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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 11
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:30No, no, no.
00:00:30You remembered last night when I brought it up.
00:00:33Now all of a sudden, you're pretending you don't know her?
00:00:35I can't remember.
00:00:36I am being caught.
00:00:38I lied to her.
00:00:40Yes, I know this lady.
00:00:43But it's been a long time I've won't talk to her.
00:00:46I'm sorry, okay?
00:00:48I'm still hurting inside.
00:00:50But at the same time, all my secrets are so much more than his one lie.
00:00:56If I can let this go, maybe he'll forgive me when I tell him everything.
00:01:00So?
00:01:03We decided that both of our finances would be put into a shared account.
00:01:09Actually, he doesn't have the access.
00:01:13You're not married.
00:01:15I'm really surprised that Sheena's dad would tell me we don't get to share a bank account.
00:01:20And Sheena is going along with it.
00:01:23I don't know if I can propose to Sheena if I can't trust her.
00:01:28There are some things that I do have questions about.
00:01:32We probably have to have a private conversation.
00:01:35I do understand why Aviva has fallen for stick.
00:01:39But now this all changes because I am here.
00:01:42This is you, isn't it?
00:01:47The last time I was here in Morocco, I was coming to visit a guy that I was dating.
00:01:54And there's, like, something else.
00:01:58We got engaged.
00:02:00The last time I was here in Morocco.
00:02:26Are you seeing this?
00:02:28Have you seen this cap before?
00:02:31No.
00:02:32This to tell that I'm from Igbo tribe.
00:02:36You look like Santa Claus.
00:02:38Really?
00:02:39Yeah.
00:02:49How are you feeling since everything, yesterday?
00:02:55Yes.
00:02:56Are you still remembering that?
00:02:58I am still remembering it.
00:02:59Oh.
00:03:00It bothers me a little bit.
00:03:02So I tried to talk to her again to see if she would send those screenshots one more time.
00:03:07Okay.
00:03:08And she blocked me on social media.
00:03:11I thought she's a friend.
00:03:13Why did she block you?
00:03:14I don't know.
00:03:16But my thought is, I guess she's jealous of us.
00:03:20So I think I'm feeling better about it, thinking about it that way.
00:03:25I can't believe she blocked me.
00:03:28It's making me believe that she's the one who was lying about Daniel.
00:03:34Maybe she wanted to be with Daniel.
00:03:36So she reached out to me to call him a scammer to deter me away from Daniel.
00:03:41I think she's mad that Daniel chose me over her.
00:03:46I think everything has been resolved.
00:03:48I'm trying to believe that.
00:03:52Baby, can you dress up?
00:03:54We are going to the king, okay?
00:03:57I want us to go there with one mind, okay?
00:04:01For now, I just want to put this whole thing behind me.
00:04:05Because today, Daniel's taking me to meet the king in Legos.
00:04:10Apparently, there are several kings of the Igbo tribe, and this is a real king.
00:04:15I am going to meet a real king.
00:04:17I am so scared and I'm so nervous I may pee my pants.
00:04:21We'll go see the king, but I need you to help me with my hair tie.
00:04:26Perfect right there.
00:04:28When you're talking about marriage, everyone don't have to go and see the king.
00:04:32But getting his blessing, it means a lot.
00:04:35You look so handsome.
00:04:37Taking her to the king is the highest honor to our culture.
00:04:40This will be the way to prove to Lisa I respect her a lot, and I am committed to her.
00:04:53I am very nervous.
00:04:54Is it a big palace?
00:04:56I am nervous.
00:04:57Or is it more like a mansion?
00:05:00Just a come down.
00:05:01I am allowed to be nervous about meeting a king.
00:05:05It's exciting.
00:05:06I am picturing a huge castle.
00:05:08It's going to be bigger than Disneyland.
00:05:10It's going to have towers, and that is going to have a moat.
00:05:14Marble floors, and this grand entrance.
00:05:17I don't know what I'm thinking.
00:05:18I'm thinking I'm in England.
00:05:22How do I greet him again?
00:05:24You have to know that I'll say.
00:05:26It is a beautiful.
00:05:27May you live long, my king.
00:05:29May you live long, my king.
00:05:30Good.
00:05:34Oh my God, I'm so nervous.
00:05:37I am so afraid that I'm going to say something wrong, that I'm going to kneel at the wrong
00:05:42time, that I will accidentally reveal my secrets.
00:05:46I mean, this is the ultimate blessing.
00:05:49I can't mess up.
00:05:52Oh, we're turning here.
00:05:54Shh.
00:05:55Where are we?
00:05:57Are we here?
00:05:58Yes.
00:06:01Oh my God, baby.
00:06:15During my last trip, when we were in Marrakesh, we got engaged.
00:06:31So that's why you are so fast, you wanted just to be engaged, and...
00:06:35No, I don't just want to be engaged, but that's just what happened on my last trip.
00:06:39Mm-hmm.
00:06:44In social media, when we speak, why you didn't say that you make a story for...
00:06:51It's not a story.
00:06:52Just be, be, be real.
00:06:54I am being real.
00:06:55Sometimes you have to say it without to be scared.
00:06:57For example...
00:06:58That's what I'm doing right now.
00:07:00But you take a lot of time.
00:07:01It's like...
00:07:02Well, exactly.
00:07:03I didn't want you to be mad, so I didn't say anything about it.
00:07:08It's like, I don't know you, and I will not trust anything you say.
00:07:17It's like, I feel like you are not good.
00:07:25She told me I was there in Morocco just to visit Marrakesh with my girlfriend.
00:07:30This is the first lie.
00:07:32The second one, when we are together in cooking clothes, she told me I was healing.
00:07:39And right now, she told me another story.
00:07:42I was with a Moroccan man in Marrakesh because we are just ready to be engaged.
00:07:46And I'm not going to say anything, but I'm not going to say anything.
00:07:49The story is...
00:07:51I'm not going to say anything.
00:07:52I'm not going to say anything.
00:07:57Why not really?
00:07:58I don't have...
00:08:00What?
00:08:03It's like...
00:08:03I can't.
00:08:06You can't what?
00:08:08I can't be engaged with you, and I can't propose you.
00:08:14I can't move on with you.
00:08:15It's like...
00:08:16What do you mean you can't move on?
00:08:17What do you mean?
00:08:20You're breaking up with me?
00:08:23Yep.
00:08:26I accept what you did.
00:08:28So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy before you?
00:08:32Because you're lying to me.
00:08:35That's the problem.
00:08:37I need a minute, so...
00:08:51How is this something to break up with me over?
00:08:54What do you mean?
00:08:54How is this something for you to just leave and break up with me?
00:08:57Did I break up with you when you were talking to other girls, and I had proof of you messaging
00:09:02girls, telling them to come visit you, telling them you want to get to know them?
00:09:05No.
00:09:08I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt.
00:09:10I tried to see the best in you, and then you find out one little thing, and you're ready
00:09:14to just break up with me and go home.
00:09:15So why not?
00:09:15I want to go to my home.
00:09:17Why?
00:09:19Zad, were we in a relationship?
00:09:22Were we in a relationship?
00:09:24Were we in a relationship?
00:09:26Why can't you talk to me?
00:09:27Like, I came all the way here, and you're just walking away because of one thing that
00:09:30you're mad about?
00:09:32Can you leave me walk?
00:09:33No.
00:09:33I want to like, by myself.
00:09:34No.
00:09:35Just go.
00:09:35No.
00:09:36Just go.
00:09:36No.
00:09:38Don't touch me.
00:09:39I'm not touching you.
00:09:40So just let me go.
00:09:41I want to go right now.
00:09:42Okay, bye.
00:09:43Yeah.
00:09:43Goodbye.
00:09:49I did all of this for us to be together.
00:09:51He's an asshole.
00:09:53He's literally an asshole.
00:10:04Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:10:06I am King Forrest.
00:10:08Dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess, my dreams have
00:10:14come to fruition.
00:10:17Welcome, conquistador.
00:10:18Let's go, man.
00:10:19Onward.
00:10:22Corrine.
00:10:22Can you come here for a minute?
00:10:24Coming.
00:10:25The girl in the photo is Corrine's friend.
00:10:28She has no reason to lie to her.
00:10:30February 7th.
00:10:31Where were you?
00:10:32I don't know.
00:10:33I think Hopkins did our wedding.
00:10:34That picture wasn't Hopkins.
00:10:36You were here in Placentia with her.
00:10:45I mean, this is you, isn't it?
00:10:51Oh, yeah, that's you.
00:11:01This is from, like, two months ago.
00:11:07What is this?
00:11:07Is this something?
00:11:08That's a fan.
00:11:08That's somebody that's a fan.
00:11:11This is a fan?
00:11:12So you didn't tell her that you loved her?
00:11:15No, I didn't.
00:11:15So why is there a text right here saying, I'ma love you forever?
00:11:24And when my niece, Corrine, asked, why does that look like Stig?
00:11:28They say, that's my man.
00:11:30Is there some reason that there's text of you telling this girl you love her and her claiming
00:11:34that you're her man?
00:11:36Because these girls are super fans, and that's okay, and I appreciate that.
00:11:39So I asked you, no, this is more than super fan.
