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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02Ready? One, two, three.
00:06So what are you doing in your free time?
00:08I write music. I produce music.
00:10I really want to find love.
00:11And it's been a long time since I've even met anybody that's like relationship material.
00:17I like you.
00:21You know what you're doing.
00:23Oh.
00:24Oh.
00:24No. No, you don't.
00:27He is definitely the type of person I want in my life.
00:30How about we like hit it hard right now?
00:32But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
00:35It's all slow down.
00:36I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
00:40I mean, I wouldn't even know if I'd want to date someone knowing that they're sick right now.
00:47At the resort, he was talking to like three other girls.
00:51Maybe two.
00:52Three.
00:54You're not talking to anybody else?
00:55No.
00:56That's Courtney.
00:57That's Courtney.
00:58I know right now I'm in kind of a gray area.
01:01I need to tell Courtney that I'm talking to Diana.
01:04And I plan on telling her eventually.
01:10What's been going on with Pedro?
01:12Everything I told you, he knows.
01:16Liz spoke negatively about me to Pedro.
01:19Girlfriends don't tell a guy, like, watch out.
01:23I'm really pissed off at Liz.
01:24Like, what if he just grossed me forever and that's that?
01:28I've been glad you're here.
01:29I have a friend.
01:30At the end of the day, girl.
01:31You should have my back, not his back.
01:33You just made it.
01:34Yeah, this is bull .
01:55Well, hi!
01:57Hey!
01:57How are you?
01:58Hi!
01:59Hi.
02:00How are you?
02:01Good to see you too.
02:02Oh, I miss you so much.
02:03I have.
02:05I miss you so much.
02:06All right.
02:07This is my hug.
02:08This is my hug.
02:09Hi, Jamal.
02:09There you go.
02:10There you go.
02:11You don't want to kiss.
02:23So what are we doing?
02:24So we're dress shopping.
02:25We have some women parts in our videos that are coming up.
02:28You have other women in your videos besides me?
02:31Nobody compares to you.
02:33Josh is one of Jamal's friends and they do these lip sync videos
02:36and put them on social media and they are the cutest.
02:45Last year, they asked me to be in one and it was fun just to be around the boys.
02:49To this day, that is their most viewed video.
02:53So, thanks, Kim.
02:56So, like, who's this woman you guys are buying a dress for?
02:59Well, she's a little bigger.
03:01She's not that big.
03:03She's not big.
03:04She's fit.
03:05The person that we're fitting is actually Jamal.
03:08Oh, my goodness.
03:10What?
03:10Jamal.
03:11In our next video, Rob and Josh are two men fighting over the lucky woman, which will be me.
03:19This one should be really great.
03:21Whoa.
03:21Wow.
03:23Look at that.
03:23Got the back out, too?
03:25Yeah.
03:25I'm a little nasty girl.
03:26And you got the butt from your mama, so the butt will look really good in there.
03:31All right.
03:32So this one?
03:33You're going to have to tuck, though, a little bit.
03:34Tuck what?
03:35You know.
03:36Oh.
03:37What?
03:38Things have been really, really tense with me and Jamal lately.
03:41All right.
03:42Should we go try on some dresses?
03:43Yeah, go try on some dresses.
03:45Come on.
03:45I really hope this invite to hang out with them today is Jamal's little way of forgiving me about the
03:50past and the adoptions, and we can just move forward and start healing.
03:54All right, let's do it.
03:55All right.
03:56I'm looking forward to it.
03:57You're looking forward to it, you weirdo.
04:00You look really good, by the way.
04:03I've lost, like, 50 pounds.
04:04Thank you so much.
04:05Jamal said you've been going on some dates.
04:06I have been.
04:08Hmm.
04:08I met this guy at my friend's party, and we're actually going on a little date.
04:12I think we should get you something cute here.
04:14You look really good, so we should get something that looks really good on you.
04:16Oh, my God.
04:17You make me blessed.
04:18All right, lead me, sir.
04:20This way, this way, this way.
04:20Lead me, sir, and I'll follow.
04:22Um, I want something sexy.
04:29I want to get something a little tighter.
04:32Okay.
04:33You know I like it tight.
04:34Oh, my God.
04:35I got to walk away from you on that one.
04:37Josh is, like, my crush.
04:39He's gorgeous.
04:40His height, you know, I'm a big height girl, right?
04:42And he's just so funny.
04:44He makes me laugh all the time.
04:45And you know the best part is it drives Jamal crazy.
04:49I love it.
04:51I mean, I feel like you should also be in something a little bit more sexy to show off your
04:56bop a little bit.
04:57Okay, Josh.
04:58You're making me blush.
04:58I'm just saying.
04:59Love him.
05:00Look, I get goosebumps talking about him.
05:02It's terrible.
05:03It's so bad.
05:05I'm ready.
05:06Oh, my gosh.
05:07Here he comes.
05:09Woo!
05:10Yeah.
05:11Wow.
05:11Looking like Serena Williams.
05:13Yeah.
05:14Look at you.
05:15Look at you.
05:15Wow.
05:16I'm looking jacked, dude.
05:17You can see your whole boulder.
05:19No, you can.
05:21Hold on.
05:21Let me get it in there.
05:22The butt does look really good.
