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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 5
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00:00:00Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:08With past boyfriends.
00:00:09I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No.
00:00:17We can leave the past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past,
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey Boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:38And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me if we're going to be married, we can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:55I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:06Do you want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:14I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met.
00:01:18But now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:21Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:24It's freaking me out.
00:01:29You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:36I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:40I'm not going to go to bed.
00:01:42I'm not going to be married to women.
00:01:44I'm not going to be married to women.
00:01:45Now that the ancestors approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:50But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:54We don't accept it yet.
00:01:56You were giving your parents money.
00:01:59Why did you not tell us?
00:02:02They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept.
00:02:07It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:10That still didn't answer the question.
00:02:14He's just got the blinders on.
00:02:16And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:22It's okay, baby.
00:02:29I'm going to break that rules.
00:02:37Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:43Oh yeah.
00:02:44Check what you want.
00:02:45Then we could haggle, okay?
00:02:57Hey Shin, what do you think of these?
00:03:00Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:01Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:10I've been in the Philippines for a couple days now.
00:03:12And despite all the drama, being with Sheena every day is amazing.
00:03:20Thank you so much.
00:03:21Yeah, thanks.
00:03:22What is something you need?
00:03:24I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:26Mm-hmm.
00:03:26Well, I like that.
00:03:27Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:28Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her.
00:03:34It's just something I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:38Make sure you're holding me.
00:03:40Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:41You're holding me.
00:03:42Okay, there we go.
00:03:44Does it fit?
00:03:45Oh.
00:03:47Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:49Mm-mm.
00:03:49Yeah.
00:03:50Okay.
00:03:51Sorry, that's too sad.
00:03:53I'm sorry, I'm a giant man.
00:03:54Oh, Yazi.
00:03:58I kind of packed really light since Sheena was going on and on about how easy and cheap it
00:04:03is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:06Turns out, you can find clothes.
00:04:08It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:13Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:15Baka may t-shirt ka na pwede mo moosh out there.
00:04:18I'm going 2X.
00:04:182X?
00:04:19Nah, that's too small.
00:04:21It's 1, 5X.
00:04:23Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:28Forrest, he's around like 6'2 or 6th Street.
00:04:32It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:36My previous partner, that was around like 5 or 5'2.
00:04:41But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen in my life.
00:04:48Wow, you look like a macho.
00:04:50You look like a professional guy.
00:04:51You look like a tennis player.
00:04:53Yeah.
00:04:54It's too tight.
00:04:55It's too tight.
00:04:56Ow.
00:04:57So yeah, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:04:59Yeah.
00:05:01Right now, I'm kind of regretting bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts and a pair of bunnies
00:05:06on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:09But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:12Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:14You never know.
00:05:17Hey, baby.
00:05:18It's so hot.
00:05:20You know, maybe I'll just take a sit real quick.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Let's take a seat.
00:05:25Yeah.
00:05:27I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:30Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines, it's been kind of hard
00:05:35to come by.
00:05:35And, unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:51Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents and not actually saving anything.
00:06:00I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront her parents about
00:06:06this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:08The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about, you know,
00:06:17the money issues and everything.
00:06:20I believe that after everything, the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only thing we can do.
00:06:28It's time to be independent.
00:06:30It's time to be strong.
00:06:31And I'm going to be behind you and be your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:39I understand that, babe.
00:06:44This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:46I would plan a meeting for you so you could explain to them the situation that,
00:06:52sorry, we don't have that much money, but we're trying to save because we have a lot of plans for
00:06:58us.
00:06:58And I will move with you to the U.S. Just show them that you are a very sincere person,
00:07:04what kind of person you are.
00:07:06Because in my culture, parents are the one who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:17So if my parents would approve, then it would be much easier for just to have a better future for
00:07:23us.
00:07:31Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand?
00:07:34Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:37It's complicated.
00:07:40Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:45I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:52I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:07:55So now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are
00:08:00basically numbered
00:08:01with getting money away from their daughter.
00:08:03This does not sound like an easy task.
00:08:06Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about,
00:08:12what if we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your parents?
00:08:21Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion,
00:08:26then things doesn't quite work.
00:08:33So you think that we should have me come see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:41I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:45Well, Sheena, all right, but my mom is definitely going to blow her lid.
00:08:55She's not going to take this too well.
00:08:57I know, babe.
00:08:59I understand about that.
00:09:02My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my mom out of
00:09:09the situation.
00:09:10She already doesn't trust Sheena, and I believe that this is just going to make things worse, and I'm scared.
00:09:23My titties are hurt.
00:09:25Don't wear a strapless bra on a flight that's going to take two days.
00:09:31I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be going with my
00:09:37titties because they're hurting.
00:09:38I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be going with my
00:10:05titties.
00:10:08It's coming, so that's why I'm excited and I'm happy.
00:10:13Oh, my God.
00:10:14Lisa is coming today.
00:10:16My baby sleeps last night.
00:10:18How should I put this?
00:10:20I live in Owele.
00:10:23That's my hometown.
00:10:24But because of things that are going on there, a lot of shooting, a lot of, you know, kidnappings.
00:10:30Lisa booked a hotel for Sheena to stay here in Lagos.
00:10:35I can't even wait to, you know, welcome her.
00:10:38And when I see her with my eyes, oh, my God.
00:10:42I'll kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:49I'm really nervous.
00:10:53I planned a lot of days to welcome her from the airport.
00:10:58She doesn't have an idea of what I'm planning.
00:11:06So we have begun to just say, I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:12I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:14I'm so excited.
00:11:16I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time.
00:11:19But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:22Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I've been with women for the past 21
00:11:28years.
00:11:29Oh, my gosh.
00:11:30I am so ready for this to come to fruitation.
00:11:36I want to marry Daniel.
00:11:37But I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria.
00:11:41And that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:46But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:49I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:11:57Oh, touchdown.
00:12:07Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
00:12:33I'm so nervous.
00:12:34I feel like a drowned rat from the heat and the humidity.
00:12:40I did not sleep at all on the plane.
00:12:43And my nerves are just going crazy.
00:12:46I'm feeling really self-conscious right now.
00:12:49Oh, my God.
00:12:54Especially because I can't.
00:12:56I have deep sweat.
00:12:58When you're this large, you can't help but have deep sweat.
00:13:01I'm going to wash my crotch area.
00:13:03So I don't want to stink down here either.
00:13:08Oh, my God.
00:13:13I am freaking out to the point where I feel sick to my stomach.
00:13:17I think he's going to be as handsome as ever.
00:13:20And I think he's going to look at me and say, oh, my God, she's older than I thought she
00:13:24was.
00:13:24Because everything with this heat, I can't camouflage anything.
00:13:28And my age of 52 is showing today.
00:13:34Oh, my God.
00:13:35It was such a long flat.
00:13:38The bags are under my eyes.
00:13:41And the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:44Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video, I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect,
00:13:51getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle just where it needs to be,
00:13:56and trying to be perfect.
00:13:58I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:08I don't know.
00:14:32I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:35How am I going to be able to keep all these promises I made to faith?
00:14:38What if I come clean about my past and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:43And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:45What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:47I'm terrified.
00:14:49I'm afraid he's going to reject me.
00:14:51And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:14:59I am here.
00:15:00I am wishing.
00:15:02I'm done.
00:15:03I'm done.
00:15:03I'm done.
