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Married at First Sight (AU) S13 EP 28
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00:00:00Previously, feedback from their peers...
00:00:03Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat.
00:00:05...allowed some couples to deepen their connections.
00:00:09There's two ways to a woman's heart.
00:00:11Chocolate or cheese.
00:00:13Only the best for my wife.
00:00:15I'm excited by you taking the lead.
00:00:18It reminds you are appreciated.
00:00:22Want a nacho kiss?
00:00:23Thank you for setting tasks that really understand the dynamic of Steven and I
00:00:28and what we needed.
00:00:30Probing questions reinforced some were on the same page.
00:00:34Yes, I do see as a father of my children.
00:00:36Once again, Danny avoided direct questions from Beck.
00:00:41Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:43I want to be very careful how I answer this question.
00:00:49Chris and Sam were caught in a tense stalemate.
00:00:52Not getting defensive at all.
00:00:54Even like a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:00:55I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:57Lean with that.
00:01:00And despite Scott's willingness to get fresh perspective.
00:01:04I'm definitely going to take it on board.
00:01:05And I hope Gia does too.
00:01:07No thanks.
00:01:08Gia was less than impressed.
00:01:10Hi.
00:01:12We're just going through this.
00:01:13Oh, I want to get out of here.
00:01:15As her and Scott pulled off a disappearing act.
00:01:20Tonight.
00:01:20I feel like I have been caught up in the Gia and Beck.
00:01:24What?
00:01:25It's been toxic from the start.
00:01:26I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:01:29Alyssa's reached her limit and is standing her ground.
00:01:34I've had enough.
00:01:35And it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck after those text messages.
00:01:40The vibe with Alyssa was icy cold.
00:01:43It was vile and vicious.
00:01:45Very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:01:47Yes.
00:01:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:01:48Hang on, hang on.
00:01:49Oh, God.
00:01:50Stop using this!
00:01:52Why are you laughing?
00:01:53What bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party?
00:01:58I'm fuming.
00:01:59I feel uncomfortable.
00:02:00I feel betrayed.
00:02:02I've never had someone do this to me.
00:02:05And then...
00:02:06That needs to stop.
00:02:07That needs to stop.
00:02:08Has Danny reached his breaking point?
00:02:10I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:02:13Two months ago, Daniel.
00:02:14Two months ago.
00:02:15I don't care if it was ten years ago.
00:02:28After a week of honest feedback about their relationships, tonight our couples are coming
00:02:33together to reflect and unpack at the sixth dinner party.
00:02:39And after feedback week, Stella and Phillip's relationship is going from strength to strength.
00:02:46Would you like a coffee?
00:02:47No, just peppermint tea.
00:02:48Just peppermint tea.
00:02:49Please.
00:02:49A bit of honey.
00:02:50A bit of honey.
00:02:50Yeah, why not?
00:02:52Just spice it up a little bit.
00:02:54Feedback week was amazing, to be honest.
00:02:56Trying to understand each other.
00:02:58And that's definitely deepened our connection.
00:03:00I think feedback week was one of the best weeks.
00:03:03Yeah, it was good.
00:03:03It still really was.
00:03:04It was a good week.
00:03:05Yeah, everything's going great.
00:03:07Ready to rumble.
00:03:10I thoroughly enjoyed it.
00:03:11So hopefully everyone else got much out of it like we did.
00:03:16For Rachel and Steven, feedback week brought plenty to smile about.
00:03:22I'm actually excited to share with the group like what a good week we've had.
00:03:27It was fun.
00:03:27It was flirty.
00:03:28We were really lucky.
00:03:30Yeah.
00:03:31I feel like we've really leant into feedback.
00:03:33Like, Steven's definitely stepped up.
00:03:35It's time to let Steve-O put his captain hat on and lead for the day.
00:03:42Are you making me a microwave meal?
00:03:44Only the best for my wife.
00:03:47No one makes nachos like me though, do they?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52And maybe they shouldn't.
00:03:59I like that task.
00:04:01I love to do it for more than one day actually.
00:04:03You know, you'd be waking up and I'll have my sailor's hat on and you'd be like,
00:04:06oh, what's this guy up to?
00:04:09I know exactly what you're up to.
00:04:20After a bizarre disappearing act over the weekend,
00:04:26Gia and Scott have returned to their apartment.
00:04:33I hated feedback week.
00:04:35I don't know.
00:04:35I just think everything got to me and I just wasn't feeling really good and I wanted to leave.
00:04:40I can see the difference in you with being away from the experiment.
00:04:45Yeah, I know.
00:04:46I don't think Gia's good at, you know, taking feedback from anyone.
00:04:50So I planned ourselves a nice little weekend getaway and I feel like it was the best thing we've ever
00:04:55done.
00:04:55I think the weekend away did really well for Scott and I.
00:04:58I feel much better today after our weekend.
00:05:01Yeah.
00:05:02Everything's been reset.
00:05:03I feel like we had a factory reset.
00:05:05I guess the topics of tonight will probably be...
00:05:08Feedback week.
00:05:10The only issues that Scott and I have in our relationship are that we're in this experiment with people that
00:05:14we don't like.
00:05:16And also, I don't take advice from people doing worse than me either.
00:05:21So that's the only drama.
00:05:24Whenever these setbacks happen for me and Scott, I think it makes us stronger.
00:05:27Going into this dinner party with a smile on a doll and a spring in our step.
00:05:32Yeah.
00:05:33Moving forward, I just want to focus on Scott and I and have fun with a few people that are
00:05:37here now.
00:05:38Are we ready to hit the road, hit this dinner party or what?
00:05:41Let's do it.
00:05:44Gia and Scott weren't the only couple who had a difficult feedback week.
00:05:52I've been anxious all weekend.
00:05:54You know, I've been holding in some stuff with Chris that I'm not really happy with how our feedback week
00:06:01ended.
00:06:01At the last commitment ceremony, Chris's plan for Sam to move to Sydney took him by surprise.
00:06:08Are you starting to think about life outside the experiment?
00:06:12I think what it would probably look like is he'd go to Sydney, I would stay primarily at the farm
00:06:16and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit from Sydney to the farm.
00:06:20But when Sam raised the issue with Chris.
00:06:23That's the first time I heard that plan and it was kind of like you've just like made a decision
00:06:27on how this is going on.
00:06:28Oh no, actually no.
00:06:30That's not true.
00:06:31I feel like you're getting really like defensive with me now.
00:06:34I'm not getting defensive at all.
00:06:35Or even like a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:06:37I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:06:39The argument intensified.
00:06:40That comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever.
00:06:45I'm happy to like just like move forward from it.
00:06:47Even now I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:06:49I'm not getting defensive, I'm having a conversation.
00:06:51Leaving things unresolved.
00:06:55I just feel like Chris isn't understanding me.
00:06:59Like he basically told the experts a plan of how it's going to work after the experiment without consulting me
00:07:04at all.
00:07:04And that just made me feel like I didn't really have a voice and I wasn't being heard and I
00:07:07didn't have much empathy around how this was all going to end.
00:07:10The next day he tried to turn the whole thing around on me and that's like me.
00:07:15And the only reason I've held it in is because I just can't feel like I can get through to
00:07:19him by myself.
00:07:21Yeah going into tonight I'm feeling really anxious about bringing this up and the anxiety comes from I don't think
00:07:27it's going to be received well from Chris.
00:07:29I can see Chris cutting me off tonight if I try to talk about it so I just need that
00:07:33group dynamic to bring it up.
00:07:35But hopefully with the support of the group maybe we can get there.
00:07:41Over the weekend feedback week has prompted a change in Beck and Danny's relationship status.
00:07:49What about the fact that I'm not only a wife but I'm a girlfriend now.
00:07:54Like it still doesn't make too much sense to me but whatever we roll with it.
00:08:01Danny and I talked about you know are we going to call each other husband and wife after this and
00:08:06he was like well yeah you're my wife.
00:08:08And I was like what about the security of actually being your girlfriend and he was like will you be
00:08:13my girlfriend.
00:08:14And I was like do you want me to be and he said absolutely.
00:08:18So I'm a girlfriend and a wife.
00:08:21Double parked.
00:08:23I think it's the security of like when we leave we'll still be husband and wife right.
00:08:30Well yeah of course.
00:08:31Yeah so but.
00:08:33I'm just going to whip the ring off and be like right.
00:08:36We're mates.
00:08:37But um.
00:08:38It's just the security of it I think.
00:08:41It's nice.
00:08:42Interesting isn't it.
00:08:43Tonight I'm walking to a dinner party not only as a wife in the experiment but as a girlfriend overall.