05:31I think that one's it.
05:32I think that's the one.
05:34You feel confident and sexy?
05:35I feel sexy as .
05:37Do you get wedgies in dresses?
05:39You keep looking at my feet.
05:40You know I like toes.
05:41They look cute.
05:42Hold on.
05:43Okay.
05:44Now we can talk.
05:45Now we can talk.
05:46You can rub my toes anytime.
05:48Shut up.
05:51All right.
05:51All right.
05:52I'm back in regular clothes.
05:53Hi.
05:54So, he picked out some clothes for me.
05:56So, I'm going to go try them on.
05:57Go try them on.
05:57You know I have a date coming up.
05:59So, family.
05:59You have a date?
06:00I do.
06:01Wow.
06:01It can't be Josh.
06:02So, I got a date.
06:03It cannot be Josh ever.
06:04That's right.
06:05Get out of here.
06:06Oh.
06:07Josh, you want to come help me unhook my bra?
06:08No.
06:09I got you.
06:10Ew.
06:10You need to cut that out.
06:11What?
06:12It's funny.
06:14What do I mean?
06:15I like her.
06:15You don't like her.
06:17My mom has a huge crush on Josh.
06:20I have nightmares that I go to my mom's house and Josh is already there and it's gross.
06:26I like this one.
06:27Hey.
06:27You look good, Mom.
06:28I like this one.
06:31Wow.
06:31I like the slit in it.
06:32They look good?
06:32Why do you keep trying to flirt with me with putting those toes out?
06:35Huh?
06:35He has a foot first.
06:36I know.
06:37I love it.
06:37Okay.
06:37So, this is a go, right?
06:39I like it but I want to see more.
06:41Okay.
06:41Cute though.
06:43Why do you think I wear socks all the time?
06:45You have a thing.
06:45I have a problem.
06:46Sorry.
06:48I really like this.
06:50Wow.
06:50I'm feeling so like the winner.
06:53Whoa.
06:53Whoa.
06:54Okay.
06:54Sorry.
06:55I'll cover them a little bit.
06:56But I'm very high waisted so maybe I should wear tighter shirts.
07:00What do you think?
07:00Let's put them away.
07:01Wow.
07:02You are going to have the upper hand going into this date with that outfit.
07:05It looks phenomenal.
07:07You look amazing.
07:07I think it looks good with some like heels or something.
07:10That is, wow.
07:10You're going to turn some heads.
07:12That's too much for a first date.
07:14If I brought home a date and her googly mooglies were all out and my mom saw that,
07:21she'd say, that's not the one for you.
07:23That's not appropriate.
07:24But then here she goes with her junga jungas all out and it's supposed to be fine.
07:28Can you look at her eyes?
07:29I'm trying to.
07:31That's how beautiful you look.
07:32They call them fun pillows.
07:33You don't need to bounce them.
07:34We don't need to have all that out.
07:36Who are you going on a date with that gets to see all this?
07:39So his name is Joe.
07:40Joe.
07:41He's like a music engineer.
07:43There's like a lot we have in common.
07:45You know, like I really felt it.
07:46You know what I mean?
07:47But there's one thing.
07:49Just one thing.
07:49Here it is.
07:51Right here on me.
07:52He's a short king.
07:53He's 5'8 and I'm 5'9.
07:55And you know how I am about the height thing.
07:57That's like my thing.
07:57I like it.
07:58Because if something goes bad, I'm right on him like this.
08:02So when I meet him, I'm like, what's up, little man?
08:04I like this guy.
08:05No, you can't say that.
08:06Well, I think you look great.
08:07And I think Joe's a lucky man.
08:08You look great, mom.
08:09Thanks.
08:09Yeah.
08:11I'm really excited to go on my date with Joe because he seems like such a genuine gentleman,
08:16right?
08:16And I have not had that in so long.
08:20I feel like in past relationships, it's always been about what I can get for them or what
08:24I can do for them.
08:25And then they just throw me crumbs and I'm okay with that.
08:28I'm getting it for you.
08:29Are you?
08:30Yes.
08:31It's just been so one-sided.
08:34And you don't really realize it until you're out of a situation.
08:36That's when you really realize, like, damn, I deserved a lot better than what I got.
08:41And it's really sad to be 55 years old and never had somebody just love me for Kim.
08:49Sorry.
08:52Wow, Jamal, Josh is carrying our dresses in his bag.
08:55He's such a gentleman.
08:56And I think Joe has a really good heart.
08:58He seems like this great guy.
09:00So I have a lot of high hopes for this date.
09:03You're like daddy vibes.
09:04I love it.
09:05Okay, we don't need no daddy vibes.
09:12Sophie, please, listen.
09:14You called Pedro, I'm not ready.
09:17Sophie, I just felt for your pain and everything.
09:20I'm sorry.
09:21You felt for Pedro's pain.
09:24You pushed me over the air.
09:30You pushed me.
09:32I thought we were friends.
09:37Listen, I'm sorry.
09:39You should tell the guy I'm talking to Sophie's great.
09:41You should talk to her.
09:42Instead, you're like, she's not ready.
09:43You should be careful.
09:45You shouldn't trust her.
09:45Why would you?
09:46I would never in my life.