00:15:04All right.
00:15:05Here we go.
00:15:17She's taking a deep breath for, man.
00:15:19Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:21Oh, hey, hey.
00:15:22Don't you get comfortable.
00:15:23Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:26I know, man.
00:15:28Cute.
00:15:29Sexy.
00:15:31Javon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:35But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:40This is where we're going.
00:15:46Okay.
00:15:46The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:15:55my second date here in Turkey.
00:15:58Are you nervous?
00:15:59A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:16:08What are you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:10No, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:13Oh, hey, hey.
00:16:14Don't you get comfortable.
00:16:16Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:19I know, man.
00:16:20Don't tell you.
00:16:20You're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:25You got me in a love, hey.
00:16:29Call it a love, baby.
00:16:34All right.
00:16:36You're driving me.
00:16:37Love you, man.
00:16:38Love you, too, man.
00:16:39Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:40Yeah.
00:16:42Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:16:50Yeah, man, I'm excited.
00:16:53This is it.
00:16:54Today's the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:17:03I just got past checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:10I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:20This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I need
00:17:28to figure out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:32I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:39This is it.
00:17:41Ain't what you see here.
00:17:57I'm praying.
00:17:58I'm praying.
00:17:59Let's go.
00:18:00I'm praying.
00:18:01I'm praying.
00:18:04Hold me.
00:18:11Have fun.
00:18:16Oh, OMG! Cute! Sexy!
00:18:23Oh! Look!
00:18:27Hey, Juvon! It's me! Your wifey!
00:18:42I'm Annalyn, and I'm 38 years old from Cavite, Philippines.
00:18:49I've always been, I would say, bubbly, happy person, talkative, but there's also a hard-working part of me as
00:18:58well.
00:18:59I went to university and I studied mass communication because I like talking, sometimes a lot.
00:19:08But I decided to stop working full-time because Juvon and I are on opposite time zones.
00:19:15So, I have to change my sleep schedule.
00:19:19And that has made it really difficult to keep up any kind of job.
00:19:24Thankfully, Juvon sends me $400 to $500 once a month.
00:19:29Ma! Ma!
00:19:31Tignan, buksan mo ako, okay?
00:19:34Uh-uh.
00:19:37My mom and I live next to each other.
00:19:40And she has a small store.
00:19:44Ma! Ma! Ma! Ma!
00:19:45Binili ako, tignan mo!
00:19:46Ano yan? Patingin?
00:19:49I feel like we're more like best friends.
00:19:52But she's a very timid, shy woman.
00:19:55And I'm more like...
00:19:57Tiyo!
00:20:03He's so sang f...
00:20:05Kailangan ko ng pandagdag ng height kasi si Juvon mataas yung height difference namin.
00:20:13Excited na ako.
00:20:15Nagbook ako kasi sa Miss Ibis, Miss Ibis Bay.
00:20:19Hi! Wow!
00:20:22Tomorrow morning, I'm traveling to Beagle to meet Juvon.
00:20:26And finally have our honeymoon!
00:20:31This will be the first time that we get to spend time together physically.
00:20:36And intimacy-wise, we'll be able to discover a lot more about each other.
00:20:41So, yeah, good luck to us!
00:20:45Ha!
00:20:48Grabe excited na ako, Mama.
00:20:50Pedyo kinakabahan din ako.
00:20:52Hmm.
00:20:53Kasi, ang tagal...
00:20:54Ang tagal ko kasing hinantay to.
00:20:56Tapos nga, nandito nang...
00:20:57Oo nga.
00:20:57Anim na taon, ano?
00:20:59Grabe, anim na taon.
00:21:00Bala ko nga, hindi na mangyayaring darating yun.
00:21:04Six years na yan.
00:21:07Umikot na lang ang buong buhay mo, ang mundo mo sa kanya.
00:21:10Kakahintay ang mga tawag niya.
00:21:13Hindi ka na nakakapagtrabaho ng maayos.
00:21:17Hindi ka na nakikipagkita sa mga kaibigan mo.
00:21:22Mahirap kayo pagmasdan mo ang anak mong ganyan.
00:21:26Ang alam ko, may tampuhan kayo ni Juvon.
00:21:30Okay na ba kayo?
00:21:33Technically, hindi pa talaga namin nasusog fully yung problem.
00:21:41Naisip ko, magfocus muna sa mga positibong bagay.
00:21:46Lalo na sa first time meeting namin.
00:21:49Saka ko na lang siya ididiscuss later on.
00:21:53Juvon and I had a fight recently
00:21:56because he told me that he's been talking to this woman
00:21:59that he used to have feelings for.
00:22:02Even though we talk about it,
00:22:04I feel like he still doesn't understand
00:22:08why it feels like a betrayal to me.
00:22:11But at the same time,
00:22:13Juvon and I have some problems
00:22:15that are way, way worse than this.
00:22:19Natutunan ko dito sa relasyon na ito.
00:22:21Hindi siya madali.
00:22:23Hindi siya para sa mga marupok.
00:22:27Ikaw, ano ka eh?
00:22:28Madali kang mainis.
00:22:30Tsaka ando siyadong dominantis eh.
00:22:34Juvon ang gusto niya siyang masusunod.
00:22:39Juvon and I have a lot of struggles
00:22:41and at times we fight a lot.
00:22:44Juvon thinks I changed,
00:22:47but how I see it is that
00:22:49he's the one that really changed.
00:22:52What happened was,
00:22:54after we got married,
00:22:55he started watching podcasts
00:22:59about masculinity and stuff.
00:23:02They teach the men to find women that soft, feminine.
00:23:06and submissive.
00:23:09Suddenly, you have this idea in your head
00:23:11that I should be like this as a woman.
00:23:13Like, what the hell?
00:23:15We were not like this before.
00:23:17I feel like he's trying to change me
00:23:20to a person that I'm not.
00:23:22He thinks that even if I don't agree with him,
00:23:25I should just be quiet.
00:23:27And I'm a type of woman that I just don't agree.
00:23:29I question things.
00:23:33Atay yung gumagawa ng kapalara natin.
00:23:35Ito yung pinili ko eh.
00:23:37So, kailangan kong panindigan.
00:23:40Pakasal ka nga.
00:23:41Kala naman siya deeper.
00:23:46I love Javon.
00:23:47And I know he loves me,
00:23:49but my biggest fear is
00:23:52Javon will come here
00:23:53and we can't get along.
00:23:56But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend,
00:23:59I'm meeting a husband.
00:24:00I can't just, you know, give off
00:24:03after everything I did for six years.
00:24:07If we can't resolve our issues
00:24:09and we fight the whole time,
00:24:11what am I gonna do?
00:24:14Sana lang patutungohan yung kahintay mo sa kanya
00:24:18sa loob ng habang taon.
00:24:41How are you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:24:44To be completely honest,
00:24:46I was really frustrated,
00:24:50disappointed,
00:24:51because I went to bed alone.
00:25:01When I got here,
00:25:02there were lots of moments
00:25:03where it felt really awkward.
00:25:05Like we were...
00:25:07not sure what to say.
00:25:10And it...
00:25:11I internalized those things.
00:25:13And so, last night,
00:25:15I decided to go out into the living room
00:25:18and see if I could have
00:25:20a little bit of a conversation with BeerCon.
00:25:24I felt really disconnected
00:25:26that whole first day.