00:11:43This girl definitely says that you guys were together there.
00:11:46Cup.
00:11:47Corrine, can you come in here for a second?
00:11:50Yes, I'm coming.
00:11:54So he claims he doesn't know who she is, that literally that she's just a fan.
00:12:00So, okay, so I know her, she's a close friend of mine.
00:12:05I don't think my friend, a girl with a smile would have liked to me about something like
00:12:09that.
00:12:10She mentioned when she goes to the city, she sees you.
00:12:16The fair firm, probably.
00:12:17No.
00:12:18Ah, yes.
00:12:19So, okay, February 7th, where were you?
00:12:27Hopkins, I don't know, I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:12:32No, that picture wasn't Hopkins.
00:12:35You were here in Plasencia with her.
00:12:46I can see something's going on through the window.
00:12:49I have no idea what's being said, but I just hear a lot of commotion, and I'm freaking
00:12:55out.
00:12:57It is frustrating to be left out of this conversation.
00:13:00It seems very important, but I trust my aunt, and she must have a reason for wanting to
00:13:07keep me out of the loop.
00:13:08I just wish I knew what the was going on.
00:13:11You guys are definitely together, like, more than one instance is different dance.
00:13:16No, I don't know what the is like that.
00:13:19If I was with a girl, I might tell her the truth.
00:13:21I might tell her Aviva the truth.
00:13:23I ain't not lying.
00:13:25I don't want to hurt Aviva's feelings because I know, like, she truly and genuinely loves
00:13:31Stig.
00:13:32Even to bring this information forward to Auntie Spring has been, like, so traumatic to me,
00:13:39but I know that my friend and Stig have been hooking up.
00:13:44Stig bulls**t a lot, but if he knows that he doesn't want the relationship, he should
00:13:50leave.
00:13:52I mean, reward this girl, that girl.
00:13:56Pictures.
00:13:57Messages don't lie.
00:13:59F***.
00:13:59F***.
00:14:02Up, Daddy.
00:14:04Thank you, Nisi.
00:14:05I appreciate you.
00:14:05You're welcome.
00:14:06F***.
00:14:07F***.
00:14:08Yeah.
00:14:08All of that is exactly, getting extra about it is exactly what my husband would do, too.
00:14:14This is all the things that I worry about between you guys.
00:14:20The girl in the photo is Corinne's friend.
00:14:22They've known each other since they were diapers.
00:14:24She doesn't know anything about him dating Aviva.
00:14:27She has no reason to lie to her about what she's doing, and if this is just a fan, then
00:14:33he needs to explain that to her, because this is overly friendly with a fan.
00:14:38Aviva actually cares a lot about you and, you know, loves you, and I don't want her
00:14:45to end up, you know, you living two different lives, and I still don't believe anything that
00:14:50you're saying right now.
00:14:53Aviva, so do you want to explain this to Aviva later?
00:14:58You're either going to tell her or I'm telling her.
00:15:04I have nothing to hide.
00:15:09Anne Springer's trying to put her s*** on me because of her past relationship, which
00:15:14is unfair.
00:15:15So now, I can't believe I have to tell Aviva what a picture of a fan that might ruin my
00:15:22entire relationship.
00:15:24We'll see, I guess.
00:15:26I don't even f***ing know.
00:15:48Oh.
00:15:49That's weird.
00:15:50So what?
00:15:51It's a cotton texture, yeah.
00:15:52That's why it's called cotton.
00:15:53Cotton fruit, yeah.
00:15:54Yeah.
00:15:58Oh, it's sour, right?
00:16:02Oh, Lordy.
00:16:06I was a guinea pig for everybody.
00:16:08There.
00:16:14The other one is we call pastillas.
00:16:17Pastillas is like soft milk candy.
00:16:21Hey, Mom.
00:16:22We're going to be heading out to Venice Mall today, and I know you guys aren't, you know,
00:16:26the big mall walkers like we are, so.
00:16:28No, we're not mall people.
00:16:32We're thinking about going today to see a bamboo organ in the church.
00:16:38Yes, Mom.
00:16:39I'm interested in learning all about that type of stuff, so.
00:16:43Yeah.
00:16:43Okay.
00:16:44I'm glad you love my mangoes recommendation.
00:16:46I told you.
00:16:47I love tango stuff.
00:16:48Yes.
00:16:49Any others?
00:16:50I could try to just grab the seed, suck it out.
00:16:54I don't think that's all the seed.
00:16:56I told you.
00:16:58Slurp that seed right now.
00:16:59All right.
00:17:00All right.
00:17:00Let's go, baby.
00:17:01All right.
00:17:02I think I'm going to tackle this baby next right here.
00:17:06Mm-mm.
00:17:08Our chariot.
00:17:15Honey, are you excited?
00:17:16Heck, yeah, I am.
00:17:18I just really wanted to go to this place, you know,
00:17:21ever since I got here to the Philippines.
00:17:24I hear it's just beautiful there.
00:17:27Yeah.
00:17:28I've known about the place, but I haven't visited there.
00:17:31Oh, we can come to it.
00:17:32I'm so excited on you.
00:17:33Yeah, me too, baby.
00:17:37Hello, we're here.
00:17:38Oh, my God.
00:17:41I learned about this place from searches online
00:17:44for top romantic places in the Philippines.
00:17:47Wow, look at that.
00:17:49It's a mall that looks like Venice,
00:17:51and Sheena loves Italian food and everything like Italian.
00:17:56Boom.
00:17:57I've been thinking a lot about what's been happening
00:18:00the last few days,
00:18:01and we really need to have a hard discussion about her lying.
00:18:04Now, finally being able to be alone with Sheena
00:18:07without my mom behind me,
00:18:10I can talk to her and help her understand
00:18:12that all these lies that she's been spreading
00:18:15have left a scar,
00:18:18and I'm hoping to hear from Sheena
00:18:20that she won't lie anymore.
00:18:23Wow, look at this place.
00:18:25What do you think?
00:18:26Awesome.
00:18:28Oh, my gosh, is that water?
00:18:30Yeah, it looks nice.
00:18:31Wow, oh, my gosh.
00:18:35You first walk in,
00:18:36you see these beautiful buildings,
00:18:38and you look down,
00:18:39and then there's this giant swimming pool.
00:18:42You got some, like, little Italian guys
00:18:44just chilling out on these little boats.
00:18:47It's beautiful.
00:18:49Oh, my God.
00:18:51It took years for them to build Rome and everything,
00:18:54but now we are in it.
00:18:57The architectural stuff is amazing.
00:18:59I really feel like we're in Italy.
00:19:01Yeah, this is the most romantic place.
00:19:03Oh, wow, they got a chicken restaurant up there.
00:19:06I have barely traveled internationally,
00:19:07but I definitely believe this is what Italy would look like.
00:19:11Little clowns everywhere.
00:19:14Dancing people.
00:19:16Can we do the same?
00:19:18No.
00:19:20I'm super grateful to have this time alone with Sheena.
00:19:24Oh, my gosh, look at that.
00:19:25Oh, wow.
00:19:26They have dresses and everything.
00:19:28Yeah, that's cool.
00:19:29Do you think you want to dress up a little bit
00:19:30and get some photos?
00:19:31Yeah, why not?
00:19:32We could try.
00:19:33Go check it out here.
00:19:34I just hope that some dresses would fit me, though.
00:19:37Do you want the right answer?
00:19:38You're up it, too.
00:19:39Yeah, that one would be great.
00:19:41I've always told Sheena that I would come over
00:19:43to the Philippines as her knight in shining armor.
00:19:46Oh, thank you.
00:19:48This looks nice.
00:19:49I would love that.
00:19:50Yeah.
00:19:51Sorry, thank you.
00:19:53Ah, so dressing up as her shiny knight
00:19:57and her dressing up as my beautiful princess,
00:19:59it just feels like my dreams have come to fruition.
00:20:05Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:20:07Yes.
00:20:08I am King Forrest.
00:20:12You're graceful.
00:20:14I wonder how Sheena's going to look, though.
00:20:16Where's she hiding?
00:20:24Oh, my Sheena.
00:20:27I look like a princess in a red ribbon.
00:20:29You are a princess.
00:20:32I'm like...
00:20:33Ta-da!
00:20:36You look amazing, baby.
00:20:38Don't have a red ribbon.
00:20:39Oh, that would be great.
00:20:42A parasol.
00:20:45Seeing Sheena dressed up in that red dress,
00:20:48I count myself completely and totally speechless.
00:20:52Welcome, King Stador.
00:20:54Let's go, man.
00:20:55Onward!
00:20:56She is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
00:20:59Do I look regal to you?
00:21:00You look like a perfect king of mine.
00:21:02I love you, my love.
00:21:04I love you, my Sheen.
00:21:06So much.
00:21:09And I want to be your rock.
00:21:12But...
00:21:17I don't like how it ended up, you know, with the lies and whatever.
00:21:22And I need to know that you will always come to me truthfully and honestly.
00:21:30I understand, my love.
00:21:33I felt so hopeless for what I did.
00:21:36For not telling the truth to you.
00:21:38And I'm trying to open up everything for you.
00:21:42Every single problem that you need to learn.
00:21:46But...
00:21:47It's hard for me.
