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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 32
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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Maffs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel
00:00:09Schilling.
00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.
00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.
00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.
00:00:21She bought fun and joy, humour.
00:00:24But she also bought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.
00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.
00:00:37She was a fighter.
00:00:38She was a leader.
00:00:40She was an inspiration.
00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.
00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us, and it's not fair.
00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.
00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.
00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.
00:01:46I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:01:49I've got my reassurances.
00:01:50We are coming out stronger.
00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:02:09I can't see this working.
00:02:11It's all good.
00:02:11It is what it is.
00:02:13It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:02:18You want to have a family.
00:02:20You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:02:27Just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here and what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:02:33Leaving David disheartened.
00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:02:40Tonight.
00:02:40Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:02:43But when you're dealing with the mum, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:02:49And she still sees negatives.
00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.
00:02:53Has David reached his limit?
00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:02:58You never say space.
00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:03:05I can see we can do life together.
00:03:07But I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:03:15Who would have thought?
00:03:16Who would have thought?
00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:03:22But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:03:32But I've never been aggressive to you.
00:03:35And then...
00:03:36I think, like, for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:03:40Oh, God.
00:03:41Oh, my God.
00:03:43What are you on about?
00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:03:49That was not what I was getting at.
00:03:51Are we serious for this?
00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay
00:04:10and our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness
00:04:14after stepping into the life that could be waiting for them
00:04:19outside the experiment.
00:04:20Hi.
00:04:22Hey.
00:04:22Bonjour.
00:04:23Bonjour.
00:04:24Recharged and hopeful,
00:04:26the couples now turn their attention
00:04:28to the second last dinner party of the experiment,
00:04:32eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:04:35Are you excited?
00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time
00:04:40since we caught up with everyone.
00:04:43We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:04:46It's going to be exciting.
00:04:47A lot of gossip come up.
00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.
00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:04:54Yeah.
00:04:55Really?
00:04:55How come?
00:04:55We went through...
00:04:57The ups and downs.
00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.
00:04:59The trenches.
00:05:00But coming out at the end of it, good.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:02Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:05:05For Rachel and Stephen,
00:05:08Homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage,
00:05:11unlocking a new confidence in their relationship.
00:05:14Hello, hello.
00:05:15Hello, sexy.
00:05:17Looking good.
00:05:17I appreciate that.
00:05:18I like the red.
00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of Homestays
00:05:21and it was amazing.
00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:05:25It was that this could work.
00:05:28I think that's really what it is.
00:05:30I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again
00:05:32and get straight back up to the Central Coast
00:05:34and just, you know, start hanging out.
00:05:37And, yeah, so it was really good.
00:05:40We had such a great homestay
00:05:42and I'm actually just really excited
00:05:44to share that with everyone.
00:05:46And that's it.
00:05:47And I'm glad you had a good time
00:05:48and you could see, you know,
00:05:49a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:05:54After Homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:05:59Like I said to Rachel,
00:06:00can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:06:03Yes, I can.
00:06:04And I mean that.
00:06:06And Homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:06:09I think we're really lucky.
00:06:12You know, other couples may not have had a good Homestay,
00:06:14so we're really lucky to have had
00:06:16the good experience that we did.
00:06:19While Homestays brought some closer...
00:06:23..for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home
00:06:26presented new challenges.
00:06:28What's that?
00:06:29It's a neck brace.
00:06:31Why is it pink?
00:06:32Why is it pink? Why not?
00:06:34You're trying to find a problem.
00:06:36Is it your exes or something?
00:06:37Do you trust me?
00:06:38Like, do you trust my words?
00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?
00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.
00:06:43Yeah, why?
00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells
00:06:47because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
00:06:49I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:06:52I know I trust you,
00:06:53but can I commit to moving and everything
00:06:55if you never feel like, you know, that you love me?
00:06:59But back at the apartments,
00:07:01eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset
00:07:04and look on the bright side.
00:07:06I feel great.
00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party,
00:07:10being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.
00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.
00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night
00:07:17to share what we've done for Homestays.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:21At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion,
00:07:24but we hashed it out.
00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.
00:07:30We're great. We're in a really good place.
00:07:31I want to keep it like that.
00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:07:38Coming to the end now.
00:07:39This is the last or second last one.
00:07:41Mm.
00:07:42So, yeah.
00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems
00:07:46if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:07:51Oh...
00:07:54Pretty much.
00:07:55Let's just do it. Get it done.
00:07:58I'm excited.
00:07:59You look good, we feel good,
00:08:00and I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:08:04Yep, me too.
00:08:07For Bec and Danny,
00:08:09what began as a promising homestay
00:08:11took a dramatic turn.
00:08:14If my family felt the need
00:08:15to have hard conversations with you,
00:08:19they would.
00:08:20I think, obviously,
00:08:21because Danielle fancied me,
00:08:22she didn't want to, like...
00:08:27I'm joking.
00:08:28I'm joking.
00:08:29It's like a serious moment.
00:08:33These moments make me feel like shit.
00:08:36It's serious for me.
00:08:37You should be able to say something nice
00:08:39and be genuine about it
00:08:40and then not say,
00:08:41oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:08:43Like...
00:08:44I never said that.
00:08:45Yeah, I'm done.
00:08:46F***ing morning.
00:08:48F***ing me.
00:08:50F***ing...
00:08:52And now back at the apartment,
00:08:54an even bigger shock awaits.
00:09:00So, since we got back to Sydney
00:09:03from homestays,
00:09:04things look great.
00:09:05Like...
00:09:06Cheers, baby.
00:09:07Cheers, girl.
00:09:08The last night, like...
00:09:09Since we've been back,
00:09:11like, there's not really any need
00:09:12to talk about it.
00:09:12Like, he made a joke.
00:09:14It frustrated me.
00:09:16He got frustrated with me.
00:09:18And then we wake up the next morning,
00:09:19we give each other a cuddle,
00:09:21we have a shag,
00:09:22and we move on.
00:09:23Cheers.
00:09:24It's all blown over.
00:09:26Like...
00:09:27Shocking.
00:09:28Oh, stop it!
00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:09:31For most couples,
00:09:33homestays brought them together.
00:09:35But for one couple,
00:09:36it marked the end of the road.
00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight,
00:09:41yeah, I'm going alone.
00:09:43And obviously,
00:09:43Chris and I left each other
00:09:44at homestays.
00:09:46I wrote some questions down,
00:09:48and maybe we could just be, like,
00:09:50really raw and honest with each other
00:09:52about all the answers.
00:09:55First question is...
00:09:57Do you accept full responsibility
00:09:58for your defensiveness
00:09:59and the aggression I felt
00:10:00from you last week?
00:10:04Yeah.
00:10:06You don't have to agree.
00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.