00:25:29I wanted to give you some space,
00:25:31so...
00:25:32But at the time, I'm thinking,
00:25:34oh, my worst fear
00:25:35that he's just not attracted to me in person
00:25:39has just come true.
00:25:42It didn't.
00:25:44Yeah.
00:25:45We ended up like making out pretty good.
00:25:49Good times.
00:25:53We have time to explore this further
00:25:56as we get to know each other better.
00:26:00But, you know,
00:26:01I am still kind of feeling a little, like,
00:26:04unsure about the situation
00:26:05because he decided to put the brakes
00:26:08on us having sex.
00:26:10And also, I am worried
00:26:12because we have some things to do later today
00:26:15that I'm really anxious about.
00:26:29More rain.
00:26:31Yeah.
00:26:31God loves us.
00:26:34I feel like he's crying on us.
00:26:35We are bringing bliss wherever we go.
00:26:38Okay.
00:26:40I think this is where we're going.
00:26:45The thing I have planned today
00:26:47is probably the least romantic
00:26:50and the most awkward date we could have
00:26:53on my second date here in Turkey.
00:26:59Hello.
00:27:00Hi.
00:27:00Oh, hi, Kitty.
00:27:02You must be Laura?
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:03Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Please take a seat.
00:27:06Okay. Thank you.
00:27:08Before I came to Turkey,
00:27:09I had been researching skin removal surgery,
00:27:13and Turkey has such high-quality plastic surgeons.
00:27:17So, fortunately,
00:27:18I was able to secure an appointment with one.
00:27:22But, unfortunately,
00:27:24the only appointment they had
00:27:26was for today.
00:27:30So awkward.
00:27:32Are you nervous?
00:27:33A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:27:35So, you want me to come inside with you,
00:27:38or you want to do it alone?
00:27:42If you want to come, you can.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:45A few weeks ago,
00:27:47I asked Bjorkon to come with me
00:27:48because I kind of want to see how
00:27:50our future could look together
00:27:53as someone who's supposed to support me.
00:27:56But now I kind of think
00:27:57it just feels weird.
00:27:59Even though we made out last night,
00:28:01I am still feeling insecure
00:28:03about how he actually perceives me physically.
00:28:07Is he attracted or not?
00:28:12Laura thinks too much about her appearance.
00:28:16It is a curse that you always try to be perfect,
00:28:22but nobody is perfect.
00:28:24If you ask me, I'm happy with my teeth,
00:28:26because it is my teeth.
00:28:28I'm going to eat with this.
00:28:29So, who cares?
00:28:30But this is her body, and she's not happy with that.
00:28:34That's why I support her.
00:28:36Hi.
00:28:37You must be Laura.
00:28:38I am.
00:28:38Nice to meet you.
00:28:39Nice to meet you.
00:28:39You come?
00:28:40Nice to meet you.
00:28:41Please, take your seats.
00:28:42Okay.
00:28:44So, I'm Dr. Amar.
00:28:45I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon.
00:28:47How can I help you?
00:28:50I have recently lost 140 pounds,
00:28:52and so I have some loose skin in places
00:28:56that I am looking to have removed.
00:28:58Which areas bothers you the most?
00:29:00Mainly in my stomach area.
00:29:02It's my least competent spot.
00:29:06So, I will take you to the studio for some pictures,
00:29:09if it's okay for you.
00:29:10That's fine.
00:29:11And then you can ask your questions.
00:29:13Okay.
00:29:13I love that.
00:29:13And we can figure out a treatment plan for you.
00:29:16I love that.
00:29:16Thank you very much.
00:29:20Just knock the door when you're ready.
00:29:22Okay.
00:29:22I will come in.
00:29:23All right.
00:29:25Can I?
00:29:26For sure you can.
00:29:30I touched someone else's boobs.
00:29:32I'm sorry.
00:29:36It's like a jellyfish.
00:29:38I just wanted to touch.
00:29:40You can't blame me, guys.
00:29:48I guess at least you're having fun.
00:29:51Ah, thanks.
00:29:53Okay.
00:29:53This is going to be enough for me.
00:29:54Okay.
00:29:54Can you come closer to the background?
00:29:56Come closer.
00:29:57Perfect.
00:29:58Okay.
00:29:58Now we're going to pull this part down.
00:30:01A little bit more.
00:30:02Okay.
00:30:03Yeah, this is an area that I want to look at.
00:30:06Yeah, I got it.
00:30:06I got it.
00:30:07Perfect.
00:30:08No, nothing is seen.
00:30:11Okay.
00:30:11Perfect.
00:30:12All right.
00:30:14Okay.
00:30:15Just a few pictures.
00:30:17Okay.
00:30:17And it will be over.
00:30:18Okay.
00:30:18Your arms will be on your back.
00:30:20Exactly like that.
00:30:21Thank you very much.
00:30:23Mm-hmm.
00:30:27This part as fast as possible.
00:30:34I feel really awkward because my stomach area is my biggest insecurity.
00:30:41Perfect.
00:30:43Same thing to the other side.
00:30:45I have worked my ass off literally and figuratively.
00:30:50And the fact that I still have the loose skin has been really hard.
00:30:56Thank you very much.
00:30:56That's great.
00:30:57When I look in the mirror, I don't want to see myself at 315 pounds anymore.
00:31:03I want to see myself now and the work that I've put in.
00:31:11Oh, okay.
00:31:15So, the problem at the tummy part is actually really common after losing so much weight.
00:31:24Yeah.
00:31:24I will just show you some pictures.
00:31:32So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here.
00:31:36Mm-hmm.
00:31:37We should cut vertically.
00:31:41I was not expecting the doctor to take the things that you know are your most insecure flaws
00:31:49and project them for everyone to see like that.
00:31:54I am immediately regretting having Bearcon come with me.
00:31:58Here I am sitting next to my boyfriend who happens to be 20 years younger than I am.
00:32:05Like, what the hell was I thinking?
00:32:08This is not romantic.
00:32:10It's not sexy.
00:32:12It's awful.
00:32:19So, do you think I can meet your family?
00:32:22My brothers, my father, everyone have their life.
00:32:26So, I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:32:28That's what I think.
00:32:30It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me.
00:32:32It just makes me feel like he's hiding something about his life.
00:32:47Hello.
00:32:50How are you?
00:32:52Salaam.
00:32:52Do you know where I can buy like hair oil?
00:32:55Like to make my hair shiny?
00:32:56No, speak English.
00:32:58Arabic.
00:32:59Oh.
00:33:00Excuse me?
00:33:01Do you know where I can get hair oil?
00:33:04No, not like hair oil.
00:33:06Not spice.
00:33:07Down there?
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10Okay.
00:33:11Maybe here?
00:33:12No.
00:33:14No.
00:33:16Bags.
00:33:17Not oil.
00:33:19Can you get stuff for your hair?
00:33:22Here.
00:33:22Oh, really?
00:33:23Here?
00:33:24Yeah.
00:33:24Perfect.
00:33:26I love tea.
00:33:36We're going to be cooking today.
00:33:42This doesn't really match my outfit.
00:33:44It's fine.
00:33:45It's for cover your outfit, so you don't need...
00:33:50This morning, I took a walk through the Medina to try and clear my head.
00:33:55This isn't really sexy.
00:33:57Right now, I'm feeling really concerned about everything that's happened since I landed.