00:21:52And you know what?
00:21:53I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:22:00I think Forrest would appreciate if I would tell him the truth.
00:22:04He needs to know.
00:22:06Yeah.
00:22:17My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:22:21that.
00:22:21I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:22:24Oh, my God.
00:22:25In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet my boyfriend, Joshua, who's super sexy.
00:22:32But my parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened a few years
00:22:38ago with my ex.
00:22:39Elise, this is our concern for you, that you can find another swindler.
00:22:43For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:22:46Run.
00:22:53We'll begin just by coming to a comfortable position.
00:22:58No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:02No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:07My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:10My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:15I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:20I'm doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:34Ew.
00:23:35Can I, like, touch up a second?
00:23:36Look at this.
00:23:37This is disgusting.
00:23:38Yeah, do it right now.
00:23:40Okay.
00:23:41Do I have lip hair?
00:23:42Like, would you tell me?
00:23:45How would you describe yourself?
00:23:47As a very outgoing, loving, kind-hearted person with great boobs, great nipples, great.
00:23:56I would show you if I could, but I would get in trouble.
00:24:14Just breathe, Elise.
00:24:17So, I've been recently trying meditation.
00:24:21Not the best at it, but, like, definitely in high-stress situations, meditation comes in
00:24:26handy, and especially right now, because I'm going to go see my parents.
00:24:32I'm really excited to see my family, but it's hard, because I'm kind of like the odd
00:24:37sheep in the family.
00:24:39My parents have this picture-perfect marriage.
00:24:41Met on a blind date, and now been married for over 40 years.
00:24:46My brother, who's 16 months older than me, has been married with two kids, been with the
00:24:51same girl for eight years.
00:24:52And then, here I am at age 32, and I've never been married, and I don't have kids, and I've
00:24:58made some poor choices with men.
00:25:02I want to find the one more than anything in this world, but, like, my track record is
00:25:07bad.
00:25:08Like, horrible.
00:25:11I've been proposed to five times, and three of them I said yes to.
00:25:16And I've still never walked down that aisle.
00:25:20Recently, I decided to do something completely out of the box, and I went on a singles retreat
00:25:25in Mexico.
00:25:28There we go!
00:25:30I had some fun in Mexico.
00:25:32I thought I found the one, but he showed his true colors, and he turned out to be another
00:25:37failed relationship.
00:25:38I went to Tiffany to ask for her back.
00:25:46You literally told me you could see a life outside here with me and not her.
00:25:51Carlo and I tried to make it work after the singles retreat, but it didn't work out.
00:25:55It f***ing hurt.
00:25:57And, uh, that was a hard one to move on from.
00:26:01So, I took that time to work on myself, and, and I think that's what I needed.
00:26:06Because now I have a new man in my life who's super f***ing sexy.
00:26:10I just don't know what my parents think about all this.
00:26:14Definitely scared that my parents are sitting in the house currently saying, oh my God, what
00:26:20is our daughter doing again?
00:26:22My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes
00:26:26on that.
00:26:27I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:26:30Oh my God.
00:26:33How are you doing?
00:26:34I'm good.
00:26:35Do you want, uh, any meds?
00:26:37No, but you can't just cover me.
00:26:39Oh, cover your feet.
00:26:40Cover the feet, Cease.
00:26:42Yeah.
00:26:44Hi, Mom!
00:26:46Hi!
00:26:47Hi, Dad!
00:26:51Oh, I missed you.
00:26:55Hey, we got a gimp over here.
00:26:57Hi, Daddy!
00:26:58We have a gimp.
00:26:59My dad just had two knee surgeries.
00:27:01He's just literally been sitting in a chair.
00:27:03And that's very hard for him because he's always out and about and a big workaholic.
00:27:09Okay, you want to see?
00:27:10You want to see?
00:27:11I don't know.
00:27:12All right.
00:27:13All right.
00:27:13All right.
00:27:13Ready?
00:27:15My dad's a venture capitalist.
00:27:17He gives money to companies in order for them to go public.
00:27:23Or he takes an equity.
00:27:25Oh, God.
00:27:26I should probably know what my dad does.
00:27:28But, like, I don't know.
00:27:57You know what I found, Elise?
00:27:58Overnight, Cam.
00:27:59Oh, remember that?
00:28:00Oh, my God.
00:28:03Remember you smuggled your phone in?
00:28:05Yep.
00:28:07We're very close.
00:28:08Family.
00:28:09The four of us have always stuck together, and it hasn't always been the easiest.
00:28:15Elise was always wild.
00:28:18We bailed Elise out of a lot of things.
00:28:21Maybe too many.
00:28:23So, what's up?
00:28:25Where are you going?
00:28:26New Zealand?
00:28:28Australia?
00:28:29Yeah.
00:28:30Um, it might be silly to me, but, like, I really like him, and I want to go.
00:28:35Well, you don't know him.
00:28:36No, I've never met him.
00:28:39So, why this now?
00:28:43I'm getting older.
00:28:44I'm 32.
00:28:44I've done a lot of self-reflection.
00:28:46Well, the way I look at it is, Joshua, he has a really nice way about him.
00:28:51He's kind of the opposite of me.
00:28:53Like, he's very calm temperament, and I like that.
00:28:57I haven't found love in Miami.
00:29:00No.
00:29:00I feel like I've exhausted every option in Miami.
00:29:03Haven't found love in Miami?
00:29:04Hello, Australia.
00:29:06Yeah, right.
00:29:07I mean, yeah, right.
00:29:08Welcome to What the F***.
00:29:12I know it sounds ridiculous to my parents, but I wouldn't be flying around the world to
00:29:16Australia to meet just any guy.
00:29:23My boyfriend, Joshua, is a sexy 39-year-old from Sydney, Australia.
00:29:30He is so caring, attentive.
00:29:33He's just, like, a happy-go-lucky guy, like, that everyone wants to be around.
00:29:37He's just, like, an overall, like, a golden retriever puppy.
00:29:42I met him on social media.
00:29:44He slid in my DMs, and we've been talking ever since.
00:29:49When we first started messaging, I did not think it was going to be serious at all.
00:29:53But he totally caught me off guard.
00:29:56There's something about him that's so genuine and so different from what I am used to.
00:30:02Josh has a 12-year-old son who lives with his mom, and his son's the most important person to
00:30:07him.
00:30:08Seeing Joshua as a father makes me fantasize that one day maybe we could have a family.
00:30:14Recently, it's gotten very serious.
00:30:17So, in a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet Joshua for the first time.
00:30:22And, like, oh, my God, I just want to get there and see him and be in his arms already.
00:30:29You know, Elise, I'm glad you're getting out of Miami, but I'm really concerned about your choices and who you
00:30:37pick, you know?
00:30:38Well, I'm not going to stand for bullsh** anymore.
00:30:39You know, I'm not going to stand for it.
00:30:42For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:30:44But if you think, like, there's any, like, you know, what do they call him, gold digger in there, then
00:30:49run.
00:30:50Yeah.
00:30:52Run.
00:30:53There's no mass, no mass, no mass.
00:30:58My parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened a few years ago
00:31:05with my ex.
00:31:06I thought he was in love with me, and I was really in love with him.
00:31:10But after being with him for a few years, he ended up stealing my identity and got a credit card
00:31:15out in my name and racked it up $500,000.
00:31:20He conned me and completely broke my heart.
00:31:22And I felt so foolish that I let a guy completely embarrass and demolish me.
00:31:30And the worst part is, who had to get me out of this trouble?
00:31:33My dad.
00:31:36Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler, another guy that's going to take
00:31:41advantage of you.
00:31:42My question is, how do you pull the ripcord if this is going south?
00:31:46What's the evacuation plan if, like, you know, this is it?
00:31:49Hello, Mom and Dad.
00:31:51Like, no, I'm not, I can't do that anymore.
00:31:56I really want the love that my parents have.
00:32:00They genuinely love each other, and they're each other's best friends.
00:32:04But, like, I'm scared that, like, I'm about to go all this way, and I could have my heart broken
00:32:08again, and I don't want that.
00:32:12I dream for you.
00:32:14It's I want to see you happy.
00:32:15And I think a big part of that is being able to smell out bull****.
00:32:20I'm going to try my damn best to not disappoint you, to not disappoint me, you know, and I'm going
00:32:27to see where it goes.
00:32:30Hey.
00:32:32Hi.
00:32:33Michael has always given me really great advice, and I feel like I need that now.
00:32:39You're emotionally compromised.
00:32:41But if you truly want to move forward with this man, I would really appreciate it if you would let
00:32:46me come out there.
00:32:48May I come out there?
00:32:49May I meet him?
00:32:59Are we here?
00:33:01Yes.
00:33:03Oh, my gosh, baby.
00:33:07I don't see a palace.
00:33:10I thought I'd see a palace, baby.
00:33:14I thought I'd see a palace, baby.
00:33:22I thought I'd see a palace.
00:33:28Hi, Uncle.
00:33:29Hey.
00:33:29How are you?
00:33:30I'm good.
00:33:31How are you?
00:33:31I'm fine.
00:33:33Daniel is taking me to meet the king today, and I am thinking I'm going to this palace.
