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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04Hello, Trish.
00:00:07Oh, you're here.
00:00:09I'm here, baby.
00:00:11I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:14Don't love me.
00:00:15I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:18I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:21after the ghosting incident.
00:00:23But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:27Surprise!
00:00:30Damn!
00:00:33You know what I really like in the States?
00:00:35The Chinese food out there.
00:00:36If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:39My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:42He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:46But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:49They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:51The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:53and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:57and that they left together.
00:01:00I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong.
00:01:04But there's definitely a part of me that wonders
00:01:06if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:11BeerCon is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:17straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:19I'm ready to take the next step with him.
00:01:22But I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:25has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:28You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:31but it can't go both ways.
00:01:35You said you'd never leave.
00:01:37I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:39I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:45I'm heading to the Philippines today.
00:01:47But last night, Sheena tells me she has been giving all her money
00:01:51to her parents this entire time.
00:01:53I am not happy, and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:02:00I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:02:03when she's alive here.
00:02:05And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:15It's a beautiful day.
00:02:33I hate packing.
00:02:35I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:36So yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:38I'm like super nervous.
00:02:40Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:42I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:45I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:47I've never left the continent.
00:02:49But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:52I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way
00:02:56to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:59I've been talking about doing this for so long,
00:03:01for so many months.
00:03:03And now that it's here, I'm like way more nervous
00:03:07than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:09The situation with Michael is giving me a little bit more
00:03:12anxiety too.
00:03:15When I confronted Michael, I really was trying to give him a chance
00:03:21so I could have a clear head before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:26But Michael does not seem like he's ever going to come to terms
00:03:30with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:33And that's not fair to me.
00:03:35So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:40Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:42We do a lot of things together.
00:03:43We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:45And I know that that is not really common,
00:03:49to have that kind of male-female friendship in other cultures,
00:03:54other religions.
00:03:55And so that's scary to feel like I might possibly have to choose
00:04:00between somebody who's my best friend
00:04:01and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:07It's open.
00:04:09Hey.
00:04:09Hey, how are you?
00:04:11Good, how are you?
00:04:11Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:13Are you excited?
00:04:14Yeah.
00:04:14A little terrified, actually.
00:04:16I know.
00:04:17I'm terrified for you.
00:04:20My parents offered to take me to the airport,
00:04:22which is really nice.
00:04:24But my relationship has felt a little bit strained
00:04:27with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:32They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:37And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect
00:04:41to see me end up with.
00:04:43So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:47You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:50So excited.
00:04:56I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:58I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:05:00I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:05:01Well, I wanted you to feel supported,
00:05:04but I'm not in favor of all this.
00:05:09I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey
00:05:13and meet a guy you never met who is a Muslim.
00:05:17It's not even in my wheelhouse to think that that would ever
00:05:20have been something that was possible.
00:05:22You know what I'm saying?
00:05:24It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:27But it's not like I'm going in completely blind
00:05:32or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:37The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:41I mean, how old is he, Laura?
00:05:45He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:48Oh, my God.
00:05:51Laura, are you serious?
00:05:52I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:56Don't make jokes.
00:05:57Holy mackerel.
00:05:57That's not funny.
00:05:58What is he thinking?
00:06:00What is he thinking?
00:06:01I'm awesome.
00:06:02What the heck is he thinking?
00:06:02I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:04No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:09That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:13Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:15Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman
00:06:18and saying all the right things.
00:06:19Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:24Okay.
00:06:24Big red flag.
00:06:25Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:26That's not what love is.
00:06:29You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:30You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:36Right now, it's not love.
00:06:38It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:40To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but...
00:06:45That guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:46I don't...
00:06:47Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:50I agree.
00:06:51A concern?
00:06:51It's more like...
00:06:52Like ten giant red flags.
00:06:56My word in heaven.
00:06:59You actually think that there's a possibility
00:07:03that this could work
00:07:04and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:08Yeah, I do.
00:07:09You do?
00:07:10If I didn't think that there was a possibility,
00:07:12I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:15My...
00:07:15My...
00:07:17Oh, my God.
00:07:22We're just pointing out all our concerns.
00:07:26You know?
00:07:27And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:33I feel blindsided.
00:07:35I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:39I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:44I just...
00:07:45Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:47All of it.
00:07:50I want to be happy for you.
00:07:53But I can't.
00:07:55I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:58I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:08:00And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me
00:08:04at this point,
00:08:06it is just messing with my head.
00:08:09It keeps me awake at night,
00:08:11thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:14Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:16Don't ever settle.
00:08:31We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:33Why?
00:08:34Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:39Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:41Yeah.
00:08:42Yeah.
00:08:42No.
00:08:42That's a show we're going to happen now.
00:08:45Yeah.
00:08:46I'm going to do it once.
00:08:47Do it twice.
00:08:49Take the cake, not just a slice.
00:08:51I got a funny feeling ain't nobody...
00:08:53What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:54You're how old?
00:08:56I am 52.
00:08:58And you said you're an adult?
00:09:00I am an adult.
00:09:01You don't need my help picking out condoms.
00:09:05My name is Lisa.
00:09:07I'm 52 years old
00:09:08and I live in King of Pressure, Pennsylvania.
00:09:10I thought you would feel better
00:09:12knowing that your mother's taking precautions.
00:09:15I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so...
00:09:17I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:20No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:23Is that not a playboy?
00:09:25Playboy's somebody who's like a gigolo.
00:09:28He didn't say he went out with a lot of women.
00:09:30No, gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:32Gigolo's a male hooker.
00:09:34No, that's not.
00:09:35That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:36That's a pimp.
00:09:37A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers
00:09:41and gets the money.
00:09:42Okay.
00:09:44I live with my daughter, Faith,
00:09:46where Faith lives with me.
00:09:48We live with each other.
00:09:49And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:52We talk about everything.
00:09:53Whether it's the topic of sex
00:09:58and masturbating to dirty dishes in the sink
00:10:01and who's going to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:10:04I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:06What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:08How do I know what size it is?
00:10:11Has he ever told you in inch...
00:10:14Well, I guess it wouldn't be in kilometers?
00:10:17No.
00:10:19I have never used a condom before.
00:10:21Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:25I have been married five times.
00:10:27Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb,
00:10:30and it led to an annulment.
00:10:33Husband number two, he was my very best friend.
00:10:36And it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:38But, after a few years, I realized he made a better friend
00:10:42than he made a husband.
00:10:44Husband number three, he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:48He was a really good guy.
00:10:50So, why did I leave him?
00:10:53I realized I was a lesbian.
00:10:56And for the past 21 years, I've been with women only.
00:10:59Let's go with the flow.
00:11:03Relax and watch what happens.
00:11:05Women are nice and curvy and soft.
00:11:10And I've had one wife, and then I've had another wife.
00:11:13But neither of them worked out.
00:11:15But I forgot about men, to be quite honest with you.
00:11:18I wasn't even thinking that I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.
00:11:22But sure enough, Daniel came along and...
00:11:27Yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:32Hi, beautiful. You're my everything. You're the light in my... my soul.
00:11:39He is 39 years old, and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:44He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form.
00:11:49So, I don't know what it is.
00:11:52He messaged me on social media.
00:11:55We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.
00:11:59So, at first, I thought, this is a scam artist.
00:12:02I said, I'm not talking to you, you're not real.
