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00:00:01Do you see me as the mother-father of your children? Yes, I do see you as a
00:00:04father of my children. After seven weeks of marriage, Feedback Week brought some
00:00:10couples closer together. Only the best for my wife. Thank you for setting tasks that
00:00:16really understand Stephen and I and what we needed. But for others... Sure, I'll take
00:00:22that on board. Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive. I'm not getting defensive
00:00:25having a conversation. Tensions were at an all-time high. I'm not doing it. No
00:00:31thanks. It was just... As Scott avoided any critical feedback, opting to keep the
00:00:40peace in his marriage. I knew if I went too deep, I'd be over the balcony. You're
00:00:47absolutely pissing me off. Danny struggled to give Beck a straight answer. Do you
00:00:52think you will fall in love with me and why? At the dinner party, after weeks of
00:00:59being caught in the crossfire, Alyssa tried to put a full stop to the feud
00:01:05between Gia and Beck. Stop using me! Stop using me as a pawn. And Beck and Danny
00:01:12spiralled. I want you to be wary about what you text people. Two months ago, Daniel.
00:01:17Okay, that was ten years ago. I want out now. I'm wasting my time at a dinner party talking
00:01:23about abusive text messages. I'm here for a wife and a relationship. I'm not here for
00:01:27drama. Do not sit there in front of everyone and not show solidarity to me. Just pretend
00:01:32for two minutes. Tonight, it's the second last commitment ceremony. You ask the question
00:01:41of like, alright, if we go outside the experiment, how quick would you expect, like, a proposal?
00:01:46I say the sooner the better. Wow. And some are already locking in plans for married life
00:01:52outside of the experiment. The man is leaving and he is actually starting to show me what
00:01:57my life here in Sydney could look like. And then... So last week you said that the noise from
00:02:03the group and around Gia doesn't affect your relationship. Do you still believe that?
00:02:10Will Scott speak up and confess how he feels in front of Gia? I will admit, like...
00:02:20The question, what was it? Like, it was a bit... Could you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:02:24Why is Danny dodging the question?
00:02:29Um...
00:02:30Cool.
00:02:34In one of the most confronting couch sessions ever seen.
00:02:38It's a pretty black and white question.
00:02:44Before the blind side...
00:02:49That will leave the room speechless.
00:02:52I just can't believe it.
00:03:08It's the morning of the second-last commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:03:13And despite a tense ending to last night's dinner party,
00:03:17one couple continued to shine bright.
00:03:22Good morning.
00:03:24Good morning.
00:03:26Good morning.
00:03:27Good morning.
00:03:27Hopefully you don't burn the roof of your mouth.
00:03:29No, she'll be fine.
00:03:30You know?
00:03:31Last night for Stella and I, yeah, it was great.
00:03:34We were just sitting there, united, chilling out, smooching whilst the drama's happening.
00:03:39We tend to do that when people are kicking off, we're just kissing each other.
00:03:43And then, yeah, we're staying out of it for the most part.
00:03:45I think we are out of the trenches with the drama.
00:03:49I doubt it, but I'm very, very hopeful.
00:03:52I'm very hopeful.
00:03:52Some people cannot help themselves.
00:03:54I see the blokes like Danny and Scott, and they're just ready to not talk about high school shit.
00:04:02Like, Scott is not his usual self.
00:04:05He was just...
00:04:06His light was dimmed.
00:04:08He was just not there.
00:04:09He's dimmed.
00:04:09Yeah, he's dimmed at the moment.
00:04:11He's just not there.
00:04:12Danny as well, definitely.
00:04:13Yeah.
00:04:14I always look at him and he's just so withdrawn and just...
00:04:16They dissociate.
00:04:17They just dissociate and they just go to another realm.
00:04:20They just leave the place.
00:04:21They're just like this.
00:04:22Yeah.
00:04:25I just wish that people like Becca and Gia can stop saying sorry and just don't do it from now
00:04:32on.
00:04:33Don't be sorry and go, I take accountability and just don't do it.
00:04:37How about we try that and then we don't have to keep talking about this BS.
00:04:46While our couples are putting on the final touches for tonight's commitment ceremony,
00:04:52one participant who is not looking forward to seeing the experts is Gia.
00:04:57Last one, I walked out.
00:05:00I don't like commitment ceremonies one bit because I hate being vulnerable and talking
00:05:04about my feelings and commitment ceremonies don't go great for me all the time.
00:05:09Last week, I feel like I was getting in so much trouble for the screenshots.
00:05:12They didn't at all question back.
00:05:15It was just me for sending them.
00:05:16I just felt like I was just attacked and it was unfair last week.
00:05:19It's not fair that I'm always taking the heat for that sort of stuff.
00:05:23I admit I was wrong for sending them,
00:05:25but I'm not the one who said the vulgar things in those screenshots back was.
00:05:29I think it's just going to be more of a rehash of like what you're saying.
00:05:32Feedback week.
00:05:33Feedback week.
00:05:33Also, why'd you walk out?
00:05:34Which it'll just be a discussion of that.
00:05:37Yeah.
00:05:38I adore and I really am falling for Gia, but like this whole experiment has been very
00:05:45tough in regards to the drama side of things.
00:05:47There was so many days where there was just so much heat and heaviness.
00:05:52Tonight, like I'm nervous seeing the experts because this is something that I find a problem
00:05:57and I'm going to address it.
00:05:59I'm not looking forward to how she's going to feel about it, but I can only be honest.
00:06:09One couple that everyone will have their eyes on tonight is Beck and Danny,
00:06:13who had a tense argument at the end of last night's dinner party.
00:06:18Don't sit here and say, I want us to have a good relationship,
00:06:23but we don't because of drama at dinner parties.
00:06:26I just want you to be wary about what you say.
00:06:30I'm very wary.
00:06:31I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:06:35I'm done.
00:06:36I'm not going back in.
00:06:37I'm done.
00:06:38He says, oh, we're ride or die.
00:06:40We're ride or die.
00:06:41We're not.
00:06:42Just pretend for two minutes.
00:06:44And this morning, there has been yet another unexpected development in their relationship.
00:06:51How are things with you and Danny after last night's dinner party?
00:06:55Really good.
00:06:58There's so much love and adoration within this relationship.
00:07:03We had like a tiny little bit of crosswords last night.
00:07:06Danny sort of had a little wibble wobble.
00:07:08He was like, I'm sure of the drama.
00:07:10And at the end of the day, we've actually come out on top, you know, even though it's kind
00:07:14of crappy for a little while, we always come back together, talk about it and end up with
00:07:23a better understanding of each other and in a stronger place in our relationship.
00:07:27Do you agree?
00:07:28Hmm.
00:07:29I became a girlfriend as well.
00:07:31Still happy with that decision, boo?
00:07:33Still happy with the decision.
00:07:35I feel great.