09:47I'm sorry.
09:47I would never go to Gia and say, don't trust Liz.
09:50I would never.
09:50As a woman, I would never.
09:54I'm really pissed with Liz.
09:55I mean, ultimately, she did go behind my back and warn the guy I'm talking to to not take a
10:01chance on me and I'm toxic or a red flag or whatever.
10:04That's crazy.
10:05She knows this up.
10:08Listen, I am owning every thing about it and it is what it is.
10:12You've never had my back.
10:13Yes, I have.
10:14You've never had my back.
10:15Enough, enough.
10:16I think I'm going for a circle right now.
10:18Let's breathe.
10:19You want to go into the doctor?
10:21Yeah.
10:27Can you come with me over here, please?
10:29Of course.
10:30What happened?
10:31I'm not coming in here to have drama, to fight, for doing anything.
10:35I can be dead in two years.
10:36You think I want to come here realistically and have this ?
10:39No.
10:42Let me go check her.
10:50Sophie's being unbelievable right now.
10:52I know I'm not the reason why they're not talking.
10:54If they're not talking, it's because of something that went on in their conversation.
10:58And I'm not going to be the person in the middle to be blamed for how they both feel.
11:03I feel like neither of them are being honest with each other.
11:09Bye, Liz.
11:10Go home.
11:11Bye.
11:12Just the homeless.
11:17Sophie's yelling at me that I'm the reason why they're not talking.
11:21But, I mean, it seems like Sophie's talking to someone else.
11:23They're not interested.
11:25I never even said that to Pedro.
11:27Pedro told me she's distant.
11:30Sophie.
11:31Where do you go?
11:32Sophie.
11:34Why is she crying?
11:36People like to lose her out?
11:37Don't talk to the guy I'm talking to.
11:40She's just going to be dropping, and I'm not here.
11:44Are you okay with that?
11:45Thank you, Liz. Appreciate it. Thank you.
11:48I thought you was my friend.
11:49Thank you. Thanks, Liz.
11:51Let's go.
11:57Hey, too.
11:58That's the most snakiest thing I've ever seen in my life.
12:02Bye, Liz.
12:03This is why she dates people like Ed,
12:05because she's a horrible person.
12:08This night has just gone to absolute rubbish.
12:10This whole trip has just been rubbish.
12:12Like, I come here to get to know Pedro better
12:14and have a fun time with my friends,
12:16and all that's happened is Pedro's ghost of me
12:18probably will never talk to me again,
12:21and my friend is a backstabber.
12:23So at this point, I'm just done with Liz,
12:25and I feel like I'm just done with this whole trip.
12:31This is hard on me right now.
12:36I really came here wanting nothing for the best
12:40for all of us.
12:42Now I'm just a backstabbing person.
12:46She just it all up.
12:48Please, Sophie.
12:50I'm asking you.
12:52I'm begging you to come down.
12:53She is the most horrible woman of a member of my life.
12:58names.
13:06Lately, he was being, like, different
13:10or, like, hiding something.
13:13I went in Colt's room.
13:15He's sleeping.
13:16His phone was on the bed next to him.
13:20You piece of f*****g.
13:32Lately, I could feel he's being a little distant.
13:35I thought, like, okay, he's just depressed with his leg,
13:38and he's just going through a lot,
13:40but I could feel he was being, like, different
13:44or, like, hiding something.
13:53I mean, I've been saying a dog will always bite.
13:56It's, like, I learned my lesson, clearly.
14:00I went out with my friends.
14:02They were putting a lot of doubts in my head.
14:04They're, like, quitting.
14:05You need to go through his phone.
14:06I think he's cheating on you.
14:08Like, you need to see the proof for yourself.
14:11So, by the time I got home, I was in full-on detective mode.
14:15I went in Colt's room.
14:17I opened the door.
14:18He's sleeping.
14:20His phone was on the bed next to him,
14:22so I'm, like, this is clearly a gift from God.
14:26I thought I knew the code
14:27because I've been watching him enter the code,
14:30but then I'm, like, crap, I got it wrong.
14:31I got it wrong so many times.
14:33I got locked out of his phone,
14:35but then I hit it again.
14:37I'm, like, it unlocked.
14:38I was, like, oh, my God, oh, my God.
14:40So I'm, like, going through,
14:41and I'm seeing, like, he's messaging
14:42all these other women on social media,
14:43and then he's, like, messaging this other girl,
14:46like, I love you, I want you.
14:48Like, they're planning to meet each other.
14:50Like, you're homeless, you're jobless.
14:52Like, you have erectile dysfunction.
14:54You have a broken leg.
14:55Like, I'm your caregiver.
14:56I'm your best friend.
14:57Like, I'm loving you,
14:58but you're telling another girl you love her,
15:00and, like, yeah.
15:02Like, the audacity.
15:04You're planning to go be with this other woman.
15:07Are you kidding me?
15:08You piece of s**t.
15:18Last night, you know, I was asleep,
15:20and unknown to me,
15:22Courtney came into my room.
15:24She grabbed my phone and left.
15:27Eventually, I noticed my phone wasn't there,
15:29so I got in my trusty walker
15:31and hopped to her bedroom.
15:33She hands me back my phone,
15:34tells me to get out.
