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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:01No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:03My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:11I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?
00:00:24I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39What are you doing?
00:00:40You're just a little girl together.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it, I don't know.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The man.
00:00:58We're happy in the Dominican Republic, stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:09I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:15Oh, sexy.
00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yes.
00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santel and Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:44I want my wife, I want the house, I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.
00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:05But now I have to be serious.
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15So is this who you are?
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love wife?
00:02:20No, I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.
00:02:24Oh, yeah, you can be concerned.
00:02:24But don't call at me hostile, because I die.
00:02:27No, you cannot do it, I die.
00:02:29You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:57Hello.
00:02:58Hello, hello.
00:02:59Is it possible with Pinacolada?
00:03:00Yes, of course.
00:03:02Everything I got done, you want it, you want it, you want it, come and get it.
00:03:07I'm on my mission to get in your face. Got nothing to lose when I'm taking the stage.
00:03:11I fly like a peggy, so straight out the gate.
00:03:1321.
00:03:13Do I have your attention?
00:03:20Check, check, check, check, check, check, check it out.
00:03:24Hey, bitches!
00:03:27Click, snap, look at that.
00:03:30I'm here!
00:03:32Look at that.
00:03:33Check, check, check, check, check it out.
00:03:36Check, check, check, check, check it out.
00:03:37Girl strip!
00:03:38Girl strip!
00:03:39Woo!
00:03:39Do I have your attention?
00:03:43I'm Sophie. I'm 26 years old. I'm from London and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls. It's so hot.
00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Jerz!
00:03:56Oh!
00:03:57So, I've recently filed for divorce and what better way to celebrate than with a girls' trip?
00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're gonna have to like, take the will on this.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks and just have a good time and not stress and just actually have some
00:04:11fun.
00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:15Me too.
00:04:16And the guys here are fine.
00:04:18Even the workers are cute, the hotel people are cute.
00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.
00:04:24Everything's an upgrade for me, ladies.
00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.
00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.
00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected and we kind of became a support for each other
00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.
00:04:38And, yeah, now we've actually become friends.
00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?
00:04:42I still like the older man.
00:04:44Older? How old?
00:04:46Ninety-three is fine.
00:04:47Let's stick with it.
00:04:48Ninety-four.
00:04:49Ninety-seven.
00:04:49Ninety-four.
00:04:50Ninety-four.
00:04:52I'm Liz.
00:04:53I'm 33 years old.
00:04:54and I'm from San Diego, California, but I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.
00:05:04But, I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.
00:05:11Sophia.
00:05:13I know you like a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:15Latinian?
00:05:17Latinian.
00:05:18I want to say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.
00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:22Yeah.
00:05:23So you like them.
00:05:24Okay.
00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip,
00:05:26obviously both single, ready to have a great time.
00:05:29And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona,
00:05:35we immediately just, like, hit it off.
00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends,
00:05:39and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter,
00:05:44whatever you want to call me.
00:05:46Annoying bitch.
00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:51He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me,
00:05:53Sophie, the single, not you.
00:05:56I'm Julia.
00:05:57I'm 31 years old.
00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar,
00:06:00and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:03My husband, Brandon, very protective,
00:06:06but he have a reason because we have secrets.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I doesn't tell anybody yet
00:06:14because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mockdell's.
00:06:21So let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah.
00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mockdell's.
00:06:25After dealing with this divorce
00:06:27and the stress with Rob and everything,
00:06:29like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob
00:06:33towards the end of the marriage
00:06:34that it's really hard for me to even believe
00:06:37that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:44Hi, thank you.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:47Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I missed you.
00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob,
00:06:51I just fell in love with him so quick
00:06:53that I didn't even think twice
00:06:54about moving to another country to marry him.
00:06:59But even though we was married,
00:07:01I found out he actively had a dating profile
00:07:04on a dating site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.
00:07:11Let's explore.
00:07:13I was only on a dating app
00:07:14after Sophie told me
00:07:16to go talk to other women
00:07:17ten f***ing times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man
00:07:22that I feel I deserve,
00:07:23and I had to walk away.
00:07:25I don't want to do everything.
00:07:27We're just not good together.
00:07:30Well, I think that's pretty much it, then.
00:07:38I was only 20 years old
00:07:39when I first started talking to Rob,
00:07:41and there's definitely something scary
00:07:43about getting back out there
00:07:44because I've only known my life
00:07:46as an adult, really, with Rob.
00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like
00:07:49without Rob.
00:07:50But it's also very exciting.
00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you,
00:07:54and we have a special guy
00:07:56who we come to see.
00:07:59For the past four months,
00:08:01I've been talking to this guy,
00:08:02and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall, he works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:14If you could write on paper,
00:08:15the perfect guy,
00:08:16it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro,
00:08:21and, yeah, it is that Pedro
00:08:24from Chantelle and Pedro.
00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media,
00:08:34and then I saw this really cute guy,
00:08:36and I was like, okay, like, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking,
00:08:40I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.
00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking,
00:08:46I didn't know the ins and outs
00:08:47of what happened between him and Chantelle.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation,
00:08:52but I know better than to judge someone
00:08:54based on other people's opinions.
00:08:57We have been talking a lot,
00:08:58and then we ended up meeting up
00:09:00three times or so in person.
00:09:02He basically was like,
00:09:03oh, like, what's your ideal date?
00:09:05And I told him, like, what type of food,
00:09:07what type of restaurant,
00:09:08what type of gift I want,
00:09:09and he just, like, did all of it,
00:09:10and I was like, oh.
00:09:11So what was the gift?
00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store,
00:09:15and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace,
00:09:17and that was the first time we met in person.
00:09:19So...
00:09:20Oh, my God.
00:09:20I know.
00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic,
00:09:25and I like that he's, like,
00:09:27trying to win me over, kind of,
00:09:28because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers, like, once.
00:09:29It's, like, every week,
00:09:30I get new flowers at my door,
00:09:32and then he leaves, like,
00:09:32this little, like, love note in the flowers.
00:09:34Did you see that smile?
00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas,
00:09:39we don't hang out much.
00:09:41We've only hung out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic
00:09:44for his sister's birthday,
00:09:45and I wanted to do this girl's trip for a while now,
00:09:48so it kind of made perfect sense
00:09:50to just combine the two.
00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time
00:09:53you're spending with him.
00:09:54Yeah, but also,
00:09:55I'm not trying to jump into, like,
00:09:57something super serious immediately,
00:09:58because I only met him, like, a couple times.
00:10:00You just finished your relationship.
00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:02Like, my end goal is a relationship,
00:10:04again, but right now I also want to be single,
00:10:07and I want to make sure I know what I want this time.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro,
00:10:13but at the same time,
00:10:14I've been through hell with my own marriage,
00:10:16and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously.
00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time
00:10:23and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.
00:10:25We're going to see him tonight,
00:10:26which will be fun.
00:10:27I'll have fun.
00:10:28Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends.
00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro
00:10:33about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time
00:10:37and get to know him,
00:10:38but I feel like he's catching
00:10:40very strong feelings very early on,
00:10:42and I really just want to make sure
00:10:44that I don't let someone force me
00:10:47into something that I'm just really not ready for yet.
00:10:49So, that's a fun!
00:10:52Yay!
00:10:54We're happy in the Dominican Republic.
00:10:56Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:10:57Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:11:17All right, cadets,
00:11:18your mission today
00:11:20is to infiltrate this valley.
00:11:21It's full of enemies.
00:11:22They're going to be on all sides
00:11:24and surrounding you.