00:33:40but what the this is not a palace where are we this is nothing like i expected
00:34:11oh yes
00:34:19Oh, my God, this is a king.
00:34:21He looks like a king.
00:34:24He's wearing lion head and this headdress.
00:34:28And I feel like I'm going to myself.
00:34:30I don't know what to do.
00:34:33I don't know.
00:35:13The Lord of Koppu comes to me
00:35:15because I'm his royal majesty.
00:35:18I'm like, I'm an Aurangor, a prophet.
00:35:22And as a royal father, your blessings is enormous.
00:35:26It's not like every other blessings.
00:35:29If this thing, if it's going to work well,
00:35:34I will ask our ancestors.
00:35:38He's a cheeto kabiyama.
00:35:40I don't worry, he's going to kill you.
00:35:56I'm getting more nervous
00:35:58because this is so not what I expected.
00:36:01What if the ancestors don't give us a blessing?
00:36:05Does it erase the uncle's blessing?
00:36:07Does it erase how Daniel feels about me?
00:36:10I have no idea he's the king.
00:36:16He's showing signs
00:36:17that I'm falling for you.
00:36:19You're in my mind
00:36:21with me, you're crying.
00:36:23Now is the time
00:36:24you know what I'm going to do.
00:36:35Hey.
00:36:36Hey.
00:36:37How's it going?
00:36:38I just found a heater.
00:36:42Sounds good.
00:36:43Yay.
00:36:45Um.
00:36:46Yeah.
00:36:47I was checking in with some people at home
00:36:50and was wondering if I could have, like,
00:36:53I don't know, 30 minutes or so
00:36:55to make a phone call.
00:36:56No, you don't need a long time?
00:36:57Yeah, is that cool?
00:36:58Yeah.
00:36:59You know, what am I going to do?
00:37:02Probably go find some chesha.
00:37:04Yay.
00:37:06All right, have fun.
00:37:07See ya.
00:37:09I have a mix of emotions
00:37:13after the boat ride today.
00:37:16Birkon opening up to me
00:37:17was really sweet,
00:37:19but I definitely
00:37:20still have some hesitations
00:37:23when it comes to Birkon's gambling
00:37:26and his debt.
00:37:27And I feel like I need to talk
00:37:30to someone who can ground me,
00:37:33help me understand and process
00:37:35all of the things that are going on.
00:37:39Hey.
00:37:41Hi.
00:37:42Long time no see, stranger.
00:37:45I'm saying the same thing to you.
00:37:47How's it going?
00:37:49Uh, I'm doing well-ish.
00:37:51Well-ish?
00:37:52Why well-ish?
00:37:53Best I can help for when you're not here.
00:37:55Aw.
00:37:57Hey, what do you miss me?
00:37:58I know.
00:37:59It's been a while.
00:37:59I am sure you missed me.
00:38:03Nope, Meryl.
00:38:04Liar.
00:38:06Liar.
00:38:07I missed you, too.
00:38:09I have been messaging Michael
00:38:11a little bit
00:38:12since I've been in Turkey,
00:38:13but he definitely doesn't have
00:38:15all the details.
00:38:17I trust him, respect him,
00:38:19and he has always given me
00:38:21really great, really sage advice,
00:38:23and I feel like I need that now.
00:38:27Bring something home?
00:38:31You know, I've thought about it
00:38:32a few times, honestly.
00:38:35I mean, he's super sweet,
00:38:38and he's really, really putting in effort
00:38:41to make me feel special.
00:38:42Okay.
00:38:43But it's like he's given me
00:38:46some information
00:38:47that's, like, straight up
00:38:48a lot to think about.
00:38:50You have me all ears, girl.
00:38:53I mean,
00:38:54he has admitted to me
00:38:56that he has a substantial
00:38:58amount of debt.
00:39:01What's substantial in Turkish terms?
00:39:03Well, in U.S. dollars,
00:39:06it's 50,000.
00:39:10Yeah.
00:39:11So, I mean, that's not good.
00:39:13But I think probably the thing
00:39:16that, like, concerned me the most,
00:39:18he talks a lot about gambling.
00:39:21Like, he'll take money,
00:39:22and instead of putting it
00:39:24towards his debt,
00:39:25he'll gamble it
00:39:27to try to win more.
00:39:29I'm just so concerned.
00:39:31What's he going to do
00:39:32in the States?
00:39:33Like, burn through
00:39:34my money gambling?
00:39:35I don't know what to do.
00:39:37But at the same time,
00:39:39he's ridiculously thoughtful
00:39:42and, like, so intentional
00:39:45and sweet.
00:39:47No one has ever put
00:39:49this much thought and care
00:39:51into things that they planned for me.
00:39:53Like, today,
00:39:54he took me out
00:39:55on this amazing boat cruise,
00:39:59and he told me
00:40:01because of me,
00:40:02he's started to feel alive again.
00:40:05And, like, he's starting
00:40:06to be like himself.
00:40:07And I don't get people
00:40:09very often in my life
00:40:10who make me feel cared for.
00:40:14So that is a huge,
00:40:15huge win for me
00:40:17in the pro category.
00:40:21I would feel best
00:40:23if you came home, honestly.
00:40:26You'd feel best
00:40:27if I came home?
00:40:28Yeah,
00:40:29because you're
00:40:30emotionally compromised.
00:40:34I can tell you
00:40:35he's running
00:40:35an incredible con game
00:40:36right now.
00:40:38His job is to woo you,
00:40:40to make you feel
00:40:41like the love of his life,
00:40:42to make you feel
00:40:43incredibly special,
00:40:44and you've been deprived
00:40:46of these experiences
00:40:47for so damn long
00:40:48that a guy like him,
00:40:51that's all he has to do,
00:40:52and you're falling
00:40:53head over heels for him
00:40:54when there are far, far,
00:40:56far higher quality men
00:40:58that can do the same thing
00:40:59and don't come
00:41:00with that baggage.
00:41:08You're willing to sacrifice
00:41:11common sense
00:41:13because a vote ride
00:41:15was enough
00:41:15to win your heart.
00:41:20I know that the red flags
00:41:21sound crazy,
00:41:24but I also think
00:41:26it's easier
00:41:30to hear about red flags
00:41:32than it is green flags.
00:41:33The green flags
00:41:33are harder to see
00:41:34unless you see them
00:41:35with your own eyes.
00:41:39I mean,
00:41:39I honestly think
00:41:40if you truly want
00:41:42to move forward
00:41:42with this man,
00:41:44I would really appreciate it
00:41:46if you would let me
00:41:46come out there
00:41:49and see him for myself
00:41:50before you make
00:41:52that level of commitment,
00:41:54that level of decision
00:41:55about your life.
00:41:57May I come out there?
00:41:58May I meet him?
00:42:03I don't know.
00:42:04I don't know.
00:42:07That's a really big deal.
00:42:09I feel like that could
00:42:10really push him away
00:42:12and create some big problems
00:42:14for me as I do move forward
00:42:17in this relationship.
00:42:23I really don't know
00:42:25what to do here.
00:42:26On the one hand,
00:42:27it might be nice
00:42:28to have a third party
00:42:29to give me their perspective,
00:42:32but on the other hand,
00:42:34BeerCon already doesn't like
00:42:36my friendship with Michael,
00:42:37and I feel like Michael
00:42:38showing up here,
00:42:39that would piss him off.
00:42:43And honestly,
00:42:44I've always thought
00:42:45that he had some sort
00:42:46of underlying feelings for me,
00:42:48and the fact that he's willing
00:42:50to just fly out here
00:42:52and rescue me from myself
00:42:54really does kind of concern me
00:42:56about what his intentions are.
00:43:00I want to talk to him
00:43:01about it first
00:43:04before we decide for sure.
00:43:06Okay.
00:43:07I can respect that.
00:43:08And I will let you know
00:43:10how it goes.
00:43:11Okay.
00:43:11Thank you for considering it.
00:43:18So your hand actually came
00:43:19with a screenshot
00:43:20of some message
00:43:21from me saying,
00:43:23I'm going to love you forever.
00:43:27I can't be with somebody
00:43:29who has been lying
00:43:30and cheating on me
00:43:30this whole time.
00:43:31I don't know
00:43:33who the f*** that is.
00:43:39You know what?
00:43:40I have been waiting
00:43:41to tell you something.
00:43:47To be honest,
00:43:48it's really hard for me
00:43:50to talk about this.
00:44:00The truth is that
00:44:01most of the people
00:44:02that I love
00:44:03happen not to be serious
00:44:05with me.
00:44:06They just wanted
00:44:08to play with my feelings.
00:44:09And my previous partner
00:44:11that I was expecting
00:44:13that guy to love me,
00:44:15but he never loved me.
00:44:18He already had someone
00:44:19with him.
00:44:21He had been cheating me
00:44:22for the longest three years.
00:44:25And it appears me
00:44:26that I would suffer
00:44:28the same fate
00:44:30like leaving behind.
00:44:32I did that lie
00:44:34because I'm afraid
00:44:35that I would lose you.
00:44:38My previous partner,
00:44:40I finally discovered
00:44:42after the longest years
00:44:43that this guy
00:44:44already had a partner
00:44:46while dating with me.
00:44:47I just felt unwanted.
