Trying to cause drama
01:00:43What's the humor about?
01:00:45I don't know
01:00:46Man, Spang, you don't believe me?
01:00:47I mean, I don't know
01:00:51I do feel that Aviva is quick to trust Stig
01:00:55Stig may be able to fool Aviva
01:00:57But he's definitely not fooling me
01:00:59But I have given her all the information
01:01:03And it is her choice to make her future decisions
01:01:08And if I do later, you know
01:01:10Find out that, you know
01:01:11You weren't telling the truth
01:01:12I obviously wouldn't want to continue
01:01:14But I do still want to work things out
01:01:17Like I want it
01:01:18I want it to work it out with you
01:01:19Babe, for the millionth time
01:01:22I don't mind it could be a billionth time
01:01:26I'm going to be as transparent as I can
01:01:28In this relationship
01:01:28I live in a glass house
01:01:30Nothing to hide, I got to
01:01:34I'm glad all the drama is done
01:01:37I have a clean slate right now
01:01:39But I'm definitely worried about
01:01:41What else could come out in the future
01:01:45A few months ago
01:01:47When Aviva was hinting about being exclusive
01:01:49I did take some steps and made some changes
01:01:52But I wasn't 100%
01:01:54I was still entertaining people
01:01:56I wasn't sleeping around
01:01:57But I was texting people
01:01:58Hanging around people
01:02:00I'm not really proud of it now
01:02:02But I was still unsure about Aviva
01:02:05Because we haven't met in real life
01:02:08But Aviva doesn't know this?
01:02:12Yeah, she doesn't know this
01:02:14I didn't want to scare her away
01:02:16And now that we've met in person
01:02:17And it's what I thought it was
01:02:20No other woman in the picture
01:02:21I'm done with all that
01:02:23Now I'm just hoping
01:02:24And she doesn't find out
01:02:26We good?
01:02:28Mm-hmm
01:02:29Let's move forward from it
01:02:30Okay
01:02:30Yeah?
01:02:31Yeah
01:02:37She called me a liar
01:02:42I'm sorry
01:02:43I came here to tell you the truth in person
01:02:46I came here to tell you everything
01:02:50I want you to go home, please
01:02:53And he doesn't even know she's a she
01:03:10I feel like dying
01:03:16I'm not okay
01:03:18I'm not okay
01:03:25I've done the worst
01:03:28I've committed the worst sin
01:03:29Sleeping with another man's wife
01:03:31I feel like someone poisoned me
01:03:33Someone
01:03:35Shouldn't have never known him
01:03:38I should have kept it a secret
01:03:41In America, they have been legally separated
01:03:43No, no, no
01:03:44Don't tell me in America
01:03:45You don't have to tell me that
01:03:49I respect my culture
01:03:53I'm engaged with another man's wife
01:03:55In my culture, we don't do that
01:03:58It's a very big offense
01:03:59If you should do it in our tribe
01:04:01It's something that will bring shame
01:04:03Not only to me
01:04:04But to my family as well
01:04:06I could be banished
01:04:08Because of Lisa
01:04:09Because of her lies
01:04:12I want to go back to him
01:04:13But I'm scared
01:04:16This is forbidden
01:04:17And I don't know how to
01:04:19Talk to my God
01:04:20I don't know how to talk to the ancestors
01:04:23Because I have to
01:04:24Ask for apology
01:04:28Daniel
01:04:29I'm sorry
01:04:32Daniel
01:04:33Daniel
01:04:34No, listen to me
01:04:36Stop, stop
01:04:37Please, listen to me
01:04:39I'm sorry
01:04:40I'm sorry
01:04:41I didn't tell you the truth
01:04:43I'm sorry
01:04:44I didn't speak to you
01:04:45About this before now
01:04:46I'm sorry
01:04:47I came here to tell you
01:04:49The truth in person
01:04:50I came here to tell you everything
01:04:53I love you
01:04:54And I want us to be together forever
01:04:57I'm so sorry
01:05:00Ali
01:05:01Please forgive me
01:05:03You're messed up
01:05:05That's all I have to say
01:05:19Can you stop?
