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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 4
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00:00:00Oh, es una muy pequeña selección.
00:00:02Previously, en Before the 90 Days...
00:00:05Es so embarrassing, I'm sorry.
00:00:06This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:10For the past 21 años, I've been with women only.
00:00:13But Daniel no tiene idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:17I'm terrified de decirlo,
00:00:19porque un par de meses antes,
00:00:21he me dijo que tenÃa un fling con una mujer.
00:00:24Y él estaba disgustado.
00:00:28He's 20 años younger than I am.
00:00:30I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:34Don't make jokes.
00:00:36He doesn't love you.
00:00:37That's not what love is.
00:00:38He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:41There's an absolute possibility
00:00:42this is going to blow up in my face,
00:00:44but if I'm not willing to take a risk for love,
00:00:48then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:53We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check
00:00:57until we get married.
00:00:59But that's just not what you said.
00:01:00A couple weeks ago,
00:01:02I realized that he followed thousands of women,
00:01:05and it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:08Good night.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:10Now seeing how he's acting in person,
00:01:13it's making me question things.
00:01:22Sheena and I have been waiting seven years
00:01:24to meet up with each other,
00:01:25and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:29But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena
00:01:32lying about the money again.
00:01:39Apology aside,
00:01:40there's still some things that have to be discussed
00:01:44before we can proceed.
00:01:54I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor
00:01:57because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:02:01I'm going to see his face,
00:02:03and it's just going to flow out of me,
00:02:04drip down my legs,
00:02:05and what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:15I am nervous, and I am excited,
00:02:18and I'm scared to death
00:02:20because things can be different
00:02:22when he meets you in person.
00:02:24What if he hides?
00:02:25What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:27I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:30I don't know if he's going to be like,
00:02:32wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:37Today I'm leaving for Nigeria
00:02:39to go see Daniel for the first time,
00:02:42and I am feeling overwhelmed
00:02:44and excited and nervous.
00:02:49My daughter Faith brought up
00:02:51some serious concerns at dinner the other night
00:02:53that Daniel could be scamming me,
00:02:55and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:57But all I can think about
00:02:59is how I just want to touch his face
00:03:01and feel the dimples in his cheeks
00:03:02and feel his beard.
00:03:04I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:08These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:11They're brand new.
00:03:13I have three
00:03:14because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:17I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:21My plan is to put it on in the bathroom
00:03:23once I land.
00:03:25It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:28Wearing a wig,
00:03:30it's a process,
00:03:31and it's not fun.
00:03:33It sticks to your hair.
00:03:35It sticks to your skin.
00:03:36You have rashes.
00:03:37You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:39It's going to be stressful
00:03:41to deal with in Nigeria,
00:03:43but it makes him so happy.
00:03:46I want to look beautiful for Daniel,
00:03:48so I will be keeping it on
00:03:49all day and all night.
00:03:50I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:55So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:04:00I'm pretty nervous.
00:04:04I'm not sure how it's going to go.
00:04:07She's horrible with directions.
00:04:10I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:13and the relationship she's hoping for,
00:04:16but honestly,
00:04:18there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:21Hi, Faith.
00:04:23I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:26Oh, wonderful.
00:04:27Thank you.
00:04:28Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:30Thank you.
00:04:30That's the first thing I want.
00:04:32I know.
00:04:33All right, listen.
00:04:34Here's something really important.
00:04:36The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:39Yeah.
00:04:39So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:43That has to be done.
00:04:45Like immediately?
00:04:45Yes.
00:04:46Because the court hearing date
00:04:48that the judge signs the paper
00:04:49is on the 29th so that the divorce
00:04:51becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:54I want to come clean and tell him
00:04:56that not only I was still married,
00:04:59but the divorce is there.
00:05:00And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:05:03If I'm just...
00:05:03Mom, you not only lied about the fact that,
00:05:08oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:05:10No, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:14But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:20Not only does he not know
00:05:22that I've been with women for the past 21 years,
00:05:24Daniel doesn't know
00:05:25that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:33He asked me if I was free to marry
00:05:35when he first started talking to me,
00:05:37and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:39Because in my heart, I have been free to marry
00:05:41because my ex-wife and I have been separated
00:05:43for over nine years.
00:05:45We just never got around
00:05:47to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:50If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:54I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:55Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip
00:05:57and tell him everything.
00:05:59I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:06:01until we have this conversation.
00:06:03He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:06:08Just trust me.
00:06:09I'm just worried, Mom.
00:06:11Don't worry.
00:06:11Don't worry.
00:06:12I got this.
00:06:13Let's get going.
00:06:15We need to get to the airport.
00:06:16It is getting late,
00:06:18and we need to get going.
00:06:19You don't have a flight to get to.
00:06:20I do have a flight.
00:06:22I struggle trusting my mom
00:06:24that she's not going to somehow
00:06:25try and get married in there.
00:06:28Please do not ruin your life
00:06:30for getting married to somebody
00:06:31before you're ready.
00:06:33I need to grab my phone.
00:06:35That's the last thing I need.
00:06:40So if Daniel was to ask you
00:06:42to get married while you were in Nigeria,
00:06:43would you keep my hands to faith?
00:06:45Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:52I want to say no.
00:06:55But my heart says,
00:06:58hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:07:00Jump with both feet in.
00:07:05I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:07:08I want to be with him.
00:07:10I want to be a part of him.
00:07:12I want to be his wife.
00:07:15So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:18I really don't know.
00:07:20Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:23Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:24Woo, here we go.
00:07:35Here we go.
00:07:37Oh, 61.
00:07:41What?
00:07:42Oh, 61.
00:07:44I got three.
00:07:46Oh, you done good.
00:07:48Oh, 70.
00:07:51I met my husband
00:07:52when I was in high school.
00:07:54I was married to a soldier.
00:07:57He lived up the street.
00:08:01My husband and I met in junior college.
00:08:03We loved to skate.
00:08:04So our first date was going skating.
00:08:08The first date,
00:08:09we went to a fair.
00:08:12And I sort of thought,
00:08:15you know, I like him.
00:08:20I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:23That was just, that was it.
00:08:27He said,
00:08:28I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:34And here it is.
00:08:39I'm done waiting.
00:08:42No more hesitating.
00:08:45There ain't nothing wrong to once more.
00:08:49You got to feel it.