00:07:35I feel absolutely fantastic.
00:07:37Like, I'm not only a wife, I'm a girlfriend.
00:07:39And I know that everything's hunky dory.
00:07:42Me telling you at the commitment ceremony that I love you.
00:07:46And obviously, I'm in my own head as well, because it's like, shit, like, that's a lot for me
00:07:52to do.
00:07:53Ever.
00:07:54Like, you're the first man I've ever told that I love first.
00:07:57Ever.
00:07:58Feedback week, Danny.
00:07:59How's it been?
00:08:01Been an alright week, to be honest.
00:08:03Like, alright is how I'd describe it.
00:08:04Not amazing.
00:08:06Just alright.
00:08:07Obviously, the question to ask, Bec was just overreacting a little bit there.
00:08:12We know that.
00:08:13That's a fact.
00:08:14Do you think you will fall in love with me?
00:08:17And why?
00:08:18Probably.
00:08:20I'd assume I will, yeah.
00:08:22Am I there yet?
00:08:23No.
00:08:27So, it has sort of scared me that she's got stronger feelings to me than I have to her.
00:08:34Um, up until last week, when she told me she loved me, I didn't realise she was feeling
00:08:37that strongly towards me.
00:08:39She'd never even told me, like, little soft things to, like, soften it.
00:08:43It was just like, that come out of nowhere.
00:08:46That's why when she told me on the sofa, on the couch, I was a bit, like, shocked.
00:08:50My feelings are extremely, extremely strong for Daniel.
00:09:01I love you.
00:09:02Yay!
00:09:06Yay!
00:09:09Woo!
00:09:09Woo!
00:09:12Do you think that you will get there, or are you still not sure?
00:09:15It's hard to tell, to be honest.
00:09:17It's very hard to tell.
00:09:19In regards to intimacy, it's not like I don't want to do it, but it's not like I'm, like,
00:09:27craving to do it as well.
00:09:29Like, I'm United, I mean.
00:09:31Because of constant drama with Beck.
00:09:34Um, so, yeah, that's probably one of the things, the main reason that's holding me back.
00:09:37I want to see you, Jack.
00:09:52Bye.
00:09:58Bye.
00:09:59Bye.
00:10:01Bye.
00:10:03Bye.
00:10:04Bye.
00:10:05Bye.
00:10:06Bye.
00:10:07guys. Hi. Hello. Welcome. Settling. Well, greetings, everyone, to the second last commitment ceremony.
00:10:34We are very much nearing the pointy end where you have to size up your relationship and really
00:10:43drill down on whether or not you can see a future outside of this experiment with the person that
00:10:51you've been matched with. Now it gets real. Now, in saying that next week, it is homestays.
00:10:59This is done so that all of you can have a look at your partner's life as it exists outside
00:11:06of the
00:11:07experiment. And it gives you an understanding, a glimpse of whether you can fit into it.
00:11:14This is really a reality check. In fact, it is absolutely pivotal for you when it comes to
00:11:23your final decision. Take it very seriously. Now, the past week, of course, has been feedback week.
00:11:31It's been a real test of how each and every one of you responds to feedback, but also how each
00:11:37of you
00:11:37gives feedback. So we'll be really interested to drill down into how that's gone for each of you
00:11:43and to see what's been the impact on your relationships.
00:11:47And of course, we saw some of that last night at the dinner party. It was actually quite shocking
00:11:53to see some of the behaviours that occurred at last night's dinner party. And we certainly want
00:11:59to get into all of that.
00:12:03Well, let's get our first couple up. Jira and Scott.
00:12:10Good to see you both.
00:12:12Yes, John. I'm still here. Are you happy about it?
00:12:15I'm very happy.
00:12:16Oh, I thought you wouldn't be.
00:12:18Yeah, particularly because last time you actually walked off.
00:12:22I did.
00:12:25So let's go back to what actually happened there, because we didn't get a chance to talk to you
00:12:32about that, because we were talking about your relationship and where you're at and what a good
00:12:37place you're in. And it was positive. But then something happened. What was it?
00:12:47I was getting in trouble for the screenshots involving Alyssa, but the other person wasn't
00:12:52getting in trouble for what was written in the screenshots. It felt very against me.
00:12:59And I just felt like attacked. And I just felt like it was a bit unfair, to be honest.
00:13:09I just felt like, what about the screen? What was she saying? Like, just me, me, me. I just
00:13:14cannot. So I had to remove myself. I didn't want to have another argument. I didn't want
00:13:19any more volatile situations. I just, I had to remove myself.
00:13:26All right, so let's break it down. There are two parts to this. One part is what was said
00:13:34in the text, which came out at the dinner party last night, the specifics of it.
00:13:43And there's no getting around that. It's abhorrent.
00:13:47Those words, those phrases towards another member in this experiment was appalling.
00:13:59I mean, Beck, the hits keep coming.
00:14:16I mean, Beck, the hits keep coming.
00:14:16What was said in the text, what was said in the texts, which came out at the dinner party
00:14:21last night, the specifics of it.
00:14:26And there's no getting around that. It's abhorrent.
00:14:30Those words, those phrases towards another member in this experiment was appalling.
00:14:42I mean, Bec, the hits keep coming.
00:14:51Regardless of what bad place you were in,
00:14:53the way in which you did that was malicious and extremely hurtful.
00:15:00And we don't condone it.
00:15:06That's the first part.
00:15:08The second issue is how they were used.
00:15:13And that's where you come into this, Gia.
00:15:15Yep.
00:15:17It was very high school,
00:15:21trying to really get at somebody
00:15:24while hurting another person in the process.
00:15:30It's about choices.
00:15:32It's about choices in terms of what you write in the text.
00:15:36Then it's choices about what you want to do with that
00:15:39in terms of sending it on or not.
00:15:42I know I was wrong.
00:15:45Looking back now,
00:15:46I wish I never sent the screenshots to Juliet.
00:15:48I was doing the wrong thing.
00:15:50I mean, it was like something happened to me
00:15:54that affected me and to defend myself,
00:15:56I was like, well, let me send some screenshots
00:15:58to do something to that person.
00:16:00And it was just like childish behaviour, to be honest.
00:16:02So it was an eye for an eye.
00:16:03Yeah, yeah.
00:16:05OK, we do not want to revisit this ever again.
00:16:10And I'm sure Alyssa doesn't want to either.
00:16:13It is being put to bed as of right now.
00:16:20But, Gia, one of the things I wanted to ask you was
00:16:23when you left last week,
00:16:25Scott was sitting here
00:16:27kind of not really knowing what was going on.
00:16:30And I just wondered whether he was featured
00:16:34in your thinking in that moment.
00:16:37I told him before I ran out,
00:16:39I said, I feel sick, I'm going to leave.
00:16:41Scott, how did you feel
00:16:45when you realised Gia had left?