00:08:49It proves that you know he's got my back.
00:08:51We're right or die.
00:08:52And this is really serious.
00:08:54It's never been done before.
00:08:56No.
00:08:56There's not a wife who's a girlfriend.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:08:59Well except from you now.
00:09:01But yeah.
00:09:02I like it.
00:09:05Well when a woman's your wife.
00:09:09To go back to being a girlfriend almost seems like you're downgraded.
00:09:13You know men a lot of the time we do things we don't want to do or not that I
00:09:17didn't want to do it I'm not saying that.
00:09:19But we just do things to make these women feel good so that's what it was.
00:09:25How are we feeling about going to the dinner party boo?
00:09:28Feel good feel relaxed.
00:09:29I actually feel pretty good as well.
00:09:31Going into this dinner party is probably the least stressed I've been but then again that could be a really
00:09:36bad omen.
00:09:38Obviously like I've been on apology tours like.
00:09:42You've apologized more than OJ Simpson.
00:09:44I know I have.
00:09:46And I'm still apologizing now for messages that were wrote two and a half months ago.
00:09:50It's a disaster.
00:09:51Suck it up champ.
00:09:53If Alyssa you know brings it up tonight then I'm just going to sit as quiet as a field mouse.
00:09:58I'm not going to defend someone who's in the wrong.
00:10:01Yeah I don't condone bad behavior even if it's from my wife I don't condone it.
00:10:05But this should be the last time I'd assume.
00:10:08It can't keep coming up.
00:10:09It has to.
00:10:10Yeah.
00:10:11I hope I hope we can get to the end of the sorries.
00:10:14Do you know what I mean?
00:10:14Let's get to the end of them sorries because I didn't come on this experiment to just hear sorry.
00:10:25While Beck and Danny are hoping to move on, little do they know, the texts have since been circulated to
00:10:33the entire group.
00:10:49Yeah, the text messages are pretty bleak.
00:10:54Very descriptive, polarizing.
00:10:57It was so long ago, it was two months ago that I wrote this message when I was furious after
00:11:02I'd gotten off the phone to Jira and Scott, being told that Alyssa and David were saying that Daniel's not
00:11:09into you, you're in a fake relationship, you're this, that and the other and I was like you, you know.
00:11:14Regardless if it was six, eight, ten weeks ago.
00:11:17A month ago, two months ago, you still sent it, you still said it, and what you said was really,
00:11:25really horrible.
00:11:27Jira did this on purpose.
00:11:29She's taken the worst of me, right, and left the worst of her out of it.
00:11:38Jira's sitting there scot-free, but actually, she's venomous.
00:11:46I wrote that message, right, I was angry, I did it.
00:11:49At the end of the day, she's hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:53Jira, you're hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:58Oh, here we go again.
00:12:00Obviously, I'm feeling pretty hurt still from reading the messages that were sent to me.
00:12:06I don't even want to use the words and the language, because it's completely foul.
00:12:11And, yeah, I feel like it really needs to be addressed.
00:12:17Bec, I read the receipts.
00:12:19You said those things about David and I.
00:12:23Why?
00:12:24Like, what sparked that fuel, and how does something so hatred come out of your mouth?
00:12:29I'm going to call it out.
00:12:31100%, and you don't deserve to be treated the way they've treated you.
00:12:35Since the beginning of the experiment,
00:12:38Alyssa and David have been the target of unwanted scrutiny.
00:12:42Because I will say, I think it's a fake showmance.
00:12:45100% agree.
00:12:46Really?
00:12:47I'm sorry, got to agree.
00:12:48Alyssa came under fire at every opportunity.
00:12:53Excuse me, that's not nice, mate.
00:12:55Alyssa, shut up.
00:12:56That's not mine.
00:12:57Shut up, Alyssa, you ratchet idiot.
00:13:01So, ultimately, girls...
00:13:03But ultimately, I wanted to be fake as usual.
00:13:08And nowhere was safe.
00:13:10We've literally been staying up for late hours just talking.
00:13:13Sounds like an infomercial.
00:13:15Selling hair products.
00:13:17Desperately 3am on your TV.
00:13:20Even when it got too much for Alyssa...
00:13:23I care about what people think.
00:13:25I care about people's feelings.
00:13:27You know?
00:13:28I don't want to have this conflict.
00:13:31The blows kept coming.
00:13:35There's a bit of chatter around Adelaide, um,
00:13:40about Beck trying to actually dig shit up on Alyssa.
00:13:45Are you talking to people in Adelaide, like, about Alyssa?
00:13:49No.
00:13:51No?
00:13:51You're not digging up information?
00:13:53No.
00:13:54Not at all.
00:13:55With the texting drama being the latest in a long line of attacks.
00:14:00Why do you think people are coming after you?
00:14:03Ask them.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:07I don't know.
00:14:12I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:14:14You know?
00:14:15And be that pawn in the middle.
00:14:17I don't care what's going to happen between Beck and Gia.
00:14:20You have to speak your truth, and I know you will.
00:14:23Going into tonight, you've got each other's backs.
00:14:26Boys.
00:14:27I have never said a bad word about anyone.
00:14:31So, I'm not going to tolerate it anymore.
00:14:34Enough is enough.
00:14:35The behaviour needs to be addressed.
00:14:39Tonight, I am done.
00:14:42I just had enough.
00:14:44Had enough.
00:14:56Today is a good day walking to a dinner party.
00:14:59We're reset.
00:15:01We're refreshed.
00:15:02Vibes are high, and...
00:15:09You told me.
00:15:19Dinner party number six.
00:15:20Now, they're coming off feedback week, which is always a pivotal part of the experiment.
00:15:24How does that make you feel, knowing that someone loves you?
00:15:28It's good.
00:15:29It's something you're going...
00:15:32They all have pretty much a front row seat to each other's relationships.
00:15:37They're so intertwined by now.
00:15:39So, it'll be really interesting to see how they've taken on the feedback from the other people in the experiment.
00:15:47I think everyone's going to kind of discuss what letters they got, how their date went.
00:15:51Danny.
00:15:52It might be like, why didn't you turn up to the date?
00:15:53And I'll be like, because you're a wanker.
00:15:56Give me your hands.
00:16:01Oh, that was so sweet.
00:16:03It was so cute.
00:16:04Couples are starting to talk about beyond the experiment, which brings up even more.
00:16:09And I think it's a good time to be having those conversations before they go into homestays,
00:16:13so they can really prepare themselves to ask that question.
00:16:17Is this relationship going to survive outside the experiment?
00:16:20You look like an absolute queen today.
00:16:22And that's the highlight of my night already, and we haven't even started the dinner party.
00:16:28Hopefully, I can get a couple of bites of food down before someone raises their glass and ding, ding, ding,
00:16:36ding.
00:16:37I've got something to say.
00:16:43Let's go, babe. Oh, it's busy in here.
00:16:45Bec and Danny.
00:16:48How good does my wife look? Give everyone a twirl.
00:16:51Not that there's no one in it ever.
00:16:53Looking fancy and looking very together and very comfortable.
00:16:56Yes.
00:16:59Thanks, baby.
00:17:01I'll have a little one, will ya?
00:17:02Okay.
00:17:03That's cute.
00:17:04Not the tension that we saw from these two last week walking into that cocktail party.
00:17:08Police were coming into this dinner party in such a good spot.
00:17:13Hmm.
00:17:13You didn't run away.
00:17:14I didn't run away.
00:17:15I always show up.
00:17:16You always show up, Bec.
00:17:17Unlike Gia.
00:17:18I mean...
00:17:20Big news this week is you're now my wife and my girlfriend.
00:17:26Any wonder Bec's looking so happy and relaxed.
00:17:29She got a whole lot of validation.
00:17:33Danny asking me to be his girlfriend definitely gives me reassurance.
00:17:37It just feels like it's not just the experiment, but it's real life and it's really important.
00:17:43Is it important to you or not?
00:17:45I'm not gonna lie.
00:17:46Not that important because, like, I take this experiment seriously anyway.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50So, like, when we got married, getting married on national TV is about as serious as it gets.
00:17:55Do you know what you mean?
00:17:55So, I was just like...
00:17:56But, yeah.
00:17:57If it's important to you, it's important to me.
00:17:59That's right.
00:17:59It's one of them ones.
00:18:00That's right.
00:18:01I'm just not looking forward to having to, um, deal with the text messages.
00:18:08Well, one text message that I sent from two months ago to a group of women that I thought were
00:18:12my friends that I've obviously seen that aren't.