00:34:03Ziad's been very distant with me emotionally and physically the whole time that I've been here.
00:34:08And it's making me a little suspicious.
00:34:11I'm actually really excited for this.
00:34:13But Ziad is taking me to a cooking class today.
00:34:17And I really think it's such a cute idea.
00:34:21I'm going to really try not to just be in my head and overthink things.
00:34:26And I'm hoping this could be a fun bonding moment between us.
00:34:30What are we making?
00:34:35Yum.
00:34:39That sounds good.
00:34:46Tell me what she's saying.
00:34:48We start with lemon.
00:34:49Okay.
00:34:51Wait, but I want to do it.
00:34:53Oh, you peel it.
00:34:54Exactly.
00:34:55Oh.
00:34:57So we're peeling the lemon.
00:34:58Exactly.
00:34:59All right.
00:35:00I could do that.
00:35:04I did it.
00:35:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:06She said you make it perfect.
00:35:14Ooh.
00:35:15Are you going to try it?
00:35:17No.
00:35:19Careful to your fingers.
00:35:20Yeah.
00:35:20Got it.
00:35:21Don't I look like a wife right now?
00:35:23I have an apron on.
00:35:25I'm cooking.
00:35:26Yeah.
00:35:26This is like real wife material.
00:35:29This is actually a lot of fun.
00:35:31Yeah.
00:35:31I like this.
00:35:32I want to teach Emma how to cook for me.
00:35:35I don't have a picture of you in my mind.
00:35:38You are cooking.
00:35:39Yeah, I don't.
00:35:40I don't cook.
00:35:42No.
00:35:42You need, for example, to make breakfast.
00:35:45I don't like breakfast.
00:35:46Lunch.
00:35:48How did you leave, if you don't?
00:35:50Coffee is my breakfast.
00:35:52Yes.
00:35:52I could make you, like, toast.
00:35:56And what about the lunch?
00:35:57I'll order you something.
00:35:59For lunch, I can cook for myself.
00:36:02I make it easy for you.
00:36:04That's, yeah, yeah.
00:36:05That's better.
00:36:08What's your favorite food?
00:36:10It's tasting with meat.
00:36:13What's my favorite?
00:36:14Do you remember?
00:36:15It's, uh, it's sushi.
00:36:18Yeah.
00:36:18I know it.
00:36:19Oh, you remember.
00:36:21Have you ever cooked for your other ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:24No, never.
00:36:25We don't eat in-house or, no.
00:36:28We, if we want, if you want to eat, we eat outside.
00:36:31So we don't have time to...
00:36:33Oh, so you don't eat in the house.
00:36:34Never.
00:36:35Just for myself.
00:36:38Or for my parents.
00:36:43Did you tell your family about me yet?
00:36:46Yeah, yeah.
00:36:46They know you are here and I'm with you.
00:36:51Before I came to Morocco, Zied mentioned that he didn't tell anyone in his family that I was coming.
00:36:58I was upset.
00:37:00So I'm glad that Zied finally told them, but I'm a little disappointed that he hasn't set up a meeting.
00:37:09I want to know more about him and understand him a little bit more and I feel like meeting his
00:37:13family is the best way to do that.
00:37:16So do you think I can meet your family?
00:37:19Uh, I don't know which time they will be free or they will be there, for example.
00:37:27My father always traveling.
00:37:30So I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:37:33Maybe, yeah.
00:37:34That's what I think.
00:37:37Don't you think that's a little frustrating for me?
00:37:40It is, it is.
00:37:41Like I'm not seeing your apartment, I'm not meeting your family.
00:37:43It is.
00:37:45Every one of my brothers, my father, everyone have their life.
00:37:51You know, this is the man that I love and that I want to be with.
00:37:55It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me to his family.
00:37:58And it just makes me feel like he's hiding me or hiding something about his life.
00:38:05And that's not okay.
00:38:08Have you ever introduced a girl to your parents?
00:38:10A girl?
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:11No, no, no.
00:38:13The girls you date normally aren't just Moroccan girls.
00:38:16Yeah, yeah.
00:38:17Have you ever talked to an American girl, like online?
00:38:21Or just me?
00:38:24Uh-huh.
00:38:25No.
00:38:26Have you talked to girls from like Europe or?
00:38:29Uh, no, no.
00:38:33Because the app that we met on is international.
00:38:36Yeah, yeah.
00:38:37I know.
00:38:37I was matched with a lot, of course, but I don't talk.
00:38:40We don't, we didn't talk.
00:38:42You didn't message any of them?
00:38:44No, no, no.
00:38:47I feel like he's lying to me.
00:38:50Before I came to Morocco, me and Sia had gotten into a huge fight because I found out that he's
00:38:56still talking to a woman online.
00:38:58He told me that he wasn't cheating on me, but I'm not so sure about that.
00:39:03So I downloaded this extension on my laptop and it shows you in order who people follow.
00:39:13Cut the garlic.
00:39:18This morning, I checked on my computer and I found out that he's still adding more women.
00:39:25They're all from different countries.
00:39:27I mean, it's like he's never stopped looking for other options.
00:39:31It feels like everything is hitting me all at once and I'm putting the pieces together.
00:39:37And it's just making me wonder if he did cheat on me or if he even really wants this relationship.
00:39:43I think it's time to find out what's the real story here.
00:39:52I still really want to talk to your family.
00:39:55It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first, so they could have a better understanding.
00:40:03I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:40:08I need to be there with, with Forrest.
00:40:12Forrest.
00:40:23I need to be there.
00:40:24This is Kalos.
00:40:25So this is the area where there's a lot of, you know, um, street clubs.
00:40:31Mm-hmm.
00:40:33That's something we're going to have to do, you guys.
00:40:35I don't need to see that.
00:40:36All I need is my sheep.
00:40:39Forrest, it's not the point of replacement.
00:40:42It's the point of just observing other things.
00:40:47I have no interest in women, but the human body is beautiful.
00:40:52I don't even go to those in the States.
00:40:55On my construction job, that was our lunch,
00:40:58because they cook the best hamburgers.
00:41:01Monday was amateur day.
00:41:04Oh, man.
00:41:13Oh, look at that tree coming right over the wall.
00:41:14Oh, that's me, isn't it?
00:41:16Mm.
00:41:18My conversation with Sheena yesterday
00:41:20forced me to reevaluate how I'm going to approach Sheena's parents.
00:41:24And we decided that it's best to meet Sheena's family first
00:41:27without my mom and dad.
00:41:29So what other things are in, uh, what do you call it?
00:41:32Intramural roles.
00:41:34So this is another historical site in Manila.
00:41:37So it's like a Spanish piece.
00:41:39Oh, man.
00:41:40I just have such a thing for history,
00:41:42because you have to learn from history.
00:41:44Yes.
00:41:45Because history repeats itself.
00:41:47You can kind of predict what's going to happen
00:41:50if you don't learn from mistakes from the first time.
00:41:54You know, that's how I've always felt.
00:41:57I'm not looking forward to talking to my mom about this at all.
00:42:01She's pretty much going to freak out
00:42:03and really think now that her family is trying
00:42:05to get the hooks into me.
00:42:06Like, I'm going to go the first day,
00:42:08and they're just going to set me down,
00:42:10they're going to open up my brain,
00:42:11and they're just going to pour the brainwashing juice
00:42:13directly into my soul.