00:08:51You got to believe it.
00:08:54There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:59Big four.
00:09:01Good afternoon.
00:09:03Lemonade.
00:09:05Oh, boy.
00:09:06My name is Javon.
00:09:08I'm 38 years old.
00:09:09And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:09:12Thank you.
00:09:13Hey, who's winning?
00:09:14Who has a bingo?
00:09:16I've got several bingos.
00:09:17Oh, nice.
00:09:19I work at a nursing home,
00:09:21and I like my job.
00:09:24Thank you.
00:09:25You know, old people,
00:09:27they just say some of the first things
00:09:29that come to their mind.
00:09:30They have no filters.
00:09:31And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:34What did you bring us today?
00:09:35We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:40Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:42But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:45Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:47I think that's where I fall short
00:09:49when it comes to women.
00:09:51American women,
00:09:52they want six-pack,
00:09:54six figures,
00:09:55six inches.
00:09:58I call them the three sixes,
00:10:00and it's not me.
00:10:05Mm, that's good.
00:10:08We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:10:11Oh, yeah.
00:10:12It's a trip way overdue.
00:10:14I'm going to see my wife.
00:10:17When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:21Actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:27So this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:32Oh, okay.
00:10:35Really?
00:10:36Yeah.
00:10:39My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:41She's 38 years old,
00:10:43and she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:46Hey, boo, it's your wife.
00:10:48I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:51Must be something in me.
00:10:53Yeah, there must be something.
00:10:55We connected online about five years ago,
00:10:58and we've been married for about two years.
00:11:04He said that?
00:11:06No, that's wrong.
00:11:08We have been in a relationship for six years,
00:11:10and we have been married for almost three years.
00:11:14Okay?
00:11:17Hello, boo-boo.
00:11:18I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:21Mwah!
00:11:23Boy, the moment I saw him,
00:11:25he's so good to look at.
00:11:27Yummers.
00:11:34Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:36we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:39and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:45Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:49I wanted to meet Anna Lynn in person,
00:11:51but when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:55There were flight restrictions.
00:11:58I was kind of feeling hopeless,
00:12:01and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:12:04And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:12:07and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:12:11And I thought if we were married legally,
00:12:14he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:12:18because they allow family,
00:12:19which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:24When Anna Lynn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:30I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:34I had doubts, of course,
00:12:36because it's unorthodox,
00:12:38but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:42When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with,
00:12:45you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:47It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:48When you know you know,
00:12:49it's kind of like that.
00:12:52All right.
00:12:53Place the rings on your fingers
00:12:55as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:57and the commitment that you're making.
00:13:00How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:13:04Absolutely not.
00:13:05But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:13:09It is now my privilege to pronounce you
00:13:11lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:13:19I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:21I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:25How could you be married for years
00:13:27and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:31Uh, the whole thing is very expensive,
00:13:34so, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:37So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:41Over the years,
00:13:42me and Anna Lynn have tried to meet up several times,
00:13:45but work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:49And having a marriage online has been challenging.
00:13:54Especially because Anna Lynn has changed.
00:13:58When I first met Anna,
00:14:00she was more patient, sweeter.
00:14:03She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:14:07Like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:14:10I've always been feisty.
00:14:13He knows that?
00:14:15And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:14:17I don't like being told what to do.
00:14:19I don't like being controlled.
00:14:22After a period of time,
00:14:24I had to fight to actually speak,
00:14:26to be heard.
00:14:28Lately, it feels like we're fighting
00:14:30more than we're getting along.
00:14:31I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:34But before I apply for that spousal visa
00:14:37and move Anna Lynn to the U.S.,
00:14:40we need to spend physical time with one another
00:14:42to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:46I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:49I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:51But I'm worried that our problems are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:57And if we can't,
00:14:58I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:15:05Yeah, you're so excited, huh?
00:15:07Oh, yeah.
00:15:07Oh, yeah.
00:15:09You're so handsome, always.
00:15:11I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:15:13I've been waiting seven years
00:15:15to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:15:18I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off,
00:15:20but I'm kind of still nervous about what this is going to do.
00:15:27I don't like that we were fighting yesterday,
00:15:29but there's something else I wanted to talk to you about
00:15:32that I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:35Mark, what's happening?
00:15:40I don't know.
00:15:42I don't know.
00:16:04I don't know.
00:16:23I want to get out for a bit this morning
00:16:26and clear my mind
00:16:27because my night with Emma was horrible.
00:16:31I want to be her husband,
00:16:32but we need some times to know each other.
00:16:35I hope things better today.
00:16:43I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:45Like, I thought I'd be waking up next to him
00:16:47and he would be, like, bringing me coffee in the morning
00:16:50and cuddling with me.
00:16:51And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:54We've actually just been completely separate.
00:16:59Zia's behavior last night,
00:17:00it's making me a little suspicious,
00:17:02but I'm trying not to just be in my head
00:17:06and overthink things.
00:17:07I want this to be fun
00:17:09and I want us to just focus on the positive.
00:17:13I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:17:15Zia's behavior last night.
00:17:28Zia's behavior last night.
00:17:31Oh, yeah.
00:17:32Zia's behavior last night.
00:17:36Oh, yeah.
00:17:37Good morning.
00:17:40Good morning.
00:17:41How's your night?
00:17:42This is nice.
00:17:44Really?
00:17:45Yeah.
00:17:46This is your place.
00:17:48I hope you will like it.
00:17:50Thanks, babe.
00:17:56Hello.
00:18:00Thank you.
00:18:03She's adorable.
00:18:06My favorite.
00:18:08I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it.
00:18:13Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:18:16What do you want to start for?
00:18:17I mean, it wasn't really, like, a good start to my trip.
00:18:22I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:18:25Yeah.
00:18:25That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:18:29Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:32Yeah.
00:18:33Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:35I love the tea here.
00:18:36Okay.
00:18:37Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:41I don't hear you.
00:18:43I don't hear you.
00:18:43I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:45Can you repeat?
00:18:45I don't hear what you said.
00:18:46I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:47For what?
00:18:51For running away from your kiss.
00:18:54And?
00:18:56Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:19:01I mean, I'm sorry, yesterday got, like, really dramatic, but I think it was just a long day
00:19:05for me because I was traveling for, like, 20 hours.
00:19:08I know it's difficult.