01:05:20Stop
01:05:24I feel empty
01:05:28I don't think he's ever going to forgive me
01:05:31And I haven't even told him everything
01:05:35I should have told him in the beginning
01:05:40I waited and I waited
01:05:42And I held it off
01:05:43And the worst case scenario happened
01:05:46He doesn't want me near him
01:05:48He doesn't want to hear me
01:05:52I'm worried that I have lost Daniel
01:05:54There's no coming back from this
01:05:59I'm a f*** up person
01:06:04F*** up
01:06:05F*** up
01:06:11She called me a liar
01:06:12She called me a scama
01:06:19But she's the real scama
01:06:29And I taught the white people
01:06:31Tell us the truth
01:06:42I'm giving her my hat
01:06:44I trusted her
01:06:45I believed in her
01:06:48What did I do to deserve all this?
01:06:52I mean, for God's sakes
01:06:54I've been separated for nine years
01:06:56Separated
01:06:58For nine years
01:06:59Didn't know where she lived
01:07:02And he doesn't even know she's a she
01:07:04Oh my God
01:07:06When he finds out she's a she
01:07:08I don't know what he's going to think
01:07:11I haven't even been with a man for 21 years
01:07:15I don't have any hope anymore
01:07:22I want you to go home, please
01:07:44He's not going to forgive me
01:07:50He's not going to forgive me
01:07:53You're away
01:07:59You're away
01:08:01You're the girl
01:08:20Oh my God
01:08:21So why are you so dressed up?
01:08:24It's Melbourne Cup Day
01:08:25Do you want to come and have a few drinks?
01:08:27The last thing I thought possible
01:08:30Was one, to bring Chris
01:08:32And two, to take me to a bar
01:08:34The second I landed at the airport
01:08:36After a few tequilas
01:08:38You won't even forget
01:08:39That you haven't had showered
01:08:40Or put makeup on
01:08:41Or done your hair
01:08:54Oh man
01:08:55Oh man
01:09:23¡Oh, Dios mÃo!
01:09:26¡Oh, Dios mÃo!
01:09:56No, I know, I know, I know, I know.
01:10:02Feels really, really good.
01:10:04Finally, finally.
01:10:05How good does it feel?
01:10:07Amazing.
01:10:08How does she look?
01:10:09She looks amazing.
01:10:11Do you feel like you look amazing?
01:10:12No, I feel like I look like absolute s***.
01:10:14What are you talking about?
01:10:15I did not want him to see me for the first time looking like this, especially when he's
01:10:19dressed up like this, like, it's like an oxymoron, right?
01:10:23Wait, oxymoron means s***, s***, s***, wait.
01:10:27I don't know, but I just feel like he looks really good and I just look like slummy.
01:10:33You look amazing.
01:10:34I need reassurance every five minutes.
01:10:35Okay, I'm happy to do that.
01:10:37Every three.
01:10:39You actually look exactly what I thought.
01:10:41Perfect.
01:10:42Yeah.
01:10:42So do you.
01:10:43So do you.
01:10:44I was so s*** scared.
01:10:46And I had so much anxiety.
01:10:48But then seeing him standing there and seeing the look in his eyes, I felt like I just have
01:10:53to follow my heart and, like, I have to give this a chance.
01:10:56And then I hugged him and I felt like I've known him for years.
01:10:59I really didn't expect to feel this comfortable this soon.
01:11:03So why are you so dressed up?
01:11:05Um, because it's Melbourne Cup Day.
01:11:08This is the biggest day of the year.
01:11:09Okay.
01:11:10So we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few drinks and let your hair down.
01:11:15I know that you're probably jet-lagged.
01:11:17I'm tired.
01:11:18I feel like s***.
01:11:19I look like s***.
01:11:20I need a shower.
01:11:22We don't have time.
01:11:23So where are we going to undo that?
01:11:25Oh, really?
01:11:28Christa!
01:11:29Can I tell her that we don't have time?
01:11:31Yeah, we're going out.
01:11:32We're going out, yeah.
01:11:34I know it's bad timing, but after a few tequilas, you won't even forget that you haven't had showered
01:11:40or put makeup on or done your hair.
01:11:42Yep.
01:11:43And time is a factor, so.
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:45It is.
01:11:46Yeah, yeah.
01:11:46First race is in 13 minutes.
01:11:50If it makes you happy, I'll do it, but I feel really uncomfortable.
01:11:53You guys look very good, and I s*** like a trainer.
01:11:56Surely there's something in your 50 bags.
