07:32Lynn aime dire qu'ils sont bien endoués.
07:51Lynn!
07:53Bonjour.
07:53Qu'est-ce que tu fais ici?
07:56This event is for business majors, real people who help the college in a real way.
08:01Did you hear about the administrative leave?
08:03I can't talk about that right now.
08:05Well, can't you ask Steve to intervene?
08:07No.
08:08Do you think it's right that I get punished for John's actions?
08:11Steve has to look out for the college in general.
08:14Lynn, this is your chance to take a stand.
08:18You have a PhD in medieval philosophy and yet all you do is entertain like some 1950s housewife.
08:24Because the only thing that's ever really mattered to you in your whole life is being approved of by men.
08:29Well, if I'm such a bone job, then why are you asking for my help?
08:34Lynn?
08:38Ma'am, Lynn said I could use her bathroom.
09:04I'm of a mind that if you come across a controlled substance, you should always take at least one.
09:12for the apocalypse.
09:25Sid made this for me when she was ten.
09:39Sid?
09:41What's up?
09:45What's up?
09:46Good job.
10:00For the nieces.
10:04Mary?
10:08Run away with me.
10:38Sous-titrage MFP.
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11:40My mother would have been furious.
11:42No, no.
11:42Well, I mean, thank you for saying that, but no.
11:45Babies have to be tiny.
11:47That's what I'm doing.
11:48No, small.
11:48I hear you've come to save us.
11:50I'm just offering some advice and some moral support.
11:55Did you hear they asked me to step down from my tenure at the position?
12:00Yes.
12:01And she told me to do nothing until after the hearing.
12:05That's good.
12:06She's very right.
12:08You should listen to your daughter.
12:10She's a very good lawyer.
12:12And don't worry.
12:13We won't be in your hair too much longer.
12:14Nobody's in my hair.
12:15We're going to head back to the city right after the hearing wraps up.
12:18Together?
12:19Yes.
12:20Are you moving back in with her?
12:22Why are you saying her like that?
12:23I just don't think you've proven that you're ready for the kind of relationship that she's
12:26been asking for.
12:27I don't know if Alexis is not standing here.
12:29It's fine.
12:29I think Sid knows what she's ready for.
12:31Listen, I know how it feels to be a 35-year-old woman.
12:35What?
12:36But do you really think that she's ready to be a co-parent?
12:38I mean, she can barely look after herself.
12:41Babe, what did you tell her?
12:42I, I, no.
12:44I told her we were maybe getting ready to start the process.
12:46Mom, you have to stop.
12:47Babe, that's our business.
12:48You're going to be counting your eggs?
12:50She hasn't even got a job.
12:52I have five interviews lined up.
12:55In the city?
12:56Yes.
12:57That's where my life is.
12:58You haven't been telling me anything.
13:00Because I don't need to ask for your permission for everything I do.
13:03Like, I'm a fully grown adult.
13:04Well, you do not behave like one.
13:06Why are you being so mean?
13:07You need to speak to your daughter more respectfully.
13:10Oh, no thank you.
13:11Uh-uh-uh.
13:11Guys, what's going on?
13:12Don't call me guys.
13:14I'm her mother.
13:15Where were you last night?
13:16Seeing a friend.
13:17You don't want me to be an adult.
13:19You want me to depend on you so you can feel like you still matter.
13:25You're the one who's mean.
13:41Why are you so agitated?
13:43I don't want to talk about it.
13:44I wouldn't be in this position if it weren't for you.
13:46What position?
13:49They are asking me to give up my career.
13:52Wow, you are gone.
13:54You know what?
13:54You're right.
13:55Let's not talk about it.
13:55No, let's not.
13:56Yeah.
13:57Jesus Christ.
13:58You know, first of all, you could have spoken out against me or whatever you wanted and you
14:03chose not to.
14:04Excuse me?
14:05You have free will.
14:06Make your own choices.
14:07I, I, I can't believe it.
14:09Second of all, we only came to an agreement because of you.
14:11Oh.
14:12You're the one who let the door open for all this shit to happen.
14:14You mean so if I've been more of a strict little wife?
14:17I'm saying it was your idea.
14:19No, no.
14:19We came to this agreement together.
14:21We did not want a conventional marriage.
14:23We were being good, anti-establishment radicals.
14:26We didn't want to accept the status quo.
14:28Maybe that's what you wanted.
14:29I'm gone.
14:31You're gone.
14:32No, that is the most delusional thing I've ever heard in my life.
14:35You didn't want to fuck around?
14:37You were fucking around before we came to the agreement.
14:40That's why I suggested the fucking agreement in the first fucking place.
14:43Listen.
14:44I am not moving to Mexico.
14:49You've always been the most important person in my life.
14:53What a lie.
14:54No, I'm serious.
14:55John.
14:56I'm serious and I'm not conflicted with myself.
14:59I'm with you because I want to be with you.
15:03I wish you could say the same.
15:32As T.S. Eliot wrote,
15:34this is how the world ends.
15:36Not with a bang,
15:38but with an end pee.
15:57I wish you could say the same.
16:08I can't have my job, and I can't have my daughter, and I can't have the man I love.
16:16At least I can do something decent.
16:20Hey, are you kidding me? More space.
16:24I want to tell you something.
16:25No, we're past that. Back up.
16:27Honey, I just want to tell you that I thought that this story was really rather brilliant.
16:32What is that?
16:33It's from your substat.
16:35The one you're going to use to defame me.
16:36I'm serious, Lila. It really touched me.
16:40There's an honesty there that I admire. Very, very good. I mean it.