00:42:16And she's going to fight me tooth and nail
00:42:18to allow herself to go.
00:42:21Here we are at the Intramuros.
00:42:26Whoo!
00:42:28So this, you can see, it's like a garrison
00:42:31for Spanish governors.
00:42:33For all the important guys to stay.
00:42:35Yes, yes, yes.
00:42:36For Spanish rulers at that era, yes.
00:42:39Mostly, like, 1600s.
00:42:40That is neat.
00:42:42Well, look at the fountain.
00:42:44Yeah, that's the good stuff here.
00:42:46Oh, my God.
00:42:46You want to see?
00:42:47Oh, so beautiful.
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:49You can definitely tell that you're not
00:42:50in America anymore.
00:42:51Yeah.
00:42:51You can see the constructions, the variation.
00:42:53Do you know what?
00:42:54One thing Deb and I talk about all the time
00:42:56is we'll look at a rock, and we say,
00:43:00you know, imagine how much this rock has seen.
00:43:06It all blows my mind right there.
00:43:08Yeah.
00:43:08Oh, man.
00:43:11To Sheena's credit, she really is
00:43:14making the effort to show us the best of her country.
00:43:17Oh, my God.
00:43:18Yeah.
00:43:19Hard.
00:43:19How old is this?
00:43:20Probably 1,000 years.
00:43:21I don't know if you could.
00:43:22Yeah, you could trade it open.
00:43:23Maybe something will pop up.
00:43:24Oh, no, no.
00:43:24I don't want to open it.
00:43:27But honestly, I don't regret going so hard on Sheena
00:43:29the other night like that.
00:43:32Whoa.
00:43:33Oh, my God.
00:43:34I want to get one of these hats.
00:43:35Oh, mom and her hats.
00:43:37Yeah.
00:43:37That's how it look like.
00:43:38Oh, you're like Vietnamese.
00:43:39Oh, hey.
00:43:40That's perfect.
00:43:41I want to believe she has good intentions.
00:43:44Yeah.
00:43:45Oh, oh.
00:43:45You look so handsome.
00:43:46But we're just sitting here, stirring in the pot.
00:43:50I'm still struggling to figure out why Sheena lied.
00:43:54And I know in my heart that there is more to this story.
00:43:58There.
00:43:59There.
00:44:00There.
00:44:01There.
00:44:02There.
00:44:02That's the monkey's walk.
00:44:04I'm going to sit down, guys.
00:44:06All right.
00:44:06I'm sweating like crazy.
00:44:08Oh, God.
00:44:10This is all wonderful.
00:44:12I didn't realize how truly beautiful the Philippines is.
00:44:16Yes.
00:44:17Thanks so much.
00:44:18I mean, seeing this, meeting you, is so important.
00:44:24Mm-hmm.
00:44:24But there's still one little piece of the puzzle.
00:44:29And that's with your family.
00:44:32So I still really want to talk to them and discuss things.
00:44:38Well, I'm glad that you brought up, you know, Sheena's family.
00:44:47Sheena and I had a discussion about, you know, going by ourselves to meet your parents
00:44:52and how it's important that I meet them before Mom and Dad meet them.
00:44:57So, Mom, I know that you wanted to go as a group to meet with Sheena's family.
00:45:02But we would really like it if you come the next day.
00:45:07Forrest.
00:45:08Isn't that right, babe?
00:45:10It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first so they could have a better understanding.
00:45:19I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:45:23If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena the way that they do,
00:45:29with the whole tradition and the first oldest daughter thing, and that we're broke,
00:45:35then who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:45:39I need to be there with Forrest and Sheena.
00:45:46I feel it is important that you have me and Dev to stand by your side.
00:45:53Just we will come in and say our greetings, hello, how are you?
00:45:58No going and yelling and screaming, I promise.
00:46:02And so I was hoping that you would be in agreement to doing that, allowing us to come.
00:46:14Mom, we're not saying that we don't want you to be there.
00:46:18We want you to be there.
00:46:20We just want you to go the next day.
00:46:24Because we can talk about special pink fairy dust and all this other great things,
00:46:29but we live in reality, okay?
00:46:32And in reality, you are a very hardcore person.
00:46:37You know you are going to go and look for anything to be said.
00:46:43And I'm an adult.
00:46:44You need to treat me like an adult.
00:46:46I am not a child anymore.
00:46:49And you should be able to trust me and Sheena in our judgment.
00:46:53I cannot trust Sheena yet.
00:46:55She has not trusted it.
00:46:57This is the perfect opportunity.
00:46:57And I cannot trust you now.
00:46:59This is the perfect opportunity.
00:47:00I cannot trust you now.
00:47:03I know Forrest.
00:47:05He will sacrifice his own self and do anything for Sheena.
00:47:10This was the whole reason why I came here was to protect Forrest from Sheena's parents.
00:47:15This is total bull****.
00:47:22Only moments away.
00:47:24This is so surreal.
00:47:26I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:47:30I have a feeling that we're going to have some communication problem again.
00:47:34I don't know.
00:47:38Come on.
00:47:39Bobby.
00:47:40Where are you?
00:47:44Oh, man.
00:47:47Boy.
00:48:07Beautiful but classy.