00:18:15Bec shouldn't have sent the messages.
00:18:17I've said that to her.
00:18:18It's hard for me to defend her.
00:18:20As a husband, it puts me in a bad situation because I feel like I'm letting her down when I
00:18:26don't defend her.
00:18:27But it's also I don't condone that behaviour, so I don't want to defend her.
00:18:31I have all these text messages that Gia's written about these people, but I wouldn't stoop to that level of
00:18:35sending them out to people.
00:18:37Because, as much as Gia annoys me, I don't want to hurt all these other people that she's talked about.
00:18:42Gia's come to war with me.
00:18:44Like, she just needs to stop.
00:18:47I'm sick of it.
00:18:50Oh, look at you!
00:18:54Oh, Stella and Phillip.
00:18:57Here we go.
00:18:58Another happy, confident entrant.
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:00Great to see.
00:19:02You guys had a good week?
00:19:04Yes, we did.
00:19:04Yeah, we had a good week.
00:19:05It was probably one of the best weeks, to be fair.
00:19:07Dave, same.
00:19:09Yo!
00:19:11Hello.
00:19:13Rachel and Steve.
00:19:15Keeping out of trouble?
00:19:16Trying to.
00:19:18Nah, I'm keeping out of trouble.
00:19:19Nah, I'm screwing with you guys.
00:19:20Nah, it's been good.
00:19:21Hold the chat.
00:19:25I didn't just become a wife, I'm now a girlfriend.
00:19:27Oh!
00:19:32Cheers!
00:19:33Hey!
00:19:34Cheers, guys!
00:19:34Oh, in the same class, but, like, cheers!
00:19:36Cheers to that!
00:19:38Congratulations!
00:19:38That's cute AF!
00:19:39Yeah!
00:19:40Excuse me, you didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:43I did.
00:19:43You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:44Yes, yes I did.
00:19:45And what did you tell me?
00:19:46What?
00:19:46Well, we're not going backwards.
00:19:47Okay, yeah.
00:19:48Oh, okay.
00:19:59We're proud of you showing up tonight.
00:20:01We're just there to show that you are a strong person, and not because you need to tear other
00:20:06people down.
00:20:08I've never done that.
00:20:09We've always been kind, and I don't understand the why.
00:20:15I just want some clarity.
00:20:16Yeah.
00:20:17I think we all deserve that clarity.
00:20:19We just need some clarity, and just to put it to bed for once and for all.
00:20:30Yay!
00:20:32There she is!
00:20:34Hi!
00:20:35Aw, Alyssa and David.
00:20:37All smiles.
00:20:38They're very cute.
00:20:40Always so affectionate.
00:20:41Love the blue liner on your eyes.
00:20:44They're so sexy!
00:20:49I saw Bec, and I'm always kind.
00:20:52I'm going to say hello.
00:20:53I'm going to give her a hug.
00:20:56You look like JLo.
00:20:57Yeah.
00:20:59Aw.
00:20:59You look like JLo.
00:21:01But inside, I'm like, oh, this person has stabbed me so hard in the back.
00:21:09I've seen the messages.
00:21:12How vicious and how hurtful they were.
00:21:16I don't know what's going on here, but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:21:22So, I feel like there is a lot to be said.
00:21:26How was your week?
00:21:29It was...
00:21:33It was an interesting week.
00:21:34I feel like it was a big one.
00:21:36It was a big one.
00:21:36Yeah.
00:21:38She has a very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:21:41She's quiet.
00:21:42Things inside her head.
00:21:43Yes.
00:21:45I don't know.
00:21:46Unless she has an issue with Bec.
00:21:48Yes, please.
00:21:48Because of the texts that have gone on in the past.
00:21:51True.
00:21:52So, do you feel like...
00:21:55I don't want to talk about it right now.
00:21:57We'll talk about it at the dinner table.
00:22:00The vibe with Alyssa is icy.
00:22:02It's icy cold.
00:22:04She's been quite cold in a sense that she didn't even want to speak to me.
00:22:09Can I tell you guys something?
00:22:10My husband didn't get to do the task where he met with someone.
00:22:15I met with David.
00:22:16He didn't get to do it.
00:22:17Gia refused to, and he was quite upset about it.
00:22:21Bec had a lot to say about Gia,
00:22:24and I'm thinking, do I pull out the screenshots?
00:22:27She's probably going to say,
00:22:28Alyssa, that was like four, five weeks ago.
00:22:32It doesn't matter.
00:22:34Regardless of if it was four weeks ago or yesterday,
00:22:38it doesn't matter.
00:22:39Take some accountability for your bad behaviour.
00:22:44We're not friends, girl.
00:22:56Ć
00:22:56one
00:23:25one
00:23:26met
00:23:44just a heads up i'm not super happy with how things ended last week and the only reason i
00:23:50haven't spoken about it because i didn't feel like i was getting through to you just by myself
00:23:53and i feel like i need some people around to give us both an outside perspective on the situation
00:24:00is this in relation to the comment that i said to mel that that's what i brought up but it's
00:24:05the
00:24:05whole defensiveness from that i just don't feel like you're hearing me and i don't feel like you're
00:24:13genuine with your apology i don't feel like you really understand what you've done wrong
00:24:16um and i've tried to explain it but we're just i'm fuming
00:24:27i'm angry because my husband and my partner has just dropped a bombshell on me five minutes before
00:24:35entering a social gathering make it seem like i don't leave a space that's safe for you to come
00:24:41up with feedback for me and that's basically like the definition of gaslighting is turning
00:24:46the situation around to me i feel uncomfortable i feel betrayed
00:24:53i'm anxious and nauseous because i hate standing up for myself like this
00:24:57i thought this was all over so this is all new to me
00:25:01i had no idea what was going on and i could feel the awkwardness yesterday when i got home
00:25:06and i'm afraid now we're walking to a dinner party and getting everyone involved
00:25:10i just got called a gaslighter and got told that my apologies weren't genuine
00:25:15i've never had someone do this to me
00:25:23we have got some unseen footage and i do think that you guys have to see it
00:25:27the most crappy you guys unseen footage so we thought would show you ever let's have a look at this
00:25:34is revealed she also lied she lied i just covered her ass
00:25:38maps after the dinner party only on stan
00:26:00oh
00:26:01oh
00:26:02oh
00:26:03oh
00:26:04very distant walk-in
00:26:06chosen sam very separate why are they not holding hands
00:26:10Oh, I've never seen this from them.
00:26:13Hello, my man.
00:26:16Sam and Chris, we were still like two mates walking in,
00:26:18to be honest, or not even good mates.
00:26:20Hi, honey.
00:26:22That was frosty.
00:26:23It looked disconnected, disinterested.
00:26:27It was shocking, to be honest.
00:26:31This is new.
00:26:32Something's happened.
00:26:34Oh, babe, yucky.
00:26:36Yuck.
00:26:36What's going on, babe?
00:26:38Um, where do I start?
00:26:40Um, I'm sure he wants to do it in this forum,
00:26:42so you'll hear all about it.
00:26:44I just got told five minutes before entering the dinner party
00:26:47by Sam that he will be bringing up in front of the whole group
00:26:50that my four apologies weren't genuine enough
00:26:53on the back end of calling me a gaslighter.
00:26:55So I've just walked into the dinner party,
00:26:56hoping to have some drinks with my friends
00:26:58and catch up with everyone,
00:26:59and he has just dropped a bomb on me in the car
00:27:02like five minutes before walking in the door.
00:27:04Like, amazing.
00:27:07How you been, mate?
00:27:09It's been a rough week, man.
00:27:11You look flat as a pancake.
00:27:12What's up?
00:27:15Um...
00:27:15Ah.
00:27:16So basically, sitting on the character commitment ceremony,
00:27:18Mel asked, like, what's the plan after the experiment?
00:27:20And Chris, like, said, well, Sam's going to move to Sydney,
00:27:22and then you can do this, move there, move that.
00:27:24Like, this is how it's all going to work.
00:27:25We had never discussed a plan.
00:27:27Oh, really?
00:27:28You're never all.
00:27:29I'm disgusted.
00:27:31Why would you know?
00:27:32I just assumed you'd had them conversations.
00:27:33Yeah, so we hadn't.
00:27:34And at the end of the day, it's fine.
00:27:35Like, he might have been excited or whatever,
00:27:36but then in feedback week, I, like, just wanted to say...
00:27:40Mm-hmm.
00:27:40I just wanted to say to him, like,
00:27:43hey, man, like, when you made the plan of, like,
00:27:45how it's already made,
00:27:46and he just goes,
00:27:47that's not what I said.
