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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:04Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:07Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:11Didn't have one.
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex.
00:00:30You keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:35I just want to make sure that I'm the man
00:00:37that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:06Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but.
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16That's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see it's like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any.
00:01:27Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:39You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:01:42Don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:48I love you so much.
00:01:50But stop telling me the lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him.
00:01:54And I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:57So my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:02You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:08It's not...
00:02:09Don't...
00:02:09It's not as bad as...
00:02:10Don't come close to me.
00:02:18Yeah, I can feel your energy is passing through me.
00:02:25I feel so alive.
00:02:37Good morning.
00:02:39Hi.
00:02:39Hey.
00:02:40How are you?
00:02:41Okay.
00:02:43Thank you for taking care of me last night.
00:02:45That's all right.
00:02:46I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.
00:02:58I feel so bad.
00:02:59Like, every hour I was making you get up and get me water.
00:03:02So, who needs to, like...
00:03:04You're a very big caretaker.
00:03:06Yeah, well, long flight, and you weren't feeling this, so, you know.
00:03:11You're such a good boy.
00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend, Joshua,
00:03:17for the first time, face to face.
00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night,
00:03:24but I was up every hour of the night.
00:03:27I was coughing, I was shivering,
00:03:29and he decided to come in the bed with me
00:03:31and take care of me all night.
00:03:33It just feels like it's, like, a sinus infection, almost.
00:03:36Like, it's just, like...
00:03:37Yeah.
00:03:37...swollen here.
00:03:38Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray.
00:03:42Yeah.
00:03:44I am a needy bitch.
00:03:46Especially when I'm sick.
00:03:47I need my man to attend to me, like,
00:03:50a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.
00:03:53Joshua does that.
00:03:55I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink,
00:03:59and I took my medicine.
00:04:01That's good.
00:04:01It's probably a good start.
00:04:04What is it?
00:04:05It's Vegemite.
00:04:06What's that?
00:04:07You have to try it.
00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:10It smells like sardines.
00:04:12There's no fish in it.
00:04:16Just take a big bite.
00:04:22Suck!
00:04:22Is it good?
00:04:24It's not bad.
00:04:26No, I don't like it.
00:04:27I don't like it.
00:04:29Ew, ew, ew!
00:04:30Joshua, what is that?
00:04:32Is that fish?
00:04:33It's not fish.
00:04:36Do you want a tissue?
00:04:38It's a condiment.
00:04:40I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:41And you love it?
00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:44You're not Australian if you're not eating Vegemite.
00:04:46Tastes like ****.
00:04:48I hated it.
00:04:53Alright, take this Vegemite away from me.
00:04:56Alright.
00:04:56There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:01Yes.
00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see
00:05:06Bondi.
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:07Alright, well don't make me sick.
00:05:11I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:16Well, we might get Toms too then.
00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:25This is it.
00:05:26Oh my God, all the guys that wear the what's the speedo thing.
00:05:30Budgy snuggish?
00:05:31I can't.
00:05:31I can't.
00:05:32I can't.
00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:38Very different than Miami.
00:05:39It's like really soft.
00:05:43Do you want to go in?
00:05:44Yep.
00:05:45Wait, I have to change.
00:05:47Towel's in my bag.
00:05:49So let's figure this out.
00:05:51So here's to cover me.
00:05:53Okay.
00:05:55How about this?
00:05:57Well, this one I can just go like this.
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:02My top is off.
00:06:05Hold me.
00:06:06Hold me.
00:06:07How do you do this part?
00:06:08Alright, so now we're going to go down.
00:06:09Okay.
00:06:14Hold it tight.
00:06:18I'm losing it.
00:06:20Hold it.
00:06:22Oh.
00:06:23Voila.
00:06:24Well done.
00:06:28That was pretty impressive.
00:06:31Are you going to protect me if there's sharks?
00:06:33Yeah.
00:06:34I'll do my best.
00:06:35Let's go.
00:06:36Ready?
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:38Cropping that skin.
00:06:39Hold on, hold on.
00:06:40I'm holding it.
00:06:41Crushing like emotion.
00:06:44Oh my God.
00:06:46Can I kiss you in slow motion?
00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours and it's so natural.
00:06:56There's a lot of sexual chemistry there.
00:06:58We're so touchy-feely, but he seems a little reserved.
00:07:04So I'm just trying to feel him out.
00:07:09I mean, I do have three weeks here and I came here to find my potential husband.
00:07:14So getting to be alone with Joshua, it's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff for sure.
00:07:23Holy moly, I'm cold.
00:07:25It's funny.
00:07:26You see adults, you know, they're freezing and then you see like little kids and they're just like following around
00:07:31for hours.
00:07:32Even when I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach.
00:07:36We'd be swimming in the pool every morning.
00:07:38Okay.
00:07:39But then in the afternoons, we'd be like doing the board training every single afternoon.
00:07:45I love learning about you.
00:07:47I want to get to know everything about you.
00:07:48Yeah, good.
00:07:49I want to know the heart.
00:07:50Like I want you to open up.
00:07:51I feel like you're reserved.
00:07:55Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:07:58Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship.
00:08:00I was.
00:08:01Yeah.
00:08:02One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up and then having it used like against me.
00:08:10You know.
00:08:13My previous relationship, we dated for seven years, but I never felt secure.
00:08:19I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
00:08:22She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful.
00:08:26And I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she would walk away.
00:08:32So I was always living in fear, I guess.
00:08:35She could just end it at any time.
00:08:38Ultimately, I had my heart broken and I'm closed off because of that.
00:08:44Like, are you constantly thinking like it's something on your mind or like it's just.
00:08:48Yeah, I'm always thinking.
00:08:50Always, always thinking.
00:08:51What's your thought right now?
00:08:53This is, I like that you're sort of asking these questions, but you know, it's scary at the same time.
00:09:00Because it's opening up and being vulnerable.
00:09:02No, I get it.
00:09:04Like, opening up can be scary.
00:09:07But, you know what?
00:09:09You made me feel safe already.
00:09:11Really?
00:09:12That's like an early, early call.
00:09:15So, hopefully I'll do the same thing.
00:09:17Yeah, I feel safe with you too.
00:09:21Bye.
00:09:21Bye.
00:09:28I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually.
00:09:30Like, guys have said a lot of things to me, but feeling safe is not one I've heard.