00:16:50Well, at the time,
00:16:51I was sitting there and going to myself,
00:16:53she's not left me.
00:16:54I just, because I know how close we are.
00:16:56So I'm like, there's no excuse for her to just bail.
00:16:57But then obviously,
00:16:59the only thing I was just a little bit annoyed
00:17:01was just not being told what was going on.
00:17:04Just communication, that's all.
00:17:07But deep down, I knew she didn't run away from me.
00:17:10So, yeah.
00:17:14So last week, you said that the noise
00:17:17around your relationship from the group
00:17:19and around Gia doesn't affect your relationship.
00:17:23Do you still believe that?
00:17:28Last week was probably one of the most heaviest weeks
00:17:30we've had in this whole experiment.
00:17:32More so for Gia.
00:17:33She's had a lot to take on herself,
00:17:35not wanting to be here
00:17:38for a few reasons.
00:17:40There's only so much, you know,
00:17:42I'm here to protect her and cater for her,
00:17:44make sure she's OK and give her reassurance.
00:17:46But there was a lot that happened pretty much every day
00:17:48and I will admit, like,
00:17:51it does make me not be myself.
00:17:58What do you mean?
00:18:00My energy dropped and I just...
00:18:03So I'm just trying to be positive
00:18:06and it's hard sometimes.
00:18:09But feedback week, yeah, it was pretty hard.
00:18:11What was hard about feedback week?
00:18:13Obviously, the commitment ceremony was,
00:18:15you know, I walked out and I wasn't good.
00:18:17You know, that...
00:18:18And I just...
00:18:19I was just feeling off, right?
00:18:20So then I get told I have a feedback date
00:18:24and I'm like, oh, my God, I can't do this.
00:18:27I cannot put myself in a situation like this again
00:18:30where I'm arguing with somebody
00:18:32and I'm like, you know what?
00:18:33I don't want to go on the date.
00:18:35So what did you choose to do?
00:18:36I didn't go on the date.
00:18:40With these challenges that we set,
00:18:44you are certainly taken out of your comfort zone,
00:18:47but they're done for a reason.
00:18:49Here we go.
00:18:50It's all right. It's not.
00:18:52It's always about everything but our relationship.
00:18:57God, like, how many more times
00:18:59am I going to get, like, attacked?
00:19:02It's not. It's not.
00:19:03That's what the vibe I'm getting.
00:19:04It's not.
00:19:06I've been apologising.
00:19:07I've been accountable.
00:19:08I've been changing my behaviour.
00:19:09I just feel like the feedback letter,
00:19:14I felt like it was an attack on me.
00:19:16The tasks that we received to do,
00:19:19I just found were just, like, not nice.
00:19:23Number one is,
00:19:25Gia, remove yourself from any group chats that you're in.
00:19:28Number two, detox from all social media till final vows.
00:19:33Number three, no physical touch for 10 days.
00:19:36And I was like...
00:19:38That's the thing, I think...
00:19:39I took it...
00:19:40This is how I took it.
00:19:41He took it different.
00:19:41I took it as an attack of, like,
00:19:44oh, my God, like, another thing against me.
00:19:50Why do you feel like people are attacking you?
00:19:52I don't know.
00:19:54You have no idea.
00:19:55Well, that was Stella and Phillip,
00:19:57so I'm not sure why.
00:20:00There's just one thing I like to outlay is, like,
00:20:03whether something's negative or bad
00:20:05or, like, something you don't want to hear or see,
00:20:07we don't need to hold on to it.
00:20:10Because sometimes I feel it does hurt you in a way deep down where it's got to be said out
00:20:16loud
00:20:16or people need to know I hate it or, like,
00:20:18sometimes I feel like you hold on to it with a bit of power behind you
00:20:21and you want to deliver it back to someone.
00:20:25And I feel if we can let go of things a lot easier,
00:20:28we can move past that and then just focus on the other stuff.
00:20:33Because I see the light in everything all the time.
00:20:35Like, these things that are said,
00:20:36that is, it doesn't matter how bad it is.
00:20:38It's not like we're bad people.
00:20:40People just see what...
00:20:41They have an opinion for it.
00:20:42What is your perception, though?
00:20:43For me, for my own personal reasons and what I've been through in life,
00:20:48I felt attacked.
00:20:56I walked into this experiment.
00:20:57I said even my audition, I don't like negative stuff.
00:21:00I don't like drama.
00:21:01I don't like any of that.
00:21:01I don't want it in my life.
00:21:02And I know Gia's been involved in some of it and we had an agreement.
00:21:06Can you make a promise to me not involve yourself in drama
00:21:09for the rest of this experiment?
00:21:11There's been a few difficult things inside the experiment
00:21:13and I have to know whether it's the pressure in here
00:21:17or whether this is outside as well.
00:21:21Nothing's really affected me in this experiment.
00:21:23The only thing is just the drama stuff.
00:21:24I just, I don't like it.
00:21:26And I just want to make sure and be reassured
00:21:27there's not going to be that shit outside this
00:21:29because I won't tolerate it.
00:21:30That's it.
00:21:32For me, I don't want someone who's going to retaliate
00:21:33in really bad behaviour.
00:21:34That's what I mean.
00:21:37It's about how you carry yourself.
00:21:38It's common knowledge.
00:21:39I would never do that.
00:21:39That's what I'm saying.
00:21:40From the stuff that's happening in the experiment,
00:21:42I don't want to see that outside the experiment.
00:21:44That's all it is.
00:21:44I'm not saying anything bad.
00:21:45It's just what I've seen.
00:21:46Yeah, just, you don't know me well enough then.
00:21:49Babe, I'm only helping.
00:21:50It's just not who I am.
00:21:51I just do not do that in life.
00:21:53I'm just helping.
00:21:54I do nursing.
00:21:55I'm not saying that you're like that.
00:21:56I'm a kind person.
00:21:57I would never, but anyway.
00:21:58I'm not saying you're like that.
00:21:59I'm trying to just say what I'm feeling.
00:22:06She's not going to be happy with him saying that.
00:22:08I can guarantee you.
00:22:12Scott's just talking about his experience with you, what he's seen.
00:22:17He can only work with what he's seen.
00:22:19And he has seen you rise to the drama.
00:22:22So he's not saying he knows that that's what you're going to do on the outside.
00:22:27He's saying he knows that that's what you have done within the experiment.
00:22:31So surely that's reasonable.
00:22:33Yeah.
00:22:38Oh, no, we're getting slammed, Chris.
00:22:40Yeah.
00:22:41You're not getting slammed, babe.
00:22:42It's nothing.
00:22:45No, I'm all good.
00:22:46I'm sorry.
00:22:46I'm all good.
00:22:47All good.
00:22:47I don't like to cry, you know.
00:22:49Just, I'm fine.
00:22:51Let's just finish this, please.