00:27:48What I said was, like...
00:27:49Dismissing, shutting me down.
00:27:51Do you get quite aggressive?
00:27:52That conversation went awfully.
00:27:53Then, basically, I was like...
00:27:56He's like, what do you want me to do?
00:27:57I was like, can you just say sorry?
00:27:59Like, the apology just comes with defensiveness.
00:28:01Like, he apologised in the same voice that he was defensive.
00:28:04Yeah.
00:28:04Like, it's like, it's not genuine.
00:28:05I don't feel it.
00:28:06Yeah.
00:28:07And he's just so defensive with me today as well,
00:28:09and I'm like, all I'm trying to do is be heard.
00:28:12And, like, he's upset that I've spoken up.
00:28:14Yeah.
00:28:15That's not OK.
00:28:16Balcony.
00:28:16Yeah.
00:28:17Yeah.
00:28:20Hello!
00:28:21Hi!
00:28:22Lucky loss.
00:28:24Ah.
00:28:24And here's Gia and Scott.
00:28:26We didn't know if we wanted to come, you know?
00:28:29Nice for Gia to show up tonight, do you know what I mean?
00:28:32She's got one of them robes, what Harry Potter has,
00:28:34where she goes invisible from time to time.
00:28:36How are you?
00:28:37How are you, mate?
00:28:38Good, mate.
00:28:38Good to see you.
00:28:39How are you going?
00:28:40Yeah, how are you going?
00:28:41How are you?
00:28:41Surprising to see Gia and Scott actually hugging Bec and Danny.
00:28:46Particularly Scott, who made it very clear
00:28:48that he didn't want to have anything to do with Bec.
00:28:50Oh, thank you.
00:28:51Hey, hello!
00:28:53You look beautiful.
00:28:55Oh, look at you, man.
00:28:56You guys look dapper.
00:28:57Danny, how are you?
00:28:59Good to see you.
00:28:59You too.
00:29:00Hello.
00:29:00Hello.
00:29:01Good to see you.
00:29:16Stay away from me.
00:29:18Stay away.
00:29:19Hi, babe.
00:29:21Hi.
00:29:21Love you.
00:29:21We got separated.
00:29:23Yeah, hold it.
00:29:24It's on.
00:29:24It's on.
00:29:25Do you want to grab a drink?
00:29:26Yeah.
00:29:26I was so happy to see Chris.
00:29:28I knew he'd been stressing.
00:29:29The way he ran, it was like, he needs to talk to his girl.
00:29:32We were in the car on the way over,
00:29:34and we have not spoken all day.
00:29:35It's been awkward as ****.
00:29:36And then in the car, he called me a gaslighter.
00:29:41I never really liked Sam from the minute I saw him.
00:29:45Sam doesn't play his cards how his cards really are.
00:29:50He's waited until tonight to do this.
00:29:53This is a, like, this will happen last week.
00:29:56Yeah.
00:29:56Very calculated.
00:29:57Very super calculated and cruel.
00:29:59But I'm going to back myself.
00:30:00I'm not apologising again.
00:30:02I've apologised four **** times.
00:30:03How much more can you do?
00:30:05It's just, it's just, it's just, it's just childish.
00:30:09You want to play games like a little boy?
00:30:11Sorry.
00:30:12No, you're not doing that to Chris.
00:30:14Obviously, he's going to have, like, back on his side, so.
00:30:16Well, yeah, I can see.
00:30:17Yeah, yeah.
00:30:19So, us, that's that.
00:30:20That's right.
00:30:22Mmm.
00:30:25Dinner is served.
00:30:32All right.
00:30:33Bon appetit.
00:30:33Oh, the table's compressed.
00:30:37I think tonight we're going to see some of the consequences of that feedback week playing out.
00:30:43With a small amount of couples left in the experiment, the dinner party's become much more intimate.
00:30:48Yes.
00:30:48You're very much a part of all of the drama that unfolds.
00:30:54It's a lot easier to have one conversation in the group rather than a variety of them going on at
00:30:59the same time.
00:31:00It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:31:18Well, the red one is you on that stage.
00:31:20It's so good.
00:31:33Oh, there's a tension in there, isn't there?
00:31:36There is tension.
00:31:43It was very awkward at the start of the dinner party.
00:31:48There were crickets.
00:31:49I could hear them.
00:31:50I was sitting, cutting my steak, and I could hear...
00:31:54I'm looking at Beck, and I already know what she said about me and my husband behind my back.
00:32:01Obviously, Gia's hurt me too, but nothing can top the screenshots of the messages that Beck said about David and
00:32:08I.
00:32:13How have you been, Alyssa? Are you OK?
00:32:15I've had enough of this ya-ya, these individual conversations and sweeping shit under the rug.
00:32:20I feel like it all needs to be brought to light, and I feel like the other couples need to
00:32:24know as well.
00:32:25So, if everybody wants to listen in, so there were, obviously, some receipts from the last commitment ceremony
00:32:36that Juliet received from Gia.
00:32:45And after that commitment ceremony, Juliet was like, Alyssa, I really need you to see these messages.
00:32:50Um, and I guess reading those messages brought up a lot of hurt.
00:32:56Because, you know, this happened weeks ago.
00:32:59This happened, like, four or five weeks ago.
00:33:03Five weeks ago.
00:33:04Two months ago.
00:33:05I've got some dates on there.
00:33:06Two months ago.
00:33:08Yeah, anyway, whatever.
00:33:09But it doesn't matter, babe.
00:33:10Like, it doesn't matter because they were the most vicious...
00:33:15Yeah.
00:33:15Vulgar.
00:33:16Yeah.
00:33:16I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:33:22Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:33:28Ooh.
00:33:29Ooh.
00:33:30My husband's a rat.
00:33:36My head is so far up my arse and how much of a I am.
00:33:43Um, and we're c***** licking c*****.
00:33:53Oh, no.
00:34:03They were the most vicious, vulgar...
00:34:06I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:34:13Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:34:19My husband's a rat.
00:34:23My head is so far up my c***** arse and how much of a c***** I am.
00:34:29We're c***** licking c*****.
00:34:34Oh, no.
00:34:36Why, why, why would you do that?
00:34:39Why would you do that?
00:34:42Really vile language.
00:34:44That's really destructive.
00:34:47Incredibly disappointing.
00:34:49Gia played a part in them as well, but what came out of your mouth?
00:34:53I'm telling you, I was in tears.
00:34:54It was vile and vicious, babe.
00:34:57I've seen repetitive behaviour, not just with me, but with other people at this table where you've come at them.
00:35:02And I'm just like...
00:35:03Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:35:04Like, there's been hurts, babe.
00:35:04Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:35:05Hang on, hang on, hang on.
00:35:06Alyssa, I don't think you can say that the people at this dinner table...
00:35:09I know, but everybody's been affected by your behaviour, babe.
00:35:11Hang on, wait.
00:35:11I'm sorry.
00:35:12Everyone at this table at some point has been affected by your behaviour.
00:35:18And I know that you're saying sorry, and I know that you've said sorry, but I'm saying right now...
00:35:23Listen to me for one second.
00:35:28I feel like Alyssa was really trying to hold her own, but Beck keeps talking over the top of her.
00:35:34We saw it at retreat with me.
00:35:37It's just really frustrating.
00:35:39I understand what you're saying.
00:35:41I'm just trying to have one...
00:35:42Like, just let me have a piece.
00:35:44I understand what you're saying, right?
00:35:46I agree that the messages that I wrote were unacceptable.
00:35:50They were disgusting.
00:35:51And they were disgusting.
00:35:52Yeah.
00:35:53The reality of the situation is that you've seen snippets, right?
00:35:57Snippets.
00:35:58Well, then what else is there?
00:35:59But I'm not going to do that.
00:36:01There is no excuse for what I wrote.
00:36:03I am sorry to you for what I wrote about you.
00:36:07Would I ever say that to your face?
00:36:08Never.
00:36:09Did I?
00:36:09Do I think that?
00:36:10No.
00:36:11Definitely not.
00:36:14Beck controls conversation.
00:36:15Beck controls narrative.
00:36:16I could just feel this beside me being like, accept some accountability and stop deflecting to everyone else.
00:36:24Is it okay?
00:36:25No.
00:36:27But I'm not going to send you the messages that everyone else has said about you to hurt you to
00:36:33get to her,
00:36:34because that makes me just as bad.
00:36:39She isn't able to take on any sort of accountability for her actions.
00:36:47This is what Beck does.
00:36:48Yeah.