15:36Courtney gracefully put all my stuff
15:38on the side of the road.
15:40My luggage, my wheelchair, my walker,
15:42and an Uber came and took me away to the hotel.
15:47Colt was cheating on me the entire time.
15:50Colt was exactly who everybody said he was.
15:55You're sexting another woman in my house.
15:58Like, how disrespectful.
15:59Like, sending videos of him jerking off from my f***** house.
16:03Like, are you kidding me?
16:06And he sent me the same video.
16:10Courtney found out that I was texting another girl,
16:12and I've been texting another girl
16:14since, basically, I moved in with her.
16:16The same girl I've been texting for the whole year.
16:20Her name is Diana, and she's from Brazil.
16:24So you were lying when you said it was just platonic.
16:27Yeah.
16:30I started talking friendly at first,
16:33and then we started to be intimate.
16:35We started sexting.
16:37And one thing led to another,
16:39and I was starting to touch my d*****.
16:44It makes me question,
16:45was any of it real for him,
16:48or was he just using me for a place to stay?
16:50Was his plan the entire time
16:52to be with this other woman,
16:53and he's just feeding me this bull**** every day?
16:56Like, I love you.
16:56I want to be with you.
16:57Like, acting like we're a couple,
17:00but secretly you have a whole other girlfriend.
17:04I felt like a piece of s*****
17:05lying to Courtney about everything,
17:06and it did eat me up inside.
17:10I've asked Courtney to come and see me
17:11because I want to try to explain myself
17:14and apologize to her.
17:16I know what I did was awful,
17:18but I feel like I'm just a burden to Courtney.
17:22I don't feel secure.
17:23I don't feel like a man.
17:25I feel just like she feels sorry for me.
17:29And with Diana, she allowed me to feel love,
17:32to make me feel like a man.
17:36And maybe that's not reality,
17:37but for me, it's better than reality.
17:40I don't want to face my reality
17:42of being in a relationship with somebody
17:43that doesn't really love me,
17:44and she just feels sorry for me.
17:47I want to put on lashes
17:49or, like, try to look cute
17:50and, like, look, this is what you missed out on,
17:52but then I feel like I've just been crying,
17:54so it's like I don't even know
17:55if they'll stay on.
17:57Am I going to s***** cry again?
17:58I didn't even get the glue on the lash.
18:01I might think of, like,
18:03when we were best friends in Mexico
18:04and, like, everything that we went through in Mexico...
18:10Mexico...
18:12Then, like, how did we end up here?
18:19Like, why wasn't I enough for him?
18:21Like, why wasn't he happy?
18:24I thought we could have a great life together.
18:26Like, I showed him unconditional love
18:30and he showed me I'm naïve.
18:37When the walls come down
18:44Walk in the room, all eyes on me
18:46All eyes on me
18:48Ain't staring at you, they're staring at me
18:51They're staring at me
19:00Why them always do this on TV?
19:02What, they like scream?
19:04No, they're like I make a porno voice
19:07It helps the ball go
19:21Okay, let it bounce one time
19:23And then slight tight
19:23There you go
19:25Yay, you're doing it
19:27You're doing it
19:28Good job
19:31Okay
19:32Let's practice a bit on the wall
19:34Okay
19:42It's okay
19:43Good try
19:45How you feel today?
19:46I'm kind of upset about last night
19:48Because Liz like went behind my back
19:50And when I confronted her
19:51She acted like I was in the wrong
19:54Mad, I'm taking it out on the ball
19:56I'm like, ah
19:57Yeah, I mean, that's a good way to take it in there
20:00Okay
20:04Catch my breath
20:05Last night was awful
20:06What I wanted to happen was for me to
20:08Have a conversation with Liz
20:10And just understand like
20:11Where her head was at
20:12When she spoke to Pedro
20:13And warned him about me
20:15But things just escalate so fast
20:18And now I'm not speaking to my friend
20:20And Pedro's still ignoring me
20:23I don't know
20:23I didn't want last night to go how it did
20:25I just kind of wanted to know
20:26Her reasoning behind it
20:27Yeah, why she did this, yeah
20:28But then she started
20:29Getting kind of angry
20:30So I was like
20:31That's the only one that makes me angry too
20:33Because she gets mad at you
20:34She trying to apologize
20:35But she apologized not
20:36In a good way
20:38It wasn't like
20:39I'm sorry
20:40It was like
20:40I said I'm sorry
20:41Feels like she just completely
20:43Invalidated my feelings
20:44To be honest
20:45And I don't like
20:46I'm so used to my feelings
20:47Not being heard
20:48And people just
20:48Blaming me because I speak up
20:50And it's like
20:51I didn't want to argue with her
20:53I really didn't
20:55I know it's not all Liz's fault
20:57Like I could have absolutely
20:58Responded better
20:59But I get triggered
21:00When I feel dismissed
21:01I spent six years in a relationship
21:03Not having my feelings validated
21:05So now I want to stand up for myself
21:07Whether it's a friend
21:08Or a guy
21:09It's like
21:10At least listen to how I'm feeling
21:12Don't just dismiss it
21:14I have things I need to heal from
21:16And it's something
21:16I am working through
21:18Since I've got here
21:19It's just been drama
21:20With like Pedro
21:21Then drama with Liz
21:22Like I came here to relax
21:24And I just want us all
21:25To have a good time
21:26What about Pedro?
