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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Until I met you, my life was a nightmare.
00:00:08A part of me is alive because of you.
00:00:12No one has ever made me feel that important,
00:00:15and it really does mean a lot to me
00:00:17that he'll try to stop gambling.
00:00:19I can tell that he loves me,
00:00:21and that really is what I've been looking for.
00:00:23I adore you.
00:00:26I can't remember that I asked
00:00:28with South American girls.
00:00:30No, no, no, no.
00:00:30You remembered last night when I brought it up.
00:00:32Now all of a sudden you're pretending you don't know her?
00:00:35I can't remember.
00:00:36I am being caught.
00:00:38I lied to her.
00:00:40Yes, I know this lady.
00:00:43It's been a long time I've not talked to her.
00:00:46I'm sorry, okay?
00:00:48I'm still hurting inside,
00:00:49but at the same time,
00:00:51all my secrets are so much more than his one lie.
00:00:55If I can let this go, maybe he'll forgive me
00:00:58when I tell him everything.
00:01:00Sorry.
00:01:02We decided that both of our finances
00:01:05would be put into a shared account.
00:01:09No, actually, he doesn't have the access.
00:01:13You're not married.
00:01:15I'm really surprised that Sheena's dad
00:01:17would tell me we don't get to share a bank account,
00:01:20and Sheena is going along with it.
00:01:22I don't know if I can propose to Sheena if I can't trust her.
00:01:28There are some things that I do have questions about.
00:01:31We probably have to have a private conversation.
00:01:35I do understand why Aviva has fallen for stick,
00:01:39but now this all changes because I am here.
00:01:42This is you, isn't it?
00:01:45Oh .
00:01:47The last time I was here in Morocco,
00:01:50I was coming to visit the guy that I was dating,
00:01:54and there's, like, something else.
00:01:59We got engaged.
00:02:00We are in Boston.
00:02:28Have you seen this cap before?
00:02:32No.
00:02:33This to tell that I'm from Igbo tribe.
00:02:36You look like Santa Claus.
00:02:39Really?
00:02:40Yeah.
00:02:50How are you feeling since everything yesterday?
00:02:54The woman from social media?
00:02:56Yes.
00:02:57Are you still remembering that?
00:02:59I am still remembering it.
00:03:00Oh.
00:03:02It bothers me a little bit.
00:03:03So I tried to talk to her again to see if she would send those screenshots one more time.
00:03:09Okay.
00:03:09And she blocked me on social media.
00:03:13I thought she's a friend.
00:03:14Why did she block you?
00:03:16I don't know.
00:03:18But my thought is, I guess she's jealous of us.
00:03:22So I think I'm feeling better about it, thinking about it that way.
00:03:27I can't believe she blocked me.
00:03:30It's making me believe that she's the one who was lying about Daniel.
00:03:36Maybe she wanted to be with Daniel.
00:03:38So she reached out to me to call him a scammer to deter me away from Daniel.
00:03:43I think she's mad that Daniel chose me over her.
00:03:47I think everything has been resolved.
00:03:50I'm trying to believe that.
00:03:54Baby, can you dress up?
00:03:56We are going to the king, okay?
00:03:59I want us to go there with warm mind, okay?
00:04:03For now, I just want to put this whole thing behind me.
00:04:07Because today, Daniel's taking me to meet the king in Lagos.
00:04:12Apparently, there are several kings of the Igbo tribe.
00:04:15And this is a real king.
00:04:17I am going to meet a real king.
00:04:19I am so scared and I'm so nervous I may pee my pants.
00:04:23We'll go see the king, but I need you to help me with my hair tie.
00:04:28Perfect, right there.
00:04:30When you're talking about marriage, everyone don't have to go and see the king.
00:04:34But getting his blessing, it means a lot.
00:04:38You look so handsome.
00:04:39Taking her to the king is the highest honor to our culture.
00:04:43This will be the way to prove to Lisa I respect her a lot.
00:04:46And I am committed to her.
00:04:56I am very nervous.
00:04:57Is it a big palace?
00:04:59Um...
00:05:00Or is it more like a mansion?
00:05:03Just a come down.
00:05:04I am allowed to be nervous about meeting a king.
00:05:08It's exciting.
00:05:10I am picturing a huge castle.
00:05:11It's going to be bigger than Disneyland.
00:05:13It's going to have towers and that is going to have a moat.
00:05:17Marble floors and this grand entrance.
00:05:20I don't know what I'm thinking.
00:05:22I'm thinking I'm in England.
00:05:26How do I greet him again?
00:05:27You have to know that answer.
00:05:29It is a beautiful.
00:05:31May you live long, my king.
00:05:32May you live long, my king.
00:05:34Good.
00:05:38Oh, my God.
00:05:39I'm so nervous.
00:05:41I am so afraid that I'm going to say something wrong.
00:05:44That I'm going to kneel at the wrong time.
00:05:46That I will accidentally reveal my secrets.
00:05:49I mean, this is the ultimate blessing.
00:05:53I can't mess up.
00:05:56Oh, we're turning here.
00:05:58Shh.
00:05:59Where are we?
00:06:01Are we here?
00:06:02Yes.
00:06:03Shh.
00:06:05Oh, my God, baby.
00:06:19During my last trip when we were in Marrakesh, we got engaged.
00:06:35So that's why you are so fast.
00:06:37You want to just to be engaged and...
00:06:39No, I don't just want to be engaged, but that's just what happened on my last trip.
00:06:45Mm-hmm.
00:06:49In social media, when we speak, why you didn't say that?
00:06:53You make a story for...
00:06:56It's not a story.
00:06:57Just be...
00:06:57Be real.
00:06:59I am being real.
00:07:00You have to say it without to be scared.
00:07:02For example...
00:07:03It's what I'm doing right now.
00:07:05But you take a lot of time.
00:07:06It's like...
00:07:07Well, exactly.
00:07:08I didn't want you to be mad, so I didn't say anything about it.
00:07:14It's like, I don't know you, and I will not trust anything you say.
00:07:22It's like, I feel like you are not good.
00:07:31She told me I was there in Morocco just to visit Marrakesh with my girlfriend.
00:07:35This is the first life.
00:07:37The second one, when we are together in cooking clothes, she told me I was healing.
00:07:44And right now, she told me another story.
00:07:47I was with a Moroccan man in Marrakesh because we are just ready to be engaged.
00:08:03Why not really?
00:08:04I don't have...
00:08:06What?
00:08:09It's like...
00:08:10I can't.
00:08:12You can't what?
00:08:14I can't be engaged with you, and I can't propose you.
00:08:20I can't move on with you.
00:08:21It's like the last step.
00:08:24What do you mean you can't move on?
00:08:24What do you mean?
00:08:26You're breaking up with me?
00:08:29Yep.
00:08:33I accept what you did.
00:08:34So you're breaking up with me because I was with a guy before you.
00:08:39Because you're lying to me.
00:08:41That's the problem.
00:08:44I need a minute zone.
00:08:58How is this something to break up with me over?
00:09:00What do you mean?
00:09:01How is this something for you to just leave and break up with me?
00:09:04Did I break up with you when you were talking to other girls and I had proof of you messaging
00:09:08girls telling them to come visit you, telling them you want to get to know them?
00:09:12No.
00:09:15I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt.
00:09:17I've tried to see the best in you.
00:09:19And then you find out one little thing, and you're ready to just break up with me and go home.
00:09:22So why not I want to go to my home?
00:09:25Why?
00:09:26Zanda, were we in a relationship?
00:09:29Were we in a relationship?
00:09:31Were we in a relationship?
00:09:33Why can't you talk to me?
00:09:34Like, I came all the way here and you're just walking away because of one thing that you're
00:09:38mad about?
00:09:39Can you leave me a walk?
00:09:40No.