00:19:10And it was just, like, a lot going on.
00:19:11There was, like, a lot in my mind.
00:19:13And actually, there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't
00:19:19tell you yet.
00:19:34I was just upset the past couple days because you know how much I love my job?
00:19:39Like, I've been there for five years.
00:19:43Well, I got fired.
00:19:50Really?
00:19:52I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm going to cry.
00:19:54No, no, you don't need this.
00:19:57Listen, listen.
00:20:00I just need a minute.
00:20:03Emma.
00:20:11Sorry.
00:20:12No, no.
00:20:13Don't cry.
00:20:16It's, uh...
00:20:17Because I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:18It's all right.
00:20:19It's just a walk.
00:20:21It's a hazard.
00:20:23And you don't need to cry for it.
00:20:26So just enjoy your moments.
00:20:28No, don't cry.
00:20:29Don't cry.
00:20:29Okay.
00:20:30Don't cry.
00:20:31Okay.
00:20:39I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:40I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:43It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:45But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:48Yeah.
00:20:49You will find another one more better than your last.
00:20:52Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:57We are together and everything will be good.
00:21:05I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:21:09It was like a tornado.
00:21:12But right now, he is showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:21:16I love you, babe.
00:21:17Yeah, it is.
00:21:18I love you more.
00:21:20What's...
00:21:20What's mean, tornado?
00:21:22Like an earthquake.
00:21:23Like a...
00:21:23Like a natural disaster.
00:21:25So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:21:29Yeah, yeah.
00:21:30That's an amazing example.
00:21:31Yeah, really.
00:21:36My future hubby.
00:21:38Oh.
00:21:39Do you know what that means?
00:21:41No.
00:21:41Can you explain?
00:21:42What's mean?
00:21:43It's short for husband.
00:21:44Really?
00:21:45Yeah.
00:21:45Where's...
00:21:46Hubby.
00:21:48Uh, wifey.
00:21:49Yeah.
00:21:51Exactly.
00:22:13God, I can't believe the trees, how beautiful they are.
00:22:18I can't believe how hot it is.
00:22:19I'm probably gonna...
00:22:20I can't believe how hot it is.
00:22:21I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:22:24Lock away your smile.
00:22:29My heart is racing.
00:22:33All right.
00:22:34See you later, Dave.
00:22:35See you later.
00:22:36Okay.
00:22:37I don't know.
00:22:38I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams after
00:22:45seven years.
00:22:47Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:52Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:55Waka waka.
00:22:57Yeah.
00:23:01Oh, this is incredible.
00:23:03Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:23:06Crazy.
00:23:07This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:23:10If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:23:16It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:23:21Oh, man.
00:23:23Glad I'm not driving.
00:23:26But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:23:29Look at that.
00:23:30That thing is pretty good.
00:23:31Yes, this is the jeepney.
00:23:32This is locally here in my cafe.
00:23:34They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with Americans,
00:23:38so they can for, like, taxis.
00:23:42Incredible.
00:23:44You can see the big building there.
00:23:46That's the condo we're gonna stay.
00:23:48I wish I could stay at your place.
00:23:51Yeah.
00:23:52Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents
00:23:58said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:24:02When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their
00:24:07daughter, and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house
00:24:12is just absurd, especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to
00:24:18afford the plane ticket to actually just meet her.
00:24:21Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:24:24It's their wishes.
00:24:25I can't really go around that, but I'm not paying them money.
00:24:33This is the place.
00:24:34All right.
00:24:35All right.
00:24:35We are here.
00:24:40There you go, Molly.
00:24:41That's it.
00:24:42The jackpot.
00:24:43Oh, I got it.
00:24:45All right.
00:24:45Charge.
00:24:49Sheena is an extreme foodie, and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:55Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:58Whoa.
00:24:59I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:25:01Oh, my God.
00:25:01I can definitely smell him.
00:25:03Oh.
00:25:04Yeah.
00:25:06Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:25:08Don't go for that.
00:25:09Yeah, okay.
00:25:14So, sorry, baby.
00:25:15This is all I could get for you guys.
00:25:18You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:25:21It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:25:23Well, the place is nice, it's pretty, but it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:25:33I staked this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:25:36It feels good.
00:25:37It's your bag, too.
00:25:38Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:25:40It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:44If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down, I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:52Sheena.
00:25:54What?
00:25:54This feels more than online right now.
00:25:59You know, it's making me more nervous.
00:26:03Oh, you don't have to be.
00:26:04I'm here right with you.
00:26:05Oh, I know.
00:26:06I can see.
00:26:07Yeah?
00:26:08You're so excited, huh?
00:26:09Oh, yeah.
00:26:10Oh, yeah.
00:26:10Because I got some good stuff here.
00:26:14Excuse me, baby.
00:26:16Boom.
00:26:17What is that?
00:26:18This is something amazing.
00:26:21And I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:26:26Wow, what's that thing?
00:26:29I think it is a cloth that goes on your body and accentuates your sexuality.
00:26:39Oh, that's nice.
00:26:40I love the color.
00:26:42Oh, yeah.
00:26:43That's cool.
00:26:43I guess what?
00:26:44There's even more.
00:26:46What?
00:26:46You have more?
00:26:47I have more.
00:26:49Oh.
00:26:50Oh, wow.
00:26:51I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:54Wow.
00:26:55To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin.
00:27:02But forest makes me feel confident of my body.
00:27:06This is another one for you in case you want to.
00:27:09Oh, that's pretty.
00:27:09That's cool.
00:27:10That's beautiful.
00:27:12Oh, okay.
00:27:13Oh, okay.
00:27:21You're so handsome, always.
00:27:22I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:27:24Okay.
00:27:24Go for it, my love.
00:27:25Debrush.
00:27:26All right.
00:27:27Do everything, my love.
00:27:30You know, when I was making, like, sexy talk with her, I was really just trying to, like, put her
00:27:36at ease, make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:27:41I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this, but to be honest, I'm actually kind of
00:27:48still nervous about what is my virginity.
00:27:53I mean, I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off, but having sex with Sheena, I feel like it's
00:28:01an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:28:07It's just a big deal.
00:28:09I love you.
00:28:10I love you.
00:28:11Do you want the lights on or off?
00:28:13Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:28:20It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:28:25I still have flaws and imperfections, and so I am nervous that BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in
00:28:34person.