21:28It's just been weird
21:29With both of us honestly
21:30I think we've been on different pages
21:31And so
21:32Yeah I feel like
21:33I just need to talk to him
21:34Let's do this
21:35Let me text him
21:37Yeah
21:43I say hi
21:43I want you to come to hotel
21:45Today we will have
21:46Some fun conversation
21:47Okay
21:47Put away all the stress
21:49And show what you really feel
21:50You like him
21:52And I know this
21:52And he like you
21:53I like him
21:54I do
21:55Like I like him
21:55I want to get to know him
21:57We're in DR
21:58Let's have a great time
21:59Exactly
21:59No stress
22:00No pressure
22:01Just like let's have fun
22:02And hang out
22:02That's what I want
22:03Oh yeah
22:04Wait
22:05I think you can answer
22:08He said let me know what time
22:09Okay cool
22:10Good
22:11Great
22:11Yeah
22:11At least we know Pedro's alive
22:13Because he responded to you
22:15Because I haven't heard from him
22:16In like days
22:16But you know
22:18I'm not going to be offended
22:20That he texts Julia
22:21Not me
22:21I'm just happy
22:22Like he agreed to meet
22:24I have something for you
22:26What?
22:29Oh wow
22:29That's so cute
22:30That's for you
22:32Want to drink it?
22:33Thank you
22:33If you can open
22:34It's going to be our
22:36Like straw there
22:37Oh yeah
22:38Thank you
22:38It's have instruction here
22:40No I love this
22:41Because I drink so much water
22:42If you can read this instruction
22:46You
22:49What is that?
22:52What is this?
22:53Wait what is this?
22:54I don't know
22:54Wait
22:54Wait are you pregnant?
22:56Are you pregnant?
22:57Are you not going to cry?
22:59Are you pregnant?
22:59I'm actually about to cry
23:00Oh my god
23:01I'm actually crying
23:03Oh my god
23:05Wait I thought you had
23:06Pregnant
23:07Oh my god
23:07I'm going to cry for you
23:08I thought you had an issue
23:09I am
23:10And it's so difficult now
23:12Oh my god
23:13That's amazing
23:14I'm so
23:15I'm like in shock for you
23:17We did for years
23:18Oh my god
23:19And we did a lot of
23:20Doctor hopes
23:21So you can have a baby
23:23The last thing I knew
23:24You couldn't have a baby
23:26When me and Brandon
23:27Decided to have a family
23:28I have a lot of issues
23:30To get pregnant
23:31I have a polyps
23:33I have hormone problem
23:34And we already give up
23:35Congratulations
23:36I'm like in shock
23:38I started fertility treatments
23:40Not funny process
23:42Blood testing
23:43And all these testings
23:44But I feel so lucky
23:46And grateful
23:46Oh my god
23:48That's why you're not drinking
23:50You know what
23:51I knew there was a reason
23:52Nobody know
23:54Nobody in the world know
23:55Why?
23:56In Russia
23:57It's tradition
23:57We can't tell them
23:58Before first trimester
24:00Thank you for coming
24:01To this trip
24:02Oh my gosh
24:03With a baby
24:04Thanks baby
24:05For coming as well
24:08Oh my gosh
24:09Like she's gonna be a mom
24:11Like that's crazy
24:13She's had such a difficult journey
24:15She was worried
24:16That she was even able
24:17To have a baby
24:18So it's just such a blessing
24:20That she is able
24:21And she's pregnant
24:22Like it's just
24:23Such a shock
24:24Boop
24:25Like boop
24:26Oh my god
24:27There's a baby
24:28And I'm just honestly
24:29So happy for her
24:30Like she really deserves this
24:32Now we need to plan
24:33A baby shower
24:34Now we
24:35Oh my god
24:35I'm gonna buy your baby
24:36Such cute clothes
24:37Oh my god
24:38Your baby
24:39Is gonna be really fashionable
24:40Yes
24:42Stylish baby
24:54So this is my first
24:56One on one date with Jo
24:57I'm a little nervous
25:00I think the boobs
25:01Rot a little too much
25:02For this
25:02But you know
25:03We'll see how it goes
25:04We'll see
25:16I met Jo
25:17At my friend
25:18Jody's party
25:20I don't usually
25:21Date guys
25:21That are shorter than me
25:22But I feel like
25:24His charm
25:25And like
25:26He's got a nice smile
25:27And just his vibe
25:28Is just so positive
25:30This is gonna be
25:31So much fun
25:32If Jo and I
25:33Have great chemistry
25:34I'm not gonna let
25:35The height thing
25:36Like get in the way
25:37You know
25:37I mean
25:38I feel I can let
25:38That one go
25:39How are you?
25:40I'm good
25:41How are you?
25:42I love this shirt
25:42You look like
25:43You're from Nigeria
25:43Oh no
25:44Not that
25:45What are we doing here?
25:46Your chariot of weeks
25:47Oh god
25:48How's this gonna work
25:49In a skirt?
25:51Is this us doing it?
25:52This is us doing it
25:53Oh it's not mechanical?
