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00:00Previously on 90 Day Jemsae goes away.
00:03I unpacked an entire bag.
00:05Not this one.
00:06So proud of you.
00:07It feels good to be back in Aruba.
00:11No, I don't like the noise.
00:13Oh, I'm afraid.
00:15Please help me.
00:16If you start it once, I'll restart it.
00:19She's always had everything done for her.
00:21But now we're living together, and I can't have her have
00:24this vacation mode all the time.
00:26Oh!
00:27Yay.
00:29Hazel, it's time.
00:31Yay.
00:32Saying goodbye to Hazel feels like my heart is
00:37being ripped from my chest.
00:39Bye, Hazel.
00:40But I can't wait to see Matthew again and feel that spark
00:45with the person that I love.
00:51This is sarcastic.
00:53Working here is not possible at all, no?
00:55It's small.
00:56For years, I've been the black shape of the family.
00:59It feels like I disappointed them again.
01:06I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in with Minot's parents.
01:10Oh, my God.
01:11Super cheap.
01:12There's no intimacy.
01:14There's no privacy.
01:15And honestly, staying at the house is just surreal.
01:19It's surreal.
01:20Yeah, it's surreal.
01:22Oh, my God.
01:24So many problems with the wedding, she told me if we don't give the money in two days,
01:28we're gonna have to cancel the marriage.
01:29Well, how much is?
01:36I sent over $4 million.
01:39You didn't receive the money in December?
01:41No.
01:44We can look at the bank account.
01:46Yeah, we can't.
01:47Sure, I already have.
01:48Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:50So don't get married, that's simple.
02:05I think we're going to be responsible.
02:22Greta is arriving in the UK.
02:26Hey, Apple, your mummy's coming home.
02:29Do you know that?
02:30Yes, she is.
02:32I feel like I have a butterfly sanctuary in my tummy right now.
02:37It's been six months since we've seen each other.
02:41That is the longest we've been apart, and it hasn't been easy.
02:47It's definitely a bit of a scramble to get things ready.
02:51But I want everything to be perfect for her.
02:56I'd better make some room for her here.
02:59Greta is sacrificing everything she has to be here.
03:04Her friends, her career, her cat, to be with me.
03:13It's a lot of pressure.
03:24I just arrived in England.
03:26I'm really excited to see Matthew.
03:29I haven't seen him in six months.
03:30I'm on the train, and the next step is to reunite with my love, Matthew.
03:39I've been to England five times, but this time feels really different because I'm starting
03:44a whole new life.
03:45I'm an American woman on the way to my English fiancée who lives in the countryside.
03:52I feel like I'm living out of a romance novel right now.
03:56It makes me very excited.
04:21I'm a little bit nervous.
04:23I have no idea what to do with my hands.
04:25No idea what to do with my feet.
04:30There's a lot riding on this for me.
04:32I just want to make sure I get it right.
05:01This has been two years in the making, and it's an incredible project.
05:04It's an incredible feeling to finally start my life with a person who I love.
05:10But I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
05:17I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
05:54I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
06:14I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
06:14It was a long journey for you because you stink.
06:18Yeah.
06:19I had to carry some very heavy suitcases, so I got very sweaty and I smell really bad
06:25right now.
06:39I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
06:52I am going to be in this moment.
06:53I am going to be in this moment.
06:53I am going to be in this moment.
06:57I am just waiting for those jigsaw pieces to come back together over the next few days.
07:03It's good to see you again.
07:06There is no return flight booked this time.
07:10That's the first time we've done that.
07:11And now it feels like this is where everything else begins.
07:16This is the crossroad of everything in the future.
07:20Yeah.
07:21It feels very special to me.
07:27Let's go home.
07:29Yeah.
07:30Let's go.
07:31Damn, you are really bad beyond.
07:33I know.
07:34Oh, wow.
07:35Thank God I got that loop for you.
08:03Colors not good.
08:04I'm not Indian.
08:06What do they think?
08:07Progress is good at the cafe and things are moving along.
08:12And today we're having a Hindu ceremony called a puja.
08:17It's for blessings for our new house.
08:20Oh, beautiful.
08:26Indian lady.
08:28Indian lady.
08:30My family is very religious.
08:32They believe that a prayer is required because we all are moving in with a good intention.
08:38So that's why they choose to do a housewarming ceremony.