00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:29Woo!
00:11:32I'm going to get you.
00:11:36Ooh, I like this.
00:11:47Get around to the left.
00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.
00:11:49Starboard sign.
00:11:50Not starboard.
00:11:51We're not in the Navy.
00:11:52Up, up!
00:11:54My name is Kim.
00:11:55I'm 55 years old.
00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.
00:11:59And for the past probably 10, 20 years,
00:12:01I've just been feeling really down about myself,
00:12:04myself, and now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.
00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey,
00:12:17and I've lost 57 pounds to dates,
00:12:19and it's been life-changing.
00:12:22I have more energy,
00:12:23and it's like I'm just tapping into this young,
00:12:27more adventurous Kim again.
00:12:30When I was 19 years old,
00:12:32I went into the military,
00:12:33and I was a sharpshooter,
00:12:36and I jumped out of planes.
00:12:39I was the bad bitch back then.
00:12:43I got you.
00:12:44You said, ugh.
00:12:45And now, 30 years later,
00:12:46I'm trying to get my groove back,
00:12:49especially in my dating life.
00:12:51Boo!
00:12:51You're shot.
00:12:52Oh, crap.
00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?
00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.
00:12:59You know how I used to go?
00:12:59I do.
00:13:00So I'm on a date,
00:13:01and this is Javier.
00:13:03I'm excited to be here.
00:13:06I like women when they take charge.
00:13:07Oh, do you?
00:13:08Si.
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:09You got the right kind of woman then.
00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah,
00:13:14that kind of set us up, right?
00:13:15Like a little blind date.
00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.
00:13:19Try to.
00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time,
00:13:22I was like, well, he's kind of handsome.
00:13:24A little bit.
00:13:25No, I'm just joking.
00:13:26He's so handsome.
00:13:27Gracias.
00:13:28De nada.
00:13:30Oh, no, it's me!
00:13:32No!
00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months,
00:13:37but it is hard as
00:13:38to find a good man in your 50s.
00:13:42Okay, we're done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.
00:13:46I feel like I can see through all your games,
00:13:48and let's just be honest,
00:13:49I was with the biggest game player
00:13:50ever in the world.
00:13:59I met Usman on social media about five years ago.
00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria,
00:14:07and after 11 months of talking on the phone,
00:14:10my ass was on a plane to Africa
00:14:12to go meet Usman in person.
00:14:14Oh, my God!
00:14:18Oh, my God!
00:14:19From the beginning,
00:14:20Usman and I went through a lot.
00:14:21We had a lot of challenges,
00:14:23a lot of disagreements.
00:14:24Why would you bring me down here
00:14:26to shoot a video about another woman?
00:14:28Oh, my God.
00:14:30This is funny.
00:14:31Is this funny, too?
00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out,
00:14:35and he put a ring on it.
00:14:37Will you marry me, babe?
00:14:38Yes!
00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids,
00:14:42and my baby-making days are over,
00:14:44but I loved Usman so much
00:14:46that I was willing to let him
00:14:47take a second wife to have a baby,
00:14:49and it's crazy when I think about that.
00:14:52When I get married to the second wife,
00:14:54I should take her child to you in this day.
00:14:57No, sir.
00:14:58Listen to me.
00:14:58That will bring you guys more closer.
00:15:00No.
00:15:01And you love each other.
00:15:02Like, close friends.
00:15:03No.
00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife
00:15:06to, like, coexist and, like,
00:15:07make biscuits or something.
00:15:09I don't know.
00:15:09And, like, raise this baby together.
00:15:11What the ?
00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses
00:15:15before this became a whole
00:15:17sister-wise kind of thing.
00:15:19You're a asshole.
00:15:20You are a asshole.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:25We tried.
00:15:26We tried, right?
00:15:28We tried.
00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.
00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything,
00:15:34but I miss having a man.
00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.
00:15:38I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.
00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.
00:15:44So, how do you like it?
00:15:45It was so much fun.
00:15:47Oh, my gosh.
00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.
00:15:49You were in the military?
00:15:50Yes.
00:15:51Wore the little uniform,
00:15:52wore the little beret,
00:15:53jumped out of planes.
00:15:54I've done a lot.
00:15:55That's very sexy.
00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?
00:15:58Do you have your uniform?
00:15:59No, but I'll get one.
00:16:03So, where do you live?
00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?
00:16:08I have two roommates.
00:16:09Oh, two.
00:16:10So, it's like a big bachelor pad.
00:16:13No, no, not really.
00:16:15I live with two young women.
00:16:19So, like, how did you end up
00:16:21with two girl roommates?
00:16:23I used to date one of them.
00:16:24You used to date one of your roommates?
00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.
00:16:28What happened?
00:16:29Do you don't mind me asking?
00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.
00:16:33Javier.
00:16:33She dumped me.
00:16:35Well, I would have, too,
00:16:36if you would have cheated on me.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:39Javier is really cute,
00:16:40but there's a lot of red flags here.
00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.
00:16:46And, like, what is the situation
00:16:48with his ex, right?
00:16:49He lives with her.
00:16:50He cheated on her.
00:16:52They're still banging.
00:16:53There's something going on there.
00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.
00:16:55It's like an ambulance siren
00:16:57going, Kim, get out of here.
00:16:58Kim, get out of here.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:02It was fun.
00:17:03It was fun.
00:17:04Yeah, you too.
00:17:05In my past relationships,
00:17:07I let so much slide,
00:17:08and I'm just not going to do it now.
00:17:10I'm not going to do it.
00:17:11I'll text you.
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:13Or text me.
00:17:14Okay, got it.
00:17:15Thank you for taking me out here.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:17So, I'm not going to see Javier again,
00:17:19but some woman is going to snatch him up.
00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.
00:17:22Sorry.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:41Hello.
00:17:42What are you doing?
00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.
00:17:44Oh.
00:17:45So, is my house the grocery store now?
00:17:47I actually need to take him to his bins.
00:17:48You do?
00:17:49Mm-hmm.
00:17:49Oh.
00:17:51Jamal is my son.
00:17:52He's 30 years old.
00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son
00:17:58than I am of Jamal.
00:17:59He is everything to me.
00:18:05Do you have a ranch?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.
00:18:09I use that.
00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.
00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.
00:18:14That's not true.
00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.
00:18:17It's like a two for one.
00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?
00:18:22No.
00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?
00:18:24Take one.
00:18:24I'll leave you one.
00:18:25Thanks.
00:18:27So, yeah, I went on, like, a little laser tag date.
00:18:30Oh, yeah?
00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.
00:18:33Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:18:38I just feel like I still need...
00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.
00:18:45Indeed.
00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense
00:18:50and, like, really difficult between Jamal and I right now.
00:18:53Can you tell me what's been going on with him?
00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to...
00:19:02say what I have to say, you know?
00:19:04Or discuss what I've done.
00:19:07All right, love you.
00:19:09Love you, too.
00:19:09I'm going to go head out.
00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.
00:19:16Text me later or something.
00:19:17Got you.
00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will...
00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.
00:19:22All righty, see you later.
00:19:25I preach authenticity.
00:19:26I preach being genuine.
00:19:28And I've been living a lie.
00:19:30And when the truth comes out,
00:19:32these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.
00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.
00:19:38Never forgive myself.
00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.
00:19:48The first time I see something online, you know, I say,
00:19:50oh, my God, like, she looks fine, like.
00:19:54The hair, the eyes, the lips, the f***, the ass, the leg.