00:22:53Yeah.
00:22:54Mm-hmm.
00:23:08You're all right.
00:23:09Sorry, I'm here.
00:23:11Gia, do you feel secure in this relationship?
00:23:14Yeah.
00:23:16What makes you say that?
00:23:18Um, because even when I say I'm going to leave, he's like, no, you can't leave.
00:23:24Um, like, when I, like, lose my mind and, like, spiral, he's always there to, like, be positive
00:23:31and try and turn my mood around and I feel like he's got me.
00:23:35Yeah.
00:23:36And I can feel like, yeah, I feel secure in this relationship.
00:23:39What about you, Scott?
00:23:43Well, the thing is, like, yes, we face these hard things and we're not perfect people, but
00:23:49I see so many good things about you and that's why I'm here.
00:23:54Like, you're such a beautiful person.
00:23:55Like, we've had a rough week, but we always come back to each other.
00:23:58So you feel secure in this relationship?
00:24:00A hundred percent, yeah, I feel secure.
00:24:03We just have these little hurdles to get through, understand one another, you know, and keep
00:24:07pursuing our life together.
00:24:12All right, well, let's go to the decision.
00:24:14Uh, let's go with you first, Scott.
00:24:18I'm grateful that we're still here together and then we got through and we're still smiling
00:24:21and I cannot wait for home stays.
00:24:24It's all right to stay and happy two months to my beautiful wife.
00:24:27Aw, that's cute.
00:24:29Gia, stay or leave?
00:24:30Um, I know I need to work on some things and I'm committed to doing that because, like,
00:24:35he's worth it and I need to, like, grow as a person.
00:24:38I can't keep doing these behaviours that I've been doing and I know I'm wrong for that.
00:24:42So, um, I'm just going to be positive this week and move forward and we're going to be
00:24:46in our swimsuits at the beach on the Gold Coast.
00:24:50So, I'm going to say, I've got square boobs, I don't know why, but that's a bikini.
00:24:55That's a bikini.
00:24:56Okay, well, I know that that was a very intense session and it's so important for you guys
00:25:02to not brush things under the carpet.
00:25:05But I know, Scott, you've mentioned that you like to look on the bright side of life, move
00:25:11forward as fast as you can, leave the past behind.
00:25:14Problem is, if you do that all the time, you don't address the issues that are there.
00:25:20And rather than saying, it's just going to be okay, forget about it, actually instead
00:25:25go, well, tell me more.
00:25:27And for you, Gia, what's really important is that if there's an issue that comes up from
00:25:31Scott, that you stay with it, rather than look at it as a personal attack, this is just
00:25:37feedback about a behaviour.
00:25:40And I can sit here and talk about that behaviour and then as a team, we can do something different
00:25:45moving forward.
00:25:47That'll help us a lot, to be honest.
00:25:49Because sometimes I want to bring things up and then I get a bit scared because I don't
00:25:54want you to get the wrong ideas if I'm trying to attack you.
00:25:57It's because I genuinely care and I just want to fix a few little things that'll help both
00:26:01of us.
00:26:02Yep.
00:26:02So I really love what you just said.
00:26:04Now with that, have a great week and we'll see you next time.
00:26:07Thanks, guys.
00:26:08Well done, guys.
00:26:09Cheers.
00:26:10Have a great week.
00:26:27Still to come, what has Sam in tears?
00:26:32I don't know.
00:26:35And later...
00:26:36Did you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:26:39Danny is put in the hot seat.
00:26:42I think I misinterpreted the question.
00:26:45Because it's a pretty black and white question.
00:27:02Next up, Rachel and Steven.
00:27:10Hello.
00:27:11Welcome.
00:27:12Hi.
00:27:12Welcome, welcome.
00:27:13It's nice to see you.
00:27:15Oh, yeah.
00:27:16Feedback week.
00:27:17Tell us about feedback week.
00:27:19Um, I actually think feedback week was great for Steven and I.
00:27:24We started off with the first tasks of questions.
00:27:27The question of, you know, saying, can you see yourself falling in love with me at some
00:27:32point?
00:27:33We both had a big resounding yes.
00:27:36And so that was really nice.
00:27:38Because in terms of the way we view our lives in the future, they very much align.
00:27:46And so, yeah, it was really good.
00:27:49It was just a really great task.
00:27:52Feedback week has been, you know, amazing.
00:27:56I got some really good advice from Alyssa of trying to be a bit more of a leader.
00:28:01Which we saw.
00:28:03We saw.
00:28:03We were very impressed.
00:28:05Oh, you saw that?
00:28:06At the dinner party.
00:28:08You did have a moment at the dinner party where you stood up to the group and you spoke
00:28:13on behalf of the relationship in such a mature, such a take charge, such a masculine, such
00:28:20such a all there kind of wave.
00:28:25We were very impressed and we were literally cheering that on.
00:28:29It was a really, really good moment to see Rachel beaming because you were beaming.
00:28:35You were so proud of your man speaking up to the group.
00:28:41Setting those boundaries for the group and for the two of you.
00:28:45Well, I'm going to implement that not just for one day.
00:28:47It's going to be just in the relationship.
00:28:49I've got to put my captain's socks, undies and hat on and take a bit of charge and leadership.
00:28:57Captain.
00:28:58I like it.
00:28:59Captain Steve-o.
00:29:01I'm going to get a hat for him.
00:29:05How did it feel in the moment to speak to the group the way that you did and to ascertain
00:29:10those boundaries and make yourself be heard so clearly?
00:29:14I know I'm pretty quiet in the dinner parties and I sort of like to keep things to myself
00:29:19because I feel like it's just a little bit easier to keep your mouth closed.
00:29:24In some situations, I guess it was good to, you know, finally be heard.
00:29:30I can imagine so.
00:29:34You guys have really been a bit of a slow burn, but every week we start to see something
00:29:41emerge, the intimacy, the speaking up.
00:29:45There's a lot of change in the two of you that I see and it's on a week by week
00:29:49basis.
00:29:51What's it doing to you, Steve-o, in terms of how you're feeling about this lovely woman?
00:29:59I feel really connected to Rachel.
00:30:01We're getting closer.
00:30:03I feel like as well, saying to Rachel, I feel like I've come such a long way from the wedding
00:30:07and the ups and downs that we've had.
00:30:10So feeling, yeah, really good.
00:30:13Rachel, for you towards him, what's going on inside of you?
00:30:17So I really like Stephen.
00:30:20I've been very clear about that.
00:30:21I'm very connected with Stephen.
00:30:24It's just so comfortable to be ourselves and have fun and, you know, it's just amazing.
00:30:30And so I'm at the point now where my man is leaving and he is actually starting to show
00:30:36me what my life here in Sydney could look like.
00:30:42That really shows through your body language is just how close and comfortable you are
00:30:49with one another and loving, dare I say it.