00:10:08Yeah.
00:10:08I just feel like we've...
00:10:09I've already suffered enough from this.
00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um,
00:10:1415, getting in trouble
00:10:15by a teacher or something.
00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?
00:10:20Um...
00:10:21Okay, okay.
00:10:22Um...
00:10:24In the beginning,
00:10:25uh, yes.
00:10:26But I just think, um,
00:10:29yeah, we also have some, um,
00:10:31differences as well.
00:10:32And I just wanted to put my dad hat on
00:10:35and, like, live my best life.
00:10:38Homestays was my last plea
00:10:41to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:10:47So, I did break up with Chris on the farm.
00:10:50But I'm going to the dinner party
00:10:52because I want that last chance
00:10:54to sort of just, like,
00:10:56find out why Chris
00:10:57actually didn't want this relationship.
00:11:01I just want clarity
00:11:02on what the hell happened.
00:11:04But Sam isn't the only one
00:11:06struggling with the fallout
00:11:08of their homestay.
00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide,
00:11:12Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide,
00:11:16but what are your thoughts
00:11:19about me moving to Sydney
00:11:20just for a couple of years?
00:11:22I would hate that.
00:11:26Um, you know,
00:11:27you want to have a family
00:11:28and you don't want to
00:11:31keep putting it off.
00:11:33People sometimes take 10 years
00:11:35to fall pregnant.
00:11:36That's the truth.
00:11:37Yeah, I know, but, well,
00:11:38I don't know that yet.
00:11:38I've never tried.
00:11:39That's right.
00:11:40But you don't know that.
00:11:42A couple of years?
00:11:44A couple of years.
00:11:45I don't think you've got
00:11:45a couple of years to wait.
00:11:49It's really stressful now.
00:11:51I'm feeling a lot online.
00:11:52And after a confronting
00:11:54conversation with her mum,
00:11:56Alyssa unraveled
00:11:57and David was left
00:11:58wondering where he fits.
00:12:00I will be honest with you.
00:12:04I started to spiral.
00:12:06Like, I want to have a family
00:12:07in the next few years.
00:12:10Don't want to miss out
00:12:11on being a mum.
00:12:11And if we're going to
00:12:13make this thing work,
00:12:14David might have to
00:12:15move to Adelaide.
00:12:16Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe.
00:12:18I have to ask this to you.
00:12:20You've sat here
00:12:20and you've talked a lot
00:12:21about what your wants
00:12:22and needs are.
00:12:24Mm.
00:12:27What about...
00:12:27Yeah, David.
00:12:30Now back at the apartments,
00:12:32David has had a wake-up call
00:12:34of his own.
00:12:38Oh, man, I'm feeling
00:12:40at my limit
00:12:41post-homestays.
00:12:46Can I see myself
00:12:48living in Adelaide?
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:50But, you know,
00:12:51after having, you know,
00:12:52come back to Sydney
00:12:53and having time to just
00:12:55come down
00:12:56from the high of homestays,
00:12:57I am feeling a bit low.
00:12:59And that is because
00:13:00there were a couple things
00:13:01that have still, like,
00:13:04trinkled in the back
00:13:05of my mind.
00:13:06Could you see yourself
00:13:07living here?
00:13:10To be honest, yeah.
00:13:13I know that you're willing
00:13:14to move here,
00:13:16which is great,
00:13:17but I don't know,
00:13:18I feel like I'm getting
00:13:19overwhelmed with it
00:13:20because you're, like,
00:13:21literally on the high
00:13:22spiral.
00:13:23I am, I am, I am,
00:13:24because it's, like,
00:13:25a lot.
00:13:27David actually is
00:13:28everything that you've
00:13:29asked for.
00:13:30I know.
00:13:30Right now,
00:13:31this is too good
00:13:31to be true.
00:13:32Like, and that is
00:13:33also another reason
00:13:34why I'm scared, too.
00:13:36Throughout this
00:13:37experiment,
00:13:38I have been patient
00:13:39because I know
00:13:40there is something
00:13:41in this relationship
00:13:42to fight for,
00:13:43but when you get
00:13:44to that point
00:13:46where, like,
00:13:46you're dealing with,
00:13:47like, the mum,
00:13:48the family,
00:13:49friends,
00:13:49they all said
00:13:50that I'm a great
00:13:51guy for her
00:13:52and she still
00:13:53sees negatives,
00:13:54there's nothing
00:13:55else I can do.
00:13:57I've hit my limit
00:13:58and I'm not going
00:13:59to push any further.
00:14:01It's getting very
00:14:02real that I could
00:14:03potentially be
00:14:05putting everything
00:14:06on the line
00:14:06for someone
00:14:07who doesn't want
00:14:08to meet me
00:14:09halfway.
00:14:10So, today I know
00:14:11I need to be honest.
00:14:13For me,
00:14:13I think it's important
00:14:14to just express
00:14:15how I feel.
00:14:17Looking handsome.
00:14:18Thanks, babe.
00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.
00:14:20I love the dress.
00:14:21Well, we're kind of
00:14:22almost matching.
00:14:25How are you feeling
00:14:26going to the dinner
00:14:27party after homestays?
00:14:31Homestays was a massive,
00:14:32massive week.
00:14:35So, I'm at the point
00:14:36where, like I said,
00:14:38you know,
00:14:38I'm happy to give
00:14:39all the space you need.
00:14:42I'll take the space
00:14:43I need
00:14:43because I definitely
00:14:44need space.
00:14:45Yeah, like I feel like
00:14:46I've just gone
00:14:47and put it all
00:14:47on the line
00:14:50and, you know,
00:14:50at the end
00:14:51I'm not going
00:14:51to force anything.
00:14:55That's the first time
00:14:56I've ever heard you
00:14:57say that you need space.
00:14:59I know, but I do.
00:15:00You never say space.
00:15:01You're always like,
00:15:02you're more like,
00:15:03let's, like,
00:15:03whatever.
00:15:04This is the first time
00:15:05you've ever said space.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:08That kind of, like,
00:15:10rattled me a little bit.
00:15:11Normally I'm the one
00:15:12that needs space.
00:15:13So, you know what,
00:15:14if he needs space,
00:15:15gladly,
00:15:16because I need space
00:15:17right now
00:15:18just from my head
00:15:19and I don't need
00:15:19any of this pressure
00:15:20right now.
00:15:21I feel like I'm
00:15:22at my tether.
00:15:23I feel like he's
00:15:24at his tether.
00:15:24We're both tired
00:15:26and he's been snoring
00:15:27louder than usual
00:15:28like it's just been
00:15:29a bit of an emotional
00:15:31rollercoaster.