08:48I hope it doesn't break the floor.
08:52No, don't worry.
08:54Coconut is a high hanging fruit.
08:56And it gets the water by itself.
08:58We consider it as pure.
09:00And the cracking the coconut, like, it's like blessing the house.
09:05It's like as many you do, more blessings to the house.
09:09Okay, hold it.
09:10Hold it.
09:11Hold it.
09:12Hold it.
09:13Hold it.
09:13Oh, my God.
09:14Be careful with them.
09:18And both right hands.
09:20Right leg.
09:22Look.
09:23Inside.
09:23Hold it.
09:24Come.
09:25Yes, mate.
09:26Come over.
09:27It's coming.
09:31Carrying the thing on my head is supposed to be like I'm carrying in everything in the house
09:37with me like I'm going to take control of everything.
09:40It's a balanced thing.
09:42If you want, you can get it in your hand then.
09:44Yeah.
09:45Actually.
09:47Okay.
09:48It's not easy.
09:49If you're not used to carrying something on your head.
09:52Okay.
09:53Yeah, come.
09:59I find these ceremonies to be very beautiful.
10:03The prayer that they're saying a mantra.
10:06Yeah.
10:11I'm so fascinated by it.
10:14How do they remember all these prayers and what to say?
10:18And everybody all says it together.
10:33It's been a surprise for me that Jenny and I are leading the ceremony.
10:38This is amazing.
10:39This is a very good day.
10:41And now all my extended family members are showing up.
10:45And it's this really happy moment.
10:55I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.
10:59Most of them are going through the complexity of the culture.
11:04And that's what makes them like to resist against our relationship.
11:08Jenny, my sister-in-law.
11:12Nice.
11:12This is luxury to you.
11:14She's the sister-in-law.
11:16My sister.
11:17This is my sister.
11:19This is my sister.
11:20Touch of P?
11:20No, no, no, no, no, no.
11:22This one, this one.
11:22No, no, no, no, no, no.
11:24This one.
11:24This one.
11:25How about you?
11:27Since my extended family members choose to come here for the puja,
11:30it's a really good sign that they start accepting our relationship.
11:34I think that they need to get to know me and be happy for us and get over it.
11:42Make small flowers and small, small flowers.
11:47I'm making the middle dots.
11:49You're making the middle dot?
11:51Yes.
11:51Shree is teaching me how to draw vangoli on the floor, which is usually a flower, some sort of design.
12:00And it's used to welcome the guests and keep negative energy out of the house.
12:11How's my flower coming out?
12:15You like it?
12:16Let's see.
12:17Who makes better?
12:19A little bit more here.
12:21What did you make?
12:22You made rangoli not?
12:25Sumit Jenny.
12:26Jenny, what are you doing?
12:28Make a flower.
12:29Make a flower.
12:30Flower.
12:30I made flower.
12:31Here.
12:32This one.
12:33I made the flower.
12:34Very pretty.
12:37Very nice.
12:38Are you doing this?
12:39Yes.
12:40No.
12:41Did you make good?
12:42Did you make good?
12:43No.
12:45He's saying Jenny didn't make it good.
12:48Why are you having a problem?
13:09Someone doesn't like my artwork, so I'm just gonna watch.
13:13Shall I complete this?
13:15Very good.
13:17Very nice.
13:27Why are you bothering?
13:30We're enjoying when you're bothering.
13:33Can I get my name?
13:36Can you make one?
13:37No, no, no, no, no, no!
13:37No, no.
13:38Why are you taking my money?
13:41No, no, no!
13:41Why are you taking my money?
13:43No, no, no?
13:43What's she do?
13:45I know the cattle.
13:47Oh, hey, I...
14:12I trust Lisa's opinion so much.
14:15He ****** up.
14:44So we've been in Kint Marseille for a few days.
14:47It's a very tiny house, especially with a little 19-month-old baby boy.
14:54We're going to walk Benjamin.
14:56So we plan a little fun getaway to start fresh with my parents.
15:02Just get out of the house and we are going to go play some pétanque.
15:36Ah, bonjour, bonjour.
15:36Very funny.
15:37And you've got to actually throw the balls really close to the smallest one.
15:41And you want to actually knock down the balls that are close so yours can stay closer.
15:47And you steal the points, kinda.