00:12:05But he kept trying to talk to me, and you know what?
00:12:08He is a smooth operator.
00:12:10He says the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.
00:12:14I love you much. You're much like a food to my soul.
00:12:18I just fell in love with him.
00:12:21He is so sweet, it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.
00:12:25I love you, Lisa.
00:12:27And I will continue to love you.
00:12:29Daniel says I'm exquisite, and I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.
00:12:34And he better, because this damn thing is itchy as all hell.
00:12:39And it's uncomfortable.
00:12:40Can I take it off?
00:12:51I love you.
00:12:53Oh my God, it feels so much better.
00:12:55One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short.
00:12:59And I miss my long hair so much.
00:13:02So, I wear wigs.
00:13:04Daniel saw me in my natural hair first, and then he saw me in my wigs.
00:13:07And he was like, damn.
00:13:11So, now I wear wigs every day.
00:13:12And I plan on wearing my wig the whole time when I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than
00:13:18a week.
00:13:19Okay.
00:13:20Here goes nothing.
00:13:21Try a flavored one. You might like it.
00:13:23No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:25You'll be ribbed.
00:13:26No, I don't know.
00:13:27No, I don't know.
00:13:30Growing up with mom was in a roller coaster.
00:13:34My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly, at least what she thinks is love.
00:13:42She's been through a lot of relationships.
00:13:44We've moved so many places.
00:13:47I've been to 15 different schools, if that tells you something.
00:13:51Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men after 21 years.
00:13:56I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:59Oh, gosh.
00:14:02Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:06Oh, there's different sizes. Holy crap.
00:14:10Daniel and I, we've had video sex.
00:14:12We've sent pictures to each other, and I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:17But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years, I can't even think about it.
00:14:24They have different body parts than women.
00:14:27The smells, the taste, the feels, the cleanup.
00:14:31I mean, I remember 21 years ago just walking to the bathroom to have to take care of myself and
00:14:39still dripping.
00:14:40That's disgusting.
00:14:41You don't have that with women.
00:14:44It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:46Oh, I'm gonna be sick.
00:14:48Um, sir?
00:14:49If you have a moment, could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:53I'm not gonna help you.
00:14:54So embarrassing. I'm sorry.
00:14:55This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:14:57Okay.
00:14:58Yep.
00:14:58They have to be latex-free.
00:15:00I'm allergic to latex.
00:15:01I'm...
00:15:03Oh, gosh.
00:15:04When it says thinnest, does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural skin on it?
00:15:10Yep.
00:15:10It's just, it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you, or, I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:15No, you're good.
00:15:16I'm just really, really embarrassed.
00:15:17No, no, it's good.
00:15:18I'm buying the condoms myself because I'm worried that I'll get there and there won't be a latex-free condom.
00:15:25But this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me.
00:15:30This is not just about the embarrassment over the condoms.
00:15:35All I can think about is Daniel and how he has no idea that I lived my life as a
00:15:39lesbian for 21 years.
00:15:41Thank you so much.
00:15:43No problem.
00:15:43I appreciate it.
00:15:45A couple of months ago, I went into Tessa Waters to see if I could come out with my whole
00:15:50truth.
00:15:51And I told him in the past that I had a fling with a woman.
00:15:57Daniel said to me, how could I do that to myself? How could I do that to God?
00:16:01God doesn't believe in same sexes being together.
00:16:05And he was disgusted.
00:16:08There you go.
00:16:10Yeah, no problem. Let me get the rest of your time.
00:16:11You can hide them in my purse.
00:16:12I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person because I am not ashamed of who I am.
00:16:18But I'm terrified to tell him because of how he responded to the fling. I'm terrified.
00:16:26I'm worried that he's going to say that this is a mistake and walk away.
00:16:31And I'm going to be left heartbroken.
00:16:34Okay, that's over and done with.
00:16:37Thank God.
00:16:44Well, well, well.
00:16:46So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:16:48Yes, I am.
00:16:50I was a player for most of my life.
00:16:53Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:54I want somebody to be there for me.
00:16:56So you want to stop all the parties?
00:16:58I stop all the parties.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:17:01How do you think she's going to react?
00:17:05I have a check-in flight and I landed.
00:17:08But I'm worried since he's not texting me.
00:17:12You're going to need your passport.
00:17:14Let's get through here.
00:17:15I don't know.
00:17:16I left him somewhere.
00:17:17What are we doing now?
00:17:19What are we doing now?
00:17:19Oh, God.
00:17:23My flight to Belize boards in 20 minutes.
00:17:27I'm still on the other side.
00:17:30So, hopefully, we get off soon.
00:17:41I'm rushing to my next gate right now.
00:17:44I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:46It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym
00:17:49because I am having to run to my connecting flight to Belize
00:17:53to meet my boyfriend Stig for the first time.
00:17:56Stig, you better be worth it
00:17:57because running through the airport is really embarrassing.
00:18:01Stig's a famous musician in Belize
00:18:03and the women there love him.
00:18:06So, the last thing I want to do is look like a sweaty mess
00:18:10when I meet him for the first time.
00:18:11But I don't really have a choice right now.
00:18:14Four minutes.
00:18:15Just getting to my gate.
00:18:20Or maybe it was perfect timing.
00:18:23Thank the Lord.
00:18:25Next stop, Belize.
00:18:28After waiting for so long,
00:18:30I'm super nervous to meet Stig.
00:18:32But I cannot wait to get my hands on him
00:18:35and start a future together.
00:18:38My second plan to believe.
00:18:41I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:43I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:44This is the leader and this is the leader of Stig.
00:18:55The King Christian Christian Christian Christian Christian.
00:18:55I wanna know.
00:18:59This is the leader of Stig.
00:19:01I told you that one.
00:19:02This is the leader of Stig.
00:19:06And the leader of Stig.
00:19:08This is the leader of Stig.
00:19:24What's up? I am Erlin Dwayne. I go by Stig the Artist.
00:19:29I'm a musician from Belémupan, Belize, Central America, and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:34You know the vibes.
00:19:36I think I'm a cool guy, you know.
00:19:38I'm just chill for the most part, but when I'm performing, it's just a different feeling.
00:19:44I just get alive.
00:19:46I love what I do.
00:19:48I love music.
00:19:49I love singing for the ladies then, and the girls, you know, they can get pretty wild at
00:19:54my show.
00:19:57There's this one time, this girl was literally trying to get in my pants.
00:20:00She was front stage, and I'm like, yo, chill.
00:20:02But if that's what my music gives them, that kind of joy, then I'm doing the right job.
00:20:07I can't take you off my mind.
00:20:10About 10 years ago, I put out my first song, my first music video.
00:20:14I recorded every single day in the studio.
00:20:17I grew my fan base, and now I'm at the highest level of Belize as an artist.
00:20:22So everybody recognizes me, and I am very grateful for the love and support that I get here.
00:20:33I'm very proud of what I've become, but I couldn't have done it by myself.
00:20:38Perf is my producer.
00:20:40He produced a lot of my biggest songs.
00:20:42Richie is my manager.
00:20:45Six is my G.
00:20:47He's one of my best friends.
00:20:49They're still my homies since we started everything, and I know they're always looking out for me.
00:20:54I have a special toast.
00:20:56My gallery tomorrow.
00:20:58Cheers, yeah?