00:44:52And I really blame myself
00:44:54for not being
00:44:55a perfect woman.
00:44:58Like I had done something
00:45:00to drive him away.
00:45:03If I was ever
00:45:04to do anything
00:45:05to push force away,
00:45:07I would feel
00:45:08so much in pain.
00:45:11It's an indescribable pain.
00:45:20Sheena,
00:45:21that guy
00:45:21did not deserve you
00:45:23at all.
00:45:24I'm not like him.
00:45:26I won't be like him.
00:45:28I would never
00:45:29leave you
00:45:30for having issues.
00:45:32If you just tell me
00:45:34up front
00:45:34what the situation is,
00:45:36I'll be there
00:45:37to support you.
00:45:42I hope you have
00:45:43the courage
00:45:43to come to me
00:45:44from now on
00:45:46because I can't,
00:45:48I can't have
00:45:49you lying to me.
00:45:52And I will do my best
00:45:54and I will put up
00:45:56my negative feelings aside.
00:45:59But I cannot promise you
00:46:01in words,
00:46:02but in actions.
00:46:04Open up and trusting more
00:46:05with you is the best way.
00:46:09I knew that Sheena
00:46:10was in a relationship
00:46:10before,
00:46:11but I didn't know
00:46:12that it affected her
00:46:13to this extent.
00:46:16Things are not perfect,
00:46:17but I feel that Sheena
00:46:20and I were able
00:46:20to talk things out
00:46:21and I'm glad
00:46:22that she's willing
00:46:22to work with me.
00:46:23It's making me feel better.
00:46:25I'm falling more
00:46:26and more in love
00:46:27with her every single day.
00:46:29I just really wish
00:46:31that I could feel
00:46:31more confident
00:46:32that this won't
00:46:33happen again.
00:46:42Bye, auntie.
00:46:43Bye, love you.
00:46:45Love you.
00:46:49Is everything okay?
00:46:51It's pretty good.
00:46:52Okay.
00:47:01Tonight was
00:47:02a total disaster.
00:47:04I wanted my aunt
00:47:05to grill him
00:47:07and get the answers.
00:47:09However,
00:47:09I was hoping deep down
00:47:10they would like each other
00:47:12and she would end up
00:47:14having good things
00:47:15to say about him.
00:47:17Clearly,
00:47:18that's not what happened.
00:47:19and at this point,
00:47:21I don't know
00:47:23what's actually going on.
00:47:27Are you going to tell me
00:47:28what happened?
00:47:29Um, yeah.
00:47:31A lot.
00:47:32Okay.
00:47:37So your aunt
00:47:38actually came with
00:47:39quote-unquote
00:47:40proof.
00:47:42Truth in her mind.
00:47:45Proof of what?
00:47:46Proof of me
00:47:49not being faithful to you.
00:47:52Okay.
00:47:54And
00:47:55continue.
00:47:57She gave me
00:47:58an ultimatum.
00:47:59If I don't tell you
00:48:01who she's going to tell you,
00:48:02it's going to be worse
00:48:03and all that.
00:48:04So I'm like,
00:48:04well, anyways.
00:48:06Go ahead.
00:48:10She pulled up
00:48:10with a picture
00:48:11of me
00:48:12hugging a girl
00:48:13and with a kiss
00:48:14on her cheek.
00:48:18From when?
00:48:20Probably recently,
00:48:21like maybe
00:48:22a couple weeks ago.
00:48:27But that's what I do,
00:48:28though.
00:48:28I take pictures
00:48:29with fans
00:48:30and sometimes
00:48:30I do that.
00:48:31Nothing bad.
00:48:33So this was just
00:48:34a random girl.
00:48:38Yeah,
00:48:38probably just a fan.
00:48:40Apparently,
00:48:41Corinne,
00:48:42she's like,
00:48:43that's her friend
00:48:44and the girl is like,
00:48:45oh, she's messing with me
00:48:46and she was with me
00:48:47in this city
00:48:48or whatever.
00:48:48I'm like,
00:48:49girl,
00:48:49I don't even know
00:48:49who the f*** that is.
00:48:54Well, no,
00:48:55and apparently
00:48:55some,
00:48:57I think they asked
00:48:58the girl about the picture
00:48:59and she
00:49:01sent a screenshot
00:49:02of some message
00:49:03from me
00:49:03of saying
00:49:05I'm going to love
00:49:06you forever,
00:49:07bruh.
00:49:09From him.
00:49:10Who the hell
00:49:10is me?
00:49:11Apparently,
00:49:11I'm him.
00:49:12Not him
00:49:13in that message.
00:49:15Uh,
00:49:16okay.
00:49:17So there's photos
00:49:18and text messages?
00:49:20Apparently,
00:49:20but not real
00:49:21text messages.
00:49:25Do you have the photo?
00:49:26I don't have it.
00:49:29I don't know
00:49:30who the f*** that is.
00:49:32I don't know
00:49:32how else can I say.
00:49:33I don't want to curse.
00:49:34Not even like that.
00:49:36I could show you
00:49:37like a million
00:49:38more pictures like that.
00:49:39Corinne is saying
00:49:40it's her friend
00:49:41and that she knows
00:49:42that you guys
00:49:43are hooking up.
00:49:43That's what
00:49:44is concerning to me.
00:49:50If you're messing
00:49:50with her,
00:49:51then you're messing
00:49:51with her.
00:49:52Why would they lie
00:49:52about that?
00:49:53If I was messing
00:49:53with her,
00:49:53I would tell you the truth.
00:49:55Then I would have
00:49:56been like,
00:49:58let's have a tree.
00:50:00But I'm joking.
00:50:01I'm joking.
00:50:01Babe,
00:50:02I'm joking
00:50:02because I have
00:50:03no reason to lie.
00:50:09I just don't know
00:50:10what to believe
00:50:10at this point.
00:50:13I need to see
00:50:14the photos
00:50:14and I need to see
00:50:15the text messages
00:50:16and from there
00:50:17I can make a decision.
00:50:20Make a decision
00:50:21about what?
00:50:22If I can trust you,
00:50:25if I can believe you,
00:50:26if I want to continue,
00:50:28that's all I can say
00:50:29right now.
00:50:32This is going
00:50:32to ruin our night?
00:50:35I'm tired.
00:50:36I'm not going to
00:50:38get mad at you tonight.
00:50:40I just need to see.
00:50:40She was cuddling.
00:50:41Okay.
00:50:43Don't do all that now.
00:50:45It's not going
00:50:46to be like that tonight?
00:50:48I mean,
00:50:48I'm just,
00:50:49I'm not feeling it tonight.
00:50:52I came all the way
00:50:54to Belize
00:50:54and I was ready
00:50:55to start a family
00:50:56with him.
00:50:57And then
00:50:58he pulls back
00:50:59on the babies.
00:50:59He won't say
00:51:00he loves me.
00:51:01And hearing that
00:51:02he's possibly
00:51:03in another relationship,
00:51:05it's just crazy
00:51:06after everything
00:51:07I've put
00:51:07into this relationship.
00:51:09I won't forget
00:51:10today even happened
00:51:11to be honest with you.
00:51:18All right.
00:51:19We're here.
00:51:21I really hope
00:51:22that he's telling me
00:51:23the truth
00:51:23because I can't
00:51:25be with somebody
00:51:26who's been lying
00:51:27and cheating on me
00:51:27this whole time.
00:51:29This could really
00:51:30be the end
00:51:30for me and Stig.
00:51:39I'm going to Australia.
00:51:42Everything's great
00:51:43between Joshua and I,
00:51:44but I do have
00:51:45some worries about him.
00:51:47When you get there,
00:51:48are you guys
00:51:48staying in the same room?
00:51:49Yeah, hold on.
00:51:50Where are you staying?
00:51:51Okay, so he admitted
00:51:52to me that he lives
00:51:53with his parents.
00:51:55No!
00:52:01So, baby.
00:52:02Yes?
00:52:03There's some things
00:52:04I kind of want
00:52:05to talk to you about.
00:52:07Today,
00:52:08spending time alone
00:52:09with Sheena,
00:52:09it's been great.
00:52:15But it's been
00:52:16one heck
00:52:17the curvy road
00:52:18being here
00:52:18in the Philippines.
00:52:21I love you, baby, baby.
00:52:22I love you, baby.
00:52:39Stella!
00:52:40Stella, mommy's home!
00:52:42Stella, do you want a treat?
00:52:44Come here!
00:52:46Treats?
00:52:47Come on, treats!
00:52:48Come on!
00:52:55Stella, mommy just got home
00:52:57from Grammy and Grampy's!
00:52:59Feels so good to be home.
00:53:01I'm happy I'm
00:53:02with my little kitty.
00:53:04You want some catnip?
00:53:05Come here, Stella.
00:53:07Come here.
00:53:08Stella, look.
00:53:10So, I was considered
00:53:11a crazy catwoman
00:53:12because I literally
00:53:13had three cats
00:53:14and a dog.
00:53:15And then,
00:53:16I don't know
00:53:17if I'm a crazy catwoman
00:53:18anymore
00:53:18because I only
00:53:20have two cats now.
00:53:22but Stella
00:53:23is pretty much
00:53:24my life.
00:53:26I hated cats.