00:15:32The reason I need space
00:15:33because, yeah,
00:15:34I am a calm person
00:15:35but I'd get into my limit
00:15:37where I just need
00:15:38to take some space
00:15:39for my own brain
00:15:40because I feel like
00:15:41I put my cards
00:15:42on the table
00:15:44but it almost felt
00:15:45like you were just
00:15:45looking for the negatives
00:15:46and when someone's
00:15:48looking for the negatives
00:15:48too much
00:15:49of why things can't work,
00:15:50like, I'm not gonna
00:15:51force that.
00:15:52I'm not gonna force
00:15:52a connection
00:15:53if it's just me
00:15:54looking for the positives
00:15:55and someone else
00:15:56is looking for anything
00:15:57to be like,
00:15:58why this can't work.
00:16:01I would be
00:16:03lying to you
00:16:04if I said I wasn't
00:16:05questioning things
00:16:06right now
00:16:06and questioning
00:16:07our relationship.
00:16:08I am in that headspace.
00:16:11So I'm not
00:16:12going into the dinner
00:16:13party with Alyssa
00:16:14feeling my best self.
00:16:16I'm sure you're
00:16:17in a similar boat.
00:16:18Babe, I'm just
00:16:19as tired as you.
00:16:20Yeah, exactly.
00:16:21I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:22Exactly, yeah.
00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:26I get it.
00:16:35It'll be the honour
00:16:36of getting up.
00:16:37Let's get out of here.
00:16:37Yep.
00:16:38Let's go.
00:16:42Up to you.
00:16:43After me, thanks.
00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.
00:16:50I don't want to do this.
00:16:53I don't want to do this.
00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven,
00:17:07the second last one
00:17:09before we wind this all up.
00:17:12And it is a very important one
00:17:13because they've come back
00:17:15from the homestays
00:17:17as they start to get a glimpse
00:17:19of what their life
00:17:20will be like
00:17:20with this person
00:17:21in the real world.
00:17:24This is a really crucial part
00:17:25of the experiment for them
00:17:27because some of them
00:17:27will bond closer together
00:17:30through the homestays.
00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.
00:17:33What about you?
00:17:34Are you excited?
00:17:35I'm excited.
00:17:36Whereas others will start
00:17:37to really fall apart
00:17:38and question their overall compatibility
00:17:40with their matches.
00:17:45It's noisy.
00:17:47They'll hear that
00:17:48in the mics.
00:17:48They'll hear that.
00:17:49And you do that all the time.
00:17:50You don't even realise.
00:17:56Well, the homestays throws up
00:17:58the ultimate question.
00:17:59Could this relationship last
00:18:01in the outside world?
00:18:03We're going to see you tonight.
00:18:09Aw, first in.
00:18:11First one's in.
00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.
00:18:16No one to talk to you
00:18:17but ourselves.
00:18:19Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:18:22Straight to the bar.
00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.
00:18:24I don't think I've seen Stephen
00:18:26look so relaxed
00:18:27and so really walking in
00:18:29with Rachel as we are today.
00:18:32Very unified.
00:18:33Tell me when.
00:18:35That's good.
00:18:36Oh, my gosh.
00:18:37Thank you so much.
00:18:39Got to look after you.
00:18:40Aw, I appreciate it.
00:18:43Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:18:46We're first in there.
00:18:46We're pouring drinks.
00:18:47We're cracking jokes.
00:18:48I'll just take this with me.
00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?
00:18:50Okay.
00:18:52It's probably the most relaxed
00:18:53I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:18:54We're in a good place.
00:18:56Mm.
00:18:57Do you want me to...
00:19:00Do you want me to open it?
00:19:01Is there a real opener?
00:19:01No, definitely.
00:19:04Got it?
00:19:05There you go.
00:19:05We're both so keen to get out of this experiment.
00:19:09See where life takes us.
00:19:11Especially after the homestays.
00:19:13All righty.
00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.
00:19:15Here we are.
00:19:16Cheers.
00:19:18Hopefully, you know, it's just us.
00:19:20We can have all the food and the drink.
00:19:22I mean, I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:19:26I mean, I'm just...
00:19:28I think I'm just really, really excited
00:19:29to share how much fun we had
00:19:31and, like, and how good it was.
00:19:35Isn't that nice that a couple
00:19:37is sitting here talking about themselves,
00:19:39not everybody else?
00:19:40Yes.
00:19:41This is great.
00:19:42Check it out, babe.
00:19:44You're going to make me blush.
00:19:46And the enthusiasm...
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:48..in Rachel's voice and face
00:19:50as she is just excited to tell people the good news
00:19:52they had a good week.
00:20:04Stop rubbing your knee.
00:20:05Oh, me.
00:20:09I'm trying to understand you
00:20:10because I don't understand you.
00:20:11You're confusing the out me.
00:20:13Well...
00:20:28This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:20:30I need space.
00:20:33It sounds really bad.
00:20:35Does it?
00:20:36Yes.
00:20:38So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:20:40It's not taking space from each other.
00:20:43It's just taking space to process everything.
00:20:47OK.
00:20:52Oh, look who it is.
00:20:59Oh, look who it is.
00:21:15Oh, my God!
00:21:21Oh, my God!
00:21:23Oh, my God!
