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In this video we explore why highly intelligent teenagers tend to have sex later, what the famous “marshmallow test” has to do with libido, and how the brain’s dopamine system drives both ambition and desire.

You’ll also learn about the DRD4 gene, the neuroscience behind creativity and novelty-seeking, and why traits linked to innovation can also be linked to sexual adventurousness.

Along the way we look at some famous historical examples — from Isaac Newton to Nikola Tesla and Pablo Picasso — and discuss the idea of sapiosexuality: attraction to intelligence.

Is the brain of a genius similar to the brain of someone with a very high sex drive?
And why does dopamine make us constantly want “more”?

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00:00newton discovered the laws of gravity laid the foundations of optics and basically invented
00:05calculus on his own he also by most accounts never had sex not once freud spent his entire
00:11life studying sexual desire and wrote thousands of pages about it that's not the same as actually
00:16having it but still pretty telling so do smart people want sex more or less than everyone else
00:22today we're getting into it no shame just neuroscience and hopefully a good time
00:28a study published in the journal of adolescent health found that smarter teenagers have sex
00:34later significantly later they hold hands later kiss later do everything else later sure makes
00:40sense homework college prep but here's the thing their desire isn't lower intellectually advanced
00:46teenagers report just as much sexual interest as their last academically focused peers they just
00:52postpone it it's like knowing there's a cake in a fridge by deciding to finish the report first
00:57researchers call this the protective effect of intelligence smarter kids have better impulse
01:03control they are more involved in structured activities and they make more deliberate choices
01:08not because they don't want to because they are good at waiting and that by the way is the same
01:13trait psychologists link to success later in life the famous marshmallow test the ability to delay
01:19gratification for a bigger reward predicts carrier achievement even better than iq does so the
01:25delayed sexual debut of smart teenagers isn't a lack of interest it's the same superpower that
01:30later helps them build carriers launch startups and not eat the cake before the report is done
01:38now let's talk chemistry because there's no getting around it dopamine you've heard of it people
01:43usually call it the pleasure hormone but that's not quite right dopamine is the hormone of anticipation
01:49the i want chemical u.s scientist daniel liberman explains it this way in his book the molecule of
01:56more dopamine drives us toward a goal but the moment we reach it dopamine disappears it gets replaced by
02:03other neurotransmitters serotonin oxytocin endocannabinoids the ones that make you feel warm and content
02:09and then dopamine comes back and says okay what's next it's never ending ending that's why reaching
02:15a big goal often brings a strange emptiness right after your brain is already looking for the next one
02:20and here's there it gets interesting the exact same mechanism drives sexual desire dopamine is what makes
02:26us want then it fades then it comes back and says more and the more active your dopamine system the
02:32stronger that cycle runs in highly intelligent people the dopamine system appears to run hotter it explains
02:39they drive toward new goals new ideas new challenges but and this is where it all connects it also
02:45explains higher sexual desire in adulthood same mechanism same molecule put simply the brain of a
02:52genius and the pain of someone with a very high sex drive it's the same brain just pointed in different
02:58directions here where it gets really interesting researchers found that variations in the drd4 gene that's the
03:07dopamine d4 receptor gene are linked to three things at once a tendency toward infidelity sexual
03:13adventurousness and creative thinking wait the same gene that influences how creatively gifted someone is
03:20also influences how likely they are to stray in a relationship yeah and it's not a coincidence
03:26creativity is about breaking patterns finding unconventional solutions going beyond the expected
03:32sexual adventurousness is also in a sense about stepping outside of conventional norms liberman
03:38writes that people with a highly active dopamine system share one fundamental trait they can stay
03:43satisfied with what they already have for long they reach a goal and they are already eyeing the next
03:49one that makes them engines of progress it also makes them somewhat complicated long-term partners and
03:54honestly looking at the biographies of great scientists artists and philosophers this checks out newton was
04:01socially isolated tesla had no interest in relationships whatsoever picasso on the other hand was very
04:07interested and the number of his romantic relationships was roughly comparable to the number of his paintings
04:12both extremes same dopamine some people channel it into physics others channel it elsewhere
04:20now let's talk about why smart people also tend to attract more people there's a term for this
04:25i suppose sexuality attraction to intelligent people is not just a quirky word from tinder bios
04:31well yeah it's there too from an evolutionary standpoint it makes complete sense intelligence
04:37signals genetic quality the smart partner is more likely to secure resources solve problems navigate
04:43hard situations and pass on good genes so if you find yourself drawn to people who can explain
04:49complicated things clearly that's not a weird niche preference that's your evolutionary programming working
04:54exactly as intended high desire in intellectually developed people combined with their natural
05:00appeal to others might not be a bug at all smart people want more and more people want them pretty
05:05efficient system so where does that leave us the connection between intelligence dopamine and sexuality
05:14is real but complicated it's a tendency not a law the brain isn't simple machine so if you're a smart
05:20person
05:20with a strong sex drive you now have a neuroscientific explanation use it wisely if you're a smart person with
05:27no
05:27particular interest in any of this your dopamine is probably just fully committed to work that's fine too
05:33and newton well newton really loved physics that's all for now bye
05:38you
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