00:09:40I want to, like, be by myself.
00:09:41No.
00:09:42Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:43Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:46Don't touch me.
00:09:47I'm not touching you.
00:09:48So just let me go.
00:09:49I want to go right now.
00:09:50Okay, bye.
00:09:50Yeah, goodbye.
00:09:56I did all of this for us to be together.
00:09:59He's an asshole.
00:10:00He's literally an asshole.
00:10:12Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:10:14I am King Forrest.
00:10:16Dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess, my dreams have
00:10:22come to fruition.
00:10:25Welcome, conquistador.
00:10:26Let's go, man.
00:10:27Onward!
00:10:30Corrine, can you come here for a minute?
00:10:32Coming.
00:10:33The girl in the photo is Corrine's friend.
00:10:36She has no reason to lie to her.
00:10:38February 7th, where were you?
00:10:41I don't know.
00:10:41I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:10:43That picture was in the Hopkins.
00:10:44You were here in Placidia with her.
00:10:56I mean, this is you, isn't it?
00:11:01Oh, s***.
00:11:02Yeah, that's you.
00:11:11This is from, like, two months ago.
00:11:17What is this?
00:11:18Is this something that you...
00:11:18That's a fan.
00:11:19That's somebody that's a fan.
00:11:21This is a fan?
00:11:23So you didn't tell her that you loved her?
00:11:25No, I didn't.
00:11:26So why is there a text right here saying, I'ma love you forever?
00:11:35And when my niece, Corrine, asked, why does that look like Stig?
00:11:39They say, that's my man.
00:11:41Is there some reason that there's text of you telling this girl you love her and her claiming
00:11:45that you're her man?
00:11:47Because these girls are super fans, and that's okay, and I appreciate that.
00:11:50So I asked you, no, this is more than super fan.
00:11:54This girl definitely says that you guys were together there.
00:11:57Cup.
00:11:59Corrine, can you come in here for a second?
00:12:01Coming.
00:12:05So he claims he doesn't know who she is, that literally that she's just a fan.
00:12:12So, okay, so I know her.
00:12:14She's a close friend of mine.
00:12:16I don't think my friend, a girl with a smile, would have lied to me about something like that.
00:12:21She mentioned when she goes to the city, she sees you.
00:12:28The fair firm, probably.
00:12:29No.
00:12:30Ha, catch.
00:12:31So, okay, February 7th, where were you?
00:12:39Hopkins, I don't know, I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:12:44No, that picture was in the Hopkins.
00:12:47You were here in Placentia with her.
00:12:58I can see something's going on through the window.
00:13:01I have no idea what's being said, but I just hear a lot of commotion, and I'm freaking out.
00:13:09It is frustrating to be left out of this conversation.
00:13:13It seems very important, but I trust my aunt, and she must have a reason for wanting to keep me
00:13:20out of the loop.
00:13:20I just wish I knew what the was going on.
00:13:23You guys were definitely together, like, more than one instances, different dates.
00:13:29No, I don't know what the is like that.
00:13:32If I was with a girl, I'm going to tell her the truth.
00:13:34I'm going to tell her Aviva the truth.
00:13:36I ain't not lying.
00:13:38I don't want to hurt Aviva's feelings because I know, like, she truly and genuinely loves Tig.
00:13:45Even to bring this information forward to Anti-Spring has been, like, so traumatic to me.
00:13:52But I know that my friends and Stig have been hooking up.
00:13:58Stig bulls**t a lot.
00:13:59But if he knows that he doesn't want the relationship, he should leave.
00:14:05I mean, you're like, this girl, that girl, pictures, messages, don't lie.
00:14:16Thank you, Nisi.
00:14:18I appreciate you.
00:14:19You're welcome.
00:14:20Fuck.
00:14:21Yeah.
00:14:22All of that is exactly, getting extra about it is exactly what my husband would do, too.
00:14:28This is all the things that I worry about between you guys.
00:14:33The girl in the photo is Corinne's friend.
00:14:36They've known each other since they were diapers.
00:14:38She doesn't know anything about him dating Aviva.
00:14:41She has no reason to lie to her about what she's doing.
00:14:44And if this is just a fan, then he needs to explain that to her.
00:14:48Because this is overly friendly with the fan.
00:14:52Aviva actually cares a lot about you and, you know, loves you.
00:14:57And I don't want her to end up, you know, you living two different lives.
00:15:02And I still don't believe anything that you're saying right now.
00:15:07So do you want to explain this to Aviva later?
00:15:12You're either going to tell her or I'm telling her.
00:15:19I have nothing to hide.
00:15:23Ann Springer's trying to put her on me because of her past relationship, which is unfair.
00:15:29So now I can't believe I have to tell Aviva what a picture of a fan that might ruin my
00:15:37entire relationship.
00:15:39We'll see, I guess.
00:15:41I don't even know.
00:16:04Oh, that's weird.
00:16:05So what?
00:16:06It's a cotton texture.
00:16:07Yeah, that's why I call it cotton.
00:16:08Cotton fruit.
00:16:09Yeah.
00:16:14It's sour, right?
00:16:17I don't...
00:16:18Oh, Lordy.
00:16:21I was a guinea pig for everybody.
00:16:24Yeah.
00:16:30The other one is we call pastillas.
00:16:32Pastillas, it's like soft milk candy.
00:16:36Hey, Mom.
00:16:37We're going to be heading out to Venice Mall today.
00:16:39And I know you guys aren't, you know, the big mall walkers like we are.
00:16:44So...
00:16:44No, we're not mall people.
00:16:47No.
00:16:48We're thinking about going today to see a bamboo organ at a church.
00:16:54Yes, Mom.
00:16:55I'm interested in learning all about that type of stuff, so...
00:16:58Yeah.
00:16:59Okay.
00:17:00I'm glad you love my mangoes recommendation.
00:17:02I told you, I love tango stuff.
00:17:04Yes.
00:17:05Any others?
00:17:06I could try them.
00:17:07Just grab the steed, suck it out, and don't take the toilet seat up.
00:17:12I told you.
00:17:14Slurp that seat right now.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16Let's go, baby.
00:17:18Mm-hmm.
00:17:19I think I'm going to tackle this baby next right here.
00:17:22Mm-hmm.
00:17:24Our chariot.
00:17:27Mm-hmm.
00:17:31Honey, are you excited?
00:17:33Heck, yeah, I am.
00:17:35I just really wanted to go to this place, you know, ever since I got here, to the Philippines.
00:17:40I hear it's just beautiful there.
00:17:44Yeah.
00:17:44I've known about the place, but I haven't visited there.
00:17:48Oh, we can go to it.
00:17:49I'm so excited on you.
00:17:50Yeah, me too, baby.
00:17:53Hello, we're here.
00:17:55Oh, my God!
00:17:58I learned about this place from searches online for top romantic places in the Philippines.
00:18:04Wow, look at that.
00:18:06It's a mall that looks like Venice, and Sheena loves Italian food and everything like Italian.
00:18:13Boom.
00:18:15I've been thinking a lot about what's been happening the last few days, and we really
00:18:19need to have a hard discussion about her lying.
00:18:22Now, finally being able to be alone with Sheena without my mom behind me, I can talk to her
00:18:28and help her understand that all these lies that she's been spreading have left a scar.
00:18:35And I'm hoping to hear from Sheena that she won't lie anymore.
00:18:41Wow, look at this place.
00:18:43What do you think?
00:18:44Awesome.
00:18:45Oh, my gosh, is that water?
00:18:48Yeah, it looks nice.
00:18:49Wow.
00:18:50Oh, my gosh.
00:18:53You first walk in, you see these beautiful buildings, and you look down, and then there's
00:18:58this giant swimming pool, and you got some, like, little Italian guys just chilling out
00:19:03on these little boats.
00:19:05It's beautiful.