00:20:59World, world.
00:21:00World, yeah?
00:21:01You really like the American girls, bro.
00:21:04You really like them.
00:21:05Farina!
00:21:05Yo!
00:21:05You like the my gallery?
00:21:06Farina!
00:21:08Farina!
00:21:09I go straight, Farina.
00:21:11We are dead.
00:21:12Ah!
00:21:14Listen, my friends, they could joke around as much as they want and tease me,
00:21:18but I'm very serious about my girlfriend, Aviva.
00:21:22Two years ago, I started talking to Aviva on social media.
00:21:26At first, we were both in a relationship, but when we both became single, it was way beyond friends.
00:21:35Aviva's super hot.
00:21:36She has the most beautiful blue eyes.
00:21:39But one of the most attractive things about Aviva is her personality.
00:21:44She has a beautiful heart, so humble and gentle, and she has a cute little laugh with her.
00:21:51I don't have to be stick the artist, you know?
00:21:53I don't have to impress her.
00:21:54I can be Erlen Dwayne, and that's why I feel like she's the person I want to spend the rest
00:21:59of my life with.
00:22:01So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:22:03Yes, I am.
00:22:05You think you'd have settled down really with this woman?
00:22:07Start a family, let's get married, let's have kids.
00:22:10I don't know.
00:22:12I might want to be a baby.
00:22:15You are breathing.
00:22:17You want to bury her, girl?
00:22:18Hello?
00:22:19I mean, woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.
00:22:22Damn.
00:22:24So you're right, she's going to want to have her baby over here over America?
00:22:28America?
00:22:29America because you want to be a bit on...
00:22:32You want to get a citizen of the...
00:22:33I mean, the girl is that.
00:22:37They get serious, boys.
00:22:38It's getting serious, you know?
00:22:41So you want to stop all the party in the...
00:22:43I stop all the party, that's part of my life.
00:22:45I mean, she's, you know, like...
00:22:47I plan to take her to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:51You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows.
00:22:54You ready for that?
00:22:55Yeah, I mean, I hope she's ready.
00:22:57You know what it's called San Pedro, right?
00:23:00Temptation Island.
00:23:01Yeehaw!
00:23:02So what if you fix us San Pedro when a hundred girls jump out to you?
00:23:06I could bet you as you reached San Pedro...
00:23:08I want to bother you.
00:23:09I'm sorry, like Ben!
00:23:11Ha ha ha ha!
00:23:13My past little relationship, I tell him, like, you're going to get jealous?
00:23:16No, no, no.
00:23:17He always trips, so I told Aviva, we're going to see, I hope you don't trip.
00:23:22And she's like, no, I'm not like that, I'm not jealous.
00:23:25But, I don't know.
00:23:28I want somebody by my side, you know, to sit up and worry about all that kind of stuff.
00:23:33Yeah, but everywhere we go, people always say, you have X, Y, Z, girl.
00:23:38How do you think she's going to react?
00:23:41I hope, I hope and pray, I could be the best version of myself.
00:23:46This time I could do things a little bit different.
00:23:49No disrespect, right?
00:23:50Ha ha.
00:23:51I heard that sound too many times, bro.
00:23:53Ha ha ha!
00:23:55I can't control that, I can't control that.
00:24:00A lot of my relationships in the past have failed because of this very issue.
00:24:06You know, I was a player for most of my life.
00:24:10Now, I actually want a family.
00:24:11I want somebody I can go home to at night, and they're there to listen to me, to be there
00:24:16for me.
00:24:17I hope Aviva can be that person, and that I can be a faithful partner.
00:24:22You guys are going to love Aviva.
00:24:25You know, I love her.
00:24:26So, let's see how it goes.
00:24:27I have 20% feet.
00:24:31God.
00:24:32Damn!
00:24:33We're stuck here next to you.
00:24:39So, update on the food.
00:24:41Ooh, that's shrimp.
00:24:43Look at that.
00:24:45Good stuff.
00:24:47She and I get good airline food like this.
00:24:50I think you take a flight back home.
00:24:53Hey, look at that.
00:24:58Hey, look at all the nervousness.
00:25:13Hey, sobra.
00:25:19forrest is arriving today with his parents and i feel wow like super happy and excited
00:25:28i'm on my way to the airport now we rented a bigger apartment where we can all stay together
00:25:35so i'm carrying quite a few bags
00:25:43also i am bringing jackfruit i want morris and his family to taste the local goodies here in the
00:25:50philippines i really quite nervous and i don't know to react
00:26:01it's possible that i would kiss him or not i would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the
00:26:07first time
00:26:10honestly speaking we will both enjoy with each other but i'm worried regarding with molly
00:26:17that she would say bad things to me so i'm trying to get rid of my nervousness especially meeting the
00:26:26first time with the love of your life it's once in a lifetime so why not enjoy with it
00:26:51forrest this sure is a long way to come traveling for a girl yeah but she's not just any girl
00:27:03thank you
00:27:04all right
00:27:18we are exiting
00:27:23after 30 hours of being on an airplane i finally made it to the philippines
00:27:30i'm feeling ecstatic i feel like i drank like six energy drinks
00:27:42mom
00:27:59yes i happened to check in flight and it landed
00:28:02but i'm also worried since he's not texting me
00:28:08they can't help me tell us really
00:28:14yes
00:28:15guys with your impression you're gonna need your passport please get through here
00:28:18i don't know i left them somewhere
00:28:21oh my god
00:28:24what are we doing now i don't know deb look
00:28:26deb stop
00:28:28oh god
00:28:37i'm starting to fall more in love with trish
00:28:40but i think it's important that we're completely transparent with each other and i wanted to
00:28:46touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days and why you weren't in contact
00:28:56with me
00:29:16do you sleep good
00:29:19it's so great baby
00:29:22it's so beautiful in the morning
00:29:24it was really tired
00:29:38from what we did
00:29:42so was it everything you expected it to be
00:29:46even more
00:29:50yesterday night we had sex two times
00:29:56he's older and i didn't think like he can do all of the stuff he did to me
00:30:02like for the second rounds it was oh my god
00:30:23you're good
00:30:25yeah
00:30:25you're here
00:30:28wow so this is the market
00:30:31i only gave trish a little sample of what i could do i have some more tricks up my sleeve
00:30:38if it were up to me i'd just stay at the hotel all day but this is our first day
00:30:43in madagascar together
00:30:44and trish wants to take me to explore her city
00:30:48what is that fried fish right there
00:30:49yeah
00:30:50this is so different from anywhere i've ever been in my life
00:30:55today i want to show him everything around
00:31:03first i'm taking him to the market
00:31:09the butcher shop right here huh
00:31:14and they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration
00:31:40i'm feeling like trish deceived me i mean this is our first date all this raw meat is going to
00:31:47mess up the sexy vibe
00:31:48we had going this morning
00:31:51so this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat
00:31:57in my culture we eat everything we don't waste
00:32:03we eat everything we don't waste something in the cow
00:32:18it's raining
00:32:20oh lord
00:32:21yeah why
00:32:22and would you eat that
00:32:24of course
00:32:26well baby don't put that in those stew that you cook for me
00:32:30please don't
00:32:43i hope somebody's gonna enjoy it
00:32:47wow what a view
00:32:49you can see all madagascar here
00:32:53wow i can see the whole eye in there
00:32:56yeah
00:32:57oh my gosh
00:33:20you don't know how to taste like this
00:33:51i know how to tap dance but
00:33:53this is not tap dance this is something foreign to me i've never seen this style of dance before
00:33:58but i'm realizing that there's a lot that i don't know about trish just from talking to her over the