00:21:24and david hang on how are you mates dude that's all i can do good to see you likewise you're
00:21:34looking good oh that's some energy there isn't it oh at first yeah first you guys
00:21:40oh yeah we've got a lot to evaluate let's just get some uh evaluate okay okay
00:21:55so are you prepared for everyone to find out that i'm a better fisherman than you or oh hang on
00:22:00whoa
00:22:05walking into the cocktail party tonight you know i was obviously i've been on a load post the
00:22:11homestays i've sort of just been feeling deflated oh right in my face and i did make it known to
00:22:20alissa that you know i am sort of one in my own space you know in my head just to
00:22:24sort of figure
00:22:25things out um so i did walk in on a low
00:22:31oh
00:22:32here we go what's up scott and gia just spin
00:22:38little
00:22:49walking into the cocktail party tonight with gr like you know we're not perfect we still have
00:22:53a couple things to work on get a drink and get in here brother i always look at the bright
00:22:57side if
00:22:58there's something that's really bad i just see the more good in someone do we carry that thanks
00:23:06all right chris why don't you tell me what's running through your head going into this
00:23:10one saving grace for me is that last time i was in this car with um sam it was just
00:23:15so yucky and
00:23:16awkward so i'm grateful not to have that you know at the moment well it was so awkward you could
00:23:22cut
00:23:22the tension with a knife and i could not wait to get out of the car i just hope this
00:23:28um you know
00:23:30situation with sam and i can get squashed pretty quickly so i can have a a couple of shams and
00:23:35try
00:23:35and enjoy my night yeah no this is definitely not how i expected to be going to a dinner party
00:23:41in
00:23:41the experiment i think chris and i started off really strong everything was going good and then
00:23:45at some point he just flipped and it all just sort of fell apart and i don't really know what
00:23:50that
00:23:50flip was into him you know if sam's coming tonight oh i definitely know he'll be going
00:23:58yeah he wants to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty on our dirty
00:24:05laundry
00:24:06but you know what there's two sides to this story and coming to the dinner party to back myself
00:24:11and say my side of the story
00:24:19yeah and that's what we're going to be
00:24:20oh oh
00:24:26chris is alone
00:24:27ew how are you going
00:24:28okay okay that's a surprise hi hey bud so chris walks in solo well that's not my prediction
00:24:38i mean they were very bad at the commitment ceremony chris had written leave
00:24:45sam was absolutely in tears about it all there was a hope that the homestay they might be able
00:24:50to turn it around but this looks like it's actually uh not been salvaged
00:24:56yeah yeah i'm all right you look very tanned thanks babe but um the fit's good the fit's good
00:25:00my life's not i would love one your life is okay yeah thanks
00:25:04this ship yeah you got this ship yes obviously didn't work out wait wait wait wait wait i feel
00:25:11like maybe sam and i can unpack it together okay all right yeah don't want to talk about
00:25:15no i'll give you i'll give you a little run i'll give you a little rundown it's really hard seeing
00:25:19them not walking together because i genuinely had hope that they would get past this the seeing
00:25:25chris walking in by himself like it was genuinely like pretty heart breaks
00:25:31basically um yeah um sam ended it with me two days into homestays
00:25:36he ended it with you this is the second day he ended it yeah yeah he ended it with you
00:25:41yeah
00:25:42oh sam ended it i wonder why yes i wonder why obviously we had like a you know a pretty
00:25:48bad couch session i took accountability i decided that i wanted to learn and grow from the feedback that
00:25:55i got um so i went into homestays trying to turn it around gia knows i spoke with you about
00:26:00it
00:26:00morning flowers made him dinner i tried everything that i could to turn it around but unfortunately
00:26:05um yeah it didn't work for us and it was really it was a real shock because i thought we
00:26:10were actually
00:26:10doing quite well like you know i started to get those feelings back for him again so so chris was
00:26:15saying he started getting feelings for sam again okay so he was shocked by it blindsided so it's pretty
00:26:23it's pretty sad um but i respect sam's decision to exit um and we actually weren't even going to
00:26:29come tonight like they we he left the farm we were just going to leave it at that because we
00:26:33unpacked
00:26:33a lot of it um but i've decided to give sam the respect of coming tonight so we can both
00:26:37amazing talk
00:26:38to you guys about it and um let you know what's happened and then sit in front of the experts
00:26:42and
00:26:43yeah get their advice but like no ill feelings towards sam i respect his decision but yeah
00:26:48she's single again
00:26:55alissa how was yours
00:26:57i feel like i'm still processing everything yeah it's crunch time right it's crunch time yeah
00:27:08um but we'll talk about it later at the dinner party okay
00:27:21philip and stella
00:27:23hi babe you look amazing
00:27:30for the best part we had a really good homestay you know i got clarity so it's been decided i
00:27:37will
00:27:38be making that move happen sooner rather than later he looks tan do you get a spray tan huh
00:27:43do you know we went to the beach what the hell and i just thought you know what like it's
00:27:47time to go for
00:27:47an adventure
00:27:57uh he's beck and danny beck and danny
00:28:02hello i'm feeling phenomenal walking into this cocktail party tonight danny and i are in a great
00:28:08spot we are planning our future together we had great homestays and i've got no beef with anyone oh my
00:28:16god pigs fly what the hell i'm not arguing with anyone hello how was homestays cheers how'd you go
00:28:25how was it how was it how was it how did you go how was it how did you go
00:28:28how did you go
00:28:32like i got back and i was a bit drained to tell you the truth it was it's a lot
00:28:37like i felt a
00:28:38bit uncomfortable in her house and i felt a bit out of place and it made me did think about
00:28:41like
00:28:42the logistics of the move more like how it's going to work
00:28:46because I'm not just going to move in with that and live like,
00:28:50oh, put my feet up, this is rent-free.
00:28:52That doesn't sit well with me, so it just solidified
00:28:55there's more things we need to talk about.
00:28:57Of course.
00:29:00So, yeah, we're going to do it, I think.
00:29:03Yeah, awesome.
00:29:04Crazy.
00:29:05How about?
00:29:06I think Danny and I are probably the strongest in the experiment,
00:29:09if I'm honest with you, and, like,
00:29:11it feels like it can only go up from here.
00:29:18Coming up...
00:29:19I would never just move in.
00:29:22Danny's jaw-dropping confession...
00:29:24From my point of view, anyway, I suppose everyone looks at it different,
00:29:26but it makes you feel like a...
00:29:28..has the whole table talking.
00:29:30What are you on about?
00:29:32I'll be honest.
00:29:34Oh, my God.
00:29:35Oh, my God.
00:29:48Here we go.
00:29:54When did you talk to him last?
00:29:55Um, the last time he spoke to me was, um, the Friday after he left,
00:30:01and all he said was that he wanted to come to the dinner party
00:30:03for the Samarani.
00:30:06Yeah, I don't know what the energy is going to be like with Sam.
00:30:08I hope he comes in, like, nice.
00:30:12I just, yeah, I just can't deal with any more, you know?
00:30:20Oh!
00:30:22Yo!
00:30:25Hello, everyone.
00:30:26Oh, here's Sam.
00:30:27Oh, here he is.
00:30:28How you going?
00:30:29Good, how are you?
00:30:30Good.
00:30:30You look nice.
00:30:31Yeah, how are you?
00:30:32Not too bad.
00:30:34Hello.
00:30:36Sam.
00:30:37How are you, Matt?
00:30:38Well, I'm hugging, like, chest height,
00:30:40but I've got a vertical problem.