25:54No mechanical
25:55No batteries
25:55You were very vague
25:56On the details sir
25:57I'm sorry
25:58Okay I got it
25:58I got it
25:59I got it
25:59Just wanted to surprise you
26:00Okay no I love it
26:02The old Kim
26:03Would have freaked out
26:04And been all self-conscious
26:06Like is my big ass
26:07Gonna fit on this bike?
26:08But the new Kim
26:09Is down to pedal this thing
26:10In my skirt
26:11With my little short king
26:13Next to me
26:13Let's do it
26:15Okay ready?
26:16We're ready
26:16Okay
26:17Let's go
26:18We're gonna both push
26:19I know right?
26:20Okay
26:20Oh this is cool
26:21It gets smoother
26:22Okay
26:27Oh shoot
26:28We can do this
26:29Oh shoot
26:30You did good right there
26:31Okay ready?
26:31Yep
26:32Okay you did good right there
26:33Yeah it was very good
26:34Thank you
26:35Very good
26:35Thank you
26:35You saved my life
26:38Look at how pretty this is
26:40I live up northern San Diego
26:42And I forget how beautiful
26:43It is down here
26:44I love San Diego
26:46There's no place like it
26:47You know?
26:47You're so lucky to be here
26:50All right
26:50We're gonna actually jump out
26:52And I got something special for you
26:53What is it?
26:55Are you gonna propose right here?
26:56It'd be perfect
26:56You know what?
26:57That would be a perfect scenario
26:58Wouldn't it?
26:58No
26:59I don't know you yet sir
27:02So pretty
27:06You ready?
27:09What did you bring me?
27:10I'm scared
27:12It's a camera
27:13Yes
27:14Okay
27:14We're taking pictures of us together
27:16We're taking pictures of individually us
27:18So we can take it like this
27:19Like a selfie
27:20Yeah we can
27:21I like doing these little fun gestures
27:24During dates
27:24I think that it kind of separates you from the rest
27:27Okay ready?
27:28Ready
27:28And Kim seems to me like she enjoys something different
27:31Cute
27:32And I got a feeling that that'll help us get to that second date
27:36Okay cool
27:38Okay so now you have to take the one to me
27:39All right
27:40Okay
27:40I need you to do something goofy or sexy
27:42I'm not doing anything sexy
27:43I don't know you
27:44Okay
27:45Ready?
27:46One
27:47Two
27:48Three
27:48Okay
27:49Got it
27:50All right
27:51Joe seems really really really great
27:53Like a great guy
27:55Probably one of the sweetest men I've ever went on a date with
27:58You know
27:59One
27:59Two
28:01Make the motion
28:02Got it
28:05But they all started out sweet
28:06Usman started out sweet
28:08You know
28:10So tell me what you're looking for
28:12Like are you looking for a relationship
28:13Are you looking for a marriage or
28:15I'm looking for
28:17That perfect person that compliments you
28:19That you compliment as well
28:20And if that person
28:22Comes along
28:23Pray that that is it
28:24Yeah
28:25And then you're done
28:25You don't have to do it anymore
28:27Yeah and that's how I feel too
28:28Because like I'm not about
28:29I'm not going to waste somebody's time
28:30You know what I mean
28:31Yeah
28:31Like we're too old
28:32Time is
28:32Time is very very precious
28:34Yeah
28:35Well that's an extreme mature statement
28:38Coming from somebody that looks so young
28:39Thanks
28:41You're a charmer
28:42Okay charmer
28:43No
28:44I do feel a spark with Kim
28:46We seem to just be clicking
28:48And I'm really excited about that
28:50And I'm hoping that it continues
28:51Okay ready
28:53You got the pictures
28:53I got the pictures
28:54Okay let's go
28:55You want to sit over here
28:56She seems like a really sweet
28:58Very nice
28:59Beautiful person
29:00And we're going to get to know each other
29:02Really really well hopefully
29:03Are you ready?
29:05Yes
29:05Shot number one
29:07I like that one
29:08That's really cute
29:09I agree
29:11Shot number two
29:12It's another selfie
29:13That one's cute
29:14Because you're smiling
29:15This one you look like
29:16A little creeper right here
29:16You look much better
29:17When you smile
29:18That's my sexy look
29:19What are you talking about?
29:21All these years
29:22You're the first person
29:23To tell me
29:23Hey
29:24Joe that's not sexy
29:24Didn't I just tell you
29:25I was brutally honest
29:26I just told you that
29:27I appreciate that
29:27Oh this is cute
29:29Oh the fire one
29:30This is really cute
29:31I like this one
29:32Okay this is a winner
29:33That's a really good picture
29:34Of me actually
29:35I win
29:35Can I have that?