00:34:03phone
00:34:04like she's an amazing dancer
00:34:07i didn't know she had that in her
00:34:10hey all right
00:34:16every minute i'm starting to fall more in love with trish
00:34:19but i think it's important that i get to know her better and they were completely
00:34:24transparent with each other
00:34:27wow that was something
00:34:29was that your traditional dance
00:34:31no that's not mine i just did it like that
00:34:35you like it
00:34:36oh it's beautiful
00:34:38the name of the place is uh rufa
00:34:41rufa
00:34:42that means uh a palace
00:34:44oh okay now where's the palace
00:34:47is it yes sir oh that's the palace okay yeah it's beautiful
00:34:52oh i'm tired even
00:34:57this is so beautiful baby i'm having such a great time with you
00:35:02but um you know there's some things that i want to talk to you about
00:35:10so i wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:35:18and why you weren't in contact with me
00:35:24i already told you like you want to you want me to explain to you everything happened
00:35:30you know that all of these things that you're telling me you know kind of sounds unbelievable
00:35:37in a way
00:35:39i would like you to be open and honest with me right now
00:35:45i promise i will tell you everything but promise me that she won't get mad
00:36:01you sent him money right
00:36:04is that not part of a romance scam
00:36:08my mom and i have been having a lot of hard times right now financially
00:36:12she's in so much debt
00:36:14i think this topic needs to be over because this is ridiculous
00:36:29now we got entertainment
00:36:34uh-oh
00:36:36and we have fire
00:36:38what we gonna do
00:36:40call the break that heat
00:36:41what we gonna do
00:36:42call the break that heat
00:36:43sell the competition
00:36:45oh go for it
00:36:46what we gonna do
00:36:47call the break that heat
00:36:48oh
00:36:49i can do it
00:36:51oh
00:36:52that was so close
00:36:56let me try
00:36:58that was way over my head
00:37:00that was on me
00:37:01oh yeah
00:37:02that was on you
00:37:04i'll give you a good one
00:37:06hot and like a baseball
00:37:07oh my god
00:37:10that looks delicious
00:37:13what kind of food do they have in nigeria
00:37:15well daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals
00:37:18he's always eating rice
00:37:20is it like a fried rice thingy thing
00:37:22i don't know
00:37:23i have no clue what their food is
00:37:25where are you going
00:37:26i am heading to africa to nigeria
00:37:29wow
00:37:30why
00:37:31i am going to meet a man that i have not met in person yet
00:37:35for the very first time
00:37:38wow congratulations good for you
00:37:40thank you
00:37:40thank you
00:37:41but it's crazy
00:37:42yeah
00:37:43is it not crazy
00:37:44slightly a little crazy
00:37:44i would agree
00:37:45but you know the heart wants what the heart wants
00:37:48so go for it i say
00:37:49thank you
00:37:52i'm leaving to nigeria to meet daniel for the first time in just a few days
00:37:57i can't believe i'm doing this i must be insane
00:38:00i really must be
00:38:03i'm very very nervous so i wanted to take the edge off by having a night out with my daughter
00:38:08faith and my friend juna
00:38:18juna is my very best friend i swear to god if she was a lesbian juna would be my ideal
00:38:25woman
00:38:25juna knows the ringer i've been through in past relationships and she is supportive of daniel's
00:38:33i'm hoping this is finally my happy every year
00:38:36i'm going to hold you to it
00:38:37what that this is my happily ever after
00:38:39yes
00:38:40this is the last time
00:38:43my issue is she's saying it's the last one as she said every other time which we know
00:38:48right
00:38:48he's always talking sweet to me
00:38:50he's always trying so hard to do things
00:38:53he just makes me feel so good and so wonderful
00:38:57it's a good thing that he's treating you up but that's part of what concerns me
00:39:02the love bomb right away it's part of a romance scam
00:39:09they go for single and i don't mean to say older women who have been hurt and who are desperately
00:39:17looking for somebody and want someone to give them all the compliments all the love stop hold on
00:39:25do i look like an old vulnerable searching for somebody woman on the internet
00:39:33no i was minding my own business not looking for anybody
00:39:37but you sent him money right
00:39:40is that not part of a romance scam sending money
00:39:45even though i live paycheck to paycheck i send daniel money almost every two weeks
00:39:52daniel works in construction he makes very little money and he lives in a very poor area of nigeria
00:39:59i give daniel money for food i have bought him clothes
00:40:04i give him money for fuel for electricity
00:40:08this is my generator
00:40:11daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two maybe three times
00:40:16but i give daniel money more for myself because i want to feel that he's safe and i want to
00:40:22feel
00:40:23that he's secure
00:40:24all i know is within the first two months you sent two thousand dollars total
00:40:30and that was two months ago so how much more is it now
00:40:35i don't know
00:40:38how did he do it before he met you does he not have a job
00:40:44yes he has a job but lately he's been sick and he's missed work because of the malaria
00:40:50and other things that he has caught
00:40:52and that's not a red flag to you he meets you and now all of a sudden he's getting sick
00:40:57all the time
00:41:00my mom and i have been having a lot of hard times right now financially
00:41:06she borrows from juna a lot she's in so much debt and it has me feeling more on edge
00:41:14you were telling me
00:41:15is juna gave you money to help us with bills
00:41:18she has
00:41:19haven't you
00:41:20so she's been giving you how much in debt now are we
00:41:24you already know i hate that you're asking for money all the time
00:41:27but it hasn't been the amounts that it has been it's still bad
00:41:33daniel seems to be a really really nice person i see how happy she is
00:41:38so i have given her money to send to him
00:41:42and i gave lisa the money for the visa
00:41:45to go to nigeria
00:41:47i do have some concerns because if he's scamming her then he's scamming me
00:41:56this was between juna me and daniel it had nothing to do with you and me and your bills
00:42:02it had to do with juna and i and daniel
00:42:05and you're still not seeing any red flags about this
00:42:08juna has talked to him does he seem like he's a real bad man
00:42:15no he doesn't but you know texting and talking to different things
00:42:25there's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything
00:42:27that's fine because i know things that are inside and out more than you do because you're not in the
00:42:34relationship
00:42:36and this may be the best relationship i've ever had
00:42:42you've said that every time
00:42:47this has all been an emotional wreck and we have not had one positive conversation together
00:42:51and it's breaking my heart as much as it's breaking yours and i think this topic needs to be over
00:42:56because this is ridiculous
00:42:58it always has to be over
00:43:01i'm done
00:43:03i'm done
00:43:05i'm done
00:43:20this might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl
00:43:25we would say one burner that means you have one partner
00:43:30never always been a one burner i used to be full of gala
00:43:34need to make some changes in my lifestyle but i'm nervous to handle all that
00:43:47i'm super excited super nervous
00:43:50probably just 34 minutes until i land
00:43:55let me rephrase that
00:43:5734 minutes until me and the shrimp land
00:44:02and they actually landed on my pants
00:44:05i have greasy
00:44:07smelly sauce all over me
00:44:09the things i do for you today
00:44:10the things i do
00:44:11you're one of them
00:44:19i was getting warm in here
00:44:21as the beat beat crack into the atmosphere
00:44:23come on let's switch gears and the power still
00:44:26and go let's go