00:28:35Oh, my God.
00:28:36Here we go.
00:28:43We are in the process of landing, and I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or BeerCon, but
00:28:50I'm excited.
00:29:02So, this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:29:06I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting, for the first time.
00:29:12Everything has to go perfect, so I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:29:20Laura is arriving in Turkey today, and today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:29:29Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:29:33I never saw this big of a place.
00:29:38It just thrills me.
00:29:42Right now, I'm staying with different friends.
00:29:46Sometimes, sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:49That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:52But the privacy of our place is going to be nice, because we have a lot of things to discuss
00:30:00face to face.
00:30:13It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:30:17I'm so excited now.
00:30:19I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:30:29Oh, my God.
00:30:35She came early.
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00:36:59...actually called me.
00:37:01¿You spoke to her?
00:37:03Mm-hmm.
00:37:05She called me, like, at work.
00:37:08I'm working. I'm with customers.
00:37:11And she's just, you know, talking about...
00:37:13...your brother, your brother.
00:37:14I don't know what to do with him.
00:37:15Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:37:18And I was like, can't even get her off the phone.
00:37:21Yeah.
00:37:22She was just talking about that woman.
00:37:28Uh, yeah.
00:37:33So who is the woman?
00:37:40So the woman is just, like, a friend of mine
00:37:44that I've known for a long time.
00:37:48We communicate so well,
00:37:50and we can stay on the phone for hours,
00:37:52I think because we're both having problems
00:37:55in our, you know, relationship.
00:37:57It's definitely more easygoing,
00:38:00and it's more positive.
00:38:04So, but what is it that Anna's so, like,
00:38:07threatened and bothered by her?
00:38:10Like, what is it?
00:38:12Because I feel like I'm missing something.
00:38:16Yeah, I mean, there used to be
00:38:18this small thing between us,
00:38:21but we're better.
00:38:24Oh, so that, so,
00:38:26so, Javon, that's not okay.
00:38:28That is no good.
00:38:30I know, you know, and I'm not-
00:38:32So that's why she's so upset then.
00:38:34Yeah.
00:38:36Me and my friend, we never officially dated,
00:38:39but there was feelings for one another.
00:38:41We lost touch for a while,
00:38:43but I reached out to her
00:38:46because I was going through a rough time
00:38:49in my marriage,
00:38:50and I needed someone that knew me
00:38:54and that understood me.
00:38:55I wasn't trying to hide anything,
00:38:58so I just came out and told Anna Lynn
00:39:00I was talking to this other person.
00:39:03I don't think it's a big deal,
00:39:04but obviously she does
00:39:05because she's extremely pissed off and upset.
00:39:11I'm not saying she don't have
00:39:13a valid reason to be upset,
00:39:15but it's just completely platonic,
00:39:18you know, and she don't have to worry about that.
00:39:22Have you tried to call her?
00:39:24I have, but, you know,
00:39:27she blocked me.
00:39:30For real?
00:39:33She gets so aggressive.
00:39:34See, this is the problem.
00:39:36Like, this is how...
00:39:37This is why I had to go
00:39:39outside of our marriage
00:39:42to talk to somebody else
00:39:43about our marriage,
00:39:45and it shouldn't be that way.
00:39:48Obviously, Anna feels disrespected,
00:39:51and I do get that.
00:39:54I know that she's 1,000% unhinged,
00:39:57like, kind of off her rocker a little bit,
00:39:59but I do feel like he presses her buttons.
00:40:02Javon just needs to say sorry
00:40:03and try and talk to her,
00:40:05and if they don't know how to talk,
00:40:07then they don't need to be married.
00:40:09You're about to see your wife for the first time.
00:40:12You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight.
00:40:16I don't know what the to do.
00:40:18I don't know what to do.
00:40:23I heard some interesting things
00:40:26from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:40:29Did you guys do the old knock-a-knock-it?
00:40:34I just want to prefer, like,
00:40:36a privacy between us, you know?
00:40:38Now you're kind of being really disrespectful.
00:41:04I don't know what to do.
00:41:06Oh, yeah.
00:41:10Hey guys, we're going to go down and have some coffee by the pool
00:41:14So we'll be up in a little while
00:41:16Talk to you in a bit
00:41:18Later
00:41:21Mmm
00:41:25It's very content
00:41:44I arrived in the Philippines yesterday
00:41:46And the first night with the woman of my dream, Sheena, was amazing
00:41:53Oh man, you're strong
00:42:05There's a lot of new and fun things I'm finding out being with Sheena physically
00:42:10I found out there's a night Sheena
00:42:12And she's kind of grabby
00:42:15You're very into being physical, night Sheena
00:42:24You know, just finally being able to hold you and be with you and kiss you
00:42:29It just felt awesome
00:42:32And I know that I talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like that
00:42:38But I really believe that we should wait until we know each other a bit more in person
00:42:48I understand my love
00:42:51I really feel like after seven years, me coming here to the Philippines and just having sex with Sheena straight
00:42:58up
00:42:58It's not what I want to do
00:43:01Yeah, I agree with that
00:43:02I just want to get to know you much better
00:43:05We all know when the time is right
00:43:07I agree to that
00:43:10Also probably when my mom's not around
00:43:11Yeah
00:43:18We'll see you later
00:43:20I don't need a coat, that's for sure
00:43:24Ooh, nice and cool in here
00:43:28I'm excited
00:43:36So where exactly are you taking us again?
00:43:40So it's a Chinatown here in Manila
00:43:43Actually, one of the oldest Chinatown here in the whole world
00:43:47Because Chinese people have been trading with the Filipinos before Spanish people arrived
00:43:54Wow
00:43:54Spaniards
00:43:55So there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods
00:43:59I'm ready to eat it all
00:44:04So I got a little curiosity question to ask you guys
00:44:09I heard some interesting things, you know, coming from your guys' bedroom last night
00:44:17The little giggles
00:44:18So, uh, did you guys do the old, uh, knockin' knockin'?
00:44:27No
00:44:28No
00:44:29No
00:44:29No
00:44:30No
00:44:30No
00:44:31No
00:44:32No
00:44:33So, why, why didn't you guys?
00:44:38No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:45:08I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:45:13I respect you guys for waiting.
00:45:15And there's nothing wrong with that.