15:49I haven't played for a long time.
15:55It's not bad.
15:58OK.
15:59Hi.
16:00Anthony.
16:00I'm Marseillaise.
16:01I'm in the blood.
16:09Because you push my ball.
16:13OK.
16:14I'm too big.
16:15I'm too big.
16:16You're too strong.
16:17I'm too big.
16:19I'm too big.
16:22I'm too big.
16:23I'm too big.
16:23Pétanque, it used to be a tradition as a family when I was young.
16:27During summer times, my parents didn't have a lot of money for fancy expensive vacations.
16:32So they used to rent a town house in a very, very small asshole of France type of city
16:41where every day, it's just apéritif, lunch, pétanque, and nappe.
16:48And you start again in the morning.
16:50Ben!
16:52Ben, you have to play!
16:54OK.
16:57Here.
16:58Ah, Mano.
17:00I have to tell you, I was really surprised when you told me that you wanted to come back.
17:05To tell you the truth, I didn't see my eyes.
17:08I saw my ears.
17:10Toi qui, tout le temps, je reste là-bas, je reste là-bas, la France ou la France, voilà.
17:14Parce qu'ici, j'étais malheureuse, misérable.
17:17Je me sentais comme un ovni ici.
17:22Je me suis toujours sentie pas acceptée avec la société, les amis, tout ça.
17:27Mais dans la famille aussi.
17:31Mano, moi, ma fille, elle ne mange pas, mais pourtant elle est grosse.
17:34Il y a beaucoup de body shaming.
17:36OK, je le sais que je suis différente des autres.
17:38On a tout le temps cru faire de notre vie.
17:41Après, je dis pas qu'on a fait tout parfaitement et ça, c'est loin de ça.
18:04C'est compliqué.
18:06C'est compliqué.
18:07Enfin, on le fait pas méchamment, c'est inconsciemment.
18:10Mais je le sais.
18:11On aime nos enfants puisque tout le monde aime.
18:12Bien sûr.
18:13Vous m'avez toujours aimée.
18:15Je le sais, ça se voit et tout.
18:17Mais je peux pas dénier qu'il y a certains choix que vous avez pris et qui m'ont construit
18:22et
18:22fait devenir celle que je suis aujourd'hui, qui était une fille pas confiance, qui pensait
18:27qu'il était un problème, qui pensait qu'il était une erreur de la nature.
18:33Maman, au plus tu apprends, au plus tu grandis, au plus tu changes et tu vois ce que c'est
18:38d'avoir
18:38un enfant.
18:39En plus, je te dis, ils ont fait ce qu'ils ont pu.
18:43Et franchement, au final, je suis contente.
18:44Je prends que le positif.
18:46L'important, c'est que tu sois heureuse.
18:49Et que tu sois bien où tu as envie d'être.
18:53Qui choisit ta vie, c'est pas les autres.
18:56Et nous, on est toujours là pour toi, de toute façon.
18:58Ah bah oui, on est là, de toute façon.
18:59Oui, je sais.
19:00Merci, je le sais.
19:01T'as tu joues.
19:02I was in such a dark place.
19:06But I'm like this is my past life.
19:09So I just want them to be aware all the ways of thinking,
19:11need to evolve.
19:13Because I'm committed to make it work here in France.
19:16So I hope to see that, making a change.
19:19But we'll see.
19:26Mon amour!
19:27Mon amour!
19:28Mon amour!
19:29Mon amour!
19:29Mon amour!
19:30Mon amour!
19:31Mon amour!
19:31Mon amour!
19:31Mon amour!
19:32Mon amour!
19:33Mon amour!
19:36Mon amour!
19:37Mon amour!
19:38Mon amour!
19:39Mon amour!
19:41Mon amour!
19:41Mon amour!
19:42Mon amour!
19:42Mon amour!
19:43Mon amour!
19:45Mon amour!
19:47Mon amour!
19:48Mon amour!
19:48Mon amour!
19:49Mon amour!
19:49Mon amour!
19:52Mon amour!
19:53Mon amour!
19:58Please finish with her.
20:00I don't want all the people to see me fighting.
20:02OK, amor.
20:05It's so, so embarrassing.
20:08Lisana is my pageant coach.
20:11I work with Lisana.
20:12I cannot believe he's making me look like that.
20:16He say I talk the money when I don't talk anything.