00:09:35It feels good.
00:09:37I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable.
00:09:42So, yeah, the plan was to wait, but like, he's so sweet to me.
00:09:47He's so attentive to me.
00:09:48He's letting his guard down.
00:09:49Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well.
00:09:52So, we'll see.
00:10:07It's not...
00:10:08Don't...
00:10:08It's not as bad as...
00:10:10Don't come close to me.
00:10:13Daniel.
00:10:15You're telling me you have been a lesbian?
00:10:19Listen.
00:10:20Don't...
00:10:20Don't try it.
00:10:22Listen to...
00:10:22Don't even come...
00:10:23Don't...
00:10:23Don't try it.
00:10:24Listen.
00:10:25I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.
00:10:30I want it all out.
00:10:31That's why I said I needed another day.
00:10:33I wanted you to know everything.
00:10:39Daniel.
00:10:41Daniel.
00:10:42Don't come close to me.
00:10:43Please try to understand.
00:10:46I...
00:10:47You don't know how hard it was to...
00:10:49You have a lot of secrets.
00:10:50I have no more secrets.
00:10:52Just listen, please.
00:10:54I'm trying to tell you who I am.
00:10:57Jesus Christ.
00:10:58I'm not a lesbian.
00:11:00I'm not straight.
00:11:01I'm not bisexual.
00:11:03I just believe that people should love people.
00:11:06People should love people by their soul.
00:11:08And people should love people for who they are on the inside.
00:11:11Not on what is on the outside.
00:11:16I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:11:18You told me you have had serious of, you know, relationship.
00:11:21I didn't know it's your fellow women.
00:11:23Same sex.
00:11:26Yes.
00:11:28And you have been lying to me.
00:11:31I'm sorry.
00:11:34You are evil.
00:11:37I'm not evil.
00:11:38You know me.
00:11:39I take care of people.
00:11:40And I've even taken care of you.
00:11:42I'm not evil.
00:11:44I have a good heart.
00:11:45And I'm a good person.
00:11:46What makes you a good person?
00:11:49Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:11:50That doesn't make me evil.
00:11:53I'm still the same person you fell in love with.
00:11:57The same person who tells lies and keeps secrets.
00:12:00I love you.
00:12:02I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.
00:12:04I love you.
00:12:05Don't, don't, don't say that again.
00:12:07You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.
00:12:10I am in love with you, Daniel.
00:12:12That's why I'm coming clean to you.
00:12:14I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.
00:12:17But I'm telling you.
00:12:19Shut your mouth.
00:12:19You have been bitten by a woman.
00:12:21Not even woman.
00:12:22Women.
00:12:26You are a liar.
00:12:28I'm just a person who has been lost.
00:12:37Don't.
00:12:37Can you hold this ring?
00:12:38No.
00:12:40Hold the ring.
00:12:43I've seen that from your head to toe it's full of secrets and lies.
00:12:48So you're full of evil.
00:12:51I'm not full of evil, Daniel.
00:12:55I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:13:09I thought I've seen it all.
00:13:11Or she keep on vomiting secrets.
00:13:15No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:13:21I didn't think he'd call me evil.
00:13:23I'm not evil.
00:13:26I just believe a person loves a person.
00:13:28And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:13:35Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
00:13:38You know what?
00:13:40him.
00:13:41him.
00:13:45Jesus.
00:13:54You're officially on the jeepney.
00:13:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:13:59And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.
00:14:02So I have to be very clear here.
00:14:05If you file today for the K1 visa, it will be denied.
00:14:12Get out of bold now.
00:14:16We are likely.
00:14:24Coming soon.
00:14:28Man or world.
00:14:31This untuk positi.
00:14:35We are near.
00:14:37I'm tired.
00:14:38This is getting ready, bro.
00:14:57So this is, like, gonna be, like, a village environment, right?
00:15:01Yeah.
00:15:03Yesterday, we traveled from Nusibet to Fort Dauphin, my hometown.
00:15:09We arrived late, so we stayed in a hotel.
00:15:13And now we are going to my family's village for a few days.
00:15:18Can't forget my baby wipes.
00:15:20I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:23We used water.
00:15:27We had a big fight last night.
00:15:30I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:34But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:15:42I don't want to ruin this vacation.
00:15:45But the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.
00:15:53I went a little overboard.
00:15:55I'm sorry for that.
00:15:58I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.
00:16:02It's just I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.
00:16:09I mean, I can't move forward if you're gonna keep going back.
00:16:18Okay, I promise I'm not gonna talk about my ex.
00:16:25Okay.
00:16:26We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:32I want them to accept you, because I want this relationship work.
00:16:39I do, too.
00:16:42I overreacted yesterday.
00:16:45It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:16:51Then it just totally set me off.
00:16:53I want to be here, and I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:00Yeah.
00:17:02There's definitely a strong connection between her and I, and I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:12So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:17What?
00:17:18No!
00:17:23Let's go now.
00:17:29Nice tuxus right here.
00:17:31Yeah, it's nice.
00:17:45It's quiet, you see?
00:17:47Not much people.
00:17:49Not what I expected.
00:17:53It's rough roads.
00:17:57The roots are made of aluminum.
00:17:59Let's get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:02Yeah.
00:18:08I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:13Everything is just simple.
00:18:16There is no running water, no fancy toilet, but everybody are kind in my village.
00:18:23And it's beautiful.
00:18:27Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
00:18:29Yeah, to see me.
00:18:31What about me?
00:18:34They're going to be happy to see me, babe?
00:18:36I don't know.
00:18:37Meet me.
00:18:39They're happy because I bring a boyfriend.
00:18:42Oh, man.
00:18:43And they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not.
00:18:51Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:18:57I feel a little bit scared.
00:19:01My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:04Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:09When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:14Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:19I'm worried he doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:26This is it right here?
00:19:28Yeah, it's here.
00:19:29There's no turning back.
00:19:31No.
00:19:41So we're going to have to call a GP.
00:19:44I'm super duper nervous about writing one.
00:19:46Oh, you're going to have to.
00:19:47How's that work?
00:19:48Well, you can see those sign boards.
00:19:51Uh-huh.
00:19:51Just have to find the right location.
00:19:54So then, we just have to kill Para.
00:19:56Oh.
00:19:56Para is the stop.
00:19:57Oh.
00:20:02So here.
00:20:03Oh, here?
00:20:04Yes.