00:19:07Oh, my God.
00:19:08God.
00:19:09It took years for them to build Rome and everything, but now we are in it.
00:19:14The architectural stuff is amazing.
00:19:17I really feel like we're in Italy.
00:19:19Yeah, this is the most romantic place.
00:19:21Oh, wow, they got a chicken restaurant up there.
00:19:24I have barely traveled internationally, but I definitely believe this is what Italy would
00:19:28look like.
00:19:29Little clowns everywhere.
00:19:32Dancing people.
00:19:34Can we do the same?
00:19:38I'm super grateful to have this time alone with Sheena.
00:19:42Oh, my gosh, look at that.
00:19:44Oh, wow.
00:19:45They have dresses and everything.
00:19:46Yeah, that's cool.
00:19:47Do you think you want to dress up a little bit and get some photos?
00:19:50Yeah, why not?
00:19:51We could try.
00:19:52Go check it out here.
00:19:53I just hope that some dresses would fit me, though.
00:19:56Do you want the right answer?
00:19:57Yeah, that would be great.
00:19:59Yeah, that's a good answer.
00:19:59I've always told Sheena that I would come over to the Philippines as her knight in shining
00:20:04armor.
00:20:05Oh.
00:20:07This looks nice.
00:20:08Yeah, you want this one.
00:20:09Yeah.
00:20:10Sorry.
00:20:12So, dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess, it
00:20:18just feels like my dreams have come to fruition.
00:20:24Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:20:26Yes.
00:20:28I am King Forrest.
00:20:31Grace, babe.
00:20:34I wonder how Sheena's going to look, though.
00:20:36Where's she hiding?
00:20:41Oh, my Sheen.
00:20:47I look like a princess in a red ribbon.
00:20:48You are a princess.
00:20:52I'm like...
00:20:53Ta-da!
00:20:56You look amazing, baby.
00:20:57Don't have a red ribbon.
00:20:59Oh, that would be great.
00:21:02A parasol.
00:21:05Seeing Sheena dressed up in that red dress, I found myself completely and totally speechless.
00:21:12Well, Conquistador, let's go, man.
00:21:15Onward!
00:21:16She is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
00:21:19Do I look regal to you?
00:21:20You look like a perfect king of mine.
00:21:23I love you, my lover.
00:21:24I love you, my Sheen, so much.
00:21:29And I want to be your rock.
00:21:35But just I don't like how it ended up, you know, with the lies and whatever.
00:21:42And I need to know that you will always come to me truthfully and honestly.
00:21:51I understand, my love.
00:21:53I felt so hopeless for what I did, for not telling the truth to you.
00:21:59And I'm trying to open up everything for you.
00:22:02Every single problem that you need to learn.
00:22:07But, it's hard for me.
00:22:13And you know what?
00:22:14I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:22:20I think Forrest would appreciate if I would tell him the truth.
00:22:25He needs to know.
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:38My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes
00:22:42on that.
00:22:42I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:22:45Oh my God.
00:22:46In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia, to meet my boyfriend, Joshua, who's super sexy.
00:22:53But my parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened
00:22:59a few years ago with my ex.
00:23:01Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler.
00:23:05For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:23:07Run.
00:23:16We'll begin just by coming to a comfortable position.
00:23:22No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:26No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:31My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:34My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:39I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:44I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:58Ew.
00:23:59Can I, like, touch up a second?
00:24:00Look at this.
00:24:01This is disgusting.
00:24:02Yeah, do it right now.
00:24:04Okay.
00:24:05Do I have lip hair?
00:24:07Like, would you tell me?
00:24:09How would you describe yourself?
00:24:11As a very outgoing, loving, kind-hearted person with great boobs, great nipples, great.
00:24:21I would show you if I could, but I would get in trouble.
00:24:25Back without a warning.
00:24:29I like some heat.
00:24:31Mission complete.
00:24:33It's gonna hit your life.
00:24:35It's gonna hit your life.
00:24:39Just breathe, Elise.
00:24:42So, I've been recently trying meditation.
00:24:46Not the best at it, but, like, definitely in high-stress situations, meditation comes in handy.
00:24:52And especially right now, because I'm gonna go see my parents.
00:24:57I'm really excited to see my family, but it's hard, because I'm kind of like the odd sheep in the
00:25:03family.
00:25:04My parents have this picture-perfect marriage.
00:25:07Met on a blind date, and now been married for over 40 years.
00:25:11My brother, who's 16 months older than me, has been married with two kids.
00:25:16Been with the same girl for eight years.
00:25:17And then, here I am at age 32, when I've never been married, and I don't have kids, and I've
00:25:24made some poor choices with men.
00:25:27I want to find the one more than anything in this world.
00:25:31But, like, my track record is bad.
00:25:34Like, horrible.
00:25:37I've been proposed to five times, and three of them I said yes to.
00:25:42And I've still never walked down the aisle.
00:25:46Recently, I decided to do something completely out of the box, and I went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
00:25:52Oh, okay.
00:25:54There we go!
00:25:56I had some fun in Mexico.
00:25:58I thought I found the one, but he showed his true colors, and he turned out to be another failed
00:26:03relationship.
00:26:04I went to Tiffany to ask for her back.
00:26:09Look, you literally told me you could see a life outside here with me and not her.
00:26:17Carlo and I tried to make it work after the singles retreat, but it didn't work out.
00:26:22It hurt.
00:26:23And that was a hard one to move on from.
00:26:27So I took that time to work on myself, and I think that's what I needed.
00:26:32Because now I have a new man in my life who's super sexy.
00:26:36I just don't know what my parents think about all this.
00:26:41Definitely scared that my parents are sitting in the house currently saying,
00:26:46Oh my God, what is our daughter doing again?
00:26:49My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:26:53that.
00:26:54I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:26:57Oh my God.
00:27:00How you doing?
00:27:01I'm good.
00:27:02Do you want any meds?
00:27:04No, but can't just cover me.
00:27:06Oh, cover your feet.
00:27:07Cover the feet, C's.
00:27:09Yeah.
00:27:11Hi, Mom!
00:27:13Hi!
00:27:14Hi, Dad!
00:27:16Come here, come here!
00:27:17Me!
00:27:18Come here, come on up!
00:27:20Hi!
00:27:20Oh, I missed you.
00:27:22I love you.
00:27:22Hey, we got a gimp over here.
00:27:24Hi, Daddy!
00:27:25We have a gimp.
00:27:26My dad just had two knee surgeries.
00:27:28He's just literally been sitting in a chair, and that's very hard for him.
00:27:32Because he's always out and about, and a big workaholic.
00:27:37Okay, you want to see?
00:27:38You want to see?
00:27:39I don't know.
00:27:40All right, all right.
00:27:41Ready?
00:27:43My dad's a venture capitalist.
00:27:45He gives money to companies in order for them to go public.
00:27:50Or he takes an echo.
00:27:52Oh, God.
00:27:54I should probably know what my dad does.
00:27:55But, like, I don't know.
00:27:57You know what I found, Elise?
00:27:59Your bin.
00:28:00But I want you to take this.
00:28:01I want whatever you want in here to take it.
00:28:03Because we're renovating the house, and I need room.
00:28:06Show us all the report cards with A's.
00:28:09Oh, there are none.
00:28:11What do you mean I got straight A's?
00:28:12Oh, let's see.
00:28:13Okay.
00:28:14This is wild.
00:28:15Oh, summer 2006, when you were 13 years old.
00:28:19Oh, those are letters from camp?
00:28:21Letters from camp.
00:28:22Oh, let me just say.
00:28:23I was camper of the year.
00:28:24No, no, no.
00:28:24This is when she went to overnight camp.
00:28:27Oh, look at that.
00:28:28Oh, my God.
00:28:32Remember you smuggled your phone in?
00:28:34Yep.