29:36Okay
29:38I really appreciate
29:39The fact that Joe
29:40Put so much thought
29:41Into this date
29:42And brought the little cameras
29:43But right now
29:44I'm just getting like
29:44Friend vibes
29:45There's no like
29:46Sexual tension
29:47And I want to feel
29:48That attraction
29:49Like ooh
29:50I can't wait to see
29:51What they got going on
29:52But I'm just
29:53Not feeling that right now
29:54It was a good idea
29:56Good
29:56I'm glad you enjoyed it
29:57I did enjoy it
29:58But I also think
29:59I have so much
30:00Going on with my family
30:01That I just can't
30:03Waste time on something
30:04That I know
30:04Is not going to work
30:05Thank you for this
30:07This is amazing
30:07Thank you
30:08Thank you for joining me
30:09Alright I'll see you later
30:11So this is probably
30:13Going to be our
30:13First and last date
30:17Hey
30:17You look amazing
30:19Via is becoming
30:20Someone that I feel
30:21Like I can trust
30:23I want to share
30:25Something with him
30:25That I've been
30:26Holding on to
30:27I don't share
30:28With a lot of people
30:29Like how I'm
30:30Like sick right now
30:33Yeah that's a lot
30:36My biggest fear
30:37Is being was
30:37Going to look at me
30:38Like I'm just
30:40Gross
30:49I got this feeling
30:50In my body
30:52I need to dance
30:53The stress away
30:54Hey
30:55Hey
30:56You look amazing
30:59I got you something
31:00Wait to get me
31:01I got you a little necklace
31:03Oh my god
31:04Yeah
31:04Here I'll go this way
31:09How's the look
31:09That looks awesome
31:10You're cute
31:11Look at that
31:11I want to go out tonight
31:13We're dancing until sunrise
31:16La Viva
31:18I come alive
31:19Tonight
31:20I should do love your dress
31:23Do you really?
31:23Yeah the color
31:24Everything looks great on you
31:25Thank you
31:27I am literally still in shock
31:29At how things went last night
31:31I may have talked to Pedro
31:33But I'm not the person to blame
31:35For whatever is going on
31:36Between them
31:38Gracias
31:39Thank you for my first time
31:40Having a more Maria here
31:41Muchas gracias
31:41Gracias
31:42I felt like I had a lot of trust
31:44Between Sophie and I
31:45And it's just completely
31:46Out the door
31:48Yeah last night was
31:51Definitely
31:52Rough and not what I had expected
31:54I kind of just think
31:55I was the easy excuse out
31:57For her to deal with
31:58What she's dealing with
32:00Well I'm sorry
32:01Everything's kind of going
32:01The way it's going right now
32:02I hope I brought a little bit
32:04Of light
32:04You did
32:05It definitely was very calming
32:07For me
32:07Listen
32:08I'm very forever grateful
32:12Via coming to the bar last night
32:13Really just made me feel safe
32:16And he is becoming someone
32:18That I feel like I can trust
32:22It makes me feel like
32:23I want to share something with him
32:24That I've been holding on to
32:26I'm definitely here to like
32:28Work on my mental health
32:30And
32:33I don't share with a lot of people
32:37Like how I'm like sick right now
32:42Um
32:43It was about a year ago
32:45I found out
32:46That I had ovarian cancer
32:48When I
32:55Miscarried a baby
32:57Which also makes
32:59My past really hard
33:01Cause
33:02That's who I thought I was gonna like
33:04Build a relationship with
33:05So I kind of just ripped the bandaid off
33:08And my relationship
33:09And
33:09I just really felt like
33:11I just went on the whole journey
33:12By myself
33:13Of being sick
33:14And
33:14Um
33:17Yeah that's a lot
33:18For you to take on
33:19But
33:20I'm glad you brought it up
33:22Now
33:23You know
33:25I'm definitely scared
33:27That like
33:27My sickness
33:29Can push someone away
33:30Like do I date
33:32Do I put myself out there
33:34Is someone gonna like
33:36Leave me because of it
33:37Is someone not gonna be ready
33:39To take on
33:40Yeah
33:41Everything that I come with
33:43Well I'm glad you were able
33:44To share that with me
33:46You know
33:47It means a lot to me
33:48Honestly
33:49And you just met me
33:50You gave me a safe spot
33:52That I feel comfortable with
33:53That
33:53Go ahead
33:54I definitely feel like
33:55I'm being listened to
33:56And heard around you
33:57Yeah
33:59Liz is concerned
34:01Because
34:01She felt
34:03Sharing that information
34:04With me
34:05Would
34:05Push me away
34:06But
34:07I'm very open minded
34:09Liz being vulnerable
34:10Has made me
34:11Feel like
34:12There's a very strong connection
34:13Where we can
34:14Both get past that
34:17I actually look cute crying though
34:19It's not a good thing
34:20But you know
34:21I can ugly cry too
34:24We don't want to see ugly cry
34:28Yeah I'm a sucker for that
34:29Yeah
34:30Uh huh
34:32My biggest fear
34:33Is being was gonna look at me
34:35And kind of just be like
34:36I don't know
34:37Just
34:38Looking at me
34:39Like I'm just
34:41Gross
34:41But he's still
34:43Like holding my hand
34:44He's still being so sweet
34:47So now I can't stop smiling
34:48No?
34:49No
34:56I feel like I'm winning
34:58And I am happy
35:00Thank you Sophie and Pedro
35:02Something good came out of it
35:06Sorry I
35:06Y'all relationship up
35:08But thank you for mine
35:12I like the way I feel
35:13When I'm with you
35:14Yeah
35:15You too
35:21You have erectile dysfunction
35:23You can't walk
35:24You're homeless
35:24You're jobless
35:25And you're still cheating on me
35:26In my house
35:27Look I'm not trying to justify it
35:29What I did was wrong
35:30You only care about yourself
35:31And your
35:47Hey Courtney
35:48Hey
35:48Do you want some marshmallows?