00:20:07All right.
00:20:08We're officially on the GP.
00:20:13There it is, the big fork.
00:20:16Ah!
00:20:17Woo!
00:20:19I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:23Yeah.
00:20:24It's hot.
00:20:25It smells like diesel.
00:20:29It's been a couple of days since I proposed to Sheena,
00:20:31and we are just over the moon in love with each other.
00:20:36But not everyone's happy.
00:20:38Oh!
00:20:39My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena
00:20:43against her guidance.
00:20:46And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.
00:20:52So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:20:54Oh, my gosh.
00:20:55So this is the ball, dear.
00:20:58All right.
00:20:58Here we go.
00:20:59We're getting off.
00:21:00Oh, yeah.
00:21:00Thanks a lot, Mom.
00:21:02While it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself,
00:21:05right now is not the time to put the brakes on things.
00:21:07I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:21:09And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
00:21:15Good morning.
00:21:16Do you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:20Now that we're finally engaged, I called an immigration lawyer in Manila
00:21:24just so we can get a consultation.
00:21:26Hi.
00:21:27Oh, hi, sir.
00:21:28Hi.
00:21:29Good morning.
00:21:30My name is Sheena.
00:21:31Hi, her.
00:21:32How are you?
00:21:32Nice to meet you.
00:21:33Nice to meet you.
00:21:35There you are.
00:21:36Good afternoon.
00:21:37Good afternoon, Mr.
00:21:38Welcome to our office.
00:21:39And welcome to the Philippines.
00:21:42I've been enjoying my stay.
00:21:43Okay.
00:21:44So for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment.
00:21:49Of course.
00:21:50Sure.
00:21:50If you are eligible for the K-1 visa.
00:21:53Yeah.
00:21:53No.
00:21:54How long have you been in this relationship?
00:21:57Seven years.
00:21:58Seven years.
00:21:58Seven years.
00:21:59And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.?
00:22:03No.
00:22:04Okay.
00:22:04Speak clean.
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:07When I watch, you can hear.
00:22:08Yeah, so are you working right now?
00:22:13Currently, I'm not working.
00:22:16But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.
00:22:20Okay.
00:22:20I'm receiving disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know,
00:22:28live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment and get food, all that good stuff.
00:22:35I see.
00:22:36So I have to be very clear here, you know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:22:46You know, you cannot consider it as income.
00:22:49The annual income for petitioners for K-1 visa is more or less 26,500 USD.
00:22:57Now, is that shared between the both?
00:22:59No, it's only the petitioner.
00:23:00Only the petitioner.
00:23:02Okay.
00:23:02Okay.
00:23:03So, um, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.
00:23:14My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find, get full employment,
00:23:19then you can proceed.
00:23:24I am in complete shock right now.
00:23:27I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count towards
00:23:34the amount that I need to bring shit into the United States.
00:23:38To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.
00:23:47In the past, I've had jobs that ended awfully because I didn't understand or I messed up.
00:23:57But my back is at a wall right now, that if I don't get a job, our entire dream of
00:24:04bringing
00:24:04the United States is done.
00:24:08So, let's say, you know, I go back home and I instantly start working.
00:24:12Yeah.
00:24:13How long is enough to have a stable form of income, you know, before the K-1 is actually granted?
00:24:20So, yeah, you need probably a year employment history.
00:24:26Okay.
00:24:27And then you will meet another year at least to have the petition approved and bring your fiancé to the
00:24:35U.S.
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:40It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.
00:24:45If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.
00:24:53I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability, it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a
00:25:00job long-term.
00:25:03Is there any other options?
00:25:06So, depending on your goal, here in the Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process.
00:25:12If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here, there is no requirement of financial
00:25:17capacity.
00:25:18Okay.
00:25:19So, there will be a 100% chance that the petition will be approved.
00:25:25Okay.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:28So, these options will depend on your goal.
00:25:34At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:25:40I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.
00:25:56I don't know, I'm just real pissed off.
00:25:58And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:26:01I don't know how to move forward.
00:26:12Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:14No.
00:26:16Okay.
00:26:17Don't talk to me, don't come to me.
00:26:26You think you can just treat me this way, humiliate me all the time.
00:26:30All right, I'm going to just give you space, all right?
00:27:02Well, I'm going to just give you space.
00:27:07I'm going to just leave my husband here.
00:27:15I'm going to go down there.
00:27:16That's what I'm going to say.
00:27:20That's what I'm going to say.
00:27:21That's what I'm going to say.
00:27:22Yes.
00:27:23Yes, sir.
00:27:24Yes.
00:27:33I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:27:37But just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:27:42He promised a really good day.
00:27:45But of course, he needs to ruin the moment.
00:27:48Because it's not Jubon if he doesn't.
00:27:58And, uh, am I allowed to come in?
00:28:18We're just going to leave him for now.
00:28:19Just give her space, man, so she can just calm down.
00:28:25We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:28:30I just feel really hopeless with Anna
00:28:33because I'm putting in massive effort
00:28:36to show Anna that I can be romantic.
00:28:40And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place
00:28:44and it's just, I don't know, I'm just real pissed off
00:28:47that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:28:50And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:28:53I don't know how to move forward.
00:28:56Mama, are you day good?
00:28:59It's okay.
00:29:02Every time he were having a good time,
00:29:06he would do this to me.
00:29:07Right in front in public.
00:29:10It's so humiliating.
00:29:12I don't think he's powerless.
00:29:14The fact that he could upset me this much
00:29:17definitely has power of his relationship.
00:29:24Hello?
00:29:27Kumusta nung baby ni Nana?
00:29:32Nainis ako kay Joon.
00:29:34Bakit?
00:29:35Nakaka bad trip kasi.
00:29:38Bakit?
00:29:38Kasi gusto niya yung relasyon na amin
00:29:40dahil lalaki siya, siya dominante.
00:29:42Ganito, ganyan, ganyan.
00:29:44Hindi ko nang ginaganyan ako.
00:29:46Nainis ako.
00:29:56Hindi ko nga makipag-uusap kasi na
00:30:00isang pagkatalo.
00:30:04Kaya, huwag mong hayaang
00:30:06nasira ang relasyon niyo.
00:30:09I am so, so, so tired of it, Jobo.
00:30:12I have to be this timid...
00:30:14Anna, I'm not trying to get you to change.