00:44:29so today my girl is coming
00:44:31i want to give her a belizean welcome
00:44:34beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady
00:44:39today i'll meet my girlfriend aviva for the very first time in person
00:44:47aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city
00:44:50to my apartment
00:44:51but she don't know that we have my nice hotel room in belize city
00:44:55because i want a nice little romantic stay tonight
00:44:59but hey this looks a little kinky
00:45:05i have butterflies i feel like a kid again
00:45:09this might be the start of the rest of my life
00:45:12with aviva with one girl
00:45:15we would say one burner
00:45:18one burner that mean you have one partner
00:45:22never always been a one burner
00:45:24i used to be full of gal
00:45:26but i need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle
00:45:29so i can be the man that i've always envisioned that i would be
00:45:36uh you're my driver
00:45:37yes sir
00:45:41oh vv
00:45:42minutes away from picking you up
00:45:56after two years of talking and six months of dating
00:45:59i am finally meeting stig for the first time
00:46:02we're here we made it
00:46:04i am super super nervous and it's making me nauseous
00:46:16the flight just landed
00:46:19i'm ready
00:46:23what's that bro
00:46:24i like the music
00:46:26i appreciate it bro
00:46:27you have the best music
00:46:28i would say about subscribe to you
00:46:29yes my enough times my bro
00:46:31blessings
00:46:34the ladies
00:46:37okay i am going to the bathroom to crush him up
00:46:41i'm super nervous i know he's outside waiting
00:46:47i just want to make sure that he sees me and he's attracted to me
00:46:50i'm so tired and it's stressing me out
00:46:54i know he's around beautiful women all the time
00:47:00and deep down there's things i'm worried about
00:47:06my biggest fear is that i'm going to go in with this big loving heart and it's just
00:47:14going to get crushed
00:47:17here we go this is what i've been preparing myself for
00:47:30this is crazy
00:47:35oh my
00:47:36i know what i'm gonna throw up
00:47:41okay
00:47:41okay
00:47:49Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:48:08You're looking more beautiful in person.
00:48:10No.
00:48:11Social media don't, nah, ain't got nothing on you.
00:48:16She's a good kisser.
00:48:18You know, it felt good.
00:48:20It felt natural.
00:48:21It felt good.
00:48:22It did.
00:48:23You're getting red.
00:48:24You're blessing.
00:48:25You're blessing.
00:48:26I love it.
00:48:29Oh, you're here.
00:48:31I know.
00:48:33You're very beautiful.
00:48:35You look really good, too.
00:48:36And I'm super happy.
00:48:38Love that.
00:48:40Bumbo clock.
00:48:41Bumbo clock.
00:48:44Aviva got a fat ass.
00:48:46I had no idea.
00:48:47I know she's been in the gym a lot, but what?
00:48:49I like it.
00:48:52It was like, mm.
00:48:55Okay, well, I brought you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:59No way.
00:49:01It's up.
00:49:03Don't eat that.
00:49:04Don't eat that.
00:49:04Please don't.
00:49:05Just throw it away.
00:49:07You did say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me, so.
00:49:11I mean, I brought it.
00:49:13I brought it.
00:49:14It's here.
00:49:14It's a little.
00:49:15I bet.
00:49:16I'm a man of my word.
00:49:17Ask anybody.
00:49:18Ask about me.
00:49:18All right, okay.
00:49:20Ready?
00:49:22Let me get that one for you.
00:49:27I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:31I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:36It was a very magical moment.
00:49:38He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:44Please throw this away now.
00:49:45No, no, no, no.
00:49:45I'm going to eat it.
00:49:46What is it going?
00:49:46You get sick.
00:49:47We're throwing it away.
00:49:48It's going.
00:49:48Yeah.
00:49:49It's going.
00:49:50It's going.
00:49:50It's gone.
00:49:51Today is just making me feel really special, and I know I only just got here, but it just
00:49:57seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought up that he hasn't been exclusive with just
00:50:02me seemed a little silly and not true.
00:50:06You're actually here.
00:50:08I know.
00:50:09What are we going to do?
00:50:10Well.
00:50:11I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:17Laura is coming to Turkey, and it makes me feel excited.
00:50:22Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked out.
00:50:27I know that's something that I should tell her, but I don't know how she's going to react.
00:51:01I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet Birkan in person for the very first time, and I'm
00:51:07trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:12Bye.
00:51:12Love you.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:15Who are you singing as I step on the floor?
00:51:23There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, and everyone that was
00:51:29naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so.
00:51:32But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks, and if I'm not willing to take a risk
00:51:38for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:51:53I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life.
00:51:58And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car ride with my
00:52:05parents with a good, smutty book with some really steamy moments.
00:52:18This is the best part.
00:52:21It's darkness, you know.
00:52:23It's what I love about Nietzsche.
00:52:25He lighten the people around him, but he's the darkness himself.
00:52:30He was the part of the reason I wanted to find the light.
00:52:35I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface.
00:52:42I am trying to learn lives that I never lived.
00:52:46I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life.
00:52:51I had the chance to have a professional career of football player.
00:52:55I was on the training, and my knee collapsed with the other one's knee, and my AC had crashed.
00:53:04I know it was over.
00:53:06But I still play football for fun.
00:53:10You know, I love the game.
00:53:12You just have to keep moving and embrace the pain.
00:53:16I just like this.
00:53:18One part is struggling, and one part is surviving.
00:53:29After I ruptured my ACL, it was just the end of everything, you know.
00:53:35Everything I dream of, and now I rebuild it from the bottom.
00:53:42And what's helping me the most is finding Laura, actually.
00:53:46It was destiny.
00:53:50I met Laura in Snapchat.
00:53:53We started talking and joking around.
00:53:58She was so supportive, so optimistic.
00:54:00She made me believe that dreaming is okay.
00:54:06That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me.
00:54:10I'm in the darkness, but I can see the sun.
00:54:15It was about third or four weeks.
00:54:18I told her I love her.
00:54:20And now Laura is coming to Turkey, and it makes me feel excited.
00:54:26Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out.
00:54:31I want to move things to the next level, and maybe propose.
00:54:35I don't know yet.
00:54:37I'm waiting for just meeting.
00:54:42How are you?
00:54:44How are you?
00:54:45How are you?
00:54:47How are you?
00:54:48Memo and Yutuba are my best friends in Izmir.
00:54:52I'm not close with my family, so they are the closest people I have.
00:54:58I'm not close with my family.
00:55:01I saw the stairs.
00:55:02I saw the stairs.
00:55:04How are you doing it?
00:55:05How are you doing it?
00:55:06How are you doing it?
00:55:07How are you doing it?
00:55:08Laura will come tomorrow.
00:55:10But we will die.
00:55:13I have the first time I have the excitement to you.
00:55:17I see you the excitement of the excitement.
00:55:19I heard my voice in your conversation.
00:55:21Hello, I said.
00:55:22But I didn't see it.
00:55:50She's old, but it's okay because
00:55:53I dated older woman before.
00:55:56The thing I'm attracted with older woman is they understand, you know, not childish.
00:56:05And Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:56:09She looks young.