00:30:55Are we reading this correctly?
00:30:57Does it feel comfortable to be sitting like that?
00:31:00This is all, this is common, you know, in the apartment.
00:31:03You know, it's...
00:31:03Now you're showing off.
00:31:10So with that in mind, we're going to go to a decision.
00:31:12Yeah.
00:31:13Let's kick it off with you, Rachel.
00:31:17This is a huge shock, I know, but I've written stay and I put, like, the sun and, like,
00:31:23that's water from our little beach days.
00:31:27Cute.
00:31:28And Steve-O.
00:31:29I like where this is going, so why would I do anything else besides stay?
00:31:39Good on you guys.
00:31:40Thank you so much.
00:31:41Thank you so much.
00:31:41Well done.
00:31:42Great.
00:31:42Thank you so much.
00:31:50High fives.
00:31:52That was a nice one.
00:32:08Our next couple on the couch...
00:32:12Chris and Sam.
00:32:18Hello, you two.
00:32:19Howdy.
00:32:20Hi.
00:32:20How are you?
00:32:21Hello, guys.
00:32:22How we doing?
00:32:24Well, I've got to say, this is a very different energy from the two of you, not what we're
00:32:30used to at all.
00:32:32You're like a very different couple right now.
00:32:34Yeah.
00:32:37Do you want to let us in?
00:32:42Chris, you don't look very happy.
00:32:43No, I'm just like, um...
00:32:45Like, first of all, you asked me a question last week.
00:32:49Are you starting to envision a life outside of the experiment?
00:32:52I thought it was admirable that I was actually thinking after the experiment, and I said,
00:32:55perhaps, potentially, Sam based himself in Sydney.
00:32:58It came from a really good place.
00:33:01But Sam was upset that I didn't consult him before answering the question that you asked
00:33:05me.
00:33:06And then he said to me, ten minutes prior to the dinner party, your three apologies weren't
00:33:11genuine enough.
00:33:11I'm going to bring it up in front of the group.
00:33:14We could have facilitated that in the apartment in a more private, controlled environment.
00:33:20I feel like I've, um, you know, been dragged through the coals, and...
00:33:23Alright, I'm just going to go to Sam, because there's something I just want to clarify here.
00:33:27Why was it that you felt the need to bring this up in that group context?
00:33:33I wanted feedback from the group.
00:33:34I can go talk to my friends, you can go talk to your friends, and we can try and, like,
00:33:38see if we can move past this.
00:33:41Because I just couldn't see getting to a conclusion with just the two of us, because I was just getting
00:33:45shut down.
00:33:47That's why.
00:33:50There are some pretty big lifestyle changes ahead of the two of you.
00:33:56Chris has got children coming.
00:33:57Yeah.
00:33:57You know, Chris has the farm.
00:33:59Yeah.
00:34:00And, you know, clearly, life's going to be very much rooted around Chris's existing world.
00:34:06Yeah.
00:34:07And a lot of movement and compromise on your part, Sam.
00:34:11Is this the elephant in the room here for the two of you?
00:34:17Does it feel like it'll be you making all of the sacrifice?
00:34:23I'll be making big moves.
00:34:25Yeah.
00:34:25So 90% of the sacrifice would be on me to, like, fit into Chris's life, which is fine.
00:34:30Like, I know that.
00:34:32I'm prepared to do that if we fall for each other.
00:34:34But I just didn't want to feel like I had no say in even how that would look.
00:34:40I just feel like there could be a bit more empathy around the fact that there's a lot that I
00:34:44have to change.
00:34:45And I would have really liked if you discussed that with me before.
00:34:50How does that sit with you, Chris?
00:34:52Yeah.
00:34:55My answer to you was coming from a good place.
00:34:59That question that you asked me, are you thinking about life outside of this experiment?
00:35:03Which I thought was such a cute question.
00:35:05That question has now, like, spiralled into something so much bigger than what we had anticipated.
00:35:11And it's, um, put a huge rift between us, obviously.
00:35:15And, um, yeah.
00:35:16Sam.
00:35:18I've been watching you and you look a bit withdrawn.
00:35:23What has all this, do you feel, Sam, done to your relationship?
00:35:28To be honest, like, it's really sad because you guys saw me at the last commitment ceremony.
00:35:33And I even wrote in my journal afterwards that a life with Chris could be magical and amazing.
00:35:38Um, and it's just, like, taking the feet out from underneath me.
00:35:42Um, yeah.
00:35:45It sucks.
00:35:49Chris, one of the things I said to you, very curious, because essentially you were in a great place a
00:35:55week ago.
00:35:55And then Sam has brought something up gently to just say, you know, I felt a little bit excluded.
00:36:01I thought that would have brought you closer.
00:36:05But in fact, the reaction he got pushes him away rather than brings him close.
00:36:12Yeah.
00:36:14And one of the things I went to is, did you take Sam's reaction as some, something of a rejection?
00:36:25Because what I'm thinking is that your anger was coming from hurt and fear, and it often does.
00:36:33You've taken it very personally, and I want to put that to you.
00:36:37If that's the case, what might that be about?
00:36:43Maybe just unsuccessful relationships, um, in the past, you know, like, yeah, and I have been hurt a lot.
00:36:52Here's the thing.
00:36:54He's bringing this conversation up in front of the group.
00:36:59Not because he wants to throw you under the bus, but because he wants to be able to talk to
00:37:03you, and he feels like he can't.
00:37:05To the point where he's too scared to bring up a conversation with you, and he needs to take it
00:37:10to a larger group.
00:37:12That has got to get you starting to look at yourself and how you're talking.
00:37:19This is a real moment of truth for you.
00:37:23Because a communication style has contributed to the real crisis that you're in now.
00:37:33That doesn't mean that you can't recover.
00:37:35And tonight is one of those absolute key crossroads for you, Chris.
00:37:40Mm-hmm.
00:37:41Yeah.
00:37:46All right, let's go to the decision.
00:37:49Let's go with you first, Chris. Stay or leave?
00:37:52I've been going back and forth the last couple of days, um, and I've actually decided that I need and
00:37:58I want to go put my dad hat on, and I would like to leave.
00:38:22I've been going back and forth the last couple of days, um, and I've actually decided that I need and
00:38:28I want to go put my dad hat on, and I would like to leave.
00:38:34Oh, my God.
00:38:44No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:38:53It's a huge turnaround from last week.
00:38:57Yeah.
00:39:00I
00:39:00Just think that I need to concentrate on this next thing that's coming and
00:39:05He's gonna be an amazing guy and he'll be amazing for someone. I just don't think it's me for the
00:39:10moment
00:39:23Sam what's going on for you right now?