00:19:58Maybe, if we love you, we get some.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:03I'm Gino.
00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.
00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:20:09Oh.
00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult,
00:20:16but how did this all end up in such a disaster?
00:20:30Stopped down.
00:20:31Let's go.
00:20:32What you drinking, what you want?
00:20:33Two counts right here.
00:20:36Let's go.
00:20:42Come on, Gino, you got this.
00:20:56All right, last 10 seconds before the end.
00:21:00I'm Gino.
00:21:01I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Camp Michigan.
00:21:04Come on, let it all go.
00:21:06Nice job.
00:21:08I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.
00:21:12I'm way out of here.
00:21:15I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.
00:21:19I mean, after everything that I've been through,
00:21:22I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:21:26Woo!
00:21:27Would you mind taking just a couple selfies for me?
00:21:30Of course.
00:21:31If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?
00:21:35Give me a big smile.
00:21:37I really want to find a woman that has a good heart,
00:21:41who's very much into me just how I am.
00:21:43Nice job.
00:21:44I just have to do a better job at choosing women,
00:21:47because I have failed miserably in the last,
00:21:53well, last four years anyway.
00:22:03I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago
00:22:11and went to Panama to meet her.
00:22:20But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.
00:22:25There were some huge, serious red flags.
00:22:27You're trash.
00:22:30I don't want to see you anymore.
00:22:31That's your choice.
00:22:33F***ing.
00:22:34Don't.
00:22:35Guys.
00:22:36I'm going to f***ing kill this.
00:22:38Oh, God damn the president.
00:22:39Stop.
00:22:40Jasmine, look at me.
00:22:42Stupid liar.
00:22:43I f***ing hate him.
00:22:45During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.
00:22:49And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the street
00:22:57two months after we separated.
00:23:00I want you to know that I am pregnant.
00:23:04And Matt and I agree that we want to have the baby, and that's what we're going to do.
00:23:10But, well, I thought she loved me.
00:23:19I thought she wanted to have a child with me.
00:23:26She's such a liar.
00:23:33She's such a liar.
00:23:36I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet.
00:23:40And now I just want to look forward to living my best life.
00:23:56Today, I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.
00:24:04It's peachy, but that's so easy.
00:24:08Even if it isn't, keep it easy, breezy.
00:24:16Hi there.
00:24:17I'm Melissa.
00:24:18Gino.
00:24:18Gino, nice to meet you.
00:24:20Is this your first event?
00:24:21Yeah, this is my first event.
00:24:22So, let's get you into there and meet some of our people, okay?
00:24:26Okay, sounds good.
00:24:27I have never been to a singles event before.
00:24:30In fact, I haven't met a woman in person and asked her out on a date in probably a good
00:24:3730 years.
00:24:38Hi.
00:24:40Got Michelle over there and Rachel here.
00:24:43What's up?
00:24:44Before the internet, I'd use classified ads.
00:24:47It was scary because I didn't really know what they look like.
00:24:52In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do, and I'm lucky I never got scammed.
00:25:00So, this is Amy.
00:25:01Hi.
00:25:02Hello.
00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.
00:25:03Nice to meet you.
00:25:04Nice to meet you.
00:25:05I'm Gino.
00:25:05But even now, I prefer to meet women online.
00:25:10Being rejected in person is the worst, right?
00:25:13You feel so small, and it's hard to take.
00:25:16So, I am way out of my comfort zone being here.
00:25:20I think we need to go play some kickball.
00:25:23Yeah, let's go.
00:25:24Let's go.
00:25:25Let's go.
00:25:26Let's go.
00:25:27Hey, can we get Gino up here?
00:25:33Let's go.
00:25:33My bat?
00:25:37Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino.
00:25:55What's your name?
00:25:56What's your name?
00:25:57Gino.
00:25:58I'm Aaron.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:26:00Nice to meet you.
00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.
00:26:04Awesome.
00:26:06Good job.
00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me because it got me out of my comfort zone.
00:26:11But now that I have to have conversations with them, I hope I don't mess it up.
00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like, oh my God, another normal guy.
00:26:21Oh, that's good.
00:26:21It's 70% women.
00:26:2470%?
00:26:25I like that.
00:26:25I know, right?
00:26:26That's why I get excited.
00:26:28I'm like, a guy?
00:26:32That's funny.
00:26:33So tell us.
00:26:34Like, what brought you here?
00:26:35What brought me here?
00:26:36Well, I mean, I'm single now.
00:26:38When did you get divorced?
00:26:40When did I get divorced?
00:26:42Um, well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:26:46Okay.
00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.
00:26:50We don't live together.
00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.
00:26:56What if they're not done with you?
00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready?
00:27:05I'm with you on that.
00:27:06He seems so nervous.
00:27:08He's shaking.
00:27:09His voice is cracking.
00:27:10What the hell is going on here?
00:27:11What is he hiding?
00:27:13So tell us what happened.
00:27:15So basically what happened is five months after our marriage, she met a guy, a random guy at the gym
00:27:22and cheated on me with him.
00:27:24What?
00:27:25And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.
00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?
00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me.
00:27:36Not telling them about my nightmarish, miserable relationship that I just went through.
00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.
00:27:47But anyway, let's change the subject a little.
00:27:50What are you guys looking for in a man?
00:28:03Wait, can you hear?
00:28:05Oh, did I hear that?
00:28:07No.
00:28:08I didn't hear anything.
00:28:09I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a
00:28:16disaster?
00:28:17When these singers are thinking of me, we are trying to establish happiness in a war.
00:28:17Oh shit.алы
00:28:17from working together. We
00:28:33are not capable of querer bathing in us. Why
00:28:37are we asking about the wait-and-man and bathing scene in our lives? And
00:28:39we are the people feeling big standing? Then
00:28:41we can't catch the weight shadow of our lives.
00:28:41Pedro is bad, baby.
00:28:44Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:28:45Muy mala, mala, mala, mala, mala.
00:28:49Muy mala.
00:28:50You bad, honey.
00:28:51Got bad money.
00:28:52You bad, honey.
00:28:53Mala.
00:28:54Muy mala.
00:28:56Hello, baby.
00:28:57Hello, baby.
00:28:58Hello, baby.
00:28:59Hello, baby.
00:29:00How are you?
00:29:01How are you?
00:29:01Good.
00:29:03My name is Pedro.
00:29:04I'm 33 years old.
00:29:05Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic.
00:29:07But right now, I live in Atlanta, Georgia.
00:29:09Trae la van, sí, ya estamos aquí.
00:29:11Sí.
00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel,
00:29:14I've been keeping a low profile.
00:29:15I needed time to myself.
00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.
00:29:20Eso, papá.
00:29:22But now, I put everything behind me,
00:29:25and I'm ready for the next shot of my life.
00:29:28Bam.
00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there to say.
00:29:31Así mismo.
00:29:33¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?
00:29:34Vamos a agrar la van, ponerla bien bonita.
00:29:36Para Sofi.
00:29:36Tú siempre estás dispuesto a darlo todo por una mujer.
00:29:40Yo soy un tipo romántico.
00:29:42I'm putting my best effort in this, OK?
00:29:46Sí, claro.
00:29:47I'm so excited.
00:29:49I'm very happy.
00:29:50Because Sofi arrived in the yard with her friends,
00:29:52and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight.
00:29:55I really want to impress Sofi when she is in my own country.
00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the band
00:30:01they're going to drive Sofi and her friends around the yard.
00:30:05Pedro, ¿qué te gusta esa mujer?
00:30:08No me gusta, papá.
00:30:10Me encanta.