00:48:11oh today is the day that I'm going to meet my loving husband and I'm so excited it's just so
00:48:21surreal after being married for three years in a relationship for six years I finally get to meet
00:48:34my husband in person for the first time so crazy hi hello good morning I'm finally picking up my
00:48:44husband could you please bring us some champagne later on I suggested that we start this trip on
00:48:52our honeymoon so this morning I check into this beautiful resort in Beagle but it's been raining
00:48:59ever since I showed up some people would think that it's a bad sign but you know I'm Catholic
00:49:08and for us water is cleansing for me it's a blessing some breath spray for the first kiss ever oh
00:49:17my god
00:49:17Javon here I come okay that I got the airport please wow I feel like puking
00:49:30there's just so many emotions going on in my system right now I feel happy I feel excited I feel
00:49:39intense
00:49:39it's just the fact that I'm meeting my husband not just any man the same time I have a feeling
00:49:48though
00:49:49we're also gonna have some communication problem again I don't know but I don't want to be negative
00:49:57because this moment is very special to me I've been waiting for a long time so for today I'm gonna
00:50:05focus
00:50:05focus on the positive which is the love and the feelings we have for each other
00:50:19just touched down I'm very very excited about what's happening this is so surreal I can't believe
00:50:29that even though we almost been married for three years I'm about to meet my wife for the first time
00:50:35this moment is huge because it's been a build-up over years I'm excited but also I have a lot
00:50:42of
00:50:42anxiety because things are far from perfect right now I would love to get back to the place where me
00:50:51and Anna can have fun and laugh together and be happy in our relationship like how it was in the
00:50:57beginning
00:51:04this has been like an overdue dream for me I would always daydream of how it's gonna be how it
00:51:12would feel
00:51:13like I wonder how it feels to touch him to hold him oh my god the nervousness is just leveling
00:51:22up it's like
00:51:25ordering something online and when it finally arrives you're just excited to unpack the package
00:51:42just past customs I'm one step closer to seeing Anna and uh just so ready
00:51:54come on I'll be where are you didn't know my skin I'll soak it in
00:52:02oh
00:52:05better days are just arrived and I'm ready now I've been waiting for my time and I won't get out
00:52:13everything I want can now begin
00:52:16take every day as it comes
00:52:24mommy
00:52:43okay
00:52:46look at you in pink like a peach on a windowsill
00:52:51oh yeah yeah I told you yeah happy huh
00:53:00I'm crying it's okay you're supposed to be happy
00:53:04I'm happy
00:53:06here's some joy
00:53:10I rehearsed the moment in my head a thousand times of how I was gonna approach her and what she
00:53:16was
00:53:16gonna look like and she's just everything that I ever hoped for and more
00:53:24oh my God you're so fluffy
00:53:28you're very handsome and tall and yeah perfect
00:53:34it's just feels like a dream it feels so real like I still can't believe it but I just want
00:53:43more kisses
00:53:57like I can't even wrap my brain around it that I am standing next to my wife it just feels
00:54:05amazing
00:54:06and I'm ready for the honeymoon
00:54:18you look uncomfortable right now so I'm curious if you're okay with this
00:54:23everything is fine by me I'm comfortable with everything
00:54:26seeing your photos is just
00:54:28it is just Laura says you're uncomfortable are you
00:54:39I will just show you some pictures
00:54:50so as you can see a horizontal problem here uh that we we should cut vertically we call it
00:54:58abdominoplasty but in public it's called contact okay so fix this area here and here in this part we
00:55:06can remove it okay when we do an fdl tummy tuck we have to cut in the middle of your
00:55:12tummy so it's almost impossible to hide right okay you look uncomfortable right now so I'm
00:55:19curious if I'm comfortable with everything
00:55:23Laura says you're uncomfortable are you
00:55:32didn't made me uncomfortable it kind of surprised me but it's just it is just people's life you know
00:55:43it is not a problem for me
00:55:49so overall all for uh 7175 dollars okay that's pretty much all the healing period
00:55:58usually the patients ask usually patients ask uh so six weeks okay all right so like anything I do
00:56:05at the gym pretty much exactly done for six weeks yes almost but approximately two to three weeks later
00:56:12you can start jogging and light exercises excellent and you'll have a packet of all this information
00:56:18of course it's already printed out okay thank you very much but we'll be in touch
00:56:23yes absolutely additional medical questions feel free to ask
00:56:29I love that I was just gonna ask if there was an email thank you thank you
00:56:33I appreciate your time I'm glad I did it but I feel really embarrassed about going to this appointment
00:56:43with Birkan I'm not fully confident that he's like physically attracted to me and having him in there
00:56:53with me has made me more insecure than ever
00:56:59so what are you thinking about surgery it's something that I've thought about for a long time now
00:57:05yeah I feel like sometimes I'll catch a glimpse of myself and I feel like I don't look any different
00:57:11than I did 140 pounds ago and I hate that
00:57:14yeah okay I see if you feel more confident when you do it just do it this is your life
00:57:24you have to make your own decisions that shows you how brave you are you know thank you I don't
00:57:33feel
00:57:34like it's brave though this feels exactly the opposite of brave I feel like scared and embarrassed
00:57:42like it's not brave but you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed you have the power to change
00:57:56your life you wanted a better body now you have it you lost all the weight you want this is
00:58:05the best
00:58:05part you just go into surgery and enjoy your rest of your life you know and you are gorgeous
00:58:18I will always be on your side okay
00:58:33I love how supportive Birkan is his words are so touching I feel like I'm finally starting to get
00:58:46some reassurance from him that yeah he really does love me and I can trust what he's saying
00:58:52you want to go now let's go okay
00:59:01you're the best I know that's my mojo
00:59:12since we've been dating have you talked romantically to any other girls
00:59:18no I don't I just don't want us to have any secrets so what about you
00:59:22when we match we're talking and one day we just go away can you just give me some details why
00:59:30you
00:59:30do this this prayer
00:59:42cute that is so cute that's like the cutest thing I've ever seen can we eat now
01:00:01this is so pretty yes you want to sit over here you can sit right at this table I'm feeling
01:00:07a little
01:00:08frustrated after the cooking class because I feel like the past couple days he's just been changing
01:00:14his story he's been telling different things to me online and in person oh this is what we need
01:00:20and then seeing what Siet is doing on social media I feel like he has something that he's hiding or
01:00:26that
01:00:26he doesn't want to tell me this is all the more reason that I think every girl needs to do
01:00:32a little bit
01:00:33of stalking I would never like show up at someone's house in the middle of the night like that's like
01:00:39creepy stalker status but you know like some light digging is like totally normal I investigate I don't stalk
01:00:54we did a really good job yeah should we try it
01:00:59taste at all mmm that's really good do you like it it's so delicious good
01:01:17you don't you don't eat yours there is yeah I'm eating no you eat nothing you just
01:01:24I have a lot on my mind for example
01:01:31I'm just like thinking about about what just like the whole
01:01:40argument we got into a couple weeks ago what when I found out that you were still talking to
01:01:45girls and you haven't talked to any girls since no so you don't talk to girls on your social media
01:01:52social media it's just people who know me I've been looking at your page every day you follow new
01:02:02girls just girls girls girls girls girls yeah there is it's like respect if someone follow me I