00:45:17There are other things that you can do.
00:45:20If you guys didn't want to do the nookie-nookie,
00:45:24there's oral sex.
00:45:26There's fondling.
00:45:28Now you're kind of being really disrespectful here, mom.
00:45:31I get it.
00:45:32You're trying to be helpful, but you're pushing too far.
00:45:36Si queremos hablar con el sexo, nos vamos a preguntar sobre él.
00:45:41Ok.
00:45:43Excuse me.
00:45:48I thought it was nice that he was defending her honor.
00:45:52That's admirable.
00:45:53But I was very shocked by Forrest's reaction.
00:45:58Thank you very much.
00:46:00Well, Forrest, why is this a, you know, a total 180 from our normal discussions where you're right in there
00:46:06using the same language, the same talk, saying, yeah, I'm going to get into that, do that.
00:46:11It's drastic night and day.
00:46:13I see where this is headed.
00:46:15Oh, my God, I miss this place.
00:46:17See us at home.
00:46:20Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
00:46:24Let's not forget, she was lying to him for years, giving all of her money to her parents instead of
00:46:30saving for their future.
00:46:31And I don't know if Forrest will actually hold her accountable.
00:46:35But we need to get some answers.
00:46:45You don't need to talk about your past.
00:46:49I know, I know everything about your life.
00:46:51You don't know everything.
00:46:53I really want to tell Ziyad about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could
00:46:59move forward.
00:47:17Ooh, look at the mirrors.
00:47:19Wait, I want to check my outfit.
00:47:22Here, hold that.
00:47:25We look cute.
00:47:28I can see you.
00:47:30Can you see yourself?
00:47:31I can see you.
00:47:43Excited to go shopping.
00:47:46It's always crowded.
00:47:47Yeah, yeah.
00:47:49This is an easy place to get lost.
00:47:51Yeah.
00:47:52Today, I wanted to take Emma to Old Medina.
00:47:55You know, I feel so bad because Emma, she loves her job.
00:47:59I want to make her feel so better and she loves shopping.
00:48:04Oh, look at those bags.
00:48:19Oh, look at those bags.
00:48:21Those are cute.
00:48:22Yes.
00:48:23Oh, wait, there's bags.
00:48:24Oh, wait, there's bags.
00:48:25Let's go look at the bags.
00:48:27Let's see what you want.
00:48:34Let's see what you want.
00:48:55Oh, this is so cute.
00:48:55Can I do that from now on?
00:48:57Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:48:57Can I just give you air kisses whenever I want to kiss you?
00:49:00Yeah.
00:49:03It's really nice to have Ziad offer to buy me things and buy gifts for me.
00:49:09That was so romantic because that's never something I've had in the past.
00:49:14It's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than I was feeling yesterday.
00:49:18Where are you taking me, babe?
00:49:20This is popular here in Marrakesh.
00:49:24What is this?
00:49:30What is that?
00:49:32What do we call them in English?
00:49:34Snails.
00:49:35Snails.
00:49:35I, like, don't want that.
00:49:37Really?
00:49:37No.
00:49:38It's like traditional.
00:49:40I'm not trying it.
00:49:41Tisted.
00:49:41Tisted.
00:49:41No.
00:49:43I literally would throw up.
00:49:49That is the grossest thing I've ever seen in my whole life.
00:49:52It's a slimy snail.
00:49:55And you just sucked it down.
00:49:58For me, it's delicious.
00:50:03That's, like, really gross.
00:50:05What's, like, the weirdest food you've ever tried?
00:50:08Like, snails would be weird.
00:50:10For you, for me, no.
00:50:12So, for me, sushi, for example.
00:50:14I love sushi.
00:50:15Yeah, it's, we are different.
00:50:18Are we compatible?
00:50:27Can you hold my other bag, actually?
00:50:30Uh-huh.
00:50:31What else can we do, like, while we're here?
00:50:32Did you like horses?
00:50:34I love horses.
00:50:37I think we have to choose this one.
00:50:39I like the white one.
00:50:40You heard?
00:50:42Just one by one.
00:50:45One by one.
00:50:47Oh, my God, this is so romantic.
00:50:50Yeah.
00:50:51This is, like, a romantic love ride.
00:51:00This is three kisses you kissed me today.
00:51:03Okay.
00:51:06I'm happy that we had a better day today.
00:51:08Yeah, me too.
00:51:08So, it was a big difference between this day and last day.
00:51:15Yesterday was, like, really hard for me.
00:51:16It, like, brought up old feelings.
00:51:19Because, you know, I've, like, been lied to a lot.
00:51:22Like, in my past, like, with past boyfriends.
00:51:25So, when you kind of lied to me, it was, like, a trigger for me.
00:51:30Yeah.
00:51:30So, you don't need to talk about your past, your bad experience.
00:51:34Do you not care about my past?
00:51:36No.
00:51:37I know you right now, not in past.
00:51:39So...
00:51:39Yeah, but don't you want to know about my life?
00:51:42Just, like, things I've been through.
00:51:44It's, like, don't you want to know about me?
00:51:45Yeah.
00:51:46I know everything about your life.
00:51:47You don't know everything.
00:51:50No, I know everything.
00:51:51I know your family.
00:51:52I know where you live.
00:51:54I know.
00:51:55I know, but there are things that, like, I...
00:51:57That have happened in my life that you don't know about.
00:52:03Like, I thought.
00:52:03We can live in past.
00:52:05Something in past.
00:52:06It's past.
00:52:09It's past.
00:52:11I want to be vulnerable.
00:52:12I want to share, you know, details about who I am and my past.
00:52:15And I really want to be able to tell Ziad about my last engagement because I think it's the only
00:52:22way that we could move forward.
00:52:25But for him to shut me down, it does make me wonder if Ziad just doesn't want to talk about
00:52:31the past because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:52:39Since I've gotten to Morocco, I've just felt really rejected by him, and so now I'm just feeling a little
00:52:46concerned about everything.
00:52:54I need you to be able to look me in the eye.
00:52:56Why?
00:52:57Why have you lied to us all along?
00:53:00I was so fearful of my parents.
00:53:03They would say bad things to me.
00:53:05They would say bad things to other people.
00:53:07And it affects me emotionally, mentally, it drains me every day.
00:53:11No, I need that direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
00:53:43Hello, Javon.