00:53:28Cats were actually
00:53:29pretty disgusting to me.
00:53:31And when I was a young kid,
00:53:32I got told
00:53:32I was really allergic
00:53:33to cats.
00:53:34Right, Stella?
00:53:35And then,
00:53:36once I got
00:53:36Stella,
00:53:37I became obsessed
00:53:38with cats.
00:53:43I love your breath.
00:53:46And if I kiss you too much,
00:53:47you're going to
00:53:48yap at me.
00:53:52Yeah.
00:53:53You want another treat?
00:53:55One more treat?
00:53:56Oh, God.
00:53:57Did you fart, Stella?
00:53:59Ugh.
00:54:00Stella smells.
00:54:01I feel like she, like,
00:54:02licked her butt
00:54:03and I just put my mouth
00:54:04in her butt.
00:54:06She farts
00:54:07when she's really excited,
00:54:08actually.
00:54:09Is Stella a girl?
00:54:10Stella is a boy.
00:54:12Stella is transgender.
00:54:15Stella's all the sexes.
00:54:17I got Stella.
00:54:18I went to go
00:54:19get her spayed
00:54:21and they're like,
00:54:22hey, just to let you know
00:54:23your cat,
00:54:24yeah, she's, um,
00:54:25she's a male.
00:54:26And I said,
00:54:27you know what?
00:54:28My ex and I
00:54:29named her Stella
00:54:30and I'm keeping it.
00:54:32Stella has a penis,
00:54:34but I call her a girl.
00:54:35She's gender confused.
00:54:36It's 2025.
00:54:37It's acceptable.
00:54:39Come on.
00:54:39Come to me here.
00:54:40Come on, Stella.
00:54:41Right here.
00:54:42Try and get off me here.
00:54:43Oh.
00:54:44You're not doing my tricks.
00:54:46Come on, jump up a little.
00:54:47Jump up for mommy.
00:54:48Oh, that's my kitty.
00:54:51Stella is my life.
00:54:53Like, if Stella can be
00:54:54in a man's body,
00:54:55I would, you know,
00:54:57date her.
00:54:59Date her?
00:55:02I know.
00:55:03It's confusing.
00:55:04I don't like women.
00:55:05I like men.
00:55:06I like penis too much,
00:55:07actually.
00:55:19Mommy's going to go see her friends.
00:55:21Yeah, we'll be right back, okay?
00:55:24Bye, Stella.
00:55:34I'm happy to be back in Miami
00:55:35after a few days with my parents,
00:55:37but every time I see them,
00:55:39it reminds me of how much
00:55:40I want what they have.
00:55:42Like, I may seem like the crazy,
00:55:44wild girl that, like,
00:55:45doesn't give a f***,
00:55:46but, like, deep down,
00:55:47I want love,
00:55:49and I want to get married,
00:55:50and I want children,
00:55:51and I want, like,
00:55:52my husband to be my best friend
00:55:54in my forever.
00:55:56And even though we have
00:55:57never met in person,
00:55:58I know Josh is just so f***ing amazing.
00:56:01He's sexy, and he's hot,
00:56:03and he's adventurous,
00:56:04and he's active.
00:56:05Like, I'm so infatuated.
00:56:08And I would literally be
00:56:09the happiest girl in the world
00:56:10if he was the one.
00:56:13Oh, my God.
00:56:14Josh was just texting me right now.
00:56:15Hi, babe.
00:56:16How are you?
00:56:17XL.
00:56:18He just sent me a picture.
00:56:21He looks big.
00:56:22His hands look big.
00:56:23Love a good big hand.
00:56:28Even though everything's great
00:56:29between Joshua and I,
00:56:31I do have some worries about him.
00:56:34I held back some information
00:56:36with my parents about Joshua
00:56:37because they have enough
00:56:38on their plate.
00:56:38I don't want to worry them.
00:56:40So I think meeting up
00:56:41with my girlfriends,
00:56:42I can get a different point of view
00:56:44and perspective
00:56:44and, like, kind of dig into
00:56:46the worries that I have.
00:56:49Look what the cats brought in!
00:56:51Ah!
00:56:53Oh, my God.
00:56:54My dress is so tight.
00:56:56I miss you!
00:56:58Blonde!
00:56:59Hi!
00:57:00Look how blonde she is.
00:57:01Oh, my God.
00:57:01Wait, come here.
00:57:02Let me give you a hug.
00:57:04You look so cute.
00:57:08Wait, are we drinking?
00:57:10Of course.
00:57:11We already had expression
00:57:11marquise before we got here.
00:57:13What pre-game are you getting here?
00:57:14Oh, my God.
00:57:15So, what's going on?
00:57:18I'm going to Australia.
00:57:21I'm doing it.
00:57:22I'm going.
00:57:23I can't believe you're going.
00:57:24I mean, listen,
00:57:25it's like the Miami men suck,
00:57:27we know.
00:57:28Yeah.
00:57:28And Josh is kind.
00:57:30He's super sweet.
00:57:31He's someone I typically
00:57:32wouldn't go for.
00:57:33Okay.
00:57:34He, he's not a typical
00:57:35Miami guy.
00:57:37Elise is one of the funniest,
00:57:40kindest people I know.
00:57:41And I also feel like
00:57:42she is a hopeless romantic.
00:57:45Elise gives these guys
00:57:46her whole heart
00:57:48and she gets nothing
00:57:49in return for it.
00:57:51So, when Elise told us
00:57:53she was going to meet
00:57:54some guy in Australia,
00:57:55I gently thought,
00:57:56what the F?
00:57:57I thought, you're insane
00:57:59and you're crazy.
00:58:00Yeah.
00:58:02So, when you get there,
00:58:03are you guys staying
00:58:04in the same room?
00:58:04Is he getting you
00:58:05your own room?
00:58:06Yeah, hold on.
00:58:07Where are you staying?
00:58:07Okay, so,
00:58:09I asked him when I got
00:58:10my plane ticket
00:58:11to send me his apartment
00:58:13and, like, video it.
00:58:14Yeah.
00:58:14Okay.
00:58:15Every single day,
00:58:15I was asking him
00:58:16for him to send me the video.
00:58:18And then he admitted to me
00:58:19that he lives
00:58:20with his parents.
00:58:22No!
00:58:24So, I don't think
00:58:25he has much money.
00:58:27I was like,
00:58:27so, Joshua,
00:58:28like, I'm going to come
00:58:29and I'm going to live
00:58:30with your parents?
00:58:32He's like, no,
00:58:33I will get a rental
00:58:34and split it with a roommate
00:58:36because he can't afford
00:58:38a rental by himself.
00:58:40Okay.
00:58:41We...
00:58:44Listen,
00:58:44the money situation
00:58:46is not the big thing.
00:58:48I can work with a guy
00:58:49that doesn't have money.
00:58:50But here's the thing
00:58:51about Josh.
00:58:53He makes me feel special
00:58:54and he makes me feel important.
00:58:56I'm much rather a guy
00:58:58with not that much money
00:58:59that gives me emotional love
00:59:01than a guy that just spends.
00:59:03I've had every single man
00:59:05spend everything on me
00:59:06with no emotional love.
00:59:09I think it's a good thing
00:59:10that he is more caring,
00:59:12more kind,
00:59:13because she's looking
00:59:14for something different.
00:59:15She's looking for
00:59:15a genuine connection.
00:59:18But no girl and man
00:59:19at 39 should be living
00:59:20with no roommate.
00:59:22That's crazy.
00:59:23Or with the parents.
00:59:24It was crazy.
00:59:26We sound like another
00:59:27Miami pack of girls,
00:59:28but finances are important.
00:59:29They provide safety.
00:59:30They provide stability.
00:59:31Food on the table.
00:59:32You have a house.
00:59:34The bills are being paid.
00:59:36Exactly.
00:59:37I am concerned
00:59:38as your friend.
00:59:40I'm wearing red.
00:59:42I feel the red flags
00:59:43everywhere.
00:59:44Right.
00:59:44But every single time
00:59:45I talk to him on the phone,
00:59:46I get off feeling
00:59:47so energized
00:59:48and so cared about
00:59:50and so giddy.
00:59:53I am going to Australia
00:59:55because I truly believe
00:59:56that he could be
00:59:57my future husband.
00:59:59But Joshua sent me
01:00:00a text last night
01:00:01that was super alarming
01:00:03and it kind of
01:00:04threw me off.
01:00:06I'm almost embarrassed
01:00:07to even tell anyone
01:00:08about it.
01:00:08And if I tell my girlfriends
01:00:10about this,
01:00:11they would probably
01:00:12tell me not to go
01:00:13and that's the last thing
01:00:15I want.
01:00:16I'm hoping to get down there
01:00:17and figure this all out
01:00:18because I want this
01:00:19so badly to work out.
01:00:30I was wondering
01:00:30if you wanted to take
01:00:31a gondola ride with me.
01:00:32Oh, really?
01:00:33I guess right here
01:00:34would be it.
01:00:36Ciao.
01:00:36Oh.
01:00:37Ciao, gracias.
01:00:38Ciao, senores.
01:00:40Oh, thank you.
01:00:41Gracias.
01:00:42Gracias.
01:00:43Oh, wow.