00:30:11Óyeme.
00:30:13My first time I saw something online, you know,
00:30:15I would say, Oh my God!
00:30:17Like, she looks fine.
00:30:19Like, she has everything that I'm looking for.
00:30:22The hair, the eyes, the lips, the ****, the ass, the leg.
00:30:26And she got, you know, the waist.
00:30:28You know, like, it's going to be here, it's going to be down.
00:30:31You know, like a guitar kind of style, you know.
00:30:33That's made me a little crazy.
00:30:43I have a strong feeling for Sophie, and I really, really want a relationship with her.
00:30:48She has very kind heart.
00:30:49She has the full package.
00:31:03When I met Chantelle, I told her my life was set for forever, and then, you know, everything
00:31:09went to the drain.
00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard and moved to the United States for love.
00:31:31But Chantelle's family got so much drama, they went freaking crazy.
00:31:36I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect, and nobody else.
00:31:45Chantelle never stand up for me with her family.
00:31:48That drove in a way between us, to the point our marriage couldn't survive.
00:31:55I feel that we go different ways in life.
00:31:58I want my divorce.
00:32:02I can.
00:32:05I can continue with this.
00:32:07I learned a lot of things from my marriage.
00:32:09Put more time, more effort, listen more, be more flexible, you know.
00:32:15And that's helped me right now to mature.
00:32:19Hey.
00:32:34Hey.
00:32:36Hey.
00:32:39Hey.
00:32:41Hey.
00:32:43Hey.
00:32:53Hey.
00:33:02Hey.
00:33:10Hey.
00:33:14Hey.
00:33:18Hey.
00:33:22Hey.
00:33:31Hey.
00:33:41Hey.
00:33:43Hey.
00:33:46Hey.
00:33:58Hey.
00:33:59Hey.
00:34:03Hey.
00:34:08Hey.
00:34:09Hey.
00:34:12Hey.
00:34:13Hey, how was everything?
00:34:14How was everything?
00:34:14It was great.
00:34:15Thank you so much.
00:34:16Everything's good.
00:34:16I'm going to go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:18Have a great day, okay?
00:34:19Thank you so much.
00:34:20Bye.
00:34:20Bye.
00:34:20For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor in a hotel casino.
00:34:27Ooh, it's closing time.
00:34:28I really like it.
00:34:30I like scheduling.
00:34:31I like keeping things organized.
00:34:33And I think I get that from my military training because you have to be organized when
00:34:38you're in the military.
00:34:39Are you almost done?
00:34:41We got to go.
00:34:41It's girls' night.
00:34:43Yeah, I just got to clean up this stuff and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend.
00:34:48And I love the fact that, like, I can confide in her about things.
00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:54I haven't been out in a while, so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet some of our other friends.
00:35:00And we're just going to have a little ladies' night.
00:35:02I really wasn't a part of the planning, but I'm just down for whatever at this point.
00:35:07So if you see any guys tonight, you're going to try to talk to them?
00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:13Really?
00:35:14How'd that go?
00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:22No.
00:35:24But that's a different story.
00:35:27I don't know.
00:35:28I just feel like I'm not going to just settle for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:32You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s, no more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:42No.
00:35:42Yeah, you're going to need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:46Like, I've never had that.
00:35:48And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.
00:35:53Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that she does
00:36:02deserve to find love.
00:36:04Not someone who's going to try to take advantage or use her.
00:36:07She's a beautiful person.
00:36:09So I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her like a queen.
00:36:14All right, let's go.
00:36:33Let's go.
00:36:33Hi.
00:36:34Hi.
00:36:35Hi.
00:36:36We love you.
00:36:37We love you.
00:36:38We love you.
00:36:40Mwah.
00:36:41Hi, girl.
00:36:42What are we doing?
00:36:43What are we doing?
00:36:44Sit down.
00:36:45What the is it?
00:36:46Pitch a friend.
00:36:46Just chill out.
00:36:48What is it?
00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.
00:37:00Just calm down.
00:37:02We got you.
00:37:03You knew about that.
00:37:04I did.
00:37:05I knew.
00:37:05She's in on it.
00:37:07I hate you.
00:37:08Uh-oh.
00:37:09Uh-oh.
00:37:10Oh, no.
00:37:11Here we go.
00:37:12Here's the noise and you can hear me.
00:37:17Welcome, welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:21All right, so we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wing men and wing women
00:37:26on this very stage pitching their wonderful single friends with a PowerPoint presentation
00:37:32so that you know who is available and looking for love in this room tonight.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:41Give it up.
00:37:42Give it up.
00:37:42Give it up.
00:37:43Give it up.
00:37:44Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.
00:37:48However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.
00:37:52And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.
00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes, bullet points about different things
00:38:03that we love about her.
00:38:05And who knows?
00:38:06Magic could happen.
00:38:08All right.
00:38:09Let's get started in Pitch Up Friends, starting with Rachel pitching.
00:38:14Alex!
00:38:16So I am introducing my friend Alex.
00:38:20He just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:23Oh, he's 42.
00:38:25And he went for us to 42.
00:38:28What do you think?
00:38:29Yeah.
00:38:30Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:34You have a strong line.
00:38:36Standards.
00:38:37Okay.
00:38:39Boundaries.
00:38:40Alex, come on up here.
00:38:44Questions for Alex.
00:38:47Question.
00:38:49Alex.
00:38:50Yes.
00:38:51Do you like older women?
00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever at 1910.
00:38:58Okay.
00:38:59Give it up for Alex!
00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:05We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:09Woo!
00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings and my 55-year-old
00:39:19ass is going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:21Why the am I here?
00:39:23I'm so nervous now.
00:39:25I'm sweating.
00:39:26Are you ready to meet Kimberly, the most authentic, funny military vet, yo?
00:39:38She has the biggest heart, and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world, cats.
00:39:51Her cats.
00:39:52You have to love cats.
00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no, you cannot date him.
00:40:00Cannot date him.
00:40:01They sleep in.
00:40:03Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kim, first of all?
00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?
00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.
00:40:12Kind of true, but, you know.
00:40:15Questions for Kimberly.
00:40:16Raise your hand.
00:40:18Well, hello.
00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 55.
00:40:22Damn it.
00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:26Thank you so much.
00:40:29So embarrassing.
00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.
00:40:33Um, hey, my dad lives in New York.
00:40:37Have you dated a man that is far away?
00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?
00:40:45Why the not?
00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad, and all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man, and I know they have the best intentions, but this
00:41:00crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabelle Bitchin' Moments!
00:41:08Okay, so what are we going to do?
00:41:09Do you want me?
00:41:10I don't like you.
00:41:11I'm good.
00:41:11I'm good.
00:41:12But I love you guys.
00:41:13I appreciate it.
00:41:14I do appreciate it.
00:41:15That was amazing, right?
00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:21Oh, yep.
00:41:21I gotta go.
00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:23What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:26What?
00:41:27I have plans to hook up right now.
00:41:31Oh!
00:41:32Wait, wait.
00:41:34So, like, a booty call.
00:41:36A booty call, yeah.
00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:43But I like to have sex.
00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:47I like to have orgasms.
00:41:49Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:52I'm like, hello?
00:41:53Come to Kim.
00:41:54You guys remember B, right?
00:41:58I'm going to f*** them.
00:42:00Oh-ho!
00:42:01Whoa!
00:42:16This is a great deal.
00:42:18Two for five.
00:42:18How can you beat that?
00:42:19I mean, I am budget conscious.
00:42:21And some girls will hate it and say,
00:42:23why are you being so cheap?