00:53:54I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:54:01But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week.
00:54:05My sister talked to Anna Lynn, and she actually unblocked me.
00:54:09But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch with a friend I once had feelings for.
00:54:16There's so much riding on this trip.
00:54:20Anna being as angry, it's just not good.
00:54:25Hey, what's going on?
00:54:28What's going on?
00:54:29Ask yourself what's going on, Javon.
00:54:33I mean, you know, Anna, don't be so aggressive.
00:54:38Not being aggressive.
00:54:40You told me yourself, if we're going to be married, we can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:54:50But you're doing it.
00:54:54And I'm not saying that you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step for any temptation.
00:55:02I'm dealing with so much over here by myself.
00:55:05I'm dealing with your problems.
00:55:07I'm dealing with my problems.
00:55:08And sometimes I don't feel like I'm being emotionally supported by you.
00:55:13So, you know, I kind of felt like I was just a little bit desperate just to be understood and
00:55:20just heard.
00:55:24If you feel like sometimes you can't talk to me, you have siblings, you have a dad, you have a
00:55:33mom.
00:55:34If you're a big circle, you're still not enough, you're American.
00:55:40Get the therapy.
00:55:42I mean, but like, who can afford therapy right now?
00:55:52She's not taking any accountability that, you know, she played a part in why I reached out to a friend.
00:56:00I need to be able to rely on my wife, but she makes it impossible.
00:56:06Even when I'm, like, at work and you're going through something, I always try to be there for you emotionally.
00:56:12Okay, okay.
00:56:13Okay, listen.
00:56:14I try, but I don't see you trying for me.
00:56:18When do you show up for me in that way?
00:56:20Oh, God.
00:56:24Like, hello, I've been waiting for you for six years.
00:56:29I have devoted, invested so much love.
00:56:39If you don't feel like that's understanding enough, waiting for you for that love,
00:56:55I know you've made, you know, some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long, and I do apologize
00:57:04and I do take accountability for what I've done.
00:57:09Okay.
00:57:11Okay.
00:57:14So you're going to stop talking to her?
00:57:18I can stop, but can we at least work on our communication?
00:57:25Okay.
00:57:27I can stop talking to her.
00:57:28That's all I want, boo.
00:57:30That's it.
00:57:32With Javon coming out to the Philippines, I do feel like I could let go of some negative feelings
00:57:40about this situation.
00:57:42But even though he agreed that he's not going to talk to that woman anymore, do I believe it?
00:57:52No, not really.
00:57:54So I will definitely talk about this again in person.
00:58:01Do you think we can, like, move past it?
00:58:04Like, when we see each other?
00:58:07I don't know.
00:58:08Maybe.
00:58:26Well, look at this place.
00:58:28This was a church.
00:58:30Oh.
00:58:311588.
00:58:32Man, that is old.
00:58:33It's old.
00:58:34Here, we got some rings here.
00:58:36Dad, what's this, you guys?
00:58:44Yeah, it's precision.
00:58:47Oh, my goodness.
00:58:49We call that fiesta.
00:58:50Oh, yes.
00:58:51That's a culture for Catholics here in my country.
00:58:53Goodness.
00:58:55Yes, my God.
00:58:57Yeah, it's really cool.
00:58:58Look at this.
00:59:02I decided to take Forrest and his family to Chinatown because I'm a Chinese mix.
00:59:08My mom is Chinese descent, so I wanted to show how Chinese culture interbonded with Filipino culture.
00:59:18Smell that?
00:59:19Oh, that smells so good.
00:59:20Wow.
00:59:21So this is a place that can make handmade noodles.
00:59:24I eat that air.
00:59:26Hello.
00:59:27Oh.
00:59:28Yesterday, I was quite a little nervous to meet Forrest's parents, especially Molly.
00:59:34Okay, thank you.
00:59:35Thank you.
00:59:36There's been a problem between me and Molly, but I'm so glad that she happened to accept
00:59:42me.
00:59:43And I wanted to provide them the best first day here in the Philippines.
00:59:49Yum.
00:59:50Oh, thank you.
00:59:52Slurps up.
00:59:52Slurps up and slurps up, huh?
00:59:55Yeah, actually, that's here.
00:59:56The culture here, if you want to slurp, it means you're eating the good noodles, so that's
01:00:00a good sign.
01:00:00So the loud are the best, right?
01:00:01Yeah.
01:00:02Yes.
01:00:02Here I go.
01:00:05Yeah, you are the king of slurps, Forrest.
01:00:08I made sure to get on my glasses.
01:00:09That's the key.
01:00:10This is all good.
01:00:11Yeah.
01:00:13Well, Sheena, I wanted to thank you for your apology yesterday.
01:00:20I mean, that really showed a lot to me.
01:00:25But I did want to ask you about a few things.
01:00:33Okay?
01:00:34Okay, Molly.
01:00:35I'm listening.
01:00:35And I need you to be able to look me in the eye, and I need you to be truthful
01:00:41with me 100%.
01:00:46You lied to us about giving your parents the money.
01:00:52This was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to America to be a family
01:00:58with us.
01:00:59These were the plans all of these years.
01:01:02And then for it to just find out, now, before we come here, that hasn't been happening.
01:01:13Why have you lied to us all along?
01:01:20I really owe you millions and thousands of explanations I need.
01:01:24I hope you can listen to my situation.
01:01:27The reason why that I happen to give my money to my parents is because being a breadwinner,
01:01:35it's a cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around.
01:01:41I mean, I completely understand giving your parents money, needing to help your family.
01:01:46That's what family does.
01:01:58To be honest, the reason also, that's the other reason I was so scared, because my parents,
01:02:05my mom happened to guilt-tripping me from time to time.
01:02:10If I don't give them money, she makes me feel that I'm such a selfish person, and it hurts
01:02:16me a lot.
01:02:18Okay, but if I'm asking you a direct question, I need that direct answer.
01:02:23And even now, you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
01:02:33Watching Sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful.
01:02:39I'm wanting to step in and defend her and protect Sheena, but at the same time,
01:02:45I don't understand what fear she had of telling me.
01:02:50I was so fearful of my parents.
01:02:53They would say bad things to me.
01:02:55They would say bad things to other people.
01:02:57And it affects me emotionally, mentally, drains me every day.
01:03:01Uh-uh, no.