00:36:49She is wrong and tries to think of anyone else who's involved that she can then blame for her actions.
00:36:57We have a war, right?
00:36:59But Gia sent them to Juliet and Juliet's going to shit on everyone.
00:37:02And what that's done is hurt you two when you guys don't deserve to be hurt.
00:37:08You don't have to trust me.
00:37:10You don't have to believe me.
00:37:12But I am apologetic to both of you sincerely.
00:37:18Bec wanted to do what she always does, which is sweep things under the carpet.
00:37:23But the important thing is Alyssa stood up for herself.
00:37:27In the real world, if you read messages like that, you'd never go back.
00:37:31You'd never trust that person.
00:37:32You'd cut them off.
00:37:33Obviously, because of this experiment, we're faced with the fact we have to still be cordial.
00:37:38But you understand how, like, in the real world, there's no coming back.
00:37:41There's no...
00:37:42You can't trust someone and be friends with them.
00:37:45Those text messages were vile.
00:37:48And I don't think anyone would ever accommodate for people in their lives that talk about them like that at
00:37:55any period of time.
00:37:59I know that you've said sorry.
00:38:02But this shit is...
00:38:05I just want to stay out of it.
00:38:08This could have exploded, escalated and got very hostile.
00:38:12It's interesting that Alyssa, she's essentially stated a conversational tone.
00:38:17And this has not escalated at all.
00:38:20Yeah, it's very mature of her.
00:38:23It's just noise.
00:38:25I've heard this before.
00:38:27Bec and I have tried to work on our relationship.
00:38:32And I'm sorry, but I think I've given her way too many chances.
00:38:38I'm here for my husband.
00:38:40I'm so lucky that I have David.
00:38:43Ultimately, like, I'm just going to put her to bed.
00:38:47I'm pretty disgusted in the behaviour.
00:38:51And I'm not here for mean girl shit.
00:38:57Coming up...
00:38:58I have to change my whole life to fit into your life.
00:39:03Do I get any say in how this is going to work at all?
00:39:07And Bec's behaviour takes its toll on Danny.
00:39:13I just want you to be wary about what you say.
00:39:17I'm very wary.
00:39:18I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:39:34Look at Stella and Philip.
00:39:38So much love.
00:39:41So just in sync.
00:39:49So relaxed.
00:39:50A lot of swag.
00:39:52Yes.
00:39:52And so together.
00:39:56Philip and Stella, we haven't heard about, like, your feedback week.
00:40:00Like, what's very good?
00:40:02We had just come up for a really good week and it was awesome.
00:40:06We had good probing questions.
00:40:08And, yeah, we were just going back and forth.
00:40:10It was almost like the honeymoon box.
00:40:12It was really good probing questions.
00:40:14But yeah, it was a good...
00:40:15It's a great week.
00:40:17I'm excited.
00:40:19Clearly, some couples have actually embraced the feedback
00:40:24and have got closer together.
00:40:25But for others, it's just absolutely unravelled them.
00:40:34Can I just say something?
00:40:37Chris and I are going through something that's actually internal.
00:40:42I can't get to a conclusion with just the two of us
00:40:44and that's why I kind of wanted to bring that up tonight.
00:40:46So if we could get that sort of...
00:40:47Yeah, let's do it.
00:40:48Yeah, let's do it.
00:40:50If you don't mind, I'm going to kick it off.
00:40:52Obviously, my energy is not great tonight.
00:40:54This is not my usual vibe.
00:40:55You know that.
00:40:57I'm going to just give you a bit of background on what happened.
00:40:59Sam and I had an issue mid-last week,
00:41:02which I thought we had squashed.
00:41:03On the drive over here, Sam mentioned to me
00:41:07that he wanted to bring this issue up in front of the whole group.
00:41:10And then on the back end of that...
00:41:12Why? Why did I want to...
00:41:13Can I just please talk?
00:41:16On the back end of that, insinuated that I was a gaslighter.
00:41:22A gaslighter is a very strong word to throw around.
00:41:26So obviously, my energy is off.
00:41:28I feel like I've been thrown under the bus.
00:41:31So I'm going to let Sam speak and I'll hear him.
00:41:34And then you can get my version of the events.
00:41:42Basically, when Mel asked us on the couch last week,
00:41:46like, what's the plan after this?
00:41:49She said, what does life look outside the experiment?
00:41:51OK, can I talk?
00:41:52Sure.
00:41:58And Chris said, well, the best way it could work is, like,
00:42:01Sam can move to Sydney.
00:42:04But the thing is, is, like, Chris and I had never, ever discussed
00:42:08a plan of how it was going to work outside the experiment.
00:42:16So then to hear him say to Mel, like,
00:42:17this is how the plan was going to work, I'm like,
00:42:19do I get any say in how this is going to work at all?
00:42:24Feedback week, I thought, would be a really good time
00:42:26for me to bring this up.
00:42:28So we're sitting on the couch and I say,
00:42:30hey, Chris, when you said this to Mel,
00:42:32I just felt like I didn't have a voice.
00:42:33And he cut me off and he goes, I didn't say that.
00:42:35You could have spoken up.
00:42:37You had every opportunity to speak just as much as I did.
00:42:39And then I said, I wish there was just more empathy
00:42:41around the fact that I have to change my whole life
00:42:45to fit into your life.
00:42:48I was like, could you say you're sorry?
00:42:49And he goes, I'm sorry.
00:42:50I'm sorry. I hate your feelings.
00:42:51I'm sorry.
00:42:51Like, I'm sorry I hate your feelings.
00:42:56I haven't had a genuine apology.
00:42:58And when I try and bring it up,
00:43:00I'm just met with defensiveness.
00:43:01And I feel like right now my feelings
00:43:03have been shut down about it.
00:43:05There's no recognition, no acknowledgement
00:43:07of the other's experience.
00:43:09Oh.
00:43:11And unfortunately, like,
00:43:12this wasn't the first time I've witnessed
00:43:14you shutting me down,
00:43:15but it's the first time that I've spoken up about it.
00:43:19And that me speaking up about it has just caused you to, like,
00:43:23hate me and just be, like, off me.
00:43:25And I just don't understand what I've done wrong.
00:43:29Hate?
00:43:30See, they're in a terrible way, aren't they?
00:43:34OK, let me talk.
00:43:36My turn.
00:43:38Hand on heart, I apologised three times,
00:43:40and I said, I'm so sorry.
00:43:41I did not mean to make you feel that way.
00:43:44I then apologised two more times.
00:43:46He thinks it wasn't genuine.
00:43:47I'm telling you, it was.
00:43:49Why I'm so off Sam is because he's chosen to do it
00:43:52in this forum in front of everybody.
00:43:54He's thrown this at me 10 minutes prior
00:43:56to entering the dinner party
00:43:57on the back end of calling me a gaslighter.
00:43:59Sometimes, yes, I am fiery.
00:44:01Sometimes I do get defensive.
00:44:02But there's got to be some point
00:44:03where I've got to back myself.
00:44:05For him to throw me under the bus...
00:44:07Do you think he's throwing you under the bus, though?
00:44:10I feel like this could have been done in a different way.
00:44:12I would have preferred to do it privately.
00:44:14We tried that.
00:44:16We speak to the experts in front of the whole group every week
00:44:19to help our relationships.
00:44:20I think where Sam was trying to speak to you
00:44:23was in front of the whole group
00:44:24because he felt like he wasn't getting nowhere.
00:44:29So I think he thought if he had the group involved,
00:44:32he could get some opinions
00:44:33and it could help your relationship.
00:44:35Chris, if you give a genuine apology...
00:44:37I get that, Sam.
00:44:38I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings.
00:44:41I did not want to put pressure on you.
00:44:44Why are you laughing?
00:44:53Sam was trying to speak to you in front of the whole group
00:44:56because he felt like he wasn't getting nowhere.
00:44:58So I think he thought if he had the group involved,
00:45:00he could get some opinions
00:45:01and it could help your relationship.
00:45:03Chris, if you give a genuine apology...
00:45:05I get that, Sam.
00:45:06I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings.
00:45:09I did not want to put pressure on you.
00:45:11Why are you laughing?
00:45:14Because I asked you to do this this morning...
00:45:16No, I'm doing it again.
00:45:17I'm doing it right now.
00:45:18This is what you wanted.
00:45:19You want it in front of the group
00:45:20and you won't even let me finish the apology.
00:45:23Watching Sam and Chris,
00:45:26they're both valid in what they're saying.
00:45:27They're both valid in their feelings.
00:45:30They're both hurting.