35:50Sure
35:51Load me up
35:52Oops
36:02Hey
36:03Thank you
36:06Quite the waitress
36:10I told my parents
36:11Everything that happened
36:13I was like
36:13He's messaging other girls
36:15He's cheating
36:15I don't know if I told him
36:17He was sending videos
36:18But
36:20What's going on?
36:23Well I'm going to meet with Colt later
36:25To give him back his stuff
36:27How do you think that's going to go?
36:31I don't know
36:33Like it's sad
36:34Like I felt attached to him
36:36Like we've been together nonstop
36:37For like three or four months now
36:40When you called us from Mexico
36:42You were so happy
36:44Yeah
36:44You know
36:46I really thought maybe you met your person down there
36:54Okay it's raining
36:55I'm going to move my chair
36:56Okay
36:57Okay
36:59No he was welcome to come
37:00Because he needed somewhere to go
37:02But he overstayed his welcome
37:07For him to be doing
37:09Doing this stuff
37:10Behind your back
37:11Yeah
37:11What a lowlife
37:12I mean
37:13That's a manipulation
37:14I mean
37:14Yeah
37:15He played you
37:16And he played us
37:17I guess when you meet him
37:18To give him back his stuff
37:19I don't even think
37:20I would let him explain anything
37:22Just here's your stuff
37:23Goodbye
37:23Turn around and walk away
37:25Yeah
37:26There's nothing you can really say
37:28At this point
37:29It's over
37:30Yeah
37:31Yeah
37:33Time to go in
37:34I guess it's
37:35Kind of wet out here
37:37Bye
37:37Bye
37:38Bye
37:39We'll get it figured out
37:41Okay
37:42We know you make the right decision
37:44Yeah
37:46Always
37:46You are holding my heart
37:50I gave it up from the start
37:52I want it all back
37:54I want it all back
37:55Yeah
37:57Colt's been texting me
37:59And begging me to see him
38:01I'm willing to meet with him
38:04Because I want an explanation
38:06It's like why
38:09I read their conversation
38:10And I'm like
38:12This conversation's like dry as hell
38:14This is so boring
38:18So I'm like
38:19What?
38:20What?
38:21Like what is she doing for you
38:23That I'm not?
38:30Hello
38:31Hey
38:32I'm at the pool
38:32With your saw
38:33Okay
38:34Come out
38:35Okay
38:41Ah
38:45It's difficult to face Courtney
38:46Right now
38:47I feel a lot of shame
38:48For lying to her
38:49And the way that she found out
38:51About this
38:54I would give anything
38:55For a second chance
38:57But I know I don't deserve it
39:00Hi
39:01Hey
39:17You look great
39:18You look really pretty
39:21What's new
39:23Are you kidding me?
39:26I'm sorry
39:27But
39:28A lot happened
39:29At once
39:30My whole life changed
39:31I met you
39:32Broke my leg
39:33Moved in
39:34With you
39:34And suddenly
39:36It's like
39:36Not only are we dating
39:37But it's like
39:37We're married or something
39:38All of a sudden
39:41It was just a lot
39:44Why won't you just
39:45Communicate that with me?
39:46Like why
39:47Are you lying
39:48And hiding that from me?
39:50Look
39:50I'm not trying to justify it
39:51What I did was wrong
39:52And terrible
39:54How would you feel
39:55If I'm sending
39:56Masturbation videos
39:57To guys
39:58And saying
39:58I love you
39:59I want you
39:59How would you feel?
40:02I'd be heartbroken
40:04Then why would you do that to me?
40:09Because you don't love
40:10Or care about me
40:11You only care about yourself
40:12And your
40:13Like you have
40:17A rectal dysfunction
40:18You can't walk
40:19You're homeless
40:19You're jobless
40:20And you're still
40:21Cheating on me
40:21In my house
40:22Like the level
40:23Of disrespect
40:24Is insane
40:29Like I loved you
40:31I thought you were
40:32My best friend
40:33I feel all of it
40:34It's just a lie
40:39Where do we go
40:55Next time on The Single Life
40:59Welcome to therapy
41:00Miss Julia
41:01I like you
41:02I want to get to know you
41:03There's just a lot of pressure
41:04And you're starting to be more serious
41:07I'm excited for that
41:08Thank you
41:38My goal in life
41:39It wasn't something serious
41:41It was serious
41:42So why did you take me to Key West
41:44If you were serious with her
41:46I can't wonder about this woman anymore
41:49Tony needs to explain himself
41:53Courtney you need to let me go
41:56I hate myself for what I did to Courtney
42:01I feel torn
42:02Like if I don't get out of this hotel room right now
42:06I might never leave
42:11Will you be communicating with other women?
42:15Um
42:17Um
42:18I already know he's talking to other women
42:20I find it extremely disrespectful
42:22That he cannot be a man enough
42:24And tell me to my face
42:26Yes
42:27I'm going to go home
42:30Wait what happened?
42:31I just want to go home
42:32But why?
42:32I just want to go home
42:33I just want to go home
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