01:02:10follow him back so what if they message you do you respond to messages to just people who
01:02:16they know me or I know them if girls try to flirt with you what do you say I would
01:02:20say thanks that's all
01:02:22so since we've been dating have you talked romantically to any other girls I speak
01:02:30only we do like something romantic cuz you are my girl so so you don't think
01:02:38you've ever cheated on me no I don't you would never cheat no or lie no I just don't want
01:02:48us to
01:02:48have any secrets between each other for me everything on me I say to you I don't hide nothing
01:02:59anything she asked me I give her answers what's mean the beginning our relationship she did something
01:03:06that confused me and I never ask her about it sometimes I see her reaction how she talked with
01:03:14me it's like she has like secret or something inside here it's like I feel it I want to feel
01:03:24like I can trust you and that like you're not ever gonna do something behind my back like I don't
01:03:29ever want to have to worry about it I don't hide nothing so what about you do you have some
01:03:38secret to me
01:03:44now sure because I remember when we match we're talking and one day where is she I don't know you
01:03:57just go away so when you come back I was waiting for you to talk you doesn't talk
01:04:06can you just give me some details why you this this prayer I was just going through a bad breakup
01:04:16so
01:04:17no in in the sad moments when we talk you feel with someone or by yourself I was going through
01:04:24a
01:04:24breakup when we speak in the first time you you give me a picture of you like you are single
01:04:31you know
01:04:33and you are not you are still going through a breakup wake up I mean you're still talking with
01:04:40him like going through a breakup means still talking with him we were going through a breakup I have to
01:04:46repeat again I have to repeat no so you don't you don't want to tell a couple I was babe
01:04:51I was going
01:04:51through a breakup I thought that's my answer I was going through a breakup I wasn't in the right
01:04:56I had space to start a relationship um me and Zied have actually never talked about why I ended things
01:05:05with him when we first started dating so I'm really shocked to hear Zied bringing this up right now I
01:05:11mean
01:05:12honestly I did kind of just drop him and disappear because I was trying to make things work with my
01:05:17ex
01:05:20I really want to be open with Zied about Mohammed but I feel like with the way Zied is like
01:05:26badgering
01:05:27me for this information right now he wouldn't take it well so I'm just not really ready to tell him
01:05:36in this moment that was a long time ago right no I don't want to I want to I want
01:05:43to listen the
01:05:44details I'm here with you now and I want to be with you I'm not talking with now yeah what
01:05:48I know
01:05:48it's now because I want to be with you now and focus on right now us being together
01:05:55she's mean weird she don't want to tell me everything and when I speak with her in the
01:06:03subject she she changed the subject for another topic right now I see like she hiding a lot of
01:06:15things and I can't to be engaged with someone who's have this secret yeah I am very nervous because
01:06:32it has been almost a decade since I had sex well if the positions have changed do I still know
01:06:43how it's
01:06:43gonna go you ready for me now how is it all of a sudden you can miraculously change and stand
01:06:54up to
01:06:55your parents well my family isn't the bad people now the story changes again lying not keeping her
01:07:03story straight that's where I have an issue I still don't know if this isn't something that you're
01:07:09involved in either they're gonna have you snooker before you even realize it for us
01:07:26I'm so happy really yeah what you can just look at me all night
01:07:53I just met my wife for the first time in person man I dreamed about this day for a long
01:07:59time this is
01:08:00freaking huge right now we're on our way to the resort that Anna booked and it's a very surreal feeling
01:08:11before I before I met you I have a lot of thought about this daydream about this wild dream about
01:08:19this yeah what dreams about this but then it's funny because even though we're married I was a bit worried
01:08:28about it I was thinking like oh my god like am I gonna be shy but I feel like I
01:08:34can fart over here right now
01:08:40Anna's personality is a big ball of energy and she's a little wacky and she can literally hold a conversation
01:08:47all on her own
01:08:50pretty much the opposite of me but what can I say that's my wife
01:08:57so am I what you were expecting you're exactly what I was expecting
01:09:04my beautiful shatty wife
01:09:10here we are
01:09:15this is really nice
01:09:17that's why I pick it
01:09:18it's got good taste you know
01:09:21yes
01:09:23so
01:09:23ready
01:09:27okay
01:09:27you got it
01:09:28yeah
01:09:29good
01:09:29no
01:09:31you heavy
01:09:34no don't throw me away
01:09:36don't throw you
01:09:37no
01:09:39you may look tiny but you heavy though
01:09:42wow would you do all this
01:09:44yeah
01:09:45yeah
01:09:45okay
01:09:46okay
01:09:47I've been waiting on this night for six years
01:09:50it's our honeymoon and seeing the rose petals on the bed you know
01:09:55the environment's right for us to you know
01:10:01get it in
01:10:05yeah
01:10:07boo
01:10:07this is yours
01:10:11you can take off your
01:10:13these come with the room
01:10:14yeah
01:10:14okay
01:10:15you can take this off
01:10:16oh I'm kind of scared to take my socks off
01:10:19yeah
01:10:23ooh
01:10:23I can smell that
01:10:28ooh
01:10:30boy
01:10:33I was wearing boots
01:10:34I haven't took a shower in like
01:10:36why would you wear boots
01:10:3733 hours
01:10:3933 hour flight
01:10:43get a big whiff man
01:10:44that's what you're gonna have to deal with on a day-to-day basis
01:10:46you wanna take a shower
01:10:49please do
01:10:50all right
01:10:50okay
01:10:51I'll be right out
01:10:55I knew that I would learn a lot of things about Jubon
01:10:58but I did not expect that the feet would smell
01:11:04so badly
01:11:07smell terrible
01:11:14I am very nervous
01:11:17because
01:11:17oh my god
01:11:19never been with a man for a long time
01:11:22it has been almost a decade since I had sex
01:11:27okay
01:11:28yeah
01:11:28look at you
01:11:30better
01:11:30I am worried a little bit
01:11:32I'm not going to be able to satisfy him
01:11:36I don't know
01:11:38well if the positions have changed
01:11:41do I still know how it's gonna go
01:11:44like
01:11:44I don't know
01:11:51Jubon
01:11:51you ready for me
01:11:55hey
01:11:56yeah
01:11:57look at you
01:11:58mm-hmm
01:11:59good boo
01:12:02I know we have a lot to figure out about each other
01:12:05the next few weeks
01:12:07but so far
01:12:08Jubon and I are off to a really romantic start
01:12:12all right
01:12:12you ready
01:12:14but oh my god
01:12:16I've never seen any married couple that took three years before
01:12:21doing it
01:12:22wish me luck
01:12:26sweet
01:12:37sheena if we go
01:12:39and meet
01:12:40your parents
01:12:42I agree
01:12:43to not
01:12:44speak
01:12:45out of turn
01:12:46I don't believe you're going to do that
01:12:48and
01:12:49we
01:12:50cannot
01:12:51mess this up with sheena's family
01:13:04okay
01:13:06sheena
01:13:06your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along
01:13:12the cultural thing and the duty of the family
01:13:16now how is it all of a sudden under one day you can miraculously change and stand up to your
01:13:22parents
01:13:23well my family isn't the bad people
01:13:26it's just that probably got misunderstood
01:13:28oh but now the story changes again
01:13:31again
01:13:32you told me yourself
01:13:34yes mom
01:13:35that you are pressured and you're scared
01:13:38yes mom
01:13:39of your family remember
01:13:40I am
01:13:41you're scared of your family
01:13:43and I could know
01:13:44but now you feel totally safe and
01:13:47yes
01:13:47I understand
01:13:48how that switches
01:13:51sheena telling me that her parents aren't bad people
01:13:55it's like what what are you saying
01:13:58that's a total different story from what you've been telling me all along
01:14:03oh they're mistreating me
01:14:04they're gonna kick me out