00:42:25So if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman that is all about value,
00:42:29we're going to get along at the grocery store.
00:42:42Hey.
00:42:42Excuse me.
00:42:43Hi.
00:42:43Do you, uh, know where the package meat is at?
00:42:48Like, hamburger?
00:42:49Yeah.
00:42:49It's going to be down here on the left.
00:42:51All the way down?
00:42:52All the way down?
00:42:52Uh-huh.
00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife was vegan.
00:42:57Oh.
00:42:58And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat because she's vegan.
00:43:04Yeah.
00:43:04You know, but now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem.
00:43:09I feel so happy.
00:43:10You know what I'm saying.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:12A little ball and chain.
00:43:14Ball and chain, right.
00:43:15But thanks a lot.
00:43:16Nice talking to you.
00:43:18Sure.
00:43:18Enjoy your meat.
00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays.
00:43:22I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.
00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.
00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge,
00:43:35I have the freedom to do that now.
00:43:38Hmm.
00:43:38I think this will work.
00:43:42Take that, Jess.
00:43:44The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.
00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball.
00:43:52But maybe not the best situation, like, to find a date.
00:43:58In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.
00:44:02So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.
00:44:07It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.
00:44:12It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone.
00:44:15If I know this person is already interested in me, check this out.
00:44:21I posted a picture today of me working out.
00:44:25This woman says, sexy man.
00:44:28I definitely would not be able to go with you because I'll be looking at you instead of the trainer
00:44:35while I'm drawing.
00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately.
00:44:45And I love it.
00:44:46I freaking love it.
00:44:49Oh, someone's messaging me.
00:44:54Who is it?
00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post and she says, great job.
00:45:01She's proud of me.
00:45:03Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.
00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.
00:45:13So are you.
00:45:14And you're just so adorable too.
00:45:17Look at your smile.
00:45:18It's so cute.
00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.
00:45:22I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.
00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.
00:45:32Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
00:45:35Oh, really?
00:45:36You should watch her.
00:45:38Don't touch her.
00:45:39Don't touch her.
00:45:40Relax.
00:45:41Relax.
00:45:41No.
00:45:42No.
00:45:42Listen.
00:45:44Get off me.
00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year.
00:45:49And then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the happily ever after tele.
00:45:54And we've been texting each other ever since.
00:45:57Yeah.
00:45:58I responded to her, but I added some emojis to it.
00:46:01Like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around the head.
00:46:07You know, I want to get her attention.
00:46:08Like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.
00:46:13I still like Natalie a lot.
00:46:14So I asked her if I could visit her next week.
00:46:18And she said, yes.
00:46:20You know, this is soft.
00:46:22I mean, it's exactly how I like my women.
00:46:25Soft.
00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.
00:46:30But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.
00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie.
00:46:38Like with actions, not just words.
00:46:40I know it's my last shot and I cannot mess it up.
00:46:44Now that I could post on my Instagram.
00:46:46That big ass cucumber.
00:46:51Hello?
00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.
00:46:56Oh!
00:46:57Candle in the car.
00:46:59The van alone, cute.
00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.
00:47:04He's coming on very strong.
00:47:05Ah!
00:47:06It's Pedro.
00:47:07He has an ink in his hands.
00:47:16They call me fuego, they call me fire.
00:47:18They call me all that you desire.
00:47:20They call me fuego, they call me fire.
00:47:23They call me all that you desire.
00:47:25They call me fuego.
00:47:28This is my first night in the VR.
00:47:31And I am going out with Sophie and Julián.
00:47:34And we are actually going to go meet Pedro.
00:47:38I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends.
00:47:41So I'm super excited right now.
00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.
00:47:54I live in Washington.
00:47:56It's always gloomy.
00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine.
00:48:00And it can be very depressing at times.
00:48:03So when Sophie planned a girls trip, I was all about it.
00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.
00:48:11I am really excited.
00:48:13I want to get dressed up.
00:48:13I want to go out.
00:48:14I want to meet people.
00:48:15I want to mingle.
00:48:16I want to flirt.
00:48:16And I want to feel sexy.
00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship.
00:48:22And looking back, I've never picked the right guy.
00:48:25And I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.
00:48:31I think you're amazing.
00:48:33And I want to ask you out on a date.
00:48:36One of my last relationships was Ed.
00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face.
00:48:42But, um...
00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.
00:48:45Burn!
00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.
00:48:48Hi, go yourself.
00:48:50Bye.
00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.
00:48:52You are out of control, you drunk.
00:48:54Shut the up.
00:48:56You don't give a , Ed.
00:48:58But despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed.
00:49:03And always wanted to make it work.
00:49:05Will you marry me?
00:49:10But then Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.
00:49:14You're going to be the best person of yourself.
00:49:16And it's not going to be with me.
00:49:19Liz, rest assured, I'm always going to be an asshole.
00:49:25Then came Jason.
00:49:27You're in the past.
00:49:28We're going to move forward.
00:49:29Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
00:49:32Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.
00:49:34Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year.
00:49:40And then the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most.
00:49:45Like, he didn't.
00:49:46He couldn't.
00:49:48A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, I didn't get the best news.
00:49:55I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.
00:49:59It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage that Jason
00:50:07and I had.
00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch.
00:50:13Me being sick, but...
00:50:18I think I can touch it.
00:50:25Being sick took a huge toll on me.
00:50:28But I also know that I'm going to overcome it.
00:50:31I'm really hopeful about my future.
00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.
00:50:38I want to live my life.
00:50:41And I really do want to find love again.
00:50:45Girls night!
00:50:47I deserve the best.
00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.
00:50:53I bet you're missing me now.
00:51:01You are my soul!
00:51:03I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.
00:51:06Really?
00:51:07Yeah.
00:51:07Mine was like two days before this trailer.
00:51:10It's my first night in the DR and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking forward
00:51:15to just spending some time with Pedro.
00:51:16Hello?
00:51:17Oh my gosh.
00:51:19Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with, which
00:51:24I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.
00:51:25Bye.
00:51:27Hello!
00:51:27Hello!
00:51:29Oh!
00:51:33Oh my God!
00:51:35Oh my goodness!
00:51:37Oh my goodness!
00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?
00:51:39I'm sorry, that is like candle in the car!
00:51:45Candle in the car!
00:51:47The van alone, cute.
00:51:49But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.
00:51:55I feel like that is welcome to his country.
00:51:58I don't think that's too much.
00:52:00It's nice.
00:52:00Candle in the car, okay.
00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.
00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?
00:52:09No, it's really cute.
00:52:11It's cute.
00:52:11It is cute.
00:52:12It is cute.
00:52:15Did he do the bowl as well?
00:52:18Pedro put this in more than a sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there too.
00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.
00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.
00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.
00:52:30I speak Julia language.
00:52:32Yeah.
00:52:33Let's chill later.
00:52:34Yeah.
00:52:35Do you wanna kiss him?
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:37If he goes in for like a...
00:52:38Well yeah, we haven't done anything yet.
00:52:40You know, so it's like, I'm gonna hug him.
00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands or do we put it in your hands?
00:52:45Put it in my hands.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47In my hands.
00:52:56Let's go.
00:52:57Let's dance homage.
00:52:59Honey, I don't know if I can make it long.
00:53:03Cause I'll be watching you while a DJ plays your song.
00:53:08It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.
00:53:10I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.
00:53:14Maybe you could show me.
00:53:16Cause I've been waiting so long.
00:53:22Ah!
00:53:23It's Pedro!