00:45:34So I was actually very surprised to hear
00:45:36how Chris was talking about things,
00:45:38how Sam was talking about things.
00:45:39To see them behaving in that manner,
00:45:42it's a shame.
00:45:43A week ago, I was like,
00:45:44Sam and Chris are super strong.
00:45:46But now I think the boys are in real trouble.
00:45:51I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings
00:45:53and I put pressure on you.
00:45:54That was not my intention.
00:45:56I'm sorry that I was defensive.
00:45:58I just feel like there's got to be a point
00:46:00where I apologise three times
00:46:01and then again the next morning.
00:46:02That's the first time you apologise
00:46:04for being defensive.
00:46:07They're in real, real dire straits here, Lisa.
00:46:12But what it has done
00:46:14is it's opened up their issues
00:46:16in their relationship
00:46:17that we can actually target
00:46:19at the next commitment ceremony.
00:46:23It just shows how powerful
00:46:25emotional tone is
00:46:27when couples are trying to
00:46:28deal with conflict and repair.
00:46:32It's like a dagger to the heart.
00:46:34I feel like my heart's been stabbed.
00:46:37I've done so much
00:46:39to be in this experiment
00:46:40to find love in a husband
00:46:41and to have this argument
00:46:44over the authenticity
00:46:45of my sorries,
00:46:46which were five,
00:46:48and then be laughed at in the face.
00:46:49It's a f***ing joke.
00:46:52OK, how about...
00:46:54Hey, how about a positive note?
00:46:56That was feedback week for you guys.
00:46:58Yeah, look, feedback week
00:47:00was really good for Stephen and I.
00:47:02Positive.
00:47:02Personally, I feel that way.
00:47:04I hope Stephen feels the same way.
00:47:06But, yeah, it's been good.
00:47:10Alyssa, love the catch-up.
00:47:12We had lots of fun and everything.
00:47:15A bit of advice from Alyssa
00:47:17that I really took on board
00:47:18was to be a little bit more masculine
00:47:19and bring some leadership
00:47:21into the relationship,
00:47:24which I'm definitely going to put
00:47:27my captain's undies on and hat
00:47:29and, you know, lead.
00:47:32Captain undies!
00:47:34And what else did I tell you, babe?
00:47:41Oh, do I have to mention that?
00:47:43No.
00:47:43Well, do you know what?
00:47:44No, because I respect Rachel
00:47:46as my bestie.
00:47:46And we're not going down that road.
00:47:49On that topic,
00:47:51I'm probably going to say this right now
00:47:52in front of everyone,
00:47:54that I feel like me and Rachel's sex life
00:47:57has been in the spotlight
00:47:58for way too bloody long.
00:48:02Now, yeah, we've had our troubles
00:48:04and we're getting closer
00:48:08intimately, right?
00:48:09However, now it's gotten to the point
00:48:12when I get close to Rachel
00:48:13or Rachel wants to get close to me.
00:48:15We've got this thought
00:48:16in the back of our mind now.
00:48:18It's starting to get to the point now,
00:48:19like, are we doing this,
00:48:21you know, because we want to
00:48:24and it's a passionate moment
00:48:25or are we doing this
00:48:26because we're getting told to
00:48:27and there's pressure on it?
00:48:28Because I feel like
00:48:29there's so much pressure on,
00:48:31can you two have sex already?
00:48:33Do you two have sex already?
00:48:34So, on that note,
00:48:36we've heard everyone loud and clear.
00:48:38When the moment comes,
00:48:39you all know.
00:48:41We'll set fireworks off
00:48:42from the balcony, all right?
00:48:46Good on you, Steve-o.
00:48:47This is the first time
00:48:48that I've seen him taking, like,
00:48:49a stance about the relationship,
00:48:51kind of taking the lead.
00:48:53You guys are taking steps forward, hey?
00:48:55Yeah.
00:48:56When it comes to our sex life,
00:49:00they can say what they bloody want.
00:49:03I'm not here for the drama.
00:49:05Not here for anything else
00:49:07besides Rachel, so.
00:49:09And on the last night
00:49:11of our feedback week,
00:49:12we had nachos
00:49:13and watched a fishing video
00:49:15on YouTube.
00:49:16Oh, my God, I love you!
00:49:23Can I, can I ask you?
00:49:26Obviously, we was meant
00:49:27to have a meeting
00:49:27or whatever you want to call it,
00:49:28but what was the reason
00:49:31just out of interest?
00:49:32Why did you not show up?
00:49:36Because we had a really
00:49:37tough week in our relationship,
00:49:39to be honest,
00:49:40and I was packing my bags
00:49:41trying to leave up.
00:49:42She tried to leave
00:49:42and it's the whole week,
00:49:44so it's a snowball,
00:49:44not just you,
00:49:45it's everything.
00:49:45It was really hard.
00:49:46Like, it was just really hard.
00:49:47She felt like everything's
00:49:47been coming at her,
00:49:48so she wanted to leave
00:49:48and she tried to leave
00:49:49and I didn't let her up.
00:49:50He was like,
00:49:51no, you can't.
00:49:53Hmm.
00:49:56In my mindset,
00:49:56it was to go into it
00:49:57and really talk positive.
00:50:00I actually don't have
00:50:01no negative feedback
00:50:01between yours
00:50:02and Scott's relationship.
00:50:03I think Scott's been
00:50:04really honourable,
00:50:05how he's, like,
00:50:05took your daughter on board
00:50:06and stuff like that.
00:50:07I think you guys
00:50:08have got a good relationship,
00:50:08you back each other.
00:50:11I've only got blokes
00:50:12in my life, really.
00:50:14Yeah.
00:50:14Like, my mum
00:50:15and everyone's back home,
00:50:16so, like,
00:50:17it would have been nice
00:50:17to get some advice
00:50:18from a woman
00:50:19in the experiment
00:50:19for, like, a third party.
00:50:22Danny is a liar.
00:50:23He's full of shit.
00:50:25It would have been
00:50:26probably a screaming match.
00:50:27We would have been arguing.
00:50:27Do I need to be doing
00:50:28that right now?
00:50:29No.
00:50:30Like, it was just a bad week
00:50:31and I think I couldn't
00:50:32personally take any more
00:50:33at that point
00:50:34because I was like,
00:50:35like, I'm damned if I do,
00:50:36damned if I don't.
00:50:37If I go and me and Danny argue,
00:50:38I'm going to look terrible.
00:50:44Maybe just next time,
00:50:45like, try and look at him
00:50:46more positively
00:50:47because I wouldn't have
00:50:47come at you
00:50:48with no disrespect.
00:50:49No, and honestly,
00:50:49it wasn't that it was like,
00:50:50oh, my God, it's Danny.
00:50:51F*** that.
00:50:52It was like,
00:50:53we had a really tough week
00:50:55in our relationship,
00:50:55to be honest.
00:50:57She didn't turn up
00:50:58to speak to Danny
00:50:59because she knows
00:50:59she lied about Danny
00:51:01when you said
00:51:02that my husband
00:51:02wants to be with you.
00:51:04I think Gia cares about Gia
00:51:07and taking people out.
00:51:08You're the one
00:51:09sending screenshots
00:51:10to people
00:51:10and throwing people
00:51:12under the bus
00:51:12and being vicious
00:51:13and manipulative.
00:51:14So we had
00:51:15the commitment ceremony.
00:51:17Juliet was yelling.
00:51:18I don't know if you guys...
00:51:19Yeah, we had.
00:51:19We had.
00:51:21I'm so over her
00:51:22and her fake two-facedness.
00:51:28What was the reason
00:51:30for sending the messages
00:51:32to Juliet?
00:51:33Because you don't know Juliet.
00:51:35You don't trust Juliet.
00:51:37But you've sent messages
00:51:38to her about Alyssa and David.
00:51:41But was the point
00:51:43to take me down?
00:51:44Like, is that the point?
00:51:45Was that the point?
00:51:50Well, you tried
00:51:51to take me down
00:51:51so I gave it back to you.
00:51:54Oh, God.
00:52:01Your eyes are as green
00:52:03as the grass.
00:52:05Date with Berlin today.
00:52:06Fingers crossed.
00:52:07It goes on.
00:52:12I have a tattoo
00:52:12of Batman on my foot.
00:52:19He's very symbolic to me.
00:52:20My hero growing up
00:52:21as a kid.
00:52:22I'm going to maybe
00:52:22have to have a look
00:52:23at the Batmobile
00:52:24over there.
00:52:25I'm going to have to see
00:52:25if I can take some adjustments.
00:52:27Wait, wait, wait.
00:52:28What did you call your bike?