00:28:35We're a very close family.
00:28:38The four of us have always stuck together, and it hasn't always been the easiest.
00:28:44Elise was always wild.
00:28:46We bailed Elise out of a lot of things.
00:28:50Maybe too many.
00:28:52So, what's up?
00:28:53Where are you going?
00:28:55New Zealand?
00:28:56Australia?
00:28:57Yeah.
00:29:00It might be silly to me, but, like, I really like him, and I want to go.
00:29:03Well, you don't know him.
00:29:05No, I've never met him.
00:29:08So, why this now?
00:29:12I'm getting older.
00:29:13I'm 32.
00:29:13I've done a lot of self-reflection.
00:29:15Well, the way I look at it is, Joshua, he has a really nice way about him.
00:29:21He's kind of the opposite of me.
00:29:23Like, he's very calm temperament, and I like that.
00:29:26I haven't found love in Miami.
00:29:29No.
00:29:29I feel like I've exhausted every option in Miami.
00:29:32I haven't found love in Miami.
00:29:34Hello, Australia.
00:29:35Yeah, right.
00:29:36I mean, you're right.
00:29:38Welcome to What the F***.
00:29:41I know it sounds ridiculous to my parents, but I wouldn't be flying around the world to
00:29:46Australia to meet just any guy.
00:29:53My boyfriend, Joshua, is a sexy 39-year-old from Sydney, Australia.
00:29:59He is so caring, attentive.
00:30:03He's just, like, a happy-go-lucky guy, like, that everyone wants to be around.
00:30:06He's just, like, an overall, like, a golden retriever puppy.
00:30:12I met him on social media.
00:30:14He slid in my DMs, and we've been talking ever since.
00:30:19When we first started messaging, I did not think it was going to be serious at all.
00:30:23But he totally caught me off guard.
00:30:26There's something about him that's so genuine and so different from what I am used to.
00:30:32Josh has a 12-year-old son who lives with his mom, and his son's the most important person
00:30:37to him.
00:30:38Seeing Joshua as a father makes me fantasize that one day maybe we could have a family.
00:30:45Recently, it's gotten very serious.
00:30:47So, in a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet Joshua for the first time.
00:30:52And, like, oh, my God.
00:30:55I just want to get there and see him and be in his arms already.
00:31:00You know, Elise, I'm glad you're getting out of Miami, but I'm really concerned about your choices
00:31:06and who you pick, you know?
00:31:08Well, I'm not going to stand for bullsh** anymore.
00:31:10You know, I'm not going to stand for it.
00:31:13For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:31:15But if you think, like, there's any, like, you know, what do they call them, gold digger
00:31:19in there, then run.
00:31:21Yeah.
00:31:23Run.
00:31:24Because no mouse, no mouse, no mouse.
00:31:30My parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men because of what happened
00:31:35a few years ago with my ex.
00:31:37I thought he was in love with me, and I was really in love with him.
00:31:41But after being with him for a few years, he ended up stealing my identity and got a
00:31:46credit card out in my name and racked it up $500,000.
00:31:52He conned me and completely broke my heart.
00:31:54And I felt so foolish that I let a guy completely embarrass and demolish me.
00:32:01And the worst part is, who had to get me out of this trouble?
00:32:05My dad.
00:32:08Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler, another guy
00:32:12that's going to take advantage of you.
00:32:14My question is, how do you pull the ripcord if this is going south?
00:32:18What's the evacuation plan if, like, you know, this is...
00:32:21Hello, mom and dad.
00:32:23Like, no, I'm not, I can't do that anymore.
00:32:28I really want the love that my parents have.
00:32:32They genuinely love each other, and they're each other's best friends.
00:32:36But, like, I'm scared that, like, I'm about to go all this way, and I could have my heart
00:32:40broken again, and I don't want that.
00:32:44My dream for you is I want to see you happy.
00:32:48And I think a big part of that is being able to smell out bulls**t.
00:32:53I'm going to try my damn best to not disappoint you, to not disappoint me, you know.
00:32:59And I'm going to see where it goes.
00:33:03Hey.
00:33:04Hi.
00:33:05Michael has always given me really great advice, and I feel like I need that now.
00:33:12You're emotionally compromised.
00:33:14But if you truly want to move forward with this man, I would really appreciate it if you
00:33:18would let me come out there.
00:33:21May I come out there?
00:33:22May I meet him?
00:33:23May I meet him?
00:33:34Are we here?
00:33:35Yes.
00:33:37Oh, my gosh.
00:33:39Baby.
00:33:41I don't see a palace.
00:33:45I thought I'd see a palace, baby.
00:34:03Hi, Uncle.
00:34:05How are you?
00:34:05I'm good.
00:34:06How are you?
00:34:06I'm fine.
00:34:09Daniel is taking me to meet the king today,
00:34:11and I am thinking I'm going to this palace.
00:34:15But what the ?
00:34:18This is not a palace.
00:34:19Where are we?
00:34:20This is nothing like I expected.
00:34:25Ah.
00:34:30What's up?
00:34:38Mm-hmm.
00:34:55Oh, my God, this is a king.
00:34:57He looks like a king.
00:35:00He's wearing lion head and this headdress.
00:35:05And I feel like I'm going to f*** myself.
00:35:07I don't know what to do.
00:35:08I don't know what to do.
00:35:50the lord of couple comes to me because i'm his royal majesty i'm like i'm an aura
00:35:56called a prophet and i said loyal father your blessings is enormous it's not like every other
00:36:04blessings if this thing if it's going to work well as our ancestors
00:36:34i'm getting more nervous because this is so not what i expected
00:36:39what if the ancestors don't give us a blessing does it erase the uncle's blessing does it erase
00:36:46how daniel feels about me i have no idea he's the king
00:37:13hey hey how's it going i just found
00:37:19a hater sounds good yay um yeah i was checking in with some people at home and
00:37:29i was wondering if i could have like i don't know 30 minutes or so no you don't need a
00:37:34long time
00:37:35yeah is that cool yeah you know what am i gonna do
00:37:40probably go find some shisha yay all right have fun see ya
00:37:48i have a mix of emotions after the boat ride today
00:37:54beercon opening up to me was really sweet but i definitely still have some hesitations
00:38:02questions when it comes to beercon's gambling and his debt and i feel like i need to talk to
00:38:10someone who can ground me help me understand and process all of the things that are going on
00:38:22how's it going to say the same thing to you
00:38:26how's it going
00:38:28uh i'm doing well-ish well-ish why well-ish that's that can help for when you're not here oh
00:38:37i know you missed me i know it's been a while i am sure you missed me
00:38:45liar liar i missed you too i have been messaging michael a little bit since i've been in turkey but
00:38:53he
00:38:53definitely doesn't have all the details i trust and respect him and he has always given me
00:39:01really great really sage advice and i feel like i need that now
00:39:08you know i've thought about it a few times honestly
00:39:14honestly i mean he's super sweet and he's really really putting in effort to make me feel special
00:39:22okay but it's like he's given me some information that's like straight up a lot to think about
00:39:30you have me all ears girl i mean he has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount of
00:39:40debt
00:39:41what's substantial in turkish terms well in u.s dollars it's 50 000
00:39:51yeah so i mean that's not good but um i think probably the thing that like concerned me the
00:39:59most he talks a lot about gambling like he'll take money and instead of putting it towards his debt
00:40:06he'll gamble it to try to win more i'm just so concerned what's he gonna do in the states like
00:40:14burn through my money gambling i don't know what to do but at the same time he's ridiculously thoughtful
00:40:24and like so intentional and sweet no one has ever put this much thought and care
00:40:32into things that they planned for me like today he took me out on this amazing
00:40:38boat cruise and he told me because of me he's started to feel alive again and like he's starting
00:40:47to be like himself and i don't get people very often in my life who make me feel cared for
00:40:55so that is a huge huge win for me in the in the pro category
00:41:03i would feel best if you came home honestly
00:41:08you'd feel best if i came home yeah because you're emotionally compromised
00:41:16i can tell you he's running an incredible con game right now his job is to woo you to make
00:41:23you feel