00:53:24Where is he?
00:53:24He has a ring in his hands.
00:53:26Shut up.
00:53:27He has a ring of flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:30He's even dying on the phone.
00:53:35You got this, girl.
00:53:39Wow!
00:53:42You look good.
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:45How you been?
00:53:45I'm good. How are you?
00:53:46How about the fly?
00:53:47It's long. It's okay.
00:53:50She looked...
00:53:52like...
00:53:52stunning.
00:53:53She looked stunning.
00:53:55Oh...
00:53:55The hug that she gave me was very awkward.
00:53:58Hug like a brother!
00:53:59She hug me like a...
00:54:01like a...
00:54:01like a...
00:54:02like a side hug.
00:54:03You're welcome.
00:54:03Like...
00:54:05Even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.
00:54:07Oh!
00:54:08Good job, boy!
00:54:09Bam!
00:54:12Introduce Miss to you.
00:54:13Oh yeah, that's Miss.
00:54:15Oh, hey!
00:54:18How's it going?
00:54:19How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:21That's the first time I met Julia.
00:54:22And then she hugged me with so much sight, like,
00:54:24God damn it.
00:54:25Like, Sophie, come on.
00:54:26Get Julia's energy, please.
00:54:28You love it?
00:54:29I'm ready to be here.
00:54:31Nice to meet you.
00:54:31Nice to meet you.
00:54:32Liz.
00:54:33Okay, ladies.
00:54:34Uh, we're going to go out there to the rooftop.
00:54:37You're going to meet my friends.
00:54:38Enjoy the night.
00:54:40Follow me, ladies.
00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?
00:54:41How you doing?
00:54:43I'm doing good.
00:54:43How are you?
00:54:44Good, good, good.
00:54:45Do this one?
00:54:46Yeah, please.
00:54:56Good, good, good, good.
00:54:57Good, good.
00:54:59Good.
00:55:00Guys, let me introduce you.
00:55:02We're my friend Villas.
00:55:04That's my friend.
00:55:04and this is Rafael okay she's Sophie Julia and Liz nice to meet you question
00:55:15how was the band was good yeah good job guys they helped me I can tell Pedro is
00:55:25very excited for all his friends to meet me which it's nice but it feels like I'm
00:55:32like walking into like a job interview or like I'm supposed to give a speech or
00:55:35something because they were just sat there like this at me okay I already feel
00:55:46like there's expectation of me and I'm kind of brought here as Pedro's
00:55:51girlfriend it's just kind of freaking me out a little bit
00:55:58Wow okay go to the bottom you know where the bottom at
00:56:12that's energy bro I don't know what's like I don't know I don't know I don't know
00:56:25but right now it's it's feel cold indifference weird you know like awkward Sophie entirely
00:56:34different person than I met before
00:56:40sexually he is he's good he's great with me and his is big so there you go
00:56:46even though I'm in my 50s I still have urges I still have needs
00:57:07I have plans to hook up right now
00:57:21wait wait so like a booty call a booty call yeah so a booty call is when you're not in
00:57:30a
00:57:30relationship and you just meet up with one of your little friends and you know you have
00:57:35some drinky drinks and then do the deed and then you just go home even though I'm in my 50s
00:57:42I still
00:57:42have urges I still have needs and it like gets the needs met you know what it's a step in
00:57:48the right
00:57:49direction why not I'm meeting up with Benjamin or as everybody calls him B he's a really good
00:57:56friend of mine and I dated him for about six months before I met Usman once Usman and I broke
00:58:02up and he
00:58:02knew it he just slid right in the DMS and we've been banging it out ever since it's it's tricky
00:58:11with
00:58:11me and B because the connection is there like you can feel it you know but he's just a friend
00:58:16with
00:58:16benefits like I I just don't feel like we're at that point to make it a relationship when B and
00:58:22I tried
00:58:22to date like five six years ago we were doing pretty good we have a lot of things in common
00:58:28and then
00:58:29about six months and B hit me up with he wanted to be like in a thropple he wanted me
00:58:34to have sex
00:58:35with the woman and I was just like are you high no I'm not doing that he was very free
00:58:41-spirited back
00:58:42then and Kim was not sexually B is he's good he's great with me and his is big so there
00:58:47you go
00:58:48you had that with Usman though it was the same thing you had the connection but there was all these
00:58:53other red flags that's how I feel and I don't want the red flags no being a woman of a
00:58:59certain
00:59:00age that we all are it is refreshing for me to see her having a little bit of a hoe
00:59:11phase you know
00:59:12what I'm all for that are you for that yeah I think she I mean get it out of her
00:59:16system a little bit
00:59:17until she finds the right one friends with benefits and whatever they have is is a good connection I'm
00:59:23down for it yeah but we wanted her to find somebody that is truly special and truly right
00:59:31that she can fall in love with and that loves her true he ain't the one no for tonight he
00:59:37is the one
00:59:45me and I have been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels because he has roommates
00:59:50and with my house I never know if Jamal is going to show up or not at first it was
00:59:59a little
01:00:00inconvenient but I have to tell you like hotel sex is kind of hot nice hotel sex
01:00:14oh yeah I know I know yeah come on in come on in come on in come on in come
01:00:27on in come on in I know right so much nicer than those old hotels we used to get
01:00:32oh man back in the day look crazy look at us now you look beautiful as usual I try my
01:00:41name is Benjamin
01:00:42but everybody calls me B because I'm like the bumblebee I'll always be buzzing around and you never know
01:00:49where I'll land at this is a good bit this is nice look at the big bit the reason why
01:00:55me and Kim keep
01:00:56coming back to each other it's definitely because of the friendship that we have together she's
01:01:01somebody I'd definitely like I rock with so I went to this like dating event thing you know
01:01:08what I'm saying yeah see this is why I love you because we can talk about this stuff right of
01:01:12course of course so it was Laura and Jody and my friend Lily right and they pitched me so it
01:01:17was
01:01:17called pitch a friend it was a slideshow presentation like a real slideshow like with pictures yeah of me
01:01:25and then like my likes and dislikes and all this stuff so it was cool it was very touching but
01:01:30it
01:01:30just was not my thing sometimes I tell B about me like meeting other guys or like this whole pitch
01:01:36a
01:01:36friend thing because I want to see what he's going to say like don't do that let me try to
01:01:40be your man
01:01:41B and I are good together and I know he sees it and I was kind of hoping that with
01:01:45age that B would
01:01:46like you know calm it down a little bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous
01:01:51relationship we've known each other forever yeah I miss you so much I miss you too like we're cool
01:01:56like we're friends with benefits now and I love that but like I'd like maybe to see it grow to
01:02:01see
01:02:01what else it could be we've always talked about it you know and the only way we gonna find that
01:02:08out
01:02:08is with more time we should plan like once every two weeks when we can
01:02:16so you haven't even been to my house yet no but I'm so crazy I'm coming
01:02:26yeah okay I am tired and I just want to go take a shower is that okay yeah of course
01:02:32okay I'll give
01:02:33you a massage once I get out of the shower so I'm just I'm just baby baby please baby baby
01:02:40baby
01:02:41what can can you show me like what that what my dad that might feel like yes let's go let
01:02:47me see
01:02:47let me see let me see let me see I have a good hand I love B to death and
01:02:53I would love to be in a
01:02:54relationship with him and I'm putting out the vibe but he is not picking up what Kim is putting down
01:02:59so I mean where do we go from here oh all right I'm gonna go take a shower I don't
01:03:06want to be
01:03:06shuffling with my walker up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old I just want more for myself
01:03:12so if
01:03:13B doesn't step up soon I mean this whole relationship is gonna have an expiration date I'm not gonna keep
01:03:21waiting traveling today to see Natalie again God aren't these sexy I mean holy cow I hope she gives
01:03:29me a second chance and more importantly I hope I don't mess it up
01:03:39you
01:03:51why are you packing up shampoo well I got to wash the hair right the little hair that I have
01:03:56the
01:03:56patch of hair on my back of my head I shampoo it I condition it I take very good care