00:56:12Sende hayatından şeyleri anlattın değil mi?
00:56:14Tabii, tabii.
00:56:18No.
00:56:19Bilmediği değil aslında, bildiği var ama tam olarak bildiği.
00:56:23Kızacağı noktaları anlatmadın yani.
00:56:27Ama telefondan konuşulacak şeyler olmadığı için birikiyor.
00:56:49Konuşacak.
00:56:49Çok şey var.
00:56:50Evet.
00:56:50But she doesn't know how much.
00:56:53I know that's something that I should tell her.
00:56:56But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:59Konuşacak.
00:57:01Konuşacak.
00:57:01Çok şey var.
00:57:03Mesela?
00:57:04Bir tane erkek arkadaşı var.
00:57:06Onun en yakın arkadaşı olduğun her şeyi beraber yaptığın hatta yeri geliyor,
00:57:11beni kıyaslıyor bile onun.
00:57:13Benim korktuğum şeyler de bunlar hani.
00:57:16Benim için çok ters bir durum.
00:57:18Onun bu arkadaşlığı bitirmesini istiyorum.
00:57:22Bu sorun olursa anlaşamazsanız.
00:57:25Onun hoşuna gitmeyebilir.
00:57:28Onun açısından da düşünmek lazım bir şeyler.
00:57:32Böyle bir şey var ama.
00:57:34Kısıtlanmayı sevmediğim kadar kısıtlamayı da sevmiyorum.
00:57:37Ki o da biliyor bunu.
00:57:39Ama Michael'a güvenmiyorum.
00:57:42Kurul üçün müziğiyle?
00:57:43Bunu sen daha iyi från.
00:57:47Yani?
00:57:53Ben bununla çok iyi özgürlük.
00:57:56Ve bir şey izin vermişi zaten.
00:58:00Bir şey izin vermişi edebilecek.
00:58:01Bir şey öyle.
00:58:09Bu, değil mi?
00:58:10I thought that you were with somebody else.
00:58:13Now that we're face to face, I feel like I
00:58:16can see the truth in her eyes.
00:58:18I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
00:58:22Oh, man.
00:58:24I'm scared now.
00:58:32I'm done?
00:58:34I'm done.
00:58:44Babe, you OK?
00:58:47I can't.
00:58:48I can't.
00:58:50Now I'm worried about her.
00:58:52I don't know what to do at this point,
00:58:54because it always ends up being a fight.
00:58:58Every time I've tried to voice my opinion,
00:59:02she doesn't want to talk about me,
00:59:04she doesn't want to hear me,
00:59:06or she told me I'm not allowed to feel that way.
00:59:10Let's see if we can find her, see if we can fix this.
00:59:24Babe, let me talk to you for a minute.
00:59:28I really don't want to.
00:59:29No.
00:59:29Look at me.
00:59:30Look at me.
00:59:31Please look at me.
00:59:34I love Daniel, and I know that you're worried
00:59:37that I'm in another bad relationship
00:59:39and things are going to go sour,
00:59:40and you're trying to save me from that,
00:59:42but I don't want you to feel like you're being second choice.
00:59:45I will always choose you before somebody else.
00:59:48Look at me.
00:59:48I will.
00:59:49You said do not marry Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:52I promise you with the bottom of my heart
00:59:54I am not marrying Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:58I'm not.
00:59:59Just give me the opportunity to do this.
01:00:03If you break this promise.
01:00:05If you break this promise.
01:00:05I'm not going to break this promise.
01:00:06If you break this promise again,
01:00:10I can't do this anymore.
01:00:11No, because that would be toxic,
01:00:13and I'm not a toxic person anymore, okay?
01:00:16So just please, give me a hug.
01:00:18I really need some space right now.
01:00:22Okay, I'll do that.
01:00:28This was an awful lot for her today.
01:00:35I have been in so many relationships
01:00:36and moved around so much on this poor child
01:00:39when she was little.
01:00:42But at that time, I was searching for who I was.
01:00:45I want to show her that this is different.
01:00:48I'm a grown-up.
01:00:50I'm not this young mom
01:00:52who is trying to take care of a young child
01:00:54and have a relationship after relationship.
01:00:56I want my happily ever after.
01:00:58I want this to be forever.
01:01:03And Fink doesn't see that yet.
01:01:14Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:21I'm trying to understand your feelings,
01:01:23and I'm trying to not fight about it.
01:01:26Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him
01:01:28without you knowing him
01:01:29and that I'm going to choose him over you?
01:01:34You never listen.
01:01:37I'm telling you to think about us first.
01:01:45Listen, I understand your point of view.
01:01:48I'm listening to you,
01:01:49and I'm going there to get to know him better.
01:01:51I'm going there to see if we are compatible.
01:01:54I'm not going there just to run off and get married.
01:01:57I'm listening to your concerns,
01:01:59and I am going to voice them.
01:02:01I promise you I will.
01:02:03Okay?
01:02:04Can I have a hug now?
01:02:06Okay, come here.
01:02:07I love you.
01:02:08I will start listening better.
01:02:11I'm proud of everything you do.
01:02:13You are wonderful and kind-hearted
01:02:14and loving and sweet and caring,
01:02:17and you have been good to your mother,
01:02:19regardless of what I've put you through.
01:02:21And I'm proud of you,
01:02:22and I will listen to you more, okay?
01:02:23All right.
01:02:27I understand where Faith is coming from,
01:02:29and I understand that she has been down this road
01:02:32with past relationships over and over again.
01:02:35I hold her opinion deeply in my heart,
01:02:39but I think Daniel is different.
01:02:42I think he's the real deal.
01:02:43I think he's a very precious man who is very rare,
01:02:46and I would be a fool not to go after him.
01:02:52Can we go home now?
01:03:05You're welcome, welcome.
01:03:07Sig is everything I thought he would be.
01:03:09He looks super good.
01:03:11There is definitely some chemistry,
01:03:14but it's a bit scary.
01:03:16I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle,
01:03:18and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy,
01:03:22but I hope that you haven't been seeing other people.
01:03:27Just breathe.
01:03:29You got this. You're a man.
01:03:32Sheena and I have been waiting seven years
01:03:33to meet up with each other,
01:03:35and I'm hoping my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:03:38I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:03:41Yeah.
01:03:41There's still some things that have to be discussed
01:03:44before we can proceed.
01:04:00It's your boy.
01:04:02No way.
01:04:04I love it.
01:04:06Mm-hmm.
01:04:08Celebrity status.
01:04:09Okay.
01:04:11Can I take a picture of it?
01:04:13Yeah, sure.
01:04:15Lovely, lovely girl.
01:04:19You know you can change the world.
01:04:26So, where are we going?
01:04:28I don't even know where we're going.
01:04:29I don't know.
01:04:30I don't know.
01:04:30You don't know?
01:04:31No, I don't.
01:04:31The driver, you know where we're going?
01:04:33The driver's just taking us?
01:04:34He don't know where we're going either.
01:04:35Oh, whatever.
01:04:35So, I don't know.
01:04:36But I can tell you though,
01:04:38we're going to spend the night in Billy City at a hotel.
01:04:42Tomorrow, we're going to go to the islands.
01:04:44I do have a show out on the islands.
01:04:46Okay.
01:04:48Some new songs.
01:04:49I'm excited to perform those.