00:39:31I
00:39:32Didn't see that coming I thought I
00:39:38Thought you know, this is the first hiccup we've had and we'd both come into this ready to take on
00:39:43feedback
00:39:45And then try and implement that and see if that could help
00:39:50And it just hurts to be like you've just given up
00:39:55Because it got tough for a few days
00:40:01So
00:40:02Yeah, I just can't believe it
00:40:06Let's go to your decision then Sam what have you got as much as Chris gave up a lot to
00:40:10be here
00:40:11I gave up a lot and I was I wanted to leave here with absolutely no regrets either way like
00:40:16a hundred percent knowing if Chris was the guy for me
00:40:47Right now
00:40:48They work on the relationship
00:40:50It might seem like a lost cause but frankly we see couples absolutely turn things around in one week
00:41:25But it
00:41:28How it changes your relationship
00:41:31Let me remind you it was only a week ago that you were loved up on that couch
00:41:35Excited about the future
00:41:41But with a weenus
00:41:42Can come change
00:41:46And all you've got to do
00:41:47And all you've got to do is treat each other in a friendly way
00:41:53All right
00:41:54Thank you both
00:41:55Thank you
00:41:56Good work tonight
00:41:57Well done that was hard
00:42:06Well done darlings
00:42:11Well done guys
00:42:16I'll just be a guy
00:42:22Okay
00:42:23Okay
00:42:23Okay our next couple on the couch
00:42:24Alyssa and David
00:42:26Oh
00:42:30Hello you two
00:42:31Hello
00:42:31Hello
00:42:32Welcome
00:42:35How was feedback week for you guys?
00:42:38So obviously feedback week started with some receipts from Juliet
00:42:42From last couch session that we had
00:42:45That was the start of our feedback week
00:42:48Which was kind of negative
00:42:50You hear about
00:42:51Oh just the messages
00:42:52But they were actually really vicious
00:42:55Yeah
00:42:56It wasn't okay
00:42:57It was it definitely was a fresh
00:42:58It was fresh hurt for David and I
00:43:01Yeah look
00:43:03Seeing those text messages just reopened wounds that were obviously closing over
00:43:09Obviously it was a negative vibe to feedback week
00:43:12We didn't want to see that
00:43:13But it came to us
00:43:14So yeah
00:43:16Yeah moving on from that
00:43:19Feedback week actually went really well
00:43:21Because we managed to talk about
00:43:23Some things
00:43:24A plan
00:43:25Yeah we talked about a plan for when we left the experiment
00:43:27What that was going to look like you know
00:43:29A bit of long distance maybe
00:43:30And then figure out like if we're moving to maybe Adelaide
00:43:37So obviously you know getting to an age in the next couple of years I want to have a family
00:43:42Yeah
00:43:43And I want to be in Adelaide for that
00:43:46And that was something that I hadn't talked to David about but he was amazing
00:43:50He was like I understand if you need to be with your family and need extra support then we're going
00:43:55to move to Adelaide
00:43:55And I understand raising kids is not an easy task so you know she's obviously got her family there her
00:44:00mom and her mom's legend
00:44:04Alyssa would be a fantastic mother she notices everything about me you know what I'm saying like she helps me
00:44:10a lot
00:44:11I did say though I did say
00:44:13You did say something
00:44:14I did say though she reminds me of my mother
00:44:17She might be like don't wear that shirt it doesn't like it doesn't look good on you like just straight
00:44:22to the point and direct
00:44:23That's what my mother would do so that's what makes me know that she's got deep feelings and she cares
00:44:28Cause like she tells me things that challenge me you know and she doesn't just settle like she's always looking
00:44:34to grow
00:44:35She brings out the best in me as well
00:44:37And I think that's something someone I need in my life someone who's always going to push me to be
00:44:40better
00:44:41Hmm so you're in a good place guys
00:44:44I feel like we're
00:44:46We're the strongest we've ever been
00:44:48Yeah, I would agree
00:44:49Like right now we are
00:44:50We definitely are
00:44:51That's great
00:44:51Yeah
00:44:52Brilliant let's go to the decision
00:44:54Alyssa what'll it be?
00:44:56Well obviously got an exciting week coming up
00:45:00Home stay
00:45:00Home stay
00:45:01I'm about to convince you that you might like Adelaide so
00:45:06Stay
00:45:06Stay
00:45:06What was that?
00:45:07Fabulous
00:45:08Show you around
00:45:09I'm excited
00:45:12So I wrote stay
00:45:13I go on a little plane
00:45:15Oh
00:45:15Oh you're getting adventurous
00:45:18Take me home baby
00:45:19Yep
00:45:20I love it
00:45:20Ready to go
00:45:21Yeah
00:45:22There has been some really tough times for you guys
00:45:26And you've just turned toward each other
00:45:29Backed each other
00:45:30And supported each other
00:45:31Like a real team
00:45:33Thanks guys
00:45:34Well done
00:45:44Coming up
00:45:45Frankly when I watch you on the couch
00:45:48You seem uncomfortable
00:45:50The experts apply the pressure to Danny
00:45:53If you could do it over again how would you answer it?
00:45:57I'd just say yes
00:45:58Yes what?
00:46:00I could see myself all in the love of you
00:46:02Yeah
00:46:02That's as simple as that
00:46:04And would that be the truth?
00:46:19Our next couple up on the couch
00:46:24Philip and Stella
00:46:29Hello
00:46:30Hello
00:46:30Hello
00:46:31Hi
00:46:32Welcome
00:46:33Hi
00:46:34Last week was a little bit tough for you two on the couch
00:46:38Yeah it was
00:46:39I see such a different energy just walking up to the couch
00:46:44I really want to thank Mel for her advice
00:46:47To focus on the emotional safety that he's providing and giving me
00:46:52And it's such a simple thing when you think but I
00:46:55I didn't think about it
00:46:56And that was just like a penny drop moment for me
00:46:59I really want to thank you guys
00:47:01Because I think if not the confinements of the experiment
00:47:05Probably would be a different story at the end of the day
00:47:07So yeah thank you
00:47:09It's these uncomfortable chats that need to happen
00:47:11It's not you having a go
00:47:13It's just
00:47:13Yeah
00:47:14It helps
00:47:15It helped us this week
00:47:16Tremendously
00:47:17Yeah
00:47:18Great to hear
00:47:19We ended up having a good week
00:47:20Like she was a lot more gentler
00:47:22Like you know
00:47:22Coming and leading with kindness
00:47:24She's just been a little bit more gentle
00:47:26Just with her delivery
00:47:27I can see sometimes she just
00:47:28As she sometimes starts talking
00:47:30She'll just stop and then
00:47:30She'll just go a little bit softer
00:47:33Yeah
00:47:33Just things like that you know
00:47:34Just little subtle differences that you can tell
00:47:36Like yeah don't get me wrong
00:47:37Stella's still stellar
00:47:38But you know
00:47:39But she's a little bit
00:47:41Yeah
00:47:41Moving on
00:47:42A little bit different energy
00:47:44And we actually had a really really good week
00:47:46Go ask the question of like
00:47:47Alright if we go outside the experiment
00:47:49How quick would you expect
00:47:50Like a proposal or something like that
00:47:52Just to like fully escalate things
00:47:54You know you're just asking randomly
00:47:55Just throw it out there
00:47:56It's a free question
00:47:58That's it
00:47:59Six to twelve months and Stella was just like ASAP
00:48:02So it's just kind of like
00:48:04I said the sooner the better
00:48:05Wow
00:48:08Sometimes I thought that like I was fully over invested
00:48:10And I was showing too much
00:48:12Because that's a general trade of mine
00:48:13I just go all in you know
00:48:15I show all my cards
00:48:16Here they are you know
00:48:17I never really hold back
00:48:18That's kind of like a trade of mine
00:48:20But it was good to get the reassurance
00:48:22But yeah we
00:48:23Can I just point out something
00:48:24Yep
00:48:24That's quite stark for you Stella
00:48:28Last week you were essentially pushing him away
00:48:31Yeah
00:48:31And creating that space
00:48:33Yeah
00:48:33And this week you're saying
00:48:35You want a real life proposal ASAP
00:48:38Well let's put it that way
00:48:39I didn't say I would like a proposal
00:48:41That was a free question
00:48:42Let's clarify
00:48:43Uh huh
00:48:43And I got really shy
00:48:45I got really uncomfortable
00:48:46And I said the sooner the better you know
00:48:48The sooner the better
00:48:48Yeah so
00:48:49But still the stark contrast I guess
00:48:51Yeah
00:48:51From last week
00:48:52How does that feel from your perspective?