01:11:59So should we do it right here?
01:12:01No, I didn't think that far ahead.
01:12:03Surely Josh did.
01:12:03I think we can open up all my suitcases and we can have a party of what Elise could wear.
01:12:07I like when people pick out my outfits.
01:12:09Yeah.
01:12:09Let's start now.
01:12:13Each boy grab a suitcase and open it up.
01:12:23I see dresses.
01:12:25Joshua liked that on me.
01:12:26I sent him a picture.
01:12:29I kind of want to dress sluttier.
01:12:31Dress what?
01:12:32Sluttier.
01:12:33No, you dress how you want.
01:12:35I don't mind.
01:12:35I don't need a bra or underwear with this dress.
01:12:38That saves time.
01:12:39Saves time?
01:12:40Yeah.
01:12:40Saves time.
01:12:41Let's get ready.
01:12:43All right, I will go get ready in the bathroom.
01:12:46Yep.
01:12:46We'll be outside.
01:12:47Just here.
01:12:48Right here.
01:12:48Okay.
01:12:50I like that she's a trooper.
01:12:51That is attractive for someone that's sort of like, yep, you know what?
01:12:53You want to do it?
01:12:54Let's do it.
01:13:00So what do you think about it?
01:13:01Good.
01:13:02That went well, I think.
01:13:03Yeah.
01:13:04Yeah.
01:13:04She is a firecracker.
01:13:06Yeah.
01:13:07I just can't believe that I'm actually getting ready in a bathroom at the airport.
01:13:12To go to a bar to watch an event.
01:13:15I really just hope Josh sees how much, like, effort I'm putting into this relationship.
01:13:22Obviously, this isn't the ideal first day with Josh.
01:13:25The last thing I thought possible was, one, to bring Chris, and two, to take me to a bar
01:13:32the second I landed at the airport.
01:13:36But I flew across the world to, like, get a glimpse of his life and figure out if he's
01:13:40the person I want to be with.
01:13:42Everything seems good right now.
01:13:44Our connection and our chemistry was, like, it's there.
01:13:47So I'm really going to just try and make the best of it.
01:13:52I am here.
01:13:54Oi.
01:13:55There she is.
01:13:56You look stunning.
01:13:58I'm not even wearing underwear.
01:14:00Oh, well.
01:14:01Just hope it doesn't get too windy.
01:14:06All right, well, now I'm dressed like you boys.
01:14:09Fit up, let's say.
01:14:10It's the three musketeers.
01:14:19Are you going to be part of our lives or not?
01:14:22You're going to give me the ultimate...
01:14:24Forrest?
01:14:24Mm.
01:14:27I'm just a little bit...
01:14:28Excuse me?
01:14:29You know...
01:14:30Excuse me?
01:14:30You going on your little attack?
01:14:32You have...
01:14:32I don't like the attitude you're having.
01:14:44You made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle my decisions.
01:14:50You seem like you're way too stressed out.
01:14:53We don't want to cause you any more stress.
01:14:58Well, you're the big man now, aren't you?
01:14:59You're the big grown-up that can handle all...
01:15:02and make all the decisions on his own, right?
01:15:05Thank you.
01:15:06Yes.
01:15:07Yes, I am.
01:15:12I have always had to protect Forrest because of his autism,
01:15:19and it's happened before where he's been taken advantage of
01:15:23and used and hurt deeply.
01:15:26I'm absolutely positive that Sheena manipulated Forrest again
01:15:31just so that he would propose to her.
01:15:34But in the grand scheme of things,
01:15:37Forrest is going to do what Forrest wants to do.
01:15:41And now I feel like I lost my son.
01:15:44I really feel like I lost my son.
01:15:48And it makes me really sad.
01:15:56You know, Forrest, you have done this crap to me over and over again.
01:16:00And I am tired.
01:16:03I am so tired.
01:16:06I am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into.
01:16:11And then when I crawl up to grab you out again
01:16:15and crawl up to save you out of a situation
01:16:18or to help you,
01:16:19you turn around and you give me the big bird.
01:16:21Well, it's none of your effing business, Mom.
01:16:26And do you think that the next time it crumbles and falls
01:16:31that when you go to pick up the phone to call me to save you
01:16:34that I'm going to be there?
01:16:35I won't come to you. I promise.