01:14:06they call me names all of this and now the story switches
01:14:10it's hard to think bad of your parent
01:14:13you can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents
01:14:17where my problem is is her lying not keeping her story straight
01:14:22that's where I have an issue
01:14:25I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either
01:14:30it would be the most perfect setup for your family and you guys
01:14:34your family of course doesn't want you to leave this country and go to the united states
01:14:40so you get forced to come over there and then it's twice the amount of money
01:14:45to your parents
01:14:47and he will be the the grunt just like you are
01:14:51stop don't I don't do that
01:14:52I love my person
01:14:54I love your son
01:14:55I love more than anything
01:14:56I have self-respect for your son
01:14:57but I'm just saying my fear is
01:15:00Forrest is gonna stay and do anything
01:15:02just to keep your love
01:15:04and then find out that it was all a con
01:15:09mom
01:15:10you acting this way has proven my point
01:15:14I ask you to please just wait one day
01:15:18so I can go and greet Sheena's family
01:15:20that was it
01:15:21and look at where we're sitting right now
01:15:23you can't even hold your temper
01:15:26my mom is saying things that are way out of line
01:15:30Sheena is a person with such a kind heart
01:15:33that she would never do anything to put me in danger or hurt me
01:15:36I brought my mom to Manila to kind of support me and give me advice
01:15:44but instead she's always just nuking it
01:15:46which makes everything worse
01:15:50mom
01:15:51I don't think one day
01:15:53is truly going to change
01:15:55everything
01:15:56Forrest it's not even the point
01:15:57we can't even have a decision
01:15:59we've gone beyond that
01:16:00it's already gone beyond that
01:16:01you know why it's gone beyond that
01:16:03because of the fact
01:16:04that
01:16:05you don't
01:16:06trust me
01:16:11I have
01:16:12bust my ass
01:16:14trying
01:16:15to make sure
01:16:16to be there
01:16:18for you
01:16:19and to be there
01:16:20for her
01:16:20you think
01:16:21that if I didn't trust you
01:16:22that I would bring you
01:16:24all the way here to the Philippines
01:16:25that took
01:16:26a lot of trust
01:16:27to bring you here
01:16:30Forrest saying
01:16:31that he doesn't trust me
01:16:33that I won't blow up
01:16:35the reason why I blow up
01:16:37has always been
01:16:38to protect him
01:16:42but to see
01:16:43how
01:16:46he's taken
01:16:47that protection
01:16:48and made it a problem
01:16:50it's painful
01:16:52and I will not be
01:16:54anybody's problem
01:16:57you guys want your life
01:16:58you want your thing
01:16:59mom
01:16:59go handle it
01:17:00mom
01:17:01we're not trying to hurt you
01:17:02they're going to have you snookered
01:17:04before you even realize it
01:17:05Forrest
01:17:07so
01:17:07good luck guys
01:17:08good luck
01:17:11so
01:17:11how do you feel
01:17:12this conversation went
01:17:14did you get what you wanted
01:17:16yes
01:17:17it's for the best
01:17:18that she's not coming
01:17:28oh my god
01:17:29is it really you
01:17:36he devoured me
01:17:38when we get to the room
01:17:40then maybe I will
01:17:41cheer you
01:17:42oh my god
01:17:48you better stop
01:17:49oh my god
01:17:50Daniel
01:18:02I don't mind being here
01:18:03from morning to night
01:18:05I will wait
01:18:08I will wait
01:18:25I can't believe
01:18:26I'm finally about
01:18:27to meet Daniel
01:18:28excuse me
01:18:31hello
01:18:32this is
01:18:33a beginning chapter
01:18:35no matter what it is
01:18:37whether it's good or bad
01:18:38it's going to change
01:18:39everything in my life
01:18:40right now
01:19:01oh my god
01:19:11I want to look at you
01:19:12let me look at you
01:19:14it's beautiful
01:19:23oh my god
01:19:24I don't even have words
01:19:26for how I felt
01:19:27when I first saw Daniel
01:19:28he started running towards me
01:19:30and I was like
01:19:30oh my god
01:19:31that's him
01:19:32and my heart just exploded
01:19:34and
01:19:35and
01:19:36he devoured me
01:19:38Daniel
01:19:42oh my god
01:19:43Daniel
01:19:46when we get to the room
01:19:47then maybe I will
01:19:49cheer you
01:19:49no
01:19:50no
01:19:54oh my god
01:19:55you better stop
01:19:57oh my god
01:19:59oh my god
01:20:00is it really you
01:20:01is it really
01:20:02oh my god
01:20:03oh my god
01:20:14don't cry
01:20:15I'm trying not to cry
01:20:17don't you cry
01:20:18don't you cry
01:20:19I'm not happy
01:20:22she's more gorgeous
01:20:23than I think
01:20:24more beautiful
01:20:25than the flowers
01:20:26I gave her
01:20:28really
01:20:29yeah
01:20:29no I'm a mess
01:20:31I've been on a plane
01:20:32for hours
01:20:32no baby
01:20:33come on
01:20:34you're such an irisistable
01:20:35beautiful angel
01:20:37oh my god
01:20:38baby
01:20:39I love you
01:20:43oh my god
01:20:44I don't know what to do
01:20:45I don't know what to do next
01:20:47okay we should go
01:20:48let me get Mike
01:20:48are you going to get the luggage
01:20:49I will get this
01:20:50you get that one
01:20:52which way
01:20:53what the heck
01:21:07baby
01:21:11did you hear this for me
01:21:13did you really do this
01:21:16did you
01:21:24God
01:21:38I walked out
01:21:39and there's music
01:21:41and it's loud
01:21:42and there's dancers
01:21:43dancing around
01:21:44and I'm thinking
01:21:44what the hell
01:21:45is this how they welcome
01:21:46all foreigners
01:21:47into their country
01:21:48but no
01:21:50this is about me
01:21:51Daniel set this up
01:21:53for me
01:21:53what the hell
01:21:54is going on
01:21:55in here
01:21:55this is nuts
01:22:19I plan to welcome her
01:22:20like a queen
01:22:21that's why I invited
01:22:22traditional dancers
01:22:25I am happy
01:22:26that she joined
01:22:27the dancers
01:22:27and the way
01:22:28she's laughing
01:22:31I am very sure
01:22:33about this
01:22:34at this moment
01:22:44oh my god
01:22:45that was so amazing
01:22:49thank you
01:23:01what are you doing
01:23:19next time on
01:23:21before the 90 days
01:23:22this one is for you
01:23:27that's the one
01:23:28today we're traveling
01:23:29meet Sheena's family
01:23:30with our goal
01:23:31of getting their
01:23:32blessing to be married
01:23:34they have a lot
01:23:34of questions for you
01:23:35first
01:23:36it's your career
01:23:38the truth is
01:23:40I'm quite frustrated
01:23:41for us
01:23:42haven't saved anything
01:23:43for our future
01:23:43you're an adult
01:23:45you can find a job
01:23:46you have to be
01:23:47man out of it
01:23:49I brought condoms
01:23:51too baby
01:23:51go take your shower
01:23:52get everything ready
01:23:54it's been 21 years
01:23:56since I've been
01:23:56with a man
01:23:57let me take your shower
01:23:58I want it to happen
01:24:00wait
01:24:00what if I want it
01:24:01and he doesn't want me
01:24:08when we first
01:24:09started talking
01:24:10he was so sweet
01:24:12calling me his wife
01:24:13within like 10 minutes
01:24:15so you are looking
01:24:16to get married
01:24:17yes
01:24:24she lied about something
01:24:27sometimes you overstep
01:24:29just a little bit
01:24:30we had that argument
01:24:32and you call my sister
01:24:34I love you
01:24:35but you are
01:24:36a little bit unhinged
01:24:38oh my god
01:24:40I can't believe
01:24:41you're born right now
01:24:42you done?
01:24:43done with this conversation
01:24:47well this is something
01:24:49you didn't tell me about
01:24:50wait stop
01:24:50can you just calm down
01:24:51because I wanted to
01:24:53you've been holding a secret
01:24:53for what
01:24:54four months now?
01:24:55now I'm thinking
01:24:56her ghosting me
01:24:57for five days
01:24:58directly has to be
01:25:00with her ex
01:25:01the wizard
01:25:02I didn't told you
01:25:04is
01:25:04you're trying
01:25:06to get me back
01:25:10I went to Istanbul
01:25:11but I couldn't find a job
01:25:14so with my debts
01:25:16I am just broke
01:25:18did you say your debts?
01:25:20yeah
01:25:21how much is it?
01:25:25I don't want to give you
01:25:27a heart attack
01:25:28I don't want to give you
01:25:29I know
01:25:29I hope I love you
01:25:29I love you
01:25:29and I was just
01:25:30and my uncle
01:25:30and I don't start
01:25:30I look for your parents
01:25:30and my son
01:25:30and my uncle
01:25:30and my son
01:25:31and my son
01:25:31I love you
01:25:31and my son
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