00:30:45I hope he doesn't come at me like why you worry I just just worry no I just can't deal
00:30:53with it like
00:30:55all right now you're okay how are you sure are you okay uh still a bit like there was no
00:31:04real
00:31:04effort while we're away but we'll get into it at the table yeah no no he's given us a bit
00:31:09of a
00:31:09grief what was he says um that you guys you know went to homestays and I can't dinner one night
00:31:17or
00:31:17you guys have dinner together one night and he thought the first night was going okay um and
00:31:22then obviously you guys both had a chat and decided that it was yeah yeah dude he didn't drive you
00:31:31took
00:31:32you're eating up this bullshit don't eat up this bullshit
00:31:39dinner is sir okay let's go let's go babes you got it let's go mate
00:31:47all righty well let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin we will get to the bottom of what
00:31:54actually happened at the homestay between Sam and Chris yes we need to understand what actually went
00:31:59on there cheers guys cheers cheers you got the um you got the tits out again oh yeah tits out
00:32:15for the
00:32:15boys yeah wow it's very tense isn't that Chris Sam
00:32:44I really want to talk about from our perspective what led me to the decision to end things yeah and
00:32:50how I felt the whole homestay so yeah tonight is going to be shit I Sam and I have already
00:33:02hashed this
00:33:03out at the farm um we're revisiting it in front of the group so for me this is not comfortable
00:33:08um I'm
00:33:10hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly and I just want to get this over and
00:33:13done with
00:33:16hope Sam gets the closure that he needs and we can um yeah move on I feel like we both
00:33:22just need
00:33:22to say everything that got us to this point um especially with meeting the experts tomorrow I want
00:33:28to get as much as I can out of this experience um yeah we've mentioned it at the cocktail party
00:33:33that
00:33:34we you know well you you decided to um end it so um yeah like I I didn't really fight
00:33:41that at all you
00:33:42were like also just like okay because I I had given so much to try and make it work I
00:33:48don't want to come
00:33:52oh my god here we go again
00:33:58if Chris thinks that's loads of effort I feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in the future like
00:34:05yeah
00:34:08can I ask a question
00:34:11how did Sam end the relationship and where and how did it happen
00:34:14I could I tell the whole story I want you guys both to say it
00:34:18yeah yeah so homestays obviously you all saw the last commitment ceremony um I wrote stay and
00:34:25Chris for it leave and that was really hard for me to battle with personally because I did have
00:34:29feelings for Chris so I like obviously now I'm very nervous going into homestays and we get to the car
00:34:35to drive down and I'm like just sitting in the car and it's so uncomfortable and I'm I like
00:34:41literally just like shut my eyes and kind of pretend that I'm sleeping and then I get to the farm
00:34:45and then I do try to have fun and have a good time I wake up the next morning and
00:34:52Chris is nowhere to be seen
00:34:55no message no note
00:34:58I'm just there sitting for an hour in his house at his place with no car just by myself and
00:35:04then he rocks up
00:35:05he's like oh I just went to the gym this morning it was really windy last night and I'm like
00:35:08okay
00:35:08cool and like this is when I'm starting to feel like are you really do you really want me here
00:35:12do
00:35:12you like really want to show me how much you want this relationship to work
00:35:19look for me it was letting him sleep a little bit longer
00:35:25we're not interrupting each other tonight right oh okay can I keep going my story then yeah so then
00:35:36um we come to the fire the next night and this is when I'm like this is my last plea
00:35:40here like I'm
00:35:42going to try and see if he really wants to fight for this if he really wants this relationship to
00:35:46work and I had written down questions that were all just about what the experts said going through
00:35:52all these questions and then he starts to get a bit shorter with him because he's sick of talking
00:35:55about it and then I'm like Chris do you even have feelings for me and he goes oh you know
00:36:02with what's
00:36:02happened over the last couple of weeks I feel like my feelings are pretty damaged and like I don't
00:36:06really know if I do anymore then I'm like well then what am I doing here then I was just
00:36:18like
00:36:18well then do we just end it here and you were just like yeah I think that's probably like right
00:36:21to do
00:36:23then what I don't understand is where I hurt your feelings and where you lost your feelings for me
00:36:33what I honestly feel like happened is that you just like did the bare minimum got me flowers so
00:36:39that you could come here tonight and say I did this for Sam I tried but like I know that
00:36:45you were
00:36:45checked out of this relationship already I know you didn't want to give it a go
00:36:53if I'm honest and I'll have to be honest it seems like you're putting a lot on Chris yeah and
00:37:01just
00:37:02because we have expectations to fill our cup fully doesn't mean this other person hold on hold on a
00:37:07second let's not forget that like the week before Sam was in a world of pain alone
00:37:18being yep correct but hang on a second hang on a minute sorry I've got to say something here
00:37:26Beck needs to mind her business I don't know how her homestays went but that should be her focus
00:37:31for a couple weeks out of final bowels worry about your man doll I'm not going to sit let anyone
00:37:37sit
00:37:38here and say your expectations are too high when Sam sat there in tears by himself not knowing which way
00:37:45was up and which way was down for a whole week because the person that he has these feelings for
00:37:49was quite aggressive to him like let's all just take a step back but you've been aggressive too at
00:37:54the dinner at the dinner at the dinner parties you're in no position to be giving someone feedback about
00:38:00their behavior honey so just pipe it down a little bit Sam sat there in tears by himself not knowing
00:38:15which way was up and which way was down for a whole week because the person that he has these
00:38:20feelings
00:38:20for was quite aggressive to him like let's all just take a step back but you've been aggressive
00:38:25too at the dinner at the dinner parties you're in no position to be giving someone feedback about
00:38:31their behavior honey so just pipe it down a little bit and I've never been aggressive to you
00:38:39can I speak now first of all like hand on heart I tried my hardest to turn it around I
00:38:47got the
00:38:48feedback from the experts I took it on board I took accountability I realized that I wanted to grow and
00:38:53learn as a person and I wanted to come out the other end and I'm sorry but I was doing
00:38:57that and I
00:38:58thought we had a good day and like you pulled the notepad out and then asked me the questions and
00:39:03I
00:39:03just for me I felt like you know like can we just live in the moment can we just have
00:39:08a bit of fun
00:39:09and but do you understand with the questions they're things that were burning inside of course yeah yeah
00:39:13yeah cool I'll keep talking babes so I I felt uncomfortable but I stayed calm and I answered
00:39:21the question I answered the questions as best as I could but it would you ended it with me you
00:39:26said
00:39:26like yeah no yeah can I just say it's like the reason I ended up is because I asked Chris
00:39:33do you still have feelings for me if if you were trying so hard and you thought that everything
00:39:39was what you're saying then at that point you should have said Sam yes I had feelings for you
00:39:48can ask a question do you feel like when Chris said leave the other week at the last commitment so