00:30:16Broken woman.
00:30:18It's like I've, like,
00:30:21sacrificed a lot of my life
00:30:23so you can be happy.
00:30:25And even when I do the things you want me to do,
00:30:27it's something else you want me to do.
00:30:31So I'm like, look, I just give up.
00:30:34There's nothing else that I can do
00:30:36to make you, you know, happy.
00:30:41No, I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:30:52I'm so cold.
00:30:53Can I have a shower with me?
00:30:55Okay.
00:30:56I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:30:59Maybe.
00:31:01But, I mean, like,
00:31:03I wanted to save water.
00:31:04I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:06Ha-ha-ha!
00:31:24That's you.
00:31:27So cold in here.
00:31:34I'm so cold.
00:31:35Can I have a shower with me?
00:31:37Okay.
00:31:39Never thought you would ask.
00:31:41Ha-ha!
00:31:48Ha-ha!
00:31:49Ha-ha-ha!
00:31:53Ha-ha-ha!
00:31:55Ha-ha-ha!
00:31:56Ha-ha-ha!
00:32:03I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:05Maybe.
00:32:07But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross
00:32:10from the ocean,
00:32:11and I mean, like,
00:32:13I wanted to save water.
00:32:14I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:32:17Ha-ha-ha!
00:32:19I'm trying to control myself,
00:32:21but Josh is just, like, so hot,
00:32:23and we've been making out all day.
00:32:26You know, in the back of my mind,
00:32:27I do have some questions,
00:32:29and I do want to see more of him
00:32:31and more of his life,
00:32:32but, like, at this point,
00:32:33like, it feels right.
00:32:35So I bought some massage oil,
00:32:38and then I think there's some wine.
00:32:39Maybe we can have a glass and relax?
00:32:41I love it.
00:32:42Okay, perfect.
00:32:53Do you have any time?
00:32:55Do you have any time?
00:32:59Everything feels really natural.
00:33:01Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:04We're just drawn to each other,
00:33:05which is, you know, really exciting.
00:33:08We had an amazing day together,
00:33:10and I want to pamper Elise.
00:33:12Now's the time to pour some wine,
00:33:15you know, light a candle,
00:33:16and, you know, show that I've got skills.
00:33:24Wow!
00:33:25Look at this!
00:33:26Good.
00:33:31Welcome to Sydney.
00:33:32Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:37Cheers.
00:33:41You'd like a massage?
00:33:42Yeah, I would love one.
00:33:44I'm gonna light it up.
00:33:45This doesn't mean you're necessarily
00:33:46sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:33:48It's okay, I didn't mistake it.
00:33:51Lay on your stomach.
00:33:53Okay.
00:34:00Is that all right?
00:34:02Nothing fair.
00:34:05Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:34:09You can go harder.
00:34:11Harder.
00:34:14You should go down lower.
00:34:17You're, like, trying to be, like,
00:34:18a little respectful, but...
00:34:22Come on!
00:34:22Don't be a little bitch.
00:34:24Give me, like, everything.
00:34:25Slep on the ass?
00:34:26Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:34:27Like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:34:30I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:34:31It ripped me around a little bit here.
00:34:35Wow.
00:34:36It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:34:41Are you nervous?
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:43Shaking.
00:34:44I can feel it.
00:34:46You reckon?
00:34:46Mm-hmm.
00:34:54Good, guys.
00:34:59What the are you doing?
00:35:03Oh, my God.
00:35:06The timing on me.
00:35:08Hi, Chris.
00:35:09Yeah, hi.
00:35:10Nice.
00:35:11Now it's a party.
00:35:12Now it's a party.
00:35:14I can't stop on my car.
00:35:16I'll get another wine glass.
00:35:19I did not see that coming.
00:35:21I did.
00:35:23I'm naked, right now.
00:35:25You know, there's better places to give a naked massage
00:35:27in the house than the communal area as well.
00:35:29You know what, you're absolutely right.
00:35:32But, you know, I think I was just blinded lust.
00:35:36Ew.
00:35:37Who's that sound so weird for, bro?
00:35:43All right.
00:35:44Well, I'm going to go to my room.
00:35:48Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:35:50This is exactly why I don't want a guy with a roommate.
00:35:56Can you button me back up?
00:35:58I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:02Showing your skin to other people?
00:36:04Who is that?
00:36:05Who would have...
00:36:06No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:36:08Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:36:09We know that.
00:36:10But, like, Chris walks in
00:36:12as your hands are groping my body
00:36:14and it's, like, such a sexual nice night.
00:36:16And, like...
00:36:16Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:36:18Not my finest hour.
00:36:21Sorry, baby.
00:36:22Well, that killed the mood.
00:36:24For now.
00:36:24You know?
00:36:27Okay.
00:36:36Andrus?
00:36:37Andrus?
00:36:38Andrus, andrus, andrus, the air to me.
00:36:38Wait, this is the shower?
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:41Atom toilet.
00:36:43Oh, hell no!
00:36:46I'm a little bit...
00:36:47I'm the rest of his reaction in front of my father.
00:36:51Prepare for the...
00:36:53Wait.
00:36:53This is paper to write on.
00:36:56Who...
00:36:56You wipe his...
00:36:57Yes!
00:36:58Stop it.
00:37:19Wow, babe.
00:37:20This is where you grew up?
00:37:22Yeah, it's here.
00:37:35Yeah, it's here.
00:37:36Is that your rooster?
00:37:38No, not mine.
00:37:39By my neighbors.
00:37:40Oh, okay.
00:37:42We just got to the area of Trisha's family home.
00:37:45I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:37:52And, ooh, this is a journey.
00:37:54Don't complain.
00:37:56But I'm happy to be here with Trish because I want a future with her.
00:38:02And if I can get her family's approval, I think that she would be able to see that I'm a
00:38:08good person and maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:38:14Oh, this is my house.
00:38:15Yeah, this is my house.
00:38:19Oh, that's my sister.
00:38:21Oh, this is your sister.
00:38:22Yeah!
00:38:23I didn't get to meet her.
00:38:27She does look like you.
00:38:28She's very beautiful.
00:38:29Yeah, she is.
00:38:30Nice to meet you.
00:38:33And who is this?
00:38:35My brother.
00:38:36Oh, this is your brother?
00:38:37Yeah.
00:38:37Oh, my brother.
00:38:37Yes.