16:46I'm not going to drop out of the case.
16:48No, that's not why I'm saying this.
16:50And you kept me from the scholarship.
16:51I don't think I did.
16:53You promised I would get it.
16:54No, I didn't.
16:55You told me I was the strongest candidate.
16:57Well, you were, but then you got cocky and lazy, and you didn't put enough work into your application.
17:03I'm not lazy.
17:03You can be.
17:05The work was not strong enough, and you didn't try hard enough.
17:09But listen to me, Lila. I mean, who fucking cares?
17:13You know those people who are so good at things early on?
17:16Well, they usually turn into boring people whose biggest accomplishments are behind them by the time they're 25.
17:23You have your whole life in front of you.
17:27You didn't have to be great in high school or college or in your 20s.
17:31You can make mistakes.
17:33You can fuck a professor.
17:35Life is not about nailing it when you're young.
17:37It's about clinging to the fucking rock face no matter who or what tries to push you off.
17:44Don't make yourself irrelevant before you're done living your life.
17:47You will be irrelevant soon enough.
17:49Believe me.
17:59Okay, guys. Okay. Okay, folks.
18:01Folks, folks, I appreciate your dedication to this committee, but how much time do we want to waste on this,
18:06okay?
18:06The mother called the dean.
18:08She keeps emailing me.
18:09He wants us to just give the kid honors, so let's just give it to her.
18:19I have taken your recommendation into consideration.
18:23I plan to turn my next lecture into a public forum.
18:27I'll answer all student questions, including those about my marriage, tomorrow at 3.
18:34I don't know if that's best for the students.
18:37Well, of course you don't, Lawrence, because you're my frenemy.
18:40I'm not that.
18:43Sweetie, I agree with Flo. This kind of thing is unpredictable.
18:45They want me to speak out, so I'm speaking out.
18:49What outcome do you expect?
18:51They'll see I'm an open book, and they will understand.
18:54Sorry, I don't think the students are in the right place to talk to teachers about this kind of stuff
18:59right now.
19:00I know you're coming from a good place, but it's generational.
19:02They just think about these things in a really different way.
19:06Well, I can offer up my perspective.
19:08I think it's a good idea.
19:10I do. I think the students want us to be real with them. That's what I've found.
19:15What?
19:16They want you to be real.
19:19All of us?
19:20No.
19:21They want a literary celebrity with a cool jacket to be real with them, not a middle-aged career professor.
19:27Professor, we were all you once. We know what changes.
19:34That's a little harsh, David.
19:36Well, I am going to be holding this forum, whether you like it or not, and you are all invited.
19:42I have a dermatologist appointment.
20:09You will all have to forgive me for not speaking up sooner about the case against my husband.
20:14It was difficult for me to know how best to proceed.
20:18I wanted to provide you with the opportunity to write questions anonymously, so thank you very much for these.
20:26But if anyone has the urge to speak up directly, then I aim to be in a listening position.
20:38First question is, do you agree that what your husband did was wrong?
20:45Well, you have to understand that I come from a very different generation.
20:49When I was growing up, I was taught that my virginity was the most important thing about me.
20:55It was more important than my brain or my soul.
20:59We stigmatize sex by telling women that it's going to hurt them.
21:04These were consensual relationships.
21:06So if I say that John was wrong, I'm saying that these women were hurt by the act of having
21:13consensual sex,
21:14and I am not comfortable with that.
21:24The next question is,
21:29did you know about the affairs?
21:32Only vaguely.
21:35But in full disclosure,
21:38we had a marital agreement.
21:41What do you mean agreement?
21:43Do you mean an open marriage?
21:47Well, you could call it that.
21:49Like polyamory?
21:51Well,
21:54you could think of it as polyamory.
21:57We didn't, but
21:59you could.
22:05Yes, Aaron.
22:07What's your take on compersion?
22:08What is that?
22:10Like, the well-being you feel when your partner takes pleasure in another relationship?
22:15Oh, I don't feel that.
22:18How do you deal with jealousy?
22:21Jealousy?
22:24Jealousy can be an opportunity.
22:27Sorry, your husband's relationships involve power imbalances, not relationships between consenting adults on equal footing.
22:35But who is ever on an equal footing?
22:38Aren't you adults?
22:39Aren't you capable of making your own decisions?
22:45I know it sounds like an old shibboleth, but it really was a different time.
22:49I mean, I would argue that in the past, love affairs with all different kinds of people,
22:55some who lifted you up, some who left you a little bruised, I mean, emotionally, of course,
23:00were considered, within reason, really kind of fun.
23:06So a student suffering because of a teacher is fun?
23:09That's not what she's saying.
23:10Then what does she think?
23:30I was looking for my keys.
23:32I had my forearm today.
23:36And?
23:38I don't know.
23:40You'll be fine.
23:41One foot in front of the other.
23:44Where are you going?
23:46Our friend.
23:47Who is this friend?
23:49You've been out every night this week.
23:52Nobody.
23:55It's helping.
24:02What's helping?
24:05I don't know.
24:05I don't know.
24:08I don't know.
24:10I don't know.
24:11I don't know.
24:14I don't know.
24:14I don't know.
24:14I don't know.
24:15I don't know.
24:15I don't know.
24:15I don't know.
24:16I don't know.
24:17I don't know.
24:17I don't know.
24:18I don't know.
24:19I don't know.
24:19I don't know.
24:19I don't know.
24:20I don't know.
24:20I don't know.
24:20I don't know.
24:20I don't know.
24:21I don't know.
24:21I don't know.
24:23I don't know.
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