00:39:55I
00:39:55know really hurt you like you were really upset we could see that do you think that that really hurt
00:40:01you
00:40:01to a point where had you already made up your mind I hadn't made my mind that just hurt me
00:40:05to the point
00:40:06where this is why I think I needed so much because I was really hurt that he said he wanted
00:40:11to leave
00:40:11that he had already given up so I'm like I need to see from you that you haven't given up
00:40:15completely
00:40:15and I get maybe for you what you did was enough but for me it wasn't and then I decided
00:40:20that based
00:40:21on the fact that what you did wasn't enough for my expectations to call it happened I ended things
00:40:25because I wasn't getting what I wanted from Chris and if that's not what he can give because he's got
00:40:29kids
00:40:29and he's got fun he's got everything else then you're not ultimately a good match
00:40:39it's really upsetting that it hasn't worked out between Sam and Chris because I care for both boys
00:40:45but listening to both sides of the story I'm like they're not speaking the same language and they're
00:40:53seeing different things and I don't think they're gonna align tonight just unfortunately it hasn't
00:41:00worked I don't want this to be yucky I just want to be amicable I don't want it to be
00:41:04yucky either
00:41:04it's not yucky though is it it's not yucky don't mistake passion for anger I think you're both
00:41:09passionate it's not yucky in my opinion you're both just ironing it out we do love you both we love
00:41:16you a lot yeah 100 thanks I think it's really sad what's happened with Sam Chris I love them as
00:41:23people and I love them together and I'm getting this feeling of like Chris did try the way he knew
00:41:30him and it wasn't enough for Sam it's it's it's a hard one so Beck and Danny how about you
00:41:47guys
00:41:48your next how was your home stays we had such a good home stays didn't wait give my family felt
00:41:56the need
00:41:57to have hard conversations with you they would I think obviously because Danielle fancied me
00:42:06you should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say oh your cousin
00:42:11wants to me I never said that there's a camera in my face and you're abusing me over a joke
00:42:16dude
00:42:16there's a camera in my face and you're making a joke of what I'm saying yeah I'm done
00:42:23well we had like a like two perfect things and then like the top we had a little argument at
00:42:30the
00:42:30end we had a tiny little ding-dong at the end it lasted about 15 minutes I think like for
00:42:41me I don't
00:42:42know for anyone else who experienced like going into your partner's home in that moment I felt like a
00:42:49bit out of place in the house like up until that point I felt so comfortable like so welcome not
00:42:55that I was ever like unwelcome but in that moment arguing like hardly an argument a ding-dong but
00:43:02yeah or whatever you want to call it whilst Danny did call it an argument Beck called it a ding
00:43:09-dong
00:43:09so she's wanting to really contain it yes when we had the disagreement at the house I felt really
00:43:14uncomfortable because it's not my space it's your space yeah do you know I don't know if anyone else
00:43:19can I just like yeah so that was sort of something that stuck with me in in the sense of
00:43:24like moving
00:43:26for it made me look at it things in a different way in the sense that I'd probably want to
00:43:32I don't
00:43:32know how I'd want to navigate if I was to move to Adelaide how the logistics of it would look
00:43:40as a man
00:43:43oh that's a man I feel like like do you know what you mean like it's more Beck's house than
00:43:51it is
00:43:51moving into her house yeah correct like like I'd want to sit down and speak to Beck on a deeper
00:43:56level
00:43:56about that because like I feel like if you move in with a woman and like I would never just
00:44:04move in
00:44:07like we'd have to talk about that on a deeper level in the sense that like I'm not moving out
00:44:13of my
00:44:14house no I'm not asking you to but what I'm saying is like it's how he fits into it babe
00:44:21yeah how I fit
00:44:22into it that's that's more what I'm saying and to you right now you're probably like that that like
00:44:28that's easy I know like it's just but like I get from Danny's perspective he's like yeah I move in
00:44:33so
00:44:33like he's got to get his stuff out where does he put his stuff and like and we would make
00:44:37space 100%
00:44:38for that from my point of view anyway I suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you
00:44:43feel like a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman what are you on about
00:45:01from my point of view anyway I suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you feel like a
00:45:05bit of a bitch moving in with a woman
00:45:11what are you on about oh no that's not what I was getting at oh god oh my god he's
00:45:19talking about
00:45:19feeling emasculated if she was the one who owned the house and let's not use the term bitch in that
00:45:25way either daddy not cool we're on 800 square meters five minutes from the city with a $97,000 mortgage
00:45:34and a $3 million house me
00:45:41whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa like firstly you've never said that to me women have worked really
00:45:49really hard to make sure that we've got this multi-million dollar home in the most affluent
00:45:54suburb of South Australia so yeah you're not going to be a bitch moving into my house
00:45:59that was not what I was getting at are we serious for this we're in the 2020s
00:46:08emasculated by moving into a home with your woman
00:46:14let's grow up you like to be a provider correct correct yeah I'll be honest I couldn't go to hers
00:46:20I
00:46:20want to I'm gonna buy the house I'm gonna pay for everything like that's just a manly thing
00:46:23right Dan's a bit like me he likes to feel like the man the boss the alpha male so I
00:46:30understand
00:46:31where Danny's coming from he just wants to feel more vasculated in the relationship we're more
00:46:36traditional in that way too no but like I get it like I have it my house is bigger than
00:46:40yours but
00:46:40it's like yeah like different vibe I do agree with Danny I think for a man to feel masculine and
00:46:48his masculine energy they want to have the house and the woman move into it I know that's not like
00:46:53the norm these days but like I like that and that's what me and Scott are doing so I do
00:46:58agree with Danny
00:46:59on that I think he wants to feel like the man and he has every right to feel like that
00:47:03I feel like
00:47:04it's emasculating like I get what you're saying like yeah yeah you want your place to be like here
00:47:08babe like come to me like I'm I'm the man like I think that's like where you're coming from yeah
00:47:13that's what I'm saying I felt uncomfortable when we argued and it's sort of it made me feel
00:47:19demasculated to like be in her house yeah like a bit of a bitch I've had that discussion with Beck
00:47:24two or three times I'm not as hit hit 1990s song on R&B radio what keeps repeating itself
00:47:31do you know you mean I didn't feel uneasy until we had the disagreement then I was just like
00:47:36do you know you mean us no I don't know what you mean Danny I do wonder if Danny's showing
00:47:41a little
00:47:41insecurity there you know I think some men would not see a barrier to moving into a house owned by
00:47:48the woman it wouldn't feel emasculating he's really dropped the ball here and I'm old school
00:47:54too I'm exactly the same I can proudly say it as well that if me and Rachel do something I
00:48:00would feel
00:48:00I would feel more comfortable if Rachel moved into my place feel like a provider well I don't think
00:48:06that's very fair because at the end of the day it's the difference is is that I've got a massive