00:38:39Por favor.
00:38:40Chisi.
00:38:41Mara.
00:38:42Hello, sir.
00:38:42How you doing?
00:38:43Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:48Trisha's told me that she has a huge family and they all live on this compound together.
00:38:54Yeah!
00:38:54Hi, I'm Rick.
00:38:55It's nice to meet you.
00:38:56Oh, this is your brother.
00:38:57Okay.
00:38:58Woo!
00:39:00Okay.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:02Oh, how are you?
00:39:04My sister.
00:39:05This is your sister?
00:39:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:39:07You look like my grandmother.
00:39:10I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:39:13You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:39:18Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:39:21There's more people coming.
00:39:23Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:39:28Bye-bye.
00:39:44My dad says, you sleep down?
00:39:49And me, I'm sorry.
00:39:51Uh, okay.
00:39:53The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister.
00:39:57I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age, but I respect her dad and, and, and,
00:40:05and their culture.
00:40:08That's the day.
00:40:09What's the water?
00:40:11What's the water?
00:40:11Oh, yeah.
00:40:12What, what's the water?
00:40:14Wait, is this the shower?
00:40:15Yeah.
00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:40:20There's no running water coming up?
00:40:23No.
00:40:23To rinse you off?
00:40:24No.
00:40:24No.
00:40:25And where does this water come from?
00:40:28From the river, or?
00:40:29Like, something under the ground.
00:40:32A whale?
00:40:33Yeah.
00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:40:37OK.
00:40:39Oh, man, I smell something already.
00:40:43Oh, hell no!
00:40:45Yeah.
00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it.
00:40:55Yeah.
00:40:55Wait, wait, wait.
00:40:57Sit this paper to write on.
00:40:59You wipe this?
00:41:01Yes.
00:41:02Rick, stop it.
00:41:03Sit, sit, sit in this.
00:41:06Oh, good.
00:41:07That's it.
00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:41:15But I'm not surprised.
00:41:17Ever since Rick came to Madagascar,
00:41:20he complains about everything.
00:41:24I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:41:27And they just leave the mood out like this without refrigeration?
00:41:32These are tight quarters right here.
00:41:34They're getting kind of squished.
00:41:36It's hot.
00:41:37I hope it's not going to be this hot in Losi Bank.
00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:41:44You are the only bougie here afraid of something.
00:41:47Oh, my God.
00:41:48Terrible.
00:41:52This is the living room?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55Yeah, this is the living room.
00:41:57I'm not sure.
00:41:58I'm not sure.
00:41:58I'm not sure.
00:42:00I'm not sure.
00:42:01I'm not sure.
00:42:01What is this, like a family meeting or something?
00:42:05Okay.
00:42:05Yeah.
00:42:18So they approve that you are here, and it's going to give us a blessing.
00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:32In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents'
00:42:39acceptation.
00:42:41Like, it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:42:44No.
00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.
00:42:52This morning blessing.
00:42:54That's it, babe.
00:42:55It is a silver.
00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.
00:42:57It's a silver.
00:43:02Not another thing you just haven't saw it will come in, but a baby, but really you
00:43:17just
00:43:17can just take an enemy.
00:43:17Even if you go there, you'll keep doing better, hitchhiking.
00:43:19You might not have to smell wonderful pets anymore in somebody's work.
00:43:45Thank you, thank you for this.
00:43:56Oh, is that his?
00:43:58Yeah, his breast.
00:43:59Oh, okay.
00:44:24Until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving
00:44:28up hope.
00:44:29I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.
00:44:32I believe that if he just gives me a chance, he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:44:39Same sex is a disgrace.
00:44:40This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:44:43Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us, or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:44:53Yeah.
00:45:23I feel
00:45:25miserable, numb, really sad.
00:45:35But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:45:39I just don't know what happens from here.
00:45:44Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:45:47I told him everything.
00:45:48There are no more secrets.
00:45:52And he didn't react good.
00:45:53He called me evil.
00:45:55He didn't talk to me.
00:45:57He looked at me with disgust.
00:45:59He's not accepting who I am.
00:46:01So he slept on the sofa.
00:46:02I slept in the bedroom.
00:46:05I'm mad.
00:46:06And I'm angry.
00:46:07And I'm hurt.
00:46:10But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:46:15My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:46:18I'm cutting the trip short.
00:46:20There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again and that he's going to leave me.
00:46:23But until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up
00:46:28hope.
00:46:31Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:46:35I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore about me lying about still being married.
00:46:41But I believe that if he just gives me a chance, looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a
00:46:47person he fell in love with those months ago, that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:46:53I still want to be with Daniel.
00:46:55But now it's up to him.
00:47:02How do you feel?
00:47:04Lisa is full of lies.
00:47:06I don't think her lies is over.
00:47:08Because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:47:12Why did you call her evil?
00:47:15Because she's evil.
00:47:16Keeping all the secrets.
00:47:18I've been thinking away of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.
00:47:24That she has not been divorced.
00:47:27Not knowing that she has been in a relationship with her fellow women.
00:47:30She's been practicing same sex.
00:47:34So I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:47:37It's against our tradition.
00:47:47Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:47:52Just allow me to be.
00:47:54Like, we have to talk.
00:47:55You can't ignore me forever.
00:47:58Please.
00:48:00You need to give me time.
00:48:02I have to think.
00:48:06Can you grab your bags?
00:48:08I can't carry everything to the car.
00:48:12I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:48:19I'm not happy.
00:48:20Another love gone bad again.
00:48:23Bad again.
00:48:24Bad again.
00:48:25But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:48:29I love Lisa.
00:48:31I want to forgive her.
00:48:33But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.
00:48:36I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:48:39You're on your own.
00:48:40Hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside driving you insane.
00:48:52I don't know if I can.
00:49:14So are you ever going to talk to me?
00:49:17I am totally confused.
00:49:20We dated for six months.
00:49:22You have every opportunity to tell me
00:49:23whatever you want to tell me.
00:49:25But you never did.
00:49:27I was scared.
00:49:28Why didn't you tell my uncle?
00:49:31Because this is between me and you.
00:49:33Why does he need to know anything?
00:49:36Anything?
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:37You call this anything?
00:49:38Yeah.
00:49:39Same sex is a disgrace to any family that
00:49:42involved in it.
00:49:45It's against our tradition.
00:49:48But it's not against American tradition.