00:52:29The Batmobile.
00:52:29No, no, no.
00:52:30Mine's the Batmobile.
00:52:31No, no way.
00:52:32There can only be one.
00:52:33I'm the real Batman.
00:52:34No, no, no.
00:52:35I'm the real Batman.
00:52:36No, my friends,
00:52:36they call me Batman
00:52:37like my entire life
00:52:38like I am Batman.
00:52:39There's no way
00:52:40you have a better claim
00:52:40than me.
00:52:42My family's last name
00:52:44was Batman
00:52:44before it changed
00:52:45to my current name
00:52:46so I'm the real Batman.
00:52:48I just want to make that clear.
00:52:49Okay, fine.
00:52:49Okay.
00:52:50Look, maybe I've lost
00:52:51twice in one morning today.
00:52:53Maybe next time
00:52:54I'll rock up to the date
00:52:55in like a full mask
00:52:56and cape and suit.
00:52:57Got to outdo her somehow.
00:52:58Yeah, you've hit
00:52:59the jackpot already so...
00:53:00But they're like
00:53:00two weeks of moving here.
00:53:01Yeah.
00:53:02Meets Batman.
00:53:03Meets Batman.
00:53:04Sorted.
00:53:05There's a classic line
00:53:05in Batman where it's like
00:53:06you either die a hero
00:53:07or you live long enough
00:53:08to see yourself
00:53:08become the villain.
00:53:09And I once broke up
00:53:10with an ex-girlfriend
00:53:11using that line so...
00:53:13That poor ex-girlfriend.
00:53:15What'd she do?
00:53:16Just stare at you?
00:53:17Yeah.
00:53:17And then I just sort of
00:53:18bowed out.
00:53:19Disappeared into the night.
00:53:20Gone.
00:53:21Turn on the Batman music
00:53:22on your bike right now.
00:53:24Oh my gosh.
00:53:25So if you beat me again
00:53:26in the race,
00:53:26that's it.
00:53:27That line's coming out.
00:53:32Henry's dating stories
00:53:33definitely make me laugh.
00:53:34I'm like,
00:53:34how does it even occur?
00:53:36I don't know if
00:53:37in the moment I'd be laughing.
00:53:38I think I'd be feeling like
00:53:40I'm really confused.
00:53:41I feel like this is just
00:53:42the start of his stories.
00:53:43I wonder if they're the weirdest
00:53:45or if we've got weirder to come.
00:53:48On Sunday,
00:53:48I was getting some salsa lessons
00:53:50from this old Spanish lady.
00:53:52So maybe we should practice.
00:53:54Right now?
00:53:54Yeah.
00:53:54What do you think?
00:53:56Okay.
00:54:01So it's all in the feet, yeah?
00:54:03So I have to go left first,
00:54:05yeah, then,
00:54:05then back to the middle.
00:54:06Do we know where I go?
00:54:07No, this is great.
00:54:08Just follow that.
00:54:09It's like back, forth, back,
00:54:09and then we can go sideways.
00:54:11So back,
00:54:12forward,
00:54:12oh yeah, the dog's...
00:54:14I want to kick the dog.
00:54:14Okay, ready?
00:54:16And right.
00:54:17Yeah, left.
00:54:18Right, and then we're going
00:54:19to go in two ones time.
00:54:20Right, right, ready?
00:54:20And now back.
00:54:22Oh, yes.
00:54:23And now to the right.
00:54:25Oh, and now to the left.
00:54:26Wait, like there's her
00:54:26from her bike ride.
00:54:27This way.
00:54:27Oh, we got it.
00:54:30No.
00:54:32Okay, that was pretty good.
00:54:33That was pretty good.
00:54:34Okay.
00:54:34Thank you to the lady
00:54:36for the dance lessons.
00:54:37If only she'd given me
00:54:38a few trainings
00:54:39on how to pucker up.
00:54:40Yeah, this one,
00:54:41give it like the...
00:54:45There is a massive chance
00:54:47a good old friend Henry
00:54:49could crash and burn.
00:54:50But I think the right girl
00:54:52will probably have
00:54:53a little bit of crazy in her.
00:54:54So maybe,
00:54:56maybe there's a girl
00:54:58out there for Henry.
00:55:02Your schedule
00:55:03is very jam-packed.
00:55:05Speaking of jam.
00:55:08Yeah, just,
00:55:09I said to you,
00:55:10like, I would love
00:55:10to go to the jam record bar.
00:55:12Yeah, you know.
00:55:13Get the vinyls out
00:55:14and then they play it
00:55:15right in front of you.
00:55:16Would you like to go?
00:55:20How are you looking tonight?
00:55:24You're only one second day tonight.
00:55:34What was the reason
00:55:36for sending
00:55:36the messages
00:55:38to Juliet?
00:55:39Because
00:55:39you don't know Juliet.
00:55:41You don't trust Juliet.
00:55:43But you've sent messages
00:55:44to her
00:55:45about Alyssa and David.
00:55:47But was the point
00:55:49to take me down?
00:55:50Like, is that the point?
00:55:51Was that the point?
00:55:56Well, you tried
00:55:57to take me down.
00:55:57So I gave it back to you.
00:56:00Oh, God.
00:56:03I'm still feeding
00:56:04that dynamic
00:56:06that we've been
00:56:07trying to call out
00:56:08for weeks now.
00:56:09How?
00:56:10How?
00:56:11How did I try
00:56:12and take that?
00:56:14Stop using me!
00:56:16Stop using me as a porn!
00:56:19I don't know
00:56:20what the f***
00:56:20is going on here,
00:56:21but I'm not playing
00:56:22a game anymore.
00:56:25Jerem beg?
00:56:25They can just
00:56:27hate each other forever.
00:56:28Ultimately,
00:56:28my main focus
00:56:29is David.
00:56:30I want to give
00:56:30my husband
00:56:31my everything
00:56:31and I don't want
00:56:32to get caught up
00:56:33in the ah-yah anymore.
00:56:36Once again,
00:56:37Alyssa
00:56:38is the collateral
00:56:39damage in
00:56:40other people's fights.
00:56:42And it's so
00:56:43unfortunate
00:56:44because it really
00:56:45is generating
00:56:46distress in other couples.
00:56:48I don't want
00:56:49to engage anymore.
00:56:49I'm actually done
00:56:50with this conversation.
00:56:51I can't do any more drama.
00:56:53I can't do any more drama,
00:56:54Bec.
00:56:55It's going to go
00:56:55around and around
00:56:56and I'm not doing it.
00:56:57Thank you so much.
00:57:05I just needed
00:57:06to know
00:57:06whether or not
00:57:08the whole point
00:57:08was to take me down.
00:57:10That's all I wanted
00:57:10to know.
00:57:11Yes, it was
00:57:11because you girls
00:57:13ultimately
00:57:13throw each other
00:57:15under the bus
00:57:15every f***ing time
00:57:17and you use them.
00:57:18Do you know what?
00:57:18Do you know
00:57:19that's even worse?
00:57:20What's worse
00:57:20is your collateral
00:57:21damage for a war.
00:57:26Which is f***ing
00:57:26that needs to stop.
00:57:28That needs to stop.
00:57:29Well, who?
00:57:30directed that way.
00:57:33More drama.
00:57:36I don't know
00:57:37how to feel about it.
00:57:38My feelings
00:57:39are strong for Bec.
00:57:40I care about Bec a lot.
00:57:42But sometimes
00:57:42I feel that
00:57:43I'm more focused
00:57:44with drama
00:57:45than it is
00:57:45on our relationship.
00:57:48I just wanted
00:57:48to know
00:57:49if the whole point
00:57:49was to throw me
00:57:51under the bus
00:57:51and you guys
00:57:51are collateral.
00:57:52I just had to
00:57:52ask a question.
00:57:53That was it.
00:57:54That's all I needed to know.
00:58:01I feel like Bec and Dura
00:58:02are out for like
00:58:03top dog spot
00:58:03and I'm sorry
00:58:04there is no top dog here.
00:58:06Let's remember
00:58:07why we're here.
00:58:08To meet a match.
00:58:10To have the opportunity
00:58:11to find love.
00:58:12So if you're more busy
00:58:13about like
00:58:14sending shitty messages
00:58:15about people
00:58:17sending out screenshots
00:58:18and like
00:58:19oh you said this
00:58:20and you said this
00:58:21then why are you
00:58:36here?
00:58:36Why are you here?
00:58:37My very champion here.
00:58:38Yeah.
00:58:38Are we okay?
00:58:39What's got on?
00:58:40Is this all...