00:48:11house with a lot of space five minutes out of the city with a mortgage of 97 grand I feel
00:48:15like
00:48:16you're a team I feel like you're a team a hundred percent I was brought up on those values that's
00:48:20just the way I think if I move badly I'd be gambling I wouldn't like you get away together I
00:48:32know we work
00:48:33together but as a man it's just something I do as a man maybe I'm old school like that but
00:48:39I believe
00:48:39like the man should be the man of the house and take care of the big bills it's nice to
00:48:44have your
00:48:45own thing but ultimately you work together right exactly yeah ultimately it's about how can we work
00:48:50together how can we make this work what are your needs you know vice versa it doesn't have to be
00:48:56demasculating thing it just has to be teamwork for some reason it's just a mental thing it's just it
00:49:06just works like that fit females feel more secure when that it is like that it's just how it is
00:49:12unfortunately it's a double set it's just how it is I understand where Danny's coming from don't agree
00:49:21with it but I understand where Danny's coming from Beck and Danny's homestay I don't think was as great
00:49:27as they made it out to be there's something there's something not right there this is a serious
00:49:34conversation you guys think oh yeah I know for a dinner party oh goodness no I said it to you
00:49:49already
00:50:02still to come I did spiral a little bit Dave what's going through your head bro David finally finds
00:50:10his voice I've hit my wall I've been calm throughout this whole thing but I'm at my limit this is
00:50:17really
00:50:17a relationship in peril yeah before Beck confronts Danny I would have appreciated it having been that
00:50:26open it's a lot of relations it's just a whole table of people experiment now before hindsight
00:50:40how about you Alyssa how was yours
00:50:48do you know what Alyssa and David really have not spoken about themselves at all
00:50:53no that is not usual for them David looks quite uncomfortable actually yeah
00:51:00I feel like we had highs and lows I did spiral a little bit like I did get in my
00:51:07head
00:51:08because you know as soon as we touched down in Adelaide I felt like this weight
00:51:16I felt like oh my goodness I you know I said I was going to move to Sydney and like
00:51:21we're going to
00:51:21make this thing work in Sydney and we'll meet halfway but I have a lot of responsibilities in Adelaide
00:51:27I have contracts in place I have my business I have a house I have a cat but I'm almost
00:51:3234 and in the
00:51:34next few years I want to start a family so I kind of put pressure on myself and that's where
00:51:39I started
00:51:39to spiral on homestays because I was like shit this is not going to work like I don't think I'm
00:51:45going to be able to stretch myself out of Adelaide um like in the next three months it might look
00:51:50like
00:51:50six to twelve months if we're going to make this work in the real world
00:51:58beforehand you were saying potentially you'd give it three months to move to Sydney
00:52:02is it the move to Adelaide now well that's what it would probably be
00:52:09it would be Adelaide yeah oh we haven't heard that from her before a lot came out of homestays but
00:52:16it's just like how do we move like forward but I feel like the way that we process things are
00:52:22very
00:52:22different and I'm wondering why am I spiraling you know we're all under pressure but some people
00:52:27also deal with pressure differently when I need to just process my mind's going bing bing bing bing
00:52:33I retract things have kind of turned on its head a little bit Alyssa's now saying I can't move
00:52:40David's going look I'm willing to sacrifice everything and move down to Adelaide to give
00:52:45this relationship the best chance but her retracting and pulling away from Dave freaking Dave out
00:52:51first you know I sort of felt for Dave a little bit if anything all the risk is on David
00:52:56and there
00:52:57was one other thing I know that I can be a bit full-on and like he does ground me
00:53:05but maybe I'm
00:53:06finding a little bit sometimes too much where I feel like I'm not myself like it's really shifting my my
00:53:13energy and that's not something I'm used to my husband also snores I've had like lack of sleep
00:53:19the last three months like it's just it's it's a compiling thing I feel like right now Alyssa is
00:53:27trying to look for any little thing she can pull from the sky to question things in the relationship and
00:53:35that is pushing me away she says she doesn't want to push me away but her throwing all these doubts
00:53:42there's only so much I can take before I start feeling like an idiot you know I think I was
00:53:48fine
00:53:48with just continuing to be that emotional shoulder to lean on until home stays we've been on this
00:53:57experiment for two months and it's been long enough for her to like be a bit more certain you know
00:54:03if this
00:54:04ultimately isn't gonna work I'm not gonna force anything like it's up to her to come from her
00:54:09head into her heart for this to work long term Dave what's going through your head bro I've hit
00:54:22my wall I've been calm throughout this whole thing but I'm at my limit and I sort of need that
00:54:30mental
00:54:30space as well just as much as she probably needs it from coming back from home stay and it's something
00:54:35we both need but it's at the point emotionally I don't have much to give I'm invested in this
00:54:41relationship I am prepared to move for this relationship but for me I bonded with her mom
00:54:46and her two best friend and I've got her mom saying this is all good for you her friend saying
00:54:51it's good
00:54:51for you I really love David a lot so I'm just like what other green checks do you need ticked
00:54:58off like
00:54:59you know well this is David being really raw isn't it I mean he's saying that he's exhausted and also
00:55:10he's hit his limit and I know that they talk about it in relation to the experiment but actually you
00:55:19know the experiment for some people it brings them closer right now and I get some real worries that he
00:55:24started to step back we got cracks man we've got crack like everyone but that's something that you
00:55:32know we will talk to experts about we actually haven't seen them in this state before have we
00:55:39I'd say absolutely more questions than answers we got tonight so that's where we got to go tomorrow
00:55:45night we are gonna need to ask about the homestays and particularly where they see themselves in the
00:55:53future this is really a relationship in peril yeah it sounds like you've been approached by some
00:56:04producers to do another show is that right for the producers from Aussie shore reach out and see
00:56:10would I do the season three with them gotcha I had one of the female cast members slide into my
00:56:16DMs
00:56:16like four or five days ago and I think it's come from there yeah is that something you want me
00:56:21to go and
00:56:21do or my job is not to advise you on what to do or what not to do but documenting
00:56:26your life on flex
00:56:27if this is where your life goes you know it's entirely up to you if you decide that you want
00:56:32to pursue it further I can talk to them and see whether we can capture some of the journey
00:56:40gosh mate I've already so I also have blocked my parents in now on social media so they didn't see
00:56:45my
00:56:46escorting videos and then it took two days and they've seen them because
00:56:51a friend had gone and seen them and been like we've seen what Marcus is doing in Australia and
00:56:54they obviously had no idea so I'm just dealing with that at the moment and I think to drop the
00:56:58the bombshell that yes I'm an escort and I'm also gonna go on Aussie shore
00:57:01all right you're on flex you're an escort and then you're gonna go on Aussie shore it's a big wake
00:57:08for Marcus I've had a busy three days this week mate yeah it's it's I don't know if it's going