00:49:50But you're in my country.
00:49:51You're in my tribe.
00:49:52This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:49:56My uncle, I have to be involved.
00:49:59Are you promising me that you will not go back
00:50:01to practicing same sex?
00:50:03Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you
00:50:06for the rest of my life.
00:50:07There's not going to be another woman.
00:50:09If I'm with you, I'm with you.
00:50:12Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us?
00:50:15Or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:50:17I don't know.
00:50:19I don't think I will continue with this relationship
00:50:22until my uncle comes.
00:50:24I should have told you.
00:50:26I should have told you before I came.
00:50:28And then you could have determined if you wanted to even
00:50:30be with me or not be with me.
00:50:32And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.
00:50:34And there wouldn't be all this struggle.
00:50:36I should have just told you I was scared to tell you.
00:50:39And I was scared to lose you.
00:50:43I'm scared of losing you.
00:50:46This all comes down to his uncle.
00:50:48When he finds out that I lied about me being
00:50:51with women for 21 years, I'm worried
00:50:54that his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me.
00:50:58And this relationship will be over.
00:51:02I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes.
00:51:05Please.
00:51:23Oh that does not hurt that really hurts it's not that's how you know I'm so sexually attracted
00:51:29to you because I love popping your pimples good
00:51:41did you sleep well I'm pretty tired I can't believe after six months I had sex I feel like
00:51:49I'm not a virgin anymore like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer but it
00:51:56felt right it was a lot of fun do you think Chris hurt us
00:52:10twice it was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it flowed
00:52:15it was
00:52:16like missionary it was great and then like to the side was the other one did you get a glimpse
00:52:23of the
00:52:23picture of Chris above I forgot that painting was in the room well you didn't even me doggy style
00:52:28so I couldn't even see the painting yesterday last night yeah I feel like we're an old married
00:52:35couple yeah like I'm so comfortable with you like usually like at home like if I like sleep with a
00:52:42guy like I just want to like go leave the next day but like I'm stuck with you and I'm
00:52:46here with you
00:52:47and then like I'm happy that I'm here and like I came you know I did Chris walking in when
00:52:57I'm on
00:52:57the couch getting massage that definitely brought the mood down he had a lot of making up to do if
00:53:02he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it up it was everything I could have dreamed of and
00:53:07more
00:53:07everything about this man is so sexy except the uncircumcised
00:53:13there's a first uncircumcised
00:53:18it's a little weird it's like
00:53:23also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use extra skin
00:53:27but like like I'm not complaining about it I can deal with that
00:53:35I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly
00:53:42I did I'm like one part of me is like super happy but the other part of me is like
00:53:47I should have I should I want to know more than and then but whatever like I shouldn't be so
00:53:51hard
00:53:51on myself just ask anything you want do anything you want say anything you want yeah
00:53:56okay I'll start asking don't hate me okay yeah so I'm confused about this rental situation
00:54:04like a little annoying that Chris like walked in during that like why is he even here with you
00:54:10renting it in the first place because last I knew is you lived with your parents
00:54:15um I mean like we were living together and then we sort of had to get out after we moved
00:54:22out I
00:54:22dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week but then
00:54:26you know I um I've been living with Nat I've been staying at hers because you know
00:54:35she lives a lot closer to work so why I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to like
00:54:41navigate this like detective puzzle because you've confused me so much I know now we've talked on the
00:54:48phone a few times but living together I think their relationship's a little weird if it's so platonic
00:54:55and you're just friends why would you have to lie to me about it and tell me you're living with
00:54:59your
00:54:59parents this just smells fishy to me um I just I mean to me it's a little weird that you're
00:55:09living with a
00:55:10girl and like you talk about her a lot too and like I just I don't know like she's my
00:55:18friend
00:55:19you're here you're my you're my girlfriend so it's it's exactly the same as Chris I would
00:55:24treat exactly the same as I do Chris you know like do you guys like share a bathroom like does
00:55:28she see
00:55:28you naked like like how does that work why is that funny no it's funny because you know I get
00:55:34it
00:55:35that's you know I get why you'd ask those questions um yeah of course we share a bathroom
00:55:39but but um she hasn't seen me naked her and I are just friends she's like you know she's a
00:55:45really
00:55:45good friend but you know she knows about you and that you're my partner and you know um I really
00:55:50want
00:55:50you guys to get along because it's important for me well you must feel some sort of way because you
00:55:53didn't tell me you lived with her maybe it was a part of me you know not wanting you to
00:56:02get you
00:56:03jealous and back out of this before you got here so how do I know when you're telling me the
00:56:07truth
00:56:08well that's your job to believe me and it's my job to prove it to you
00:56:14I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight including that so I need to take advantage and
00:56:19get the whole picture of him I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her see what
00:56:24she says to me
00:56:25if there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that I'm gonna find out
00:56:29it's like what else do I not know that I should know I want to give Joshua the benefit of
00:56:35the doubt
00:56:35but I don't fully trust him after this at the end of the day like you know you're you know
00:56:41you're
00:56:41my man and you're my number one priority so I'm 52 52 you're even buffer keep it a
00:57:01car for an army this is also for Texas yeah number do you have to follow political gossip it
00:57:05that I'm they want babies
00:57:27You can help.
00:57:29OK.
00:57:31That's a goat.
00:57:33We call it a woosh.
00:57:35That's enough.
00:57:36It's just swollen up there.
00:57:50Oh, .
00:57:52Enjoy.
00:57:53Oh, thank you.
00:57:59I don't know if I can hold my legs like this.
00:58:02I'm going to sit like your aunt and try that.
00:58:15She's not going to sit like this till the end, just serving the food.
00:58:20So far, everything is seem pretty good with Rick and my family, even though he's acting
00:58:26like an old man.
00:58:31My father said you have to use to do it.
00:58:35But I know my family is going to be asking him a lot of questions, and I don't know how
00:58:42Rick is going to respond.
00:58:51What is the intention to me?
00:58:57I look at her as being a prospective wife to me.
00:59:10I love her very much, and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.
00:59:17I'm loving the other way home.
00:59:18I love your family.
00:59:18I love you in her house.
00:59:22I love them.
00:59:24I love you in my house.
00:59:28I love them.
00:59:36How old are you?
00:59:38Oh, I'm 52.
00:59:53You have the same age as him.
01:00:24You have married.