01:16:35I won't come to you.
01:16:40Sheena and I are going to move forward.
01:16:43Okay?
01:16:45You're going to be in our lives, but...
01:16:47You think?
01:16:48I think.
01:16:49You might be surprised, Forrest.
01:16:51Oh, well...
01:16:51You just might be surprised.
01:16:56All right.
01:16:59Well...
01:17:00Have a good night to you, both.
01:17:06I'm sorry, by law.
01:17:09Thank you for standing over me.
01:17:12It's okay, baby.
01:17:15It's hard to think that my mom would actually step away from my life
01:17:20rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
01:17:24I never thought it would come to this
01:17:27and that my own mother would put me in this situation.
01:17:33Losing my mom is something I never expected to lose on this trip.
01:17:38I lost my best friend, the person who's been with me my entire life,
01:17:43the person who gave birth to me.
01:17:45And it's tearing me apart.
01:17:49My God.
01:17:51It is time that Mommy just cut it.
01:17:56Mommy has to let him be the man
01:17:58and take the knocks and not bail him out.
01:18:01Forrest is on his own now.
01:18:03Yep.
01:18:10Oh, God.
01:18:11I'm starting to be like Sheena.
01:18:13Oh, my God.
01:18:17I told him the truth and he won't even talk to me.
01:18:20Did you even tell him about the women?
01:18:22No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:18:25He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:18:28Yes, he is.
01:18:30I can't tell him that.
01:18:31I can't tell him.
01:18:32You have to.
01:18:33I can't.
01:18:41Daniel.
01:18:43Daniel.
01:18:43I can't tell him.
01:19:15No creo que es una buena idea
01:19:16para stay together.
01:19:19So, I'm going to give myself a different room.
01:19:34Hi.
01:19:35Do you want to have a separate room, please?
01:20:14No, no.
01:20:16I've only told him about the marriages.
01:20:20But you didn't just lie about the marriages.
01:20:23You lied about a whole part of your life.
01:20:27He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:20:31Yes, he is.
01:20:32I can't tell him that.
01:20:34I can't tell him.
01:20:35You have to.
01:20:36I can't.
01:20:37He's never going to forgive this.
01:20:39I wasn't going to forgive that.
01:20:41I know you don't want to tell him so you can stay together.
01:20:45But you, he will find out eventually.
01:20:54I'm sorry.
01:20:56Daniel's the one forever, Faith.
01:20:59He's really the one.
01:21:01I want him, Faith.
01:21:03I want Daniel.
01:21:06I want Daniel.
01:21:07I don't want this to be over.
01:21:17We're here.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, not leading with sex.
01:21:28But at the same time, he's hot.
01:21:30And I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
01:21:36Josh!
01:21:39We're packing up to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
01:21:43This is like make or break.
01:21:46I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
01:21:50I told you, yes.
01:21:52So what else do you want?
01:21:54Just tell me now.
01:21:55Just tell me.
01:21:59Emma!
01:22:01You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
01:22:04What's wrong?
01:22:04It literally went to with him leaving me alone in the desert.
01:22:08Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
01:22:12Don't be mad.
01:22:13What?
01:22:15What was it?
01:22:16Muhammad?
01:22:17Oh my God.
01:22:18Hello?
01:22:21The other night, I called my friend Michael because I have concerns.
01:22:25And now Michael has the same concerns.
01:22:28He has no place in our relationship.
01:22:30Well, he wants to come here.
01:22:33He already bought a flight.
01:22:34What?
01:22:36Oh my God.
01:22:37I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:22:39This is wild.
01:22:44I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
01:22:47I'm going to wipe the tears and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
01:22:51I'm asking you to give me a chance.
01:22:53I plan a small romantic getaway.
01:22:57Is this a kind of a trap?
01:23:03Is this being romantic?
01:23:05Yeah.
01:23:06Did I pass the test today?
01:23:07Kind of.
01:23:07Okay.
01:23:08You still have to be nicer to each other.
01:23:11I think that you got comfortable.
01:23:13Don't ever get too comfortable.
01:23:15Ever.
01:23:15You don't want to bitch your wife.
01:23:18Don't be a asshole.
01:23:20And like, I don't have to talk.
01:23:22I don't want to see you ever again.
01:23:25Don't come home.
01:23:26Ever.
01:23:30You're welcome.
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