00:57:12downhill or uphill I can't quite decide I went out on his Harley like I grew up there so I'm
00:57:35I'm like
00:57:36I went to school there I had my first kiss there I did this there and it's like it's not
00:57:39like a foreign
00:57:40place for me yes it's just easy the fact that she's lived there before so it's pretty big for
00:57:44us that's amazing yeah it's really good the taste of the outside world you know what I mean like when
00:57:50I yeah so what's your plan after the experiment I do like Cronulla yeah yeah I could see myself there
00:57:59that's very important that's that's the whole point of the home visits like can I see myself there yes I
00:58:04can let's just do it just give it a go like and that was a realization I had and you
00:58:10have a plan
00:58:11moving forward yeah you guys are great yeah Rachel and Stephen homestays hey guys who's talking you can
00:58:21talk captain steve-o all right Rachel goes first and I'll I reckon steve-o go first please I think
00:58:27steve-o go first thank you I always talk yep can you hear me down there yeah yeah boys loud
00:58:34and clear
00:58:34all right so look I'm happy to say that Rachel and my family did get along everyone loves each other
00:58:41a lot
00:58:41the drinks were flowing everything was fantastic and yeah we had a really good time and took Rachel out
00:58:47on the boat and she got to experience a little you know a little snapshot of what my life is
00:58:54um about and what I'm passionate about so I took her out fishing and I can definitely say very
00:58:59impressive impressed with Rachel she full on full on leaned in she's a catch I am the catch
00:59:06she's a catch that's right the catch of the day right yeah and um and look I was very impressed
00:59:12with the
00:59:13fishing skills she kissed a couple fish but I'm looking at this woman going look it's not just that
00:59:19she's leaning into fishing it's more the fact that I'm seeing a woman there that is having a crack and
00:59:25I can see that outside fishing Rachel will have my back in things I can see we can do life
00:59:36together
00:59:37but I feel a lot more confident now that the foundation has been laid on my side anyway with
00:59:41Rachel that we can take this out onto the outside and have somewhere to start because it's been been
00:59:51done and dusted I still gonna meet her side but I feel more confident on my side that Rachel and
00:59:56my
00:59:56family and my lifestyle will match now so we had a good time who would thought feel the thought hearing
01:00:11Steven talk about our home say and like the beautiful things she was saying yeah you sound
01:00:17emotional I am emotional I'm so emotional about it because I've got this guy that I truly truly care
01:00:25about and I'm developing such strong feelings for and every time he talks about us with the group and
01:00:34everything it's beautiful it's just so nice and what one amazing journey and opportunity we've had
01:00:44and the fact that we get to be with each other is just even better some guys are gonna buy
01:00:52girls
01:00:52flowers my guy bought me a fishing rod
01:00:55I'm just saying
01:00:56I was happy your girl's got her third fishing rod
01:01:00Rachel looks so happy
01:01:04look at Steven's smile
01:01:06we've never seen him smile like this
01:01:08we've never seen him as relaxed
01:01:10and as confident as he has been tonight
01:01:13that was a full bodied smile
01:01:15he's really transformed but watching him now is just such a joy and he's so comfortable in her space
01:01:22look we went through hard times at the start of our relationship
01:01:26you all saw it and you know what we we've just saw it and you know we're now hitting weeks
01:01:33where
01:01:33it should test us and instead of strengthening us and it's really not
01:01:38I love it.
01:01:39Yay!
01:01:40Well done.
01:01:43Rachel and Steve-o.
01:01:55At the dinner table tonight, Danny, we said that he would feel like a bitch moving into
01:02:05a girl's house.
01:02:07I hadn't heard that yet.
01:02:09And like, I would hope that my husband knows that he can talk to me.
01:02:14Like, we talk about everything.
01:02:16So, yeah.
01:02:20I feel blindsided by him.
01:02:25I feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband.
01:02:32They got dragged back into the drama.
01:02:37And we've got them.
01:02:39Mavs royalty, Jamie and DeBinnaker.
01:02:43The spiciest sofa showdown.
01:02:45Plus the footage you won't believe.
01:02:50After the dinner party tonight.
01:02:57If I was to move to Adelaide, as a man, it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch
01:03:03moving in with
01:03:04a woman.
01:03:13I've never experienced a slow burn in my life.
01:03:17And here I am with a slow burn.
01:03:19And like I said, we went for a hard yard earlier.
01:03:22And now we're so strong because of that.
01:03:25I'm so...
01:03:26Said to you about it.
01:03:27Yeah.
01:03:27Yeah, but not to that level.
01:03:28I think I would have appreciated you having been that open.
01:03:39Frankly, Danny, time and time again, has not stepped up and made the commitment that she
01:03:44wants and craves.
01:03:46She's been transparent.
01:03:47Yeah.
01:03:47He hasn't said that he loves her back.
01:03:50He's now saying, I don't want to live in your house.
01:03:53So there's a number of things that are now adding up.
01:03:55Yeah.
01:03:56That Beck's starting to worry about when it comes to Danny's level of commitment.
01:03:59Yes.
01:04:00And rightly so.
01:04:02I mean, the idea of, like, that it, like, that you, like, you basically just said, if
01:04:13I was to move to Adelaide, I don't know if I'd want to move into my house.
01:04:17I was just saying, I didn't want...
01:04:18I was just saying, I would have rather you had said that to me before announcing it to
01:04:23a tape of people.
01:04:24I didn't say that.
01:04:26I was just saying we have to, like, put money into a house and we're renovating it or I'd
01:04:31pick up the mortgage because we're just moving in.
01:04:33That's how it is.
01:04:33We've made me feel demasculated.
01:04:35Yeah.
01:04:35Okay.
01:04:36I'm excited.
01:04:37Because I was like, just saying.
01:04:38I'm like, but only 50% of it's done.
01:04:39That's how I heard it.
01:04:40I'm not still good at me.
01:04:41And I was like, well, what's the side?
01:04:43So, for my, that's what you're saying, my side...
01:04:45Because I'm not moving out.
01:04:49I think Bec revealed how hard that conversation was for her.
01:04:54You know, when she said, oh, here we are, having this conversation in front of everyone.
01:04:57She felt really uncomfortable.
01:04:58And I think after the dinner tonight, they'll be going home for quite a big conversation.
01:05:21Okay, so the purpose of this conversation is to talk about what's been happening within
01:05:25the group of women.
01:05:27Hello!
01:05:28Hello, ladies!
01:05:30Welcome to your hens night.
01:05:32Not to make comparisons between men and women and who does it better.
01:05:37Wow.
01:05:37I just hope that there's some insight here with the ladies that, yes, in the future you
01:05:41are going to be in contact with other women who have strong personalities, have strong
01:05:46judgments about you, or opinions about you.
01:05:53But that doesn't mean that you have to play dirty.
01:05:56As a woman, I think it's important that we support each other.
01:06:00Support each other.
01:06:03Love that.
01:06:05That we empower each other.
01:06:08Empower each other.
01:06:08I'm so excited.
01:06:09This is amazing.
01:06:12That we don't compete with each other.
01:06:15Yeah!
01:06:17That we give other women an opportunity to shine.
01:06:20Jules, were you married?
01:06:24Yes!
01:06:28Just like we do.
01:06:29I'm falling in love with you.
01:06:31And that does not take away any of our power.
01:06:34I'll be the last in a party.
01:06:36I'll be the last in a party.
01:06:36Let's do it!
01:06:38Woo!
01:06:38Woo!
01:06:42Ha!
01:06:46You
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