00:41:23like the love of his life to make you feel incredibly special and you've been deprived of these experiences
00:41:29for so damn long that a guy like him that's all he has to do and you're falling head over
00:41:36heels for him
00:41:36when there are far far far higher quality men that can do the same thing and don't come with that
00:41:43baggage
00:41:50you're willing to sacrifice common sense because a vote ride was enough to win your heart
00:42:02i know that the red flags sound crazy but i also think it's easier
00:42:13to hear about red flags than it is green flags the green flags are harder to see
00:42:17unless you see them with your own eyes
00:42:21i mean i ask god if you truly want to move forward with this man
00:42:27i would really appreciate it if you would let me come out there
00:42:32and see him for myself before you make that level of commitment that level of decision about your life
00:42:40may i don't know i don't know that's a really big deal i feel like that could really push him
00:42:55away
00:42:55and create some big problems for me as i do move forward in this relationship
00:43:07i really don't know what to do here on the one hand it might be nice to have a third
00:43:12party to give me
00:43:14their perspective but on the other hand beer con already doesn't like my friendship with michael
00:43:21and i feel like michael showing up here that would piss him off and and honestly i've always thought
00:43:29that he had some sort of underlying feelings for me and the fact that he's willing to just fly out
00:43:35here
00:43:36and rescue me from myself really does kind of concern me about what his intentions are
00:43:44i want to talk to him about it first before we decide for sure okay i can respect that and
00:43:53i will
00:43:53let you know how it goes okay thank you for considering it so your hand actually came with
00:44:04the screenshot of some message from me saying i'm gonna love you forever
00:44:12i can't be with somebody who's been lying and cheating on me this whole time
00:44:16i don't know who the that is
00:44:25you know what i have been waiting to tell you something
00:44:34to be honest it's it's really hard for me to talk about this
00:44:46the truth is that most of the people that i love happen not to be serious with me
00:44:54they just wanted to play with my feelings and my previous partner that i was expecting that guy to
00:45:01love me but he never loved me he already had someone with him he had been cheating me for the
00:45:10longest
00:45:10three years three years and it appears me that i would suffer the same fate like leaving behind
00:45:20i did that live because i'm afraid that i would lose you
00:45:26my previous partner i finally discovered after the longest years that this guy already had a partner
00:45:33while dating with me i just felt unwanted and i really blame myself for not being a perfect woman
00:45:46like i had done something to drive him away
00:45:51if i was ever to do anything to push force away i would feel so much in pain it's an
00:45:59indescribable pain
00:46:08sheena that guy did not deserve you at all i'm not like him i won't be like him
00:46:16i would never leave you if for having issues if you just tell me up front what the situation is
00:46:24i'll be there to support you
00:46:30i hope you have the courage to come to me from now on because i can't i can't have you
00:46:38lying to me
00:46:41and i will do my best and i will put up my negatives feelings aside
00:46:48but i cannot promise you in words but in actions
00:46:53open up and trusting more with you is the best way
00:46:58i knew that sheena was in a relationship before but i didn't know that it affected her to this
00:47:03extent things are not perfect but i feel that sheena and i were able to talk things out and i'm
00:47:11glad
00:47:11that she's willing to work with me it's making me feel better i'm falling more and more in love with
00:47:16her
00:47:16every single day i just really wish that i could feel more confident that this won't happen again
00:47:31bye auntie bye i love you love you
00:47:39is everything okay it's pretty good okay
00:47:51tonight was a total disaster i wanted my aunt to grill him and get the answers however i was hoping
00:48:00deep down they would like each other and she would end up having good things to say about him
00:48:07clearly that's not what happened and at this point i i don't know what's actually going on
00:48:17are you gonna tell me what happened um yeah a lot okay
00:48:27so your aunt actually came with quote unquote truth truth in her mind
00:48:36proof of what proof of me not being fearful to you okay
00:48:45and continue to me she gave me an ultimatum she said if i if i don't tell you who she's
00:48:52gonna tell
00:48:52you it's gonna be worse and all that so i'm like well anyways go ahead
00:49:00she pulled up with a picture of me hugging a girl and with a kiss on her cheek
00:49:09from when probably recently like maybe a couple weeks ago
00:49:18but that's what i do though i take pictures with fans and that sometimes i do that nothing bad
00:49:24so this was just a random girl
00:49:29yeah probably just a fan apparently corinne she's like that's her friend and the girl is like oh she's
00:49:37messing with me and she was with me in this city or whatever i'm like girl i don't even know
00:49:41who the that is
00:49:46oh no and apparently some uh i think they they asked the girl about the picture and she
00:49:53sent a screenshot of some message from me of saying
00:49:57i'm gonna love you forever bro from him who the hell is me apparently i'm him not him in that
00:50:05message
00:50:07uh okay so there's photos and text messages apparently but not real text message
00:50:17you have the photo i don't have it i don't know who the that is i don't know how else
00:50:25can i say i
00:50:25don't want to curse not even like that i could show you like a million more pictures like that
00:50:31corinth is saying it's her friend and that she knows that you guys are hooking up that's what is
00:50:36concerning to me so they're kind crazy if you're messing with her then you're messing with her why
00:50:44would they lie about that if i was messing with her i would tell you the truth then i would
00:50:48have been
00:50:48like let's have a tree but i was joking i'm joking babe i'm joking because i have no reason to
00:50:56lie
00:51:01i just don't know what to believe at this point
00:51:06i need to see the photos and i need to see the text messages and from there i can make
00:51:11a decision
00:51:13make a decision about what if i can trust you if i can believe you if i want to continue
00:51:21that's all i can say right now
00:51:25this is gonna ruin our night i'm tired i'm not gonna get mad at you tonight
00:51:39it's not gonna be like that tonight i mean i'm just i'm not feeling it tonight
00:51:46i came all the way to belize and i was ready to start a family with him
00:51:50and then he pulls back on the babies he won't say he loves me and hearing that he's possibly in
00:51:57another relationship it's just crazy after everything i've put into this relationship
00:52:02don't forget today even happened to be honest with you
00:52:05all right right here
00:52:15i really hope that he's telling me the truth because i can't be with somebody who's been lying and cheating
00:52:21on
00:52:21me this whole time this could really be the end for me and stick
00:52:34i'm going to australia everything's great between joshua and i but i do have some worries about him
00:52:41when you get there are you guys staying in the same room yeah hold on where are you staying okay
00:52:45so he
00:52:46admitted to me that he lives with his parents no
00:52:56so baby yes there's some things i kind of want to talk to you about
00:53:02today spending time alone with shina it's been great
00:53:09okay but it's been one heck of a curvy road being here in the philippines
00:53:16i love you very much
00:53:22time falls as moonshine lights our way
00:53:26the beat of the way
00:53:29some kiss and spill warm from
00:53:32the other day
00:53:34the beat of the way
00:53:35the beat of the way
00:53:35stella
00:53:37stella money's home
00:53:39Stella, do you want a treat?
00:53:41Come here.
00:53:43Treats? Come on.
00:53:45Treats? Come on.
00:53:53Stella, Mommy just got home from Granny and Grampy's.
00:53:57Feels so good to be home.
00:53:58I'm happy I'm with my little kitty.
00:54:01You want some catnip?
00:54:02Come here, Stella.
00:54:04Come here. Stella, look.
00:54:07So I was considered a crazy catwoman because I literally had three cats and a dog.
00:54:13And then, I don't know if I'm a crazy catwoman anymore,
00:54:16because I only have two cats now.