00:48:55Yeah I'm trying to make sense of it
00:48:56Like I'm crazy
00:48:57It would be confusing
00:48:58No it's not being crazy
00:48:59But it's just it's extreme
00:49:00Can't really give up
00:49:01Isn't it?
00:49:01It's extreme
00:49:02And it has an emotional impact
00:49:04Nah it's good
00:49:04So I'm just wondering how that feels for you
00:49:06Nah it's good
00:49:06It's good
00:49:06It shows that she's forward thinking
00:49:09She sees me in her future
00:49:10And that she's like the real deal
00:49:12You know
00:49:13When you think about the future
00:49:14Is this something that you can see
00:49:16For the two of you?
00:49:17Yeah yeah
00:49:18Definitely
00:49:18Most definitely
00:49:19So yeah
00:49:19Pretty pretty confident
00:49:23It's just interesting tonight
00:49:25That the first thing I noticed
00:49:26Was the way you looked at him again
00:49:27Aww
00:49:28Yeah I'm in love again
00:49:30Cause you were back into that
00:49:31You were back into that
00:49:31Sort of starry eyed interaction
00:49:33Where you gaze at him
00:49:35In extended ways
00:49:38Oh you're gonna make me cry
00:49:40We lost
00:49:41We just
00:49:41No but we just
00:49:42We lost that last week
00:49:43Yeah
00:49:44Yeah
00:49:45I would say
00:49:45I just fell back into my feelings
00:49:47Into my body
00:49:48Into showing up for myself
00:49:49And then showing up for him
00:49:50Because if I don't show up for myself
00:49:52I can't show up for him
00:49:53Yeah
00:49:54And that's the main difference
00:49:55And ultimately I think you had to get out of your head
00:49:58Yeah
00:49:58And into your heart
00:49:59Yeah
00:50:00Which is ultimately what we were trying to get you to do
00:50:03Mm
00:50:03Mm
00:50:04All right well with that being the case
00:50:06Let's go to the decision
00:50:08Stay or leave
00:50:08The decision is very simple
00:50:10And being back into my heart
00:50:13Aha
00:50:14Have a beautiful stay
00:50:15Excellent
00:50:16Look at that eh?
00:50:17Perfect
00:50:17Love it
00:50:17And fill it
00:50:19It's a stay
00:50:21Strong
00:50:22Strong stay
00:50:23Strong stay
00:50:24Strong stay
00:50:25Strong stay
00:50:26Oh thank you
00:50:27We really
00:50:28I personally really appreciate the advice
00:50:30That you guys give
00:50:30Good work
00:50:31Thank you
00:50:32Thank you
00:50:33Thanks again
00:50:43And our final couple up on the couch
00:50:46Bec and Danny
00:50:47Ooh I'm scared
00:50:53Right
00:50:57Feedback week
00:50:58How was it?
00:51:00Do you want to you talk?
00:51:01I talk
00:51:01It's been good
00:51:02It was challenging to begin with
00:51:05But it ended really really well
00:51:07Why was it challenging?
00:51:11So
00:51:12Obviously like I told Danny that I'm in love with him
00:51:16The last commitment ceremony
00:51:18You certainly did
00:51:20It's how I feel
00:51:21So I'm going to say it
00:51:25And I meant it
00:51:27But when we sort of did the questions
00:51:30There was one question that came up was
00:51:32Can you see yourself falling in love with me?
00:51:36And Danny didn't say no
00:51:37But he sort of um denied a little bit
00:51:39And I just spiralled
00:51:44So what was his exact answer?
00:51:48Potentially yes I assume so
00:51:50Oh no
00:51:52So how did that feel?
00:51:53Um
00:51:54I was upset
00:51:55I was hurt
00:51:56And I was kind of embarrassed
00:52:03I thought that he
00:52:05Would have said
00:52:06Not I'm not there yet
00:52:07But yes
00:52:08I just thought that it
00:52:10That he would be a little bit further along than potentially
00:52:14Yes I assumed so
00:52:16But I need to
00:52:18Allow Daniel to
00:52:19Be on his journey
00:52:21In this relationship
00:52:23And I'll be on mine
00:52:24And don't regret it
00:52:25Be me
00:52:28I'm in love
00:52:30He's not there yet
00:52:31Don't allow that
00:52:32Fact to ruin
00:52:34How good it feels for me
00:52:40Sorry sorry
00:52:45Danny
00:52:49Let's go to that discussion shall we
00:52:51And when the question got asked
00:52:53Tell us again what you said
00:52:55And then why you said it
00:52:57Well
00:52:59The questions asked sometimes I struggle with to be honest
00:53:03I think I misinterpreted the question
00:53:08But the question what was it like it was a bit
00:53:11Could you see yourself falling in love with me
00:53:13Yeah
00:53:14Because it's a pretty black and white question
00:53:31I think I misinterpreted the question
00:53:36But the question what was it like it was a bit
00:53:38Could you see yourself falling in love with me
00:53:40Because it's a pretty black and white question
00:53:51If from my point of view
00:53:53I don't feel as a man
00:53:56Like if I if I give back my word on something I'm always going to stand to that
00:54:02And I don't think saying yes I can 100% fall in love with you would be the right thing
00:54:08to say
00:54:09Because it's almost making a promise which I don't think you can promise that before you're in love with someone
00:54:16But let's just remind ourselves the question wasn't do you promise that you will fall in love with me
00:54:23I know John 100%
00:54:24It was can you see yourself falling in love with me
00:54:30Yeah and do you know what like I can't sit here and make excuses I just answered the question shockingly
00:54:36You know what I mean
00:54:40I mean
00:54:40It was a mistake I made a mistake I'm only human
00:54:44Like I didn't I didn't mean to make Bec feel like that it wasn't my intention
00:54:50When when we revisited it I um
00:54:53We talked about it
00:54:55Yeah we talked about it
00:54:57And we patched it up you know
00:55:01Um
00:55:02Yeah I just I made a mistake
00:55:06It's alright baby
00:55:10Danny I've got a question because I'm curious
00:55:14Frankly when I watch you on the couch
00:55:17You seem uncomfortable
00:55:20I do find this uncomfortable to be honest
00:55:23It's not something I'm good at
00:55:24What's uncomfortable about it?