20:19It's like he up.
20:23You're going to have the biggest problems
20:25you're going to have later.
20:27Let's just maybe get back to it.
20:30Yo tengo 12 millones de pesos por esta boda.
20:35¿Es funcionado o no?
20:38Es que no.
20:41La decisión es o quitamos algo de lo que está
20:45o se cancela la boda.
20:49No es normal que una pareja que está a punto de casarse
20:54peleando enfrente mío.
20:55O sea, esta situación es bochornosa.
20:57Límpiate, por favor, acá.
20:59Gracias.
21:01Siento que en este momento deberían estar más unidos.
21:04Las diferencias y la reacción tan fuerte de Madde en ocasiones,
21:08pues, me genera un poco de inseguridad en cuanto a la boda.
21:11Y de pronto dudas que se generan de que será que sí hay matrimonio.
21:20Venga, yo miro la lista y le marco.
21:23Listo, los tachamos.
21:24Los bailarines.
21:27Los bailarines.
21:52Pues, a ver qué podemos hacer.
21:53Pero también es que piensen si es que se quieren casar porque pues espero que realmente más
22:01que el dinero los una el amor.
22:02which is the most important thing.
22:12Bye, beautiful.
22:13Bye.
22:16I trust Lisa's opinion so much.
22:20And she is wondering if I should get married.
22:24And this stick with me.
22:26Bye.
22:30I am so sick and tired about always I need to forgive him.
22:36And he continued to do and and and .
22:41My question is for how long he think I'm going to forgive him?
22:51Who tell you you're going to sleep in with me?
22:53If you don't want me sleeping here,
22:55I can go sleep elsewhere.
22:57Whatever you want, Madelaine.
22:59Do you think I want to sleep in with someone
23:01and tell me I'm still there?
23:02I don't know what you want, Madelaine.
23:04I've had a really long day and I'm exhausted.
23:07So I apologize for being rude.
23:11I apologize for making you look bad.
23:13I am very sorry.
23:14That is not my intention.
23:17I don't want to fight,
23:18but I've given up my life in the United States
23:21and all of my financial security.
23:24She doesn't understand the gravity of the situation.
23:28It's very troubling.
23:30Can we go to bed together on my first night here moving here?
23:33Or would you like me to go to the other room?
23:38Whatever.
23:41You have to understand, I work in hospitality, Chloe.
23:44I have to be nice to people.
23:45You can climb the rope, just don't move on your back.
23:48I can't promise you that.
23:50His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls.
23:55And it's like if I worked at like a strip club.
24:05That's going to be a beautiful sunset today.
24:07I know.
24:08It's going to be gorgeous.
24:09Just like you.
24:11Don't start.
24:21Hello, good evening.
24:27Now that I'm living in Aruba and I'm finally back with Jonathan,
24:30it is a relief to put everything from long distance behind us.
24:35I really want to become a less jealous partner,
24:39but his job makes that much more challenging
24:43considering his job is like a strip club located on the ocean.
24:49Oh, electronic mode.
24:51Jonathan has a lot of big dreams and he told me that he wanted to go into business together.
24:55I'm hoping part of him truly is considering it because I just,
25:01I don't think I could see the trust coming back truly at his job.
25:05I really don't.
25:07It's actually so pretty.
25:08Mm-hmm.
25:10That's like picture perfect.
25:11There it is.
25:15Enjoy, okay?
25:16You're welcome.
25:16Anyway, you mentioned that you want to open like a business type situation.
25:27Yeah.
25:28Does that mean you're going to lean towards leaving?
25:32Yeah, of course.
25:33I don't want to work for somebody, Chloe.
25:36I mean, like what kind of business are you thinking?
25:39Basically if I'm thinking I'm starting a business where I could be in the water.
25:45And that's something I, I, I can't explain that feeling, you know?
25:49I would always want to work on the water.
25:51You understand?
25:52Yeah.
25:53I mean, but it's up in the air, but.
25:55Yeah, I know it's up in the air, but I mean.
25:57No, I think that.
25:58We're going to, we are going to have to help each other in this.
26:01Help you how though?
26:04Help me create the business.
26:06We can come with a business plan now, and then maybe hopefully, luckily enough, we can
26:10find an investor that's willing to put money into it.
26:12Once I finally manage to get through that, then I will leave Jolly Pirates.