01:00:28Yes, I've been married twice.
01:00:33But now I'm not married.
01:00:39Do you have a child?
01:00:40Yes.
01:00:42I have two babies and then I have three adults.
01:01:06They want babies.
01:01:19Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids and I'm just not ready
01:01:27to make that decision yet.
01:01:48They want respect and as a Malagasy we get married.
01:01:58And I have a child.
01:02:03I am not married.
01:02:08They have married.
01:02:29I understand that.
01:02:31And now that I see how important this is, it's going to be the forefront of my mind.
01:02:52Before I come to your father and ask for your hand in marriage, I will make a decision.
01:03:00Okay.
01:03:10Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt about having kids.
01:03:17But now the heat is on and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:03:21My feelings have grown so much for Trish that I couldn't picture a life without her at this
01:03:28point.
01:03:58Okay.
01:04:04Okay.
01:04:04Okay.
01:04:15Okay.
01:04:33I'm still frustrated with Jovon, but it makes me feel good when I look good.
01:04:38So I'm just going to do my own thing.
01:04:40Can we talk?
01:04:54Okay.
01:05:00Okay.
01:05:00Okay.
01:05:01Okay.
01:05:05Okay.
01:05:13Okay.
01:05:23Okay.
01:05:40Okay.
01:05:43Okay.
01:05:46I like your outfit.
01:05:50Thanks.
01:05:52I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?
01:06:09Sometimes I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.
01:06:12You know, I know you want to come off like, you know, I'm not going to be pushed around.
01:06:16You're going to hear me.
01:06:20It, it causes more fights than it solves.
01:06:23I get what you're coming from, but this is what you married.
01:06:30I am not the type of woman who would just say yes, just to have peace.
01:06:36Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:06:40And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:06:45Mm-hmm.
01:06:47The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:06:53And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.
01:06:58Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes,
01:07:05I mean, we argue, my initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:07:14I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.
01:07:18I don't raise my voice at you, and I'm not this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:07:23I know you're not my dad.
01:07:25You know?
01:07:25The point is, you're hard on me.
01:07:28I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it, you know?
01:07:32I know I've married a strong woman, but you, you're a little bit too strong.
01:07:37And that can, that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:07:42I grew up with an abusive father.
01:07:47He died long time ago, but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,
01:07:54I learned from a very young age when to speak up.
01:07:59If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:08:05But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:08:15I'm sorry because I haven't realized that I was...
01:08:23And I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?
01:08:36All right? Deal? All right. Come on.
01:08:40You all right?
01:08:43Work it out, okay?
01:08:45Mm-mm!
01:08:46Now you're sweaty.
01:08:47Oh, well, let's go to the room where it's cool, man.
01:08:49You want to?
01:08:50Yeah.
01:08:51All right.
01:08:54I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.
01:09:01Thank you so much, boo-boo. Thank you.
01:09:05I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:09:12Oh, yeah?
01:09:15Yeah.
01:09:16Yeah, take me a minute.
01:09:19Catch y'all.
01:09:39Baby, do I look okay?
01:09:42Absolutely perfect.
01:09:44But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a...
01:09:49Jacket?
01:09:49Yeah.
01:09:50And guess what?
01:09:51What?
01:09:52I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:09:54So I have to carry it?
01:09:55Yeah.
01:09:56That's not great.
01:10:04Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.
01:10:06A little nipply.
01:10:10Do you want a chocolate?
01:10:12Yeah.
01:10:12Do you want a chocolate?
01:10:13Yeah.
01:10:14Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:10:16Um, is there upstairs?
01:10:19The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends to get her out in the city
01:10:23in the harbour.
01:10:24I am excited, but nervous more so.
01:10:27I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat and she was not happy about it.
01:10:32But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:10:40Are you falling?
01:10:41Yeah.
01:10:42Falling for you.
01:10:43Oh!
01:10:45That was cool.
01:10:45That was cool.
01:10:47Wow.
01:10:50This is, like, stunning.
01:10:52Like, not what I expected.
01:10:54It's nice, huh?
01:10:55It's beautiful.
01:10:57Thank you, babe.
01:10:59I love how you hold my purse.
01:11:03Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:11:04Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:11:07I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:11:10Is he going to be attentive?
01:11:11Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:11:13It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.
01:11:15But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:11:17I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:11:19And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:11:22Hi.
01:11:22Oh!
01:11:23Hi.
01:11:24Hello.
01:11:25Hello.
01:11:26Hello.
01:11:28Nice to meet you.
01:11:28Hi.
01:11:28Nice to meet you, girl.
01:11:30I'm beautiful.
01:11:31Hi.
01:11:31Hi.
01:11:31How are you?
01:11:31Oh, you're a yul person?
01:11:32I'm tall.
01:11:33No, I'm yul.
01:11:34You're not tall.
01:11:35Hey, this is, steve.
01:11:37Nice to meet you, man.
01:11:38How are you?
01:11:39How are you?
01:11:40How are you?
01:11:41How are you?
01:11:43Give back.
01:11:44Your back.
01:11:48Where are we all sitting?
01:11:49We're all sitting alone, but I don't know.
01:11:51We're sitting, I guess.
01:11:52We'll get attacked by seagulls.
01:11:53Hopefully, no one can look at my skirt.
01:11:57Just everyone, man.
01:11:58Yeah, sorry.
01:12:00This is great.
01:12:01Oh, my favorite people.
01:12:05I need this.
01:12:06Thank you so much.
01:12:07To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:09I don't know why that's so funny.
01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:12:14OK, to my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:22I've spoken to Elise before, and she comes across lovely.
01:12:27But she comes across very Miami.
01:12:30Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:12:31Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:12:34Yeah, well, very skimpy.
01:12:35Yeah, yeah, correct, correct.
01:12:36But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:12:38Yeah.
01:12:38Are you jealous of her?
01:12:4016 hours.
01:12:41I'm so jealous.
01:12:42Like, I'm in this way.
01:12:43Hey, guys, I don't like this too far away, so.
01:12:46Yeah, I know.
01:12:46Wrap up to this other bar?
01:12:48Yes, let's do it.
01:12:48OK, let's do it.
01:12:52Are we going to go in here?
01:12:54Yeah, yeah, yeah, we're over here.
01:12:55Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:12:56Yeah.
01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:13:03But when I see Nat, and I think my boyfriend lives with her,
01:13:06I'm like, is there something, like, I'm not understanding?