00:55:25Just sitting here talking about your feelings
00:55:29I turn up and do it
00:55:30Because obviously it's more for Bec
00:55:33If I had it my way I wouldn't be here no chance
00:55:36But we need this babe
00:55:37But is it more for Bec?
00:55:41100%
00:55:45Like a lot of blokes do things they don't want to do because of their
00:55:48Hold on a second doll
00:55:49One second babe
00:55:51Adore you so much
00:55:53I love you actually
00:55:54But this is not all for me doll
00:55:57No I know that they're like
00:55:59You're being you're they're helping you too
00:56:00Trust me
00:56:04These couch sessions are not just for Bec
00:56:06You signed up to the experiment on your own
00:56:10Saying that you wanted to break some patterns
00:56:13So this is the chance for you to do that
00:56:15And that's your part where you have to rise to the occasion
00:56:18And choose to do that
00:56:20With enthusiasm
00:56:22Enthusiasm thank you
00:56:23Thanks Alessandra
00:56:24You're welcome
00:56:25No but it's true
00:56:26You want your partner to want to
00:56:29And that's the game changer
00:56:30When somebody really wants to be there for you
00:56:33And chooses to make your priority day in and day out
00:56:36Wow that's the game changer
00:56:38It would be for you
00:56:39It certainly will be for Bec
00:56:44And what you know now is when you're particularly talking about commitment
00:56:49Future
00:56:51Feelings
00:56:52You do have to choose your words very carefully
00:56:58You do indeed
00:57:00If you could do it over again how would you answer it?
00:57:04I'd just say yes
00:57:08Yes what?
00:57:09I could see myself wanting to love with you
00:57:11Yeah, that's as simple as that
00:57:14And would that be the truth?
00:57:18Of course I wouldn't say if it wasn't the truth
00:57:20So yeah
00:57:23I just answered it wrong
00:57:25That was a bad answer
00:57:28I think the best thing with Daniel and I
00:57:30And I've learnt
00:57:32Is that you know
00:57:33We always come out better and stronger
00:57:35Because now moving forward
00:57:38We're in this together
00:57:39And it makes me feel like I'm not going to get hurt
00:57:44It means so much
00:57:47And like for example
00:57:48He planned this date and I walked into our apartment
00:57:51And there was candles lit everywhere
00:57:54And all over the apartment was post-it notes
00:57:58Telling me how he felt about me
00:58:02So he's learning guys
00:58:03I'm not all bad am I?
00:58:06And then we went up and he asked me to be his girlfriend
00:58:14I know you're married but what inspired you to ask Bec that question?
00:58:18Uh, I'm trying to think
00:58:22Like it was important to Bec you know
00:58:25Because like obviously
00:58:26Why was it important to you?
00:58:31Um
00:58:34Well because it gives Bec security
00:58:37But why is it important to you Danny?
00:58:42Well I'm married to Bec
00:58:44Do you know what you mean?
00:58:45So it's like
00:58:46But like I think it was more
00:58:53Um, yeah I think Bec just wanted that added security
00:58:56That like do you?
00:58:57But why was it important to you to ask her that?
00:59:02F***
00:59:35Cause I know it would be special to Bec
00:59:40But why was it important to you?
00:59:50Um, well, because I wanted to be my girlfriend, like, you know, um, yeah, that's, that's why I've done it.
01:00:01Cute.
01:00:09How did it feel?
01:00:10So good.
01:00:16It's really special to me.
01:00:20All right, well, on that note, we're going to go to a decision.
01:00:23Bec.
01:00:24I wrote stay and then I wrote boyfriend hee hee.
01:00:28Oh.
01:00:30Yeah, boyfriend.
01:00:33Danny.
01:00:35Leave, can you imagine?
01:00:37Yeah.
01:00:39So I've just done a cheeky stay.
01:00:42That's lovely.
01:00:43Where's the love part this week?
01:00:45It was in a rush.
01:00:46Oh, okay.
01:00:49This week, I think for you, Danny, clearly and plainly, let her know how you feel about her.
01:00:59Everything that you wrote on those post-it notes, translate that into your verbal communication with her this week, because
01:01:05it worked.
01:01:06It's been the best week of my life.
01:01:11You got a big thumbs up for that, so do more of that.
01:01:14Make her that priority.
01:01:21Thank you both.
01:01:22Thanks so much.
01:01:23Appreciate you.
01:01:43Tomorrow night, the experiment goes across the country.
01:01:47Welcome home.
01:01:50Wow.
01:01:51Homestays week has arrived.
01:01:54Over two big nights, our couples get a glimpse of what married life will look like.
01:01:59Yes.
01:02:00Beyond the experiment.
01:02:02Woo, passenger princess.
01:02:04Steven sets sail on an exciting new future with Rachel.
01:02:08This is such a special place for him.
01:02:10How lucky am I for him to have welcomed me into this?
01:02:13I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed.
01:02:16Oh, hang on.
01:02:20My vibes on the wedding day weren't really positive, and I'm here to protect her.
01:02:25Stella's outspoken guests from her wedding day are back.
01:02:28So, like, I've bought information.
01:02:30I'm getting, sorry to interrupt you, I'm getting some not-so-confident vibes from over here.
01:02:36And then...
01:02:37Welcome.
01:02:38Scott shows off to Gia his waterside home.
01:02:42Oh, it's a bit messy.
01:02:43So random.
01:02:45Weird.
01:02:45This wouldn't be big enough.
01:02:46It'd be better if that wasn't there.
01:02:48Is Gia the most high-maintenance house guest Scott's ever seen?
01:02:53My house is way cleaner.
01:02:55Yeah, I couldn't live here.
01:02:57If the roles were reversed and I was at Gia's house, I wouldn't say anything but nice things.
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