26:16But that's the whole idea.
26:19I think I want to believe him that he wants to open a business together, but I do feel like
26:24part of him telling me all these things is because he just wants to take my focus off of
26:29him quitting his job.
26:31So you think within the year?
26:33Within the year, I will start making bigger moves.
26:37I'll work really hard for like a year, maybe two.
26:41So you think you'll be there for two more years?
26:43Maybe two.
26:46But what if you find a job that I like sooner than
26:53two years or one?
26:56I mean.
26:57Because there's plenty of other jobs.
27:00I've asked Jonathan to quit multiple times.
27:05His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls in literal dental
27:13floss bikinis and then put these drunk dental floss girls on his back as they like cling
27:22on to him for dear life and then flip with them in the air.
27:26Even one more year is pushing it.
27:28Like you're going to be 33 working on a pirate ship.
27:31I think he would probably stay until the boat sinks.
27:35I don't know.
27:36It's an easy and fun job.
27:38I get good tips on that boat because of the things I can do.
27:41You know, I snorkel with the people.
27:43I show them all sorts of stuff.
27:44I feel like you don't have to be so much like the center of it anymore.
27:47Like I feel like you can slowly kind of step out of the limelight.
27:52I mean, if I start getting like colleagues that start doing what I do, like nobody climbs
27:58the rope.
27:58Climbing?
27:59Okay, you can climb the rope.
28:01Just don't put people on your back.
28:02I'm trying to do that, lady.
28:03I'm trying, but I can't promise you that.
28:07You have to understand that like I did leave working on the boat to go work in a hotel
28:12because my ex didn't like me working on the boat.
28:15And I did it thinking that it would make things better, but it didn't.
28:19You know, but I'm not your ex.
28:20I understand that.
28:21So you can't, you can't compare.
28:23I can't compare.
28:24I understand, but it's going to put me in a situation I've been in before and I really
28:27don't want to do that again.
28:29I was just like mad that I had to go to work, mad that I was doing what I was
28:33doing.
28:33But the work's not always fun.
28:35I mean, I think you can have a good balance.
28:37Yeah, I know, but that's why I'm trying to find a way to respect you as much as I can
28:40at work so I can stay with my job because that's something I really, really love.
28:44I'm not asking you in this moment to go put in your two weeks.
28:48That's not what I'm asking you to do.
28:49I'm asking on the boat.
28:51Somebody asks, be like, listen, like, I have a girlfriend, whatever.
28:55I know you want to put on a show, but you know, leave young girls and dental floss out
29:02of it.
29:02Leave them out of it.
29:06You got to understand, you met me on Jolly Pirates.
29:09You know, like, you can't expect me to just change for you.
29:14Just I met you a year ago and like, oh, I have to change my job and my lifestyle and
29:18everything.
29:21If you're going to sit here and tell me, no, I'm not going to stop flipping young, beautiful
29:24girls, then you can easily tell them no as well.
29:28At least have more respect for me.
29:30If you're going to say no to someone, say it to them, not to me.
29:33The only way that I would leave Jolly Pirates is if I did something for myself.
29:39It's like if I worked at like a strip club.
29:42No, I don't work at a, I do not, not even.
29:45But it's like if I work at a strip club.
29:47That's not either.
29:47Because I'm saying most of your clients are girls.
29:49No, not if I, what do you mean?
29:50There's kids, there's families that come on the boat.
29:52In the morning trip.
29:53No.
29:54In all trips, Chloe.
29:55Like, Chloe, what is wrong with you?
29:58Anyway.
30:01Okay.
30:06Your parents are not here.
30:08Yeah.
30:09I'm seeing my fiance for the first time in six months,
30:12and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents.
30:15It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
30:39Canary Walk to Kensington Gardens.
30:43We're coming up.
30:45We're coming up now.
30:47Canary Walk to Kensington Gardens.
30:50We're coming up.
30:51You're not gonna stop us now.
30:54Wow, you're driving more smoothly than what I'm used to.
30:58Not doing any of your speeding antics.
31:01Oh, I've been practicing just for you.
31:04I just arrived in England.
31:06It's been a long day of travel, and things were pretty awkward when we first saw each other.
31:11I think once we settle in together, we will feel more connected to each other.
31:18The town still looks the same.