01:04:02of it
01:04:03that's the only hair I got left on my head
01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie you know so I um bought a couple of new shirts hopefully she'll
01:04:24like them I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie they're colorful that's for sure
01:04:33definitely colorful I visited Natalie in Vegas previously because that's where her home's at
01:04:39this time I'm going to travel to DC because she's currently working remotely there God aren't these
01:04:46sexy I mean holy cow that's some sexy ass underwear right here a lot of our talks through text and
01:04:54such
01:04:54has been a lot of small talk to be honest and hasn't been very deep
01:05:00so I really really don't know how Natalie feels about me but I don't think she would invite me to
01:05:07her apartment if she didn't have any feelings for me I don't need my little blue pills and I'm not
01:05:14packing any because the little blue pills I need for someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant
01:05:23bitch then I need something to pump me up but Natalie is a different story because just the her
01:05:30personality and attitude the way she is I'm gonna get it up man all right I think we got it
01:05:50time to board I'll see you soon Natalie I've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the
01:05:57last two years so trying to put myself out there again it's not easy but there's not many times that
01:06:10you can get a second chance and especially with a woman that's high quality like Natalie is
01:06:23good morning good morning how are you doing great doing great my first time in Washington DC
01:06:29I'm excited excited I hope you enjoy your stay thank you I'm so excited to be here to see um
01:06:36who I'm
01:06:37meeting today on top of her having that great personality and caring and fun and kind she is a hot
01:06:44sexy passionate Latina let me tell you see what fire she's on fire baby oh is this it yeah this
01:06:54is it
01:06:56thank you I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office the plan is to catch up a little
01:07:02and then
01:07:03go check out her apartment how are you feeling well I'm super excited to see her and hang out with
01:07:24her
01:07:24and but I I have some nervousness it's a little nerve-wracking my heart's racing a bit that's what
01:07:36Natalie does to me I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance but more importantly I hope I don't
01:07:53mess it
01:07:54up hey what is your name again via via oh you don't do the kiss thing no there we go
01:08:06there we go via is very good-looking and he smells expensive
01:08:14honestly if I never wanted to get divorced like he would still be mad any hookers with him I don't
01:08:20want
01:08:21to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants what the are we doing here
01:08:36how do you feel right now I don't know why his energy just gives me like I just feel like
01:08:41in his head we're in a relationship like if you ask him I feel like he's like yeah that's my
01:08:45girl
01:08:55they take a long time in the restroom what they're doing nobody tell you you can have fun just have
01:09:03fun I feel like he won't let me have fun now like now he's gonna feel like she's in my
01:09:08country she's
01:09:09meeting my friends like I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe usually loosen up a little bit
01:09:14with a couple drinks and you will be good that's just there goes it'll be a good night yeah you
01:09:22know
01:09:22what help me meet my man kitty's thirsty me the girls just arrived at the club to meet pedro and
01:09:31his friends and it's a very overwhelming environment sorry you can sit down um you can see over here
01:09:40I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van and now I just feel like he's thinking this is my
01:09:44girlfriend she's meeting all my friends and it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before
01:09:49which that's what I loved before it was so easy going and this feels a little bit a little bit
01:09:54pressure Lisa going to listen to my friend Villa where's your name again yeah yeah yeah it's nice to
01:10:00meet you oh you don't do the kiss thing no there you go there you go via is very good
01:10:10looking he's very
01:10:12well groomed like his haircuts on point and he smells really good he smells expensive cheers thank you for
01:10:22inviting us all right
01:10:27oh
01:10:28oh
01:10:28oh
01:10:34that's it my job by the whole time
01:10:37you guys
01:10:38what I feel like one
01:10:41two
01:10:46there you got it
01:10:53as we're dancing I can tell we're both very attracted to each other get close get close get
01:10:57close to me you know get close to me nobody he just smells really good he dresses well and he's
01:11:04just hot but even though I'm attracted to him I don't want to like be all over him the first
01:11:09night
01:11:10and lead him on because I still don't really know what I want yet hey hey hey so you've never
01:11:15danced bachata before I was trying to sign up for a bachata lessons while I'm out here it's so easy
01:11:20I
01:11:21can teach you that
01:11:21okay
01:11:24we can start here right so it's one two three
01:11:28oh you do know
01:11:33one two one two one two and bam bam bam bam bam
01:11:42i'm gonna make my best
01:11:43you're gonna keep it
01:11:43let you know
01:11:43oh no you lied to me you said she didn't know she said she
01:11:46didn't know she said she was gonna take classes
01:11:47i was like I wanted to do one last day
01:11:48I can come over here better
01:11:56everyone just left
01:11:57that's okay they needed that alone time you look beautiful you look gorgeous thank you thank you
01:12:05i'm super happy that you're here that you take the invitation to come in here to spend a little
01:12:11time with me i know you want to have the best time i woke up and i had a pina
01:12:16colada for breakfast
01:12:18because i'm in a dr wow that's a lot you don't need classes no class no
01:12:27i think liz likes your friend yeah look yeah yeah so are you from here or are you from i
01:12:34was born um
01:12:35in atlanta when she likes via when's your birthday september september i'm may baby i'm a gemini
01:12:42you're a gemini yeah what is your size i'm a libra okay i feel like us libras are pretty well
01:12:48well
01:12:48balanced which is is this your only tattoo oh yeah wow it's a whole sleeve it's a libra
01:12:56so a woman with the blindfold and the scale what's this oh it's my son's name i have a kid
01:13:08riley leanne you have a kid yeah really she's gonna be 12. you have a 12 year old yeah my
01:13:15baby means
01:13:15everything you need same yeah same he is my reason for everything definitely no i'm feeling butterflies
01:13:24talking to via there'll be eight in july he's sweet he loves his kid he's making eye contact with me
01:13:32we're having great conversation i think we need a drink to that i need a shot is your friend at
01:13:40home
01:13:40he is
01:13:43he is oh it's okay this is in her single era so this is her time to just like live
01:13:49her life a little bit
01:13:50same with me i'm not in a toxic relationship you separate right now are you still married are you
01:13:56divorced how how how how that goes like i'm still suddenly married but i'm like started the process
01:14:04of divorce but we're still fine you are like just now so it's very new it never really felt like
01:14:15it
01:14:15was the end because he would still call me he still called me two days ago four in the morning
01:14:19for
01:14:20what it was an unknown number so having blocked and he was like why do you have me blocked i'm
01:14:25like
01:14:25we're getting divorced why why so sad with you like why you not can move on honestly if i never
01:14:32wanted
01:14:32to get divorced like he would still be mad i told that sophie and her husband divorce was more fight
01:14:39alone
01:14:40because she tell me he was the worst husband that he he made her like miserable all the time
01:14:47if that guy threw you that bad why you get the phone calls and answer the phone
01:14:53any hookers with him
01:15:02yeah we like hooked up after a few months because as much as that guy was horrible to me
01:15:07i still had love for him when he was being nice to me i forgot about all the bad memories
01:15:13and so we slept together
01:15:16they've been hookups and she never told me they did hookup before
01:15:21i'm speechless it's hard when you love someone i can't just be like you bye you know look if you
01:15:28want to be with rob okay be with rob or be with everybody you want to be but i don't
01:15:33want to be
01:15:34collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants what the we doing here