01:03:02And it makes me feel so bad.
01:03:04No, no.
01:03:05Sheena, I'm not asking you that.
01:03:07I'm asking you why you did not tell us.
01:03:15I couldn't handle myself anymore.
01:03:19Sheena, I can't understand what you're saying.
01:03:21I am so sorry.
01:03:22Oh, my God.
01:03:23See, there's your manipulation with the tears.
01:03:27Please put your tissue down.
01:03:30I'm trying to have Sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable.
01:03:38So even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents,
01:03:42what's the motivation for hiding it?
01:03:45We've got to get answers.
01:03:47Why did she do it?
01:03:48Oh, my God.
01:03:49Oh, my God.
01:03:56Oh, my God.
01:03:57Oh, my God.
01:03:58Oh, my God.
01:03:58I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:00I love this, but I am worried about some things.
01:04:04She was physical with a woman.
01:04:28Oh, my God.
01:04:29Oh, my God.
01:04:29Oh, my God.
01:04:30Oh, my God.
01:04:30Oh, my God.
01:04:31Oh, my God.
01:04:31Here he is.
01:04:32Awesome.
01:04:33Here we go.
01:04:34Here goes everything.
01:04:43Thank you.
01:04:45Oh, my gosh.
01:04:47I'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life, Daniel, in Nigeria for the very first
01:04:52time.
01:04:54What am I doing?
01:04:56I don't know, Mom.
01:04:56What are you doing?
01:04:57Certainly not what I would be doing.
01:05:01It still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women, I'm traveling
01:05:06across the world to meet a man, and I love him.
01:05:11I love him.
01:05:13You're going to see when I come home how excited and happy I am.
01:05:16You're going to see when I talk to you there how happy I am, and you're going to be happy
01:05:20for me.
01:05:22I just, I don't want it to ruin your heart.
01:05:32I'm going to pee my pants.
01:05:34Oh, God.
01:05:34Please don't.
01:05:37Here we go.
01:05:39Okay.
01:05:42All right.
01:05:44You remember the rules.
01:05:45Don't get married on the trip, even when the divorce comes through.
01:05:48Yes.
01:05:49And I would complain about everything.
01:05:51It will be a foundation.
01:05:52And if you have questions.
01:05:54I will ask them.
01:05:57I love you.
01:05:59I love you, too.
01:06:00I'm going to miss you so much.
01:06:03Stay safe.
01:06:04Oh, God.
01:06:05This is the biggest risk I've ever taken.
01:06:08Flying across the world to another country, to Nigeria, Africa, to be with a man I have
01:06:14never met before.
01:06:15I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:06:18Oh, my God.
01:06:19This is really happening.
01:06:21Oh, my God.
01:06:22Oh, my God.
01:06:23Oh, my God.
01:06:23Oh, my God.
01:06:24Oh, my God.
01:06:24Oh, my God.
01:06:25I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:06:27Happy dance.
01:06:29Happy dance.
01:06:31I hope Daniel will accept me for everything that I am and who I am, and that he will become
01:06:37my sixth and final spouse.
01:06:42Daniel is coming.
01:06:52I'm here today.
01:06:58Oh, my God.
01:06:59Oh, my God.
01:07:07Bye.
01:07:10Bye.
01:07:32¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
01:07:43I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe.
01:07:45We have traditions and we believe in traditions.
01:07:49As an Igbo man, we love competition.
01:07:51We work hard and we have to be honest.
01:08:04I grew up very poor.
01:08:06Sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food.
01:08:11My family do the best they can do.
01:08:14And I am really close to my family.
01:08:16But some years ago, I lost my mom.
01:08:20Before she died, she told me that during the war,
01:08:23she nearly be killed, that a white woman protected her.
01:08:27And I have to make sure that I get married to a white woman.
01:08:30So I decided I will do it.
01:08:32And that's how I found Lisa.
01:08:35It's like fire burning up.
01:08:38Lisa is 52 years old.
01:08:40She lives in Pennsylvania.
01:08:42She's a beautiful woman.
01:08:44She has a good body structure.
01:08:47She's thick.
01:08:48She has boobs.
01:08:50She has what I want.
01:08:51Like fire.
01:08:52Feel the heat.
01:08:53She doesn't hide anything.
01:08:55She supports me financially.
01:08:57She makes me feel loved.
01:09:00That's why I fell in love with her.
01:09:03Like fire!
01:09:07She's got a good body.
01:09:55En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales para consultar los ancestros.
01:10:08En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales para consultar los ancestros.
01:10:34En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales para consultar los ancestros.
01:10:49En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales para consultar los ancestros.
01:11:32En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales para consultar los ancestros.
01:11:47En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales para consultar los ancestros.
01:12:14En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales.
01:12:40En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales.
01:13:09Este es increÃble.
01:13:31Este es increÃble.
01:13:37Este es increÃble.
01:14:08Este es increÃble.
01:14:42En la iglesia se ve lÃderes espirituales.
01:15:12Este es increÃble.
01:15:16Este es increÃble.
01:15:24Este es increÃble.
01:15:29Este es increÃble.
01:15:30Este es increÃble.
01:15:33Este es increÃble.
01:15:48Este es increÃble.
01:16:02Este es increÃble.
01:16:13Este es increÃble.
01:16:15Este es increÃble.
01:16:15Este es increÃble.
01:16:40Este es increÃble.
01:16:45Este es increÃble.
01:16:55Este es increÃble.
01:17:10Este es increÃble.
01:17:16Este es increÃble.
01:17:18Este es increÃble.
01:17:21Este es increÃble.
01:17:22Este es increÃble.
01:17:23Este es increÃble.
01:17:25Este es increÃble.
01:17:28Just feels off. I don't know how to explain it. It just feels off.
01:17:33It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than I am from the
01:17:42man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:17:46Y asÃ, creo que hay algo realmente mal, y no sé, tal vez que él está hiding algo,
01:17:53o tal vez que él no está atrapado a mà en persona.
01:17:58Pero, por lo tanto, estoy preguntando por qué estoy aquà hasta este punto.
01:18:08¿Qué es Bear Collins?
01:18:16¿La historia make any sense to you at all?
01:18:19No, no.
01:18:21No, does it make any sense to me.
01:18:23Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:25I want to end this, now.