00:58:41Yeah.
00:58:42Are you sure?
00:58:43I'm sick of the drama
00:58:44I came here to focus
00:58:46on a relationship
00:58:47and stuff.
00:58:48At a dinner party
00:58:49there's drama.
00:58:51Yeah obviously
00:58:51a bit ashamed of Bec
00:58:53to be honest
00:58:54I'm not going to lie
00:58:54I'm not going to candy
00:58:55coat it.
00:58:57Um, frustrated
00:58:58because I know
00:58:59that's not how Bec is
00:59:00as a person.
00:59:01How would you feel
00:59:02in the same situation
00:59:04if every week
00:59:05every single week
00:59:06you were coming
00:59:07to a dinner party
00:59:08and there was something else?
00:59:09I don't care
00:59:10how long ago it was
00:59:11or what the circumstances
00:59:12is.
00:59:13I don't really care
00:59:13what would you expect.
00:59:14How would you feel
00:59:15in the same situation?
00:59:17Please answer the question.
00:59:18Yeah of course
00:59:18it would be frustrating.
00:59:19Okay and that's all
00:59:20I'm fine.
00:59:21We're in an experiment babe
00:59:22with vicious vicious vipers
00:59:24around.
00:59:25Do you think
00:59:26that this is what life is
00:59:27outside of this experiment?
00:59:29I didn't come here
00:59:30for drama
00:59:30I came here for love.
00:59:33I want us to talk
00:59:34about how can I
00:59:34how can I become
00:59:35a better partner
00:59:36and a better husband.
00:59:37I feel like sometimes
00:59:38all I do is talk
00:59:39about drama.
00:59:40I'm just saying
00:59:41from my point of view
00:59:42I need help
00:59:44as a man
00:59:44with our relationship.
00:59:45I struggle
00:59:46with a lot of these things.
00:59:47You know that
00:59:48that's why I came
00:59:48on this experiment
00:59:49because I've failed
00:59:50in the real world.
00:59:51I'd rather be
00:59:52that he's in a place
00:59:53towards positive things
00:59:54and not drama.
00:59:55That's how I'd wear
00:59:55on from the front.
00:59:58Oh no.
01:00:00This is a troubling sign
01:00:02isn't it
01:00:02that Danny
01:00:03has started
01:00:04to second guess
01:00:05his commitment
01:00:07to Beck
01:00:09and
01:00:09these text messages
01:00:11while he knew
01:00:12they were out there
01:00:12they've come up again
01:00:13and he's really
01:00:14now
01:00:15retreating.
01:00:16Yep.
01:00:18I don't know
01:00:19why you're getting
01:00:19upset.
01:00:20You're just saying
01:00:20my peers.
01:00:21Boss will ride
01:00:22or die
01:00:22and you're
01:00:23I am ride
01:00:23or die
01:00:24I am.
01:00:24You're throwing me
01:00:25under the bar.
01:00:25I'm not throwing you
01:00:26under the bus.
01:00:27I'm not throwing you
01:00:28under the bus.
01:00:28I'm ride or die.
01:00:29You swat out of the retreat.
01:00:30You swat out of the retreat.
01:00:33Beck and Danny's
01:00:33relationship
01:00:34has been so much stronger
01:00:36the past few weeks
01:00:36so to see this now
01:00:38at this point
01:00:39in the process
01:00:40is very discouraging.
01:00:42Because I want us
01:00:43to have a really good
01:00:44relationship.
01:00:44We have a really good
01:00:45We do.
01:00:46Daniel, do not sit here.
01:00:47Do not sit here.
01:00:48I didn't say we did.
01:00:49Just relax.
01:00:50Do not sit here.
01:00:51Don't be sassy with me.
01:00:52Don't sit here
01:00:53and say
01:00:53I want us to have
01:00:55a good relationship
01:00:56but we don't
01:00:57because of drama
01:00:58at dinner parties.
01:00:59Did I say we don't?
01:01:00No, I just want you
01:01:01to be wary about
01:01:01what you say.
01:01:02Did I say we don't?
01:01:03No.
01:01:04I said I want us
01:01:05to have a good relationship.
01:01:06I just want you to be wary
01:01:06about what you say.
01:01:08I'm very wary
01:01:08I want you to be wary
01:01:10about what you text people.
01:01:12Sure, two months ago, Daniel.
01:01:14Two months ago.
01:01:15It was ten years ago.
01:01:18I'm done.
01:01:19I've got to go.
01:01:21Has no one ever
01:01:22f***ed up before?
01:01:23We've been talking
01:01:24about this for nearly
01:01:25two months.
01:01:26I can't.
01:01:35We are about to reveal
01:01:36the most unseen footage ever
01:01:38and it's going to blow
01:01:39the experiment wide open.
01:01:41Plus, Alyssa, David, Joel, Sam, Scott
01:01:44and Stella are all joining us
01:01:45right here on the couch.
01:01:47It is the biggest,
01:01:48most jam-packed, wild
01:01:50after-the-dinner party
01:01:51this year.
01:01:52See you soon.
01:01:53Only on Stan.
01:02:02Don't sit here and say
01:02:03I want us to have
01:02:04a good relationship
01:02:06but we don't
01:02:07because of drama
01:02:08at dinner parties.
01:02:09Did I say we don't?
01:02:09I want us out of the relationship.
01:02:11I want you to be wary
01:02:12about what you say.
01:02:13I'm very wary.
01:02:14I want you to be wary
01:02:15about what you text people.
01:02:17Sure, two months ago, Daniel.
01:02:19Two months ago.
01:02:20ten years ago.
01:02:25I'm done.
01:02:26I've got to go.
01:02:39I'm not going back in.
01:02:42I'm done.
01:02:44I want out now.
01:02:45I'm done.
01:02:50I'm done.
01:02:51He can f*** off.
01:02:52I'm not going back
01:02:53into that dinner party.
01:02:54I want some joint down here.
01:02:56Let's go to the couch for a sec.
01:03:00I want out.
01:03:01Take me downstairs.
01:03:03I want out.
01:03:03Get me out of here.
01:03:05f*** you me.
01:03:08How are you feeling?
01:03:11I feel like I'm wasting my time
01:03:14at a dinner party
01:03:15talking about abusive text messages
01:03:18that are sent.
01:03:18I came here to work
01:03:20on my relationship
01:03:21and to try and be
01:03:22a good husband and stuff.
01:03:24And it's like
01:03:24I can't voice my opinion
01:03:25because then she says
01:03:26I'm throwing her under the bus.
01:03:29He says,
01:03:30oh, we're ride or die.
01:03:31We're ride or die.
01:03:32We're not.
01:03:32We're not ride or die.
01:03:35We're not ride or die.
01:03:37This is not okay.
01:03:40Every single week
01:03:42I come to these dinner parties.
01:03:43Every single week.
01:03:45And it's,
01:03:46this has happened.
01:03:47This has happened.
01:03:47Do you have said this to you?
01:03:48It's like
01:03:49I don't care no more.
01:03:51I'm here for a wife
01:03:53and a relationship.
01:03:54I'm not here for drama.
01:03:56Do not,
01:03:58do not
01:03:59sit there in front of everyone
01:04:00and not show solidarity to me
01:04:02because I've had to
01:04:03apologise to someone.
01:04:08Pretend.
01:04:10Just pretend
01:04:11for the sake of me.
01:04:14F*** pretend
01:04:15for two minutes.
01:04:18Sunday night.
01:04:21It's the second last commitment ceremony.
01:04:24You ask the question of like,
01:04:25all right,
01:04:25if we go outside the experiment,
01:04:27how quick would you expect
01:04:28like a proposal?
01:04:29I say the sooner the better.
01:04:31Wow.
01:04:31And some
01:04:32are already locking in plans
01:04:34for married life
01:04:35outside of the experiment.
01:04:37My man is leaving
01:04:38and he is actually starting
01:04:39to show me
01:04:40what my life here in Sydney
01:04:42could look like.
01:04:43And then...
01:04:44So last week you said
01:04:45that the noise
01:04:46from the group
01:04:47and around Gia
01:04:48doesn't affect your relationship.
01:04:51Do you still believe that?
01:04:53Will Scott speak up
01:04:55and confess how he feels
01:04:56in front of Gia?
01:04:57I will admit like...
01:05:03The question,
01:05:04what was it like?
01:05:05It was a bit...
01:05:05Could you see yourself
01:05:06falling in love with me?
01:05:07Why is Danny
01:05:09dodging the question?
01:05:13Um...
01:05:15Well...
01:05:16I don't know.
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