01:04:51Excited.
01:04:51Hopefully I kill it.
01:04:52Okay.
01:04:53A lot of people are going to be there?
01:04:54Yep.
01:04:55Are you ready to be there?
01:04:57Are you ready for that?
01:04:59Do you want to be there even?
01:05:01Of course I want to be there.
01:05:02Okay.
01:05:06I know Stig can't stop working while I'm here.
01:05:09I would never ask him to do that.
01:05:11But I'm really shocked to hear that I'm seeing Stig perform already in just a couple days.
01:05:19We're here.
01:05:20Ah!
01:05:22I've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls
01:05:26and having him interact with fans in front of me.
01:05:30Okay.
01:05:30And now I'm going to be thrusted into it right away.
01:05:34And it's a bit scary.
01:05:36Okay.
01:05:37Welcome, welcome.
01:05:38Okay.
01:05:39I'll leave you here for now.
01:05:42This is nice.
01:05:42This is super nice.
01:05:42So, I have an extra prize for you.
01:05:44Okay.
01:05:45Since you said that you love the flower, I got you some more flowers.
01:05:48Aw.
01:05:49Those are so pretty.
01:05:51This was to show you that you're my one and only.
01:05:53And this is to show some gratitude that you're here.
01:05:56Aw, thank you.
01:05:57I like them.
01:05:59They're so pretty.
01:06:00Check them out.
01:06:02Stig is everything I thought you would be.
01:06:04He looks super good.
01:06:06There is definitely some chemistry.
01:06:08What are you going to do with those?
01:06:11I'm all over you.
01:06:12We've been touching each other, kissing each other.
01:06:15So, I hope the night continues on sexually.
01:06:22Let's get comfy.
01:06:23That sounds good to me.
01:06:26I'm attracted to her even more now in person.
01:06:28But, now I'm a gentleman.
01:06:30I'm not going to just push up on her and try to get some the first night.
01:06:35We'll see how it goes.
01:06:36I'm going to let it play out the way it should play.
01:06:39I'm going to get more comfy.
01:06:40Okay.
01:06:44So, what about you at that?
01:06:46A flower?
01:06:47Sorry, it's not a rose.
01:06:47What is it?
01:06:48It's a rose.
01:06:48I think it is a rose.
01:06:51What are you going to get?
01:06:52Stig on your forehead.
01:06:53You could get it here.
01:06:54Only if you get Aviva.
01:06:55There.
01:06:57Leave my ass and I have Aviva big on my neck or something.
01:07:00How do you think I would feel?
01:07:02I'm going to leave you.
01:07:03Mm-hmm.
01:07:04Unless you make me leave you.
01:07:06Oh.
01:07:07What would make you want to leave me?
01:07:11Oh, that's a good question.
01:07:12If you can't understand what I do for work and how I, you know, my lifestyle because of what I
01:07:19do and who I am.
01:07:20Yeah.
01:07:21I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy.
01:07:26But I also want to be, like, respected, too.
01:07:31Just, like, I hope that you haven't been seeing other people because I feel like we've been talking seriously, but...
01:07:40Why are you rolling your eyes like that?
01:07:41I don't know, because, like...
01:07:43You don't trust me?
01:07:44Oh, you don't trust me?
01:07:45I mean, I know your lifestyle.
01:07:48There's a lot of beautiful women around you always, so...
01:07:51They're not you, though.
01:07:53Okay, Mr. Charming.
01:07:55Ooh.
01:07:57I got to.
01:07:58Okay.
01:08:05I do have one more thing for you that's not spilled Chinese food.
01:08:10Okay.
01:08:10Yeah.
01:08:11Steak makes me feel really comfortable.
01:08:13He just knows the exact right thing to say.
01:08:16And Steak and I just feel right together.
01:08:18It's just a spark, a connection, a happiness, all wrapped together with a bow.
01:08:26I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:34Hi.
01:08:35Hi.
01:08:36Hi.
01:08:39Hi.
01:08:43Hey.
01:08:44This how you feel?
01:08:45Uh-huh.
01:08:47Come on.
01:08:48Come on.
01:08:55Hey.
01:09:03That's how you feel?
01:09:05Come on.
01:09:08I will be soon.
01:09:11Aviva just might be the one,
01:09:13but I don't think she understands
01:09:15the extent of my lifestyle as a performer.
01:09:18Sometimes girls go on stage dance on me,
01:09:21girls be in my DMs, some pretty girls.
01:09:24I don't know if she can handle all that.
01:09:27She said she will, but we'll see.
01:09:39All right, I'm on Monster Passport.
01:09:42Left it on the airplane.
01:09:44But we found it.
01:09:48Figured it out.
01:09:50Here we go.
01:10:01He's texting me.
01:10:02He's already here.
01:10:04He's feeling so happy and floating
01:10:07and lighted feeling.
01:10:11All right, here we go.
01:10:14I actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom.
01:10:17Go ahead.
01:10:17Oh, man, I got to find it.
01:10:18I'll see you in a minute.
01:10:19This way.
01:10:21Oh, man.
01:10:23I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:10:25Yeah.
01:10:26It's just, I mean, I think that I have these ideas
01:10:29of what I want to say
01:10:30because the emotions get there,
01:10:32the feelings get there.
01:10:34Settle down, Molly.
01:10:35Settle down.
01:10:43Just breathe.
01:10:44This is going to be good.
01:10:47Everything's going to be at peace.
01:10:49You got this.
01:10:50You got this.
01:10:51You're the man.
01:10:52Keep moving forward.
01:10:53My mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying
01:10:56about the money again.
01:10:58She sent text messages to Sheena
01:11:00that made her really upset and hurt.
01:11:05So I'm hoping that my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:11:11Hey, Mom.
01:11:13Sheena and I have been waiting seven years
01:11:14to meet up with each other,
01:11:15and I just want everything to go smoothly.
01:11:20You look good.
01:11:20Let's get this mixed up a little bit.
01:11:23Here, let me get this little.
01:11:25There you go.
01:11:26You look good.
01:11:27Are you ready?
01:11:28Yeah, I'm ready.
01:11:29This is your moment, okay?
01:11:34So nervous.
01:11:41Let's do this thing.
01:11:43Here it comes.
01:11:43You got this.
01:11:44You will do fine.
01:11:45You tell her hello.
01:11:46You say, well, just do whatever you feel.
01:11:49Okay.
01:11:51Go for us.
01:11:52Let's go.
01:11:53I love you guys.
01:12:05Oh, my goodness.
01:12:19Hey, guys.
01:12:44Our journey is about to start,
01:12:46and we're going to go to the next level.
01:12:48I love you, too.
01:12:50Oh, Papa Bear.
01:12:52You're the best.
01:12:54I love you, too.
01:12:56Meeting you,
01:12:57and getting to be with you finally,
01:12:59is my world.
01:13:02My everything.
01:13:03My everything.
01:13:04Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:06Sheena.
01:13:07Oh, I'm just with you, baby.
01:13:09You're the best muggle bear ever.
01:13:11I love you.
01:13:13It feels like heaven.
01:13:14Heaven.
01:13:15It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:19Oh, no.
01:13:21Sheena, can I kiss you?
01:13:22You kissed.
01:13:23Sure.
01:13:29Oh, my goodness.
01:13:30Oh, my love.