01:15:42i wish i would have just handled this whole situation better you know but now i wish you
01:15:48did too i've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years i'm sorry that i hurt you so
01:15:53bad
01:15:54i don't know i don't know what i up you know
01:16:10i'm just getting home from my night with b even at 55 i'm still doing the walk of shame
01:16:16hey i'm not gonna fall in your line hey i'm a hard-working woman and i do what i like
01:16:24hey come on let me give you some treats
01:16:29hi my baby
01:16:33last night was pretty amazing b's really good in bed i have to say
01:16:38oh and usually after a night like that i'm feeling all zen and woosah and you know calm but
01:16:44right now i'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because jamal's coming over
01:16:48so good to be out of those clothes my god he thinks he's coming over here to help me build
01:16:53a dresser
01:16:54but really i have some things i need to talk to him about
01:16:57i need to talk to him about that i need to talk to him about that i need to talk
01:17:04to him about that
01:17:04ding dong hey what's up how are you good how are you i'm good i'm good so this is the
01:17:12dresser i
01:17:12want to put in my guest room see is it big it's look at the picture oh okay here we
01:17:18go so they go a
01:17:19into e it goes like this yeah this is easy this is so fun so i went out for girls
01:17:28night last night
01:17:29with laura jody and lily you know my friend from work lily so we went to mavericks and they had
01:17:34this
01:17:34event called pitch me yeah so they did like a presentation of like what i'm looking for in a guy
01:17:40and all the guys were like 12 jamal they weren't even like grown you know well i feel like your
01:17:45last
01:17:45couple guys have been younger so my last one guy was younger so well b's not really b's 44 so
01:17:56i mean
01:17:56he's you know what's his real name benjamin oh yeah b sounds better yeah but um so then he texts
01:18:02me and
01:18:03i went over to a hotel with him last night sure you don't want to know yeah i don't need
01:18:10to hear that
01:18:13things have been tense between me and jamal lately i've hid things from him for so long
01:18:19that when i told him it just devastated him as long as we're not talking about these things jamal
01:18:27and i are fine but it's like everything's hidden under this carpet and i have to pull that carpet away
01:18:32every now and then and talk about it but jamal will just hang up on me he won't answer a
01:18:36text
01:18:36he'll walk out the house it's been very uncomfortable um you know larry's coming out here
01:18:46why is he coming out here just to see like you know where i grew up at and you know
01:18:51get a little
01:18:52more of my family history i wish i would have just handled this whole situation better
01:18:59you know but now i wish you did too you hit him for so long
01:19:09i've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years
01:19:16i did what i thought yeah but i thought was right so long
01:19:25just give me a second jamal is not my only child
01:19:34this is really hard for me
01:19:42jamal's dad and i were never married we were together for seven and a half years
01:19:47we were in the military together and he was just cheating all the time it was just like
01:19:54every day there was like a different girl
01:19:58when i got pregnant with my first son larry first thing his dad said was aborted
01:20:04and i just couldn't do that but i was only 21 years old i couldn't imagine being a single mom
01:20:09i was not mentally ready i was starting my military career i was just not ready so i decided to
01:20:15put my son
01:20:16up for adoption and i never told jamal until last year when larry found us through an ancestry website
01:20:23i don't think you ever would have told me i would have told you i don't think so and that's
01:20:27a huge
01:20:28thing for me is like i don't think you ever would have told me because like there was no reason
01:20:36to
01:20:36not tell me i just didn't know how to say it you know and it's always been like me and
01:20:41you me and you
01:20:42and i finally got our relationship to where like i've always wanted it to be right
01:20:47so it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret
01:20:51i felt like in my head i was just like trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you
01:20:56too
01:20:57because i just didn't protecting me i don't know i just didn't know how to handle it i didn't
01:21:01didn't i that's that is the complete truth i did not know how to handle this at all at all
01:21:08last year i found out i had an older brother full blood mom and dad and my first thought
01:21:17was that she was lying it was a joke or something because why would you hide this for so long
01:21:24when
01:21:24we're so close and then when i found it was true i was just really pissed off i have this
01:21:29whole other
01:21:29family and you knew about it and i'm like how could my own mom like look me in my eyes
01:21:37when she knows
01:21:38i have a whole brother dude that's just not something i'm like even thought about forgiving yet
01:21:47because i just i just don't know who would do that so i'm like damn
01:21:58i don't know i feel like your mom's the person you're supposed to trust like only like if you
01:22:02can't trust anyone else you can trust her but now it's like wow i can't trust anyone in the world
01:22:07anymore oh i'm like shaking it's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this
01:22:16whole
01:22:17thing you do make a lot of excuses i'm sorry that i hurt you so bad i don't know i
01:22:23don't know what
01:22:23i up you know like i don't i don't know what else to say to fix it i know keeping
01:22:31larry from jamal
01:22:32was not the right thing to do it ended up just hurting him worse jamal had every right to know
01:22:38that
01:22:39he had a brother out there and now all i'm trying to do is just repair what i up
01:22:45last year jamal and i went to north carolina to meet larry his wife and his son meeting larry for
01:22:53the first time was like crazy because i'm looking at him i'm like okay this is my blood this is
01:22:58my son
01:22:59and he has my face he looks just like me but he's a total stranger to me and technically i'm
01:23:07a grandma
01:23:09it's a surreal feeling but i'm so relieved because he was such a good man and i don't know
01:23:18how he would have turned out if i would have kept him you know it makes me feel certain that
01:23:22i did the
01:23:23right thing since then jamal and i have been talking with larry and i invited him to san diego so
01:23:30i could
01:23:31get to know him more and he could see where i'm from what do you think you even want to
01:23:37deal with larry
01:23:38once he comes out here like what's next you think you're gonna have like a deep talk with him i
01:23:41have
01:23:41i have to have a deep talk with him about what about the other one
01:24:04how do you think he's gonna react i think he's gonna be pissed he's gonna be really upset with
01:24:09me hey by the way you have a sister like the larry wasn't the only child that i put up
01:24:18for adoption
01:24:21i also had a daughter
01:24:31this season on the single life
01:24:37this is the kind of life that i want where i can have fun with my partner
01:24:43you're getting me all hot oh yeah this is my dominican fling that i've been looking for
01:24:49nice to meet you i'll never see you again i was helping him upload something on social media and it
01:24:56shows me all the women he's been messaging something's fishy about this corny's worried
01:25:01that i'm just gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day are you still living that way dude be honest
01:25:07with me well um how are you a wreck i'm like shaking i didn't tell my son larry about his
01:25:16sister when he
01:25:17first found me here but i want to tell him now and i'm really scared what if he just turns
01:25:23around
01:25:23and leaves what if he never speaks to me again do you mind if i have a dance it's my
01:25:33girl are you
01:25:34serious i do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else i just don't see how that's respectful
01:25:40the guy that you're with so you're stopping me from being who i am you don't see a problem here
01:25:44at
01:25:45all what is the freaking problem the problem is actually us i'm done with this yesterday i was
01:25:51talking police and she made me feel maybe i you have another guy in your mind but why would she
01:25:56tell
01:25:56you that i don't want sophie to play game with me i'm not interesting hell no not with me everything
01:26:05i told you he knows you've never had my back that's breaking girl code like you don't do that
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