31:20Not much changes in Sleepy Mark or Barbara.
31:23Still pretty cute.
31:26Filled with old people.
31:27Uh-huh, yeah.
31:31Matthew's hometown is like the quintessential English countryside.
31:35There's lots of sheep, a lot of cute little cottages, and just long country roads leading to nowhere.
31:43Definitely not a place I would choose to live in my 20s.
31:46It maybe would be a place I would live in my 60s.
31:48I mean, I like a lot of the same things old people do, but I prefer city energy, not retirement
31:55home energy.
31:59There we are.
32:06Your parents are not here for me.
32:09Yeah.
32:10Hi, Daddy!
32:12Oh, my baby!
32:14Yeah, Apple!
32:14There you go.
32:15Hi, sweetie!
32:17I have stayed at this house three times before.
32:22Mommy's home.
32:23Yeah.
32:23But it's always been like a little bit awkward because it's a small space.
32:29We all share one shower.
32:31I don't really have my own place to have my own alone time.
32:36Oh, wow.
32:37You got your new computer monitors?
32:39Yeah.
32:39I'm also seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months, and I'm sleeping down the hall from his
32:45parents, and the walls are pretty thin.
32:49It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
32:53Sorry.
32:53I just got that out.
32:57Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
32:59Uh, yep.
33:01Everything with a G on it.
33:02But there's stuff in there.
33:03Oh, God.
33:03Really?
33:05Oh, yeah.
33:06These are my shirts.
33:08Oh, I'll figure that out.
33:12Um...
33:12I guess you have to figure that out now, right?
33:18That's mine.
33:19That's mine.
33:19Maybe we should just get, like, a bag and just, like, put everything in the bag and then figure it
33:23out later?
33:24Mm-hmm.
33:25Granted.
33:26Okay.
33:28Put everything in here.
33:30Like, I just don't know why all of this wasn't done beforehand.
33:35There you go.
33:38Three functional empty drawers.
33:40Okay, I don't know if that's enough.
33:41Can you make me a fourth one right now?
33:43Okay.
33:44Yeah, I'll get one.
33:47I thought there was enough space.
33:49I mean, did you expect me to wear, like, four outfits over and over again?
33:54No, there's 20 hangers here.
33:56Enough space for about five or six pairs of trousers down there, seven pairs of shoes.
34:02Seven pairs of shoes are going to fit there and trousers?
34:05Yeah, lined up, yeah.
34:07So you don't see space as an issue right now?
34:11No, I think this is fine.
34:13This is fine.
34:14Should we lay out and start doing the suitcase, or...?
34:16Um, I feel like I just want to do that, like, alone, because it's, like, too cramped for me to
34:20unpack while you're sitting there.
34:22Okay, sure.
34:23I'll let you unpack then.
34:37I don't even know where to put anything.
34:51I know it's, like, so silly to, like, cry over, like, not having the space to put your stuff, but
34:57it just feels, like, really discombobulating.
35:02It just doesn't really feel like home, and I'm just, like, coming here and trying to just find the space
35:07to put my things, and there's not enough space, and, like, I'll just be living out of a suitcase, basically,
35:14and, uh, it's just, like, a really weird situation.
35:23I just thought he would get ready more for me to come, so it just kind of feels like I'm
35:31not really welcome here.
35:33I left home to come here, and then just, like, to feel like you're just taking up space that you
35:38shouldn't be taking up.
35:40It just makes me really realize, like, I need, we need to find a place, like, of our own.
35:48Because it's just not really gonna work.
35:51I was already a little bit annoyed that Matthew hadn't seriously started looking at apartments for us, and then it
35:57doesn't even seem like he was expecting me to arrive here.
36:00It feels pretty inconsiderate, like, I just left Hazel to move here.
36:06He's just not really making me feel at home right now.
36:11How's it going?
36:13Need any help?
36:16You can get me a bigger room.
36:19This one will have to do, I'm afraid.
36:21Mm-hmm.
36:24Get a cushion, isn't it?
36:26What happened?
36:27What happened?
36:27What happened?
36:28You, too.
36:30You, too.
36:31You, too.
36:31You, too.
36:32You, too.
36:32You, too.
36:32I'm going.
36:33I'm going.
36:35Chachi, listen.
36:42Sit down.
36:43Sit down.
36:43Sit down.