01:13:32Kissing you.
01:13:33Oh.
01:13:35It was ecstatic.
01:13:37She has some really good, like,
01:13:39perfume or something on.
01:13:40Actually, I put some a lot of flavor,
01:13:42like, flavor, flavored perfumes in it.
01:13:45Oh, I know you're going to love it.
01:13:46Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:47I think I got it all over me.
01:13:48Oh, really?
01:13:49Yeah.
01:13:50That's why.
01:13:52I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:57I want us to be a big family.
01:14:00Hi.
01:14:01Hi.
01:14:04Hi.
01:14:06Hi.
01:14:15You're lucky me, crying horse.
01:14:17I know.
01:14:18I'm having the same as you.
01:14:22Oh, boy.
01:14:23Seen Sheena cry, seen Morris cry,
01:14:26and then the big trigger was just death,
01:14:29and then that was the waterworks.
01:14:31You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:32You're okay, okay?
01:14:35I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:39I don't cry very often.
01:14:41I didn't really dare.
01:14:42I couldn't hold it back, you know,
01:14:44and it kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:46I'm sorry.
01:14:47I completely apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:51Well, thank you for apologizing,
01:14:54but let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:56Because we're going to be...
01:14:57Today is a happy day.
01:14:59We are all together, right?
01:15:01I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:15:02It's been like a family.
01:15:04We're family now.
01:15:06We're family.
01:15:07You're with family now, Sheen.
01:15:11Seeing her face-to-face with him,
01:15:14face-to-face with me,
01:15:15this whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:17I love you, my Sheen.
01:15:19I love baby, man.
01:15:21And he got the softest lips ever.
01:15:22Oh, really?
01:15:23And he tastes like candy.
01:15:26But apology aside,
01:15:28there's still some things
01:15:30that have to be discussed
01:15:32and talked about
01:15:33before we can proceed.
01:15:36That's just how I see it.
01:15:42I would call you,
01:15:44you would press decline,
01:15:46and then I would hear back for hours.
01:15:49I didn't tell you everything,
01:15:51but, um...
01:15:55During the time that Trish ghosted me
01:15:57for those five days,
01:15:59I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:16:03What did you do?
01:16:15I promise I will tell you everything,
01:16:18but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:35Okay, I can promise you
01:16:36that I won't get mad,
01:16:37but I can't promise
01:16:39that it won't hurt.
01:16:44About months ago,
01:16:45I had a lot going on in my life,
01:16:49and for five days,
01:16:51I didn't answer Rick's call.
01:16:54He was really, really upset,
01:16:57and he caused a huge problem for us.
01:17:01Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:17:05Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:17:07Yeah, um...
01:17:07And you said that he blamed you?
01:17:09Yeah, he blames me.
01:17:11Like, I was complete for everything,
01:17:14so I was really nervous and upset.
01:17:17And also, I didn't tell you everything,
01:17:20but, um...
01:17:25Oh, man.
01:17:27I scared him.
01:17:29After my ex-boyfriend got robbed,
01:17:32my brother got an accident.
01:17:34He hurt someone,
01:17:36bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:39We did a lot of process,
01:17:41like going for the radiographic,
01:17:44and the guy at the hospital.
01:17:46We're paying for his food
01:17:48and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:51Then we went to the police
01:17:53to pay for the amends.
01:17:56Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:59I mean, I would call you, call you.
01:18:02You would press decline.
01:18:04I didn't press decline.
01:18:06Or you would just not pick up.
01:18:07I didn't pick up.
01:18:08And I would text you,
01:18:09and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:12I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:16I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:19I didn't even want to talk to anybody
01:18:23when I came back there
01:18:25because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:28I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:30We have to work together.
01:18:32I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:33So it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:38Maybe just say,
01:18:39that's not true.
01:18:41I don't believe.
01:18:42Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:45Maybe you will judge me.
01:18:48But, yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:56I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much,
01:19:00but it's different now
01:19:01because I see you.
01:19:03I see who you are.
01:19:05So I can share, like,
01:19:07everything happens to my life.
01:19:12You okay?
01:19:15Um...
01:19:19I'm okay.
01:19:20I completely understand
01:19:22what you're saying now.
01:19:24Thank you so much for
01:19:26explaining everything to me.
01:19:29I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:33What she was telling me before
01:19:36just wasn't adding up
01:19:38in that moment.
01:19:40But now that we're face to face,
01:19:42I feel like I can see
01:19:44the truth in her eyes.
01:19:45and I feel a little bit guilty
01:19:48for not trusting her.
01:19:51Here she is going through all these things,
01:19:54and instead of being there for her,
01:19:57I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:20:00What did you do?
01:20:08During the time that Trish ghosted me
01:20:10for those five days,
01:20:12I talked to my ex
01:20:14from Colombia,
01:20:17and she said that, you know,
01:20:19why don't you, you know,
01:20:21come down here?
01:20:22I'm missing you.
01:20:23And so, you know,
01:20:25I decided to book a trip
01:20:28and go spend time with her.
01:20:34Even though Trish started talking
01:20:36to me again in my heart,
01:20:38I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:40and so I still went to Colombia.
01:20:44My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:47We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:51Did you have sex?
01:20:53We had sex all the time,
01:20:56the whole time,
01:20:57multiple times a day, every day.
01:21:01I feel bad for that.
01:21:04So I know that I need to tell her,
01:21:06but I'm extremely scared
01:21:09that it'll be something
01:21:10that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:13And it might be the end of us.
01:21:20Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:23This is it.
01:21:24I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:26I'm really proud of the progress
01:21:28that I've made,
01:21:29but I am nervous.
01:21:31BeerCon won't be as attracted
01:21:33to me in person.
01:21:35Oh, my God.
01:21:37Here we go.
01:21:42I love this guy.
01:21:44She's thick.
01:21:45She has boobs.
01:21:47But as an evil man,
01:21:48I am worried about
01:21:49that she was physical
01:21:50with a woman.
01:21:51We don't accept that.
01:22:09We're here going to the Philippines.
01:22:11Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:22:13I've never even met my wife here.
01:22:15This would be actually our first meet.
01:22:18Oh, okay.
01:22:21Me and Anna,
01:22:22we've been married two years.
01:22:24He said that?
01:22:26No.
01:22:26We have been in a relationship
01:22:28for six years
01:22:29and married for almost three years.
01:22:31Okay?
01:22:34Did you guys do the old
01:22:37knockin' knockin'?
01:22:40You're pushing too far.
01:22:41It's in the right time or place.
01:22:45Sheena already has that control,
01:22:47that thumb on him.
01:22:48Let's not forget,
01:22:49she was giving all of her money
01:22:51to her parents
01:22:51instead of saving for their future.
01:22:54You haven't given me
01:22:55a direct answer
01:22:57as to why you lied.
01:23:00The pieces aren't lining up.
01:23:02I love you.
01:23:06I don't like that
01:23:07we were fighting yesterday,
01:23:09but there's something else
01:23:10I wanted to, like,
01:23:11talk to you about
01:23:11that, like,
01:23:12I didn't tell you yet.
01:23:14What?
01:23:15What is this?
01:23:15What's happened?
01:23:17I really want to tell Ziyad
01:23:19about my last engagement
01:23:20because I think it's the only way
01:23:22that we could move forward.
01:23:27I don't know what I'm gonna do.
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