00:01it's energy yeah it's just like that and i don't think you should take hugs if you're
00:07uncomfortable right like but then maybe just you know try have you hugged jamie your friend jamie
00:15yes okay like is it like the pat on the back hug or the side the side hug or right
00:22or is it like
00:23us you know you're crying because you got stuck in an elevator and needed a hug i'll be honest
00:27and transparent he just lost his mom so it was at a funeral okay so but before that but outside
00:33of
00:33that all right you got you we have to do a project with you i saw some guy who was
00:38talking about
00:39um if you're like really uncomfortable talking to strangers and stuff like that to like you know
00:45how they do like exposure therapy you're afraid of snakes uh touch this snake or whatever his challenge
00:50was to people to go into like a starbucks or something like that and like his thing was
00:55extreme he's like lay down on the floor and something something where it brings attention
00:59to you so you can like get you know not as uncomfortable around people i'm challenging you
01:08to initiate a hug with started with jamie boom next time you see him you know started with people
01:16close to you wow you're making a face like i'm asking you i don't know what it is hugging is
01:21just
01:21awkward to me i don't understand i don't know what it's i don't know i can't explain it because
01:27it's some in some instances i'm okay with it and with some people i'm okay with it and i don't
01:34know
01:35it's just it's weird you must have an association with something affection somewhere along the line
01:42this girl you and you're afraid of flying on a plane so one day you're gonna be in a plane
01:46it's
01:46gonna start going down the person next to you is gonna want to hug you on the way down and
01:49you're
01:49gonna say oh no make up your mind do you also and i guess i can't just direct this at
01:54you melissa but
01:55in the room because i feel like saying i love you is in the same category as hugs so oh
02:01yeah awkward
02:02saying that if romero playfully says hey i love you i'm saying it back i don't i don't what is
02:10the
02:10hesitate what is so why can't people do it i don't know i wish i had the answer to that
02:17i don't know
02:18i don't know but so i think the bigger question is why are you so easily able to do it
02:26when you get
02:26in a relationship i don't know i can't answer that either because i haven't been in a relationship in
02:31a very long time so i don't i can't answer that question i wish i could you have your project
02:37therapy
02:37maybe i could get it answered in therapy uh yeah dude you go to therapy by the time you get
02:43the
02:43hugs you're gonna have to chisel a lot of what you got to chisel away at that rock a lot
02:47before she
02:47gets to the part of her not being into hugs i just call i just call my therapist i'm like
02:51um i need an
02:52appointment oh damn what you got available i'm gonna go hug a stranger right now i say that's from
02:58melissa go get steve yeah wait can i ask one more thing i'm sorry melissa have you ever volunteered
03:07right and at the end of volunteering someone comes up to you and says thank you and blah yes
03:12and they go for a hug or say you know i appreciate you i love you are you able to
03:17yes i'm fine with that
03:19you
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