00:54:19But Stella is pretty much my life.
00:54:24I hated cats. Cats were actually pretty disgusting to me.
00:54:28And when I was a young kid, I got told I was really allergic to cats.
00:54:31Right, Stella?
00:54:33And then, once I got Stella, I became obsessed with cats.
00:54:41I love your breath.
00:54:44And if I kiss you too much, you're gonna yap at me.
00:54:50Yeah.
00:54:51You want another treat? One more treat?
00:54:54Oh, God. Did you fart, Stella?
00:54:57Ugh.
00:54:59Stella smells. I feel like she, like, licked her butt,
00:55:01and I just put my mouth in her butt.
00:55:04She farts when she's really excited, actually.
00:55:07Is Stella a girl?
00:55:09Stella is a boy.
00:55:11Stella is transgender.
00:55:13Stella's all the sexes.
00:55:15I got Stella.
00:55:17I went to go get her spade.
00:55:19And they're like, hey, just to let you know your cat,
00:55:22yeah, she's, um, she's a male.
00:55:25And I said, you know what?
00:55:26My ex and I named her Stella, and I'm keeping it.
00:55:31Stella has a penis, but I call her a girl.
00:55:34She's gender confused.
00:55:35It's 2025. It's acceptable.
00:55:38Come on. Come to me here.
00:55:39Come on, Stella.
00:55:40Right here.
00:55:41Try and get off me here.
00:55:42Oh.
00:55:43You're not doing my tricks.
00:55:45Come on. Jump up a little.
00:55:46Jump up for mommy.
00:55:47Oh!
00:55:48Dad, my kitty.
00:55:50Stella is my life.
00:55:52Like, if Stella can be in a man's body,
00:55:54I would, you know, date her.
00:55:58Date her.
00:56:01I know. It's confusing.
00:56:03I don't like women. I like men.
00:56:05I like penis too much, actually.
00:56:19Mommy's gonna go see her friends.
00:56:20Yeah, be right back, okay?
00:56:23Bye, Stella!
00:56:33I'm happy to be back in Miami after a few days with my parents.
00:56:37But every time I see them, it reminds me of how much I want what they have.
00:56:42Like, I may seem like the crazy, wild girl that, like, doesn't give a ,
00:56:46but, like, deep down, I want love, and I want to get married, and I want children,
00:56:51and I want, like, my husband to be my best friend in my forever.
00:56:56And even though we have never met in person, I know Josh is just so amazing.
00:57:01He's sexy, and he's hot, and he's adventurous, and he's active.
00:57:05Like, I'm so infatuated.
00:57:08And I would literally be the happiest girl in the world if he was the one.
00:57:13Oh, my God! Joshua just texted me right now.
00:57:16Hi, babe, how are you?
00:57:17XO.
00:57:18He just sent me a picture.
00:57:22He looks big. His hands look big.
00:57:24Love a good big hand.
00:57:28Even though everything's great between Joshua and I,
00:57:31I do have some worries about him.
00:57:35I held back some information with my parents about Joshua
00:57:38because they have enough on their plate.
00:57:39I don't want to worry them.
00:57:41So I think meeting up with my girlfriends,
00:57:43I can get a different point of view and perspective
00:57:45and, like, kind of dig into the worries that I have.
00:57:50Look what the cats brought in!
00:57:52Hi!
00:57:54Oh, my God.
00:57:55My bros is so tight.
00:57:57I miss you!
00:57:59Blonde!
00:58:00Hi!
00:58:01Look how blonde she is.
00:58:02Hey, come here. Let me give you a hug.
00:58:05You look so cute.
00:58:09Wait, are we drinking?
00:58:11Of course.
00:58:12We already had espresso martinis before we got here.
00:58:14That's pre-game you're getting here.
00:58:15Oh, my God.
00:58:16So, what's going on?
00:58:19I'm going to Australia.
00:58:22Oh.
00:58:23I'm doing it.
00:58:24I'm going.
00:58:25I can't believe you're going.
00:58:26I mean, listen, it's like the Miami men suck, you know?
00:58:29Yeah.
00:58:30And Josh is kind.
00:58:31He's super sweet.
00:58:33He's someone I typically wouldn't go for.
00:58:35Okay.
00:58:36He's not a typical Miami guy.
00:58:39Elise is one of the funniest, kindest people I know.
00:58:43And I also feel like she is a hopeless romantic.
00:58:46Elise gives these guys her whole heart, and she gets nothing in return for it.
00:58:52So, when Elise told us she was going to meet some guy in Australia, I gently thought, what the F?
00:58:59I thought, you're insane, and you're crazy.
00:59:02Yeah.
00:59:04So, when you get there, are you guys staying in the same room?
00:59:06Is he getting in your own room?
00:59:08Yeah, hold on.
00:59:09Where are you staying?
00:59:10Okay, so, I asked him when I got my plane ticket to send me his apartment and, like, video it.
00:59:16Yeah.
00:59:16Okay.
00:59:17Every single day, I was asking for him to send me the video.
00:59:20And then he admitted to me that he lives with his parents.
00:59:24No!
00:59:26So, I don't think he has much money.
00:59:29I was like, so, Joshua, like, I'm going to come and I'm going to live with your parents?
00:59:34Okay.
00:59:35He's like, no, I will get a rental and split it with a roommate.
00:59:39Because he can't afford a rental by himself.
00:59:42Okay.
00:59:43We...
00:59:47Listen, the money situation's not the big thing.
00:59:50I can work with a guy that doesn't have money.
00:59:53But here's the thing about Josh.
00:59:56He makes me feel special and he makes me feel important.
00:59:59I'm much rather a guy with not that much money that gives me emotional love than a guy that just
01:00:05spends.
01:00:06Yeah.
01:00:06I've had every single man spend everything on me with no emotional love.
01:00:12I think it's a good thing that he is more caring, more kind, because she's looking for something different.
01:00:18She's looking for a genuine connection.
01:00:21But no girl and man at 39 should be living with no roommate.
01:00:25Yeah.
01:00:26That's crazy.
01:00:26Or with the parents.
01:00:27I mean, living with his parents is crazy.
01:00:28Yeah.
01:00:29We sound like another Miami pack of girls, but like finances are important.
01:00:33They provide safety.
01:00:34They provide stability.
01:00:35Food on the table.
01:00:36You have a house.
01:00:37You like...
01:00:37The bills are being paid.
01:00:39Exactly.
01:00:40I am concerned as your friend.
01:00:44Like I'm wearing red.
01:00:45Like I feel the red flags everywhere.
01:00:47Right.
01:00:48But every single time I talk to him on the phone, I get off feeling so energized and so cared
01:00:53about and so giddy.
01:00:56I am going to Australia because I truly believe that he could be my future husband.
01:01:02But Joshua sent me a text last night that was super alarming and it kind of threw me off.
01:01:10I'm almost embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
01:01:12And if I tell my girlfriends about this, they would probably tell me not to go.
01:01:17And that's the last thing I want.
01:01:20I'm hoping to get down there and figure this all out because I want this so badly to work out.
01:01:34I was wondering if you wanted to take a gondola ride with me.
01:01:37Oh, really?
01:01:37That's right here.
01:01:38It would be it.
01:01:40Ciao.
01:01:41Ciao.
01:01:42Ciao, gracias.
01:01:43Ciao, senore.
01:01:44Buldir.
01:01:44Oh, thank you.
01:01:46Senore, gracias.
01:01:46Gracias.
01:01:47Oh, wow.
01:01:48Oh, my gosh.
01:01:53Here we go, baby.
01:01:54Woo!
01:01:55I wonder how much chlorine that takes.
01:02:05This is so beautiful, honey.
01:02:07Yeah.
01:02:08I miss being in my night outfit.
01:02:10Really?
01:02:10Yeah.