01:18:27You're acting all hostile?
01:18:28I'm not, I'm not.
01:18:29Yeah, you are.
01:18:30Forrest?
01:18:48¡Gracias!
01:19:10¡Gracias!
01:19:42¡Gracias!
01:19:42Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:19:45Honestly, when you try to look at it in without the tears and without...
01:19:52It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:19:55The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:19:57I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:20:06es muy preocupante porque
01:20:10¿Cómo puedo saber que tus planes y tus planes
01:20:13son realmente genuinos
01:20:16oh, te estaba miedo
01:20:17Forrest would have
01:20:19come to me y me dijo
01:20:21Mom, I gotta get on a freaking plane
01:20:23right now, I gotta go over there
01:20:25and save her
01:20:25but it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared
01:20:29that you couldn't tell him
01:20:30and that you could put up with it all that years
01:20:32and hide it
01:20:35Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:20:43A lot of it, yeah
01:20:46I understand
01:20:47that if you love your parents
01:20:49and you want to have love from them
01:20:51you would try to do anything
01:20:53to make them love you
01:20:56Forrest
01:20:56It's hard
01:20:57to say no to a parent
01:20:59especially when
01:20:59That still didn't answer
01:21:00the question
01:21:02It's hard for me to say no to you
01:21:04It's hard for me
01:21:05to stick up for her
01:21:07against you
01:21:11I believe Sheena
01:21:13is not trying to lie
01:21:14or use things as excuses
01:21:16I think Sheena honestly
01:21:17doesn't know what to say
01:21:18and
01:21:20she gets so overwhelmed
01:21:22all she can get is
01:21:25you know
01:21:26diary of the mouth
01:21:30I wouldn't be
01:21:31being a good boyfriend
01:21:32to Sheena
01:21:34if I just sat there
01:21:35and watched her flounder
01:21:38Obviously she knows
01:21:40she did wrong
01:21:41What's your goal here?
01:21:42Just to sit here
01:21:43and keep beating her down?
01:21:46I think what we have to do
01:21:48is we need to
01:21:50get Sheena
01:21:51away from her parents
01:21:54because ultimately
01:21:55the root of this nasty tree
01:21:58is the parents
01:22:00It's Sheena
01:22:02I need
01:22:03we need to hear from you
01:22:04that you're ready to
01:22:06move forward
01:22:07and confront your parents
01:22:08about what we're going to do
01:22:09from now on
01:22:13I'm willing to take
01:22:14the risk
01:22:15to confront my parents
01:22:16It is the only way
01:22:18to end this kind of problem
01:22:19Which is what she should have done
01:22:21to set up with you
01:22:23Yeah
01:22:23Years and years ago
01:22:25Yeah, we could sit there
01:22:25and we could talk about the past
01:22:26and he said
01:22:27she said
01:22:28he could do that
01:22:29She cannot do that
01:22:30It's time to move forward now
01:22:32Forrest
01:22:33I want to add this
01:22:34now
01:22:38I don't even want to talk
01:22:39about the parents anymore
01:22:40I don't want to talk
01:22:41about anything
01:22:42You're acting all hostile
01:22:43I'm not hostile
01:22:44Yeah, you are
01:22:46And you're causing
01:22:48Sheena a lot of stress
01:22:49You're causing me
01:22:50a lot of stress
01:22:51We tried to have a nice dinner
01:22:52and our nice dinner
01:22:54turned into
01:22:55Disaster
01:22:58It's okay, babe
01:23:03I now see
01:23:05that Forrest is too deep
01:23:07He's just got the blinders on
01:23:09only wanting to believe her
01:23:12Now he sees us
01:23:14as the big, bad, bad nasties
01:23:16that attacked his poor Sheena
01:23:19But still
01:23:20I have to always protect Forrest
01:23:22Because I know
01:23:23that he really loves her
01:23:25And I will not stop
01:23:28trying to find out
01:23:29why
01:23:29she lied
01:23:36Next time on
01:23:38Before the 90 Days
01:23:39I'm about to meet my wife
01:23:41for the first time
01:23:42This is so surreal
01:23:43Come on
01:23:45Where are you?
01:23:47This is like ordering
01:23:48something online
01:23:49and we're just excited
01:23:51to unpack
01:23:51the package
01:23:55Are you nervous?
01:23:59A little bit
01:23:59Yeah, actually
01:24:00Before I came to Turkey
01:24:02I did make an appointment
01:24:04with a plastic surgeon
01:24:05I have some like
01:24:06loose skin in places
01:24:08that I am looking
01:24:09to have removed
01:24:11This part is best
01:24:12as possible
01:24:13But I'm immediately
01:24:15regretting having
01:24:16Fearcom come with me
01:24:17I will just
01:24:18show you some pictures
01:24:25I've been looking
01:24:26at your page
01:24:27Every day
01:24:28you follow new girls
01:24:29Just girls, girls, girls
01:24:31girls, girls
01:24:31girls, girls
01:24:32Yeah
01:24:33I downloaded this
01:24:34extension on my laptop
01:24:36and it shows you
01:24:38who people follow
01:24:40This morning
01:24:41I saw that he was
01:24:42still following
01:24:42thousands of women
01:24:43So since we've been dating
01:24:45have you talked romantically
01:24:46to any other girls?
01:24:49She and I had a discussion
01:24:50about going by ourselves
01:24:52to meet your parents
01:24:53and how it's important
01:24:54that I meet them
01:24:55before mom and dad
01:24:56meet them
01:24:57I can't even imagine
01:24:58what her parents
01:24:59would try and do
01:25:00if Forrest went over
01:25:01there by himself
01:25:01I need to be there
01:25:04with Forrest
01:25:05She and I
01:25:06your parents
01:25:07are going to do
01:25:08the same line
01:25:09that they've used
01:25:10on you all along
01:25:12Well, my family
01:25:12isn't a bad people
01:25:13Now the story
01:25:15changes again
01:25:16I still don't know
01:25:18if this isn't something
01:25:19that you're involved
01:25:20in either
01:25:22What the heck?
01:25:26I can't get out of there
01:25:28I love him
01:25:30with everything I am
01:25:32But he doesn't know
01:25:33that I've been married
01:25:35five times
01:25:35and I'm still married
01:25:37to a woman
01:25:38What are you doing?
01:25:41Great
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