01:00:46Oh, my God.
01:00:47Oh, my gosh.
01:00:48Here we go, baby.
01:00:51I wonder how much
01:00:52chlorine that takes.
01:01:00This is so beautiful, honey.
01:01:02Yeah.
01:01:03I miss being
01:01:04in my night outfit.
01:01:05Really?
01:01:06Yeah.
01:01:06I know what you're thinking,
01:01:08huh?
01:01:09Always.
01:01:10You're thinking
01:01:10of fun, sexy stuff.
01:01:11No, you're the one
01:01:13doing that, not me.
01:01:14No, it sounds like
01:01:15you're the one
01:01:16doing that thing.
01:01:17I think I know
01:01:18some of your secrets
01:01:19are coming out.
01:01:19No, I know.
01:01:20I'm not.
01:01:23Today, spending time
01:01:24alone with Sheena,
01:01:25it's been great
01:01:27to just spend time together
01:01:28and finally get to talk
01:01:31to each other
01:01:32and really put everything out.
01:01:36I hope, with my love
01:01:38and support,
01:01:39Sheena will come
01:01:39to understand
01:01:40that she doesn't
01:01:41need to lie anymore.
01:01:43She can move forward
01:01:45and tell me stuff
01:01:47from now on
01:01:48instead of just
01:01:49leaving me in the dark.
01:01:52That's a nice place
01:01:53to visit.
01:01:54I wish I knew
01:01:55some Italian songs
01:01:56so I could sing them to you.
01:02:03Come on, Sheena,
01:02:04give me a...
01:02:09I love you, Sheena.
01:02:12I love you, Sheena.
01:02:23I love baby beer.
01:02:28That's so sweet.
01:02:29You're so sweet.
01:02:30You taste like
01:02:31too space.
01:02:37It's been one heck
01:02:38of a curvy road
01:02:39being here in the Philippines
01:02:40ever since I got here.
01:02:42But one thing
01:02:43that's been consistent
01:02:44the entire time
01:02:45is how I feel
01:02:45with Sheena one-on-one.
01:02:48Okay, guys, grab me.
01:02:54When you take away
01:02:55all the distractions
01:02:55and everybody else's opinions,
01:02:58what's left is a love
01:02:59that I've never,
01:03:01ever felt before.
01:03:04That's so much fun.
01:03:06It feels great
01:03:07to finally have someone
01:03:08who accepts
01:03:09my quirks and oddities
01:03:11100%.
01:03:14And that's what
01:03:15I love about her.
01:03:17Look at the beautiful flowers.
01:03:20Oh, that's cool.
01:03:21There's a lot of bisteria.
01:03:25Wow, this place
01:03:25is so beautiful.
01:03:27I love it.
01:03:29Actually, it's like
01:03:30fast except,
01:03:31but it's okay.
01:03:33So, baby.
01:03:34Yes?
01:03:35There's some things
01:03:36I kind of want
01:03:37to talk to you about.
01:03:40Well, over the last
01:03:43seven years,
01:03:44I've been wanting
01:03:44to come here
01:03:45and be with you
01:03:45and get to,
01:03:47you know, see you.
01:03:50And I know
01:03:51that we've had
01:03:52some ups and downs
01:03:52since I've gotten here,
01:03:53but I think it's only
01:03:55going to make us stronger
01:03:58because you
01:03:59are my one
01:04:00special person.
01:04:03There's a glimmer
01:04:04in your brown eyes.
01:04:06Okay.
01:04:07Yeah.
01:04:08But, Sheena,
01:04:10thank you
01:04:11for being in my life.
01:04:13Let's continue
01:04:14to be in each other's lives
01:04:16from now on.
01:04:17So here we are
01:04:18to kindred talk.
01:04:20If you would do me the honor.
01:04:22Oh, God.
01:04:24Will you please
01:04:25marry me?
01:04:26These are the moments
01:04:28that make up our lives.
01:04:30Oh, God.
01:04:31All of the memories
01:04:32and all the first times.
01:04:36Oh!
01:04:37I love you, baby.
01:04:38I love you, baby.
01:04:41Yes, I do.
01:04:45Give me your finger.
01:04:47Is this the right thing?
01:04:49Six years now,
01:04:50I had this ring.
01:04:53Oh, thank you, my love.
01:04:55It's so beautiful.
01:05:00I wanted to be with you
01:05:02for the rest of my life.
01:05:04Thank you, my love.
01:05:13That was so wonderful.
01:05:20I love you, baby.
01:05:21White bear, thank you so much
01:05:22for me, white bear.
01:05:26Thank you for staying with me
01:05:28all this time.
01:05:29I'm sorry I didn't come sooner.
01:05:32No.
01:05:38I've never felt super happy
01:05:40in my life,
01:05:41and this is the best day
01:05:42of life ever.
01:05:45I can't even think straight.
01:05:47You know, to think that
01:05:48I finally got the woman
01:05:49of my dreams
01:05:50after seven years.
01:05:52Just keep following
01:05:54your dreams, everybody,
01:05:55and you will get
01:05:57what you need.
01:05:59You'll get there.
01:06:02I love you, baby.
01:06:10I'm super happy
01:06:12and super satisfied
01:06:13with how everything went.
01:06:15Any nerves about telling
01:06:16your family, Flores?
01:06:18Sort of, yeah.
01:06:20But I'm going to tell my mom
01:06:22that it's the right time.
01:06:23It's the right time,
01:06:24and I've been waiting
01:06:26for this long.
01:06:26Yeah, and we've been waiting
01:06:27for this the entire time,
01:06:29and it was our decision.
01:06:32Welcome to the Tunnel of Love.
01:06:33That's amazing.
01:06:35You know what's something
01:06:36funny about this Tunnel of Love?
01:06:37What?
01:06:38It may be hot outside,
01:06:39but after we entered here,
01:06:41I think it got a little hotter.
01:06:45You're so funny, huh?
01:06:47I love you, my mom.
01:06:49I love you, my Sheen.
01:06:53Are you sure you are going
01:06:54to take good care of him?
01:06:56Yes, my king.
01:06:58I don't think so.
01:06:59You don't think so?
01:07:00No, no, no, no, no.
01:07:02Why are you laughing?
01:07:04Do you see me laugh?
01:07:06I get to go and sit down.
01:07:09I can't spend that.
01:07:11So now I'm worried,
01:07:13because if the king
01:07:14would hold his blessing,
01:07:16I don't know what I would do.
01:07:22Okay.
01:07:25Yeah, Sesto has spoken.
01:07:30Lisa?
01:07:31Yes.
01:07:31Proceed forward.
01:07:41It's a miracle again.
01:07:59Are you sure you are going to take good care of him?
01:08:05Yes, my king.
01:08:07Are you sure?
01:08:08Yes.
01:08:11I don't think so.
01:08:14You don't think so?
01:08:15No, no, no. Why are you laughing?
01:08:20Do you see me laugh?
01:08:24No, my king.
01:08:53I got to go and sit down.
01:08:55I don't know what I would do.
01:08:58Who are you laughing at?
01:08:59You are laughing at me?
01:09:04No, my king.
01:09:06I'm laughing because I'm nervous.
01:09:08I have a nervous laugh.
01:09:11You have a nervous laugh?
01:09:16I'd either laugh or cry.
01:09:17Your husband did not tell you.
01:09:22Um, may you leave my change?
01:09:28She's the wife I want to marry.
01:09:30And she has been nervous.
01:09:34Okay.
01:09:34She has been trying to know most of our tradition.
01:09:38She's trying her best.
01:09:42Good.
01:09:45Say that.
01:09:53Come.
01:09:54Come, my daughter.
01:09:58Don't laugh again.
01:09:59Come, my daughter.
01:10:00Uh-huh.
01:10:05You don't laugh before a traditional majesty like me.
01:10:10Huh?
01:10:10Yes.
01:10:11Unless I laugh.
01:10:15Don't you laugh now.
01:10:20Laugh, laugh, laugh.
01:10:22I tell you to laugh now.
01:10:24Okay.
01:10:26Come, my brother.
01:10:28Come and hold your wife.
01:10:34So, our ancestors accept you.
01:10:43God will bless you people.
01:10:45God will bless you people.
01:10:45God will make this union to be fruitful.
01:10:49God will give you people happy home.
01:10:51I bless you in a marriage.
01:10:53I say it shall be well with you people.
01:10:55Okay.
01:10:57Now.
01:10:58I say this union will work well.
01:11:02I say this union will work well.
01:11:07Enjoy your wife.
01:11:08Wife, enjoy your husband.
01:11:11Aha.
01:11:12Aha.
01:11:13I wasn't sure I was going to get the blessing.
01:11:15I was on pins and needles.
01:11:17But when the king says we are blessed,
01:11:21it's a relief.
01:11:24Lisa.
01:11:25You are now one of us.
01:11:28My final thoughts,
01:11:30which is very, very, very important thing.
01:11:34I want to see how our wife will dance.
01:11:38Dance anyhow you know how to dance.
01:11:41You must dance with me.
01:11:46I made it.
01:11:48There's nothing more ultimate than a blessing from the king.
01:11:50so that we can get married.
01:11:54But at this moment,
01:11:57I'm still married to a woman.