01:13:10Because I don't think there's a sexual connection.
01:13:12But, like, I think it's weird.
01:13:14I think it's so weird.
01:13:16Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:13:20OK.
01:13:21So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.
01:13:25I would love that.
01:13:27Are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29Bondi B.
01:13:31I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:13:35Yep.
01:13:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:13:39Yeah.
01:13:40I thought you knew that.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41He was staying with me for a little bit.
01:13:46So how did he ask to live with you?
01:13:48Like, how did this happen?
01:13:50I don't know.
01:13:50He was kind of between places, and I was like,
01:13:52why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:13:54Because it was much closer for his work.
01:13:57And to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:14:00And I needed to be, I needed comfort.
01:14:03I needed someone there to, yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:14:06So it was, it worked out well.
01:14:09Yeah.
01:14:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.
01:14:16I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:14:18I've tried that.
01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:14:20I have so many guy friends.
01:14:21Oh, yay.
01:14:22I have so many guy friends.
01:14:24And this is probably Australia.
01:14:26It's probably a little bit different.
01:14:27It's a culture thing.
01:14:28It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:29It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:30Or, like, back, we're a bit more easy about it.
01:14:32Like, we trust more, I think.
01:14:34Yeah, we trust.
01:14:37I think men and women can be friends.
01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.
01:14:41I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:14:42He's my brother to me.
01:14:44So I find it very weird.
01:14:46I think my lies are insecure.
01:14:48And hopefully they'll grow together and grow through that.
01:14:51Yeah.
01:14:51And that's how trust is built.
01:14:56I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you
01:15:00and maintaining me, if I have to be completely honest.
01:15:07So are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:15:11I feel uneasy about it.
01:15:14Well, look, I get it.
01:15:15And hopefully that can change, you know.
01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.
01:15:19I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:15:22Like, are you letting them live there for free?
01:15:25I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:15:28Great, but, um.
01:15:29You have been generous.
01:15:30I've been generous.
01:15:31I'm a generous person, and I love doing that for my friends.
01:15:34Yeah, no, well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:15:39that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:15:41No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I don't.
01:15:43No, that's, no.
01:15:45That's, see, that, that offends me.
01:16:13No, that offends me—
01:16:16another girl that's disgusting and weird.
01:16:19Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?
01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country,
01:16:39we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:16:43Sorry.
01:16:44I'm so sorry, Ashin.
01:16:46I'm so sorry, Ashin.
01:16:57So that was eye-opening.
01:17:00Yeah, I know.
01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.
01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:17:17Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer, and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States
01:17:30and everything figured out.
01:17:31But now, after hearing that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take
01:17:38years, this is the biggest setback ever.
01:17:45There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:17:51I don't know.
01:17:52Well, for me, it's like I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:18:00Plus, you're going to add another two or three years while you find a job and save enough money for
01:18:05the K-1 visa.
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:12I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:18:16But why do we have to live in your country?
01:18:18That's my good question.
01:18:22It's easier for me to stay here.
01:18:25You got a Filipino visa.
01:18:27And I'm a professional here.
01:18:29If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:33Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:18:36I think that's the best option for us.
01:18:42I still have my worries about that, though.
01:18:45With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom, but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:58What makes you upset is, like, he loved his mom, his family.
01:19:03I understand that.
01:19:04But what about me?
01:19:05I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:19:14So I will be the one who's stranded.
01:19:16And I will be hurt as well.
01:19:29I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:19:33I was expecting you.
01:19:35That I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:19:44I don't know.
01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...
01:19:57I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:03I'm sorry.
01:20:05I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:20:10I'm sorry.
01:20:10I'm sorry.
01:20:14I'm sorry.
01:20:15Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day, I feel
01:20:21kind of stuck.
01:20:22Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love, or my mother.
01:20:30this
01:20:32this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make
01:20:35she's my second half
01:20:37I know she's the one for me
01:20:39and
01:20:40just being with her, being able to
01:20:42talk, joke, have
01:20:44everything, I don't want to lose that
01:20:46I won't give it
01:20:51I won't keep trying
01:20:58next time on Before the 90 Days
01:21:01teamwork, Mason, dreamwork, babe
01:21:03I'm sorry
01:21:04this is kind of turning me on
01:21:06babe
01:21:07I did not know
01:21:12I'm so hungry
01:21:13you have pregnancy
01:21:15I haven't gotten my period yet
01:21:19how would you feel
01:21:20if I was
01:21:25tell me you love her
01:21:27if I was in love with her
01:21:28I would have made a move
01:21:30dude, you made a move, you blow it
01:21:32no, no, no, no, no, no
01:21:34Laura made a move on me
01:21:36I am thinking about sharing my life
01:21:38and you are keeping secrets from me
01:21:41because it is betrayal
01:21:50this water is cold
01:21:51you can survive
01:21:53I hope Trish's family can see
01:21:56that I'm trying
01:21:57and that I am a good partner for Trish
01:22:10going to Casablanca right now
01:22:11to see Mohamed
01:22:12it's kind of surreal
01:22:13I mean I have my engagement ring
01:22:15Mohamed gave to me
01:22:17when he proposed
01:22:19putting this ring back on
01:22:20it's actually bringing up
01:22:21old feelings
01:22:23but I don't know
01:22:25how this meeting
01:22:26is going to go
01:22:27my heart's racing
01:22:34why did you just leave?
01:22:37you're upset
01:22:37so you don't care
01:22:39that I'm upset?
01:22:41so you just walk away from me?
01:22:43after what I found out
01:22:45about Nat
01:22:46my mind is just
01:22:47in so many directions
01:22:48and I'm freaking out
01:22:51I don't know
01:22:51what the f*** is going on
01:22:52right now
01:22:55I want to go home
01:23:00she has gotten married
01:23:02five times
01:23:03and from 21 years
01:23:05she has been in a relationship
01:23:06with several women
01:23:09why am I hearing
01:23:10this one now?
01:23:12this is an abomination
01:23:13no
01:23:14I can't help
01:23:15what my past is
01:23:16I am willing to do
01:23:17whatever it takes
01:23:18to be with Daniel
01:23:19I can't believe you
01:23:22because of this
01:23:23the marriage will be over
01:23:26I can't breathe
01:23:28I can't breathe
01:23:28I can't breathe
01:23:29I can't breathe