01:02:11I know what you're thinking, huh?
01:02:13Always.
01:02:15You're thinking of fun, sexy stuff.
01:02:16No, you're the one doing that, not me.
01:02:19Oh, no.
01:02:20It sounds like you're the one thinking about that.
01:02:21No, you're the one doing that thing.
01:02:22I think I know some of your secrets are coming out.
01:02:25I know.
01:02:25I'm not.
01:02:28Today, spending time alone with Sheena, it's been great to just spend time together and
01:02:34finally get to talk to each other and really put everything out.
01:02:41I hope, with my love and support, Sheena will come to understand that she doesn't need to lie anymore.
01:02:49She can move forward and tell me stuff from now on, instead of just leaving me in the dark.
01:02:57That's a nice place to visit.
01:03:00I wish I knew some Italian songs so I could sing them to you.
01:03:09Come on, Sheena, give me a...
01:03:25I love you, Sheena.
01:03:29I love you, Sheena.
01:03:29I love baby beer.
01:03:34That's so sweet.
01:03:35You're so sweet.
01:03:36You taste like toothpaste.
01:03:39I fell in love with a girl I didn't know.
01:03:43It's been one heck of a curvy road being here in the Philippines ever since I got here.
01:03:48But one thing that's been consistent the entire time is how I feel with Sheena one-on-one.
01:03:54Okay, guys, grab me.
01:04:00When you take away all the distractions and everybody else's opinions, what's left is a love that I've never, ever
01:04:09felt before.
01:04:11So that's so much fun.
01:04:13It feels great to finally have someone who accepts my courts and oddities 100%.
01:04:21And that's what I love about her.
01:04:24Look at the beautiful flowers.
01:04:27Oh, that's cool. There's a lot of Busteria.
01:04:32Wow, this place is so beautiful.
01:04:34I love it.
01:04:36Actually, it's like past next time, but it's okay.
01:04:40So, baby.
01:04:41Yes.
01:04:42There's some things I kind of want to talk to you about.
01:04:47Well, over the last seven years, I've been wanting to come here and be with you and get to, you
01:04:55know, see you.
01:04:58And I know that we've had some ups and downs since I've gotten here, but I think it's only going
01:05:03to make us stronger.
01:05:05Because you are my one special person.
01:05:10There's a glimmer in your brown eyes.
01:05:14Okay.
01:05:15Yeah.
01:05:16But, Sheena, thank you for being in my life.
01:05:20Let's continue to be in each other's lives from now on.
01:05:24So, here we are, two kindred souls.
01:05:28If you would do me the honor.
01:05:30Oh, God.
01:05:32Will you please marry me?
01:05:35These are the moments that make up our lives.
01:05:38Oh, God.
01:05:39All of the memories and all the first times.
01:05:42Oh, God.
01:05:45I love you, baby.
01:05:47I love you, baby.
01:05:49Yes, I do.
01:05:53Give me your finger.
01:05:56Is this the right thing, Aaron?
01:05:58Six years now, I had this ring.
01:06:02Thank you, my love.
01:06:03It's so beautiful.
01:06:09I wanted to be with you for the rest of my life.
01:06:12Thank you, my love.
01:06:21That was so wonderful.
01:06:28I love you, baby bear.
01:06:30Thank you so much for being my bear.
01:06:35Thank you for staying with me all this time.
01:06:38I'm sorry I didn't come sooner.
01:06:41Aww.
01:06:47I've never felt super happy in my life,
01:06:50and this is the best day of life ever.
01:06:55I can't even think straight.
01:06:56You know, to think that I finally got the woman of my dreams
01:06:59after seven years.
01:07:01Just keep following your dreams, everybody.
01:07:04And you will get what you need.
01:07:08You'll get there.
01:07:11I love you, baby.
01:07:20I'm super happy and super satisfied with how everything went.
01:07:25Any nerves about telling your family for us?
01:07:28Sorta, yeah.
01:07:30But I'm gonna tell my mom that...
01:07:33It's the right time.
01:07:33It's the right time, and...
01:07:35I've been waiting for this long.
01:07:36Yeah, and we've been waiting for this the entire time,
01:07:39and it was our decision.
01:07:42Welcome to the tunnel of love.
01:07:43That's amazing.
01:07:45You know what's something funny about this tunnel of love?
01:07:47What?
01:07:48It may be hot outside, but after we entered here,
01:07:51I think it got a little hotter.
01:07:55That was so funny, huh?
01:07:58I love you, my love.
01:07:59I love you, my shame.
01:08:03I love you.
01:08:04Are you sure you are going to take good care of him?
01:08:06Yes, my king.
01:08:08I don't think so.
01:08:10You don't think so?
01:08:11No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:08:12Why are you laughing?
01:08:14Do you see me laugh?
01:08:17I get to go and sit down.
01:08:20I can't spend that.
01:08:22So, now I'm worried.
01:08:24Because if the king would hold his blessing,
01:08:26I don't know what I would do.
01:08:35Okay.
01:08:38The ancestor has spoken.
01:08:43Lisa.
01:08:44Yes.
01:08:44Proceed forward.
01:08:54It's a miracle.
01:09:06Uh-huh.
01:09:13Are you sure you are going to take good care of him?
01:09:18Yes, my king.
01:09:20Are you sure?
01:09:22Yes.
01:09:24I don't think so.
01:09:27You don't think so?
01:09:28No, no, no, no, no.
01:09:30Why are you laughing?
01:09:33Do you see me laugh?
01:09:37No, my king.
01:09:44I get all going sittingigila.
01:09:49I'll get all gone sit down.
01:09:49I think Ms sent that, laughing in the presence of a king.
01:09:55Each means that the king is talking trash, telling lies.