36:44Sit down.
36:44Sit down.
36:47What's she doing?
36:49What happened?
36:51Why she took your mom away?
37:00What happened?
37:02Why she took your mom away?
37:06What happened?
37:07It was different.
37:07But that's not something for us.
37:09It was the first month.
37:09We're getting married now, and we'll be happy and happy.
37:12Here is the biggest thing.
37:14It's much more than you.
37:17Here is this.
37:17What the hair took and sit under my own?
37:19I'm happy with my son.
37:21I'm happy with him.
37:22I'm happy with him.
37:23I'm happy with you.
37:23I'm not happy with him.
37:24What's going on?
37:41I didn't expect that my aunt will start, like, saying all this.
37:46She was fine in the starting, she come, took part of celebration, and all of a sudden
37:51she's getting mad and talking about Jenny.
37:53It's really, like, make me, why and what is going on over here?
38:02Still having a problem with our age gap?
38:05Yeah, age gap thing.
38:06Well, we love each other.
38:12Well, if you don't like it, you don't have to come over here.
38:17You can see that she's a little girl.
38:19I'm a little girl with her.
38:22And it's been like this.
38:24I loved her.
38:26She gave me my help every time, when I was very frustrated.
38:31That Jenny is a perfect girl.
38:35I'm married with her.
38:36She's not a girl.
38:40I love her.
38:41She's not a girl.
38:42She's a woman.
38:43But she's a girl.
38:44But she's a woman.
38:45And she's a happy person.
38:46This is the greatest thing.
38:48She's happy.
38:50She's happy.
38:51Just keep her, just keep her.
38:52I don't want to say this about the fact that she's a woman.
38:54But she's happy.
38:56She was happy with her.
38:59She was happy with her.
39:02But she's happy with her.
39:04And she all told me she's happy with her.
39:05I gave her this...
39:07She's happy with her.
39:08And she went and took the girl's girl
39:08and took her and left.
39:09Because this is why I got to accept her, Jenny.
39:14That's why I didn't feel so angry with her.
39:16And my love has died.
39:18And I left her home.
39:19I was friends.
39:19Because my family had to see this.
39:22I'm friends.
39:23People say, what's your son did.
39:25I don't think I don't go anywhere.
39:29I can live in my home.
39:30I will be living in my house.
39:30and I will stay alive.
39:32But after a few days,
39:35my husband also understood me
39:37that you can't do anything
39:39and that you both have married.
39:43Then I thought,
39:44I have also thought
39:44that they did it.
39:47I will not have to change you.
39:49I will not have to be able to
39:50be able to be able to be able to
39:51be able to be able to
39:51be able to be able to
39:51be able to be able to
39:58and have to believe that
39:59you think the one was wrong,
40:01things will be better than me.
40:05No, do you also have any?
40:10I am going to tell you about it.
40:14and I want to tell you what
40:16Stevie is working with you.
40:18She won't work with Jenny.
40:21If you leave Jenny
40:22I will put yourj info
40:25they will work,
40:26Jenny is done very for me.
40:42It is like all the good work we've done till now can be spoiled by one loud person.
40:51It might make my opinion feel like fighting against the society and culture.
40:56It is not working.
40:59I don't know, but I think it's very risky for us.
41:02You're going to be on your own.
41:12Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
41:15I'm Patia, I'm 58, and I'm an exotic dancer.
41:19But now I'm hanging up my cowgirl hat to move across the world to be with my boyfriend Dylan.
41:27G'day, I'm Dylan.
41:28I'm 38 years old, and I live in Launceston, Tasmania.
41:32We've been together for 12 years and have broken up 20 times.
41:37I'm just tired of the back and forth, you know.
41:40I'm not going to keep the breakup, the makeup, the breakup, the makeup going for the rest of my life.
41:45It's either or get off the pot.
41:48In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
41:53I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate how much I give.
41:58He's never said anything like this before.
42:00I couldn't afford the life that you want.
42:03I'm engaged to you for the money, is that what you're saying?
42:08Aw, you're so cute.
42:10Sometimes.
42:12We're going to have a day night, and we can put all the fighting behind us.
42:19I think I'm super.
42:21I didn't do anything, I just...
42:27Oh, God.
42:27I didn't do anything.
42:28Oh, my God.
42:28I didn't do anything.
42:29You
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