01:12:00And he doesn't know.
01:12:03I've held on to these secrets so long.
01:12:05It's weighing on me heavily.
01:12:07I have to tell him soon.
01:12:09And I'm hoping that he can understand
01:12:12and accept me for who I am and what my past is.
01:12:16I'm hoping we live happily ever after.
01:12:18I want this so bad.
01:12:21Our wife's gotten down a bit away.
01:12:29See, Ed, are you going to talk to me now?
01:12:32I'm just wasting your time.
01:12:34See, Ed, you're an asshole.
01:12:35You want to act like you're perfect.
01:12:37You want to put on this whole front,
01:12:38like you're this great guy, but you're a liar.
01:12:41Do you want to tell everyone how we had sex?
01:12:44Good.
01:12:45Bye, guys.
01:12:46It's the end.
01:12:56I can't. I can't.
01:12:58I can't.
01:12:59I can't.
01:13:10I can't.
01:13:13I can't.
01:13:15I can't.
01:13:26I can't.
01:13:26I'm so upset right now.
01:13:28I thought we'd at least be able to, like, talk about what happened.
01:13:35And I didn't think he was going to break up with me.
01:13:41I just feel like he took any excuse and any reason to just end all of this and walk away
01:13:46and he I think he was just waiting for a reason to walk away
01:13:51what are you thinking about right now and me I'm not someone to be in a king
01:14:00I want just to go that's all
01:14:09I'm so mad because she lied for everything so maybe tomorrow she's gonna tell me another story
01:14:16so I can't give her another chance I make a lot of my energy to be with her but I
01:14:25feel betrayed
01:14:28all what I want right now is to leave everything about her and forget her name too
01:14:54where is he going
01:14:59you're gonna talk to me now
01:15:01just waste your time I'm waiting for someone to pick me to go home so
01:15:08so you're not staying here tonight no
01:15:12you're just gonna walk out and leave me here by myself
01:15:16you can't enjoy it with the view
01:15:19so what about the two weeks that I'm here
01:15:22you can't wait now call the gay and you can come
01:15:27you're an asshole and you're a liar how about that how about you're a liar do you want to tell
01:15:33everyone how we had sex do you want to tell them that you want to act like you're perfect you
01:15:39want
01:15:39to put on this whole front like you're this great guy but you're a liar okay say anything you want
01:15:45okay
01:15:45so did that not happen did we not have sex I will finish all things did we not have sex
01:15:50I will not continue did we not have sex
01:15:52anything you want because we did it's okay for me it's the end
01:16:05bye guys go
01:16:18like when I didn't even do anything like that was before we were in a relationship and he's done
01:16:22so much to me since I've been his girlfriend and I like accepted it because I loved him
01:16:33I just feel like I wasted my time again and I did all of this to try to be with
01:16:38someone and like I get broken up with again
01:16:46and now I'm single and alone and he gets to just go home
01:16:52yeah he left me in the desert in the middle of nowhere
01:17:07I just don't understand like
01:17:11it's like I try so hard to like find love and to like make it work and it just never
01:17:18it never happens
01:17:19for me like it never does and I always get left I always get dumped it's always me
01:17:27and it's like that's the only thing I want like all I want is to find love
01:17:31and like get married and it just never it never happens for me
01:17:49I want to find love and to find love and to find love and to find love and to find
01:17:51love and to find love and love and to find love and love and to find love and love and
01:17:51love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
01:17:51love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
01:17:51love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
01:17:51love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
01:17:51love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
01:17:51love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
01:17:51love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
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01:18:00love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and love and
01:18:03love
01:18:08I have a feeling that my mom's didn't have a lot of questions for us.
01:18:13It just felt right to kind of propose to Sheena.
01:18:19You guys happy?
01:18:20Oh, yeah, I'm ecstatic.
01:18:24What the f***, Forrest?
01:18:35What you do to me I could write a book or a screen
01:18:41Ripples run around your life Back to where you started
01:19:01Oh, yeah, the happiest bear ever.
01:19:04And I'm the happiest bear.
01:19:05We're bears in love.
01:19:06Yeah, for life.
01:19:08For life.
01:19:12I just proposed to Sheena and she said yes.
01:19:16So now we're heading back to tell mom and Dev my world is just amazing,
01:19:25just filled with so much light and so much happiness.
01:19:28No, I can't be.
01:19:29I felt like I don't want to sleep after everything would happen.
01:19:32You're not going to sleep tonight, huh?
01:19:34No, I'm just so happy.
01:19:35I hope I get some sleep tonight.
01:19:37Yeah, I'm going to be sitting there and you're going to attack me.
01:19:40Oh, no, I'm not going to attack you.
01:19:45Sheena and I have been talking for a while about when would be the perfect time to have
01:19:50sex and now knowing that we are going to be committed to each other 100%,
01:19:54we're both afraid to let out that sexual tension and maybe even get a little bit freaky.
01:20:01Don't worry, I told you.
01:20:02I'm going to get you some dog chains, some dog collar, and some dog balls you want.
01:20:08Well, you are a vet and I know that you're well supplied.
01:20:11Don't worry, this is free when I'm the vet around.
01:20:15Oh, my gosh.
01:20:18I'm happy you said yes.
01:20:20Of course.
01:20:21Yeah.
01:20:21One in a million yes to the most wonderful beard I ever had in my life.
01:20:27I feel a lot of weight off my shoulders.
01:20:29Me too.
01:20:31But I have a feeling that my mom's going to have a lot of questions for us.
01:20:37But I'm ready to take the jump with you.
01:20:41Even if she has doubts, I'm pretty sure my mom's going to be happy for us.
01:20:47At least I'm hoping she's going to be.
01:20:52I just got a text from my mom.
01:20:54She's down by the pool.
01:20:55Okay, my love.
01:20:56Let's go.
01:21:02Baby, just breathe.
01:21:03Yes.
01:21:04Everything's going to be at peace.
01:21:07Hey, guys.
01:21:09Hey, Mom.
01:21:10Did you have fun?
01:21:13Oh, yeah.
01:21:14We went to the Gondola Mall.
01:21:16We got there.
01:21:17Oh, really?
01:21:18Yeah.
01:21:18We walked around.
01:21:19Did you ride the little boat thingy-mabobber?
01:21:21No, of course we did.
01:21:22Oh, how nice.
01:21:23Yeah, I figured.
01:21:25Yeah, we got there and it was fun.
01:21:27It was pretty cool.
01:21:28All right.
01:21:29Yeah.
01:21:30Then we just walked around.
01:21:31We looked at a few stores.
01:21:33And then we came to a little point with tons of nice little flowers and lights and just a whole
01:21:41lot of people.
01:21:42And it just felt, you know, like the right place to, you know, kind of propose to Sheena.
01:21:55Hmm.
01:21:57And, uh, she said yes.
01:22:10You guys happy?
01:22:15Oh, yeah.
01:22:16I'm ecstatic, Forrest.
01:22:21I asked you to hold off and wait so she could prove herself.
01:22:25And then you just go walk up and pull this little sneak.
01:22:29If you are not going to be willing to listen, what the am I doing sitting over here in this
01:22:36country then, Forrest?
01:22:40I think you're just being a stubborn ass and you just don't want to accept our happiness.
01:22:46Excuse me?
01:22:50Well, don't be shaking your head and agreeing when you weren't there.
01:22:53I agree because this is why we talk as couples.
01:22:56We work, we talk about this.
01:22:59And this is our decision.
01:23:00Then show the answer for him if you weren't in his head and you weren't there at the time when
01:23:05he decided to do it.
01:23:05I am an adult and I would decipher what we want to do.
01:23:09Hey, Mom.
01:23:09Do you think maybe it would have been nice if he would have included us?
01:23:13Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
01:23:18Oh, jeez, Forrest, your life.
01:23:22It's over.
01:23:26Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:58I'll give you one free shot.
01:23:59After talking for six months.
01:24:01Elise is beautiful.
01:24:03But at the same time, she's very fiery.
01:24:05I'm nervous.
01:24:06Very nervous.
01:24:07How do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
01:24:10Do you think American girls are more jealous?
01:24:12I don't know.
01:24:13If she has a problem, it'll definitely do not.
01:24:16The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
01:24:19And do we know if this is still going on currently?
01:24:25Are we actually calling?
01:24:27Oh, you're going to...
01:24:28Oh, f***.
01:24:29Get your question ready.
01:24:33Why didn't you make her prove herself before you proposed?
01:24:36When she starts to lie, it's because she has traumatic experiences.
01:24:43Everybody's got stress in their life.
01:24:44And then to say, I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie.
01:24:48And you're going to accept her?
01:24:50Just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying?
01:24:52Of course, you're more bull than a Christmas goose.
01:24:56I really want to tell you something.
01:25:00Um, I've been married five times.
01:25:04Five times?
01:25:05And I filled out the divorce papers.
01:25:08But I am still married.
01:25:13I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:25:15Someone...
01:25:16I'm sorry.
01:25:17I came here to tell you the truth.
01:25:19To tell you everything.
01:25:21I want you to go home, please.
01:25:24She called me a liar.
01:25:25She called me a scammer.
01:25:26What?
01:25:27She's the real scammer.
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