01:10:00he's very disrespectful to the king and to his palace so now i'm worried because if the king
01:10:08would hold his blessing i don't know what i would do who are you laughing at you are laughing at
01:10:14me
01:10:18no my king i'm laughing because i'm nervous i have a nervous laugh you have a nervous laugh
01:10:30i'd either laugh or cry your husband did not tell you
01:10:38um may you leave my change she's the wife i want to marry and she has been nervous
01:10:49she has been trying to know most of our tradition she's trying her best
01:10:58good say that
01:11:01i have come come my daughter
01:11:12don't laugh again come my daughter
01:11:19you don't laugh before a traditional majesty like me
01:11:26unless i laugh
01:11:36laugh laugh laugh yeah i tell you to laugh now okay
01:11:41i have come my brother come and hold your wife
01:11:49so our ancestors accept you
01:11:55it shall be well with you people
01:11:58god will bless you people god will make this union to be fruitful
01:12:04god will give you people happy home i bless you in a marriage
01:12:09i say it shall be well with you people you know okay
01:12:14i say this will you know
01:12:16will work well
01:12:23enjoy your wife wife enjoy your husband
01:12:27uh-huh uh-huh
01:12:29i wasn't sure i was gonna get the blessing i was on pins and needles
01:12:34but when the king says we are blessed
01:12:38it's a relief
01:12:40lisa
01:12:42you are now one of us
01:12:44my final thought
01:12:46which is very very very important thing
01:12:50i want to see how our wife will dance
01:12:54dance
01:12:55dance anyhow you know how to dance
01:12:57you must dance with me
01:13:03i've made it
01:13:05there's nothing more ultimate than a blessing from the king
01:13:07so that we can get married
01:13:11but at this moment
01:13:13i'm still married to a woman
01:13:17and he doesn't know
01:13:20i've held on to these secrets so long
01:13:22it's weighing on me heavily
01:13:24i have to tell him soon
01:13:26and i'm hoping that he can understand and accept me for who i am and what my past is
01:13:34i'm hoping we live happily ever after i want this so bad
01:13:38our wife's gotten done very well
01:13:47siad you're gonna talk to me now
01:13:49you just waste your time
01:13:51siad you're an asshole
01:13:53you want to act like you're perfect you want to put on this whole front
01:13:56like you're this great guy but you're a liar
01:13:58do you want to tell everyone how we had sex
01:14:02it's like guys it's to the end
01:14:16i can't i can't
01:14:46i'm really upset right now
01:14:48i thought we'd at least be able to like
01:14:51talk about what happened
01:14:55and i didn't think he was gonna break up with me
01:15:01i just feel like he took any excuse and any reason to just end all of this and walk away
01:15:06and he i think he was just waiting for a reason to walk away
01:15:12what are you thinking about right now
01:15:15me i'm not someone to be in a game
01:15:21i want just to go
01:15:30i'm so mad because she lied for everything so maybe tomorrow she's gonna tell me another story so i can't
01:15:39give her another chance
01:15:41i make a lot of my energy to be with her but i feel betrayed
01:15:50all what i want right now is to leave everything about here and forget your name too
01:16:16where is he going
01:16:20you're gonna talk to me now
01:16:23you just waste your time i'm waiting for someone to pick me to go home so
01:16:30so you're not staying here tonight no
01:16:34you're just gonna walk out and leave me here by myself you can enjoy it with the view
01:16:41so what about the the two weeks that i'm here you can wait now call the gay and you can
01:16:46come
01:16:49see if you're an asshole and you're a liar how about that how about you're a liar do you want
01:16:55to
01:16:55tell everyone how we had sex do you want to tell them that you want to act like you're perfect
01:17:01you
01:17:01want to put on this whole front like you're this great guy but you're a liar okay say anything
01:17:06you want okay so did that not happen did we not have sex i will finish all things did we
01:17:11not have sex i
01:17:12will not continue did we not have to say anything you want because we did it's okay for me it's
01:17:19the end
01:17:27good bye guys go
01:17:40like when i didn't even do anything like that was before we were in a relationship and he's done
01:17:45so much to me since i've been his girlfriend and i like accepted it because i loved him
01:17:56i just feel like i wasted my time again and i did all of this to try to be with
01:18:01someone and
01:18:02like i get broken up with again and now i'm single and alone and he gets to just go home
01:18:15yeah he left me in the desert in the middle of nowhere
01:18:30i just don't understand like
01:18:34it's like i try so hard to like find love and to like make it work and it just never
01:18:42it never
01:18:42happens for me like it never does and i always get left i always get dumped it's always me
01:18:51and it's like that's the only thing i want like all i want is to find love
01:18:55and like get married and it just never it never happens for me
01:19:32i have a feeling that my mom's didn't have a lot of uh questions for us
01:19:37it just felt right to kind of propose to sheena
01:19:43you guys happy oh yeah i'm ecstatic
01:20:00what you do to me i could write a book on screen ripples run around your thoughts back to where
01:20:11you started
01:20:19you guys
01:20:20i have the happiest bear ever yeah i'm the happiest bear we're bears in love yeah for life for life
01:20:36life i just proposed to sheena and she said yes so now we're heading back to tell mom and dev
01:20:47my world is
01:20:51just amazing just filled with so much light and so much happiness
01:20:56no i can't even i felt like i don't want to sleep after everything what happened
01:21:00i gotta sleep tonight huh no i'm just i hope i get some sleep tonight yeah
01:21:06i'm gonna be sitting there and you're gonna attack me oh no i'm not gonna attack you
01:21:13she and i have been talking for a while about when would be the perfect time the perfect time
01:21:17to have sex and now knowing that we are going to be committed to each other 100 we're both
01:21:23ready to let out that sexual tension and maybe even get a little bit freaky don't worry i told
01:21:30you i'm gonna get you some some dog chains some dog color and some well dog boss you want well
01:21:36well you are a vet and i know that you're well supplied don't worry this is free when i'm the
01:21:41vet around oh my gosh i'm happy you said yes of course one in a million yes to the most
01:21:52wonderful
01:21:53bearded i ever had i feel a lot of weight off my shoulders me too
01:21:59but i i have a feeling that my mom's gonna have a lot of questions for us
01:22:06but i'm ready to take the jump with you
01:22:10even if she has doubts i'm pretty sure my mom's gonna be happy for us
01:22:16at least i'm hoping she's gonna be
01:22:21i just got a text from my mom she's down by the pool okay my love let's go
01:22:31baby just breathe yes everything's gonna be at peace
01:22:36hey guys hey mom did you have fun oh yeah we went to uh the gondola mall we got there
01:22:46and
01:22:46oh really yeah we walked around did you ride the little boat thingy my bobber no of course we did
01:22:51oh how nice yeah i figured yeah we got there and it was fun it was pretty cool
01:22:57all right yeah then we just walked around we looked at a few stores and then we came to a
01:23:04um a little point with tons of nice little flowers and lights and just a whole lot of people and
01:23:12it just felt you know like the right place to you know kind of propose to sheena
01:23:26hmm and uh she said yes
01:23:40you guys happy
01:23:45oh yeah i'm ecstatic forrest
01:23:51i asked you to hold off and wait so she could prove herself and then you just go walk up
01:23:56and
01:23:57pull this little sneak
01:23:59if you are not gonna be willing to listen
01:24:03what the am i doing sitting over here in this country then forrest
01:24:10i think you're just being a stubborn ass and you just don't want to accept our happiness
01:24:17excuse me
01:24:21don't be shaking your head and agreeing when you are there i agree because this is what we talk as
01:24:26couples we work we talk about this and this is our decision don't answer for him if you weren't in
01:24:33its
01:24:34head and you weren't there i am and i would decide for what we want to do hey mom do
01:24:41you think maybe it
01:24:41would have been nice if you would have included us now she's got the whole cat in the bag doesn't
01:24:47she
01:24:49do you think i'm gonna do that they're gonna do that they're gonna be doing that and i'm gonna make
01:24:50it
01:24:50oh geez forrest your life it's over
01:24:58Next time on
01:24:59Before the 90 Days
01:25:02I'll give you one free shot
01:25:06Trish is very hard to read
01:25:08I feel like she's
01:25:09starting to warm up a little bit
01:25:12If the one you pick
01:25:13win, we do have sex tonight
01:25:15So pick the good one
01:25:18Oh no no no
01:25:19Hey referee
01:25:28I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend
01:25:31After talking for six months
01:25:33Elise is beautiful
01:25:34But at the same time, she's very fiery
01:25:36I'm nervous, very nervous
01:25:39How do you think she's going to fit into the circle
01:25:41Over here?
01:25:41Do you think American girls are more jealous?
01:25:44I don't know
01:25:44If she has a problem, definitely not
01:25:48The girl in the photo, she's my friend
01:25:51And do we know if this is still going on currently?
01:25:57Are we actually calling?
01:25:59Oh, you're gonna
01:26:01Get your question ready
01:26:05Why didn't you make her prove herself
01:26:07Before you proposed?
01:26:09When she starts to lie
01:26:11It's because she has traumatic, mad experiences
01:26:15Everybody's got stress in their life
01:26:17And then to say, I'm under stress
01:26:19So I'm going to lie
01:26:20And you're gonna accept her
01:26:22Just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying
01:26:24Of course
01:26:25You're more bull than a Christmas goose
01:26:29I really want to tell you something
01:26:33Um
01:26:34I've been married five times
01:26:36Five times?
01:26:38And I filled out the divorce papers
01:26:41But I am still married
01:26:45I feel like someone poisoned me
01:26:47Someone
01:26:48I'm sorry
01:26:49I came here to tell you the truth
01:26:51To tell you everything
01:26:52I want to go home, please
01:26:56She called me a liar
01:26:57She called me a scammer
01:26:59What?
01:27:00She's the real scammer
01:27:01She's the real scammer
01:27:02She's the real scammer
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